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Blessing CEO Diagnosed With Stage 4 Breast Cancer - Fans Divided After Announcement · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to an episode of Banter Lawrence.
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  How are you all doing it? You're doing great.
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about Blessing CEO.
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  Blessing CEO made a video talking about she's got stage 4
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  breast cancer. Now this is as serious as it
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  could get. Let me just play that video for
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  you before I proceed. When
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  you wake up in the morning, hurt your boobs and be sure that
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  there's no lump. You wake up in the morning, just
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  check. Check yourself for me.
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  Is that up like a lump? I was supposed to take it out,
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  but I had a lot going on with me.
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  I had lots of back and forth. So I kept, you know, prolonging
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  it. It's just a lump now.
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  It's not not doing anything. I wanted to finish up the things
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  that I needed to do. So I ran my all the tests.
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  Initially, they'd be managing it.
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  So they ran the tests and they said that the lump is cancerous.
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  You have to undergo surgery. So let's know if the cancer has
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  moved. You know, sometimes it starts
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  from, you know, one of your boobs, maybe to the next one to
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  your armpit. Yes, that's to get into your
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  bones. I've never been so scared of my
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  life. Has anyone here gone through
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  cancer? I don't want my audience, my
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  lovers. I don't want beats cancer.
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  Now this is a very sad video because Blessing CEO has always
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  been the type that is very jovial.
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  She's playful, she has banter, she talks about everybody.
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  I mean, we love Blessing for drama.
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  We love Blessing for that, for being a cloud chaser.
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  Like the first time I I heard about Blessing CEO was when she
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  had her problems with Unusi, the China based IBO businessman who
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  had built a house. Blessing literally went to the
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  house, took pictures to videos and claimed that the stones that
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  people threw at her, she has used the stone to build a
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  mantra. It went viral and then what goes
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  to Unise who then came back to Nigeria arrested, Blessing CEO,
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  She was gaoled for some time. She was publicly humiliated.
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  She was made to do a video to publicly apologise to uneasy.
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  Ever since then, blessing CEO, she's been going from strength
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  to strength. She moved from I think Enugu or
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  Potacos to Lagos. She's now with relationship
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  therapist. She, she blessed is making
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  money. OK, let's just put it that way.
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  Now when Blessing resurfaced or the second controversy that
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  Blessing was involved in was when she started dating IVD, the
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  late Bimbo's husband. Now as we all know, IVD and
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  Bimbo started dating when they were very young.
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  They had nothing. The family according to the
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  story, supported IVD and Bimbo. They were able to move to South
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  Africa where obviously IVD, according to the story, you got
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  into crime, made some money, they relocated back to Nigeria,
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  bought the house in Lagos. They were living large.
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  But the source of the money or the way they got the money,
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  according to people, was that some of them said that Bimbo was
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  going from native doctor to native doctor, sacrificing
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  herself for the progress of IVD and then when he was now doing
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  OK D according to people, they got into drugs and all that were
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  injecting each other. There was domestic violence,
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  they were fighting every day. The families tried to separate
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  them but Bimbo refused to live IVD or IVD and Bimbo refused to
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  leave each other. The final one was that IVD asked
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  Bimbo and the kids to move out of the house allegedly and then
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  Bimbo decided to take the documents of the house.
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  IVD took those documents, hid the document.
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  Bimbo in anger decided to burn down the house.
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  In the process of burning down the house, she set herself
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  ablaze and she died from the injuries.
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  IVD was accused of being the one behind her death.
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  So IVD went into hiding. Blessings.
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  He was going from pillar to post defending IVD saying that IVD is
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  not her client. She made a movie from the whole
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  situation. She and herself and IVD
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  allegedly got engaged. They're dating blessing took him
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  to her village in a boring state, so they've done
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  introduction. IVD had met her kids, but
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  according to the story, she had not met IVD's kids because
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  Bimbo's sister or Bimbo's family took the kids from IVD after the
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  whole incident. People, since then they've been
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  bashing Blessings to you. They said you are dating
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  somebody who potentially caused the the demise of his wife and
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  you took his side. Don't mock a pain you've not
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  felt. And then there was a video that
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  Blessing posted where she she was, there was a fight, I don't
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  know, there was a fight where she posted, somebody should help
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  me. People alluded to the fact that
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  maybe there's trouble in paradise.
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  Maybe IVD has gone back to his old ways.
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  Maybe there's something happened.
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  Just like she's coming out to cry, to cry out.
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  She did at that point. And then she came out and said,
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  oh, no, you know, she's just something.
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  She just brushed it off. When people started asking her
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  what had happened, she didn't want to address it.
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  She said that the proper authorities are dealing with the
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  situation now. Blessing kind of disappeared in
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  circulation. Yes, she's still doing her
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  videos, but she's no, she was no longer as controversial as she
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  used to be. I mean Blessing, she did her
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  boobs, she did her bomb, she did BBL, she did tattoo the person
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  that tattooed have that the BBL you know called her out.
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  Listen, Blessing has been from has been going from one
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  controversy to the other. Now that blessing is coming out
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  to say that she has cancer. People are saying that if this
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  is a joke, this is not something that anybody should joke with.
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  Stage 4 cancer is. I don't think it's even
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  reversible at that point because she said she found a lump.
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  She couldn't go to the hospital because she was busy.
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  She was doing so many things. And then when she got back, she
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  found out it was cancer. She shared a video online where
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  you know, her hairs were pulling off and a lot of people are
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  asking for your hairs to fall out.
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  Is it not during chemotherapy, do you just get cancer and your
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  hairs start falling out or is it the effect of chemotherapy that
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  causes hair loss? Some people are doubting
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  Blessing CEO because they said this is not the first time
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  Blessing is pulling such stunts. When she said she built a house
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  which happened to be Onez's house that went viral.
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  But people are saying if this is a movie, that Blessing is trying
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  to act because she shaved her head.
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  So Blessing is, I don't know, my heart goes out to her if it's
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  actually true because she said, you know, she's built her brand
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  on resilience and strength. And right now she, she dropped
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  the number to say that people should call her, people should
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  check on her. Whatever she's going through, I
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  wish her healing. I wish her quick recovery.
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  I wish her safe passage, whatever it is.
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  But cancer is not something anybody should joke with.
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  Cancer is not something anybody should chase Clouds with.
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  Cancer is not something some people are going through, you
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  know, cancer going through chemotherapy, families are
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  spending millions on chemo, families are in debt, borrowing
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  money, running from pillar to post to see how to save their
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  loved ones. So people are saying that if
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  Blessing is actually chasing clouds with this story, I don't
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  think she can come back from it because she chased clouds with
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  Unise. She chased clouds with Bimbo's
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  demise, dating IVD, engaged to IVD, the war wedding gown.
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  This is not something I, I, I don't even wish that on my worst
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  enemy. And I don't even think this is
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  something that anybody should use as a joke.
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  If she's playing a role, if she's playing a character, if
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  she is trying to create awareness, which is why probably
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  why she put the phone number there.
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  I, I think sometimes there should be disclaimers to some of
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  these things, but whichever one it is, I wish all the best.
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  What do you think? Do you think that Blessing is
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  chasing clouds? Do you think that this is a
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  movie role? Do you think that she's been
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  signed as a brand ambassador for cancer awareness?
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  Or do you think that Blessing truly is going through
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  something? She's going through something,
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  probably stage 4 cancer and she need our prayers.
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