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How dangerous can a narcissist be · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on beautiful people? Today
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  we're going to be answering the question, how dangerous
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  can narcissist get? If you're new here, my name
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  is Lee Hammock. I'm a clinically diagnosed
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  narcissist and welcome to another episode of the
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  Narcissist Code. Boom!
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  What was welcome back, welcome back, welcome back.
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  Yes, y 'all, this question is a
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  serious question. It's a serious topic. So
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  I need everybody to be here. Everybody
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  look, turn your chairs around, sit down, pay close
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  attention because this information could help
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  protect you and keep you here grounded and on planet
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  earth. Because that's what happens y 'all.
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  If you're dealing with a
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  narcissist or a toxic person, you have to
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  understand that they can get extremely dangerous. And
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  I think a lot of people will know this. A
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  lot of people understand this. But
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  a lot of people don't think it can happen to
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  them. That's one of the things that I
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  hear from so many people. I
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  didn't think it would happen to me. I
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  didn't think it could happen to me. I
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  didn't think that they were capable of this. I
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  didn't know they were capable of that. They
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  don't seem like they have a person. Yeah,
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  I'm just telling you, you have to protect yourself.
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  And this is being as real and
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  upfront as I could be because narcissists can be
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  extremely dangerous. No two narcissistic people are
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  created equal. That's not what I'm saying. But
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  what I am saying is that they can absolutely be
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  extremely dangerous. They can end you and send you
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  out of here. Send you away from planet Earth,
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  so to speak. They can send you to the
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  highest of heavens, or try to take you to the depths
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  of hell because they can't absolutely get, they can
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  take it, they can, they can. They
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  can take your life. Not every single one of them
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  will, but there are quite a few out there that
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  absolutely will because they think that you belong to
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  them. That's what happens. They
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  think you belong to them. They
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  think that whatever's gonna happen, they think that you
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  are a possession. They look at you as a
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  possession. Like you are pretty much a
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  camera to them, or you are this Nintendo Switch. I
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  bought you, they might not have bought you actually. I
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  bought you so I own you. I
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  can do whatever I want to with you. You
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  know, I can slam you on the ground if I wanted to,
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  and nobody can say anything because it's mine. I
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  bought it. Why would you say, why are you
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  saying things to me? Why are you ever saying it
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  with me? I'm just doing my property.
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  What I want to do with my
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  property. That happens quite a bit. And
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  this is what I'm here to tell y 'all. If
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  you're dealing with a narcissist or a toxic
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  person, always think that they can go, they can take
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  it to the next level. I know they might be quiet
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  and they might be passive aggressive. You
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  might have a covert narcissist that doesn't yell
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  and scream. They're super passive aggressive and
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  quiet and whatnot. Cool, calm and collected. You
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  know, they rarely ever, you lose their temper. They
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  don't yell and scream at you. They
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  just, they're super passive aggressive. They
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  would rather give you the silent treatment than yell
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  and scream at you. Those can be the most dangerous
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  ones because you don't expect it from them. And
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  when you try to leave them because you're unhappy
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  because they're not meeting your needs, they will take,
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  they turn around and because they're so quiet,
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  they're so quiet nature, they start doing horrible
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  things to you. They might actually put their
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  hands around your, they might actually put their
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  hands around your throat. They
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  might actually threaten you with a weapon. They
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  might put something into your head and threaten to
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  send you out here. They might try to threaten to
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  hurt your kids. Something will hurt your kids.
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  There's a lot of something that y
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  'all, a lot of times you can look on the news,
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  Google the words, family annihilator. You'll
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  see a lot, how dangerous it can get. Part
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  of the interruption, just wanted to make sure that
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  you subscribe to the channel. If
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  you haven't hit that subscribe button right now
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  and make sure to turn on notifications so you don't
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  miss any uploads. Help me reach more people. Now
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  back to the video, because not only will they take
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  you out of here, they will absolutely send your
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  children out of here too. Y
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  'all know what I mean when I say send you out of
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  here. I mean that they will, your
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  existence, you will cease to exist. I'll
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  say it like that. You will cease to exist on
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  this plane because they don't want you to be here
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  anymore. They don't think you deserve to
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  be here anymore. If I can't have you,
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  absolutely no one will. So they can absolutely be
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  dangerous as hell to send you about here. Now
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  like I said, not every single one of them are
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  dangerous, some of them will leave you alone. But
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  there's the covert scary ones that will stalk you
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  quietly in the bushes. That's
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  the way you see the bushes. The
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  malignant overt narcissists, you don't see them in the
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  bushes. You see them, they drive by
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  your house with the music blasting, playing the song
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  that y 'all danced to at school at prom. The
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  first song that y 'all, the song that they proposed to,
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  if you're a first dance at the wedding song, they'll
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  drive by your house, blasted that song. So
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  if you had some usher moving mountains for your
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  wedding song, you might hear them getting blasted
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  down the street. Or if you had cash money for
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  the $2 ,000 for the $99 ,000 in 2000, you bounce
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  that ass up, back that ass up. That's
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  your wedding song. Back that ass up with your
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  wedding song. You be sitting in the house
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  one day quiet, and you go, do, do, do, do, do. Girl,
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  you look good, want you back that. Oh
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  my goodness. They're riding down the street.
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  They might, I'm sorry. I'm
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  sorry, but they might actually do that type of
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  stuff. That's how the overt narcissists
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  will do. They'll just let you know that
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  they're watching you. They'll
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  let you know, they want you to know. So
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  you're overtly scared. They'll
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  overtly let you know that they're watching you. So
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  you can overtly and outwardly be afraid of
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  them. So you can be afraid of how
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  they're going to react. You can be afraid of what
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  they're going to do to you. You
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  can be afraid of the things that they're going
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  to say to you. What they're going to put you
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  through. They want you to change. Look,
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  they want you to live your life in fear. So
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  you don't move on. Even, I'll say this as well,
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  even if they have someone else. Even
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  if they have someone else. Look
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  at yo. Matter of fact, I think one of
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  the best cases that you see about this, like the
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  covert passive aggressive family annihilator, go look
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  at Chris Watts. Go look at Chris Watts. And
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  yes, y 'all, women can take you out of here too. This
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  is not just a man centered video, male presented
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  centered video. Women can take you out of here
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  too. They can have that same mindset
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  about, no one can have you. I
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  don't make this gender specific. As
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  I said, family knowledge, not people, not just, you
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  know, patricide, matricide is real. You
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  know, the moms can go crazy too. But
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  that's one of the best cases you will see about
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  this is Chris Watts. You absolutely see this. Like
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  he's, he looks super cool, cool, cool, comic,
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  collected. Go watch it. Go
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  look at Chris Watts video. The
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  investigative investigation footage, the, what you call
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  it, the interrogation room footage and whatnot. When
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  they came to his house and they showed him the
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  neighbor's camera and stuff like that, you see him how
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  cool, comic, collected he was. He
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  looked like a passive aggressive narcissistic
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  person, covert narcissist, you know? And
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  he sent his family out of here to unalive his wife
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  because he was having an affair. I
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  think I don't think those are alleged, but allegedly
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  he was having an affair. His
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  wife, who was pregnant at the time, told him that
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  she was pregnant and that's gonna ruin his plans of
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  leaving, possibly leaving her and starting new with
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  this other younger person. So
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  he's unalived his wife, and then unalive his two
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  daughters and put them in an old car, buried his
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  wife and then put his daughters, unalived his
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  daughters and put them in an old tower. Like
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  evil, evil. And then went to work and just
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  kept going about his day because he thought his
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  plans would be ruined. You see, even, and he had
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  someone else. That's crazy. He's
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  so worried about his reputation that he took
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  them out of here. Like sometimes it absolutely has
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  a lot to do with their reputation, how they're
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  going to be viewed by everybody else because
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  that's the way it goes. How
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  they're going to be viewed matters. It
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  really does matter. How they're gonna be viewed,
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  how people are gonna look at them matter so they
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  worry so much about their reputations that they lose
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  their damn minds. They will, they lose their
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  minds. So you have to protect
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  yourself at all costs. You have to remain cool, calm
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  and collected at all costs. Or
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  they will take you about it here. Y
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  'all, I'm just telling you, you have to protect your
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  peace. So even if you do leave the
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  relationship, even if you do get restraining order,
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  that might not be enough. And
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  I know it sounds unfair, but these people, they
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  don't, some of them do not care about restraining
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  orders. They don't care. Look,
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  I can't even think of the girl's name. I
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  just did a story about her the other day. One
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  of my most recent videos, the Shakia Allen, she left
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  her toxic abuse relationship, got her
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  restraining order. The dude still popped up at
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  her apartment and chased her through the parking lot
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  and still unalived her. They
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  can get very dangerous, y 'all. They
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  can absolutely be very dangerous. They
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  can take you about here. You
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  think people gonna handle break -ups? No,
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  they don't handle rejection well. So
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  if you think, yeah, even if you think this person
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  could be extremely dangerous, make a plan.
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  When you want to leave, make an
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  escape plan, but also a continuation plan of
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  protection as well. After you leave, I'm gonna tell
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  you, you have to hire security, but get cameras
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  up. Change your coming and going
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  routine. Just so you can protect
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  yourself. So people don't know what time
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  you're gonna be in certain places. You
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  have to change your schedule, change your
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  routine up to protect yourself because these
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  people can absolutely be dangerous as hell. And
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  I will tell you this, if you're still in a
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  relationship, if they've ever put their hands around
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  your throat, you know, you are me and squeeze and cut
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  off your airflow. You are 700 % more likely to
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  be unalived by that person. Male
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  or female? You are 700 % more likely to
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  be unalived by that person because of who they are.
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  Because if they put their hands
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  around your throat, what else will they do? What
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  else are they capable of if they do this? If
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  they're willing to put their hands around your
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  throat and do this to you, what else are they capable
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  of? What else are they willing to
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  do? There's no end in sight for some
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  of these people, y 'all. They
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  don't care. Like they don't care how the
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  rest of their life is gonna go because some of
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  them will take their own life. Some
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  of them will go to jail for the rest of their life
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  just as long as you're not around anymore. So
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  protect your peace. And I would just say this as
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  well, y 'all. If you're in a relationship
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  with somebody and you just getting to know this person
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  and they're yelling and screaming, they got these
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  super red flags and it doesn't feel right. Y
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  'all, end it as soon as you possibly can. The
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  deeper you go, the more dangerous it is. But
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  I'm not, and this crazy thing about it is, some
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  people, it doesn't matter how soon you end it. You
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  can end it like a week into it, two weeks into
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  it, a month into it, two months into it. And
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  they'll still lose their damn minds. So
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  you have to use your discernment, use your
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  protection, y 'all. Get a support system, whatever
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  you will. If you're in certain cities
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  and states or in a certain country, arm yourself, you
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  know? Arm yourself. Arm
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  yourself with the knowledge and things like that that
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  you absolutely need to have. And
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  keep moving for y 'all. Keep
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  moving forward. Protect yourself, protect your peace
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  so you can remain here on this earth with your
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  family, with your kids and live a happy, healthy life.
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  Don't hesitate to call the
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  police, even though it might agitate that
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  narcissistic person. I don't want the police
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  involved. I don't want to, like, I'll
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  say this out, and I'll end it with this. You
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  are not ruining their life. I
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  always say this, you are not ruining their life. If
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  they try to communicate with you on some other
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  stuff, if they try to communicate with you in
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  different ways, it will not, you are not ruining
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  their life. You just are not. So
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  be safe, like they are ruining their own life by
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  stalking you and harassing you and threatening you.
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  They don't have to do that.
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  They don't have to do that. You
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  are not ruining their life, you're protecting yours. So
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  protect your peace because they can be extremely
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  dangerous. Like and subscribe for more.
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  groups available as well. I have a support group called
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  do support group meetings in the mornings, some
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  throughout the week, every Saturday evening, but in
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  the mornings as well, and afternoons sometimes as
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  well. It's a small group of people
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  who understand what you went through. Link
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  Hillers is out, peace. Thank
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  you so much for making it to the end of my video. I
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  will see you in the next video. Peace.