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If Your Why Is Strong Enough: Yearning, Yielding, Yes · R.E.A.L. Talk for REAL L.Y.F.E.

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  Welcome to Real Talk for Real Life, realizing everyone is always learning and
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  living your full experience.
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  This is where we live out loud, on purpose, and with purpose.
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  I'm Coach C, your host, and this is a Motivational Monday episode.
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  If your why is strong enough, you'll do it. What is your why?
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  Not your excuses, not your I'm tired, not your maybe next week, your why.
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  Because when your why is strong enough, nothing will stop you.
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  Not fear, not doubt, not delay, not even you.
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  Truth be told, if you really want to do a thing, you'll do it.
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  You should have an intrinsic why, something that's rooted deep.
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  But I've learned there are three whys that will hold you steady when life tries to knock you loose.
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  Your yearning, your yielding, your yes.
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  Why number one, your yearning. Your yearning is that quiet pool,
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  that whisper that refuses to be ignored.
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  It's the thing that keeps showing
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  up in your thoughts like, we still doing this? And here's the reality.
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  Ignoring your yearning doesn't make it disappear. It just turns into regret with good posture.
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  What do you want so bad it won't let you rest? That's your first why.
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  Why number two, you're yielding. Wanting it is cute.
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  Yielding is where the work lives. Yielding means you stop letting comfort run
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  the meeting. You stop renegotiating your discipline.
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  You say, I'm going to bend so I don't break, but I will not quit.
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  Because you cannot grow and stay the same at the same time.
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  What do you need to release so you can receive what you've been asking for? That's your second why.
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  Why number three, your yes. Your yes is your decision.
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  No more I'll try. No more we'll see. Your yes says I'm doing this, period.
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  It's commitment with backbone, with weight, with follow through.
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  Fear might steal right in the car, but your yes is driving.
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  Where have you been giving a maybe when your life requires a yes?
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  That's your third why Now here's your fearless homework Don't just clap for
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  this, apply it Here's your assignment Number one,
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  write your why No fluff Tonight I want you to write down your why in one bold
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  sentence I must blank because blank If it doesn't move you,
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  rewrite it until it does.
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  Number two, identify your blocker. Be honest.
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  What keeps getting in your way?
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  Fear, procrastination, comfort, people?
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  Name it because what you don't name, you keep feeding.
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  Number three, make one bold move in 24 hours.
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  Not next week, not when you feel ready. Within 24 hours, take one action that aligns with your why.
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  Send the email. Start the plan. Make the call. Show up.
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  Small move, big energy. Number four, say yes out loud. This part matters.
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  Look at yourself and say, I'm not waiting anymore.
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  I'm doing this. Let your voice hear your commitment. Thank you.
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  If your why is strong enough, your yearning will guide you, your yielding will
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  grow you, and your yes will carry you.
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  And once those align, it's not a question of if, it's just a matter of when.
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  If I really want it, I will do it. So go prove it. Class dismissed.
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  Action required.
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  This is Real Talk, where we're realizing everyone is always learning and living your full experience.
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  This is Coach C. I'll see you on the next one.