Latest / Deep-Grace Diving with Tim Wright and Terey Summers / The Deep-Grace Diving Question Box
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- 0:01Hey friends, curiosity is the wick in the candle of learning.
- 0:09So good.
- 0:10Good.
- 0:10I wish I had made that up.
- 0:31SPEAKER_03: Curiosity is the wick in the candle of learning.
- 0:36And curiosity is this wonderful gift that God has given to us
- 0:39to ask questions.
- 0:43SPEAKER_03: And no better place to ask questions than questions of God and the Bible,
- 0:47SPEAKER_03: because God invites that.
- 0:48SPEAKER_03: God made us curious.
- 0:51SPEAKER_03: And in some religious circles, you should never ask questions.
- 0:55SPEAKER_03: Just believe what you've been told.
- 0:58And the only way we can really discover the depths of Bud's
- 1:01grace is by being
- 1:01SPEAKER_03: curious and asking a lot of questions.
- 1:03So today we are going to open up the question box and dive into
- 1:11a variety of subjects.
- 1:12SPEAKER_03: And we're going to let John be our question moderator today.
- 1:16SPEAKER_03: Great.
- 1:18SPEAKER_03: He's the one bringing the questions to us.
- 1:21I'm here with John D.
- 1:22Burgess and,
- 1:23of course,
- 1:24with the famous Terry Summers.
- 1:27SPEAKER_02: Thank you.
- 1:30that'll play in here just a little bit probably yeah all right
- 1:34so john the podcast
- 1:36is yours today yeah well great and i i really appreciate that
- 1:41the three of us uh
- 1:42agree that critical thinking doesn't kind of get checked at the
- 1:45door before you
- 1:46walk into church that um that uh throughout scripture god
- 1:51invites these questions
- 1:52SPEAKER_01: even hard ones even emotional hard questions
- 1:55SPEAKER_01: and that we can tackle that together.
- 1:57SPEAKER_01: So thank you for the time.
- 1:58SPEAKER_01: A couple of podcasts ago,
- 2:00SPEAKER_01: we were talking about something super important and Tim said,
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: well,
- 2:09SPEAKER_01: maybe Jesus was just wrong about this.
- 2:13SPEAKER_01: And the topic was when Jesus will come back.
- 2:16SPEAKER_01: And the passage seems to indicate, you know, it says, I think, soon.
- 2:20SPEAKER_01: And Tim said, well, maybe Jesus was just wrong about that.
- 2:25SPEAKER_01: And I thought, I don't, man, that doesn't sound right because he's God.
- 2:30SPEAKER_01: And I'm there with the idea that like at some point he got a cold, right?
- 2:36SPEAKER_01: I mean, he was living the human experience and that was really important.
- 2:40SPEAKER_01: And that was part of the reason why he was God and also human.
- 2:44i got that but i think i've been you know told plenty of times
- 2:48that he was the only
- 2:49perfect human sinless and so the idea that he was wrong about
- 2:54something and it was
- 2:55recorded in scripture i thought that was valuable uh time that
- 2:59we could discuss
- 3:00that so so let me uh come back with a question john yeah why
- 3:06would it be a bad
- 3:07SPEAKER_03: thing if jesus was wrong about something
- 3:11SPEAKER_01: Well, I think that I rely on the red letters so much in the Bible.
- 3:16SPEAKER_01: I always say,
- 3:18SPEAKER_01: look,
- 3:19SPEAKER_01: there's a lot that I'm obviously still exploring about my faith,
- 3:23SPEAKER_01: and I appreciate those people listening that allow me to do it.
- 3:26But I always turn and say,
- 3:27look,
- 3:27okay,
- 3:28if I've got a big question,
- 3:30what did the red letters say?
- 3:31SPEAKER_01: In other words, what did Jesus actually say?
- 3:35And if he didn't say something on a topic,
- 3:37I think that sometimes that might be intentional.
- 3:39And there's all kinds of topics that are hot in culture right
- 3:42now where I'm looking
- 3:43SPEAKER_01: at what Jesus said and Jesus did not say anything about those topics.
- 3:47SPEAKER_01: That's right.
- 3:48SPEAKER_01: That's important for me.
- 3:49And also I'm a very,
- 3:52you know,
- 3:52I'm one of those learners that's very word focused.
- 3:55SPEAKER_01: The language really matters to me.
- 3:58SPEAKER_01: And if I apply my critical thinking,
- 4:00SPEAKER_01: I'm like,
- 4:00SPEAKER_01: okay,
- 4:00SPEAKER_01: let me at least put my stake in the ground.
- 4:02SPEAKER_01: This is what Jesus said.
- 4:04SPEAKER_01: So the idea that he's wrong, that rocks my world.
- 4:07SPEAKER_01: I got to think about that.
- 4:09SPEAKER_03: So I absolutely agree with that.
- 4:11SPEAKER_03: Everything you said.
- 4:14And so when we say Jesus was wrong about something,
- 4:17it needs a little bit of context.
- 4:21I'm not saying that Jesus was wrong about truth telling and the
- 4:24truth that he shared.
- 4:26SPEAKER_03: What I'm saying is that Jesus,
- 4:28SPEAKER_03: and maybe wrong was not quite the right word,
- 4:30SPEAKER_03: but Jesus,
- 4:33SPEAKER_03: when it came to when he would return,
- 4:37SPEAKER_03: he didn't know.
- 4:40And so we have some stories where he will tell parables about
- 4:46suggesting that his
- 4:47SPEAKER_03: return will be immediate.
- 4:51And then we have some other stories where he seems to suggest
- 4:53that his return won't
- 4:54SPEAKER_03: be for a while.
- 4:58And so in a passage where Jesus,
- 5:04I can't remember exactly what it was we were talking about.
- 5:06SPEAKER_03: It was the second coming.
- 5:08It gave the impression that Jesus at that point was saying,
- 5:11my return is immediate.
- 5:13SPEAKER_03: And it wasn't.
- 5:15SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 5:16SPEAKER_03: Right?
- 5:17So I think,
- 5:19first of all,
- 5:20let's just debunk that being wrong about something is the same
- 5:24as sin.
- 5:26SPEAKER_03: Nothing wrong with being wrong about something.
- 5:30SPEAKER_03: Secondly,
- 5:31let's just make sure we keep in context that we're not saying
- 5:34that Jesus was wrong
- 5:34SPEAKER_03: about truth he spoke.
- 5:36SPEAKER_03: Jesus in this point just doesn't know.
- 5:40SPEAKER_03: He's human.
- 5:40SPEAKER_03: His knowledge base is limited because he's human.
- 5:49SPEAKER_03: So there were things that he didn't know.
- 5:52SPEAKER_03: I mean,
- 5:53SPEAKER_03: if you were to ask Jesus 2,000 years ago,
- 5:55SPEAKER_03: well,
- 5:56SPEAKER_03: Jesus,
- 5:56SPEAKER_03: tell me,
- 5:56SPEAKER_03: who's going to be president of the United States of America in 2025?
- 5:59SPEAKER_03: He wouldn't have known.
- 6:00And that is true,
- 6:03even though this is the person that is both human and God at
- 6:07the same time.
- 6:08SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 6:09SPEAKER_03: But he is human.
- 6:10SPEAKER_03: He is human.
- 6:11SPEAKER_03: And so at that point, some of his knowledge is going to be limited now.
- 6:18And so it was limited in terms that he wasn't wrong about that
- 6:22he's going to come back someday.
- 6:27SPEAKER_03: But he may not have been quite clear on when he would return.
- 6:32SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 6:33And the other challenge that we have with some of this verbiage
- 6:38is there's
- 6:40SPEAKER_03: confusion between is Jesus talking about when he's going to come back?
- 6:44SPEAKER_03: Is he talking about when he's going to come back from the dead?
- 6:49So that gets a little bit conflicted because Jesus uses the
- 6:54kingdom of God.
- 6:56And for Jesus,
- 6:56the kingdom of God wasn't something that will happen someday.
- 6:59SPEAKER_03: It's something that happens now because Jesus rose from the dead.
- 7:04SPEAKER_03: And so the kingdom of God is now here.
- 7:06SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 7:07SPEAKER_03: We're really going to read.
- 7:09SPEAKER_03: The point is, let me clarify.
- 7:11SPEAKER_03: People don't think Jesus was wrong about stuff.
- 7:14SPEAKER_03: Jesus was never wrong about a truth that he was telling.
- 7:19SPEAKER_03: But there were things that he didn't always know in terms of timing.
- 7:22SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 7:25SPEAKER_03: And we see this with the Apostle Paul,
- 7:28SPEAKER_03: by the way,
- 7:29SPEAKER_03: who at first thought Jesus was coming back in his lifetime.
- 7:33And then as he gets a little older and closer to his death,
- 7:36he starts to say,
- 7:38it may be a while.
- 7:41SPEAKER_03: And that's not to say that we were wrong.
- 7:44SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 7:45Or maybe it is to say that we were wrong,
- 7:47but they're not wrong about Jesus coming back.
- 7:49SPEAKER_03: It was just the timing of it.
- 7:51SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 7:52SPEAKER_03: Nobody knows.
- 7:53SPEAKER_03: Only God knows.
- 7:53SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 7:55SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 7:56SPEAKER_03: So does that help Terry jump in here?
- 7:58SPEAKER_03: Because I want to make sure you always speak to the normal person.
- 8:02SPEAKER_00: I'm loaded with John's comment.
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: Yes, he was human, but he was also God.
- 8:12So if you just got done saying only God knows,
- 8:15then I am wrestling with that.
- 8:18And maybe there's just some things I have to accept that I
- 8:21would wrestle with.
- 8:22SPEAKER_00: The other thing that I'm also wrestling with, because
- 8:25SPEAKER_00: When John says,
- 8:25SPEAKER_00: and I'm very much the same,
- 8:27SPEAKER_00: that he hangs on the red letter,
- 8:29SPEAKER_00: we're going from someone that recorded this,
- 8:33SPEAKER_00: that's a person.
- 8:35And remember the game telephone where someone would say
- 8:38something at the beginning
- 8:39SPEAKER_00: and by the time?
- 8:40SPEAKER_00: And all the way to the end, it had changed a little bit.
- 8:43SPEAKER_00: How do we, you know what I mean?
- 8:44SPEAKER_00: Like that's,
- 8:45I just feel like I just jumped in the deep end of a muddy pool
- 8:49and splashed over
- 8:50SPEAKER_00: everything.
- 8:52SPEAKER_00: That's what I was thinking.
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: And you asked me brother.
- 8:55SPEAKER_00: So there you go.
- 8:56Yep.
- 8:58SPEAKER_03: Well, again, let's face it.
- 9:04SPEAKER_03: It's a mystery.
- 9:05SPEAKER_03: We don't quite get that.
- 9:07SPEAKER_03: how Jesus can be fully God and fully human,
- 9:11how Jesus can be God and talk to himself as if God is somewhere
- 9:15else and pray to
- 9:17SPEAKER_03: God,
- 9:18SPEAKER_03: right?
- 9:18SPEAKER_03: There are just some things we don't understand.
- 9:21One of the challenges that we have as Christians is that when
- 9:28we're reading through
- 9:28SPEAKER_03: the story of Jesus,
- 9:31SPEAKER_03: his ministry years,
- 9:34SPEAKER_03: his death and resurrection,
- 9:36SPEAKER_03: we read it through the lens that this is God.
- 9:41SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 9:42We need to read it through the lens that this is a human being
- 9:47who is sharing
- 9:50SPEAKER_03: something about the radical nature of God,
- 9:53SPEAKER_03: who in the end,
- 9:54SPEAKER_03: through his death and resurrection,
- 9:56SPEAKER_03: proves to be God himself.
- 9:59SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 10:01SPEAKER_03: And we need to...
- 10:04SPEAKER_03: we need to come to terms with what it means that Jesus was human.
- 10:08SPEAKER_02: So,
- 10:09SPEAKER_03: for example,
- 10:10SPEAKER_03: if Jesus took a math test and got two wrong out of a hundred,
- 10:14SPEAKER_03: does that mean that he's less than God?
- 10:20SPEAKER_03: Can Jesus, the human, get math problems wrong and not us see it as a sin?
- 10:28SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 10:29SPEAKER_03: We tend to think of mistakes as being sinful.
- 10:35SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 10:36SPEAKER_03: Right?
- 10:37SPEAKER_03: Go ahead, Terry.
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: I think it's tied up in the word perfect.
- 10:42SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 10:47SPEAKER_03: Yes, I think so.
- 10:48SPEAKER_03: But I think we need to be cautious with that word perfect.
- 10:51SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 10:51SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 10:54SPEAKER_03: Because the Hebrews,
- 10:55SPEAKER_03: the writer of Hebrews says that Jesus was made like us in every way,
- 11:00SPEAKER_03: in every way,
- 11:03SPEAKER_03: except that he didn't sin.
- 11:06SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 11:06So he,
- 11:07which means that he was fully engaged with God,
- 11:12fully within the will of God.
- 11:13SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 11:16It didn't mean necessarily that he wouldn't punch his finger
- 11:21with a hammer and yell out.
- 11:26SPEAKER_03: It doesn't mean that he wouldn't lose his temper.
- 11:29SPEAKER_03: We knew he lost his temper.
- 11:34SPEAKER_03: And so we have to be careful.
- 11:37SPEAKER_03: And it's really hard.
- 11:38Because we read this through the lens of this Jesus is God who
- 11:42became a human being.
- 11:44SPEAKER_03: But we need to remember he was a human being like us.
- 11:48SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 11:48SPEAKER_00: One doesn't trump the other.
- 11:50SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 11:51And so to be human and to not have all the knowledge doesn't
- 11:57make him less than God.
- 11:58SPEAKER_03: It makes him fully human.
- 12:00SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 12:02SPEAKER_03: He could still bleed and die.
- 12:05SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 12:06SPEAKER_01: And I think you called it a mystery, right?
- 12:08And so Tim,
- 12:10the mystery is both uncomfortable and beautiful at the same
- 12:14time.
- 12:15for a guy living in 2025 that wants certainty right yeah but i
- 12:20think that you know
- 12:21even if i think of of jesus in the garden of gethsemane saying
- 12:26um you know take
- 12:28this cup of suffering from me but your will not mine seems to
- 12:33indicate that jesus
- 12:35the human and god there's that there's mystery right there that
- 12:39i mean yes the
- 12:40SPEAKER_01: timing of what's going to happen to him and what's about to happen and
- 12:44And like you said,
- 12:44this prayer to God as if he's only human,
- 12:48but not just fully human,
- 12:49right?
- 12:50SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 12:51SPEAKER_01: So the mystery is both uncomfortable, but also beautiful.
- 12:55SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 12:55SPEAKER_03: So I know we've got some other questions.
- 12:58SPEAKER_03: I want to be clear again for people.
- 13:00SPEAKER_03: I am not saying that Jesus, when he spoke truth, was wrong.
- 13:05I'm saying there's a possibility that in what he believed the
- 13:09timing of his second
- 13:10SPEAKER_03: coming could be that he was wrong.
- 13:14SPEAKER_03: That doesn't change the fact that he's coming back someday.
- 13:16SPEAKER_03: And he gave himself a way out.
- 13:20SPEAKER_03: He said, no one knows the day or the hour but the Father.
- 13:24SPEAKER_03: He said, not even the Son knows.
- 13:28SPEAKER_03: And so when he...
- 13:29SPEAKER_03: I was going to say,
- 13:32SPEAKER_03: when he's sort of giving these timelines,
- 13:35SPEAKER_03: he doesn't really know.
- 13:36And that's why you sort of see Jesus,
- 13:40the human,
- 13:41knowing he's coming back someday,
- 13:44SPEAKER_03: Well, is it going to be soon?
- 13:45SPEAKER_03: Is it not going to be soon?
- 13:46SPEAKER_03: And it's the same struggle the writers had in the New Testament.
- 13:50SPEAKER_03: And quite honestly, the same struggle we have in 2025.
- 13:52SPEAKER_03: It could be today now.
- 13:56SPEAKER_03: Or it might not be for another million years.
- 14:01SPEAKER_03: And anything in between.
- 14:03SPEAKER_03: Go ahead, Terry.
- 14:03SPEAKER_03: We'll give you the final one.
- 14:04No,
- 14:05I'm just saying he was speaking through the limitations of his
- 14:10humanity.
- 14:13SPEAKER_03: Right.
- 14:13SPEAKER_03: So, you know, he's speaking.
- 14:15SPEAKER_03: He didn't know English.
- 14:17SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 14:18SPEAKER_03: He didn't know French.
- 14:22SPEAKER_03: All he knew was Aramaic and Hebrew, maybe some Greek.
- 14:26SPEAKER_03: I mean, that's what it means to be human.
- 14:28He was living in the limitations of a human body in a human
- 14:33moment in history.
- 14:35And so everything that he says as a human being is in the
- 14:38context of what we would
- 14:41SPEAKER_03: now call first century Jerusalem under Roman Empire.
- 14:47SPEAKER_03: And that's his human context.
- 14:50And so we can't expect him in that human context to be talking
- 14:54about nuclear missiles
- 14:57SPEAKER_03: or to be talking about Abraham Lincoln being shot.
- 15:01SPEAKER_03: He didn't have that capacity.
- 15:04SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 15:04And you could ask the question,
- 15:05does God even know all that stuff up front?
- 15:07SPEAKER_03: But that would take us down a whole different rabbit hole.
- 15:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 15:15SPEAKER_01: We just want to stick with the rabbit holes we've already decided.
- 15:17SPEAKER_01: That's right.
- 15:19SPEAKER_03: So John's got some questions.
- 15:21SPEAKER_03: He's working with some youth kids,
- 15:23SPEAKER_03: and he asked them some questions,
- 15:24SPEAKER_03: and we thought some of them sounded interesting.
- 15:26SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 15:26I asked them to give me anonymous questions and they're an
- 15:30amazing group and they
- 15:32SPEAKER_01: gave me fantastic questions.
- 15:34SPEAKER_01: So I want to start with,
- 15:37SPEAKER_01: we might have a chance to get to three or four,
- 15:41SPEAKER_01: depending on where we go.
- 15:43SPEAKER_01: Here's the first one though.
- 15:45SPEAKER_01: Why do some people die and not get the chance to even meet God?
- 15:53SPEAKER_03: Right,
- 15:54SPEAKER_03: so we know that there are people throughout history who have died,
- 15:58SPEAKER_03: never heard the story of Jesus,
- 16:00SPEAKER_03: maybe never heard the story of God.
- 16:03You know,
- 16:03we're talking billions and billions of people over the course
- 16:07of human history.
- 16:10SPEAKER_03: And give me the exact wording of the question.
- 16:13SPEAKER_01: Why do some people die and not get the chance to even meet God?
- 16:18SPEAKER_03: Mm-hmm.
- 16:22SPEAKER_03: So I'm going to answer this two ways.
- 16:27SPEAKER_03: The first is, I believe they're going to get a chance to meet God.
- 16:31SPEAKER_03: That God is not bound by time or space.
- 16:34SPEAKER_03: He's not bound by the limitations of humanity as we know it, life, death.
- 16:41That even those who never had a chance to hear about Jesus are
- 16:45going to get to
- 16:46SPEAKER_03: stand face to face with Jesus and experience the love and grace of God.
- 16:51SPEAKER_03: So even though they maybe didn't get the chance here on earth,
- 16:54SPEAKER_03: they will get the chance,
- 16:56SPEAKER_03: and it will be a good one.
- 16:59SPEAKER_03: The second way I'll answer that question is by saying,
- 17:04SPEAKER_03: I'm not sure it's our responsibility to ask that question.
- 17:09SPEAKER_03: Our question should be,
- 17:11what can I do to help tell the story so that people do get to
- 17:18hear about Jesus and
- 17:19SPEAKER_03: about God?
- 17:22SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 17:26That's the answer I'm going to give,
- 17:27but I'll,
- 17:28I'll probably just take credit for it.
- 17:30SPEAKER_03: Well, go ahead.
- 17:31SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 17:31SPEAKER_03: Because I didn't make that up.
- 17:34SPEAKER_03: I stole it from somebody else.
- 17:37SPEAKER_01: So here's, yeah, here's the next question.
- 17:39SPEAKER_01: And this is a really good one too.
- 17:42SPEAKER_01: I don't understand why so many famous people mock God, like it's a trend.
- 17:47SPEAKER_01: Hmm.
- 17:50So I think we should hand this one off to the famous person in
- 17:53our group,
- 17:53Terry Summers.
- 17:55SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 17:56SPEAKER_03: Terry was Arizona Actress of the Year at one time.
- 18:01SPEAKER_01: Indeed.
- 18:01SPEAKER_03: Oh, my gosh.
- 18:04SPEAKER_03: She made a move.
- 18:05SPEAKER_03: Did you know that?
- 18:09SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you dropped out.
- 18:11SPEAKER_01: Tim said you made a movie with Charlie Sheen.
- 18:12SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I just want to make sure that that came through.
- 18:14SPEAKER_01: Oh, okay, yeah.
- 18:16SPEAKER_01: Charlie probably says, I made a movie with Terry Summers.
- 18:18SPEAKER_01: He probably is now, yeah.
- 18:21SPEAKER_03: And weren't you and Robert Redford big fans of each other?
- 18:25SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 18:26SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you got it all right.
- 18:29SPEAKER_00: Get that button again, Tim.
- 18:31SPEAKER_03: All right.
- 18:32SPEAKER_03: So there we built you up.
- 18:34SPEAKER_00: What's been your experience?
- 18:36SPEAKER_00: Only for me to fall.
- 18:39SPEAKER_00: John, can you say it one more time?
- 18:42SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 18:43SPEAKER_01: I don't understand why so many famous people mock God like it's a trend.
- 18:51SPEAKER_00: Well, gosh.
- 18:53SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 18:54SPEAKER_00: I think that the trend's been going on for a very long time.
- 18:57SPEAKER_00: If it is a trend, it's nothing new.
- 19:00SPEAKER_00: I don't believe.
- 19:01SPEAKER_00: And I know that.
- 19:05SPEAKER_00: I have.
- 19:07in the community that I have been in,
- 19:10which is,
- 19:11I have been up close with famous people.
- 19:15SPEAKER_00: And I have heard a lot said from famous people that is mocking.
- 19:20SPEAKER_00: But I see the perspective that they're viewing things from.
- 19:28And not to point fingers at the Christian community,
- 19:31I don't want to do that.
- 19:33SPEAKER_00: But I think there's been plenty of
- 19:37SPEAKER_00: harm done under the name of Christianity.
- 19:42And there was a season where I even clarified when I spoke of
- 19:46my faith that I was a
- 19:48SPEAKER_00: Christ follower,
- 19:49SPEAKER_00: a Jesus follower,
- 19:53SPEAKER_00: because it felt less pointed and that maybe I could be sort of somewhat
- 19:58SPEAKER_00: disassociated with the negativity that
- 20:00SPEAKER_00: And then I thought, well, then how am I helping?
- 20:03SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 20:03like if I'm removing myself so much that if I am anything
- 20:07different from what they
- 20:09SPEAKER_00: would mock,
- 20:10SPEAKER_00: then I didn't want to remove myself.
- 20:13But I feel that is in direct correlation with the absence of
- 20:21the message of love that I
- 20:26is often spoken underneath the banner of Christianity that you
- 20:32hit the hardest
- 20:34SPEAKER_00: with,
- 20:36SPEAKER_00: or it seems to hit hard with the artistic community in particular.
- 20:42SPEAKER_00: Um,
- 20:43and some of the things that they hold dear and some of the ways
- 20:46they express
- 20:47SPEAKER_00: themselves and,
- 20:49SPEAKER_00: um,
- 20:50SPEAKER_00: and with a more liberal thinking, um, critical mind.
- 20:54SPEAKER_00: So,
- 20:55SPEAKER_00: uh,
- 20:56SPEAKER_00: I know I'm speaking in broad strokes and maybe somewhat narrowly,
- 20:59SPEAKER_00: but I think it's related to that.
- 21:01SPEAKER_00: I think that it is the lack of love and, you know, um,
- 21:10SPEAKER_00: you know, those bugs, bug zappers.
- 21:13SPEAKER_00: I know I always come out of left field with these metaphors,
- 21:15SPEAKER_00: but the bugs are drawn not to get zapped,
- 21:19SPEAKER_00: but they're drawn to the light.
- 21:21SPEAKER_00: And I feel like we are missing.
- 21:24We,
- 21:24the Christian community is kind of missing that by not being
- 21:28the light that draws,
- 21:30um,
- 21:31SPEAKER_00: that draws people to us and then to be able to have conversations.
- 21:36SPEAKER_00: But I don't know.
- 21:37SPEAKER_00: Did I, was that too broad stroked for an answer?
- 21:40SPEAKER_03: I think it's spot on Terry.
- 21:41SPEAKER_03: I think, um, that I'll say it a bit more crassly there.
- 21:48SPEAKER_03: There's a lot to mock about Christianity and Christianity.
- 21:52A lot of people are hearing,
- 21:53which my argument is not really Christianity,
- 21:56right?
- 21:56SPEAKER_03: It lacks love.
- 21:57SPEAKER_03: It's judgmental.
- 21:58SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 21:59SPEAKER_03: Um,
- 22:00SPEAKER_03: At the same time,
- 22:01I would suggest that there are really a number of famous people
- 22:10who are sort of
- 22:12SPEAKER_03: coming out of the shadows talking about their faith.
- 22:15SPEAKER_03: Think of Chris Pratt.
- 22:18SPEAKER_03: And I mean, that guy's a goofball, right?
- 22:20SPEAKER_03: But man, he's a deeply committed Christian.
- 22:25SPEAKER_03: And several years ago,
- 22:27I had a chance to be in California and there was a meeting of
- 22:31people and they were
- 22:32SPEAKER_03: just talking about doing ministry with the Christians in Hollywood.
- 22:37SPEAKER_03: and how difficult it can be at times to be a Christian in Hollywood.
- 22:41And they just said there's so many of them there,
- 22:44and how to create a community for them.
- 22:46SPEAKER_03: The other thing I would say is,
- 22:49SPEAKER_03: my wife watches this more than I do,
- 22:51SPEAKER_03: but she watches The Voice religiously.
- 22:56SPEAKER_03: And the amount of Jesus stuff on that show,
- 23:02SPEAKER_03: is really quite incredible to me,
- 23:05SPEAKER_03: not only with contestants coming on and singing gospel songs,
- 23:08but many of the judges are just very open about the fact that
- 23:13they're faith people.
- 23:14SPEAKER_03: Michael Bublé and Reba McIntyre.
- 23:20SPEAKER_03: McIntyre, right.
- 23:21And Snoop Dogg keeps talking about how the Holy Ghost is
- 23:23showing up on the show.
- 23:25SPEAKER_03: And it's...
- 23:29SPEAKER_03: It's a version of Christianity that is,
- 23:34SPEAKER_03: I think,
- 23:34SPEAKER_03: first of all,
- 23:35SPEAKER_03: more playful,
- 23:37SPEAKER_03: more heartfelt,
- 23:40SPEAKER_03: more loving.
- 23:41And I think what you see is when people see Jesus for who Jesus
- 23:46really is,
- 23:47SPEAKER_03: there's traction to that.
- 23:50SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 23:52SPEAKER_03: I think that there are some good things happening out there
- 23:58SPEAKER_03: that if you look for it, you're going to get a chance to see it.
- 24:02SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 24:04SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 24:04And I don't want to gloss over what you just said,
- 24:06because I completely agree,
- 24:07Tim.
- 24:07I think that there is a little bit of courage being shown in
- 24:12those situations.
- 24:13SPEAKER_01: But what I want to make sure I was following Terry,
- 24:16SPEAKER_01: too,
- 24:16SPEAKER_01: is when you talk about,
- 24:19SPEAKER_01: and correct me if I'm wrong here,
- 24:21SPEAKER_01: Terry,
- 24:21but let's just say you're talking about whatever the A-list
- 24:24celebrities are.
- 24:25SPEAKER_01: These are people that are
- 24:27SPEAKER_01: loved and adored by millions,
- 24:31but they're feeling a lack of love from the Christian community
- 24:35for whatever
- 24:36SPEAKER_01: reason.
- 24:37SPEAKER_01: And that's their impression of Christianity and Jesus.
- 24:41SPEAKER_01: That is what's formed.
- 24:42I just think it's very ironic that we're talking about people
- 24:45that are adored by so many,
- 24:47SPEAKER_01: Except for maybe it's easier to identify a group where they're like,
- 24:52SPEAKER_01: I just don't understand what this group stands for.
- 24:55SPEAKER_01: And that's fair criticism, I think, at times.
- 24:58SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 24:59Not to come off goody-goody,
- 25:04but I think of the Bible talks about the fruits of the Spirit.
- 25:10SPEAKER_00: Love, joy, peace.
- 25:13Patience,
- 25:14goodness,
- 25:14kindness,
- 25:16gentleness,
- 25:17faithfulness,
- 25:18and self-control.
- 25:20And I don't see that anyone could mock that if that's what they
- 25:26were regularly experiencing.
- 25:30SPEAKER_00: I planted a lemon tree outside,
- 25:33SPEAKER_00: and if it did not grow lemons,
- 25:35SPEAKER_00: I would doubt that it was a lemon tree.
- 25:38SPEAKER_00: So I feel that's the dealio, you know?
- 25:44SPEAKER_01: And is it fair to then just mention, like, within the industry?
- 25:50SPEAKER_01: You know,
- 25:50SPEAKER_01: it's an industry that is based upon almost like winning the lottery,
- 25:57SPEAKER_01: and you can be denied winning the lottery for any reason.
- 26:01SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 26:01SPEAKER_01: For the length of your hair, for the...
- 26:04SPEAKER_01: thing that you said last Thursday, right?
- 26:07SPEAKER_00: All of it.
- 26:07SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 26:08And so isn't there pressure within the industry to sort of
- 26:12limit the reasons why
- 26:13SPEAKER_01: people may not want to hire you?
- 26:15SPEAKER_01: And if one of those reasons happens to be religion or faith, that's an...
- 26:19SPEAKER_01: That could be an eliminator.
- 26:21SPEAKER_00: Yes, absolutely.
- 26:23I mean,
- 26:23you just sort of stated it by broad stroking the color or your
- 26:29hair.
- 26:29SPEAKER_00: I mean, yes.
- 26:30SPEAKER_00: And everyone is super aware of that.
- 26:32SPEAKER_00: So I understand.
- 26:34SPEAKER_00: I mean, I understand.
- 26:36SPEAKER_00: I don't know that I want to.
- 26:39SPEAKER_00: I'm a little bit of both.
- 26:40SPEAKER_00: It's not that I don't want to walk the boat.
- 26:42SPEAKER_00: I also don't want to stand out.
- 26:46on the corner and holler,
- 26:49you know,
- 26:49where it's like bumping up against a cactus.
- 26:54SPEAKER_00: It's prickly.
- 26:56SPEAKER_00: But still, I understand why a lot of folks sort of hush a little bit.
- 27:02SPEAKER_00: One,
- 27:03SPEAKER_00: to not rock the boat for their own career,
- 27:06SPEAKER_00: because I think you're really quick to put yourself,
- 27:09SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 27:10SPEAKER_00: in a group of people that's just going to be ignored.
- 27:12SPEAKER_00: Now, I mean, going to be dismissed.
- 27:16SPEAKER_00: Um, but you know what I mean?
- 27:18SPEAKER_00: I think some of it is because dismissals happening on their end as well.
- 27:22SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 27:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 27:24SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 27:26SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 27:27I don't know if we answered the question,
- 27:28but I think that's totally fascinating.
- 27:30SPEAKER_03: I mean, Terry did a great job.
- 27:32SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 27:34SPEAKER_01: Excellent.
- 27:36SPEAKER_01: Well done.
- 27:38SPEAKER_01: Uh, one time for one more.
- 27:39SPEAKER_01: Do you think Tim?
- 27:40SPEAKER_01: Sure.
- 27:42SPEAKER_01: Um,
- 27:44SPEAKER_01: Is anxiety and stress from God?
- 27:47SPEAKER_01: If not, why does he let so many people have serious struggles with it?
- 27:52SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 27:53SPEAKER_03: Well, you've got three people right here who all have anxiety stuff.
- 27:57SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 27:59SPEAKER_03: So what I can say, it's not very God-like to go through stress, right?
- 28:05SPEAKER_03: It's a horrible experience to go through an anxiety attack, panic attack.
- 28:10SPEAKER_03: So the first thing I would say is,
- 28:13SPEAKER_03: Surprisingly,
- 28:14SPEAKER_03: yes,
- 28:14stress and anxiety come from God because they are powerful
- 28:19tools to help us know
- 28:20SPEAKER_03: that there's something wrong in our lives.
- 28:24SPEAKER_03: So stress actually protects us.
- 28:30SPEAKER_03: Anxiety can protect us.
- 28:32SPEAKER_03: So let's say that there's a coyote walking through your neighborhood and,
- 28:41SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 28:42SPEAKER_03: immediately your amygdala kicks in,
- 28:43SPEAKER_03: especially if you've got pets and you think,
- 28:46SPEAKER_03: okay,
- 28:47SPEAKER_03: I got to get my pets safe.
- 28:48SPEAKER_03: I got to make sure my dog's in the house, my cat's in the house.
- 28:51SPEAKER_03: That's a good thing.
- 28:52SPEAKER_01: Or children.
- 28:53SPEAKER_01: I'll just say, or children.
- 28:54SPEAKER_03: Yeah, or children, yeah.
- 28:55SPEAKER_03: But they tend to stay away from kids.
- 28:57So just so people know,
- 28:59if you don't have coyotes,
- 29:00they tend to stay away from kids.
- 29:01SPEAKER_03: But yes, your kids.
- 29:03SPEAKER_03: But I'm way past that now, so I have dogs.
- 29:07SPEAKER_03: And if you're going into a meeting,
- 29:12SPEAKER_03: let's say,
- 29:12SPEAKER_03: or Terry,
- 29:13SPEAKER_03: you know this,
- 29:13SPEAKER_03: John,
- 29:14SPEAKER_03: when you're performing,
- 29:17SPEAKER_03: stress becomes a good energy that you harness, right?
- 29:21So there are some really,
- 29:23stress and anxiety are gifts that God has given to us.
- 29:27SPEAKER_03: It's when they're out of control,
- 29:30SPEAKER_03: as with many good things,
- 29:33SPEAKER_03: when they're out of control,
- 29:34SPEAKER_03: that they become detrimental to our lives.
- 29:40SPEAKER_03: And that's not from God, right?
- 29:43SPEAKER_03: That's just a part of the human experience.
- 29:47A lot of stress and anxiety really comes from the way that we
- 29:49interpret events.
- 29:52This could be a life or death situation,
- 29:54and suddenly your anxiety grows,
- 29:57and it's not.
- 29:57SPEAKER_03: You're just choosing between this color or that color.
- 30:00SPEAKER_03: But everything is heightened.
- 30:02There are a lot of things happening in our world in 2025 that
- 30:06have amped up stress
- 30:09SPEAKER_03: and anxiety levels.
- 30:10SPEAKER_03: From our divided political world that we're in to wars overseas,
- 30:16SPEAKER_03: of course,
- 30:18SPEAKER_03: algorithms and social media have put stress and anxiety on steroids,
- 30:23SPEAKER_03: especially in our kids.
- 30:27SPEAKER_03: None of that is from God.
- 30:29SPEAKER_03: And so when we're feeling like our stress is out of control...
- 30:35SPEAKER_03: God comes to us with these promises and says,
- 30:39SPEAKER_03: cast all your cares onto Jesus because he cares for you.
- 30:43SPEAKER_03: And when I was going through the worst of my anxiety,
- 30:46SPEAKER_03: one of the books I read,
- 30:47SPEAKER_03: this person said,
- 30:49SPEAKER_03: delegate upward.
- 30:51SPEAKER_03: So if you're stressed about something, delegate it upward.
- 30:54SPEAKER_03: And she was basically saying, cast all your cares onto Jesus.
- 30:57SPEAKER_03: And the mental act of saying,
- 30:59I'm worried about this and just placing it in God's hands was
- 31:02one tool for calming
- 31:04SPEAKER_03: down.
- 31:05SPEAKER_03: Jesus says, why worry?
- 31:07SPEAKER_03: Can worry add anything?
- 31:09SPEAKER_03: Can you add another fingernail to your hand by worrying about it?
- 31:12SPEAKER_03: Well, no, of course not.
- 31:16SPEAKER_03: And so Jesus says, take a breath.
- 31:19SPEAKER_03: Let tomorrow's worries be tomorrow's worries.
- 31:25SPEAKER_03: But I want to add this.
- 31:28When I was going through anxiety,
- 31:31I would once in a while hear sermons about
- 31:34SPEAKER_03: that talk about God doesn't want us to be anxious.
- 31:38SPEAKER_03: And so if you're anxious, you're doing something wrong.
- 31:42And rather than being a promise or a word of hope,
- 31:45it became a word of guilt and shame.
- 31:49SPEAKER_03: And that's not what Jesus is saying at all.
- 31:53Jesus is saying,
- 31:54I want to relieve you of this because I know it hurts you.
- 31:58SPEAKER_03: It's not good for you.
- 32:01But sometimes we need more than just the promise to cast all
- 32:04our cares onto Jesus.
- 32:07SPEAKER_03: Sometimes we need help.
- 32:10SPEAKER_03: People with addictions need help.
- 32:12SPEAKER_03: People with cancer need help.
- 32:14SPEAKER_03: People with diabetes need help.
- 32:16SPEAKER_03: People with anxiety out of control need help.
- 32:19SPEAKER_03: People with depression need help.
- 32:21SPEAKER_03: And one of the gifts that God gives to us are people who can help us.
- 32:25SPEAKER_03: And so whether it's seeing a therapist or
- 32:29SPEAKER_03: or it's learning breathing exercises,
- 32:32SPEAKER_03: or it's even getting some medication because sometimes for people it's a
- 32:36SPEAKER_03: biochemical problem.
- 32:38SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 32:39These are all tools that God has given to us to help us manage
- 32:42our stress and
- 32:43SPEAKER_03: anxiety,
- 32:44SPEAKER_03: not to feel guilty about it,
- 32:45SPEAKER_03: but to manage it.
- 32:48SPEAKER_03: And so I, yes, these are gifts that God has given to us.
- 32:54SPEAKER_03: Sometimes they can become, they get out of control.
- 32:58But then Jesus gives us other gifts to help us manage those
- 33:02things that have gotten
- 33:03SPEAKER_03: out of control.
- 33:05SPEAKER_03: And so for people who are feeling stressed and anxious,
- 33:10SPEAKER_03: and the three of us can tell you a lot of stories about that,
- 33:14SPEAKER_03: there is help,
- 33:15SPEAKER_03: right?
- 33:16SPEAKER_03: And I can't tell you I never have high anxiety levels.
- 33:20I still get them from time to time,
- 33:22but not nearly like I used to because I got the help.
- 33:26SPEAKER_03: I've done the work.
- 33:30SPEAKER_03: And I see all of that as gifts that God has given to me because God says,
- 33:36SPEAKER_03: don't be anxious about anything.
- 33:38SPEAKER_03: That's not meant to guilt us.
- 33:41SPEAKER_03: He's just saying, let go of that stuff.
- 33:43SPEAKER_03: Don't be anxious about it.
- 33:44But in everything with prayer and petition,
- 33:45with thanksgiving,
- 33:48let us be made known to God.
- 33:50SPEAKER_03: Give the stress to God.
- 33:52SPEAKER_03: But sometimes we need some tools to help us with that.
- 33:55SPEAKER_01: Um,
- 33:55SPEAKER_03: you've,
- 33:56you've had experience and then John will let you have the last
- 33:58word on that because
- 33:58SPEAKER_03: you've had experiences with it as well.
- 34:01SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 34:02SPEAKER_03: Both positive and negative.
- 34:03SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 34:04SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 34:06SPEAKER_00: Um, and I, uh, in, in light of the question, um,
- 34:14SPEAKER_00: I agree with you, Tim.
- 34:15SPEAKER_00: And, you know, I've had very paralyzing anxiety.
- 34:23SPEAKER_00: I was just listening and reminiscing.
- 34:25SPEAKER_00: I knew you struggled with it, but I went to the emergency.
- 34:29SPEAKER_00: And I remember you coming to see me in the emergency when I was like you.
- 34:33SPEAKER_00: So it was like two people that struggled in a similar way were both...
- 34:38SPEAKER_00: facing that, or at least you were there for me, but I have learned...
- 34:45SPEAKER_00: some tools and,
- 34:47SPEAKER_00: and I was able really to put,
- 34:49SPEAKER_00: to put it away or not so much put it away,
- 34:51SPEAKER_00: but I mean,
- 34:52SPEAKER_00: manage it.
- 34:53SPEAKER_00: And then when I lost Jonathan,
- 34:54SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 34:55SPEAKER_00: panic,
- 34:56SPEAKER_00: a little different shape of anxiety started showing up,
- 35:01SPEAKER_00: but I have learned so much from it.
- 35:06SPEAKER_00: I feel like it's also, um,
- 35:10SPEAKER_00: increase my empathy for others,
- 35:14SPEAKER_00: honed,
- 35:15SPEAKER_00: like I'm already off the charts sensitive,
- 35:18SPEAKER_00: but in terms of being gracious.
- 35:22And so I see it as not,
- 35:27I don't want to sound like,
- 35:29well,
- 35:30it doesn't matter.
- 35:31SPEAKER_00: I see it.
- 35:32SPEAKER_00: It has been hindsight.
- 35:34SPEAKER_00: And as I look at it now, I don't see it as an enemy.
- 35:37SPEAKER_00: I see it as
- 35:41my body is telling me something and there are really good
- 35:44reasons why it's doing
- 35:46that and if it wasn't doing that i might have other things that
- 35:51take place that
- 35:52would be much worse or or derail me in other ways so i do see
- 35:56it as um an asset in
- 36:00SPEAKER_00: those ways yeah well said yeah yeah
- 36:04SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 36:04SPEAKER_01: And I would just add that,
- 36:07SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 36:07there's for those folks that are listening that are working
- 36:10through some anxiety,
- 36:12SPEAKER_01: depression,
- 36:12SPEAKER_01: panic,
- 36:13SPEAKER_01: those kind of things.
- 36:14SPEAKER_01: Number one, you're not broken.
- 36:16SPEAKER_01: Like there's not something wrong with you.
- 36:19SPEAKER_01: And unfortunately,
- 36:21SPEAKER_01: because it involves some mental health stuff,
- 36:23SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 36:23SPEAKER_01: culturally speaking,
- 36:24SPEAKER_01: there's we allow some stigma to be attached to that.
- 36:27SPEAKER_01: And I just want to eradicate that.
- 36:30SPEAKER_01: I think,
- 36:31SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 36:31SPEAKER_01: Tim,
- 36:32SPEAKER_01: what he said earlier was,
- 36:33SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 36:33SPEAKER_01: if there was,
- 36:34SPEAKER_01: if you had cancer in your thigh,
- 36:37SPEAKER_01: you would go get help for that.
- 36:38SPEAKER_01: And I encourage people to look at it like that.
- 36:40SPEAKER_01: There's nothing wrong with you.
- 36:42And then also,
- 36:43I think one of the big learnings for me was just,
- 36:45you know,
- 36:48SPEAKER_01: and Terry just said this,
- 36:49SPEAKER_01: I'm just gonna say it a little bit differently,
- 36:50SPEAKER_01: but the,
- 36:51SPEAKER_01: the feelings that go along with that are not something that,
- 36:54that you look to eradicate so much as you look to see more as a
- 36:59companion that,
- 37:00SPEAKER_01: that walks with you in some uncomfortable ways.
- 37:03SPEAKER_01: And that,
- 37:04SPEAKER_01: that was really big for me to understand that both of those things,
- 37:08SPEAKER_01: um,
- 37:08SPEAKER_01: and really want to be encouraging for anyone.
- 37:10SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 37:10SPEAKER_01: Anyone who's, who's hearing my voice right now, you know, uh,
- 37:14SPEAKER_01: Excellent tools,
- 37:15SPEAKER_01: guides in the Bible,
- 37:17SPEAKER_01: excellent tools that Tim mentioned that are available for you and people,
- 37:22SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 37:22through church or whatever community and standing by to give
- 37:24you a hand in that
- 37:25SPEAKER_01: way.
- 37:26SPEAKER_03: Yeah, that's right.
- 37:28Um,
- 37:28so I know that John has some excellent questions that he didn't
- 37:32get to today.
- 37:33So we're going to do a question box part two and we'll get back
- 37:37to some of those
- 37:38SPEAKER_03: because there's some,
- 37:38SPEAKER_03: there's some good ones in that pile.
- 37:40SPEAKER_03: So we're going to come back to those next time.
- 37:43SPEAKER_03: Uh, Terry, thank you so much.
- 37:45SPEAKER_00: Yes, thank you.
- 37:46SPEAKER_03: It's always good to have a famous person's perspective on all this.
- 37:49SPEAKER_01: So good.
- 37:50SPEAKER_01: So good.
- 37:50SPEAKER_03: And John, we did the discussion today.
- 37:53SPEAKER_03: And for all of you listening,
- 37:55SPEAKER_03: hey,
- 37:55SPEAKER_03: if you find this podcast helpful,
- 37:58SPEAKER_03: please share it with your friends.
- 38:00SPEAKER_03: And we'll be back with you next time.
- 38:01The Deep Grace Diving Podcast with Terry Summers,
- 38:06John D.
- 38:06Burgess,
- 38:07and Tim Wright.
- 38:08SPEAKER_03: Thanks, everyone.
- 38:10SPEAKER_00: Bye.