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Definitely a Charlotte with Peter Weber · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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Speaker 1: with our radio Hello Almost Famous Urs. Today we have
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Speaker 1: a short special episode with the Bachelor's in the City
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Speaker 1: Peter Weber and Dustin Kendrick. Please welcome them to the show.
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Speaker 1: Hello guys, Hey, how's it going good? How are you good?
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Speaker 1: You guys are the hosts of Bachelor's in the City,
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Speaker 1: So listen, gotta ask. It's kind of like the mail
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Speaker 1: take on Sex in the City. So have you ever
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Speaker 1: watched the show? Oh? Showed it? That was a huge
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Speaker 1: inspiration for us. When we were trying to figure out
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Speaker 1: what are we gonna do with the podcast, we had
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Speaker 1: the idea and then yeah, I think we originally we
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Speaker 1: wanted to do our little um o our profile picture
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Speaker 1: to our cover art as uh, getting black suits right,
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Speaker 1: just like they do in the Indian with the little
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Speaker 1: black dresses and like the initial season one poster. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: but the demand version of it, the man, we kind
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Speaker 1: of copied that a little bit with with our dogs.
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Speaker 1: We had the Dustin and I and then Trip and
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Speaker 1: Sophia and we kind of had the four of us
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Speaker 1: walking right now. There have we seen Sex in the City?
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Speaker 1: What have you not seen this Miranda drama going on. Right, Okay,
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Speaker 1: so you have watched season one through six, the originals
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Speaker 1: and then the movies and now just like that, just
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Speaker 1: like that, maybe you well he hasn't caught up. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's okay. So so we moved to the city, right,
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Speaker 1: I got Dustin moved out with me. We had this
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Speaker 1: great time. Then we started the podcast and all that,
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Speaker 1: and then living in the city. I had always heard
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Speaker 1: of the show Sex in the City always, you know,
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Speaker 1: a lot of friends have been fans of it, you know,
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Speaker 1: my my parents have watched it all and but I
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Speaker 1: never got into it. And then living in the city
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Speaker 1: that inspired me to really give it like a shot.
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Speaker 1: And immediately I got hooked because there's so many things
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Speaker 1: you can immediately recognize and you relate to um once
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Speaker 1: you get to know the city a little bit. And
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Speaker 1: so I'm not all the ways. I'm maybe like a
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Speaker 1: couple episodes into the second season, but I did spoil
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Speaker 1: and watch the first episode of the new l show, yes,
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Speaker 1: as as most people would after all the hype that
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Speaker 1: was surrounding it. Nick Vile actually also started watching Sex
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Speaker 1: in the City this year, and he was texting me
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Speaker 1: through it and he was like, I understand my fan
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Speaker 1: base so much more now watching this show. Yeah, I
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Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, people in Bats for Nation, they definitely
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Speaker 1: are big fans of Sex in the City too. I've
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Speaker 1: noticed that, yes, hopeless. You know, there's like there's that
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Speaker 1: underlying theme of like wanting to find your person. I
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Speaker 1: gotta ask who are you guys? What's your character? Like?
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Speaker 1: Who are you most? Who do you most resonate with? Well,
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Speaker 1: because you want, I'll let you go first us and
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Speaker 1: oh man, this is a tough one. Um. I think
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Speaker 1: sometimes I do act like a Miranda because I'm kind
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Speaker 1: of like grumpy and have an attitude every now not
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Speaker 1: an attitude, but you have the one telling me we
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Speaker 1: were trying to put our faces on one of the
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Speaker 1: cover arts for an episode we did and You're like, no,
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Speaker 1: I'm carrying. I'm like, no, I'm carried. Everybody wants to
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Speaker 1: be carried. Yeah, But after watching Carry More, I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I'm not really carry I don't know. It's hard to say.
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Speaker 1: I think I have little pieces of all of them,
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Speaker 1: you know, I think who's who's the um, not Miranda,
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Speaker 1: not the not Samantha Charlotte. I think I have a
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Speaker 1: little bit of Charlotte and a little bit of carrying me?
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Speaker 1: You do you have Charlotte for real? Okay? And what
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Speaker 1: is it about Charlotte that you resonate with? I think
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Speaker 1: just like her, never ending, just hopeless romantic mindset. Um.
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Speaker 1: I see. I mean I'm not to that extent obviously,
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Speaker 1: but you know, I definitely can relate a lot to
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Speaker 1: that male version male form um. Yeah, I don't know
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Speaker 1: just from you. Guys are like golden, golden retriever. She's
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Speaker 1: just happy, just always. Uh that's where Yeah, I see it.
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Speaker 1: I've been told that a couple of times, and I guess, yeah,
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Speaker 1: maybe watching Charlotte, I can see why people would say
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Speaker 1: that if I act like that. But yeah, a little
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Speaker 1: bit of Charlotte and uh okay, what about what about you? Actually,
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Speaker 1: I'm definitely mostly in my heart as Charlotte, but I
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Speaker 1: definitely know what you're talking about, Destin. I feel like
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Speaker 1: in your twenties, everybody wants to be carried, but you're not.
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Speaker 1: But you're not. And then like you kind of realize
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Speaker 1: who you are in your thirties, and that's almost always Miranda,
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Speaker 1: because you're eating the duncan hinds out of the tin
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Speaker 1: ordering Chinese food and just wanting to watch your tevow
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Speaker 1: you know, your TVR. She's just the one that you
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Speaker 1: just don't want to be and then you realize, you
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Speaker 1: know what, it's okay to be, Like, yeah, I'm getting
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Speaker 1: more comfortable with It's funny. My girlfriend I asked her this,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, who are you? And she's like, I'm Samantha.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what, wait, what now? You gotta be worried Samantha.
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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't see Samantha. I didn't realize.
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Speaker 1: I kind of got filled in the tea between Carrie
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Speaker 1: and Samantha off screen on screen with her, and I
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Speaker 1: don't like it. That's so to me. I was so bummed.
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Speaker 1: And I haven't even finished the show yet, right, but
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Speaker 1: I was so bummed to hear that because they their
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Speaker 1: characters on screen or just they deliver so perfectly and
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Speaker 1: like they go together so well, And that's such a
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Speaker 1: shame to hear that that that just couldn't continue. Just
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Speaker 1: egos and whatnot. I don't know, there's just a lot
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Speaker 1: of things about it that we really need to ignore
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Speaker 1: these days. Like I really hope that I can watch
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Speaker 1: the old episodes and not think about the new episodes.
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Speaker 1: I hope I am able to go back and watch
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Speaker 1: old episodes and not be able to associate their drama
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Speaker 1: in real life. I'm never going to go back in
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Speaker 1: time and be like, oh and Big Big Dies and Miranda,
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Speaker 1: I didn't think and all that. I didn't think that
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Speaker 1: she was gonna end up with Mr Big. I truly didn't.
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Speaker 1: I thought they were gonna tease you on and off,
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Speaker 1: on and off throughout all the seasons. But I thought
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Speaker 1: something at the end would would have happened where they
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Speaker 1: didn't end up together. Had so much baggage off and
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Speaker 1: on baggage it's insane. Yeah. Well, I'm really glad that
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Speaker 1: you guys were inspired by the show to create your podcast.
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Speaker 1: That's awesome. So, Dustin, you have a girlfriend. How much
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Speaker 1: do you reveal on your podcast about your relationship with her?
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Speaker 1: Because I have another podcast called I Don't Get It
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Speaker 1: where we talk about more and more about relationships, and
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Speaker 1: you know, that's where we're like complain and celebrate or
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Speaker 1: significant others. But like, it's it's cool because I'm married
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Speaker 1: and I have a kid on the way, my sister
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Speaker 1: is engaged, and then my other friend is single, so
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Speaker 1: we have like all the different points of view, what
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Speaker 1: what are But like, it's funny because the one that's dating,
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Speaker 1: she wants so badly to talk about her dates when
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Speaker 1: she comes, I guess is actually towards Peter too. She
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Speaker 1: wants to talk about her dates on the podcast. But
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Speaker 1: then guys listen to the podcast and they're like, so
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Speaker 1: I heard that you didn't like it when I did this.
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Speaker 1: So where where's the worry? Do you guys worry about
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Speaker 1: what you reveal and do not reveal on the podcast? Uh?
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Speaker 1: With cats, I mean there's been times I've talked too
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Speaker 1: much or said something Peter. She got mad at me
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Speaker 1: and Peter one time, But uh, what's about Because talking
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Speaker 1: about when I first moved here, I was dating all
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Speaker 1: these different women, she was like, Hey, before you guys
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Speaker 1: got together, it was um, but yeah, I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I'm pretty open and transparent. Um, I've asked her if
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Speaker 1: I could talk about certain things. Um, you guys you
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Speaker 1: brought her on the pods. Yeah, she's been on the podcast. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I just I think, especially for us to be in
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Speaker 1: this light, there is a bound of privacy that should
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Speaker 1: just be between me and her, every every listener every
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Speaker 1: fan of vagination doesn't necessarily have shouldn't have access to
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Speaker 1: my life and my conversations that are things that we
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Speaker 1: go through and whatnot. But I think overall, I I'm
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Speaker 1: open door, right are you okay? You don't think I
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Speaker 1: am has what it has to do with me? You'll
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Speaker 1: you'll just throw it all out there and hey, let's
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Speaker 1: get an episode go, let's get an episode going. We
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Speaker 1: have we have we have a funny joke. It's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: when I had some whatever, some stuff come up and
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Speaker 1: uh and I'm like, DestinE, you gotta carry you weight. Man.
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Speaker 1: It's just been it's just a me doing this. We've
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Speaker 1: gotta talk about all this drama. You gotta carry weight
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Speaker 1: a little bit. No one cares about my drama. Look,
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Speaker 1: you guys are not just co host but your roommates.
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Speaker 1: So what are the girl the girl rules when it
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Speaker 1: comes to the house, like it's Dustin able to have
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Speaker 1: his his girlfriend sleep over every day? Or is that
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Speaker 1: is that annoying pet heard to move in? He's like,
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Speaker 1: hey you can hey have her moving in? Man, Listen, listen, listen.
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Speaker 1: I feel like I am someone I am. I know
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Speaker 1: that I guess you could I guess maybe not all
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Speaker 1: roommates are like this. I'm someone like I'm always like
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Speaker 1: the more people, the better, the more people, the bigger party,
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Speaker 1: let's have a good time. I'm not like that. Um.
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Speaker 1: And so yeah, I think I probably pushed you guys
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Speaker 1: to moving with each other more than you guys have
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Speaker 1: probably had the conversation yourself. So sorry, sorry about that. Um,
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Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. I just like having people over,
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Speaker 1: like like the energy. I'm not I'm not here a lot, right,
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Speaker 1: so I'm gone like half the month. So when I
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Speaker 1: am home, you know, I'm usually alone on the way
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Speaker 1: over right with my hotel unless I'm going now with
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Speaker 1: the crew. So it's you know, I like to get
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Speaker 1: my social time in when I'm home. Pete wants to
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Speaker 1: have a full house moment. He wants to have a
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Speaker 1: year where there's like eight people in the the same
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Speaker 1: household and everyone. That's what he wants. I'm not like that.
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Speaker 1: How do you How do you negotiate that? That is
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Speaker 1: not an easy type of person to live with if
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Speaker 1: you're somebody like yourself, destined who likes to have their
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Speaker 1: private space. Yeah, there's been plenty times I just tell
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Speaker 1: Pete no, as we're as as we're about to add
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Speaker 1: a roommate to the mids. Okay we are? Or is
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Speaker 1: that the girlfriend? No, no, no, you're adding a new roommate.
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Speaker 1: You just mentioned before we started recording that you're moving
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Speaker 1: out of that apartment into a new one. Who's the
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Speaker 1: new roommate? Possibly you may know him. Let me guess,
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Speaker 1: Let her guess, Let her guess. Let's give you a
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Speaker 1: all right Chicago connection. Extremely fit, extremely fit, this great
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Speaker 1: guy all around. Some people may call him like a
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Speaker 1: Teddy Bear bachelor alum um. Oh, it would wouldn't be
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Speaker 1: Riley not Riley football football background, football background, NFL background.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's gonna be so obvious when you
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Speaker 1: say it. I'm gonna be so annoyed at myself. All right,
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Speaker 1: final on this to give it away with Becca Becca season,
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Speaker 1: I think it was Becca's football player. Who did he plays?
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Speaker 1: He's played for a lot of teams. He's played for
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Speaker 1: the Lions, the Jags, Patriots. He's got a cousin em
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Speaker 1: batchlorination as well. Oh he's not oh he oh Clay Clay, Yes, Okay, Graham,
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Speaker 1: I'm so glad I got that. That That would have been
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Speaker 1: so annoying. So Clay Harbor is going to be your
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Speaker 1: new roommate, Clay is moving moving to New York? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: is he going to be a new podcast coast? I
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Speaker 1: thought about that. I don't know. I guess we'll actrinate
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Speaker 1: him into Bachelor's in the city now, I guess officially
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Speaker 1: a bachelor in the city. He's more of a bachelor
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Speaker 1: than I am. I guess. So he's not taking my
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Speaker 1: spot nowhere. You're gonna have to do some more photo
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Speaker 1: shoots for the cover. I got to add him in
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Speaker 1: like a photoshop. How do you foresee him mixing into
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Speaker 1: the roommate chemistry. I'm excited because I'm getta get into
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Speaker 1: the best shape of my life living with Clay Harbor.
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Speaker 1: I have zero doubt about that. So that's a huge plus.
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Speaker 1: Let's let's do some fun questions like who's the cook?
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Speaker 1: Is somebody in charge of dinner every night? Or are
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Speaker 1: you you go and pick up your own dinner type people?
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Speaker 1: I think it's every man for himself. I think though,
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Speaker 1: like here, me and Peter had dinner night plenty of
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Speaker 1: times where we would like family style, everyone kind of
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Speaker 1: trip up chip in and uh we just um cook
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Speaker 1: it up and boose it up good time. So I'll
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Speaker 1: be honest with du Dustin' dusn't carries most of the
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Speaker 1: weight in that department. I'm not. I'm not gifted in
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Speaker 1: the whole cooking field. The one thing I can do
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Speaker 1: is steak. Can do a mean steak, and I do
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Speaker 1: you know, chip in with that once in a while. Um.
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Speaker 1: But honestly, in New York too, I would say we
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Speaker 1: we really like eat out. It's almost cheaper to eat out,
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Speaker 1: it is, andlike the whole prep work, and we probably
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Speaker 1: eat out like eight at least the time. Right. New
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Speaker 1: York is so expensive, I don't even I don't even
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Speaker 1: know which way to go to say. It's insane. It is.
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Speaker 1: It's truly insane. In the uber prices, the taxi prices.
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Speaker 1: I was there from my baby shower a couple of
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Speaker 1: weeks ago, Like, are you guys kidding me? It's like
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Speaker 1: forty five dollars to go twenty blocks these days. Always
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Speaker 1: take a taxi if you can in the city. Have
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Speaker 1: you learned the subway? I find it to be extremely confusing.
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Speaker 1: Subways easy once you get going. It is confusing at first.
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Speaker 1: It is once you get going, though, we uh, we
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Speaker 1: did our little like educational I would say, experience of
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Speaker 1: learning the whole subway system. That was like still pandemic, right,
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Speaker 1: so there was nobody on the subways. It was just
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Speaker 1: Dustin and I. And then now it's crazy, you see,
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Speaker 1: it's it's pretty much filled up again. Back to back
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Speaker 1: to normal, I mean normal levels for what I've seen.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, it takes a little bit. So you're gonna
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Speaker 1: be three Chicago guys living in New York compare and
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Speaker 1: contrast the cities. Are you guys going to be Chicago
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Speaker 1: at heart always? And you're just like loving your little
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Speaker 1: sex in the city life for a couple of years
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Speaker 1: right now, well to Chicago, but um yeah, uh, oh
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Speaker 1: my god. Sorry, you lived in Chicago for freaking like
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Speaker 1: nine months, Peter, and I'm associating it with Chicago now.
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Speaker 1: He doesn't get the credit. He doesn't get the credit yet.
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Speaker 1: We can't give him the Chicago credit. Actually, I lived
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Speaker 1: there when I was little, when I was younger, so
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Speaker 1: it's a couple of years. Okay, we can say that then, Okay,
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Speaker 1: So how how do you feel about New York? I
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Speaker 1: think it's so yeah, I think it's kind of like
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Speaker 1: like you said, it is almost like sex in the city,
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Speaker 1: Like we all have our own experience as we come back, UM,
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Speaker 1: talk about dates, talk about experiences and all kinds of
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Speaker 1: different stuff. It's um, it's interesting, it's fun. I feel
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Speaker 1: like we right now, I live in some of the
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Speaker 1: best years, like truly, some of the best years of
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Speaker 1: our lives. And I'm excited because I feel like I've
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Speaker 1: said that multiple times in my life and I continue
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Speaker 1: to keep saying it. So I'm hoping that trend continues.
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Speaker 1: But truly, right now, it's just from my perspective. You know,
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Speaker 1: I came out to New York thinking I want to
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Speaker 1: do New York for like year or two. Um, you know,
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Speaker 1: get the feel, and then you know, I move here.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm gonna do New York for
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Speaker 1: like a year or two or maybe I never leave.
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Um, I'm definitely kind of um like
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Speaker 1: a Jack Dawson type attitude, Titanic like, wherever it takes me,
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Speaker 1: I'm going. You know that my child is named after Jack?
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Speaker 1: Is that it is? That's the inspiration? Show? Yes, all
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Speaker 1: I need are a few blank sheets of paper. That's
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Speaker 1: the kind of guy you are. No way there you
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Speaker 1: go exactly. Um, I gotta have some of his monologues
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Speaker 1: and memorize, but don't even get me started. Um yeah,
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Speaker 1: so yeah, So I'm just kind of that in that
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Speaker 1: that phase of my life right now and living and
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Speaker 1: join it and living. Obviously it does and we'll see,
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Speaker 1: you know what tomorrow, the next month, the next year
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Speaker 1: brings who knows. Um, but I'm loving New York and
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Speaker 1: you know, if I'm here for a long term, i'd
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Speaker 1: love that. To Dustin, we had Peter on just like
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Speaker 1: about a month or so ago, and we're talking about
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Speaker 1: like his favorite kinds of dates in the city. Do
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Speaker 1: you have one that maybe he wouldn't have been so
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Speaker 1: open to sharing himself. And there's like he was really
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Speaker 1: nervous before he went out, or he brought a girl
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Speaker 1: home and you met her, anything like that. Oh boy,
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Speaker 1: oh boy, what Peter. No, No, he's like shaking right now.
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Speaker 1: He's like Dustin. It'll get people to listen to your
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Speaker 1: podcast if you give us gossip. I will say, you know,
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Speaker 1: Peter has gone on dates here in New York. Um,
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Speaker 1: he's a romantic guy. I'm not gonna put his business
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Speaker 1: on the front street. I will tell you a funny story.
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Speaker 1: He might get a little embarrassed about. I have no
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Speaker 1: idea where you're going with this. Well, maybe I shouldn't,
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Speaker 1: Maybe I shouldn't. Well, I don't know. Peter is such
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Speaker 1: a sweet guy, like I've never seen someone so sweet
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Speaker 1: in my life. I remember we went out one time
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Speaker 1: and no, I can't say a little bit. Give me,
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Speaker 1: give me like a hint of where it's going. I'll
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Speaker 1: prove yes, or now I'm giving it a I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: give it a very my this is like never mind,
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Speaker 1: never mind, never There have been books written about Peter.
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Speaker 1: I think a lot of out there, no we get
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Speaker 1: I don't like exactly. I don't need anything else to
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Speaker 1: put out there. I'm a very private person. I'll say
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Speaker 1: I'll say this. I'll say this, Pete such a sweet guy.
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Speaker 1: Like we went out one time. We were all drunk um.
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Speaker 1: This guy is so innocent and lovely. I two girls
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Speaker 1: were really trying to have a like one in him,
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Speaker 1: like two girls one in him at the same time.
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Speaker 1: And this man is just like, no, I'm sorry, that's
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Speaker 1: not me. He's very I don't I've never seen someone
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Speaker 1: like Pete. He's just a sweet character. You know, I
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Speaker 1: don't know if I don't know, but that was my story. Look,
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Speaker 1: but I mean most guys would be like, let's go.
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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know pizza. He's a sweet guy.
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Speaker 1: I was. I think it was a little naive that night,
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Speaker 1: Benny naive. I went with sweet and that's not me,
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Speaker 1: that's not him. He's a good guy. Um, he's a
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Speaker 1: romantic Honestly, sometimes he gets on my nerves with it.
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Speaker 1: He's like, dude, like this day was so romantic. The light,
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Speaker 1: the chemistry bro Like I don't know, Like, honestly, you
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Speaker 1: called me the chemistry doctor Dustin could be could be
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Speaker 1: a relationship guru, expert, um advice giver. Because the amount
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Speaker 1: of conversations that we've had. I wish the people it
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Speaker 1: could be a fly on the wall and just like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god that people are listening, but they would
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Speaker 1: probably be so shocked. It probably would be. It's actually
18:56
Speaker 1: really funny. I make fun of people all the time,
18:59
Speaker 1: you know, blesses are He's a he's a champ. He
19:01
Speaker 1: knows I I always make fun of him, but it's
19:03
Speaker 1: all out of love. We were talking about something today. Um,
19:06
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I love Pete he's got a
19:08
Speaker 1: great heart, kind heart. Um, he's looking for a lot
19:11
Speaker 1: of his life. An uh yeah, well, what's the most
19:14
Speaker 1: romantic thing that you guys have witnessed each other do
19:17
Speaker 1: for a girl? Now I'm thinking that Peter has got
19:22
Speaker 1: you know, um, you know, flights at his fingertips, like
19:25
Speaker 1: he could actually fly a girl to Paris for dinner
19:29
Speaker 1: for the night and really be like Mr Big this
19:34
Speaker 1: is true, This is true. Um Um. I will say, uh,
19:39
Speaker 1: I gave Dustin the best roommate Christmas present of unlimited flights,
19:45
Speaker 1: so that's haven't given a girl that yet, but I
19:48
Speaker 1: gave I gave my roommate, my best friend that. Um,
19:51
Speaker 1: so that's probably the most romantic thing I've done for you.
19:53
Speaker 1: That was romantic. I would say, well, I think some
19:57
Speaker 1: plastic is for me. It's very romantic. I know Pete
20:00
Speaker 1: loves walks, walks on the park, I know a love
20:03
Speaker 1: Central Park and whatnot. Um, I think I think that's
20:07
Speaker 1: honestly one of the best dates. Like me and my
20:09
Speaker 1: girlfriend Cat, we love walking. We love walking and just
20:12
Speaker 1: like in New York, so great love late late night walks,
20:15
Speaker 1: which yeah we loved it the last night. Yeah, we
20:18
Speaker 1: just love like a good walk. Sometimes, you know, we
20:21
Speaker 1: don't know where we're going, we don't make plans. If
20:23
Speaker 1: we see an interesting bar restaurant, we just jump in.
20:26
Speaker 1: And that's one of the beauty is about New York.
20:28
Speaker 1: You can literally walk down the street, see a vibe,
20:31
Speaker 1: see the atmosphere of something and it's beautiful, and just
20:34
Speaker 1: jump right into it. So do you think New York
20:37
Speaker 1: is a more romantic city than l A In Chicago?
20:41
Speaker 1: I think so the l A for sure. Um, I
20:46
Speaker 1: love Chicago, I love Chicago. I do miss Chicago. Um,
20:51
Speaker 1: New York is hard and dating though it's it's really
20:55
Speaker 1: you have so many people here, so many people. But
20:58
Speaker 1: don't you guys have the upper hand, because aren't. There's
21:00
Speaker 1: so many more single girls and guys. That's what they say.
21:05
Speaker 1: I know. I noticed it when we're in the streets.
21:08
Speaker 1: You see women everywhere. Honestly you do. It's insane. Yeah,
21:12
Speaker 1: this is I mean, yeah, for sure that there's like
21:14
Speaker 1: the mecca of just I think, single life and being
21:16
Speaker 1: able to have a good chance of meeting someone. But
21:19
Speaker 1: definitely I would say New York's more romantic than l A. Um.
21:22
Speaker 1: The only thing I missed about l A or I mean,
21:24
Speaker 1: I mean it's a lot. I miss a lot of
21:26
Speaker 1: stuff about l A obviously, you know, primarily just my
21:29
Speaker 1: family being out there, but um, i'd really miss like
21:33
Speaker 1: the mountain scene and like just like especially the mountains
21:36
Speaker 1: like on the on the ocean, like on the coast
21:38
Speaker 1: on pH um, you just don't get anything like that
21:41
Speaker 1: here on the East Coast. And that's like the biggest thing.
21:43
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's been like a year, I haven't really
21:46
Speaker 1: experienced like that vibe, that kind of um just setting
21:50
Speaker 1: in a while. But yeah, romantic side definitely goes to
21:54
Speaker 1: um to New York. Gotcha? All Right? Well, guys, I
21:58
Speaker 1: really am grateful for you joining us. Ben and I
22:02
Speaker 1: are going to join you guys on on The Bachelor's
22:07
Speaker 1: in the City podcast. I'm very excited. He getting ready
22:10
Speaker 1: to talk sex in the City. We are we gonna
22:16
Speaker 1: go into that because then we're gonna have to bring
22:18
Speaker 1: east In, our producer on because he has he can
22:21
Speaker 1: articulate his feelings about the show even more than I can.
22:25
Speaker 1: Before I let you guys go, though, just quickly, are
22:28
Speaker 1: you watching this season um of of The Bachelor? Oh? Yeah,
22:34
Speaker 1: absolutely definitely watching. Okay, so who do you see making
22:39
Speaker 1: top three and Dustin, who do you see Peter being
22:44
Speaker 1: able to take? Who do you see Peter taking a
22:47
Speaker 1: date with? Oh, I'm just trying to get some good headlines.
22:54
Speaker 1: Who should Peter date from this season if she doesn't
22:56
Speaker 1: end up with Clayton? Okay, Um, this was tough because
23:02
Speaker 1: we we went back and forth, we talked on our
23:04
Speaker 1: podcast because they really try to trick you up in
23:07
Speaker 1: the top three like they honestly after they did all
23:11
Speaker 1: those all those franking by edits where you think you
23:13
Speaker 1: see the top of three and now we see, Okay,
23:15
Speaker 1: it's not this. Yeah, absolutely not. I totally forgot the
23:19
Speaker 1: names already. I know it's been a week now since
23:21
Speaker 1: we've seen there's a hiatus. There's a girl. I think
23:24
Speaker 1: that's going to be the bat story. I think everyone
23:26
Speaker 1: she kind of looks like Hannah Brown. Everyone's been saying
23:30
Speaker 1: so because she looks like Hannah Brown, do we see
23:32
Speaker 1: her being with already her her heart? Peter, you were
23:38
Speaker 1: on our podcast literally twelve hours before the excerpts came
23:43
Speaker 1: out about you in Hannah's book. Um, you're yeah, you're right,
23:49
Speaker 1: actually yeah about that, we were like, wow, that was
23:52
Speaker 1: unfortunate that we didn't tape the next day to get
23:54
Speaker 1: his grown reaction Dustin without saying too much, because I
23:58
Speaker 1: won't put you too much on the spot. Guys, were
24:01
Speaker 1: you around for his reaction to these quotes being released? Oh? Yeah,
24:06
Speaker 1: I I was. I was the one that one that
24:08
Speaker 1: told me about it. Yeah. I'm like, um, buddy, you
24:14
Speaker 1: want to sit down for this one. Yeah, I was
24:15
Speaker 1: the one who told him about it. Um, I was
24:18
Speaker 1: shocked that came out. I was like, holy, I honestly
24:21
Speaker 1: I was shocked too. And now that I've had more
24:23
Speaker 1: time to kind of like, I mean, not now it's
24:25
Speaker 1: like old news, like it really cares now, But um,
24:28
Speaker 1: I was. I was shocked that she did that. I
24:31
Speaker 1: treat like, I mean no disrespect and like I you know,
24:33
Speaker 1: she's the sweetest, um, but I was shocked that she
24:36
Speaker 1: did that, mainly like for her boy her boyfriend too
24:38
Speaker 1: that you know she's serious with and like brainstuff Like
24:41
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't have done that if I was dating
24:43
Speaker 1: someone seriously, and I don't know, I felt like it
24:45
Speaker 1: was a little bit trail of privacy. Um, it's not
24:49
Speaker 1: not some not something that I would do to someone, um,
24:52
Speaker 1: especially not bringing up to their attention before, so I
24:55
Speaker 1: thought I could have been handled a little bit better.
24:56
Speaker 1: But hey, I think it's sold a lot of books,
24:59
Speaker 1: so don't think she really probably regrets it, but it
25:03
Speaker 1: is what it is. Okay. So back to Susie, so
25:08
Speaker 1: we get okay, So so possibly he can we can
25:12
Speaker 1: see these two together, I Peter, was Susie, Peter, what
25:16
Speaker 1: do you think about that? She's very cute. I think
25:18
Speaker 1: Susie has um she looks like a sweetheart. Um, I
25:21
Speaker 1: definitely I think right now, if he does end up
25:24
Speaker 1: with someone, it's probably Susie, I would think. So. Um,
25:30
Speaker 1: I have a theory. I think he either. I would
25:32
Speaker 1: say he probably ends up with her. He ends up
25:33
Speaker 1: in that one. Um. And And the reason I say
25:36
Speaker 1: that is I think I saw an interview where he
25:38
Speaker 1: was talking about did you find your love? Or was
25:41
Speaker 1: being asked that right? And you know, you get coach
25:43
Speaker 1: right for prepress of how to respond. You can't. You know,
25:47
Speaker 1: they don't want you giving things away. And remember they
25:49
Speaker 1: never really wanted me to say, you know, if what
25:51
Speaker 1: I found like, never acknowledge it. And the fact that
25:53
Speaker 1: they let him acknowledge them like, it's a little different.
25:56
Speaker 1: So I have a feeling. It could be like a
25:58
Speaker 1: self love type thing, like, you know, found himself a
26:00
Speaker 1: little bit more and um learn a lot throughout the process.
26:03
Speaker 1: Or he ends up with Susie. That's my my two options. See,
26:06
Speaker 1: I think he's really into Teddy. I don't know that
26:11
Speaker 1: Susie is that into Clayton. That's why I'm not sure
26:14
Speaker 1: that they end up together. Teddy is the virgin, right yeah, okay,
26:20
Speaker 1: very cute girl. Um how old is Clayton again? That's thirty. Yeah,
26:27
Speaker 1: I don't see that. I don't think I see that happening.
26:29
Speaker 1: I don't know, I will see. I agree with you
26:31
Speaker 1: a little bit. I see. Um I've said to destined
26:36
Speaker 1: to on our pot on our recaps, I feel like
26:38
Speaker 1: almost when Susie's on, it's like Susie's the bachelorat and
26:41
Speaker 1: Clayton's a contest and it's the only only woman that
26:43
Speaker 1: I feel that way with when I watched the show.
26:46
Speaker 1: So thank you for what it is. I think, Pete,
26:50
Speaker 1: I can see you with the pilot too. She's cute.
26:54
Speaker 1: She's cute. There is a pilot. Yeah, you guys really
26:57
Speaker 1: trying to set me up here. We're sorry if he
27:01
Speaker 1: go to this girl, if hey, Pete, let me go
27:03
Speaker 1: ditch this. Alright, Well, guys, thank you, hum me um,
27:08
Speaker 1: I will see you soon. And just a little correction,
27:11
Speaker 1: Clayton is twenty eight. Maybe he could be with Teddy.
27:17
Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll find out. But what do you think?
27:20
Speaker 1: Do you think? What do I think? Well? What if? Okay,
27:24
Speaker 1: so we know that he sleeps with all the girls
27:25
Speaker 1: in the fantasy suite, and I think that one of
27:27
Speaker 1: them is going to be Teddy, which means he takes
27:30
Speaker 1: a V card in the fantasy suite, which is like
27:32
Speaker 1: the first time that will ever happen. And I don't
27:36
Speaker 1: know how that's gonna go over with her, which is
27:41
Speaker 1: why I even acknowledged. Yeah, she acknowledged it. She'd be acknowledged.
27:45
Speaker 1: She'd be okay losing Yeah, that's right. Yeah, But would
27:49
Speaker 1: she be okay with him also sleeping with two other
27:53
Speaker 1: women in that You think you've seen the most like production,
27:57
Speaker 1: that it's finest, and then they just pull this exactly
28:01
Speaker 1: this girl, she's going to regret losing her If that
28:04
Speaker 1: is the case, you're losing your virginia on on television
28:07
Speaker 1: like that. I just oh, but the producers are going
28:10
Speaker 1: to have a field day. Yeah, they really are that.
28:13
Speaker 1: I feel bad. Oh man, it comes on tonight, right, well,
28:17
Speaker 1: this is well yeah, but I'm very excited for a
28:19
Speaker 1: fantasy sweet week. Let's just get there. We'll see what happens. Alright, guys,
28:25
Speaker 1: thanks so much for hanging around for so long. I
28:27
Speaker 1: appreciate it. We'll talk to you bye. All right, We'll
28:30
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