Latest / The Hannah Hammond Show / From X Games Legend to $500M Real Estate Mogul: Dan Brisse’s Secret
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- 0:00You're going to take a risk if you invest, and you're going to
- 0:03take a risk if you don't invest. And from my perspective, I'd far
- 0:07rather take the risk of investing versus taking the risk
- 0:09of letting it just sit there and bleeding out.
- 0:10What's the one truth about success you wish you would have
- 0:13learned earlier? It's really a set of habits and
- 0:15once you have them, it's guaranteed the real gift of
- 0:18building a business or creating major goals and achieving them
- 0:20as the person you need to become.
- 0:21Isn't it fascinating how one one thing can change your life?
- 0:251 Mindset shift. That was the time those books
- 0:27changed my life completely, and once my mindset shift from those
- 0:30few books, the rest has been history.
- 0:32If you were going to die tomorrow and I was going to die
- 0:34tomorrow and you had to leave one lesson to the younger
- 0:36generation, what would it be? Welcome back again to the Hannah
- 0:42Hammond Show. I'm here today with Dan Breezy,
- 0:44who is one of our awesome clients at HP Capital.
- 0:46So we get to see the inside of his values, his integrity, and
- 0:50his performance with his real estate investment firm that now
- 0:53manages almost $500 million in assets under management.
- 0:57And he has raised nearly $200 million in equity capital for
- 1:00his multifamily syndications and now in the triple net car wash
- 1:04space also. But before he got into real
- 1:07estate, he was one of the best snowboarders in the world and is
- 1:10a four time X Games medalist. And we'll have to play some of
- 1:14the clips as B roll on this film because he has jumped from
- 1:17building to building, done backflips and 17 foot jumps and
- 1:22distances and is an absolute extreme athlete and just an
- 1:25incredible human. And beyond the success and the
- 1:28awards and the medals and the fame and real estate and in
- 1:32snowboarding, he's also deeply A deeply conscious human and he's
- 1:36done so much personal development work.
- 1:38And I was able to, you know, share meal with him yesterday
- 1:42and just it's amazing to see the type of work that he has done on
- 1:45himself and the kind of father he is, the kind of husband he is
- 1:48and the kind of leader that he is in his company and how he
- 1:51serves his clients and his family to the absolute maximum
- 1:53potential. So I'm very honored to have you
- 1:55on the show today and I'm excited for this conversation
- 1:57ahead. Well, thank you for the intro.
- 1:59Well said, well spoken. Thank you.
- 2:01Thank you. Thanks for coming on the show
- 2:02and to be here and we're happy to to be able to finance some of
- 2:06your projects at HP Capital. And you know, we see a lot of
- 2:09sponsors, we see a lot of leaders and not all of them are
- 2:12great. You know, and we always talk
- 2:14about or I always talk about the jockey and the horse, right?
- 2:17The horse is the investment vehicle, but the jockey is the
- 2:20operator and the jockey is at times and most often more
- 2:24important than the horse. And I know you, you Co founded
- 2:27Equity Towers, which is your, I'm sorry, Granite Towers, which
- 2:31is your equity real estate investment firm with your
- 2:33partner Mike, who unfortunately couldn't be here today.
- 2:36But you also co-authored a book and you talk about the
- 2:38importance of the operator and how to choose those right
- 2:42partners in your business, in your life.
- 2:44So we'll, we'll dive into that. But before we get into that, I
- 2:47want to dive into your origin story and what your childhood
- 2:51environment was like and what really drove you to mastery.
- 2:55We know which originally began with snowboarding.
- 2:57Yeah, yeah, you bet. I I appreciate that.
- 3:00Yeah. So, you know, for me, growing up
- 3:03in Minnesota, I had big dreams as a kid.
- 3:04I wanted to be a professional snowboarder.
- 3:06And I was sharing last night, one of the best gifts I had
- 3:09growing up was I had parents who believed in me.
- 3:11And so when I told my dad and mom I wanted to be a
- 3:13professional snowboarder, and my dad's straight up said go for
- 3:16it. And it wasn't like, hey, go for
- 3:18it. You're going to guaranteed get
- 3:20there. This is for sure going to
- 3:21happen, but was go for it and be willing to work much harder than
- 3:25you probably think you're going to need to.
- 3:26And you know, I think the piece I would just share with parents
- 3:29that's super powerful that I'll never forget is if your kid or
- 3:34if your child has a goal or a dream to support them.
- 3:37Because you could never know the level of desire they'll create
- 3:41to make that dream come true. You know, when I was a young
- 3:43kid, I didn't know what it was going to take to be a
- 3:45professional snowboarder. I had no idea really.
- 3:47I just knew I loved to snowboard and I knew I wanted to do it.
- 3:49But over the years of obsessively snowboarding and
- 3:53obsessively working at the career and building little bits
- 3:55of confidence, my desire turned into a burning desire.
- 3:58And the burning desire was unstoppable.
- 4:00Couldn't not snowboard, couldn't not think about it.
- 4:03And I've been I'm in school in, in Minnesota and I'm looking at
- 4:05my heroes of on, on videotape and I'm watching these videos
- 4:09every day. And, you know, to see them that
- 4:12far away and to see that big picture, it was, I didn't
- 4:15realize what I was actually going for and how big of a goal
- 4:17it really was. But the part that's just super
- 4:20critical, I think for young kids to hear is to start with
- 4:23something you love, go for it and just take baby steps and be
- 4:26super consistent and be willing to put in work for a long period
- 4:28of time. It's the other piece that I
- 4:30think is happening so much these days.
- 4:31When I hear kids that are young, they want the success overnight,
- 4:34they want it quick, they want six months, a million, a
- 4:36millionaire, multi millionaire. And from my experience, that
- 4:39doesn't happen very often. Maybe you become a YouTube star,
- 4:42maybe become super huge on social media and you create
- 4:44massive wealth quickly. But most people I've got around,
- 4:47and I'm lucky in the world I live to be around a lot of
- 4:49highly successful people. Most people have committed a
- 4:52good decade creative obsessive behavior and eventually with the
- 4:55right failures and not quitting, they find massive success.
- 4:58Yeah. And what what was the original
- 5:01draw towards snowboarding? Was it completely fueled just
- 5:04for the love of the game or did you have any?
- 5:07Like was there another intention behind it, like worthiness or
- 5:12ego or status or things like that?
- 5:14There was a little bit that ended up being a part of my
- 5:16desire, you know, like I grew up pretty much broke or we, we
- 5:21lived in a lower to middle class family lifestyle and my parents
- 5:25worked hard, You know, they worked 9:00 to 5:00.
- 5:28They saved their money, they were frugal.
- 5:30You know, I was just talking. They're, they're 80 years old,
- 5:33been married for 60 or 56 years, 57 years long time.
- 5:38And, you know, seeing them work so hard and not following and
- 5:42doing what they love was really eye opening for me.
- 5:45I always hear my parents talk about how it's like, just do
- 5:47what you love. You know, I didn't do what I
- 5:48wanted to do. I'm not happy with what I'm
- 5:50doing, but I'm doing it. And I just, that was burned into
- 5:53my brain of like, do what you love and chase it.
- 5:55And so by the time I was 13 or 14, I just love snowboarding.
- 5:58It was just like moment to be free, like no one's there
- 6:02telling me how to snowboard. I was in football, basketball
- 6:04and I had all these coaches being like, this is how you do
- 6:06it. This is how we behave.
- 6:08And it's just like with snowboarding, it was you do
- 6:10whatever you want. There's no one telling you what
- 6:11to do. And so and I loved the idea of
- 6:14just sports and being extreme, like taking the risk.
- 6:16The adrenaline was extremely exciting at a young age and it
- 6:19just, it just meshed well for my body type, my size and growing
- 6:23up in Minnesota. So in the beginning it was just
- 6:25purely. The love of the sport.
- 6:27And, you know, eventually it turned into how big of a career
- 6:31can I make this? And that wasn't probably until
- 6:32three to five years of me snowboarding regularly in
- 6:35Minnesota that I was like, OK, there is professional
- 6:37snowboarding in the world and I'm going to chase this dream.
- 6:40What age were you when you decided like I'm going to
- 6:42actually do this for a living? Yeah, such a good question.
- 6:44I was like, I don't know, 1516. And I still remember a very
- 6:48clear decision where I'm going to make this snowboarding career
- 6:51work. I'm going to make it or die
- 6:52trying. And I think that's something
- 6:54that is worth touching on as well.
- 6:56You know, the the level of commitment someone has for a
- 6:58goal. My goodness, commitment moves
- 7:00the world. So if you have a level of I'm
- 7:03going to make it or die trying, mark my words, based on the laws
- 7:07we live in on planet Earth, from my experience, my 41 years of
- 7:10being here, it's coming. You will create it.
- 7:13Just you got it. The commitment is the separator.
- 7:15Yeah, yeah, I think that's what that's what I was going to ask
- 7:18you next is what does it take to go from I'm good at something to
- 7:22I'm the best in the entire world at something?
- 7:25And it's that level of commitment and that grit and
- 7:27that relentless desire to succeed.
- 7:29And there's that quote that says when you want to succeed as
- 7:32badly as you want to breathe, only then will you become
- 7:35successful. So good, so good.
- 7:37I could not agree more. And what's interesting about a
- 7:40goal, or at least my perception of these goals is if you just
- 7:43take steps every day and you do all you can do that day, you
- 7:47will build this confidence. You will start to gain
- 7:50experience and have this unique perspective that nobody else
- 7:53will be able to relate to. And you know, as I went further
- 7:55and further and start started to move out to Salt Lake City and
- 7:58I'm snowboarding every day, I'm working at these really shitty
- 8:01jobs like Blockbuster, which was it was good.
- 8:04It was, you know, gave me some grit and fun.
- 8:06I'd work at Blockbuster at night, I'd snowboard during the
- 8:09day. And I thought within a year of
- 8:10getting to Salt Lake City, I'd be this big time pro
- 8:12snowboarder. And I get out there and I'm
- 8:13like, Dang, these guys that are my heroes who I'm like starting
- 8:17to see and associate with at the mountain, There's so much better
- 8:20than I thought they were. There's such a gap between where
- 8:22I was and where I thought I was that nothing happens year 1 and
- 8:26I'm eating peanut butter and Jelly for breakfast, lunch and
- 8:28dinner and working at Blockbuster snowboarding.
- 8:30Year 2, I go back home to Minnesota to, you know, save
- 8:33money and work. I'm doing odd jobs in the
- 8:36summer. I go back up to Salt Lake.
- 8:37I'm like, OK, this is my year. I'm working at like Red Robin or
- 8:42Red Lobster and I'm like peanut butter and Jelly breakfast,
- 8:45lunch and dinner and nothing happens Year 2 and I'm like,
- 8:48damn, man, I'm this is, this is something where I just didn't at
- 8:5313, had no idea what it would actually take.
- 8:56And that's the piece I just say to the listeners is like, you're
- 8:58going to have to put in work and it's going to be for a long
- 9:02period of time for some, some big goals.
- 9:05And so you're three. I'm like, OK, this is my year.
- 9:08I'm I'm, I'm going to make it this year.
- 9:11Nothing happens. I actually end up getting hurt
- 9:13the third year really badly. I dislocate my kneecap.
- 9:16And at that time I'm dating this girl who says, yeah, you should,
- 9:18you should go to college. And I'm like, you don't
- 9:21understand. I'm committed to this.
- 9:23Either you get on the bus or you're cut.
- 9:25And so she and her mom just couldn't get past college.
- 9:27And I'm like, we're done. So I break up with this girl and
- 9:31then year 4 comes and I've got a great friend who is in Salt Lake
- 9:36City. He's got money and he says, hey
- 9:37Dan, I'm going to take you to Aspen, Co.
- 9:39You need to compete in the Aspen Open and in an Open, anybody can
- 9:43enter. You just pay your 200 bucks.
- 9:45You get to do your run and you get two runs.
- 9:47If you finish top ten, you go to finals, and if you finish in the
- 9:50top finals, top three, you might get a sponsorship.
- 9:53So day one goes by, I've got like 200 kids that are there
- 9:56because anyone can show up and anyone you get, you think you're
- 9:59decent, you pay your money and you get your runs.
- 10:01I end up finishing like 6th that day of qualifier.
- 10:03So I'm in finals the next day at finals, I don't know what the
- 10:06hell happened to other guys, but I end up winning this contest.
- 10:09And that was the beginning of these brands saying, hey, I've
- 10:11been watching Dan, I've seen him, He's had some good parts.
- 10:14This is kind of the breakthrough moment where some brands, one
- 10:16guy at a brand that I've been riding for, for a long time, his
- 10:19name is Blue Montgomery, owner of Capita Snowboard says, hey,
- 10:22you won that contest. I want you to come to a couple
- 10:24events. And it's amazing how quickly
- 10:26when one person puts you on the platform and you've got the
- 10:29preparation, how fast a career can take off because that was
- 10:32literally within a year. I was, I, I had contracts with
- 10:35every brand, Volcom, GoPro, Rockstar, Capita, and it was
- 10:38just completely unknown to a blow up.
- 10:40And that's what everyone said they're like, where'd you come
- 10:42from? You blew up overnight.
- 10:43I'm like, yeah, you weren't there the 1st 10 years when I
- 10:45was eating shit, peanut butter and Jelly, you know, going
- 10:48through injuries. Yeah, Yeah.
- 10:50Everyone's an overnight success after, you know, one or two
- 10:53decades or more, right. So I know is something I'm in
- 10:57this mastermind, commercial real estate mastermind called
- 10:59Commercial Academy. And their slogan is but one
- 11:02deal, one time can change your life forever.
- 11:05And it's such a testament to just that.
- 11:08Like what in real estate, one deal, one time can change the
- 11:12entire trajectory of your entire life, all the work that you put
- 11:15in, all the grinding, all the failures, all the lessons.
- 11:17And same thing with relationships, like you just
- 11:19said, like one right relationship that you're very
- 11:22aligned with, they can help you absolutely explode.
- 11:24And you never know when that relationship is going to present
- 11:26itself. So it's just a matter of rising
- 11:29to the type of person that is deserving of attracting that
- 11:34kind of relationship or that kind of overnight win in your
- 11:37life. Yeah, I couldn't agree more.
- 11:38The the cult that comes to my mind is luck is when
- 11:41preparedness meets opportunity. And I had so many people be
- 11:44like, you're so lucky. And I'm like, you have no idea.
- 11:46You have no idea what I've gone through.
- 11:49I mean, all of my buddies who were really close who are
- 11:50filming with me would always say, Dan, you're crazy, you're
- 11:53nuts, dude, you're so obsessed. You're you work way too hard.
- 11:57Oh my gosh. Like all you think about is
- 11:59snowboarding and what's interesting about it.
- 12:00And as when I got to the top and I got around a bunch of other
- 12:03pro snowboarders, they were all like me.
- 12:05They're all obsessed. They're all had a one track
- 12:07mind. Everything else came second.
- 12:09It just didn't nothing else mattered.
- 12:11It was the one thing. And so whatever, you know, the
- 12:14listeners goals are like the piece that I just can't
- 12:19emphasize enough is get into something you're good at.
- 12:21And you know, that's the other piece that I think about a lot
- 12:23too. When I was in high school,
- 12:24there's a lot of things I wasn't good at.
- 12:25You know, I wasn't, I was a decent student.
- 12:27I was getting like B's and some A's, whatever, but I wasn't like
- 12:29this straight A student. I didn't do that well in school
- 12:33and I didn't take it super personally or hard and worry
- 12:36about college too much because I had this other thing I was
- 12:38really into and I found my strength and I just went deep on
- 12:41my strength. And so I think in life, if you
- 12:44can figure out what you're good and everyone's good at something
- 12:47get good at, get clear on what you like to do and what you're
- 12:49naturally good at and go deep on that and you become can become
- 12:52so outstanding. I love that so much because a
- 12:55lot of people focus on improving their weaknesses, right?
- 12:59Which is always good to, to grow your weaknesses and all that.
- 13:02But your focus should be on improving your strengths and
- 13:06your gift and operating in your zone of genius.
- 13:08Because find those strengths and you learned that early on
- 13:11instead of resisting the things that you weren't so good at or
- 13:14weren't so passionate about, you leaned all in.
- 13:16And we're absolutely relentlessly committed to that
- 13:18one thing that you knew you were really good at.
- 13:20Yeah, exactly. And that's the thing.
- 13:21When you're in that sweet spot, you'll want to do more.
- 13:24You'll want to put in the work. You won't have to force
- 13:26yourself. You know, I always, I hear a lot
- 13:29of folks talk about how like I'm, I've got to use this
- 13:31discipline to do this thing and I'm like, goodness, do you have
- 13:34a why? Because if you're why is big,
- 13:36you know the how is easy and so. I'd go back to your.
- 13:39Original question of why I got into snowboarding, It was
- 13:41definitely partly money, you know, for me, I was like, hey,
- 13:44how can I make a lot of money and help my parents who've been
- 13:46working their tails off and, you know, live in this place of
- 13:50passion and, and have wealth. So it was, it was a two-part
- 13:54process and I'm, I'm grateful to, you know, follow it and
- 13:57chase it. How did you know the income
- 14:00potential of a professional snowboarder?
- 14:03Yeah, I didn't know exactly. It was, it was hearsay for a
- 14:07long time of what these guys are making.
- 14:09And finally when I got into probably Year 5 or year six of
- 14:11my career, I got to know people in the industry who knew some of
- 14:14the top guys. And I heard, you know what
- 14:16they're making between 7:50 and a million.
- 14:18And for a kid making literally 5000 a year driving beater cars,
- 14:23eating peanut butter and Jelly, I'm like, dude, that's enough
- 14:25for me. So, you know, looking back, I'm
- 14:30glad I didn't get discouraged thinking now you're not making
- 14:33many millions. It was, it was just, it was
- 14:36enough to be excited about doing it.
- 14:37So that's it, wasn't it? Wasn't clear though when I first
- 14:40started. Yeah, yeah, it's so interesting.
- 14:42As you continue to grow in life, you continue to unlock new doors
- 14:46to new levels, and then you always find yourself like at the
- 14:49bottom again to somebody, right, You're at somebody's bottom,
- 14:51there's always somebody ahead of you or more earning potential,
- 14:55whatever. And to some people making
- 14:57750,000 or $1,000,000, to most people, 99% of people, that
- 15:01would be something that they don't even believe is even
- 15:03possible. But then you get there and then
- 15:05you realize like though there's people making, you know, 100
- 15:07million a year or a billion dollars a year or whatever,
- 15:09which is crazy. But I think just to hone in on
- 15:13what you said, the amount of pain and failures and commitment
- 15:19and work and grind and growth that you have to go through to
- 15:23be successful long term. You can't withstand that if
- 15:27you're not passionate about something.
- 15:29I don't believe because it no normal person would be able to
- 15:33withstain the kind of storms that you're going to face.
- 15:35Agreed, agreed. And you know, it's amazing as as
- 15:38the career went on and I started to receive more accolades and
- 15:41I'm I'm you know, on the cover of magazines.
- 15:43I'm traveling the world. My parents can't believe it's
- 15:46happening. I'm telling calling from Japan
- 15:48and then I'm in New Zealand and you know, I'm I'm winning X
- 15:51Games gold medals. I'm on TV and my parents are
- 15:53watching from Minnesota. And you know, it was just this
- 15:56like, holy shit of my dream is here.
- 15:58And what's crazy about it and is that at the time of being at the
- 16:02peak, I could see the end. And that was a moment where I
- 16:06got to know all these guys who were 5 or 10 years in front of
- 16:09me and I saw their careers winding down in front of me.
- 16:12And it was so scary to see. Like I'm telling you, so many
- 16:16athletes are living beyond their means if athletes.
- 16:19Just took a little bit of. What they're making and invested
- 16:22into something that created cash flow and they got on the side of
- 16:25hopefully saving on tax a little bit.
- 16:27They'll never have to work again the rest of their life.
- 16:29But what happens time and time again, almost like clockwork, is
- 16:33these guys sign these big contracts and potentially gals.
- 16:36But in my world, guys would sign these big contracts.
- 16:38They buy a big home, they buy a sweet car, everyone thinks
- 16:41they're rich and they got a mortgage for 30,000 a month.
- 16:43And then 034 years later, there's an injury or something
- 16:46changes and the contract ends and they have a mortgage payment
- 16:49that they can't pay. Once the contract ends, the
- 16:51home's gone, the car's gone, and they're literally back at the
- 16:54grocery store. And I saw it.
- 16:56One guy, one of my really good friends, Nate, got paid out
- 16:582,000,000 bucks from one of the brands when he got when he has
- 17:01his retirement bonus. And he took his 2,000,000 bucks,
- 17:04spent six months traveling the world with his five best
- 17:06friends, partying, tattoos came back and he said, money ruined
- 17:11me. And I'm like, Nate, money didn't
- 17:12ruin you, buddy. You just didn't know what to do
- 17:14with it. And so when I see athletes that
- 17:18are bawling, I just think in my head, I hope they're clear on,
- 17:23on this is a very short period of time.
- 17:26It's short lived. What are you going to do to take
- 17:29what you're making now and set you up the rest of your life?
- 17:32Because money at a young age is a superpower, with time
- 17:35compounding it. Yeah, yeah.
- 17:37And I see that so many times in the athletes that I meet, they
- 17:39think that it's never going to end and they think that that
- 17:42that money is just going to continue on forever.
- 17:44And it goes so fast. I mean, you can blow any amount
- 17:47of money in a very short period of time.
- 17:50And I don't think there's enough education out there around
- 17:53financial intelligence. And, and so that's why like
- 17:55mentors of mine, like Robert Kiyosaki, where I read his book
- 17:58very young and I believe you read that book too, which is
- 18:01what segues you into real estate, which we'll tap into in
- 18:03a second. But just that, that ability to
- 18:06automate, automate your investing.
- 18:09So I learned this from David back a couple weeks ago.
- 18:12He's a massive multibillion dollar fund manager, very
- 18:15successful author and speaker, but he talks about automating
- 18:19your savings. So 15% off the top, no matter
- 18:21what you immediately put that into, whether it's real estate,
- 18:24whether it's a stock account, 4-O1K self-directed IRA, like
- 18:27you can open up an egg corns account and where every single
- 18:29week or two weeks or whatever, that gets automated.
- 18:33And then over time that just compounds.
- 18:34And so if you put these simple tools in place, you can create
- 18:37massive financial freedom even on a low salary job.
- 18:40You don't even need to be making $1,000,000 a year.
- 18:42Yeah, it's so much easier always to go up to, to like if you,
- 18:46let's just say you're making 500 grand a year and you live on,
- 18:49you know, 150 of it. It's so much easier to make the
- 18:52lifestyle nicer than to go backwards.
- 18:54If you're like, oh, I got it, I got to reverse it.
- 18:56Once you're getting used to a lifestyle and a home and a car,
- 18:59it's so much more challenging to go backwards where if you can
- 19:02just take that for athletes and people making good money at a
- 19:05young age or anyone making good money, take a three to five year
- 19:07window and act like you're making very little and invest it
- 19:11like a beast in in in great assets.
- 19:13Great. You know, with right advisors,
- 19:16like unbelievable how much different place you could
- 19:19because gosh, if I had, if I could have helped Nate when he
- 19:22got the 2 million and I'm like, hey, dude, here's a million.
- 19:24Go have fun. Let's take this million and
- 19:26let's invest it. You would be living in a place
- 19:29of complete freedom. Yeah, and it's a lot harder to
- 19:32make $1,000,000 again and it then it is to just invest what
- 19:35you already have and keep going. That's exactly what I did from
- 19:39the lessons of Rich Dad, Poor Dad, where he said, OK, use your
- 19:41income to acquire assets and then use the passive income from
- 19:44your assets to pay for your liabilities and your lifestyle.
- 19:47And so that's what I did. And in real estate it takes time
- 19:49to have enough passive income and enough cash flow to have a
- 19:53good lifestyle because it takes time for the assets to
- 19:55appreciate and yadda yadda. But that's what allowed me to
- 19:59become a millionaire by 25 years old.
- 20:00And I didn't make $1,000,000. I made 50,000 here, you know,
- 20:0450,000 here, 30,000 here, 20,000 here, whatever.
- 20:07And as much of the percentage as I possibly could out of that
- 20:10money, I immediately invested that into assets that I knew
- 20:13could build up my passive income.
- 20:15And so I didn't start, you know, just in a few years of growth
- 20:18and the appreciation in the market and the value add that I
- 20:20did to the properties. I was a millionaire and I
- 20:23didn't, you know, I, I had only probably invested less than
- 20:27$200,000. And so that's just the power of
- 20:29what wealth can do or any amount of income can do if you you
- 20:33strategize and you invest it properly and don't just want
- 20:35instant gratification. And what I love about your story
- 20:38is you didn't grow up with a bunch of gifts you didn't have,
- 20:40like this huge pot of gold given to you at a young age.
- 20:44You came from a very challenging upbringing and turned it into a
- 20:48beautiful solution at a relatively young age.
- 20:51So I just, it's hands, hands. Yeah.
- 20:53Round of applause. Beautiful work.
- 20:55And hopefully people who are listening here that is possible
- 20:58to go and create that for themselves.
- 21:00It is possible and we, we were talking about that last night
- 21:03and after our conversation, I actually went to Robert's house
- 21:06because he lives right by where you were staying.
- 21:08And we were just talking about the power of belief and people,
- 21:13people always think like that's not possible.
- 21:16And then I was talking last night and I'm like, we do you
- 21:21realize we're here, we exist. There's we're in this universe
- 21:24of expanding infinite nothingness where this flesh
- 21:27bodies with consciousness and brains, and there's thousands of
- 21:31species all across the planet of just what we know.
- 21:34Like anything is possible. If you don't think that, if you
- 21:38can understand that existence is possible, then how could you not
- 21:42believe that becoming a lean air or becoming a professional
- 21:46athlete or anything that you could possibly dream of is
- 21:48possible? And so I think that's just the
- 21:50biggest thing. And if we can zoom out and
- 21:53actually see anything is possible, life itself, existence
- 21:57itself is nothing but infinite possibility, then we can level
- 22:01up our capacity to actually grow.
- 22:03And we were talking about that like, am I thinking too small?
- 22:06And what is too, too small thing?
- 22:08And how do you even acknowledge that you are thinking too small?
- 22:11And how do you think bigger? And So what did that?
- 22:14Well, First off, before we go there, how did you manage your
- 22:17relationship between courage and fear as you were becoming an
- 22:21athlete and then shifting into real estate, starting fresh from
- 22:24not knowing anything? Yeah, man, that's a great
- 22:26question. I, I my relationship with fear
- 22:29and fear has been such a big part of my life.
- 22:32Every time we would film at a spot, if you watch some of the
- 22:35videos, you could see like it was very, very highly chance of
- 22:39major injury or potentially death.
- 22:42And so there were times when we would be hitting these features
- 22:45where, you know, I'm gridlocked. I'm my fear is I literally, I'm
- 22:50almost shaking and I know we have to go like this.
- 22:53We've we've spent this time, we're in the unique location.
- 22:56I picked the spot that I want to hit.
- 22:58Nobody else said, let's do it. We spent four or five hours
- 23:01setting it up and who's going to hit it?
- 23:02No one's going to hit it other than the riders that are there.
- 23:05And and you do rock, paper, scissors.
- 23:06Ro Shambo, you know, rock, paper, scissors, and if you
- 23:08lose, you're going 1st. And the 1st is always the most
- 23:11dangerous because you don't know your speed, you don't know how
- 23:13the jumps going to be. You don't know if it's going to
- 23:15have this, that there's variables.
- 23:17And so the best thing I can say with risk from my perspective of
- 23:22being in a world of potential death and major injury is do all
- 23:27you can do to prepare to take as many risks out of the way as
- 23:30possible and prepare like your life depends on it in the, in
- 23:34your quiet time. So that when the moments come,
- 23:37you've done everything you could possibly think of to make it as
- 23:39safe as possible. And then even then, there's
- 23:42still risk at hand. And so, you know, it's a, it's a
- 23:45decision inside a committed decision of I'm, this is what I
- 23:49love to do. This is what I'm here to do.
- 23:50I look back at it now, I wouldn't do it ever again.
- 23:52Like if someone said, hey Dan, if you just jump this building
- 23:54right here, it's a 30 foot gap. This building to that building
- 23:56will give you 5. And I'd be like, no possible
- 23:57way. And that's only, you know, six
- 23:59or seven years ago. So my I can see now I always
- 24:01hear people say like, yeah, Dan's crazy.
- 24:03He's risking his life. This is too dangerous.
- 24:05A lot of the filmers and photographers weren't excited to
- 24:07be there. Sometimes we're hitting these
- 24:08spots because they were so dangerous.
- 24:10And now I can see why. When I was in the moment, I was
- 24:13so used to it. I was so conditioned.
- 24:15I was so trained. I'm like, this is just the next
- 24:17step. You know, this is this is the
- 24:19logical next step. And so with fear, you just
- 24:23prepare all you can and when it's go time, you got to take
- 24:26the risk. You know, a similar one I deal
- 24:27with right now is ice baths. I hate cold water.
- 24:30And for some reason it's like I just have to go do it.
- 24:33And so the moment of like, what am I here for?
- 24:37It's going to in the you got ice in water and you're sitting in
- 24:39ice water. I don't know how it is for any
- 24:41for you if. You don't enjoy it.
- 24:43Either it is brutal, it's the thing that I literally shake
- 24:45before I get in and every time I do it, I get in the water, it's
- 24:49less painful than it was before I get in.
- 24:51And the lesson is, is, is just go, you know, like there's
- 24:54you're going to be fine. Just go.
- 24:56So I think that's how we're looking back.
- 24:59There was a lot of fear dropping in.
- 25:00There was a lot of fear transitioning to real estate,
- 25:02but just go. You got, you got to go.
- 25:05What do you think that success changed who you were?
- 25:11Or did it accentuate more of who you already were?
- 25:14I think that the process of evolving to the goal changed me
- 25:20for sure. Yeah, the the person I needed to
- 25:23become was very different than the person I was.
- 25:25And I think looking back that and even now in business, that's
- 25:29the thing that's most exciting for me to this day.
- 25:31The accolades, the money, all of it is really cool, but the long
- 25:35lasting excitement and passion that keeps hitting over and over
- 25:38again is the self progress, the self growth, personal growth.
- 25:42I read a quote by Ray Dalio this morning that I can't remember
- 25:45exactly what the words are, but basically the real gift of
- 25:47building a business or creating major goals and achieving them
- 25:50as the person you need to become.
- 25:51And so you know, that's true for me and I don't see it ever
- 25:56changing is like one of the the foundational piece of why I'm
- 26:00doing what I'm doing. Yeah.
- 26:02Yeah, it's a it's who you become on the journey.
- 26:05And you can't, you have to become, we talked about that
- 26:07earlier. You have to become the kind of
- 26:08person that deserves the kind of life that you want and you have
- 26:12to have the capacity to actually hold that life.
- 26:15So was in in snowboarding. Was there a defining moment for
- 26:22you that changed who you are or how you saw the world?
- 26:26Or was it just a series of events and training and
- 26:29becoming? Another good question and I I
- 26:32did have two moments, one I shared last night at dinner.
- 26:34We were in Fairbanks, it was 2 in the morning and the film went
- 26:37for my 5th or 6th X Games part for ESPN.
- 26:41And I had an error on one of the jumps where I slipped out and I
- 26:45came flying next to a handrail. And if I would have hit it, I
- 26:47would have definitely broke my back.
- 26:49And it was a moment I'm like. I've got a child.
- 26:51He's one, he's up here with me. My wife and my son were
- 26:55traveling with me at that time. And I'm just thinking, what
- 26:58would it be like if I was in a wheelchair the rest of my life?
- 27:01And so that was #1 then later that year, we're in Alaska,
- 27:05filming in Haines, AK. And in Haines, AK, we're using
- 27:10helicopters. And so our crew of three riders
- 27:13and three riders are in two different helis, and we're
- 27:15basically hitting different Ridge lines.
- 27:18And as we're filming, one rider gets dropped off or two riders
- 27:21get dropped off. The heli films you on the way
- 27:23down and you get your suit back up.
- 27:25And you keep doing these lines. And while we're out there, the
- 27:28helicopters are communicating. And all of a sudden, our
- 27:31helicopter, we get done with our line and our helicopter takes
- 27:33off and we're like, what the heck's going on?
- 27:35And our guide who said standing there says, hey, we just had
- 27:38someone got buried in your crew. And I'm like, who got buried?
- 27:43And the message comes back, Bodie, Bodie's a good friend of
- 27:45mine. And I'm like, OK, so we're
- 27:48listening in the Backcountry to our guides, walkie-talkie while
- 27:52they're while they're dealing with this emergency.
- 27:55And our heli goes over there to help dig out.
- 27:56Because when someone goes down, all the hellies get together,
- 27:59all the people that are there get together, go and find this
- 28:01person, pull them out. And Bodie ends up setting off a
- 28:04bus, like a bus size, school bus size cornice.
- 28:08And he scales down this face with his cornice, and he gets
- 28:11buried 4 feet under. And luckily, these guides are
- 28:15unbelievable in Haynes and they're tracking him, following
- 28:17him. Down the hill.
- 28:18Following, watching him, watching him, watching him.
- 28:20Finally, at the end there's a Slough where you can see him get
- 28:22buried and the Slough keeps coming and we see the point
- 28:25where he was last seen. Hell, he drops.
- 28:27The entire crew sprints to where they think it is.
- 28:29Beacons are out, you know, we find them or they find them.
- 28:34Boom, you probe and they probe. First hit, they nailed them.
- 28:38They're like we've got him right here and in that type you're in
- 28:40this AV format for shoveling. Person up front is shoveling as
- 28:43hard as they can, giving it everything they got when they're
- 28:46tired. After like 20 seconds, boom,
- 28:47that guy goes to the back. The next guy pulls up 20 seconds
- 28:49as hard as you can. They go straight down the probe
- 28:524 feet and hit it, hit his mouth right there.
- 28:54They found him like as fast as you could have possibly found
- 28:57him. He's blue.
- 28:58And that was the moment he and they flew him to Seattle and he
- 29:00lived, but that was the moment. I'm like, I love snowboarding
- 29:05and it's been really great. But at what point is it enough
- 29:09for me? And that was really kind of
- 29:10those moments where it it, it was a really big accelerator of
- 29:14like, I'm out, but you know, I can't just cut the career.
- 29:16This is my only source of income.
- 29:18What am I really going to do after I'm done?
- 29:20I don't know if your listeners are listening.
- 29:22They're like, hey, I can see an end coming.
- 29:23That was me. Like I can see this end coming.
- 29:25I don't want to do it anymore. As much as I love doing it.
- 29:27My life's changed. I had children.
- 29:29And so that was the moment. Those are the two moments that
- 29:32really were the deciding factors for me.
- 29:34And then from that point, how did you learn about real estate
- 29:38and decide to make that transition of above all other
- 29:40things that you could have done? Yeah, that's what I I just was
- 29:43obsessively reading about what to do with the money I was
- 29:45making. I luckily had some really good
- 29:47friends back in Minnesota who are wealthy.
- 29:49I would stay connected with them and ask them what they do with
- 29:52their money. And I just started reading books
- 29:53and I came across Rich Air, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki, came
- 29:57across Tax free wealth by Tom Wheelwright.
- 30:00I came across Ken Mcelroy's book the ABC's of real estate
- 30:02investing. And I read a book called Retire
- 30:05young, retire rich by Robert. And the idea of creating passive
- 30:09income to exceed my expenses to give me freedom was so exciting.
- 30:14And so I, I still remember I was driving up to Whistler to film
- 30:17and I'm listening to an audio book in the truck and I'm like,
- 30:19well, that's, I'm setting a very large goal today of how much
- 30:23passive income I want to have coming in from my real estate
- 30:25investments or my investments, you know, in a five year period,
- 30:29in a 10 year period, in a 15 year period.
- 30:31And that was the day everything started to shift because I just
- 30:34started to head down that path. So I bought a duplex about a
- 30:37nine Plex, about a 24 unit deal. I started seeing passive income.
- 30:41I learned real quickly that the inflation piece with, you know,
- 30:45the dollar being turned to currency in 1971, that the
- 30:49dollar is going to be toast eventually.
- 30:51And there's something I got to do to get on the side of
- 30:53inflation again from the rich dad company, changing my
- 30:56perspective of everything I learned about the cash flow
- 30:58quadrant of what quadrant am I in my an ESB or I Oh my gosh,
- 31:02I'm an ass. No wonder my tax bill is so
- 31:04high. You know, I'm this kid making
- 31:06money as a snowboarder, obsessively going out this
- 31:10career. And then at the end of my year,
- 31:12I have to pay 40% to the government because I'm in the
- 31:14South quadrant. No one told me that.
- 31:16No one taught me that. And, you know, shame on me to
- 31:18not go and do some research earlier to learn that.
- 31:20But yeah, that was that was the time those books changed my life
- 31:24completely. And once my mindset shift from
- 31:26those few books, the rest has been history and nothing's
- 31:29changed. I've been looking to create
- 31:30passive income, hedge inflation and create depreciation and
- 31:33that's all we still do. Yeah.
- 31:35Isn't it fascinating how one, one thing can change your life,
- 31:39One perspective shift, one mindset shift.
- 31:42And that was the same for me when I read that book and a
- 31:44couple others that you had mentioned, I was like, done.
- 31:46I don't really need to know anything else.
- 31:48I'm just going to go do. I'm just going to execute and
- 31:50learn along the way and make the mistakes I need to make.
- 31:52But we just live in such an amazing world where we have
- 31:56especially now infinite access to information from the most
- 31:59incredibly accomplished leaders in the world.
- 32:01You can literally create an AI advisory firm of every single
- 32:05leader that you look up to and respect that will give you real
- 32:08unbiased advice and keep you out of your echo chamber if you just
- 32:11talk to AI like as your friend, right?
- 32:13And so these tools that we now can build to be able to have
- 32:16these advisors and these mentors, even without any money
- 32:18to have to go pay for them or try to get one-on-one coaching.
- 32:22When you, you know, a lot of athletes that I've talked to or
- 32:26you hear about, they say that when they leave their career,
- 32:29they feel like like they die, like it's some sort of death.
- 32:33Did you experience that at all? Or were you because you went
- 32:36from being the best in the world at something that your whole
- 32:39identity had built around for as long as you could possibly
- 32:41remember to brand new, you know, pond scum in the world of real
- 32:46estate? Like not really knowing anything
- 32:47about it at all other than some theories and concepts from books
- 32:50that you had read. What was that identity shift for
- 32:52you? What did you feel like a kind of
- 32:54death or were you very aligned and grounded in and and excited
- 32:57about this next path? Yeah, I, I know when I talked to
- 33:00a lot of my buddies who transitioned in a harsh way,
- 33:04way, it was extremely painful. And, you know, like I shared
- 33:09back working at the grocery store, drug addiction, suicide,
- 33:12like it's real. It happens.
- 33:15I think about one of my buddies, Edgar Bailey, what an
- 33:17unbelievable child, kid. He ends up getting cut and he
- 33:19committed suicide. And yeah, I think the thing that
- 33:23saved me was I got clear on my next path before, you know, the
- 33:27end came. I started preparing for the
- 33:29exit. I started to get ahead of it.
- 33:33I started to get excited about something else and I started to,
- 33:36I had kids too. I think that was something that
- 33:38helped me tremendously. It's like I can go and sulk in
- 33:40the corner or I've got a child who's dependent on me, you know,
- 33:43so and my wife, she's her only passion is to be a stay at home
- 33:46mom. She wasn't out to create wealth.
- 33:48She doesn't she that's just not her Forte.
- 33:50It's not what she cares about. So I knew it was up to me.
- 33:53So the, the, the best, the, the biggest gift I've got was that I
- 33:58had something else I was excited about and got after it in the
- 34:01middle of my snowboarding career.
- 34:02So that when it did end, you know, I had sixty 7080 units,
- 34:06something like that, and enough passive income where when I got,
- 34:08when I got fired, I was still free.
- 34:11Yeah. And what did you, what part of
- 34:13your identity did you have to let go of to make room for that
- 34:16next chapter? Like as you were transitioning,
- 34:18because it wasn't a cold Turkey stop, you started to acquire
- 34:20assets, but you were still focused on being the best in
- 34:23snowboarding and had to perform there, which is not an easy
- 34:25feat. So was there like an identity
- 34:28shift for you? Yeah, I think the, you know, the
- 34:31athlete in me is still in me. I still, I still see myself as
- 34:34an athlete when I'm in the gym, but that side or that part of me
- 34:38has has gotten much smaller, you know, and, and the other side of
- 34:42being a business entrepreneur, businessman, entrepreneur,
- 34:45leader is, has been, you know, it's just been this give and
- 34:50take and the growth is happening over here.
- 34:52So I, I wouldn't necessarily say something died.
- 34:55And I, I will say like the skill it takes to create what we're
- 34:59creating now. It's somewhat similar in sports.
- 35:02Yeah, it's not sports, but it's similar discipline, similar
- 35:05levels of commitment, similar willingness to take risk,
- 35:08similar willingness of never quitting.
- 35:10And and it's that the foundation of that is what I think is, is
- 35:14really the separator for people to go.
- 35:16From success to success to success to success.
- 35:19Yeah, yeah. Those lessons Trace.
- 35:21And that's why usually I love team members who are athletes or
- 35:24anything like that or, or Marines or anything because it's
- 35:28it's what you just said, the level of commitment, the level
- 35:30of grit, the level of integrity, the level of resilience and all
- 35:35of those things that are so important.
- 35:36It's not just the tactical things like the how on how to
- 35:40create whatever you want isn't really that difficult to
- 35:43understand. I mean, you could ask anybody,
- 35:45you could ask Chad GBT, it'll tell you exactly how to do it.
- 35:47But it's the actual values and those qualities in us that are
- 35:51required to be successful. And that extreme ownership where
- 35:54it's all on you. Like you can't, you can't blame
- 35:57anybody for your failure in snowboarding other than
- 35:59yourself, right? If or or in business or
- 36:01entrepreneurship right like you have to take extreme ownership.
- 36:04Yeah, that's such a good point too.
- 36:05And I think that that's something I hear so much is I
- 36:08see people pointing the finger, you know, saying, yeah, well,
- 36:10this person did this to me or this employer didn't do this.
- 36:13And as long as you keep pointing the finger, you just keep giving
- 36:15the power to them. And as soon as you harness it
- 36:18and say no, no, no, everything is happening because of me.
- 36:22And you realize how much power you hold.
- 36:24Now you can go create anything, but if you don't hold that and
- 36:27you keep giving it away and be like this person did this.
- 36:29My parents didn't help me here. I hear so much, my gosh, I hear
- 36:33friends that I grew up with where, you know, they're a
- 36:36wealthier family and they still are talking about how my dad
- 36:38didn't help me more. And I'm just thinking, dude, you
- 36:42got to let that go. As soon as you let that go and
- 36:44say it's up to me now, you can turn into a superpower.
- 36:46Until that, you're always going to be controlled by outside
- 36:49sources. Yeah, that victimhood and I
- 36:53think Napoleon Hill talks about that in Outwitting the Devil.
- 36:57And you know, 98 out of every hundred people are consumed by
- 37:02fear and scarcity and victimhood.
- 37:05And if you're consumed by those things, you can never create
- 37:07anything because you have to empty your cup.
- 37:10Like you have to let go of the past and, and truly see
- 37:13everything that happened in your life is a blessing.
- 37:15And I know we were talking last night about my my story and some
- 37:18of the challenges and struggles I've gone through.
- 37:21And that moment when I I took realized that I had been
- 37:25resenting or blaming the people in my life who had hurt me over
- 37:29the years so much and was carrying on to so much of that
- 37:32anger and that resentment. And that was holding me back
- 37:35from having exponential growth in all areas of my life.
- 37:38And like true freedom And when I could take extreme
- 37:41accountability and extreme ownership of nothing happened to
- 37:45me and I'll even go beyond, nothing happened for me.
- 37:49I created everything that's happened in my life, even the
- 37:52things not to say like when you're a child, you can't choose
- 37:56certain environments you're in or certain circumstances, but
- 37:58you choose how you respond to those circumstances and you can
- 38:02grow from those. And then I was able to learn
- 38:05those things were my greatest blessings that I could have
- 38:07ever, ever, ever asked for. And now when I could look at
- 38:10those people who had caused me pain in certain periods of my
- 38:13life, now I can look at them with real empathy and real
- 38:17compassion and real love. Because I genuinely feel in my
- 38:20bones and in my veins that they were the greatest gift to me and
- 38:24they were the greatest blessing. And if I didn't have them in my
- 38:28life, then I wouldn't have been able to grow into the person
- 38:30that I am today. And that shift is like really
- 38:33what was able to set me free and be able to attract and have this
- 38:36abundance in my life. Because you have to let it go it
- 38:39or it'll control you forever. Yeah.
- 38:41And I think the way you said that right there, that's what
- 38:43makes you so unique, to be able to realize that and to see that
- 38:47for what it truly is and then to move through it and past it and
- 38:50to release it and to own that you create all results.
- 38:53You have all your power. That is going to be as you
- 38:57continue to evolve your superpower.
- 38:59Congratulations. Thank you.
- 39:01So few people understand that. It's unbelievable to me.
- 39:04I know that's what we're trying to help people do here because
- 39:07it's, it's necessary to reach your highest potential and, and
- 39:10create a life of a love and abundance and passion.
- 39:13So, so when did you decide to start raising capital?
- 39:19You'd done a few deals and then what was that kind of shift for
- 39:22you of like, OK, I want to scale this and I'm going to start
- 39:25raising capital. And what were some of those
- 39:26first conversations like? Because raising capital is so
- 39:29vulnerable. I mean, I told you last night,
- 39:31my biggest fear is managing other people money 'cause I
- 39:35don't want to let anybody down. I want to always do right by
- 39:37them. And I know, you know, people
- 39:39work so hard for their money and I would never want to lose it.
- 39:41And I'm just, I have those those fears or that some of that
- 39:45resistance towards that. So how did you push through that
- 39:48and what were those early conversations like to be able to
- 39:50start, especially with no track record?
- 39:52Like how did you open that door? Yeah, phenomenal question.
- 39:55There's so much to it. You know, like when I first
- 39:58started buying, it was all my money.
- 40:00So I bought a duplex nineplex 24 unit deal.
- 40:02Mike, my business partner who was looking to buy a hundred
- 40:04single family homes. I'm like, hey, let's buy an
- 40:06apartment together. We buy 28 units, something like
- 40:08that. And it's all our own capital,
- 40:11all our experiences. We had some deals that did well.
- 40:14We had one that struggled. And the reality of what I saw
- 40:17was I saw an Ave. to create passive income, to hedge
- 40:21inflation and to create depreciation for me.
- 40:24And I had some success in doing that.
- 40:26On those first few deals. I got lucky to in 2012, like
- 40:29you're at the bottom of the market.
- 40:31I had no idea. It was purely luck of timing.
- 40:34So every deal I'm buying is in this really nice long trajectory
- 40:38headed up to the right and up. And that's not how old market
- 40:42cycle. So there are cycles that have
- 40:43affected like we've seen since 2022.
- 40:45We're in a downward cycle and it's resetting.
- 40:47So there's risk no matter what. And there's risk though, if you
- 40:51don't do anything with your capital.
- 40:52I saw that with my grandma. I saw that with my parents.
- 40:55I see it with my parents. I see with the older generation
- 40:57who saved dollars. So you're going to take a risk
- 41:02if you invest and you're going to take a risk if you don't
- 41:04invest. And from my perspective, I'd far
- 41:07rather take the risk of investing versus taking the risk
- 41:09of letting it just sit there and bleeding out.
- 41:11So for me, raising capital is what I put my money in this
- 41:15deal. And do I see a true opportunity
- 41:17here? And that's the best I can say.
- 41:20Can I guarantee returns? No.
- 41:21Can I guarantee success? No.
- 41:23Can we say it'll all be, you know, exceeding our projections?
- 41:26No, that's not how this is, but it's which risk do you want to
- 41:29have either sit on the sidelines and let your money get eaten up
- 41:34by inflation. The silent wealth killer, silent
- 41:36wealth stealer. You know, quick story, my
- 41:38grandma, she's, she died at 96 when she was in her early ages,
- 41:45she had five kids who were 12 and under.
- 41:46Her husband committed suicide, sadly, and she's got five
- 41:49children. She would live through the Great
- 41:51Depression who are 12 and under and she's on one source of
- 41:54income. All she knew was to work hard
- 41:56and save, work hard and save. And she worked until she was in
- 41:58her mid to late 80s. Most frugal woman I've ever seen
- 42:01in my life. Hardest worker, just
- 42:04unbelievably like full of grit from the pain she went through.
- 42:08And at the end of her life, she needed to go into assisted
- 42:10living facilities and the assisted living facility, it can
- 42:13be 891015 thousand a month like we talked about last night.
- 42:16And her savings that she saved for her entire life got depleted
- 42:20within a few months. And so for me, it was when I saw
- 42:24that first hand, when I heard my parents talk about it, I'm like,
- 42:26well, that's never going to work.
- 42:28What what she did is not going to work.
- 42:30And after reading all these books, I'm really clear that you
- 42:33either got to get on the side of inflation or your toast.
- 42:35So when it comes to raising capital, it's do you have a deal
- 42:39you believe in, do you know what you're doing?
- 42:41Do you have a track record? Do you have the experience?
- 42:43And we had, you know, four or five deals to speak on.
- 42:45And when we had our first deal that was a capital raise deal,
- 42:47we were certain of it and certainty sells.
- 42:50And if you're certain of it, because you can buy a property
- 42:52was a 50 or 60 unit deal, 45 or I don't know, smaller deal.
- 42:56And down the road, 2 blocks away, the competitors getting
- 42:59$250 higher rent and it's a little bit nicer deal.
- 43:03And we look at this property and it's really clear this property
- 43:05needs zoo siding, new parking lot, some new Windows, and we'll
- 43:08do a little upgrade on the common area.
- 43:10And we did that work and leased it out at 2:50 to match our
- 43:13competitor. And our rents went through the
- 43:15roof and I went through the roof and value was immediately
- 43:18created. So, you know, does it mean every
- 43:21deal is going to do well? No, you just have to assess risk
- 43:24to reward and see what are you looking to create in your life.
- 43:26For me it's massive passive income.
- 43:28Yeah. And how do you structure your
- 43:30syndications? Like what are your return
- 43:32profiles and how have you in the early years, how were you
- 43:38identifying the right team, like your contractors and your
- 43:41advisors and those types of things and how important were
- 43:43those in your decisions? Yeah, we, we, I would say
- 43:46looking back, we got a little bit lucky.
- 43:48You know, Mike and I have a fair, I'd, I'd say solid
- 43:51intuition together. You know, when we're hiring our
- 43:53vendors, when we're picking our managers and him and I working
- 43:56together, he's very, we're very different in the sense of our
- 43:58skill sets and we complement each other very well.
- 44:02So in the beginning it was just Mike and I literally granted
- 44:04Tara's equity group was Mike and I and we don't have a ton of
- 44:08experience. We've never been through a
- 44:09recession. Like I wouldn't going back, I
- 44:12wouldn't invest with us again, you know, but I had to go
- 44:15through that learning phase to get to where we are now.
- 44:17But in the beginning, it was, you know, hiring a mentor or
- 44:20somebody who was double checking our underwriting, someone who
- 44:23had in a track record and experience and working closely
- 44:25with them, going through a pretty rigorous training there.
- 44:28And then as we're building out our vendors, you know, we're
- 44:32interviewing several property management companies and Mike
- 44:34and I are doing our Dang best to ask all the questions and get
- 44:38clear on who the best manager is going to be.
- 44:39And then that manager brought in a lot of vendors that she used
- 44:42on many deals. And so we relied heavily on our
- 44:46property management company as our team member to really help
- 44:48us dial that part in. And we were knock on wood, lucky
- 44:52to pick a really great manager in a really great deal, really
- 44:55great timing of the market. And it'll, it allowed it to go
- 44:57up. And we're, we're set up on I
- 44:59think on that one was like a 9010 split.
- 45:00It's our first deal we ever did. Now we just do a straight 8020
- 45:03structure, 80% of the capital, 20% to the GPS.
- 45:07You know it can be very, you can have 7030, got a 5050, We just
- 45:10do an 8020 split, but that's how we set up our first deal and it
- 45:14was really just 9010 is really simple in the sense that 90% of
- 45:18the cash flow goes to the investors, 10% went to Mike and
- 45:20I. And what was your approach to
- 45:23raise capital for that deal? How much did you have to raise
- 45:26and how did you actually raise it?
- 45:27Yeah, we only had to raise 550,000 and I remember being
- 45:30like, how are we going to do this?
- 45:31Because we were raising at 25,000 a pop and it was the time
- 45:34of the market where things were going up.
- 45:36A lot of people had a lot of success and we had a somehow we
- 45:39had a pretty good reputation in the groups we were in.
- 45:42So we raised it like 2 days. And so yeah, Mike and I were
- 45:45both like, man, if we raise 540 in two days, we should raise a
- 45:47multi $1,000,000 deal. So the next time we went back,
- 45:50we ended up doing 2.1 million. But you know, I don't, I don't
- 45:53know how else to say it other than you.
- 45:54You either got to get the experience and be really
- 45:56confident certain you have a deal, or you got to tag along
- 45:59with somebody who's going to be that person for you and you can
- 46:02make Dang sure that you've got similar core values and you roll
- 46:05together. Yeah.
- 46:06And core values is so important. And I've been doing so many core
- 46:09values work. And Chris Boss, I saw him speak
- 46:11a couple weeks ago and got to sit with him for a couple days
- 46:15at an event I was at. And he said the success or
- 46:17failure of any relationship comes down to the alignment or
- 46:20misalignment of core values. And I know we were diving into
- 46:23this last night, but it's so critically important.
- 46:26I think for younger entrepreneurs or just people in
- 46:28general. I didn't Start learning core
- 46:30values work until this year. Like you, you hear core values,
- 46:33they're up on the wall at corporations and things like
- 46:35that. But what does that really mean?
- 46:37And how are you integrating your values in your life?
- 46:40And do you actually even know what your core values are and
- 46:42not even know the word of the core value, but the action of
- 46:45how that actually shows up? Like what is that?
- 46:47What does integrity mean to you? Because that means something to
- 46:49different to everyone. And everyone will tell you they
- 46:51have a value of integrity, but very few people actually do.
- 46:55And so when we can get a clear on that in the investors we take
- 46:59on, in the business partners we take on and the team members
- 47:02that we bring aboard and and the spouse that we choose, if the
- 47:07friends that we choose and everything is just really,
- 47:09really honing in on those core values.
- 47:11And that's going to lead to so much more success and so much
- 47:14less resistance because you have an alignment in so many areas.
- 47:17And then the tactical stuff just comes easier and you can work
- 47:20through a lot of the issues that are always going to rise.
- 47:22Totally. Yeah.
- 47:23We implemented EOS into our company over the last 12 months
- 47:26and they're big on core values. And one of the superpowers that
- 47:30that's created for us is when we're hiring people, we'll give
- 47:33them a core value story pitch so they can look into our company
- 47:37and see what it's going to be like to work with us.
- 47:40And if they're not aligned, I just want them to know right
- 47:42now, just tell us this isn't a good fit because if it doesn't
- 47:45align with you here 6/12/18 months down the road, we're
- 47:48going to break up anyways. And then you've lost.
- 47:50We've lost. It's not, it's not worth it.
- 47:52So 111 superpower of the core values is allowing people who
- 47:57want to work with you to see what it's like to really be on
- 48:00the team. You know, one of our core values
- 48:01is constant, never ending improvement.
- 48:03And if we're recommending a book in our company and they're like,
- 48:07I'm not reading that book, well, you're out doesn't work.
- 48:10And that's OK, there's no problem with that.
- 48:11And I just want people, when we're bringing team members in,
- 48:14to be able to see that so we don't have to waste anyone's
- 48:17time or money. Yeah, that's fine.
- 48:20That's our first core values. Continuous growth could use
- 48:22improvement. So beautiful.
- 48:24Yeah. If you're not growing, you're
- 48:25dying. And I know Robert Kiyosaki and I
- 48:27talk about this all the time. He's like, I I had to fire
- 48:29everybody at my company because they didn't want to grow.
- 48:31They didn't want to learn. I would tell him to read a book.
- 48:33I would tell him this. I would tell him that.
- 48:34And they're like, we don't want to learn anymore.
- 48:35We don't want to study anymore. He's like, well, then you can't
- 48:37be a part of my organization because that's all I'm about is
- 48:40continuous growth and improvement in learning and
- 48:41studying. Yeah.
- 48:42Perfect example right there. If Robert had those core values,
- 48:45he would have caught that right out of the gate and maybe
- 48:48sidestep that one. How do you exemplify it really
- 48:50well in your core values image where they can really see what
- 48:54feel, what it would be like to work with you versus just the
- 48:57words on a page? Because I feel like sometimes
- 49:00when I interview people, I go through the core values, I talk
- 49:02about the action, how that shows up.
- 49:04But I think sometimes it just goes over people's heads and
- 49:06they're like, Oh yeah, good, great, sounds good.
- 49:08But then when you actually bring them a board, you're like, OK,
- 49:10clearly these are not your values and you didn't really
- 49:13understand that and so I'm doing something wrong to not explain
- 49:17that properly. Or like how do you test people
- 49:19ahead of time to really do you understand the alignment?
- 49:21Or not such a good question, such a good question.
- 49:23So one of our other core values is be relentless.
- 49:26And So what we do when we're interviewing somebody is I tell
- 49:30them a story of someone on our team who was relentless.
- 49:33So there's a story of our asset manager.
- 49:36She's headed out to Tyler, TX to look at her 265 unit deal.
- 49:40She thinks she's headed out for the day.
- 49:41She just got her computer and her her briefcase and on the way
- 49:45out the broker calls us and says, hey guys, you didn't keep
- 49:47your end of your agreement. You don't have these 25 units
- 49:50rent, rent ready because we're selling this deal.
- 49:52You don't have them rent ready. And if you don't have them rent
- 49:54ready, the RE trades 1,000,000 bucks and they're coming out in
- 49:57three days to walk all these units.
- 49:58They better be done. I'm like, hey, Don did, did we
- 50:02not get clear with their on site team that those need to be rent
- 50:04ready? And she's like, I didn't, I
- 50:06wasn't clear on that. There was miscommunication, poor
- 50:08leadership on my end. So I say to Don, these have to
- 50:11be done or this deal is not going to trade for the price we
- 50:13need to trade at. And so her she she's a beast and
- 50:18she's like, cool, I'll just stay out here for the next three days
- 50:20with the team and I'll rally vendors and I'll bring them on
- 50:23site and I'll work with them until it's done.
- 50:25And she stays out there for three days.
- 50:26She calls me that night and she's like, hey, Dan, I'm headed
- 50:28to Walmart. I got to get a bra and
- 50:30toothbrush That's relentless. And so like when you're
- 50:33interviewing and you're hearing that story, if you're like, I'm
- 50:35never doing that perfect. Just walk right now.
- 50:38Whereas if you're willing to do that kind of stuff and you can
- 50:41see yourself doing that kind of stuff, you're going to fit in
- 50:42really well here. So the stories give the picture.
- 50:47I love that. I'm going to try that.
- 50:48Yeah, don't try it, do it. No, yeah, I'm going to.
- 50:50I'm going to do that. I'm going to gather my stories
- 50:52and get them very clear and aligned and start doing that in
- 50:55my interviews. Yeah, it's definitely.
- 50:57Interviewing people is not one of my skill sets.
- 50:59I'm like, oh, I like their story and I like the.
- 51:00Energy change that. Belief change that.
- 51:02Belief, you say? It's not belief.
- 51:04Bullshit. Yeah, your core values, right
- 51:06and you'll RIP right into it. Thank you.
- 51:09I needed that. So that's good.
- 51:11In your book, you talk about active passive investing, and I
- 51:15think this is one of the myths that people believe when it
- 51:17comes to real estate investing because you know, all the books
- 51:19and the teachers, they say it's passive income, but it's not
- 51:22that easy all the time, right? So what does active passive
- 51:25investing mean to you? And how does that separate the
- 51:28opportunity of truly passively investing with you as a limited
- 51:32partner investor versus somebody that just says, Oh, well, why
- 51:35would I work with Dan or any other manager and just go buy my
- 51:39own apartment complex for passive income?
- 51:40Yeah, great question. So what we mean by active,
- 51:43passive investing means, like you said in the beginning of
- 51:47this interview, it's the jockey, not the horse.
- 51:50You have got to do your due diligence and you have got to
- 51:52figure out if the people you are investing with are ethical
- 51:57people, if they have clear core values that align for you, if
- 52:00their system and processes are in place, how committed are they
- 52:03to their deals? What's your track record like?
- 52:05Are you certain there's nothing fraudulent going on behind the
- 52:08scenes? That's the part I'm talking
- 52:10about. We're talking about active
- 52:11investors. And unfortunately right now when
- 52:15the, you know what they say, when the, when the tide is out,
- 52:17you see us swimming with their pants down, you're seeing a lot
- 52:19of syndicators who are doing a lot of shady things.
- 52:22And so that gets around quickly. And if you're doing shady stuff
- 52:25with people's money, it's called a Ponzi scheme.
- 52:27You're doing stuff that's illegal, you're going belly up
- 52:30and you're likely going to jail. And so that's the part where it
- 52:35gives what we do potentially a bad name when it's such a
- 52:38beautiful asset class to be investing in.
- 52:40So that's the part where we say be active and do what you need
- 52:43to do. Ask the questions to build the
- 52:45trust. No question, no, no investors
- 52:47going to ask me a question or I'm going to say, I can't answer
- 52:49that. I'm not willing to give you
- 52:51that. And if that's if you ask a
- 52:52question and they're not willing to give you something or not
- 52:54willing to tell you something, I'd walk.
- 52:56It's perfect. Thank you for sharing that.
- 52:57You're not the right person for me and you don't got to be mean
- 52:59about it. You're just investigating.
- 53:01And so and, and the other way to really build trust quickly is to
- 53:04get with somebody who's investing and who's had multiple
- 53:08success with the jockey or the sponsor and then you can tag
- 53:12along that way. Yeah.
- 53:14What are some of the key questions that investors should
- 53:17be asking sponsors to identify red flags or do the jockey test
- 53:22and really uncover? Is this person somebody that's
- 53:26trustworthy, aligned and and you know, mission driven, value
- 53:29driven, has the right team, has the right experience and all
- 53:31those things that they can identify quickly, even if
- 53:33they're not necessarily super savvy in the real estate world?
- 53:36I'd probably start high level with AI and just take the
- 53:39website and just ask anything that you can figure out about
- 53:42this company just to see if there's anything that pulls up
- 53:44online ChatGPT. Tell me about Granite Towers
- 53:47equity group. What what red flags have come
- 53:49up? Anything in the media that I
- 53:50should be aware of? And that's that's their big
- 53:52like, OK, done. Beyond that, I'm asking for
- 53:56referrals of investors. Ideally, you know, send 345.
- 53:59There should be many should be countless people who are willing
- 54:02to pick up the phone for 15 minutes.
- 54:03If you've done well for them. These investors are like, yo,
- 54:06you tripled my money on this last deal.
- 54:08I'm happy to pick up phone calls for you.
- 54:10So there should be many referrals, you know, immediately
- 54:12available. You should be able to go visit
- 54:13their assets. I'm going to go fly into Dallas.
- 54:15I'm going to see three or four of your assets.
- 54:17I'm not going to tell you I'm going to be there.
- 54:18You know, this is this is the work part that can be a little
- 54:21bit like, Oh my gosh, I'm going to do all that.
- 54:23So if you're like, I don't want to do all of that, I would just
- 54:26get on on a zoom call with them and get referrals, ask for their
- 54:30track record, ask for some of their financial statements on
- 54:33some of their assets. That's stuff that can be all
- 54:35done at home really easily. Then if you're still like on the
- 54:37fence and you're thinking of investing significant money
- 54:40flying into their market and taking a look at some of their
- 54:42properties and meeting with them in person, all relevant to easy
- 54:45stuff to do that should be done to verify it and, and just give
- 54:48it time. You know, we're working with a
- 54:50lot of family offices right now and looking at getting into some
- 54:52bigger checks and they just move slow.
- 54:54Doesn't matter what you say, it doesn't matter your track
- 54:56record, they just don't, don't make quick decisions quickly.
- 54:59And so I think it comes down to, you know, emulating some of that
- 55:02stuff and, and just being just being diligent.
- 55:05Yeah, yeah. It's so fascinating to see
- 55:07because we see behind the scenes of so many operators and
- 55:11different opportunities, you know, whether we bring them on
- 55:13as a client or or just meet them for the first time to see if
- 55:15they would be a good fit to be a client.
- 55:17But you know, some fund managers or syndicators, they in the past
- 55:22three years, as you know, have been brutal in, in this business
- 55:25has been very challenging. You kind of see who has their
- 55:27their pants down and, and who doesn't.
- 55:30But some of these, you know, they're doing Ponzi schemes,
- 55:33they're raising more money to pay investors back or they're
- 55:36just doing capital calls or they just lose the money.
- 55:39And then they're out in Jamaica or Cabo or wherever traveling
- 55:44and they have their their nice watches and they're flashing on
- 55:46social media when over here they just lost people's money, which
- 55:49is insane to me. But you see all of that and you
- 55:52start to question like, wow, you know, it really is about the
- 55:55jockey. The the horse is important.
- 55:57That's the vehicle. We know the vehicle's good.
- 55:58Real estate's an amazing vehicle and it always will be.
- 56:01But it's the jockeys that are harder to find those world
- 56:03class, best in class jockeys. And then we have sponsors that
- 56:07they, instead of doing capital calls, they put 5 or 10 million
- 56:12of their own money from their own checking account into a deal
- 56:15to keep it going, to get the rents where they need to be,
- 56:17wait for the rates to drop a little bit so they can be in a
- 56:19good position. How many jockeys are actually
- 56:22willing to do that When it comes to the wire, not many.
- 56:25And so it's so important to be able to do that due diligence,
- 56:28whether you're an investor looking to invest with the a
- 56:31fund manager or syndicator, or whether you're entrepreneur
- 56:34who's looking to bring people aboard your team.
- 56:36And just being able to uncover, that's what I'm working on
- 56:40honing my craft, is being able to uncover those values quickly
- 56:44and honestly where you can really see through the BS and
- 56:48see the truth. Yeah, Yeah.
- 56:50I think that's that's gold. And and it still may take some
- 56:53time and and you, you may come across a sponsor that has had
- 56:58some challenges. It's not necessarily a deal
- 56:59killer. You know like you if you do 3040
- 57:02deals, I mean we're on deal 31. We've had a struggling deal,
- 57:05We've had a really bad deal and we've learned a ton from that
- 57:09deal during this pullback. And there's some very clear
- 57:11principles that we've put in place.
- 57:12And I know from, from the pain we've gone through, it'll make
- 57:15us a better sponsor. It'll make us a better firm.
- 57:17It already has our firm today versus who we were back in 2022.
- 57:21You can even compare us as far as the team members we put in
- 57:23place and what we learned in systems and processes.
- 57:25So just because a deal didn't do well for one sponsor doesn't
- 57:29mean I could never invest with them.
- 57:31In fact, those are the types of people who I, if I'm investing
- 57:33now, I'm looking for someone who's had some great success,
- 57:37been through the recession, had a really struggling deal or two,
- 57:40and they're still here. Because the people that we're
- 57:42seeing leave right now are people that got wiped out in the
- 57:44last recession. I don't want to give my money to
- 57:45somebody who's been through a recession because when the
- 57:47recession hits, we see if they're going to survive.
- 57:50And if they don't survive, everything's gone.
- 57:52Yeah. And on the on the questions is
- 57:55like what are some of those failures?
- 57:56And just like you said, if you haven't been through failure,
- 57:59then how can I trust you? Because you might have just
- 58:01caught a good market and everybody can win in that
- 58:04market, but you don't have the team or the systems or the
- 58:06processes in place or the principles in place to be able
- 58:09to actually get through those hard times.
- 58:11And that's when it really shows who the real pros are and who
- 58:13are the wannabes. Yeah, we work with a billionaire
- 58:16and he says do not only talk about your successes, guys.
- 58:18You're shooting yourself directly in the foot with these
- 58:20family offices. If you don't talk about the pain
- 58:22you've been through and that you're still here, he's like,
- 58:24they're going to write you off immediately.
- 58:26So the success is great, the pain great.
- 58:30Use it. Dial yourself in and keep going.
- 58:32Just like in snowboarding, when you get an injury, you don't
- 58:34just quit and go home. You're like, damn, I got to make
- 58:36sure I never do that again and you're better in the future for
- 58:39it. Same stuff, just bigger scale.
- 58:43What were some of the key lessons you learned from that
- 58:45deal that went bad and over this past few years, and how did you
- 58:48change in your business? Number one is just your tenant
- 58:51profile. Know your tenants on site better
- 58:54than you think you could ever know them.
- 58:56Like what are their habits? What are their tendencies when
- 58:59things get tough, what's going to happen with them?
- 59:02How will they behave? And you know, for us, the tenant
- 59:07profile we're picking is the most important thing.
- 59:10Like the last two deals we bought in multifamily are 2003
- 59:13product in A locations that are B plus assets.
- 59:16These assets are easy to manage. I already know the habits of
- 59:19these people on site. Yeah, you might have one every
- 59:21now and then that goes rogue. Delinquency is bad, you got to
- 59:23evict, but it's like 1 in like 150 versus one in three or one
- 59:29in five or one in 10. So to know how to manage that
- 59:32tenant profile or be willing to go through some really
- 59:37challenging times re tenanting assets.
- 59:39And it's when that happens, all shit breaks loose and
- 59:42multifamily because occupancy drops, delinquency rises.
- 59:45Now you got turns now the stress on the staff.
- 59:48Now you got people who are quitting and it just makes it
- 59:50very complex. So if you're not an extremely
- 59:52sophisticated firm with many, many years of experience local
- 59:56to that sub market with teams that sort of turn these deals
- 59:58around, I wouldn't touch rough deals personally.
- 1:00:01Not saying they can't be good. Some tenant profiles are very
- 1:00:03different than others that are lower income.
- 1:00:05You know, I, I don't want to go into details because it probably
- 1:00:07wouldn't be appropriate, but there's some tenant profiles
- 1:00:10that pay no matter what and they're, they're lower income.
- 1:00:13So it's core values of the people that you have as your
- 1:00:15tenant profile. And when you know those core
- 1:00:17values and you know their level of income, you can pretty much
- 1:00:20predict how they're going to behave.
- 1:00:21Yeah, that's awesome. And so I know we don't have a
- 1:00:24ton of time left, but shifting gears into the personal
- 1:00:27development, you have shared with me yesterday that you've
- 1:00:31done a lot of personal development and you're very
- 1:00:34energetically aligned, you're very values driven and you've
- 1:00:37really pushed yourself into a higher consciousness and are
- 1:00:40passionate about realizing your full potential and your highest
- 1:00:43version of yourself. So when was that shift for you
- 1:00:45and like what did you realize, When did you realize or what
- 1:00:49made you realize that you needed to do or wanted to do some work
- 1:00:52inside and push to the limits of plant medicine and meditation
- 1:00:57and some of these practices that you've done that have been
- 1:00:59integral and changing your life? Yeah, one guy I brought his name
- 1:01:02up, I listen to a lot and really admires Ray Dalio.
- 1:01:05If you haven't read his books, Principles Changing World Order,
- 1:01:07get them. It's extremely clear that things
- 1:01:11are going to be more challenging in the future than they were in
- 1:01:13the past. But he talked about how
- 1:01:16Transcendental Meditation changed his life.
- 1:01:18It was the superpower for him. So I went through a, a quick
- 1:01:21course in Portland, OR where they taught me how to do
- 1:01:24Transcendental Meditation, but I never got to a place with it
- 1:01:29where I was consistent. Like with my workouts, I'm super
- 1:01:31consistent. Monday through Friday my
- 1:01:33workouts going to happen and I just, it's just part of my life.
- 1:01:36Whereas with meditation, I struggled to have the discipline
- 1:01:39and, and really get to a place where I saw the value from it.
- 1:01:42And I got around a really good new friend of mine's name is
- 1:01:45Paul Hutchinson. And Paul was talking about how,
- 1:01:49you know, he would go and save these children on child
- 1:01:52trafficking. And he would talk about how you
- 1:01:54would have these Navy Seal's that would go in on these
- 1:01:55private operations and they'd go into these third world countries
- 1:01:59and save these girls that boys that are being trafficked.
- 1:02:02And these Navy Seals that were tired where they would be
- 1:02:04dropping like flies because of the stuff they saw.
- 1:02:06Their mental clarity would just go down that tubes and they
- 1:02:09couldn't do it. And they'd be like, I'm done.
- 1:02:10I'm not doing that anymore. They're too hard to see.
- 1:02:11It's too hard to do it. And he would do these psilocybin
- 1:02:14retreats with those guys to bring them back and create
- 1:02:17health and to to heal them. And I just, you know, after
- 1:02:22hearing him talk about how it's a medicine of healing, because
- 1:02:26what was interesting, and I've shared this with you a little
- 1:02:28bit, Hannah, is that when I talked to some of my friends in
- 1:02:30high school who were doing it, they're like, Dan, you're
- 1:02:32talking about doing psilocybin. And I'm like, yeah, I see it as
- 1:02:34a medicine. They're like, dude, that's a
- 1:02:35drug. And I'm like, no, not for me.
- 1:02:38The way I've seen it, the way I've been brought up, the way
- 1:02:40I've been taught about it, it's purely a medicine of healing.
- 1:02:43And so that's the way I went in. And in my snowboarding career, I
- 1:02:45was, I never did anything ever. I never smoked weed.
- 1:02:48I rarely drank even. So I'm I'm very clean human
- 1:02:51being. But when I saw it in the sense
- 1:02:53of medicine and I went to Columbia with Paul and his wife
- 1:02:56Vanessa on a 7 day retreat with a bunch of other real estate
- 1:02:59investors, it was the most profound experience of my life,
- 1:03:04hands down. Like to to gain perspective on
- 1:03:08how I see my wife transformed 180° big reason that we went
- 1:03:13down to Columbia's. I wasn't Melissa and I were in a
- 1:03:15tougher spot and Melissa is my wife.
- 1:03:18And you know, when I came home, she's like, you're so different.
- 1:03:23You're so different. And I'm like, that's because I
- 1:03:25see you differently. My lens has changed on how I see
- 1:03:28you. And when my lens shifts, I treat
- 1:03:30her differently. And she's like, dude, I need to
- 1:03:33do this. And my wife is raised Mormon.
- 1:03:35You know, she's like as clean as you could have.
- 1:03:37She's never drank once in her life ever.
- 1:03:40And definitely no, we definitely nothing else.
- 1:03:43And so she, I ended up finding another amazing couple out of
- 1:03:47Austin, TX who I love, I trust with my life.
- 1:03:50And Melissa started to do integration processes in the
- 1:03:53part with plant medicine that I think is really critical to hear
- 1:03:56is for me, and I'm just basing off my experience of real life,
- 1:03:59what I've done is the set and setting is critical.
- 1:04:03Like where are you and who are you with?
- 1:04:05And so if you have a really clear intention of I'm here to
- 1:04:08get clarity around these things in my life, when you go into it,
- 1:04:13you can have these realizations and downloads that you're like a
- 1:04:16light bulb goes off and you can never forget what you learned.
- 1:04:20And so that's really what happened for me.
- 1:04:22And then my wife, she's going through an integration process
- 1:04:24of weeks via Zoom with the facilitator working on some
- 1:04:29things. And, and this is personal
- 1:04:30growth. It's can be uncomfortable, but
- 1:04:33it's like, what are you going to do?
- 1:04:33You going to live in a shell and be constrained by it or are you
- 1:04:36going to work through it? For me, I'm working through it.
- 1:04:38And so Melissa does 10 weeks of this and she goes in and I pick
- 1:04:43her up from the airport after her four days there and I'm
- 1:04:45listening to her talk and I'm like, I've known this woman for
- 1:04:4820 years. I've been married for 17.
- 1:04:51The word she's using, the language coming out of her
- 1:04:53mouth, She's a different woman. She sees she has gained
- 1:04:55perspective of things that had her constrained, trapped that
- 1:04:59she can now just move through. And so to see that happen, for
- 1:05:02me to see it happen for her, I think it's a superpower of
- 1:05:06people who are willing to go through potentially some
- 1:05:08uncomfortable reflection period for very quick growth.
- 1:05:13Yeah, it was the number one most impactful thing on my journey of
- 1:05:17transforming and I don't, I honestly don't think I could be
- 1:05:21where I am without it. And it was that same ship people
- 1:05:23after I did my first ceremony in that setting, because, you know,
- 1:05:28I in high school, I did mushrooms to party with the high
- 1:05:31school kids. And that was not this
- 1:05:33experience, very, very different experience.
- 1:05:35But when you go in with a healer that are, that are gifted in
- 1:05:39this realm and they're, they're literally brought to this earth
- 1:05:41to heal and you have the right frequencies and the right
- 1:05:43intentions and the right integrations to understand how
- 1:05:48to implement everything and integrate everything.
- 1:05:49It was the most profound experience in my entire life.
- 1:05:52And I literally came out of it a completely different person with
- 1:05:54completely new perspective. And you know, I, I can't say
- 1:05:57that it's for everyone because I know there's some people that it
- 1:05:59may not be for, but for me, I don't the, the therapy wasn't as
- 1:06:04helpful, the meditation wasn't as helpful, the breath work,
- 1:06:07none of that stuff was as helpful until I was able to
- 1:06:09integrate it with this experience.
- 1:06:11Beautiful, beautiful. Yeah, I would say the biggest
- 1:06:14thing that changed for me after my journeys was my ability to
- 1:06:18meditate. Now my meditations are much
- 1:06:20deeper. I have the ability to gain
- 1:06:22clarity on things that were much more difficult to see clearly.
- 1:06:26You know, and it's so interesting to think about the
- 1:06:28five senses of what we currently have and what we're not picking
- 1:06:32up. They say 95% of what's
- 1:06:34happening, we're not aware of. Our five senses don't pick up in
- 1:06:37that world of what's not picked up by our senses.
- 1:06:40If you can tap into that and you can start to be aware and
- 1:06:43control that, you have a superpower that's unmatched.
- 1:06:45Yeah. How did it most impact you and
- 1:06:48change the way you lead, the way you parent, the way you show up
- 1:06:51as a husband, the way you handle pressure?
- 1:06:53Like, what were those key shifts for you?
- 1:06:55I. Think the biggest thing is I
- 1:06:56softened, softened tremendously instead of being so harsh and
- 1:07:00rigid, you know, with the kids. Doesn't mean I still don't get
- 1:07:03frustrated, doesn't mean I still don't feel it.
- 1:07:05But I have a moment where I have a like a hoe.
- 1:07:07OK, let's just chill out for a second here before I respond.
- 1:07:11You know, just that little delayed time for me to get
- 1:07:13myself versus fly off the handle because the kids are fighting
- 1:07:17and late screaming for his life, you know, because my 13 year
- 1:07:20olds got him in a headlock, you know, so like that kind of
- 1:07:22stuff. We're in business.
- 1:07:24Just being able to intuitively feel, are we aligned energy wise
- 1:07:27here? And if we're not, I don't go
- 1:07:29into detail and why we're not going to work together.
- 1:07:31I just don't go, you know, so that I think is and and I'll say
- 1:07:36to like the vision of where Granite Towers Equity Group is
- 1:07:39going. I could see it really clearly
- 1:07:41and I'm certain like there's no one could tell me anything else.
- 1:07:43I just know here. And when I'm that certain, it
- 1:07:46just changes how I behave, changes how I go through the
- 1:07:48world, changes how I communicate, changes the goals
- 1:07:50we're after. And so that right there alone,
- 1:07:53plus the softness, plus the clarity on this world that we're
- 1:07:56not picking up with our five senses, it's all made a huge,
- 1:07:59huge impact. And so profound and it's so real
- 1:08:03and that think when those experiences and other modalities
- 1:08:08for healing and inner work through therapy, plant medicine,
- 1:08:11breath work, meditation, all the things that we've been covering.
- 1:08:14It's when you are able to have softness and you're able to
- 1:08:19release all of the pressure building up inside of you and
- 1:08:23able to have empathy for everyone around you and see them
- 1:08:27from their shoes and be able to put yourself in their shoes and
- 1:08:30understand they're just another being that has their own pain,
- 1:08:33wants, needs, fears, desires. And I'm not going to take it so
- 1:08:36personally that it's an attack on me or how you treat yourself,
- 1:08:40right? Is like, I'm not going to be so
- 1:08:41hard on myself and put so much pressure on myself to perform
- 1:08:44and to be perfect into all these things.
- 1:08:46And you can have compassion. Like for me, it helped open up
- 1:08:48compassion for myself and others and real love for myself and
- 1:08:52others and for God that I had resistance towards all of that
- 1:08:55before this experience. I was, I hate myself, I hate
- 1:08:59God, I hate these people. I hate all of this stuff.
- 1:09:01Even though I didn't verbalize that, but I did when I realized
- 1:09:04I really did inside and I was ignoring a lot of that pain and
- 1:09:07the resistance. But yeah, that then allows it
- 1:09:11allowed me to be able to now still have the big dreams, still
- 1:09:16want to create amazing things in my life.
- 1:09:18But there was no longer an attachment to the outcome.
- 1:09:22Like I am happy only when I get this or I am worthy only when I
- 1:09:26achieve this, right? It was just now I'm aligned and
- 1:09:29I'm grounded and I have the the shift from the scarcity and the
- 1:09:32fear to the abundance and creation mindset.
- 1:09:34And so now I can go after these big dreams, but the pressure
- 1:09:38doesn't seem so, so great because I don't have that
- 1:09:40tension anymore and the resistance towards it.
- 1:09:42And I welcome the failures now or the challenging times ahead
- 1:09:45because I'm not afraid of anything anymore.
- 1:09:48And I don't need anything from anybody.
- 1:09:50And I love myself and I love the people that I serve around me.
- 1:09:53And I can identify more clearly signal versus noise and
- 1:09:58alignment versus misalignment and make just like you said,
- 1:10:00those clarity of decisions because as, as leaders and
- 1:10:03entrepreneurs and you know, as a parent and a husband, I'm, I'm
- 1:10:07not a wife or a parent. Yeah, but we have to make
- 1:10:12decisions all day, every day, non-stop.
- 1:10:14And that can wear you out so much if you're not aligned and
- 1:10:18grounded and understand the signals that we're receiving
- 1:10:22from source that are clear, right.
- 1:10:24And so when we're clear in ourselves and our own body, then
- 1:10:27we can be clear about these decisions.
- 1:10:28And it becomes much easier to make the decisions and much
- 1:10:30easier to get through the pain that's going to present itself
- 1:10:35to us as we continue to grow. Yeah, I don't think I could have
- 1:10:37said it better myself. I think you nailed it.
- 1:10:39That is a very good synopsis, authentic synopsis of, you know,
- 1:10:44similarities of how my experience wasn't.
- 1:10:45It doesn't mean that's how everyone's going to be, but it's
- 1:10:48it's worth looking into and at least researching before you
- 1:10:51just say now I'm out. Right.
- 1:10:54Yeah, Because we only know what we know and nothing more.
- 1:10:56And so we're only limited by the confounds of our own mind and
- 1:10:59beliefs and, and fears and, and all the things.
- 1:11:02So yeah, I think it's a, it's beautiful.
- 1:11:06It's definitely beautiful. And now I, I'm really grateful
- 1:11:08that now we, we're in a society where we have the resources to
- 1:11:13be exposed to these transformational options, you
- 1:11:19know, to continue to create and to continue to grow.
- 1:11:21Because back in the day, it was just pure survival.
- 1:11:23And we still have in our genetics, this survival instinct
- 1:11:27of everything's out to kill me and get me and I have to just
- 1:11:30survive and protect myself. But we have an abundant world
- 1:11:33now, at least in the United States, where we're so fortunate
- 1:11:35and blessed to live. We have this abundant world and
- 1:11:38we can now. OK, we don't need to survive.
- 1:11:41Like we're going to be OK. We're always going to have a
- 1:11:43roof over our head. We have people that love us.
- 1:11:45We're good high integrity people.
- 1:11:46You know, even if we lost everything, we would bankrupt
- 1:11:49tomorrow, we're still going to be OK.
- 1:11:50We have our liquid knowledge and our our skills and we have our
- 1:11:53relationships in our life to help us grow.
- 1:11:55But then it just comes down to how do we elevate our
- 1:11:58consciousness? How do we push humanity forward
- 1:12:01and evolve as a species so we're not just repeating the same
- 1:12:05thing over and over? And that's where Doctor Gabra
- 1:12:08Monte talks about generational trauma and how you're kind of
- 1:12:10born with these instincts and society is traumatic and all
- 1:12:13these things. But if we can have the awareness
- 1:12:15of it and then lean into some of these tools and just be open
- 1:12:17minded to the resources and the experiences out there that can
- 1:12:21help us live and create a better life, then why would we not
- 1:12:24explore? Yeah, I love it.
- 1:12:26I I think of it as like awakening, waking up a little
- 1:12:29bit, being more aware of the things that you were unaware of.
- 1:12:32They're there. They are there.
- 1:12:35They are affecting your life, so if you can become aware of them
- 1:12:37and you can learn to manipulate them for a really clear outcome
- 1:12:40you're looking to create, you're going to be able to create
- 1:12:42anything much more efficiently. I love it.
- 1:12:46And what's what is next for Granite Towers that you're so
- 1:12:50clearly confident in line? With you know, it's not, it's
- 1:12:53nothing of a Sprint. It's, it's with EOS, we're
- 1:12:56really clear on a 10 year target or three-year target or one year
- 1:13:00target and then building rocks in reverse.
- 1:13:03I think it's just the, the beauty of, of adding solid
- 1:13:07assets that are in a cash flow position that meet our criteria
- 1:13:11one at a time for many, many years to come.
- 1:13:14I see myself, I'm 41, I, I'd love to do this till I'm 80.
- 1:13:17It's kind of my 40 year goal. And I think about what could I
- 1:13:19do in 40 years if we hit our 10 year target, which we've now
- 1:13:22realize is probably pretty thin for what we could realistically
- 1:13:25do. What could you do with the next
- 1:13:27decade if you dial it in? What could you do with the next
- 1:13:29decade? What could you do with the next
- 1:13:31decade? And by the time I'm 80 years
- 1:13:33old, what kind of impact could we have?
- 1:13:35You know, I really love and admire Paul Hutchinson's, you
- 1:13:38know, focus on child trafficking.
- 1:13:40And I think he's a committed human being to that single goal
- 1:13:44the rest of his life. And I could see us working
- 1:13:47closely with him and and partnering potentially with them
- 1:13:50as we scale our company and, you know, doing something that is
- 1:13:55the single most profound positive thing I think we could
- 1:13:59do as far as helping children. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:14:02I have a couple of friends who are very involved in in the war
- 1:14:07against child trafficking and this, the stories and the things
- 1:14:11that I've seen and heard, it's just so unreal.
- 1:14:14And so I'm getting involved in that, that commitment to help
- 1:14:18change and save lives on that side of things too.
- 1:14:21So it's awesome to live for something bigger than yourself
- 1:14:25and to make a positive impact on the universe and the lives of
- 1:14:28others. Like, I don't think there's any
- 1:14:29greater fulfillment than that. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:14:31One thing I'm really clear on is I can see that buying more stuff
- 1:14:35or accumulating more wealth and accumulating another home won't
- 1:14:38bring me the happiness that I'm really looking for.
- 1:14:40It'll do a little bit and it does a little bit and then you
- 1:14:43get kind of bored of it and then it's the next and the next and
- 1:14:45the next. And so I think the personal
- 1:14:48growth piece mixed with impacting children's lives will
- 1:14:52give me the most sustained love and connection as I as I age and
- 1:14:56grow. So we'll monitor and and
- 1:14:58continue to adjust as as new data comes in.
- 1:15:02Yeah. And then I'm going to do rapid
- 1:15:04fire here in a second. But this last final question for
- 1:15:06those I know, you have a triple net investment fund as well for
- 1:15:10car washes on triple net leases and that's a great tax advantage
- 1:15:13for people. And then you do your multi
- 1:15:14family funds too. So for investors who are out
- 1:15:17there, if they want to get a hold of you, what's the best way
- 1:15:19to get a hold of you? Yeah, yeah, it's just go to
- 1:15:21granitetowersequitygroup.com it's just
- 1:15:23www.granitetowersequitygroup.com/contactus and myself or someone on our
- 1:15:29team can get on with you and you know learn about your investing
- 1:15:32goals are the fund we have is a five O 6 seed.
- 1:15:34So we do not need a pre-existing relationship.
- 1:15:37So if you know you're looking for depreciation, appreciation
- 1:15:40and cash flow before your end, there is a opportunity there and
- 1:15:44we'll keep bringing those out as as time allows.
- 1:15:47Awesome and they are amazing, amazing sponsors would put my my
- 1:15:52own money behind you guys and want to explore your funds
- 1:15:55personally too. So and thank you for being a
- 1:15:57great client at HP Capital. Thank you and super proud of
- 1:16:00everything that you built and can't wait to see what you
- 1:16:02continue to build. Yeah, thanks to Jeff for
- 1:16:03bringing us in. Yeah, Jeff, Jeff, Uncle Big Dog
- 1:16:06over here. OK, Rapid fire School of Hard
- 1:16:10Knock style. How old were you?
- 1:16:12And became a millionaire. 28. What line of business are you
- 1:16:17in? Real estate.
- 1:16:19Did you ever think growing up that you what you've created
- 1:16:21would be possible? No.
- 1:16:27What has been the biggest driving factor of your success
- 1:16:29throughout your career? Being relentless and having just
- 1:16:33absolute sheer discipline to work through problems.
- 1:16:39What's the one truth about success you wish you would have
- 1:16:41learned earlier? It's not that hard.
- 1:16:43It's it's, it's really a set of habits and once you have them,
- 1:16:46it's guaranteed. What's the greatest piece of
- 1:16:49advice you've ever heard or received?
- 1:16:52Do your best and forget the rest.
- 1:16:57Did you ever have anybody who doubted you?
- 1:16:59Oh yeah, tons. Who's your hero and why?
- 1:17:25You can cut this. My mom and my dad, yeah.
- 1:17:33Why? Just the support.
- 1:17:45I was a little kid to give me a foundation to believe that I
- 1:17:49could do anything. And that's everything.
- 1:17:54Yep. And if you had to, if you were
- 1:17:57going to die tomorrow and I was going to die tomorrow and you
- 1:18:00had to leave one lesson to the younger generation, what would
- 1:18:03it be? Do what you love and go hard.
- 1:18:07Thank you. Yeah.
- 1:18:08Thanks for coming on the show. Yeah.