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YouTuber attacks Muslim & God Ignores our Prayers?! · After Maghrib 🌙

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Someone to come guys, welcome back to the office tomorrow and
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podcast this week. We're going to talk about
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something really interesting. There's been a lot happening
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over the last few days. Online in regards to certain
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podcast, that and comments he's made about Islam and Muslims and
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of course, the backlash of that. And you know, the discussion of
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islamophobia and bullying discrimination is really
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important. How do people feel when they are
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on the receiving end of such jokes or such comments?
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You know? Well where do we turn to?
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How does Allah see us? And how do we see God and how
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does that affect our relationship?
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Don and finding a lost man to Allah.
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So there's a lot to get into, I know it sounds a bit jumbled,
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but as always the ever Reliant, co-host, say, Dallas on one
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example of how you doing ever Reliance ever rely on Thursday,
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to me, we always rely on you, to back in the topic.
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You know, I'm talking about my back.
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I scratch yours. How you doing, man?
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It's been okay. I'm the last.
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Yeah, as I said there's a lot happening online and it's been
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interesting one but to help us discuss that we have the ever
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lovable say say What's the Box? A slumber.
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Little by little translation. And so what's been happening?
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Say, not been happening online. Yeah, there's a certain
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influence. Our true Jordi has made some
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discriminatory comments on Muslims, and I think there's
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been a quite a big backlash say, you know, about it.
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I've heard a bit, okay. But I don't Know full details.
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Okay, Enlighten us. All right, so for those who
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don't know, there's a podcast about inventory Jordi and he
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does podcast with a guy called Lawrence and they're very
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well-known, they're big, they have millions of subscribers and
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they do football podcast and just general culture, and
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lifestyle stuff. They were doing a livestream a
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few days ago, and they were talking about a guy convert to
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Islam and and true Geordie, Brian.
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He said, well if he really wants to prove his religion, he should
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blow himself up a lot. And the guy next to him start
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laughing. And even though the guy next to
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him, raise his Muslim kids and he's married to a Muslim girl
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and so on he didn't really say anything.
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So the sky released an apology cause a It's backlash online, a
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huge backlash in even corporate sponsorships or car and so on
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now besides that that's kind of besides them win but the wider
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conversation of why is this still normal?
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And so on is still big deal. Can I actually ask you, how did
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that make you feel? So knowing I've been listening
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to this guy for a while. Okay.
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Okay, I'll be honest, I've been listening to football podcasts
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and like just general stuff like that for a couple of years.
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So I have a few podcasts. I listened to Be like seven or
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eight podcasts and and his is one of them, you know what I
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mean? So, week by week.
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I'll generally try and shoot into his stuff when you listen
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to a podcast, in my opinion. Yeah, you're zoning out of your
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world, you're tuning into a new world, a new conversation, in
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your, you're being a part of someone else's experience, and
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you're meant to be in a safe Zone where you're not attacked.
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But when you tune into someone's podcast and a whole group of
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people have been generalized and attacked and that includes
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usually look up to them, it really disappoints.
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You Admin. It's really a someone someone
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you listen to regularly, what about say, what about people?
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For example, who are watching that and who are not Muslim?
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Do you think they'll get into this brother?
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I think the lies. I think I actually find it
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funny. Yeah.
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Because I think it's become so normal to even drop, I'm going
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to call it a joke because it's become so normal to us to, for
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someone to say, go blow yourself up to prove, you're Muslim, I
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think it's something normal, but as a Muslim, I find that
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offensive because that's not what we do and it's our
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responsibility sometimes. And I feel that we need to let
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the world know that that's not who we are but the same time we
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should be to apologetic. Yeah, I don't know.
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Yeah well it's a confusing question be tackling these
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misconceptions and alhamdulillah over the past few years and
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we've moved forward. I think people are much more
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aware now that these mistakes misconceptions are not true
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these fake tabloid news. They're made up to cause a
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division to cause whatever with with minor communities Yeah.
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Um, but for someone to make such a comment, it's a step backwards
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for us. You mean know that but like a
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fifteen-year-old now doesn't know that 15 year olds muzzle,
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but as we've Advanced a lot forward with these sort of
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things, I think people are more aware than they were five years
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ago. Yeah.
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Maybe like I think in some ways they're more aware but, but the
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thing is, kids, who we grew up in a world pre 9/11.
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Yeah, 911 hitting all of us. Remember the repercussions of
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it, but, I mean, we all, we all remember jority of us were
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bullied in school after, yeah, overnight change its spin.
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Actually, when you went to a prominent predominantly, English
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School, White full of white people like me.
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I was bullied in school for being that Muslim kid in class.
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I was known as the Muslim kid 911 comes around or everyone's
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wish him a happy birthday. No way for us.
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It was fun and jokes but it is still traumatic to.
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You're scared to be around white people.
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Yeah. And you for someone like me, I
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always thought we were well past this now.
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Do you ever feel like you had to prove you that That does that.
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As a Muslim, you are a good person to wait, did you feel
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that pressure? I think people are aware.
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They know that buzzing. It's just jokes.
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It was to them. It was, it was fun and games.
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It was never like proper racism, but it obviously stemmed from
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somewhere you said this podcast has billions of subscribe.
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Yeah, this is this is he he's known and the uk-based.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. He's known as The Joe Rogan of
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the UK, okay? Which is so he's massive Joe
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Rogan's. The biggest podcast.
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So this Joe Rogan made made I think a very silly Ants and the
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millions of subscribers while listening.
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And I'm going to go to school other than how they are these.
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If you're saying, they're talking about football,
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everyone's listening to this podcast, keeps kids are going to
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easily repeat these Joe. They're going to go to school
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until their friend. Joe is going to tell a Commodore
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Mike is going to tell Muhammad ya.
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Go blow yourself up. Prove your true Muslim and the
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thing is it's already happening like we've all got stories.
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Like I said, it's like bullying. Yeah it's probably and we've all
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got stories where we've been in that situation and we've reacted
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or we have a react either. You took either you.
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Either you I believe I owe you a bullet in school and if you
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were, if even if he were a bully people still use that joke
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against you, you know? I mean, like I have stories when
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people used to say stuff to me in school, you know, I had a
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hard time when I was young because there was this thing
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that went around, could Ahmed, the Dead Terrorist?
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Remember, that video to remember that?
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I remember that. Yeah, imagine funny.
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And yeah, it was fun. It was funny.
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You're probably from it's stupid, but it gave people a way
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to be racist to you. Exactly.
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And we were what when that came out that was Date or something.
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Yeah, it does not look. So we were in there, doing our
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Jesus was the little skeleton Hobbit or something, right?
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This it was so so stupid, such a bad joke and that was something
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which like got forwarded around and so on and so forth.
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But someone who's 15 years old? Now, the D line I'm going to
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blow my seat. Okay, someone who is fifteen
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years? Older, 10, 2007.
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Oh my God. Yeah, she's crazy.
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In the 90s. I'm assuming everyone.
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You know, when you when you hear backs, all those are from the
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60s from the 50s. When we learn all that you soon,
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by the way, I'm already 30. That's insane.
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This is the fourth decade. We live.
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We're living in, you know, that fourth decade of our life back
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on track back on track. Yeah.
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Anyway, but ya know, it's crazy situation because kids, who are
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15 now, mmm, I have not known a pre nine eleven world.
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For example, do you know? I mean so kids will kids grow up
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thinking. I'm, it's okay for me to get
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bullied and And you mentioned saying about, like the effects
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on bullying and how kids feel. I think it makes them go on
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hiding. Any of kids are feeling bullied,
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the feeling discriminated, they're feeling labeled as a
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terrorist, for example, as Muslims.
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Well, they're going to go see it.
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I think Muslims already struggled to be represented,
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whether it's a media or written just Society in general.
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We've just about made it onto the platform, but I think that's
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because we are here in the west. You can go to the Middle East.
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You have why does it happen with any other community?
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Or as much as with? I don't know.
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I feel like we've got a fair as Wantage online.
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Best online were very scared to say were Muslim.
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Well, no, you will say that another.
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We must have a news presenter on BBC.
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Yeah, would never come out and like show himself as a Muslim.
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He won't wear a Muslim garment, I am I an internship ones in a
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mainstream media organization. And I remember I was working
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with another muslim, okay, from from the community and My aunt
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passed away that weekend, my dad's sister passed away your
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loves, and that was on a Saturday.
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I came in to work on the Monday. I was walking with my Muslim
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colleague, to take to the staff kitchen.
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The bearing in mind, this is like 300 people in the office.
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Hmm, we're walking to the kitchen and my colleague said to
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me. How's your family doing?
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I said we're okay. I'm Darla people coming over or
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something. Sorry.
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I'll see you in so on and so forth.
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I've got taken to another room and I were told off.
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You can't talk like that. Here you wearing a ring?
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We're in a certain environment. No way, you can't speak, like
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that, you can't use words like, handle.
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I can't say much, as you can see, I see.
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So, what's the problem? You ask me a question.
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You're almost a Muslim. Why can I not say words that
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you? And I know a lot of ending in.
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This was a Muslim telling you. Yeah.
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Yeah. It became a big deal.
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See, I'm at other communities, I don't think they're afraid of
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tackling these issues. Yeah they would come out and say
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okay there's certain gamma site whereas a seek for example,
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yeah, but there's certain things I need to do on certain days as
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a as a someone who's Jewish. But for us we're always Because
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because we're always being attacked.
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We're scared to come out and say, okay, I'm Muslim I need to
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do so and so what to be yourself to be yourself.
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Yeah, that's why for example, some one really and these
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bullying makes it even worse for us.
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You think that's one reason why maybe some young sisters take
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off their hijab? It could be a powerful.
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That's it's not something that I can talk on but that comes back
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to then insecurities. I do want to touch on anything
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too touchy, but an insecurity that I may have or sister may
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have with widest. I see affects my relationship
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with God Islam from, like, how people see me and treat me then
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affects how I am with God, you know?
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I mean, you feel like you've got no attachment to God now.
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Yeah, well actually might make you want to distance yourself
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from God. Yeah because if someone's always
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like saying you Muslims are XYZ, you saw.
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I think you saw someone was like 15 16 or young, maybe even
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younger than that. May be quite older as well
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teenagers. Now the like 25 years old still
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knows well that's it. Makes you think Think you know
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it might be true. Maybe my religion is actually
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about maybe you know the way we are being represented is
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actually who we really are which is not and I think affects you
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as a Muslim but your belief and Trust Allah subhana with other.
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Especially when people who pray to Allah you know there's lots
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of people who pray maybe they're praying.
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Oh Allah take this bullying Away From Me.
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Maybe percussions of these bullying to keep be unable to
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keep your neighbor. Could be your friend.
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That's cool. Whoever is the next.
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It could be a teacher. Yeah indirectly Discriminate
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towards you, the happens happens like for example we went to
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Sunday school, we go to Sunday school, we get taught now what
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do you say Sunday school? You're talking about for
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example, Islamic school or summer school?
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Like we went to Islamic schools. We get taught from the age of
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five to 15 everything every Sunday.
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God is there for you. He protects you.
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He loves you. You talk to him when you're in
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trouble when you go back. If you go back to school.
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Yeah. You get bullied back to square.
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One your back to people making fun of you because of what
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you're taught the day before. Are you believe in God, God
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doesn't exist. People make remember.
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People keep people's success of lot of yours over there.
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What is God backwards? What is God backwards?
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What is God backwards? That was like a thing.
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I remember those are Trend and a school.
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My just mentally did that. Yeah, like it was a thing when
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we were in school, that's the most childish thing.
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You can say to someone, and just because you happen to be a
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Muslim people take out. And, you know, I mean, And it
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makes you question as a young as not even young, but it makes you
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question your Dean question. Dean You know, your everything,
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your beliefs is, your religion is of core part of your system,
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is what you're brought up on. So when someone bullies you
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about that, I think it has a crazy effect on use and people a
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lot of people don't know, is it okay.
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So let's say this bullying is actually making you question
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your doing. What's the solution?
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I mean, we have to come up with the solution as Muslims
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hamdulillah. We know Allah subhanahu
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wa'ta'ala as a solution, for every problem that we Face are
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one of it is do our, and we all believe in the power of the
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handle. I know millions of Muslims make
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to our Every single day, they supplicate nothing in short
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enough. We can pray to Allah subhanaw.
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Taala to make it easy for us. It's as simple as that.
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You can. Pray your Allah, you know, make
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make this bullying and we are La, you know, make the make my
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friend at school. Who has these thoughts on me?
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Have a clearer mind. Let him understand.
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Allah. I'm on the stand, you even
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better. Might help if I go a long way,
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God tells us - Leo Sarah with her.
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With every hardship. Comes ease sense.
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So he doesn't put us through these hardships for no reason.
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As long as we have the torque of the final last part of the Allah
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doesn't pull you in the hardship that you can't hang.
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Yeah, we had our numerous times. I sent it for words.
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I'm just trying to find the idea but there's an i in the Holy
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Quran. Mmm.
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So at baccarat verse 2 16 I lost one.
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Tyler says perhaps something is described prescribed for you and
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you dislike it but it's possible that you dislike a thing which
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is good for you and that you love a thing which is bad for
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you. What does that tell us?
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That we know a lost book. Thuds telling us that.
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A will be situations in life. You do not want to do something,
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you don't want to go to school. You don't want to face this, but
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you don't know maybe that's good for you and maybe that's in the
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long term that's going to strengthen you and it's going to
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make your core stronger. Your belief in God stronger.
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You'll your identity stronger and maybe in the same way you
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doing, you engage and you spend time doing something, which you
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think is enjoyable and good. There's bad for you.
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Like for example the stuff he listened to online, the content,
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the music, whatever it is. You might think it's Okay.
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Like, for example, listen to a podcast where they say stuff
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like that but actual facts about to you because it has an effect
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on you, you know, I mean like in the long term we have to I think
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the main answer for me to work with his is an answer or the
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answer. The ultimate answer part of the
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solution, but I think before Takin for me personally, it's
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mentality. It's our own personal struggle.
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I was, would you call it Jihad in Neffs?
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Yeah, this is what God taught us.
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Yeah. But you had enough is why starts
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with the mentality? Hey, the man that doesn't like
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you said, when Tammy. Yeah, exactly.
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Like, for example, you start with the mentality that okay,
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maybe this goodness in the hardship, like we talked about
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this, I think a few podcasts will go, but there's a specific
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analogy, which I know a lot of the other, my use of the concept
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of like a baby having an injection.
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The baby doesn't know that the injection is good for them in
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that moment in time. They experiencing extreme pain
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and hardship. Know they think they're world's
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coming to an end. The outcome.
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The outcome is best for them. Only Allah knows that I mean,
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you know, bigger situations but you're sometimes we're ignorant,
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we get, we get too comfortable and we get too cocky and we
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think we know that everything is going to be the way it is.
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Now things are always going to be hard.
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God doesn't love me. God, ignores my prayers, but
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maybe we were wrong, you know, that point guard ignores my
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period. Prettiest.
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Yeah, people say that often often often very often.
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In fact, sometimes even from our own Friends Community, we heard
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while, but I've been praying for something for so long, it's just
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not happening cause not listening.
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What's going on? Are they praying for the wrong
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things? Are they not doing?
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Do our courage, you need that point?
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You know for someone come someone praying.
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Oh Allah, I want so much money. Allah.
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I want the I've heard this phrase so much that I want.
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The buffest wife, I want to be, you know, no, these are real
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words. People are saying we are hearing
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this and they're praying. You know the state.
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I think it goes back to the same thing.
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It goes back to work on. Mmm.
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Yeah. Any Allah knows what's best for
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us? Trusted God, you give your book
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nothing. That's basically what she said,
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at least, that's what I'm saying.
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People are praying for the wrong things, yeah?
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Like, for example, you might be praying for wealth, like you
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said, but you are you praying to get?
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And we had to shut down for last week, talked about the concept
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of wealth. Like are you trying to get rich?
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So you can flex and show off your riches and buy a Tesla or
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you trying to get rich because you generally want to make a
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change to like a cause in the world or something like that.
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Or you want to just look after family, because that's it.
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By then itself, just God will give you what he knows is best
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for you. Yeah.
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Yeah, I better had you today is just on the point of wealth,
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I'll double-check, I think sometime and solar solemn bronze
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and he said that the kings of Heaven are the poor people in
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this world but this is short. Hadith is so nice, though.
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I thought that, wow. So many people in poverty
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praying for riches and now we're going through.
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Like we've just been told we're going to be in a two-year
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recession in the UK. Yeah.
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But and we're finding that hot. Yeah.
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Well finding their heart. Oh yeah.
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That's what I think. We're praying for the wrong
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things. And as you said, for example,
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you know, we're praying, We want to be a rich.
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Do we want to flex? Do want to show off?
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Not. In fact, I think we should be
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praying to Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala, let us help those who
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are less fortunate, you know, let us be like a means of
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Wasilla towards them. At the same time, we can benefit
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in this world from that riches. Yeah, I know.
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And back to the point of the wife by the appropriate people
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saying, you know, Allah, if you weren't for all of our friends,
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all of our present and previous guests to inshaa, Allah over the
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city looking for Yeah, for a beautiful life.
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Allah. Give me a noble wife or his
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office. That's beautiful.
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In itself is just as you said, the mentality in the way Oscar,
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I have to tell them something. I'm sorry.
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Tell you that guys today. When what's up, okay, and I
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thought I told said Ali, he messaged him message.
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One of the brothers in the aftermarket team and he said,
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please can you help us like make a clip for Instagram?
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I said, say please leave the guy alone every time it comes on.
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What's up you ask him to do, what?
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And then, what did they say? Goes may Allah bless him with
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the noble wife. He gave me the clip.
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One of three things happens when you make it are either your
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prayers are answered. All your prayer is not answered.
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Yet. It's delayed, but will be
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uncertain. Future we praise.
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Not directly. Answer your given a replacement.
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You might pray for a big Bank, you get an inheritance from some
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Uncle, you never met who passed away.
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And tomorrow, you can buy a big house prayers are answered, or
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you have to wait 10 years, work hard.
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And then you get the house for appreciate.
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How you appreciate her or you don't get the house.
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And instead allow gives you a big family, healthy family, and
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you don't understand anything. Why did God continually house
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for 10 years? I've you're thinking God's not
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give me a house or for example you never get a house, you get
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healthy family. What happens?
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You become complacent? Mmm.
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If you get house immediately, Thinking that was easy like you
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forget God, you're chilling. You're in a comfortable
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position, life, or for 10 years, you're complaining saying, God's
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not answer my prayers or you forget entirely that last one to
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Allah doesn't operate. In the same currencies that we
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operate in. He doesn't operate in
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transactional ways where we say, I pray for this.
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You give me this did, you know? I mean it's not like for like
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you might pray for something along.
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Give you something different, I haven't have you ever prayed for
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something for so long? And it's either happened or had
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or hasn't happened. Yeah, I think my marriage is an
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example that they all fastened is speaking.
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I don't wanna go too much into it, but I think I was examples
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that I prayed like I think we all prayed and pray for like,
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you know, a healthy marriage and healthy life and so on.
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But I was convinced, I thought this is the right person.
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And I think along the way there was there was like, you know,
20:21
obstacles obstacles as there always is, I think with
20:23
marriages, and as I mentioned in the past, we had a like a
20:27
long-distance relationship and it was a long-distance
20:29
engagement. There's a hard time and of
20:31
course getting to that point where there was comfort in
20:34
proceeding and everything was hard.
20:36
So you make a doll and you have sometimes you have to wait,
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sometimes you have to go through things, to get to it either, you
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get it. And in this case for a noble
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wife, I pray for another way. I'm glad I'm glad me and I was
20:47
blessed with it, but no in all honesty, like, someone can make
20:50
a darn, they can, they might think God's ignoring me, but
20:53
maybe they're not. Maybe a lot of sponsors, not
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ignoring, you know, I don't think it's got ignoring you, I
20:57
think sometimes, it's either your Paying for the wrong thing
21:01
or you're you know, doing drawn correctly.
21:03
Know you've seen sometimes in people that like this y'all law.
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That's it. There's no for example humility.
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There's no humbleness. There's no there's no actually
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thinking say it is there a correct way that were taught to
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make? The are there is correct ways of
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making them all this. I don't know the top of my head,
21:22
but from what I understand, the power is, for example, is there
21:25
are methods. That you have to follow follow
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subhanahu, wa'ta'ala to ensure, Allah Grant you the harder they
21:32
want. So, one of the being, for
21:34
example, is that you have to mention salawat, you have to
21:39
bring the name of Mohammed Anonymous.
21:40
Is this? Why we recommended son dies?
21:42
And that's basically asked me. Yeah, I mean realistic style of
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my Shipmates as followers of woman.
21:52
We are blessed in the school, understand the she and the
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Japanese school of thought with this area from their names.
21:57
And these are Treasures for us and all the doors before.
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Someone says, we are praying to the Alan Bates, all of them.
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Our you know, we ask Allah directly.
22:06
You know, when we look at door to Austin, for example, we say a
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llama and Nia Celica were told you who I like.
22:12
So we're saying directly number one was starting out. 01 La.
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We are asking you God you know anyone else and we are turning
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our face towards you. Other than goes by mentioning
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that also on Allah and the a little bit and these are the
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best names that we can happen in Charlotte when we invoke their
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names. The Hodgins is just a repeat of
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God's name. Yeah.
22:35
Reminding us of where God's position is to us.
22:38
Mmm, you know, I was speaking to a share couple days ago.
22:41
I told him about specific a specific question that friend of
22:45
mine had and the sheriff told me something nice.
22:49
He said look at opens. Hey, Sausage idea and go to do a
22:53
number X, Y Zed. Wow, I think I have the top of
22:56
his head. You know.
22:57
There's a specific do and of course there's etiquettes to
22:59
prank the last 12 hours. So you need to be a little you
23:01
need to have your needs to be that you need to be the right
23:03
state of mind. And then of course, the best way
23:05
to pray the last month I was taught to us by doesn't make
23:08
something of myself like there's ways to do things and to do it
23:11
the right way. So they teach us the formula on
23:12
how to get there. And the last thing I'll say is
23:15
you know, there's a story of State Department Sahara so I'm
23:18
alive and how say there's a knob when she was a young girl
23:22
Witness the doll, her mother made overnight.
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I'm sure you guys know the story.
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Say the zeinab learned about the etiquettes of praying to Allah
23:29
making doll overnight, she said from the time, my mother
23:32
finished Asia. Saleh to the time.
23:35
She started her job. She was in, so Jude, and she was
23:39
making her daughter at the end of the night when she finished,
23:41
her father, asked them, what were you praying for so long?
23:44
How many dollars do you have to ask?
23:45
From God? Surely you can't ask for that
23:47
many things for yourself. Say the factors are applied and
23:50
I'm paraphrasing. Of course, say, I wasn't even
23:52
pray for myself. I had so many others to pray for
23:54
before I even talked about last Friday.
23:56
Wow, like a larger from a dark. I just remembered that.
23:59
What does that mean? Put your neighbor before.
24:02
So for example, your neighbors before yourself.
24:04
So before you pray for your own self or your own house, you
24:07
pray, you pray to was around pray for others and I remember
24:09
hearing this grown up from the pulpits.
24:11
Yeah, yeah. So I just reminded me of back.
24:13
Like Miley says, one for your brother's what you want for
24:17
yourself. Yeah, heavily I think might help
24:20
in a sec. Yeah.
24:23
I've used remind me of my God, this is still.
24:28
What's that again? When you give someone a gift for
24:38
example I'm not going to buy you the cheap ring.
24:41
I'll get you the ring that I would want for myself.
24:47
This was actually a gift to the by a friend.
24:49
There you go while Shawn short hundred absolutely loved it
24:52
because, you know, it's bright. Green said colors right with.
24:56
Yes. But those those kind of dogs
24:57
that usually the most sincere, you know, like we, you know,
25:00
sometimes you can tell, when someone is truly sincere to you,
25:03
to know. I mean, when they truly wish the
25:05
best for you can tell, like, their way they speak to you,
25:07
their body language their facial expression, sincerity sincerity,
25:10
it shines through sincerity. And, you know, sometimes we sin
25:13
so much, you know, why not? Let's be honest, everyone.
25:16
Everyone has their own, sorry. I'm going to put one on fallible
25:19
and we sin and sometimes these sins that we are doing.
25:23
I don't know what they are to be honest, but some sense actually
25:26
do collect create a veil between you and Allah subhanahu
25:28
wa'ta'ala. How do we know this to our
25:30
Command? There's a phrase that's line and
25:33
it says Allah Mark Foley at the nobility taboo so Allah forgive
25:38
me those sins that Prevail a barrier.
25:42
Have caged my prayers. Yeah yeah.
25:44
It's so good. So if you try to use supplicate,
25:46
you know, you spent your entire life supplication to God for
25:49
something and it's not happening, maybe it's a certain
25:52
scene you're doing. Do some stuff are sloppy stuff
25:56
happening. Maybe Allah answer was so of
25:58
sins day today, for example, listening to music is a one big
26:02
problem and why I say music is a big problem.
26:04
A lot of people unfortunately, I think it's very good become very
26:08
normal to have music at home. You know, back in the day, we
26:10
still go Supermarket, will hear the music or, you know,
26:13
sometimes in the car on the radio on Now you go, family is
26:16
mom's parents house while they're cooking.
26:18
The music is really good and, and when music is being played
26:21
in your house, we are known by the virus when Allah and the
26:24
acronym Bates, angels and on the house, do you know?
26:27
One gone? So sorry.
26:29
I said those gets it when angels are not there.
26:31
Yeah, the Baroque is removed from the house and when you make
26:34
any supplication, it doesn't go to a La, Jolla.
26:36
Just going to add to what you guys said about cooking and
26:40
stuff like that. You know, even if a family
26:43
doesn't listen to mainstream, Theme music.
26:45
Yeah they might Listen to For example Qawwali, you know, guys
26:49
know Qawwali. Yeah, I'd like, obviously South
26:51
Asian poetry and Nusrat Fateh Ali, Khan.
26:54
All that kind of old-school style or an Arab communities.
26:57
You might listen to what some of the current viral one that Ali
27:01
Ali Ali Ali Ali. Yeah you don't want to have
27:03
those. Yeah, I'm new to this.
27:05
Let's have some control. My God.
27:10
I'm not the reason why I'm saying this is because these are
27:13
these are typical people. Like genres of music which
27:16
people they were all is fine. The snow is old-school,
27:18
traditional Arab Music. We'll all school traditional
27:21
Asian music, I'll have them. I think we're going off topic
27:24
but don't you think, sometimes people might listen to these
27:27
things because they think it's better than me.
27:29
Listening to the nation trying to say man that you listen to,
27:31
these kind of things. It might be a stepping stone for
27:33
them to stop listening to music. That's exactly my style music.
27:36
It's still music, like this is exactly the point of make like
27:39
we might listen to things which are not mainstream and that for
27:42
us our cultural and all I've been From childhood, it's just a
27:45
voice and drums or whatever. But stuff like that is, is
27:49
either stepping stone to something worse, or it can be a
27:51
stepping stone to something better.
27:53
If you're used to Qawwali, for example, then you're listening
27:55
to the praise of my Mallet. For example, you can transition
27:57
naturally into into a Halal alternative, you know, and maybe
28:01
that maybe that is part of something or someone.
28:15
And you know, one more thing and I think it's very important that
28:18
you mention it is that we need to be more thankful and grateful
28:22
to Allah subhanaw taala because, you know, if you actually think
28:25
of it and before coming on the podcast was thinking of this
28:28
because you know Allah is a semi Alia me know, if he listens to
28:32
everyone and he knows everything.
28:33
So already knows what you want to ask and he will hear you when
28:37
you, when you speak to Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala.
28:39
But you know, when we pray every day.
28:41
No, RG W, praying how many times?
28:44
Five times praying 5 times. Okay, let's check.
28:46
If you're not missing, I was testing you.
28:59
Laura's for others for murder mystery, three eyeshadows for 17
29:04
times. We are saying Sami Allahu liman
29:07
hamidah. I'm either Allah, has the one,
29:10
who is praising him, who single-handedly love someone
29:13
because you need to be grateful. For example, I have a home, I
29:16
have a roof sale handle of stop asking for a villain emotion.
29:21
Be grateful for what you have. That's very grateful.
29:23
You are the more thankful you're not a lot to Allah subhanahu
29:26
wa'ta'ala. He will bless you with your
29:27
hijacked and shown I think if ultimately we live our lives by
29:31
a principle of tawakkal Allah trusting in a lot of pain.
29:35
Tada but trying your best my my grandmother may Allah protect
29:39
her has a saying that she's to us from child is like a like a
29:44
proverb proverb. Do what you can to your best.
29:47
You've got the rest. The idea being is that my work
29:50
Yeah. Well kill hottest.
29:52
Try and make your income try and pray.
29:54
You the hottest. You can try and support your
29:56
family to the best of your ability, leave, everything else.
29:59
Our last month other you, it's out of our hands, you know?
30:02
For example, when we say in other life, when I laid her on
30:05
your own, we assume life comes from God and death comes from.
30:09
It goes, we return to God through death, but in my opinion
30:12
and I again, we're not Scholars. So I was but I try to apply that
30:15
to various different elements in life like things come and go.
30:19
People come and go sit. Situations, come and go
30:21
circumstances. All of these problems and
30:23
blessings will come and go. So you might be blessed with
30:27
good health right now. Handler will will young enough
30:30
and almost seems like to perfect as a coming full circle, full
30:33
circle, wherever you start with something, it always ends up
30:35
there. Yeah, mmm.
30:37
Yeah. Like, we might be getting a
30:40
blessing now, which we won't get in the future, you know, we
30:42
might be getting a having an issue now, which were having a
30:45
future, but the idea being is that issue or what we perceive
30:48
to be, an issue is come from God, but it will return To go to
30:51
God and say, with a blessing he's just comes down to
30:53
mentality and trusting in God sent making dad said, no, that's
30:58
it. Just make sure everyone's
31:00
subscribe to the channel. Yeah, and I had one thing
31:02
though. Yeah.
31:03
They say, Donna. Loom.
31:04
What's the job? Ask your mother to pray for you.
31:07
I said And subscribe to aftermarket.
31:10
Make sure, make sure your parents, you're always on your
31:12
parents. Good side.
31:13
Yeah, they loving you and they will keep you in their prayers.
31:18
Yes true sure. Like you can be Be practicing
31:20
Muslim, go to mosque, do a lot on, but was that Quran and
31:24
everything but you go home, your mom asks you please fold the
31:27
laundry before you go to sleep something like as small as that.
31:31
Yeah. Whatever.
31:32
What don't they tell you don't come home too late.
31:35
Don't come home. Don't want to be late.
31:36
Yeah, it might be something as small as that which is stopping
31:39
a lot from from giving us. I remember my mom will stay
31:42
awake to like I'm home even though I said come back home
31:44
from Liberty View, by the way we still be based in is correct.
31:49
You come all the way. Back to the last trick.
31:51
Make it because it makes them worried.
31:53
Yeah. That's that's the heart of a
31:54
mother and you know, having lies underneath our feet.
31:56
So Charlotte she prays for you Allah will grant you the Hajj
32:00
that's all our mothers, all your mothers and in sha Allah, you
32:03
know, we will get to a place where we are sure a lot more
32:06
confident in talking about our religion, protecting our
32:10
religion, to those who attack it and understanding what we
32:13
believe in and our relationship with the last month.
32:15
I love. Because ultimately, that's what
32:17
what the religions about. You know, that's what we're here
32:19
for. We have one A chance we have one
32:21
shot and then that's it. You know, we don't get a second
32:24
chance at life. So every every second passing is
32:27
an opportunity to make or break salvation, you know, today could
32:32
be the day where we gain salvation and we attain Heaven,
32:36
you get me. Mmm.
32:36
Like or it could be the day where you can make the
32:39
difference for the rest of your life.
32:40
Yeah. Yeah, subhanallah.
32:42
Alright guys. I think that's hopefully
32:45
hopefully good enough. It's been a nice topic.
32:48
So enjoyable to get interesting Is bit different about full
32:52
circle? Has a big range are for Circle.
32:54
Yeah, yeah that's guys what I would say, you know, I'm at
32:58
every time we say, pray for us to pray for us because a lot of
33:02
times, we genuinely need people to make their own are always in
33:07
our prayers. Hello sugar.
33:09
Yeah. When someone uses to you, pray
33:10
for us all. Pray for me, you know?
33:13
We st. Charles II.
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Make sure you do, pray for them. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
33:19
That's what I was saying, because we We've had many
33:20
scenarios where they are. Did you pray for us?
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Yeah we remembered you as a genuine.
33:24
Someone says pray for me. They won't you pray.
33:27
You never know what something in their heart.
33:29
You never know what I was going through.
33:30
Yeah. Yeah, sure.
33:32
Whether it's bullying, whether it's in deeper, but people are
33:35
going through a lot and shovel display each other or guys,
33:39
comment down below. Tell us what you think.
33:40
Have you been in situations which reminded you of this
33:42
conversation? If you've listened for this
33:44
long, put the prayer hands on the comments.
33:46
Yeah, please we know your real one, this one.
33:49
Yeah. That This one this one, niche-y
33:53
just so they know which is why not the why not the doll
33:56
whichever one it doesn't matter but let's just know.
33:58
They've been this bad as long as this is the real ones are
34:01
prettier one. Anyway guys.
34:03
All right thank you for tuning in and we'll see you next week
34:04
of Summer Lake. Last a lot.