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- 0:02Speaker 1: I don't think that there are many people in the
- 0:03Speaker 1: world who can claim that life isn't at least a
- 0:06Speaker 1: little stressful sometimes, and that stress manifests itself in unexpected ways,
- 0:11Speaker 1: like on our skin. But when it comes to alleviating
- 0:13Speaker 1: our struggles, the relief of feeling seen and acknowledged is immense.
- 0:18Speaker 2: He literally looks at me and goes, your poor poor guy,
- 0:21Speaker 2: is like, I am so sorry that you have to
- 0:23Speaker 2: go through this, and I literally almost cried. I mean,
- 0:26Speaker 2: he just really felt and could see the pain and
- 0:30Speaker 2: discomfort that I was going through.
- 0:36Speaker 3: Hi, guys, and welcome. I'm so glad you're here.
- 0:38Speaker 1: I'm Nicole Berry and this is Skin Queries, a show
- 0:42Speaker 1: all about our skin and its health as we grow
- 0:44Speaker 1: in age. Our skin is really a record of a
- 0:47Speaker 1: life well lived, because there isn't one body part that
- 0:49Speaker 1: I can think of that reflects our well being as
- 0:52Speaker 1: clearly as our skin. So let's go on this journey
- 0:54Speaker 1: together to really understand what's going on with our skin.
- 0:58Speaker 1: Let's unravel the mysteries happening inside and out. Today we're
- 1:03Speaker 1: going to talk about stress and its effect on our skin.
- 1:13Speaker 1: I know, for me, when things get to be too
- 1:15Speaker 1: much whether it's a stressful day at work or there's
- 1:17Speaker 1: a lot going on at home. I can see it
- 1:19Speaker 1: on my body. I can wake up feeling inflamed, I
- 1:22Speaker 1: break out, and my skin can seem dull and lifeless,
- 1:25Speaker 1: and then you know how it goes. Seeing a physical
- 1:28Speaker 1: response to stress just causes more stress than it ends
- 1:31Speaker 1: up feeling like a vicious cycle. This episode is going
- 1:34Speaker 1: to be very personal because I will be bringing in
- 1:36Speaker 1: my husband, Nick Moskovich, to share his journey with plaxoriasis.
- 1:40Speaker 1: If you don't know what that is, it's a chronic
- 1:42Speaker 1: disease that can affect the skin. Your immune system becomes overactive,
- 1:46Speaker 1: which causes skin cells to multiply quickly, and that can show.
- 1:50Speaker 3: Up all over your body.
- 1:51Speaker 1: There can be patches of skin that becomes scay and inflamed,
- 1:55Speaker 1: and it's often seen on the scalp, elbows, and knees.
- 1:58Speaker 3: Stress is such a big.
- 1:59Speaker 1: Factor when it comes to siiasis, so much so that
- 2:02Speaker 1: the National Psoriasis Foundation recommends managing stress must be part
- 2:06Speaker 1: of your treatment plan. We'll also be talking to Nick's dermatologists,
- 2:09Speaker 1: who's going to explain why stress manifests physically on our
- 2:12Speaker 1: skin and how to manage it. So let's get into it.
- 2:19Speaker 1: So we are back here with the one and only Nick,
- 2:23Speaker 1: my husband.
- 2:24Speaker 4: A lot of pressure here.
- 2:25Speaker 1: Yes, Nick and I have been married for almost ten years.
- 2:30Speaker 1: Next year will be our tenth anniversary time. Yes, and
- 2:34Speaker 1: we have two little ones. And I remember when right
- 2:37Speaker 1: after we had Jude, we were living in New Jersey
- 2:41Speaker 1: with my mom and things were just really stressful, and
- 2:45Speaker 1: you started to notice something happening with your hands, right,
- 2:49Speaker 1: they got really dry and cracked, and we were figuring out, like,
- 2:52Speaker 1: what is this, which eventually we came to discover that
- 2:55Speaker 1: it was psoriasis, but that took a long time for
- 2:58Speaker 1: us to figure out. So do you remember when you
- 3:00Speaker 1: first started noticing something going on with your hands?
- 3:03Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 3:04Speaker 2: So, by the way, you look beautiful, very nice. Nice
- 3:07Speaker 2: to see you from this cell.
- 3:11Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 3:11Speaker 2: We were in New Jersey living with the in laws,
- 3:14Speaker 2: and I was helping out actually with relocating some items
- 3:18Speaker 2: for your mom from the storage and then working on
- 3:21Speaker 2: the house here. And it was a really stressful time
- 3:24Speaker 2: because we were dealing with so many different factors of
- 3:27Speaker 2: the house not being done, our son being born.
- 3:29Speaker 3: Jude was like six months old.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Yeah, so all of that started to snowball on me,
- 3:34Speaker 2: and I could just tell that it was more and
- 3:36Speaker 2: more stressful, and I thought it was just me using
- 3:38Speaker 2: my hands a little bit too much, and you know,
- 3:41Speaker 2: it was like, oh, I'll just put some lotion on it,
- 3:42Speaker 2: just a guy thing.
- 3:43Speaker 4: Maybe the soapa musing is not good or something.
- 3:45Speaker 2: My hands are just kind of can't keep up with
- 3:47Speaker 2: my mind and everything else is going in my life.
- 3:51Speaker 2: And yeah, they started to get kind of chapped a
- 3:53Speaker 2: little worn in, like almost like a callus's situation. And
- 3:57Speaker 2: then the more work I was doing, the more it
- 4:00Speaker 2: would just kind of spread and continue to evolve and
- 4:04Speaker 2: never really healing fully.
- 4:05Speaker 1: I do remember you were complaining about your callous hands,
- 4:08Speaker 1: and I noticed that's what I thought it was. It
- 4:09Speaker 1: looked like callous dry hands.
- 4:11Speaker 3: Were they itchy? Was it painful?
- 4:14Speaker 2: So it started with just just kind of annoying. Honestly,
- 4:18Speaker 2: it wasn't even like that discomforting. It was just I
- 4:21Speaker 2: was like, oh, maybe they'll get better, you know, I'll
- 4:23Speaker 2: just keep putting lotion on. I found a couple of
- 4:25Speaker 2: brands that seemed to help, but in the end they
- 4:28Speaker 2: were doing anything. They were just kind of moisturizing it
- 4:31Speaker 2: for that moment, but not continually doing anything for that condition.
- 4:35Speaker 2: And that's when I realized it was something more serious
- 4:37Speaker 2: because it kind of went from my thumb to my
- 4:40Speaker 2: pointing finger, to the finger to the left of it,
- 4:43Speaker 2: and then it started to go on the other hand,
- 4:45Speaker 2: and it just kept going and going. There was just
- 4:48Speaker 2: no kind of relief of any kind. And that's when
- 4:51Speaker 2: I started to get kind of start to panic. Is panic, Yeah, yeah,
- 4:56Speaker 2: it really. It was really stressful because I was like,
- 4:59Speaker 2: I've never experience this. I would literally squeeze my hands
- 5:02Speaker 2: just like make a fist, and I could feel those
- 5:05Speaker 2: callouses kind of breaking, and it would just become really
- 5:08Speaker 2: difficult to grip anything to lift the kids up to walk,
- 5:12Speaker 2: and then after that it has to continue.
- 5:15Speaker 4: To get worse and flare up more and more.
- 5:18Speaker 2: Is it went to my feet on my heel, it
- 5:20Speaker 2: was almost felt like somebody just stabbing.
- 5:23Speaker 4: My heel all the time. It was really really painful.
- 5:25Speaker 2: So uncomfortable, that's awful. It would peel, it would just
- 5:29Speaker 2: it was absolute worst.
- 5:31Speaker 1: I think when someone is going through something, even if
- 5:34Speaker 1: you live with them, even if you are incredibly close,
- 5:37Speaker 1: you don't truly understand the struggle that they're going through
- 5:40Speaker 1: until it starts to affect your relationship with them. And
- 5:43Speaker 1: that's what happened with me and Nick.
- 5:45Speaker 2: I'm out and I see a lot of people, and
- 5:47Speaker 2: I meet people, and it became pretty uncomfortable for me,
- 5:51Speaker 2: just of like somebody wanted to shake my hand or
- 5:53Speaker 2: if I, like, you know, wanted to greet somebody, it
- 5:55Speaker 2: just didn't feel right.
- 5:56Speaker 3: It's self consciousness.
- 5:58Speaker 4: Self conscious about the whole essageituation.
- 6:00Speaker 2: So in insecurity, that's when I was like, I need
- 6:03Speaker 2: to really take care of this and address what's going
- 6:05Speaker 2: on here.
- 6:06Speaker 1: Honestly, neither of us really knew what exactly was going on,
- 6:10Speaker 1: but we knew something had to change.
- 6:13Speaker 4: I don't have like the most fantastic diet like you do.
- 6:16Speaker 4: You're very good at it.
- 6:17Speaker 3: We're working on it. We're working on it.
- 6:19Speaker 2: I am, yeah, I'm your lifelong project. But I was
- 6:24Speaker 2: drinking like these juices and I thought I found something
- 6:27Speaker 2: and had a cleaner sugar in it, but my body
- 6:29Speaker 2: was not reacting well to it.
- 6:31Speaker 4: I remember I went on like.
- 6:32Speaker 2: A two three week like absolutely no sugar thing during
- 6:36Speaker 2: that time as well.
- 6:37Speaker 4: Might have helped. It might have been too late at
- 6:39Speaker 4: that point too, but it didn't hurt, I'll say that.
- 6:42Speaker 1: So when you finally decided that you've had enough with
- 6:45Speaker 1: you know, home treatment and trying to like use lotions
- 6:48Speaker 1: and potions, what was your journey in finding the right doctor?
- 6:53Speaker 1: Did you find it right away?
- 6:54Speaker 2: I spoke to a few specialists quote unquote, like you say,
- 6:58Speaker 2: I could take on just about anything, like I can.
- 7:00Speaker 4: Work through most things in my time.
- 7:03Speaker 2: Talking to those doctors, I'll be like, oh, it's you know,
- 7:05Speaker 2: it's just kind of annoying. It's this and that, but
- 7:07Speaker 2: it's really inside, I'm just like screaming about man, this
- 7:10Speaker 2: is driving me crazy.
- 7:13Speaker 1: After a long time of searching and coming up with
- 7:15Speaker 1: a lot of dead ends, a friend recommended we go
- 7:18Speaker 1: to doctor Mitchell Klein, a dermatologist based in New York.
- 7:21Speaker 1: You'll be hearing from him later. But when Nick walked
- 7:24Speaker 1: into his office.
- 7:25Speaker 4: He literally looks at me and goes, you're poor, poor guy.
- 7:28Speaker 2: He's like, I am so sorry that you have to
- 7:30Speaker 2: go through this, and I literally almost cried. I mean,
- 7:33Speaker 2: he just really felt and could see the pain and
- 7:37Speaker 2: discomfort that I was going through. And I've never had
- 7:40Speaker 2: anybody react that way in terms of not only did
- 7:43Speaker 2: he care but he understood. We talked, and we talked
- 7:46Speaker 2: actually for at length, and he said, you know, I
- 7:48Speaker 2: have other clients who have this condition.
- 7:50Speaker 4: There's different things we can do.
- 7:52Speaker 2: And and you write away that it was ciriasis, what
- 7:55Speaker 2: version of csoriasis it was? And he said that, you know,
- 7:58Speaker 2: you're obviously in a very strong whole situation. He's like,
- 8:01Speaker 2: this does not typically happen with just like a healthy
- 8:03Speaker 2: thirty year old. So I told him I have a
- 8:06Speaker 2: stressful job, I have two kids, we have run a
- 8:08Speaker 2: business together. There was a lot of things going on
- 8:10Speaker 2: at the same time, and he said, listen, you got
- 8:12Speaker 2: to find time for yourself to let go of some
- 8:14Speaker 2: of those things, you know, take some deep breaths and
- 8:16Speaker 2: like go for a walk and whatever time you can find.
- 8:19Speaker 2: You have to like let go of some of the
- 8:21Speaker 2: things that you're doing, that you're carrying, and that will
- 8:23Speaker 2: help with your medical issue.
- 8:25Speaker 3: Doctor Klein prescribed a treatment for Nick's blacksriasis.
- 8:29Speaker 2: And within forty eight hours, I mean, it was it
- 8:31Speaker 2: was magic. He said it was going to be like magic,
- 8:34Speaker 2: and it was just that what was.
- 8:35Speaker 1: The feeling that you had when he said I know
- 8:38Speaker 1: what this is and I know how are we going.
- 8:40Speaker 4: To fix it?
- 8:40Speaker 2: Disbelieve I could not believe him, just because of you know,
- 8:46Speaker 2: dealing with the condition for two years plus minus. You
- 8:50Speaker 2: just kind of think that there's just that this is it.
- 8:52Speaker 2: I'm going to live with this for the rest of
- 8:53Speaker 2: my life. And that was really scary to me because
- 8:56Speaker 2: I was really uncomfortable and really I'm not happy with
- 8:59Speaker 2: what I was faced with. And the more he talked,
- 9:02Speaker 2: the more I was like, I'm on board, let's try
- 9:04Speaker 2: I'm willing to try anything at this point. And when
- 9:07Speaker 2: he told me about some of the options and how
- 9:09Speaker 2: he's treated patients before, the more it began to like
- 9:12Speaker 2: kind of feel relief and comfort and everything that he
- 9:16Speaker 2: was saying. And that was, honestly the first time I
- 9:18Speaker 2: had somebody who was like, I got the answer for it.
- 9:21Speaker 4: We just got to figure out how do we get.
- 9:22Speaker 2: You to continue to improve once I set you on
- 9:25Speaker 2: this path of treatments.
- 9:27Speaker 1: It's interesting, I've always perceived Nick as our rock. He
- 9:31Speaker 1: is the foundation when it comes to our family, our friends,
- 9:35Speaker 1: and also at work. So seeing how much he was
- 9:38Speaker 1: suffering physically and mentally was extremely painful for us to see.
- 9:42Speaker 1: At the time, I really was not realizing how much
- 9:46Speaker 1: stress was playing a huge factor in Nick's flare ups,
- 9:49Speaker 1: and once I found out that stress can be a
- 9:51Speaker 1: major trigger for psoriasis, I actually felt a lot of guilt.
- 9:56Speaker 3: I started to think of all.
- 9:57Speaker 1: The ways that I personally was adding to the stresses
- 10:00Speaker 1: of his life and kind of felt a little shameful
- 10:03Speaker 1: and hopeless.
- 10:04Speaker 3: Obviously, the feeling of shame.
- 10:06Speaker 1: And guilt around Nick's diagnosis were irrational. Of course, it
- 10:10Speaker 1: wasn't my fault, and thankfully we found doctor Klein, who
- 10:14Speaker 1: was a lifesaver for Nick and myself, not only because
- 10:17Speaker 1: we could get to the root of the physical problem,
- 10:19Speaker 1: but the compassion and the understanding he met us with
- 10:23Speaker 1: was such overlaf and also very essential. After doctor Klein
- 10:27Speaker 1: helped Nick reset his system, they worked together to develop
- 10:30Speaker 1: better ways for him to manage his stress and his
- 10:33Speaker 1: flare ups. We'll get into that later. First, let's talk
- 10:37Speaker 1: to the one and only doctor Klin about the relationship
- 10:40Speaker 1: between stress and skin and how you can protect yourself
- 10:43Speaker 1: from the effects of stressors in your life. Right after
- 10:46Speaker 1: this break, welcome back to skin Queries. Let's unravel how
- 10:59Speaker 1: stress shows up about our skin and what you can
- 11:01Speaker 1: do to manage it. I'd like to introduce doctor Mitchell Klein,
- 11:04Speaker 1: Nick's personal dermatologists and an academic with a private practice
- 11:08Speaker 1: in New York City.
- 11:09Speaker 3: Hi, doctor Klein, how are you hi?
- 11:11Speaker 4: Nicole?
- 11:12Speaker 5: How's everything great?
- 11:14Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us. I kind of feel a
- 11:16Speaker 1: little guilty because the person that we met through is
- 11:19Speaker 1: my husband, Nick, who's not here to defend himself, but
- 11:23Speaker 1: you're Nick's doctor and dermatologist. And then he also recommended
- 11:26Speaker 1: our daughter, See who's now five years old. And you know,
- 11:30Speaker 1: you really had a profound impact on Nick's life and
- 11:34Speaker 1: his quality of skin, as well as our daughter. So
- 11:37Speaker 1: I'm so excited for you to join us today.
- 11:39Speaker 5: Oh well, thanks, it's my pleasure, my pleasure to be
- 11:42Speaker 5: here for all of you.
- 11:43Speaker 3: Do you mind telling us a little bit about yourself
- 11:45Speaker 3: and your practice?
- 11:46Speaker 5: Sure. I'm a clinical assistant professor in dermatology at while
- 11:50Speaker 5: in New York Presbyterian. I trained an internal medicine at
- 11:53Speaker 5: the University of Pennsylvania after medical school there, and then
- 11:56Speaker 5: switched to dermatology at Cornell Memorials On Kettering and Rockfeller
- 12:01Speaker 5: started private practice immediately after. And I've been in practice
- 12:04Speaker 5: for a long enough time that I don't want to
- 12:06Speaker 5: say how long. And I like all aspects of it.
- 12:10Speaker 5: Dermatology has general cosmetic medical and so I enjoy engaging people.
- 12:16Speaker 5: I do it for the people that I treat.
- 12:18Speaker 1: I love that and that really comes through as a
- 12:20Speaker 1: patient in your practice. And I'm so interested to hear
- 12:24Speaker 1: your take on how things like stress and this is
- 12:27Speaker 1: something that I actually learned later in life, that stress
- 12:31Speaker 1: can really affect your physicality, specifically your skin. So can
- 12:35Speaker 1: you talk a little bit about the relationship between stress,
- 12:38Speaker 1: which essentially is a mental thing and it manifesting as
- 12:42Speaker 1: a physical thing.
- 12:43Speaker 5: Sure, so let's start with a mind body connection. It's
- 12:47Speaker 5: the same, right, The brain is an organ, the skin
- 12:50Speaker 5: is an organ. It's connected through all of the body.
- 12:53Speaker 5: Chemistries that all the other organs are connected with so
- 12:56Speaker 5: I don't really distinguish. And I think that you under
- 13:00Speaker 5: stand that just as the brain and stress affect the
- 13:02Speaker 5: heart and people know that well, it affects the skin.
- 13:05Speaker 5: And in so many ways, there's well known science behind
- 13:09Speaker 5: all of it. And I think that you know, it
- 13:11Speaker 5: was a lack of understanding in the medical community for
- 13:13Speaker 5: a long time that there was a brain out there
- 13:16Speaker 5: and that there was this body and this skin, and
- 13:19Speaker 5: that these two things were not connected, and how could
- 13:22Speaker 5: that not be r right.
- 13:23Speaker 1: It's so refreshing to hear you say that. As far
- 13:26Speaker 1: as dress manifesting itself in the body and on the body,
- 13:30Speaker 1: what can that look like? What have you seen in
- 13:32Speaker 1: your practice?
- 13:33Speaker 5: Well, if you think about the conventional problems that people
- 13:36Speaker 5: talk about, like exema, psoriasis, which we'll talk about a
- 13:39Speaker 5: little bit today, and all of the dermatosis, all of
- 13:43Speaker 5: those things get worse or flair when you're stressed. And
- 13:48Speaker 5: that's because people think of the immune system as being
- 13:50Speaker 5: strong or weak, but it's very complex, and it's that
- 13:53Speaker 5: the immune system changes and it activates all kinds of
- 13:57Speaker 5: proteins and chemicals in the body, sometimes through nerves and
- 14:00Speaker 5: sometimes actually through circulating chemicals. It can be hormones, cytokindes, interferons,
- 14:05Speaker 5: and all of those things have an effect on the
- 14:08Speaker 5: immunity of the skin, which causes blood vessels to dilate.
- 14:11Speaker 5: It causes the skin to get thicker or thinner. It
- 14:15Speaker 5: causes the skin to maybe get spots, to be more
- 14:17Speaker 5: susceptible to spots and wrinkles, and also rashes. It changes
- 14:22Speaker 5: those rashes very often much, much worse. So we always
- 14:26Speaker 5: see this dramatic effect when we see somebody coming from
- 14:29Speaker 5: a place of great stress, emotional or physical or both,
- 14:33Speaker 5: because physical causes emotional stress, but emotional stress as well.
- 14:37Speaker 5: And you see all of these things occur in the skin,
- 14:40Speaker 5: and you see these breakouts of all sorts, and then
- 14:44Speaker 5: you know it's apparent, and you know somehow that it
- 14:46Speaker 5: just doesn't look right.
- 14:51Speaker 1: Do you think that there or have you been able
- 14:54Speaker 1: to identify certain triggers when it comes to a flare up,
- 14:57Speaker 1: whether that is exima or psoriasis or other kind of
- 15:00Speaker 1: skin inflammation.
- 15:02Speaker 5: So the story usually goes that I didn't have anything,
- 15:06Speaker 5: and now I suddenly have spots. That's called guttap'soriasis, and
- 15:09Speaker 5: it's often from a strep throat. It can be stress,
- 15:13Speaker 5: but also strap and so usually you ask questions about
- 15:15Speaker 5: a sore throat because infections, infections that run through the body, viral, bacterial,
- 15:20Speaker 5: cause stress and they also can cause a flare of psoriasis. Okay,
- 15:24Speaker 5: so that's guttaped psoriasis, and you can go to other
- 15:27Speaker 5: forms of psoriasis that affect other parts of the body.
- 15:30Speaker 5: And again you see this and you hear from the patient, Well,
- 15:34Speaker 5: I've had this chronic condition of my scalp, or I've
- 15:37Speaker 5: had this rash on my elbows, or maybe my hands
- 15:39Speaker 5: have been uncomfortable, but suddenly it's so much worse. I'm uncomfortable,
- 15:44Speaker 5: And that immediately begs the question, well, what have you
- 15:47Speaker 5: been through as they've been through a life stress? Has
- 15:50Speaker 5: somebody been ill, somebody passed away? Are their family stresses?
- 15:54Speaker 5: Do you have job stress or personal stress? And once
- 15:57Speaker 5: you sort of elicit that history, it helps you because
- 16:01Speaker 5: you're giving somebody insight into the fact that what they're
- 16:04Speaker 5: going through is causing some of the problem. And we
- 16:07Speaker 5: all know that we don't go through what we go
- 16:09Speaker 5: through forever and that you know eventually as the stress
- 16:13Speaker 5: kind of settles down, the skin will settle down, and
- 16:17Speaker 5: you see this, you know, everything's worse. The skin's redder,
- 16:20Speaker 5: the spots are scalier, they're more numerous, they're covering new
- 16:24Speaker 5: areas of the body. Sometimes you feel like it's taking
- 16:26Speaker 5: over your body because previously it was maybe one or
- 16:29Speaker 5: two patches and now it's widespread or on your scalp,
- 16:32Speaker 5: which can happen with people with psoriasis, and so you know,
- 16:36Speaker 5: all important questions and always important to reassure someone again
- 16:40Speaker 5: that you know, this is not going to remain this way,
- 16:43Speaker 5: not with the medications and not with the treatments we
- 16:45Speaker 5: have these days, and not with the fact that the
- 16:47Speaker 5: stress is going to go away.
- 16:49Speaker 3: You mentioned treatments, So what are the types of treatments
- 16:53Speaker 3: that you treat psoriasis with?
- 16:56Speaker 5: So there really are a thousand and so and foremost
- 17:01Speaker 5: reassurance and then you move to well, what's easy. Well,
- 17:05Speaker 5: they're topical creams. Sometimes they're steroid creams. People are terrified
- 17:09Speaker 5: of that, no reason to be. We know how to
- 17:11Speaker 5: control how much stereoid goes into your body with the cream,
- 17:15Speaker 5: and sometimes we move after that into light therapy, but
- 17:18Speaker 5: that's a little more evolved, but it also covers more
- 17:21Speaker 5: of the body surface area before we get into systemic drugs,
- 17:25Speaker 5: oral drugs or injectable drugs. In each one affects a
- 17:29Speaker 5: different arm of the immune system, and all of them
- 17:32Speaker 5: work to sort of slow or diminish the inflammation in
- 17:36Speaker 5: the body, not just psoriasis, but psoriasis comes with arthritis,
- 17:40Speaker 5: ziausis believe or not, comes with heart disease and stroke
- 17:43Speaker 5: and all of these things which are risks if you
- 17:46Speaker 5: have severe versions are managed and controlled with these biologics,
- 17:51Speaker 5: which is why they're so popular.
- 17:52Speaker 1: When you do talk to your patients, do you recommend
- 17:55Speaker 1: or ask them questions about how to treat their stress
- 17:58Speaker 1: in a non medical way.
- 18:00Speaker 5: To get into that, because when you have something that's
- 18:02Speaker 5: really profound and you're dealing with something that needs something
- 18:07Speaker 5: that goes beyond the medicines you're applying, leaving that out
- 18:11Speaker 5: of the concoction is a mistake. You know, if you're
- 18:14Speaker 5: not talking about addressing depression, which can be addressed with
- 18:18Speaker 5: you know, therapy and help and sometimes medication, you're talking about,
- 18:23Speaker 5: you know, what are the social circumstances that you're in
- 18:25Speaker 5: that are problematic that you might be able to do
- 18:27Speaker 5: something about. And then also again very broadly, thinking about
- 18:33Speaker 5: how do you get to those blue zones? You know,
- 18:36Speaker 5: how do you get a piece of nature where I
- 18:39Speaker 5: love meditation and exercise, you know, as a way of
- 18:43Speaker 5: burning off that anxiety and stress.
- 18:45Speaker 1: Shifting back to specifically storisis or other skin inflammation. I
- 18:50Speaker 1: feel that at least for Nick, you know, he and
- 18:52Speaker 1: many other people, they're usually run to the drugstore and try,
- 18:55Speaker 1: you know, everything on the shelf and become their own
- 18:59Speaker 1: kind of treatment mint guru until it comes to a
- 19:02Speaker 1: point where he said, you know, I need to see someone.
- 19:05Speaker 1: And my perception was that natural is better, but in
- 19:09Speaker 1: certain cases it's not. So what would you say to
- 19:12Speaker 1: people who are kind of at a loss?
- 19:14Speaker 5: Right, So you try things, and I don't think there's
- 19:17Speaker 5: anything wrong with that. In general. For skin, things that
- 19:19Speaker 5: hydrate and moisturize are always going to help all aspects
- 19:23Speaker 5: of the skin. And then you know, if you think
- 19:26Speaker 5: about it, and just in a really basic common sense way,
- 19:30Speaker 5: it's when you say to yourself, you know, I'm not
- 19:32Speaker 5: getting any better, maybe worse, but not getting any better.
- 19:35Speaker 5: And who is it out there who has some expertise
- 19:39Speaker 5: or training. It might I even not Alie with my
- 19:42Speaker 5: way of thinking. You know, maybe I think of only
- 19:44Speaker 5: traditional Eastern methods and natural methods. But I need to
- 19:48Speaker 5: find somebody who's going to give me something that's going
- 19:50Speaker 5: to give me relief and put me in a different
- 19:52Speaker 5: direction because I'm uncomfortable, I hurt, I itch, or I
- 19:57Speaker 5: just don't feel good about the situation, or I don't
- 19:59Speaker 5: feel good about the fact that my child has a
- 20:01Speaker 5: rash over their body and it's just not coming under control,
- 20:05Speaker 5: and the child is itching and scratching, and all right,
- 20:09Speaker 5: it's time. Let's see if we can find somebody professionally
- 20:11Speaker 5: who will put us in the direction and not just
- 20:15Speaker 5: immediately give us something that conflicts with what we believe in.
- 20:19Speaker 5: How about maybe just doesn't dismiss us for how we
- 20:22Speaker 5: feel as people.
- 20:23Speaker 1: Doctor Klin, thank you so much. This was such an
- 20:27Speaker 1: enlightening and great conversation. I really appreciate you taking the time.
- 20:30Speaker 5: Oh thanks for bringing me in. And that's why we
- 20:33Speaker 5: do what we do.
- 20:34Speaker 1: It feels great, honestly having someone who hears you and
- 20:37Speaker 1: sees you can be life changing. It made such a
- 20:40Speaker 1: difference that doctor Klein was compassionate and present during his
- 20:44Speaker 1: appointment with Nick. I think that's essential, especially when you're
- 20:47Speaker 1: dealing with something that's not only physical but mental. Let's
- 20:51Speaker 1: bring back my husband now to talk about how he's
- 20:53Speaker 1: currently dealing with hysteriasis flare ups.
- 20:56Speaker 2: I'm still kind of discovering new things about what does
- 21:00Speaker 2: help me, what does trigger me, and what does not.
- 21:03Speaker 2: I try to space things out that I know will
- 21:05Speaker 2: stress me out, you know, and if I'm like, okay,
- 21:07Speaker 2: I got address these like three major things that I
- 21:10Speaker 2: just I hate working on or I hate facing I'll say, okay,
- 21:13Speaker 2: i'll do one today, I'll do one in two days,
- 21:15Speaker 2: I'll do another one later down the line. In the
- 21:17Speaker 2: past that would have done all of them at one time. Yeah,
- 21:19Speaker 2: one day, one hour. I also tried to make time
- 21:22Speaker 2: for myself with like grabbing a sandwich or a coffee
- 21:26Speaker 2: and just sitting in the park and just staring at
- 21:28Speaker 2: a tree. Just finding time to do that, continue to
- 21:31Speaker 2: take just those small moments for myself really made a
- 21:35Speaker 2: huge difference. And being able to do that and just
- 21:37Speaker 2: creating time for myself in that way has really helped out.
- 21:40Speaker 2: If you're dealing with this, you're not alone. There are
- 21:42Speaker 2: people out there that understand your condition and keep at it.
- 21:46Speaker 2: There's people that will help you and you'll get through it.
- 21:49Speaker 3: That's so important. Thanks, babe, I love you, Love you too.
- 21:55Speaker 1: For me, this is such a healing episode because we
- 21:58Speaker 1: really got to ask Nick about how he's feeling, which
- 22:01Speaker 1: is not something we often talk about. I think Nick
- 22:04Speaker 1: is actually really quiet when it comes to his own emotions.
- 22:07Speaker 1: He's really strong and really good at getting things done,
- 22:09Speaker 1: but here he was so honest and vulnerable and I
- 22:12Speaker 1: just want to honor him for that. It also really
- 22:15Speaker 1: helped having someone like doctor Klein who was very patient
- 22:18Speaker 1: and open minded when it came to my own approach
- 22:21Speaker 1: to alternative healing. When it comes to my own philosophy,
- 22:24Speaker 1: I don't discount mainstream medicine, but I also don't solely
- 22:28Speaker 1: rely on holistic medicine either. I really want to see
- 22:31Speaker 1: what's going to work for someone with a specific situation,
- 22:34Speaker 1: but I think it's really important to find a doctor
- 22:36Speaker 1: who understands you and sees you and has the compassion
- 22:40Speaker 1: in patience so that they.
- 22:42Speaker 3: Can meet you wherever you are.
- 22:45Speaker 1: Another big thank you to our guests Nick Moskovich and
- 22:48Speaker 1: doctor Mitchell Klein for sharing their experiences. Skin Queries is
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