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Why Nobody Trusts Anybody: Healing in a Distrustful World · J&B Live Podcast

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  Okay, guys. Welcome. Welcome to J&B Live.
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  Thank you guys for joining us. You want to go ahead and give your introduction, Broker J3?
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  You know, thank you. We appreciate you guys for joining us this evening at Live
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  with J&B. We really appreciate you guys. You could have been anywhere else,
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  but you guys decided to join us tonight. We're going to have a great conversation tonight.
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  You know, in this conversation, this conversation is something serious because
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  it's what's happening right now. Everybody's in a state of distrust.
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  So the question tonight is why does nobody trust anybody anymore?
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  Let's get into it, Doc B.
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  Okay. So we're going to be talking, when it comes to trust, we're going to be
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  talking about why does nobody trust anybody anymore?
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  And this can be in relationships. It can be in friendships, jobs, politics.
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  And we want to talk about the fact that has trust completely disappeared?
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  Some people feel like it has, okay?
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  So welcome again, everybody, to another episode of J&E Live.
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  Thank you guys for tuning in to our podcast.
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  You could have been anywhere else, just like Broker J3 said,
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  but you decided to hang out with us for a little while, okay?
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  So we're going to have that conversation that people are sometimes afraid to say out loud.
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  We're going to actually say it out loud. That's what we're going to do.
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  So tonight we're discussing something that is affecting a lot of relationships,
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  families, workplaces, different friendship, and even complete strangers we meet every day.
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  Some people are in that mode where they don't trust nobody, absolutely nobody.
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  So somewhere along the way, trust has become one of the hardest things,
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  guys, to give and one of the easiest things to lose.
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  It's so easy to lose a person's trust. So we're talking about that tonight.
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  So the simple question is, why does nobody trust anybody anymore?
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  You know, you have to ask yourself that question.
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  Stay with us tonight. Hang on in there with us. This is going to be an intense
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  conversation. We would love for you to give us your feedback.
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  So go ahead and drop that city and state and let us know where you guys are from.
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  Okay, we're going to go deep with it tonight, guys.
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  All right, guys. So let's go ahead and get into what, you know.
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  What changed, you know, from how things used to be to how they are right now?
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  So we're going to get into it.
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  You know, again, welcome, family. We appreciate everybody tuning in tonight.
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  And again, as Dr. B said, tell us where you guys are watching us from tonight
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  in the conversation, because again, it's about to get real.
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  Yes, it is. Okay, guys. So trust used to be the foundation of how,
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  you know, our society worked, particularly the African-American society.
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  That's how we actually operate. You know, you trust somebody,
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  you know, you do business with them. That's how we, you know,
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  you trust family, you trust friends, okay? Okay.
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  You trusted all of them, your neighbors, you know, you can trust your neighbors
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  to watch your kids. You trust your teachers, the teachers, the ones that spend
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  most of the day with your children, you know, when they're in school.
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  People in your church, your employer, your relationships, much differently than
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  people do now. People don't get to the point now where they don't trust nobody.
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  So you trusted those that were close to you particularly.
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  Yeah, but you know, Doc B, fast forward to 2026, and everybody seems so suspicious.
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  You know, people are questioning motives, you know, they're overanalyzing conversations,
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  and some folks even walk into every interaction already expecting betrayal.
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  Yes, they do, Broker J3, and this is the sad part about all of this,
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  guys, is people have experienced disappointment so often that distrust has become a survival mechanism.
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  They don't, they've been disappointed so much that they don't know how to trust
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  anyone. So they're trying to survive.
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  People are protecting themselves and there, some are even protecting their hearts.
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  Yeah. But tonight I want people to ask themselves.
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  Yeah. Are people becoming smarter or are we becoming emotionally damaged?
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  Okay, guys. So drop it in the comments.
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  Cache, sincere. I like that, sincere. This is a good topic for you because we're talking about trust.
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  I think that's Valentino, Nigel, is that chief?
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  Thank you for joining us. And Dwayne Fox, welcome back. Thank you guys for being
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  a part of the J&B family. So let me ask this question.
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  Do you trust people easily? You know, do you have that little,
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  you know, sense that you could just trust anybody, you Or has life forced you
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  to move a little differently?
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  You know, have you gotten to the point where you don't hardly trust anybody?
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  So we're going to talk about people moving differently in 2026, BrokerJay3. Yeah.
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  And, you know, to answer that question, Doc B, I know people are dropping that
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  answer. Do they trust people easily or has life forced them to move a little
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  different in the comments? But, you know, to answer that question,
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  Doc B, I think that will be based on people's experience.
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  For some of the people that have not experienced that distrust,
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  they probably trust people a little bit more easily. But for some people that
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  have had that serious mistrust going on, they're probably moving a little bit different.
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  But, you know, one thing that I notice now is people are moving extremely guarded.
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  You know, everybody says protect your peace, but sometimes that means cutting
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  people off before giving them a chance.
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  Yes, it does. And I cannot stress this enough. I talk about it all the time.
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  By all means, guys, protect your peace by all means. But Broker Day 3,
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  I agree with everything that you just said.
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  Years ago, people gave others the benefit of the doubt. You know,
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  they didn't even question it. They would just give people, you know,
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  they would trust people until they proved them, you know, wrong or they gave
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  them a reason not to trust them.
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  But today, people expect disappointment from the get go. They ain't going to
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  trust you at all. I don't care if you've done anything to, you know, to warrant that or not.
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  This is totally backwards from the way that things used to be.
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  That's right, Dr. B. Everybody says keep your circle small, but everybody says trust nobody.
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  You know, everybody says watch how people move around you. You know,
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  you hear that all the time.
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  Yeah, you sure do. And the danger to this, guys, is that that mindset that people
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  have about, you know, your circle being small, you know, watch people around you.
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  When you constantly expect betrayal, when you just, you know,
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  you just questioning everybody around you. because you feel like you're going to be betrayed.
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  When you do that, you sometimes sabotage health relationships before they even,
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  get off the ground, before they even begin. And sometimes that could be dangerous.
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  You don't want to do that.
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  Yes, it can not be. You know, people are moving from, they're moving away from
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  love. You know, people are moving away from protection.
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  Mm, mm, that is sad that we're at the point now where we're to the point where nobody trusts anybody.
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  And that's what we're talking about tonight. Those of you who are joining us, that is our topic.
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  Why does nobody trust anybody anymore? And we told you that some people are
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  to that point now where instead of giving people the benefit of the doubt,
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  they don't even trust them from the get-go.
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  And that's sad that they are doing that right now. Okay, guys,
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  so what I want you to do, the question is now, okay, are people protecting themselves
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  or are they becoming emotionally unavailable? What do you think, guys?
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  Let us know what you're thinking. Yeah, we did have a comment.
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  I see everyone is hurting.
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  We got another comment that says people are dishonest. Yes, they are.
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  That is true. That is true. What do you think about that, Bro, J3?
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  You know, I think it's a little of both, Doc B.
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  You know, I think people are trying to protect themselves emotionally and they're
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  trying to protect themselves.
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  You know, I think it's a little bit of both. So, guys, drop your city and state in the comments, guys.
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  You know, let us know if trust has become harder for you over the years or not.
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  Okay, we even got another comment that says, even the people who say they love God.
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  That is true. It is true. And that's particularly one of the reasons why a lot
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  of people don't trust anybody. They feel like if the people who say they're
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  in the church, you know, will betray you, then anybody will betray you.
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  And that's why some people are where they are today. Okay, so we are going to
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  talk about the friendship betrayal of Broker J3.
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  Okay, let's get into it. Okay, guys, so let's talk about, we're going to give you a situation.
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  You know, this could have happened to some of you, may have, may have not.
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  But let's talk about a situation that a lot of people that are on with us today
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  may have experienced. Just imagine you have a friend, that you're helping a
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  friend to build a business. You help that person, and we've all helped our friends
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  because that's what friends do.
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  We help them build it from day one. You support them, you promote them,
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  you encourage them, and you show up consistently for them.
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  Yeah, but then one day they become successful and they suddenly start moving differently.
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  You know, they stop calling, they stop acknowledging your support,
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  and they begin acting like, you know, they got there alone.
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  All by themselves. Yeah, they don't forget all about you.
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  It's just like some people will step over you going to the top,
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  but once they get to the top, boy, they don't forget all about you. Okay.
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  And that leaves people asking the question, should loyalty still matter once
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  success arrives? Should you still, once you get to the top, should you still
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  remain loyal to those that help you along the way?
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  I think you should. I think you owe them.
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  What do you think, Broker Day 3? I think you're absolutely right.
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  You know, this happens every day, Dot B.
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  You know, this happens absolutely every day. People say they support you until
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  success makes them uncomfortable, okay?
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  This affects why no one trusts anyone anymore because people switch up when the money comes.
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  Yes, yes. Some people do switch up. They switch up. They forget.
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  And I don't know if it's because they may be embarrassed, you know,
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  as to where they were at one point in time.
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  But I think it's very important that you never forget where you came from,
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  because that's a part of, you know, once you become successful,
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  because that's a part of what made you who you are currently.
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  That's a part of your success.
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  I would never want to forget where I came from, some of my friends that grew up with me.
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  I just wouldn't do that because that's who I am. But some people are not that
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  same way once they get to the top.
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  You know, just like some people leave a city. You know, they leave.
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  These are rural areas where they grew up and they get in the cities.
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  They never want to come back home. They don't even want to come back home to
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  visit. Family, as a matter of fact, that's how some people live.
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  Okay, so sometimes, guys, guess what?
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  Success will sometimes reveal to you.
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  And so that's what we're calling that because once they get to the top,
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  they don't remember those that helped them walk away.
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  You should never be able to deal with people who secretly compete with you.
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  That's so true, Jobby. So big shout-out right now to everybody that's watching
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  So tonight we're talking about that loyalty versus self-presentation.
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  Okay, Procure J3.
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  All right, let's get into it. You know, like Dr. B said, let's talk about that
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  loyalty because it means something very different today than it did many years ago.
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  Yeah, I still hear the static. Okay, guys, so many people have been hurt repeatedly,
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  guys. This is why people are in the situation that they're in now.
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  So now they choose self preservation over loyalty every single time because
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  they're protecting themselves.
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  And I really personally, I don't blame them.
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  You know, some people say I owe nobody anything.
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  You know, I have to protect myself first. You know, you hear people say that all the time.
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  And that's how it comes. It might be a might brokerage a three-year-old.
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  But at what point, guys, does self-respect become selfishness?
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  I don't think it's against selfishness.
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  I think you're just protecting yourself. And like I say, for me,
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  that's no problem at all. Some people get to that point where,
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  you know, they have to preserve and take care of themselves as far as being loyal to other people.
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  And sometimes it can actually be dependent on the situation.
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  You know, this is where relationships suffer. You know, everybody is focused
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  on protecting themselves, but nobody wants to sacrifice anymore.
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  That is so true. And then you have to think about commitment.
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  Commitment requires vulnerability, guys. You have to be vulnerable at some time.
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  Your friendship, every friendship that I've been in, there has to be trust because
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  you have to trust those friends.
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  Families require forgiveness. You know, we've had family members,
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  we've hurt their feelings, they've hurt our feelings, but in the end,
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  we always, I know my family is, we're still family, and that's what we do.
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  We forgive each other, and we continue to love each other.
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  Yet many people are refusing, all three, they are refusing the commitment,
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  the friendship, and the forgiveness.
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  But the question is, are people becoming emotionally stronger or emotionally colder?
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  That's interesting. So let's get into this relationship and trust issues,
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  this other scenario, Dobby. Let's get into it.
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  Okay, guys. Imagine meeting someone who treats you really well.
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  There's a lot of people out there that are just not starting a relationship.
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  That person is treating you really nice by five spokeswaves.
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  Man and woman doesn't battle. They can go, both can be treated really well.
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  They communicate, they're getting along, they show consistency,
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  and they genuinely care about each other.
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  You know, you're feeling, you know, that person, they feel like they're in a
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  meaningful relationship. You know, all is good. Everything good.
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  Yeah, but because your last relationship, it hurts you deeply,
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  you begin to question everything that this new person does.
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  And you know what? Some people question it because they're saying to themselves,
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  oh, this is too good to be true.
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  You know, that's that old saying where something sounds too good to be true.
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  It usually is. And so that's why people begin to question it.
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  But, you know, then you guess what? You start to check the phones.
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  You're questioning their intentions.
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  You're over-analyzing their messages.
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  And you accuse them before they've done anything wrong.
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  That's right. And that new person, they didn't break your trust,
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  but they are paying for what somebody else did.
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  Absolutely. And this can become a problem today, guys.
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  Thank you guys for your gifts. We appreciate it. Keep those gifts coming.
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  Past pain is ruining future opportunities. People should stop making new people pay for old debt.
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  In other words, the experiences that you had with that old person,
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  you should not blame or take that into the new relationship.
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  Okay, if you agree with that, guys, I want you to drop it in the chat, okay?
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  So, guys, remember, healing, it really does matter before dating somebody again.
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  Okay. And we have a comment that sometimes people do it after years of being
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  together. That is so true, so true.
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  And, you know, they're so accustomed to the way that they were being treated
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  in that relationship that they take it into the old relationship.
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  Okay, guys, so keep those comments coming.
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  Remember, guys, your comments do affect the algorithm, and we do appreciate
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  those comments, as well as the gifts.
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  Drop us a heart, drop us your city and state, and let us know where you guys
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  are timing in from, okay? And again, thank you again. So now,
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  Broker J3, let's talk about did social media destroy trust?
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  Yeah, of course it did. The unsocial media, it does all the time. The unsocial media.
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  You know, I truly believe. I refer to Facebook as fake book.
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  Yeah. You know, I truly believe that social media has completely changed how
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  people trust one another.
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  And like that can be a podcast literally in itself. We talked about it before
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  on a couple of occasions, but in a different aspect.
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  But talking about in regards to the trust, you know, it could be a whole new
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  episode, Doc B, because so much distrust has come because of social media.
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  Yeah, because social media, it creates a comparison culture because everybody's
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  compared their lives to what they see on social media.
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  The lifestyles that they see, like the lifestyle to the rich and famous,
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  that's what you're seeing. So, you know, you think you want to have that as well.
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  Also, the hidden conversations, and there are constant opportunities for deception online.
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  So just because you see it online doesn't mean it's true.
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  I remember there used to be a commercial, and it was talking about they heard
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  it on some site or something.
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  So they were implying that just because they heard it online that they're supposed
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  to believe everything that they hear on that site. But that is not the case,
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  guys. You cannot believe everything you hear, and you definitely can't believe everything you see.
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  Yeah, that's funny because, you know, real quick, slightly off topic,
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  but somewhat on topic.be, like they had on social media, you know,
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  it could have been just a joke, which we already know.
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  This past weekend, they was telling people that Chick-fil-A was giving free
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  food on Father's Day to all of the fathers on Father's Day.
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  Now, everybody out there know Chick-fil-A is closed on Sunday.
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  So, you know, but imagine some of the people who may have thought that Chick-fil-A
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  opened up just for Father's Day because of what they saw on social media.
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  So, you know, the deception is just it's just really there.
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  So, guys, relationships, they're ending, you know, over inbox messages.
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  They're ending over screenshots.
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  That they're ending over hidden followers and and the online attention seeking
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  you know that's for the people you know a lot of times it's women let's be real
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  you know that that that looking for that attention online especially by
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  you know women are in relationships but yet
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  they do these dances and provocative outfits just to get those likes and for
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  the men to send gifts and and i I might have to do.
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  A summer sundress episode on how women, young and old, it don't matter, it has no age.
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  It has no gender. I'm sorry. It has no nationality. Let me change that.
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  But, you know, soon as you open some of these sites, like I just opened up Beagle
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  not too long ago because we're live on Beagle.
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  Soon as it pops up, women got on all of this crazy stuff. and I'm saying to
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  myself, why are you degrading yourself like this?
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  I don't understand that concept. So, you know, social media has created some
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  type of craziness where women have to feel like they have to get online and
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  be seen in order to feel important.
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  It just drives me crazy. Like I said, I'm going to have to do a sundress summer
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  edition on that. So stay tuned for that, guys. But Just think about it.
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  Social media give people unlimited access, but it has also removed accountability.
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  So when these women are appearing on these different platforms,
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  there's no accountability. Who are they accountable to?
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  You know, and some of them don't even care if their family members see it.
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  That's what I would be saying to myself.
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  I wouldn't do it because I was. What if your mom sees it or your dad sees it? They don't care.
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  No, they don't. And sometimes the technology makes communication easier,
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  but trust so much harder.
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  Yes, it does. Yes, it does. So guys, we've talked about everything.
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  So now we want to talk about trust at the job. So we're going to talk about job loyalty.
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  So we're going to shift to the work environment. Imagine giving 10 years to
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  a company. You know, I was at my last job, I think it was 25 five years maybe total. You stay loyal.
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  You work overtime. You train employees. You know, you can run the whole company
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  really probably by yourself.
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  And you sacrifice your family time.
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  Yeah. And then one morning, the leadership changes. You know,
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  somebody may buy the company and then suddenly you're laid off without even
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  a warning after putting all those years of time in.
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  Yeah, yeah. Hey, Mr. Alex, how are you doing this evening? Thank you for joining us.
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  We also have Juan Ramirez. Thank you for joining us. Thank you guys for being
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  a part. And Jazzy, hi. Thank you for being a part of the J&B family.
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  Thank you guys for joining us this evening. Okay, guys, so let's think about this.
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  The experience change, that particular experience when you get laid off,
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  change is how people view loyalty
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  forever. because you've been with that company, what, 25 years, right?
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  So, you know, people now, they say never be loyal to companies because companies
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  are not loyal to employees. You hear that all the time.
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  Yeah, now that's something. Say that again, BrokerJay 3. I want everybody to hear that.
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  You know, people say never be loyal to companies because companies are not loyal to employees.
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  Oh, I've heard that so many times before. Thank you, Maria Love.
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  Thank you for the gifts. Thank you for the hearts.
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  Okay, guys, keep those hearts coming. Keep those gifts coming.
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  Keep those comments coming, guys. Remember, the comments do affect the algorithm.
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  So, like I said, I've heard that before about never being loyal to the company
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  because they're not going to protect you in the long run.
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  That mindset, guys, is going to spill over to other parts of your life.
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  Some say to always protect yourself first.
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  Not that company. Protect yourself first.
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  That's right. Because, you know, companies, they teach us that loyalty means
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  absolutely nothing. It's all about business now.
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  Yeah, all about them dollars. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. So big shout outs to all of
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  our supporters tonight.
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  Okay. So I like I'm so damn fine. Thank you. I like that username.
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  Thank you, B-Web, M-Fun. Thank you for joining us.
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  We've got Sharon Bass in the house. Thank you as well, guys.
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  We appreciate you. So now let's talk about can trust ever be rebuilt?
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  You know, you don't trust anybody at this point, you know, because of the way
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  that the world is right now, you know, it's changed like different from what
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  it was 10, maybe five years ago, it probably has changed, but definitely those
• 24:56
  of you a little bit older, maybe 20 years ago.
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  So we're going to talk about how you can rebuild trust.
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  Yeah. And, you know, Dr. B, you know, after trust has been broken,
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  you know, it's hard for so many people for their trust to be rebuilt.
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  So here's the big question.
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  You know, can trust actually be
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  rebuilt once, you know, society reaches a certain point where, you know.
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  Almost nobody trusts anybody anymore. Anybody. Oh, guys, what do you think?
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  Can you rebuild the trust?
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  Have you ever been in a relationship with somebody where you didn't trust them?
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  And then, you know, whether it be a relationship with a significant other or
• 25:37
  family or friends, do you think you can rebuild that trust? Drop it in the chat
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  and let us know if you think you can rebuild the trust.
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  Just simply say yes or simply say no, okay?
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  I believe, me personally, believe that trust can be rebuilt over time.
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  But people must become intentionally again. You have to intentionally work towards
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  improving that relationship.
• 26:01
  Yeah. And you know, Doc B, that trust also requires consistency.
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  You know, people watch actions now more than they do words.
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  Yeah, yeah. And I think with requiring consistency means that you have to show
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  up for that person, especially when you're trying to rebuild trust.
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  Because if you're trying to and you're never there, you're never present,
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  then it's going to be difficult to rebuild that trust.
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  Now, remember, it's also going to be a healing process because trust does require healing.
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  Hurt people often damage healthy relationships without even realizing that they've
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  done so or that they're doing so.
• 26:39
  That is so true, Dr. P, because people have to stop punishing good people because
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  people hurt them before.
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  Because that bad person heard it. Oh, yeah. Okay. So rebuilding trust starts
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  with accountability and emotional maturity or emotional maturity.
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  I find this to be so true, guys, because as I mentioned earlier,
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  when you're trying to rebuild trust, somebody has to be accountable for what
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  went wrong or where it went left.
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  And then, of course, you have to be emotional and work towards improving that
• 27:17
  relationship or rebuilding that trust.
• 27:20
  All right, Doc B, give us some final shout outs before you give us your final
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  thoughts on tonight's podcast. Okay, guys.
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  So, Cyril Mendoza, Perrin Jones-L, thank you for joining us.
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  We got Diddy that's here with us as well.
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  Issa Aikens, business-owned. Thank
• 27:38
  you for joining us. Thank you guys for being a part of the J&B family.
• 27:42
  Go ahead and drop your final comment as I prepare to gear my final thoughts.
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  This has been an interesting topic. We're talking about why does nobody trust anybody anymore?
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  And, you know, because of what's been happening in the world,
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  you know, a lot of people have gotten to that point. Things have changed.
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  OK, so trust is one of the most valuable things that human beings can exchange.
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  Without trust, relationships fail, family divide, communities weaken and people
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  begin leaving. You know, they start living in an emotional isolation because
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  they can't trust nobody. They don't know who to trust, you know.
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  Somewhere along the way, many people stop believing in one another. They lost that trust.
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  But I also believe trust begins with individual choices.
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  We must become honest again, consistent again, and intentional again.
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  If society is going to heal from all of this mistrust, trust must return somewhere
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  in all aspects of our lives.
• 28:45
  That's right, Dr. B. I totally agree with what you just said.
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  All right, guys, here's my final thoughts on tonight's podcast.
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  You know, I believe people have been so disappointed so much that survival mode has become normal.
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  People no longer assume good intentions anymore. Everybody's watching motives.
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  Everybody protects themselves. Everybody moves cautiously.
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  You know, but I challenge people tonight to understand this.
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  Not everybody is your enemy. Everybody will not betray you.
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  Sometimes life will hurt us and make us build walls so high that good people cannot reach us.
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  Maybe trust is not disappearing. Maybe people are just simply tired.
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  But healing starts when we stop expecting everybody to hurt us.
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  Yes, because that's not everybody's intention. There are still,
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  and I personally think this broker J3, there are still some good people out there.
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