Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / #355 From the Doctor's Desk
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- 0:03Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast.
- 0:05Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the time poor parent who just
- 0:09Speaker 2: once answers.
- 0:10Speaker 1: Now here's what I know at the moment. Our older
- 0:13Speaker 1: teens in particular are missing out on all of the
- 0:15Speaker 1: significant life events that they would typically be involved in.
- 0:18Speaker 1: And now here's the stars of our show, my mum
- 0:21Speaker 1: and dad, missus Happy Families. We have got two days
- 0:25Speaker 1: two days until the school holidays arrive on the eastern
- 0:29Speaker 1: seaboard all of Queensland, New South Wales the Act Victoria
- 0:33Speaker 1: on school holidays starting tomorrow afternoon. Are you excited for it?
- 0:38Speaker 2: I might just be getting a little bit excited. Okay,
- 0:41Speaker 2: I have been waiting to see what our government is
- 0:44Speaker 2: going to do, but I think we actually might make
- 0:47Speaker 2: it to the holidays unscathed.
- 0:48Speaker 1: This might be the first time in what feels like
- 0:51Speaker 1: more than a year since well, hopefully there won't be
- 0:56Speaker 1: a lockdown. Hopefully Brisbane and Queensland are going to escape.
- 0:59Speaker 1: For those of you who are in New South Wales,
- 1:00Speaker 1: the Act Victoria and New Zealand school holiday is probably
- 1:04Speaker 1: not quite what you are hoping because lockdowns continue to continue.
- 1:10Speaker 1: But are we are justin and Kylie Coulson, the founders
- 1:12Speaker 1: of happy Families dot com dot are your parents to
- 1:14Speaker 1: six children. I'm the author of six books about raising
- 1:16Speaker 1: happy families. And this is the Happy Families Podcast Kylie.
- 1:20Speaker 1: Every month or so, you allow me to geek out,
- 1:23Speaker 1: get a little bit excited, dive into the latest research
- 1:26Speaker 1: from all around the world to look at what's happening
- 1:28Speaker 1: in families and what we can take from science implement
- 1:31Speaker 1: in our homes to make our families flourish.
- 1:34Speaker 2: And today's the day you're saying that, like, I have
- 1:37Speaker 2: a choice.
- 1:40Speaker 1: That was my that was my wicked laughing. So let's
- 1:43Speaker 1: get into it. We've got we've got three studies. You know,
- 1:47Speaker 1: should we do the should I do the wicked witch? Laugh?
- 1:49Speaker 1: I just go for it. Okay, this is the kids
- 1:51Speaker 1: love this one. You're ready, Yes, okay, I'm back. Let's
- 1:57Speaker 1: do this.
- 1:57Speaker 2: Sit Downald Duck.
- 1:58Speaker 1: You want me to come on, we're about to get
- 2:01Speaker 1: academic and science and you want me to do Donald Duck?
- 2:05Speaker 1: Why do you want me to? Donald? Do it? Did
- 2:11Speaker 1: you like that? The kids are into me all the time? Wonderful?
- 2:18Speaker 1: All right? That is I don't know where that came from,
- 2:21Speaker 1: and I'm not.
- 2:22Speaker 2: Sure Donald Duck, doctor.
- 2:24Speaker 1: Doctor, Donald, I know, all right, So let's talk science
- 2:27Speaker 1: because I need to recover from what you've just put
- 2:29Speaker 1: me through.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Look, there had to be something and it filled me.
- 2:34Speaker 1: If that did it for you, you are very easily pleased.
- 2:37Speaker 1: Let's have a look at the latest science. So we're
- 2:40Speaker 1: going to talk about three different studies that have come
- 2:41Speaker 1: out in the last few weeks that have really caught
- 2:43Speaker 1: my eye. One of them is a what we call
- 2:45Speaker 1: a meta analysis, that is a study of a whole
- 2:47Speaker 1: lot of studies. This is looking at the global prevalence
- 2:50Speaker 1: of depressive and anxiety symptoms in children and adolescents during
- 2:54Speaker 1: COVID nineteen from around the world. Second one that we're
- 2:57Speaker 1: going to look at considers ADHD and being the youngest
- 3:02Speaker 1: in the class and how that seems to relate to
- 3:05Speaker 1: long term outcomes in kids. And the third one, I'm
- 3:09Speaker 1: excited to talk about this one very much, talking about
- 3:12Speaker 1: the importance of enjoying school and what that does for kids' grades. So, Kylie,
- 3:16Speaker 1: where should we start? Are you happy to go in
- 3:17Speaker 1: that order? Do you want to mix it up?
- 3:19Speaker 2: Always in the beginning, that's the best place to start.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Okay, let's start at the beginning. This one is looking.
- 3:24Speaker 1: Now for the last couple of weeks, we've been going really,
- 3:27Speaker 1: really deep on what we can do about the reality
- 3:31Speaker 1: that study after study after study has pointed to COVID
- 3:34Speaker 1: nineteen and specifically lockdowns and government restrictions. There's no way
- 3:41Speaker 1: to I've got to be a sledgehammer about this. An
- 3:44Speaker 1: absolutely devastating impact on the mental health of our communities,
- 3:49Speaker 1: and our children are not escaping this. In fact, they're
- 3:51Speaker 1: being significantly affected. This study meta analysis, so we're looking
- 3:56Speaker 1: at twenty nine studies nearly eighty one thousand young people.
- 4:01Speaker 2: So what did they actually find in relation to depression
- 4:03Speaker 2: and anxiety in our children?
- 4:05Speaker 1: Twenty five point two percent of children and teens were
- 4:10Speaker 1: clinically evaluated as having depression, and twenty point five percent
- 4:17Speaker 1: of children and adolescents were clinically evaluated as having anxiety.
- 4:22Speaker 1: What about one in four yeah, one in four to
- 4:25Speaker 1: one and five. Now in Australia, we've got data that
- 4:28Speaker 1: suggests that that's pretty much bang on, maybe even here
- 4:30Speaker 1: in Australia a little bit higher. And that's because again
- 4:33Speaker 1: the lockdowns, particularly for Victoria, but increasingly now for New
- 4:37Speaker 1: South Wales and the Act, the lockdowns are having an
- 4:40Speaker 1: undeniable impact on how children are coping, and the data
- 4:44Speaker 1: is telling us that they're not coping well. In fact,
- 4:48Speaker 1: these researchers said, the prevalence of depression and anxiety symptoms
- 4:52Speaker 1: during COVID nineteen have doubled compared with pre pandemic estimates.
- 4:57Speaker 1: And in Australia we know that adolescents we had about
- 5:01Speaker 1: fifteen percent of them that were already pre pandemic showing
- 5:05Speaker 1: up with anxiety. We're pretty confident now that that's somewhere
- 5:07Speaker 1: closer to twenty five percent, maybe even getting a little
- 5:11Speaker 1: harder than that. We are talking just staggering. I mean,
- 5:15Speaker 1: I can't believe that we're talking about these kinds of numbers.
- 5:18Speaker 1: And I think that this is a really big risk
- 5:20Speaker 1: for governments to be aware of because the long term
- 5:24Speaker 1: impact of this could be significant. So what comparance do well,
- 5:28Speaker 1: We've talked about this extensively. If you were to go
- 5:31Speaker 1: back to listen to our podcasts from last week, where
- 5:34Speaker 1: we spend an entire week talking about what we can do,
- 5:37Speaker 1: that would probably be the best thing. But the very
- 5:39Speaker 1: brief summary, Make sure that the kids aren't retreating of
- 5:41Speaker 1: their rooms too much. Make sure that they're getting outside time.
- 5:44Speaker 1: Nature is fuel for the soul. Make sure that they're exercising,
- 5:46Speaker 1: moving their bodies and not just slumped on the couch
- 5:50Speaker 1: all day every day. Make sure that they're connecting with
- 5:54Speaker 1: people that they love in whatever way you can, and
- 5:56Speaker 1: if it can be face to face, that would be ideal.
- 5:58Speaker 1: Just make sure that you keep it legal. They're probably
- 6:01Speaker 1: the main things. If they've got an interest, ensure that
- 6:03Speaker 1: they have the opportunity to pursue that interest. I could
- 6:06Speaker 1: keep on going, but I think you get the picture.
- 6:09Speaker 2: Do you think that things will improve once lockdowns shift
- 6:12Speaker 2: and left?
- 6:13Speaker 1: I like that way you said that. I don't know,
- 6:16Speaker 1: and I don't think that anybody can really tell. Here's
- 6:20Speaker 1: what I know at the moment. Our older teens in
- 6:23Speaker 1: particular are missing out on all of the significant life
- 6:26Speaker 1: events that they would typically be involved in. Lockdowns have meant.
- 6:29Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine being in New South Wales
- 6:31Speaker 1: Act Victoria and not being able to do your end
- 6:33Speaker 1: of year Year twelve exams and having the disruption there.
- 6:36Speaker 1: They've missed out on formals, They've missed out on coming
- 6:39Speaker 1: of age celebrations, They've missed out on birthdays, They've missed
- 6:41Speaker 1: out on being able to say goodbye to their friends
- 6:46Speaker 1: the way a school year should end. Now. Now, they
- 6:49Speaker 1: may not have completely missed out, because we know that
- 6:51Speaker 1: Andrews and Verry Chicklean are talking about changing the kid's
- 6:55Speaker 1: experience and access of school, but they're certainly not having
- 6:58Speaker 1: what everybody has hissed or really had with the wonderful
- 7:02Speaker 1: experiences there, and there is a grieving process that's associated
- 7:05Speaker 1: with that. I think that they're missing out on closure
- 7:09Speaker 1: and that's a really big deal. But they're also looking
- 7:12Speaker 1: at an uncertain future with no idea where this is
- 7:14Speaker 1: going to go. Will they get over it? I think
- 7:18Speaker 1: most of them probably will, but we really don't have
- 7:20Speaker 1: an answer for it. Most children who have experienced elevated
- 7:25Speaker 1: mental health symptoms, I think that for many of them
- 7:28Speaker 1: it will resolve and they'll just get on with live.
- 7:31Speaker 1: But there's going to be a group of children for
- 7:33Speaker 1: whom that isn't the case, and they're going to be
- 7:36Speaker 1: on a trajectory that I think we could probably call challenging,
- 7:40Speaker 1: to say the least. And there's another group of children
- 7:43Speaker 1: who already had mental health difficulties pre pandemic, and they're
- 7:46Speaker 1: probably going to struggle long term because the pandemic has
- 7:49Speaker 1: exacerbated and accelerated what they were experiencing.
- 7:52Speaker 2: We'll look at another study after the break.
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- 8:07Speaker 2: It's the Happy Families podcast, the podcast for the time
- 8:10Speaker 2: poor parent who just wants answers now. And today I'm
- 8:13Speaker 2: letting you geek out. It's the Doctor's Desk. We've talked
- 8:16Speaker 2: about COVID and the impact that it's having on our
- 8:19Speaker 2: children with depression and anxiety numbers rising, and now we're
- 8:22Speaker 2: going to talk about ADHD and our children who are
- 8:25Speaker 2: young for their age.
- 8:27Speaker 1: So a few weeks ago in a recent Doctor's Desk
- 8:30Speaker 1: we talked about how there's a number of studies from
- 8:33Speaker 1: around the world, including here in Australia, that indicate that
- 8:36Speaker 1: children who are the youngest in their cohort tend to
- 8:39Speaker 1: be more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD. Well some
- 8:43Speaker 1: researchers from Sweden have decided to try to work out
- 8:47Speaker 1: whether or not there are any long term negative outcomes
- 8:49Speaker 1: from being the youngest in the cohort or being diagnosed
- 8:52Speaker 1: with ADHD, particularly when you're the youngest in the cohort.
- 8:56Speaker 1: And this is a really fascinating research. It's also kind
- 8:59Speaker 1: of provocative because any conversation around ADHD and any suggestion
- 9:03Speaker 1: that it's anything other than a neurological disorder can really
- 9:08Speaker 1: irritate and upset a lot of people. So we're not
- 9:10Speaker 1: trying to be provocative. We're simply reporting on what the
- 9:12Speaker 1: science is showing. These researchers got a really nice large
- 9:17Speaker 1: sample of Swedish kids. They compared the children who were
- 9:21Speaker 1: born in January and February of the year with those
- 9:24Speaker 1: born in November in December. So they're essentially saying, if
- 9:27Speaker 1: you're in grade three and you're a January February child,
- 9:30Speaker 1: that means that you're pretty much ten to twelve months
- 9:32Speaker 1: older than the kids who were born in November December. Therefore,
- 9:34Speaker 1: youngest versus oldest, let's have a look at what's going
- 9:37Speaker 1: on here. The total of three hundred thousand kids, around
- 9:41Speaker 1: about six and a half thousand had an ADHD diagnosis.
- 9:44Speaker 1: And what they did was they basically looked at how
- 9:46Speaker 1: those children were going when they were little. Then they
- 9:49Speaker 1: had look at them aged between fifteen and twenty three,
- 9:52Speaker 1: and they were having a look at whether or not
- 9:54Speaker 1: they were doing well at school, whether or not they
- 9:56Speaker 1: were involved with substance use disorder, which is a pretty
- 9:59Speaker 1: high threshold. We're not just talking about whether they were
- 10:01Speaker 1: using alcohol and other drugs. We're talking about kids that
- 10:03Speaker 1: have got a disorder associated with substance use. They also
- 10:07Speaker 1: looked at criminality and depression and the results are fairly complicated,
- 10:11Speaker 1: but let me distill it into some into the simplest
- 10:14Speaker 1: possible terms. Essentially, kids that were young but didn't have ADHD,
- 10:20Speaker 1: that is, the kids that were younger in the cohort,
- 10:22Speaker 1: but they never ended up having an ADHD diagnosis. They
- 10:26Speaker 1: just because they were the youngest, it was associated with
- 10:28Speaker 1: greater risk of depression, greater substance use disorder, and lower
- 10:33Speaker 1: educational achievement, which I think is fascinating. And again not
- 10:37Speaker 1: that being the youngest causes these things. There's plenty of
- 10:39Speaker 1: people who are young in their cohort that don't go
- 10:41Speaker 1: on to have substance use disorder. They still do very
- 10:44Speaker 1: very well at school and they don't end up with depression,
- 10:47Speaker 1: but these things are associated.
- 10:49Speaker 2: It's interesting as you talking like I'm thinking about one
- 10:52Speaker 2: of our children. She is the youngest in her class. Yeah,
- 10:55Speaker 2: by a long shot. And in the very early days
- 10:59Speaker 2: she held her own.
- 11:01Speaker 1: Yeah, and everyone said she's ready. Push her into school.
- 11:04Speaker 1: She's absolutely ready for this.
- 11:06Speaker 2: But what we're noticing now as she progresses is just
- 11:09Speaker 2: she's just still a little bit younger the other kids.
- 11:11Speaker 1: The maturity level isn't there anymore, it.
- 11:13Speaker 2: Really is, and it's having an impact. And I think
- 11:16Speaker 2: about the experiences that I had, you know, on that
- 11:18Speaker 2: desire to fit in and and you know, kind of
- 11:21Speaker 2: be a part of the crowd. And when you don't
- 11:24Speaker 2: fit in because your maturity level isn't there, then you've
- 11:26Speaker 2: got to work harder, and it's hiring.
- 11:29Speaker 1: It's so hard, and you just know you're not the same.
- 11:31Speaker 2: And you're thinking of you know, coming of age and
- 11:34Speaker 2: wanting to fit in. And this idea that substance abuse
- 11:38Speaker 2: and use increases may have an impact.
- 11:42Speaker 1: Well, they're trying to be like everyone else, perhaps, And
- 11:45Speaker 1: research does show that the earlier you start using these
- 11:48Speaker 1: kinds of substances, the more likely it is that it
- 11:50Speaker 1: will be problematic, so that that one year difference could
- 11:53Speaker 1: actually be be really important in that particular conversation. Now
- 11:57Speaker 1: here's interesting. Here's where it gets even more interesting. I'm
- 12:00Speaker 1: so glad that you're enjoying this.
- 12:01Speaker 2: I didn't say I was enjoyed.
- 12:03Speaker 1: You said it was interest. That's a proxy for enjoyment.
- 12:06Speaker 1: I'm going to say the children with ADHD were just
- 12:12Speaker 1: They also experienced an increased risk of substance use disorder,
- 12:15Speaker 1: but that's typical for children with ADHD anyway, because they're
- 12:18Speaker 1: more likely to be impulsive, they're more likely to take risks,
- 12:21Speaker 1: and they also experienced lower educational achievement. We've known this
- 12:24Speaker 1: for a long time. But here's the thing. The kids
- 12:27Speaker 1: with ADHD weren't more likely to have depression or criminal behavior,
- 12:31Speaker 1: and so it seems that children with ADHD diagnoses can
- 12:36Speaker 1: actually still grow up without any worries about depression. They
- 12:39Speaker 1: probably struggle at school, but we've always known that they will,
- 12:41Speaker 1: and they may struggle with some risk taking. But compared
- 12:44Speaker 1: to the kids that were just young for their age group,
- 12:47Speaker 1: young for their cohort, they were the ones that seemed
- 12:49Speaker 1: to struggle a little bit more. When we look at
- 12:51Speaker 1: this data, the ADHD kids are actually doing well relative
- 12:57Speaker 1: to the ones that are just the youngest in the cohort.
- 13:00Speaker 2: Wow, that's really interesting, But I'm wondering how that helps moms.
- 13:04Speaker 1: And dads, Yeah, the average mum or dad. So basically
- 13:07Speaker 1: what it's saying is what I think that all this,
- 13:10Speaker 1: combined with all of the other research on the topic,
- 13:13Speaker 1: really says that children should not be pushed into school
- 13:16Speaker 1: at a young age. We need to be having really
- 13:19Speaker 1: intelligent conversations about how old children should be, what the
- 13:23Speaker 1: developmental milestones are that they need to hit before they're
- 13:26Speaker 1: ready for school, before the academic learning, before the educational
- 13:29Speaker 1: pressure that comes on them. We need to be talking
- 13:32Speaker 1: about how we can make those early school years much
- 13:34Speaker 1: much much more enjoyable and take the pressure off I
- 13:38Speaker 1: think later school starts the way we should be going.
- 13:40Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting that you bring that up, because that
- 13:42Speaker 2: really is a wonderful segue into our last study over
- 13:47Speaker 2: the day.
- 13:47Speaker 1: I see how I didn't even mean to do that.
- 13:49Speaker 1: So this one comes out of the UK. It's associations
- 13:51Speaker 1: between school enjoyment at age six and later educational achievement.
- 13:56Speaker 2: This is kind of one that actually breaks my heart
- 13:58Speaker 2: a little bit because when you look at a toddler
- 14:02Speaker 2: and then a preschool and you look at the way
- 14:05Speaker 2: they are just wired to learn, and they just love
- 14:10Speaker 2: discovering lights of up. It just it's so amazing to watch.
- 14:17Speaker 2: And then you watch what happens over the first couple
- 14:20Speaker 2: of years of school, generally speaking, and all of a sudden,
- 14:23Speaker 2: our kids curiosity gets squashed because they just get boxed in.
- 14:27Speaker 1: Yeah, well, this is what the research has found. They
- 14:29Speaker 1: were looking at. What they basically said is we know
- 14:31Speaker 1: that there's a whole range of factors that affect the
- 14:34Speaker 1: quality of education and how well people do at school.
- 14:36Speaker 1: How will our children do at school? But one thing
- 14:38Speaker 1: that's never really been researched before is how much children
- 14:41Speaker 1: enjoy being at school, which I thought is fascinating. I
- 14:45Speaker 1: couldn't believe that we've never looked at school enjoyment anyway,
- 14:48Speaker 1: a nice, big example of about twelve thousand kids, and
- 14:50Speaker 1: what they found was that students' school enjoyment at age
- 14:54Speaker 1: six was very strongly associated with later achievement at age
- 14:58Speaker 1: sixteen looking at the compulsory UK exams. So basically, the
- 15:02Speaker 1: kids that had more fun, the kids that liked being
- 15:05Speaker 1: at school when they were just six years old, did
- 15:07Speaker 1: significantly better as much as three grade levels higher when
- 15:12Speaker 1: they were sixteen ten years later, just because school was
- 15:14Speaker 1: fun when they were well, at least, that's one of
- 15:16Speaker 1: the associations. Now they canceled out. In the statistics, they
- 15:19Speaker 1: looked at family background, they looked at cognitive ability, they
- 15:23Speaker 1: looked at the amount of money that the family had,
- 15:25Speaker 1: whether socioeconomics could have something to do with it, And
- 15:27Speaker 1: what they basically said is the kids do better when
- 15:30Speaker 1: they have fun. Some other things that were really interesting.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Girls reported enjoying school twice as often twice as much
- 15:39Speaker 1: as boys did. But essentially, what this is saying, if
- 15:42Speaker 1: I was to summarize it in really simple terms, even
- 15:45Speaker 1: after you control for intelligence, even after you control for
- 15:48Speaker 1: socio economic background and all that kind of thing, students
- 15:50Speaker 1: who enjoy school at age six earn higher standardized test
- 15:54Speaker 1: scores at sixteen. And as an extension of that, research
- 15:58Speaker 1: tells us that teachers are the ones who really set
- 16:01Speaker 1: the tone for intrinsic motivation, because students who like their
- 16:05Speaker 1: teachers are nine times more likely to enjoy school. How
- 16:10Speaker 1: did you go to school?
- 16:10Speaker 2: Well, I can tell you right now. The teachers that
- 16:12Speaker 2: I loved, I did really well in the subjects and
- 16:16Speaker 2: we watched that in our home, we've got amazingly talented
- 16:20Speaker 2: and intelligent children, and the subjects where they don't get
- 16:26Speaker 2: on with their teachers, they just don't do well.
- 16:30Speaker 1: Fascinating stuff. Now, this does not mean that if your
- 16:32Speaker 1: children are happy at school at age six that they're
- 16:34Speaker 1: going to absolutely be guaranteed to do better. It just
- 16:36Speaker 1: means that, on average, what we usually see is a
- 16:38Speaker 1: positive relationship between these two things. And I think that
- 16:41Speaker 1: it's fascinating. Once again, we want to encourage kids to
- 16:44Speaker 1: have great relationships with their teachers, because if they do,
- 16:46Speaker 1: they're nine times more likely to enjoy school. And if
- 16:48Speaker 1: they enjoy school at age six, they're significantly more likely
- 16:52Speaker 1: to do well on those standardized test scores at age sixteen,
- 16:54Speaker 1: even after we control for all of the other factors
- 16:56Speaker 1: that could contribute to it. That is the doctor's death
- 17:00Speaker 1: for this week.
- 17:01Speaker 2: I want to say, I'm looking forward to the next
- 17:02Speaker 2: one in four weeks time. But yes, yes, you are
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