Latest / Joyful Menopause / Episode 34: Is it perimenopause ... or something else?
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- 0:00Today we are talking about something I see constantly in my practice.
- 0:04Women who have been living with exhaustion, brain fog, weight gain, mood changes, and they've just been told it's menopause, it's perimenopause.
- 0:14But here's what I want you to consider.
- 0:15It, it might not be only perimenopause.
- 0:18Yes, it's true; maybe it's that time of life.
- 0:20You expect that that's probably what's happening.
- 0:23But there may be something else going on, or maybe several things that maybe are being completely overlooked because we're just blaming it on menopause.
- 0:32By the end of this episode, you'll know five conditions that have symptoms that look similar to perimenopause and menopause, and you will know exactly what kind of testing helps so you can tell the difference.
- 0:44And I promise if you stay with me until the end, I will share one lab test that many doctors skip, and it could be a key to unlocking why you feel so drained.
- 0:54So let's jump in.
- 0:55Menopause doesn't have to feel like you are living in someone else's body.
- 0:59Your host, Lynda Enright, has spent the last 25 years helping women to thrive in midlife.
- 1:04Here you'll find science-based practical advice that you can start using today to get real results for your health.
- 1:10Welcome to Joyful Menopause.
- 1:18Today's episode is one I have wanted to record for a long time because this is one of the patterns I see very often in my practice, and it can be a really frustrating thing that a woman experiences.
- 1:29You go to your doctor, you tell them your symptoms, and you're told,"You're probably perimenopausal." And then you leave without answers, without a plan, without anyone actually looking deeper.
- 1:40So I want to change that for you today and help you understand what to do, what to ask for.
- 1:45So let me first tell you about a woman I'll call Sandra.
- 1:49She came to me.
- 1:50She was 46.
- 1:51She was exhausted.
- 1:53Not the kind of tired that I just need to get a good night's sleep, but the bone-deep, can't function kind of tired.
- 2:00She had gained about 15 pounds over the previous couple years despite, you know, really limiting what she was eating and trying to exercise regularly.
- 2:08She was always cold when everyone else was fine.
- 2:11Her hair was falling out.
- 2:13She could see it in the shower drain.
- 2:14Her brush was full of hair every day.
- 2:17She was struggling to get through workouts that used to not be a problem.
- 2:21She felt depressed.
- 2:22She felt disconnected from herself.
- 2:24She'd been to her primary care doctor.
- 2:26She had told them all of this, and she'd been told,"You're probably just perimenopausal.
- 2:31It's a tough time.
- 2:32These are some of the symptoms." She was given a prescription for antidepressants and sent on her way.
- 2:38That was two years before she came to me.
- 2:40When we sat down and we went through her full history and then we looked at some of the lab data and got some new labs, something very clear emerged.
- 2:50She, she was in perimenopause, and we expected that and we know that, but she also had hypothyroidism that had not been looked at.
- 3:00Her ferritin, her iron storage, was really low.
- 3:04And again, she wa- was in perimenopause.
- 3:07Three things, three separate, distinct, treatable things all presenting with a lot of the same symptoms.
- 3:14So no wonder she felt terrible.
- 3:15No wonder nothing that she'd been doing had helped.
- 3:18She'd been trying to treat one thing, and she was actually dealing with three things.
- 3:23So her story is not unusual.
- 3:25It's honestly something I hear all the time, and that's exactly why I want you to understand what these five overlapping conditions are.
- 3:34So let's start with the first one.
- 3:35The first one is thyroid dysfunction.
- 3:39Your thyroid gland sits at the base of your throat.
- 3:42It controls your metabolism, your energy production, your body temperature, your mood, and even hair growth.
- 3:49So when it slows down, called hypothyroidism, the symptoms are a lot of things that women experience in perimenopause.
- 3:56Fatigue, weight gain, brain fog, depression, feeling cold, dry skin, hair thinning, constipation.
- 4:03Sound familiar?
- 4:04Here's the critical thing I want you to understand about thyroid testing.
- 4:08The standard test that a lot of doctors order is called TSH or thyroid-stimulating hormone.
- 4:14It's a good starting point for sure, but it doesn't give you the full picture.
- 4:18It's sort of a predictor of what's going on, but it's not necessarily the whole story.
- 4:22So I always want to see free T3, free T4, and thyroid antibodies.
- 4:27Why is that?
- 4:28Because you can have a completely normal TSH and also normal-- there's a big range for, for normal TSH, so you can be somewhere in that range, and you still might have thyroid that is not converting to those active hormones that are actually doing the job.
- 4:45Or possibly those hormones are being attacked by your, your immune system, or your thyroid is being attacked by your immune system, and so you're simply not...
- 4:53your cells are not getting what they need.
- 4:56So if you have been told your thyroid is fine, but you still feel exhausted and cold and foggy and your hair is falling out, I want to just gently encourage you to ask for a more complete comprehensive thyroid panel.
- 5:10That's what you're looking for.
- 5:12Number two condition, iron deficiency and low ferritin.
- 5:16This one is missed a lot, and it frustrates me because it's really a simple test, and it's really impactful if you treat it.
- 5:24Most doctors will check hemoglobin and hematocrit when they screen for iron deficiency, and those tests are looking for full-blown anemia, iron deficiency anemia.
- 5:35But ferritin is your iron storage protein, and that's a separate measure, and it tells you some things that those, those tests just aren't telling you.
- 5:45You can have normal hemoglobin, and you can still have ferritin that is so low that your cells are literally starving for oxygen.
- 5:53And imagine if your cells are starving for oxyge- oxygen, you feel tired.
- 5:57You need oxygen in your cells.
- 5:59So the symptoms are crushing fatigue, brain fog, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, d- not tolerating exercise very well, getting more tired than you used to, hair loss.
- 6:11Restless legs at night can be a, a symptom.
- 6:14So here's again, what makes this particularly relevant for women in perimenopause is that a lot of women in their 40s might still be getting a regular period, but their cycles maybe have become more heavy or more frequent.
- 6:28And that means you could be losing more blood every month than before, silently draining your iron stores, and your hemoglobin again still might look normal on a standard blood panel.
- 6:39So checking ferritin is really important.
- 6:42Ideally, I want to see it above about 70.
- 6:44A lot of women I see, you know, they might even be like 12, 15, 20, and even, you know, could be in a normal range, but functionally you are dealing with symptoms.
- 6:55You're not feeling good.
- 6:58Number three, condition three is insulin resistance.
- 7:01Insulin resistance is when your cells stop responding efficiently to insulin.
- 7:06Insulin is the hormone that moves glucose from your bloodstream into your cells, so they have energy, so your cells have the fuel that they need.
- 7:15So when this happens, glucose and insulin stay elevated, and your body then starts to store more fat, particularly abdominal fat.
- 7:23The symptoms of this insulin resistance can be weight gain, weight gain that doesn't always make a lot of sense, especially belly fat; maybe energy crashes, particularly after meals; cravings, intense cravings- potentially carbohydrates, sugar in particular; brain fog; mood swings; disrupting your sleep.
- 7:42So why this is so important to catch in midlife at this time as our hormones are starting to change, because estrogen plays a role in keeping your cells insulin sensitive.
- 7:54So as you're starting to see an estrogen decline during perimenopause, insulin resistance can develop or it can get worse.
- 8:02So these two condition-- you know, the two situations now can feed each other and, and really, um, magnify the problem.
- 8:09The tests I look for, fasting insulin and hemoglobin A1C.
- 8:14So a standard fasting blood sugar test alone doesn't catch early stage insulin resistance.
- 8:20You can have completely normal fasting glucose and still have elevated fasting insulin, which means that your pancreas is working overtime.
- 8:28It's working so hard to compensate, and then that's a signal that tells us that we, we can do something about this now and get on top of it before it gets to be a, a more significant problem Number four, burnout and HPA axis dysregulation.
- 8:45So HPA axis, hypothalamic pituitary adrenal axis.
- 8:49I've talked about this before.
- 8:50It's a mouthful.
- 8:52I want to talk about this one because I think it gets dismissed as just stress in a way that doesn't honor how physiological, physiological this actually is.
- 9:03This is just your body doing what it's supposed to do.
- 9:07Your HPA axis is your body's central nervous system response, your central stress response, I should say.
- 9:13So when you've been under significant chronic stress for months, maybe years, this system, this, this nervous system central stress response gets dysregulated.
- 9:25So now your cortisol patterns shift.
- 9:28You might feel wired at night and exhausted in the morning.
- 9:31You might wake up at 3:00 AM with your mind racing.
- 9:35You might feel overwhelmed by things that used to feel manageable.
- 9:39You might feel sort of flat emotionally, like you just, you just don't have the excitement maybe that you used to.
- 9:45You just don't have a buffer left for the, the stress that your body's under.
- 9:50So the biological piece that's so important is estrogen helps to buffer the stress response in your brain.
- 9:56It modulates how sensitive you are to the signals of stress, the stressors in your body.
- 10:03So as estrogen declines in perimenopause, your brain becomes more reactive to stressors.
- 10:09So the woman who spent 20 years managing a demanding career, teenagers, aging parents, a household without blinking, honestly, may suddenly find that that same load is just overwhelming.
- 10:24That is not weakness.
- 10:25That is a change in your actual biology, your neurochemistry.
- 10:31Burnout is usually distinguished by history, years of high demand, chronic under-fueling, maybe not getting enough nourishment, poor sleep, unrelenting caregiving- again, a sandwich generation, kids and parents- with no time to recover from it all.
- 10:49And the great thing about this is this responds really wonderful to good nutrition and lifestyle support when we figure out what's going on.
- 10:58And number five, perimenopause.
- 11:01I want to be clear, perimenopause is real, it's significant, and it does cause meaningful symptoms.
- 11:08Irregular cycles, hot flashes, night sweats, disrupted sleep, mood changes, brain fog, changes in libido, joint discomfort.
- 11:16These are all part of the perimenopause experience, and they deserve attention, and they deserve care.
- 11:21They do not deserve to be dismissed.
- 11:24But my observation a- after doing this work for 25 years, is that so many women who come to me are not just dealing with perimenopause: they're dealing with perimenopause plus one or two of these other things that are going on, these conditions that I've already talked about.
- 11:41And when you only look at perimenopause or you get dismissed completely, when we have thyroid dysfunction or low ferritin, ferritin or insulin resistance, those are still maybe simmering in the background, so you might get a little bit of results, but you're not going to feel 100% back to normal because you haven't addressed all of these foundational pieces.
- 12:01So this is why, you know, we don't guess: we investigate, we do lab tests, we figure out what's really going on.
- 12:08So let me give you four things to carry with you from today.
- 12:11First, just because you're in your 40s, your 50s, and you feel terrible, doesn't mean it's simply perimenopause or menopause.
- 12:18Symptoms can overlap, and you deserve a thorough investigation, not a dismissal.
- 12:26Number two, the standard labs that your doctor ri- might run might not be enough.
- 12:32Ferritin, fasting insulin, free T3, free T4, and thyroid antibodies are tests I want to see, and often they are skipped.
- 12:41Third, you absolutely can have more than one thing going on at the same time.
- 12:45In fact, you know, more often my experience is that is often what's happening.
- 12:50And fourth, the-- all these things are treatable.
- 12:53When you know what you're dealing with, you can do something about it.
- 12:56There is absolutely hope.
- 12:58So now I want to talk about the gap between where you might be right now, maybe exhausted, confused, feeling frustrated, and where you actually want to be.
- 13:08You want to feel like yourself.
- 13:09You want to have your energy back.
- 13:11You want your brain to work.
- 13:12You want to understand what is happening in your body and have a plan that actually makes sense for you specifically.
- 13:20The challenge is that without knowing what is driving your symptoms, m- many times the approach that you're trying is just guessing, and guessing is exhausting when you've been doing it for years.
- 13:33So this is the kind of work that I do with women in my practice.
- 13:35We don't just guess.
- 13:36We test if needed.
- 13:38We gather the lab data from the doctor.
- 13:40We analyze that data.
- 13:41We build a personalized plan that's based on what your body actually needs, not what works for women in general, but what works and what is needed for you.
- 13:52If you're ready to stop guessing and start getting real answers, I invite you to schedule a free discovery call, call with me.
- 13:59You can go to bewellconsulting.com/schedule-a-call.
- 14:06It's in the, in the comments below as well.
- 14:08We'll have a conversation about what you're experiencing, what you've already tried, and whether working together is a good fit.
- 14:15There's no pressure.
- 14:16It's just a conversation.
- 14:17But it might be the conversation that could change everything.
- 14:20Again, that is at bewellconsulting.com.
- 14:25As I promised, I have one more thing for you before I let you go.
- 14:29The one lab test that most doctors skip and why it matters so much for midlife women.
- 14:36That is ferritin.
- 14:38That's it.
- 14:38One test.
- 14:39It's an easy test.
- 14:41Most doctors screen for iron deficiency by checking hemoglobin and hematocrit, and if those come back normal, they tell you your iron is fine.
- 14:50And also, like I said, a lot of times in perimenopause, your period might be getting heavier, but sometimes even if you're not getting a regular period, you might be low in f- stored iron, in ferritin.
- 15:01So it's really important to measure.
- 15:04And, and it's again, a completely different measurement than just hemoglobin.
- 15:09You can be walking around with a really low ferritin, 10, 12, 15, feeling completely wiped out, losing your hair, struggling to get through a workout, and be told by your doctor that your blood work looks great.
- 15:23So asking specifically for ferritin, write it down, ferritin, F-E-R-R-I-T-I-N.
- 15:30The ideal level for most women is somewhere...
- 15:33Ideal is kind of 70 to 100 maybe.
- 15:35Below 30 most practitioners would treat.
- 15:39But I've seen women that, you know, once they get up to those oc- optimal levels to a functional level, they get more energy, their hair improves, they work out, their mood improves.
- 15:49So that number can really give you a lot of information.
- 15:53Thank you so much for being here today.
- 15:55If this episode was helpful, please share it, because too many women are wi- walking around with unanswered questions, not knowing what to ask and what to do next about it, and you and they absolutely deserve better.
- 16:08I will see you next time on the Joyful Menopause Podcast.