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'Superman' texted our friend Miranda back after GHOSTING! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Jadge ninety four nine.
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  Speaker 2: Finally, the updates that we've been waiting for. Welcome back
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  Speaker 2: to Scotty and Abbey Unfiltered. We have been talking about
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  Speaker 2: the saga of if you remember Superman a couple episodes ago.
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  Speaker 2: So back in studio of course. Welcome Miranda.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yea, so glad to be back.
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  Speaker 3: Quick recap on Miranda.
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  Speaker 4: Miranda's our friend and she is twenty two, fresh young,
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  Speaker 4: on the dating scene for the first time in a
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  Speaker 4: couple of years. Just got out of a long term
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  Speaker 4: relationship and she met this guy a couple of weeks back.
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  Speaker 4: Things were going really well, and then he asked her
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  Speaker 4: out to go on a date, and y'all didn't go
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  Speaker 4: out for some reason because he had to go out
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  Speaker 4: of town. And while he was out of town, you
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  Speaker 4: felt like he was ghosting you because he didn't respond
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  Speaker 4: for a couple of hours, and so you sent him
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  Speaker 4: fifty eight text messages trying to get his attention.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, super casual.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, yeah, we want to do the bare minimum run,
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  Speaker 2: So fifty eight casual, low key messages obviously, so.
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  Speaker 4: You blow up his phone. It was kind of funny.
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  Speaker 4: She wasn't like threatening him. You were sending him some
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  Speaker 4: funny things, being basically trying to get him to respond.
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  Speaker 1: You're just a girl. I felt like they were full
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  Speaker 1: of love.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I thought when you read him out loud, and
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  Speaker 2: if you are just hearing this episode and you're like,
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  Speaker 2: what were the messages, go back to the first episode
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  Speaker 2: with Miranda, so you could hear the messages because they.
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  Speaker 1: Were fun, they were flirty, they're playful.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, ollo sassy, very sassy, very fun, very on brand
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  Speaker 4: from Miranda. And so we thought, Okay, that's the end
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  Speaker 4: of Superman, because no man is going to respond to
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  Speaker 4: a girl.
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  Speaker 3: Who blows up his phone with fifty eight text messages.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I've defied the odds.
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  Speaker 3: You have defied the odds. You want the exception?
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  Speaker 1: You know that movie?
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen? He's just not that Indio And they.
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  Speaker 4: Always talk about there there's the rule, like, if you're
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  Speaker 4: going to text a guy fifty eight times, that guy's
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  Speaker 4: not texting you back. That's the rule. Nobody's the exception,
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  Speaker 4: but Miranda's.
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  Speaker 1: The exception, because watch that movie.
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  Speaker 4: Superman really is just that Indio. So that's where we
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  Speaker 4: left off. Where do we go from here?
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So we filmed that episode last Tuesday. I had sent
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  Speaker 5: those long texts Saturday night, and so of course my
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  Speaker 5: friends tuned in because they.
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  Speaker 1: Just think this story is hilarious.
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  Speaker 5: And they were like, there's no way you're going on
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  Speaker 5: a podcast talk about it.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I have no shame for you. So
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  Speaker 1: they loved it.
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  Speaker 5: And my friend who was texting him off the fake number,
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  Speaker 5: was like, I'm gonna send it to him on the
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  Speaker 5: fake number.
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  Speaker 1: He has to hear it. That is so like in
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  Speaker 1: my head I heard it.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, that's unhinged in the greatest way, Like
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  Speaker 2: for entertainment value.
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  Speaker 1: Love that.
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  Speaker 3: That's a detail we didn't mention.
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  Speaker 4: Is one of your friends texted Superman off of a
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  Speaker 4: fake number and said.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I stole this girl's phone last night. I think
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  Speaker 3: I messed up something really good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so she used that same number to then text
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  Speaker 4: him the podcast where you told this whole story.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, she was like, I guess I did really mess
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  Speaker 5: up something good. So then on Wednesday, I just had
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  Speaker 5: this intuition. I was like, is alive He's well, why
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  Speaker 5: have I not heard from him? So I'm just giving
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  Speaker 5: him a ring, you know, I just pick up the phone.
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  Speaker 5: I give him a ring. Mostly I wanted him to
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  Speaker 5: come on.
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  Speaker 1: And tell his side of the story. Right.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, Miranda's a journalist.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a journalist.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, I have to get both sides.
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  Speaker 1: So you called him on Wednesday?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, just picked up the phone in regular called okay, Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 5: And so I'm like obviously not expecting him to just
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  Speaker 5: pick up and be like, hey, what's up.
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  Speaker 6: So I call. I let it ring a few times.
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  Speaker 5: I was also testing to see if I got blocked,
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  Speaker 5: because I looked it up. Now the text will deliver
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  Speaker 5: if you're blocked, but the phone won't ring if you're
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  Speaker 5: blocked now with like the new update, So I was
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  Speaker 5: also investigating.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad we're learning so much here. Yeah, so it rang.
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  Speaker 5: I let it ring like five times to make sure
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  Speaker 5: I wasn't blocked. Then I was like hung up. And
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  Speaker 5: then right after I call, he texts me, can't call
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  Speaker 5: right now, give me a minute and I'll text you
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  Speaker 5: like as if nothing ever happened, as if we're just
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  Speaker 5: we call every night and this is normal, and like
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  Speaker 5: we're doing our daily check in.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, what is going on?
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  Speaker 2: So this is the first time he has reached this
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  Speaker 2: yes since fifty eight texts yes.
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  Speaker 5: Like if not, so, then I'm thinking did his phone
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  Speaker 5: get stolen? Like did he even see these texts? Like
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  Speaker 5: maybe I'm okay.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I'm okay.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe he didn't see one through fifty seven. Maybe you
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  Speaker 4: only saw like the last two minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Listen to the podcast that you also sends him in
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  Speaker 2: that sixty messages since the moment.
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  Speaker 5: So I say, okay, dot dot dot is everything okay?
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  Speaker 6: Because why are we acting like everything is okay?
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  Speaker 4: I love how you texted him fifty eight times and
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  Speaker 4: he responds back finally, and you're.
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  Speaker 3: Like, are you good?
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  Speaker 4: Like, what the hell? J don't respond to me? I'm
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  Speaker 4: clearly insane.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, So then he goes, yes, sorry, I wasn't super responsive.
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  Speaker 1: Not not super responsive.
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  Speaker 3: You weren't responsive at what we call unresponsible.
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  Speaker 5: I had a bunch of she was the past couple
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  Speaker 5: of days, you blowing up my phone when I was
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  Speaker 5: with my family, and your friend texting me to be
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  Speaker 5: a pretending to be a phone thief. We're definitely interesting
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  Speaker 5: to come back to, to say the least, but I
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  Speaker 5: was somewhat endeared.
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  Speaker 2: Ah.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, there's something about the crazy that I.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoyed, and I kind of like you crazy, and that's
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  Speaker 1: a song.
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  Speaker 3: Do I like a little crazy in a lady a
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  Speaker 3: little bit?
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  Speaker 2: But there's definitely a balance, like there's a line you
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  Speaker 2: are on the line.
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  Speaker 3: As you were Scotti.
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  Speaker 4: Has your girlfriend exhibited exhibited any crazy that you find
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  Speaker 4: in de Green?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like fun little bits like if we go out
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  Speaker 2: and get a little wine drunk, like even this past
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  Speaker 2: weekend where it's like she becomes this little like gremlin
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  Speaker 2: at the night where like I'm like, like, sit down,
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  Speaker 2: we're gonna have a popcorn, Like we're gonna sit She's.
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  Speaker 1: Like no, I'm gonna go get anotherish neck f in
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  Speaker 1: the fridge and like she'll run away and I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 1: come on back. She's like, no, we gotta go.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like no, no, no, no, I gotta keep my blinders
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  Speaker 2: on to make sure that we stay on track here.
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  Speaker 2: So I like that kind of thing because I like
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  Speaker 2: when in my head, I'm like your partner or should
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  Speaker 2: just be free and flowy, like as Mirandi should just
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  Speaker 2: be free and flowy, and a guy should be able
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  Speaker 2: to come along and be like, oh I understand this crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I could deal with it. And I also can help
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  Speaker 1: guide you.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know that these texts are free and floey.
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  Speaker 3: You're like a nerf gun.
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  Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean if I would have gotten these
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  Speaker 2: texts in the beginning of my relationship, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: how I would have responded. Sixty messages in. I would
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  Speaker 2: have thought this is too crazy. I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: I could wheel this the real this one in.
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  Speaker 3: They're also youthful, you know, we're old and crusty.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been around the block. I'm now thirty. Miranda
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  Speaker 2: about to be thirty.
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  Speaker 1: Oh her eyes just got so big when I said that.
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  Speaker 2: That's rude. You're be in this same position very soon.
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  Speaker 2: You just wait enjoy your twenties.
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  Speaker 1: I definitely am.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, head, so he responds. He says he's endeared by Yes.
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  Speaker 5: And my friend, my roommate's sitting with me because we
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  Speaker 5: were not expecting this. We're like freaking out. He's like,
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  Speaker 5: this might be the one for you if he's endeared.
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  Speaker 1: Oh boy, that's a heck of a statement.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, you have to find the person that
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  Speaker 4: likes your specific brand of crazy because everybody's But does
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  Speaker 4: he like you're crazy?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's part of it.
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  Speaker 5: So I just said, I completely understand. I'm so sorry
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  Speaker 5: for spamming you. My deaf took it too far. I
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  Speaker 5: honestly just thought we were never talking again, and then
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  Speaker 5: we just made a huge joke with our friends.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm glad you found it endearing.
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  Speaker 5: Then I said, I just am dying to know if
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  Speaker 5: I'm getting ghosted. Now, if you got Jim, and if
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  Speaker 5: you listen to the podcast, because I'm an investigator, like,
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  Speaker 5: I'm just trying to get the interview questions flowing. So
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  Speaker 5: all he responds with are ten photos of Jim and
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  Speaker 5: he's really cute.
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  Speaker 1: He did get the doll showed over here. I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: he he's really cute. I got like ten photos. I
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  Speaker 1: like this one. He's my favorite.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and then he said, hold on, I'm letting him out.
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  Speaker 5: I said, I really like him dot dot dot. What
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  Speaker 5: about my other questions.
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  Speaker 1: Which are keeping his ass to the fire right now.
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  Speaker 5: Right, But I'm like, I have him on the phone,
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  Speaker 5: gotta get the answers because we made this might be
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  Speaker 5: it and it was it?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my wise, Yeah, well wait wait wait I thought
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  Speaker 1: you said it wasn't it was.
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  Speaker 6: Well, this conversation is our last conversation.
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  Speaker 3: So how does it end?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So he answers my other questions. He says, you're
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  Speaker 5: you're not getting ghosted. I def didn't love you blowing
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  Speaker 5: me up when I was visiting my family. I just
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  Speaker 5: thought it was a little much considering where we are,
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  Speaker 5: and obviously you know what's going on with my family,
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  Speaker 5: so it was weird. Explain to them why you were
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  Speaker 5: calling and texting me despite me saying I don't have
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  Speaker 5: a girlfriend. But that's like very small in the grand
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  Speaker 5: scheme of things. Oh, okay, what are the grand scheme
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  Speaker 5: of things?
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  Speaker 1: Are we getting married? Like, congratulations top? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: And this grand scheme of your future seventy year relationship?
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  Speaker 4: This really isn't that bad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, way crazier things you do.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And then he said that was part of the
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  Speaker 5: reason I wasn't texting back. But also I wasn't really
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  Speaker 5: on my phone either. Kind of had an unreal thing,
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  Speaker 5: but I kind of had, like not necessarily a health scare,
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  Speaker 5: but like in a way a health scare of my own,
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  Speaker 5: and wasn't really on my phone or answering anyone. I
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  Speaker 5: just came back to Tampa today and so in a
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  Speaker 5: lot of pain, but like I saw the messages when
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  Speaker 5: they were coming through and stuff, but just wasn't going
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  Speaker 5: to deal with that at the time. And then Jin
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  Speaker 5: Jim came into the picture, so there was a lot
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  Speaker 5: going on.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I mean he's being extremely open and honest, like,
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  Speaker 2: and yeah, I'm sure he's gonna listen to this episode two.
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  Speaker 6: We're definitely gonna send it to him.
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  Speaker 1: Oh of course, yeah, because that's the same thing to do.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what if you could say one thing to Superman
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  Speaker 3: right now about the Grand Scheme of Things?
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  Speaker 1: What would you tell there are no Grand Scheme of things? Well,
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  Speaker 1: so done with Superman.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but this is the Grand We're sitting in the
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  Speaker 4: Grand Scheme right now.
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  Speaker 1: We are in the Scheme's pod.
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  Speaker 4: The scheme could be over, but we're currently sitting in
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  Speaker 4: the Grand Scheme of Things. Yeah, so, what's your message
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  Speaker 4: for Superman after all that you guys have been through
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  Speaker 4: in the last week.
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  Speaker 1: Well so this life.
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  Speaker 5: So the next text that I send him is kind
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  Speaker 5: of my message to him, and I think he received it,
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  Speaker 5: and that is why I'm now the block.
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  Speaker 4: Wait a second, Okay, no, what did you First of all,
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  Speaker 4: what's going through your head?
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  Speaker 3: Like after he sends you all of those things. Where
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  Speaker 3: are you sitting with that?
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  Speaker 1: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: So I'm like, okay, that's nice, Like I get it.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, maybe.
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  Speaker 5: There is still a chance that's with Superman. So I
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  Speaker 5: respond like normal to that, just like I'm so sorry
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  Speaker 5: to hear about your health scare, Like I loved him.
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  Speaker 5: He looks really cute, like a normal text. So I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: so that's Wednesday night, just normal.
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  Speaker 1: Don't need to read it. It's like normal being normal
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  Speaker 1: for once. Growth. Yeah. Growth.
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  Speaker 5: So then dad, my dad listens to this the past
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  Speaker 5: episode and he calls me and he's like, Miranza, like.
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  Speaker 1: That guy is weird and like a second and.
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  Speaker 5: He could have texted you one time. And my dad
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  Speaker 5: was like, if he has a time to go adopt
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  Speaker 5: a dog, he can't send you one text.
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  Speaker 4: Well, but you said he adopted the dog on Sunday
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  Speaker 4: and you texted him Saturday. Yeah, so I was under
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  Speaker 4: the impression he left Tampa to go visit his family
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  Speaker 4: that weekend. So he's with his family on Saturday, who
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  Speaker 4: knows what.
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  Speaker 1: He was doing.
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  Speaker 3: And then but he got the dog on the sun
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  Speaker 3: Dogs in But he came back on Sunday to get
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  Speaker 3: the doll.
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  Speaker 6: He said he got back on Wednesday.
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  Speaker 2: See, even if he got that, the how I see
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  Speaker 2: it as the guy brain here, I'm like, this man
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  Speaker 2: sounds like he was just overwhelmed with life. And if
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  Speaker 2: you put fifty eight messages on his phone, like how
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  Speaker 2: many times, because we're all guilty of this, if my
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  Speaker 2: red dot gets too big, like I don't even open
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  Speaker 2: my phone at all, I'm like, all right, this is
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  Speaker 2: too much.
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  Speaker 1: I will get to it when I have time.
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  Speaker 2: This man's like, I got family stuff, I got hell stuff, and.
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  Speaker 1: I got a dog.
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  Speaker 2: I will get to this fifty eight messages plus the
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  Speaker 2: podcast I gotta listen to now these bozos, I will
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  Speaker 2: get to that when I have time. That's how I
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  Speaker 2: look at it, Yeah, because that's why I'm giving this
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  Speaker 2: guy grace. So I'm like, whoo, where do I pick up?
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  Speaker 2: And if he's not in the right frame of mind,
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  Speaker 2: he probably didn't look at it as fun and flirty.
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  Speaker 2: He's probably like, holy crap, I just met this girl
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  Speaker 2: and she's blowing me up.
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  Speaker 3: But to be fair, I think before you sent the
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  Speaker 3: fifty eight messages, you had like one or two that
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  Speaker 3: was sort of like, hey, like temperature checking. He should
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  Speaker 3: have responded to those yeah.
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  Speaker 4: In my opinion, so that's where all that's where I'll
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  Speaker 4: give I'll take your side, yeah, because in my.
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  Speaker 5: Head it takes like five seconds correct.
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  Speaker 2: And I love those videos I see online where it's like, guys,
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  Speaker 2: it's as easy as hey babe, I'm a little bit
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  Speaker 2: busy right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'll get to you when I can. Obviously the hey babe.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he should have said that, but the other context,
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  Speaker 3: So even though I think he should have responded, we
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  Speaker 3: also don't know what he was doing, because we also
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  Speaker 3: knew it was a serious situation that he was leaving tampafore,
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  Speaker 3: so he could have been in the middle of something
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  Speaker 3: like I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I totally understand that.
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  Speaker 5: But I just feel like my dad like opened my eyes,
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  Speaker 5: like I don't want to be dealing with someone like that.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, you definitely don't. Like you do want somebody
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  Speaker 2: that is going to take the time that says, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: oh yeah, I'm busy as hell right now, and I
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  Speaker 2: really it's so funny that you're hitting me up.
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  Speaker 1: I will get to you when I can.
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  Speaker 2: But just the easier mind like as like what I
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  Speaker 2: want to do for my girlfriend is I always want
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  Speaker 2: to ease her, right, anxious thoughts like that's my role
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  Speaker 2: as the partner.
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  Speaker 1: You might be thinking this. I'm going to actually go
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  Speaker 1: ahead and.
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  Speaker 2: Before we get to that problem, go ahead and let
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  Speaker 2: you know what's going on, so you don't even have.
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  Speaker 1: Those anxious thoughts.
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  Speaker 2: That's just somebody stepping in and saying, hey, a little busy,
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  Speaker 2: I will talk to you.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And he knew I was on a girl's weekend,
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  Speaker 5: so he knew I was occupied, busy having fun. So
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  Speaker 5: I feel like he could have just sent one text
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  Speaker 5: like have fun, like I'm a little busy. We can
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  Speaker 5: talk tomorrow or Monday or you know anything. I don't
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  Speaker 5: disagree with that, literally anything. So then I was like,
• 13:18
  Speaker 5: you know what, DoD, You're right.
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  Speaker 1: That's actually good Pop a point.
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  Speaker 5: And DoD, DoD, I mean, he already doesn't have Dad's blessing, Like,
• 13:27
  Speaker 5: this isn't gonna work.
• 13:28
  Speaker 4: Yes, how in the grand scheme of things, is he
• 13:30
  Speaker 4: going to ask permission to marry you?
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Dad's gonna say no.
• 13:33
  Speaker 4: Dad's gonna be like do you remember the whole the
• 13:36
  Speaker 4: whole text debacle when you got Jim no, you can't
• 13:39
  Speaker 4: marry my daughter.
• 13:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah, So I text him Thursday night. I didn't hear
• 13:46
  Speaker 5: back from him. After a conversation Wednesday, I said, you know,
• 13:50
  Speaker 5: after thinking it further, I don't really feel bad about anything,
• 13:54
  Speaker 5: because I mean, you could have just sent one text.
• 13:57
  Speaker 5: I totally get you were going through a lot, but
• 13:58
  Speaker 5: you had the time to adopt a dog and not
• 14:00
  Speaker 5: text me once, like question mark.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know. This part's a little bit mean. Go ahead,
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 14:07
  Speaker 6: This might be why you're twenty five in single.
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: Oh damn, Miranda, Miranda, Well.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: You want to hurt me, I'm gonna stab you back.
• 14:19
  Speaker 5: Well, the thing was that he had always told me
• 14:22
  Speaker 5: he wanted like a serious girlfriend because all of his
• 14:24
  Speaker 5: friends were getting married and stuff, and he felt left out.
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: So I hit a pain point.
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: You d gosh, Miranda, It's totally.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: Okay to be twenty five and single. He's going through
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: a lot.
• 14:36
  Speaker 5: I know, I know, and I feel really bad, but
• 14:39
  Speaker 5: I probably won't be twenty five and single.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: It's okay he should be.
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: That's like objectively very young.
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: That's funny. That's twenty five is old for something.
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, because I'm sitting here twenty
• 14:52
  Speaker 4: nineteen single. I'm like Wow, Miranda thinks I'm chopped. She's like,
• 14:56
  Speaker 4: not only are you chopped, you're also unk.
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 14:59
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 15:00
  Speaker 6: I'm so sorry, Superman. I'm really sorry.
• 15:02
  Speaker 5: I just hurt and I feel like I'm just hurt
• 15:04
  Speaker 5: and I shouldn't have tacking down on you like that.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, continuing the text, there's more. Yeah.
• 15:12
  Speaker 5: I don't know this, Nipe you why you're twenty five
• 15:14
  Speaker 5: in single, But I don't want to even try to
• 15:16
  Speaker 5: pursue something with someone who cannot communicate. I just feel like,
• 15:19
  Speaker 5: if you do have an interest in someone, you'll make
• 15:21
  Speaker 5: an effort not not text them for five days.
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: Lol.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: That's a valid point at the end if he actually,
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: I mean, he probably did like you. But just again,
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: if you like somebody like you have to put an
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: effort not just in the beginning, but the middle and
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: all the.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: Way through the area.
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I do think communication style is important, So
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: even though I think this was a very like hyperbolic example, like,
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: if you're somebody who really likes to communicate consistently and
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: frequently in overtext, you have to find someone who matches
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: that textual love language, whereas he needs to find someone
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: who who prefers a different style of communication. Like for me,
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: I'm I think I have a little bit of empathy
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: for him in the sense of, like I don't text
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: a lot, so I'm like, do probably put his phone away.
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: But you have to find someone who's also compatible with
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: you in that capacity, yeah, or find some way to
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: bridge the gap after you know you've gotten to the
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: first dage. Yeah, this is this is all over someone
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: you never even dated.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: That's the best part.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Like, and you're like, what the Superman you haven't even
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: texted me?
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: Bed We talked one time at the bar. You can't
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: call me savage. He caught me at a vulnerable time. Well,
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: you know what, I think you caught him at a
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: vulnerable time as well.
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: We'll find you another superhero.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: We'll find you. I have a new superhero.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: We need a green Goblin for you.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: What who is this? Who's god? Damn? Two minutes you
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: got another one.
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: Miranda's got host because remember we finished out the Superman
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: thing and she's like, oh, I'm also texting like seven
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: dudes right now, and I'm like, She's like, I.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Got my roster. We went, yeah, lobster, all the things.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: We went to Fresh Kitchen. Was it last Friday. When
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: did we go to Fresh Kitchen?
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Friday, Friday.
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: And then she was just going through a phone. She's like,
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: I'm talking to this guy and this guy and this guy.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: So what's the update. It's amazing.
• 17:00
  Speaker 6: Okay, Well just to finish off this soup. Yeah, we
• 17:03
  Speaker 6: need to find him a new name. I haven't picked
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: one out.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I did ask him.
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: What do you want your name to be? Because he
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: listened to the other episode, like this is the new guy? Yes,
• 17:10
  Speaker 5: okay guy, how do you know the new guy?
• 17:12
  Speaker 6: Okay, so the new guy?
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: I know him from high school.
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: We briefly talked the end of high school, the end
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: of our senior year, but then he went to a different.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: College than me.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: Is this the one that you told me about?
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 17:25
  Speaker 5: Okay that your mom loves yes mom? Oh wow, Like yeah, mom,
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: he knows that mom loves him. Like even mom would
• 17:33
  Speaker 5: ask me about him low key when I had a boyfriend,
• 17:36
  Speaker 5: not but not like she wanted like she loved my
• 17:39
  Speaker 5: ex boyfriend. She loved my ex boyfriend, but she just
• 17:42
  Speaker 5: really liked this guy too.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: So she was just like, are you guys still friends?
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: Like do you catch up?
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: Like what is he up to?
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: And sometimes I would see him, not like on purpose,
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: but just like out in Tampa while I had a
• 17:52
  Speaker 5: boyfriend and I would always tell her and she was like, oh,
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: I hope he's doing well, so all love, all love there.
• 17:56
  Speaker 5: She loved my ex boyfriend as well, So that's fantas.
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, superhero best describes new guy. Then I don't know
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: what are his characterists?
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Many options, I'll put it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 5: In chat shoobyt Okay, he's I don't want to do characteristics.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Well, like is he funny?
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: Is he nice?
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Athletic? Is he tall? Is he strong? Is he smart?
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: Is he straight?
• 18:22
  Speaker 6: Okay, he's tall?
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: Okay, Wow, I would say like athletic, like he works
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: out a lot.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I feel like by.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: So we're really narrowing it down.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Ta.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: Superheroes are live in Tampa.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: He lives in should I say where? It's fine?
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: Well, not like his street a dress. He lives out
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: of state, but a city that I really like to visit.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: What if we call him?
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: What's one that is there one that has like a
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: similar vibe to that state?
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: Like there is there a like a superhero with a lasso?
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Is that the state?
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: Definitely a lasso state? But who has maybe the maybe
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: the flash.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know superheroes. Superheroes.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: You know who uses a lasso?
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: His wonder Woman, wonder.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: What if we just called him wonder Man, wonderful wonder Man.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, wonderful wonder Man. So you're talking to wonder Man.
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah I am, okay.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: So what do you like about wonder Man?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I like that reaction. That's a good reaction. You should
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: have that good reaction that.
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: I hate, Like even in my last relationship, I just
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: hate when people ask me this, I am not really
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: like a PDA.
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: Person or like a this is not PDA I know,
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: but like, you're talking to this guy all the time.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: I'm assuming because we've learned literally got to be talking
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: to him.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Yes, of course, I require a lot of attention.
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: You are a very quick texture backer Like I'm always
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: like she just I'm like, she's driving right now.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: She's like, I don't give a Yeah. We like FaceTime
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: a lot. Okay, that's good, did you Okay?
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Because I was gonna recommend for your next person that
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: you talk to now it's wonder Man.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: You need to communicate that.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: That's how you like to communicate, because if us guys
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: don't know we'll just again like I go hours and
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: hours without texting back my girlfriend. Yeah, and she does
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: the same. But we learned that about each other. We
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: literally said, I don't need that much throughout the day.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: We're busy. But if he doesn't know that, he's gonna
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: be like, oh, I could go golf and that's gonna
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: be four hours and you're gonna be like he died.
• 20:29
  Speaker 6: I'm calling the police to do a welfare talk.
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah no, he knows, okay, because we I guess we
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: almost stated in high school, but it was just because
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: of the timing before college, like right before college.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: So he's the one that got away.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Maybe you always.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: Wondered about him, if.
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: Wonder man.
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, So he's coming to Tampa for two weeks.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Sorry you no, not, you.
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: Know that's the reason, not just to see well, he said,
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: as a work is giving him like two weeks remote.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I'm confused. And so he picked Tampa.
• 21:07
  Speaker 6: Well, he's his mom lives in Tampa.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: He's coming to see you.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Oh boy, that's cool. When is that? How long do
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: we have to He.
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: Hasn't booked his flight yet, but he's gonna probably come
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: this Saturday or Sunday.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes, we gotta get ready the house.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know, do something.
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: We have our first date scheduled next Monday.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: You actually have a date schedule. That's sweet. Did he
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: set it up?
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm already a fan of wonder Man.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: Are where is he taking you?
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know yet?
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: Okay, but he better somewhere good. Where do you want
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: to say?
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: You?
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: Do?
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: You want to drop some hints while he listens to
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: this podcast?
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: What's your vibe? What would be your vibe for a
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: first date?
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: Well, we're going on a Monday after work, so super
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: chill vibes, like a drink and dinner.
• 21:51
  Speaker 6: Yeah, dinner and drinks.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know. What do you guys recommend?
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: I feel like I always go to the same restaurants,
• 21:56
  Speaker 5: definitely in Tampa though.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: His job, because that dictates a lot on where you go.
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: I've had a lot of good success with Hyde Park recently.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: I maybe for Beachie, Yeah, I think for Beachi's probably
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: a good spot. That's kind of cliche, but it's cliche
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: for a reason, like that's cliche because it's good. And
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: then I somebody asked me out on a first day
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: to four Beachi and it was like two crowded. So
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: if it's too crowded, we went to I think we
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: went to Boozy afterwards. That was kind, that was like
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: the right amount of crowded. But it was also a Friday.
• 22:25
  Speaker 4: I feel like on Monday, Boozy won't be crowded. So
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: if for Beachi doesn't work, maybe try Timpano. Also, the
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: bar at Row always looks fun like when it's nice out.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: I also like the meat market happy hour.
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: That's where I went on Friday, right before I saw you,
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: I tell you, that's where I was.
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, we have to go. It's so fun.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: It's so good.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: That sounds like it would be a perfect spot if
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: you just have a casual drink and it's nice. So
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: the people watching is.
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe a drink and then dinner at for Beachie
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: wonder man, you can do better than.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: For Beachi for dinner. They can take you to like Bartaco,
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: put your name.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I feel like for b Beki's nicer than Bartaco.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: You think so yeah, because you have.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: To order on the little things at bar talk. I
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: don't like that.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: Oh I just for Beachy to me is like Olive Garden,
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: but it's all of a vibe Damn.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I think for me, he's really nice.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: I actually think I might like Olive Garden.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: He's definitely nicer than Alive Garden.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: But yeah, and then wonder man, we were talking about
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: me coming to visit him quick.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Let him take you out on a first dates. I
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: guess you do know him already.
• 23:33
  Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: I would never do that if I got a lot
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: of time has happened from the time that you guys,
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: actually really, I mean, did you talk all four years
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: of college?
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: We talked like, not like talk talks, just like friends. Yeah, yeah,
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: friends like up until I got my boyfriend. So like
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: the middle of sophomore year of college.
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: My personal opinion, and this is based off of experience,
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: if if you are going to fly to him, he needs.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: To for the ticket, pay for the ticket.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: That's what I keep saying under man less.
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: For something happens in between you and flying out to
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: Dallas where he becomes your boyfriend, then I think it
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: becomes fifty to fifty. But if you guys are just
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: dating and he wants you to come to Dallas and
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: you have no family in Dallas, he needs to pay
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: for that.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Ticket, even though he's going to pay for everything while
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I'm there.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Yes, I feel very strongly about.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: But we're also young. That's where it gets. What does
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: he do?
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: What's his job? Does he make good money?
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: He makes good money? Yeah, then he's fine.
• 24:29
  Speaker 6: Okay, he's also analyst.
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he's fine. The play ticket's going to be
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: like two or three hundred dollars.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: That's fine, But that's I mean again, if you are
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: signing up, because does he have any plans on moving
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: back to Tampa or are you moving away?
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: This is thinking way down the line.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: So anyway, are you moving to California or this man?
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Consider like because if you put your I remember talking
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: to another friend in this building and they started talking
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: to somebody that's very far away, and it's like, you
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: have to know what you're signing up for because if
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: you fall for this person, well, it's going to be
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: distance is hard, extremely hard.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: To think of the sky miles are going to get though.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: That's valid, and it's not that far of a flight.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: It's just now it's more of an investment with money
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: and time, and if you can handle the distance Miss
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: fifty eight texts, it could be a little taxiing on
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: a relationship.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what you're signing up for.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: If let's just say you do become like a boyfriend
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: girlfriend situation.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: That's a good point. Do you think distance is something
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: you could handle?
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I had I think.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: This might be more of a loaded question. No, it's okay.
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: So the reason that, part of the reason I ended
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: my last relationship was because of distance, which is the
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: ironic part of it all.
• 25:38
  Speaker 4: But also I think you guys had been together long
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: enough that maybe things had run their core.
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, there was a lot of other things.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Distance just brings it to life, like maybe career.
• 25:51
  Speaker 6: Things as well, kind of stuff like that.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, nothing, Yeah, but no, I definitely brought
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: that up to wonder Man.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: And I'm I.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Don't know, somebody's probably listening to this podcast right now,
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Like Scott, that's a stupid question.
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: No, I'm willing like the places that he does want
• 26:13
  Speaker 5: to like move to eventually, like I do want to
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: move So where does.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: He want to move to?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: New York?
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: And like, my best friend lives in New York and
• 26:20
  Speaker 5: I have like family in New York.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: I would off live in New York. Oh there you go. Okay,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: So as long as you guys could at least again.
• 26:27
  Speaker 6: But that's really far into the future.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: So let's get to the first date right like that.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: Dammit, I got when you guys get married, what venue
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: you have kids? Like?
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I said, when do you want to be married by?
• 26:41
  Speaker 5: He said, he said thirty? I said, no, twenty five.
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: He said, okay, twenty five.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: Wait you asked this to wonder man. Yeah, you already did. Yeah,
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: and he just listens and agrees.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I love it. That's what I mean. That's a guy.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: I love this. Yeah, just go with this. So this
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: is your news. This is your new boo.
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: This is your your crush that you text, the person
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: that you get all giddy about, you think about before
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: you go to bed.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: This is your dude.
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: Sure, okay, yeah, it's like your pre boyfriend. There needs
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: to be something like between crush and boyfriend. Like you,
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: he's more than a crush, but he's not your boyfriend yet.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah. There should be like a talking stage. It's like
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I'm just talking.
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: Yeah, we're talking. We're closed off.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: We're closed off that well yeah, but are.
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: You closing No, we're not not not yet, not yet,
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: not yet.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Let's get you cannot be closed off before a first date.
• 27:28
  Speaker 5: Yea coupled, but like we are already we've already yeah
• 27:31
  Speaker 5: we're daft coupled up, but we've already.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: Like gone on dates like years. Like God, you're a
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: different person. Yeah, oh my god.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: I would assume based off of what goes down and
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: that four years of college you literally come out with
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: like a oh wait, I have a whole different look
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: on things. Yeah, that's good, that's what you're supposed to do.
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: But wonder Man's roommate is newly single, he's ready to mingle.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: Wait, so is he also an option?
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Ohaud I have them both?
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: Cardell mean, like god.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: That Miranda is the Challengers meme right now?
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: Like that, you've got wonder Man on the right, wonder
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: Man's sidekick on the left.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Barticle Boy on the left.
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: Like that, Yeah, maybe you should be like mermaid Man
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: and then his roommate Barnacle Boy.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: Wow, what a household and you're Sandy. Wow.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: How fun to be young and single? What a what
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: a time to know?
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: I'm so envious. This is what the pandemic stole from us, Scottie.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I mean, look, if it's a single friend, maybe that's
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: something I don't know.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Is that too young for you. You know how many, Babby,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: that's too man?
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, you know how many twenty two year
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: olds have hit on me in the last year. I
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: I never thought at twenty nine this is the dating
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: problem I would have, because as you get older as
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: a woman, every birthday it's like, oh god, my dating
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: pool just cut smaller again, which like one year by
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: one year, it's like whatever. But then all of a sudden,
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: five years passed and you realize, oh my god, twenty
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: two was a really long fucking time ago.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: A long ass time ago.
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: It doesn't feel like it, but I look back and
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: I go, oh my god, like that Snapchat filter that's
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: what I use. And it's like, it's crazy because I'm
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: getting so much positive male attention from guys who are
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: like twenty two, and it's it's so weird. It's not
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: what I thought i'd be experiencing at twenty nine. I
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: thought like I'd be at twenty nine and be like
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: men in their fifties being hey honey, which that's not
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: not happening, but like men my age don't want to
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: date me. It's like the oldies and the youngies.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: God, that's so tough. You could either be a sugar
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: mama or a sugar baby. I know you gotta pick
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: on one. Choose your character.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Everybody wants me to be their sugar mo mom, Like
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: I have no sugar.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, oh my gosh.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: Well that's fun though. So he has a roommate that
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: I mean at least could be a good friend.
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: Or what does he look like? Let me see, let's
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: not close off options.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: He's just a little young. He likes blondes with blue eyes.
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: Oh wowby in like a fetishy way, No, not a
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: fetish must.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: And like a World War two?
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: What does he look like?
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: He's fine looking. I don't think I follow well political
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: later we'll politically.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Well, this is the question that you said the other day, like,
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: if your friend won to date.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Him, then why would you even recommend him.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: That's how I feel, because I just set up my
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: friend with somebody that I'm like, I'm he's not my dude,
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: But I think like, if I wouldn't be friends with him,
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to set you up on a date
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: with them. If I wouldn't go on a first date
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: with him, I'm not going to make you go in
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: a first date with him.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Would this is you don't have to answer, what would
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: you go on a first date with the roommate?
• 30:34
  Speaker 6: I mean, I guess, but I don't want to make
• 30:36
  Speaker 6: my boyfriend mad.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: You know, it's just like I'm coupled up, Like yeah.
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: Like if my like if it's just like out s
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: take relations out of it. Yeah, he seems nice, he's cute,
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: like sure, he seems.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Like a gentleman. And have you ever met this man before?
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Just on FaceTime? Okay? But when I go.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: They we're going to meet in person?
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: Doesn't What are your rules on a first date.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Though, because I've had so many conversations like if he's
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: going to pick the place, obviously you want him to
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: set up everything? Yes, if you want him to like
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: obviously maybe like what pick you up? Or meet you there?
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: You guys gont uber there.
• 31:12
  Speaker 5: Since it's somebody that I know, I would feel comfortable
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: with him picking me up. But if it was like
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: someone that I didn't know, I'd rather meet there.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, understandable.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: And then you get there, do you want obviously him
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: to pick up the check everything?
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Of course? That's okay, that's like you say, of course,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: and I get that too. I am the same way.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, however, there are so many guys that you'll get
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: to that moment and they'll be like, all right, so,
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: uh ho are we splitting this up?
• 31:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: I've had several guys let me pay you for the
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: whole thing. No, like, we'll split it.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he split and get your side of it.
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: And then they asked me out again, and I'm like, dude, No,
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: I feel.
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: Like the only acceptable thing would be if we went
• 31:47
  Speaker 5: to dinner, I would want him to pay, and then
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: maybe if we got like drinks after, I would pay
• 31:53
  Speaker 5: for like the drinks, or if we got like ice
• 31:54
  Speaker 5: cream after, I would pay.
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: I think it was a nice gesture.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, or at least offer exact and then they should decline.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: If you would have talked to me about this four
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: years ago, I would have said, no, I think you
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: should split. But now that I'm like stall like, yes,
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: you should obviously offer, but then it should get kind
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: of like a wave off.
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: Girls have expensive things to pay for. I honestly, do
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: I have to get botox later today? No, that's very expensive.
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: If you want me to look twenty two at twenty
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: nine until the twenty two year old sitting on me,
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: then you had a pay for dinner, valid.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Dinner, drinks, the whole thing.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: So the date is a week from today based off
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know when we're gonna put this out, but
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: will we be able to get an update on that
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: date obviously?
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, Like I say, girl, you are stepping into territory.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I'm sure both Abby and myself we've had to as
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: people learn that, like stories get shared, sometimes people are
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: weird about it. So like anything that you see or
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: do or like whatever, you're comfortable with, but we're always
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: going to be here for the story of it.
• 32:50
  Speaker 6: You know, wonder Man is comfortable with it.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Oh maybe we love one.
• 32:54
  Speaker 5: Maybe he likes the spotlight on him.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: Oh now that makes me like him even more because look,
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: we're not going to throw your name out there in
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: your address, but yeah, story is very entertaining.
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: Shout out, wonder Man.
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: We love you, we're advocating for you, wonder Man.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: But take her somewhere nice.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and pay for the thing. Yeah. Now, I'm
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: going to tell everyone where he took me.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: So I think if you go anywhere and Hyde Park, dude,
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: you win there it is. That's a good spot.
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: Timpano row for Beachy.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: If want to meet market drink first meet market.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: Happy hour is so fantastic. So yeah, how cute? What
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: drink do you get to meet market?
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: The Leachy Martini who other people do love the lead love.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: We do love a Leachi Martini.
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: We'll have fun young.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: On the prow Oh to be so young and full
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: of us.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Gosh, it just makes me wish I could go back
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: to my twenties because I'm about to exit them.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: You're still in. I will tell you what.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: As I bought up this morning and I went to walk,
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: I was like, gosh, dang, there are things that you
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: have to do as you get older that I'm like,
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: it's now that time, Like I think I have to
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: join a yoga studio. Now it's literally on my mind
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: because I can't walk straight. Okay, I feel like I
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: got a tech neck. And don't be laughing over there,
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: your twenty two year old self.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: Wow, this is the sexy content people signed up for.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: People can relate to this, waking up all stiff, not
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: going ahead and tag team and roommates over there like Miranda.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Anyway,