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The Wedding Proposal Slap - Pay Back My 20 Million Naira, Ben Responds To Ella · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to another episode of Bantic
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  Lorenzia. How are you all doing?
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  Hope you're doing great. For today's episode, let's talk
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  about the infamous engagements that we all witnessed online.
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  This is between Ella and King. I don't even know what his name
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  is now. Everybody has been making video
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  commenting like talking about it, even Kanayo.
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  Kanayo jumped on the whole trend, said that nobody should
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  threaten Ella because if Ella was his daughter, he would have
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  protected her. That before you go and engage a
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  girl, you should actually find out if she wants to marry you.
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  Now, the guy in question came out and explained himself.
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  He said he was actually dating Ella, that Ella was pressuring
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  him to move to Lagos. He gave her some money, about 20
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  billion to open up a shop, start up a business.
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  He said he was planning to move to Lagos, which was why he was
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  giving her money to set up all those things.
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  But then he decided to surprise her with that engagement at his
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  friend or their friend's wedding even the friend came out and
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  said why did he take Shine away from his big day?
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  Because nobody's talking about his wedding.
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  Everybody's talking about the engagement.
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  So he came out and explained himself like he did a whole lot
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  of video. I'm just going to play those
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  videos and also Kanayo, Kanayo's video for you to hear the
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  updates. Because since we talked about
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  Ella, we talked about the engagement, we talked about
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  Ella's response. I think also we should share his
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  own side of the story because honestly initially I thought
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  this was his kid but this is actually not his kids.
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  This guy actually proposed to this girl.
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  Watch this. All right guys on our face show
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  on our shoes shine. I'm out here.
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  So firstly, thank each and everyone of you who have been
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  trying to reach out to me to make sure I'm fine to make sure
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  I'm OK. I really appreciate you guys a
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  lot of DMS on red. I really appreciate you guys now
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  I'm not supposed to be making this video, but at this point I
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  have to speak out. I have to speak up.
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  What happened yesterday is already everywhere.
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  Let me new thing again and I've maintained silence.
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  I've tried to maintain silence I've.
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  I told myself I was not going to say anything about this issue.
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  But at this point, I just have to speak up now Ella, apart from
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  being friends, you know how they meet for Eco House during when
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  in the shooting contents? I was in Lagos January, February
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  this year when we met. You know things when you discuss
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  the chats are here, you understand Now after what
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  happened yesterday, I expected you to just keep quiet, focus on
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  your life and everybody should just move on 'cause me, I've
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  been even getting intention of to come drag you online or to
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  tell you anything you get. But you went ahead to make
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  videos calling my friends dogs saying we never dated.
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  I did disturb you, you know, answer me Ella.
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  Me. I did disturb you, you know,
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  answer me Ella. Now I will post our chat since
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  everything is public already. I will post our chat made.
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  That chat made. People read that whether my
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  boyfriend and girlfriend chat with that or not personally, the
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  big person chats. That's one secondly.
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  We know the dates. Why you been the worry me man
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  move. To Lagos.
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  If you find a houseboy to employ.
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  Where it is. Worry me, now move.
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  To Lagos. Say you're not OK with me being
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  in port accord number. Three, we know the deeds, the
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  shop where you. Say make we rent, may we get
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  additional source of income so that if we move into our
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  apartment together? We go get.
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  Extras of income where? They push us.
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  Waiting what make me and you move into the same apartment
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  together when we know the deeds and no understand Well guys, I
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  don't really want to say much. I will post the chart.
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  I will post everything but Ella, one thing I'm promising you now
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  since you don't. Decide to.
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  Dance my image. Like to project.
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  Me to the whole world, say me, I know the man enough or I know
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  the capable to get somebody like, you know, Valhalla.
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  Any investment where we don't do together, I beg you the name of
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  God arrange all the documents, arrange everything so that
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  anytime while I come to collect them made two years no hear make
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  nobody even know say anything like that happen.
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  I take God beg you, let's. All behave matured and respect
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  each other. All right, there's this trending
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  video of Juan Emmanuela and 1 Ben.
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  The video has gone viral and the lady, the place is as viral for
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  the wrong reasons, Emmanuela such that the guy wanted a long
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  relationship. They've been talking and he she
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  didn't want it and then something happened and she
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  slapped the guy in public. It's been trending.
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  Now the quick The thing is this and the facts of the case.
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  Marriage is a contract between a man and a woman.
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  And in every contract there must be an offer, an acceptance.
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  When there's an offer and there's no acceptance, there's
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  no contract. Now this is it's here now for
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  those of you who have gone to the social media my lining
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  threatening and so on because she has also gone out from Paul
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  1, Brian and Daffy and so on. As a friends of Ben who have
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  taken to the social media to threaten her life.
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  You must understand one thing. Those of you who just support
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  things without knowing the facts of the case, you must know that
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  there was an offer, there was no acceptance.
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  So do not support thing a thing when it has not.
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  You have not gotten the facts of the case.
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  Now, what are we saying here? People involved?
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  We have heard from Emmanuela, we have not heard from Ben.
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  The fact of the matter is she said she didn't want this kind
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  of friendship. And then you don't force anybody
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  into marriage. You don't force anybody into
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  friendship. If you do this to my daughter, I
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  will know the fact part to tread.
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  It is very disappointing, very embarrassing for you not to
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  agree with a girl. And this is an advisor of young,
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  young, young people. We need to agree with the girl
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  and the como pluria sat kneeling down.
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  It is very embarrassing. I'm not going to talk about the
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  ankle of slapping and so on. It's not for me to delving.
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  But Emmanuel, my advice to you, get your uncles, get the phone
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  number of this guy to tell him that there was an offer and
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  there was no acceptance. And if you prove further that
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  they are threatening you, you can report to the authorities.
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  It's very important. But those of you on the social
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  media who do not hear the full case and delve into it and
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  malign people's character, you must stop it.
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  That's not what the social media is meant for.
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  People have rights and they intend to those people's rights.
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  And for her as a person. Keep it at that for now.
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  And you who are who are the friends of the guy, do not
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  support anything that you cannot defend.
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  Thank you very much. Mr K OK.
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  Mr Kanayo Kanayo. Professor Kanayo.
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  Kanayo, with due respect, Sir, with due respect.
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  I want to tell. You my mind, I am very
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  disappointed in you, Sir. Sir, you use your mouth, talk
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  and say any matter where you don't know anything about them.
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  Maybe they don't jump into them. You jump into matter.
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  You don't know anything about that.
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  You say, you know, go talk about the slab, say nothing concerning
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  with the slab, See if now your daughter they do this kind of
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  thing, you know, actions where you would take Sir, with due
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  respect, you, you be one of those men where they go mingle
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  with those young young girls when they make them misbehave.
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  Now why most of these young, young girls that they behave
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  like say that they above the law.
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  You be like all those politicians allegedly where they
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  go flirt with those young, young girls when they make their call,
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  misbehave constantly. The meaning of this kind talk
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  when TV the meaning of this kind of talk they slap me, I know
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  react. I keep quiet for how many days
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  people don't they wait for me to talk.
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  Since I know great talk people don't they ask me what happened.
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  They get don't go online make video.
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  I know great talk. Are they wait for just one
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  thing? Are they wait to just receive 1
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  phone call say OK, sorry you see what happens See what make this
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  happen that because I don't want to believe saying Ella do that
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  thing you were the elderly mother respect you see when I be
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  smoking since my childhood I did I did respect.
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  I did look up to you, but this video I did see from you Sir,
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  I'm highly disappointed to you. I swear to my God, I'm highly
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  disappointed to you, Sir Sir, you see this video I don't do
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  now you don't prove to me say a lot of people out there they're
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  really they support within she do I see this time around.
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  I will make sure say Ella refund every single penny while don't
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  invest in her. They shop the phone, everything
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  she could return out to. Me I.
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  Will go there, I will collect everything while I don't ever
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  invest in her before I leave Lagos States.
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  Since you saved now your daughter.
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  I know what you could do. Take a session your daughter
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  NASA maybe do what you could do then pass away would take me as
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  in song to where pass you go do it in supposed to person good
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  John you they keep quiet somebody like what you could say
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  fuck call me marriage. I know how much I spend only
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  flight to blue from Potaco called Lagos State.
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  You know how much it cost just to go attend your wedding and
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  how much I pay. You say look we pay 2200K for
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  your many suit. I transfer the money since
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  March. I don't have some money for many
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  suit for you Immediately you tell me say you want me to be
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  among your many suit. I showed you love as a brother.
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  Now you come online and say you did disappointed.
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  No, see, I can't propose to my gear for your wedding.
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  We can't care. Let's talk with that.
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  I don't think I'm serious, but this video happened in this
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  evening. Can't they pay me?
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  The more especially from people are respects or you could, you
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  know, say I respect as a brother and I'd sacrifice your Lord for
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  you as a brother. But see what you're going to do.
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  Imagine imagine the kind of way they talk.
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  Professor Kanayo. Kanayo, with due respect and
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  disappointed you. And the only thing you can do at
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  this point is to take down that video.
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  Take down that video side. If you don't have anything to
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  do, please take down that video. I beg take down the video and
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  Ella. If you're watching this video or
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  people where they support Ella, they're going to go.
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  Tell Ella. Say me.
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  Share. In my phone, keep the shop key
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  machine keep on, even the mattress.
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  Why buy for our last machine keep on.
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  I did pack everything tomorrow before I leave Lagos.
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  Slap Nation information reaching me now is that Missy Ben is
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  claiming he gave me 20 million naira 20 Miller are you playing
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  whizzy? You got free provision for
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  courts. Do you have your evidences of
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  transfers that you? Did you get?
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  Evidence of transfer will you do because if I decide to go
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  through my bank trans transactions, your name, your
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  name no even Didier your name no Didier if I decide to even go
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  through my bank transaction itself.
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  If your name is even Didier and I'm only when I send you so stop
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  to the claim with you. No B is it because I'm I'm still
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  covering up for you and you see the garage shaking guy my
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  yourself by yourself. None of us know drug ourself
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  come at all peacefully collect the 20 million that black truly
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  is offering you and go back to potato court.
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  Go and shoot whatever gangster movie that you are shooting.
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  Bye bye. What my name for you?
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  Now, what do you think? Do you think that he's just been
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  childish to have proposed to somebody who, yes, According to
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  him, they've planned or they were planning on getting
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  married. Even Ella had said that This is
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  why she she did not accept or This is why how can she marry
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  somebody like this? Alluding to the fact that they
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  actually had a relationship. The guy is threatening to
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  release text messages, evidence, but I just think he should lick
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  his wound and just relax because at least he dodged the bullets.
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  And he's saying that Ella should return all the money that he has
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  given Ella. What do you think?
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.