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Age is Just a Mindset · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast Hello everybody,
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  Speaker 1: were grubbing in? Yes, we are a cir cube.
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  Speaker 2: How you doing? You're looking dressed up today?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. New year of life knew me.
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  Speaker 1: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're thirty.
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  Speaker 1: Catch me dressing up? Catch me lifting ways? You know?
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  Speaker 3: Just yeah, oh my gosh. The new focus, the new
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  Speaker 3: focus of the.
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  Speaker 4: Nine has begun.
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  Speaker 1: Always does this and it makes me so mad.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I go. What you're saying.
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  Speaker 5: You're one in the weeks after you were born. When
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  Speaker 5: you were born, you started your first year. Now you
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  Speaker 5: are starting your thirty ninth year.
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  Speaker 1: But I am the eight.
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  Speaker 3: At a certain age, you just say you go younger,
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  Speaker 3: we go to the If it's one or the other,
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  Speaker 3: we go.
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  Speaker 2: So thirty eight, How was your birthday?
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  Speaker 1: I'm not mid thirties anymore.
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  Speaker 3: I'm late thirties, I guess I am, or I guess
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  Speaker 3: when does mid thirties end?
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  Speaker 1: Mid thirties and thirty six I think is like the end.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'll be I'll be entering my late thirties
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  Speaker 3: in October.
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  Speaker 2: So how does it feel? Feels? Great, she says through
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  Speaker 2: her teeth.
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  Speaker 1: No, I yeah, I wanna not wear sweats all the
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  Speaker 1: time in my new year of life. I want to.
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  Speaker 1: I think my Instagram algorithm knows either. It definitely knows
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  Speaker 1: that it was my birthday, and it definitely knows my
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  Speaker 1: age because now I keep sending my feet is all
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  Speaker 1: like bone density and like older women and like how
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  Speaker 1: important that is to your health, And I.
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  Speaker 4: Was like, a new demographic.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I guess I'm like, babe, I gotta get back
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  Speaker 1: to my weightlifting because mama's thirty eight.
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  Speaker 2: Now that's what started it.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, so now I'm at this sentiment so I can
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  Speaker 5: work you. So you get that stuff. The next thing
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  Speaker 5: youns start getting is the AARP stuff that comes earlier
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  Speaker 5: than you expect it. And now at my age, I'm
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  Speaker 5: getting cremation services.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 5: In the mail fairly regularly, I get cremation services.
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  Speaker 3: I got a the other day. I got a video
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  Speaker 3: of like a class where seniors learn how to fall
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  Speaker 3: and like catch themselves.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, that's actually a very handy video.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't think I'm there yet.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, thank you for that.
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  Speaker 4: To prepare.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I did watch it long enough that I might
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  Speaker 3: start getting served more of that content.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, age is simply a mindset.
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  Speaker 1: I totally agree, and I feel younger than ever.
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  Speaker 2: That's how I feel.
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  Speaker 1: Thirty eight twenty eight feel the same. Yeah, simply a
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  Speaker 1: a little more tired. But other than that, everything's great.
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  Speaker 1: Slightly more exhausted, slightly more exhausted, but just glowing.
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  Speaker 3: So no more sweats. But you will be traveling with
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  Speaker 3: your handy dandy blanket. Yes, that's right, it's a blanket
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  Speaker 3: that she did.
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  Speaker 2: You bring that from home.
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  Speaker 1: I brought it from home. There is actually Sunny's crazy, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I yeah, yeah, So you recover her crate with this
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  Speaker 1: blanket for her to go to sleep at night. And
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  Speaker 1: I took it right off her crate this morning because
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  Speaker 1: I was so early. She did not flinch and I
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  Speaker 1: was still dark out, so she didn't need it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And I took it because I knew I was wearing
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  Speaker 1: this like dress, because I picked my clothes out the
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  Speaker 1: night before. I put him in my bathroom, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: not like rummaging around the room while Robbie sleeping, So
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  Speaker 1: I know I was wearing a dress, and I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna need a blanket or something to cover
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  Speaker 1: my legs at work. So here we are.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, you just make it work.
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  Speaker 1: New Year knew me, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you posted the video of you, like, uh,
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  Speaker 2: a guy like pushing you on. What was that? Like
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  Speaker 2: a Robbie?
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  Speaker 3: I know? Okay, so at first I didn't know it
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  Speaker 3: was Robby At first, I who knows Robbie.
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  Speaker 2: Because you tagged someone else. Oh oh right, and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, this.
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  Speaker 3: Is kind of an intimate position for someone who was
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  Speaker 3: at Robbie. And then the next video was her pushing
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  Speaker 3: Robbie and I was like, oh, that's who the man.
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  Speaker 2: Was in the video.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, so your new thing is weight training.
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  Speaker 1: My new thing is weight training. My new thing is
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  Speaker 1: uh not being in my sweats twenty four to seven, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, this is like I realized, this is like
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  Speaker 1: my first birthday where I haven't had like a breakdown
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  Speaker 1: of like what I haven't accomplished in life. For some reason,
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  Speaker 1: I always tend to do that around my birthday. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's like a what well.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just laughing because it was always kind of like
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  Speaker 3: getting engaged and then getting married and I think you
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  Speaker 3: have those things, so it's like.
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  Speaker 2: What what's are you?
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  Speaker 1: Like, there's always an next there's always like a new
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  Speaker 1: thing that you know what I mean, Like there's always
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  Speaker 1: something that you're adding to your.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but the next thing, I think society wise and
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  Speaker 3: like in terms of what you want, would be a baby,
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  Speaker 3: which well happen as you're working on it.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, in the process of yeah, yeah, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: but I felt really really good, and like Robbie organized
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  Speaker 1: this dinner for my birthday because I was like, there's
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  Speaker 1: something that goes on after you get married, like you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to ask your friends to do anything else
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  Speaker 1: for like the rest of the year because you're like
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  Speaker 1: they've just done so much bachelorette party, wedding, like it
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  Speaker 1: was just like a lot. So I was like, it's
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  Speaker 1: my birthday, I don't care. I don't want my friends
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  Speaker 1: to do anything. And Robbie was like, all your friends
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  Speaker 1: are in town and they're gonna want to like do
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  Speaker 1: something with you, so let's just like let me handle it.
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  Speaker 1: I'll handle all the details. You don't have to lift
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  Speaker 1: a finger, and he literally did. He took care of
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  Speaker 1: every single little detail.
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  Speaker 2: That was so impressive.
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  Speaker 1: It was so impressive. He like literally made the menu
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  Speaker 1: all my favorite foods, all my favorite drinks at the bar,
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  Speaker 1: like decorated it so like I wouldn't have changed a
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  Speaker 1: literal single thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was taking notes. It was really well done.
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  Speaker 1: Thought about it, playlist, thought it, like literally thought about everything.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a rager.
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  Speaker 3: It was a rager, but like not as I didn't
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  Speaker 3: go as crazy as your wedding.
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  Speaker 2: But yes, it was nearing that and stopped.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah I think you thank you maturing. That's what happens.
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  Speaker 3: You have war flashedbacks and you suddenly stopped.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, it was really really nice he did,
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  Speaker 1: like it just means a lot. He just like really,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like he's just so intentional and even like
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  Speaker 1: the morning I woke up on my birthday, he wrote
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  Speaker 1: thirty eight reasons why he loves Me in the shape
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  Speaker 1: of a heart on like my like mirror in the bathroom. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: but he chatgypt how to make a heart out of
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  Speaker 1: post its, so it's like perfectly spaced. It was like
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  Speaker 1: a perfectly spaced heart.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was very impressive that he sought AI's assistance
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  Speaker 5: on this, not.
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  Speaker 1: The reasons he loves me but how to space them
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  Speaker 1: out on my mirror. I was like, gorgeous.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah it was he's an artist, Yeah, he really is.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. It was just really nice.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like he matches your thoughtfulness and intentionality
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  Speaker 3: that a word.
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  Speaker 1: Intentionality, intentionality. Yeah, And it's like cute because he gets
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  Speaker 1: like so exciting and he's like, dude, what do you
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  Speaker 1: think about the like the lamps and what do you
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  Speaker 1: think about the da da da? And I'm like I
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  Speaker 1: love it. Yeah, he gets like really excited about it.
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  Speaker 2: I messaged him after.
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  Speaker 3: I was just like, thank you for hosting such a
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  Speaker 3: you know, beautiful night and taking care of Tanya or whatever,
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  Speaker 3: and he was like nothing more I love than celebrating her.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so cute.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah it was really fun.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, a summer swore. But let me tell you something,
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  Speaker 1: making the seating chart for my dinner birthday dinner was
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  Speaker 1: more difficult than the seating chart at our wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. She got so stressed out, like feeling anxious about it,
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  Speaker 3: and I was like, Tanya, everyone, it's dinner.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone's fine, everyone.
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  Speaker 1: Knows each other, but like some people didn't know people,
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  Speaker 1: so it's like, okay, we need to put people that
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  Speaker 1: know people next to each other, and then we're like
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  Speaker 1: trying to like configure and then there's like two heads
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  Speaker 1: of the table, so they were like, who do we
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  Speaker 1: put at the other head of the table. It was
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  Speaker 1: just like it was a lot.
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  Speaker 2: She thinks a lot about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what else did? What'd you do on your actual birthday?
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  Speaker 1: I saw you?
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  Speaker 3: Yea.
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  Speaker 1: That was like first an hour I worked and then
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  Speaker 1: I got a lymphatic massage. I went to lunch with
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  Speaker 1: Paulina and Robbie, and then Sophia ended up surprising me,
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  Speaker 1: and then I went to pilates and then Becca came
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  Speaker 1: over gave me a really nice gift, and then I
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  Speaker 1: went to dinner with Robbie.
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  Speaker 5: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah it was action packed.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you were busy.
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  Speaker 1: I was a busy Guala at my summer soire.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, this was something where I dropped the ball.
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  Speaker 2: What I had a moment where I dropped the ball?
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  Speaker 2: What with Haley?
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's okay because we still celebrated.
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  Speaker 2: You, I know.
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  Speaker 3: But so basically, back like a month ago, Robbie had
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  Speaker 3: called me to ask me dates for Tanya's birthday did
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  Speaker 3: and was asking like my availability and he was like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm trying to decide if we should do it on
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  Speaker 3: her actual birthday or which is a Friday or Saturday.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm free either or Haley could
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  Speaker 3: hear me from the other room, and She's like, I'm
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  Speaker 3: not available on Saturday because she was going she got
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  Speaker 3: her dad concert tickets to see the Marias in Santa Barbara.
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  Speaker 4: Oh fun.
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  Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah, he doesn't know the date.
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  Speaker 3: So once he confirms if it's Saturday, I'll let him
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  Speaker 3: know that you can't go. Well, like a couple days later,
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  Speaker 3: he confirms it and I forgot to let him know,
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  Speaker 3: So then I find out that he had that they
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  Speaker 3: had talked about the proposal because she was trying to
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  Speaker 3: figure out when to do our engagement dinner, and so
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  Speaker 3: I assumed since they were talking that she let him know.
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  Speaker 2: So like two days.
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  Speaker 3: Before the party, I go, hey, you let Robbie know
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  Speaker 3: that you weren't going to the party, right, And she goes, Babe,
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  Speaker 3: I told you a month ago that I wasn't gonna
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  Speaker 3: be there.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like hm mm hmmm.
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  Speaker 3: So I texted Robbie and I could tell he was
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  Speaker 3: like so annoyed with me, and I was like no.
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  Speaker 3: I could feel it. And then even the next day,
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  Speaker 3: I was like, let me know if you need anything.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, oh, we're all good. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: he's annoyed. So I told Tanya and she.
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  Speaker 2: Was like yeah, She's like, we got y'all a cake,
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  Speaker 2: and I was.
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  Speaker 3: Like, why aren't y'all celebrating I say, your birthday, because
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  Speaker 3: like I.
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  Speaker 1: Remember when when Robby and I got engaged, I feel
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  Speaker 1: like people made a big deal of it, like at
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  Speaker 1: like at Shabbats, like they would like shout us out
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  Speaker 1: and get us like a special hola or like do
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like people when we got engaged,
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  Speaker 1: everybody made like a thing of it, and I thought
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  Speaker 1: it was so nice. So I was like, okay. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, babe, at my birthday dinner, I want to
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  Speaker 1: have a cake for Becca and Haley just to celebrate
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  Speaker 1: their engagement. And so we got them a cake. And
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  Speaker 1: then Becca was like, Hayley's not coming and we're like well.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm sorry, I had no idea that
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  Speaker 3: we were gonna be celebrated at your party, but we
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  Speaker 3: still did. And y'all got us and y'all I gotten
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  Speaker 3: us a step and repeat heart bouquet. We were set
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  Speaker 3: on celebrations, That's what Carston called it. When Alan Carson
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  Speaker 3: came by after we got engaged and they were like,
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  Speaker 3: who sent the step and repeat flowers, I was like,
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  Speaker 3: take a guess. They're like Donya and Robbie.
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  Speaker 2: I just know.
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  Speaker 1: I just remember how much those things meant to me
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  Speaker 1: when I got engaged, and so I was.
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  Speaker 2: Like, really, I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 3: I just was like, dang, I my sincerest apologies for
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  Speaker 3: dropping the ball in this one.
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  Speaker 2: And then everyone's like, where's Haley And I'm like, she's
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  Speaker 2: at a cloncert with her dad. It happened for Father's
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  Speaker 2: Day way before.
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  Speaker 1: But it was really really sweet. Everybody was really I
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  Speaker 1: also feel like my parents, Robbie's parents and like everybody
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  Speaker 1: with that was at our dinner was very happy for
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  Speaker 1: you guys and excited for you guys. So we wanted
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  Speaker 1: to like acknowledge.
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  Speaker 2: No, it meant a lot. It was really sweet and
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  Speaker 2: the cake was so cute, so delicious.
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  Speaker 1: We had four cakes and like all of them were
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  Speaker 1: eaten basically like down to I'd say like ten percent
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  Speaker 1: left of each cake. And I was shocked because I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: people I was like, people don't really like dessert, Like
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  Speaker 1: nobody really eats cake and everybody ate literally don't.
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  Speaker 3: Care you're hanging out with, but who's not eating dessert
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  Speaker 3: or cake?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people don't really eat
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  Speaker 1: like a ton. They'll have like a little time of
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  Speaker 1: like a little slice.
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  Speaker 5: They say that because they know that left to their
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  Speaker 5: own devices, they'll go crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but everybody kept saying, I'll take a tiny slice
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  Speaker 1: of each one. So I was just slicing each cake.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. It was weird because it triggered something in me
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  Speaker 3: of like people kept coming and wanting some of my cake,
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  Speaker 3: and I felt like so proud of that, even though
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  Speaker 3: I didn't pick the cake.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't pick the flavor or anything that I kept
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  Speaker 1: vanilla with berries in it. Then we had a marble
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  Speaker 1: chocolate cake. Then we had a fun fetti cake, and
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  Speaker 1: then we had a gluten free one for meat.
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  Speaker 4: Nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I have found that the older I got, the harder
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  Speaker 5: time I have turning down sweets. Yeah, they have a
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  Speaker 5: pretty easy time of that.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 1: You know what's so funny?
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  Speaker 2: So really let yourself go crazy at lunch.
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  Speaker 1: At my birthday lunch, Sophia and Paulina brought me a
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  Speaker 1: cake and they were it was a gluten free carrot cake,
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  Speaker 1: and Sophia was like, you know, you're one of my
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  Speaker 1: best friends and I don't know your favorite kind of cake.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, do you want to know why
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  Speaker 1: there's not a cake I don't love? Like, there's not
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  Speaker 1: a flavor that I'm like, I actually hate this cake,
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  Speaker 1: like red velvet delicious, carrot divine, chocolate, amazing, vanilla with
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  Speaker 1: berries is probably my least, but I will always have it. Yeah, right,
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  Speaker 1: funfetti delicious. You know a lemon carrot person, you're having
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  Speaker 1: the wrong carrot cake.
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  Speaker 3: I've tried the best of the best. There's just something
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  Speaker 3: about it that I don't. I don't I'm not into.
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  Speaker 1: You're not having the right one. Let me get you
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  Speaker 1: a really good one.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like it, but I'm willing to try.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, coffee cake, oh, forget it.
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  Speaker 4: For get.
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  Speaker 3: That's good. Hailey's favorite, well, ice cream coffee cake.
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  Speaker 1: It's so anyways, just a little bit about me and
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  Speaker 1: my cake journey in life.
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  Speaker 2: But you love sweets, so I do.
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  Speaker 1: That's my that is my and I've been eating a
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  Speaker 1: lot of sweets after like on our honeymoon, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's my honeymoon. Yeah, I'm gonna get desert every night,
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  Speaker 1: and then it's hard to rule yourself back in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so I haven't yet, but I will.
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  Speaker 2: Did you start any new shows over the weekend or
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  Speaker 2: watch anything?
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  Speaker 1: I'm watching Love Island UK.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, and it's so good. How many episodes in?
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  Speaker 1: That's a great question. I don't know. I just let
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  Speaker 1: them roll, but I'd say we're probably in the like teens.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, you're catching up quick.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, baby, all right, I.
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  Speaker 2: Might be into starting it. It's very I can't. I
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  Speaker 2: can't set the pace and we have to do one
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  Speaker 2: to to a night, and that's that's just.
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  Speaker 1: Let it roll. Do laundry, let it roll, do the dishes.
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  Speaker 3: You can hear their voices, though there's something about it
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  Speaker 3: that like, by the time I've heard them for too long,
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  Speaker 3: I don't care at all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, are you watching anything new?
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm trying to think I did. I watched some
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: like dark Things over the weekend. I love like a documentary,
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: so I watched like the Amy Bradley Missing Amy Bradley.
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: She was like went on a cruise with her family
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: and just disappeared. Do you remember the story?
• 15:28
  Speaker 5: I shouldn't laugh at that, but it's funny that that's
• 15:30
  Speaker 5: the stuff you're finding.
• 15:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: And then I watched the Idaho for the.
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: Interesting.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: Well. It was actually really devastating because it was kind
• 15:40
  Speaker 3: of like intered it. It was weird because I only
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: knew them in photos and then this documentary kind of
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: brought them to life and like you met like their family,
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: their people that were close to them, and it like,
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: really it was very somber.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: There's not money that you could pay me to watch that,
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah.
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: And then we went and saw Jurassic World because Haley
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: really wanted to watch it and you had raved about it,
• 16:03
  Speaker 3: and I already knew I was going to be scared
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: going into it. Anything with like a month like a jaw.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: I can't watch shark movies. I can't watch dinosaur movies.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: But she really wanted to go, so I said, get
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: some snacks, a recliner seat snacks.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: I'm good.
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: I was so scared the whole movie. I was tense
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: for two hours. She loved it, and I think for
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: what it was, it was great. I just can't I
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: can't do those movies. I know.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: I'm so surprised that you're such a little chicken pot, so.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: Surprised that you can watch those and not say that
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: it's scary.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: It's not scary. It's like, it's exciting, it's jumpy, it's yeah,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: it's just scary.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: Easton said, it's scary too, so.
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: So so scary.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: It's not a scary movie.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: It's a thriller of sorts.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, something thriller.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about this flashback to a dear
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: Bonnia episode from back in April, But we are going
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: to take a break and we'll be right back.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: What I wanted to ask you, because it's been a
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks now that you've been engaged. Yeah, are
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: you gonna like celebrate each month? Like what's your no?
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: No, no, But I think you knew the answer to
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: that for you.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: I don't think you celebrated, but no one cares more
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: about that moment than you said.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Every month after our wedding, I was going to every
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: fourteenth of the month that we would like celebrate one
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: more month married, and we've somehow missed every.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Fourteenth of the month.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: I'm like, damn it, it's hard it's hard to keep
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: up with those things.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: That's tough.
• 18:03
  Speaker 6: But Paris Hilton does that. She's a month aversaries since
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: they started dating.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: It's really cute.
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: Every morning heally goes fiance. Yeah, so we do have that,
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: but we're yeah, we don't. We're not like cel.
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: You wake up at the same time.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: I mean typically around the same time. But like if
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: she doesn't, if I have to get up and go
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: do something, it's like earlier that she has to be up,
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: she can just sleep past it. But if she's up
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: and there's like stuff happening, I can't just sleep. I
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: might lay in bed longer, but like, I'm not like snoozing.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like that. I get really sad waking.
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: Up to just an empty bed.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: No, no, it's not empty because he's laying there, but
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: he's asleep.
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: Oh I thought you were saying he's already up and
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: doing things when you wake up and that makes you sad.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: No, he's like asleep, and I'm like, oh, I wish
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I could like wake up and give him a kiss
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: and or my dog, like I was just somebody.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Was awake, you know, you give him a kiss.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: Want we come up? Like at three five in the morning.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: Oh, I thought this was like weekends.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I was visioning, like because on the weekends we usually
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: wake up at the exact same time. Yeah, I'm not
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: worried about the I'm like talking about like weekdays and
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: we come into work right now.
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: You don't want to bother him, no, no, oh, and.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: He's so pissed if he was waking up with three
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: forty five on my weekend and he was leaning over
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: and giving me a kiss. Oh.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: No, Haley comes like if she gets up orly has flight,
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: she's had.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Like an early flight or something. I get up and
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: like walk her out a door and then get back
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: and back.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: That's kind of sweet.
• 19:38
  Speaker 5: I used to do that for Ameers when we were
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: first married. Yeah, we were first married, actually maybe just dating.
• 19:45
  Speaker 5: She was working as a personal trainer and she had
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: like a five am shift in the West Side. We
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: lived in North Hollywood, so he would get up. I
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: would make her coffee out because I had nothing to
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: do all day. Yeah, nothing going on, So yeah, I
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: thought that was important. But now I would never do that.
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: I am like, I know what to the floor, squeak
• 20:01
  Speaker 5: in what parts? Don't such a mouse?
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to be a mouse like, But now
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell him that he should be making me coffee.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: I don't didn't say, I mak her coffee, get her
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: out the door.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: I walk her out the door, and then I give
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: her I hug her and kiss her and lock the
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: door and I go get back in bed.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: Dang, yeah, are you good at falling back asleep if
• 20:23
  Speaker 5: it's early like that?
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: But if I if.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: It's like around like the six region, I.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Won't go back to sleep.
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: You know what I had recently scared the hell out
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: of me, But then chet GPT talked me down. It's
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: called a hypnic jerk hYP and I.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: See that sounds like it feels good. Jerk not so.
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: What it was is as I would start to fall asleep,
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: it would feel like my heart skipped a beat, and
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: then I'd be wide awake again. Every time I was
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: almost asleep, heart skips would beat back awake again. I'm like, okay,
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: I'm dying. I have a cardio problem. Everything's bad. I'm
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: never going to sleep again, and I'm losing my mind.
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: So the next morning, I go on chatch what's haw
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: him to make? Hey, it's a hypnic jerk. Everything's fine.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: It's not a cardiac thing. It's a psychological thing. It's
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: not something distressed about. You want to talk to your doctor,
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: go ahead, but it's fine. Knowing that made me feel
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: so much better. So that night I started going to
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: sleep and I started feeling it and I'm like, okay,
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: I know this is psychological.
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: It's fine. I'm not going to forge out about it.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: And I fell asleep.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I was fine, Okay, is this the same thing as
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: like you know when you twitch and you jerk, when
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: it's like that.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, I didn't know it was a heart thing.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: Mine was a hard thing. There's different kinds of hypnic jerks.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: I feel it in your heart though, I felt it.
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: In my heart.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, it was very scary.
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: It is kind of exciting, but it's just every time,
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: for like hours, like I was losing it.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a twitch twitch yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I forgot this. I forgot to tell this story when
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: we were talking about my birthday dinner, but it was
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: so funny that I have to share it. Because my
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: mother in law stands up to give this like speech
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: and she was sitting next to Sisany and she was like,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I just have to mention what the Sisany said to me?
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I asked her if she has a good relationship with
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: her mother in law and she said, that's why I
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: married him. And I was like, we got to throw
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: a girl under the bus on her birthday dinner.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: And you said same, same thing.
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: I was on the fence about Robbie until I met
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: the two of you, and then I was locked in.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: We played fish Bowl after we like went inside and
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: played fish Bowl, which, if you don't know, it's like
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: everyone writes down.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Ever, everyone writes memory.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I have. Playing fish bowl is so much fun.
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: It's a great game.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: If you don't know, you everyone writes down like five anything.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: You can write down. Anything.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: You could write down back Atilly, you could write down.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: I wrote down, hello everybody. We are scrubbing in.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: And then you put them all into a bowl and
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: you do like three rounds.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Anyways, it's super fun.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: But we did a theme that was Tanya and Robbie's
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: mom had never played before, so we were just right.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: We were like, write things about Tanya. So we start
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: going through them and I noticed this, like cursive hands, do.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: You all the other clues? It's I'm the I'm the
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: what's the what's what's the thing the subject?
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: All the other clues are like Robbie's hands, humping Robbie's leg,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: like there's so many inappropriate.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Sixty nine. I was like, oh my god.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: Anyways, yeah, so then there's like in cursive writing, it's
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: like loving, sweet, gorgeous, and I'm like, who wrote these adjectives?
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: And we realized Tanya's mother in law just thought it
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: was supposed to be like quality or adjectives describing Tanya.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: So it was really sweet. It was really cute.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: It was really cute.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: It was a good laugh.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: It was honestly, if you are having any sort of
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: party or gathering the rest of the summer, fish bowl
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: to cap it off at the end of the night
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: is peak peak.
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: Peak three rounds, right, the second round is one.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: The second out is acting no words.
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: That's the second round, and the third word.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Third round is one word. Yeah, fun, it is fun.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: So there was something that Okay, so we had a
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: someone found I love the scrubbers because they keep us accountable,
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: Like we don't remember anything that we said or talked about,
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: but they do.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: And I really appreciate that about them.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: But they had a flashback to a Dear Bonnie episode
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: that we are going to replay.
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: I guess Kobe Rico in the which, by the way,
• 24:39
  Speaker 5: great name, great name. Yes, scrubbers have great names. Kobe
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: Rico found this and thought we should react to it.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: This is from April of this year, April third, an
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: episode called Dear Banya Froyo, and we are talking about
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: a potential Becca engagement, which was still, of course, very
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: hypothetical at the time. That's what we were discussing, and
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: Beca saying how she's not gonna let time know in advance.
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: Here we go, What will you do?
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: What's gonna be a reaction when I just FaceTime you
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: one day?
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be tough because I'm gonna be excited for you,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: obviously that I'm gonna be sad if you didn't tell
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: me that was coming.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: Oh, I already warned you about that months ago.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you were, so you're really just knock into You're
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: just gonna do it.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: That's a secret. I'll never tell or.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna tell some friends and just not me?
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: No, if I told anyone, you would obviously be someone.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: That I would tell you and ask her parents.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: I probably will I think they'll be like, really, you
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: don't have.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: To ask, but I will so they'll know.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: They'll know that it's coming, but I'm not going to
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: tell them any details.
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: Is there any chance she would beat you to the punch?
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: I don't think so. Okay, I don't think so.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: If she did, that would be like the ultimate surprise,
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: because I don't I would. I wouldn't think so, so,
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: but yeah, if I were to, if I were to
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: tell people, you would definitely be someone I would tell.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: But my goal would be to tell nobody.
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: Easter and I are going to pretend that we knew
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: in advanced just to mess with you. I'm going to
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: telegraph that.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: Joke right now.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I never and a million years thought she would beat
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: you to the punch.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: We're back.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'm so old to my promise. I didn't know.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: It's so funny because everyone's like, you had no clue,
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, you don't understand. I had no clue.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: I hadn't. I never imagined it was going to happen,
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: that she would do it first. But your reaction, people
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: loved it.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: You post it on my birthday. People were like, it's
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: so fun to see the other side of the call,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I know, and.
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: Everyone was like, I love that Tanya and Robbie both
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: knew that Ya wouldn't want to have the video of
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: this reaction.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so funny that.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: Tanya had no idea zero, But she really couldn't have
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: told you, and I think I could. I think I
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: could tell you without worrying that you wouldn't say no.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Right because I don't see Haley as much as I
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: see you.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: But we'd have to like, don't do no double dates
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: or anything.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: And I would keep myself away. And I actually, like
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: fully respect people not telling me that stuff because I
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: think that my I think my vibe would change around
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: you if I knew, and I could lie like my
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: words would say nothing.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Your eyes would give you away.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: And then same with Ali.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: She was just like y'all, y'all You and Tanya like
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: you talked to Ali Antonia too much to.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Trust too much.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just only had her baby. What's his name?
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: I don't think she hasn't announced it, so I'm not
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: going to announce it yet, doesn't hasn't written out the
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: offici per certificate yet. But he was born the day
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: after you.
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Wow, I said all I.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Need is for him to stay in one day past.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: And he did.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what a guy.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I got to go see him yesterday.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: You did in the hospital.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Uh yeah, but I think today they go home. Oh
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: but I'm so excited.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: How long did you stay in the hospital after you
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: have a baby.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: This is interesting and I'm curious how long y'all stayed
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: because it feels rushed.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: Oh it felt rushed for us.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: But I wonder if.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: It's because she had him vaginally, right, Yeah, she had
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: a section.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: No, and she everything went well. So but still it
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: just feels like you're you're handed this child and then
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: they're like, okay, go hi.
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: Yes, that was scary as hell. And I'm gonna have
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: told this story before. But we were driving home of
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: Tobaga Canyon Boulevard because Ali was born at Kaiser in
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: Woodland Hills, and we're driving up and I remember thinking
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: to myself, these people would not be driving this crazy
• 29:03
  Speaker 5: if they knew he had an in this car. And
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: then I was like, Oh, that's those stupid baby on bostickers.
• 29:08
  Speaker 5: That's why people do that. I get it now.
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: I was so freaked out by every other car.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: I know, they're so tiny, and we didn't know what
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: we were doing.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: How can they just go as a child so you
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: give birth, Like, let's say you so she gave birth
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: on a Saturday, So she's there Saturday, Sunday, Monday, and
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: then goes home Tuesday. Yeah, but I don't know time.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: I think it was last for it goes home today
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: which is Monday.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, oh, so she's there. Yeah.
• 29:30
  Speaker 5: They say twenty four to forty eight hours after a
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: vaginal birth, sea section is longer.
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: It just felt like it was always longer. But maybe
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know why I have that idea. But then
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Carson was saying his brother that they live in Amsterdam
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: and they went home.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: The same day.
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: Wow. And basically they just send nurses to the home,
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: which I was like, well, that's kind of nice because
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: you're in your space.
• 29:50
  Speaker 5: It's comfortable and transition, like you get help for the
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: first couple days you're at home, which we would have loved.
• 29:56
  Speaker 5: And honestly, if we did by at the hospital for
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: a month, we still had been freaked out on our
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: own with this child.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: We were not qualified.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: Goes, we don't know what we're doing. I was like,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: he won't know, he won't know.
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: That's the beauty of it.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: You're all figuring it out together. He's so cute.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Though you held him. Yeah, did you like feel things?
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: I love him?
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: Oh like for myself? Yeah, no, I do have that.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: I love I love babies, I love kids. But that's
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: I love him. Doesn't stir anything up?
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Does it for you?
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Oh really? Oh that's good. It's a good sign. Listen.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: You gotta listen to that mother nature, just your gut instinct.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I want to talk about something that everyone's talking about,
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: the Coldplay couple.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: We don't want to be the only show to not talking.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: About it feels like a little late.
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: You know, it's like what been a week or something,
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: but it feels like a conversation topic that we need
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: to cover as a pop culture podcast.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Pa Winner two years in a row.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody told me that the man's daughter, the guy
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: that had the affairs daughter, is like trying to become
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: like an influencer.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: Now, I think you want to know something sick.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, he does not have a daughter. He has two sons.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: And this girl just said that she was.
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: The daughter got like like two hundred thousand fault.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what she's at now got like
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: went viral, has like crazy amount of followers.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: He has two sons. Are you sure?
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Look it up.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Oh the picture I saw I think was the woman
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: in the affair, the woman that had the affair.
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: Why you look that up? What we should take a break?
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you have to get one more in.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we are back.
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: Please enjoy.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: All right, we are back. So the affair scene around
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: the World via Chris Martin.
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: I love it.
• 32:20
  Speaker 5: I love when all of the world unites around something. Yeah,
• 32:24
  Speaker 5: whether it's a song or a TV show or a
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: movie or a meme or whatever, I just love it.
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: So I love stuff like that.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I saw this. I wish I would have saved the
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Instagram because the audio was hilarious. But it's basically this
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: girl talking about like all the different ways that she's
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: like sharing the story. And she was like talking about
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: in her like uh, work group chat and the like
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Fran at the office was like, who's cold playing? She
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: was like, you know, Vita Libida and like went through
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: this whole process and then basically her whole thing was
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: like it's like this story is the great unifier, you know,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: like we have a nation we need yes.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've seen people be like I don't want to,
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: I'm just like heartbroken for the family.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, of course, but these.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Two Dingalings comeback.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: N literally that's coming at them. Like obviously I feel
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: terrible for the families. But it's like, what a the
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: sweetest karma there ever was that you could wish for
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: someone to.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Step down resigned from his job. I don't know what's
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: happening with the woman, but she.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: Was married or is married.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know their current situation to another CEO and
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: someone's like, how did this woman find two cee.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: And I can't even get a date on a Friday night.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: But yeah, the fact that the reaction was just someone
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: said if they hadn't reacted, if they would have just stayed,
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: how they were.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Also what Dingalings go to a concert if you're having
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: an affair.
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: But isn't there kind of like anonymity with that many
• 33:59
  Speaker 5: people around? On you're in a place with fifteen thousand people,
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: don't you just blend in.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: And you could just be like the company got.
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: A box and so sure you're go, but like, don't
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: do that, Yeah, don't be swaying back and forth, so with.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Your arms around each other. It's just so dumb. I
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: have like a theory that they've been having an affair
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: for a really long time. This is not a new affair,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: because I feel like when you're newly having an affair,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: you're like super secretive. It's like in someone's somewhere where,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: like secret. When you start going to public places, that's
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: like you've been having this affair for like a year plus.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: A little too comfortable.
• 34:35
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that was Amy levels of affection we saw there
• 34:40
  Speaker 6: for sure.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: It actually thought of them.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And to get called out like that. And
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: then I just saw another video where Chris Martin's like, Hey,
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: just wanted to let y'all know, we're about to show
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: some couples in the audience, So we're going to have
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: a camera on you.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: So if you're.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Also one of the odds that they pan to that couple,
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: Like I have tried to get on the kiss camp
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: every King's Game at like all these concerts that the
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Jonas brothers do it too, Like I have tried very
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: hard to get on this kiss camp.
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: That's what they're thinking, what are the odds?
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but someone posted from like the floor view and
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: you could see the crowd and this was just a
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: random photo and you could see them like small.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: They stuck out for some reason.
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: It's so well lit.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, not like maybe someone said set it up.
• 35:39
  Speaker 6: I like thinking that they were like really going at
• 35:41
  Speaker 6: it hard right before, and that's why the cameraman like
• 35:43
  Speaker 6: clocked like, oh look there's couple's making out.
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Let's get them.
• 35:46
  Speaker 6: And then by the time he got to them, they
• 35:47
  Speaker 6: were just in the embrace. Wow, that's what I like
• 35:50
  Speaker 6: to think.
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: You see where they're doing it baseball games, the coldplay
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: cam they call it. Now you know they have the
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: kiss cam to the lion king cam when you hold
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: your baby up like Simba.
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: Now that the coplay, can they show a couple in
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: the couple of hides.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: It's so funny, it's so good, it really is.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: But also if they're really having an affair, now, it's
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: like are they playing the bit or is it real?
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: That's true?
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of scary. I was going to say.
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: Something about how they Oh so there was okay, so
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: you mentioned the daughter. There's no daughter who has accumulated
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: a following on TikTok. And then I saw these statements
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: released and I think I saw a real one and
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: then I think, was there no real one?
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: So everything's fake.
• 36:35
  Speaker 5: If you've seen a statement from Andy Byron, I believe
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: it is fake. My kids came, Dad.
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: You got to hear this.
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: You release a statement, I know, and it sounded like
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: a legitimate statement. But according to this morning, he has
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: not released any kind of statement.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: What about that his wife?
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: I don't did she say something?
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Don't look at me.
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: Down? Didn't he?
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he resigned on Saturday or crazy over the weekend. Bye,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: hope you never get hired again.
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: I mean a loser.
• 37:01
  Speaker 6: I've never heard of astronomer before today. I think this
• 37:03
  Speaker 6: is adding value to the company.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but now he's gone, so that the company's skyrocketing
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: and he's bye bye.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: I can't imagine he's okay, but yeah, I mean, the
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: thing is is it was just a very embarrassing dumb.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Here's what I don't understand. Why married If you know
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: not one person get married. Sure, but if you want
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: to have an affair, and you you find somebody so
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: attractive and so wonderful that you're like, I want to
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: be with this person, why not end your marriage?
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: Well? Because because because I think people like I think
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: exactly so, especially.
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: When you're a ceo. Your whole life has been getting
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: whatever you want. You know, the thing in the life
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: of a ceo. If people kissing your butt all day long,
• 37:53
  Speaker 5: you get a massive salary and it's in your contract.
• 37:55
  Speaker 5: And if you get fired, you can even a bigger
• 37:57
  Speaker 5: massive salary and say goodbye. Like everything is the whole
• 38:00
  Speaker 5: world is your oyster. I can have a wife and
• 38:03
  Speaker 5: a mistress on the side. I'm never gonna get caught.
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: Nothing bad happens to me. It's a mentality. It's it's
• 38:07
  Speaker 5: like narcissist adjacent or maybe a branch of narcissism.
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: I don't know what that is, but it's real.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely narcissist.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: And that might not be his only he could have
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: been at many Coldplay concerts before.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: But that's my only thing is I'm like, when people
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: have affairs, I'm just like, why not end your marriage?
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: Because Benny has to pay his ex wife half of
• 38:28
  Speaker 5: his earnings. His kids are distraught and torn apart. You know,
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: they want their They don't want to destroy their family,
• 38:36
  Speaker 5: they just want their side piece.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Also, Okay, well, now you destroyed your family times a
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: hunt and made them so public, which is.
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: Almost always what happens, I think, and.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: You're still probably going to get divorced. So it's just
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: like it all ends up happening.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the truth always comes to.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Light, ain't that the truth? Back? You know what else
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: happened this weekend? Charlie XX got married.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know. Oh congrats Charlie XCX.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Did you see the photos?
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: Was it? It was like a courtroom.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Did you notice anything?
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: I don't think I looked that long. Oh why what
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: was there? Butterfly or something?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: No? But I that was my reception wedding dress.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: Oh really wowowal Viv West.
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: I was like, damn, me and Charlie XX have more
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: in common than I thought.
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: Does she follow you? Maybe she stole it? Maybe like that?
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do too, but I tailored mine so it's
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: like a little bit different like hers. Was just like
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: the raw dog version yep, showing a photo.
• 39:44
  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's my desktop background.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: So everybody kept The only reason I clocked it was
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: because people kept sending it to me saying, is this
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: the dress you weren't in a reception?
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: I was like, yes, after your wedding.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Brittany Mahomes, who her husband is the quarterback for the
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: Chiefs wore the same dress that were for your wedding
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: to like a bachelorette party or something, and everyone kept
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: sitting in there like, do you think she's always like, no,
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: you guys, it's on Revolve popped up as an ad
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: and she said, sure, no.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: I like the conspiracy theory that they that they followed
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: you and Charlie X follows me and loves it, loved
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: it so much that she's like, I need that dress.
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: Uh huh okay, yeah, well that could have happened because
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: you did interview her.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Yes, many many men, many minutes ago while you were
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: just a baby is lead curly girl.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: I was curious about this sleep, sleep and couples conversation
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: because I always find it interesting about like how people
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: how couples sleep, and how that affects their relationship and
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: how if people do certain things.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: I think being sleep compatible is like a huge thing.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: But when you first started, like when you and Robbie
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: first started sleeping together, did you sleep well or did
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: was it like an adjustment from going from like only
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: sleeping by yourself to.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, oh, I see what you're saying. I thought you
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: meant like.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're going to get into that. But I'm
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: saying it was an adjustment.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, because whether no matter who it is,
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: no matter how compatible you are, you have to adjust
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: having another body in the bed.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Correct, and you.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: Kept for him in your bed.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for the reminder. Yes, it wasn't
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: a space issue. I also don't move around much. I
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: take up like a little slipper. It's more of the
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: when they're tossing and turning.
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: The emotion is what was disruptive. Now it doesn't bother me.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: But yes, in the beginning it was like tough.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: Does he have a lot of emotion?
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: A lot emotional? You do legs ou legs, flip flap,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: flip flop, goes pee three times a day, three times
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: a night.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: But his shoulders are cozy with his shirt on. Correct.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: Anytime I any stories from inside my bed, people are
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: like knowing that he's whinning's clombing right now, it just
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: so much better.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: You know, I don't go there, and now I'm unfortunately
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: gonna go thearing that I will.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you, it's probably hard for you.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, but.
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: More so because I felt like when I first because
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: Haley and I met, and then she went on tour,
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: so I like didn't even have to adjust right off
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: the bat. So then when she was like home, it
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: was just an adjustment to having someone in the bed.
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: But I also was like falling in love for the
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: first time, so I was like jittering and couldn't sleep anyway,
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: so it didn't matter.
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, you.
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: Guys, that's sweet.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yes, so sweet thing.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: There was like a lot of reasons why I wasn't
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: like sleeping.
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: Well, but is it the only time you've ever been
• 42:53
  Speaker 5: in love? You think, yeah, wow, wow, that is fantastic.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: It's crazy, right.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: I think I had so many guards up my whole life,
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: like walls and stuff, and I think, especially growing up
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: in like purity culture, it was like letting anyone in
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: and physically or emotionally felt like a threat. So I
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: think I never even gave like my relationship with Robert
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: or anyone like a chance to go there because I
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: was just like so shut down.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: So I think Haley a lot of walls came down.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: But also.
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: I let myself like emotionally go there with her with someone,
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: and I think I felt, you know, safe to do that,
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: not that like what she.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Talks with her hands a lot more. I don't know
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: if you guys notice this, but the ring hand is getting.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: A lot I think you noticed.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: I think I always talk with my hands, but you're
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: every time Tanya sees me, she's like, wow, I'm just
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: not used to you with the ring on. But anyways, Yeah,
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: I definitely feel like Tony's.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: The first one.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I'm so honored.
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: The first time I let my guard down was with Tanya.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: But yeah, we have a very like now, if she
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: goes away to work for a long time, I have
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: to adjust sleeping alone, and then I get used to
• 44:03
  Speaker 3: sleeping alone, and then she comes back and have to
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: readjust so I just have to adapt, you know.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if there's anything that you are, it's adaptable.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: Well thank you. That's a really nice close.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Roll with the punches.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, I try. That's what happens when you
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: grow up with a lot of kids in a family. Yes, well,
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: I think you either learn to roll.
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: The punches or you grow up and you're because you
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: had to roll the punches, you are like I need
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: structure and control.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: But I didn't go that way.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: M hm.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: I just kept on.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: Kept on keeping on.
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have a headline here that
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: says Alison Bree cutting day Frank ghost toenails. But I
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: just don't know that that's something I'm trying to get
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: into Monday.
• 44:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I guess it was just a publicity stunt.
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: Is that the deal? The movie is about a codependent
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: couples so together. Yeah, so I don't think it was real.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: Oh something that says this feels like something tong you
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: would have no problem doing.
• 44:59
  Speaker 4: As producer Sam his opinion, I.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Would not if he needed help.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have a hangnail.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: I don't mind. When Robbie broke his ribs and he
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: like really could barely do anything, I was like, am
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I gonna have to take you to the bathroom? And
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: he was like that's just like a line that I
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: will not cross, and I was like, I'm happy to
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: do it. Wow, I did not.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: No, that's so nice. Yeah, I believe it.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I would do it for you too.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: I believe it. I think. Yeah, you've offered I think
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: to do some things.
• 45:41
  Speaker 3: But in your past when it was like trying to
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: help someone learn how to use a tampon or something
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: mental cup, Oh yeah, happy to Yeah, yeah, that's what
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: she was offering.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: To gotcha. Yeah, don't need a video, don't need tentorial.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but.
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: We all appreciate your willingness, and I just have to
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: say your service. I read all these comments on the
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: Facebook group of like, I just wish I had a
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: friend like Tanya.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: She's the best friend.
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: And I just want you to feel encouraged to know
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: that you're such a wonderful friend and everyone loves you.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: Thank you. I thought, a little beaten down. I feel
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: a little beaten down sometimes from the Facebook.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: From the Facebook group.
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, interesting because I think I see what comes to
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: the top for me are like how much they love you.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: I've seen the love recently and it's very very nice. Okay,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: but there was a period there where it was just
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: like slamzilla about you. Yes, what I'm annoying? I talk
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: too much? Blah blah blah, no.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Positive, Oh yeah, God, just let let me be me,
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: let her be her.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: If not only me, that's right, that there will ever
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: be Yes.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Isn't that the key to being happy? Happy? That's that
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: is my affirmation. I am the only me? What was it?
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: I am the only that will ever be Isn't that
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: the key to being happy? Somebody gave me my children's book.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: That's a good next venture for you.
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, good kids book.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: Yea Robbie can do the drawings. You could draw it?
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Who could do it together? That's cute.
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: Actually a friend of mine was saying that they're she's
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: actually not you know, you say, a friend of mine.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I met this woman one.
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we got deep.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: We got deep in this one meeting. But she met
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: her step son when he was a baby, so she
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: basically has been with him since he was literally born.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: So she was like, I would read him these children's
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: books that you have for like kids, and it's all
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: like mommy loves you, Daddy loves you. And she's like,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: and I'm the stepmom, you know what I mean. And
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: so she's like, there's not a lot at the time
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: this was I think he's probably thirteen now or something,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: but there weren't a lot of books that shed light
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: on like modern families. So maybe something to dabble in
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: for me.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Maybe there's some a market gap in the market for.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: That, maybe, but that was a long time ago. I'm
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: sure there was a ton now. But I was like,
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, that's like so crazy.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Nothing like yours, though, there's nothing else that like what
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: yours would be.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: Exactly because that's the only me that is not the
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: key to being happy.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: We have a Dear Bonnie episode this week, so this
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: is not the last you'll be hearing from us, but nobody.
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: We do.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Hope you have a wonderful week, and we love you.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Somebody love you.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: Bye.