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Season 2 - Episode 55 - Giving up our joy and our power to other people · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places for chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Poop. So today we are talking about
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  allowing others to steal your joy and make you question your
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  very existence. I can't get over how easy we
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  give up our power to other people when we think they don't
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  like us. And they just make us feel badly
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  about who we are, how we show up because they all of a sudden are
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  not okay with us, we say okay there must be Nothing wrong with
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  me and I really want to stress this when you do this to
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  yourself, when you choose to allow someone else to get in
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  your head and make you question, your value of who you are as a
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  person or what you bring to the table, you are questioning God's
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  work. And I have to put it that way.
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  You are questioning the work of the universe because the
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  universe doesn't make garbage, God doesn't make garbage and you
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  are not garbage. So when someone else says things
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  to you or makes you feel a certain way or ignores you puts
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  you in a place where you feel like you are just being shut out
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  of their lives and you weren't prepared for that.
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  That is not about you that is about them, that is about how
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  they show up and you know the famous term right now is
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  gaslighting them, telling people things and making people feel
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  less than and it all just comes down to mass manipulation and
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  someone who's probably very very Sick in their own mind and their
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  own psyche. And using a technique of saying
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  well I'm just going to make you feel less than than it, then it
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  puts me you into a submissive position then you try to make me
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  feel better and then I win but you give up everything about
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  your power, you give up who you are as a human being and all the
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  greatness and creative stuff that God put into you that the
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  Universe poured into you. It is absolutely not.
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  Okay. To make a choice and say I'm
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  going to do that to myself and put myself down.
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  And when you do it, it's really hard to climb back out of that
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  hole. And that hole is not meant for
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  you. That whole is a place where you
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  have to bury what they've said to you in the hole and move on.
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  Say, you know what? I'm going to take all this
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  garbage that they give it to me. I'm going to put it in this
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  hole. I'm going to put the dirt on top
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  of it, and I'm going to move the hell on.
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  People like that in my world. I don't look at it.
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  Like, okay, this is just something that happened by
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  happenstance. I don't have to listen to it.
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  I look at it and I say, this is teaching me who I never want to
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  be. I never want to do that to
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  another person. I also look at it, like, okay,
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  if there's something in this that I can learn, then it's
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  going to be that. I am obviously not appreciating
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  myself and what I bring to the table Enough by having this
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  person in my life, because I don't need to play that way.
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  I would rather be alone with myself, my connection to the
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  universe, my animals, whatever. Then to put myself in a position
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  where I let somebody bring me down to a level, that makes me
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  question my existence or how I am and how I show up and it
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  teaches us. These are moments that are
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  incredibly important to teach us that we have to value our selves
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  and it's not about turning into a braggadocio A pain in the ass.
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  It's not about going out there and saying I'm great, I'm great,
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  I'm great. Every two seconds, it's about
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  having this presence, it's about stepping into your power and
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  having presence in the process of it.
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  You know, you guys often hear me talk about the fact that I have
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  this relationship with my chickens.
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  Obviously, I'm in the chicken coop shooting the podcast but
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  this is something that's really interesting.
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  Because there's always like one or two hens that are in charge.
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  No matter how many times you have you always have like one or
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  two that are very Charge, and for me, that's Dottie and Amelia
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  and the two of them have presence.
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  And when they show up, they walk in.
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  And it's not like they have to be mean.
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  It's not like they go after anybody.
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  It's nothing. They just walk in and all the
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  other hands are like, oh, okay. Here they are.
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  And I've watched this so many times and I always try to put my
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  finger on it, like what is it about them?
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  And it's nothing more than their energy.
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  It's how they are different with, what they do.
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  It's how they show up. And it's the same thing with
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  humans. It's like you don't have to go
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  in and be a bully. You don't have to go in and be
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  nuts. You don't have to go in and be
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  flamboyant, you just have to have that presence and that
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  stops other people from running you over.
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  And if someone does try to run you over, that's when you back
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  up and say, you know what the lesson in this is, you are not
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  good for my life. I bless you.
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  I wish you well and I'm moving on.
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  So, treat yourself kindly please.
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  Look at this. Don't devalue yourself.
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  Expect the best for yourself and choose good things.
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  I hope this was helpful and I hope you guys have an amazingly
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  blessed day and I will see you all tomorrow.
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  Bye.