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Non Physical Betrayal — What's Actually Destroying Your Marriage | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep451 · Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

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SPEAKER_00: Non-physical betrayal.
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SPEAKER_00: Sexless marriage.
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SPEAKER_00: The number one relationship hack.
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SPEAKER_00: Answer the question.
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SPEAKER_00: The impact that impacts trust.
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SPEAKER_00: Getting your partner on board.
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SPEAKER_00: Non-physical betrayal.
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SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Moral Marriage Podcast, guys, where we keep it real, raw, uncensored, and anointed.
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SPEAKER_00: And I'm going to tell you why I'm really throwing that normal catchphrase in today for this episode.
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SPEAKER_00: We are, as you know, we're we'll take the viral content, the stuff that goes millions and millions of views, and let's give you more, okay?
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SPEAKER_00: And why I'm really uh why I really want to go down this path with non-physical betrayal is because I'm gonna go really fucking deep here in because what you know with what we're doing with this podcast is that he always goes deep.
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SPEAKER_01: See, that's the kind of thing.
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SPEAKER_00: That's the kind of thing that she talked about in the last episode.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Um incognito.
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SPEAKER_00: I love it.
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SPEAKER_00: I love you.
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SPEAKER_00: Fucking love you.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay, why I want to go this way, you guys, is because you know we're creating what we call the new marriage on this podcast, okay?
0:58
SPEAKER_00: That doesn't mean you divorce your partner, that means you and your partner create your new marriage, okay?
1:04
SPEAKER_00: And we have a lot of ways that we think differently.
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SPEAKER_00: And the reason why we're so successful and going so viral and growing so fucking fast is because of the kinds of rules that we'll talk about today.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay.
1:16
SPEAKER_00: So we have physical betrayal.
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SPEAKER_00: Obviously, that's an issue, and obviously there are a lot of things non-biased that happen.
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SPEAKER_00: If he has the affair, if she has the affair, you made a lot of fucking mistakes because nobody is cheating on somebody who's fucking awesome.
1:29
SPEAKER_00: Unless that's characterological, unless it's a thing they do, they have a fucking problem.
1:33
SPEAKER_00: But even then, you can actually help them.
1:36
SPEAKER_00: You know, like we don't say we have addicts in our program, whether it's alcohol, porn, sex addiction, fucking work, whatever.
1:43
SPEAKER_00: We don't have addicts.
1:44
SPEAKER_00: You need to peel back some fucking layers, learn who the fuck you are, and figure out why the fucking how the fuck you cope, and then fucking move on.
1:51
SPEAKER_00: And if you love your partner, you can help them with all of these types of betrayal.
1:55
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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SPEAKER_00: But I'm gonna hurt some of you today because I'm gonna talk about some things that you probably won't think are betrayal.
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SPEAKER_00: Some you'll agree, and then I'm gonna go even deeper with it because I've never had this conversation with Catherine, but I think that'll be fun.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay, so it is fun.
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SPEAKER_01: You guys get to see us in aside view.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
2:12
SPEAKER_00: So let's talk.
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SPEAKER_00: I hope I argue.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay, so first things first, obviously, there is emotional affairs.
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SPEAKER_00: That could be um, you know, obviously conversation.
2:23
SPEAKER_00: You're you're having long dinners with uh the wrong of the opposite sex.
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SPEAKER_00: Um, you are looking for validation for your story, your side, your like verbal communication.
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SPEAKER_00: That could be sexting, that could be texting, that could be DMing on social media.
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SPEAKER_01: But talking to another woman about your wife, talking to another man about your husband in a negative way.
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SPEAKER_00: In a negative way or talking about your pain, okay?
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SPEAKER_01: Negative shoulder crayon.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's not acceptable.
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SPEAKER_00: Even on our app, go.moralmarge.com.
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SPEAKER_00: You can join.
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SPEAKER_00: There's communities for men, for women, they're free.
2:54
SPEAKER_00: We're separate.
2:56
SPEAKER_00: We're separate.
2:56
SPEAKER_00: You're out of your fucking mind if we're gonna put you together.
2:58
SPEAKER_00: Are you kidding me?
2:59
SPEAKER_00: Because women need to be focused on their marriages, men need to be focused on their marriages.
3:03
SPEAKER_00: We're not doing this validation bullshit.
3:05
SPEAKER_00: That's fucking betrayal.
3:07
SPEAKER_00: You guys have to stop.
3:08
SPEAKER_00: That can be your family member.
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SPEAKER_00: Don't get hooked into your family members, your lifelong friend.
3:13
SPEAKER_00: But I've known them since I was.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay, I I I had a guy talk to me recently, but I've known her since we were four years old.
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SPEAKER_00: I don't give a fuck.
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SPEAKER_00: You married her.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay?
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SPEAKER_00: Not the person you've known since you're four.
3:26
SPEAKER_00: You guys have to understand it's causing a riff and it's a form of betrayal.
3:31
SPEAKER_00: And that's why I said you're not gonna agree with everything I have to say.
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SPEAKER_00: But gas, I've known them since I was four, since kindergarten, since grades.
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SPEAKER_00: Shut up.
3:38
SPEAKER_01: I wonder how many people turn their volume down on their phone.
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SPEAKER_01: You can tell when he gets really passionate.
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SPEAKER_00: Oh gosh, it drives me mental.
3:45
SPEAKER_00: Because you guys don't, you're here because you want a solid marriage.
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SPEAKER_00: And if you're not, if you don't have the life that we have and you want our life, then don't do it your fucking way.
3:54
SPEAKER_00: Don't change one thing.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay?
3:56
SPEAKER_00: Because we put more boundaries in place to protect us than probably any other couple on the planet, at least that we know, you know, in in circles that we've met and people that we've met.
4:06
SPEAKER_00: Even professionals that we that we, yeah, to pre-even people we hire or admire.
4:10
SPEAKER_00: People we hired, yes.
4:10
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, actually, Andy Elliott's team is reaching out to me right now.
4:13
SPEAKER_00: That's super cool.
4:13
SPEAKER_00: I'm super, I don't even know what it said because Catherine came in from taking care of the chickens, and I'm like dying to know because he's talking about next steps and whatever.
4:20
SPEAKER_00: And like, anyways, so we're making it, guys.
4:23
SPEAKER_01: And Andy Elliott.
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SPEAKER_00: The reason why I'm excited is Andy Elliott's like a nine-figure earner, and he so above us, Andy Elliott has a beautiful wife and family marriage.
4:33
SPEAKER_00: It's all like he's he's and you know what?
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SPEAKER_00: He sent this his nine figures.
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SPEAKER_01: That's a hundred million dollars.
4:40
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, this is four more.
4:40
SPEAKER_00: And this wasn't Andy who sent me messages, it's one of his team members.
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SPEAKER_00: How beautiful.
4:44
SPEAKER_00: But he he wanted uh well, I just meant like beautiful wife, marriage, family.
4:47
SPEAKER_00: I guess I didn't I don't actually even know what she looks like.
4:49
SPEAKER_00: I know she's fit, but um she's brunette.
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SPEAKER_01: Um I'm just giving you shit.
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SPEAKER_01: So uh betrayal, you guys.
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SPEAKER_01: How dare you think she's beautiful.
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SPEAKER_00: I only know her because I watch Andy, and Andy's like me, and he showcases his trophy.
5:03
SPEAKER_00: Yes, I understand.
5:04
SPEAKER_00: But I want you to hear this part, please.
5:07
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
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SPEAKER_00: Okay, so his associate reached out to me and he said he's really sorry for the losses.
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SPEAKER_00: They're they have a prayer team, they're all praying for you right now.
5:15
SPEAKER_00: Really?
5:15
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
5:16
SPEAKER_00: And I don't even know how he knew that.
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SPEAKER_00: I don't even know how he knew.
5:18
SPEAKER_00: Obviously, he's following something on social media or whatever, and yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: I've had people reach out and say, hey, I just heard the podcast episodes, the throwbacks.
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SPEAKER_00: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: Say they reached out to our team.
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SPEAKER_01: Please let Catherine know.
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SPEAKER_01: I heard about the passing that came out on the podcast.
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SPEAKER_00: That's nice.
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SPEAKER_00: Well, I know he was looking at our social media, so maybe he because Andy wanted to know more about us.
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SPEAKER_00: So it's potentially they went and did the same thing, something like that.
5:39
SPEAKER_00: But, anyways, thank you very much if you're watching, if you're listening, Zach.
5:42
SPEAKER_00: That was a very thoughtful message, and I'll play it for my wife after this filming.
5:46
SPEAKER_00: Um, but anyways, where we're going, betrayal.
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SPEAKER_00: So, you guys, what you have to understand is this happens like with things like um you go to Starbucks.
5:54
SPEAKER_00: That's the that's the line I use all the time.
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SPEAKER_00: The chick at Starbucks, okay?
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SPEAKER_00: When you're talking to people you shouldn't, you just you you gotta stop.
6:02
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
6:02
SPEAKER_01: Now, point also, do you know the chick at Starbucks wants a tip from you for her, the coffee?
6:07
SPEAKER_00: Oh, I I I never even thought about the chick who wants a tip.
6:10
SPEAKER_00: I thought about like the person in lineup that you always bump into.
6:12
SPEAKER_00: You know?
6:13
SPEAKER_00: Because we've seen the case.
6:13
SPEAKER_01: I was thinking like the person making your coffee.
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SPEAKER_01: I could get the chick at Starbucks.
6:16
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, she's being nice to you because you're spending money.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
6:19
SPEAKER_00: I was actually thinking about like movies where like I run to the same girl like that.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah, she's not, she wants just the tip.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah, she just wants just the tip.
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SPEAKER_00: Stop it.
6:28
SPEAKER_00: She wants just the tip.
6:29
SPEAKER_00: That's a good one.
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SPEAKER_00: Um, all right, and so now I want to go further.
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SPEAKER_00: Porn.
6:34
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
6:34
SPEAKER_00: It's I had a client this week where um it was actually your client, and I said to her, Fuck man, he wants to be around the children.
6:41
SPEAKER_00: I heard him on your one-on-one call saying that today.
6:43
SPEAKER_00: He wants to be around the children.
6:44
SPEAKER_00: Motherfucker's looking at fucking chicks on Instagram.
6:47
SPEAKER_00: He's got a saved account.
6:48
SPEAKER_00: I looked at a screenshot that was sent to me, and I'm like, uh, that's not a role model for your daughters.
6:54
SPEAKER_00: I disagreed with her.
6:55
SPEAKER_00: I yeah, I agree.
6:56
SPEAKER_00: That's not a role model for your daughters.
6:58
SPEAKER_00: Like, they're separated.
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SPEAKER_00: Why would he want, why would she want to bring them around if that's what they might see on your fucking phone?
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SPEAKER_00: You know, that's betrayal, you guys.
7:06
SPEAKER_00: Right?
7:06
SPEAKER_00: And so if you can understand that staring at this shit, oh, my favorite example, man, we go out on a lot of dates, and you're hot.
7:14
SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
7:14
SPEAKER_00: You're like, look, look at her.
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SPEAKER_00: She's fucking smoking.
7:17
SPEAKER_00: I get it.
7:17
SPEAKER_00: I understand.
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SPEAKER_00: He thinks I'm hot.
7:19
SPEAKER_00: Thank you, baby.
7:20
SPEAKER_00: So does the world.
7:21
SPEAKER_00: Now, uh, you're welcome.
7:23
SPEAKER_00: But here's the thing I watch men elevator my wife right in front of me, okay?
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SPEAKER_00: Like, dude, but worse, right in front of their wife.
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SPEAKER_01: Like their own wife.
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SPEAKER_00: Their own wife is with them.
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SPEAKER_00: We're at the market, we're at the fucking whatever you call that place, uh where the music is and stuff.
7:41
SPEAKER_00: And like, like, yeah, and and like you're literally, your wife is there.
7:46
SPEAKER_00: My wife is hanging on me like she is right now, arm wrapped around, like that's how we walk.
7:51
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
7:52
SPEAKER_00: And they're not.
7:53
SPEAKER_00: Now I know why, because you're doing this in front of your wife, man.
7:57
SPEAKER_00: Like, have some fucking respect.
7:59
SPEAKER_00: Like, that's betrayal.
8:01
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
8:02
SPEAKER_00: Now I want to go.
8:03
SPEAKER_01: Whether she sees you doing it or not, it's betrayal.
8:05
SPEAKER_00: Yes, it is.
8:06
SPEAKER_01: If no one sees you, if a tree falls in the forest, does it make a sound?
8:08
SPEAKER_01: Yes, it does.
8:09
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yes, exactly.
8:10
SPEAKER_00: You guys gotta wrap your head around the fact that most of you think you're hiding it and you're not, and when you are hiding it, you're you're even worse because you know better.
8:18
SPEAKER_00: That's why you're hiding it, right?
8:19
SPEAKER_00: So all of these things now, these things are all, I mean, duh, but a lot of people actually don't know.
8:25
SPEAKER_00: Or you might disagree with porn.
8:26
SPEAKER_00: But here's the thing it's causing insecurity, it's causing jealousy, it's causing anxiety, unmet needs, expectations.
8:35
SPEAKER_00: If that's happening, that's betrayal.
8:37
SPEAKER_00: If you don't even think about it as betrayal for your partner, think about it as betrayal for your marriage, your vows.
8:42
SPEAKER_00: Because if you cause negative feelings, negative feelings don't create positive.
8:48
SPEAKER_00: Therefore, there's no future.
8:50
SPEAKER_00: Because negative always spirals into more negative.
8:53
SPEAKER_00: Eventually, negative becomes resentment, bitterness, and contempt.
8:57
SPEAKER_00: And then it's like, oh, now there's no trust.
8:59
SPEAKER_00: I don't believe in like guys, duh, we talk about this all the time.
9:02
SPEAKER_00: So even if you don't agree with all that stuff, think about it like this.
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SPEAKER_00: If you want more for your future, negative or neutral doesn't create positive.
9:12
SPEAKER_00: No.
9:12
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
9:13
SPEAKER_00: Now, I want to go deeper.
9:14
SPEAKER_00: I want to go into now.
9:16
SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna spend a lot of time on this, but I want to get you guys thinking and then maybe we'll come visit again if you guys like it.
9:21
SPEAKER_00: But um, and I've never talked about this with Catherine, but I think it's betrayal if you're disrespectful.
9:26
SPEAKER_00: I think it's betrayal if you um not just call names, but like if you you full on, like you're just swearing at somebody.
9:35
SPEAKER_00: You're fucking all of these behaviors that I used to portray, trashing the house.
9:39
SPEAKER_00: It's betrayal.
9:39
SPEAKER_01: It's a betrayal of trust.
9:41
SPEAKER_00: It's betrayal of trust, it's betrayal of the future, of your vows, all those things that I just talked about.
9:46
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
9:47
SPEAKER_00: I think it's betrayal if you check out, ditch on your responsibilities.
9:51
SPEAKER_00: I think it's betrayal if you spend more time on work to avoid, more time drinking to avoid, more time coping is what I'm getting at.
10:01
SPEAKER_00: I think it's betrayal.
10:02
SPEAKER_00: And now people will disagree with me.
10:04
SPEAKER_00: Well, how's that betrayal?
10:05
SPEAKER_00: Because you're thinking about betrayal is linear.
10:07
SPEAKER_00: Like it's like, well, whether I fuck someone or not.
10:10
SPEAKER_01: No, and betrayal is putting anything above your spouse that shouldn't be put above your spouse.
10:14
SPEAKER_01: So if it's not God, it shouldn't be above your spouse.
10:16
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
10:16
SPEAKER_01: And this is that's the way we believe.
10:18
SPEAKER_01: The the same couple that you were talking about, you heard me doing a one-on-one call.
10:21
SPEAKER_01: It's okay to have different core values than we have, but then don't expect to have the marriage that we have.
10:26
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, what a what a bold statement.
10:28
SPEAKER_00: Can you please say that again?
10:29
SPEAKER_01: It's okay to have different core values than we have, but then don't expect to have the marriage that we have.
10:34
SPEAKER_00: That's right.
10:35
SPEAKER_01: It's unreasonable to expect that.
10:36
SPEAKER_01: If you want to go watch porn and think that you're going to have the loving relationship that we have, somewhere along the line, that's something is going to happen where it's going to cause a problem.
10:47
SPEAKER_01: If you think that you can go out and have girls' nights and boys' nights and dress however you want without your partner there and act however you want and buy women drinks and wear, have your cleavage hanging out, if you think that that's not going to cause a problem, you're you're wrong.
10:59
SPEAKER_01: And if it doesn't cause a problem, then you you absolutely will not have what we have.
11:03
SPEAKER_01: And the reason that you guys want what we have is because what we have is strong, what we have is intimate, we love each other, we have a solid family, we have a solid business, we have our marriage is as perfect as it could possibly be.
11:14
SPEAKER_00: And keeps getting better with every level of the children.
11:20
SPEAKER_00: Right.
11:20
SPEAKER_01: So you guys can do whatever you want, you can have the core values that you feel like resonate with you, and that's totally fine.
11:25
SPEAKER_01: But then change your expectation of what your marriage is going to be, because it will not be what you're admiring if this is what you're admiring.
11:32
SPEAKER_00: Recognize what she's saying is recognize that you're going to settle for less than what you're watching and listening to this podcast for to have.
11:39
SPEAKER_00: Yes.
11:39
SPEAKER_00: Settle for it and say, I don't want it.
11:42
SPEAKER_00: Because the the more you can wrap your head around, betrayal isn't about intimacy and physical.
11:47
SPEAKER_01: Betrayal is about any level of intimacy.
11:49
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's it's every level of intimacy.
11:51
SPEAKER_00: It's about the connection that you are trying to build.
11:54
SPEAKER_00: And we spent a lot of time talking about connection lately.
11:56
SPEAKER_00: So I wanted you to get this because every time I put this reel out, it goes viral.
12:00
SPEAKER_00: And your version did like, I think, two million more views overall than all my other versions of it in the last three times or something.
12:07
SPEAKER_00: Like, because it's because it's both ways, you guys.
12:11
SPEAKER_00: It's both ways.
12:12
SPEAKER_00: And when you understand that betrayal is about the intimacy you are withholding from your partner, not sexual, intimacy on lower levels with she said earlier, trust.
12:24
SPEAKER_00: Right?
12:25
SPEAKER_00: Like, for love of God, the amount of people that finally get what they want in a marriage, and then their partner just fucking, uh no thanks.
12:31
SPEAKER_00: I'm still mad.
12:31
SPEAKER_00: You're idiots.
12:32
SPEAKER_00: And if you can just let that go, stop betraying the trust that they're giving you right now.
12:39
SPEAKER_00: I realize that you don't trust them, but don't betray it.
12:42
SPEAKER_00: Support them, lift them, fuck, say thank you.
12:44
SPEAKER_00: I have some men putting some massive boundaries in with their wives right now.
12:47
SPEAKER_00: And you know what I told each one of them today on the call?
12:50
SPEAKER_00: Make sure you say thank you.
12:51
SPEAKER_00: Because they changed their behavior for fuck's sakes.
12:54
SPEAKER_00: This like one of the women, he was like, Okay, and I guess you're gonna have to leave.
12:59
SPEAKER_00: Well, we don't know if she's leaving because she can't leave.
13:02
SPEAKER_00: We don't, or sorry, coming home, came home because she can't leave, because she wants more, because she got scared.
13:07
SPEAKER_00: We don't know that yet.
13:08
SPEAKER_00: And we'll find out.
13:09
SPEAKER_00: But the bottom line is the behavior was different.
13:12
SPEAKER_00: It was because of how she was speaking in front of the kid.
13:14
SPEAKER_00: This poor guy, his wife, his daughter, sorry, went to one of her friends and said, Mom, my daddy loves my mommy so much, and my mommy just hates them.
13:22
SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh.
13:24
SPEAKER_00: I said, That is a testament to how hard you are fucking working.
13:26
SPEAKER_00: Do not stop.
13:27
SPEAKER_00: Your daughter is seeing the leadership.
13:29
SPEAKER_00: That's wow, amazing.
13:31
SPEAKER_01: That made my stomach turn.
13:32
SPEAKER_00: Oh, it's it's terrible.
13:33
SPEAKER_00: So we put a boundary in place because of the way she was just so disrespectful.
13:37
SPEAKER_00: And the story's not important, but the behavior changed.
13:41
SPEAKER_00: So I didn't tell him to talk about fucking shit.
13:44
SPEAKER_00: I didn't tell him to figure out what you know, lecture about what she needs to keep doing right or what she did wrong.
13:49
SPEAKER_00: He put in boundary.
13:50
SPEAKER_00: It was simple, it was done.
13:52
SPEAKER_00: She came back within what I can't even give a time frame, but it was within 24 hours, but I think it was hours.
13:57
SPEAKER_00: But she came back, behavior, attitude completely different.
14:00
SPEAKER_00: Give her fucking gratitude.
14:02
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
14:02
SPEAKER_00: Gratitude.
14:02
SPEAKER_00: Or you're betraying your fucking marriage.
14:05
SPEAKER_00: You you just what to prove a point?
14:07
SPEAKER_01: Because when you get what you want, don't pull back and play hard to get.
14:10
SPEAKER_01: That's a game that we play when we're not taught how to be in a relationship.
14:14
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, fucking.
14:15
SPEAKER_01: So when you get what you want, show gratitude.
14:17
SPEAKER_01: That's right.
14:17
SPEAKER_01: Show empathy for the person that had to make that change.
14:20
SPEAKER_01: It blows my mind that people want to be like, oh no, too little, too late.
14:23
SPEAKER_01: We've all been there.
14:24
SPEAKER_01: What that's the immature thing to do.
14:26
SPEAKER_01: That's what I did.
14:26
SPEAKER_01: That's what you did.
14:27
SPEAKER_00: She's getting heated this time.
14:29
SPEAKER_01: Everybody just turned their volume down and now Catherine's yelling.
14:32
SPEAKER_00: Well, I mean, keep in mind, Catherine's coming from experience.
14:34
SPEAKER_00: She didn't allow my changes.
14:36
SPEAKER_00: Like she didn't.
14:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
14:38
SPEAKER_01: I did not say thank you.
14:39
SPEAKER_01: I was like, okay, and what else?
14:40
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, exactly.
14:41
SPEAKER_00: What's next?
14:42
SPEAKER_01: I'm waiting.
14:43
SPEAKER_01: What else?
14:43
SPEAKER_00: Where's the apology that comes with?
14:45
SPEAKER_00: Right?
14:45
SPEAKER_00: Well, you didn't actually do that, but a lot of people, a lot of you do.
14:48
SPEAKER_00: You know about it.
14:49
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
14:50
SPEAKER_00: But a lot of you do, guys.
14:51
SPEAKER_00: So stop betraying the future.
14:54
SPEAKER_01: Enjoy the changes that you're seeing.
14:56
SPEAKER_01: Thank your partner, edify your partner, lift your partner up, encourage your partner because that partner is trying to be your partner.
15:01
SPEAKER_00: And the last lesson I want to give to you today is simple.
15:04
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
15:05
SPEAKER_00: If your partner is betraying you with a lot of these things that we talked about, all you can do is lead.
15:09
SPEAKER_00: Don't go correct them, go connect with them.
15:11
SPEAKER_00: Don't tell them why they're doing it wrong.
15:13
SPEAKER_00: Obviously, they know they shouldn't be doing that.
15:16
SPEAKER_00: They're missing something.
15:17
SPEAKER_00: See if you can be more of the person that delivers the thing that they're missing.
15:21
SPEAKER_00: Chances are it's something that you need to be giving as a person, a partner who wants to give in general.
15:27
SPEAKER_00: Okay?
15:27
SPEAKER_00: All right, guys.
15:28
SPEAKER_00: We'll see you next time.
15:29
SPEAKER_01: Bye.