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The Choice To Stay Or Dump God Plus A Walk Through Adult Triggers · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: I do act kind of embarrassed when people say how
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  Speaker 1: many podcasts do you have? Twenty one and growing? Why, Well,
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  Speaker 1: it's not my fault. It's because people enjoy a variety
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  Speaker 1: when they go to a website such as iHeart or
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  Speaker 1: Spotify or wherever else you're getting your junk for your trunk,
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  Speaker 1: they want the ability to find a choice. And it
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  Speaker 1: can't be something that's going to become a challenge. Oh
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  Speaker 1: thosech words, it's erro dot nete net. Enjoy your exploration
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  Speaker 1: when it's extremely difficult to make up your mind. We've
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  Speaker 1: all been there. Having that power of choice can actually
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  Speaker 1: weaken a person's heart. On this episode, we're going to
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  Speaker 1: put focus on making the choice to stay or go
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  Speaker 1: away from God during times of war, inflation, and uncertainty.
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  Speaker 1: Plus the art of listening to adult triggers, those things
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  Speaker 1: that grab us and whip us away. And it's all
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  Speaker 1: connected to a trigger. I'm errow. Life is a series
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  Speaker 1: of choices. Who decides when you're not making the right choice?
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  Speaker 1: And is it a fear of things going wrong? The
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  Speaker 1: greatest lessons in life are often lost inside hidden away
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  Speaker 1: attempts and concepts. It's time to reopen your heart. Having
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  Speaker 1: that power of choice is your daily gift on this highway.
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  Speaker 1: It's time to learn how to trust mirages. What is
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  Speaker 1: the choice? Are more people making the choice to not
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  Speaker 1: turn toward religion during these darker times of inflation, war
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  Speaker 1: and uncertain new beginnings. I didn't expect to see what
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  Speaker 1: I found, But yeah, people around the world aren't as
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  Speaker 1: faith filled as the generations before us. It's not the
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  Speaker 1: entire story. Many people are leaving religious institutions due to
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  Speaker 1: a disagreement with how they are being taught. It's distrust
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  Speaker 1: and religious scandals. Cultures are changing, which is giving up
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  Speaker 1: a feeling of no longer needing organized religion. In the past,
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  Speaker 1: bad or tough times really did bring people together in
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  Speaker 1: a church community. Research shows today that those in question
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  Speaker 1: are having to rethink their choices, stick to the word,
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  Speaker 1: or find a new path of empowerment now. The study
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  Speaker 1: also goes on to say that the word religious is
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  Speaker 1: not a hot word anymore. It's been replaced by spiritual
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  Speaker 1: and I am very, very guilty of that. We still pray,
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  Speaker 1: we still meditate and practice a positive lifestyle, it's just
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  Speaker 1: under a different umbrella. The biggest questions that people are
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  Speaker 1: facing is why is this even happening? The struggles, the questions,
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  Speaker 1: they're very real, and ultimately the path sits where the
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  Speaker 1: power is your choice. Just know that there are currently
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  Speaker 1: two trends that are underway, those who want their religious
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  Speaker 1: studies and those that don't. Nothing else in the middle.
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  Speaker 1: The power is yours. It's your choice. Coming up next,
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  Speaker 1: speaking of choices, making that choice to listen to those
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  Speaker 1: adult triggers, Hey, thanks for coming back to the choice.
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  Speaker 1: Making a choice to listen to your adult triggers. Do
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  Speaker 1: they help you or heal you from your childhood pain?
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  Speaker 1: Many many psychologists see triggers as being signals of problems,
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  Speaker 1: not helpful tools. Did you hear that it's a signal
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  Speaker 1: of a problem. It is not a tool. Triggers are
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  Speaker 1: a signal to pay attention to include criticisms. Number two
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  Speaker 1: of friend cancels a lunch date. That's a trigger, and
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  Speaker 1: the reason why is because it brings up all the
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  Speaker 1: abandonment that you faced as a younger child. Number three conflict.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's always unbearable as an adult because
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  Speaker 1: life as a child was already unpredictable. In those cases,
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  Speaker 1: you've got to learn how to pay attention to the
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  Speaker 1: triggers because it's effective in how you display it on
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  Speaker 1: your beautiful face. Curiosity will not lead you toward healing.
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  Speaker 1: One mental health leader reminds each and every one of
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  Speaker 1: us that healing doesn't come from reliving your past. It's
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  Speaker 1: all about the connection between the past and where you
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  Speaker 1: are in the present. The good news is childhood pain
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  Speaker 1: can loosen up over time. The daily calling is to
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  Speaker 1: identify emotional wounds, to understand why certain situations provoke strong reactions.
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  Speaker 1: Make it a point to separate the present from the
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  Speaker 1: echoes of your past. Put focus on developing a healthier
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  Speaker 1: coping way of relating with your moments that create your
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  Speaker 1: adult triggers. They are less of an obstacle and more
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  Speaker 1: of a signpost. Be aware of them. They point people
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  Speaker 1: that's you. They I point you into the areas that
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  Speaker 1: are calling for help. It is a choice. I'm Marril
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  Speaker 1: and that's what I was writing while the sun was
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  Speaker 1: waking up on a brilliant new day.