Latest / The Innovation Show / Jeff & Staney DeGraff — The Art of Change (DeGraff Trilogy Finale)
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- 0:00this really became the cornerstone for a lot of the things that we're now
- 0:05doing with really large corporations in the age of artificial intelligence
- 0:10where, you know, where expertise is compressed and the real key is
- 0:14thinking through complexity and how do I manage in this environment
- 0:17that's disaggregating very quickly.
- 0:20So that's become a tone for that, how to do that.
- 0:23But it really came out of this experience of how come these really
- 0:27brilliant people who give their blood and treasure their life for the cause,
- 0:32why are they having trouble with this?
- 0:34if you wanna punish somebody, don't punish them for doing the wrong thing.
- 0:38The worst thing is to punish them when they think they've done the right thing.
- 0:41And that just cut to the very core of what it's like to be an innovator.
- 0:45'cause that's what happens time and time again.
- 0:48When y
- 0:48When y
- 0:48you start doing something really innovative, no one will notice.
- 0:52He said, after that they'll tell you that, you're doing it wrong.
- 0:57He said, after that, they'll call you unprofessional.
- 1:01He said, in the end, they'll take credit for your work.
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- 1:37But let's get stuck into this book.
- 1:39The Art of Change.
- 1:40Change efforts rarely fail because of poor strategy or execution, but because
- 1:45leaders are using the wrong mindset, they treat change as a project to be
- 1:50managed with fixed goals, linear plans, and measurable outcomes when change is
- 1:55actually a dynamic paradoxical process that resists that logic entirely.
- 2:01Our guests argue that organizations are structurally designed to
- 2:05resist change because they exist to eliminate variance and deviance.
- 2:11Change makers.
- 2:11Therefore collide with the system by definition and often get
- 2:16pushed out even when they succeed.
- 2:19It is a pleasure to welcome back for the finale of our DeGraff trilogy,
- 2:25the authors of the Art of Change.
- 2:27Today's book and the others are there behind me, Jeff and Staney DeGraff
- 2:32. You're very welcome back to the show.
- 2:33Thanks for having us back.
- 2:35Thank you.
- 2:36It's great to have you guys back I thought we'd start a little bit
- 2:40different because we've come to the finale of our trilogy and.
- 2:46I have the distinct gift here, and I mean a gift from the universe of
- 2:52reading the books in sequence, kind of like as you'd written them, except
- 2:57this compressed week after week.
- 2:59So I've seen how the books have, have compounded on the knowledge that
- 3:04you've collected during the years.
- 3:06I've seen little bits of sprinkles of earlier books appear again.
- 3:10But Jeff, I thought I'd come to you.
- 3:11first about this, because this book is a little bit different and it reflects
- 3:16the learning you've had and the amount of clients you've worked with in the meantime
- 3:20since you started your very first book.
- 3:22Yeah, so the whole idea of this was the books were written as a trilogy.
- 3:27And this book was written that really came out of a bunch of discussions
- 3:33with sort of two groups of people.
- 3:34Number one, when I got together with these great thought leaders that I
- 3:40kind of came up under CK Prahalad Karl Weick and Bob Quinn and Kim
- 3:44Cameron, and all these brilliant guys, we never talked about successes.
- 3:48We talked about our failures, and we talked about them
- 3:51as learning opportunities.
- 3:53What did we learn?
- 3:54And these were the kind of projects that people read about, the United Nations
- 3:59or the military or , apple or Google or whatever companies are reading about.
- 4:03second thing was we were working on a project at the
- 4:07very highest level the military.
- 4:10And not just the US military, but militaries around the world.
- 4:13And what occurred to us was these are some of the brightest, most committed people.
- 4:18We love these people, but when it came to.
- 4:22Highly ambiguous situations, paradoxical situations, their ability to adapt,
- 4:30their ability to think in very different ways was highly constrained.
- 4:35And it's because they'd been trained differently.
- 4:37And we noticed that, giving them all these lenses, et cetera, wasn't really landing.
- 4:43What really landed talking about my own failures of saying, okay, here's
- 4:49what happened when I went to this biotech and it completely failed, and
- 4:53we figured some stuff out eventually.
- 4:55And then it became this very famous company.
- 4:57So the book is about that.
- 4:59The book is kind of being vulnerable and almost like a parable and saying, and at
- 5:04the end of this, the moral of the story is this is how you think about this.
- 5:09So it really connects the idea of change.
- 5:13To the idea of adaptability to the idea of learning.
- 5:18These are learning opportunities.
- 5:19And this really became the cornerstone for a lot of the things that we're now
- 5:25doing with really large corporations in the age of artificial intelligence
- 5:30where, you know, where expertise is compressed and the real key is
- 5:34thinking through complexity and how do I manage in this environment
- 5:37that's disaggregating very quickly.
- 5:40So that's become a tone for that, how to do that.
- 5:43But it really came out of this experience of how come these really brilliant people
- 5:48who give their blood and treasure their life for their, for the cause, how,
- 5:53why are they having trouble with this?
- 5:55I just wanna remind our audience, I have a copy 'cause you're probably wondering
- 5:58why is there's four books up there.
- 5:59I have a copy of the Change Mindset up there.
- 6:03For those of you who sign up to our substack as Well, I've already picked
- 6:06a winner for part one and part two.
- 6:08This is part three.
- 6:09So there's one more chance, one more bite at the cherry before we finish.
- 6:12But this book is The Art of Change, and at the heart of the book is
- 6:16two core things to understand.
- 6:18One is paradox and the other is, the word mindset itself.
- 6:22I thought we'd get them outta the way first.
- 6:24Your definitions of what they mean because they're core to understanding this book.
- 6:29paradox is I think relatively easy, meaning that two ideas
- 6:32that seem to be antithetical and they appear at the same time.
- 6:36Remember, F. Scott Fitzgerald, the guy wrote the great Gatsby, said
- 6:39The definition of genius is being able to hold two oppositional ideas
- 6:42in your mind at the same time.
- 6:44That's what a paradox is.
- 6:45And I would expand the concept of a paradox a little bit to say incongruities,
- 6:51high degrees of ambiguity, right?
- 6:53Things that are nonsensical when you first encounter them, right?
- 6:57And then the idea of mindset is whatever we're calling cognition and inquiry.
- 7:04your mind makes inquiry, your cognition, if you're neurobiologist,
- 7:09you know, your neocortex, right?
- 7:11Whatever your list, whatever your listeners believe about
- 7:13mind, how it makes inquiry.
- 7:17And, the whole idea of this is it makes it, we're taught patterns and patterns
- 7:21are really important because the world would be very complicated they, or
- 7:23nominal if we didn't think of patterns.
- 7:25But the notion is some of those patterns become so rigid.
- 7:29When we're seeing something, we're not, uh, we simply try and
- 7:33destroy it with that pattern.
- 7:34And so there's a whole part to this that I think is another word, which
- 7:38is meaning making or sensemaking.
- 7:40There's a key idea here, you know, what are we looking at?
- 7:43What does it mean?
- 7:45And I know Staney has a lot of experience.
- 7:47This, she was a graduate student
- 7:50I didn't realize that.
- 7:51Yeah.
- 7:51'cause Karl Weick is the sensemaking guy really, isn't he?
- 7:53He brought it to prominence.
- 7:55Staney's nodding away there.
- 7:56I was thinking about this, Staney.
- 7:58You know, I, I wrote an article recently and I called it being
- 8:02punished for doing the Right Thing.
- 8:04And my wife actually said to me, it was that about me because I was, I just, for
- 8:12those who may not have called part one and part two, Jeff and Staney are married and
- 8:16they're in separate places at the moment because Jeff is in the university and
- 8:20Staney's in the office, runs the office.
- 8:22But the point of this article is very relevant for this book
- 8:26and, in particularly the opening about this guy, Luis, because.
- 8:30I was writing about those innovators and often so many innovators go
- 8:35out on a limb, they're deviant, they go against the paradigm of the
- 8:40organization, they go against the rules and they have a breakthrough
- 8:44and then they're punished for that.
- 8:45And I cannot find for the life of me where I heard this, but I believe
- 8:50it was some, and I may have just imagined this, I thought it was
- 8:53somebody, like Nietzsche, who said, if you wanna punish somebody, don't
- 8:58punish them for doing the wrong thing.
- 9:00The worst thing is to punish them when they think they've done the right thing.
- 9:04And that just cut to the very core of what it's like to be an innovator.
- 9:08'cause that's what happens time and time again.
- 9:11When y
- 9:11And I thought we'd open and maybe close the entire day
- 9:14today with the story of Luis.
- 9:16'cause it comes full circle at the end of the book.
- 9:18I have a sign in my office that said organizations love innovation
- 9:23but hate their innovators.
- 9:25And, it really came from a conversation when I was a very
- 9:30young man with Jonah Salk.
- 9:32Probably the greatest, one of the greatest scientists of the 20th century.
- 9:37He really let me know what was gonna happen.
- 9:39And he famously said to me, you start doing something really
- 9:42innovative, no one will notice.
- 9:45He said, after that they'll tell you that, you're doing it wrong.
- 9:49He said, after that, they'll call you unprofessional.
- 9:53He said, in the end, they'll take credit for your work.
- 9:57Right?
- 9:57No truer words have ever been said, That's been Staney in my experience throughout
- 10:02our career, and this is important for people to know, if you're on the
- 10:06path to be a real innovator, and I'm talking about writing about innovation.
- 10:08Remember, we've been in half the Fortune 500 companies.
- 10:11I mean, we're kind of the, I dunno where, you know, whether, whether we're
- 10:15the Indiana Joneses or the, or the, or the forest Gumps of this field.
- 10:20But the notions we're practitioners we're academics, right?
- 10:23So we write about things, but that we also build a lot of things.
- 10:25And this is, these are the table stakes.
- 10:28So the book starts with the story of Luis, and we got brought in to look at how to
- 10:32accelerate the transfers from radical new technologies into the military.
- 10:38And, Luis was the guy who did it.
- 10:40And what happened was, they completely sat on the project, as you.
- 10:44would've expect, the bureaucracy took over, nothing happened.
- 10:46And this was only about two months before COVID hit COVID hits.
- 10:52And, you remember all the world governments sort of
- 10:55completely, fumbled the ball.
- 10:57They don't know what to do.
- 10:59There are these two or three different models, none of 'em are very good.
- 11:02around, April, the United States government decides to create something
- 11:07called operational warp speed.
- 11:09is now we're gonna put some real muscle behind this.
- 11:11And.
- 11:12this thing that Luis worked on, which became called Rapid X, was
- 11:16actually co-opted to, uh, to, so to expedite the process of the vaccine.
- 11:23So not so much to develop the vaccine, but how to get billions of vials and billions
- 11:28of needles and cold chain storage.
- 11:29And how do we get this into people so that we're, we, , we survive this.
- 11:34And, , he did just a brilliant job and a very unassuming man behind the scenes.
- 11:40Lots of stuff, bringing the right people in, all the stuff.
- 11:43We've talked on previous ones.
- 11:45And then when it was over had victory, you know, a hundred, remember the
- 11:49object was a hundred million vaccines and a hundred, and we did it.
- 11:52Yay us.
- 11:53You know, Louis certainly was one of the key people for this.
- 11:57It came time for him to be promoted and they passed him over.
- 12:01Right, and, and we've seen this, Staney and I have seen this time
- 12:05and time and time again, right?
- 12:07So the notion was, that's why I wanted to start the book is to say even getting
- 12:12it right doesn't mean you'll succeed.
- 12:15what happened was that then other people started taking credits and they
- 12:21posted and things and say, well, I was the leader of this and or whatever.
- 12:25I created this and we were like, we were there when Luis was getting it off the
- 12:32ground, and we knew the people who were around him and who work with him and
- 12:37no, these other people who claim the credit,were, were nowhere to be found!
- 12:43It's just ridiculous.
- 12:45Even a couple of very popular books that had been on the New
- 12:48York Times bestseller list.
- 12:50You know, we were there.
- 12:52what they're reporting is a reporting of reporting, and they're incorrect.
- 12:55This is really important to note.
- 12:57These are very established writers who would swear that these are correct.
- 13:01They didn't talk to the right people.
- 13:03Right?
- 13:04The whole idea of Luis and this.
- 13:07Particular part of the military, which became the background.
- 13:09And again, Staney and I were part of all this in a, in a
- 13:12only in the supply chain way.
- 13:14And only because we had developed this for technology, we did, we did not
- 13:19develop this for the COVID vaccine.
- 13:21it's a perfect example of how great technologies also
- 13:25get co-opted great processes.
- 13:27And remember we talked about this in a previous one.
- 13:30Innovations and changes do not move from the inside out.
- 13:33They move from the outside in.
- 13:35And what happens is the farther you move to the center, the
- 13:38more ideas become co-opted.
- 13:41Right?
- 13:41And I'm not saying this is a bad thing, you know, watch the movie Oppenheimer.
- 13:46It's a perfect example.
- 13:47Robert Oppenheimer is not quite a, Nobel prize winning quality thinker,
- 13:53but he knows all the people and he's a key leader in these ideas.
- 13:56He brings, brings everybody together.
- 13:59He's really smart.
- 14:00But the part of the movie which people get really upset is
- 14:02when they take his clearances.
- 14:04I'm not sure if I was in that boat, I wouldn't have taken his clearances
- 14:08because the people who invent things or build things at some point have
- 14:13to hand off to the people who are gonna run them or manage them.
- 14:18The problem in the first chapter of the book we talk about, Luis, isn't
- 14:22that it should have been handed off.
- 14:24It's that they basically said, we invented this when all they really
- 14:28needed to do was tip their cap to Luis.
- 14:30I've seen that time and time it's happened, me and I think that's the thing.
- 14:34It's happened most change makers when they've had a success and I talked about
- 14:40it in a previous episode, one of the hard things I found, my ego found hard.
- 14:46And it depends on the organization you you're in.
- 14:48And if they tip the hat towards you, that's a key thing just to be the
- 14:52recognition that you went through so many difficulties to get this over the line.
- 14:58And in some cases, the very people who are the biggest blockers are up.
- 15:01Doing the keynote, doing the presentation saying, this is what I
- 15:06and my team did, and you're going, you, you, you were the biggest blocker.
- 15:12There's no way around that though.
- 15:13What I want your, listeners to understand, these are table stakes.
- 15:17This if, you know, if you're gonna be an innovator, a real innovator,
- 15:21not innovation theater, none of this, you know, I mean, you're
- 15:24a builder, you're a builder.
- 15:26a real innovator, expect this.
- 15:28And if you wanna be loved, get a dog.
- 15:30Right?
- 15:30I mean.
- 15:31it's really that simple.
- 15:32You innovate because it's in your soul.
- 15:34It's, it's, you're, you're internally motivated to do it.
- 15:38It's so difficult though, I have to say to you, I struggled so hard
- 15:41in the early days, particularly 'cause it was early in my career.
- 15:44And you wanted some wins and you wanted some recognition so you
- 15:48could move up in the organization.
- 15:49This line in particular, I pulled a line that I think will cut deep, sorry
- 15:53about this, for open up any wounds for those people listening, perhaps you're
- 15:58a change maker, driven by profound dissatisfaction with the status quo.
- 16:02You come across as negative, but in reality, you harbor a very positive
- 16:07belief that things can be better.
- 16:09You have good ideas on how to transform your organization, but
- 16:12you have trouble selling them and even bigger challenges trying to
- 16:16get them implemented effectively.
- 16:19I think that in a nutshell is such a common issue for so many change makers.
- 16:24And as you say, instead of being considered a gainsayer,
- 16:28you're considered a naysayer.
- 16:30Or you pipe up in a meeting and you can visibly see people going, oh,
- 16:35not him again, not the black hat guy.
- 16:38Once again, that's another problem.
- 16:40Let's call that out.
- 16:41I know we haven't even got into the book yet, but.
- 16:43These are things that you just see crop up time and time again,
- 16:47and it can make the change maker feel ostracized, bullied, gaslit.
- 16:53Yeah, I wanna add to that, people, I'm one of the original people here
- 16:57at the University of Michigan that created this Center for Positive
- 17:00Organizational Scholarship, which is a very important thing.
- 17:03But one of the real early things that I wanted to make very clear
- 17:06was positive, doesn't mean happy.
- 17:08It means a sense of destiny.
- 17:10It means a sense of positive that I can get to some place
- 17:13that no one's gotten before.
- 17:14It's not the same as happy, happy, happy, happy, right?
- 17:17If you want to, the difference between happiness and meaning,
- 17:21happiness and impact, what we're working for is meaningfulness in life.
- 17:25My opinion and what we're working for is impact.
- 17:28Did we make a difference being here?
- 17:30Right.
- 17:31So, so I think what you're talking about is I think great change makers, like great
- 17:35innovators, have a deep sense of destiny.
- 17:38there's a, a really interesting thing I observed, and it's probably
- 17:43'cause you quote so many of these people, but actually you knew all
- 17:46these people like, , Bob Quinn.
- 17:48And, , Kim Cameron and Mintzberg.
- 17:50We had Henry Mintzberg on the show, by the way, he's still thriving up in Canada,
- 17:55talking about this idea of deliberate versus emergent strategy, et cetera.
- 17:59But I, I think this part that you call out, because you saw it firsthand, both
- 18:04of you saw it as scholars, as academics.
- 18:06You saw what had happened inside the field, and you said, traditionally,
- 18:11change management has often been treated as an offshoot of project management.
- 18:15Leaders establish fixed targets and employ streamline processes
- 18:19to reach those objectives.
- 18:20However, true mastery of change requires a different approach.
- 18:24One that prioritizes time as a critical factor given the inherently ambiguous
- 18:30and ever evolving nature of crises.
- 18:33I thought we'd speak to that because that was a key point for me to
- 18:37share to our audience that they may have missed that because that.
- 18:41That means that, you know, it's like the Planck principle that science doesn't
- 18:45advance because somebody has a great idea.
- 18:47It advances one funeral at a time, and the old, old way of doing things is
- 18:52kind of died out and people realize this is the new way and therefore we
- 18:57get into that new paradigm as a result.
- 19:00I don't wanna get too esoteric here, but most of management theory is
- 19:05based on the concept of structure and, change and innovation is based
- 19:11on the concept of time or process, what we call process philosophy.
- 19:15That there are states in which we're in, right, it's like a child developing.
- 19:20So we think in terms of cycles, we think in terms of states.
- 19:24current state, you know, desired state, version one, version two, version three.
- 19:29Think about thin versions and thick versions that innovators talk about.
- 19:32So there's this real strong component of time, uh, that, that underlies everything.
- 19:37And that's the kind of the key that led to this whole idea of the paradox mindset,
- 19:42the paradox, mind cycle, you know?
- 19:45One of the things that Staney and I both do, and I do this with
- 19:47students, and at the beginning of classes at Michigan, particularly
- 19:50the MBAs, it drives 'em bananas.
- 19:52'cause this is, they wanna have the right answers.
- 19:54And the first slide I show them is the age of answers is over.
- 19:58You know, we have artificial intelligence, you know, it's like GPS or Bluetooth.
- 20:02If you want an answer, press a button and you'll get it.
- 20:04The issues, you can't, what you can't do is you can't mobilize or manifest that
- 20:09idea into the world by pressing a button.
- 20:12So the first thing we do is we start with a story.
- 20:15So, for example, I would show a story of.
- 20:18Young people and young people are hooking up more than anybody.
- 20:21You gotta talk to young people the way they do.
- 20:23They're hooking up more the story, new story.
- 20:25They're hooking up more than any other generation.
- 20:27And then somewhere along the lines, somebody to just make this weird
- 20:29comment about, on the story about, it's the loneliest generation we've ever
- 20:34seen, including widows and widowers.
- 20:36So we've never seen this in our studies.
- 20:38you start out by saying, okay, we watch the video.
- 20:42Where's the paradox?
- 20:43And so they start finding paradoxes, right?
- 20:46So they're thinking in real time.
- 20:48They're stirring in real time.
- 20:50They're making it up as they go along.
- 20:52Then the second question is, me what it means.
- 20:55Now, this is really important because half the time people solve the wrong problem.
- 20:59That's difference between project management and change in
- 21:02innovation, the problem is it fixed.
- 21:05If X marks the spot in the age of artificial intelligence,
- 21:08press a button and you'll get it.
- 21:10mathematics, right?
- 21:11It's not morality, it's mathematics.
- 21:13So to me, the hardest part, and this comes back to Staney's, an expert
- 21:17on this, is what does this mean?
- 21:20And you're not allowed to answer it.
- 21:21You're not allowed to say it means this.
- 21:23What you have to do is come up with a whole list of things that this could mean.
- 21:26So you're basically thinking around the problem and I'm
- 21:28forcing you into plasticity.
- 21:31I'm forcing you to be, , an adaptive thinker.
- 21:34we'd say, okay, what are the guiding principles then that
- 21:38we can derive from this?
- 21:39What can we learn from this?
- 21:40Which is much more like philosophy, but it's not philosophy in a rigid
- 21:44way where I start with a model.
- 21:46It's, we're gonna make a model.
- 21:49We're gonna make a model that might work or might not work.
- 21:51It's a work in progress.
- 21:52See that time element again, it's a work in progress.
- 21:56And then the next part, which is right outta Karl Weick's playbook.
- 21:59What are the small experiments?
- 22:01How are we gonna hedge.
- 22:03How are we gonna run a bunch of small experiments, not looking for confirming
- 22:07feedback, but disconfirming feedback, looking for where we're wrong right now.
- 22:12This is a, there's an implicit humility into this of saying,
- 22:17assuming that, I don't know, some things that I need to know.
- 22:21And and a lot of this stuff came from our work with biotechs and, you know,
- 22:25radical, kind of new technologies.
- 22:27The kind of thing you'd maybe see come on our DARPA or you
- 22:30know, in Europe, DIANA right?
- 22:32The notion is if you are really in that mood, there aren't any clear answers.
- 22:38And the key step to all of it is what does this mean?
- 22:42Which is a learning step.
- 22:43and we see this a lot of, the projects that we've worked with,
- 22:48the most difficult part is to get people to understand that everything.
- 22:55Everything can change.
- 22:57It's not just one thing or two things or whatever.
- 23:01So when you're a change maker, you make a plan, right?
- 23:05The plan itself can change, right?
- 23:07I mean, the goal of the plan might change.
- 23:10We might not wanna do A, you wanna actually wanna do B. The time
- 23:14itself much, everything must change.
- 23:17And I think lot of people just kind of think you can make a plan from
- 23:22A to B, and then you can just kind of figure out a way to get there.
- 23:27And that way might change, but it isn't just that.
- 23:31I mean, destination might change.
- 23:33I think readers of this book, there seems to be, I'm getting feedback
- 23:37from a lot of different people.
- 23:38There seems to be kind of the more general readership and then the people
- 23:42who are really, really insightful of this.
- 23:44I'm getting a lot of emails from them.
- 23:46What this book is saying is that the paradox is not part of change.
- 23:50It is the change.
- 23:52The central thesis of the book is that what change basically
- 23:56is about is not resolving the paradoxes, but diving into them.
- 24:01And the, the notion is a lot of what we, we do for change goes
- 24:06all the way around these paradoxes and we never get change from them.
- 24:10Right?
- 24:11And it, and it doesn't mean that these paradoxes are gonna be resolved.
- 24:14This is the process piece.
- 24:15The notion is these paradoxes occur, they occur in antiquity,
- 24:20they'll occur in the future.
- 24:21They're just common paradoxes.
- 24:24But you have to work through, , those paradoxes which are unresolved to come
- 24:28up with experiments that at least move you forward on trying to make the change.
- 24:32that positive change that you're trying to make happen.
- 24:34Let's bring it to life with a, there's multiple episodes.
- 24:38Episodes in the book of experiencing this, but one that many people might relate
- 24:44to, which is a married couple, Aaron and Olive, and an all too familiar tale.
- 24:49I'm gonna let Staney take that.
- 24:51Go ahead, olive.
- 24:52Go ahead, olive.
- 24:54that, one, is a, actually, it's, it's um, it's more of the easier ones that
- 25:01is, you can actually kind of solve that.
- 25:04Right?
- 25:05mean, you know, two people have two different goals and then so, and because
- 25:10they have two different views of how to.
- 25:13You know, in this case, finances, right?
- 25:15Staney, can I add a bit of context just to give the background here?
- 25:18So Olive and Aaron.
- 25:19Aaron, I think is the more, he comes from a background where finances are tight, so
- 25:26everything needs to clear the debt, don't borrow too much, et cetera, while Olive
- 25:31comes from a more wealthy background.
- 25:33And I may have them the wrong way around, but olive's like more, let's invest,
- 25:38let's put it in high risk investments.
- 25:40'cause there's bigger return from that.
- 25:41So that's the setup because I think that's an important thing just to call
- 25:44out that it's that and also we talked about this before, the embracing of the
- 25:49difference is where the beauty comes from.
- 25:52And we talked about this with the innovation code, that there, there's
- 25:55beauty in that diversity that neurodiversity if you harness it
- 25:59like you're gonna tell us about here.
- 26:01Yeah, so in that example, you're right.
- 26:04So, , Aaron's is a lot more conservative in terms of what you do with the money.
- 26:08And Olive, knows that in order for you to make money, you actually
- 26:12have to invest more, right?
- 26:14And I think it's just kind of shows there are ways.
- 26:18In the middle on how to do things that can combine both interests and
- 26:23so forth, because both thing is true.
- 26:26, the point of the story is kind of two parts to it.
- 26:27Number one, not about compromise.
- 26:30The first part of the story is we're constantly rebalancing
- 26:32our portfolio life constantly.
- 26:35What worked for you?
- 26:36Imagine if you got everything you wanted the day you graduated from
- 26:38high school, you'd be disaster.
- 26:40Right?
- 26:40So we're constantly rebalancing our lives and these dynamics change that,
- 26:45and they're changed often from not just personal aspirations, but from outside.
- 26:49There's a recession, there's a war, something happens to, right?
- 26:52So on and so forth.
- 26:53But the second part of this was that it wasn't just rebalancing,
- 26:56it was finding hybrids.
- 26:58It was finding things that met both criteria so that got the
- 27:02benefit of both pieces, not just, and so it's not a compromise.
- 27:06It's trying to find something that's beneficial.
- 27:08Right.
- 27:09I think the key part of the thing that we're talking about is that the
- 27:12change changes with the change, right?
- 27:14Which is part of what we talked about originally with Luis.
- 27:18The whole use of this technology that where this process we developed
- 27:22changed because something changed.
- 27:25You know, and there's a ton of examples historically.
- 27:27You know, think about, uh, Alexander Fleming, what he's trying to do at Oxford,
- 27:32and he's, he's trying to solve certain types of things and a, a mold of falls
- 27:37on his Petri dish while he's on vacation.
- 27:39The next thing you realize is it's killing, bacteria.
- 27:42And we have, penicillin.
- 27:44And so now it's going in a different direction.
- 27:46And this is very common.
- 27:48And so again, the difference in project management would we say, well,
- 27:52no, we're trying to accomplish this and there's gotta be a part to this
- 27:56where somebody goes, wait a minute.
- 27:57There's something else going on here and I need to be adaptive at that point.
- 28:02And course correct.
- 28:02There's something that's maybe more valuable outta this.
- 28:05And of course we could give hundreds of examples of this, but to, to
- 28:09Staney's point, this happens at both the level of just individuals.
- 28:13And it happens at higher levels.
- 28:15We try and minimize conflict, but change is created by conflict.
- 28:19, If you really wanna see an organization that's not it's not gonna change,
- 28:24not gonna invent anything, what you really wanna look for is
- 28:27a lot of alignment and apathy.
- 28:29Everyone's happy.
- 28:30Right?
- 28:31And I give an example in the book of coming to a one, one of the largest
- 28:35organizations in the world, and going in the elevator and listening
- 28:38to Led Zeppelin, Muzak, and seeing jw pa, you know, Turner paintings
- 28:42on the wall and everyone was nice and it was great and whatever.
- 28:47And you just, and you know, then you become the black hat
- 28:51guy of going, you brought me in here to make innovation happen.
- 28:54You guys are way too compl.
- 28:56You know, you're way too, calm.
- 29:00is way too aligned and apathetic for anything to grow here.
- 29:04You know, and you really have to work what are the issues here?
- 29:08And you have to pull them out.
- 29:09And then finally, it's like functional versus dysfunctional families.
- 29:14families never have the argument.
- 29:15And then there's divorce, right?
- 29:17And dysfunctional families are having the argument in a dysfunctional way.
- 29:20And then there's divorce , everybody who's ever been married for a long time
- 29:25knows there's going to be a dust up, There's gonna be some chippiness, right?
- 29:31Whatever you wanna call it, in whatever part of the world you're at.
- 29:33But within boundaries within that, we're trying to do the same thing.
- 29:36We're trying to get ahead.
- 29:38So those, I think that becomes really kind of the key to this is,
- 29:42are we, do we have enough generative energy to get to the next place?
- 29:48It's such an important thing.
- 29:49Jeff, I was thinking before when I was reading the book, the first book, the
- 29:53Innovation Code, and by the way, it's not the first book of what you've written.
- 29:57It's the first of the trilogy.
- 29:58I just want to tell our audience that there are other
- 30:00books that we didn't cover.
- 30:02But I was thinking about my son.
- 30:03So my son had this horrific teacher.
- 30:06She was terrible his first teacher and she had this rule, the Irish, we speak
- 30:11Gaelic we're taught Gaelic Gaeilge it's called Irish language here, and
- 30:16white spots is spotai bana right?
- 30:19And she say, she would say, you're not allowed to have any spotai bana.
- 30:23So when they were coloring in, they weren't allowed to leave white
- 30:27spots and she must have given out to them or scared them in some way.
- 30:31Fast forward to, I'm coloring with him.
- 30:33He is only, you know, he's four or five and he's done, you color mine
- 30:37for me, he was scared to color in, in case he left the white spots.
- 30:41Right?
- 30:42So I was thinking about this like, firstly.
- 30:45That teacher, I was angry with her, but apart from that, I was thinking
- 30:51about, well, sometimes , you start the lens or the paradigm for that
- 30:55person, even in childhood like that, that don't make mistakes.
- 30:58Or like you said in another time when inevitably you have an
- 31:02argument at home with your partner or your wife or whoever I had.
- 31:06Anytime I do, I say to the boys, my two sons, I say, you know, it's
- 31:09normal to fight, otherwise you just hold it up and then something
- 31:13worse happens down the line.
- 31:14And I want them to know that conflict is important because
- 31:18you disagree on something.
- 31:19And I'll tell them about the point of disagreement.
- 31:22And then last part on this, I sometimes brought into organizations, I run a
- 31:28program called Communicate to Innovate.
- 31:31And I am, I'm talking to this team and I'm brought in specifically because people
- 31:36won't call out the elephant in the room.
- 31:40In the room, but they'll talk about each other behind their backs, right?
- 31:44And not purposefully.
- 31:46I le my fly is down for the first hour.
- 31:50I'm, my zipper's down, I'm flying low.
- 31:54No one says it to me.
- 31:55And then, and now passes.
- 31:57And a guy kind of says, we're having a coffee break.
- 32:00And he says, Hey man, I dunno if this is part of your gig
- 32:03here, man, your fly is down.
- 32:05And then I was like, why did none of you say it to me?
- 32:08They're like, oh, we weren't sure.
- 32:09We didn't wanna upset you.
- 32:10And I was like, going, that's the point here.
- 32:12You should have told me straight away.
- 32:14But I wanted to then bring it to the book.
- 32:16Because leaning into that, and if you don't lean into it and also
- 32:21if you don't have the culture that allows for it, you miss things.
- 32:24And a great example you give in the book.
- 32:27And I learned about this only recently looking at Nokia.
- 32:31I know you're the Nokia scholar.
- 32:33Was Timo Partenen a guy who teaches up in Adelphi University?
- 32:37I mentioned him before.
- 32:38He told me that Nokia had this music service where you could
- 32:42actually get free music for Nokia.
- 32:44And the whole idea, it was like, think about it, 20 years before
- 32:47Spotify, they had Spotify.
- 32:49You downloaded the music, you had unlimited music amounts to download, but
- 32:54nobody saw that this actually could be a different service that they could sell.
- 33:00Instead, they used it to do what they always do to sell more phones.
- 33:03And it came to mind when I read about your work with the car manufacturer, when they
- 33:09had this beautiful concept , sitting right in front of them of mobility and because
- 33:14of the deliberate strategy, 'cause they're aiming for that strategy, they missed
- 33:18the emergent right under their nose.
- 33:20Maybe you'll share this one.
- 33:22Well, I don't wanna say what the car manufacturer is, I'm still on good
- 33:25terms with them, but I used to be part of, running the board meetings
- 33:30and I'd fly to Europe to do it.
- 33:31Right.
- 33:32And um board meeting we were looking at.
- 33:37Growth and profitability.
- 33:38And they, they amazing engineers.
- 33:40I just cannot say enough good.
- 33:42I mean, really amazing people.
- 33:46And, um, they ran a project in London and they ran a project in,
- 33:50in Germany the projects had to do with ride sharing and they were
- 33:55extremely successful and profitable.
- 33:58And so the question came up about, well, why aren't we thinking
- 34:01about transportation this way?
- 34:03then the issue became, well that will cut into sales, of this stuff.
- 34:09And I have a million of these around this kind of industry.
- 34:12I mean, if you think about where the electronic vehicle came
- 34:15from, it did not come from where most people think it came from.
- 34:18The electronic vehicle, you look it up, the EV one came
- 34:21from General Motors, right?
- 34:2219, uh, I think 89 90 early.
- 34:25Right.
- 34:26There's a ton of these where, you know, and they're famous.
- 34:29You know, Kodak got to digital, imaging first, and Blockbuster got to streaming.
- 34:33I know that 'cause I worked.
- 34:35on Hulu, which, you know, got there first, right?
- 34:37For, for a, for a, a friends, a General Electric.
- 34:41So there's a ton of these where somebody gets it, but because
- 34:45it doesn't fit their model.
- 34:46And the most prominent example here in the United States is Sears.
- 34:50And people tell the Sears stories all wrong.
- 34:52Remember, think about this for just a minute.
- 34:55If your listeners are willing to do this, think about how
- 34:58the digital economy started.
- 35:00You know, so Sears, uh, you know, Sears had all state.
- 35:05Which began buKyndryling.
- 35:06It had Coldwell Banker, you know, uh, real estate.
- 35:10It had, uh, hit everything.
- 35:13It created the digital economy.
- 35:15People forget this and you should look it up.
- 35:16I wrote an article on Big Think around this, right?
- 35:19No Ink Magazine.
- 35:19I wrote, freak think But the point is, um, they had all the
- 35:23pieces and it's the wrong story.
- 35:24People get it wrong.
- 35:25Sears missed.
- 35:26They didn't miss anything.
- 35:27The problem was they tried to fit it all into their store, right?
- 35:30And that's the problem that this book is really trying to address, is saying, a lot
- 35:36of times this is not an issue of working harder or doing something new or better.
- 35:41It's an issue of looking at this differently.
- 35:44Remember, this car company had done this already.
- 35:48The only issue was they, didn't recognize that they had discovered
- 35:53the future it really cost them.
- 35:56There's so many cases of that, Jeff though, right?
- 35:59And I I was thinking about the, the character you call out in there, I'm
- 36:03sure he is anonymized, but you call it the guy who was leading that project and
- 36:07he could see there was something in it.
- 36:10But going back to a Luis type character, he presents that in his career suicide.
- 36:15You know, one of somebody told me recently that CIO, chief Innovation
- 36:19Officer actually stands for career is over as soon as you take the job.
- 36:24And, and that's not funny because actually it is the case in so
- 36:27many, , organizations, particularly if you choose the future.
- 36:32And I was me, I met, I was telling you before I met with two, , of the
- 36:35innovation community here in Ireland.
- 36:37Hello, Karen and Anne-Marie.
- 36:39I'll say hello to them because I, I told 'em specifically to listen to this series,
- 36:43but we were talking about two things.
- 36:44One was what you said that, and you talk about this in the book and , the
- 36:49science and the neuroscience behind this, that if you learn something
- 36:52and you don't immediately apply it, just like any habit, it will fade.
- 36:56'cause it's habit change.
- 36:58And I think that's what's really nice that you do in the book and why you
- 37:01structure the book the way you do.
- 37:03It actually should be read much slower than I read it because I read it
- 37:07for the purpose of this interview.
- 37:09But if you read it and you put it into practice, it's kind of like,
- 37:14you know, I give you a great example.
- 37:16Physio.
- 37:16You go to the physio, the physio goes, you need to do this rehab.
- 37:19And you don't do it that day or the next day you forget it
- 37:22and you're like looking up.
- 37:24Now you have YouTube luckily, but you, it fades and you don't ever do it properly.
- 37:28And we see this so many times with change theater that you call out in
- 37:33the book, that you have a big event, you're brought in the change, the
- 37:37speaker's brought in, you, me, whoever is brought in as the keynote speaker.
- 37:41You can spot it a mile away.
- 37:43There's a big event.
- 37:44There's loads of energy for like a day or two, and then it fades and
- 37:47everybody goes back to business as usual.
- 37:50And what I like about you doing the book is you encourage people to get it
- 37:54straight to practice, do something small experiments, like you said, et cetera.
- 37:59I think we, we should probably call that out because it's a
- 38:01core part of the whole concept.
- 38:04I just brought in the other day to, two governments are trying to make a deal.
- 38:10I'll leave it at that.
- 38:12this is a pretty high stakes kind of conversation and the first
- 38:16question I asked was when they start trying to put together these
- 38:19groups that are gonna innovate across boundaries, borders, right?
- 38:25Was who's actually built something here, who's got a lot of experience with this?
- 38:31the challenge was there were people who had a lot of experience, but they were
- 38:35the junior people and there were a lot of senior people who were administrators.
- 38:40Administrators are fine.
- 38:41We need administrators.
- 38:42But my point to the administrators was, you don't have this experience, you have
- 38:47to be, a guardian, a enabler, helper those people, stop telling them what to
- 38:53do because you don't know what to do.
- 38:56I see this universities do this all the time.
- 38:58Where the person gets appointed to be that person is not the
- 39:02innovator and they're not always pro innovation, which is very frustrating.
- 39:06I know when I get into these big organizations, I would say at least half
- 39:10the time, the person who's most threatened by me is the chief Innovation officer,
- 39:13even though I'm there to help them.
- 39:15If I am, you know, I'm not, I don't want your job.
- 39:19I don't, you know, I'm just here to help you get this right side up.
- 39:22the reason for that is of the, and again, I'm not saying this is everywhere,
- 39:26but what I find is that often becomes a position like somebody who couldn't
- 39:31make it as the chief operating officer.
- 39:33Right?
- 39:34It's often the also ran position, but it's also often a. Bureaucratic position.
- 39:40My opinion often under them are the real innovators, the people who are builders.
- 39:45I'll give you a great example.
- 39:46The, when I look at the military, the most amazing people
- 39:51I've met are tech sergeants.
- 39:53They have to be, a ton of stuff they gotta figure out in real time, and they're
- 39:57stunningly good all across the globe.
- 40:00All these different cultures, they have great tech sergeants, right?
- 40:04The issue is a lot of times the people above them have those same kind of
- 40:08dirt under the fingernails experiences.
- 40:10Remember, innovation and change is not something you can do on a
- 40:14blackboard or on a PowerPoint slide.
- 40:16You have to have gone through it.
- 40:17That's why this book is about stories.
- 40:20That's why this book is about parables and most of the stories
- 40:22in this book are about my failures.
- 40:25couldn't do this, and they don't all win.
- 40:27I love the story in the book where I talk about one of the largest
- 40:31organizations I got brought into.
- 40:34And I knew exactly what was wrong and I knew exactly how to fix it.
- 40:37And I was a jerk, right?
- 40:39Even though I knew what was wrong and I knew how to fix it, and I was brought
- 40:43in by the , top dog, you know, my view of this was, you guys aren't getting it.
- 40:49You're the slow group here.
- 40:51So the learning doesn't always be, and then we won.
- 40:53So the learning that one was, you know, it's very clear as I'm walking out
- 40:57the door, , I probably needed to be a different kind of person here, So it's
- 41:02not always, , that kind of abstract.
- 41:04Yeah.
- 41:05You know, on, on that, that idea of you have, you have skin, you
- 41:10have dirt under your fingernails.
- 41:11A great story.
- 41:12You, you probably know him, Gary Klein.
- 41:14I had him on the show recently, so you're nodding.
- 41:16So Gary told me this brilliant story about Napoleon, where there was a
- 41:21part of France Toulon that was, the enemy had taken Toulon and Toulon,
- 41:26had this core, it had resources.
- 41:28It was important, but.
- 41:31Napoleon worked as a, an artillery sergeant.
- 41:34So he had skin, he had dirt under his fingernails, and the, his commanding
- 41:38sergeant was attacking the, attacking the port to head on with cannons, et cetera.
- 41:45And Napoleon's staring over and he is going way all the attacking the port.
- 41:48All you have to do is take out that small little tower over there that's on a hill
- 41:52because they won't have any supplies.
- 41:54And uh, you know, it's like that thing of the, the caveman with the round.
- 41:59Somebody has a wheel and they, they're pushing along the square wheels.
- 42:02It's like, we're too busy.
- 42:03They're like, going shut up with your crazy ideas.
- 42:06'cause he was a junior sar uh, junior, um, officer.
- 42:10And eventually his boss gets fired.
- 42:12He takes out the, the hill and they capture Toulon.
- 42:16Again, core battle.
- 42:18But that thing you said, I just, I'd love to double click on
- 42:21that where you have knowledge.
- 42:25And your superior blocks you, or in many cases, gets rid of you from the
- 42:31organization because they see you as a threat because you know more than they do.
- 42:35A hundred percent happened to me and it's why I'm here doing the show
- 42:39in the organization where I started this innovation show where I worked
- 42:42for the national broadcaster, I essentially got fired by my boss.
- 42:46Now the organization's tried to save me, but I was like, I'm outta here.
- 42:49But it was because time and time again, and I You don't
- 42:53mean this, I didn't mean this.
- 42:55I would say stuff in a meeting where I was asked my opinion and my boss
- 42:59is gonna going like this, you know, head in her hand, kind like going, I
- 43:02should have been the one who said that.
- 43:04And I'm sure Staney's nodding there, you too have seen this.
- 43:08'cause you've worked with so many different organizations across
- 43:11the world, time and time again, and you see the moment as well and
- 43:15you glance over and you go, uh oh.
- 43:17I saw what happened there.
- 43:19Even though there was no words shared.
- 43:23I think it's all about the culture and what you you project, right?
- 43:29Within the boundaries and what's not, and what's cultivated.
- 43:33And, actually this is why I, I told Jeff, just don't go to faculty meeting anymore.
- 43:38Just don't, it's, it's not useful.
- 43:42just makes you angry because it just creates bad energy
- 43:45but it, but again, I mean, this is all about if the leaders of the organization
- 43:49make it clear they appreciate, you know, opinions and they appreciate great
- 43:56ideas, as long as, you know, people are respectful, I think it would be different.
- 44:01And it's difficult to do that.
- 44:03But, difficult as a leader to be mindful of this, right?
- 44:07Because you saying your boss's boss, should have seen, be able to seen it.
- 44:12But he has so many other responsibilities, even if he made it known that.
- 44:18know, he wants great ideas.
- 44:20It doesn't always happen.
- 44:22He can't see what everybody does.
- 44:24So part of, I think what's also difficult is a leader, you have to see,
- 44:30you have to be able to spot talent.
- 44:34And I think that's hard, I think that's the key.
- 44:38It's the people you are not looking for, you are not
- 44:42looking for a particular thing.
- 44:44To me, it's like you, if you find the right people, I think that's the key.
- 44:49When we go home to, Indonesia, to Staney's house where she was
- 44:52raised, I'd like to look through her elementary school reviews.
- 44:58I hope there's no white spots there.
- 44:59No white spots in our coloring.
- 45:01Staney's really smart.
- 45:02And the good news is of the class, all this in very
- 45:06competitive environment, right?
- 45:07All this stuff, but in every review, she's disruptive, right?
- 45:12And I just think that, to me, I love that part because if she wasn't disruptive,
- 45:16it would be she wouldn't do this.
- 45:19So what I find is that people who've kind of ascended to the part where
- 45:23they're kind of very successful innovators, they have long history of
- 45:27being reviewed as not, not disruptive in a negative way, but disruptive, right?
- 45:31And then people will use that word with it.
- 45:33So I wanna go back to your son, right?
- 45:35If your son would've had a different response to his teacher,
- 45:39he would've been delved, he would've been deemed, , disruptive.
- 45:43Now, here's the point.
- 45:45The point is, what happens with innovation is those people have been disruptive and
- 45:50if had gone through the failure cycle a lot, fired, been marginalized, whatever,
- 45:56when it comes time to, to go through the failure cycle, remember that's one
- 45:59of the things you, you know, we try to avoid failure, but there in innovation
- 46:02and change, there's no avoiding failure.
- 46:04You have to go through the failure cycle.
- 46:05We're more comfortable, we're more comfortable calling us dummy, or we got
- 46:09it wrong, or whatever you wanna call us.
- 46:11We're comfortable.
- 46:12'cause we've had, we've taken a, we've taken our beating, right?
- 46:16Whatever you wanna call it.
- 46:17it's, the people who have had effortless superiority that
- 46:21they, they, they completely fail.
- 46:24And one of the things I wanna say about the way we're raising our kids these
- 46:27days, uh, I'm very worried about it.
- 46:29I think there's two kinds of parenting.
- 46:31There's the, the don't do that, don't do that parent.
- 46:34And then there's like, my dad hurt, didn't it?
- 46:36Don't rub any, get on me a dumb ass.
- 46:38Right.
- 46:38The notion is you, the only time you say don't do that is if junior's
- 46:43gonna play on the freeway or he is something that's really dangerous.
- 46:46Right.
- 46:47But most of the time you have to let people go through, not major
- 46:52failures, but minor failures.
- 46:54Right.
- 46:54The, and I, one of the things I'm very thankful for is my mentors
- 46:59were very much take a whack at it.
- 47:01And they weren't all nice.
- 47:03say this to your listeners.
- 47:06They loved me in the way that maybe a coach would love you.
- 47:09I can, you can run faster, you can jump higher.
- 47:11You're stronger than that.
- 47:13I think I, I'd expect more out of you than that, but, so that doesn't, it
- 47:17doesn't mean that they didn't love me, it just means that were very
- 47:22much, you have to figure this out.
- 47:24You're gonna have a lot of fun staying up all night the next two nights,
- 47:27sorting this thing out, junior.
- 47:30So I think there's something about that.
- 47:32And one of the things that Stan's really been great, she kinda has
- 47:34this entourage of the end of atrium.
- 47:37She's had all of these kind of, I'm gonna call 'em disciples or whatever.
- 47:41They, she's attracted a lot of young, particularly young women
- 47:44who just thinks they wanna be her.
- 47:47But one of the things she lets them do is go through the failure
- 47:50cycle, not in a negative way.
- 47:52She'll say, here's a project, I'll see you next week about the project.
- 47:56And then, you know, and they're all looking for, is it all great?
- 47:58And it's like, a lot of it's good, but there's some things here
- 48:01that we need to, you know, and you didn't swim out far enough.
- 48:04You didn't try enough here.
- 48:05I think again, it's about knowing what the stakes are and where the boundaries right?
- 48:11there has to be a hard boundary on something.
- 48:13So for example, you can't go to the freeway.
- 48:16That's whatever it is, but everything else is totally fine.
- 48:22And I think we've mentioned this before too, is that actually, innovation and
- 48:27creativity actually works really well when there's very clear boundaries.
- 48:32And I think, as educator, for example, like your, your son's
- 48:35teacher, it's like what matters?
- 48:39I mean, does no white spot, does that actually matter in life, right?
- 48:43I mean, to me, of course not, but obviously for her it
- 48:47is, but it's all like that.
- 48:49I just, I would just remembering, actually when Jeff was talking, you
- 48:52know, children and I think because I come from the philosophy that actually
- 48:57children really need to find time to play, and that's how they learn.
- 49:03And you can't really structure all their days, that they have to be at school
- 49:07for eight hours and then they have and they have that, and they have that, and
- 49:12they have that all the way until they go to bed I don't think that's healthy
- 49:16because I think everybody needs to have unstructured time in which they can do
- 49:24something out of their curiosity that can, can do something for them that invokes
- 49:30some feelings to them and that may let them make me meanings in something.
- 49:35So with actually the fellows that I work with, I don't give
- 49:38them a lot of directions in terms of how to do something.
- 49:42I give them a job that is, your job is to do this.
- 49:46So the final goal is I want this organized.
- 49:50I don't actually care how you organize them.
- 49:52You just need to tell me.
- 49:54And if I don't agree with that, I will tell you, but I need you
- 49:58to come to me first and tell me how you're gonna organize it.
- 50:02I'm not gonna tell you how.
- 50:05And some people don't like that approach, obviously, right?
- 50:08Because . i can't show them how to do something because they have to
- 50:13go out and try to kind of figure out how to do it themselves.
- 50:17And that's hard.
- 50:19But unless you do that, you're not gonna be able to grow.
- 50:23I have a good example of this.
- 50:24The first innovatrium we built, we built across the street from the business
- 50:27school here, and we basically gave keys to the coolest people We knew
- 50:32professors and said, well, all you're gonna do is bring your young people here.
- 50:36We're not, we're not so interested new old guys, young people.
- 50:40And everything that happens here has to be, , about change,
- 50:43creativity, or innovation.
- 50:45And we want big things.
- 50:46We're not gonna work on little dinky things.
- 50:48We're gonna work on big things.
- 50:49And a lot of the student groups got formed there and it became
- 50:52very, we became the hotspot.
- 50:54Well, what happens is, you know, over time the university watches
- 50:57this for 10 years and it's not just this university, they all do this.
- 51:02they'll appoint, they'll build a big center somewhere and they'll
- 51:04appoint a person, have a nice big hat or something of the person
- 51:09and it'll be all very organized.
- 51:11But the stuff that, that the sort of, the more radical stuff stops
- 51:15happening and it stops happening because you're now don't do that.
- 51:22in the first group it was, this is your play space, it's your tree fort.
- 51:26You figure out what's gonna happen here.
- 51:28There's a few rules, you know, here's the legal rules and here's a
- 51:31couple of, you know, socially accept, you know, it's only a handful of
- 51:35things you're not allowed to do.
- 51:37Right.
- 51:38But the notion was organizations love to do is they build these things.
- 51:43So I was just recently part of this big think tanky thing about workplace
- 51:47design, and we're going through all the great things and workplace design,
- 51:50and I asked all these architects.
- 51:52Are you designing places for people to hide?
- 51:56And they said, what?
- 51:56And I said, places for people to hide.
- 51:59And they said, what do you mean places people hide?
- 52:01I said, in change, innovation doesn't start where everyone can see it.
- 52:04You have to hide.
- 52:06right now they're hiding in the coffee shop or the pub.
- 52:08They're hiding right now.
- 52:09And they're already, they're already talking trash and they're figuring out
- 52:13what the next, you know, the, the next revolution will be broadcast or whatever.
- 52:17And I said, you know, in these organizations have, have you placed this
- 52:22And then this one guy caught up who's an architect, this is blowing my mind.
- 52:26And I said, why?
- 52:26And he said, we co we, we had a building like that called a TS.
- 52:31what does it stand for?
- 52:31He said, across the street.
- 52:33I'm like, yeah, there you go.
- 52:34Right at s is across the street.
- 52:36You called the building a TS It's where, so this again, I wanna make
- 52:41sure that everybody's clear about this.
- 52:42So it, this is a paradox.
- 52:43This is what I'm talking about.
- 52:45So for in order for an organization to really innovate.
- 52:48It has to move innovation outside or change it has to move it outside
- 52:52the organization where it can get traction, where it can get to where,
- 52:56work out all the things that, you know, off Broadway didn't clip the,
- 53:00you know, things didn't work out to bring it back into the organization.
- 53:05Some people are more attracted to that kind of environment, right.
- 53:09So, for example, some students group relief flourish in which the way
- 53:14we do things, some people are not.
- 53:16You just kind of know that what approach brings what result.
- 53:20And you can't expect that you have the 12, that programs are a lot of rules to end
- 53:28up having breakthrough products somewhere because it just doesn't happen that way.
- 53:34You need to lot more space.
- 53:36You need a lot more play.
- 53:38And this is what I think we talked about that I talked about before too.
- 53:41I feel like the education system which have really actually constrained
- 53:45that of letting the kids find things and you know, it, it, it
- 53:52just constraints them more and more.
- 53:54And it's, it's also very much this whole concept that it's
- 53:58all rational, which it's not.
- 53:59We talk about this in the, one of the, maybe at some point we should
- 54:02talk about what the seven paradoxes are, but one of the paradox is
- 54:05this, we use facts to change minds, but facts don't change minds.
- 54:08My favorite example historically comes from Abraham Lincoln.
- 54:12I mean, we had all the, the stuff in the United States, and this little woman in
- 54:15Connecticut, Harriet Beecher Sto, wrote this book called Uncle Tom's Cabin,
- 54:19is a story, it's very melodramatic.
- 54:21It's not even really well written, but the notion is it took
- 54:24something that was abstract or fact-based and it made it a motive.
- 54:28it made it something that people could relate to.
- 54:30People have children, people have , a piety for their neighbors and for,
- 54:35you know, and, you know, there are higher order things that we have in
- 54:38life that we believe about ourselves.
- 54:41And the book basically called them to task.
- 54:43Right?
- 54:43It wasn't using facts.
- 54:45And remember Lincoln said, you're the little lady that started all this problem.
- 54:48Right?
- 54:49It wasn't facts that that changed the laws.
- 54:54was, it was somebody who understood that facts don't change minds.
- 54:58And they told a story about this.
- 55:00And the part of these kind of spaces where people do this is they
- 55:03start making their own stories.
- 55:05They're not your stories, they're their stories about how they
- 55:09created this thing in there and how this student group did that.
- 55:13And that's when you know it's working because now the stories perpetuate.
- 55:16So, and that's just how, incidentally, this is how organizations become dynastic.
- 55:20This is how organizations, you know, generation after generation
- 55:25understand what that is.
- 55:27I know when I first got to the University of Michigan, I said something which I
- 55:30was really called to, to, to heal on.
- 55:33I said, Michigan is the only school in the world, in the top 10, in all 19 areas.
- 55:37We're not number one in anything.
- 55:38We're number five at everything.
- 55:40And so it's not true.
- 55:42And they started looking into it and it was true.
- 55:44Then you started seeing it on t-shirts.
- 55:46It's hilarious, right?
- 55:47You start and what's happening is that becomes part of the mythology.
- 55:51The story becomes part of the mythology of, you know, big blue.
- 55:55What does it mean to be at a big public?
- 55:57And I see this as small schools now.
- 55:59They do a great job with this.
- 56:00Little, little schools do this, so you don't have to be big.
- 56:03But the notion is it's those, it's that, it's that paradox makes something
- 56:09clear often is using something that doesn't make things clear.
- 56:13Again, that's building culture.
- 56:15And that takes a long time that takes a lot of, you know, different
- 56:19artifacts and, and actually you have to be deliberate about it.
- 56:23in,
- 56:23this is, goes back a bit about your story Aidan and about, you know,
- 56:27the leadership of that organization.
- 56:29If they can somehow instill that culture, what you want.
- 56:33It's hard.
- 56:34It takes forever.
- 56:36That's part of why you're doing, I think, Aidan, what you're doing,
- 56:38if I can, if I may be bold enough, you've applied what you did as an
- 56:43athlete other aspects of your life.
- 56:47I did it too.
- 56:49Because those experience were transferable skills and you kept
- 56:53then building on transferable skills.
- 56:55You had the ability to do this.
- 56:56Every athlete and I was all, everything wrestler, And even
- 57:00with that, you're gonna get beat.
- 57:02You get beat.
- 57:03And I tell this to people all the time, I don't remember any of the victories.
- 57:06I go home and people, you know, your picture's on the wall or
- 57:09whatever at your high school, and they remember the victories.
- 57:11I don't, I don't remember 'em, I remember every loss I've ever had.
- 57:14I remember why I lost, I dunno if this makes sense to you, but it's
- 57:18that learning from losing, right?
- 57:21That's a failure cycle that gets you to the next place.
- 57:25I think that there's a great curse in early success, like if you're, if you're
- 57:30successful too early without the struggle of the success, you learn the wrong, you
- 57:36don't learn anything actually, and you, you actually don't learn the discipline
- 57:40of what it takes to actually be long-term successful because that, that's the
- 57:45transferable skill, is the discipline to keep showing up the perseverance
- 57:48that you talk about in the book.
- 57:49There's so many places that my mind has gone, by the way,
- 57:52because of the conversation.
- 57:54We will get to the seven Paradoxes is one that one that Staney kind
- 57:58of identified there is the idea, we talked about it before, that you
- 58:02need some type of boundary in order to succeed and a a beautiful story
- 58:06I just wanted to share with this.
- 58:08I dunno where I heard it again.
- 58:10'cause I hear some great knowledge.
- 58:12Somebody was saying to me that, you know, when.
- 58:15A young, and they said, particularly a young woman, when a, when a girl
- 58:19is with their mother in the swimming pool, it's kind of like in life the,
- 58:24it's like a swimming pool and you are the side where they hang on the side
- 58:30and then they'll go out and they'll swim out into the, out into the
- 58:33middle to the deep end a little bit.
- 58:34And then if something happens there, they'll come back to you.
- 58:37But if they're with you too long, they'll kind of rebel against you
- 58:40and they're kinda going, I hate you.
- 58:42And they go back to the center again.
- 58:44And I actually was thinking because of what you said about the across the street
- 58:47story, that in a way what an organization is creating is the bell curve.
- 58:52It's the edges.
- 58:53It has to have a place.
- 58:55where the edges exist in order to then bring it back to the middle.
- 58:59And like you said, Jeff, there.
- 59:01About the story, you're letting them create a story.
- 59:05And in a way, what the innovator does, this is just kind of coming to
- 59:09me at the moment, is you're giving them the ingredients and the plot
- 59:13for the story, but let them own it.
- 59:16And that's the difficulty of, again, of giving over the credit.
- 59:19Because when you've done that, you've won.
- 59:21But as, and I often talk about this, the concept of a catalyst is beautiful
- 59:26for this because a catalyst, like a match actually gets burnt up in the
- 59:31transaction and is, you can't see it.
- 59:34And I was like, that's the problem of being a catalyst.
- 59:36You're not, you're no longer visible at the end, but the fire has taken off
- 59:40or the wildfires taken off and that they're, and therein is a huge difficulty.
- 59:45So there's many, many paradoxes in the book.
- 59:48We'll, let's talk to them at a high level.
- 59:50Share the seven and then we'll let people read the book.
- 59:53'cause you really do need to read the book, add in the stories that
- 59:57you share from your own career.
- 1:00:00Actually then apply it to yourself and go, well, this is where this
- 1:00:03has played out for me, et cetera.
- 1:00:05And you do, you start to see that, you start to apply it.
- 1:00:08And in there is the learning.
- 1:00:09So maybe at a high level, we'll share all seven.
- 1:00:12Okay, so I'm cribbing here from my notes.
- 1:00:15Right?
- 1:00:16So the, the first, the first one is seek to change others, but can only
- 1:00:21change ourselves, which is the classic.
- 1:00:24And I start with a story about a girl I dated in college named Katie when
- 1:00:29I was training for his wrestling.
- 1:00:31And she was a chain smoker, right?
- 1:00:33And, , the whole, the rest of the story is why she dumped me and,
- 1:00:37why she eventually quit smoking.
- 1:00:39And what I learned from it, I think a more modern example would be like
- 1:00:42Mother Teresa, know, would take people in and say, change herself.
- 1:00:46And then we'll start changing the widows of Mumbai, right?
- 1:00:49That sort of thing.
- 1:00:50You can only change you and you can model that for other people.
- 1:00:53The second one is we aspire to transcend our own limits, but must do
- 1:00:59so from within a, a. I tell students something that makes 'em crazy.
- 1:01:02They'll come in and talk to me about what they wanna do, and I'll
- 1:01:05say, I'm not interested in that.
- 1:01:06And they get really upset.
- 1:01:08I said, I'm deeply interested in what you're designed to do
- 1:01:11what you're designed to do is different than what you want to do.
- 1:01:14What are your gifts?
- 1:01:15What are, and it's like, it's freeing.
- 1:01:17It's not limiting.
- 1:01:18It's saying, how do I use what I have to do this?
- 1:01:21My favorite example, one, our heroes is Beethoven.
- 1:01:24mean, imagine writing the ninth when you're deaf.
- 1:01:27I don't know about you, but that's such a mic dropping thing.
- 1:01:30I mean, it's like, out, out of all the things you like, you
- 1:01:32know, it's like Michelangelo doing Michael when he's blind.
- 1:01:36it's just that kind of a thing and then Beethoven kind of
- 1:01:41figured out, this is what I got.
- 1:01:42This is, you know, this is what, don't get me wrong, you can get better.
- 1:01:46But I think people spend too much time on trying to be good at things
- 1:01:48that they're not naturally good at.
- 1:01:50I think I, again, this is maybe my view of the world, what, whatever you
- 1:01:54believe about how you got your gifts biological or God or whatever you
- 1:01:57believe about 'em, um, have gifts.
- 1:02:00And I think you have to be aware of your voice.
- 1:02:03You have to be aware of, am I morning creative people and
- 1:02:05afternoon creative people around people alone listening to me?
- 1:02:09Right?
- 1:02:09Once you start figuring out the instrument, I think all of a
- 1:02:14sudden you understand that this can be used to make great changes,
- 1:02:19but it cannot be transcended.
- 1:02:21Right.
- 1:02:21And I think today we try too much to do that.
- 1:02:24I think that's, uh, that's stuff in nonsense.
- 1:02:27Uh, we already talked about, we use facts to change minds, but
- 1:02:30minds aren't changed by facts.
- 1:02:32If you don't believe that, just get on your social media account try and
- 1:02:36explain to somebody why their position on something doesn't make sense.
- 1:02:39And it doesn't have to be politics or religion.
- 1:02:41It can be GMOs or anything else.
- 1:02:43And you know, I give some examples in the books of really good people who,
- 1:02:48um, and of course with social media, we never encounter the loyal opposition.
- 1:02:53Anybody disagrees with us, you know, on a dark night.
- 1:02:55On a dark road, they go away.
- 1:02:57The Spanish Inquisition couldn't have thought of this.
- 1:03:00I mean, it's that sort of a thing.
- 1:03:02Uh, we set goals for change, but the goals change with change.
- 1:03:06is, we already talked about this, you know, this is the problem.
- 1:03:10is the difference.
- 1:03:10Project management and change management, project management
- 1:03:13is not change management.
- 1:03:14And if you've had Henry Mintzberg on watch the Mintzberg thing, right?
- 1:03:17Strategic thinking versus strategy.
- 1:03:19Strategic planning.
- 1:03:21Mintzberg got there in front of me, ti my hat to Henry, right?
- 1:03:24Great guy.
- 1:03:25I we're all standing on the shoulders of giants and he certainly is one.
- 1:03:29I I, I'm a huge fan.
- 1:03:31You should know I'm a huge fan of Mitz per
- 1:03:34we try to minimize conflict, but change is created by it.
- 1:03:37This isn't, this is the center of Sandy and I our work for 30 some years we have
- 1:03:43to be, this is where society has failed.
- 1:03:46We have destructive conflict.
- 1:03:47We're trying to win things as opposed to constructive conflict.
- 1:03:50Imagine.
- 1:03:51So I got to give the TED Talk.
- 1:03:52When the Affordable Care Act was rolled out, it was supposed to
- 1:03:55be originally at the White House.
- 1:03:56It ended up being at, um, at Lincoln Center.
- 1:03:59What?
- 1:03:59Excuse me.
- 1:04:00Kennedy Center.
- 1:04:00The Kennedy Center.
- 1:04:02But what was interesting was there were two groups.
- 1:04:05There were the people wanted government regulation and the
- 1:04:07people wanted free markets.
- 1:04:09My big thing was imagine if these two which had spent, they'd spent
- 1:04:13a half a trillion dollars lobbying.
- 1:04:15Imagine if we could have taken this energy to build something new.
- 1:04:18So we brought together the heads of innovation to Apple and Google and some
- 1:04:21other, you know, some other places.
- 1:04:23And we talked about things and I think what really stunned the doctors
- 1:04:27and what stunned the politicians was to say, we're innovators change
- 1:04:30makers, and whether you're involved or not, we're gonna do this.
- 1:04:34And you're just gonna be a sideshow, you're gonna be road
- 1:04:36pizza if you're not careful here.
- 1:04:38Right?
- 1:04:39We know we, you know, we're coming and we're, and we're not doctors and we know
- 1:04:43that, and we, we need doctors and we need people in the government to do this.
- 1:04:47if you guys aren't willing to engage in the conflict in a constructive way.
- 1:04:52Then we'll show you how to do it.
- 1:04:54Right.
- 1:04:54And the, the good news that there's still bad news about that, the healthcare issue
- 1:04:58still of, of, you know, an albatross.
- 1:05:01But certainly when you see alternative, uh, forms of what's
- 1:05:04happening around the world, uh, place, particularly places like India,
- 1:05:09stunningly, the progress is amazing.
- 1:05:11we attempt to avoid failure, all learning, all learning is,
- 1:05:16uh, is connected to failure.
- 1:05:18And of course, the most famous person for this is just go back to Edison,
- 1:05:22Edison, the 10,000 attempts or shots on goal And eventually gets the light bulb.
- 1:05:27And, you know, and in anybody who's ever built anything will
- 1:05:30tell you writing is the same way.
- 1:05:33I was talking about AI the other day, and, uh, I think Stan
- 1:05:36and I were talking about this.
- 1:05:37You know, you know, you write something, you go to ai, it's still iterative.
- 1:05:42still have to go through version, you know, on version 12, it's ready to go.
- 1:05:48And it's AI's not writing for you.
- 1:05:50You're writing, but you're trying to get disconfirming feedback
- 1:05:53and you're moving it forward.
- 1:05:54You're moving it forward till it's something that makes sense.
- 1:05:56And then finally, we endeavor to align change, but change driven by deviance.
- 1:06:04And I wanna come back to something John Kotter writes about.
- 1:06:09uh, I'm not on the same page as John on a lot of stuff, but I'm
- 1:06:12really on the same page on this for this part, at the end it has to be
- 1:06:16unified, but not at the beginning.
- 1:06:19So think of it like a funnel, right?
- 1:06:22And the problem with conventional, uh, tools for change in innovation
- 1:06:27stage gating, systems, portfolio management, kp I go down the list,
- 1:06:32all starting at the AF position as the output of this, the inputs.
- 1:06:38The inputs are culture and competencies and communities and leadership and what's
- 1:06:42going on in the world and emerging.
- 1:06:43That's the input, that's the stuff you put in the machine.
- 1:06:47Only at the end you align.
- 1:06:49And so the biggest problem is when you see people like venture capitalists trying
- 1:06:54to align things at the front end of this, 'cause they're trying to mitigate risk.
- 1:06:57doesn't work that way.
- 1:06:59And I come back to the beginning of the book, the COVID vaccine, you know,
- 1:07:02500 shots on goal actually started with 600, but they eliminated a hundred
- 1:07:07just for, 'cause they were crazy.
- 1:07:09169, phase two, nine provisional therapies took a, you took a 10 year process, did it
- 1:07:15in six months, So the notion is, yes, you align, but at the end, at the beginning.
- 1:07:23Right?
- 1:07:23So the paradox is you don't wanna have, you know, you don't wanna have things
- 1:07:27that are, you know, that are crazy.
- 1:07:29But in order to get what you need, you gotta get crazy.
- 1:07:32Those are the seven.
- 1:07:34Love it.
- 1:07:35And it could have been 70, but those were the seven we thought were the biggest.
- 1:07:38Uh, one of the things I think is so important, and just to reiterate it
- 1:07:42in a slightly different way, Paul Nunes, I dunno if you know Paul.
- 1:07:45He, he, yeah, you're nodding.
- 1:07:46Paul, great guy.
- 1:07:48He's not far from me.
- 1:07:49He is in Boston.
- 1:07:50I met him there just before Christmas, but he.
- 1:07:53He said to me that like at the start or at the point of the lifecycle, at the
- 1:07:57point of creative destruction on the S-curve that we talked about in part
- 1:08:01one, that you want deviance there, you want disagreement, but when you're in
- 1:08:06execution mode, you want alignment.
- 1:08:09And I thought that was interesting because many innovators actually thrive when
- 1:08:13it's deviance time, but they forget that it'll always get to the alignment time.
- 1:08:18And they get bored in that time and they want to leave or they,
- 1:08:21it's not the same organization.
- 1:08:22That's fine.
- 1:08:23I think the big thing, and we talked about this in the first video.
- 1:08:27Which is the key learning is the handoff is the critical part.
- 1:08:30You need the handoff.
- 1:08:31So going back to the very first one, the greens or the crepe
- 1:08:36people are going to be attracted to risk, to variance, to ambiguity.
- 1:08:41The middling positions, the sage and the athlete, right?
- 1:08:45Those positions are antithetical.
- 1:08:47They'll take much longer than you think they're going to take.
- 1:08:50There's natural tense tension between getting the right people on board and
- 1:08:54selling to the right people and making sure the project is on track and making
- 1:08:58money, which is what VCs want or private equity wants or your company wants.
- 1:09:02If you've got an incubator, that's the long part and
- 1:09:04that's where most changes die.
- 1:09:07innovations die 'cause it takes too long.
- 1:09:10You're in the desert.
- 1:09:11Yeah.
- 1:09:11If it really was that easy, it would've been done through
- 1:09:13standard operating procedure.
- 1:09:15This is where the, all the big talk ends.
- 1:09:17Oh, your big talker.
- 1:09:18Now, can we get through this desert here?
- 1:09:20You know, what do they call bottom of more called it the bottom
- 1:09:22of the bathtub or death valley.
- 1:09:24Right.
- 1:09:24You know, we, us old timers, we all, we have names for all this crap.
- 1:09:29And then the AF position is you gotta get scale, which is what
- 1:09:32you're saying at the AF position.
- 1:09:34It's like, okay, we've agreed to this, now we're gonna, now we gotta
- 1:09:39get processed and a lot of complexity and we gotta spend a lot of money.
- 1:09:42We gotta push our chips in the middle of the table.
- 1:09:44So the key is that even though these are antithetical how we hand off as
- 1:09:49human beings, and the problem with most change in innovation processes.
- 1:09:53is they don't take this into account.
- 1:09:56What they say is, this is the way to do it.
- 1:09:57Here are the eight steps.
- 1:09:58Here are, and that's not how it works.
- 1:10:01And it's not just change in processes.
- 1:10:03I mean, we we're talking about, for example, even in teams, these interactions
- 1:10:07in teams, you know, throughout the life of the projects, right?
- 1:10:11I mean, who the leader is or who you listen to is different
- 1:10:15from stage to stage to stage.
- 1:10:17So like you said, I think that all the greens in the beginning, you
- 1:10:21know, they, they come out all the radical ideas, which is pretty great.
- 1:10:25And then they get bored, right?
- 1:10:26And all the way until the end.
- 1:10:28But this is the thing, even during that last part, the greens still need to be
- 1:10:34there because they are the weather thing.
- 1:10:37And the organization needs to understand that is the green's job wait a minute,
- 1:10:44there's a disconfirming feedback.
- 1:10:46This may not work anymore, or, our approach was wrong.
- 1:10:51And if there isn't that person, you gonna create something that it's not useful.
- 1:10:58Conflict.
- 1:10:58We need constructive conflict, and at the heart of this diverse worldviews,
- 1:11:04and those come from experience that you have different views and
- 1:11:09just, I hope this is making sense.
- 1:11:10We come right back to the first principles at the beginning of
- 1:11:12this, Hey, let's go back to Luis.
- 1:11:15Let's finish with Luis.
- 1:11:17Luis had the kind of commanding officer that would've made sense.
- 1:11:23Luis's commanding officer would've said, Luis is really good at
- 1:11:27this particular type of job.
- 1:11:29The openings are these kinds of jobs, and he would've looked for an alternative
- 1:11:34for Luis to keep Luis in the military, to keep him warm, and maybe to give
- 1:11:38him some additional projects that he could have worked on that he probably
- 1:11:41would've been very happy with, right?
- 1:11:44Instead, they lost all of this experience and knowledge of
- 1:11:48developing a COVID vaccine.
- 1:11:51I think the military is a little different.
- 1:11:53They have a very.
- 1:11:53Strong and rigid, career path and you know, what they need to do.
- 1:12:00I think , in the industry, we have a lot more freedom as a supervisor,
- 1:12:05as a manager to kind, , create new positions of things like that.
- 1:12:09I want everybody to remember that everybody doesn't
- 1:12:12want the same thing, right?
- 1:12:15If you're in the forward position, if you're a create, you want freedom.
- 1:12:19know it's a big thing for me.
- 1:12:20Think about who builds.
- 1:12:21You know who builds a shop across the street?
- 1:12:23That's crazy, right?
- 1:12:25if you are the opposite.
- 1:12:27If you are, , an engineer, you want more responsibility, right?
- 1:12:31You seek responsibility, advancement.
- 1:12:34If you are, an athlete, you seek goal attainment money, Whatever.
- 1:12:41And if you are a sage, what you seek is harmony.
- 1:12:46wanna work in a place that's harmonious, and these are all important parts of
- 1:12:50innovation and change and worthwhile and good, they're different.
- 1:12:55you mentioned Geoffrey Moore there, we have a series with Geoffrey
- 1:12:58Moore coming down the line as well.
- 1:13:00At least eight parts covering his books as well.
- 1:13:02The more of Moore.
- 1:13:03Series.
- 1:13:06So, uh, we're gonna get through all the, all the legends.
- 1:13:10One thing I just thought we'd put in there before we finish, really just to
- 1:13:14fly through it, a bit of homework for our audience, which is the paradoxical
- 1:13:18mindset cycle, the four steps, and maybe you'll just say, this is how
- 1:13:22you do it and because you do this in the book where each chapter gives.
- 1:13:27So you start off by giving the paradoxes, then you take us through it, you give
- 1:13:31us an example, and then you go, okay, it's over to you now using this cycle.
- 1:13:36Yeah, I'm, I'll tell you a real story that will make this clear to your listeners.
- 1:13:41I love trees and Staney and I live in a, we live on the river
- 1:13:45and we're, it's like hobbiton.
- 1:13:46We're there are trees everywhere.
- 1:13:49We live around trees and, we live in Michigan, which gets snow.
- 1:13:53we had about three weekends in a row of heavy snow.
- 1:13:56So the worst kind of snow is like in the spring where it's
- 1:13:59more wet and outta nowhere.
- 1:14:01A whole bunch of trees came down.
- 1:14:04And we live on a dirt road, so you can imagine you gotta get everything out.
- 1:14:07So we found a group of, young people, enterprising young people chainsaws and
- 1:14:13they were gonna take stuff down, you know, pay 'em cash and it's all good.
- 1:14:18So were taking everything down and it worked really well.
- 1:14:21But there was one tree that was leaning over our conservatory, right?
- 1:14:26And it's a place that Danny and I really enjoy being out there.
- 1:14:29And, um, I said, can, can, you know, uh, the guy said, you want me to cut it down?
- 1:14:33This tree's gonna fall down.
- 1:14:36Well, if I had been thinking about it, I would've said, no, can, can you shimmy up
- 1:14:40the tree and get out the snow out of it?
- 1:14:41And you know, would I let the guy cut the tree down?
- 1:14:44And the minute he did it, I just had this horrible feeling.
- 1:14:48I don't know if you've ever had this happen where, you know, and then what you
- 1:14:51do is you mire, you know, you ruminate.
- 1:14:55Why'd I let this happen?
- 1:14:56This is not, I, I, I made a really bad snap decision.
- 1:15:01what I started thinking about was the paradox.
- 1:15:03What was the paradox?
- 1:15:03Paradox.
- 1:15:04I love trees.
- 1:15:05And then I let this guy cut a tree down.
- 1:15:07The paradox is I'm a thoughtful person, but I wasn't thoughtful.
- 1:15:10The para, the paradox was, I'm having, I have to check the software here.
- 1:15:16Something didn't go right.
- 1:15:18Well then I had to look at the meaning.
- 1:15:20Why did I let this happen?
- 1:15:22Well, I think, you know, was it 'cause I was panicked about this?
- 1:15:25Was it because I'm, now I've deferred this?
- 1:15:28Was I having a bad day?
- 1:15:30Was I tired?
- 1:15:30May I, you know, and you go through all the kind of.
- 1:15:33Things that you do.
- 1:15:35of the reason I think it was, is I didn't give myself enough
- 1:15:37time to think this through.
- 1:15:38I didn't give myself five minutes to just step back and say, Hmm,
- 1:15:43we're just cutting down trees.
- 1:15:44'cause you know, one's up across the road.
- 1:15:46And those were easy decisions to make.
- 1:15:48And it didn't occur to me that this felt in a different category.
- 1:15:52Right.
- 1:15:52So then the next part was, well what's the guiding principle?
- 1:15:56The guiding principle is you have something that seems like a snap
- 1:16:00decision, be present of mine to give yourself five minutes and maybe call
- 1:16:03Stan and say, what should I do here?
- 1:16:07Doesn't mean I, doesn't mean I always do what she says, but mostly I do.
- 1:16:11Um, it means I'm, you know, I'm beginning to think about,
- 1:16:14and then I'd run an experiment.
- 1:16:15So to your listener, what I would say, and then what happened
- 1:16:18was , we had a situation with a car that kind of broke down.
- 1:16:21We had opport, you know, people take advantage of you when that happens.
- 1:16:24And we kind of thought through, I kind of got to think through minutes.
- 1:16:28What are some alternatives to what these experts are telling me?
- 1:16:31We had a very positive experience.
- 1:16:32So here's what I'd ask your listeners to do.
- 1:16:35I'd like you to think about a decision that you made recently that you actually
- 1:16:39don't know why you made it, right.
- 1:16:42I have no idea.
- 1:16:43This came outta nowhere.
- 1:16:43This is not like me.
- 1:16:45You said something at a party that was hurtful, just
- 1:16:48something that just didn't fit.
- 1:16:51Then I don't want you to think about, you know, that's the paradox.
- 1:16:55Then I want you to think about what does this mean?
- 1:16:57Why did I do that?
- 1:16:59Which we all do, but don't get on one thing.
- 1:17:02Get the object is to fan out 15 things of why I might have done that.
- 1:17:07then you sort of work it like uh, you know, like you're workshopping it.
- 1:17:10You're workshopping it.
- 1:17:12You maybe talk to a confidant or think about, go for a long
- 1:17:15constitutional, think about that.
- 1:17:17know why you do that?
- 1:17:18She laughs 'cause I go on Constitutionals every day long.
- 1:17:21Why am I doing this?
- 1:17:24then instead of, this is what Benjamin Franklin did, he was great at this.
- 1:17:29Then make a simple rule.
- 1:17:31A simple rule.
- 1:17:32What the learning, given all this, what's the learning?
- 1:17:36, It on a laminate.
- 1:17:37I do that all the time.
- 1:17:39You know, get a tattoo.
- 1:17:40I don't know.
- 1:17:41Just remember it.
- 1:17:43And then the next time that you're in that, the, and then to test it.
- 1:17:47Run an experiment.
- 1:17:49Is this true that I would do this or try it?
- 1:17:53And what you're gonna find is in the first iteration, It's not quite right.
- 1:17:57never.
- 1:17:57The first pancake is never a good pancake, right?
- 1:18:00Um, second one's a little, someone's considerably better.
- 1:18:04And the third one's a good pancake.
- 1:18:06So you don't have to go through eKyndryless loops of this, but
- 1:18:08that's what I would ask people to do, and I'd start with yourself in the
- 1:18:12paradoxes about why did I do this?
- 1:18:17I love it.
- 1:18:17I love it.
- 1:18:18The first attempt is learning.
- 1:18:20That's a nice, acronym for Fail First attempt is learning.
- 1:18:24I loved our series.
- 1:18:26I have a little quote that I just wanted to share before I come to you guys to ask
- 1:18:31you where people can find you, et cetera.
- 1:18:33Also, maybe you call out your final message to the audience because it'll be
- 1:18:37a while before we connect again, because before you write , your next book as well.
- 1:18:41I really enjoyed this one.
- 1:18:42I really enjoyed this episode because we put everything together as well.
- 1:18:46There's a part from the book I had so many little quotes and I've
- 1:18:49been sharing them on LinkedIn, as you probably saw, but I love this?
- 1:18:52one.
- 1:18:52You said, "transformation begins within by first changing ourselves
- 1:18:58as individuals and leaders.
- 1:19:00We unlock the potential to transform our teams and our organizations.
- 1:19:04Through your personal growth, you can inspire thriving organizational
- 1:19:08culture, elevate competencies, and foster a vibrant community.
- 1:19:13As visionary leaders, you embody the culture, practices and
- 1:19:16competencies you aspire to see.
- 1:19:19In essence, you lead by example guiding those around you to embrace
- 1:19:23and champion change." I love that.
- 1:19:26That's my mic drop from me.
- 1:19:29Maybe I'll come to you, Staney.
- 1:19:30Ladies first, what's your final message to our audience?
- 1:19:33It's messy.
- 1:19:35Innovation and change and creativity is really, really messy.
- 1:19:39you have to have a stout heart, right?
- 1:19:43And a will.
- 1:19:45need to know what you're getting into.
- 1:19:47You can get pushed back.
- 1:19:49But you know, that's, that's how it is.
- 1:19:51And if you want to be a real change maker, you can have to accept all of that.
- 1:19:55So surround yourself with community and people who can support that.
- 1:20:00as you said, it's table, stakes to do that, right?
- 1:20:03So, Jeff, your final, firstly, before you give your final word,
- 1:20:07where's the best place to find you?
- 1:20:08jeffdegraf.com and there's a ton of free stuff on there.
- 1:20:12So my school of thought and all that's there, and I'm one of the
- 1:20:15original LinkedIn influencers.
- 1:20:16So if you look me up on LinkedIn, you can find me and I post a lot of articles
- 1:20:21and stuff that I write for, you know, uh, you don't have to look at all the
- 1:20:25publications, you'll find them if I put 'em on LinkedIn, would say the
- 1:20:29last thing is about 40 years ago, I coined a term called Creative Izing.
- 1:20:33In fact, I trademarked it, right?
- 1:20:35I coined the term, meaning just add creativity to everyday normal things.
- 1:20:42Let's take this down a thousand, right?
- 1:20:45The object is, what you're really trying to do is get momentum.
- 1:20:49You're trying to get movement, you're trying to become more fluid at something.
- 1:20:52So rather than making this grand, let's make this intimate, right?
- 1:20:59So whether it's, doing something creative in the way you drive to work or the way
- 1:21:03in which you, , have a coffee conversation with a friend, and what's gonna happen
- 1:21:07is that's gonna build a muscle memory.
- 1:21:10It's gonna build momentum.
- 1:21:12And the object of that is once you start living in that mode where
- 1:21:17you're able to affect some agency within yourself and some agency around
- 1:21:23you,, that's when everything, that's when everything starts to change.
- 1:21:28It all starts with you creativizing.
- 1:21:31and by the way, you can get started.
- 1:21:32Just sign up to our substack.
- 1:21:34I have a copy of this Bad Boy up for grabs as well, but this was
- 1:21:38the book we're covering today.
- 1:21:39The art have changed their latest in their tome of work of the DeGraffs.
- 1:21:44It's been an absolute pleasure having you on the show, authors of the Innovation
- 1:21:49code, the creative mindset, and the finale in our trilogy, the Art of Change.
- 1:21:54Jeff and Staney, DeGraff , thank you for joining us.
- 1:21:57Thank you so much, Aiden.
- 1:21:58We've really enjoyed this.
- 1:21:59Yeah.
- 1:22:00Thank you.
- 1:22:01It's been a pleasure.
- 1:22:03Double mic drop.
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