Latest / #Faith4TodayPodcast / 🎙️ EP45 – “The Life of Prayer: Communion Over Convenience” (John 17)
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- 0:00In John 17, we hear Jesus pray, and it's not just words, it's a
- 0:04window into his heart. Prayer wasn't just a ritual for
- 0:09Jesus, it was a rich relationship with the Father.
- 0:12It was communion with the Father.
- 0:13And in a world full of distraction and noise, he calls
- 0:17us to return to stillness, to surrender, and to real intimacy
- 0:22with God. This week, we're talking about a
- 0:24life of prayer, how to move beyond just convenience, beyond
- 0:28performance, and into a true rich union in connection with
- 0:32Father Southern Spirit through prayer.
- 0:34And because the most powerful prayer, it's actually the one
- 0:38that you pray. Let's get into it.
- 0:46Hey, welcome to episode 45 of the Faith for Today podcast.
- 0:51My name is Matthew and I'm your host and I'm really glad that
- 0:54you are here with us here on the Faith for Today podcast.
- 0:58We're going to recap a Sunday message.
- 1:01We're going to share a little bonus content beyond the message
- 1:04and answer and respond to some questions that we've received
- 1:08based on the message content, all with the hope and the design
- 1:12to help you not just be inspired on Sunday, but to in the truth
- 1:17into a life of loyalty on a Thursday.
- 1:19So let's get into it today for a quick recap this week we looked
- 1:25at what Jesus's prayer was in John 17.
- 1:28It reveals to us some things about life of prayer.
- 1:32Now prayer isn't just a a religious act.
- 1:35It's how we communicate with God, how we come into alignment
- 1:38with his heart. Prayer is not just reading
- 1:41scripted prayers or list listing personal requests, though those
- 1:45matter and can be a part of our prayer.
- 1:47It's not less than that, but it is more than that.
- 1:52Prayer is communion, it's conversation, it's connection,
- 1:55it's intimacy with Father, Son, and Spirit.
- 1:58Jesus modeled that for us. He often withdrew from the noise
- 2:01of life to be alone with the Father.
- 2:04And that's the pattern of spiritual maturity, isn't it?
- 2:07Diverting our attention away from the world so that we can
- 2:10devote our attention and affection toward God.
- 2:14Jesus showed us that prayer isn't about convenience.
- 2:17It's an act of consecration. It's what shapes our priorities.
- 2:21It right sizes our ambitions, and it transforms our hearts.
- 2:25We live in a culture filled with distraction, apathy, and pride
- 2:30where where we chase comfort, entertainment, and achievement.
- 2:35But prayer reorders our life. It reorders the affections and
- 2:41loves and passions of our life. It calls men and women back to
- 2:45holy ambition, to spiritual leadership in the home.
- 2:48It's where we can intercede for others instead of arguing with
- 2:51them. It's when we stop being consumed
- 2:53by cultural battles, we can actually start engaging in the
- 2:56spiritual ones. We find strength, clarity and
- 3:00purpose again in our place of prayer.
- 3:03Jesus prayed for His Father was in John 17, that we'd be 1, that
- 3:07we know the Father, that we live in his glory.
- 3:10That's intercession, standing in the gap for others out of love.
- 3:14He also modeled this communion, this personal heart level prayer
- 3:18that draws us close to God's presence.
- 3:21Prayer moves us from the shallow distractions of the world to
- 3:25surrendering our cares to resting in His love.
- 3:28It's verbal, it's not silent, it's honest, it's not always
- 3:31polished, it's continual, it's not occasional.
- 3:35The most powerful prayer is the one that you actually pray.
- 3:40This week we want to learn how to surrender our attention.
- 3:43We want to pick a time, pick a place, pray out loud, and be
- 3:48with God. God is waiting and wanting to
- 3:52passionately commune with you in real life, in real time, and
- 3:58that's why we want to live a life of prayer.
- 4:03Let's get into some bonus content from the message.
- 4:07One of the things that I wanted to mention right up top is
- 4:10there's a few books that have been really, really personally
- 4:13impacting my life when it comes to prayer.
- 4:16Some things that I've really, really appreciated.
- 4:18One book is called The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson, a great
- 4:23book all about prayer and being consistent and praying big
- 4:27prayers and trusting God in that process.
- 4:28I think it's a fantastic book on prayer.
- 4:31Another one that I love is the book called Encountering Jesus
- 4:37Really by John Eldridge. His book previous to that,
- 4:42Resilient, which came out right after Kovid, was really, really
- 4:46helpful in understanding communing prayer.
- 4:49In fact, I'll share some insights from that book here in
- 4:51just a minute. But probably my favorite book
- 4:54about prayer by far has been a book entitled Praying Like Monks
- 5:00Living Like Fools from and, and it is a fantastic book that that
- 5:08that that gets at the heart of prayer in such a beautiful way,
- 5:12does a great job. In fact, the the different
- 5:14chapters in the book kind of bring out different elements of
- 5:18prayer, ways in which we engage in prayer, whether it be prayer
- 5:22is a posture reminding us just to kind of pray as we can,
- 5:25helping us learn what confession and the role that confession has
- 5:28in prayer, intercession, the importance of adoration in our
- 5:32prayer. What does it look like to to
- 5:35partner or participate in prayer?
- 5:38How do we live some things out and really engage with God's
- 5:42Kingdom mission? Praying for the what loss?
- 5:45It's just a great, great book about prayer.
- 5:48I thought it was fantastic. Tyler Staton is the author and
- 5:52he wrote in his book Praying like Monks, Living like Fools.
- 5:54And it, it was really, really helpful.
- 5:56In fact, his bonus chapter, like after the book was done, he kind
- 5:59of wrote an additional chapter. And it was a chapter that lit a
- 6:04fire in me as we were leading up to finalizing some of our
- 6:09initial plans for our heart, for the house and our building
- 6:13expansion. And so the Lord used it to
- 6:16really mold something and burn something in me.
- 6:20And it's not the only reason why in our new building, we're going
- 6:23to have a prayer room, but it is a big reason why in our new
- 6:27building. I really just wanted to lean
- 6:30into prayer. I shared in the message how
- 6:34prayer has been kind of a, a bit of a journey.
- 6:37And there there's some reasons why I think we don't often build
- 6:40a life of prayer, whether we, we, we don't think it's for us
- 6:43or it's going to work for us. This might be good for other
- 6:45people. It's not our personality or
- 6:47we're not holy enough for God to answer our prayers or God
- 6:49answers certain people prayers, but he doesn't answer our
- 6:52prayers. I think that's a lie from, from
- 6:54hell. I think it's a deception that we
- 6:56buy into. And then another reason I
- 6:59mentioned in the message was then that that it's too
- 7:03vulnerable. It's too, it feels too weak.
- 7:06Like I, I, and this was my struggle.
- 7:08I just felt like praying for myself or, or really sitting and
- 7:13allowing God's presence to fill me and to really commune with
- 7:16God in prayer required a level of honesty, vulnerability, and
- 7:21just putting myself in a place before God that just it didn't
- 7:25work and I didn't like it. And the, the end result for me
- 7:29was either I just was always asking God, like God, I want you
- 7:32to do this. And I just felt really needy
- 7:34and, and I didn't like that. And I think some of it came back
- 7:36to a a heart posture that had to change in me where I found
- 7:40myself always just kind of asking God for things.
- 7:44And I just felt that there wasn't a real connection with
- 7:48God in prayer, but rather just kind of like your God do my
- 7:51bidding for me. And I began to discover in
- 7:54Scripture that we, we, we present requests to God.
- 7:57We don't get to demand and control God with our prayers.
- 8:00And I think there was some incorrect teaching, incorrect
- 8:04truth inside of me that I just had to confront.
- 8:06And I was unwilling to confront it for a really long time.
- 8:09Like somewhere in the deep parts of my heart, I thought that
- 8:12prayer was about me getting God to do what I wanted to do.
- 8:16And that's not really what prayer is.
- 8:17Prayers about me coming with honesty, transparency,
- 8:20vulnerability to really enjoy communion with him and
- 8:25relationship with him. And it wasn't didn't feel very
- 8:29productive for me. I didn't feel like I was
- 8:31anything was happening. I wasn't making moves and things
- 8:34weren't changing. Like I just wasn't just sitting
- 8:37with God felt like a waste of time.
- 8:41And since I've repented, I've really changed my mind and and
- 8:43gotten to the scriptures to really understand that when we
- 8:46ask, we seek, we nod. The the thing that we really
- 8:49need is God to understand us, God to hear us and God to be
- 8:54present with us. That's what we get in prayer.
- 8:56We get God in prayer, which is why prayer is so incredibly and
- 9:02important. And in the message I kind of
- 9:05shared real quick different categories or types or modes of
- 9:10prayer that I think are evident throughout Scripture and kind of
- 9:15been a part of the Christian tradition for for a little
- 9:18while. And let me let me walk you
- 9:21through those types of prayers or, or modes of prayers, if you
- 9:26will. You have scripted or written or
- 9:29guided prayers. This is where you're either
- 9:33using someone else's prayer, like somebody else has written a
- 9:38prayer or a liturgy that you're reading or listening to.
- 9:42It's kind of a form of using someone else's words to pray to
- 9:47God or engage with God. In fact, today on our social
- 9:51media account today being when I'm recording this.
- 9:54So Monday we've shared out for pastor appreciation month a
- 9:59prayer that you can pray for your pastors of your church,
- 10:04right? And specifically for us at our
- 10:06church, here's a prayer that you can pray.
- 10:08It's a written out prayer that you can pray.
- 10:11So I think that's a way of praying, right?
- 10:13Sometimes we just don't know what to say.
- 10:15And it's good to go and, and read, read a prayer aloud.
- 10:19It's, it's someone else's words, but it's your heart, your
- 10:22desire, your you're borrowing their words to say.
- 10:26I think that's great. I think in scripted written form
- 10:29of prayers we have, this is where we pray Scripture.
- 10:33The Psalms are a book of prayers.
- 10:36You have some prayers in Colossians that are really,
- 10:40really great. I think it's Colossians 1 where
- 10:42Paul says he was a prayer and he says I pray this and he tells
- 10:45them what he's been praying. Well, we can go and borrow
- 10:48Paul's language, his words to pray for ourselves.
- 10:52Ephesians, Ephesians 1, Ephesians 3 have kind of windows
- 10:57of things that Paul is praying. Again, we can borrow his prayer
- 11:00and then of course the Lord's Prayer.
- 11:02Jesus said, pray in this manner and we can both use the Lord's
- 11:06Prayer as a template of, of movements of our prayer, things
- 11:11that we kind of categorically kind of walk through in prayer,
- 11:15or we can just pray the Lord's Prayer.
- 11:18I, I think there's something important about just praying the
- 11:22the words of Jesus our Father was in heaven.
- 11:26Holy is your name and walked it through.
- 11:29I will often use the Lord's Prayer as a nighttime prayer
- 11:34with my kids when they, when they were a little bit younger,
- 11:38we would just recite the Lord's Prayer together.
- 11:42I think that's a way of praying that's a mode or a type or a
- 11:46path of prayer, scripted and written prayers.
- 11:49The second kind of category or, or or or type of prayer is
- 11:53personal petitions and requests. This is where we are making
- 11:57requests to God. We are presenting requests to
- 12:00God. And when you're making a request
- 12:02to God, this is something Laura's has really set me free
- 12:05on. You're not demanding or
- 12:07commanding God to do anything. You are submitting a request to
- 12:14the King. You are telling him what's on
- 12:16your heart, what's on your mind, and you are presenting a request
- 12:22to God, which means that you're not demanding an outcome, but
- 12:27rather presenting and submitting something to God for his
- 12:32outcome, for his will to be done.
- 12:34And so you're coming with the sometimes you have a list,
- 12:38right? I know people that are listeners
- 12:39and they've got lists of people and situations and, and their
- 12:43own life that they are continually praying for.
- 12:45They they pray for lists. Some of you are more like me.
- 12:48You're just going to pray off the cuff.
- 12:49What are there things that come up and you're just going to pray
- 12:51those things? It's not a consistent thing.
- 12:53I don't pray the same thing every day.
- 12:55I don't even pray the same thing every week.
- 12:57But the only time I pray the same thing is Sunday before I
- 13:01get up and preach. I have a liturgy or a a pre
- 13:04written memorized prayer that I've written for myself that I
- 13:09pray every Sunday before every message.
- 13:12That's the only like consistent prayer I pray.
- 13:14Otherwise, I'm pretty off the cuff.
- 13:17Probably in the moment. I'm I'm kind of just going off
- 13:20the cuff praying for things that pop into my mind.
- 13:23And then other times of personal petitions and requests are just
- 13:26when I'm prompted certain requests that like man, I forgot
- 13:29to pray about that. Let me, the Holy Spirit kind of
- 13:31reminds me to pray about something or I find myself
- 13:34thinking about it an awful lot. And I'm like, I bet you God's
- 13:37kind of prompting me to pray about this.
- 13:39Let me, let me go ahead and pray about it.
- 13:41So personal petitions and requests, that's another way of
- 13:44prayer. It's instructed in scripture.
- 13:46We're invited into that. And it's OK to pray for the
- 13:49things that you need. You aren't being selfish when
- 13:53you pray for the things that you need.
- 13:56God wants you to pray and bring those requests to Him.
- 14:00We're instructed to do that in the Scriptures.
- 14:03Why? Because He cares, that's why he
- 14:07really cares. And so we bring a request to him
- 14:10with boldness, with confidence, and, and with assurance that he
- 14:14hears us and that he longs to know what's on our heart and
- 14:19mind. And we're sharing that with the
- 14:20Lord. And we submit the request to the
- 14:22King. And it's up to the King's
- 14:24authority how those requests are responded to.
- 14:28Then it's commuting prayer. Now we talked about commuting
- 14:31prayer on Sunday. Jesus kind of models it really
- 14:34well in John 17, which was our main text.
- 14:38And in communing prayer, this is where the goal of this prayer is
- 14:43to commune and had union with God restored, refreshed, and
- 14:48strengthened. In other words, there's an
- 14:49element of of awareness of his presence that is the end result
- 14:55of this prayer. There is an awareness of his
- 14:57love that is the result of this prayer.
- 15:01And there are different movements to it.
- 15:03I talked about how I start with adoration, then I go to kind of
- 15:07casting my cares and releasing things that I'm carrying to God.
- 15:11And then third, I just enjoy his presence and receive of his love
- 15:17and, and, and his peace in that moment.
- 15:19And this idea of praying like this kind of was introduced to
- 15:24me by John Eldridge and author and therapist and speaker who
- 15:31wrote in his book Resilience. It came out on the tail end of
- 15:34the COVID years and he was writing about the importance of
- 15:39getting to to to the depths of who we are.
- 15:42In other words, Jesus said that out of your innermost being will
- 15:46flow rivers of living water. And I think for many of us,
- 15:50myself included, I don't always experience the river of living
- 15:55water, of the life of the Spirit flowing in me all the time.
- 15:58There are things that hinder me from getting to the depths of
- 16:02that intimacy in union with God, getting to that place.
- 16:06There are things that get in the way of me experiencing the
- 16:10presence of God in a moment. I think that's what Jesus is
- 16:13getting at in Mark when he, he says any anytime you say to this
- 16:16mountain move, it'll be moved and you can ask anything of God
- 16:20and he'll do it. And I've said in a few different
- 16:23Times Now that whenever the Scripture says you can ask
- 16:27anything in his name. It doesn't mean we can ask
- 16:30anything in his name, but it is specifically talking about
- 16:33anything that is in the way of your union with God.
- 16:37You can ask God to remove it and he will.
- 16:40God will always answer the prayer.
- 16:43God, would you remove anything, any lie, any activity, anything
- 16:49in my life that is keeping me from rich union with you?
- 16:54Will you remove anything that is damming up the river of living
- 16:58water from flowing into my life, being that living water that I
- 17:02need to refresh myself so that I never thirst again?
- 17:06Though? Would you be the one that
- 17:08refreshes me? But would you remove everything
- 17:10that is making that feel toxic that's in the root system that
- 17:14is causing my fruit to not grow? In fact, Jesus curses A fig tree
- 17:19and talks about the mountain all in the same text.
- 17:21And I think they've linked those things on purpose.
- 17:24Probably because the conversations happened like
- 17:26that, right? Curses A fig tree.
- 17:28He goes to the temple, overturns tables and talks about how the
- 17:31how God's house is supposed to be a place of prayer.
- 17:34And then on the way back they see the the fruit fig tree
- 17:38cursed. And Jesus says, yeah, man, you
- 17:39can ask God to to to, to, to remove anything out of your life
- 17:43that is disruptive to the fruit of God growing in your life.
- 17:47You can say to this mountain move and it'll move.
- 17:49Why? Because mountains are a place of
- 17:52encounter with God. But mountain also can be
- 17:55obstacles, the things that limit our perspective of seeing God,
- 18:00viewing God and experiencing God, encountering him.
- 18:03And in communing prayer, we have an opportunity for God to remove
- 18:08those things and us to cast our cares on those things.
- 18:11And so John Eldridge talks about commuting prayer into 3
- 18:15movements. He talks about the shallows, the
- 18:17Midlands and the depths. Kind of the shallows are the,
- 18:21the distractions where you're kind of like you're trying to
- 18:23settle in. And so when you're in kind of
- 18:25wading through the shallows, if you're going to get to the
- 18:27depths, you have to go to the shallows first.
- 18:29You start in the shallows and the shallows are where you begin
- 18:32to look to heaven. In fact, I, I love, I want to
- 18:36see if I can get it. The exact quote here in John 17
- 18:40when Jesus begins his prayer and the first thing that Jesus does
- 18:44in John 17 it says is that he he prays for himself.
- 18:47In other words, he's praying for his union with God to be
- 18:50restored, his glory and the things of God, this eternal life
- 18:54to be to be flourishing. I love what it says though in
- 18:57John 17 verse one says Jesus spoke these things, then he
- 19:00looked up to heaven and he said, Father, the hour has come,
- 19:05glorify your Son so that the sun may glorify you.
- 19:09And what I love is that Jesus's first thing is he looked to the
- 19:13sun and said, God, your glory is what I'm after.
- 19:17And so I think in the shallows, the first movement of commuting
- 19:20prayer in the shallows is to remove your distractions so you
- 19:25can look to heaven to to hollow and honor God, to lift and exalt
- 19:30God. So if you're going to change
- 19:33from from focusing on distractions, you need a new
- 19:36focal point. That focal point is who God is.
- 19:39When we give adoration and we begin to express our affection
- 19:44for God, we are no longer giving our attention to anything else.
- 19:48Our attention is now looking up to God, We're looking up to
- 19:51heaven. So in the Shallows we just begin
- 19:53to remove distractions by speaking praise to God.
- 19:58The second movement of commuting prayers, what he calls the
- 20:01Midlands. Where you're in the shallows,
- 20:03you're moving to the kind of the Midlands of everything.
- 20:05And this is where things can get murky and we can get caught up.
- 20:09But this is where in the Midlands, we need to give our
- 20:11cares to God if we're going to experience the depth of his
- 20:14presence and communion. We have got to get rid of the
- 20:17things that we're holding so that we can embrace Christ.
- 20:20One of my life verses is in Philippians chapter 3 where Paul
- 20:25says I've dumped it all in the trash so that I can embrace
- 20:29Christ and be embraced by him. In other words, Paul is saying
- 20:32there are, there are cares and concerns and perspectives that
- 20:37I've held onto in my life that have kept me from embracing God.
- 20:42And I am getting rid of those things so that I, I can embrace
- 20:46Christ. And then he goes on to say that
- 20:49because I've embraced Christ and I've been embraced by him, I'm
- 20:51going to keep running my race. In other words, I'm full of the
- 20:54life of God and I can go live a life for God because I've
- 20:58embraced God today. So in the Midlands is where you
- 21:01cast your cares on him, as Peter says, because he cares for you.
- 21:05So in the Midlands, what, what do I do?
- 21:06So first I start with adoration and praise in the shallows.
- 21:09Then you get a little bit deeper into things and, and you begin
- 21:12to cast your cares on God. You tell you surrender what it
- 21:15is that you're worried about the, the meetings that you have
- 21:17that day, the bills that have been coming in the fight that
- 21:20you've had the, the thing you're trying to control, but you know
- 21:24you can't control the, the worry that you have.
- 21:27You begin to cast your cares to God and let him take them.
- 21:31And you ask him, is there anything else God that's in the
- 21:34way that I'm holding that I need to get rid of?
- 21:36Is there a sin I'm holding on to?
- 21:37Is there a habit that I need to change, which is their opinion
- 21:40and perspective that I need to release?
- 21:43It's in the Midlands that we unburden ourselves from the
- 21:47cares of this life. And then once we've unburdened
- 21:51ourselves because we've given those to God, we can step into
- 21:55the depths of His love, the depths of His presence.
- 21:59And this is where you get to enjoy his presence, His glory,
- 22:01communion with God. We get to enjoy the love of God.
- 22:06And when I step into the depths, I'm just Lord.
- 22:08Would you just show me your love today?
- 22:10Would you show me your presence today?
- 22:12Would you fill me here? Holy Spirit, fresh today?
- 22:15May I have commute? Would you restore my union with
- 22:19you right now? And I just get to sit and enjoy
- 22:22His presence in that moment because I started with
- 22:24adoration, I've cast my cares and now I'm able to embrace God
- 22:29and the love that He has. This is commuting prayer.
- 22:31It has been game changer for me. I've loved getting to do it.
- 22:35Sometimes I can do it in like 3 minutes.
- 22:37Sometimes I'll take you know, 13 minutes or 30 minutes.
- 22:41But commuting prayer is such a powerful mode of prayer.
- 22:45I love it. Other modes of prayer are
- 22:49praying in the Spirit, praying in tongues.
- 22:50I I do believe in praying in tongues.
- 22:52I still pray in tongues. Pray in tongues often, almost
- 22:55daily. Not quite, but almost the
- 22:58Scripture I think is, is, is that there's plenty of and I
- 23:02know, I know that there are other theological perspectives
- 23:05that maybe don't believe that praying in tongues is for every
- 23:09believer. Some believe that it's not for
- 23:11any believer. I'm definitely not in that camp.
- 23:14I do believe that it is the Holy Spirit is still active in full
- 23:18view and in full manner. And so I pray in spirit all the
- 23:22time. I pray in tongues.
- 23:23I pray in a heavenly prayer language, not necessarily
- 23:26publicly for show, but in following First Corinthians 14
- 23:30that says he who prays in an unknown tongue speaks mysteries
- 23:33unto God. And so I'm, I'm I'm willing to
- 23:36tap into that and allow the Spirit to pray through groanings
- 23:39through me and praying in the Spirit edifies myself.
- 23:42It builds me up, it strengthens my faith and it's something I
- 23:46need often. And then the last kind of mode
- 23:50or kind of type of prayer is intercession.
- 23:55And intercession we talked a lot about because Jesus models
- 23:58intercession, that says that he prays for his disciples and then
- 24:01he prays for all believers. He's praying for someone other
- 24:04than himself. And I think intercession is
- 24:06indeed that. It is praying for other people
- 24:09motivated by love, that they would see his glory.
- 24:12It's specific and it's on behalf of other people.
- 24:16And so that's what intercession is when you're interceding for
- 24:20someone else. Now we have some great examples
- 24:23of intercession and I didn't get get into this, but Hebrews 7
- 24:27verse 25 says therefore Jesus is able to save completely those
- 24:32who come to God through him, since he always lives to
- 24:36intercede for them. So there is an understanding
- 24:40that Jesus is sitting at the right hand of God right now,
- 24:43embodied and enthroned next to God, and He is praying for you
- 24:49and He's interceding on our behalf.
- 24:52He's praying out of love. He's praying that we would get
- 24:54the glory of God and we would experience that in him.
- 24:57And he's praying that we would, that he's praying specifically
- 25:01for the things that we need and who we are.
- 25:03He knows Jesus is our intercessor.
- 25:07He is interceding for us. That's a really cool thing.
- 25:09I love that. Romans 827 says that he who
- 25:12searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit.
- 25:15Because he intercedes, the Spirit intercedes for the Saints
- 25:18according to the will of God. And so the Holy Spirit is our
- 25:23intercessor. Now I do believe that that is
- 25:25linked with a prayer language. And so when we're praying in the
- 25:28Spirit, we're actually praying through the Spirit and the
- 25:32Spirit is praying in US. We're partnering with the Spirit
- 25:36in prayer, and we are interceding according to the
- 25:41will of God. And I do believe that when we're
- 25:43praying in the Spirit, we are praying the will of God into any
- 25:48situation. But the Holy Spirit is our
- 25:50intercessor. Jesus is our intercessor.
- 25:53And we've been invited to step into intercession for other
- 25:58people, for our communities, for the world, for the sake of God's
- 26:03glory, coming down motivated out of love for them and praying
- 26:07specific things that God has on our heart.
- 26:10Because at the end of the day, prayer really is powerful.
- 26:14Now, I hit this really quick in the message, but I, I want to
- 26:16state it really clear. I mean, Jesus prayed some really
- 26:19big prayers and, and prayer is powerful because it not only
- 26:25creates outcomes, but really it changes us.
- 26:29Prayer by by default changes who we are.
- 26:32It helps us change. It invites God to work.
- 26:37God does not move unless people pray.
- 26:43I'm not saying God can't move. I'm not saying God is restricted
- 26:46or he never will. But primarily the way in which
- 26:49God begins to move is that his people pray.
- 26:52Like you see it so often, like there is a moment where somebody
- 26:56intercedes, somebody's praying. God longs for his people to
- 27:00partner with him in prayer. I think Jesus was fully aware
- 27:05that there was power in prayer. Why?
- 27:08Because prayer is verbal, and when we're praying verbally, we
- 27:12are speaking life and communion with God there.
- 27:14There's something powerful that happens.
- 27:16Jesus knew there's power in prayer.
- 27:18I think it's important. This isn't lame.
- 27:20It's actual like spiritual life. I I think all of life is
- 27:26spiritual. I think all of life is physical.
- 27:29It's both physical and spiritual.
- 27:30Those things are linked together and and what what God always
- 27:34does is is he works with inside out.
- 27:38He works from the invisible to the visible and prayer is a way
- 27:41of bringing the invisible realities and desires of God
- 27:45into the visible reality of of his of the world in which we
- 27:49live. This is why we pray your Kingdom
- 27:50come, your will be done on earth like it is in heaven.
- 27:54So, so God, would you allow the things that you desire that are
- 27:57unseen to become seen on the earth.
- 28:00And so prayer is a powerful, powerful thing.
- 28:04Prayer has a way of, of resisting the enemy, moving the
- 28:07enemy. In fact, Jesus prays even in
- 28:09John 17 that that we would be 1. He prays that we would be
- 28:13protected from the evil 1 the schemes of the devil.
- 28:16He prays that we would experience God's glory.
- 28:19He prays that we would be sanctified, that we would have
- 28:22illumination of the truth. Like Jesus prays some really big
- 28:25things, but his prayer is powerful James tells us that the
- 28:30effectual, fervent prayer of the righteous person produces or
- 28:34avails much because there is power in our prayer, there is
- 28:39power in a unified prayer. In fact, one of the most
- 28:42powerful forces of prayer, and I do really do believe this, it's
- 28:48when a husband and wife are on the same page, in union together
- 28:52with God, submitted to God in his word, and they pray
- 28:55together. When a husband and wife pray
- 28:57together, they, they are so unified.
- 28:59They are so in agreement. They are so in one with each
- 29:03other. That man, that is a powerful,
- 29:05powerful prayer. And so I think those things are
- 29:07really, really important. I think many of us struggle in
- 29:11our lives with sinfulness because we're trying to live in
- 29:18this life by willpower alone. But you cannot overcome
- 29:23sinfulness with willpower. You you can do some things, you
- 29:27can, you can grow in some ways, but you cannot break the power
- 29:31of sin with your willpower. You need the Holy Spirit's power
- 29:36to overcome those forces of sin with with the self-control that
- 29:41the Spirit is is birthing and bringing inside of you.
- 29:44Like you need more than just willpower.
- 29:47You need the Holy Spirit to empower you to live and do those
- 29:51things. So there is power in that.
- 29:53In fact, Jesus said there are certain demonic things that you
- 29:57can't rebuke or cast out from your midst without prayer and
- 30:03fasting. So there's something powerful
- 30:06about these these things where where we aren't living by
- 30:09willpower, but we are being filled the spirit and living
- 30:12according to the power of of the Spirit.
- 30:15First Timothy 612 says fight the good fight of faith.
- 30:18Take hold of eternal life to which you were called and about
- 30:21which you have made a good confession in the presence of
- 30:24many witnesses. Take hold of eternal life.
- 30:27There is a fight, but it is a spiritual battle that is lived
- 30:31out in a physical world and he says take hold of eternal life.
- 30:35Well, what is eternal life when we talked about it in the
- 30:37message, Eternal life is union with the Father, Son and Spirit.
- 30:41It is the spirit life filling your life right now and ongoing
- 30:47into the life in the world to come.
- 30:48Eternal life is God's way of saying or the New Testaments way
- 30:53of describing union with God, relationship with God, knowing
- 30:57God John 17 and verse 3 and this is eternal life that they would
- 31:02know you the way. Sure, he didn't say this is how
- 31:05you have eternal life. He says this is eternal life
- 31:10that we would know the father and the one that he sent Jesus's
- 31:13son. So union in relational knowledge
- 31:17and understanding and experience of God the Father, Son and
- 31:21Spirit is eternal life for us and and Timothy says Paul says
- 31:26that Timothy take hold of that eternal life.
- 31:28Fight the good fight. How do we fight?
- 31:30We fight in prayer, and in prayer we take hold of the
- 31:34eternal life that God has for us.
- 31:36John 1721 through 23 says May they all be one, as you, Father,
- 31:40are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that
- 31:45the world may believe that you sent me.
- 31:47I have given them the glory you have given me so that they may
- 31:50be one as we are one. I am in them and you are in me,
- 31:54so that they may be made completely one for the world.
- 31:58They know that you have sent me and have loved them as you have
- 32:01loved me. What a what a prayer Jesus
- 32:05praised. I think it's incredible.
- 32:11I love that he prayed this prayer and he's what is he
- 32:14praying? He's praying for us to
- 32:16experience eternally that we would be 1 with the Father, Son,
- 32:21and Spirit. Then we'd have union.
- 32:22And in that union we would receive God's glory, the same
- 32:26glory that God gave Jesus. What was the glory that God gave
- 32:28Jesus? He gave him the Holy Spirit.
- 32:30He gave him union with the Father.
- 32:32He gave him an unveiled face to encounter God.
- 32:35And when Jesus died in the veil and the temple was torn in two
- 32:38and the Holy Spirit poured out on the day of Pentecost, we have
- 32:41been given the very abiding, embodied presence of God in us
- 32:45so that we with unveiled face can come and behold His glory,
- 32:49His goodness, we can experience him.
- 32:52So what do we get in prayer? We get God, that's the point.
- 32:56And Jesus is praying that we would get a hold of God.
- 32:59We would get union with God in prayer because that's the whole
- 33:03point of prayer that we would get him.
- 33:05And that verse 23, I am in them and you are in me.
- 33:08So that they may be made completely one that that that
- 33:14could be talked about in terms of unity with all of the body of
- 33:17Christ. But it also can reference you
- 33:21being whole, you being one. You're not fragmented anymore.
- 33:26You're not broken down anymore. You're not disengaged from the
- 33:30real life of God. No, you've been received the
- 33:32Spirit, the ruach of God, the breath of God is now living in
- 33:36you and the Holy Spirit. And so you are now in union with
- 33:40God, not in full unveiled face where we can see God face to
- 33:46face. No, no, not yet.
- 33:47But we will one day. The Holy Spirit's a down
- 33:49payment, a guarantee of those things that are to come.
- 33:52But we get a taste of the glory now because He's making us,
- 33:56complete us completely. 11 in our own soul, body and spirit,
- 34:03that the world may know that you have sent me and that you have
- 34:06loved them as you have loved me. In other words, God saying, I
- 34:10want you to be whole and one of the ways you get to be made
- 34:13whole is that you receive the love of God just like Jesus
- 34:17received the love of God, that the goodness of God would be
- 34:20there. Revelation 3 and verse 20 last
- 34:23verse on this point is this. He says, see I stand at the door
- 34:26and knock. Anyone who hears my voice and
- 34:29opens the door, I will come in to eat, come into him and eat
- 34:34with him and he with me. In other words, the point of all
- 34:38of this is Jesus bringing us to union with Father, Son, and
- 34:43Spirit so that we can receive of His love.
- 34:45We can have communion, we can share a meal together.
- 34:47We can we can be with God that there's this, there's union with
- 34:50God. We were made for that kind of
- 34:52glory throughout of the Scripture.
- 34:55John 17 one and two, John 17 five, John 1713, John 172223 and
- 35:0224 all talk about glory. This idea that we would receive
- 35:07God's glory, that we would experience God's glory, that we
- 35:09would, like Paul says with unveiled faces in Corinthians,
- 35:14experience the glory of God and be changed from glory to glory,
- 35:19from goodness of God to goodness of God, from strength of
- 35:22fidelity in him to strength of fidelity in him.
- 35:26Because like Moses on Mount Sinai who met with God face to
- 35:30face, he asked God to show him his glory.
- 35:33And God says, I will let you see my goodness.
- 35:36My goodness will pass before you.
- 35:38So the glory of God is His goodness.
- 35:41His goodness is seen in his unmerited favor.
- 35:44His unmerited favor is His Spirit that pours out a gift of
- 35:50himself into US. What is God's goodness today
- 35:54that we can experience here? It is is you experiencing the
- 35:57person of the Spirit filling your life where you can have
- 36:02union, communion, relationship, abiding with God the Father, God
- 36:08the Son and God the Spirit that you were made for that kind of
- 36:12glory. And that's the beauty of what
- 36:15Jesus modeled in his prayer in John 17 into a few questions and
- 36:20response that came in. So here's the first question,
- 36:24Who is the quote UN quote, son of destruction?
- 36:27And can you expound on the next phrase that Scripture might be
- 36:30fulfilled? Quote UN quote?
- 36:31Yeah, let me read the the the whole verse to you.
- 36:35It's John 17. Jesus is praying for his
- 36:39disciples specifically, and he says verse 12, while I was with
- 36:45them, I was protecting them by your name that you have given
- 36:47me. I guarded them and not one of
- 36:49them is lost. Accept the Son of destruction so
- 36:53that the Scripture may be fulfilled.
- 36:56I believe that Jesus is talking about a couple things.
- 36:59One, he's referring to his 12 apostles specifically.
- 37:03That's who he's praying for and that's who he's referring to.
- 37:06That these were the ones that God wanted him to bring into
- 37:11this apostleship. And he's specifically referring
- 37:14to Judas, who would betray him as the son of destruction, the
- 37:17one who would experience destruction and because of the
- 37:21betrayal of Jesus. And, and this was to fulfill
- 37:25scriptures. Scripture in the Old Testament
- 37:27had prophesied and pointed to that there would be someone who
- 37:31would betray Jesus, betray the Messiah and be used in the
- 37:38revolt that would allow for the the whole crucifixion and being
- 37:43turned over to the Pharisees and then to Rome and all of that.
- 37:47In fact, the Psalm 41 eight through 9 kind of reference that
- 37:51one of his friends would betray him and that would be lost
- 37:55forever. I this is a song that was
- 37:57prayed. In fact, another kind of
- 37:58interesting link in this, I think, is that that Jesus knew
- 38:03Psalm 41 was referencing Psalm 41 specifically in this prayer.
- 38:08And Jesus, like his ancestor King David, Jesus in a Davidic
- 38:14way was praying a prayer that David prayed, was praying a
- 38:18prayer that would link him as the son of David, the coming
- 38:25king. In that same way, betrayal on
- 38:28that level was something those coups only happened to royal
- 38:32people, right? And so there's this kind of
- 38:35motif in the Scriptures of Jesus as king, which is a reality.
- 38:40And because Jesus is king, he's similar to the son of the
- 38:44lineage of King David and a new David, if you will, the full
- 38:48fulfillment of the one that would come in this way.
- 38:51And like David would liberate his people and return them back
- 38:53to, to to glory, if you will. And here's Jesus in a Davidic
- 38:58way, expressing the same pain that David experienced of
- 39:02betrayal of someone close to him.
- 39:05And so Jesus was kind of referencing that, reiterating
- 39:09that. And I think that's exactly what
- 39:10it was. I think Jesus knew exactly what
- 39:13the Father was planning to do. And Jesus, in previous
- 39:17scriptures, I think it's 13, had already released Judas to go and
- 39:24do what was in his heart to do. I think that the point of it is,
- 39:28is that we, we can eventually be turned over to our evil desires.
- 39:35We can be turned over to our hardness of heart.
- 39:38I think Jesus continually helped correct the disciples
- 39:41understanding and protect their heart from growing in the wrong
- 39:46direction. In fact, multiple times he
- 39:49corrects John and James, he corrects Peter.
- 39:51He keeps them from arguing about things.
- 39:54Why? Because the yeast of Herod and
- 39:56the yeast of of the Pharisees was a legitimate concern that
- 40:00they would become toxic in themselves that the good things
- 40:03that God was growing in them and their faithfulness to Jesus as
- 40:06Messiah. And their loyal allegiance to
- 40:09him was growing, but now there was coming a point where there
- 40:13were competing allegiances in their heart.
- 40:15They would continually argue about things that would divide
- 40:19their loyalty and trust in who Jesus really was.
- 40:23And here's Jesus saying I've I've the name you gave me,
- 40:26Father has given me authority to protect them because of they're
- 40:32under my protection, they are following me.
- 40:34They are in submission to me. And because they are men under
- 40:37the authority of Jesus, Jesus's authority is able to protect
- 40:41them from the schemes and the work of Satan.
- 40:44But there was one who despite all of that, continue to allow
- 40:49his heart to be hardened. And he stepped into rebellion as
- 40:53he betrayed Jesus and the Satan had already gotten into his
- 40:58heart and it was hard and he was prideful and he was convinced.
- 41:03And he was walking in an obstinate disbelief of Jesus as
- 41:07the Messiah. And because he could not get
- 41:10over the fact that Jesus wasn't the Messiah in the way that he
- 41:15wanted the Messiah to come. Because the reality is, like
- 41:17Judas, we all have to come to grips with, do we get Jesus on
- 41:22our terms? Where are we going to accept and
- 41:25trust Jesus on his terms? And, and it's an act and A and,
- 41:29and a wrestling of our loyalty and our allegiance to Jesus as
- 41:33King. We don't get King Jesus on our
- 41:36terms. We get them on his.
- 41:38And Judas, like so many others who have followed him throughout
- 41:42history, want to craft Jesus into their own image, to their
- 41:47own purpose. And it didn't work.
- 41:50And Judas's heart was hard. And Judas eventually was
- 41:53released by Jesus, turned over to his own evil desires, where
- 41:58Satan had gotten into his heart. And I think there are moments in
- 42:02all of our lives where if we keep being hard of heart, Jesus
- 42:07will turn us over to our own rebellion, our own evil.
- 42:10That's why Paul says turn this person over to Satan.
- 42:15Why? Because they have unrepentant,
- 42:17they are unwilling to accept Jesus Lordship and the way of
- 42:21Jesus. And so in their rebellion and
- 42:24hardness of heart, you have to release them to their desires
- 42:28and release them to those things.
- 42:30And that's what Jesus was talking about.
- 42:32And Jesus was referring to Judas and it fulfilled the prophetic
- 42:35scriptures as well. Second question, what does it
- 42:41look like to live in the world but not of the world?
- 42:46Like how do we walk that out? How do I go to work and take
- 42:50Jesus with me? I think this is a really helpful
- 42:54and important question. Number one, make no mistake,
- 42:58Jesus was praying here. Not that we would be taken out
- 43:02of the world, but that we would be protected in the world.
- 43:05I have to think of it like this. We don't need to isolate our
- 43:09lives, but we do need to insulate our hearts.
- 43:12In other words, we don't need to live separate, nor do we need to
- 43:16try to assimilate into culture to where our life looks exactly
- 43:19like the world. No, no, we're not of the world.
- 43:21We don't look like the world. Jesus even prayed that we
- 43:24wouldn't look like the world. But we are in the world and as
- 43:28exiles in this place, we need to recognize that we are called to
- 43:33live in a way that looks, sounds and acts like Jesus.
- 43:39So that's I think what we do. The question is not, do you know
- 43:44the Scriptures? The question isn't, do you wear
- 43:47Christian T-shirts? Do you vote a certain way?
- 43:50Those are not questions of spiritual maturity.
- 43:53The mark of spiritual maturity is that we are becoming a people
- 43:58of Jesus love that we are becoming people of agape that we
- 44:02are being formed and fashioned into the image of Christ so that
- 44:06we live, sound and love like Jesus.
- 44:11That we are people who are who are slow to anger that that we
- 44:15live out first Corinthians 13 that we're not rude or that that
- 44:20that we're not self seeking. We're not keeping records of
- 44:23wrong. We're we're, we're believing the
- 44:25best of other people where our hope is steady and strong,
- 44:28right? That's that's becoming a person
- 44:29of agape love. 1st Corinthians 13.
- 44:32I think it looks like us demonstrating and living out the
- 44:36fruit of the spirit, Lovejoy, peace, patience, kindness,
- 44:39goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control that
- 44:42we demonstrated the fruit of the spirit.
- 44:45And I think prayer, especially communing prayer, is the way in
- 44:50which we allow God to cleanse the root system of our soul so
- 44:55that our fruit that is produced in our life is good.
- 44:59So it does look like Jesus. And so that we can work in the
- 45:03world but not be slave to the world, that we can serve the
- 45:07people around us and not be sinful like the people around
- 45:12us. I think another way that we
- 45:14bring Jesus to work with us is we, we, we live out Colossians
- 45:18right as we work as unto the Lord, not unto man.
- 45:22And whatever we set our hand to do, whatever our hands find to
- 45:25do, whatever it is that is our quote UN quote work in this
- 45:28season, we do it with all our hearts, soul, mind and strength
- 45:31as unto the Lord. So you show up on time, I think.
- 45:35I think followers of Jesus ought to be the best employees ever.
- 45:39Like we show up on time, we do really good work, we don't take
- 45:42shortcuts, we're honest. We need to respect other people,
- 45:46We need to refuse to gossip. We need to not complain and moan
- 45:51about everything. We need to communicate.
- 45:54We need to exceed the expectations and do more, go
- 45:58beyond what is even expected us. Why?
- 46:00Because we are stewards who are not just accountable to an
- 46:03earthly boss, but we are stewards who are accountable to
- 46:05God and how we show up in in the workplace.
- 46:09I think that ought to be us. I think we ought to be those
- 46:12people. And so when we live that way,
- 46:15we're actually being people of love who show up in the world,
- 46:19not looking like the world, but having salt, having the God
- 46:24flavor in the world that we bring out and help preserve
- 46:28people and point them back-to-back to God.
- 46:31And so I think that we, we, we, we work in the world, but we
- 46:35don't come slaves of the world. We are in the world, but we
- 46:38aren't sinful in the ways of the world.
- 46:41And I think that's a big part of what it means to live and work
- 46:46like Jesus as a person of love in in our midst.
- 46:50Here's the next question. It says, so Satan can't read our
- 46:53minds, but he can hear what we say on certain topics of prayer.
- 46:58What if we don't want the devil to hear what we're communicating
- 47:01to God? Before I get too deep into this,
- 47:08I'm going to take some more coffee here.
- 47:10I think it's a really interesting question.
- 47:12First, let me say this really clear.
- 47:15Satan is a spirit being who cannot be everywhere at all
- 47:21times. So Satan isn't everywhere.
- 47:24He's only in one place at one time.
- 47:26Now there are many Nieman's now there are many evil malevolent
- 47:30spiritual forces at play. And by and large the enemy has
- 47:37learned humanity enough and has infiltrated the the the leaders
- 47:43in certain areas to where certain systems and settings
- 47:48have already kind of given their allegiance and gone the way of
- 47:52the world. Where greed, where power in
- 47:56control, where selfish pleasure are at the root of what these
- 48:01systems and structures and are already doing that they're
- 48:05perpetuating evil on his behalf, even though he may not be
- 48:09present in every person or individual.
- 48:13That's kind of how Satan has always worked behind the scenes
- 48:16to influence structures and systems to perpetuate evil and
- 48:20to drift people away from God. Kind of like strongholds, if you
- 48:24if you will. He does it in in individual
- 48:26people's lives as as well. So while there are many demons
- 48:30around, all demons and spiritual, evil, spiritual
- 48:33beings and Satan himself are limited to singular locations at
- 48:38any one time. They are not all knowing, they
- 48:41are not all powerful, and they are not omnipresent.
- 48:44Only God alone is those things. So secondly, that means Satan
- 48:51and his demons cannot read minds.
- 48:53Why? The ability to know the hearts
- 48:55and thoughts of people belong exclusively to Yahweh.
- 48:59However, demons are and have been observing humans for
- 49:04thousands of years and can make educated guesses about our
- 49:08thoughts, carefully studying our behaviors, reactions and
- 49:11weaknesses knows kind of how to get at the root of who we are.
- 49:14They can overhear our speech. That is true.
- 49:17And they can use their long experience to potentially even
- 49:20anticipate what we might be thinking, what we might do next.
- 49:24And some people have even reported that some some do
- 49:27believe that that that demons can suggest certain things.
- 49:30I, I, I am one of those. I think that the enemy can come
- 49:33around and plant thoughts into our mind and inspire our
- 49:36thoughts or imaginations incorrectly.
- 49:39That's called the spirit of fear, by the way, that that's
- 49:42one of the ways that fear works. It's these thoughts that come
- 49:45into our mind that we have not been guarding our mind and, and
- 49:48all of a sudden we are now living with thoughts and
- 49:52imaginations that are fear rooted in the spirit of fear
- 49:57that move us away from God, move us away from being people of
- 50:00love, move us away from experiencing God's power and
- 50:04we're living in the wrong, the wrong way.
- 50:06Nonetheless, I digress, the biblical guidance is that we
- 50:11would submit to God first and then resist the devil,
- 50:15recognizing that our human vulnerabilities to various
- 50:19influences that that could manipulate or or deceive us.
- 50:23I love how John Mark Comer identifies it in his book Live
- 50:28No Lies. He says the way the enemy works
- 50:30today is through lies that take root and placate to the disorder
- 50:35desires in US and that have been normalized in the sinful society
- 50:39so an enemy can implant a thought to us that isn't true.
- 50:44It feels right though, because our our desires aren't rightly
- 50:47ordered. We have some disordered things,
- 50:49a sinful disordering within us, some passions that are unholy in
- 50:54US. And then we look around at
- 50:56society that is sinful, that is demonstrating and living in the
- 51:01very thing that we feel or desire in our heart.
- 51:03And we're like might not be that bad.
- 51:05And that begins to create strongholds and patterns of
- 51:08living in our own lives so that we with one thought, end up just
- 51:12perpetuating again our own evil and the the way of the enemy
- 51:17rather than living in the way of way of God.
- 51:19And so when we pray, and it's important to know we are talking
- 51:23to God, can the enemy overhear us?
- 51:26Well, sure, if he's present. But remember he only can be in
- 51:29one place at one time. And, and so if you have resisted
- 51:33the enemy, if you are redeemed by the blood of the Lamb, you've
- 51:37been anointed and filled to overflowing with the Spirit in
- 51:40your life. There's no room and you've
- 51:42closed the doors and the windows and the access points to the
- 51:45enemy getting in. You can pray with freedom in
- 51:48knowing all things. And if you are worried that
- 51:50there might be an opening in your heart and mind, bitterness,
- 51:53unforgiveness, sexual sin, unrepentant anger, things that
- 51:59have misaligned some areas of unbelief or rebellion in your
- 52:04heart, you've played around with witchcraft or seances and evil
- 52:07spirits. And you've been, I'm honestly
- 52:09entertaining evil spiritual realities to your life,
- 52:15especially this time of year. And you've opened yourself up to
- 52:18those things. Well, there might be some evil
- 52:21influences that have been trying to wreak havoc in your life and
- 52:23you've given them access to that.
- 52:24Well, you need to submit to God, repent of all those things that
- 52:28may be unbelief or unforgiveness, whatever, and
- 52:31then resist the enemy. And Scripture says when you
- 52:33resist the enemy, he will flee. James.
- 52:37James teaches us that. And so when you're coming to
- 52:40prayer, you don't want the enemy to hear you resist him, rebuke
- 52:43him, cast him out first, make your heart cleansed in terms of
- 52:47being submitted to Lord, and then continue to to pray and
- 52:49talk to God. But by and large, most of the
- 52:52time the enemy isn't at anyone place.
- 52:55I mean, he only can be at one place at one time.
- 52:58And the other evil forces are only in one place at one time.
- 53:02They are not, please hear me. They are not omnipresent, all
- 53:07knowing, nor all powerful. They do have knowledge, they do
- 53:11have power, and they can be in places, but they're not Omni in
- 53:15that in that sense. In fact, another thing that I
- 53:17think is really important, this is 1st Corinthians 14 verse 2.
- 53:24It says when we speak in an unknown tongue, when we pray in
- 53:27the Holy Spirit, when we pray in tongues, we are speaking to God,
- 53:31not to man, and we are uttering mysteries that only God can
- 53:36understand. In other words, the one type of
- 53:39prayer that Satan can cannot understand is when we are
- 53:42praying in the heavenly language, can't understand it.
- 53:46No one understands it except God alone, and God alone can reveal
- 53:51interpretations and understandings of what we've
- 53:54prayed if we've asked and if it's necessary.
- 53:57But when we're talking to God, we don't have to have an
- 53:58interpreter because we're not talking for us and we're not
- 54:01talking for anybody else's benefit.
- 54:02When we're praying in times we're actually talking to God.
- 54:04And in so doing, Scripture says that we are uttering mysteries
- 54:08unto God that God understands, but no one else, not even Satan.
- 54:14What's the next question says, why is prayer so essential?
- 54:18Like not optional for a mature life of faith?
- 54:24It's essential for so many reasons.
- 54:25Prayer is the way in which we commune and connect with God.
- 54:29The the end result of prayer is God.
- 54:33The end result of our prayer isn't God acting on our behalf.
- 54:37The end result is God interacting with our life,
- 54:41growing in US. I think when we pray, it brings
- 54:44us a sense of wholeness, perfect peace by keeping our mind on him
- 54:49as we read in Philippians 36 and verse 7, prayer is verbal,
- 54:55remember, And because prayer is verbal, it renews it.
- 54:58It it changes the way that we think Prayer is verbal.
- 55:02So it really, so when we're talking and we're casting our
- 55:05cares to God, we are releasing lament, releasing grief,
- 55:08releasing anguish, releasing and naming the cares of our life
- 55:12that we are holding, that we're trying to control.
- 55:15And so in so doing, by releasing those things to God, we can
- 55:19receive his wholeness, his oneness, His union, his love,
- 55:24his perfect peace. I think prayer is so essential
- 55:28because it invites us to push aside distractions.
- 55:31Listen, the distractions of this life absolutely erode the work
- 55:37of God in our lives. And this is the parable of the
- 55:40sower where Jesus is the cares of this life, the deceitfulness
- 55:43of wealth and the desire for other things.
- 55:45Come and choke out the word of God in US.
- 55:48Come and choke out the fruit, the results, the the, the, the,
- 55:53the growth that can happen in our life.
- 55:55Why? Because the cares of this life,
- 55:57the distractions of our world compete for our attention.
- 56:01I've said it before, time is no longer money.
- 56:04Your attention is now the currency of our day.
- 56:08Why? Because what you give your
- 56:10attention to, you will give your affection to.
- 56:15And what you give your affection to ultimately has your loyalty
- 56:21and trust. Why?
- 56:23Because love and trust go hand in hand.
- 56:25And the more affectionate you are for things of this world,
- 56:29the more your loyalty and your allegiance are to those things.
- 56:32And those things cannot save you.
- 56:35Those things cannot deliver you from the enemy.
- 56:37Those things cannot make you whole in your soul.
- 56:40Those things cannot bring eternal life abounding in you.
- 56:45Only God can do that. And when we give our attention
- 56:49to God, that's what we're doing. We're giving him our affection
- 56:52and our attention. And when we are praying, we we
- 56:55begin to recognize that there are barriers.
- 56:58We have to acknowledge that convenience, unbelief, busyness,
- 57:02pride or fear of rejection are holding us back and that's why
- 57:10we don't pray and in prayer. So when we step into a life of
- 57:13prayer, we are, we are resisting convenience, we are resisting
- 57:17unbelief. We are resisting busyness.
- 57:20We are, we are, we are saying no to the barrier of pride and no
- 57:23to the barrier of of of a fear of being rejected.
- 57:27And it calls us back into devotion instead of distraction.
- 57:31It invites us to consecrate our lives instead of living with
- 57:34convenience. This is why prayer is essential.
- 57:38Prayer also puts us in shared mission union with God that
- 57:44overflows into love for people as we intercede for them.
- 57:48So prayer also has a way of putting us on mission with God
- 57:51to love others, to care for them, to see, see things change,
- 57:54to be his agents in the world. So prayer is absolutely
- 57:57essential for a life of faith. I said on Sunday that we read
- 58:04God's word to grow in information and knowledge of
- 58:07God, but it's in prayer that we grow in our understanding of who
- 58:11God is because we experience him.
- 58:15Scripture gives us information, prayer leads us to encounter
- 58:20him. Scripture describes who God is.
- 58:24It's in prayer, in his presence, in our communion with him that
- 58:27we can grow in our understanding, where we have
- 58:31real data experiencing who he who he is.
- 58:36And I think prayer is absolutely essential for our lives.
- 58:40And, and in fact, I'll go as far as to say this, you will not
- 58:45live out the purpose of God and you will not grow as a follower
- 58:51of Jesus without living a life of prayer.
- 58:55Jesus modeled it and he taught us to do it because we've got to
- 58:59step into it. Here's the last question.
- 59:04How do I go from worry to intercession?
- 59:06Like what happens when I'm praying and I've done all the
- 59:10steps, but I don't even feel like I've communed?
- 59:13We're connected with God. What then?
- 59:16I think this is a legit thing. I think it's important to
- 59:21remember to pray out loud. Why?
- 59:23Because it actually unleashes the life of God from our mouths.
- 59:26Life and death are in the power of our tongue.
- 59:29Not in our thoughts, not in the internal things, not thoughts
- 59:33alone, vibes alone. No, no, it's in the power of our
- 59:36tongue, the things that we say. So most of us don't feel like
- 59:40we've connected with God because we've not actually communicated
- 59:43to God. We've just thought things and
- 59:46we're like, well, God knows my thoughts.
- 59:47Yeah. Yeah.
- 59:47But he wants you to talk and say them out loud because when you
- 59:50say them out loud, you actually have to own them.
- 59:52You actually have to be honest about them.
- 59:54You actually have to to bring those to God.
- 59:56In fact, God is the one relationship that you can say
- 59:59any and everything to, like any and everything, and He will
- 1:00:02never misunderstand you. I think for me, one of the
- 1:00:06reasons or one of the hardest parts of of growing in prayer is
- 1:00:10I have just felt that God was rejecting me in my prayer.
- 1:00:13Like somehow. And so this fear of rejection
- 1:00:16has kept, kept me for so many years to actually coming into
- 1:00:21the presence of God, into the experience in God.
- 1:00:24So I would settle for just telling God what I wanted him to
- 1:00:27do rather than taking the risk of inviting him to come and be
- 1:00:32present with me and to commune with me.
- 1:00:35And so I would rather just tell God stuff rather than actually
- 1:00:40receive love from God because I was afraid that I would be
- 1:00:42rejected. I've also found myself in
- 1:00:46moments where like, I'm not sure that worked.
- 1:00:48And here's why I feel like it doesn't work.
- 1:00:49And I'm just going to be real honest.
- 1:00:51I'll start by by giving God praise and I'm being verbal.
- 1:00:54But then as I've I've talked for a little bit, my mind gets
- 1:00:57distracted and I stop talking and then I drift away.
- 1:01:01And then I come back to just like silent prayer rather than
- 1:01:03verbal prayer. And of course, I don't feel like
- 1:01:06I connected with God. Why?
- 1:01:07Because I didn't actually talk to God.
- 1:01:11I talked to him for a little bit and then I just sat silently
- 1:01:13thinking. And they didn't actually like,
- 1:01:17we didn't actually like do the real steps.
- 1:01:20We didn't really actually connect and commune with God all
- 1:01:23the way through. We got distracted, we got
- 1:01:25sidetracked, and we just allowed our thoughts to wander and call
- 1:01:29it prayer. And I think there's a difference
- 1:01:32there. And it requires a little bit of
- 1:01:33discipline. Building a life of prayer does
- 1:01:36require discipline. Discipline isn't always easy.
- 1:01:41Discipline is always awkward at first.
- 1:01:43Like have you ever tried to do a new exercise or try something
- 1:01:47new for the first time? You're just not good at it.
- 1:01:49It just feels awkward, like you're, you're, the muscle
- 1:01:51memory isn't there. You're trying to like bend and
- 1:01:54get the form right and it's just like awkward.
- 1:01:57But over time, the discipline to do that exercise actually helps
- 1:02:02you develop strength to where you know how to do it, you're
- 1:02:06aware of it and you can just muscle memory get right into it.
- 1:02:09And it's it's almost no work at all.
- 1:02:12I think the same is true with prayer.
- 1:02:14It feels awkward at first talking to somebody out loud and
- 1:02:17like nobody's present completely awkward.
- 1:02:20Similar to like lifting your hands in worship, like you lift
- 1:02:23your hands. It just feels awkward because
- 1:02:25you've never done it. Here's why it's awkward, and
- 1:02:29here's why it's hard. Because you're not just forming
- 1:02:32a new pattern, you are deforming old patterns.
- 1:02:38You're actually engaging in corrective formation because
- 1:02:43your form of living life has been counter to the way of God
- 1:02:48and you have been formed in the way of the world and now you're
- 1:02:52learning how to be formed in a spiritual way.
- 1:02:55And that formation, that spiritual formation is counter
- 1:02:59formation. You're so you're not just
- 1:03:02starting something new from scratch, you're starting
- 1:03:05something new that is fighting old, old muscle memory.
- 1:03:09And so you're wanting to go this direction, but you're trying to
- 1:03:12be aligned to a new direction. And that's why a life of prayer
- 1:03:16can be difficult. That's why it feels like, man,
- 1:03:18this just isn't easy or it's not as smooth or, and then we start
- 1:03:22to over romanticize it or we start to compare it or, or
- 1:03:25something along the way. And as we just stop all together
- 1:03:28and we don't need to give up. We need to keep at it.
- 1:03:31We need to live a life of prayer and to get better at it.
- 1:03:35I'm still getting better that communing prayer.
- 1:03:38I'm still getting better at interceding for others out of an
- 1:03:41act of love rather than longing for certain outcomes.
- 1:03:45I'm still getting better at at at reading scripted prayers and
- 1:03:49and borrowing the language of other people.
- 1:03:51I'm still getting better at all of these things.
- 1:03:54It's it's a practice, not perfection, not a performance.
- 1:03:58It's an ongoing practice of our spiritual life.
- 1:04:01And that spiritual life is a formation that is counter
- 1:04:05formation where we're undoing wrong ways of doing things,
- 1:04:09where we're undoing old patterns of distraction, where we're
- 1:04:13undoing old patterns of self-reliance.
- 1:04:16And now we're relying on God. We're undoing patterns of
- 1:04:19silence and just internalizing thoughts and worry.
- 1:04:23But now we're actually growing into talking with the Lord, The
- 1:04:28reason? Prayer and talking to God,
- 1:04:31casting your cares on Him helps you live with less worry, to not
- 1:04:38worry or be anxious, but in everything, through prayer and
- 1:04:41supplication and think with Thanksgiving, letting your
- 1:04:44requests be made known to God is that in that act you are
- 1:04:48verbally articulating and stating, here's the problems I'm
- 1:04:52facing. Here's the cares that I'm
- 1:04:54having, Here's the control that I'm surrendering.
- 1:04:57And in so doing, you're letting go of worry so that you can
- 1:05:01experience the trust of God. You can experience the presence
- 1:05:05of God, You can experience the joy of God.
- 1:05:09You are casting your cares on Him.
- 1:05:11He already cares about you, and He's going to lift your burdens
- 1:05:15and worries. And that's how we can find rest
- 1:05:17for our souls and why we can walk with less worry because
- 1:05:22we're actually confessing and saying aloud some things.
- 1:05:26We're bringing it into the light, we're saying it out loud.
- 1:05:30And that is how we unburden ourselves.
- 1:05:32And we can move from worry to intercession or into prayer.
- 1:05:36And in so doing we find wholeness and peace and union
- 1:05:39with God. Because the end result of prayer
- 1:05:41is not that we get God to do what we want him to do.
- 1:05:44The end result of prayer is that we get God himself.
- 1:05:49He is the aim of our prayer. He is the aim of all prayer.
- 1:05:53And in so doing, we can experience rich union and
- 1:05:57connection with Father, Son, and Spirit.
- 1:06:01Hey, well, that wraps up this episode of the Faith for Today
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