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Ben Affleck responds to 'not true' media coverage of his Howard Stern interview. Kelly Clarkson says she’ll be ‘single forever.’ Chris Noth explains why Carrie didn’t call 911. · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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  Speaker 1: Thank the Lord. Hey, let's jump in the show. We've
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  Speaker 1: got so much Gussie have to get to What time
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  Speaker 1: is it, my friends? It is time. This Ben Affleck
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  Speaker 1: story is blowing up. So Ben made some comments about
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  Speaker 1: Jennifer Gardner and now he's receiving some backlash. So Ben
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  Speaker 1: went on The Howard Stern Show and talks about his
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  Speaker 1: issues with alcoholism, saying that he probably shouldn't have been
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  Speaker 1: drinking when he was married, which I think is a
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  Speaker 1: very good point, But he went on from there to
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  Speaker 1: make more remarks. Let me give you those remarks. Quote.
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  Speaker 1: Part of why I was drinking was because I was trapped.
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  Speaker 1: Trapped in his marriage, is what he's saying. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't leave because of my kids, but I'm not happy.
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  Speaker 1: What do I do? And what I did was I
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  Speaker 1: drank a bottle of Scotch and fell asleep on the couch,
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  Speaker 1: which turned out not to be the solution. That many
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  Speaker 1: fans are outraged by this. It seems like he's blaming
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  Speaker 1: his ex wife for his drinking problems. One person said
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  Speaker 1: Jennifer Garner helped put him into rehab three years after
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  Speaker 1: they already separated. Another person wrote, Jennifer Garner did not
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  Speaker 1: drive you to drink. She drove you to rehab. What
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  Speaker 1: comments are saying this is an effing low blow about
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  Speaker 1: your relationship and the mother of your children. And another
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  Speaker 1: person pointed out that trying to blame somebody else for
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  Speaker 1: your drinking is not a good idea. What do you
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  Speaker 1: think about all this market's blowing up? Rob, I am
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  Speaker 1: so disgusted by this whole story. Right, she is the
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  Speaker 1: mother of his three kids. But also, let's not forget
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  Speaker 1: she was the one who drove him through a swarm
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  Speaker 1: up o parati to get Jack in the box on
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  Speaker 1: the way to rehab. Like, that is your that is
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  Speaker 1: your writer, die right, how did you do that? What
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  Speaker 1: is your problem? How could you do that? Now, he
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  Speaker 1: is responding, he went on Jimmy Kimmel last night and
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  Speaker 1: he said that it is not true. He said he
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  Speaker 1: saw the websites, which he calls click bait, and he said,
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  Speaker 1: I looked at it, and they literally have taken a
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  Speaker 1: conversation that I had for two hours and made it
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  Speaker 1: seem like I said the exact opposite. He added, I
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  Speaker 1: would never say a bad word about my kids. MoMA.
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  Speaker 1: I listened to the conversation. He said it, he said it.
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  Speaker 1: We can't afford to play the clips on this show,
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  Speaker 1: but we can tell you what he said. He said it.
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  Speaker 1: He said it, And this is what makes me laugh
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  Speaker 1: about celebrities sometimes when they don't like what the reporters
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  Speaker 1: or the writers, right, they blame the media and what
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  Speaker 1: for what they've said. And it's like, take responsibility and
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  Speaker 1: you said it, you made a mistake. There's backlash. Now
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  Speaker 1: you have to own it absolutely. Now, if a source
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  Speaker 1: had said this, if this was a sourced story, then
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  Speaker 1: apparently felt trapped in his marriage, and sources tell us
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  Speaker 1: that he didn't, then I can get it. Fight back.
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  Speaker 1: You said this, you're on tape saying it. And now
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  Speaker 1: instead of saying, I really messed up. I shouldn't have
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  Speaker 1: said that. I didn't mean that, he said I didn't
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  Speaker 1: say it. I always think in life here, you don't
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  Speaker 1: have to be a celebrator to follow this advice. If
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  Speaker 1: you say something dumb, and we all do, Goodness knows things,
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  Speaker 1: you say sorry, you say that's how you get out
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  Speaker 1: of a really bad situation. That's how you turn the corner,
• 4:42
  Speaker 1: that's how you end the chapter. If you keep fighting this,
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  Speaker 1: it's going to keep going. Answer now today, because of
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  Speaker 1: what Ben said last night on TV, it's going to
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  Speaker 1: be another day of stories. Already Paid six are reporting
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  Speaker 1: Jaylo's reaction, which apparently she's living. I would be too.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be dragged into this I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to make friends with your kids. I want us all
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  Speaker 1: to blend our families together. I don't want Jennifer Garner
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  Speaker 1: to hate me if I'm going to be coming your
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  Speaker 1: next wife. And so suddenly this becomes much bigger than
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  Speaker 1: just Ben and Jennifer Gardner, which brings us to our
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  Speaker 1: pome question of the day. Ben Affleck said he probably
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  Speaker 1: would still be drinking if he hadn't separated from Jennifer. God,
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  Speaker 1: what does he owe her an apology? I think I
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  Speaker 1: sure to check back to borow to hear your results. LUPI,
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  Speaker 1: what are you working on? Bethany? Bethany, Bethany one another one?
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  Speaker 1: So Bethany. Franklos added again. This time she's claiming she
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to prenup with her ex. Okay, let me
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  Speaker 1: let me break this down for you. So Bethany said,
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  Speaker 1: the thought of going into a pre nuptial agreement before
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  Speaker 1: saying I do was quote unquote embarrassing. So Bethany said,
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  Speaker 1: quote I ended up marrying someone who was just a
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  Speaker 1: regular person who seemed like they could handle all of
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  Speaker 1: what was going on with me and being in reality
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  Speaker 1: television fair enough. But then she went on to say,
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  Speaker 1: and I sort of was proud of myself for marrying
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  Speaker 1: someone who had a simple life and someone who and
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  Speaker 1: someone who would handle all of what was going on
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  Speaker 1: with me. And they didn't come for much. They would
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  Speaker 1: never want anything from me, okay, Bethany, So you know,
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  Speaker 1: she went on to say that she found the idea
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  Speaker 1: of a prenup to be an uncomfortable, awkward concept, but
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  Speaker 1: rob and true Bethany fashion. In two thousand and sixteen,
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  Speaker 1: an attorney for Frankel told People magazine that the two
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  Speaker 1: in fact, did have a pre nuptial agreement. Where do
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  Speaker 1: you stand on this? So this is all just canting taboo.
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  Speaker 1: This is just Bethany talking for the second talking. She
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to put up, but she did get a prenup.
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  Speaker 1: A story here. You got a prenup, but you didn't
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  Speaker 1: want one, Bethany, because it was embarrassing and he was
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  Speaker 1: such a simple little boy. He wasn't gonna ever take
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  Speaker 1: anything from you. Get it. You've got a breed up.
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  Speaker 1: It's such a crazy thing for somebody who got an
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  Speaker 1: iron clad prenup. Let's be clear about she has a
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  Speaker 1: pre nup, she executed the prenup. She had a very
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  Speaker 1: ugly divorce, but she did have a pup. For somebody
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  Speaker 1: who had a preedup, it's really easy to say, well,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't really want one. I mean, she's a multi millionaire,
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  Speaker 1: like she's a businesswoman. Why would that be uncomfortable or awkward?
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  Speaker 1: These are things I think a sign. This is a
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  Speaker 1: sign if you're able to negotiate a prenup or even discussed,
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  Speaker 1: it's a sign of emotional intelligence. It's a sign of
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  Speaker 1: confidence that you you know you're going Marriage is a
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  Speaker 1: is a contract in a lot of ways. You know, Robb,
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  Speaker 1: you been married for twenty years. I'm sure you you
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  Speaker 1: understand how it goes. It's not easy. I don't have you.
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  Speaker 1: Bruce said I would have signed on if he had asked,
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  Speaker 1: I would have signed asked. Literally, this sounds terrible. But
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  Speaker 1: the week of the wedding, I was like, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get some paperwork, like I'm gone on Saturday, and like
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  Speaker 1: on Wednesday I was like, oh I might have got
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  Speaker 1: away with me. Thursday I was like this looks really good, distracted, distracted,
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  Speaker 1: lots of kisses, lots of kisses, lots of kisses. Friday
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well what he never never asked,
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  Speaker 1: never asked. I know, but Bruce wouldn't want it both ways.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what drives me crazy about Bethany. Frank Will,
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  Speaker 1: I think people that listen to this podcast, no, I
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  Speaker 1: have a long history of Bethany. I knew her before
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  Speaker 1: she was famous. Beth he wants it both ways. Bethany
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  Speaker 1: wants us to think she's a brilliant wizard. I'm a businesswoman,
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  Speaker 1: but also a really really kind, really really sweet. Bethany
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  Speaker 1: is a tough girl, and I think, Bethany, when you
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  Speaker 1: leading to that, I respect you more. Just be honest.
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  Speaker 1: There is no way you were marrying anybody without a prenum.
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  Speaker 1: In fact, I'm surprised when your daughter wasn't born, that
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  Speaker 1: she wasn't made to sign something. He doesn't share her
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  Speaker 1: money spotlights. It's the Bethany Show. I sort of love
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  Speaker 1: her saying this, and yes, we're doing the story she
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  Speaker 1: said on her podcast, So go listen to her podcast
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  Speaker 1: once again. I think Bethany's just being a wizard at
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  Speaker 1: PR she's great at getting attention. Hey, moving along, this
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  Speaker 1: story made me sad. Telly Clarkson said she might be
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  Speaker 1: single forever. She has trouble seeing red flags, so she's
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  Speaker 1: always that person who doesn't really ever see what's going
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  Speaker 1: on in a relationship. She doesn't really see the red flags.
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  Speaker 1: And then Andy Cohen, who she was talking to, he
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  Speaker 1: said he has a habit of just cutting and running
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  Speaker 1: the second he sees her red flag. So it's tricky
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  Speaker 1: see red flags. What do you do? You ignore them
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  Speaker 1: or do you run? Or is he somewhere in the middle.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's somewhere in the middle. And then she
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: Kelly said. Kelly said, I don't know if I'd ever
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  Speaker 1: be willing to invest in evening with someone yet. So
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: Andy said he loves to go on a cocktail date,
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  Speaker 1: and Kelly was like, I'm more of a coffee date
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  Speaker 1: because I don't want to invest evening. There's so much
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  Speaker 1: to this story that just I love Mark as somebody
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  Speaker 1: that he's single, but dating, do you see the red flags? Oh? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the red flags are always I think in the first
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  Speaker 1: or second date are very clear and apparent. I'm lucky
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  Speaker 1: that I'm not famous and I'm not worried about the
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  Speaker 1: intention of them trying to get something from me, Like
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: Kelly might be wondering, but well, that's that's true. That
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  Speaker 1: is true. That is it might be. Yes, people do listen,
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  Speaker 1: many many, many people do listen. No, but Kelly is
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  Speaker 1: that Kelly is such a sweet person. Yeah, she's a superstar.
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  Speaker 1: She's very sweet. I've met her before and she's lovely
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  Speaker 1: and I, you know, I think I have hope for her.
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  Speaker 1: This is not the like when you see the red
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  Speaker 1: flags mark, do you ignore them? So you said you
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  Speaker 1: do see them, but what do you do when you
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  Speaker 1: see a red flag? Um? I either ghost them, which
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  Speaker 1: is not the way, or you know, I just let
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: them know, like hey, you know, in my later years,
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: my older years, I've become more of like, hey, thanks
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  Speaker 1: for that, thanks for meeting I see as more as
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: friends like take care and that's it, and it just
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  Speaker 1: it ends it and there's there's no more to say. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I try to be kind. I haven't dated for a
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: very long time. I've been with Bruce, but I try
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: to be kind even with friends. Like a lot of
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: people want to become my friend and it's flattering, except
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: when they meet me. I'm probably a bit boring but
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: much more interesting. And I know right away if I
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: really want to be friends with you. But I do
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: like this conversation too, about do you have a drink
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: or a coffee? Now, I like to drink, so I
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: like a bottle of you. No, but I make it
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: very clear. I'm only available from seven to eight. So
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: if I'm going to meet you, like if you want
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: to meet me for a drink tonight and I don't
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: really know you are, like, I'd love to meet you,
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: let's meet at seven, but I have at eight o'clock dinner.
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you ahead of time. Then then it sort
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: of restricts it. And then if I'm having a fabulous time,
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: the dinner that I was not really going to, yeah,
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: I pretend was canceled. You canceled it. Look, I just
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: got a text, But dinner is canceled. My dinner is canceled.
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: We can stay here a little longer if I'm not
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: having such a good time. All my friends are at
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: the restaurant early, gotta go. How do you limit your
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: exposure on a first date to a first meeting? I
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: love how calculated you are too. I respected so much.
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: Um you know, for me, I will give me a
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: few hours. I'm always down for I prefer drinks over coffee.
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: It's just easier to get to social lubricane. You can
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: have fun and if it's not going well, then you
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: just get out leave after a few drinks, were like,
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: all right, I have to go to bed or whatever
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  Speaker 1: it is. Um, But coffee, that's like the second or
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: third date when you're like when you know each other
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  Speaker 1: a bit more and there's more comfort there, you know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm with you, but I'm not with Kelly on this one.
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather start with a bit of alcohol, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: But I'll see you without the alcohol for a coffee. Hey,
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: what's going on with Krisnoffi's finally explaining the big question
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: why Carrie Bradshaw and not call nine one one? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And what a question that is. So he told our
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: friends at Vogue that quote, it was a very important
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  Speaker 1: for both of us to find a way to have
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: that last moment together, not that she walks in and
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: finds me dead in the bathroom. He went on to
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: say that the plot twist was something that he thought
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: about for a long time with the creator Michael Patrick
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: King before he agreed to do the show. He said,
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: Michael and I agreed on it. We both called it
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: the Bonnie and Clyde moment, which is the moment where
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: Bonnie and Clyde are about to be eviscerated by bullets.
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  Speaker 1: They have that look at each other. We're Warren Beatty
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  Speaker 1: and Fade done away. They both know it's the end.
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  Speaker 1: I know. And Rob he also said that we knew
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  Speaker 1: we had to end it that way. He shouldn't have
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: died alone in the bathroom. That was the last moment,
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: no words, no corny dialogue, just that look. And he
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: thought it was beautifully done. Rob. I know you watched it.
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  Speaker 1: I watched the last weekend. Where do you stand under
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  Speaker 1: you think it was? I don't think it was that.
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: I think you had it both ways. Now. I know,
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: as somebody just worked a little bit on television myself
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: and you mark as a as a long time producer,
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying. You want that moment where words,
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: there's no words to say what's going on there? Just
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: look between Big and Carrie is how you want to
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: end it. However, though, whenever you produce something, whenever you
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: write something, it's got to be based in reality, and
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: I think they could have had it both ways. I
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: think Carrie could have ran in, called nine one, dropped
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: her phone, grabbed him, and then they could have looked
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: at each other and died. It could have been both
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: I get it. I don't want the last memory of
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: her being on nine well one watch your emergency, blah blah.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: I know that's not that satisfying. I want it to
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: be about those two, not not a nine one one operator.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: I want the last moment to just be those two characters. However,
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: if she doesn't go that last moments different, it's different
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: and it's not based in reality. And I think it's
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: based in reality. She's a very cruel woman. Maybe she's
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: like maybe she's like thinking with a life insurance policy,
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: like how much I get from this? That's what we're reading, Like,
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: I think she could have walked in the room, gasped,
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: called nine one one really quickly. We didn't even need
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: to hear her talk to nine one one, Just nine
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: one one, get here, immediately, drop your phone, drop your knees,
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: grab him, kiss him, and then they don't have to speak,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: but they can look at each other and crazy. You know,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I just agree with you. I think the dramatics of
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: it all kind of felt like watching a daytime soap opera,
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: like I'm still here for it, which I love. We
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: love it here, we love that here. But it was like,
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it really resonated with me as
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: like an impactful moment where I'm like crying or tearing up.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: Now I just yeah, I think and now there's too
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: many questions. I do understand what they're going for. They
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: could have had it both ways. Hey, we're going to
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: have it both ways here and take a quick break
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: and be right back. Welcome back to the show. I'm
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: Rob Schooner with their friend Mark Loopo. Hey, Loopie, let's
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: get to the polls. Thank you very much, everybody. So,
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: Brittany Spears is slamming Diane Sawyer for a two thousand
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: and three interviews, saying Diane can kiss my a s
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: s does do? And Sawyer Oh Brittany an apology. Six
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: percent said yes, gosh that interview now, Mark, At the
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: time I watched it, oh yes, every word of it. Yes,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: edge of my seat, and I didn't bizarrely feel bad
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: for Brittany. I was so into it. I was just like,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: keep going Dianne, keep going, Diane. Now, twenty years later,
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: it's not right. It's not I want Lyra. I watched
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: the last night on YouTube. It's still it's still exists,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: you know. I think if Diane apologizes, it will open
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: up a can of worms, because I can only imagine
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: how many other people she's done this too, Houston. But
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: she's a legend. I love Diane, and she was. She's
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: a she's a legend. She's I'm sure she's well. She has,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: she's grown from that moment, and other journalists did the
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  Speaker 1: same thing at the time. But I think Britney is
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  Speaker 1: kind of a loose cannon right now, and then to
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: to engage might not be the best move. I think
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  Speaker 1: you're right, Diane. The majority has spoken. Don't forget to
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  Speaker 1: to hear your results. And now it's time for our
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  Speaker 1: Nicest of the Day by the nicest person or I know,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: thanks to Rob, our nicest of the day besides me
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  Speaker 1: is it's on a copy. Of course, I love her.
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  Speaker 1: So she got very ended about explaining her sudden absence
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  Speaker 1: from the today's show, and it turns out she was
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: enjoying some downtime from technology. M She went on a
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  Speaker 1: retreat rob where they take your phone away for ten days,
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  Speaker 1: and she said that now she's making an effort to
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  Speaker 1: only use her phone when she needs it. And after
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  Speaker 1: the experience, she said, I asked myself the simplest question,
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  Speaker 1: was I happier with it or without it? And she
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: realized I was happier without it. Wow, I use my
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: phone all the time. Maybe I use it when I'm bored,
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: like maybe I use it for work, and I do
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: use it for stuff that needs to be done, but
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: also to I scroll through it when I'm in a taxi,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: when I'm bored, or god forbid, even at dinner sometimes.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: What about you, mom, I'm way addicted to my phone.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: And also for us as reporters, as producers, we're on
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  Speaker 1: You're And I'm surprised for her too, because she's a
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: huge job and it requires a lot of emailing and
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: texting and calls. So, you know, as nice as it
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: is to unplug, the reality is she's very plugged in.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: She's very plugged in. Although little roomor here, I also
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: hear she might be off the grid for a little
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: bit because she might be getting another baby, so let's
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: do our naughties of the day. Naughties. So Megan marcles
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  Speaker 1: American approach led to the allegations that she bullied staff.
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  Speaker 1: So there's a new book out and they're saying, remember
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: those rumors that she was bullying staff. Now they're saying
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  Speaker 1: it was just the clash of conscious not to admit
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  Speaker 1: as a bridge who lives in America were very different
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  Speaker 1: and the Brits are really sort of passive aggressive. The
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Americans are aggressive. There's nothing passive about it, like we're
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: just we tell you what we want, and I love
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: that about America. The Brits will tell not quite. And
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: so I think Megan walking into that palace, it's like
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: walking into a big company and she's the boss, Like
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: she walks in quite high up, and so her style
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  Speaker 1: was very different. And they're saying that is the basis
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  Speaker 1: of all the problems. That it should be pointing out
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  Speaker 1: too that the two staffers who alleged they were bullied
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: by Megan Marcle have now retracted those claims. But what
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: are to think about that mark? When you walk into
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: a job, particularly a new job, do you have your style,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: they have their styles. Do you have to hold back
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: a little bit and blend in or do you go
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  Speaker 1: in guns blazing. As a New Yorker, I find myself
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: sometimes being short but to the point, but friendly, and
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: you know, I think we move a little bit more quickly,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: expect things to be done more quickly, and so it
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: might come off as as harsh, but in the reality,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: it's just the way that we operate. We're trying to
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: get things done. We have a lot going on. So
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I can see Megan maybe being misunderstood. I don't think
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: she's a bully, I think, but she might have not,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: you know, operated the same way that they were. Yeah,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: she went it hot, she went I get it the
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: day before we go a moment of rob you get
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: a roub, you get a roub, you get a rob.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: So when you choose to forgive, you always end up
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: helping yourself more than those who wronged you were You've
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: been beating yourself up from far too long, hoping to
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: hurt others, when in reality only hurting yourself. Let's try
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: something new. Let's try and forgive ourselves today. Give yourself.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: You've done something silly, you've done something not great. Forgive yourself,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: in fact, forgive others too. Somebody's done something awful. They're
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: not thinking about you. You're thinking about them, they're not
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: thinking about you. Forgiveness has set me free. Well, Rob,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: I hope that Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck are both
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: listening so he could be set free as well. I'm
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: mad with you. Hey, that's it. Thank you so much
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