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Ep 82 "It's Not That Serious. Or Is it? · We Talk Back

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Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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Speaker 1: talk back.
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Speaker 2: Hey y'all, what's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in
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Speaker 2: for a new episode of We Talk Back, a show
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Speaker 2: dedicated to you niggas and these hoes. How you doing, Tam?
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Speaker 2: You sound especially southern this week. It's giving real country
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Speaker 2: girl right now. I like the term southern. Okay, don't
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Speaker 2: call me country. I'll take either or, babe. Y'all come
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Speaker 2: back now, you hear? Hey, y'all, it's Tam Bam. I
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Speaker 2: love y'all, man. I really do. Thank you for coming
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Speaker 2: back to see us. How you doing, AJ? I'm good, man.
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Speaker 2: Just chilling out, trying to stay out the heat. Thank
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Speaker 2: God it's raining a little bit now. It seem like
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Speaker 2: it rain every day. It do, but it's good. Like,
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Speaker 2: we need to... Rain to me feels like a redo,
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Speaker 2: a renew, like a little fresh. A cleanse. Yes. I
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Speaker 2: like when it rains. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: My friend said sinners don't get no rain. That's why
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Speaker 1: Las Vegas stays so dry.
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Speaker 2: That might be true. I don't know. I like when
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Speaker 2: it rains. The grass be looking all fucking green and shit.
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Speaker 2: The grass likes it. What'd you do this weekend? I
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Speaker 2: didn't do shit. I can't even think of one thing.
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Speaker 2: Eat food that I shouldn't eat? Nothing. Wash my car?
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Speaker 2: Got some penis? Well, I'm going to do that anyway.
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Speaker 2: That's just how I get down. That's just how I
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Speaker 2: do it. I'm going to do that anyway. That's just
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Speaker 2: how I do. Is that how I go?
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Speaker 1: Saying I got penis this weekend is like I saying
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Speaker 1: I took a shower this weekend.
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Speaker 2: Everybody knows I did that. Oh, I was going to
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Speaker 2: do that anyway because that's just how I do it. Oh,
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Speaker 2: that's just how I am. That's what she said. Hello, TT.
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Speaker 1: I flew to Atlanta this weekend to do a photo
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Speaker 1: shoot for a friend's clothing line that's about to drop
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Speaker 1: Belle Aris clothing.
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Speaker 2: It's exciting. I'm going to wear one of her pieces
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Speaker 2: for the live show. I'm excited.
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Speaker 1: It's a very cute, sexy little blazer number with a skirt, so... Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's what I did. And girl, it was hot as
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Speaker 1: fuck out there trying to take pictures and be sexy
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Speaker 1: and cute and close.
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Speaker 2: And it's 96.
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Speaker 1: Bitch, my silk press, baby. That back of my neck,
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Speaker 1: it was an afro under these tracks.
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Speaker 2: Because I had clip-ins. Girl, mistake.
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Speaker 1: I should have just braided this shit up and just
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Speaker 1: sewed the hair in instead of clipping it in between
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Speaker 1: my hair.
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Speaker 2: My real hair was swelling like a mug.
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Speaker 1: The hairstylist kept having to, like, pull me to the
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Speaker 1: side and, like, reflatter my hair.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Heat damage. Damn. Yeah. But other than that, it
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Speaker 2: was a great experience, though. It was fun. What's the
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Speaker 2: name of the clothing line again? Belle Aris Clothing. Okay.
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Speaker 2: I think it dropped.
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Speaker 1: The actual release date is August 20th. She's got some
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Speaker 1: cute pieces, y'all, so be on the lookout for that.
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Speaker 2: Ew. We like the black women in business, okay? Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I brought all these little outfits to wear to the club.
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Speaker 2: Auntie didn't go nowhere all weekend. Bitch, you see them
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Speaker 2: damn monkey pox popping up in Atlanta. You better stay
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Speaker 2: your ass in the house and sanitize everything you touch.
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Speaker 1: They keep talking about monkey poxes all over the place,
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Speaker 1: but I ain't seen one monkey yet.
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Speaker 2: Nowhere girl he's got their monkeys out here child please
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Speaker 2: plenty of them I ain't seen no monkey running around
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Speaker 2: Atlanta yet so I don't know anyway child stupid internet
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Speaker 2: news what's going on well this isn't really stupid and
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Speaker 2: I do want to start the show off by sending
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Speaker 2: out some super duper love and light to Brittany Griner
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Speaker 2: Brittany Griner was sentenced last week to nine and a
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Speaker 2: half years for a little under a gram of THC oil. Yeah. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: THC oil. I just be out here with my shit.
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Speaker 2: I be all in the way of just puffing it
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Speaker 2: right quick. But we aren't in Russia. Right. In America,
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Speaker 2: we have that luxury. We have recreational. We have medicinal purposes.
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Speaker 2: But yeah, she got caught up back in... February, right
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Speaker 2: before Ukraine and Russia started the war. So it was
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Speaker 2: just a bad timing, basically. But she was already over
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Speaker 2: there for a while playing basketball to supplement her WNBA
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Speaker 2: income here in America. So she's been over there. She
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Speaker 2: came into the country with the shit in her bag accidentally.
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Speaker 2: I feel like she was targeted. Because I'm pretty sure
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Speaker 2: she does that all the time.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure she does that all the time. It's just,
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Speaker 1: like you said, it was bad timing for that. And
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Speaker 1: because of who she is, it was like, yeah, we're
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Speaker 1: going to keep this one right here. I actually went
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Speaker 1: to Russia. I spent some time in Russia, and I
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Speaker 1: lived in Ukraine for a year.
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Speaker 2: Did you know that? Yeah, you told me about that
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Speaker 2: before as an exchange student, right?
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Speaker 1: I was an exchange student in Ukraine, and my mama
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Speaker 1: did not want me to take my black ass out there.
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Speaker 1: She was so against it, but I begged and pleaded.
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Speaker 1: And because I was such a scholar, they sent me
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Speaker 1: for free. My high school paid for me to go,
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Speaker 1: and I stayed there a year. And it was a
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Speaker 1: great experience. I mean, it was fun. I was constantly
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Speaker 1: reminded that I was black. Because at the time, this is,
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Speaker 1: all right, what year is this? Probably like 1999, 2000.
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Speaker 2: I just told her how old I am. Fuck. Bitch,
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Speaker 2: I always tell how old I am, so they know, okay?
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Speaker 2: They know how your old ass is. They don't know
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Speaker 2: how old I am. They know that we around the
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Speaker 2: same age. Cut it out. Anyway, back to the story.
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Speaker 1: As soon as I got off the plane, y'all, and
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Speaker 1: I went to the home of the family I was
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Speaker 1: staying with, which they were very successful, wealthy families. the
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Speaker 1: student that was going to go to the U.S. in
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Speaker 1: my place, she came up to me and she was like, I.
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Speaker 2: Never see black like this. Can I touch? She never
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Speaker 2: seen black like this up close and in person. That's
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Speaker 2: what she was trying to say.
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Speaker 1: And she was like all up in my face trying
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Speaker 1: to touch my face and I had to get real
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Speaker 1: South Carolina ghetto right out the gate.
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Speaker 2: Get the fuck off me, bitch. What you trying to do?
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Speaker 2: Like personal space. I think that's one of the curses
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Speaker 2: with social media is that we have now given a
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Speaker 2: lot of people access to our blackness that otherwise don't
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Speaker 2: need it and would not have had it. Okay. So
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Speaker 2: now they get to really like put us under a microscope,
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Speaker 2: see how we are without actually fucking with us.
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Speaker 1: Right.
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Speaker 2: And that's even worse as far as I'm concerned. Right.
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Speaker 2: Cause then they might base it off of love. And
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Speaker 2: that's why, and this is why I, you know, I, Girl, like,
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Speaker 2: what other... And I don't give a fuck who get mad, okay?
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Speaker 2: But what other group of black... Excuse me. What other
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Speaker 2: group of men do you see, like, twerking on social media? Well,
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Speaker 2: I mean, culturally, twerking is a black thing, so... You
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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. On a pole. On a pole.
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Speaker 2: What other group of men? So the way that we're
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Speaker 2: displayed on social media, on the internet, on TV... It
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Speaker 2: doesn't represent us as a whole. It just doesn't. The
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Speaker 2: representation we got. No, I agree there. It does not.
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Speaker 2: And it's nothing wrong.
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Speaker 1: I used to watch Love & Hip Hop, faithfully. I
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Speaker 1: don't watch it anymore, but I don't think I'm the
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Speaker 1: target audience. But that is a part of it. That's
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Speaker 1: the subculture within the culture, right? But there's so much
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Speaker 1: more to us than just what they.
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Speaker 2: Put on TV. And I just feel like that's what's
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Speaker 2: dominating right now. Yeah, but... But back to Brittany Griner, like, man,
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Speaker 2: I just, I was so, like, when I saw the
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Speaker 2: headlines last week, like, I got so, I was vibrating
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Speaker 2: so low. Because I couldn't believe it. You couldn't tell
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Speaker 2: me that she was going to get, like, not like
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Speaker 2: a slap on the wrist. but like not nine and
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Speaker 2: a half years. And so the thing is that they
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Speaker 2: said they had to sentence her and then in negotiations
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Speaker 2: will now take place for the swap, if there is
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Speaker 2: to be a swap. But you know, in February, they
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Speaker 2: swapped this Trevor, I forgot his last name, but he
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Speaker 2: was like a US Marine. They swapped him back in
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Speaker 2: February or March, but he had been in prison over
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Speaker 2: there for five years. And to people who are trying
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Speaker 2: to compare like her drug charge In Russia, in comparison
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Speaker 2: to what Biden isn't doing in America for the black
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Speaker 2: men who are arrested or who have been in prison
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Speaker 2: for marijuana over here for decades and shit like that,
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Speaker 2: it's just not the same. You cannot compare a U.S.
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Speaker 2: prison to a Russian prison. You can't. I have sat
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Speaker 2: there and I was trying to figure out where they're
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Speaker 2: going to have her at, where they're going to house
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Speaker 2: her at. I looked at so many videos of the
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Speaker 2: prisons that they have over there. I hope she makes it.
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Speaker 2: The shit is not as inhumane as fuck. They said
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Speaker 2: some of the women, most of the women in Russia
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Speaker 2: get sentenced for drugs. That's what they said. So there's
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Speaker 2: one prison where the women commit suicide as opposed to
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Speaker 2: having to do time at this particular facility. Wow, that's
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Speaker 2: so scary. It's scary. So it's not the same. You
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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? I understand who the fuck y'all
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Speaker 2: voted for. Told y'all niggas not to vote for that dude.
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Speaker 2: Y'all voted for him and he didn't do shit he
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Speaker 2: said he was going to do. I don't feel like none.
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Speaker 1: Of these motherfuckers do shit they say they gonna do.
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Speaker 2: Do. You can't compare what's happening over here to some
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Speaker 2: shit in Russia. And then also I want to say
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Speaker 2: this and then we can move on to the next topic.
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Speaker 2: Y'all just stand in solidarity with Brittany Griner. I don't
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Speaker 2: want to hear nobody saying, oh, she knew better. How
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Speaker 2: many times over here y'all trying to say free, free
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Speaker 2: such and such when y'all know he a cold-blooded motherfucking killer.
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Speaker 2: But y'all still saying free him. But when it comes
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Speaker 2: to a black woman that you can't fuck. Right. It's
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Speaker 2: fuck her. Somebody can fuck her. You know, like maybe
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Speaker 2: not no dudes. That's, yeah, a woman. I'm talking about men.
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Speaker 2: It's the men that I'm seeing that's saying, oh, she
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Speaker 2: knew better. You know what I'm saying? Oh, yeah. It's
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Speaker 2: not women that I'm seeing that's saying that. So I don't, don't,
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Speaker 2: it's no justification for the treatment that she's receiving. It's
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Speaker 2: just not. No. So I hope she comes home soon.
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Speaker 2: I feel like she's coming home soon. Very soon. I
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Speaker 2: feel that way. Me too.
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Speaker 1: And I'm praying for her because, have you ever seen
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Speaker 1: that movie Broken Down Palace? Yes.
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Speaker 2: If y'all guys are.
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Speaker 1: A movie buff, it's a really good movie called Broken
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Speaker 1: Down Palace and it's about these actually two white girls
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Speaker 1: from the US who went on a vacation abroad and
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Speaker 1: they were having a good time and met this beautiful
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Speaker 1: man who invited them to go somewhere else and really
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Speaker 1: he used them as drug decoys so he could take.
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Speaker 2: A whole bunch of drugs where he was trying to go.
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Speaker 2: Was that based on a true story? Yes. I feel
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Speaker 2: like I saw it. I feel like I've seen it before.
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Speaker 1: And these girls took his backpack and they got caught
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Speaker 1: with this amount of drugs. And now they're in like,
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Speaker 1: I think it was like some Asian country. Like, I
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Speaker 1: don't know where it was. I don't want to lie, but, uh,
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Speaker 1: in this prison and they literally never got to leave.
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Speaker 1: Never like, but the end of the movie, the girl
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Speaker 1: was still in prison and she had been there for
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Speaker 1: a long time. And it was, It's a very sad movie.
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Speaker 1: I mean, it's a good story. And it made me
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Speaker 1: think of the Brittany Griner situation. I hope she doesn't
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Speaker 1: have to stay like they did. But if you ever
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Speaker 1: get a chance, check that movie out.
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Speaker 2: It's good. Yeah. Our heart is with you, Brittany Griner.
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Speaker 2: We hope you come home soon, for real. Yeah. And,
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Speaker 2: you know, I don't know. Did you watch Stranger? Do
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Speaker 2: you watch Stranger Things? The show on Netflix?
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Speaker 1: I watched the first season and then I kind of
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Speaker 1: fell off. Everybody talk about it so much that I
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Speaker 1: feel like I should go back and watch it.
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Speaker 2: At least watch the last season. This last season got
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Speaker 2: so many gems in it. And y'all know how I feel.
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Speaker 2: They have to get our consent. So they put a
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Speaker 2: lot of things in movies. They literally have dark matter
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Speaker 2: trapped in a laboratory in Russia. Okay, so that season
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Speaker 2: is based in Russia, some parts of it. But listen,
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Speaker 2: I feel like Brittany Griner might be a direct descendant
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Speaker 2: of some ancient civilizations. I don't know, Sumerians or the Anunnaki.
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Speaker 2: I don't know, but she's pretty tall. And we know
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Speaker 2: basketball players in America, they are our modern day giants.
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Speaker 2: So maybe Russia knows something about Britney that she doesn't
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Speaker 2: even know about herself. But I'll leave that to you.
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Speaker 2: I can go do some research on that. Yeah, we're
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Speaker 2: going to have AJ with her... theories of conspiracy on
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Speaker 2: our Patreon. This is not a conspiracy. It's not a conspiracy. Listen,
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Speaker 2: let me break the numbers down right quick. Just one, one, two, one,
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Speaker 2: two second. Brittany Griner is six foot nine. They sentenced
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Speaker 2: her to 9.6 years. Right. They, they reported March 6th
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Speaker 2: that they had Brittany Griner in custody. Right. That's your three,
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Speaker 2: six and nine. Okay? That's your 369. Google 369. Everybody,
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Speaker 2: just Google the 369 because once you understand 369, you
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Speaker 2: understand the universe. These people do things in numbers all
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Speaker 2: the time as your mantra. Okay, next. Next.
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Speaker 1: So yeah, like I said, we're going to start our
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Speaker 1: Patreon real soon.
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Speaker 2: I just like to give people a different perspective to
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Speaker 2: look at things.
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Speaker 1: Okay? I appreciate it. Sometimes I'll be like, This bitch crazy.
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Speaker 1: But then sometimes I'll be like, that makes some fucking sense.
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Speaker 1: You really went somewhere with that one, girl. You really
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Speaker 1: had me laying in the bed thinking about that shit
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Speaker 1: that time. I always go somewhere. Yeah, sometimes it be-
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Speaker 1: You want to go with me.
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Speaker 2: Far. You want to go with me a lot. Sometimes
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Speaker 2: it be too far for me, but then a lot
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Speaker 2: of times you be making sense. For real, friend. I'm
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Speaker 2: here for it. Most of the time. Don't tell them.
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Speaker 2: Don't tell these people a lot of times because you
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Speaker 2: my motherfucking friend. So you always supposed to be where
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Speaker 2: I'm at. That's just how I feel. I try my best.
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Speaker 2: I try my best for you. I try. All right. Next,
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Speaker 2: who going to jail for COVID fraud? Okay. Biden. Oh,
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Speaker 2: fucking fart head ass. Look. Now listen. Can you say
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Speaker 2: that about our president? there was a time you couldn't
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Speaker 2: talk shit about a president at all, but since Obama,
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Speaker 2: you know, you can say whatever you want to say
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Speaker 2: about a president and get away with it. Apparently. Um,
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Speaker 2: I remember growing up where they said like secret service
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Speaker 2: will pull up at your goddamn house for saying something
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Speaker 2: about the president. But now it's seeming as now we
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Speaker 2: call it our president, a fart head. Whoa. Times have changed. Listen,
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Speaker 2: that was nice. Okay. That was nice. But, uh, Biden says,
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Speaker 2: you can't hide. We're going to find you. We're going
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Speaker 2: to make you pay back what you stole and hold
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Speaker 2: you accountable under the law. Listen, I know my payment dates.
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Speaker 2: I'm paying my shit back. And I'm confused. I can
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Speaker 2: understand the millions of dollars that people may not be
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Speaker 2: able to pay back that they got from the PPP
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Speaker 2: and all these different disaster funds and all this shit. But, okay,
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Speaker 2: my little piece I got, I got your motherfucking money. Like, ugh.
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Speaker 2: I don't want to give it back.
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Speaker 1: I just feel like if you got billions of dollars
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Speaker 1: to send.
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Speaker 2: To Ukraine, why you need mine back? Clearly, you straight.
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Like, you straight. Or the
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Speaker 2: interest off all that credited money is what he used
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Speaker 2: to send over to Ukraine. So now he want to
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Speaker 2: collect from the people. Exactly, but no, that's not right.
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Speaker 2: I don't know if I got it by then. We
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Speaker 2: gonna see. And a lot of people, I guess, even
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Speaker 2: if you got your shit forgiven, is he coming after
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Speaker 2: those people as well? Because you had to show documentation
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Speaker 2: to have things forgiven. Right. So I would, I could
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Speaker 2: only assume that, you know, they're probably going after people
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Speaker 2: who got, you know, upwards. Large. Yes, large amounts of
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Speaker 2: money and, you know... People were lying. They was wilding.
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Speaker 2: They was wilding bad, too. Getting big money and then
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Speaker 2: going to buy a Bentley. Like, are you serious? That's
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Speaker 2: what you wanted to do? And then pulling up to
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Speaker 2: your project house. Like, relax. In apartments. Pulling up in
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Speaker 2: apartments with a Bentley. Parlaying them. I mean, we saying that, like, apartments,
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Speaker 2: and we associate that with black people, but white people
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Speaker 2: was running amok with the PPP and EIDL shit as well.
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Speaker 2: They probably got the most money. And they were buying
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Speaker 2: bullshit too. Because I remember a guy out in Florida
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Speaker 2: had the Lambos, the Rollies, all these things that the
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Speaker 2: government confiscated from him. So it ain't just us. That's
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Speaker 2: for sure who they coming for. Doja Cat, let's get
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Speaker 2: into that.
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Speaker 1: Doja Cat this past week, she cut her hair off
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Speaker 1: and shaved her eyebrows. And at first I was like,
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Speaker 1: Is it a Britney Spears kind of meltdown situation?
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Speaker 2: I think she look cute like that. But I like it.
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Speaker 2: And she said, I'm rich and happy and I do
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Speaker 2: what the fuck I want. Fuck y'all. And I was like,
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Speaker 2: my bitch, you do.
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Speaker 1: And you got the face for it because I couldn't
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Speaker 1: pull that off.
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Speaker 2: Yes. I was in the store the other day and
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Speaker 2: I saw this girl. She had her hair. I was like, oh,
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Speaker 2: you're so pretty because I already know I can't pull
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Speaker 2: off a bald head. Bitch, if you could do a
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Speaker 2: bald head with no brows, no nothing, you like real
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Speaker 2: life pretty. You a bad bitch. Yes. Me and my
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Speaker 2: damn daddy head, I could not do it.
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Speaker 1: I got a peanut right in the back of my head. Like,
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Speaker 1: you know, one of them little nuts in the back?
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Speaker 1: They be like, mm-mm.
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Speaker 2: That shit just stop right there. Yeah, it's just like
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Speaker 2: a little nugget right there in the back. And my
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Speaker 2: mommy used to joke with me, talking about that was
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Speaker 2: my brain. Right there in the back of your head?
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Speaker 2: That little ball right there was my whole brain, right there.
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Speaker 2: Your mama mean for that. This sounds funny. All right,
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Speaker 2: so apparently Kim K and Pete Davidson has call it
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Speaker 2: quits after nine months. How you feel about that? Do
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Speaker 2: you care? Do we even fucking care? I mean, people
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Speaker 2: break up every day, B. Why you want this woman
19:03
Speaker 2: with four kids anyway? And apparently they said that he...
19:06
Speaker 2: had recently tried to ask her to marry him. And
19:09
Speaker 2: I guess that's probably what made her run. She just
19:12
Speaker 2: got out of a marriage. She's still in a marriage. Remember? Oh, really? Oh, yeah, yeah.
19:19
Speaker 2: She requested from the courts to be legally a single person.
19:25
Speaker 2: So she wanted to be separated from Kanye. And then
19:29
Speaker 2: there's reports out that he has now went through his
19:31
Speaker 2: fifth attorney for the divorce. So they still working that
19:36
Speaker 2: shit out. She's still married. She's still married. I didn't
19:39
Speaker 2: think they were actually together in the first place. I
19:41
Speaker 2: thought it was a PR stunt. She just was trying
19:43
Speaker 2: to have fun. That's what I think.
19:45
Speaker 1: She got this younger guy, opposite of what she typically dates,
19:48
Speaker 1: which is white. She always dates black men, and he's
19:51
Speaker 1: a young white man. She just was looking for some fun.
19:53
Speaker 1: I don't think she was looking for it to go
19:56
Speaker 1: too serious. I think maybe before Pete almost called a
19:59
Speaker 1: man skeet. Before Pete got too emotionally involved, she called
20:06
Speaker 1: it quits.
20:07
Speaker 2: Right. She did an interview and she literally said like
20:12
Speaker 2: when she met him, she was DTF. That don't sound
20:15
Speaker 2: like she's taking him serious at all. She's not looking
20:18
Speaker 2: for no real relationship. He's 28. Kim K is like 41.
20:24
Speaker 2: Come on. What are we talking about? What the fuck
20:27
Speaker 2: are we really talking about? So Kanye then took to
20:30
Speaker 2: his Instagram post and posted like a fake article, like
20:34
Speaker 2: a Times article that read, Skeet is dead in 2022. Wait, what?
20:42
Speaker 2: It says Skeet Davidson dead at 28. And it was
20:46
Speaker 2: like a fake New York Times article. And Kim K
20:49
Speaker 2: tweeted like, how does Instagram even let somebody post some
20:51
Speaker 2: bullying type shit like that up there and allow it
20:55
Speaker 2: to stay? Because it was posted like last night, middle
20:58
Speaker 2: of the night. And I just checked and now it's down.
21:02
Speaker 2: But it's been up there most of the afternoon. That's
21:05
Speaker 2: not okay. It's not, but the nigga did a whole
21:07
Speaker 2: video burying him. Yeah, that wasn't okay either. He just
21:12
Speaker 2: had his head. He had a Pete Davidson head, okay?
21:19
Speaker 2: That's kind of dark and sick. Okay. You don't think
21:24
Speaker 2: that's dark and sick? So you don't think that's how
21:26
Speaker 2: most Hollywood people are or people with a lot of
21:29
Speaker 2: money like... Dark and sick? Yes, motherfucker. So you mean,
21:34
Speaker 2: you think that only regular people are serial killers and
21:37
Speaker 2: stuff like that. You think that they're exempt from being
21:41
Speaker 2: fucking psychopaths? No. You think Kanye West is a psychopath?
21:46
Speaker 2: Him and a lot of other people, they have the
21:48
Speaker 2: means to do what the fuck they want and get
21:50
Speaker 2: away with it. But we don't be looking at them. Girl,
21:53
Speaker 2: I remember maybe about five, six years ago, there was
21:57
Speaker 2: a decapitated body found in Hollywood Hills, like in a
22:01
Speaker 2: prominent-ass neighborhood. A West Indian man. Yeah, like who the
22:08
Speaker 2: fuck did that? Shit is really weird. And then how
22:11
Speaker 2: about that billionaire or millionaire who just went to prison
22:14
Speaker 2: for killing all those black gay men? You know who
22:18
Speaker 2: I'm talking about? I missed that one. Yes, girl. For years,
22:22
Speaker 2: niggas was coming up dead at his house. He drugged
22:24
Speaker 2: them up. Fuck them. They might have an overdose or
22:28
Speaker 2: maybe he was causing them to have an overdose. And
22:32
Speaker 2: getting away with it. Be safe out here, okay? Shit
22:36
Speaker 2: is getting real weird outside. Mm-hmm. Wicked, wicked, wicked. Irv Gotti.
22:42
Speaker 2: Irv Gotti. Yeah. Girl, we both just think about his
22:46
Speaker 2: whack ass.
22:47
Speaker 1: Ugh.
22:50
Speaker 2: So was Ashanti his side piece at the time? Is
22:54
Speaker 2: what I'm confused on. So, yes, he was married at
22:58
Speaker 2: the time. Him and his wife didn't split up until 2013.
23:00
Speaker 2: They didn't get a divorce until 2013. Now, I don't
23:03
Speaker 2: know how long they were separated, but they didn't divorce
23:06
Speaker 2: until 2013. So we know whatever relationship that him and
23:11
Speaker 2: Ashanti had going on was way earlier than that. But
23:15
Speaker 2: I know drink champs get you drunk so you can
23:17
Speaker 2: talk shit. Come on, man. Ain't no way. Why you
23:23
Speaker 2: put that girl business out there like that? 20 years ago,
23:26
Speaker 2: because she's still popping. It's not no regular woman. This
23:29
Speaker 2: is Ashanti we're talking about. Iron ass Ashanti. Yes! Ashanti
23:33
Speaker 2: still walk around here extra fucking fine, and that's why
23:36
Speaker 2: he mad. And that's why he mad.
23:38
Speaker 1: Because if she was fat and ugly now with a
23:41
Speaker 1: bunch of kids, he wouldn't have.
23:43
Speaker 2: Mentioned her ass on the show. Not at all. Not
23:45
Speaker 2: at all. It kills me.
23:47
Speaker 1: All right, so if a woman is dealing with a
23:49
Speaker 1: married man and she comes out and says anything about it,
23:53
Speaker 1: then they're like, uh-uh, you was okay with it, so
23:56
Speaker 1: you should have kept your mouth closed. But if a
23:58
Speaker 1: man does it, nobody's giving him that same, like, why
24:00
Speaker 1: are you telling on her? Like, shut your fucking mouth too.
24:03
Speaker 2: Yes, Chatty Patty. Shut up, Chatty Patty. He's really, he really,
24:10
Speaker 2: the interview was like three and a half hours. I
24:12
Speaker 2: haven't started listening to it yet, so I've only seen
24:14
Speaker 2: like the little clickbait stuff that's online, but I even
24:17
Speaker 2: saw a clip where he basically said that Jay-Z would
24:21
Speaker 2: periodically ask him if DMX was better than him back
24:25
Speaker 2: in the day. Like as a rapper? Yes. Yes. Why
24:33
Speaker 2: would you tell that? That's something somebody asked you like
24:36
Speaker 2: in confidence. You know what I'm saying? What's up?
24:39
Speaker 1: Wait, so Jay-Z asked if Irv Gotti thought that DMX
24:43
Speaker 1: was better than Jay-Z?
24:44
Speaker 2: Yes, better than him. Yeah. Yeah. So this goes back to, nigga,
24:51
Speaker 2: it's not me you can't be vulnerable with. It's your
24:54
Speaker 2: friends you can't be vulnerable with. Don't confuse the two.
24:57
Speaker 2: Because y'all niggas really be, you know, somebody different for
25:02
Speaker 2: your friends. But your woman know exactly who the fuck
25:05
Speaker 2: you are. Who you are. So now it's your friends
25:07
Speaker 2: that'll use some shit against your ass. Because why? Why
25:10
Speaker 2: would he do that? Right. Irv Gotti, I'm looking at
25:13
Speaker 2: him sideways, child. Like, ugh. I definitely would have some
25:16
Speaker 2: money put to the side to make his ass disappear
25:18
Speaker 2: because I don't like that. Wait, AJ. What? What? I mean,
25:25
Speaker 2: it could be like legally make him shut the fuck
25:27
Speaker 2: up or permanently make him shut the fuck up. Either one, whichever, whichever.
25:31
Speaker 2: If I'm a millionaire, just listen, just so y'all know
25:34
Speaker 2: for future reference, y'all motherfuckers let me get a B
25:37
Speaker 2: if you want to. It's going to be shut the
25:40
Speaker 2: fuck up forever. for a lot of people. Moving right
25:45
Speaker 2: on because this bitch crazy, Gemini.
25:47
Speaker 1: Y'all, we're going to pay some bills and we're going
25:49
Speaker 1: to come back with our main topic. Are you coming
25:52
Speaker 1: to the cookout? Are you bringing your nigga to the cookout?
25:55
Speaker 2: Or not?
25:56
Speaker 1: Or is it even your nigga? That's what we're going
25:59
Speaker 1: to talk about. We'll be right back.
26:05
Speaker 2: So, apparently Tam and I have a what is it?
26:10
Speaker 2: A difference An opinion, okay? When it comes to dating, oftentimes, right?
26:18
Speaker 2: And I was telling her how I took a guy
26:20
Speaker 2: friend of mine to like a family gathering at my
26:23
Speaker 2: dad's house. And this is a friend. And this is
26:26
Speaker 2: how I introduced him to my family as a friend. Now,
26:30
Speaker 2: I could count on one hand how many men I've
26:33
Speaker 2: had around my family, right? But I don't see a
26:35
Speaker 2: problem with bringing a nigga to the cookout. That's not
26:39
Speaker 2: your man. I'm confused.
26:43
Speaker 1: I'm not bringing no niggas to nothing at my family
26:46
Speaker 1: house unless we're together. They don't get to be introduced
26:50
Speaker 1: to my family. If they're at my house and I
26:52
Speaker 1: FaceTime with my mama, shh. Don't say a word until
26:56
Speaker 1: I hang up with my mama.
26:58
Speaker 2: What? No, you need to shut up, sir. Wait a minute.
27:06
Speaker 2: They can't come to the cookout and they can't talk
27:09
Speaker 2: on the phone. No, just be quiet because she don't
27:12
Speaker 2: need to know who you are unless you my man.
27:14
Speaker 2: I just really don't think it's that serious, especially when
27:17
Speaker 2: you in the getting to know stages and you hanging
27:21
Speaker 2: out with somebody. So if this is somebody I already
27:23
Speaker 2: hang out with on the weekend, right? But you fucking know.
27:26
Speaker 2: That makes it different. What are you talking about? First
27:30
Speaker 2: of all, what are you talking about? I haven't had
27:33
Speaker 2: sex in years. What are you talking about? Girl, in
27:36
Speaker 2: the beginning of the episode, you said you fuck like
27:38
Speaker 2: a shower. What? Like a shower?
27:42
Speaker 1: Remember, you was like, I don't have to mention fucking
27:44
Speaker 1: because that's just something I do.
27:46
Speaker 2: That's just who I am. Y'all see how this bitch
27:51
Speaker 2: be up here showing up? Lying. Just lying. Listen. Oh, goodness.
28:05
Speaker 2: whatever okay this is somebody so but so what y'all
28:09
Speaker 2: can still be like friends and this is who I
28:12
Speaker 2: want to hang out with and hey I'm about to
28:13
Speaker 2: go do this for a couple hours you should come
28:16
Speaker 2: come with and the thing is that I didn't even
28:18
Speaker 2: expect him to actually come but he did so it
28:23
Speaker 2: was cool but see when you invite someone to meet
28:26
Speaker 2: your family that's typically that's normally a big deal I
28:31
Speaker 2: really don't feel like that's meeting and like so people
28:33
Speaker 2: did have questions you know at the event but I
28:37
Speaker 2: haven't seen y'all in how long so y'all don't know
28:39
Speaker 2: how the fuck my life done changed like and where
28:41
Speaker 2: your bitch and where your baby daddy like uh this
28:44
Speaker 2: is just my friend.
28:46
Speaker 1: But see that's the questions that I don't want to
28:48
Speaker 1: entertain so that's why I don't bring anybody unless it's
28:51
Speaker 1: something where I can say yeah this is my man
28:55
Speaker 1: and let me introduce you to my man Idris You know,
28:58
Speaker 1: I just want.
28:58
Speaker 2: To be able to say that. What? That is a
29:02
Speaker 2: married man. He married? Yes. Okay, here. This is my man.
29:09
Speaker 2: What's that finance dude from? Chewbacca. His name Jonathan. Jonathan Majors? Yes.
29:16
Speaker 2: Don't play on me. That is my boyfriend. Jonathan Majors.
29:19
Speaker 2: That is my boyfriend. Whoever you took to the cookout,
29:22
Speaker 2: that's who your boyfriend is. No, bitch. Like, he is literally... Oh,
29:27
Speaker 2: my God. Yes. That's my boyfriend. That's my boyfriend. Girl,
29:32
Speaker 2: I just claimed him. How you going to say this
29:34
Speaker 2: to a nigga when I just said? He is on
29:36
Speaker 2: my vision boards. You see her right there? This bitch
29:38
Speaker 2: got this nigga right on her screensaver. Girl, that is my... Listen, listen.
29:44
Speaker 2: I love him. Right next to the ab, the six pack. Like,
29:48
Speaker 2: that's my whole boyfriend, girl. Anyway. I ain't never heard
29:52
Speaker 2: you said you like him. Girl, ever since Lovecraft Country,
29:55
Speaker 2: I've been on that nigga. What's the basketball player you like?
29:59
Speaker 2: Serge Ibaka? I let you have him. Okay? I let
30:02
Speaker 2: you have him. He's been doing a lot of Instagram, like, facial. Facials.
30:07
Speaker 1: He's giving me too much Metro lately.
30:10
Speaker 2: So I'm off of him. He's still fine, but I'm
30:13
Speaker 2: off of him. I let you have him, and that's
30:14
Speaker 2: how you gonna do me? You can have him back.
30:17
Speaker 2: I don't want that dude. I want Jonathan Majors. Oh, girl.
30:21
Speaker 2: He's so fine. Yeah, he is. Y'all know he played
30:24
Speaker 2: on Lovecraft Country, and that other movie, Jay-Z Only, came
30:28
Speaker 2: on Instagram to promote That The Harder They Fall, a
30:32
Speaker 2: couple months ago. Yes.
30:34
Speaker 1: He is actually doing a movie with my old crush
30:38
Speaker 1: from back in the day. The one that was with,
30:42
Speaker 1: oh girl, Steve Harvey's daughter.
30:46
Speaker 2: Oh. Michael B. Jordan. They doing a movie together. I
30:49
Speaker 2: saw that. That's a masturbation festival for me. I ain't
30:52
Speaker 2: going to lie. I'm going to. Watch that movie at home. No,
30:57
Speaker 2: I don't want to go to the movies to see that.
30:59
Speaker 2: I got plans. Bitch made a whole old date night
31:03
Speaker 2: for them niggas. Me, Jonathan, Michael, and my Rose getting
31:07
Speaker 2: it in for the movie. Shame. Oh, goodness.
31:14
Speaker 1: But yeah, so I had one of my friends... This
31:18
Speaker 1: is really my guy friend, my friend Rel. He came
31:22
Speaker 1: to my, he lives in my building downstairs from me
31:24
Speaker 1: and he came by. My family came for my birthday
31:28
Speaker 1: and we got on the grill and I had like
31:30
Speaker 1: so much food. So I was like, Rel, you home?
31:32
Speaker 1: You know, if you want to come by and get
31:34
Speaker 1: some food, you can't. He's like, yeah, I pull up.
31:36
Speaker 1: So he got to meet my family. And I have
31:38
Speaker 1: not brought a man around my family since probably like 2016.
31:42
Speaker 1: But he's just my friend. And they just was like
31:45
Speaker 1: so confused. Like they just didn't even know how to
31:48
Speaker 1: act around a nigga. My mom like, are you going
31:49
Speaker 1: to make his plate for him? Get your ass up
31:51
Speaker 1: and make the plate for him. I was like, ma,
31:53
Speaker 1: that is not my nigga. Let him make his own food.
31:55
Speaker 1: That's just my friend.
31:57
Speaker 2: Like, and my dad was like, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
32:01
Speaker 2: what's up my boy?
32:02
Speaker 1: Like just being so happy because he was ready to
32:04
Speaker 1: have like a son-in-law kind of energy.
32:08
Speaker 2: Bruh, that's not that.
32:10
Speaker 1: So I would never bring another guy around unless it's
32:12
Speaker 1: something serious because they was ready to make him my hub.
32:16
Speaker 2: I just don't think it's that serious. I don't think
32:18
Speaker 2: it's that serious and I feel like you could be
32:22
Speaker 2: friends with somebody. I think we, okay, I don't know.
32:26
Speaker 2: Do we, do we look too far into like Things
32:31
Speaker 2: with the opposite sex. You know what I'm saying? Like, why?
32:34
Speaker 2: I could bring my homegirl, but I can't bring this guy.
32:36
Speaker 2: And I understand the sex part, right? But if this
32:40
Speaker 2: is a good friend of mine who I already be
32:42
Speaker 2: hanging out with, like, I don't see the big deal.
32:44
Speaker 2: And maybe it has something more or so to do
32:46
Speaker 2: with me. Because I, so one of my uncles and
32:48
Speaker 2: then my cousin had asked me something at the cookout, right?
32:51
Speaker 2: Other than that, my daddy ain't ask me shit. You
32:54
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? Like, he's been around my mom before.
32:56
Speaker 2: My mom don't be asking me shit because he's my friend.
33:00
Speaker 2: That's it. Your special friend. Whatever. He's my fucking friend.
33:06
Speaker 1: But everybody in the family, even if they don't ask
33:08
Speaker 1: you any questions, they're going to be like, that's your
33:10
Speaker 1: nigga in their head.
33:11
Speaker 2: That's not true though. I think it depends on me.
33:14
Speaker 2: Like they're not used to you bringing dudes around. Not
33:19
Speaker 2: saying like I just be bringing all type of niggas
33:20
Speaker 2: around my family because it's just not true. A thousand niggas.
33:23
Speaker 2: A thousand niggas. But I don't think they know me
33:26
Speaker 2: like that to even question me. Because I've been away
33:29
Speaker 2: for a long time. So now when I come to,
33:32
Speaker 2: like when I'm now in town and I do like
33:34
Speaker 2: family shit, they probably don't know how to take me either.
33:36
Speaker 2: So what's the energy like?
33:38
Speaker 1: And then you also have to look at the energy
33:40
Speaker 1: that y'all share with each other.
33:41
Speaker 2: Did you make his plate for him? We was eating crabs. Like, yeah,
33:45
Speaker 2: I got whatever he needed while we was there. Cause that,
33:47
Speaker 2: I mean, that's also like, even if you bring your
33:50
Speaker 2: home girl, like your home girl don't like to get
33:52
Speaker 2: up and get their own food in front of your family.
33:54
Speaker 2: You don't be bringing me shit. You don't bring me shit.
33:56
Speaker 2: When have you been, when have you ever been in like,
34:00
Speaker 2: like when have you invited me, bitch?
34:03
Speaker 1: We don't be doing shit about it. Clearly you do
34:06
Speaker 1: be doing shit. You just had a crab ball where
34:09
Speaker 1: you was making that nigga a plate.
34:11
Speaker 2: First of all, the crab is dumped on a table
34:13
Speaker 2: and everybody go eat crabs. Like I didn't have to
34:15
Speaker 2: do much but like getting him a drink or something
34:17
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah.
34:18
Speaker 1: You wouldn't have got me no, let's be real. You
34:20
Speaker 1: wouldn't have got me a drink. You would have pointed
34:22
Speaker 1: me to where the drinks at.
34:24
Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true. First of all, I
34:28
Speaker 2: serve people. So, I know that sometimes people are uncomfortable
34:33
Speaker 2: in front of other people's families and friends and shit
34:35
Speaker 2: like that. So, I wouldn't put you in an awkward
34:36
Speaker 2: position to have to get up and do things for
34:38
Speaker 2: yourself when you may not be comfortable doing that. Me,
34:42
Speaker 2: on the other hand, I'm in your fucking mama's refrigerator. Like,
34:44
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable. Me too. If you say I can do something,
34:47
Speaker 2: I'm going to be doing it. Especially when it comes
34:49
Speaker 2: to food.
34:49
Speaker 1: Yeah.
34:50
Speaker 2: You ain't got to do shit for me. You just
34:52
Speaker 2: point me in the right direction. I just saw a
34:55
Speaker 2: post online. It was like a video and it was
34:57
Speaker 2: like these two black guys and a dude bringing a
34:59
Speaker 2: plate of food. And it was like how you act
35:02
Speaker 2: when somebody bring you a plate of food, like looking
35:04
Speaker 2: around like, oh, I didn't know you were feeding me.
35:06
Speaker 2: I'm like, nah, I'm the type that's going to meet
35:08
Speaker 2: you with the plate, bitch, so you don't got to
35:09
Speaker 2: walk too far. But I'm never afraid to be myself
35:13
Speaker 2: in any setting. But some people are. So I would always...
35:16
Speaker 2: If I bring somebody around my people, I'm going to
35:18
Speaker 2: make sure they're good, man or a woman. Mm-hmm. Okay? Okay. So, yes,
35:23
Speaker 2: I was making that nigga drink, getting him some water
35:25
Speaker 2: if he need to instead of him going in. But
35:27
Speaker 2: when people see you doing that, there goes the assumption.
35:30
Speaker 2: I don't care. Because guess what? I could bring another
35:33
Speaker 2: nigga there next week, like next. It's really not that,
35:37
Speaker 2: it's not that serious to me, though. There's no other
35:40
Speaker 2: nigga for me to bring. Look, just in case you listen. Yeah,
35:42
Speaker 2: put that out there just in case. But that's just
35:47
Speaker 2: my friend.
35:48
Speaker 1: See, I feel like you minimize the dynamic that you
35:51
Speaker 1: have with that man.
35:52
Speaker 2: No, I'm not. When you say that. Okay, no, I
35:55
Speaker 2: don't think I'm minimizing it. It's just that I think
36:00
Speaker 2: a lot, I think for black women, we need to
36:04
Speaker 2: watch our attachment issues. We need to live in a
36:08
Speaker 2: moment more with relationships. I understand the older you get,
36:11
Speaker 2: you start, you know, looking at your fertility. All these
36:16
Speaker 2: different things we start calculating, right? When we're dating and
36:18
Speaker 2: the older you get and you're single and all these
36:20
Speaker 2: different things. But you have to take some situations for
36:24
Speaker 2: whatever it is. So, like I said, that's my friend. Okay?
36:28
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to force him into a relationship by
36:31
Speaker 2: taking him around my damn family. Yeah. Yeah. You know,
36:34
Speaker 2: because if he do the same thing, he would expect
36:36
Speaker 2: me to not feel like that either. But some women would. Yeah,
36:41
Speaker 2: as soon as you take.
36:43
Speaker 1: Me to meet your mama, we are together together. And
36:47
Speaker 1: I don't want to go until we're together together. But
36:50
Speaker 1: the nigga mama that I met five bitches this year, like,
36:53
Speaker 1: you're not even special like you think.
36:55
Speaker 2: You see? Yes, I am. Don't tell me that. I am. Like,
36:59
Speaker 2: this is why I don't fuck with mamas right now, okay?
37:04
Speaker 2: Because mamas be lying like they lying ass. When I
37:07
Speaker 2: meet your mama, that means something. Because I'm so good
37:09
Speaker 2: with mamas. Like, if I'm not good at anything else,
37:11
Speaker 2: I'm so good with moms. Mom's love me. Oh, my God.
37:16
Speaker 2: I'm the queen of finessing mamas. I would be like...
37:20
Speaker 2: So you think finessing a mom is like getting like
37:22
Speaker 2: your way to the man's heart kind of? Is that
37:24
Speaker 2: why you do it? I don't.
37:27
Speaker 1: It might be a, you know, last week episode, a
37:29
Speaker 1: little bit manipulation here. Honestly, I just, if I love
37:36
Speaker 1: a guy, I want his mom to love me too. Honestly,
37:39
Speaker 1: that's really, if I really like this man, I want
37:41
Speaker 1: his mom to like me just as much.
37:43
Speaker 2: It depends. Your mama have to be married. Your mama
37:46
Speaker 2: have to have a man. It don't matter to me. Nah. Yeah,
37:51
Speaker 2: because those are the hardest ones to win, but I'm
37:53
Speaker 2: still winning. I'm not trying. This is over. I feel
37:57
Speaker 2: like if somebody's family makes it hard for me, I'm
38:00
Speaker 2: just not fucking with them. I'm not ever battling anybody's
38:04
Speaker 2: family member again. I've done it. I would kill them
38:08
Speaker 2: with kindness.
38:08
Speaker 1: Like, it's going to be like, if you really just,
38:10
Speaker 1: if you act like you don't like me, you're just
38:13
Speaker 1: a hater at this point because I've been so nice
38:15
Speaker 1: to you. Like, there's no reason not to. I remember
38:17
Speaker 1: this one guy. I won't say who it is because
38:20
Speaker 1: y'all would know him if I said it. We used to,
38:23
Speaker 1: this is years ago and we were seeing each other
38:26
Speaker 1: and his mom came to visit for the summer. And
38:30
Speaker 1: I swear his mama called me every day. to take
38:35
Speaker 1: her to Walmart. And I used to think like, damn,
38:38
Speaker 1: you couldn't have gotten that shit yesterday. But I would
38:41
Speaker 1: take her ass every single day to Walmart. It never failed.
38:44
Speaker 2: She called me.
38:45
Speaker 1: And she would pray for me on the phone. And
38:48
Speaker 1: then I'd come get her, take her to Walmart, drop
38:50
Speaker 1: her off at the front. I'd never go in with her.
38:52
Speaker 1: I'd just drop her off at the front door. And
38:54
Speaker 1: I'd watch the door and wait for her to be
38:55
Speaker 1: at the front door again. And I'd pick her up
38:58
Speaker 1: from the front door and then take her back to
38:59
Speaker 1: the house. And she'd come out with an apple or
39:02
Speaker 1: something like bullshit. It would just be.
39:03
Speaker 2: Like something to get her. She just wanted to get
39:06
Speaker 2: out the house. Yep. And she just wanted to hang
39:07
Speaker 2: out and get out the house. But I would take
39:09
Speaker 2: her every day.
39:10
Speaker 1: And that's back when I didn't have a lot of responsibility, honestly,
39:13
Speaker 1: because right now I had to Uber her ass.
39:18
Speaker 2: I couldn't give her that much time now. And she
39:21
Speaker 2: loved me. I probably could call her right now and
39:23
Speaker 2: ask her to pray with me and she would. Yeah.
39:27
Speaker 2: You know, if I can't smack your sister, I just
39:30
Speaker 2: don't want to be with you no more. What? Toxic.
39:36
Speaker 2: If I can't smack your mama, I don't think we
39:38
Speaker 2: should anymore. Why you want to smack somebody's mama? Because
39:43
Speaker 2: adults be needing they ass whooped sometimes. Even mamas. Even sisters,
39:47
Speaker 2: even daddies, even brothers.
39:49
Speaker 1: I want the mamas to always be on my side. Like,
39:51
Speaker 1: if you lose 10, you're stupid.
39:54
Speaker 2: I done had mamas on my side. I have had
39:57
Speaker 2: a mama on my side, too. And she's like a
40:00
Speaker 2: real family member to me. And so is her son. So, like,
40:03
Speaker 2: that's my family at this point. We not, you know,
40:06
Speaker 2: ain't nothing like that. But that's the only mama I
40:09
Speaker 2: ever liked. And then, you know, nigga who ain't got
40:12
Speaker 2: no mama, I like them, too.
40:14
Speaker 1: I did have one relationship where his mom, she was
40:18
Speaker 1: always on his side no matter what. But she did
40:20
Speaker 1: like me and she was always nice to me. But
40:23
Speaker 1: she definitely took her son's side on everything. And I
40:25
Speaker 1: used to be like, are you really listening to the facts?
40:28
Speaker 1: And he would call her every time we got in
40:29
Speaker 1: a fight.
40:29
Speaker 2: That's what I was about to say. Like, why are
40:31
Speaker 2: you even discussing what's going on with the mom? Like,
40:34
Speaker 2: what the fuck? Because he would call her every time
40:37
Speaker 2: for advice.
40:38
Speaker 1: And then she would call me to have a conversation
40:39
Speaker 1: with me because she's just trying to help us have
40:41
Speaker 1: an amicable relationship.
40:43
Speaker 2: Amicable?
40:44
Speaker 1: That was her word.
40:46
Speaker 2: No. I don't need your mom in my business.
40:49
Speaker 1: And it used to be like, a lot of things
40:51
Speaker 1: I'd be like, do you hear yourself? Like, you sound crazy.
40:54
Speaker 2: Because, you know, what type of relationship is she in
40:57
Speaker 2: with the father? With his dad? Because are you in
40:59
Speaker 2: a relationship with a narcissist? Are you in a relationship?
41:02
Speaker 2: Was she even in a relationship? No, she was very
41:05
Speaker 2: much single. Yeah, I don't got, no, I can't take
41:08
Speaker 2: no advice from you, ma'am. I'll take marriage advice from
41:11
Speaker 2: married people and I'll take relationship advice from, you know, people.
41:15
Speaker 2: I mean, dating advice from people who are actually dating.
41:18
Speaker 2: I don't want no marriage, no dating advice from nobody
41:22
Speaker 2: who's been married for 15 years. You don't even know
41:25
Speaker 2: what the hell going on out here right now. Right.
41:28
Speaker 2: And I don't want no relationship advice from somebody who's
41:30
Speaker 2: not in a successful relationship or marriage. Right. I agree. Yeah,
41:36
Speaker 2: because you're going to be coming with all your trauma
41:38
Speaker 2: and maybe what you would have done differently, but I'm
41:42
Speaker 2: not dealing with the same man that you might have
41:44
Speaker 2: been dealing with. It could be all types of things.
41:47
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I'm taking friends to the cookouts.
41:50
Speaker 2: I'm taking friends to places with me.
41:53
Speaker 1: I am.
41:53
Speaker 2: Y'all can't come to my shit. I am. I'll bring
41:58
Speaker 2: you a plate after it's over. I'll bring you a plate.
42:01
Speaker 2: That's not a problem. I just really don't see the
42:03
Speaker 2: big deal. I don't.
42:05
Speaker 1: I don't want you to meet my parents until not
42:09
Speaker 1: just my parents my sister it's.
42:10
Speaker 2: Not that serious what y'all think y'all hit us up
42:15
Speaker 2: let us know is it that serious meeting a man's
42:18
Speaker 2: family on some regular this my friend even if y'all
42:22
Speaker 2: kicking it intimately like what's the big deal with meeting
42:26
Speaker 2: the family and friends like I like to meet new
42:29
Speaker 2: people maybe that's my thing I like to meet new
42:31
Speaker 2: people I like I definitely like like you know cookouts
42:36
Speaker 2: and house parties I like that over a club any
42:39
Speaker 2: day so yeah.
42:41
Speaker 1: Invite me but not you can invite me but I'm
42:46
Speaker 1: not going.
42:47
Speaker 2: What about around a guy and his friends so is
42:49
Speaker 2: that not that's the same thing like a guy invites
42:52
Speaker 2: you out with him and his homeboys and like a
42:55
Speaker 2: couples like a couples thing.
42:59
Speaker 1: I could do that if it's not if it's if
43:02
Speaker 1: it's super new no.
43:04
Speaker 2: I barely know you. I don't want to know your friends.
43:08
Speaker 2: How do you then? I feel like that's a part
43:11
Speaker 2: of getting to know somebody, trying to see like, so
43:13
Speaker 2: this guy, his family isn't here. But I would want
43:16
Speaker 2: to know, how's his family? I would want to know
43:19
Speaker 2: that because what if we do get serious? I need
43:21
Speaker 2: to know if you came from a fucked up family
43:23
Speaker 2: or not. Right.
43:25
Speaker 1: So I agree there. But we would have to be
43:28
Speaker 1: headed toward that direction first.
43:30
Speaker 2: I would have to know. I don't want to head
43:33
Speaker 2: there without knowing your family background no more. I don't.
43:37
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to head there. Because what
43:40
Speaker 2: happens is, like, you head there, now you're there, right?
43:43
Speaker 2: And then you having all these behavioral issues like this motherfucking,
43:45
Speaker 2: now you got to, now you finally see mama and
43:48
Speaker 2: whoever else and it's like, oh, this is why. But
43:50
Speaker 2: had you met them earlier on, it would have saved
43:55
Speaker 2: you some time and your insurance. Time and money on
43:59
Speaker 2: your insurance.
43:59
Speaker 1: I don't know if I like to, you know, I
44:02
Speaker 1: come from a crazy family, you know, and I just
44:05
Speaker 1: don't want people to be like, oh, let me go
44:07
Speaker 1: meet her family and determine who she is because of
44:09
Speaker 1: how they are. Because my family, they off the chain,
44:12
Speaker 1: you know, like they off the chain. So I don't want,
44:15
Speaker 1: I can't, I don't want to use that as my
44:17
Speaker 1: determining factor. Not saying that I come from a bad family.
44:20
Speaker 1: My family is great and everybody's like funny. You're going
44:22
Speaker 1: to laugh your ass off. But there is a little element,
44:25
Speaker 1: a little, you know.
44:26
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like that's all black families. I
44:29
Speaker 2: feel like that's kind of like, the dynamic across the board.
44:33
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I need to see how you
44:36
Speaker 2: interact with your daddy, how you interact with your mama. Like,
44:40
Speaker 2: that's really what I'm looking for. I'm not really even
44:42
Speaker 2: looking for, like, interaction with the siblings and stuff, you know?
44:45
Speaker 2: I want to see that, though. I want to see... Yeah,
44:48
Speaker 2: I want to see that.
44:49
Speaker 1: But once we're determining that this is getting serious and
44:52
Speaker 1: this could be something real.
44:53
Speaker 2: But prior to that, no. No, thank you.
44:56
Speaker 1: And the friend thing, like, you don't even want to
44:58
Speaker 1: take me around your friends too early because... If we
45:01
Speaker 1: just getting to know each other and we need to
45:03
Speaker 1: smash it, I might leave you for one of your homeboys.
45:08
Speaker 1: If we ain't had sex yet and we hanging out,
45:11
Speaker 1: we're actually just friends at this point.
45:13
Speaker 2: Right. I picked the wrong one. Nothing but friends. Right.
45:17
Speaker 2: So how do you pull that off? Hold on. Let's
45:19
Speaker 2: go to break right quick. And then I want to
45:21
Speaker 2: hear how we would apply that in a situation. Y'all,
45:25
Speaker 2: we'll be right back. Okay, Tam. I know we joke
45:33
Speaker 2: about this type of shit all the time, but what's
45:37
Speaker 2: the application for this? Okay, you meet a guy. Y'all
45:40
Speaker 2: kicking it. Y'all haven't been intimate yet. You go, I
45:45
Speaker 2: don't know, maybe he invites you out to do bowling
45:47
Speaker 2: with his friends. They do this every Saturday night, whatever, girlfriends, homegirls, whoever,
45:51
Speaker 2: everybody else. You get to pick somebody else, though. There's
45:54
Speaker 2: somebody else there. How do you go about doing that? Like,
45:59
Speaker 2: how do you say, hey?
46:00
Speaker 1: I would never be the aggressor, honestly. They would have to, like,
46:06
Speaker 1: come at me. And if I'm not feeling you, like, Jeffree,
46:11
Speaker 1: he's cool. But here's Andre over here. And Andre is, like,
46:15
Speaker 1: making me laugh. And he's, you know, more entertaining me
46:19
Speaker 1: than Jeffree. and then he come around and slide in
46:22
Speaker 1: my DMs, I might holla at Andre.
46:24
Speaker 2: I might. I ain't never fucked Jeffrey. We just went
46:27
Speaker 2: on a date, you know? I don't owe Jeffrey shit. Right?
46:31
Speaker 2: We already know men think pussy they never even had
46:34
Speaker 2: before is on reserve for them. So you know you'll
46:36
Speaker 2: still be a hoe in Jeffrey's eyes, right? Well, ho, ho, ho,
46:40
Speaker 2: Merry Christmas. I don't care nothing about that.
46:44
Speaker 1: Now, if Jeffrey and I slept together, then okay, all
46:50
Speaker 1: his friends are off limits. I don't want that type
46:52
Speaker 1: of stigma.
46:53
Speaker 2: But we ain't did nothing. You're just somebody I hung
46:56
Speaker 2: out with. Switch. Right. Are you going to automatically start
47:01
Speaker 2: trying to hook Jeffrey up with somebody else? You know,
47:04
Speaker 2: I got a good friend for you.
47:07
Speaker 1: You know, honestly, if I think there's someone that Jeffrey
47:10
Speaker 1: might get along with better than me and vibe with,
47:13
Speaker 1: like definitely.
47:14
Speaker 2: Why not? If he would be up to it, he
47:16
Speaker 2: might be salty with me, you know? fucking bitch with
47:19
Speaker 2: my homeboy.
47:21
Speaker 1: But if he a real decent dude he probably wouldn't
47:23
Speaker 1: you know you know it just depends.
47:26
Speaker 2: Yeah I don't know that I've ever been in that
47:28
Speaker 2: situation or like picked somebody else over the friend but
47:32
Speaker 2: listen yeah like if it hasn't happened I might not
47:35
Speaker 2: be the aggressor I might not be at the bowling
47:37
Speaker 2: alley like walking up to your homeboy like I like
47:42
Speaker 2: you right that's kind of wild yeah but But if
47:46
Speaker 2: your homeboy don't give a fuck about you or jumping
47:49
Speaker 2: my damn DMs or something, oh, it's on.
47:51
Speaker 1: So general consensus, AJ, it don't mean nothing. Like, don't
47:57
Speaker 1: take it too serious. If she invites you to the
47:59
Speaker 1: family cookout, that don't mean you her nigga.
48:03
Speaker 2: Let's be clear. I like you a lot and I
48:08
Speaker 2: want to hang out with you and my family. Like, what?
48:11
Speaker 1: With me, I may be expecting a ring at some
48:14
Speaker 1: time in the near future.
48:21
Speaker 2: You mean my daddy, nigga. We better be getting married
48:24
Speaker 2: next year. That's the type of time you on? And
48:26
Speaker 2: you look, my daddy is so cool. Like, I love
48:29
Speaker 2: my daddy so much. My daddy don't ask me shit.
48:32
Speaker 2: You hear me? He ain't getting excited. Like... Like, he
48:36
Speaker 2: going to be like, yeah, I'm Jerome. Like, da, da, da. Like,
48:38
Speaker 2: just regular, like, just nice, good people. That's it. That's all.
48:44
Speaker 1: I really got to find somebody because when Rel was there,
48:47
Speaker 1: my daddy was just, because, all right, my family is
48:50
Speaker 1: nothing but women.
48:51
Speaker 2: It's a bunch of women. It's no guys.
48:54
Speaker 1: The guys that were in my family, some of them
48:57
Speaker 1: have passed away, jail, you know, the things that happen
48:59
Speaker 1: to black men a lot. So there are not very
49:02
Speaker 1: many black men left in my family. So when Rel
49:05
Speaker 1: came over, my daddy was just.
49:08
Speaker 2: Let's go upstairs to the roof and go shoot some pool, Rel.
49:11
Speaker 1: Like he was just so excited to have like some
49:13
Speaker 1: male energy in the room. And then my sister, my
49:17
Speaker 1: older sister, she a lesbian, so she with a woman
49:19
Speaker 1: It's nothing but bitches. So I really need to find
49:22
Speaker 1: a guy to bring home and take serious But it
49:27
Speaker 1: won't be probably till, even if I meet you today,
49:29
Speaker 1: it won't be till 2023, like Christmas, till you get
49:33
Speaker 1: that invite, nigga.
49:34
Speaker 2: That's terrible. That's terrible. I just, I don't know. I
49:38
Speaker 2: just feel like that's a part of dating for me.
49:42
Speaker 2: It's a part of dating. And that's all we do.
49:43
Speaker 2: And we just kicking it. We dating. We have fun together.
49:46
Speaker 2: We laugh. We laugh most of the time. So if
49:50
Speaker 2: this who I like to laugh with, why I can't
49:52
Speaker 2: laugh with him and my people? That's all. It ain't
49:56
Speaker 2: that serious. I think women, we should just enjoy the
49:59
Speaker 2: moment sometimes. Y'all saw with Laura London. Just experiencing people.
50:09
Speaker 2: I'm into that. I'm into experiencing people. I don't want
50:11
Speaker 2: to own nobody. You're free to move about the country.
50:15
Speaker 2: I'm a Gemini. I definitely like to be motherfucking independent
50:20
Speaker 2: while in a relationship. And so is this guy. He
50:23
Speaker 2: a fucking Gemini too. So it's just like, So y'all
50:26
Speaker 2: just work. Yeah, don't fucking stress me out about some
50:29
Speaker 2: shit I won't stress you out. It's not that serious.
50:32
Speaker 2: So I feel like those be like the best relationships.
50:35
Speaker 2: Like friends, no? It's too much pressure. I feel like
50:40
Speaker 2: we put too much pressure on each other in relationships.
50:43
Speaker 2: And I don't want to pressure anybody into anything in life. Yeah,
50:48
Speaker 2: I do.
50:48
Speaker 1: I think my last guy, I definitely, you know, Let
50:53
Speaker 1: him know how big of a deal it was for
50:55
Speaker 1: him to meet my family. So by the time I
50:57
Speaker 1: did invite him to meet my family, he had so
51:00
Speaker 1: much anxiety about it. And then when he shook my
51:04
Speaker 1: daddy's hand, he didn't look my daddy in the eyes
51:07
Speaker 1: and stuff. And I was like, oh, I'll never marry you.
51:09
Speaker 2: I had decided right then. Wow. Why you not looking
51:14
Speaker 2: my daddy in the eyes when you talking to him? Wow.
51:18
Speaker 2: Was I tripping? Is that too... No, I mean, no,
51:22
Speaker 2: but I mean, maybe... Listen, you needed to have, maybe
51:25
Speaker 2: you should have done that earlier. Maybe he should have
51:28
Speaker 2: met your daddy sooner. You could have ended the relationship earlier.
51:32
Speaker 2: Like if that's really all it took for you to know, nah,
51:36
Speaker 2: that's ain't it. But I like people who just be cool.
51:39
Speaker 2: They could be in any setting. They just chilling. Everybody
51:41
Speaker 2: like them. You can't be like scared.
51:44
Speaker 1: You gotta find that out. But how do you find
51:46
Speaker 1: that out? Yeah, but I mean, like, still, you need
51:51
Speaker 1: to be serious. We need to be serious. I can't
51:53
Speaker 1: just bring you around my daddy.
51:54
Speaker 2: I don't think it's that serious. I be... Listen, I like...
51:57
Speaker 2: This is why. All the people that I like, I
52:00
Speaker 2: love when they all in the same place. I get
52:03
Speaker 2: so much joy, like, when this set of friends is
52:06
Speaker 2: around this set of friends. Like, I be so happy
52:08
Speaker 2: that all my favorite people, like, together. That's fun for me. Meanwhile, y'all,
52:12
Speaker 2: I ain't been invited to shit. Girl, where I been at? Where...
52:16
Speaker 2: What have I been doing? Like... Like, you want to
52:19
Speaker 2: come up with me and this nigga? Fuck. I like craps.
52:25
Speaker 2: I love craps. All right, so y'all, we're nearing the
52:29
Speaker 2: end of the show, obviously. And I just wanted to
52:31
Speaker 2: remind everybody that it is currently the Lionsgate portal. Portal
52:39
Speaker 2: open between either the 26th to the 28th. I think
52:41
Speaker 2: the 28th. It's at its peak today, so obviously our
52:46
Speaker 2: show is all pre-recorded. So today is August the 8th, okay?
52:50
Speaker 2: This week. So the portal is at its peak today.
52:55
Speaker 2: So any magic, anything you want to manifest, you want
52:59
Speaker 2: to meditate on, you know, some more being abundant, anything.
53:04
Speaker 2: This is what you want to do today, right? And
53:07
Speaker 2: the gate is going to be, the portal is open. Mm-hmm. No,
53:10
Speaker 2: today the 8th. Today. Well, they ain't going to hear
53:12
Speaker 2: this until Thursday, bitch. I understand you're not going to
53:15
Speaker 2: hear it until Thursday, but if you let me finish
53:16
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, then I could wrap it up, okay?
53:20
Speaker 2: So the portal is open from the 28th of July
53:25
Speaker 2: through August the 12th, right? Which is Friday. So they
53:31
Speaker 2: still have time, you know what I'm saying, to do
53:33
Speaker 2: any magic manifestation they want to do. Just do some
53:37
Speaker 2: research on the Lionsgate. Leo, the moon is in Leo
53:49
Speaker 2: right now. Okay, so just look it up. It's just
53:52
Speaker 2: a magical time of the year. It happens every year.
53:54
Speaker 2: I think I manifested some magic today.
53:57
Speaker 1: My friend, me and him rode out to look at
53:59
Speaker 1: some property out in Edgewood, and we was on the
54:02
Speaker 1: way back to his space. And it's like 12 red lights.
54:08
Speaker 1: You got to go through 12 lights to get to
54:10
Speaker 1: his house.
54:11
Speaker 2: All of them was green? Yeah.
54:14
Speaker 1: All of them was green. And I told him all
54:15
Speaker 1: of them were going to be green. He said, that's
54:17
Speaker 1: only happened to me one time in 15 years. I
54:20
Speaker 1: was like, it's going to be all green today.
54:21
Speaker 2: And they were. Shit was exciting. But it do be
54:26
Speaker 2: that type of shit. Or even just like pulling. For me,
54:28
Speaker 2: it's like, it be simple as low shit. I be like,
54:30
Speaker 2: you know what? Just getting a parking space in the
54:33
Speaker 2: front every time. Like, that'd be for me. Every time, like,
54:37
Speaker 2: I think about something and it goes as planned, I'm like,
54:40
Speaker 2: this is all a shift for me. Like, you got
54:42
Speaker 2: the power to manifest your own destiny. So today, it's
54:46
Speaker 2: at that peak. I like it. I feel energized. I
54:49
Speaker 2: did my workout today, bitch. Ate some motherfucking salt and
54:53
Speaker 2: vinegar chips that I was supposed to eat. I'm going
54:54
Speaker 2: to finish that bag. I might do me some motherfucking
54:57
Speaker 2: yoga Pilates in a little bit, okay? If you guys
55:00
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Speaker 2: motherfucking peace.
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Speaker 1: Ow.
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Speaker 2: Deuces ain't nobody come to see you Otis