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SMNTY Classics: A Salty SMNTY Valentine's · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Smantha.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to Stuff. I've Never told you.
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  Speaker 3: Protection by Heart Radio, and today we were bringing back
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  Speaker 3: one that I.
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  Speaker 2: Had a lot of fun with. I think you had
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  Speaker 2: fun with, Samantha, but it was one we did.
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  Speaker 3: Admittedly I would not find this funny now, but we
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  Speaker 3: did about salty Valentines, this history of giving really mean
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  Speaker 3: cruel valencines.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that was one of the first introductions to this show.
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  Speaker 1: I was I like this, let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it was a very fascinating one. You can find
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  Speaker 3: a lot of images should you choose to do so,
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  Speaker 3: but we haven't reran it. So since we're getting into
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  Speaker 3: a Valentine's Day territory, we thought we would bring it back,
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  Speaker 3: So please enjoy this classic episode. Hey, this is Annie
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  Speaker 3: and Samantha and welcome to Stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I've Never told you.
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  Speaker 3: A production of Iheartmedia' is how stuff works. As this
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  Speaker 3: episode comes out, it is Valentine's Day surrounded by Singles
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  Speaker 3: Awareness Day, Galentine's Day, whatever you celebrate it, don't celebrate
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  Speaker 3: on February fourteenth Mistress Day. Apparently Mistress Day. That seems sexist,
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  Speaker 3: Yeah it does. We might get into that a little
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  Speaker 3: bit later. If you're listening to this today, it comes
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  Speaker 3: out Samantha and I are in LA and we might
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  Speaker 3: be doing our own sort of Galentine's Day.
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  Speaker 1: Though it's gonna be a full thing.
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  Speaker 2: It's gonna be a full.
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  Speaker 4: The Gallantines and Valentine celebrating single, all of that thing.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to do all of them.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, perfect, Yes, all the boxes, all of the boxes,
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  Speaker 5: and hopefully we might have a coffee times with other
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  Speaker 5: gal yeah, or those who I did not ask.
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  Speaker 3: Come and celebrate or just what to hang with. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: totally trigger warning. A brief mentions of violence against women
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  Speaker 3: in this one.
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  Speaker 2: And this one.
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  Speaker 3: Actually came to my mind because I learned about dating
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  Speaker 3: Sunday for the first time here in the United States
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  Speaker 3: at least, which is apparently a new Year's resolution post
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  Speaker 3: holiday breakup thing and maybe like you're still single, questions
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  Speaker 3: that you got over the holidays, or omg, Valentine's Day
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  Speaker 3: is coming around the corner one of those or a
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  Speaker 3: combination of those reasons that results in a bunch of
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  Speaker 3: people signing up for dating apps. The first Sunday of
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  Speaker 3: the new year is the busiest day of the year
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  Speaker 3: for dating apps.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know about this year.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I did, and I purposely stayed away from January
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  Speaker 4: all the way through March when I was on the
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  Speaker 4: dating sites because of that.
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  Speaker 1: I will not be a statistic. You are so much
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  Speaker 1: more than a statistic to me, is amanth.
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  Speaker 4: I do know that there's also a tradition for New Year,
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  Speaker 4: or do you know how people do things that if
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  Speaker 4: you'll wear pink underwear that's supposed to usher your new
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  Speaker 4: lovers or something.
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  Speaker 2: I have not heard that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've heard that. Okay, well I did it.
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  Speaker 3: Sure you did it or didn't, It doesn't matter either way.
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  Speaker 3: Some apps see an increase of new users up to
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  Speaker 3: eighty percent. And one of the ways I learned about
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  Speaker 3: this is I got asked out a lot in January
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  Speaker 3: and it made me stop and think, something is happening here,
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  Speaker 3: Something is not right, And now I know it is.
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  Speaker 3: I was part of the statistics. You were in some ways,
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  Speaker 3: so you were on the apps, right, No, No, I was.
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  Speaker 2: Just getting asked out.
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  Speaker 3: As I've said before, I do have a very long
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  Speaker 3: history of dating people born on or near Valentine's State.
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  Speaker 2: That has also given me pause. And a lot of
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  Speaker 2: my friends.
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  Speaker 3: Are born around this time, right, I don't believe in astrology,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm like, huh, interesting.
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  Speaker 1: Those are the types of people. Huh.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Samantha and I we were discussing what our schools
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  Speaker 3: used to do for Valentine's Day, like, you know, primary
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  Speaker 3: school and I was in elementary school. We would make
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  Speaker 3: these little decorated shoeboxes with slots for Valentine's cards, and
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  Speaker 3: you just would sort of sit around awkwardly and hope
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  Speaker 3: that you got one after you'd given years out. And
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  Speaker 3: I hope that the one you got wasn't mean, because
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  Speaker 3: I got some mean ones.
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  Speaker 1: Really, yes, I did. It's so weird.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't have this experience, no, geez, well I did.
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  Speaker 3: And we went to school nearish each.
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  Speaker 1: Other, nearish, different timeframes.
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  Speaker 2: That's true, But you'd think it would improve over time and.
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  Speaker 1: Not get more. Right. Apparently y'all got meaner. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: We mean.
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  Speaker 1: You have a picture of your face with a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of pimples on it.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, Oh my gosh, what Yes, that's elaborate.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I'm a main girl. Elaborate Stephen. I haven't forgotten
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  Speaker 1: Steven's but I got I got back.
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  Speaker 3: Later in high school, we had this thing where you
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  Speaker 3: could pay a dollar to send either white think our
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  Speaker 3: red rose anonymously. White represented friendship, Pink represented a crush.
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  Speaker 3: I think and read represented love. But of course my
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  Speaker 3: friends and I all hijacked it and we sent each
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  Speaker 3: other flowers from secreted miners.
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  Speaker 2: It was great.
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  Speaker 3: My mom would always make me these paper roses every
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  Speaker 3: year I have when I saved them. I'm a very
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  Speaker 3: sentimental person, and my dad would get me a chocolate
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  Speaker 3: from our local chocolate maker. So it was like a
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  Speaker 3: grab bag of some bad things but.
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  Speaker 2: Some good things.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: I guess you guys did a lot more. Maybe my
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  Speaker 4: school just did not care as much. We definitely did
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  Speaker 4: the bio ros whatever do with those things. It wasn't
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  Speaker 4: different colors to represent anything a b We were never mean.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I think for our school we did the
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  Speaker 4: little dinky shoe boxes as well, but everybody brought everyone
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  Speaker 4: of Valentine and you won if there was a piece
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  Speaker 4: of candy on it. That's how you knew you were liked,
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  Speaker 4: kind of if you got more candy or whatever whatnot.
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  Speaker 4: Of course, we would also have the one where they
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  Speaker 4: would send deliveries individual kids and such, and I remember
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  Speaker 4: specifically that I had to have a boyfriend the third
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  Speaker 4: grade because for the like I'm never, I was like,
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  Speaker 4: I'm no. It was fifth grade and I was determined
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  Speaker 4: to have someone deliver something to me.
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  Speaker 1: I love it.
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  Speaker 4: I know I was very manipulative, but to be fair,
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  Speaker 4: I got him a really great thing too, And I'm
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  Speaker 4: sure I think included one of those pencils with the
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  Speaker 4: heart that breaks.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, be mine or whatever.
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  Speaker 4: Right, So, I mean we gave each other gifts, but yeah, no,
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  Speaker 4: never any mean ones I never saw. Maybe you were
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  Speaker 4: just nicer, or maybe I just never noticed.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you things kind of been going on.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe I just didn't know my friends were nicer than
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  Speaker 4: your friends. I don't know, oh how friends. But I
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  Speaker 4: will say I also get a box of chocolates even
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  Speaker 4: to this day, every year from my father, and that's
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  Speaker 4: one of the things that he loves to do, is
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  Speaker 4: give my sister and I a box of chocolates, and
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  Speaker 4: even with me being not home, he mels.
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  Speaker 1: It and usually like prioritizes it.
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  Speaker 4: You know, that has to be one day shipping all
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  Speaker 4: these scenes something from Walmwater Target or something.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well it should be coming any day.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm around, I'm available.
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  Speaker 1: Okay's just saying, okay, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Well we're doing a kind of basic, very brief history
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  Speaker 3: of Valentine's is actually fascinating. But before that overview, Valentine's
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  Speaker 3: Day is a holiday that takes place on February fourteenth,
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  Speaker 3: all about love and expressing your love, usually through things
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  Speaker 3: like cards, flowers, and candy.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, it is a big business.
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  Speaker 3: In twenty ten, people spent around eighteen point six billion
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  Speaker 3: dollars on Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 4: And these days Valentine's Day is a great way for
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  Speaker 4: companies and corporations to perpetuate heterodating and gender stereotypes. Women
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  Speaker 4: love chocolate, right, No, but it wasn't always a holiday
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  Speaker 4: about love, No, it was so. With a brief history
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  Speaker 4: of Valentine's Day, No one's entirely sure where Valentine came from,
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  Speaker 4: but one popular theory goes all the way back to
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  Speaker 4: the ancient Roman celebration of Lupercalia from February thirteenth to
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  Speaker 4: the fifteenth. This festival call for men, who, surprise, were
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  Speaker 4: usually drunk and naked, to sacrifice a goat and a dog.
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  Speaker 4: How dare you? Then they would skin these animals and
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  Speaker 4: whip women with the skin. Delightful, What a great celebration.
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  Speaker 4: The women believed this ritual helped with fertility. There was
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  Speaker 4: a matchmaking aspect as well. Men would draw the names
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  Speaker 4: of women out of jars and the couple would go
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  Speaker 4: off and have lots of sex for the rest of
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  Speaker 4: the festival, and if they hit it off, they might
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  Speaker 4: even stay together.
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  Speaker 3: This sounds sort of like I just finished the Newest
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  Speaker 3: Thing of Sabrina, The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina. I feel
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  Speaker 3: like a couple of seasons back they had this.
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  Speaker 4: They did they had the worship being whatever, and they
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  Speaker 4: paired with each other.
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  Speaker 3: You're supposed to have sex all night or something or something.
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  Speaker 3: It didn't happen that way, But not for Sabrina. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: other people, who knows, not for Sabrina. As for the
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  Speaker 3: name Valentine's, during the third century CE, Roman emperor Claudius
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  Speaker 3: had two men named Valentine executed via decapitation on February
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  Speaker 3: fourteenth on two separate years, possibly because they were Christians.
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  Speaker 3: The first man, Father Valentinus, ended up arrested and in
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  Speaker 3: servitude of a well off man named Asterius. Father Valentinus
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  Speaker 3: kept espousing the power of Christianity and Hysterius told him, Look,
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  Speaker 3: if you can get rid of my foster daughter's blindness,
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  Speaker 3: you will make a believer out of me. So the
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  Speaker 3: father covered the girl's eyes with his hands and recited,
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  Speaker 3: Lord Jesus Christ, enlighten your handmaid, because you are God,
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  Speaker 3: the true light, and the legend goes.
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  Speaker 2: She regained her sight.
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  Speaker 3: Mysterius converted, along with his entire family, but getting wind
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  Speaker 3: of this, the emperor ordered them all to be executed.
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  Speaker 3: The second Valentine to be executed had an extremely similar story,
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  Speaker 3: and of so scholars suspect they're probably the same person,
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  Speaker 3: just with two different names and slightly different details. Nevertheless,
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  Speaker 3: the Catholic Church later honored their martyrdom with St.
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  Speaker 2: Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 3: Several churches throughout Europe claim to have pieces of Saint
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  Speaker 3: Valentine's skull.
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  Speaker 2: One place even claims to have the whole thing.
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  Speaker 3: If you're curious about where this information comes from, because
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  Speaker 3: I was there was a I guess he was a priest.
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  Speaker 3: He went around collecting stories for all of these saints
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  Speaker 3: and compiled them into one book. So if you're ever
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  Speaker 3: curious about a saint, then check it out. In the
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  Speaker 3: eleventh century, a priest claiming to have Saint Valentine's head
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  Speaker 3: used it to cure a whole laundry list of things,
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  Speaker 3: including demonic possession and to prevent fires and epidemics.
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  Speaker 1: Oh we need that today, we do.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder where it is. I wonder that's the new Indiana.
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  Speaker 1: Jonas getting her bed.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, come on there.
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  Speaker 3: It is a lot of media has romanticized the story
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  Speaker 3: of Valentine, that he wrote love letters in jail or
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  Speaker 3: performed marriages in jail, but there's no real historical evidence.
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  Speaker 2: To back that up. What we have is on shaky
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  Speaker 2: enough ground.
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  Speaker 4: Speaking of the Catholic charge, in an attempt to due
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  Speaker 4: away with pagan festivals, they combined Valentine's Day with Librecalia
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  Speaker 4: in fifth century CE. But it was still pretty much
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  Speaker 4: a day about getting drunk and fertility, but now with
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  Speaker 4: clothes on, because you know Christians, right, that's the way
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  Speaker 4: you got to do it. In parallel, there was Gallanton's Day,
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  Speaker 4: a holiday observed by the Normans.
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  Speaker 1: Gallanton meant lover of women.
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  Speaker 4: Because the names are similar, It's likely they got combined
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  Speaker 4: at some point in time.
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  Speaker 3: Right, and then, with the help of artists like Shakespeare Ofhilia,
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  Speaker 3: describes herself as hamlets Valentine and Shaucer, who wrote a
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  Speaker 3: February as the seasoned birdsmate Tauru. Romantic Valentine's Day was
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  Speaker 3: romanticized and popularized throughout Europe. By the Middle Ages, handmade
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  Speaker 3: paper cards had become a part of this tradition. The
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  Speaker 3: French Duke of Orleans described his wife as his quote
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  Speaker 3: very gentle Valentine in a letter he wrote to her
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  Speaker 3: in February fourteen fifteen. Sweets became a part of it,
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  Speaker 3: to getting something sweet for someone you thought was sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, so I need to get you something sweet.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you think I'm sweets?
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  Speaker 1: Oh you know I do. So.
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  Speaker 4: From Europe, this holiday spread, eventually making its way to
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  Speaker 4: the New World. Nineteenth century industrialization added mass produced, factory
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  Speaker 4: made cards to the mix, and in nineteen thirteen a
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  Speaker 4: little coupling you may have heard of, oh, I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: called Hallmark. Hallmark Cards started making cards in Kansas City, Missouri.
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  Speaker 3: Right and from there you can imagine, oh, the birth
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  Speaker 3: of cards. So yeah, well, they were very instrumental in
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  Speaker 3: popularizing a lot of the holidays we celebrate.
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  Speaker 1: Because that's their bread and butter.
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  Speaker 3: Why you gotta get a card for this holiday in
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  Speaker 3: the card exactly, but not all cards.
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  Speaker 1: We were nice.
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  Speaker 2: And we're going to get into that.
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• 13:05
  Speaker 3: And we're back with something I actually learned about. I
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  Speaker 3: remember the precise moment I learned about this over on
• 13:11
  Speaker 3: our other show that my other show that I do
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  Speaker 3: is Samantha. You should just come along and be part
• 13:14
  Speaker 3: of it. We Savor, which is all about food and drink.
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  Speaker 3: We did an episode for Valentine's Day on Sweethearts, the
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  Speaker 3: candy yes, with the messages, and I somehow found this
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  Speaker 3: thing about giving people mean sweethearts. And from there I
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  Speaker 3: found this old tradition of giving people vinegar Valentine.
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  Speaker 4: And you told me about this, and I had no
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  Speaker 4: clue that was a thing. I'm still kind of baffled. Oh,
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  Speaker 4: even though we've been researching it, I'm still baffled.
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  Speaker 3: Oh it's baffling. Actually, it makes perfect sense in a
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  Speaker 3: weird way.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm going to bring it all together to.
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  Speaker 4: Be fair, though I feel like I would be. This
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  Speaker 4: is probably my type of Valentine anyway, Lord.
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  Speaker 3: It probably is so This is something that I'm i
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  Speaker 3: is hilarious, but I'm also really glad it's a thing of.
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  Speaker 2: The past because they're pretty mean, and we're going to
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  Speaker 2: do some examples.
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  Speaker 3: But so vinegar Valentine's were previously called mocking insulting. Our
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  Speaker 3: comic vinegar is actually something that we call them modernly.
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  Speaker 3: That's not what they were called back then. And this
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  Speaker 3: was the practice from about the eighteen forties to nineteen
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  Speaker 3: forties that was particularly popular in the United States and
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  Speaker 3: the UK of giving people a mean or cool card,
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  Speaker 3: usually with a crude caricature, almost always anonymously. Oh even
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  Speaker 3: when folks made their own Valentines before there was a
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  Speaker 3: commercialization of cards, they made these vinegar versions.
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  Speaker 2: They made homemade vinegar versions.
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  Speaker 3: I guess that's what I was getting in elementary school.
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  Speaker 3: But the commercialization of cards took that and ran with it.
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  Speaker 2: They made them.
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  Speaker 3: People would buy these cards for about a penny or
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  Speaker 3: sometimes more for a fancy one, and they could get
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  Speaker 3: pretty fancy and send them through the mail, again anonymously
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  Speaker 3: to add insult to in the person receiving the vinegar
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  Speaker 3: valentine usually had.
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  Speaker 1: To pay for postage.
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  Speaker 3: They had to pay for it It could be someone
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  Speaker 3: you secretly despise, or it could be a not so
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  Speaker 3: nice way to tell a suitor you were not that
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  Speaker 3: into them.
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  Speaker 2: That was a really popular one. We should do these,
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  Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't think so.
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  Speaker 3: You could send one to a couple you didn't like,
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  Speaker 3: or if they were doing PDA you didn't like, you
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  Speaker 3: could send that. You could strongly advise them to change
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  Speaker 3: their behavior. There A lot of them are threatening in nature,
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  Speaker 3: like change your ways or else. Millions of these millions
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  Speaker 3: were printed. If you think about it as I have,
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: they were sort of an early example of trolling.
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  Speaker 1: It really is.
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  Speaker 3: It's like we complain about social media today and how
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  Speaker 3: terrible people are, but we've been terrible apparently as long
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  Speaker 3: as we.
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  Speaker 2: Can be anonymous.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Because if you didn't want to say something to
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  Speaker 3: someone's face.
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  Speaker 2: Here here was a great way to do it.
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  Speaker 3: And you could get them for just about anything or anyone.
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  Speaker 2: They get so specific.
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  Speaker 3: At one time, these cards accounted for half of all
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  Speaker 3: Valentine's sales, not just cards sales in the United States.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the power of anonymity, I guess. Yes.
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  Speaker 3: So we do want to have we want to go
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  Speaker 3: through some examples.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, these are fine.
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  Speaker 4: So there's one this image that shows a woman handing
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  Speaker 4: a man a lemon, and the caption reads, to my Valentine,
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  Speaker 4: 'tis a limon I hand you? Now skadoo? Because I
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  Speaker 4: love another there's no chance for you. Also, I would
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  Speaker 4: like to say all of these have great words that
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  Speaker 4: we never use anymore, such as skadoo, and I think
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  Speaker 4: I would need to bring them back.
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  Speaker 1: You need the chance Atlantic accent. Oh yeah, I know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, we'll see how it goes.
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  Speaker 3: There's one of a woman dumping a bucket of water
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  Speaker 3: on a man's head that reads, here's a pretty cool reception.
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  Speaker 3: At least you'll say, there's no exception. It's just as
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  Speaker 3: plain as it can say, old fellow, you best step away.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: That may be something you should do now, I know.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: Another one shows a snake in a suit on and
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: a top hat, and then there's a woman looking on
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: in the fear in the background, and the caption goes,
• 17:15
  Speaker 4: I'm not attracted by your glitter for well, I know
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: how very bitter my life would be if I should
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: take you for my spouse.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: A rattlesnake.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: Oh no, I'd not accept the ring or evermore twould
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: prove us sting.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: Oh also, I think that snake had a monocle. Just
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: want to add that in That.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Probably sounds about right.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: Another depicts a man about to kiss a donkey with
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: the message, Hey, lover boy, the place for you is
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: home upon the shelf, because the only one who'd kiss
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: you is.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: A jackass like yourself.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: Or this titled bald Head, Your bright shining pate is
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: seen at all shows and invariably down in the bald
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: headed rose, where you make conspicuous by your tender care.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Your true ardent love for one onesome hair.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: Oh so mean, no one's superman.
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: So several were moral based about PDA or alcoholism.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: Or this one called television bug.
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: It says at faces that are televised all day and night,
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: you stare, but if.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: They saw your stupid mug, they'd all go off the air.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love the rhyme. Not gonna lie.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: The rhymes are fun. Yeah uh. And these cars got down.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: To the occupation specific.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: If you had a sales lady you didn't like, there's
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: a vinegar valentine that had you covered like this one.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: Saleslady as you wait upon the women with discuss upon
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: your face. The way you snap and bark at them,
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: one would think you owned the place. Oho, if you
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: weren't a fan of your physician. There was a character
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: named doctor Shirdeath. You could even send one to the
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: postman who delivered the note. They were very big during
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: the Civil War. TiO one shows a woman with a
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: large skull for a head carrying a chainsaw. The caption
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: reads to the surgeon, ho, ho old saw bones, here
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: you come. Yes, when the rebels whack as you are
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: always ready with your traps to mangle saw and hack us.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: There was a whole category of cars meant to masculate
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: men who had babies on their lap as being hen pecked,
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: which is also a great word, but not good.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: No, But at the same time it's an old school word.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: It's ridiculous.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: And then the old maid from eighteen ninety four, 'tis
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: all in vain your simpering looks. You never can incline
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: with all of your bustles, stay in curls to find
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: a Valentine.
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: And this one she's caught a poor cat and a bird,
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: but she can't snare a man. So we've heard see
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: old maid's sad fate to lose out on a mate
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: and take tea.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: But sh not a.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Word or this one. You've got more curves than a
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: roller coaster. Your clothes fit like a glove. There's one
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: thing wrong, glamour puss. You've a face only a mother
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: would love.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: So many depicted women in unfeminine ways, miss nosy and
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: image of a woman with a large nose that reads
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: on account of your talk of others affairs at most dances,
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: you sit warming the chairs because of the k you
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: take to attend to all others business.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: You have a a friend and speaking of unfeminine women's
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: suffrage ushered in a whole new wave of vinegar Valentine's
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: aimed at women fighting for the right to vote, Like this,
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: your vote for me, you will not get. I don't
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: want a preaching suffragette. These cards typically portrayed suffragettes as
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: ugly and often violent. Some women sent Valentine's to a
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: sure would be suitors that they weren't like those suffragists
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: reading in these wild days of suffragette dreys. I'm sure
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: you'd never overlook a girl who can't be militant. But
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: simply loves to cook, okay, but there were pro suffragette
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: Valentine's as well, So you.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: Know, it's kind of like the feminists and anti feminists today,
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: and it's just in Twitter.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Exactly exactly.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: These cards, while popular, were certainly not universally well liked,
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: and it's hard to say how many were jokes how
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: many were totally serious. An eighteen ninety five article from
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: the Kindergarten Primary magazine lamented the detrimental effects these cars
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: had on children, calling on teachers to quote make it
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: a day for kind remembrance than a day for wrecking revenge.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: One post office in Chicago held over twenty five thousand Valentines,
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: deeming some of the cards to Vulgart to send. But
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: there are historical examples of people getting murdered or taking
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: their own lives over vinegar Valentine.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: So it's a bullying tactic.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: It is. It absolutely is.
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: Again, these are funny to read right now, but plenty
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: were super sexist and racist and fat phobic, and some
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: advise people to kill themselves. Really, if you think of
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: comment boards and Twitter fees, you doue comments. In some
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: ways this is still going on, actually in a lot
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: of ways. Yeah, going on, and people have always been terrible.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: And again, the world is burning.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Sminty, the world is burning.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: That's our tackling.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: Oh so wow, yeah, Vinegar Valentine's I never knew it
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: was such a thing.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: I would recommend looking it up just to see the
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: imagery in a lot of them.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: Oh god, oh my, that sounds disheartening. Yes, but maybe
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: we should go on to a bitter better We're not bitter, yes,
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: better topics.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Such as Gallentine's Day.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: So the actual name and celebration was first on Parks
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: and rec episode that aired on February eleventh, twenty ten.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Also should be noted that it was written by a man.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, so.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: In the episode, we see one of my faves, Amy Poehler,
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: celebrating with her gal pals with brunch and plenty of
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: kitschy presents and gifts, and as Leslie explained it, every
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: February thirteenth, my lady friends and I leave our husbands
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: and our boyfriends at home and we just come and
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: kick it breakfast style ladies celebrating ladies. It's like the
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: Lilith Fair minus the eighths plus for tatas and waffles.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: And waffles, of course the waffles.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, as defined by Urban Dictionary, February thirteenth, The other
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: half of Valentine's Day, when you celebrate your love for
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: your lady friends single r. No, Hey, Judy, you're such
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: a great friend to me, and I want to celebrate
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: our friend love, not only my sexy love with my
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: boyfriend Marvin tomorrow. So let's have a dinner and get
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: together the day before Valentine's Day. Gallantine's Day, sexy love,
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: sexy love, yes, friend love and sexy love yeah.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: No, you got to differentiate.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: So if you have seen the show, and most likely
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: if a friend of yours have seen the show, then
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: you know that, yes, this is a maid of holiday.
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: But the success of it has made some great commercial success,
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: whether from different products being marketed towards the holiday or
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: from the sheer amount of publicity written in reference to
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: said holiday.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: Yes, one thing as part of our jobs. And you
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: might not get this a lot yet, Samanthah, but you
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: will is cold emails from pr companies, and I have
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: probably gotten at least thirty about Galentine's Day and what
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: I should be doing on Galentine's Day and what I
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: should buy my gal Pal friends. So definitely companies have
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: capitalized on it. And also, as I said before, it
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: wasn't an official day.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot of.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: Us we've been doing something like this right for a
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: long time. We just didn't call it this, and we
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: didn't have all the kind of traditions. Even though it's new,
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: there's kind of a set here's what you do exactly.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: Spreading wide enough, it has spawned books, articles both arguing
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: for and against. As New York Post writer Haley Eber
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: stated in her twenty seventeen column celebrating female friendship is great,
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: but tying it to Valentine's Day reeks of an opportunistic
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: marketing ploy, stating she felt it was being used as
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: only a marketing ploy, in that February thirteenth had once
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: been referred to as Mistress Day, again for cheeters to
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: take their side pieces, as she states, out for private celebration.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: Perhaps it could be stated that Valentines was the answer
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: to the long appropriated idea that Valentine's was single awareness day.
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: Side note, there seems to be a whole lot of feelings,
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: whether it's love, loneliness, or defensiveness, just a whole lot
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: of emotion around this month, right, And again speaking of
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: a single Awareness Day, this was created in two thousand
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: and five with the idea that for too long, February
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: fourteenth was SAD, which is the acronym for Single Awareness
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: Day in a negative and so taking it back and
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: celebrating being single and being aware of that day, I
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: guess is on the fifties to celebrate one's own singleness
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: if you happen to be single.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: Right, And when I was in college, me and a
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: big group of my female friends would do Single Awareness
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: Day SAD, but we would kind of do it like ironically,
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: like we were single, right, but we weren't sad.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: We were super happy. We would kind of joke about it.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's a celebration of I don't need no persons.
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and then we would always like, really do
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: it up.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: It was really fun.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: And of course it should be noted that there are
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: several other days created before Gallentine's Day, such as International
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Day of Friendship, created by the UN and World Friendship
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Crusade in nineteen fifty eight and celebrated on July thirtieth,
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: although most countries celebrate on the first Sunday, in August.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: And by the way, in nineteen ninety eight, Winnie.
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: The Pooh but you didn't know apparently I didn't know,
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: was appointed as the Ambassador of Friendship by the UN.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: Also of note, National Friendship Day was created by Hallmark
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: in nineteen nineteen, but apparently went away in the nineteen forties.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: I guess they didn't sell enough card maybe not, maybe not.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: And yeah, I actually I had a brain freeze and
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: forgot who Winny of the Woo was.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: It's all okay, I did know who you were.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Now you know, Now I know.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: And we did want to talk about some traditions around
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: the world. But first we're going to pause for one
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• 26:49
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• 26:49
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• 26:50
  Speaker 3: And yeah, we did want to talk about some traditions
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: from elsewhere.
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know, we would love to hear about
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: traditions from other countries. So please let us know if
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: you're in a different country, or even if you have
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: different types of traditions, let us know. Because apparently in
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: Denmark men give women something called a joking letter.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Traditionally. I'm as assuming anyone can do it.
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, the letter has a funny joke or rhyme signed
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: only with a series of dots like dot dot dot.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: I think, yeah, I think maybe I was thinking Morse code.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: But see this is.
• 27:23
  Speaker 4: So if the receiver can figure out who the author is,
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: they get an easter egg when the holiday rolls around.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: What Yeah, huh, I wonder if that's really true?
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: Please write it so you get an easter egg if
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: you Yeah, but you have to wait, you have that
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: long to figure out who it is. Probably is Morse code,
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: because I wouldn't imagine what an asterisk would be a
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: hint of sorts.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I do feel like I could be totally wrong.
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: So I feel like this tradition, we're gonna need to
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: know some answer we need we.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Have questions that need answer.
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: At one time, the French participated in something called the
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: more drawing for love.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: It sort of.
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: Sounds like choosing a kickball team or something. Men and
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: women would separate and then call each other's names out
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: and they would couple up. The men, of course, could
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: choose another woman if they didn't like the one who
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: they ended up with, and the unmatched women would go
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: have a bonfire together, hurling insults and swears to men
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: who had wrong them, burning the pictures of those men.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: This holiday got so out of hand the French government
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: stepped in and banned it. In England, there used to
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: be a tradition of women putting bay leaves under their
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: bed the night before Valentine's Day, one at each corner
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: and the center to dream of their future husbands. You
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: can check out the episode we did on bay leaves
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: ever at Savor for more on that, and we also
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: talked about South Korea's Black Day on April fourteenth, which
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: is a day where singles eat black foods.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: Too mourned their single status. But being single is great, y'all.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: It's all good.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Hey, I'll eat food.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I from what I understand again, listeners right in.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: It's also sort of ironic, like I don't think I
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: don't think.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: People are really upset about it, but I could be wrong.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: So we would love to hear from anybody who knows
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: there are black food.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: So we did it.
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: And in our Savor episode we talked about we were
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: talking about cuttlefish ink and so things just.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: Die like it could be anything. Noodles.
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: I think noodles is traditional, but like the outside of
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: tumblings or cupcakes all.
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: Ridings or kin have the black Hamburger or whatever, and.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: We also talked about that.
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: Oh okay, yes, so I need to go listen to
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: that episode right now.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: You do, you'll learn a lot and we would love
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: to learn a lot from you listeners, as we always do,
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: and we do have some listener male for this one,
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: starting with Mikhayla. She wrote, Hey, y'all, I loved your
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: two parter on female revengers, particularly because I'm currently in
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: a production of Shakespeare's Titus Andronicus, featuring one of the
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: most intense here's my bias showing female revengers to more
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: at Queen of the Gow. Yes, as an actor, villains
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: are forever juicy to play, but Tamora Tamora has been
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: a mind job and a challenge unlike anything I face
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: to date the story if you're not savvy. After losing
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: a ten year war against Rome, she her three sons,
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: and a mercenary, her secret lover Aaron the More are
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: dragged to Rome as trophies. Her firstborn son is chosen
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: for sacrifice by way of a right by the titular
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: character Titus. She begs she appeals to him as a
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: parent but he does not relent, and her son is
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: needlessly buy us again slaughtered. By this, she is forever
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: altered and irreversibly damaged, and bent on revenge. Of epic proportions,
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: she is elevated to Empress Yes in the same scene,
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: her son was murdered, and she reclaims a status that
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: will assist her in gaining vengeance, and.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Boy howdy does she.
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: She aids and abets the mutilation and rape of Titus's daughter,
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: as well as the murder of the daughter's new husband,
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: frames two of his sons for said murder, and attempts
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: to drive Titus and sane with grief. The thing is,
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: he's already pretty insane. Forty years of war will do
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: that someone. But he's the victor of war and so
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: lauded for a service to Rome, so his wild behavior
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: is mostly allowed, even when he kills one of his
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: own sons.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: But I digress.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: In the end, she loses her mind and believes she
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: has trick Titus into something that will finish him and
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: his remaining family. However, he hasn't actually bought the farm,
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: and her sons are captured, murdered, and baked into a pie,
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: which she eats at a banquet. She is then killed
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: by Titus, and it is pronounced that her body will
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: be tossed to the animals to feast on as it rots,
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: because having lived beastly, she will be food for beast
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: Tamora is a woman in a man's world who, when
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: she behaves like a man I e. Aggressively, is deemed barbarous,
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: without womanhood and without grace. Though when Titus and every
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: other man in the play behaving kind, no eyebrow gets raised,
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: her sexual prowess is often discussed as a negative, either
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: as a tool of manipulation or further evidence of her barbarism. Meanwhile,
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: Titus has begotten twenty six sons of one would have
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: to imagine twenty six separate women delivered to him upon
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: his returns from war, because you know, dude's gotta let
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: off some steam after all that warring. Furthermore, Lavinia, Titus's daughter,
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: exists to service her father and her husband, and is
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: literally referred to as an object or property throughout the play.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: They are the only two women in the play, and
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: so the Madonna and the horror dynamic is omnipresent. I
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: have so much more to say, but I've already said
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: more than I thought I would, and I hear the
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: atro music spelling. Just want to make sure my favorite
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: Shakespearean lady villain got her due.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Nice.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I saw that.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: I saw the movie, yeah, when I was a kid
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: in its.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be a little bit horrifying. The pie
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: the pies.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: Anyway, Whitney wrote, I thought of you both while watching
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: a movie recently, and how appropriate considering you ass listeners
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: for movie recommendations. There's a movie out of China called
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: The Widowed Witch about a woman who survives a factory
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: explosion which kills her husband. While recovering from this trauma,
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: she endured in other trauma. She ends up becoming a
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  Speaker 3: traveling shaman. This movie seems to tick off both categories
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  Speaker 3: of somewhat revenge film as well as witch film. Is
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  Speaker 3: also a non white depiction of women practicing magic, perfect, perfect,
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  Speaker 3: well less love recommendations. Yes, we're definitely gonna check that out.
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  Speaker 1: celebrate February fourteenth or not? You don't have to, I
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  Speaker 4: Do you have a unique tradition or how is it
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  Speaker 4: do Valentine's Day, is there an equivalent.
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  Speaker 2: Or any of those friendship days?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I definitely had a Galentine's tradition for a while.
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  Speaker 4: Unless I actually would appreciate a good funny one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, a good funny one, that's okay.
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