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Why Am I Comparing Myself to Coworkers — And How Do I Stop? · Becoming Financially Confident

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  Have
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  you
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  ever
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  walked
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  into
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  work
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  and
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  felt
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  like
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  you
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  were
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  behind?
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  Not
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  because
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  of
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  your
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  performance,
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  but
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  because
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  of
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  everyone
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  else
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  around
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  you,
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  Their
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  promotions,
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  their
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  lifestyle,
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  their
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  wins.
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  And
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  somehow
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  it
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  starts
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  to
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  get
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  to
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  you.
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  If
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  you've
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  ever
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  felt
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  that
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  quiet
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  pressure,
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  especially
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  lately,
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  today
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  break
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  that
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  cycle
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  before
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  it
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  cost
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  you
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  more
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  than
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  you
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  even
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  realize.
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  Hello,
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  friend.
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  Ralph
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  Estepp
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  Jr.
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  Here.
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  This
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  is
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  financially
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  confident
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  Christian.
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  This
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  show
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  is
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  all
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  about
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  breaking
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  the
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  cycle
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  of
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  financial
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  shame
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  and
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  finding
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  financial
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  confidence.
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  And
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  today
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  talk
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  about
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  comparison,
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  because
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  comparison
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  can
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  quietly
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  steal
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  your
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  peace.
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  And
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  today
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  lean
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  into
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  why
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  we
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  compare
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  ourselves
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  to
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  coworkers
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  and
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  how
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  to
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  stop.
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  We
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  got
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  a
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  listener
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  voicemail
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  that
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  just
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  nails
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  it.
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  So
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  let's
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  get
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  into
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  today's
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  listener
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  question.
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  Hey,
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  Ralph,
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  I
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  listen
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  to
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  FCC
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  pretty
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  regularly,
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  and
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  I've
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  got
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  a
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  question
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  that's
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  been
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  weighing
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  on
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  me.
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  I
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  need
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  to
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  be
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  honest
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  about
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  something.
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  I
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  keep
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  comparing
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  my
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  life
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  to
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  my
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  co
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  workers,
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  and
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  it's.
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  It's
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  getting
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  to
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  me.
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  They're
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  buying
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  nicer
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  stuff,
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  talking
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  about
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  trips,
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  moving
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  ahead
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  in
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  ways
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  I'm
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  not.
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  And
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  even
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  when
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  I
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  try
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  not
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  to
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  think
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  about
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  it,
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  it's
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  just.
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  It's
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  just
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  there.
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  It
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  makes
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  me
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  feel
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  behind,
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  like
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  I'm
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  failing
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  somehow,
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  like
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  I
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  need
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  to
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  catch
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  up
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  or
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  prove
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  I'm
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  doing
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  okay,
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  too.
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  And
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  that's
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  when
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  I
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  spend.
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  Not
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  because
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  I
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  need
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  to,
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  but
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  because
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  for,
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  like,
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  one
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  second,
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  it
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  makes
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  me
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  feel
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  like
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  I'm
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  not
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  falling
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  behind.
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  But
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  it
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  never
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  lasts.
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  And
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  after,
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  it's.
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  It's
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  worse.
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  Now
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  I've
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  got
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  the
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  insecurity
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  and
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  the
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  regret
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  both
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  just
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  sitting
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  there.
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  I
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  keep
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  living
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  like
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  this.
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  I
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  don't
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  want
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  my
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  peace
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  tied
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  to
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  what
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  everyone
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  else
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  is
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  doing.
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  I
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  don't
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  want
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  to
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  chase
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  a
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  feeling
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  that
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  disappears
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  the
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  second
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  I
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  get
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  it.
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  How
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  do
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  I
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  break
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  this?
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  How
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  do
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  I,
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  like,
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  how
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  do
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  I
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  stop
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  comparing,
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  stop
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  spending
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  to
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  feel
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  better
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  and
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  actually
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  feel
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  okay
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  with
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  where
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  I
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  am?
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  Let
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  me
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  know
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  what
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  you
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  think,
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  Ralph.
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  Thanks.
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  Well,
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  first
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  of
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  all,
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  thank
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  you
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  for
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  your
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  honesty.
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  Acknowledging
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  that
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  kind
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  of
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  comparison
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  is
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  the
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  first
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  step,
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  because
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  what
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  you're
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  living
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  in
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  is
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  exhausting.
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  And
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  for
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  so
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  many
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  of
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  us,
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  it's
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  not
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  always
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  loud
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  or
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  obvious.
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  It
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  can
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  be
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  something
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  quiet.
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  It
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  can
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  be
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  something
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  constant
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  and
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  just
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  hard
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  to
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  shake.
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  But
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  the
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  real
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  issue
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  that
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  you've
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  alluded
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  to
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  is
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  not
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  just
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  spending.
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  The
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  deeper
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  issue
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  that
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  you're
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  going
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  through
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  is
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  identity
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  and
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  peace
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  and
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  that
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  feeling
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  of
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  being
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  behind.
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  But
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  reassure
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  you
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  right
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  now,
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  you're
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  not
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  broken.
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  The
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  best
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  part
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  of
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  this
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  is
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  you're
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  actually
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  noticing
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  a
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  pattern.
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  And
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  that
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  feeling
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  is
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  exhausting
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  because
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  it's
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  not
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  always
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  loud.
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  It
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  just
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  sits
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  there.
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  And
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  you
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  can
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  be
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  doing
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  okay,
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  but
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  when
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  you
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  look
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  around
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  at
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  everyone
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  else's
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  progress,
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  suddenly
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  you
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  feel
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  behind.
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  And
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  that
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  feeling
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  can
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  start
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  making
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  decisions
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  for
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  you
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  if
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  you
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  don't
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  interrupt
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  it.
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  So
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  that's
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  why
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  I'm
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  so
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  excited
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  about
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  your
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  call
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  today.
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  Because
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  that
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  comparison
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  doesn't
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  just
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  affect
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  how
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  you
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  feel,
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  affects
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  how
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  you
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  spend
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  money.
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  And
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  that
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  spending
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  becomes
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  this
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  temporary
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  relief.
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  You
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  feel
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  like
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  get
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  successful,
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  get
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  equal,
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  get
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  caught
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  up.
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  But
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  you've
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  already
• 4:01
  figured
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  it
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  out,
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  that
• 4:02
  relief
• 4:02
  doesn't
• 4:02
  last.
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  And
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  after
• 4:04
  that
• 4:05
  purchase
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  fades,
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  that
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  insecurity
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  is
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  still
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  there.
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  And
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  now
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  to
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  join
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  by
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  regret,
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  it's
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  joined
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  with
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  debt,
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  maybe.
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  And
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  it's
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  not
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  just
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  a
• 4:14
  discipline
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  problem.
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  We're
• 4:16
  trying
• 4:17
  to
• 4:17
  fix
• 4:17
  an
• 4:17
  emotional
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  wound
• 4:18
  with
• 4:18
  a
• 4:19
  financial
• 4:19
  decision.
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  Because
• 4:21
  the
• 4:22
  truth
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  is
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  this
• 4:22
  comparison
• 4:23
  doesn't
• 4:24
  just
• 4:24
  affect
• 4:24
  how
• 4:24
  you
• 4:25
  feel,
• 4:26
  it
• 4:26
  affects
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  how
• 4:27
  you
• 4:27
  spend.
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  So
• 4:29
  how
• 4:29
  do
• 4:29
  you
• 4:29
  break
• 4:29
  that
• 4:30
  cycle
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  of
• 4:30
  comparison
• 4:31
  before
• 4:31
  it
• 4:31
  turns
• 4:32
  into
• 4:32
  costly
• 4:32
  decisions?
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  And
• 4:34
  today
• 4:34
  I
• 4:34
  want
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  to
• 4:35
  walk
• 4:35
  you
• 4:35
  through
• 4:35
  my
• 4:35
  faithful
• 4:36
  framework.
• 4:37
  We've
• 4:37
  introduced
• 4:37
  this
• 4:37
  a
• 4:37
  few
• 4:38
  days
• 4:38
  ago
• 4:38
  and
• 4:39
  this
• 4:39
  is
• 4:39
  what
• 4:39
  I'm
• 4:39
  really
• 4:39
  leaning
• 4:40
  into.
• 4:40
  These
• 4:41
  faithful.
• 4:42
  We're
• 4:42
  going
• 4:42
  to
• 4:42
  spell
• 4:42
  out
• 4:42
  the
• 4:43
  word
• 4:43
  faithful
• 4:44
  and
• 4:44
  it
• 4:44
  starts
• 4:45
  with
• 4:45
  the
• 4:45
  F.
• 4:45
  We
• 4:46
  got
• 4:46
  to
• 4:46
  face
• 4:46
  the
• 4:46
  reality
• 4:47
  here.
• 4:47
  We
• 4:48
  got
• 4:48
  to
• 4:48
  build
• 4:48
  some
• 4:48
  awareness.
• 4:50
  What
• 4:50
  you're
• 4:50
  telling
• 4:51
  me
• 4:51
  is
• 4:51
  you're
• 4:51
  comparing.
• 4:53
  Now,
• 4:53
  honestly,
• 4:54
  I
• 4:54
  think
• 4:54
  what
• 4:54
  you
• 4:54
  might
• 4:54
  be
• 4:55
  feeling
• 4:55
  is
• 4:55
  jealousy.
• 4:57
  And
• 4:57
  that's
• 4:57
  not
• 4:57
  something
• 4:57
  to
• 4:58
  hide
• 4:58
  from.
• 4:59
  Jealousy
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  is
• 5:00
  something
• 5:00
  that
• 5:00
  is
• 5:01
  true
• 5:01
  to
• 5:01
  the
• 5:01
  human
• 5:02
  heart.
• 5:02
  It's
• 5:02
  something
• 5:03
  in
• 5:03
  our
• 5:03
  human
• 5:03
  nature,
• 5:04
  it's
• 5:04
  in
• 5:04
  our
• 5:04
  flesh.
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  And
• 5:06
  it's
• 5:06
  something
• 5:06
  you
• 5:07
  got
• 5:07
  to
• 5:07
  understand.
• 5:08
  Because
• 5:09
  when
• 5:09
  you
• 5:09
  can
• 5:09
  name
• 5:10
  that
• 5:10
  emotion,
• 5:11
  it
• 5:11
  removes
• 5:11
  some
• 5:12
  of
• 5:12
  its
• 5:12
  power.
• 5:13
  If
• 5:14
  you
• 5:14
  don't
• 5:14
  name
• 5:14
  it,
• 5:14
  you're
• 5:15
  never
• 5:15
  going
• 5:15
  to
• 5:15
  change
• 5:15
  it.
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  So
• 5:17
  that's
• 5:17
  where
• 5:17
  we
• 5:17
  need
• 5:17
  to
• 5:18
  start.
• 5:18
  The
• 5:18
  second
• 5:19
  is
• 5:19
  a
• 5:20
  we
• 5:20
  got
• 5:20
  to
• 5:20
  aim
• 5:21
  clearly,
• 5:21
  we
• 5:21
  got
• 5:21
  to
• 5:21
  build
• 5:22
  a
• 5:22
  vision.
• 5:24
  The
• 5:24
  real
• 5:24
  issue
• 5:24
  here
• 5:25
  is
• 5:25
  not
• 5:25
  what
• 5:25
  other
• 5:26
  co
• 5:26
  workers
• 5:26
  have.
• 5:28
  That's
• 5:28
  the
• 5:28
  easy
• 5:28
  thing.
• 5:29
  That's
• 5:29
  the
• 5:29
  easy
• 5:29
  excuse
• 5:30
  to
• 5:30
  take.
• 5:31
  The
• 5:31
  issue
• 5:32
  is
• 5:32
  whether
• 5:32
  you
• 5:33
  know
• 5:33
  what
• 5:33
  matters
• 5:33
  to
• 5:34
  you.
• 5:35
  Some
• 5:36
  of
• 5:36
  the
• 5:36
  things
• 5:36
  that
• 5:36
  they
• 5:36
  have
• 5:37
  must
• 5:37
  matter
• 5:37
  to
• 5:37
  you.
• 5:38
  But
• 5:39
  you've
• 5:39
  got
• 5:39
  to
• 5:39
  know
• 5:39
  what
• 5:39
  kind
• 5:40
  of
• 5:40
  life
• 5:40
  you're
• 5:41
  building.
• 5:42
  You're
• 5:42
  living
• 5:42
  your
• 5:42
  life.
• 5:44
  What
• 5:44
  you
• 5:44
  got
• 5:45
  to
• 5:45
  know
• 5:45
  what
• 5:45
  your
• 5:45
  financial
• 5:46
  goals
• 5:46
  actually
• 5:46
  fit
• 5:47
  your
• 5:47
  values.
• 5:49
  Because
• 5:49
  if
• 5:49
  you
• 5:49
  don't
• 5:49
  have
• 5:50
  your
• 5:50
  own
• 5:50
  direction,
• 5:50
  you're
• 5:51
  going
• 5:51
  to
• 5:51
  keep
• 5:51
  chasing
• 5:52
  after
• 5:52
  theirs.
• 5:54
  If
• 5:54
  you
• 5:54
  don't
• 5:55
  define
• 5:55
  your
• 5:55
  own
• 5:56
  direction,
• 5:57
  you're
• 5:57
  going
• 5:57
  to
• 5:57
  be
• 5:57
  keeping
• 5:58
  trying
• 5:58
  to
• 5:58
  run
• 5:58
  their
• 5:59
  race.
• 6:00
  But
• 6:01
  let's
• 6:01
  move
• 6:01
  to
• 6:01
  I.
• 6:02
  We
• 6:02
  got
• 6:02
  to
• 6:02
  identify
• 6:03
  the
• 6:03
  timing
• 6:03
  here.
• 6:06
  Really
• 6:06
  know
• 6:07
  what
• 6:07
  this.
• 6:07
  What's
• 6:08
  behind
• 6:08
  this
• 6:09
  is.
• 6:09
  You're
• 6:09
  trying
• 6:10
  to
• 6:10
  understand
• 6:11
  someone
• 6:11
  else's
• 6:11
  lifestyle,
• 6:13
  but
• 6:14
  you
• 6:14
  have
• 6:14
  no
• 6:14
  idea
• 6:15
  how
• 6:15
  long
• 6:15
  it
• 6:15
  took
• 6:15
  them
• 6:16
  to
• 6:16
  get
• 6:16
  there.
• 6:17
  Maybe
• 6:17
  you
• 6:17
  see
• 6:18
  somebody
• 6:18
  that
• 6:18
  works
• 6:19
  with
• 6:19
  you,
• 6:19
  and
• 6:19
  you're
• 6:19
  like,
• 6:19
  wow,
• 6:20
  they've
• 6:20
  gotten
• 6:20
  a
• 6:20
  lot
• 6:20
  more
• 6:21
  promotions
• 6:21
  than
• 6:21
  I
• 6:21
  have.
• 6:23
  But
• 6:23
  you
• 6:23
  don't
• 6:23
  know
• 6:23
  the
• 6:24
  whole
• 6:24
  story.
• 6:25
  You
• 6:25
  don't
• 6:26
  know
• 6:26
  what
• 6:26
  they
• 6:26
  sacrificed.
• 6:28
  Hey,
• 6:28
  the
• 6:28
  truth
• 6:28
  is,
• 6:29
  you
• 6:29
  might
• 6:29
  see
• 6:29
  people
• 6:29
  with
• 6:29
  stuff
• 6:30
  and
• 6:30
  you
• 6:30
  go,
• 6:30
  wow,
• 6:30
  they
• 6:30
  really
• 6:31
  figured
• 6:31
  it
• 6:31
  out.
• 6:31
  But
• 6:32
  you
• 6:32
  don't
• 6:32
  know
• 6:32
  what's
• 6:32
  going
• 6:33
  on
• 6:33
  behind
• 6:33
  the
• 6:33
  scenes.
• 6:33
  They
• 6:34
  might
• 6:34
  be
• 6:34
  in
• 6:34
  a
• 6:34
  financial
• 6:35
  disaster.
• 6:37
  I
• 6:37
  see
• 6:37
  that
• 6:37
  so
• 6:38
  many
• 6:38
  times.
• 6:39
  You
• 6:39
  don't
• 6:40
  know
• 6:40
  what
• 6:40
  the
• 6:40
  pressure
• 6:40
  is
• 6:41
  that
• 6:41
  they
• 6:41
  feel
• 6:41
  behind
• 6:41
  the
• 6:42
  scenes.
• 6:42
  They
• 6:42
  might
• 6:42
  be
• 6:43
  putting
• 6:43
  on
• 6:43
  a
• 6:43
  good
• 6:43
  show
• 6:44
  in
• 6:44
  the
• 6:44
  front,
• 6:44
  and
• 6:44
  they
• 6:44
  might
• 6:45
  look
• 6:45
  like
• 6:45
  everything's
• 6:45
  together.
• 6:47
  But
• 6:47
  you
• 6:48
  can't
• 6:48
  compare
• 6:48
  your
• 6:49
  full
• 6:49
  reality
• 6:49
  to
• 6:50
  the
• 6:50
  visible
• 6:51
  highlights.
• 6:53
  So
• 6:53
  stop
• 6:53
  comparing
• 6:54
  your
• 6:54
  timeline
• 6:54
  to
• 6:55
  their
• 6:55
  highlight
• 6:55
  reel.
• 6:57
  But
• 6:57
  now
• 6:58
  you
• 6:58
  got
• 6:58
  to
• 6:58
  think
• 6:58
  of
• 6:58
  options.
• 6:59
  You
• 6:59
  got
• 7:00
  a
• 7:00
  brainstorm
• 7:01
  here.
• 7:02
  Think
• 7:03
  for
• 7:03
  a
• 7:03
  second.
• 7:03
  What
• 7:03
  am
• 7:04
  I
• 7:04
  actually
• 7:04
  feeling
• 7:05
  right
• 7:05
  now?
• 7:06
  When
• 7:06
  you
• 7:07
  start
• 7:07
  to
• 7:07
  feel
• 7:07
  that
• 7:07
  pressure,
• 7:08
  when
• 7:08
  you
• 7:08
  start
• 7:08
  to
• 7:09
  feel
• 7:09
  that
• 7:09
  comparison
• 7:10
  trap,
• 7:11
  ask
• 7:12
  yourself,
• 7:12
  am
• 7:12
  I
• 7:13
  insecure?
• 7:14
  Is
• 7:14
  this
• 7:15
  a
• 7:15
  security
• 7:15
  issue?
• 7:16
  Am
• 7:17
  I
• 7:17
  feeling
• 7:17
  pressure?
• 7:19
  Am
• 7:19
  I
• 7:19
  afraid
• 7:20
  of
• 7:20
  falling
• 7:21
  behind?
• 7:21
  Am
• 7:21
  I
• 7:21
  afraid
• 7:21
  that
• 7:22
  I
• 7:22
  maybe
• 7:22
  am
• 7:22
  behind?
• 7:24
  Am
• 7:24
  I
• 7:24
  trying
• 7:24
  to
• 7:25
  prove
• 7:25
  something
• 7:25
  to
• 7:26
  someone?
• 7:27
  And
• 7:27
  then
• 7:28
  if
• 7:28
  you're
• 7:28
  going
• 7:28
  to
• 7:28
  spend
• 7:28
  money,
• 7:29
  ask
• 7:29
  yourself
• 7:29
  this
• 7:29
  really
• 7:30
  hard
• 7:30
  question.
• 7:31
  Is
• 7:32
  this
• 7:32
  purchase
• 7:32
  actually
• 7:33
  going
• 7:33
  to
• 7:33
  solve
• 7:33
  the
• 7:34
  feeling?
• 7:36
  And
• 7:37
  once
• 7:37
  you
• 7:37
  name
• 7:37
  that
• 7:38
  emotion,
• 7:39
  you're
• 7:39
  going
• 7:39
  to
• 7:39
  figure
• 7:40
  out
• 7:40
  you
• 7:40
  don't
• 7:40
  have
• 7:40
  to
• 7:40
  spend
• 7:41
  money
• 7:41
  to
• 7:41
  escape
• 7:42
  it.
• 7:43
  But
• 7:43
  now
• 7:44
  we
• 7:44
  got
• 7:44
  to
• 7:44
  go
• 7:44
  to
• 7:44
  H
• 7:44
  and
• 7:45
  we
• 7:45
  have
• 7:45
  to
• 7:45
  have
• 7:45
  a
• 7:45
  plan.
• 7:46
  It's
• 7:46
  one
• 7:47
  thing
• 7:47
  to
• 7:47
  understand.
• 7:48
  It's
• 7:48
  another
• 7:48
  thing
• 7:49
  to
• 7:49
  understand
• 7:49
  the
• 7:50
  emotions
• 7:50
  behind
• 7:51
  it
• 7:51
  and
• 7:51
  understand
• 7:51
  the
• 7:52
  timeline.
• 7:52
  But
• 7:53
  now
• 7:53
  we've
• 7:53
  got
• 7:53
  to
• 7:53
  build
• 7:53
  a
• 7:54
  plan.
• 7:55
  One
• 7:55
  of
• 7:55
  the
• 7:56
  best
• 7:56
  things
• 7:56
  you
• 7:56
  can
• 7:56
  do
• 7:57
  is
• 7:57
  notice
• 7:57
  the
• 7:58
  comparison
• 7:58
  trigger
• 8:00
  next
• 8:01
  time
• 8:01
  you
• 8:01
  go
• 8:01
  to
• 8:01
  spend
• 8:01
  money.
• 8:02
  Think
• 8:02
  about
• 8:02
  it
• 8:02
  for
• 8:02
  a
• 8:02
  second.
• 8:03
  You
• 8:03
  know
• 8:03
  what
• 8:04
  triggered
• 8:04
  this,
• 8:06
  and
• 8:06
  say
• 8:06
  to
• 8:06
  yourself,
• 8:07
  I'm
• 8:07
  not
• 8:07
  going
• 8:07
  to
• 8:07
  buy
• 8:07
  anything.
• 8:08
  Immediately,
• 8:09
  I'm
• 8:10
  going
• 8:10
  to
• 8:10
  step
• 8:10
  away
• 8:10
  from
• 8:11
  the
• 8:11
  decision.
• 8:12
  I've
• 8:12
  talked
• 8:12
  on
• 8:12
  the
• 8:12
  show
• 8:13
  about
• 8:13
  this
• 8:13
  many
• 8:13
  times.
• 8:14
  Put
• 8:14
  that
• 8:14
  Pause
• 8:15
  in
• 8:15
  there
• 8:15
  24,
• 8:16
  36,
• 8:17
  48
• 8:17
  hours,
• 8:18
  and
• 8:19
  go
• 8:19
  back
• 8:19
  and
• 8:19
  think
• 8:19
  about
• 8:20
  your
• 8:20
  own
• 8:20
  priorities.
• 8:22
  So
• 8:22
  I
• 8:22
  think
• 8:22
  it's
• 8:22
  a
• 8:22
  great
• 8:23
  idea
• 8:23
  to
• 8:23
  write
• 8:23
  those
• 8:24
  things
• 8:24
  down
• 8:25
  and
• 8:25
  ask
• 8:26
  yourself
• 8:26
  whether
• 8:26
  that
• 8:26
  purchase
• 8:27
  fits
• 8:27
  your
• 8:27
  actual
• 8:28
  plan,
• 8:29
  your
• 8:29
  actual
• 8:30
  priorities.
• 8:32
  Because
• 8:32
  emotional
• 8:33
  spending
• 8:33
  loses
• 8:34
  its
• 8:34
  power
• 8:34
  when
• 8:34
  you
• 8:34
  interrupt
• 8:35
  it.
• 8:36
  The
• 8:36
  goal
• 8:37
  isn't
• 8:37
  to
• 8:37
  pretend
• 8:37
  the
• 8:38
  feeling
• 8:38
  isn't
• 8:38
  there.
• 8:38
  You're
• 8:39
  feeling
• 8:39
  these
• 8:39
  feelings.
• 8:40
  These
• 8:40
  are
• 8:40
  legitimate
• 8:41
  Feelings,
• 8:42
  you're
• 8:42
  feeling
• 8:43
  less.
• 8:43
  You're
• 8:43
  feeling
• 8:44
  this
• 8:44
  comparison.
• 8:46
  But
• 8:46
  the
• 8:46
  goal
• 8:46
  is
• 8:47
  to
• 8:47
  stop
• 8:47
  letting
• 8:47
  that
• 8:48
  feeling
• 8:48
  make
• 8:48
  the
• 8:48
  decision
• 8:49
  for
• 8:49
  you.
• 8:50
  That
• 8:51
  emotional
• 8:51
  spending
• 8:52
  loses
• 8:52
  its
• 8:52
  power
• 8:53
  when
• 8:53
  you're
• 8:53
  able
• 8:53
  to
• 8:53
  interrupt
• 8:54
  it.
• 8:55
  But
• 8:56
  we
• 8:56
  also
• 8:56
  have
• 8:56
  to
• 8:56
  acknowledge
• 8:57
  this.
• 8:57
  We
• 8:57
  got
• 8:57
  to
• 8:57
  move
• 8:57
  to
• 8:58
  F.
• 8:58
  And
• 8:59
  that's
• 8:59
  faith
• 8:59
  and
• 8:59
  surrender.
• 9:01
  The
• 9:01
  truth
• 9:01
  is,
• 9:02
  comparison
• 9:02
  makes
• 9:03
  people
• 9:03
  feel
• 9:03
  like
• 9:03
  their
• 9:03
  value
• 9:04
  is
• 9:04
  tied
• 9:04
  to
• 9:04
  what
• 9:05
  they
• 9:05
  have.
• 9:05
  This
• 9:05
  is
• 9:06
  the
• 9:06
  world
• 9:06
  we
• 9:06
  live
• 9:06
  in.
• 9:07
  Social
• 9:07
  media
• 9:08
  reinforces
• 9:08
  this.
• 9:10
  It
• 9:10
  makes
• 9:10
  people
• 9:10
  feel
• 9:11
  like
• 9:11
  they're
• 9:11
  behind
• 9:12
  because
• 9:12
  someone
• 9:12
  else
• 9:13
  appears
• 9:13
  ahead
• 9:13
  of
• 9:14
  them.
• 9:15
  But
• 9:15
  friend,
• 9:15
  your
• 9:16
  wealth
• 9:16
  is
• 9:16
  not
• 9:16
  measured
• 9:17
  by
• 9:17
  possessions.
• 9:18
  Your
• 9:19
  worth
• 9:19
  is
• 9:19
  not
• 9:19
  measured
• 9:20
  by
• 9:20
  your
• 9:20
  job
• 9:20
  title
• 9:21
  or
• 9:21
  your
• 9:21
  promotions
• 9:22
  or
• 9:22
  vacations
• 9:23
  or
• 9:23
  that
• 9:24
  outward
• 9:24
  success.
• 9:26
  I
• 9:26
  love
• 9:26
  doing
• 9:27
  this
• 9:27
  show
• 9:27
  with
• 9:27
  faith
• 9:28
  because
• 9:28
  your
• 9:28
  worth
• 9:28
  was
• 9:29
  given
• 9:29
  by
• 9:29
  God.
• 9:31
  So
• 9:31
  one
• 9:31
  of
• 9:31
  the
• 9:31
  things
• 9:31
  you
• 9:32
  may
• 9:32
  need
• 9:32
  to
• 9:32
  do
• 9:32
  right
• 9:33
  now
• 9:33
  is
• 9:33
  surrender
• 9:34
  that
• 9:34
  comparison.
• 9:35
  It's
• 9:36
  one
• 9:36
  thing
• 9:36
  to
• 9:36
  control
• 9:37
  the
• 9:37
  spending
• 9:38
  emotion.
• 9:38
  It's
• 9:39
  another
• 9:40
  to
• 9:40
  surrender
• 9:41
  that
• 9:41
  comparison.
• 9:43
  Maybe
• 9:43
  you
• 9:43
  need
• 9:43
  to
• 9:43
  pray
• 9:44
  right
• 9:44
  now
• 9:44
  to
• 9:44
  lord,
• 9:45
  help
• 9:45
  me
• 9:45
  release
• 9:45
  comparison
• 9:47
  and
• 9:47
  just
• 9:47
  remind
• 9:48
  me
• 9:48
  of
• 9:48
  who
• 9:48
  I
• 9:48
  am
• 9:48
  in
• 9:49
  you.
• 9:50
  Your
• 9:50
  worth
• 9:51
  was
• 9:51
  never
• 9:51
  meant
• 9:51
  to
• 9:52
  be
• 9:52
  measured
• 9:52
  by
• 9:52
  what
• 9:53
  someone
• 9:53
  else
• 9:54
  has.
• 9:55
  But
• 9:55
  then
• 9:56
  you've
• 9:56
  got
• 9:56
  to
• 9:56
  understand
• 9:56
  your
• 9:57
  progress
• 9:57
  and
• 9:57
  build
• 9:57
  some
• 9:58
  momentum
• 9:58
  here.
• 9:59
  Maybe
• 10:00
  progress
• 10:00
  for
• 10:00
  you
• 10:00
  is
• 10:01
  noticing
• 10:01
  those
• 10:01
  triggers.
• 10:02
  Maybe
• 10:03
  when
• 10:03
  you're
• 10:03
  feeling
• 10:04
  down,
• 10:04
  you
• 10:04
  think
• 10:04
  about,
• 10:04
  oh,
• 10:05
  you
• 10:05
  know
• 10:05
  what,
• 10:05
  I'm
• 10:05
  thinking
• 10:05
  this
• 10:06
  way
• 10:06
  because
• 10:06
  I'm
• 10:06
  comparing
• 10:07
  myself
• 10:08
  and
• 10:09
  just
• 10:09
  admitting
• 10:09
  that
• 10:09
  you
• 10:10
  were
• 10:10
  feeling
• 10:10
  that
• 10:11
  is
• 10:12
  so
• 10:13
  important.
• 10:13
  You
• 10:14
  make
• 10:14
  that
• 10:14
  pause
• 10:15
  before
• 10:15
  you
• 10:15
  spend.
• 10:15
  You
• 10:16
  wait
• 10:16
  the
• 10:16
  time,
• 10:17
  you
• 10:17
  go
• 10:17
  revisit
• 10:18
  your
• 10:18
  own
• 10:18
  priorities
• 10:20
  and
• 10:20
  you
• 10:20
  decide
• 10:20
  to
• 10:21
  choose
• 10:21
  peace
• 10:21
  over
• 10:21
  proving
• 10:22
  yourself.
• 10:25
  Progress
• 10:25
  is
• 10:25
  not
• 10:25
  always
• 10:26
  dramatic.
• 10:27
  Sometimes
• 10:28
  progress
• 10:28
  is
• 10:28
  simply
• 10:29
  pausing
• 10:30
  before
• 10:30
  the
• 10:30
  pattern
• 10:31
  repeats
• 10:31
  itself.
• 10:32
  But
• 10:33
  then
• 10:33
  you
• 10:33
  got
• 10:33
  to
• 10:33
  move
• 10:33
  to
• 10:33
  L
• 10:34
  and
• 10:34
  look
• 10:34
  ahead,
• 10:35
  talk
• 10:36
  through
• 10:36
  these
• 10:36
  type
• 10:37
  of
• 10:37
  things.
• 10:38
  You
• 10:38
  got
• 10:38
  to
• 10:38
  stop
• 10:39
  reacting
• 10:40
  and
• 10:40
  start
• 10:40
  making
• 10:40
  choices.
• 10:42
  You
• 10:42
  got
• 10:42
  to
• 10:42
  stop
• 10:43
  comparing
• 10:43
  yourself
• 10:44
  to
• 10:44
  everybody
• 10:44
  else
• 10:45
  and
• 10:45
  start
• 10:45
  building
• 10:46
  yourself
• 10:47
  because
• 10:48
  you
• 10:48
  can
• 10:48
  become
• 10:48
  more
• 10:49
  confident
• 10:49
  in
• 10:49
  your
• 10:50
  own
• 10:50
  path.
• 10:51
  But
• 10:51
  you
• 10:51
  got
• 10:52
  to
• 10:52
  begin
• 10:52
  to
• 10:52
  protect
• 10:52
  your
• 10:53
  peace
• 10:53
  instead
• 10:53
  of
• 10:54
  chasing
• 10:54
  after
• 10:54
  those
• 10:55
  feelings.
• 10:56
  The
• 10:56
  goal
• 10:57
  isn't
• 10:57
  to
• 10:57
  be
• 10:57
  ahead
• 10:58
  of
• 10:58
  your
• 10:58
  co
• 10:58
  workers.
• 10:59
  In
• 10:59
  fact,
• 10:59
  I
• 10:59
  think
• 10:59
  you
• 11:00
  should
• 11:00
  be
• 11:00
  cheering
• 11:00
  them
• 11:00
  on.
• 11:01
  The
• 11:02
  goal
• 11:02
  is
• 11:02
  to
• 11:02
  be
• 11:03
  faithful
• 11:03
  in
• 11:03
  your
• 11:04
  own
• 11:04
  life.
• 11:05
  Just
• 11:05
  think
• 11:06
  about
• 11:06
  it
• 11:06
  like
• 11:06
  this.
• 11:07
  Your
• 11:07
  path,
• 11:09
  your
• 11:09
  pace,
• 11:10
  and
• 11:11
  your
• 11:11
  peace.
• 11:13
  Because
• 11:13
  comparison
• 11:14
  creates
• 11:14
  pressure.
• 11:15
  We
• 11:15
  all
• 11:15
  live
• 11:15
  in
• 11:16
  this
• 11:16
  comparison
• 11:16
  trap.
• 11:17
  It's
• 11:17
  all
• 11:17
  around
• 11:18
  us.
• 11:19
  And
• 11:19
  unfortunately,
• 11:20
  and
• 11:20
  I'll
• 11:20
  speak
• 11:21
  to
• 11:21
  myself
• 11:21
  in
• 11:21
  this,
• 11:22
  that
• 11:22
  pressure
• 11:23
  often
• 11:23
  leads
• 11:24
  us
• 11:24
  to
• 11:24
  costly
• 11:24
  decisions.
• 11:26
  So
• 11:26
  here's
• 11:26
  your
• 11:26
  win
• 11:27
  for
• 11:27
  today.
• 11:28
  I
• 11:28
  just
• 11:28
  want
• 11:28
  you
• 11:28
  to
• 11:29
  focus
• 11:29
  today
• 11:29
  on
• 11:29
  interrupting
• 11:30
  that
• 11:30
  comparison
• 11:31
  loop.
• 11:32
  Finish
• 11:32
  this
• 11:32
  sentence.
• 11:33
  When
• 11:33
  I
• 11:33
  feel
• 11:34
  behind
• 11:34
  around
• 11:34
  my
• 11:35
  co
• 11:35
  workers.
• 11:36
  Maybe
• 11:36
  it's
• 11:37
  not
• 11:37
  your
• 11:37
  co
• 11:37
  workers,
• 11:37
  maybe
• 11:38
  it's
• 11:38
  your
• 11:38
  friends.
• 11:38
  It's
• 11:39
  your
• 11:39
  family.
• 11:39
  It's
• 11:40
  people
• 11:40
  you
• 11:40
  see
• 11:40
  on
• 11:40
  social
• 11:41
  media,
• 11:41
  whatever
• 11:42
  that
• 11:42
  is.
• 11:42
  But
• 11:42
  when
• 11:42
  you
• 11:43
  feel
• 11:43
  behind,
• 11:44
  I'm
• 11:44
  going
• 11:45
  to
• 11:45
  pause
• 11:45
  instead
• 11:45
  of
• 11:46
  spending
• 11:47
  and
• 11:48
  then
• 11:48
  write
• 11:48
  that
• 11:48
  down.
• 11:48
  Keep
• 11:49
  it
• 11:49
  somewhere
• 11:49
  visible,
• 11:50
  maybe
• 11:50
  on
• 11:50
  your
• 11:50
  phone,
• 11:51
  maybe
• 11:51
  on
• 11:51
  your
• 11:51
  desk
• 11:52
  or
• 11:53
  somewhere.
• 11:53
  You're
• 11:53
  going
• 11:53
  to
• 11:54
  see
• 11:54
  it
• 11:54
  when
• 11:54
  comparison
• 11:55
  starts
• 11:55
  creeping
• 11:55
  in,
• 11:57
  because
• 11:57
  awareness
• 11:58
  of
• 11:58
  that
• 11:58
  breaks
• 11:59
  the
• 11:59
  pattern.
• 12:00
  Well,
• 12:00
  let's
• 12:01
  get
• 12:01
  to
• 12:01
  our
• 12:01
  Bible
• 12:01
  verse.
• 12:02
  I
• 12:02
  found
• 12:02
  this
• 12:02
  one
• 12:02
  in
• 12:02
  the
• 12:03
  book
• 12:03
  of
• 12:03
  James,
• 12:04
  chapter
• 12:04
  three,
• 12:04
  verse
• 12:05
  16,
• 12:06
  and
• 12:06
  this
• 12:07
  one's
• 12:07
  going
• 12:07
  to
• 12:07
  step
• 12:07
  on
• 12:07
  a
• 12:07
  few
• 12:08
  toes.
• 12:08
  But
• 12:09
  again,
• 12:09
  this
• 12:09
  is
• 12:09
  James
• 12:09
  3:16.
• 12:11
  For
• 12:11
  where
• 12:12
  envy
• 12:12
  and
• 12:12
  strife
• 12:13
  is,
• 12:14
  there
• 12:14
  is
• 12:14
  confusion
• 12:15
  in
• 12:15
  every
• 12:16
  evil
• 12:16
  work.
• 12:17
  I
• 12:18
  told
• 12:18
  you
• 12:18
  that
• 12:18
  one's
• 12:19
  a
• 12:19
  little
• 12:19
  harsh.
• 12:20
  But
• 12:21
  the
• 12:21
  truth
• 12:21
  is
• 12:21
  the
• 12:22
  Lord
• 12:22
  is
• 12:22
  saying
• 12:22
  to
• 12:23
  us,
• 12:24
  comparison
• 12:24
  and
• 12:25
  envy
• 12:25
  don't
• 12:26
  just
• 12:26
  affect
• 12:26
  your
• 12:27
  emotions,
• 12:28
  they
• 12:28
  disrupt
• 12:29
  your
• 12:29
  peace
• 12:30
  and
• 12:30
  they
• 12:31
  change
• 12:31
  your
• 12:31
  direction.
• 12:32
  So
• 12:33
  be
• 12:33
  aware
• 12:33
  of
• 12:33
  that
• 12:34
  today.
• 12:34
  Let's
• 12:34
  pray
• 12:35
  together.
• 12:36
  Heavenly
• 12:36
  Father,
• 12:37
  I
• 12:37
  lift
• 12:37
  up
• 12:37
  the
• 12:38
  person
• 12:38
  listening
• 12:39
  right
• 12:39
  now
• 12:39
  who
• 12:39
  feels
• 12:40
  this
• 12:40
  weight
• 12:40
  of
• 12:40
  comparison
• 12:42
  and
• 12:42
  you
• 12:43
  see
• 12:43
  what
• 12:43
  they're
• 12:43
  carrying.
• 12:43
  You
• 12:44
  see
• 12:44
  what
• 12:44
  all
• 12:44
  of
• 12:44
  us
• 12:44
  are
• 12:44
  carrying.
• 12:45
  You
• 12:46
  see
• 12:46
  the
• 12:46
  thoughts
• 12:46
  that
• 12:47
  follow
• 12:47
  us.
• 12:48
  So
• 12:48
  right
• 12:49
  now,
• 12:49
  help
• 12:49
  us
• 12:49
  to
• 12:49
  release
• 12:50
  that
• 12:50
  jealousy,
• 12:51
  Lord,
• 12:51
  and
• 12:51
  really
• 12:52
  replace
• 12:52
  it
• 12:52
  with
• 12:52
  peace.
• 12:54
  Remind
• 12:54
  all
• 12:55
  of
• 12:55
  us
• 12:55
  that
• 12:55
  our
• 12:55
  value
• 12:56
  is
• 12:56
  not
• 12:56
  found
• 12:57
  in
• 12:57
  comparison,
• 12:58
  but
• 12:58
  it's
• 12:58
  found
• 12:58
  in
• 12:59
  you.
• 13:00
  Give
• 13:00
  each
• 13:01
  of
• 13:01
  us
• 13:01
  confidence
• 13:01
  in
• 13:02
  our
• 13:02
  own
• 13:02
  path.
• 13:03
  Give
• 13:03
  us
• 13:04
  strength
• 13:04
  to
• 13:04
  resist
• 13:04
  that
• 13:05
  emotional
• 13:05
  spending,
• 13:06
  Lord,
• 13:06
  and
• 13:06
  give
• 13:07
  us
• 13:07
  peace
• 13:08
  no
• 13:08
  matter
• 13:09
  what's
• 13:09
  happening
• 13:09
  around
• 13:10
  us.
• 13:11
  And
• 13:11
  I
• 13:11
  ask
• 13:11
  this
• 13:11
  in
• 13:12
  Jesus
• 13:12
  name,
• 13:13
  Amen,
• 13:15
  friend.
• 13:16
  You
• 13:16
  don't
• 13:16
  have
• 13:16
  to
• 13:17
  keep
• 13:17
  up
• 13:17
  at
• 13:17
  work.
• 13:18
  You
• 13:18
  just
• 13:19
  have
• 13:19
  to
• 13:19
  stay
• 13:19
  true
• 13:19
  to
• 13:19
  your
• 13:20
  path.
• 13:21
  So
• 13:21
  the
• 13:21
  next
• 13:22
  time
• 13:22
  that
• 13:22
  comparison
• 13:22
  hits,
• 13:23
  I
• 13:23
  just
• 13:23
  want
• 13:23
  you
• 13:23
  to
• 13:24
  pause
• 13:24
  before
• 13:24
  you
• 13:24
  spend.
• 13:26
  Give
• 13:26
  yourself
• 13:26
  some
• 13:27
  space
• 13:27
  to
• 13:27
  remember
• 13:28
  who
• 13:28
  you
• 13:28
  are,
• 13:29
  what
• 13:29
  matters
• 13:30
  to
• 13:30
  you
• 13:31
  and
• 13:31
  what
• 13:31
  you're
• 13:32
  actually
• 13:32
  building.
• 13:34
  And
• 13:34
  maybe
• 13:34
  you've
• 13:34
  got
• 13:34
  a
• 13:35
  question
• 13:35
  for
• 13:35
  the
• 13:35
  show
• 13:35
  and
• 13:36
  you
• 13:36
  want
• 13:36
  somebody
• 13:36
  to
• 13:36
  walk
• 13:37
  through
• 13:37
  on
• 13:37
  the
• 13:37
  show.
• 13:37
  I
• 13:38
  would
• 13:38
  love
• 13:38
  to
• 13:38
  hear
• 13:38
  from
• 13:39
  you.
• 13:39
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• 13:40
  over
• 13:40
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• 13:44
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• 13:44
  put
• 13:44
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
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• 13:45
  but
• 13:46
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• 13:46
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• 13:46
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• 13:50
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• 13:51
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• 13:51
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• 13:51
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• 13:51
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• 13:52
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• 13:52
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• 13:52
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• 13:53
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• 13:53
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• 13:58
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• 13:59
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• 13:59
  you
• 13:59
  and
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