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S5 #1 Bekah, Kendall, and Childhood Crushes · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio. What's that? I'm Ashley. We're back. It
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  Speaker 1: was good? Yeah, Actually, what you do on your vacation?
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  Speaker 1: What did I do? Um? I don't know, Ben, I
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  Speaker 1: can't remember last week. I have to go look at
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  Speaker 1: my I think vacations are important to UM. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: actually taken a real one in a while, and I
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  Speaker 1: really really need it. I'm gonna go home next week
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  Speaker 1: to Virginia and New Jersey. I'm gonna split up the
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  Speaker 1: week and spend time with my year old grandma, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go see Dear of Enhancing on Broadway, which
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  Speaker 1: I'm super excited about. And then I'm gonna go home
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  Speaker 1: to Virginia and just sit on the couch and do
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  Speaker 1: nothing for at least three straight days. And I'm very
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  Speaker 1: very excited about that. That's the vacation that I need. Um.
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  Speaker 1: But this past week it wasn't. Did I do last week?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, Ben? You had your birthday? Yeah? When
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  Speaker 1: you I want to know. Actually, when you go home
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  Speaker 1: for vacation and you're sitting on your I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if that's a vacation that's like chill out time. It's
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  Speaker 1: like technically vacation because I'm not working. Do you get
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  Speaker 1: do you get catered to? Like? Did your mom and
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  Speaker 1: dad make sure that like okay, I wondered if like
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  Speaker 1: they make sure that all your needs are met that
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  Speaker 1: like you can just relax, interact because they just love
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  Speaker 1: that you're back to be in their house again. Absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm like, Mom, can you get me coffee? And
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  Speaker 1: it's like, Mom, can you make me a grilled cheese?
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  Speaker 1: And then she does stuff well when I really when
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  Speaker 1: I want food and when I want my mom to
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  Speaker 1: bring me food in the family room, I do say Mom,
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  Speaker 1: do you are you? You're like so formal and nice
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  Speaker 1: and you're like, excuse me, mother, can I please have Oh?
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  Speaker 1: I just make it? Actually no, you know what? Um?
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  Speaker 1: For my birthday, my mom made my I'm in Indiana
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  Speaker 1: right now, um and uh so I'm getting head back
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  Speaker 1: out from Denver tomorrow. And but for my birthday, my
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  Speaker 1: mom made my favorite visitor in the world and I
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  Speaker 1: just had a bowl of it right before we got talking.
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  Speaker 1: It's strawberry ruebarb. Um. I either like a strawberry rue barb, Like, um,
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  Speaker 1: what's the word I'm looking for? Chris strawberry rue barb Chris,
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  Speaker 1: you know what that is. It sounds like a jellyish dessert.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not into any dessert that's not chocolate. That's really Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's the only thing I consider dessert. I love strawberry
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  Speaker 1: and rubar in anything. I like starberry and ruebarb ice cream.
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  Speaker 1: I like strawberry and rutebar Chris By like starberry rubarb cake.
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  Speaker 1: I just absolutely love the pace of starber and rubaria.
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  Speaker 1: Because of my Indiana roots and so um, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know that was an Indiana thing or a Midwest thing.
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  Speaker 1: It is. It is a Midwest thing, which has been
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  Speaker 1: awesome because of my birthday week and and you know,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to a second here. I lost my grandpa. No,
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  Speaker 1: it's really you know, and I wanted to bring it
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  Speaker 1: up because you know, we've promised on this podcast that
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  Speaker 1: we're going to be as transparent. We're gonna let everybody
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  Speaker 1: kind of dip into our lives, and I think it's
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  Speaker 1: important to do that. My grandfather was an amazing guy,
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  Speaker 1: and at sixty years old, he was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease. UM.
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  Speaker 1: He passed away this last week after eighteen years. Uh
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  Speaker 1: fighting Parkinson's. What a a crazy ride for him and
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  Speaker 1: my family kind of being alongside his side during some
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  Speaker 1: of the roughest parts that I've ever time, roughest times
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  Speaker 1: I've ever seen one person goes through UM and so
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  Speaker 1: at the very end, you know it's time. I think
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  Speaker 1: there becomes a moment where the family has already grieved
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  Speaker 1: the loss in a sense before the loss has actually happened.
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  Speaker 1: UM and Parkinson's, and he ended up developing dementia over
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  Speaker 1: the last few years, and at the very end, you
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  Speaker 1: know it it was time him and so we had
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  Speaker 1: a funeral this past week. That's why I'm Indiana Um
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  Speaker 1: on the phone here. It was something though I actually
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  Speaker 1: I want to say what I've lost to my grandparents.
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  Speaker 1: My grandma Higgins too I love dearly, and my grandfather
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  Speaker 1: Fox too I loved as well. My mom's dad. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my dad's mom and they both at the funeral has
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  Speaker 1: been celebrations of life. And I think that is such
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  Speaker 1: a cool way to do it is where if you
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  Speaker 1: can and if you can find it within yourself, even
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  Speaker 1: in one of the hardest times, that he can really
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  Speaker 1: just like use that funeral or those moments to really
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  Speaker 1: celebrate somebody's life. I think it really would be what
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  Speaker 1: I want in my funeral. It's what I hope people
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  Speaker 1: do on the day of my passing. I hope they
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  Speaker 1: just can look back and say, okay, for as for
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  Speaker 1: however long they got to spend with me. Now we
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  Speaker 1: can celebrate the fact that at least we were able
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  Speaker 1: to spend some time within And that's exactly just my
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  Speaker 1: grandfather so end up becoming a very special moment. And
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  Speaker 1: no matter how long he suffered um and and no
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  Speaker 1: matter how much we had already grieved the loss that's
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  Speaker 1: now they of it all in the pastor during the
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  Speaker 1: final um speech kind of said, no matter how long
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  Speaker 1: this existed into my house, that it was the finality
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  Speaker 1: of this has to always hurt, and it did her.
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  Speaker 1: But um, he is now in a place that is
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  Speaker 1: better than what he was before. And so for that
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  Speaker 1: we celebrated a great life for my grandfather's fox. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad on this podcast I can kind of give
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  Speaker 1: him a shout out because he's a good guy, a
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  Speaker 1: great guy, and he was also the reason I got
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  Speaker 1: my hYP so nice than I did his his his
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  Speaker 1: funeral on the twenty and I celebrated my birthday, my
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  Speaker 1: twenty nine. Did you speak at his funeral? I did
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  Speaker 1: not know. Um. It was a really cool time for
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  Speaker 1: my mom, her sister, and UM my uncle to all speak,
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  Speaker 1: and they all had different perspectives. My mom talked about
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  Speaker 1: our childhood with her dad, and my uncle talked about her.
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  Speaker 1: And he really was best friends with my grandfather. They
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  Speaker 1: were like best friends. And then my aunt spent pretty
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  Speaker 1: much three to four days a week with him when
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  Speaker 1: he was in the last five years of his life
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  Speaker 1: as he was kind of passing and developing to mention
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  Speaker 1: and kind of losing himself in a sense. She spent
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  Speaker 1: all a ton of time with him. So they he
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  Speaker 1: shared a different season of his life, which is really special. UM.
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  Speaker 1: And so I sat next to my grandma and this
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  Speaker 1: is so cool, and this is you know, this podcast
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  Speaker 1: a lot of times kind of goes back on the
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  Speaker 1: Backel in the best thread and it talks about love
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  Speaker 1: and relationships and what we hope for and love and
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  Speaker 1: relationships and I want to always keep that. I know
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  Speaker 1: you do as well. We always want to allow people
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  Speaker 1: a perspective into what we hope for. And sometimes you know,
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  Speaker 1: you don't get to see the whole picture of a
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  Speaker 1: relationship to the very end. And I got to sit
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  Speaker 1: by my grandma during the speeches and as we said
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  Speaker 1: our final got goodbye to my grandfather, and she was
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  Speaker 1: holding I was holding her hand, um, and she just
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  Speaker 1: kept holding it even after everybody was done, and she
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  Speaker 1: this was she had grieved this as well. You know,
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  Speaker 1: she was ready for my grandfather the past. She it
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  Speaker 1: was really hard on all of us to kind of
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  Speaker 1: see him go like he was. And um, she was
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  Speaker 1: ready and we're all ready. But she was pulling my
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  Speaker 1: hand in his big picture is a big picture of
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  Speaker 1: him up in front of us. They're sitting and she goes.
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  Speaker 1: As as we were all saying goodbye and everybody had
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  Speaker 1: left the funeral home, she was still sitting there and
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to get up and leave because that
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  Speaker 1: would have been weird. Um, And she just looked at me, Man,
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  Speaker 1: he's a good look and you you're gonna say that, man,
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  Speaker 1: he's a good looking guy. And I just think like
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  Speaker 1: for me that out of anything, that was the one
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  Speaker 1: of the best birthday present. It was one of the
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  Speaker 1: best parts of that night for me is to see
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  Speaker 1: my grandma even to the final day, through all of
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  Speaker 1: his stufferings still be able to look at him be like, man,
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  Speaker 1: that's a that's a good looking guy. And I love
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  Speaker 1: him a lot because that just shows me true love
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  Speaker 1: does exist, and so we all want so we all
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  Speaker 1: hope for uh. You know this is the crazy part too. Um. Yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: my grandma came to my house here in my own
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  Speaker 1: a Lake, Indiana and celebrated with me, uh in person
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  Speaker 1: because my aunt and uncle had drove her here because
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  Speaker 1: yesterday would have been their fifties six year anniversary. It
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  Speaker 1: was a big week. There's a lot going on this
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  Speaker 1: There's there's a lot of emotion. UM, a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things happening, all really good, all all really um the
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  Speaker 1: vine and um inspired and there was just a lot
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  Speaker 1: of good things that happened because of them. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's also not always easy there. You know, life takes
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  Speaker 1: your hard sometimes. And I think this is what this
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  Speaker 1: last week was for me. All Right, Well, Ben, let's
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  Speaker 1: go on to something lighter. But also, I love you.
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  Speaker 1: I love you too, Ash, and let's do it though
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  Speaker 1: you're so wonderful. Well, Ben, let's change a topic onto
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  Speaker 1: something a little bit lighter. Um, do you think that
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  Speaker 1: Becca looks like Kate Middleton, because I I do. I've
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  Speaker 1: been saying this like all of our season. She really
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  Speaker 1: does look a lot like Keith Wilson. I actually got
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  Speaker 1: to meet Becca at a one on one day a
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  Speaker 1: week ago. It was what I can't tell you who
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  Speaker 1: it was with or what they did, but she is wonderful.
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  Speaker 1: She ran up to me and she was so excited
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  Speaker 1: to meet me, and I was like, Oh, you're exactly
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  Speaker 1: like I imagined you in real life. Like she just
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  Speaker 1: is like a ball of energy and like happiness. And
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  Speaker 1: I think she's fitting in really well. And I think
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  Speaker 1: the guys are really taking to her, which is really
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  Speaker 1: good news. I'm not surprised. I mean, honestly, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: surprised that the guys are really taking to her. I
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  Speaker 1: think I don't know. I mean, actually I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how this is gonna come off. But let's even include
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  Speaker 1: myself into this. Let's go back to Crystals a man
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  Speaker 1: who we all love your season. I feel like we've
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  Speaker 1: had better backs are at like as a pool year
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  Speaker 1: over year over year. I mean, can you think of
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  Speaker 1: a back stress that we don't go into the season
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  Speaker 1: super excited for. I mean from Caitlin to jo Jo
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  Speaker 1: who was before Kaitlin, Andy Dorfman, Andy dor Yeah, Becca,
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  Speaker 1: all of these bachelors have been at rachel have been incredible,
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  Speaker 1: and now we leaked up to this Becca who I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I think all of America is cheering for her. There
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  Speaker 1: is not one person against Becca, totally, Ben, no offense
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  Speaker 1: to you. You bachelors have wonderful personalities. But it's interesting
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  Speaker 1: because I feel like they usually picked the bachelor on
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  Speaker 1: like who's the most romantic and dashing and charming, But
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  Speaker 1: like when it comes to the bachelorette, she has to
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  Speaker 1: have like this bursting personality in presence and she has
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  Speaker 1: to really carry the show. Versus you bachelors, you still
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  Speaker 1: have the your cast of girls to carry the show. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I will, Oh, I definitely agree to you.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I agree when it comes to myself and
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  Speaker 1: and and and Nick and Chris. I mean I know
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  Speaker 1: that because and I mean there are are into this. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: none of us are the type that you know, have
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  Speaker 1: the personality to explode a show for I think what
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  Speaker 1: I did well was I cared a lot. I really
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  Speaker 1: thought this could work. Um, I had a terrible time
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't even know I would saying goodbye to people,
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  Speaker 1: and so it tore me up day after day after day.
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  Speaker 1: I think for Nick, you know, he was he was.
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  Speaker 1: He's a charmer and he's sophisticated and he can talk well.
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  Speaker 1: And I think he's good looking, you know. Chris. Chris
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  Speaker 1: is bubbly and he's funny and he's lovable and you
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  Speaker 1: just see the guy and you're like, I can't not
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  Speaker 1: like like this guy. He's he's harmless. Yeah, but none
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  Speaker 1: of us, but none of us have the personalities like
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  Speaker 1: the Caitlin's and the Rachel's and the Becca's and the
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  Speaker 1: Joe Joe's who can just burst off of like out
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  Speaker 1: of the TV and just make like and bring the
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  Speaker 1: show out. And none of us can do that. So
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  Speaker 1: I completely agree with you, Ash. Yeah. Um, Erica Rose
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  Speaker 1: is pregnant again as I go down our rundown of
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor News. So that's kind of exciting because she's married
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  Speaker 1: to the guy, right, yeah, so new guy, second baby. Yeah. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember a Jin Tanner's wedding,
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  Speaker 1: she was with a different guy and then we had
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  Speaker 1: her on and she talked about how she dumped that
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  Speaker 1: guy and then she got married and she had a baby,
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  Speaker 1: and now she's on the baby number two. And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I saw that thing. I saw that news on the
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  Speaker 1: East Roll bar. So you know, it's crazy how many
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  Speaker 1: people people stick with this franchise and you just get
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  Speaker 1: get rid of them. Not that we want to get
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, No, no, and I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to stay. Also, like, I mean, Erica is great, She's
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  Speaker 1: been awesome to hut. But I mean I bet she
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  Speaker 1: would say, well, isn't it It It had surprising that she's
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  Speaker 1: still getting brought up on like yeah, like that's compressive.
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  Speaker 1: I I think so, Like, I mean, this thing lasts forever.
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  Speaker 1: And she was she was a contestant, right, she wasn't
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  Speaker 1: in the Bachelor. Yeah, yeah, she was a contestant. She was.
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  Speaker 1: She was on whatever that show was before Paradise Member.
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  Speaker 1: What was that called Bachelor Pad? She was on. She's
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  Speaker 1: on Bachelor Pad too. She also was on that show
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  Speaker 1: where she taught that guy who had never been kissed
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  Speaker 1: how to kiss. Remember she was like a kissing expert.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah that was yeah, that was a good show. I
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  Speaker 1: like that show because it's awkward and I like to
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  Speaker 1: get awkward. Oh yeah. It was also done. It was
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  Speaker 1: done by m z K, which does The Bachelor. So
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  Speaker 1: they just love coming up with romantic awkward moments, all right,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, and I've been a part of some of that. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: same here, you know Top ten awkward kisses right here. Um,
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  Speaker 1: Rebecca m just joined us in studio, and I know
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  Speaker 1: we're going to get to her more, but I do
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  Speaker 1: want to ask her to throw in her opinion with
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  Speaker 1: this fact that came out or this this report that
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  Speaker 1: came out this week, Ari and Lauren maybe getting married
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  Speaker 1: this summer, exactly what I wanted to hear from Becca.
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  Speaker 1: Then what do you think about that? You know? I
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  Speaker 1: said this, uh, and and I don't know either of
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  Speaker 1: them very well. I actually I only know Ari fro
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  Speaker 1: our podcast. Um, I wouldn't be surprised. I mean you
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  Speaker 1: kind of mean I would hope. I just hope. And
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  Speaker 1: I said this when it happened, from everything that they
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  Speaker 1: went through and everything that happened to get them together
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  Speaker 1: and everybody that was confused and her and whatever along
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  Speaker 1: the way, I hope they laugh. Remember you wanted to
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  Speaker 1: get married pretty quickly afterward? I did, Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I yeah, I mean, I think like things are moving
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  Speaker 1: so fast throughout the whole process of the show. It
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  Speaker 1: like kind of makes sense that things would keep rolling
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  Speaker 1: equally as fast after Yeah, that was That's so funny
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  Speaker 1: you say that because when I was at the Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: at Date a couple of days ago, I was with um,
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  Speaker 1: you know, lauren'zema from E and a couple of other
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  Speaker 1: girls and we were just talking about like how we
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  Speaker 1: met stories and one of the girls there, I think
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  Speaker 1: it was Lauren's producer was like, I've been with this
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  Speaker 1: guy we got proposed to after I got proposed to
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  Speaker 1: after about two and a half three years, and I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, so long. And she's like, actually,
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  Speaker 1: like everybody know them all And then they all started laughing.
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  Speaker 1: I was with Batchelor producers too, They're like, what have
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  Speaker 1: we done to actually to make her think that this
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  Speaker 1: is so long? My parents were engaged and married after
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  Speaker 1: like two months. Yeah, we're engaged, and then they took
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  Speaker 1: um eight months after that to get married. Wow. It
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  Speaker 1: all depends on your relationship, So go ahead, Ari and
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  Speaker 1: Lauren whatever. I mean, I support it. I do. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sick of talking about It's hopefully if they get married,
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  Speaker 1: they can just be irrelevant. After that, I heard that
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  Speaker 1: their vacation that they're on is quite expensive. Um, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollar vacation right, absolutely more than that five thousand.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it looks super happy. I mean, I'd be
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  Speaker 1: happy with anybody on that all vacation though. So, I
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  Speaker 1: mean they went to do they go to Iceland and
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  Speaker 1: they're just like you go Iceland to then the Mediterranean,
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  Speaker 1: Like that's a little bit quite easily, I could alright
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• 17:37
  Speaker 1: what else do you want to talk about in Bachelor
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Nation before we start? What's going on in Batch Nation
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: right now? Well, according to my rundown, Sheina from Vanderpump
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: Rules is with Robbie Hayes vander Pump I love Vanderpump.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: I just met Brittany and Kristen at the I Heart
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Yes that's right. Yeah, um yeah, I love dump. I'm
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: not really super caught up. But wait, wait, that's you
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: on Instagram together. Okay, because as far as I know,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: wasn't she dating that one guy on the season just
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: recently and she wanted to marry him. I'm not caught up,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: but we have to do some investigation work. Maybe next
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: episode we'll have robbiond confirmed. Should try to call Robbie
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: right now to confirm this. Let's do it, all right,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: let's get Robbie on the line. Here do we have.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I'll give you an excited well, hello, Robbie, you're on
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: the Almost Famous podcast. Sorry for bum rushing you. Yeah,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: well we were just talking about you, so we figured
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: that we should call you and get the info straight
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: from the source. What's up with you and Sina? Yeah?
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: Sheina is a fantastic human being. She's become one of
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: my best friends in l A friend dating that is
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: uh to TB D t BG Okay, okay, so too
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: or TB A Yes, that's it, that's what it is
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: too early to be announced? Is that? Is that kind
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: of what we're on. I mean, that's just letting it
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: down nicely or thot giving a way too much for kissed.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Do you guys watch the vander Pump show beca So
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: you saw the new guy out a spot? Right? Okay,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: So I'm not caught up, but I was just saying that.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I was like, wait, isn't she Like, isn't she? Isn't
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: she dating and on the show, But like I guess
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: they're broken up? Well I know d the show stuff,
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: but um I met her through this guy has the
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: spot and cause her out for days and he now
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: works at Ben Pump and he had his first episode
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: last Monday. Her and him have just been closed. And
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: every time she's in town because she does Vegas now
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: doing her out there to Paris for her sex tips.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: So she's doing what a strip show? Sex strip show? Yeah,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: so you remember Kendra Claymate, she hosted a sex Tips
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: for straight and men from a gay guy or something
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: like that. It's almost like a Podway show. We have
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: like steven shows six nights a week. Um, like there's
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: two on Saturday, um, now on Sunday. So she's also
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: doing a podcast, but she has to come back. She
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: flies in every Tuesday from Vegas and back out every
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Thursday to go back to the show. So she's hosting
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: the show, giving tips and like actually doing the co
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: hosts with Chester Lockhart. Cool, it's a really funny show.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: It's coilarious. Reverend Vegas trying to make it out to it. Well,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: I understand, you know, like the Bachelor, those relationships, Um,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: there's a lot that happens between the time that it
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: happens on the actual camera versus when it airs. So
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming that's what happens, so for sure. Yeah, So Robbie,
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: are we going to end up seeing you on vander Pumps?
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know about that. One might
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: not be in my tut You've probably filmed some stuff.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: It sounds like a guilty shug Ben space right now
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: via Skype. This is too much. He can't handle it. Yeah,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: we're in Burbank, should Well you know what, I was
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: just going through this Bachelor news and I was like,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: let's just give him a ring, all right, Robbie. Well,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: you know that we'll be calling you again soon, maybe
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: having you in the studio and really, when you're ready
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: to announce, do it here on the almost podcast and
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: bring China Bye. Okay, that's pretty juicy, but juicy did
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: he revealed everything every little I'm somebody called Ben. What
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: do you think? Look at your face? You gotta explain,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: you gotta explain why your facial expressions like this. I
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: just don't even know who needed people are. You don't
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: want show, you don't watch Bravo, Ben, I'm you guys.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: You guys got that. I I don't know. And and
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: it sounds, I mean to me, it sounds like they're dating.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: What if he's what if he's now a waiter at
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: at sir? That's really going on? Should go in there later? No,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: he's probably know, if anything, he's gonna be a waiter
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: at pump. Okay, so what's the difference in pumping sump?
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: And they have a bunch of hot guys who worked there.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: He probably is like, you know, making Martini shirtless by
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: the bar or something. I can see that. Kendall, Kendall, Robbie. Yeah,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: he's bringing he's bringing his bod to to another TV show.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: Thanks for finishing that for me. Another thing to talk
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: about is Kate McKinnon and Mila Kunas have talked about
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: their love for the Bachelor. She's from SNL and Mila.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I know because Mila we're on you know, they're on
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: the side of that. Jared will never let it die
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: that Ashton said, Hey, so I started watching the show
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: back a couple of years ago because everybody kept saying
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: there's a guy named Jared who looked like me. I
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: hear this all the time. He reminds me every day
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: that Ashton Kutcher started watching the Batch does not look
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: like Ashton Kutcher. I don't. I don't think he looks
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: like I don't think he looks a ton like him either.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: They have a similar bone structure. I thought it looks
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: more like Jared looks more like a Fox, if anything,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: a Fox, Yeah, like literal Fox. Yeah. Well, well, are
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: you watching Unreal? No? And everyone asked me that all
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: the time whenever they find out I was on The Bachelor,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: like did you watch Unreal? Is it just like it?
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't know anything about it except
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: that apparently there was like in the show the producers
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: like swap out people's medication and we do all this craziness.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that sounds yeah, And I don't think that's
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: what my experience was like, no, it's so insane and
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: it's so funny. Is that apparently Unreal only gets like
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: three hundred thousand viewers a week or per episode, And
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: it's just interesting because it seems like everyone asked us
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: about it, but like there's only apparently people watch it,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: like maybe when it's on TV, because I think it's
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: like on Netflix or like Hulu, it's on lifetimes. But
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: then when they rear you know, and it's been nominated
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: for an Emmy, Constance Summer was nominated for Well, she's
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: a fantastic actress, especially in that role, Like, wow, is
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: she convincing and scary as hell? Ben? Have you seen it? Yeah?
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I didn't know. It's still going. How have they done
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: multiple seasons? So this one is actually the Bachelorette. So
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: this season they get like an Elon Musk type girl
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: who's this big sort of millionaire and they're finding her
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: a guy. And it's actually really everything. Here's what I
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: might take on it is and you guys, Ben, you
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: can you can comment. It's there's a seed of the
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in it and then imagine going explode, you know
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's like there's some little elements
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: that I'm sure based on reality on your y'all show,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: and then they just take it to the drama level,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: because wasn't it like a former producer from The Bachelor, Like,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: I mean just the original concept, you know what I mean,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: But just the fact that they have all these weird
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: storylines about somebody jumping off of a roof. You know,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: it's just do you remember though that in Paradise that
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: one year where yeah, so I was sleeping with like
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: the audio guys, but the audio out the window that
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: was like the best thing ever. I know, they need
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: to have more behind the scene. I mean, you know,
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: let's like get the cast members to start mankling with
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: the you know who's I think is the hottest handler,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Hot Ryan. I call it hot Ryan, Ladies. Ladies, there's
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: a few of us here that are totally clueless on
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: your girl party over there, and you might want to
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: not forget your friends. Be sorry, Ben, you know hot Ryan? Ben?
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: You know who? I think it's hot Ryan? Right? I
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: think I know exactly shout out to Ryan Martinez. He is.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Why can't He's like a little Joe Jonas wanna be.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: And I've always know exactly who you're talking about in paradise.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Sometimes if like there's not anyone there for me, I'm like, Ryan,
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: can you just infiltrate your way into the cast, because yeah,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: my sister and I would flirt with him shamelessly. For
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: those playing at home, what these girls are talking about
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: is essentially sort of flirting with a producer pretty much, which, yeah,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: like a production assistant, production assistant. But have you ever
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: developed feelings for a producer? No? No, no, but I
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: can see how that could happen. I mean, they're basically
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: like your therapists. The entire experience. It's like you have
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: so much more time with them than you do the
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: actual person that you're dating. So on my season, a
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: couple of my girlfriends um have developed some crushy feelings
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: on the lawn. Yeah, as such like a a unique, wonderful, captivating,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: charming personality that were like, oh my gosh, I'm feeling
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: more for him than I am. The bachelor. Then, have
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: you ever well, did you on the Bachelorette when you
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: were on Caitlin season, you didn't have a crush on
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: like you know, Nas, Jessica, Namious, all of them? Yeah,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: all the above. I can see how happens. Yeah, that
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: makes sense. I mean, who doesn't love somebody that will
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: fit with you for three hours just talk about yourself.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, anybody's going to feel something right right, and
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: anyone who can just like make you cry basically on demand,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: you know, within a few weeks. It's like they can
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: say they can be like so, but are you open
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: to being loved? And I'm like yeah, yeah, and then innocently,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: like you know, pick you up without let and tell
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: you how beautiful you are and how deserving you are
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: of love and deserving you are. Finding somebody that's special
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: to you without actually being creepy because they've already lived
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: in that world with It's a special bond. It's a
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: special bond. Your heart is wide open and it's just
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: being crushed season after season by all right, Well, Ben,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: I don't love if you remember, but you did promise
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: us to cook some blue apron and you still haven't
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: done that. So do you have a date there that
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: we should fly to Denver, that you're going to fly here?
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: You amy, and you don't invite me out anymore? Oh God,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: you have been on a different flip plane in a
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: different states or different part of the world for the
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: past six weeks, we beg you to come Ben. Yeah, No,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: nobody wants me on l A And so I'll just
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: do it for myself in Denver. And that's fine because
• 28:55
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• 30:41
  Speaker 1: it's lighter later, it is kind of more fun to
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: home cook and like hang out. So Ben, come on,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: the time is now spring house sprung. We are ready
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: for our home cooked meal. Amy. You know what I think.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: The next time you and I will be together is
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: when of tournament at the Masters. Can I brag about
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: you that way? You can explain it but you don't
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: have to brag about yourself. There is a huge golf tournament, huge,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: like I think of the biggest athletes, the biggest celebrities
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: in Lake Tahoe and called the Edgewood. It's at Edgewood,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: But what is the professional name of it? The tournament
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: is the American Century. Um uh, let me just let
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: me just look it up. No, it's fine, I'll buy
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: you sometime. It airs on NBC. It's in Tahoe. They
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: play on the water and our friend Ben Higgins is
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: playing it invited to play. I think that's okay. So
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: it's the American Century Celebrity Golf Championship Tournament. And uh
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: it has literally been I texted Amy right away when
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: they act because this is a buck. I mean, I'm
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: not kidding. When it was funny, it was almost a joke.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: When the Backslor originally happened, somebody asked me and I
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: could go back, and I find this interview that said,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: what's one thing that you want like to happen out
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: of this outside of love? One thing? I remember saying,
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: I want to play in some awesome golf tournaments, and
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: Tahoe was number one of my life. It is literally
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: like you have Steph Curry and Justin timber Lake and um,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Michael Jordan's and like everybody. And then this year I
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: got a text It's like, were you playing this year?
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: And I was like, you're three years late, but not
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: too late. Let's do it. Yeah. They thought they were
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: texting Ben Affleck Okay, Ben, you know how you got
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: your dad Master's tickets? And like your dad was crying
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: because you're so happy. Well, my dad got word of this,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: and my dad is like, actually, why can't you give
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: me Master's tickets? And now I have been on the
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: hunt for Master's tickets for the past, you know, two weeks,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: and every day it's like any update on the Masters,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, Dad, I w don't think I have
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: Julia Roberts. I don't know how Ben did this. But
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: then like, I get the tickets for dear Evan Hanson
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: because my best friend, my best friend works at the PR,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: at the PR company that reps them. And then he's like,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: so you get Hot Broadway tickets, but you can't give
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: you Masters tickets. I'm like, Dad, apparently the Master's tickets
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: are harder than even the Super Bowl tickets. They're hard
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: they're really really difficult. Actually, I'll send the audio in.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know if we'll be able to play it
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: or not on the podcast. We'll send the audio end
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: of my dad. UM and I on the phone together
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: when I told him he had Master's tickets client and
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: he's like, that's my bucket list item, the number one
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: bucket list item. My buddy, good friend and just one
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: of the best men I know. He's a great dad
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: and a great husband, Jack Johnson, He's a former Masters winner,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: and I play in his golf tournament called the Zack
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: Johnson Foundation or Zack Johnson Classic every year. Um, listen
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: to the story real quick, because he is and and
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: a lot of people out there knows Jack Johnson is
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: and if you don't look them up. A year ago,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: my dad went to the Jack Johnson Classic with me,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: pulled Zack. You know, his dream was to be uh
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: in Augusta for the Masters one year, and Zach remembered that, Um,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: even though he has a thousand things going on, texting
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: me about two months ago and said, hey, I got
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: your dad tickets to the Masters this year, just without
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: me even asking. What a great guy I mean, honestly,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: and in the audios is my dad falling thing. Thank
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: you to Zack and thank you to me, And I'm pumped.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: That's actually uh that's next week. We had to Augusta
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: for the Master's and I could not be more excited.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: My dad went out and bought new tennis sues, he
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: bought new pants, a uster a new hat, he bought
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: new everything. He's gonna be looking to fly and pressed
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: and ready um to show up all of those professional golfers.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: So ador uh that's really cool. It is, you know,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: and and I mean I think in a week like this,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: like I was talking about the beginning of the podcast,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I think this is just like a really cool thing
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: to do that is going to be an awesome memory.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: How often in life do you get to actually do
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: something that you said the Buffalost item like, especially something
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: like the Masters where it's not easy to get to,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: it's not easy to get take too, it's expensive. Um,
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Zack Johnson and and just being the guy he is,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: went out of his way to make sure that, like
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: my dad and I have a memory that last this repord.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: So I'm pretty pumped about it. So so great. Um,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: My dad and I went to the Super Bowl I
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: don't know if we talked about this, but yeah, this
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: is one of those things. It's just like definitely definitely
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: worth it if you can finangle it some way or
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: another one of these years with your dad, Becca, I
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: want to hear. I want to hear from you real quick.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: What is one memory? Just one memory? Doesn't have to
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: be a family, It could be a friends, it could
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: be by yourself. What is mud memory and life that? Like?
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: What is your bucket list item that you've accomplished that really,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: like to this day stands out to you. Damn. That's
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: like a big question. One thing that I've done, like
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: one bucket last item that I have already completed, or
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: maybe an accomplishment in your life, like what if there
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: was a dream as as little Becca as little cue
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Peca said, Hey, I want to do this in my life, okay,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: and I want to accomplish it. I want to I
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: want to do what is that? Okay? It sounds so ridiculous,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: but it. I said for literally years that I was
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: going to be on the Bachelor. Not I'm not joking,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: like I've said for years. I was like, yeah, I'm
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: going to be on the Bachelor. Like I said, it
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: for a really long time, like my sister. My sister
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: is actually sitting here and she's like nodding her head
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: yet because I said it for so long. Do you
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: do you remember first watching I watched Ali Fodowski season
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I was probably like I don't know,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: I was how old? How much seven years older than you? Yeah,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: so I was like, yeah, I was fifteen, I guess
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: when I watched that, and I was like, this show
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: is great. I'm gonna go on this. So you yeah,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: I've heard it once or twice before, so it's been
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: discussed a bit. When you got that first call back
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: where you're like, see it's happening. Literally, I know, literally
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: went to the casting call and like at the casting call,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: she's like, well, we normally wait and call people back,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: but here's the packet for to get in that packet
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: and I was like, I thread it out of there.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: They're like, hide is under your Sure? Yeah, she was like,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: here's a little toebag. Put it in there. I was like,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: And then I immediately FaceTime my brother and sister and
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I was like, guys, I was like, I'm just saying
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: right now, I'm going to the next stage and I
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna be on the show. And my
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: little brother was cracking up and he's like, you are,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: like you are going to be on it. And I
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: called my mom and she's like, back, please don't, please
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: don't go to the next round because I know you're
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: going to get cast. She's like, please don't. My dad
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: was just like I kept saying, you know. After I
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: got that packet, I was like, it's doing it. We're
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: doing it. We're doing It's gonna be a real thing.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: And then he was like no, it's not. No, it's
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: not and then he was like stop thinking like that.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: In the next round, I was like, see what's happening. Well,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: another thing that like is a little less I mean,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: but really that's something I wanted to do for a
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: long time, and so it was awesome. It was such
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: a great experience. Um but also like I don't know
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: if I talked about this on the show, but I
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: used to rock climb competitively and my goal I was little,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: and then I my goal was to get an invite
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: to Nashville. When I got one of those when I
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: was fourteen, so that was really exciting. That's really exciting.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Ben I actually had a bucket list item happened recently.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: I didn't talk about it on the podcast. I don't
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: think I talked about it yet. Um okay, So it's
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: the coolest moment, the coolest moment of my life. So
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: is this about? I did talk about it on me.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: I don't get it. Scream like two sorry, just on
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: that Jimmy fallon you. Okay, well, Ben, so check this out.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: My sister's boyfriend was deejaying um a party and then
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: my sister shows up with him, and then she immediately
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: texted me. She goes, oh my god, Ashley Lance Bass
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: is the one throwing this party. It's totally nineties themed.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: They're only playing boy bands on the screens. He's supposed
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: to play boy band music. And she's like, you have
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: to get here soon. So I roll in. It was
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: like my birthday, did her? So I roll in deep
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: with bachelor people. It was me, It was Nick Cupcake,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: Christina Shulman and then as and my sister and uh,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: I'm going and planning my my fan girl attack on Lance. Okay,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: where is he? I'm not gonna, you know, I just
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: want to wait till he's not talking to anyone and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: be like really classy. All of a sudden, Lance taps
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: me on the shoulder and goes, oh, hello there, and
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I go, oh my god, I got Did my sister
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: tell you early on? You know, because he had instructed
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: the DJ boyfriend to play a certain type of music.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I was like, did my sister tell you early on
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: that I was coming? And he's like, oh, I didn't
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: even know that was your sister. I'm just a huge
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: fan of yours that I'm sorry. I could scream, I
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: could scream really loud, but I won't do it. And um,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh. He's like, I'm so excited
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: for like everything that's happening in your life, Like it
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: was so great to watch the Winter Games and like
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: everything finally happened for you. And I was like, okay, well,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: um well we're not together anymore, but like that's so
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: sweet that you followed my personal life. I can't believe
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: that you followed my personal life. And anyway, we had
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: a lot to talk about, apparently, and Nick was Nick
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: came over. He was like, oh, I didn't know you
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: guys were friends. I was like, we are not friends.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: We just had that natural, amazing chemistry and then I
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: showed Lance a picture of my room when I was younger. Anyway,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: that's it. So when people from now on say, what's
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: your greatest accomplishment in life? My teen idol who I
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: had like three hundred faces of him on my walls,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Like because I had actually calm down for one second. Okay,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: remember you're doing a podcast here. When you say you
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: showed him a picture of your room as a child,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: what exactly does that mean? The posters and all the
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: posters of him on the wall, three pictures of him
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: in your wall? Like, literally is a Lance that bedroom? Well? No,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I mean Justin was my guy obviously, but my second favorite.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: And I had three fifty posters. Used to count. I
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: used to count because like pups, you make a path there.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: And then I moved to the ceiling, but I only
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: did the big posters that you buy at the store
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: on the ceiling. But it was but I don't I
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: would put my child in therapy if they wanted that
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: many post It wasn't Gary, aren't you guys. I was
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: a twelve year old and I had really high ceilings
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: and my mom would like spot me on the ladder.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: But it was like a work of art sometimes like
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: every year, well not every year, every couple of months
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: I would redo it with new updated posters. So I
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: would take a whole ball down and then I like
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: puzzle piece it together. I had no posters. But here's
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: my question. So you've got this big crush on Lance No, no,
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: not a crush, okay, just love. Let me let me
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: ask this questions obsessions? When you find out he's gay?
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: Oh what happened? Like? What does it do to your body? Well?
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: I mean that was I mean he came out when
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: he was when I was like twenty, You were over
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: it and I wasn't. I love him like as a person.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: But Justin was the one that I imagined myself Mary
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: because our friend Brittany was Superla Claken was my other one,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: Clay Agin. I was obsessed with him in love and love.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: But um yeah, he also didn't come out until later
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: and she cried, Ben, who was your crush when you
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: were like a teenager? Not now? But when you who
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: you have posters of? I mean this is easy. I'm
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: not very like, Oh, Tiffany Theason? Should I have her
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: on this show? How would you feel? Like? Is this
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: like an am I too young for this. She's um
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: Tiffany Theason. She's from Stay by the Bell. I didn't
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: watch it by the Bell. I have to see I
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: didn't watch it by the Bell. No, no, I wasn't
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: allowed to watch a lot of it. Wasn't really allowed
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: to watch. Ben, how do you think you'll do interviewing
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Tiffany Theason? Because I'm going to make that happy then,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: because I want to see the awkwardness. I don't know.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: If he's already giggling and not being able to complete
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: a sentence, I would be so excited. I'm not like,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you can barely he's a sentence together.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I have a new show. I heard that, Ben brent
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Nielsen a k one of your bachelorettes. She looks just
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: like her. I know, I know there's a lot to that.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: I thought about it before. It's a big deal. Well,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: and it's not. It's not just her look, because obviously
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: she's a beautiful person, but Tiffany amber Sis and like
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: Kelly Cat, was just a good, down home girl who
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: wanted and a good partner. He would joke the diner
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: with a smile on her face, ready for a good
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: time with my friends. Is this real? Life Christians is
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: so great, Becca as being from a whole different generation.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Who is your like little crush growing up up? Like,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: you know what, I've never I'm not gonna lie, I've
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: never been a fan girl like I always like my neighbors,
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: you know, and I love That's what I love. I
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: tell I'm like, you know what, actually is great because
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: you're just an unapologetic fan girl and I admire that.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: You know, my neighbors were like the biggest fan They
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: always had crushes with the posters and everything on the walls,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: and like I admired it. I just never really was
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: like into anyone like that. I just wish we had
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: a video of Ben's squirreliness right now, like literally the
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: best he that was just like the smile on his face. Bean,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, you think about it, you grow up.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: And I had a few of my favorite Britney spears
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Tippany and Bertson, Um, Jennifer Andison, I had um there on.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: I still have the folders somewhere here at this house
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: of them. It was my art folder and I cut
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: out their pictures out of a magazine had I was, Yeah,
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: that was weird. I'm gonna stop I'm gonna stop there.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: I'm interested because we talked generational gap now Becca actually
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: and I who was really who's a hot commodity back
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: in your day? Well, I'm trying to think back because
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: this is a completely different generation, like like eighties, because
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I'm eighties, like I was like a young kid jr.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: Sex my birthday, Kirk Cameron is is my favorite growing
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: pains over everything. A lot of people liked Axel Rose.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: Do you know who that is? Dens and Rosy Axel Rose.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: You know a girl in high school was really obsessed
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: with George Michael and I same thing. Another clicking where
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: you these teens fall in love with the boys that
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: will never like that. That's that's what it is. It's
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: same there and it's not scary and they're not going
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: to do anything to you. But I think I'm from
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: an era where there wasn't a lot of this. We
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: missed it. We were not you know, we were too
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: old for new kids on the block and we were
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: you were too old for new kids. Yeah, we didn't
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: have There was none of this boy band stuff. I mean,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: we were not that was not what we were JFKR. Well,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: of course, but nobody had like a teen idle crush. Yeah,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: nobody had like posters of JFKJ, I have it and
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I have one in my apartments. A good uh stop
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: for a second for all of our listeners out there.
• 46:28
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• 46:33
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• 46:40
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• 46:43
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• 46:48
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• 46:56
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• 46:59
  Speaker 1: I finally, I finally don't know who's hot. I don't
• 47:04
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  Speaker 1: Ben Tiffany Theson's publicists already respond, Oh my god, that
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  Speaker 1: was quick. That is very very fast. They're calling Tiffany.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: So it's all on you because I only said, hey,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: would she call Ben Higgins? Oh? She married? Hold up, yeah,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: she's married. She is She's married, So we so at
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: least we have an understanding of exactly my intention here.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to do anything weird. She's just going
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: to talk. I was gonna say that, you know this,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: this could get ugly. You and I are in the
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: same page here. I don't want her to get an email.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: The one email, the one time I can actually connect
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: with Timber Tiffany and er seen and she responds with
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: you gross. Not into something like that like that would
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: crust me forever. For next week is just that Ben
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: becomes Ashley and Ashley becomes Ben. Oh my gosh, yes,
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have to calm you down. It's just
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: weird to think that. I mean, I'm not kidding. I
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: still remember the moment where I used to sit at
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: home and I used to think I didn't know God
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: created women or people. This pretty like God. So and
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: now I'm gonna be able to talk to her, Ben Love,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be so blushy. I just blushed. I know
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: it's you know, but you know those moments where you
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: see somebody it still happen today and you're like, or
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: those moments in life just and you're like, I didn't
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: know moments like this could exist. I mean, that kind
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: of stuff is how I felt about Tiffany as a
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: young chup. She has she she set my standard very
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: high in light wow. Wow, Well you guys, if you
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: look like Tiffany amberthes In and your age appropriate, please
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: call Ben Higgins gmail, Ben and Ashley at heart media
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: dot com with a picture. Wait, why don't I What
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: if there's just a dating show like the Bachelor, but
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: it's just girls who are Lookalike's good idea. Actually, I
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: also think she dropped the amber like she did at
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: eighteen years she did Tiffany thes In. Yeah, I'm gonna
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: look at Yeah, are you gonna come and studio for
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: that one? I don't know. No's far away from that
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: studio as possible, because I'll get real weird on the
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: problem with Amy is when we bring up these people
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: and we're just like, yeah, like I've been really unto
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: her before. Amy will feel like, yeah, we'll get her
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: on next week, and then it happens and now stuck
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: like this. Now I gotta prepare myself. I gotta shave
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: next week. I gotta cum my hair. How old is
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: she now? By the way, he's probably she's about my age. Yeah,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: she's like my age. You know you should do Ben
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: Beach body. We're in the same week. I don't think so. Yeah,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm wort. I'm exactly her age. I am exactly
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: her age, and I've known her probably twenty years. Yep. Yeah,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: Ben does is of me and my levent Amelia. Hey,
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: he's like, I don't know who I was with him?
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: Did I say I got to I got to sit
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: by another night? Uh? No, you didn't tell me this
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: casually basketball game? Yeah, he was at he's day a
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: basketball game when I was there. He's as good looking
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: in real life as he's on TV. I'll tell you
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: that my friend, Uh yes, Sarah Partnet is my best
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: friend's wife. He's the coach of one of the coach
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: that U c l A. And we were at the
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: game and she just had a recent a new baby,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: and we were sitting there together and he sat on
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: the front row and he walked up the aisle of
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: the stairs and she got nervous, and she is I mean,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: and that's to see Sarah excited about somebody is pretty
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: funny too, because I mean, she's happily married as a kid,
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: and so she got real nervous, really anxious. She tried
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: to she tried to use her her baby to get
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: a picture with him. Um. But yeah, he's he's a
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: good looking fellow. It's not just his looks. It's really
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: not even his looks. It's all about the warmth that
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: he exudes. Yeah, guys are both like weirdos. Know these
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: people chill out. Oh my gosh. Just the way he
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: talks to my nas put it perfectly. He's the perfect
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: combination of somebody who you want to be your boyfriend.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: But he's also kind of like your dad. It sounds
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: to run. I get that, I really get that. That
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: makes total makes her candle. You're on the line with
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: the messiest almost in his podcast of all time. We're
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: really just like gushing about random stuff today. Um, what
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: do you want to gush about? Fan girl? Hello? Hello,
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: how are you guys? We're great? Tell us what you
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: love now? Tell us who your teen celebrity crush was.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, oh my team celebrity crush had just
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: been Jeremy Sumter and Peter Pants. Wait. Yeah, I literally
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: made sure it looks every night before this in case
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: he came into my window. Who would Peter Pan? You
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: are so you guys are all weird? Wait Peter Pan
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: like in the Hook version. Wait, he is cute. I
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: just oh, I know exactly what you're talking about. Yes, no,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: he is so beautiful. He's so okay, I never saw
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Hook look never get out. Oh you have to know.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: He's just got that very boyish just like he's very
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: almost like almost like a feminine space. Pretty fine. He
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: was definitely my crust. Okay, that's a good one. I
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: didn't get it. Now I just stop a picture and
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: I say Okay, got it, got it? What you hear it?
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: We already talked about it. I don't Yeah, I didn't really.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: I don't think I really had any although you know what,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I found girls so hard over I bringing him up
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: all the time. That's creepy and people always think I'm
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: like trying to get him to slide into my d ms.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: But I had a huge crush on Peter on Rachel season,
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: like I would watch we watch the game, Amy, did
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: you hear that next week? Okay, fine, we'll ask him
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: about you back up? No, don't. It makes it seem
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: like I'm trying to hit on him and I'm not.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: I've moved on. Okay, who are you? You moved on to? Well,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know anyway. You know what, We're gonna go
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: back to Bachelor talk for just a second. Um when
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: the show ends and you go as far as you did,
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: you have been there for seven weeks? How odd was
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: it to readjust back to real life? Did you have
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: what I called the post Bachelor depression? It's not a
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: real depression, but it's like, oh, excuse yeah, yeah that
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: I want to sit inside and talk about the Bachelor
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: and nothing but the Bachelor. With my mom for just
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: for a whole week, right, No, because there's so much
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: that goes on and you're catching everybody else but everyone
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: else up, but you're also trying to figure out what
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: you were feeling when you're going through it, and it's
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: such a dramatic change in life style and everything overnight.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: There's so much the process. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. My family
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: members and friends with like literally asked me very politely.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: They'd be like, hey, can we stop talking about the Bachelor?
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: And I was like, well, this was my Yeah, this
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: was my life for like several weeks and something that
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: you know, excited about, isn't it funny? Every day I
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: was like apologizing. It's like I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I really,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: I just I can't get out of it yet. I
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: have a You know that brings up an interesting point, Ben,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: I'd love to hear your thoughts and you know, all
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: the ladies. Is it like the day after Christmas when
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: it ends? You know how you have that let down? Ben,
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: Like when you after the presence of an open did
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: you get the blues a little bit? Definitely scaring um? Well,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't hear the last part, but the first part
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: you get the blues. I mean, it's it's such a
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: weird thing. It's kind of that same thing I was
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: talking about not to go back. But it's like the
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: finality of anything is a bitter sweet right when when
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: when anything end, even if it's bad, you still in
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: a sense like hold onto it or you you don't
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: miss it. Maybe maybe you're happiest gone, but you're used
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: to that being a constant in your life. And so
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: when that ends, there's kind of this question of well,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: what's next? And I I confirmed that question. I don't
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: know about the women here, and I would love to
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: hear their thoughts. I confronted that question head on in
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: a pretty hard way. As soon as this was all done.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: I have I remember the moment. I remember the time
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: that I said, well, now what's next? Do I go
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: back to my desktop? Do I go back to life?
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: Like I'm now? You know, for me, I was engaged
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: do and that Lauren? I had to have those conversations
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: what exactly this looks like? Now? Do we pursue, you know,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: a co hosting career, do we stay in l A,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: do we get new jobs? Do we post on social
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: media for a while? To like let that kind of
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: thing happen. UM, and now I mean that's that's really
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: where where my recent career starts. Was me saying, I
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: don't know what's next, but I know it can't be
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: anything that's solely focused on me because that's just gonna
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: make me feel so weird down the road. But yeah,
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: I definitely know. To answer your question, I got the
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: blue I wish I wouldn't have, but I don't know
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: how you not how you don't. Yeah, it's true. So
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I guess like that begs a question to you girls,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: what is next? I don't know. I have no idea.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: I think we're just kind of enjoying like being able
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: to travel and um experience new things through the experience. UM.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: And also a lot of the girls got extremely close afterwards,
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: so um, being able to go through that together has
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: really helpful. Yeah, back at you are still part time
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: nanny NG, Yeah, I am. It's been really hard to
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: juggle that. UM my family. People always ask because travel
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: and stuff there, like how do you do that? Well,
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: it's nice because my nanny mom works from home, so
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: like if I do really need days off, I can
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: get them. Um. And then they're like in I think
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: I'm Taiwan for two weeks right now, So I've got
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks off to like travel and get
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: all my you know, bachelor stuff together. Yeah, Kendall, Or
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: did you go back to work? Yeah? Actually I was.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: I just got done production design and so I'm still
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: doing that. It's kind of funny because I've worked behind me.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: I do work behind the camera, so it's funny thing
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: behind the camera again after being in front of the
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: camera for so well, what kind of stuff designs? Have
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: you done? Anything we would know? Um? I mean I've
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: done We'll do something at Disney promo for a show,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: so basically just just getting a bunch of props, shopping
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: for props and pretty little steps together. Um, I'm freelanced,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: so literally, I have done so many random things. Both
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: of you. Has it been weird over the past month
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: or so to get recognized in public? I want to know,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: like your weirdest fan girl? We have one together that um, well,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: you know, we both live in l A. And I
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: think that it's like people here don't really like even
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: if they recognize you, it's kind of more of a
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: double take and then they'll just like leave you alone.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: Like I don't get approached that off in itay, um,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: except except when we go out to bars and people
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: get drunk. I think they get they like lose their inhibitions,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: and then they'll come up and they'll want to chat
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: for like twenty minutes, which is kind of funny. Did
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: you get any weird questions? Uh no, they're all the same.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, tells us, tells us. But I think
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: New York was a lot more. A lot of came
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: up in New York than l A. Yeah, we were
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: surprised by that. We were both in New York a
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, and yeah, we could like it
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: was like literally every block there was someone who would
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: stop us, which was kind of wild. I wasn't expecting
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: that goes hard but yeah, but what was really cool
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: is we were walking and you know, it's always funny
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: to see what kind of fans you have, Like you
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: there's the typical like you know, late teens, early twenties, um,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: like white girls who will be like, oh my god.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: But then it's funny like we were walking in New
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: York and this like sixty something year old like man
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: stopped us. He goes Becca Kendall and he was like
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: so excited and we start talking and it turns out
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: he's the screenwriter of Precious God and he was, yeah,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: like I see standard view. That is amazing. Yeah, that's
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: definitely an amazing moment. That was really cool. And he
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: was like, can I get your girls emails? I was like,
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, totally cool. That is so cool. Do
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: you feel like after these seasons and because there's one
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: thing I've noticed, the women are all really good friends
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: and they kind of like joined together and they traveled
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: together and they get along great and not the guy don't.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I mean I love the guys from the Bachelorette that
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: that was with. I mean, you know, Jared, the Jared's
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: of the World and the Boost and Chris Member, Like
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: I love those guys, but we never hung out. I
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: mean I haven't seen booths Sin and he was my
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: best friend on the show, Like, I haven't seen him
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: since the finale of Caitlin season. We talk. But you
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: think that's common? I mean, why is it that the
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: guys don't really group together but the women seem to
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: really you know, continue to stay close and they travel
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: together and they do all these things. Um, I'm not sure.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: I just feel like having that support is really helpful
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: because I don know what to do with my mind,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: and sometimes afterwards I don't know how to process everything
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: or understand going on. I mean having Rebecca and ah,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: we're close and then girls make plans and guys, it's
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: what it is, you know what, you know what Else though,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: I think it's I think a lot of times it
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: can be really hard to make female friends because there's
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: always this weird thing of like, oh, I love your shoes,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: like oh yeah, where did you get your top? And
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: it's like you don't know sometimes how to dive into
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: like emotional relationships with other women. And I think being
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, like we were also emotionally open with
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: each other and so it's not it's like sometimes they
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: can I don't know if you're a woman, and it's
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: it's it's almost like hanging out with women the first time.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: It's like a first date, and it's like there's kind
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: of like a lot of pressure, a lot of pressure,
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: a lot of nerves, a lot of nerves. Um, I
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: get more nervous sometimes like hanging out with other women,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: like who I want to be my friend? And I
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: do only first date? Yeah, and you guys, you've already
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: dated the same guy, so like, if you've got to
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: pass that, I think you can probably be friends forever.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: But I think it's a great common I think it's
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: a very easy common ground to have been on the show.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: So now we just have that way of connecting and
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: then going from there. Now we have all, you know,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: so many other things in common now we share, but
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: many like dimensions of each other through the show. You know,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: we've seen each other when we are sobbing, or when
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: we're really happy for a date, or it's being happy
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: for each other as well. I think that was just
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: really awesome having a group where when someone else on
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: a date, sure we saw a little weird, but we
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: were still excited for them and had that support. But
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: let's happing out of the show. It's hard not to
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: have that. What's happened with core Crystal? Is she back
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: in the mix? Are still on that? Yeah? I'm friendly,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: I'm good terms with her. I I face time ter
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: shortly after the show because we were pretty we had
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: some close moments on the show that weren't that you
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: didn't see um. But yeah, I mean I if I'm
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: in San Diego, I would hit her up and go
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: get lunch or something. I think she's really close with
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: anybody though, yeah, purposely does live in San Diego. But
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: I mean she reached out to me after the show,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: and you know, I did a point to apologize and
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: to you know, have a good connection, and I really
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: appreciated that from her. I mean, I don't talk to
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: her too often, but the tops we do have are
• 1:04:24
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• 1:04:28
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• 1:04:31
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• 1:04:33
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  Speaker 1: but I wanted to let everyone know that Kendall is
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: going to guest hosts tomorrow. Help I suck at dating
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• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: I cannot wait. I mean, honestly, that's going to be really,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: really good. I can't wait to hear Jared's perspective. Kendall,
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  Speaker 1: this guy, that four guy through this, please because he
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  Speaker 1: really does I can. Hey, Kendall, thank you so much
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  Speaker 1: for as famous podcast. Of course, guys, thanks having me,
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  Speaker 1: Bye bye. I know we didn't talk to her about
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: Paradise um, but I think it's just assumed Kendall be
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: in Paradise. Becky, you'll be emparadised. We're all going to Paris.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not going. I'm not guy less. Oh I wish
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: you were going. Would be so funny. Wait, wait, so
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: who do we think? Real quick? Before moving to these emails?
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: At you would know that the two of you, know,
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: I would who is going to be in paradise? So
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: I mean I can either confirm nor deny. Actually nothing
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: is confirmed? Is confirmed? Yeah? Okay? So yeah me, I
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: would say, I mean Kendall, uh and your boyfriend. I
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: think seen might have something going on. I can't confirm
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: more denying that. I think that's too not with me.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: There's still many months with them speaking of Oh I'm sure.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sure Crystal will be invited and I'm sure she
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: will accept as well. Um oh yeah, T is probably
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: going to have a paradise engagement. I'm sure. Why do
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: you say it's because it's funny. I mean, just like
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: what past guys, Um, I know, not something from Beck
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: to season. I just have a lots from back of season,
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: but like, who are we missing? I know that we
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: were talking it would be funny if Peter came, because yeah,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: we're all into Peter, right, I think it'd be funny
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: if that would definitely stirred up some drama because I
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: think our whole cast to women were women who were
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: expecting Peter, so that might be some drama. Although I
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: bet there's going to be some great new hunks on
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: Becca season, so he might be old news by the
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: time in the first season years. I mean all I
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: can say guys and I can't give names, but I
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: have done a date, one on one date for Becca
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: for Cosmo, and then I did Access Hollywood and I
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: interviewed five guys. I covered a one on one day
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: and so I've seen six guys and that good. Okay,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm calling it right now? Because when
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: there was the live after the Final Rose things, she
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: had some of the guys come on, I swear, and
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: you might actually maybe he was on the one on
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: one day, but I swear that guy Blake with the horse.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: I'm calling it right now, the top three. I'm saying
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: top three. Okay, fantasy suites, that's all I'm gonna say. Okay,
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: which one do you want to start with? Ben? Let's
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: go for an amazing question to as we're looking here,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: I want to know isating anybody in the Bachelor world?
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. No. I thought that could be
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: a juicy topics for next week. I bet Caroline will
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: be there in Paradise too, But basically everyone who's like
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: in a little like a girl squad or whatever he
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: came up on the stage. I'm sure most of those
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: women will be there. Um who else from her season? Crystal?
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Hopefully some of the women that didn't get as much
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: screen time would be kind of fun. There's always one
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: or two. Yeah, Okay, let's start that with this one. Becca,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: you can answer it is ari a jerk Face is
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: the title to hold your comment, Becca, Hold your comment
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: until the email is read. It says from Gabriel, Hey, guys,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: do you mind addressing Britt Robertson's comment on Ari about
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Ari on your podcast? Link below to the comment she said. Okay,
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: here's what she said. That Robertson is um cute little actor.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: No no, no, I thought it was um No. She's
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: an actress. She was on a Steed w show and
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: now she's on that We the People, that new show
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: on ABC. Thank you. She's a good little good actress.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't say a good little actress. Yeah, well she's yeah, Okay. Anyway,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: said I met Ari before all of the stuff went down.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: I was very excited to meet him and was hoping
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: he'd tell me who he chooses. But he was just
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: kind of a Dirk face. I'm not gonna lie. He
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: acted like taking a picture with me was the most
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: painful thing he's ever done. And I was like, broa,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: oh my god, this is great. Bro, this is what
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: you signed up for. You're here for us to take
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: photos and make fun of you. I love this girl. Okay, hey, Becca,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: what do you think? Is he a b Okay? Just
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: not for Is this something that seems like all right?
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: Because from everything I hear, he's always been super kind
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: to the media. Yeah, he seems Actually, I will say
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: that I think he's a nice I've said this before,
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: I said I think he's a nice guy. I don't
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: think nice always is the equivalent of a good guy. However,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: that does seem a little out of character. I don't.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: I don't. Actually, I wouldn't imagine he would be a
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: jerk to people who are like fans of him or whatever,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: I want to meet him. I'm actually kind of surprised
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: by that. Maybe he was evan an off day or something.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say he's a I think. I don't. I
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: don't think he's a jerk, because that's just somebody who's
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: like impolite and just kind of like a general asshole.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't actually say that about him, honestly. I mean,
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: I would just think, too, you signed up to be
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor? Are you signed up to be the Bachelor?
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: By the way, I did hear from an insight source
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: that Becca as the Bachelor has been incredible to the media,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: But sure, you know she's you wake up, you know,
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: sometimes you have a date till four a m. In
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: the morning, This is common, and then you have to
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: wake up before anybody else has to depressed at like
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: seven day for the life of the Batchlor and Batchlor.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, it happens, and it's terrible. I'm not going
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: to say it's not. It is until you've done it.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: Nobody understands how brutal is. But I hear, and this
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: doesn't always happen. That she has been absolutely incredible and
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: has realized that it's not ideal for anybody, and that
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: there's people that you know, are working their jobs to
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: make sure this happens. So she's she's doing a great
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: job with that. My point is, when you agree to
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: be the Bestlor Batchlor Bachelor, you are agreeing to a
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: tough schedule with a ton of media and a ton
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: of people always around you. So I mean, I hope,
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: I hope that she's maybe just kind of saying this,
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: you know, tongue in cheek without necessarily meaning it. But
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: that's the Robertson said, well wants to see what do
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: you think we're gonna stop talking about Ari? By the way,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: that soon, hopefully when Becca season starts airing out over
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: although I wonder, I mean, I honestly wonder if her
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: season is going to be peppered with various like Ari references.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I don't think so. I think every
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: but he's done. Okay, yeah, yes, um I have I
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: have an email for you. Okay, I'm excited for it.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: It's called It's entitled what bugs Ben from Elizabeth. I
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: love Ben, I really do. However, he is just always
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: so politically correct and wants to please everyone. He never
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: says anything negative. I understand that he has a public platform,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: and it makes sense that he would never want to
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: hurt anyone's feelings that might listen to the podcast. And
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: that is what makes him such a sweet person. It's
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: a great quality to have. But as where as it sounds,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: I just want to hear him complain about something. I
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: feel like it would be refreshing to know what really
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: grinds Ben's gears, what really kisses him off. I want
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: him to rant about something. Complain about a bad day
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: or traffic or loud chewing, are people who cut in
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: line at the grocery store or something. I want to
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: hear Ben bitch. This is obviously written in a light
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: hard way. Love you guys, EXO. I've been Elizabeth. I
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: love that. That's the great email. Then let's put two
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: minutes on the clock, and let ben just okay, but
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: let me let me enter into this. Of course, here
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: comes the politician. So I do get Okay, my reaction
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: to things are awful always they always have been. I
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: react terribly. But what I've learned over time is most
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: of the time when my react, like when I react
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: to something, I get trustrated or annoyed or whatever. I
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: really I quickly realized that I was in the wrong
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: and that it's not the right thing to do. And
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: so when there's a little grace given to me from
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: my friends or family or from Ashley or whatever, then
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: if they're just like, okay, this has just been being
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: a terrible person, that his reactions are awful, then then
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: it usually plays out so they don't get that upset
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: because I realized that most of the time in the wrong.
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: So that being said, two minutes of the clock. Okay, Ready,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: I am sick entire of people promoting themselves. I think
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: it is absolutely ridiculous. I think confidence is important, I
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: think confidence is needed, but I am tired of other
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: people talking about themselves in the way that's self promoting. Okay, So,
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: for example, we do something wrong in life, right, you
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: make a mistake, you've you've heard a friendship, you said
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: an inappropriate thing in an inappropriate time. Why then do
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: we feel the need to retweet to overcompensate for our
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: mistake by sharing everybody else's you know, praise of us. Okay,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: So if I'm putting this up, this is just get
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: some my nerves every time. Okay. So for example, in
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: today's world, there's a lot of controversies and and things
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: happening that really are affecting people deeply. Okay, if you've
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: made a mistake, if you've done something stupid, own it,
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: learn from it. Okay, let it sit in. Understand that
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: we were all human. We often make mistakes. But I'm
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: sticking tired of people making his mistakes and then just
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: retweeting all these really nice things that other people say
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: about them, like oh I still support you, I still
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: got your back, Oh look at you, You're so pretty
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: and you're so nice. It drives me crazy because what
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: it does, is it it? What about when we when
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: we promote the podcast is bad because we didn't make
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: a mistake by doing not at all. You can promote
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: the things you're doing. I think you should. I promote
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: generous coffee. I promote the podcast, to promote the blog.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, when you've made a mistake, when you really
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: should be owning up to the fact that you've messed up,
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: you've hurt somebody, like own it, take it in because
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: in this generation that we're in, it's so easy to
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: just move forward. Everybody forgets so quickly. We can find
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: a thousand people that are going to support us and
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: compliment us and lift us up. And that's absolute ridiculous
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: because for once in our lives, as a generation, asked
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: people we need to take responsibility for something. If it
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: is us standing up at the march for our lives,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: that's amazing. Stand up for something like that, stand up
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: for something, but stop sitting down for every mistake you've missed. Tweet. Yes, okay,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: well I've just come up with a new segment. It's
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: called I was Inspiring. I can do that. I can
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: I can picture two seconds easily. Yeah, but no, you
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: know I I have realized this and this is something.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: This is actually something I learned in my relationship with Lauren.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: That is probably the one one of the biggest takeaways
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: for me um is my reaction to things are terrible
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: I am in relationships or in friendships or in my
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: working environment, I get so reactionary in a negative way
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: because I get frustrated and when things aren't going right.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: I am a terrible follower. I always have been. I
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: know that about myself. I don't like it about myself,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: but I am a terrible follower, and and I'm not
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: okay with it. I need to figure it out. You say,
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: or you mean, like, if you're not in the leader position, Well,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: if things are either not, that's in the leader position.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: But if things aren't going how I think they should
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: be going. Mostly, yeah, to a leader that has allowing
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: things to progress in the way that I believe they
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: should progress, I can take a back seat to that.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: I can't take a back seat to somebody that isn't
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: like even though they could be in the right. So
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: if I'm learning, I'm learning personally that my one of
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: my biggest mistakes is my reaction to things. But Ben,
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: you own your mistakes, so everything that is complained about
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: you don't do. So that's pretty good. Yeah, but I'm
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: sure there's more things. I mean, I'll send you a
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: nice little list. I can send you a list. WHOA
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: that's A. I think I think that's such a good
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: I think that was such a good point. Though, is
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: like allowing yourself to be held accountable by your peers
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: and by other people and accepting that you might not
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: be right all the time, which is difficult for him
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: to do as well. What are we scared of? You know?
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, if we're all really good friends here and
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: we all really care about each other, we're gonna allow
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: each other some grace, We're gonna allow each other from
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: some forgiveness. We're not perfect and that's okay, And and
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: I really I'm excited about this. Emai, I need to
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: move on here because Becca and actually name me. I
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: think you can all answer this um and then we'll
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: close out of this this beautiful podcast week other today
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: is said he has more feelings than I do. So
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: I made out with one of my friends at a
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: bar six weeks ago. We're both seniors in college and
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: have been friends since sophomore years, so I simply chalked
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: it up. It ye fun random night on the town. However,
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: almost seven weeks later, we're still hooking up. We spend
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: most of our free time together and have gone on
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: a handful of dates so I really feel that sparks
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: that sparked with him when I'm with him. Oh, but
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: I really don't feel that sparked with him when I'm
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: with him. I enjoy our time together. But for me,
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: it's more about companionship and having fun with that person
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: I care a lot about. He has apparently developed deeper
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: romantic feelings for me last week with spring break and
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: I to someone one night and thought nothing of it,
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: since exclusivity was never something we discussed. My question that
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: is rather simple. This is such a good question. I
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: think it's important. So let's set up the contact here.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: They've been making out, they've been hooking up. There's been
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: no d T ring, which for all of you out there,
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: that's to find the relationship. There's no there's no no relation.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: Is it wrong to continue a relationship with someone who
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: may have stronger feelings than you do, even if you
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: have made your own position abundantly clear? Most importantly, what
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: in the world should I do? Thanks for your help.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of opinions on this too. I
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: I would love to hear in Becca and I personally,
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: I am at a loss here. I have zero advice
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: because I find myself in this situation in my life,
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: I found myself in this position multiple times and I
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: don't know what to do. So back up, please lay
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: it out there for well, I think it's just the
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: bottom line is it's all about communications. So you really
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: need to You can't beat around the bush with this
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: kind of thing. If you're hooking up with somebody and
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: you enjoy being around them and you want to keep
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: spending time with them, but you know they have deeper feelings,
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: you need to make it abundantly clear, even if it
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: sounds brutal. You need to say, like, if it's true,
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: I am not interested in you romantically, I do not
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: see us progressing into a relationship in the future and
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: that is not something that's going to change. If that's
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: too difficult for you to accept, then please let me
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: know and we can you know, back pedal and stop
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: hooking up whatever needs to happen for you. But I
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: think and at that point it's that other person's responsibility
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: for them to either. I mean, if they want to
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: keep like wrecking their heart and keep doing it, that's
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: kind of on them because you've been like, you know,
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: I enjoy being around you, I want to keep hooking
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: up with you. But if this is too hard for you,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: please let me know. It's not going to happen between us.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: The odds are the person is probably gonna say it's okay,
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: let's just continue doing this, and then that's the man.
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't know. I mean no, I mean
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: I completely get what you're saying back, but I think
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: that's just setting it up for harder break up at
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: some point if you don't know at what point? Okay,
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: So this is where I'm at right now. At what
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: point in life and dating? Because I'm trying to enter
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: back into the dating pool. I've dated, I've gone on dates.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: At what point do you just like stop dating and
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: you start asking yourself like the standard is is this
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: my wife my husband or not? Like at what point
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: does that question have to enter into your thoughts? Well,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: you know that that's what I went through. I think that.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: I think that at that's two month point. I started
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: thinking about it pretty early on, to be honest, Like
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: I I think about it like first or second date.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: I start considering it because like, I don't want to
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: waste my time. That is literally the worst part of
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: your age ever ever, so hard because I'm so much older,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: and I don't ever have to think about that. I mean,
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: you can just have fun for a while and you
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: don't care, or for thirty years, for fifty years, it
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter because I'm past the like kid point and
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: then it doesn't have to be married. I find the
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: biggest challenge for you guys in your on these early
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: thirties is this I figured out, got figured out, gonna
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: figure out? And that is so detrimental in relationship. I'm like,
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: in a hurry for nothing? Do you guys think that
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: you can be with somebody for do you think that? When?
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: Do you know? When? Do you know if that person
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: is your long term or not? I think, by ben
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: in my ages, I think you can determine it pretty
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: early on. I'm really instinctual. So for me, it's like
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: I know, and I know right away, and I know
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: if I'm being honest with myself or not. Somebody that
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: you like for a while, are you still thinking at
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: your age you're you're thinking is this gonna be my
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: husband or not? Yes? You do do, Yeah, I do.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: I think about it a lot, and and I know
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: in my heart, and sometimes I don't listen to my heart.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: I know in my heart if it's something that could
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: be serious with someone and could actually work out or not.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: But sometimes I go against it because I'm like, well, whatever,
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: this person is fun, which isn't really isn't fair. That
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: isn't fair. So I mean my point of view, I
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: think it's just if they're not your person forever, you
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: gotta let him go. I don't think you should be
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  Speaker 1: hooking up for them for fun. But but also, like
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  Speaker 1: you know, there's something that we said to about just
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  Speaker 1: like dating to date, I mean, I mean have fun.
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  Speaker 1: I think this is how we sell up all of this.
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  Speaker 1: And then I think Beca said at that, what a
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  Speaker 1: crazy podcast. This is what we get for having the
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  Speaker 1: off season is bounced all around. Um. But when it
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  Speaker 1: comes to this and this is how we like to
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  Speaker 1: some of these podcasts because there is some real advice
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  Speaker 1: here that everybody has given. Communication is key. Start talking
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  Speaker 1: this through. If you're struggling in relationships, or you're struggling
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  Speaker 1: with a breakup, or if you're struggling in life in general,
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  Speaker 1: talk to somebody, Communicate with somebody, find a trusted friend,
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  Speaker 1: find a confident on some level. Go to counseling. I've
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  Speaker 1: been to counseling. We need counseling. More counselors the better. Um,
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  Speaker 1: but talk to somebody like this. It's totally okay. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like to go up to your partner and say
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  Speaker 1: I am struggling with this. I am frustrated with it either.
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  Speaker 1: And if they're not willing to look at you and say, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I either want to live with you through this, walk
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  Speaker 1: with you through this, love you through this whatever. If
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  Speaker 1: they're willing to say no, sorry, like you can't be
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  Speaker 1: struggling with anything like that's not a part you need, partner,
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  Speaker 1: any of us need anyway. So just talk it through
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  Speaker 1: with your partners. Communicate. It's important, just like we communicated
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  Speaker 1: to day. We talked about a lot of things. It
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  Speaker 1: was very good. Thank you guys for coming into this podcast.
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  Speaker 1: You're you're hilarious as always. I want to see you.
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  Speaker 1: I think you're just gonna explode in this life, uh
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  Speaker 1: if you're listening to this and getting into your sleep
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  Speaker 1: that's a sheet, that's what she said, and the other
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  Speaker 1: one likes it solved, she didn't say that, then you
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  Speaker 1: can set your bed to those types. Ben, you should
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  Speaker 1: probably take over. What is your sleep number? I always forget? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: actually my sleep number is eighty one. Should just right there.
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  Speaker 1: I like it pretty hard. Did you know decluttering your
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  Speaker 1: It's disgusting and the perfect oil sticks. Yeah that's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's they keep their mattresses too long. Keep the mattresses,
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  Speaker 1: that's true, way too long. And there's amazing mattresses out there.
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  Speaker 1: as I mentioned, and Astley, I say, yours will probably
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  Speaker 1: you like it more soft and out of ten couples
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  Speaker 1: what do we tell him? Because I'm about to go
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  Speaker 1: So what do I do when I go to the store.
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  Speaker 1: What do I tell him that Benn and Ashley sent
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