Latest / Abide Meditation App / Guided meditation for change _ Break the vicious cycles in your life _ meditation for mindfulness
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- 0:12Speaker 1: Have you ever wondered how sometimes life keeps repeating itself,
- 0:20Speaker 1: possibly always ending up in similar circumstances with other people
- 0:27Speaker 1: or situations? Perhaps this isn't fate, but a vicious cycle
- 0:36Speaker 1: that keeps revolving from unlearned lessons in life. In this
- 0:43Speaker 1: guided meditation, you will find out yourself how you handle
- 0:49Speaker 1: your balance of life and maybe open your mind to
- 0:54Speaker 1: the possibility of a better percentage of more positive outcomes.
- 1:09Speaker 1: you may if you wish listen to this meditation whilst
- 1:14Speaker 1: you relax or you can simply play this audio in
- 1:20Speaker 1: the background whilst you sleep either way your subconscious will
- 1:28Speaker 1: absorb the parts that are personally meaningful to you. Take
- 1:43Speaker 1: a moment to compose yourself by taking a deep breath
- 1:49Speaker 1: and exhaling slowly. This can be used as a signal
- 2:01Speaker 1: that you, your mind and body are ready and accepting
- 2:09Speaker 1: of being open to the idea of contemplation with yourself
- 2:14Speaker 1: and the world around you. Have a moment to let
- 2:25Speaker 1: your thoughts just wander as they do the important aspects
- 2:31Speaker 1: of the things that have been playing on your mind
- 2:34Speaker 1: will be brought forward. When those images play back, you
- 2:49Speaker 1: may feel a certain feeling or sensation, such as tightening
- 2:55Speaker 1: in your chest, your shoulders becoming tense, or it could
- 3:01Speaker 1: be something else. Just take a mental note as you
- 3:08Speaker 1: observe what is happening in a passive, distanced fashion. Now,
- 3:32Speaker 1: I would like you to cast your mind back to
- 3:35Speaker 1: the beginning of that situation that a certain thought surrounds. Perhaps,
- 3:44Speaker 1: think about how that circumstance got to be. it may
- 4:05Speaker 1: be difficult but ask yourself the following questions whilst doing
- 4:11Speaker 1: so remain calm and passive don't worry if you can't
- 4:17Speaker 1: get the answers that you're looking for right now as
- 4:21Speaker 1: your mind will eventually, with patience, give those much needed
- 4:26Speaker 1: answers in time. Here are the questions. Were you two
- 4:35Speaker 1: giving at the start, letting things snowball, finally becoming the
- 4:42Speaker 1: person lost the more the situation played out? Were you
- 4:57Speaker 1: in a vulnerable state as you entered that cycle? Do
- 5:11Speaker 1: you have a barrier up that perhaps prevents you from
- 5:15Speaker 1: doing something or progressing What feeling lets you accept how
- 5:27Speaker 1: things turn out the way they do? Could you do
- 5:41Speaker 1: more to prevent people taking advantage of you? and could
- 5:55Speaker 1: you have seen this cycle happening before it began let
- 6:10Speaker 1: your mind rest knowing you have asked those questions relax
- 6:15Speaker 1: a little more from being reassured that you have begun
- 6:20Speaker 1: the process of indulging in more insight into yourself and
- 6:27Speaker 1: how you can improve the outcomes these vicious cycles are
- 6:40Speaker 1: like a groove in a vinyl record sometimes the needle
- 6:45Speaker 1: gets stuck on a loop resulting in the same repetition
- 6:50Speaker 1: of events being played over and over and over. It
- 7:05Speaker 1: is up to you to contemplate perhaps how you could
- 7:09Speaker 1: change things to prevent that loop from happening again. Somewhere
- 7:16Speaker 1: in those cycles are clues to what lesson could be learned.
- 7:31Speaker 1: Hindsight is a great thing and this is also what
- 7:36Speaker 1: can be used to distinguish between being in that loop
- 7:41Speaker 1: or breaking it. Have a moment personally identify those problem areas.
- 7:50Speaker 1: No need to conclude anything right now. The answers will
- 7:55Speaker 1: come in time. Now that you have a little more
- 8:17Speaker 1: insight into things, and maybe come to some conclusions, next
- 8:23Speaker 1: time you identify the beginning of a cycle, you will
- 8:27Speaker 1: recognize the signs and feelings. Maybe pull back a little
- 8:40Speaker 1: from the situations. Scan your emotions for anything that is
- 8:44Speaker 1: telling you to progress with caution. Try to take any
- 8:58Speaker 1: high energy or anxiety away, letting yourself think more clearly.
- 9:13Speaker 1: Even take yourself out of the situation altogether until you
- 9:19Speaker 1: have more clear understanding of how you would rather proceed.
- 9:32Speaker 1: The situation could be one where you may have to
- 9:36Speaker 1: be hard on yourself, going more with your gut feeling,
- 9:42Speaker 1: rather than flowing along to keep things easy. Sometimes taking
- 9:55Speaker 1: the easy route in not saying or doing something can
- 10:00Speaker 1: lead to a vicious cycle. Let your mind just be
- 10:06Speaker 1: for now. Give yourself a moment to relax further as
- 10:12Speaker 1: those thoughts float around, giving you space and the freedom
- 10:19Speaker 1: to let the answers take shape on their own. Relax
- 10:31Speaker 1: by letting your shoulders go a little more. Relax your breathing,
- 10:37Speaker 1: and if you want to, take a sigh of relief
- 10:42Speaker 1: if you have experienced some enlightenment. The music will play
- 10:55Speaker 1: for a few more minutes, just to let you have
- 10:58Speaker 1: that much needed gentle time with yourself. The thought process
- 11:04Speaker 1: you have begun will continue even after this meditation. Answers
- 11:12Speaker 1: will be formed, if not now, but as your mind
- 11:17Speaker 1: works its way through to enlightenment. Thank you. Thank you.
- 12:42Speaker 1: Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Thank you.