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Workplace Thievery...Who's The Problem? · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:03
  Speaker 1: The problem.
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  Speaker 2: We have a listener named Tyler who wrote to us
• 0:07
  Speaker 2: because he wants advice.
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  Speaker 3: On whether he is the problem.
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: And if you have an am I the problem that
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  Speaker 2: you want to submit, you can head to Big nine
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  Speaker 2: eight seven dot com and click the on air tab
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  Speaker 2: and there's a little submission form right there.
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  Speaker 4: And before you get to it, Angie, I will just
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  Speaker 4: say I've known a few Tyler's in my life. Tyler,
• 0:24
  Speaker 4: whatever this is, it's probably your fault. Oh my god,
• 0:28
  Speaker 4: I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Gab and Angie, welcome to Fargo. Love the show.
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  Speaker 2: I need to know if I'm the problem. I work
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  Speaker 2: in a small office with about ten people. We share
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  Speaker 2: a communal kitchen, including one fridge. Over the past month,
• 0:42
  Speaker 2: my lunch has been stolen five times, not just random snacks,
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  Speaker 2: entire homemade meals I bring from home gone without a trace.
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  Speaker 2: It's not just frustrating, it's expensive and messes up my day.
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  Speaker 2: I mentioned it a couple of times in the group chat,
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  Speaker 2: like hey, someone's been taking my lunches, please stop.
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  Speaker 3: But no one responded.
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: So I bought a mini fridge and put it under
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  Speaker 2: my desk, and I also put a little lock on
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  Speaker 2: it for extra piece of mind. Since then, no more
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  Speaker 2: stolen lunches. But last Friday, one of my coworkers said
• 1:12
  Speaker 2: it was weird and selfish that I had a personal
• 1:16
  Speaker 2: fridge and everyone in.
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  Speaker 3: The office feels this way.
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  Speaker 2: She said it made me look paranoid and not part
• 1:22
  Speaker 2: of the team. A couple others have now made comments like,
• 1:25
  Speaker 2: don't let him see your lunch, he might lock it up,
• 1:28
  Speaker 2: or we get it your special. Oh my gosh, I'm
• 1:32
  Speaker 2: starting to feel like the weirdo in the office. Just
• 1:34
  Speaker 2: for protecting my stuff, am I the problem? I feel
• 1:37
  Speaker 2: like I'm taking crazy pill.
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  Speaker 4: First off, Tyler, you know exactly who was stealing your lunches.
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  Speaker 4: It was that latey Wow one hundred percent. And also, Tyler,
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  Speaker 4: I think you needed to take this one step further.
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  Speaker 4: I think you needed to set a trap, get yourself
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  Speaker 4: some pepper spray, bear spray, and defend that lunch to.
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  Speaker 2: The Oh my gosh, yawit what a bunch of losers.
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  Speaker 2: You know what makes I don't think you're crazy, Tyler,
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  Speaker 2: You're not the problem. Even if everybody in your office
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  Speaker 2: it's making it seem.
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  Speaker 3: But you know why, I think everyone in the office
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  Speaker 3: is saying something.
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  Speaker 2: It's because I think they were on a rotation and
• 2:10
  Speaker 2: they were each taking a lunch every single day, and
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  Speaker 2: they're like, dang it, our meal ticket.
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  Speaker 5: Is God Yeah, this is perfectly fine.
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  Speaker 4: What coworker goes, Oh my, are other coworkers getting his
• 2:23
  Speaker 4: lunch stolen? He's trying to protect his lunch. Now he's
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  Speaker 4: the weirdo. Yeah, that's not insane to me. Tyler, you
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  Speaker 4: work with a bunch of dorks.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, I'm gonna give you some wild advice.
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  Speaker 3: I think you should find a new job.
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  Speaker 5: I think you should play step or.
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  Speaker 3: Like, where's what's HR doing?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Can you report this to HR? Because that's insane?
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  Speaker 5: Call nine Maybe that's too funny.
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  Speaker 2: But Tyler, I feel like you are not the problem here.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like everyone in your office is. But seven
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  Speaker 2: oh one two, eight oh one, nine eight seven. I
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  Speaker 2: gotta know, is there anyone out there in the FM
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  Speaker 2: area who does think Tyler's the problem?
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  Speaker 4: I would take this one step forward. If you think
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  Speaker 4: Tyler's the problem, you are a thief. You steal lunches
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  Speaker 4: at your job. I'm one one hundred percent convinced today
• 3:20
  Speaker 4: and we did have an email from Tyler wondering if
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  Speaker 4: he was the problem. And it's very interesting about a fridge.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he works in a small office and they have
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  Speaker 2: one fridge, and his lunch is being stolen every day.
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  Speaker 3: So to combat that, he got his.
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  Speaker 2: Own mini fridge and he put a lock on it
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  Speaker 2: so people would stop taking his lunch. And now everyone
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  Speaker 2: in his office is mad at him, saying that he
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  Speaker 2: is a paranoid, weird and selfish, and they make little
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  Speaker 2: comments like, oh watch out, he'll he's gonna lock up
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  Speaker 2: his lunch.
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  Speaker 5: I don't even know Tyler's coworkers, and I hate all
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  Speaker 5: of them. I hate you.
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  Speaker 2: So we asked you seven one to eight on one
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  Speaker 2: nine eighty seven, do you think Tyler is the problem
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  Speaker 2: or are his coworkers You're.
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  Speaker 4: More concerned with a dude trying to protect his own
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  Speaker 4: property than you having a mole, a rat, a thief
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  Speaker 4: amongst you.
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  Speaker 6: We had a.
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  Speaker 3: Listeners.
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  Speaker 5: It's I don't mean that. That's okay.
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  Speaker 3: We had one of our listeners text us, Tyler is
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  Speaker 3: not the problem. Just do what I do.
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  Speaker 2: Bring a lunch box with ice packs and keep it
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  Speaker 2: at your desk. Okay, So while we can, you know,
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  Speaker 2: agree that Tyler's not the problem. Maybe to get his
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  Speaker 2: coworkers off his case. You get rid of the mini
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  Speaker 2: fridge so you don't seem like you're taking such a
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  Speaker 2: grand stand. But you bring your lunchbox with ice packs
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  Speaker 2: and put it in your desk.
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  Speaker 3: I like, that's a happy media.
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  Speaker 4: I've gone the other way. Get a bigger fridge, Tyler.
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  Speaker 4: I want you to get a full double decker fridge.
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  Speaker 4: I want you to get one of those whirlpool joints,
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  Speaker 4: or when you push the little button the cubes fall out.
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  Speaker 5: In the center. Get one of those in your office.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder what life would be like if I Owe
• 5:00
  Speaker 2: always took Gabe's advice.
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  Speaker 5: Angie, do you have a little victory from this morning?
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  Speaker 4: Over the weekend, you and I took down Happy Harry's
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  Speaker 4: rib Fest together for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: I really enjoyed Happy Harry's rib Fest. But that is
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  Speaker 2: not where my little victory lies.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So, actually, our director of sales, Jessica, she had recommended
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  Speaker 2: an author to me, Freedo McFadden, a few months back,
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  Speaker 2: and I read one of her books, Never Lie. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't really love it, but because I still had that
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  Speaker 2: author in my head, Freedom McFadden, I started reading, and
• 5:44
  Speaker 2: by reading, I mean listening to an audible. I started
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  Speaker 2: listening to The Housemaid, which is actually being made into
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  Speaker 2: a movie, and it's gonna start your girl, Sidney Sweeney.
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  Speaker 4: And girl, you think she's hot. Yeah, I think a
• 6:01
  Speaker 4: lot of people think that. I don't know if I
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  Speaker 4: can DIBs that.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, but yeah, okay, no, you know what, let's change
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  Speaker 5: this around. I like this new attitude. Yeah, my girls.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Sidney Sweeney's gonna start in or of.
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  Speaker 5: A Wendy Pepper kind of guy.
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  Speaker 3: But she's going to start in the Housemaid.
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  Speaker 2: And so I started listening reading The Housemaid, and I
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  Speaker 2: actually I really like it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm really into it.
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  Speaker 2: And I like that I will have completed a book
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  Speaker 2: before the movie comes out, and that makes me feel
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  Speaker 2: like a real adult.
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  Speaker 4: That's wonderful. Thank you, all right, I like that. I
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  Speaker 4: don't hate that. You know what's funny? What what's the
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  Speaker 4: movie called The Housemaid? That's weird because she was in
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  Speaker 4: the Handmaid's Tale. She was an actress in the Handmaid's Tale.
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  Speaker 4: She was show Yeah, just for a little I think,
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  Speaker 4: for like a couple of seasons, nothing like, but it's
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  Speaker 4: kind of funny.
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  Speaker 5: She just made it up here.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she loves made things. Yeah, you don't know my
• 6:54
  Speaker 4: little victory here. This could not be more little, But
• 6:57
  Speaker 4: it's just one of my things.
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  Speaker 5: It's just is what it is.
• 7:01
  Speaker 4: Our dog, of course, has a billion, well billions strong,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, ten different dog collars right, always kind
• 7:10
  Speaker 4: of just changing it up just to change the look
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  Speaker 4: of her.
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  Speaker 3: You know, that's cute.
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  Speaker 4: I want something else to look at here. So we
• 7:15
  Speaker 4: got uh it was, And honestly, we normally just change
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  Speaker 4: them because they're dirty. It's like, well, I'm not going
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  Speaker 4: to watch all this, let's just put a new one
• 7:22
  Speaker 4: of them. So what we did was we got Wanona's
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  Speaker 4: summer callar washed yesterday. And now Wanona is walking around
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  Speaker 4: looking just prepped and ready to go for summer.
• 7:32
  Speaker 5: Being that it is June. I love that dog has
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  Speaker 5: her summer outfit on.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so fum that I have not met Wanona yet.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you'll have to at some point. She's awesome.
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  Speaker 3: And now that she's got her summer collar, which.
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  Speaker 4: I'll be honest, I think there's another one on the
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  Speaker 4: way via Amazon. Yes, she's got all kinds of outfits
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  Speaker 4: for days.
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  Speaker 3: A woman after my own heart.
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  Speaker 5: That's right.
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  Speaker 3: Do not believe everything you see on the internet.
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  Speaker 5: There was this talk what kind of advice.
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  Speaker 3: Is that the best kind game?
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  Speaker 2: There was this TikTok that was spreading around that I
• 8:14
  Speaker 2: feel like it was obviously a joke, but apparently people
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  Speaker 2: are taking it seriously, saying that your Costco card would
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  Speaker 2: count as a form of ID when you went to travel,
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  Speaker 2: and that that would let you get on a domestic flight.
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  Speaker 2: So then the TSA released a statement saying that's not true.
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  Speaker 2: You cannot board a domestic flight using your Costco card
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  Speaker 2: as a form of identification.
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  Speaker 3: I know, Gabe, the look on.
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  Speaker 4: Your face if you think your Costco card is some
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  Speaker 4: form of ID getting on a plane. I don't want
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  Speaker 4: to ride on the same plane as you, Honestly, I
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  Speaker 4: might just take the next one.
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  Speaker 2: Well, don't worry, they won't get on the plane because
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  Speaker 2: it's not a valid form of Are.
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  Speaker 5: You hanging around the airport either?
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  Speaker 3: No, that's true.
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  Speaker 2: Back. The real thing is that you need to get
• 9:03
  Speaker 2: the real ID, and you had so many years to
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  Speaker 2: do it.
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  Speaker 3: If you haven't done it already, and don't worry.
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  Speaker 5: I was gonna say, who doesn't have that?
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  Speaker 3: Well, that is the game I do.
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  Speaker 2: Not have the real ID, but I literally have an
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  Speaker 2: appointment to day to get the real ID because I'm
• 9:22
  Speaker 2: cutting it close. I'm flying out for a Father's Day
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  Speaker 2: weekend on Friday. Luckily, they just print you your ID
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  Speaker 2: right there, so I think.
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  Speaker 3: I'll be good to go.
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  Speaker 2: But so I had to gather all the documents, right
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  Speaker 2: because the real ID. You can't just like show up
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  Speaker 2: and be like, give me a real ID, because then
• 9:38
  Speaker 2: they'll be like, why are you singing? Anyway, you have
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  Speaker 2: to bring a lot of like forms with you and
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  Speaker 2: a first worn sacrifice.
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  Speaker 3: There's a lot.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's you have to have proof of identification, proof
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  Speaker 2: of name change if you've had one, proof of Social
• 9:53
  Speaker 2: Security number, and then proof of North Dakota residents address.
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  Speaker 3: But you have to have two things to prove that.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you can go a bill or something right.
• 10:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like a utility bill and your lease or like
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: your deed to your house or whatever. There's lists like
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: if you go to what is it the end dot
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: nd dot website, yeah, you can get all the information.
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  Speaker 2: So I was gathering my items yesterday and thankfully my
• 10:19
  Speaker 2: mom of a couple of weeks ago, had sent me
• 10:21
  Speaker 2: my birth certificate because I thought I'll last day.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's funny your appointment is today, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you're gathering all these items yesterday. I'm gonna guess sometime
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  Speaker 4: after five in the after five at night.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like the way you know me so well.
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  Speaker 3: I don't appreciate that.
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  Speaker 2: But then I realized as I was getting I had
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: the lease to my home excellent, a utility bill trific boom, my.
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  Speaker 3: Birth certificate that my mom mailed to me. Thank god
• 10:49
  Speaker 3: I have that fire bro.
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: I couldn't find my social Security card. Yeah, and that's
• 10:56
  Speaker 2: like the one thing I felt like I always kept
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  Speaker 2: track of. And so I was tearing apart the house
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: and the kids were like, Mommy, feed us, and I
• 11:05
  Speaker 2: was like, no, I'm I have to find our social
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  Speaker 2: Security for yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Night.
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  Speaker 5: Go out in the back and eat grass.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: I was really stressed out to the point, Gabe, I thought, well,
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  Speaker 2: didn't I. When I started working here, I had to
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: bring my social Security card to make a copy. I
• 11:20
  Speaker 2: drove my happy little butt to work yesterday, yeah, only
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  Speaker 2: to discovery Yes, only to discover no, girl, it's not here.
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  Speaker 2: I drove all the way back. The kids were like,
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: did you find it.
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  Speaker 3: No, bruh. I was really stressed out.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, we're not.
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  Speaker 3: Going, We're never leaving ever again. For no reason. I
• 11:40
  Speaker 3: thought maybe I put my Social Security.
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  Speaker 5: Card in a nice safe space. I'm guessing no, in a.
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  Speaker 2: Shoe box with the sparkly shoes I wore over Christmas,
• 11:52
  Speaker 2: And sure.
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  Speaker 3: Enough there was my Social Security card and good for you,
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  Speaker 3: though you got it. I did. I got it.
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  Speaker 2: So now I realized I forgot all of that stuff
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: at home, so I have to stop at.
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  Speaker 3: Home for no, I'm kidding.
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  Speaker 2: I have everything together, so as soon as I get
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  Speaker 2: out of here, I can drive straight to the Department
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  Speaker 2: of Transportation and get myself a real ID.
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  Speaker 3: And if I didn't, I mean, I don't even have
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  Speaker 3: a Costco card yet.
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  Speaker 5: Not stay or wide wedding. Sometimes the internet just be interneting.
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  Speaker 3: I guess, oh gosh, what now.
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  Speaker 4: Funniest thing I saw being discussed the other day via
• 12:41
  Speaker 4: my social media.
• 12:42
  Speaker 5: I really do have a wild social media that's gonna say.
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  Speaker 2: You'll be telling me things sometimes and you're like, yeah, no,
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: but these are like people I know in my life.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, what, Yeah, there was someone I know she's
• 12:54
  Speaker 4: very excited to get married.
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  Speaker 5: And you know her fiance at Enemies.
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  Speaker 4: A super nice dude, right yeah, and the season right well,
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  Speaker 4: she got her wedding dress.
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  Speaker 5: It's like hanging up in her closet.
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  Speaker 4: And she came home from work and her mom her
• 13:10
  Speaker 4: She has one of those mother in laws who's like
• 13:11
  Speaker 4: a little a meddler, a little involved, you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: a little too frequently, but she kind of puts up
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  Speaker 4: with this and deals with that. And we're getting close
• 13:19
  Speaker 4: to the last straw here. She comes home from work,
• 13:25
  Speaker 4: sees her mother in law's car. It's like, oh, yeah,
• 13:27
  Speaker 4: she's here, YadA, YadA, YadA.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: When she gets in the house, she goes upstairs and
• 13:32
  Speaker 4: she sees her mother in law in her room like
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  Speaker 4: kind of trying on her wedding dress.
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  Speaker 2: Stop yes, stop, Gabe, stop. Oh I'm like the rage
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  Speaker 2: that boiled inside me right now?
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  Speaker 3: Are you imaginating?
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  Speaker 2: No, I could not imagine. I would Oh my gosh,
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: I don't condone violence. However, this would be the one.
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  Speaker 3: This would be the one where I would see, right,
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  Speaker 3: it would be like, am I.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna be on CNN later because they are gonna discover
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  Speaker 2: I like murdered my mother in law?
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that is why you'll.
• 14:04
  Speaker 5: See to me. And who knows, maybe the mom is
• 14:07
  Speaker 5: trying to relive the glory days.
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  Speaker 3: That's embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: Oh. Also, is she one of those moms that like
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: can't let go of her baby boy, so she wishes
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  Speaker 2: she was the one marrying.
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: No, it might be.
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  Speaker 5: Now I've never met her, you know.
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  Speaker 3: Oh I'm mad.
• 14:24
  Speaker 5: Well, so now this person is going to get a
• 14:27
  Speaker 5: new wedding dress. She's not wearing that now.
• 14:29
  Speaker 4: Oh, he's made that choice, and she's postponed said wedding.
• 14:34
  Speaker 5: The entire wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Well it does.
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  Speaker 2: It takes a long time to get a new dress, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and then to get it tailored. Wow.
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  Speaker 4: Now lo and behold son of meddling mom. Not very
• 14:46
  Speaker 4: thrilled either with his own mother. Of course, I'm glad
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: that he's not thrilled with his mother. Yeah, yeah, because
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: then I'd be like, call off the wedding girl. It's
• 14:55
  Speaker 4: a red flag if he chooses her over the wife.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, it's kind of nice for me. I've a
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: weak and that just opened. But I was wondering, have
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: you ever had to postpone your wedding for whatever reason?
• 15:10
  Speaker 5: When Corey and I got married, it was and I
• 15:12
  Speaker 5: tell you.
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  Speaker 4: The whole thing leading up to it a nightmare, all
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: for it to be the most perfect day of all time,
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: for everything that went wrong leading up to the day.
• 15:23
  Speaker 4: The day was wonderful, but we had a venue picked out.
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  Speaker 4: We're all jacked, it's getting there. It's like six seven
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: months down the road or whatever. The people who owned
• 15:31
  Speaker 4: the venue sold it and like kind of canceled the
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: whole thing, right, So we did get some of our money.
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: Back, but not all of it.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, that's terrible, and so we had to try.
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  Speaker 4: To find a sprint to find a new venue, move everything,
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: change days, so then of course this person couldn't do
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: it on this day.
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: It was absolutely terrible, but it.
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: Ended up all being great, and it was, to this
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: day one of the most fun things of our entire life.
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  Speaker 3: Did you end up having to pu pu?
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: Really? Did you end up having to postpone the actual No.
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  Speaker 4: We did not have to change the date, thankfully, but
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  Speaker 4: that was in discussions. Yeah, and thankfully we did not,
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  Speaker 4: So I was pretty lucky in that regard. What about you,
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  Speaker 4: Did you ever have to postpone?
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: I did postpone my own wedding and then I got married,
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  Speaker 2: But I did like a small ceremony I wore. I've
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: told you this, Gabe. I wore a black dress and
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  Speaker 2: six inch leopard print heels and it was in downtown Vegas,
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  Speaker 2: and there wasn't an Elvis impersonator, but there was an
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  Speaker 2: Elvis statue at the chapel.
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  Speaker 3: We did that as like.
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  Speaker 2: Our little But then we were planning a big wedding
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  Speaker 2: and I couldn't find a dress that I loved, and
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: so then I just kept like putting it off, putting
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: it off, and then just everything was a mess, and
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: I was like, we're postponing this.
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  Speaker 3: We're not doing this.
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  Speaker 2: We're supposed to get married in like twenty thirteen. And
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: I was like, well, just do it next year. We're
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: already legally married.
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: We'll just do it next year, next year.
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: And then lo and behold, we never had a wedding,
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: and now I'm getting divorced.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: So there you go, by It's fine.
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  Speaker 5: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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  Speaker 4: If you've ever had to postpone a wedding, I would
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: guess most people would be for you know, someone had
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: to cancel or something got canceled. I don't know if
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: there will be anything as crazy as a mother in
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: law trying on a wedding dress.
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: But I love the fact that I know people that
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: this happens to it. Really, I have faith show.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: I have a faith in the FM area. So let
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: us know what is the wildest reason you had to
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: postpone your wedding?
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: What about you, Tara?
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: Well, our venue double booked us with a cat show.
• 17:33
  Speaker 5: I wish if I was joking.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: It had the tiny toxtedos and everything.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: The seat right there, a double book, classic mishap double
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: book with a show for Fluffy. I don't hold about that.
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: Amazing all right, Andy, what about you?
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Dude?
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: A month before the wedding, the caterer and the photographer
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: closed up, like they went out of business.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: At the same time. I was floored we had to
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: push the wedding back a few months.
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that sounds kind of like, yeah, be almost now.
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: We were lucky because Corey worked at a hotel where
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: she had an inn with the lady I don't know
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: who was kind of in charge of the room or whatever. Yeah,
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: and so we kind of got, I don't know, bumped
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: up the list a little bit, but that was because
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: of like who we knew, not exactly, dude, to paying
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: anything more right. It was pretty nuts though. All right,
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: let us know seven oh one two, eight zero one,
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: nine eighty seven. Have you ever had to postpone a wedding?
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: What for?
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: I shared something about my eight year old son Liam
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: on the Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page and
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: one of our listeners, Michael called my kid deranged?
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: What the heck? Michael?
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: And I thought, sir, you are absolutely correct. Here is
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: a lot of love. I found out.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Over the weekend that my son Liam pours the milk
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: first into the bowl and then the cereal. And Michael said,
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: you're deranged if you pour milk first, and honestly, I
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: kind of agree, like, why what, waite? I don't like
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: this order of operations? What do I have to give
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Liam away? I don't lie?
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: No, hold on, doesn't everybody do that?
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: Poor the milk first?
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Gabe?
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: What No?
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: I've been doing this for years, Gabe, since I can remember.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Do you want to adopt Liam? You guys deserved together.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I just that was insane to me because I also
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: didn't teach him to do that. But now that I'm
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: thinking about it, do you ever actually teach your kids
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: how to pour the cereal?
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Don't they just watch you do it? And I have
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: never done it in that order.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: We did have Mary comment and she said, I put
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: milk and bowl, then just a little bit of cereal,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: eat that, then more. I hate soggy cereal. Here's the
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: thing that logic tracks to me that does make sense.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: But something about it, I still hate it.
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: It still sounds so tedious.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: I don't like it.
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: It's just tedious. I don't want to work that hard.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I well, you know what I do do
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: is I pour the cereal, I do the milk, and
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: then if I finish the cereal and there's still milk
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: at the bottom, then I add more cereal.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah you give me that.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the normal way. But I really thought that
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Liam was going to be alone in this, But apparently
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Mary does it.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Apparently you do this.
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: I've never done that.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you just wanted to make me feel weird. Yes, okay,
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: but how common is this?
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah? I don't know.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: I bet there's more people that do it that we think.
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: But also I've never watched someone in person do it.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: If I've watched some psychopath or milk a little bowl
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: and then get a box of cereal and board in there.
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd be like, what are you doing?
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: You know what, Let's take it to the streets.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: And by the streets, I mean the Big nine eighty
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: seven Instagram.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: I'm going to post a poll on there.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, follow Big ninety eight seven FM on Instagram. Do
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: you pour the milk first or the cereal first?
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: We'll take a.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Poll and then we'll I'll report back, all right with
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: my finding. We'll have we'll have the answer for that tomorrow.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Right here on Big ninety eight point seven, It's time
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: for Gabes good News of the day. And this is
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: a kind of scary story but sweet story at the
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: same time. Here it wouldn't be Gabe's Good News of
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: the Day without you know, positive and okay, good, all right.
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: During a family vacation, a five year old girl named
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: Brooklyn saved her three year old sister, Calli, from drowning.
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: The little sister had just taken off her floaties and
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: slipped into the pool unnoticed. Realizing that her sister couldn't
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: swim without and Brooklyn immediately jumped in and pulled her
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: to safety. The big sister's quick action was this especially
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: remarkable given that she's never had formal swim lessons either.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Oh wow.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: Her mother described the moment as terrifying and praised her
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: her bravery. Swim lessons are beginning next week for the
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: young hero, and the rescue caught attention of US congress
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: Congressman Wesley Bell, who surprised Brooklyn with a Certificate of
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: Recognition and Resolution honoring her courage.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: I love that drownings. I get like, so I can't.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: I get so scared of that.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm watching my kids like a hawk whenever
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: we're at the pool because drowning is it's so scary
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: and it can happen so quickly. That is amazing that
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: she has her big sister to do that for her. Also,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: she's never gonna let that go.
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Really, she'll have that.
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: Forever or ever. Yeah. Yeah, we used to live by
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: a pond. It was like fairly close.
• 22:53
  Speaker 4: And I know my mom if she ever couldn't see us,
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: like in the yard while she was doing the dishes,
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: you know, because we go out and play and she'd
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: kind of keep an eye on us. But yeah, if
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: she ever lost track of us or whatever, she'd be
• 23:03
  Speaker 4: sprinting out to.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Go into the pupon, Yeah, if.
• 23:06
  Speaker 5: We had fallen in.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: Here's what her dad did have to say as well,
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: describing the moment.
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: As soon as she jumped in. That's when Brooklyn went
• 23:14
  Speaker 6: into action. She knew her sister didn't have floates on,
• 23:17
  Speaker 6: she knew she couldn't swim without them, so she dove in.
• 23:19
  Speaker 6: She didn't even give a chance to start screaming for him.
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: Ow sweet? Is that quick reaction?
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: That?
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: Yep? All right?
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: The world is full of nice people. If you can't
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: find one, you gotta be one. We hope you enjoy
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