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5 Steps For A Consistent Quiet Time with Jen and A.J. · She Speaks Life - Christian Women, Strengthen Your Faith, Bible Study, Grow Spiritually In Christ

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  writer you are. OK, with me is Jen and a J from
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  Soho Academy where they empower and equip women to.
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  Follow God with great faith. We talk about how to keep
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  consistent in our per life, different ways to study the
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  Bible, and steps to establish a routine quiet time.
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  These ladies are such a great duo and I hope you gained some
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  inspiration to try something new.
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  More encouraged to keep drawing closer and closer to God.
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  So let's get at it. Here are my guests, Jen and AJ.
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  Well, hello ladies. Welcome to She Speaks live.
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  Jen and JJ, welcome. Hey.
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  We're so glad to be here. Thanks for having us.
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  I am excited for your message here about all things prayer and
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  Bible study. All kind of different ways and
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  steps that we're going to talk about how to be consistent in
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  prayer and how to get through those struggles and hear about
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  what you guys are doing also in your ministry as well.
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  So before I kick it off and dive deeper into what you guys are
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  sharing today, I love to start us off with your favorite
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  scripture verse and why that is. Go ahead, AJ You want me to?
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  Yeah. Get off.
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  I'm. Gonna actually try to keep mine
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  short because I could talk about this.
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  Probably the whole No, don't. Tire, Don't do it.
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  Is this presentation. I know.
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  Warning me already. Okay.
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  So I'm going to, I'm really seriously going to try to keep
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  it short. So mine.
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  I would have to say. It's hard to pick one verse like
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  out of all God's word, but if I had to, it would be Psalm 84,
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  verse 11. And it says for the Lord, God is
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  a son and shield. The Lord bestows favor and
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  honor. No good thing does he withhold
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  from those who walk uprightly. And I think this is one of my
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  favorites. It's been one of my favorites
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  since maybe 10th grade. So that's been quite a few
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  years. A few decades ago, Yeah.
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  And I think one of the reasons is because one of the lies the
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  devil planted early on in my life in my heart is that God
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  wasn't good to me. Maybe he was good.
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  That's a good descriptor for him overall, but he wasn't always
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  looking out for my best interest.
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  And maybe his intentions towards me weren't totally trustworthy,
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  you know, And that was just a lie that I believed in my heart
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  and I I couldn't articulate that necessarily, but it was
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  something that my heart questioned.
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  It questioned his goodness. And this verse was something
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  that I clung to even very early on in my life, is that he
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  withholds no good thing for me. He is not withholding.
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  Even when it doesn't feel that way or it doesn't look that way
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  or circumstances don't say that message to me.
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  You know, God's word is true and he is not withholding good for
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  me. So I've gone back to that over
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  and over again in my life during certain seasons.
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  Yeah, I think many of us can relate.
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  I mean, because we're so used to just staring at our
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  circumstances in the face and going, OK, this is what I see.
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  And then you need to be reminded of what Scripture says that God
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  is good even though you can't see it in the natural, or you
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  can't feel it because you're full of pain or disappointment
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  or rejection or betrayal. But going back to his promises
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  that hold true and just reminding yourself, OK, he's
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  good no matter what, I feel because feelings can lie.
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  Those are fleeting, and the circumstances we know shift, and
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  they can change. And he can change things in a
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  second as well. How about you, Jen?
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  Yeah, well, mine actually toss in nicely with that.
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  So isn't it God's word? Just kind.
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  Of yeah, it's kind. Of so my and I don't wouldn't
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  call this necessarily a life verse and it's not it's my
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  favorite right now. It's the one that keeps coming
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  back into you know their seasons in life where versus just keep.
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  You just keep being reminded of them and for me.
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  Romans 818. Is I mean of course, all of
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  Romans 8, obviously I could quote but Romans 818.
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  For I consider that the sufferings of this present time
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  are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to
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  us. And for me it's a reminder as
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  we're going through these these times where it is hard and we
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  are forgetting His goodness and we are suffering.
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  And although those are if for the believer, those are building
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  in us perseverance and hope and faith.
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  We know all that, but remembering that as as low as
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  the valley is and as deep as our suffering is, it's nothing but a
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  drop of water in the ocean of the glory that we will one day
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  see. And just being reminded of my
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  hope and eternity on a daytoday basis while I'm living the
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  everyday life. That does include the ups and
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  downs, but that nothing that I experience here, it's going to
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  compare to what one day I will see when I see him face to face
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  in glory. And that verse is always just
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  really encouraging to me, no matter what I'm going through.
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  And. And one of the verses that I
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  have stamped on my heart. Yeah, So good.
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  Putting you back in that perspective of what God sees.
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  I love that reminder. OK, let's dive into what you
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  guys are all about. Let's start out with your
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  ministry called SOJO. Yes.
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  Is that right? Yeah.
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  So share with us that title. Curious.
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  Sure. So, so Joe, it is an interesting
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  title, right? So it actually is short for the
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  word sojourner, and it comes from the fact that we are all
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  walking this path together. We actually just had to explain
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  it this morning to someone who's like, I don't know what that
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  means. We have to.
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  It's probably not a great title for a ministry because we do
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  have to explain it all the time. But it comes from the fact that
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  we are women walking alongside one another in a world of which
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  we are. We're not.
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  In this world, we're not of the we're in the world, but we're
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  not of this world. So we are again, we're looking
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  towards eternity and we are walking together, and so we are
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  sojourners together. So that's where it comes from.
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  And just a fun fact, So my husband and I served overseas as
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  missionaries for 14 years and there was this little restaurant
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  in Thailand that was named Sojo's and it was the place
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  where all the foreigners went and we they served sweet iced
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  tea there. And you couldn't find sweet iced
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  tea like anywhere else, like it was all hot tea.
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  And so it was like a little touch of home in the middle of
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  this foreign land. And that's kind of the vision
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  that we saw Sojo Academy being it's like, okay, we are not,
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  this is not our citizenship is not here on earth.
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  And yet together, when we come together as God's people, as
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  foreigners in this land, we can taste a little bit of.
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  What our eternal home is going to be like.
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  So that's kind of the back story that nobody understands.
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  I love it. And so this ministry empowers
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  and equips women in their walk with the Lord.
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  So tell us some of the ways that we can keep consistent in
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  prayer, Like what do you offer in your ministry when it comes
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  to our prayer life, especially what we were just talking about
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  facing those circumstances. Jimmy Diamond.
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  Yeah, go ahead. OK.
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  Well, one of my favorite things, and I started this a few years
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  back. One of my favorite things is to
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  have what I call a Ground Zero scripture.
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  And this is a verse that to me is just a basic starting point
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  when I feel like I have absolutely nothing.
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  Or so maybe. Maybe it's a morning when I wake
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  up and I feel no inclination towards the things of God and
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  overwhelmed by my To Do List or by that anxiety that stress if I
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  can just pre know what scripture I can start with.
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  That helps me just to get that ball rolling and to get the
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  momentum that I need to keep going.
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  Because The funny thing is, is when we simply go to God, he
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  meets us where we're at. That's all we have to do is take
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  that very first step. You know, it says when we seek
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  him, we will find him. And that means seeking in just
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  the slightest way of saying God help.
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  It can be that simple. You know, when we cry out to
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  him, when we call to him, he hears us.
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  He promises us that in His word, He promises His presence.
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  And so for me it's having just a simple scripture like Psalm 23.
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  One, you know, the Lord is my shepherd.
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  Just saying, God, you are my shepherd.
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  You are my shepherd. Meet me here.
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  I have nothing. I got.
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  I got nothing. I'm empty handed, but I'm coming
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  to you trusting that you will fill me.
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  And he does. That's the precious thing about
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  it. He does.
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  And so just, you know, find you a Ground Zero scripture that can
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  be your go to in those moments when you just need a starting
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  point. Yeah.
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  And in addition to that I think and and this is implied in that
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  is being consistent in just the habit of it and that's one of
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  the things that. Whatever that takes for you,
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  whether it's having a reminder on your phone, whether it's
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  sorry, whether it's having a reminder on your phone, whether
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  it is what, whatever it takes, whether it's putting stacking
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  habits and pairing them with other things, which is one of
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  the things that we talked about in our membership in our
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  community. But whatever it takes to be
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  consistent is really important. And one of the things that I
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  have found is that it doesn't take, like you said, a big
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  production, but it does take knowing what you're going to do,
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  whether it's finding that one thing or having a plan and
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  opening up and knowing, OK, today I'm going to do this.
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  I like to do prayer journaling where I have a plan each day.
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  I know what I'm praying for, and just having the plan in and of
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  itself is enough to help me in my consistent yeah.
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  Consistency is key with all areas of our life.
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  You guys share three ways to study the Bible, and I know
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  there's many different ways to study the Bible, but you know,
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  share with our friend here that's listening, that would
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  love to hear what you guys have to say on how to study the Bible
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  and some of the different ways that we can draw even closer to
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  the Lord. Well, I mean, obviously there
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  are lots of different things you can do.
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  And so, but specifically a few of the things that you can do to
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  to really help facilitate your Bible study in addition to
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  having a plan, having a schedule.
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  Is finding a way to to use what you have, Like for example, if
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  you have a Bible reading plan that you're going through, to
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  use that plan in kind of creative ways.
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  For me, one of the keys to consistency is being creative in
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  how I study and how I do things and kind of changing things up.
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  Some people are very, very. Their personality is very good
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  at they do the same exact thing all the time.
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  For me, it means changing things up a little bit.
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  And that is a real key to my study, is it doesn't look
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  exactly the same every day. And that's OK, That's OK.
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  It doesn't have to be the same time every day.
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  It doesn't have to be the same. That's that's that's a big thing
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  with people, right? They feel like if they're not
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  doing their Bible study at 5:00 AM, it doesn't really count.
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  It doesn't have to be the same time every day.
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  It does not have to be the same. It doesn't have to look the same
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  every day. And you can take the Bible in in
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  a lot of different ways. And so knowing that and being
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  free in that is really important.
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  Yeah. And I would just add, you know,
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  there are tons of ways, you know when you ask this question, I'm
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  like oh, which which three do we give out of like the the 2030
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  plus that we have. But I'll just share the one that
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  comes to my mind immediately is meditation.
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  And I know a lot of times people don't think of this as a Bible
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  study method, but it really and truly is.
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  It's what I call portable Bible study.
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  Because you can take it with you anywhere, and you don't have to
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  sit at your kitchen table with your Bible open to do it.
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  You can simply write one verse. Say you have one of those Bible
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  reading plans and it's a topical plan and you have a verse or a
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  passage for each day would just take your daily passage, write
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  it on a note card, carry it with you, or you could put it on your
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  phone. You know, I'm I'm a little older
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  so I probably prefer writing to having it on my screen, but you
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  could do it on your screen too. And meditate on that throughout
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  the day. So how do you meditate on it?
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  Will you read each word? Emphasize each word as you read.
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  You know, that's one way. A second way is to look for the
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  verbs in that passage and really under, like, define them,
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  mentally Mull them over in your mind, define them.
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  So when it says that that God loves you, love is a verb, what
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  does that mean? Like think through what it means
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  when you love someone. What happens when you love when
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  you are loved by somebody? What do they do to communicate
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  that left? Like, ask yourself all of these
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  questions. If you find a noun, look at the,
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  you know synonyms and antonyms to those to those terms or a
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  keyword. To find that, look at those
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  synonyms and antonyms. Do comparison and and some
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  contrasting of them, like really take some time to meditate.
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  This is what it means to meditate on scripture And as we
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  do that the Lord gives us deeper insights into what that one
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  little passage is truly sane and we start to glean His heart for
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  us. We understand who He is.
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  We understand who we are in Him, His love and intentions towards
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  us. And so just taking that
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  meditation as a portable Bible study.
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  It will blow your mind like if you really start to spend some
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  time meditating on scripture, it is life transforming.
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  And some people will call that like burst mapping, some
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  different techniques to that, but all of those techniques are.
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  Really. About getting it in your in your
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  heart and meditating on it. Yeah, that's so good.
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  I mean, I found I really retain information when I write out the
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  scripture verse. And like you said, just
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  marinating on that or meditating on it and just asking Lord, you
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  know, show me some highlights, you know, And usually or
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  insights, usually there's some kind of download that I haven't
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  seen before in that scripture verse.
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  And I'll just like write it out. Or I sit on a word like you're
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  saying and just letting it take root.
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  And then sometimes I like to go in and see what that means and
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  Greek. And then we all know that could
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  go into some big rabbit hole, like all kinds of different
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  things. And and you know, I'm looking up
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  cross references to you and having it really become a Bible
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  study instead of just a reading plan.
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  And that was one of the things I wanted to do was start reading
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  the Bible chronologically. But what turned me off was that
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  these Bible plans had you need to do this on day one and you
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  need to do this on day 2. And it wasn't conducive to what
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  how I like to do things or it was too much reading.
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  And one day, just to try to get through it, I the Bible plans.
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  To me, I'm a little bit hesitant because I don't like just
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  checking things off because it becomes a list that I just check
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  off and I don't want that, you know?
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  I don't want it to become that. So I got this like, aha moment
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  where I'm like, hello, I could do it chronologically and just
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  go at my own pace and do it my way.
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  Is it that chronological Bible in a year?
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  No, it's probably gonna take me several years to get through the
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  Bible this way. But that's OK because I know I'm
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  retaining it. It's taking root.
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  I'm not just reading it and then forgetting what I just read the
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  next day. And so I found that to be very
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  helpful of writing out that verse and then just pondering on
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  it for a while and that being my morning quiet time.
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  One of the ways that if you are reading a big swath is listening
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  to the Bible. Sometimes I will pick up things,
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  especially if you have a good narrator and and I always choose
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  like very dramatic narrators because my Bible has options.
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  And it's like all of a sudden they're just the inflection that
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  they use in particular verses and Bible stories and things.
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  It helps you kind of see things differently.
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  And then you can take that that reading or listening in the big
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  swath and you can kind of. Narrow it down what you're
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  talking about, the two or three verses that you really want to
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  dive deep in. I love the audio as well, just
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  because that is something that you can pair with other habits
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  and you can start to cultivate a scripture intake habit in your
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  life without necessarily having to find any additional time in
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  your day so you can pair it like.
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  Shower. I do it in the shower, yeah.
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  Shower or driving, you know, while you're in the car or car
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  line, waiting, whatever, so you can find places.
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  Cases naturally throughout your day that you can squeeze that
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  in. So I I love the versatility of
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  it, yeah. OK, so let's dive into that
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  meaningful quiet time. What are some things that you
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  share in your ministry or even what you guys do?
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  The five steps to a great quiet time.
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  Well, I think we've kind of alluded to some of them, but the
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  first step is actually. Scheduling it, I think.
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  I think scheduling your quiet time knowing.
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  And when I say quiet time, I use that word loosely, because if
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  you're listening and you have, for example, tiny children, your
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  quiet time may or may not be. Well, I shouldn't say tiny.
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  Tiny. You probably get away with it.
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  But medium sized children? It may not be quiet all the
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  time, but. Having knowing what your
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  schedule's sort of going to look like for the day and where you
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  can literally schedule in time with God makes a huge
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  difference. And as I mentioned earlier, it
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  may not always be the exact same time, but knowing that it's like
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  an appointment. You've made an appointment with
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  God, like like any of your other appointments, and you're much
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  more likely to keep that appointment if you schedule it.
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  So scheduling is the first one, yeah.
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  And I would say having some sort of plan is the second one.
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  And it doesn't have to be a read through the Bible in a year, or
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  it doesn't even have to be like one of those reading plans that
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  we were talking about, but just knowing what you're actually
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  going to be doing. Before you sit down to do it is
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  super helpful because otherwise I don't know if you're like me,
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  but I can spend my time trying to figure out what I'm doing
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  instead of actually doing it. And that's super frustrating
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  because maybe I get up extra early to make the time for it
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  and then I sit down and I'm like, I'm so overwhelmed because
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  I'm not sure where to start. So having a plan before you sit
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  down for your time just eliminates that stress of.
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  Trying to figure out what it is you're going to do, whether that
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  scripture, reading, journaling, singing, worship, you know,
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  whatever. Whichever of the spiritual
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  disciplines it is that you want to include, knowing what it is
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  you're going to be doing as soon as you hit your time is helpful,
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  yeah? Yeah.
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  So making the plans, scheduling. I think praying, starting with
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  prayer is one of the things that sometimes we.
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  You know, if if prayer is part of what we're doing, we will do
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  it. But sometimes it's important to
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  realize before you sit down with the Bible, starting with prayer
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  is is really important to just to kind of ask God to speak to
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  you and ask him. And then you can also even start
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  at the beginning of the day before you even do any of this,
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  before you do the scheduling and the Gathering, the things of
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  things we'll maybe talk about in a minute.
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  Is praying God just be with me during my day.
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  Help me to keep my appointment with you and and hugely faithful
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  to do that. And so start your day with
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  prayer, but just say it doesn't have to be a long you don't have
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  to sit in for a long time. It's just a quick be with me
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  today and allow me to spend time with you throughout the day and
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  pray throughout the day. We're supposed to pray without
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  ceasing, just small prayers throughout the day.
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  But then when you when you actually do have time to sit
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  down with your plan. At your scheduled time started
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  with prayer. Yeah.
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  And then the next thing I would say is to just have some sort of
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  device handy for note taking. And you're going to use that in
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  a number of ways. Not only are you going to
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  document how God speaks to you and journal, maybe you're going
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  to journal your prayers or write out scripture.
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  It comes in handy for that, but it also helps as your mind gets
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  distracted. And tells you, oh, I got to
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  remember, take the meat out for dinner tonight.
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  Just write it down so that your mind has the freedom to focus
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  back on what it is you're there to do, which is to spend the
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  time with God, right. And to meditate on his word and
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  to allow that to speak to you. If our minds are so distracted
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  and running in 1000 different directions, it's it's too tied
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  up to really focus and we can be spiritually ADHD.
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  Especially in the world we live in right now.
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  Yeah, with our phones. With yes, constant pains and and
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  I think just having something to to just brain dump on while
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  you're having your time with God, it just gives your mental
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  state the permission to let that go.
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  It's taken care of. You can get back to that later.
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  Right now is time for this. Yeah, that's good.
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  That's the first time I've heard that.
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  That's, that's a good one. I just remember when I had
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  Littles, in order for me to really have that quality quiet
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  time, I just got up earlier and that was a sacrifice.
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  I mean, that did not feel too great.
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  You know, I think get up if they got up at 7:00, I mean, I'm
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  going to get up at 6:00 or if they got up at six, having to
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  get up at 5:00 in the morning just so I can get that 30
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  minutes to an hour. But I got to see the blessings
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  out of that, the rewards, it wasn't for, you know, it was all
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  for a purpose. And God blessed that time.
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  And he gives you that energy when you just don't think, how
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  am I even gonna make it through the day with Littles if I get up
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  that early? And but he does.
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  He gives you that energy supernaturally and gets you
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  through because you started out giving him your first and
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  starting out with your day with him.
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  And I remember plugging myself into a women's Bible study at
• 25:47
  the time. So there was homework being, you
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  know, done through this quiet time along with just reading
• 25:54
  scripture on my own. And I think that was key too, is
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  just being accountable of being involved in a community.
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  Is there anything else you guys like to share before we
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  conclude? And additionally to that, I love
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  for you to be able to share a take away on something our
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  friend here who's listening but they can ponder on or take
• 26:18
  action in well. We.
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  Just we do feel like one of the things that is one of our core
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  things that we think through is that in order to grow
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  spiritually, and this is an encouragement for everyone, it
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  takes consistency in these disciplines.
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  And not just the disciplines of Bible study and prayer, which
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  are the biggies, right, but all of the spiritual disciplines.
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  And some of those are much more practiced than others in our
• 26:43
  lives. Some of them are much more
• 26:44
  understood than others in our lives.
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  And so I think that it's really important that we understand the
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  different spiritual disciplines. Of course, starting with those
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  that we've talked about today and then kind of trickling down
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  to some of the ones that we're less familiar with, we actually
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  do have a resource to help with that.
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  And it's free. It's SOJO academy.com/momentum,
• 27:08
  and it's basically just a guide on the spiritual disciplines and
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  hopefully it will help you to give practical ways in which to
• 27:15
  grow in each of them. It's really, really supposed to
• 27:18
  be a really practical, quick way to grow.
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  And I guess my take away and then I'll let you just comes
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  from and it's interesting because I thought about this
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  earlier and then. I think you might have mentioned
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  it. So she might have stole it
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  already, but that's good for that confirmation.
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  But it comes from an Elizabeth Elliot quote where she was
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  getting ready to go back to the people that had killed her
• 27:41
  husband, right. She was going back to minister
• 27:43
  them. And she wrote a letter to her
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  supporters. The people that you know where
• 27:48
  she was just kind of get letting me know what was going on.
• 27:50
  She was going back with her daughter and she actually said
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  don't think that this is some. You know, great thing, this
• 27:58
  great sacrifice. It's just the next step that I
• 28:00
  need to be taking. It's just, it's just what God
• 28:03
  has told me the next step is. And so it really kind of
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  resonated with me to think we all need to be just taking that
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  next step. So take a small step, even if it
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  is not a grand. I'm going to come up this great
• 28:17
  big plan. Maybe it is figuring out what
• 28:20
  your plan is going to be next time you sit down and study.
• 28:22
  Maybe it is finding the Bible study.
• 28:24
  Maybe it is is going finding one of our Bibles.
• 28:26
  Studies, we'd be more than happy to help you.
• 28:29
  Maybe it is just taking those 5 minutes that you had not been
• 28:34
  taking previously to be in the word or be in prayer and
• 28:39
  practicing these disciplines and just the next step.
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  Just take the next step and God will, as A J said, meet you
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  there. And then he will increase your
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  desire to know him and make the next step even easier.
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  I think my take away kind of piggybacks on that a little bit
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  because you mentioned earlier about we can give up if we feel
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  ourselves failing at the plan that we wanted to do or not
• 29:09
  reaching that standard of perfectionism.
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  And my take away would be to learn how to fall, quote UN
• 29:16
  quote forward instead of falling back, because all of us are
• 29:21
  going to mess up. It's just the way humans do,
• 29:26
  right? There's no such thing as
• 29:27
  perfect, and there's no such thing as perfect execution.
• 29:32
  And so I think that if we can just lower that standard, give
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  ourselves grace and learn how to use our quote UN quote failures
• 29:42
  as a way to move forward. And the the best way that I do
• 29:48
  that personally is just by asking Okay.
• 29:51
  What went wrong? What worked in this?
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  Like what? What was it that made me keep
• 30:00
  going? And then what was it that made
• 30:03
  me stop? Like, what happened?
• 30:05
  And and you know what? I've learned the craziest things
• 30:08
  about myself and about God by simply doing a little bit of
• 30:13
  reflection on that, and I've been able to make tweaks and
• 30:17
  learn okay well. That, for example, that audio
• 30:21
  Bible, that's a great fall back for me when I don't have time
• 30:25
  opening the actual book, you know, of God's Word.
• 30:30
  So I've just learned little things that work for me.
• 30:33
  And we can all do the same thing if we don't see our failures as
• 30:38
  failures but as opportunities to learn about ourselves and the
• 30:42
  way we connect and commune with God and use that to fall forward
• 30:46
  instead of falling behind. Yeah, I like that.
• 30:49
  Kind of look at like we're tailor made for a certain style.
• 30:54
  And I think we put so much pressure on ourselves like, oh,
• 30:58
  well, that works for her. Like maybe I should be doing
• 31:01
  that. And then you try it and then
• 31:02
  you're like, no, I don't like this, you know, And and so we
• 31:06
  don't all have to be in one box or be all one shape of how we
• 31:14
  study the Bible And just like you said, find what works for
• 31:18
  you. Where are, you know, the
• 31:20
  strengths the the ways you delight in it and then what are
• 31:24
  the ways that don't work for you and that makes you unmotivated
• 31:29
  and then change that and yeah, just making it like a custom
• 31:35
  style just for you. I I love that.
• 31:37
  And you know I like to add personalizing scripture verses.
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  I think that was a big game changer for me when when I found
• 31:44
  out I could do that, I was like, what put my name in there
• 31:47
  instead of we and us and and how much it just really made it even
• 31:54
  more closer to my to my heart, the scripture verse and how much
• 31:58
  I felt close to the Lord in that.
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  So that's something to try also. So well thanks girls John and A
• 32:08
  J for coming on here. You guys have a great ministry
• 32:11
  and love what you're doing for God's Kingdom and just equipping
• 32:15
  women and how you know that's what I love all of us building
• 32:21
  each other up for the glory of the Lord.
• 32:24
  And thank you for coming on here.
• 32:27
  Thank you for having. Yeah.
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• 32:29
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