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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and wellcome stuff.
- 0:07Speaker 2: I'll never told you protection. I heart radio. It is
- 0:18Speaker 2: time for another edition of Female First, which means we're
- 0:22Speaker 2: once again joined by the stupidness the spectacular Eves. Welcome, Eves.
- 0:26Speaker 1: Hello, thank you for the welcome.
- 0:29Speaker 2: Yes, thank you for being here as always. How have
- 0:34Speaker 2: you been, Eves? Any updates?
- 0:37Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been pretty good. Honestly, I have been really
- 0:40Speaker 1: in my learn new things bag because I always want
- 0:43Speaker 1: to learn a lot of things, but now felt like
- 0:46Speaker 1: a good time to try to learn a lot of them.
- 0:48Speaker 1: So I'm slow rolling them. I'm like, I'm introducing them
- 0:51Speaker 1: in stages, and I'm like, I like to commit to things,
- 0:57Speaker 1: but I'm also willing to step out if I understand
- 1:00Speaker 1: that something really isn't the thing for me. So I started.
- 1:04Speaker 1: I'm a piano dance classes. So I've done two classes
- 1:08Speaker 1: so far, and I love to dance, and I think
- 1:13Speaker 1: I could be well suited to the style of dance,
- 1:15Speaker 1: but I'm not. I don't know. I have the rhythm
- 1:19Speaker 1: and like I have the capacity to learn it well,
- 1:22Speaker 1: I think, but I'm not good at it yet. So
- 1:26Speaker 1: like I'm also never danced before, and I'm never taking
- 1:29Speaker 1: a dance class before, so I also don't know just
- 1:31Speaker 1: like the technique and the format and the learning steps,
- 1:35Speaker 1: like all of that is new to me. I just
- 1:36Speaker 1: kind of like do what I want and feel good
- 1:38Speaker 1: in my body dancing, but like the technicality of it
- 1:41Speaker 1: I'm not familiar with, so having to get used to that.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Hoping to start surfing class surfing lesson soon because I
- 1:50Speaker 1: want to learn something water based where I actually have
- 1:52Speaker 1: to like swim, because I have the privilege of being
- 1:56Speaker 1: around water right now and being able to surf, So
- 1:58Speaker 1: I just kind of want to do it for the
- 2:00Speaker 1: novelty and the physicality of it and to do something
- 2:03Speaker 1: that will challenge my brain and my body and ways
- 2:05Speaker 1: that haven't been challenged before. But I'll sign up for
- 2:08Speaker 1: that soon. I know who I want to sign up with,
- 2:10Speaker 1: but I haven't just yet, but I'm gonna I'm gonna
- 2:14Speaker 1: start that soon. But yeah, I'm doing a lot of
- 2:16Speaker 1: a lot of new things, trying things out.
- 2:19Speaker 3: See, this is where I add all of these layers
- 2:21Speaker 3: of who you are into my tablet of what I
- 2:24Speaker 3: know of you, because we've already had many conversationations when
- 2:27Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm fascinated about you because you are unique
- 2:29Speaker 3: in this way and these levels you just keep adding.
- 2:33Speaker 4: I'm like, wait, you're doing what you're doing? What you
- 2:35Speaker 4: do it?
- 2:36Speaker 3: Wow?
- 2:37Speaker 4: Like the admiration has blown. But yes, every time I
- 2:40Speaker 4: hear from you, I'm like, who are you?
- 2:43Speaker 1: Well, I know I'm trying to figure I'm trying to
- 2:46Speaker 1: figure it out too, Samantha.
- 2:49Speaker 3: I'm trying encyclopedia like your volumes upon volumes that I
- 2:54Speaker 3: love to learn about.
- 2:56Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. Yeah.
- 3:00Speaker 2: We always love checking in with you and seeing hearing
- 3:02Speaker 2: what you're up to. So cool, So I have. I
- 3:08Speaker 2: was going back and forth about our like transition question.
- 3:11Speaker 2: I was going to ask for this one. I think
- 3:13Speaker 2: I'm gonna go with the sillier one. How are you
- 3:17Speaker 2: with the board game Monopoly? Eves?
- 3:21Speaker 1: Not good? I lose and I haven't played a lot
- 3:26Speaker 1: in my life, to be honest with you, I've played,
- 3:29Speaker 1: but it's not like Benna Staple in my households, just
- 3:32Speaker 1: like it has been in other households. For me, it
- 3:35Speaker 1: was more I was in terms of board games, it
- 3:38Speaker 1: was like Clue, Shoots and Letters. Do you remember mouse Trap?
- 3:43Speaker 3: Yes?
- 3:43Speaker 1: Yes, of course.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Game it was so.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Leration.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Oh oboration was.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Scary those silly games. The Monopoly was uh but yeah,
- 4:00Speaker 1: it was above my pay grade, to be honest with.
- 4:02Speaker 3: Y'all, so that that was probably the number one game
- 4:07Speaker 3: to cause fights.
- 4:09Speaker 4: Did you fight with people over it?
- 4:11Speaker 3: That?
- 4:11Speaker 4: Like? We have more thrown pieces thrown at each other
- 4:14Speaker 4: like brawls.
- 4:16Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, that pieces thrown sounds like a choking hazard
- 4:21Speaker 1: those pieces serious.
- 4:24Speaker 2: No, it's kind of like notoriously bad.
- 4:28Speaker 3: You missed the part of your childhood of the anger,
- 4:31Speaker 3: which probably you didn't miss.
- 4:32Speaker 4: But I'm just saying it.
- 4:34Speaker 1: I think, idea, Yeah, we weren't that much of a
- 4:36Speaker 1: Monopoly household. I'm trying to think if I have any
- 4:40Speaker 1: distinct like memorable memories from Monopoly, But no, I don't.
- 4:46Speaker 1: I think your.
- 4:49Speaker 4: Yeah, it really does.
- 4:52Speaker 1: Okay, so wait, what is it? What What was y'all's
- 4:54Speaker 1: experience with Monopoly?
- 4:57Speaker 4: You heard it, we brawls, fl games.
- 5:01Speaker 3: My dad put it away, telling us that he's gonna
- 5:04Speaker 3: burn it because he was so tired of us fighting
- 5:06Speaker 3: about it.
- 5:07Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, yeah, I liked We had a Star Wars
- 5:13Speaker 2: version that I liked because it was Star Wars. But
- 5:16Speaker 2: I know I just never won. And one time I
- 5:19Speaker 2: cheated and I still lost. And I'm convinced my little
- 5:23Speaker 2: brother was cheating too when he just cheated better for me.
- 5:29Speaker 2: But I remember I was a kid.
- 5:30Speaker 1: In that memory, I will die. Yeah, that sounds pretty
- 5:37Speaker 1: appropriate for the game of Monopoly. Cheating better Yeah, exactly.
- 5:43Speaker 2: Oh, he had like the whole good side of the board.
- 5:46Speaker 2: He had the all the properties. You just like feel
- 5:50Speaker 2: the dread when you got over.
- 5:54Speaker 1: So intimidating it was.
- 5:57Speaker 2: It was, and he was not a chill lose the winter.
- 6:01Speaker 4: I'll say that, I.
- 6:07Speaker 1: Feel like you should glow. This is that goes the
- 6:09Speaker 1: one with the characterization of the game.
- 6:12Speaker 4: Obviously to brag about how rich you are.
- 6:16Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, checks out.
- 6:20Speaker 2: I have a friend who their family wouldn't even let
- 6:23Speaker 2: them have it in the house.
- 6:25Speaker 1: They were like, get it out, okay, because because it
- 6:29Speaker 1: was so intense. Yeah okay. I thought it was like
- 6:32Speaker 1: some sort of moral or ethical because I was thinking
- 6:36Speaker 1: about this in terms of how some families were like,
- 6:38Speaker 1: we don't mess with Harry Potter because it's like a
- 6:40Speaker 1: religious thing, like a religious or moral situation happened. Well,
- 6:47Speaker 1: it's like this is an anti capitalist household.
- 6:49Speaker 2: We can know it was originally an anti capitalist game
- 6:54Speaker 2: designed by a woman, but her idea got stolen and
- 6:57Speaker 2: look what happened. Yeah, anyway, that does loosely relate to
- 7:04Speaker 2: it was one of the first things I thought when
- 7:06Speaker 2: I was looking into the story. Actually, it makes sense,
- 7:09Speaker 2: mix sense, yes, to the person we're talking about today,
- 7:12Speaker 2: So we are excited to get into this. Who did
- 7:14Speaker 2: you bring for us to discuss youse?
- 7:16Speaker 1: Today? We're talking about Sarah Bickford And the reason that
- 7:19Speaker 1: monopoly is related to this is because she was the
- 7:21Speaker 1: first an only black woman in Montana and the United
- 7:24Speaker 1: States to own a utility company. So that was not
- 7:30Speaker 1: something that wasn't something I was expecting to bring to
- 7:32Speaker 1: the show. I wasn't like, I wonder who the first
- 7:34Speaker 1: black woman to own the utility company was. Honestly, it
- 7:37Speaker 1: didn't end up that way, and I was trying to
- 7:39Speaker 1: figure out how I got to her. I don't know.
- 7:41Speaker 1: I was just as I do, just like going into
- 7:44Speaker 1: some rabbit hole and found out about her. So before
- 7:46Speaker 1: we were talking about her today, I wasn't familiar with
- 7:49Speaker 1: her story, but I probably happened upon it because I
- 7:53Speaker 1: do want to talk more about black women in the
- 7:56Speaker 1: American West, and I I don't. We've touched on some
- 8:02Speaker 1: people in the American West, but some black people in
- 8:05Speaker 1: the American West. But I think I could definitely bring
- 8:07Speaker 1: more of that to female first. And of course, I
- 8:11Speaker 1: mean we've talked about it a lot on this show.
- 8:13Speaker 1: But she just there's a lot about her story that
- 8:18Speaker 1: had to be uncovered and that wasn't known before. There
- 8:22Speaker 1: are some like unknown origins and reasoning for why she
- 8:26Speaker 1: did certain things. There was a lot of digging into
- 8:29Speaker 1: the archives that had to happen to find her stories.
- 8:32Speaker 1: I'll get to that in a second. But there is
- 8:36Speaker 1: a part of her story that just always intrigues me
- 8:38Speaker 1: and is just something I'm endlessly fascinated by and that
- 8:40Speaker 1: I'm always looking for in people's stories. Is that since
- 8:43Speaker 1: that built in sense of mystery that black people have
- 8:46Speaker 1: and our ability to make myths in our own personal stories,
- 8:50Speaker 1: it's like we are just so down for coming up
- 8:54Speaker 1: with a birth date or coming up with a story
- 8:57Speaker 1: or a birthplace. And I just think that the mythology
- 9:01Speaker 1: around her life and the personal myth making is just
- 9:05Speaker 1: so that element of blackness in history because of the
- 9:09Speaker 1: gaps in our histories, is just so magical to me.
- 9:13Speaker 1: I think there's a way in which it can be
- 9:15Speaker 1: reclaimed where it came from places of violence and of forgetting,
- 9:21Speaker 1: and all of these things that can be considered negative
- 9:24Speaker 1: that can be turned into a positive and just can
- 9:27Speaker 1: be so fantastical too that I think is really cool.
- 9:30Speaker 1: And I think there are parts of that in Sarah
- 9:32Speaker 1: Bickford's story. And when I mentioned the uncovering, I referring
- 9:37Speaker 1: to doctor Laura Arada, who's a historian. She wrote a
- 9:41Speaker 1: dissertation and she has a book called Race in the
- 9:44Speaker 1: Wild West, Sarah Bickford, the Montana Vigilantes and the Tourism
- 9:48Speaker 1: of Decline eighteen seventy to nineteen thirty, And throughout the
- 9:52Speaker 1: course of this episode, just know that I'm pulling a
- 9:55Speaker 1: lot of the information that I got from her work
- 9:57Speaker 1: because she really dedicated time to digging more into her story.
- 10:02Speaker 1: Even though she didn't have any specific personal relation to
- 10:07Speaker 1: Sarah Bigfort's story, she dug into it and found out
- 10:10Speaker 1: more things from the archive and was in touch with
- 10:13Speaker 1: Sarah Bigfort's family members that are alive today. So it's
- 10:18Speaker 1: just it's a really fascinating story. I'm excited to share it.
- 10:21Speaker 1: I do want to stay upfront as a content warning,
- 10:23Speaker 1: there is mention of domestic violence, but it's a very
- 10:26Speaker 1: short part of her story, and I'll let y'all know,
- 10:30Speaker 1: you know, once we get to that part that I'm
- 10:31Speaker 1: about to talk about it.
- 10:32Speaker 2: It is a really great story. And I when I
- 10:36Speaker 2: was looking into the name after you suggested it, I
- 10:38Speaker 2: was like, Oh, I've never thought like utilities. That's so cool.
- 10:44Speaker 2: So I'm really really excited that you suggested this topic.
- 11:00Speaker 2: So shall I get to the history.
- 11:03Speaker 1: So, speaking of the unknowns, Sarah Bickford might have been
- 11:07Speaker 1: born in eighteen fifty two. Her birthdate is unconfirmed. It's
- 11:11Speaker 1: like I've seen I think eighteen fifty five, eighteen fifty
- 11:14Speaker 1: six at various points when her name was listed in
- 11:17Speaker 1: a census. What it didn't collaborate with like the time
- 11:21Speaker 1: that she said she was born or sources said she
- 11:24Speaker 1: was born with how old they said she was at
- 11:25Speaker 1: the time. But that could also be a miss documentation
- 11:30Speaker 1: of the people who were recording these things. Just we're
- 11:34Speaker 1: saying eighteen fifty two though, and that was around the
- 11:36Speaker 1: time that she was born. Sarah would give her birthdate
- 11:39Speaker 1: as December twenty fifth, but I do wonder about that
- 11:43Speaker 1: as well. Because I can't remember who it was. But
- 11:45Speaker 1: we've talked in a previous episode about a female first
- 11:48Speaker 1: about person who said that their birthday was July fourth,
- 11:52Speaker 1: And it's not like this fills aligned with that.
- 11:55Speaker 3: To me.
- 11:55Speaker 1: It's like say, saying a date that is a a holiday.
- 12:01Speaker 1: It has a lot of spiritual, religious, major social implications
- 12:06Speaker 1: that are tied to it that makes a person's life
- 12:11Speaker 1: steel bigger than it is. But me saying that out loud,
- 12:14Speaker 1: I don't even want to put it that way. It's
- 12:15Speaker 1: just like it feels appropriate for how they consider their
- 12:19Speaker 1: own lives. And so that's where she gave her birthdate
- 12:23Speaker 1: ass But she later told her children that she had
- 12:27Speaker 1: been born a slave in the western part of North
- 12:30Speaker 1: Carolina and that all of her immediate family had died
- 12:33Speaker 1: while she was young. Now, most sources point to her
- 12:37Speaker 1: being born into slavery in Washington County, Tennessee. So there's
- 12:42Speaker 1: some discrepancies around whether it was western North Carolina or
- 12:48Speaker 1: eastern Tennessee, but it's seemingly Washington County, Tennessee, and her
- 12:54Speaker 1: parents and slavers were the Blair family in Jonesboro, Tennessee.
- 12:58Speaker 1: There is very little information about her childhood and her
- 13:01Speaker 1: younger years, but it is known that she did learn
- 13:04Speaker 1: to read and write when she was a child her
- 13:08Speaker 1: daughter Mabel, who obviously we haven't gotten to that part
- 13:12Speaker 1: of the story yet but later on. Just know that
- 13:14Speaker 1: her daughter, Mabel later said that Sarah was separated from
- 13:18Speaker 1: her family at the end of the Civil War and
- 13:20Speaker 1: never saw them again. There are some of the sources
- 13:23Speaker 1: that were dug up that came from Mabel speaking about Sarah,
- 13:27Speaker 1: so that's where some of that information comes from. But yeah,
- 13:31Speaker 1: by eighteen seventy, Sarah had made it to Knoxville, west
- 13:36Speaker 1: of Jonesborough, and there's little information once again on her
- 13:40Speaker 1: life in Knoxville as well, but she lived with an
- 13:44Speaker 1: aunt there who may have been Nancy Jones Gammon, she
- 13:47Speaker 1: wasn't explicitly named. And while she was there in Knoxville,
- 13:53Speaker 1: Sarah got to know a man named John Lttrelle Murphy
- 13:57Speaker 1: who had been a Union officer for the US Colored
- 14:00Speaker 1: Troop sixtieth Regiment during the Civil War, but he later
- 14:05Speaker 1: went to Montana Territory and became an associate justice there,
- 14:08Speaker 1: and Sarah went with him as he went west. She
- 14:13Speaker 1: cared for his children on the way over there. Not
- 14:16Speaker 1: fully clear why she decided to go west, but it
- 14:22Speaker 1: was rough in Knottsville in the years after the Civil War.
- 14:27Speaker 1: There were a lot of refugees there. Of course it
- 14:30Speaker 1: was Tennessee. There was the threat of racism, probably little
- 14:34Speaker 1: opportunity for work. So some of these things might have
- 14:37Speaker 1: driven her to seek a new lfe. But we don't
- 14:40Speaker 1: have the exact knowledge of why she chose to go
- 14:43Speaker 1: so far west. But also think of the conception of
- 14:47Speaker 1: the West in a lot of people's minds. It was
- 14:48Speaker 1: that way for white folks, it was that way for
- 14:51Speaker 1: some black folks as well, so she might have been
- 14:55Speaker 1: in part, might have speculation in part driven by that,
- 14:58Speaker 1: but that's just speculation based on the mythos of the
- 15:02Speaker 1: American West at the time. But yeah, so the background
- 15:07Speaker 1: of Montana a little bit here, it was pretty culturally
- 15:12Speaker 1: diverse in a certain way. There were indigenous folks that
- 15:15Speaker 1: were there, there were Chinese folks that were there, British, Germans, Italians,
- 15:20Speaker 1: because the conception of whiteness was a little different there,
- 15:24Speaker 1: so there was a lot of there were different communities
- 15:28Speaker 1: that were there, but black people were never more than
- 15:32Speaker 1: one percent of the total population of Montana itself, and
- 15:37Speaker 1: there was some lawlessness still, it was there. I mean,
- 15:41Speaker 1: there was a wild West element to it. The way
- 15:44Speaker 1: they say it. It was a little bit like that
- 15:46Speaker 1: there because in eighteen sixty three, residents were worried about
- 15:51Speaker 1: road agents who they thought were committing highway robbery and
- 15:55Speaker 1: murder on the roads from Virginia City out to the
- 15:58Speaker 1: other cities around, which I think, is this idea that's
- 16:02Speaker 1: really associated with the wild West. It is a part
- 16:06Speaker 1: of Sarah Bickfert's story and a part of her story
- 16:09Speaker 1: in Montana. So folks in Virginia City, which is the
- 16:16Speaker 1: city that we're talking about that Sarah Bickford moved to
- 16:18Speaker 1: Virginia City in Montana. So they people there thought this
- 16:23Speaker 1: group was led by official law enforcement, this group of
- 16:27Speaker 1: bandits road agents, that they were led by official law enforcement.
- 16:32Speaker 1: So basically, these group of vigilantes that became known as
- 16:35Speaker 1: the Montana Vigilantes formed to address this concern. Stick with me,
- 16:40Speaker 1: because this is related to Sarah's story. We're only going
- 16:44Speaker 1: to touch on it here because that's its own history
- 16:46Speaker 1: in itself. But they launched many people who were suspected
- 16:51Speaker 1: road agents starting in eighteen sixty three, and these were
- 16:56Speaker 1: white vigilantes and suspected road agents. By the way, they
- 16:59Speaker 1: didn't necessarily target folks based on race, like it can
- 17:04Speaker 1: be associated with extra judicial killings and other places around
- 17:07Speaker 1: the country at the time, and that would be the
- 17:10Speaker 1: case even more so going forth. There were, of course
- 17:13Speaker 1: racial dynamics. Like if anybody says there weren't racial dynamics
- 17:17Speaker 1: somewhere in the United States at this time, they're lying
- 17:20Speaker 1: to you. There there's always there are those elements of
- 17:22Speaker 1: that that are going to be involved. But it was,
- 17:24Speaker 1: but it didn't operate the same there as it did everywhere,
- 17:27Speaker 1: because you know, not everywhere it's the same. But since then,
- 17:31Speaker 1: like after, the Montana Vigilantes have been celebrated as it
- 17:35Speaker 1: is part of Virginia City's and Montana's history. So in
- 17:41Speaker 1: January of eighteen sixty four, the Montana Vigilantes hanged five
- 17:45Speaker 1: men next to each other. And this is like one
- 17:48Speaker 1: of the important images, the important parts of note from
- 17:54Speaker 1: the Montana Vigilantes history. One because that was like a
- 17:57Speaker 1: big part of what they were known for, but also
- 17:59Speaker 1: because is a big part of how Sarah big first
- 18:02Speaker 1: story is related to them. But we'll come back to
- 18:05Speaker 1: that later on, So put a pin in that, remember
- 18:07Speaker 1: that for later. Okay, So moving on to Sarah's time
- 18:11Speaker 1: in Virginia City. So, at the time, Virginia City was
- 18:13Speaker 1: a territorial capital of Montana. She got there in early
- 18:18Speaker 1: eighteen seventy one by sleigh. Apparently it is January when
- 18:22Speaker 1: she got there, so it was super cold. Never been
- 18:25Speaker 1: in Montana, but I can only imagine how awful, how
- 18:30Speaker 1: awful that coldness, maybe because I can deal with the cold,
- 18:34Speaker 1: but like I know, it's on a different level there.
- 18:36Speaker 1: But yeah, so she was about and she was young,
- 18:38Speaker 1: she was about like fourteen or fifteen, I think when
- 18:40Speaker 1: she made the trip, and Virginia City was this social
- 18:44Speaker 1: hub in the state at the time. Didn't stay that
- 18:46Speaker 1: way for long, but at the time it was. And
- 18:49Speaker 1: after Sarah got there, she started working as a cleaner
- 18:53Speaker 1: in the Madison House hotel. In October of eighteen seventy two,
- 18:59Speaker 1: she married this Irish immigrant named John Brown. So this
- 19:03Speaker 1: is the part where we're going to talk a little
- 19:05Speaker 1: bit about domestic violence. We won't go into any details,
- 19:07Speaker 1: but just if anybody wants to skip forward just a
- 19:10Speaker 1: little bit, then they are like welcome to at this moment.
- 19:13Speaker 1: So she went by the name Sally Brown a lot
- 19:16Speaker 1: throughout her documentation. You'll see her called Sally, and then
- 19:19Speaker 1: she took on different last names over the time. So
- 19:21Speaker 1: Sally Brown was one of the names that was in
- 19:23Speaker 1: her records, and John Brown was a minor at am
- 19:29Speaker 1: I n e R. I got a bite, Claire Box
- 19:32Speaker 1: am I r okay. I caught myself on that one. Yes, yes,
- 19:40Speaker 1: big part of the industry there was mining, mining.
- 19:43Speaker 4: And gotcha, got ya, I'm.
- 19:47Speaker 1: There for the same page with you. She had three
- 19:52Speaker 1: children with him, James, Eva and William. So John beat
- 19:57Speaker 1: an abuse Sarah. This this was like something that she
- 20:02Speaker 1: had to deal with in her relationship with him. That
- 20:05Speaker 1: was very awful, tragically. Also, all of their children died
- 20:09Speaker 1: young from illness at different times, but they all died
- 20:12Speaker 1: really young, and she did. It's like I cannot only
- 20:18Speaker 1: imagine how stressful this was. Like she was in a
- 20:22Speaker 1: new place. She had gone from the South all the
- 20:25Speaker 1: way over here to the west. She was black, she
- 20:28Speaker 1: was married to a white person, like she would there was.
- 20:33Speaker 1: She was facing domestic violence at home, and she opened
- 20:37Speaker 1: she was still working out, so she opened the New
- 20:39Speaker 1: City Bakery and restaurant around May of eighteen eighty. There
- 20:42Speaker 1: was an ad in this newspaper called Madisonian from April seventeenth,
- 20:45Speaker 1: eighteen eighty about her bakery and boarding house, and it
- 20:49Speaker 1: said the bakery and had fresh bread, cakes, pies, and confectionery.
- 20:52Speaker 1: So she was still a working woman. She was dealing
- 20:54Speaker 1: what she had to do to provide for herself and
- 20:57Speaker 1: her family. But she was still going through those issues
- 21:00Speaker 1: at home. But she did file for a divorce from John,
- 21:04Speaker 1: and so according to these divorce which wasn't that wasn't
- 21:08Speaker 1: the norm, like that was not usual, especially for a
- 21:12Speaker 1: black woman this time in Montana. So according to the
- 21:15Speaker 1: divorce proceedings, John didn't support William, their child. He had
- 21:20Speaker 1: abandoned his family around eighteen seventy eight. There was even
- 21:24Speaker 1: a point where Sarah went to Lauren I think it's
- 21:27Speaker 1: pronounced la u ri I n Montana for a time
- 21:31Speaker 1: and she needed to support herself in Eva and John
- 21:36Speaker 1: left Virginia City and went to Deer Lodge where he
- 21:39Speaker 1: was served with his divorce papers and the divorce was
- 21:43Speaker 1: finalized on November thirtieth, eighteen eighty. That might have even
- 21:47Speaker 1: been the first time that a black woman successfully divorced
- 21:49Speaker 1: a white man in territorial Montana, so her daughter Eva
- 21:56Speaker 1: the adding to the tragedy honestly of this part of
- 21:59Speaker 1: her life and her story. Her daughter Eva died in
- 22:01Speaker 1: eighteen eighty one, and she closed the bakery. She went
- 22:06Speaker 1: back to Tennessee in eighteen eighty one and then back
- 22:11Speaker 1: to Virginia City. And I think an important part to
- 22:13Speaker 1: say that doctor Laura Arada does bring up in her
- 22:18Speaker 1: work on Sarah. She talks about how she was able
- 22:23Speaker 1: to travel back from Montana back to Tennessee and how
- 22:27Speaker 1: that meant that she had a little bit of freedom.
- 22:29Speaker 1: She had the amount of financial success to be able
- 22:33Speaker 1: to make that kind of travel at the time, which
- 22:35Speaker 1: was notable. But sometime between eighteen eighty two and eighteen
- 22:39Speaker 1: eighty four, she got remarried a white minor, same kind
- 22:44Speaker 1: as before, in her name Stephen Bigfidge. So this was
- 22:49Speaker 1: a different It seemed like a one to eighty from
- 22:52Speaker 1: the relationship that she had before with John Brown. This
- 22:55Speaker 1: partnership seemed a lot more stable, a lot more positive.
- 22:59Speaker 1: They support each other in their business ventures, and the
- 23:03Speaker 1: first year they were together they lived in this cabin
- 23:05Speaker 1: near his mining claims and he ended up purchasing shares
- 23:10Speaker 1: in the Virginia City Water Company in the eighteen eighties,
- 23:13Speaker 1: and she and him they had four children together from
- 23:18Speaker 1: eighteen eighty four to eighteen ninety and those kids' names
- 23:21Speaker 1: were Elmer, Virginia, Helena, and Mabel. And she sent all
- 23:26Speaker 1: of her daughters to school, one even earned a master's degree.
- 23:29Speaker 1: So there are some wild stories, y'all. I can't get
- 23:34Speaker 1: into them now, but like if y'all go read about
- 23:37Speaker 1: her story, there are some wild stories about what the
- 23:40Speaker 1: kids had to deal with in school. So we talked
- 23:42Speaker 1: about doctor Laura Rata talked a lot about race and
- 23:47Speaker 1: how race figured into her life, how it was treated
- 23:50Speaker 1: in Virginia City and in Montana in general. Some very
- 23:53Speaker 1: fascinating stuff in there. So if y'all want a deep
- 23:55Speaker 1: dive on that, you can't. But she talked a lot
- 23:57Speaker 1: about how race wasn't mentioned a lot, if at all,
- 24:01Speaker 1: like really when it came to like newspapers and media
- 24:04Speaker 1: outlets talking about black people in Virginia City at the time,
- 24:10Speaker 1: they just didn't mention race. However, they didn't mention race
- 24:13Speaker 1: for people who were of Chinese descent, and it was
- 24:17Speaker 1: they were treated in a very spoken about in a
- 24:19Speaker 1: very derogatory way versus it was kind of an emptiness
- 24:26Speaker 1: of the non mentioning of race when it came to
- 24:29Speaker 1: the black people in a lot of aspects. Now, that
- 24:32Speaker 1: didn't mean that they weren't racist though, Like there were
- 24:35Speaker 1: a lot of stories that doctor Laura Rada told and
- 24:40Speaker 1: that were mentioned about Sarah's children when they went to
- 24:43Speaker 1: school related to the menstrul se, the blackface, the singing
- 24:48Speaker 1: of the kun songs that the kids it was. It's
- 24:53Speaker 1: really wild, y'all, And I just feel like it is traumatizing.
- 24:58Speaker 1: It would have been trauma tizing for those children, But
- 25:01Speaker 1: they were in such a specific they were mixed black
- 25:05Speaker 1: and white children in Montana, in Virginia City in the
- 25:09Speaker 1: eighteen hundreds, and that is like they also didn't necessarily
- 25:13Speaker 1: have the ability to contextualize the same way Sarah would have,
- 25:18Speaker 1: having come from Tennessee and being born in that place.
- 25:21Speaker 1: So anyway, there's that. But when it comes to Stephen,
- 25:28Speaker 1: Sarah's husband and their father, they said that he was tricked.
- 25:33Speaker 1: Mabel later said there could be no disobedience of commands.
- 25:37Speaker 1: They were not discussed but obeyed. And as I mentioned
- 25:41Speaker 1: at the top of this episode. Some of her descendants
- 25:43Speaker 1: are still alive, so there are living descendants of those children,
- 25:48Speaker 1: and his children even said that they thought that he
- 25:52Speaker 1: might have even been a member of the Vigilantes that
- 25:56Speaker 1: is unconfirmed. May have been a sympathizer, a supporter of memory.
- 26:00Speaker 1: There is speculation around that, but there isn't much that's
- 26:03Speaker 1: been settled upon. But yeah, so Sarah probably been running
- 26:08Speaker 1: the Virginia City Water Company since around eighteen eighty eight,
- 26:12Speaker 1: since Steven was off mining a lot of the time.
- 26:16Speaker 1: But around eighteen ninety three, Sarah and the family moved
- 26:19Speaker 1: to this farm called Romey's Gardens to make more money.
- 26:22Speaker 1: They had livestock, they had, they grew things, they sold things,
- 26:27Speaker 1: all of that. But by March of eighteen ninety nine,
- 26:30Speaker 1: Steven had gotten sick with the flu, and his illness
- 26:33Speaker 1: got worse and he had to stay home. Sarah's taking
- 26:37Speaker 1: care of him and Stephen Bickford ended up dying in
- 26:40Speaker 1: March of nineteen hundred. So after Bickford died, the water
- 26:45Speaker 1: company still needed to be ran. Sarah took over his
- 26:49Speaker 1: shares of the Virginia Water Company, so at that point
- 26:52Speaker 1: she had two thirds ownership of the company, and that
- 26:55Speaker 1: made her the first Black American woman in the West
- 26:59Speaker 1: who owned a public utility company. This is where her
- 27:01Speaker 1: first comes in, and she would be pretty active in
- 27:07Speaker 1: those first years in the company. She would visit the
- 27:09Speaker 1: homes and the offices of the customers of the company.
- 27:14Speaker 1: And there was of course, I mean it's a utility.
- 27:18Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot of work. I mean at
- 27:23Speaker 1: the time, in that specific environment, that's a lot of work.
- 27:28Speaker 1: And I couldn't imagine being in charge of that. But
- 27:32Speaker 1: there was of course maintenance and repairs that had to
- 27:35Speaker 1: be done because there were these super below freezing winter
- 27:40Speaker 1: temperatures and as we know even in Atlanta, that can
- 27:43Speaker 1: be a problem when it comes to infrastructure. They had
- 27:46Speaker 1: to replace they have wooden pipes, there was that they
- 27:49Speaker 1: had to replace those, and when the metal pipes came around,
- 27:52Speaker 1: they would burst and so those had to be fixed.
- 27:55Speaker 1: And so there were issues that came up throughout the time.
- 27:59Speaker 1: There were of course customer complaints all these kinds of things.
- 28:04Speaker 1: But I mean the par for the course for running
- 28:06Speaker 1: something as major and as important and fundamental as a
- 28:11Speaker 1: utility for the people. So Sarah was like, I think
- 28:15Speaker 1: I need some more education to help with maintaining this business.
- 28:19Speaker 1: So she took a correspondence course, which is basically a
- 28:22Speaker 1: distance learning course by mail, and she took that in
- 28:26Speaker 1: business management from a school in Scranton, Pennsylvania. Yes, great Scranton,
- 28:33Speaker 1: stand up, do you have a connection to Scrants from
- 28:35Speaker 1: the office?
- 28:36Speaker 4: So I'm like, look at that. What is shout out?
- 28:54Speaker 1: So she was really tapped into the tourism sector in
- 28:57Speaker 1: Virginia City too. People would gather in the city for
- 29:00Speaker 1: July fourth celebrations and they would pass through the city
- 29:03Speaker 1: on the way to Yellowstone, So there was some environmental
- 29:07Speaker 1: recreation tourism happening there too, and there was the sentiment
- 29:12Speaker 1: from like newspapers and people in the city that they
- 29:14Speaker 1: wanted Virginia City to be this better place for tourists
- 29:17Speaker 1: to stop. This is pretty relatable because this is still
- 29:19Speaker 1: the kind of thing that happens today when cities are
- 29:21Speaker 1: trying to figure out what they need to make sure
- 29:23Speaker 1: that their people are taken care of, that there's income
- 29:27Speaker 1: coming into the city and all these things. So they
- 29:29Speaker 1: were like, how can we figure out how to build
- 29:31Speaker 1: up the city so that the people who are coming
- 29:33Speaker 1: through have a reason to stop and stay and enjoy
- 29:36Speaker 1: and spend their money here, and part of that was
- 29:39Speaker 1: including adding historic sites, and so that leads us for
- 29:47Speaker 1: a moment back to that history of the vigilantes. So
- 29:51Speaker 1: there was this what they call the Hangman's Building, and
- 29:55Speaker 1: that is related to the people who had been hanged
- 29:58Speaker 1: by the vigilante that I mentioned earlier. So there's this
- 30:02Speaker 1: nineteen oh one article in the Madisonian that said that
- 30:06Speaker 1: the Hangman's they called it this I'm not calling it this, okay,
- 30:10Speaker 1: they called it the Hangman's Building. That feels, you know,
- 30:15Speaker 1: it's it feels pretty inappropriate because it definitely makes a
- 30:19Speaker 1: light of the situation that people were hanged there. But
- 30:23Speaker 1: that's complex in itself, and there's also a particular history
- 30:28Speaker 1: behind this Hangman's Building and how that lynching was situated
- 30:33Speaker 1: among the others because it wasn't like the lynchings in
- 30:36Speaker 1: the South, and it was also it became celebrated as
- 30:41Speaker 1: a part of Virginia City's history. So yeah, there's all
- 30:45Speaker 1: of that. But it's called the Hangman's Building, not my moniker,
- 30:48Speaker 1: but the moniker that has been that it has been
- 30:52Speaker 1: christened with by other people. But so yeah, this article
- 30:56Speaker 1: said that it had been a pill shop, reading room,
- 30:59Speaker 1: post office, meat market, ice cream parlor, and half a
- 31:02Speaker 1: dozen other things. I think it was also a law
- 31:04Speaker 1: office at one point, and so Sarah ended up purchasing
- 31:11Speaker 1: this building. Later, I think in nineteen seventeen, she purchased
- 31:16Speaker 1: the Hangman's building and she moved the water Company's business
- 31:19Speaker 1: office there. So the city's thinking about tourism. The car
- 31:25Speaker 1: automobile tourism is picking up. There's this industry around here
- 31:30Speaker 1: ittage tourism that is growing and becoming more popular at Montana.
- 31:34Speaker 1: At the same time, the population in the city was declining.
- 31:38Speaker 1: So that's the overall population, but that includes the population
- 31:41Speaker 1: of black people who were there. And there's this As
- 31:46Speaker 1: time continues, of course, there's usually this. Most people are
- 31:51Speaker 1: going to feel compelled to increase modernization, you know, and
- 31:54Speaker 1: keep up with the times because you want to stay
- 31:57Speaker 1: relevant to people, you want to continue making money and
- 31:59Speaker 1: things like that. So the city is facing this challenge,
- 32:05Speaker 1: but it's also figuring out that it can turn to
- 32:08Speaker 1: highlighting the city's wild West ara of that history to
- 32:15Speaker 1: attract more visitors. And Virginia City started marketing itself as
- 32:19Speaker 1: a cradle of Montana history. And this Hangman's bab had
- 32:26Speaker 1: been covered up in the building, but apparently Sarah exposed it,
- 32:33Speaker 1: and in the nineteen twenty she even ended up opening
- 32:35Speaker 1: up the building for tourism. There is this rumor that
- 32:40Speaker 1: doctor al Arada Minshett that that she had kept some
- 32:44Speaker 1: rope in her desk and that she would sell pieces
- 32:47Speaker 1: of it to visitors as souvenirs of the original rope.
- 32:50Speaker 1: She'd be like, here you go, I mean you get
- 32:54Speaker 1: this original rope. Yeah. So I don't know how true
- 32:58Speaker 1: that is, but there's a room or that she did that,
- 33:01Speaker 1: and Sarah's children ended up all moving away from Virginia City.
- 33:06Speaker 1: You hear this story a lot. I would be curious
- 33:09Speaker 1: to know what Sarah's feelings about them moving away would be,
- 33:12Speaker 1: because I know parents often face this struggle of kind
- 33:16Speaker 1: of where they want their kids to remain. Where you
- 33:20Speaker 1: know they were, where their foundations are, you know where
- 33:23Speaker 1: the family businesses, and you know where they're parts of
- 33:26Speaker 1: their heritages and all these things. So I would be
- 33:28Speaker 1: curious to know how she felt about that. But they
- 33:31Speaker 1: all moved away from Virginia City. There's various places, I
- 33:34Speaker 1: think Chicago, d C, New York. Over the course of
- 33:38Speaker 1: you know, time, So they went a bunch of different places.
- 33:42Speaker 1: Though her child, Elmer, did come back in the mid
- 33:45Speaker 1: nineteen twenties to help with the water company and he
- 33:48Speaker 1: also did some plumbing work there. But by the nineteen twenties,
- 33:52Speaker 1: like basically kind of like all the black population in
- 33:55Speaker 1: Virginia City was gone and it was a very different
- 33:59Speaker 1: place it was when Sarah first moved there. She did
- 34:03Speaker 1: die at home in Virginia City on March twenty second,
- 34:06Speaker 1: nineteen thirty one, and she's buried there in Virginia City
- 34:10Speaker 1: next to Stephen Bickford. And after she died, the Hangman's
- 34:15Speaker 1: Building became one of the most popular tourist attractions in
- 34:19Speaker 1: the city. There is I can't tell you what the
- 34:23Speaker 1: answer is. It doesn't seem like historians can fully pin
- 34:27Speaker 1: down what the answer is. Only Sarah would be able
- 34:29Speaker 1: to say. But the question remains at the end of
- 34:35Speaker 1: her entire stories, like why did she promote the Hangman's
- 34:37Speaker 1: Building as this tourist element, as a black woman who
- 34:42Speaker 1: was born in slavery in the South, why did she
- 34:47Speaker 1: promote the building? Questions? It was it just a business opportunity?
- 34:54Speaker 1: Was it that the vigilantes she supported the vigilantes because
- 34:59Speaker 1: they kicked John Round out of town after he had
- 35:01Speaker 1: abusing her, because there was some stories about them, you know, basically,
- 35:09Speaker 1: there was retribution to get the people who committed domestic
- 35:13Speaker 1: a violent domestic violence. Was it that, don't know? Was
- 35:17Speaker 1: it that her late husband Steven supported the vigilantes. Was
- 35:22Speaker 1: he one of them? Was he sympathetic? Don't know. It's
- 35:27Speaker 1: not fully clear, but it is clear that it is
- 35:30Speaker 1: a pretty it's pretty like complicated and fascinating part of
- 35:35Speaker 1: her story that she bought this building. To me, thinking
- 35:40Speaker 1: about it in the way that I think about things personally,
- 35:43Speaker 1: it does in a way feel like a sort of reclamation.
- 35:47Speaker 1: And let me just be clear that I am placing
- 35:49Speaker 1: this narrative on it right now because I'm just doing
- 35:52Speaker 1: my acts of wondering that I do when I'm reading
- 35:54Speaker 1: people's stories. But it's like I went to a different
- 35:57Speaker 1: part of I'm speaking as Sarah, like I went to
- 35:59Speaker 1: a different part of the country, somewhere where I went
- 36:03Speaker 1: before lynching was happening, as it did in the early
- 36:06Speaker 1: early nineteen hundreds, And she went before then, and so
- 36:11Speaker 1: lynching hadn't become it wasn't that same exact thing that
- 36:14Speaker 1: it was after she had left and she was living
- 36:16Speaker 1: in Montana, and also she was in a different geographic
- 36:19Speaker 1: space in the country by being there, and she was
- 36:24Speaker 1: it was also related to this history of lynching that
- 36:26Speaker 1: was more about like it was in some ways what
- 36:30Speaker 1: some people would have considered their imagine it kind of
- 36:32Speaker 1: punching up because they were targeting people who were shady
- 36:39Speaker 1: law enforcement officials who weren't treating the people of Virginia
- 36:44Speaker 1: City correctly. And so I wonder if there was a
- 36:48Speaker 1: reimagining there, if there was any sort of empowerment that
- 36:52Speaker 1: was in it for her, if I just wonder what
- 36:55Speaker 1: kind of like recontextualization and n narotizing narrative there was
- 37:00Speaker 1: there for her. But I'm not sure. Her children did
- 37:04Speaker 1: continue to own and operate the water company for more
- 37:06Speaker 1: decades after she died, So her story arranges the gamut
- 37:11Speaker 1: of the thing she did in her life too and own.
- 37:13Speaker 1: So over the course of her life she had run
- 37:15Speaker 1: a boarding house, catering business, restaurant, and ice cream saloon,
- 37:19Speaker 1: which I am partial to because I love ice cream.
- 37:23Speaker 1: I wish I could taste ice cream that was in
- 37:26Speaker 1: her ice cream saloon. But yeah, she was mark Grave
- 37:30Speaker 1: was marked. You know, her name was written in the
- 37:33Speaker 1: newspapers even at the time. On April tenth, twenty twelve,
- 37:37Speaker 1: she was inducted into the Gallery of Outstanding Montana's and
- 37:41Speaker 1: the Capitol Rotunda. And there's an image on the wall
- 37:46Speaker 1: in a Hayman's building that includes information about Sarah's life.
- 37:50Speaker 1: And there are a couple of pictures of her, not
- 37:52Speaker 1: many so as far as I know, they're just too
- 37:54Speaker 1: There might be more than that, but that I'm not
- 37:57Speaker 1: privy to. But there's one of her that if you
- 38:01Speaker 1: google her, you'll probably see that one first. And then
- 38:03Speaker 1: there's another one that I saw that doctor la Vada
- 38:07Speaker 1: shared of her later in life, closer to her death.
- 38:10Speaker 1: That is very kind of it's pretty moving to see, honestly.
- 38:15Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you could learn a lot through
- 38:17Speaker 1: a picture, even if that's just like, you know, an
- 38:19Speaker 1: emotional learning that's happening through looking at a picture. So yeah,
- 38:24Speaker 1: the Hangman's building still standing, as well as the building
- 38:28Speaker 1: where her bakery was. And I just wanted to share
- 38:32Speaker 1: this quick quote from the historian doctor Laura Roda's dissertation
- 38:36Speaker 1: just to end. So this is what she said, perhaps
- 38:39Speaker 1: Bickford's story is most remarkable because it is in many
- 38:43Speaker 1: ways unexceptional. She accomplished incredible things, running a public utilities
- 38:48Speaker 1: company and providing the town of Virginia City with water
- 38:50Speaker 1: for three decades before her day in nineteen thirty one.
- 38:54Speaker 1: But Bickford never cast her success or either of her
- 38:57Speaker 1: two marriages to white men in terms of race, and
- 38:59Speaker 1: she was never notorious within her own community. Rather, she
- 39:03Speaker 1: was integrated, respected, and almost never identified by existing accounts
- 39:08Speaker 1: of contemporaries in terms of race. So that is that's
- 39:14Speaker 1: that's what That's what doctor Laura abowt to say it.
- 39:18Speaker 1: That is something she was situating in terms of comparing
- 39:22Speaker 1: her to other black women, specifically who had histories in
- 39:27Speaker 1: the American West, like Mary Fields, stagecoach Mary as some
- 39:30Speaker 1: people I know that we've talked about her before on
- 39:34Speaker 1: the show, And so a lot of times when people
- 39:38Speaker 1: stand out in history is because they have this anomalist
- 39:42Speaker 1: character or they did anomalous things, they stood out in
- 39:45Speaker 1: their communities in certain ways. And so I do think
- 39:48Speaker 1: it was interesting that doctor rata Like made this connection
- 39:53Speaker 1: that in this case, Sarah Bickford was a black woman
- 39:56Speaker 1: in the American West, and what she did was pioneering
- 40:01Speaker 1: and it was singular, but it wasn't necessarily remarkable because
- 40:05Speaker 1: of her outside like her larger than life character per se,
- 40:09Speaker 1: and something like a utility company is so foundational, you know,
- 40:13Speaker 1: it's not so it's not as much of a spectacle
- 40:17Speaker 1: if you put it that way. So I do think
- 40:20Speaker 1: that that was interesting that she pointed that out. And yeah,
- 40:26Speaker 1: the race thing is a whole a whole other element
- 40:30Speaker 1: to it, because you know, it was notable that she
- 40:33Speaker 1: was married to two white men over the course of
- 40:35Speaker 1: her life there, but there also that's what was there,
- 40:39Speaker 1: Like she wasn't surrounded by a lot of other black
- 40:43Speaker 1: men either. So it's her story is just really fascinating.
- 40:48Speaker 1: And I think if folks want to dig into the
- 40:50Speaker 1: history of vigilantism of indigenous people in the area, of
- 40:56Speaker 1: how Chinese people of Chinese descent were treated in Montana,
- 41:00Speaker 1: of the history of Montana, of the history of mining,
- 41:04Speaker 1: I mean, it's a lot in there that that you
- 41:07Speaker 1: can dig into if you want to look more into
- 41:08Speaker 1: serious history.
- 41:20Speaker 3: Look, this story just is definitely like the Wild West
- 41:23Speaker 3: story that I like, it's such a separate state of
- 41:27Speaker 3: being compared to the South, like the timelines, I don't
- 41:30Speaker 3: even get it. Yeah, I can't even put it together
- 41:33Speaker 3: because in my mind they are such separate worlds and
- 41:36Speaker 3: separate stories. So I could definitely understand because especially with
- 41:39Speaker 3: a vigilante story West, justice versus racism, and all the
- 41:46Speaker 3: cultural contexts that was happening in the South and over
- 41:48Speaker 3: in the East area seems so separate that it kind
- 41:52Speaker 3: of made sense to me of her like yeah, obviously,
- 41:55Speaker 3: Like I was actually expecting you to say that she
- 41:57Speaker 3: was a part of this.
- 41:58Speaker 4: Like that's kind of where I thought it was.
- 42:00Speaker 3: For a second, I was like, oh, but she this
- 42:02Speaker 3: bad thought of force with some gun slinging doing her thing,
- 42:06Speaker 3: Like yes, let's let's go.
- 42:07Speaker 4: We need that story.
- 42:08Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. I'm not promoting violence in any way,
- 42:12Speaker 3: but I'm just saying, in like the historical context, it
- 42:16Speaker 3: made sense that she's like yeah, like it's not necessarily
- 42:19Speaker 3: what we know. It could also make sense again because
- 42:22Speaker 3: the West Wild West has its own loss that she
- 42:25Speaker 3: was just making money and this is one of the
- 42:27Speaker 3: ways to do it, and it's just like one more
- 42:29Speaker 3: thing to add to her like legacy of I'm gonna
- 42:33Speaker 3: survive and this is what I'm doing, but it's so fascinating.
- 42:38Speaker 1: Yeah it is, And yeah, I think who knows, maybe
- 42:43Speaker 1: she did have something to do with it and she
- 42:44Speaker 1: just never told me body or we don't have that
- 42:47Speaker 1: record of documentation.
- 42:48Speaker 4: So she was that good at hiding it, like she
- 42:51Speaker 4: was one of them.
- 42:51Speaker 3: To truly pull off something, you need to be like yeah, lowly,
- 42:55Speaker 3: it needs to be a secret. So she really held
- 42:57Speaker 3: it in regards to that. That would be an amazing story.
- 43:01Speaker 3: So when this is also one of those is I'm like,
- 43:03Speaker 3: I need a movie.
- 43:05Speaker 1: I was thinking that. I was like, yeah, like how
- 43:07Speaker 1: how could you know? They would have to up the
- 43:09Speaker 1: drama in the spectacle And that's why I'm where I'm like, yeah,
- 43:11Speaker 1: I don't know, but I would love to see this
- 43:13Speaker 1: told as I would honestly love to see her story dramatized,
- 43:17Speaker 1: Like I think it would be pretty cool.
- 43:19Speaker 3: He's pretty satisfying that she got a divorce from an
- 43:21Speaker 3: evil man like that that you don't need to do
- 43:24Speaker 3: much more that the fact that she had the audacity
- 43:27Speaker 3: to actually file for divorce. I'm like, come on, yeah,
- 43:30Speaker 3: that especially in this time as yeah, against a white
- 43:33Speaker 3: man who could have made it worse. So good thing.
- 43:36Speaker 3: He had to run away anyway, but like there's so
- 43:38Speaker 3: many things to that, and like that's hard to do today.
- 43:41Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm laughing because you're thinking, like you're thinking like
- 43:45Speaker 1: a Hollywood writer. You're like, yes, there actually is a
- 43:49Speaker 1: dramatic story here, and it is the story of a
- 43:51Speaker 1: wife's revenge. Okay, right, and then nothing else, everything else
- 43:56Speaker 1: doesn't matter.
- 43:57Speaker 3: But at top of the fact that she owned and
- 43:59Speaker 3: I'm just trying you again, this is from my knowledge
- 44:02Speaker 3: of entertainment and just a few of the Westerns that
- 44:05Speaker 3: I've seen. In any of those because Montana also, we
- 44:07Speaker 3: had a guest on here was from Montana. I was like,
- 44:09Speaker 3: I've never met a person from Montana. And that's not
- 44:13Speaker 3: the sentence that I hear in general even today. But
- 44:16Speaker 3: like in that like water was really precious. Again, this
- 44:21Speaker 3: is my very small knowledge in entertainment life, and like
- 44:25Speaker 3: because they had a lot of livestock, they had all
- 44:27Speaker 3: these things, and like it was pretty best lands and
- 44:29Speaker 3: it was hard to get to get like all these things.
- 44:31Speaker 3: And for her to be a utilities person that control
- 44:34Speaker 3: the water and helped make sure that it was accessible,
- 44:37Speaker 3: that seems like a huge undergoing test but also a
- 44:41Speaker 3: huge like power, not like in this level of like
- 44:46Speaker 3: during a time where water is precious and it is
- 44:48Speaker 3: today obviously, but it seems like a story in itself
- 44:51Speaker 3: as well.
- 44:53Speaker 1: Wow, Samantha, that really that was really moving. I didn't
- 44:56Speaker 1: really I didn't really think about that. I'm serious that
- 44:59Speaker 1: that that really that touched me because you're right, like's
- 45:06Speaker 1: it was a precious resource. And I think this is
- 45:10Speaker 1: something I was trying to situate as I was reading
- 45:12Speaker 1: Sarah Bigfot's story because also my focus right now in
- 45:16Speaker 1: the work that I do is a lot about how
- 45:18Speaker 1: black people are related to the land environment. I'm focused
- 45:22Speaker 1: more on environment and the outdoors in the land. And
- 45:25Speaker 1: I knew that that I felt that through her story.
- 45:28Speaker 1: One because it's Montana and it's it's the time that
- 45:31Speaker 1: it was, but also because she was in public utility.
- 45:34Speaker 1: But there was something that wasn't fully connecting with me,
- 45:38Speaker 1: which like, I know this is an outdoor and environmental story,
- 45:41Speaker 1: but I'm not fully sure about what that is yet
- 45:44Speaker 1: because that's not necessarily how her story was presented through
- 45:48Speaker 1: doctor Laura Arada's work. So that is very a suit
- 45:52Speaker 1: point because she she like Virginia City was not an
- 45:59Speaker 1: insignificant place if it was this cradle of Montana's history
- 46:03Speaker 1: and it was this social center at the time that
- 46:06Speaker 1: she got there, and for her to have that power,
- 46:10Speaker 1: like you say, I will, that power of being the
- 46:13Speaker 1: person who people had to come to when they had
- 46:16Speaker 1: issues with water and the person who was delivering that
- 46:19Speaker 1: very necessary part of people's everyday lives. Yeah, I must.
- 46:23Speaker 1: I mean I must have imagined it's so big. That's
- 46:26Speaker 1: that is really big. Yeah, thank you for sharing that.
- 46:34Speaker 2: No, it is. And it's funny when, like I said,
- 46:37Speaker 2: when I was like, oh, who are we talking about?
- 46:39Speaker 2: What did they do? And I was like utilities? But
- 46:41Speaker 2: when you think about it, it is like so important
- 46:45Speaker 2: and it matters so much like when your utilities are
- 46:48Speaker 2: not working. That is when you're like, oh, I didn't
- 46:51Speaker 2: realize how valuable and important this is. So I do.
- 46:56Speaker 2: I think all the elements are there for them to
- 46:58Speaker 2: make Hollywood. The story is there, the myth making is there.
- 47:04Speaker 2: Like you said, Eves, there's a lot of cool like
- 47:06Speaker 2: rumors they could pursue.
- 47:08Speaker 1: There was one instance in her story of like she
- 47:11Speaker 1: didn't sue. She sued one person in her the course
- 47:15Speaker 1: of her so she got into there were some people
- 47:17Speaker 1: who came it was like, yeah, this isn't this payment
- 47:19Speaker 1: isn't right, the water blah blah blah. You know, they
- 47:20Speaker 1: had issues with her. But there was one a known
- 47:25Speaker 1: person who she had to like bring legal action against,
- 47:30Speaker 1: And I could imagine inserting some some imagina there, right, yeah, yeah,
- 47:39Speaker 1: but yeah.
- 47:40Speaker 3: I'm also interested because this should be the basis of
- 47:43Speaker 3: generational wealth, like this should be the conversation where she
- 47:47Speaker 3: was able to help set up her family for the
- 47:50Speaker 3: rest of their lives, like all of and the generations
- 47:52Speaker 3: to come in order to take care of them, because
- 47:54Speaker 3: this is what we see with like the beginning of
- 47:57Speaker 3: the establishment of the US or before. Yeah, where are
- 48:01Speaker 3: our descendants? Do we know?
- 48:04Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know much about where they are.
- 48:08Speaker 1: Seemingly from what was said about her children, because it
- 48:13Speaker 1: would be her children's children who could still be alive.
- 48:16Speaker 1: But from what they said about her children, it was
- 48:22Speaker 1: that they were pretty well off when they did they
- 48:26Speaker 1: were doing well when they moved to other parts of
- 48:28Speaker 1: the country. I think one was married. One of her
- 48:30Speaker 1: children was married to the Howard professor she worked out.
- 48:35Speaker 1: I can't remember something like this, But in terms of
- 48:39Speaker 1: where they want where her children went at the time,
- 48:41Speaker 1: I think they were doing pretty well, But I don't
- 48:44Speaker 1: know about the state of her the rest of her,
- 48:48Speaker 1: her family.
- 48:50Speaker 3: I'd just say that because you know, as we're talking
- 48:52Speaker 3: about monopolies and as we talk about the level of
- 48:55Speaker 3: wealth that has happened over the years in the US
- 48:58Speaker 3: for a lot of people, like, of course, it would
- 49:02Speaker 3: be an interesting, like a phenomenal thing to see a
- 49:06Speaker 3: black woman to be able to establish that. And she
- 49:08Speaker 3: should have been if she was in that same conversation
- 49:13Speaker 3: with the equity that should have been given to her.
- 49:15Speaker 3: But of course, you know, that's the whole different thing.
- 49:17Speaker 3: I just wondered where that was because she could been
- 49:20Speaker 3: like it could be a measure of what we could see.
- 49:23Speaker 3: And then like I could also see her fear of
- 49:25Speaker 3: her the children leaving. And I know you didn't get
- 49:27Speaker 3: into us get into it, but like if she had
- 49:29Speaker 3: experienced the times of enslavement and seeing those repercussions in
- 49:35Speaker 3: the East, her children going back to that had probably
- 49:38Speaker 3: been horrifying, even though they didn't but.
- 49:41Speaker 1: Like they did, so they did go back to Tennessee.
- 49:44Speaker 1: She took them back to Tennessee at a certain point, Yes,
- 49:46Speaker 1: and there was part of her story that we didn't
- 49:48Speaker 1: get a touch on today that was about how she
- 49:51Speaker 1: felt about who her children should marry, and she did
- 49:56Speaker 1: want them to, you know, understand, be around other black
- 50:01Speaker 1: people basically at certain times. And so, yeah, there is
- 50:05Speaker 1: a little part of her stories. It seems pretty complicated
- 50:08Speaker 1: in how she viewed race because, like I said, she
- 50:10Speaker 1: was also married to white men and there was someone
- 50:15Speaker 1: who wanted her children got married to who was black
- 50:16Speaker 1: she didn't want them to be married to, but there
- 50:18Speaker 1: was also a white person she didn't want them to
- 50:19Speaker 1: be married too. So it wasn't a cut in dry
- 50:23Speaker 1: situation for her seemingly, but she did. As far as
- 50:30Speaker 1: what I can tell and what is written about her history,
- 50:36Speaker 1: it wasn't She didn't seem to speak much about any
- 50:40Speaker 1: resentment or it didn't seem to be much of a
- 50:44Speaker 1: point for her because she did go back, So it
- 50:48Speaker 1: wasn't like I'll never go back to Tennessee. There seemed
- 50:52Speaker 1: to be still a connection there for her that wasn't
- 50:55Speaker 1: a completely lost cause if that makes any sense. Yeah,
- 51:00Speaker 1: it does so much depth. Yeah, it's tough for.
- 51:06Speaker 4: Movie times.
- 51:07Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a mini series, I think it's a
- 51:09Speaker 2: mini series.
- 51:11Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, people are liking the wild the wild West situation.
- 51:17Speaker 3: Actually so last movies like that is the thing, and
- 51:19Speaker 3: this is like exactly her going at a young age
- 51:24Speaker 3: on a sled.
- 51:25Speaker 4: Come on the.
- 51:26Speaker 2: Sled right, Yeah, well pretty, we can only hope, We
- 51:33Speaker 2: can only hope. Thank you so much has always used
- 51:38Speaker 2: for bringing this story to us. It's a great conversation.
- 51:43Speaker 2: I really loved learning about her. Where can the good
- 51:46Speaker 2: listeners find you? Y'all can find me on my website.
- 51:51Speaker 2: You can just go there and get to all of
- 51:52Speaker 2: the other things. But my website is Eves Jeffcoat dot com.
- 51:57Speaker 2: That's y v es j E F fcat dot com.
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- 52:09Speaker 2: of other episodes of stuff Mom Never Told You with
- 52:13Speaker 2: me talking about other female first. Yes, yes, can't wait
- 52:18Speaker 2: to check back in with you, Eves and see what
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