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156 // How to be the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room · Abundant + Aligned

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  Speaker 2: Hello everyone and welcome back to the Abundant and Aligned podcast.
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  Speaker 2: We are continuing our theme.
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  Speaker 2: I guess from last week's episode If you didn't tune into that we were talking a lot about building up your confidence to achieve your goals and how to retrain your brain so that it is programmed to achieve success and not a worst case scenario, and I explained in that episode that we are kicking off a bit of a series where we're going deep into the why, why you doubt yourself, why you feel the need to people please, why you procrastinate, why you have these ebbs and flows in your life, in your business, why you keep seeing these reoccurring patterns.
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  Speaker 2: And it's not because you're not trying enough.
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  Speaker 2: You need to do something different.
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  Speaker 2: It's because of subconscious seeds that have been planted.
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  Speaker 2: And once we get in and remove those seeds, your new default is confident, successful, wealthy, momentum, consistency, and that's where I want to take you with this podcast series.
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  Speaker 2: So today's episode, as the title says, is all about how to become the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room, and today's episode is going to guide you through a belief upgrade that we need to do in order for that to be the end result that you achieve, and also some actionable steps that you can be taking on a day-to-day basis.
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  Speaker 2: This episode is for every single woman, no matter what your end goal is, so it's not just about building success within business or within your career, but it's about being the most successful, wealthy, confident woman in the room generally from like in terms of how you feel, but also the external results that you are having within your life.
• 2:30
  Speaker 2: This series has the ultimate goal.
• 2:33
  Speaker 2: Well, not just this series every single episode on my podcast, every single piece of content I put on social media, every single program, every single piece of work I do with my clients is for the end goal, and that is for you to be living the life that you truly want, and it makes me really sad to know that there are women out there who are settling for a life even though they have other desires sitting on their heart.
• 2:59
  Speaker 2: And I'm here to inspire you and kick you up the bum, to make sure that every day is lived in like, to get you in the direction that you want to be going and to ultimately ensure that the life you're living is the life you want to be living and any life is possible.
• 3:16
  Speaker 2: So it's time to listen to those desires that are sitting on your heart.
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  Speaker 2: It's time to turn your attention over to those ideas that keep being planted in your mind, to the little nudges you keep getting, and finally actually take action to start living the life that you want and no longer settle for something that you don't want.
• 3:35
  Speaker 2: So, like I said, we are talking about an upgraded identity.
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  Speaker 2: How to go about that?
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  Speaker 2: Because your identity is what's creating your results.
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  Speaker 2: And then we're going to be talking about things to stop doing in your life and things to start doing again to become the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room.
• 3:54
  Speaker 2: Before we kick off, before we kick off, I would love for you guys to come up with what successful, wealthy and confident means to you, because it's not just about money.
• 4:04
  Speaker 2: While, yes, money is incredible, I love money, I love talking about money, I love making money, I want to have a lot of it but that is not the only aspect to success, and this could be a limiting belief, but if money isn't a driving force for you, something else may be in order for you to then say, yes, I'm successful and I'm wealthy.
• 4:28
  Speaker 2: The reason I just popped in there if the reason I popped in there it could be a limiting belief is if you got raised on the belief that making money will make you bad and only the rich people are evil and no one does any good with their money and you shouldn't want more than what you have.
• 4:49
  Speaker 2: You should be grateful for what you have.
• 4:50
  Speaker 2: If you have a belief like that, you may think you don't want to be making any more money.
• 4:55
  Speaker 2: But if we remove that belief and put in a new belief that the more money you make, the more good you'll do, you probably will want more money.
• 5:03
  Speaker 2: Um, but that's for a whole other episode.
• 5:05
  Speaker 2: Um, so yeah, before we move through, what does success, wealth and confidence mean to you?
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  Speaker 2: And I guess what would that look like?
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  Speaker 2: So how would you know that you have achieved that end goal of being able to say I'm successful, achieved that end goal of being able to say I'm successful, I'm wealthy, I'm confident?
• 5:29
  Speaker 2: So, having that in mind because, as I said, everyone's goals are different, it could be having a certain amount of money coming in through your business or your career.
• 5:34
  Speaker 2: It could be having a certain portfolio in terms of investment properties.
• 5:38
  Speaker 2: It could be having time freedom.
• 5:39
  Speaker 2: It could be completely in charge of your schedule.
• 5:40
  Speaker 2: It could be having time freedom, it could be completely in charge of your schedule.
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  Speaker 2: It could be feeling different within yourself, so many different ways that you can regard as successful, wealthy and confident.
• 5:54
  Speaker 2: So, having that in mind, but let's move through to what we are covering today, I wanted to start off with a quote.
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  Speaker 2: This is a quote by Rachel Rogers, who is the author of we Should All Be Millionaires, which is a book every single woman should read, so put that on your homework.
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  Speaker 2: If you have not read that, I recommend that to my clients all the time.
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  Speaker 2: But she says if you feel like a million dollar badass, you'll become one relatively quickly.
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  Speaker 2: So today's episode is what you guys can be doing on a day-to-day basis to feel more confident, make more money, tap into new levels of success and wealth without waiting for the external things to show up, because this is the trap that a lot of women find themselves in.
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  Speaker 2: They are like I will feel more confident when I have more Instagram followers.
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  Speaker 2: I will feel more successful when I'm making a certain amount of money in my business or my career.
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  Speaker 2: I will feel more successful when I have a certain level achieved within my career, within my business, we're waiting around for something external to happen out there before we will feel a different way.
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  Speaker 2: And this is why we get stuck, because your identity equals your results, not the other way around.
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  Speaker 2: But so many women go about life approaching it from the other way around.
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  Speaker 2: Again, they're like I'll wait for the results to come and then I'll start to feel different, and then I'll start to look after myself differently, and then I'll start to feel different and then I'll start to look after myself differently and then I'll do these things in my life to match that result.
• 7:27
  Speaker 2: But again, we need to be going at it from the other way.
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  Speaker 2: Identity shift first, and then the by-product of an upgraded identity is an upgraded life.
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  Speaker 2: Things start to show up, you experience synchronicities, you attract new situations into your life, because now you're a match for something different.
• 7:44
  Speaker 2: So we're going to start there, upgrading your identity, and there are one, two, three ways you're going to go about that to then ultimately get the new result.
• 7:55
  Speaker 2: Number one is language.
• 7:56
  Speaker 2: Do not underestimate the power of your language, both within your internal dialogue and also what you're saying out loud.
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  Speaker 2: Physically, the way you describe yourself is a complete representation of the identity that you have, and that identity is therefore what you will create within your life.
• 8:15
  Speaker 2: So if you're walking around saying I'm not good at this, I'm not very confident, I can't do that, I'm not going to do that, I haven't done that, you are carrying around a general identity of limited lack and considering.
• 8:30
  Speaker 2: We're talking about confidence, not confident, and so you're not going to create results that someone who is confident, successful and wealthy would create.
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: So your language needs to be upgraded and you need to practice starting to describe yourself as the woman you want to be before you have ticked off all of the boxes that you may think you need tick off in order before you can actually start describing yourself in that manner.
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  Speaker 2: So I am a six figure business owner.
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  Speaker 2: Start saying that within yourself and also introducing yourself like that, even before you are.
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  Speaker 2: I am confident.
• 9:02
  Speaker 2: Start describing yourself as a confident woman even before you are I am confident.
• 9:04
  Speaker 2: Start describing yourself as a confident woman even before you feel that way internally.
• 9:08
  Speaker 2: I am a morning person.
• 9:10
  Speaker 2: If upgrading your mornings is something that you want to become better at, walking around saying I'm not a morning person, I'm not very good when it comes to the mornings isn't going to create the end result of becoming good with mornings, right?
• 9:23
  Speaker 2: So simple little shifts with your language is a game changer.
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  Speaker 2: When you are describing yourself as a new identity, you, by like a by-product, by default will start to feel different and therefore act different and create different.
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  Speaker 2: So language is number one.
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  Speaker 2: The next one is beliefs.
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  Speaker 2: You need to upgrade your beliefs to match the results that you want to create.
• 9:47
  Speaker 2: So, again, becoming the most successful, wealthy and confident woman.
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: Who is she and what does she believe in?
• 9:55
  Speaker 2: As you may have heard, I have been very busy behind the scenes working on a project, and I can finally reveal all of the details with you.
• 10:04
  Speaker 2: Every day, I see incredible results within the online space, but I knew it was time to offer the work I do with my clients on the in-person stage.
• 10:14
  Speaker 2: So I'm so, so, so excited to announce that a one-day immersion is coming to the Gold Coast and, like I said, I'm here to give you all the details.
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: It will be taking place on the 21st of September 2024 here on the Gold Coast, and I just want to say this is much greater than any typical empowerment event, much more than the chance to network with other women.
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: This is an event designed to crack you open, heal parts you didn't even realize needed healing and finally set you free from all that has been holding you back.
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  Speaker 2: This event, honestly, is your transformation.
• 10:49
  Speaker 2: So pre-sale will begin on the 7th of August.
• 10:53
  Speaker 2: Only to those on the wait list you get 10% off and access to the limited pre-sale tickets.
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: Early Bird then opens up on the 9th of August.
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  Speaker 2: So if you want the discount code for 10% off, head to my website, linked in the show notes below, jump on the wait list and you'll receive an email with all of the details.
• 11:11
  Speaker 2: I cannot wait to get the opportunity to meet some of you in person.
• 11:15
  Speaker 2: I cannot wait to help you heal from your past, let go of limitations and finally step into your full power.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, your life won't change until you do, and this is your opportunity to do that.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm very excited.
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  Speaker 2: Any questions, as always, just let me know by either sending me an email or a message on Instagram and really getting good at identifying what beliefs have been ingrained in you, what beliefs you have still been leaning into.
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  Speaker 2: That wouldn't necessarily create the life that you are here to create.
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  Speaker 2: So, when it comes to money.
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  Speaker 2: If, again, you grew up on the belief that making a lot of money makes people bad and you're here to create a lot of money, you obviously need a new belief because you don't want to be a bad person, and so what you'll do is subconsciously block the money If you still have that belief.
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: You'll subconsciously block the money because you don't want to be a bad person.
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  Speaker 2: So every month you consciously set a goal to make more money, and then you're not hitting that income goal, and you're wondering why?
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  Speaker 2: It's because you still have a belief within you that the more money you make, the more evil you'll become or the more people won't like you, and so subconsciously you're avoiding that outcome, which also means you're avoiding you're not making more money.
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  Speaker 2: So, a new belief around money and identify what those new beliefs need to be.
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  Speaker 2: I make money with ease.
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  Speaker 2: Money constantly flows to me.
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  Speaker 2: The more money I make, the more good I can do in this world.
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  Speaker 2: The more money I make, the more I can give back.
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: Keep going and just come up with so many different money affirmations that represent the new money belief, what I actually.
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: We'll wait till we get to the end.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: I was going to say what I want you to do is, but we'll get to the end when it comes to success.
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: Again, like, what beliefs were you brought up on when it comes to success?
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  Speaker 2: So, for example, me, I was brought up in the belief that if you wanted to have something, you had to work really, really hard for it, and, of course, that is a really good trait to have.
• 13:11
  Speaker 2: It has led me to become a very driven, courageous, ambitious person.
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  Speaker 2: However, I did find myself in a trap where I felt like I was never doing enough and by feeling like you're not doing enough, you put out a broadcast of not doing enough and therefore what you are doing won't actually get you the results that you want.
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: So really identifying that, also on the belief of you need to work really hard in order to have more money and more wealth and success.
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: I want a lot of money, I want a lot of luxury, and I got brought up on a belief that in order to have that, I needed to work really, really hard for my entire life and then enjoy those things at, like retirement age.
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: While I am a very determined, driven, ambitious, courageous person and I love setting goals and I love working towards goals, I have never liked the idea of spending my entire life working hard and hustling hard and dedicating my life to work.
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: And so, before I work, through my own limiting beliefs, I was subconsciously blocking growth and money, because I had put money and growth in the same room as hustling and working hard and dedicating my life to work, and because I didn't want that.
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: It meant that I also wasn't capable of making the money because I didn't have a programming that I could create a lot of wealth and success while not working hard, while not dedicating my life to work.
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: So I had to create the new belief that I am going to make a lot of money while working smarter, not harder.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: I will make a lot of money and a lot of that's going to be passive and I will not be spending my life dedicating it to work and, in fact, it will be dedicated to having the most amount of fun I can have traveling the world, trading every day like a holiday, feeling like every day is a holiday and still making a lot of money.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: So, identifying the beliefs you have when it comes to success and what's required in order to make success, and really see if there's a contrast there between what your version of success is and what that belief is.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: Another thing to look out for, more generally as well, is if you have been programmed that you will make money through a certain avenue of success so climbing the corporate ladder and your actual intention or your true desire is to make a lot of money through, say, an online business.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: Again, you'll need to do some work there on removing those other seeds, because at the moment, you only have the program to create success through, say, a corporate job and therefore you don't have the program to create success through an online business, and so this is why maybe you're working really hard and not seeing the results that you want to see, because you don't have the programming there to create that end result.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: So, whilst identifying those beliefs that you've had about success, of course, identify what the new beliefs you need in order to create your version of success and lock them in.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: And then, finally, new beliefs when it comes to daily routines as a woman, or showing up just on a daily basis as a woman.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: Again, growing up, I don't remember my mom having a lazy day on the couch.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: I always remember like so dad worked really hard six days a week in his business, and then mom also worked really hard in terms of being a mom and taking care of our house and I honestly don't have a memory of mom just having a chill day on the couch watching a movie or saying that she was tired and therefore she was just going to have an easy day.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Today I don't even remember mom saying she was sick or she didn't feel very well or she was kind of tired that day.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: Like she got up every day and did the chores no matter what, ran after us kids no matter what, and, yeah, like I literally never seen her sit down until it was nighttime and dinner had been done and we were all about to go to bed.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: So I had ingrained in me both from my mom and dad that and of course they never consciously said this to me but this is kind of the programming I took on from observing that was, rest days were lazy, rest days were unproductive If you're sick it doesn't matter, you just keep going and even further than that.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: And I know my mom probably doesn't even know this stuff, so of course it's not her fault.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: But I never knew that as women we had four different phases of our menstrual cycle, so once I got my period.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know that it was normal or expected to feel kind of tired during the week of your period or leading up to it and all of these other symptoms which I can link in the show notes below an episode that goes into that.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know this stuff, so I just believe that, yeah, having a day on the couch or slowing down was lazy and unproductive, so I didn't do it, I, when I identified what my version of success and wealth and confidence would look like.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: It's a woman who respects that her body maybe needs a rest day.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: It's a woman that respects that she's just not feeling up to this today.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: It's a woman who respects what her body needs, as I said, what her mind, body, spirit needs, and is okay about voicing that and doing something to take care of herself.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: So back over to you guys.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: What beliefs do you have when it comes to just daily routines and just showing up in your life, and what new beliefs do you want to have when it comes to you, your wellbeing, your health and how you're choosing to go about your day?
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: So upgrading your identity involves changing your language and starting to describe yourself differently, internally and externally, and then upgrading your beliefs, so choosing new beliefs in the area of money, success and just who you are and who you're here to be as a woman.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: And then the next thing is behaviors.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: So an upgraded identity will lead to new results.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: And we're still talking about the identity, so the final layer of a new identity is your behaviors, and this goes without saying.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: It's about starting to act like you are already the most successful, wealthy and confident in the room and doing daily actionable tasks.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: That would represent that Simple things like changing your posture, putting your shoulders back, lifting your chin up and putting a smile on your face will automatically change how you feel and therefore how you show up Walking in a room feeling confident and not walking in a room or timid, with your head down and being like, oh, do not want to be here.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Like walk in there proud with your head up and own that room.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Show up on social media Like you already have thousands and thousands and thousands of raving fans.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: Show up in your business Like you're already making six figures, enforce boundaries and say no.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Like you're already the confident woman who does, respect what she needs and she's not afraid to say it.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Start to show up like you've already upgraded your identity and you've already done the work.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: Of course, we'll get to doing the actual work, but I promise you're starting to show up.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Different will have the biggest ripple effect on how you feel and therefore, what you create in your life.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Just something else to touch on when it comes to acting like you are already the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: Again, like I said before, what we tend to do is we're waiting for the external results before we start to feel different and do something different.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: But this is going about it the other way upgrading you, which will upgrade everything out there.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: But I'm the biggest believer on acting like it's already done, and what I'll get my clients to do, say, in the world of business, is set their business up Like they already have many, many, um many clients coming into their world, many inquiries on a day-to-day basis, um, a certain number of subscribers Like I.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: Get them to set up their business as if they're already where they want to be.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Doing things like this one makes you feel more successful and confident and wealthy, but it ensures that you're not going to block yourself or block your growth because you're not ready for it in terms of your space and your systems and things like that.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: So the more you can do now is if the growth is already here.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: It means you have a smooth process towards the growth without getting stopped off by blocks because you aren't set up for the success you're saying you want.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: You don't have the systems in place, you're afraid you become overwhelmed because you haven't done what's required.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: If you can kind of remove those hurdles now again, the momentum will build and you won't keep getting blocked along the way.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: The final step to an upgraded identity is upgraded results, and we're not going to talk about that today.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: But you can expect change.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: You can expect more money, you can expect more clients, you can expect more followers, you can expect people to compliment you.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: You can expect people to do what you want to happen in your life, because you are now a vibrational match for something different.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: So that's the upgraded identity part, and it really is just about changing your inner state, believing in different beliefs, behaving differently on a daily basis, and you will create something different.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Now what I want us to move through is some actionable tasks you can take again on a daily basis to be the most successful, wealthy and confident in the room.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: And none of these things are going to rely on the amount of money in your account, the amount of followers you have, what your body shape currently looks like, what you have been doing up until this point.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: It's not going to rely on any of that.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Again, it's an internal shift that everybody can make and small, actionable changes you can make on a daily basis that will get you to be the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: The first thing I want to say is this start living the life you want to be living and stop settling for a life you do not want.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: I give everybody permission to give themselves permission to make the changes that's required in order for life to tick every single one of your boxes and I know we have been programmed and conditioned to believe that you can't have everything and you have to pick and choose.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: And you can't expect life to be perfect, but that is a load of BS.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: And you have to pick and choose and you can't expect life to be perfect, but that is a load of BS.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: And you absolutely can have a life where it ticks all of your boxes, but that's your responsibility.
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: You need to stop settling within areas that aren't exactly what you want.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: You need to stop settling for a life that isn't entirely what you want and that is within your responsibility and you're the only person that can do something about it.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: So this is your permission.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: This is your permission slip to start living the life you want and go after those desires that are sitting on your heart.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: Again, start listening to those little nudges and those ideas.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Actually take the steps forward, because if you actually listened up and turned your attention over to it, the little nuggets have already been dropped.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: You know the breadcrumbs are before you.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: You just need to start to listen and put your focus there, and I promise it will be easy and it will open up for you, because this is meant for you.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: So stop being scared, stop making up, stop making excuses as to why you shouldn't be changing your life and creating it how you want, and start following the breadcrumbs and start trusting that it will work out, because it is meant for you.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: So that's the first thing I want to say Start living life for you and start bringing to fruition those desires that you have sitting on your heart.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: So, again, I have some things that you can do to help with that.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: The first thing I want to talk about is stop doing these things, stop taking steps or stop living a life that isn't getting you to where you ultimately want to go.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: So stop going to that job while you're dreaming of being self-employed.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: Stop getting paid less than what you want to be getting paid in order to live the life that you really want.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Stop going to that gym if it gives you the ick and doesn't make you feel good when you're there.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Stop hanging out with those people if they're draining you and don't support the goals and the life that you want to create.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Stop doing everything around the house and then complaining about being the only person that does anything around the house.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Stop burning yourself out.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Stop wearing this badge of honor that you're the hardest worker and, even though you're exhausted and tired, you still get it done.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Though you're exhausted and tired, you still get it done.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Stop disrespecting your desires, stop disrespecting what you need and stop being available for anything that isn't truly what you want.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: So just those small shifts will ultimately mean that you're not allowing things anymore, and when you stop being available for things, they stop showing up.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: So stop living a life you don't want.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: Stop getting up every day and taking steps towards a goal that you don't necessarily want, or a life you don't necessarily want, or a future you don't necessarily want, and do these things instead, wake up every single day and actively take steps towards creating the future that you want.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: Not what your parents want, not what your partner wants, not what your friends want, not what society wants, but what you want.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: Even if you're the only one doing it, even if you're the pioneer, even if you are on this journey by yourself, still keep going, because this is your life and nobody else's.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Keep going because this is your life and nobody else's.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: So if you currently go to a job and while you're at that job, you're sitting there dreaming about being self-employed, you're going to actively take steps to come up with a business.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Very likely, you already have a business idea, which is why you're dreaming about being self-employed.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: So this is your permission to actually bring that to life.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: So schedule in a creative night where you have a big brown piece of paper, a bottle of wine and some colorful pens and brainstorm what's your business idea, what's it going to be called?
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: What's your service or product?
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Who are your ideal clients?
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: How are you going to market this?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Where are you going to be showing up?
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Where are they going to be shown Like finding you?
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: When are you launching this business and actually set a date and then anchor in that that job that you hate going to every day is very, very short-lived and you're finally listening to that desire to be self-employed and before your eyes, you have the plan to make that happen.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: If you are getting paid less than what you want to be getting paid and therefore financial struggle is very much a part of your life and you're dreaming of a life of luxury and overflow, then instead of just settling for the current paycheck you have, you're going to walk in and ask for a pay rise, or you're going to apply for a job that pays you more, or you're going to start a side hustle and increase your income, or you're going to start a business so you have an uncapped income again.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Instead of just settling and just assuming and just living with financial struggle like you're stuck within financial struggle, you're going to increase your income, and that is my favorite line and my favorite thing to ever say to anyone, because we live in a world where we're told more often that we have to limit our expenses than what we are to just increase our income and we live in a world now where making money is easier than it has ever ever been.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: So we don't need to just be putting up with financial struggle.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: We need to be deciding that, yeah, I want a life of luxury and overflow and designer handbags and a luxury car and first class travel, and I want to be making a lot of money so I can pay for hired help.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: So therefore, I'm going to go out and do it and I'm not going to just wake up and complain about not having money and just be so restricted and limited in my life because the amounts in my account.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Instead, I'm going to go and do something about it.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: If you are going to that gym and you hate being there and it doesn't make you feel good, well, you're going to go to a different gym.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: You're going to try a completely different workout.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Maybe going to that sweaty gym and squatting isn't it for you.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: Maybe going for a beach walk or going to a reformer Pilates class is more up your alley.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: So do that.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Go and listen to that more often.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: If you are hanging out with people who keep draining you or don't make you feel good when you leave them, then you're going to limit the amount of time you spend with these people and you don't need to justify that other than you don't feel great when you're around these people and you respect that.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: You deserve better than that the end.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: If you are the only one that does the household chores and you always complain about it, you're going to stop complaining and you're going to use your voice and ask people who you live with to start doing more around the house and you're going to delegate tasks.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: You're even going to pay for hired help and you're actually going to remove that badge that you wear, that you do everything and you do it all and whatever, and you're going to put your hand up and say I need help and expect help and enforce help, and then you have nothing to complain about and then your home life feels so much better and everyone is pulling their weight.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: If you are burning yourself out, if you are burning yourself out, if you are exhausted, if you are doing it all and, as I mentioned, wearing that badge of honor that you are such a hard worker and look at me, go, I get it all done, even though I'm tired.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: I haven't had a day off in weeks but, like you know, look at me go.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: You're going to stop doing that and you are going to rest.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: You're going to stop doing that and you are going to rest.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: You're going to schedule days off.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: You're going to book in a massage.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: You're going to book in a facial and you're not going to spend that money from a place of guilt because the money should be spent on other things.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: You're going to book yourself a weekend away from your kids and your husband.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: You're going to book a girl's trip away from your kids and your husband.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: You're going to book a girl's trip.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: You're going to pay for help within your business so that you can pull back on the amount of tasks you're doing.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: You're going to have a conversation with your boss and say I am exhausted and I'm burnt out.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: I need more assistance within this job.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: You're going to do things to actively take care of what your body is screaming you to do, and that is slow down.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Otherwise, you will actually take it too far and get very, very sick.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: Stress and burnout, if left for too long, can lead to very, very, very bad health issues.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Too much cortisol in your body is not good for you and unfortunately so many women are living their life, burning themselves out, exhausted and stressed.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: And again, I'm so sorry to say this, but that was.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: That is within your responsibility to do something about it.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: It's time to put your hand up, ask for help, use your voice and be okay about it.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: It doesn't make you less powerful.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: It doesn't make you less of a woman.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: It doesn't make you incapable, even though maybe they're the stories that you're having within your mind right now, as to why you can't ask for help or pay for help, or, you know, go and have that conversation with your boss or your husband or hire an assistant, whatever it is.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: Even though they're the stories you may be saying, it's not actually true and in fact, I truly do believe the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room is the woman who says hey, I'm exhausted and I need help and you're going to do something about it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Or I don't really like doing that task in my job, so I'm going to find a different job, or I'm going to ask my boss to find someone else to do this.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Or I'm not really liking what I'm doing on social media, even though I see everybody else do it.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: If I really listen to myself, it's not it for me.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: So I'm going to do something different.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Even though I haven't seen it done, even though I've been in this business or this career for so long and I've got this story that I've worked so hard towards it, I'm not going to let that mean anything about my future and I am going to quit that job and move overseas and start that business that everybody doesn't believe in.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: The woman who backs herself, listens to herself and respects what she needs, I feel, is the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room, and I think that is the most powerful thing you can be doing as a woman Taking control of your life, making sure it ticks your boxes and, if it doesn't, doing something about it.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Again, using your voice, taking the steps you need to make your life feel good In your responsibility, in your control, which is such a cool place to be, because change is at your fingertips.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: You just need to embrace it and run with it and, again, just ensure that every day is spent creating the future you want making yourself feel good and not anything other than that.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: And finally, you're going to lock in that you deserve to be the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: There's other women out there doing it who you may look up to and who may inspire you.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Why not you?
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: And I'm here to say you deserve to be making a lot of money.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: You deserve to feel good within your body.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: You deserve to wake up every day and be excited by what's on your schedule that day.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: You deserve to walk in the room and feel confident.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: You deserve to believe in yourself more than anybody else on this planet, because you are the only one that should.
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: You deserve to be the most successful, wealthy and confident woman in the room and I hope these actionable steps and things to let go of have helped you get on that path.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: Of course, if you're ready to go deeper than just this podcast episode and you can get to the Gold Coast on the 21st of September, be there, get a ticket and come to my one day immersion, because it's not just a pep talk, like this podcast episode is.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: It's actually getting into your subconscious and removing seeds of doubt, lack of confidence, not good enough, can't do that.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: Removing them, so that's not even a part of your blueprint anymore.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: And then we put in new seeds of confidence, success, wealth, I am powerful, I can do this, I believe in myself.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: So those thoughts, that blueprint is your new default, and what that means is creating the life you want is no longer something that feels so hard and heavy and full of so much resistance, and instead it just shows up for you because you are now a vibrational match for something different.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: You are now available for something different.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: You have now settled for a much, much higher standard, and when you lock that in, that's the only thing that shows up for you.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: So let me know in the comments, let me know on Instagram, what you thought about this episode, if you are planning to follow these steps.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: Um, and of course, just to wrap up, like I've mentioned some things you can stop doing and start doing, but I'd love for you to create your own list.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: So what are some things you can do to feel like a million dollar badass, like Rachel Rogers said, on a daily basis, without it being tied to how much is in your account or how much is in your business or what level you are at in your career or the kind of guy you're dating Like, without it being external to you some things you can be doing on a daily basis that will make you feel better.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: When you feel better, you create something better.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's leave it there.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: Any questions about the one day immersion on the Gold Coast?
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: Please reach out to me.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: Pre-sale Waitlist.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: Only pre-sale tickets go on sale on the 7th of August.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: You will be getting 10% off the early bird price, but only those on the waitlist will be getting that offer.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: The tickets are limited and there's already more people on the waitlist than what we have allocated tickets for.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: So make sure you set a reminder on your phone for 9am on the 7th of August If you're on the wait list to get the pre-sale ticket before they sell out.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: The early bird tickets will then be on sale on the 9th of August.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: It is a discounted ticket, but not as discounted as the pre-sale, and they are available until sold out.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: If there are any tickets left over by the 25th of August, there is a third release, but I'm very doubt there'll be any tickets left over.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: Again, there's more people on the waitlist than what we have allocated tickets for.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: So what that means is, if you want to be at the event on the 21st of September, set your alarm for the or get on the waitlist.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Set your alarm for the 7th of August at 9am and jump on and get your pre-sale ticket.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: To get the ticket for the lowest price possible.
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: Ensure you, secure your spot and then just get excited by the fact that after one day with me, you will not be the same woman.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: You will be feeling so incredible, so empowered, so confident and so ready to go and create that life that you want Nobody else that you want.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: I love you guys.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: I cannot wait to hopefully meet some of you soon in person.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Otherwise, I'm excited to talk to you guys next week on the podcast.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Otherwise, over on social media.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: Have the most amazing day and we'll talk soon.