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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hi, everyone. Welcome back to our Regretful Parents series. I'm Kristen.
- 0:04Speaker 2: And I'm Erica.
- 0:05Speaker 1: And today we're gifting you a post on the I
- 0:09Speaker 1: Regret Having Children Facebook page that's very different from our
- 0:13Speaker 1: usual Regretful Parents content. But this post has so much engagement.
- 0:19Speaker 1: It's basically a news article that I think it's worth
- 0:22Speaker 1: going through.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Spicy.
- 0:25Speaker 1: I'm very tempted to show you a picture, but I'm
- 0:27Speaker 1: going to wait till the end. Okay.
- 0:30Speaker 2: Okay, so. Wait, why won't you show me the picture?
- 0:33Speaker 2: That's so mysterious.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Well, I think we have to have the context first.
- 0:38Speaker 2: Okay.
- 0:39Speaker 1: Before I judge people. So, this starts with, I think
- 0:45Speaker 1: this is the title of an article.
- 0:47Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Let me repeat that.
- 1:02Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:03Speaker 1: A 67-year-old grandmother was the sole breadwinner for a 20-person
- 1:08Speaker 1: household after her adult son moved in with his 16 children.
- 1:14Speaker 2: Okay. Do you want to read it one more time?
- 1:18Speaker 1: Just kidding. But I think that requires some extra attention
- 1:23Speaker 1: to sink in. So, yeah, a grandma... now has 20
- 1:28Speaker 1: people in her fucking house and she's paying for them.
- 1:30Speaker 1: The article reads, New court filings in the horrifying Ohio
- 1:34Speaker 1: case involving 16 children found living in deplorable conditions reveal
- 1:39Speaker 1: another disturbing layer to the story. The children's 67-year-old grandmother
- 1:44Speaker 1: was allegedly financially supporting the entire 20-person household by herself.
- 1:51Speaker 2: Another thing that's throwing me off about this, just as
- 1:53Speaker 2: a quick aside and then we'll get back to the story,
- 1:56Speaker 2: is people in our discord were just talking about a
- 1:59Speaker 2: couple in arcadia that i i was like oh my
- 2:02Speaker 2: god we have to do an episode about this you saw.
- 2:03Speaker 1: That yeah i saw that too yeah where it was
- 2:05Speaker 1: different than this a.
- 2:06Speaker 2: Family that has 27 children and they were like beating
- 2:09Speaker 2: their kids like what the fuck is going on with
- 2:11Speaker 2: these huge ass families lately.
- 2:13Speaker 1: I know it's crazy but also like could you imagine
- 2:16Speaker 1: you're a 67 year old grandma you think you're done
- 2:19Speaker 1: with your kids And then your fucking son comes up
- 2:22Speaker 1: and goes, Mom, we have nowhere to go. You have
- 2:24Speaker 1: to take us in. Me, my wife and our 16 children.
- 2:28Speaker 2: I just can't fathom because I would be like, who
- 2:32Speaker 2: are you? Have we met? Yeah. Not in my house.
- 2:38Speaker 1: So Christina Siders lives with her husband, Gary Siders Sr.
- 2:43Speaker 1: in Hamden, Ohio. According to her attorney, what had been
- 2:47Speaker 1: a two-person household became a household of 20 when the
- 2:52Speaker 1: couple's adult son, Gary, moved in with his wife, Elizabeth,
- 2:56Speaker 1: and their 16 children. Wow. Just reading the word 16 children.
- 3:03Speaker 2: Makes you want to crawl out of your skin.
- 3:05Speaker 1: My stomach is just, like, in my feet. Like, I
- 3:10Speaker 1: feel nauseous. It's so bad. Christina's attorney says she remained
- 3:15Speaker 1: the only adult in the home consistently providing financially for everyone,
- 3:20Speaker 1: paying the rent, utilities, and other household necessities for herself,
- 3:24Speaker 1: her husband... her adult son, her daughter-in-law, and all 16 grandchildren.
- 3:29Speaker 2: What the fuck does she do? Because I would love
- 3:31Speaker 2: to know what kind of job can provide for 20 people.
- 3:35Speaker 1: I'm curious, too. I don't know if they're going to
- 3:37Speaker 1: get into that at all. I'm also very confused. But
- 3:41Speaker 1: something tells me it can't be that much because she's,
- 3:43Speaker 1: I mean, not, you know, a lot of rich people rent.
- 3:46Speaker 1: But the fact that she's a 67-year-old woman and they're
- 3:50Speaker 1: renting is surprising to me. You kind of think like.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
- 3:54Speaker 1: You own a home.
- 3:54Speaker 2: You need a little more stability.
- 3:55Speaker 1: As you get older, yeah.
- 3:57Speaker 2: Maybe they live in a shoe.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe this is just a fairy tale written as
- 4:03Speaker 1: a horror story. So, meanwhile, Christina was also caring for
- 4:08Speaker 1: her 73-year-old husband, whose medical problems are reportedly so serious
- 4:14Speaker 1: that a judge ultimately released him from custody because his
- 4:17Speaker 1: need for frequent medical attention. He has since been found
- 4:20Speaker 1: incompetent to stand trial because of irreversible cognitive decline. So
- 4:26Speaker 1: my understanding is like there's something going on with her husband.
- 4:29Speaker 1: So she's the caretaker, caregiver. Oh God, not the caretaker.
- 4:34Speaker 1: It sounds like she's digging a hole. She's the caregiver
- 4:37Speaker 1: to her husband, which seemingly has like dementia. And she's
- 4:40Speaker 1: also taking care of Of 19 other people, basically.
- 4:45Speaker 2: At what point does the state jump in, you know?
- 4:48Speaker 1: Well, I kind of think that's what's happening because they're
- 4:50Speaker 1: saying they removed him from custody. So they clearly, I
- 4:52Speaker 1: don't know. Okay, we'll keep going. Someone is intervening.
- 4:55Speaker 2: Yes.
- 4:55Speaker 1: But what authorities found inside the home in June was horrific.
- 4:59Speaker 1: The 16 children, ranging from about 18 months to 18 years,
- 5:03Speaker 1: were reportedly kept mostly inside a 12 by 12 foot
- 5:07Speaker 1: room contaminated, uh-oh, with human feces. Authorities said the children
- 5:13Speaker 1: were not enrolled in school and neighbors reportedly had rarely,
- 5:16Speaker 1: if ever, seen them.
- 5:17Speaker 2: I mean, yeah. How many bathrooms could they possibly have?
- 5:23Speaker 2: It's like 20 people. Somebody's got to be using the
- 5:26Speaker 2: bathroom at all times, right? It's unfathomable. Yeah.
- 5:30Speaker 1: I can't even comprehend that.
- 5:32Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:32Speaker 1: Seven children were taken to the hospital after being removed
- 5:34Speaker 1: from the home. Two had to be airlifted to a
- 5:38Speaker 1: level one trauma center. And one was initially reported to
- 5:42Speaker 1: be in critical condition. Holy shit. Vinton County Sheriff Ryan
- 5:47Speaker 1: Kane said that the conditions were so poor that most
- 5:50Speaker 1: of our livestock was kept in better conditions than the children. Yeah.
- 5:56Speaker 1: Ohio Attorney General said investigators were concerned that they could
- 5:59Speaker 1: have been dealing with the death of one or more
- 6:02Speaker 1: children had authorities arrived even a day later. Wow. All
- 6:07Speaker 1: four adults in the home, Christina, her husband, their adult son,
- 6:10Speaker 1: and his wife were arrested. Christina now faces 19 counts
- 6:14Speaker 1: of child endangerment and has pleaded not guilty. Her attorney
- 6:17Speaker 1: is asking for the court to reduce her $ 300, 000 bond,
- 6:20Speaker 1: arguing in part that Christina had never previously been charged
- 6:24Speaker 1: with a crime and that the grandchildren were in her
- 6:26Speaker 1: home because her adult son and his family chose to
- 6:29Speaker 1: move in with her.
- 6:31Speaker 2: Christina's the 67-year-old? Mm-hmm. This lady is not liable at all.
- 6:37Speaker 2: She's the only one who is trying to take any accountability,
- 6:42Speaker 2: I think. Justice for Christina.
- 6:46Speaker 1: Isn't this crazy? I mean, OK, so I don't know
- 6:48Speaker 1: the deal with Christina, but like.
- 6:52Speaker 2: Wait, can I say something really quick? Sorry. Can you
- 6:54Speaker 2: hold that thought? I'm just thinking, first of all, Christina
- 6:57Speaker 2: could never be on the regretful parents sub because she's
- 7:01Speaker 2: too busy taking care of 19 people in her household.
- 7:04Speaker 2: But if she was like if we read a regretful
- 7:07Speaker 2: parents post that was like, I have 19 people living
- 7:10Speaker 2: in my house and I'm the only one with a job,
- 7:12Speaker 2: we would be like, this is fake. Yeah.
- 7:15Speaker 1: No, I that's why I was like, is this even real?
- 7:17Speaker 1: But like, I mean, it seems legit. And like you said,
- 7:20Speaker 1: there's another news article we read about a similar story.
- 7:23Speaker 1: So it's not that far fetched. I mean, it's funny because,
- 7:25Speaker 1: you know, it keeps coming up. I keep seeing things
- 7:28Speaker 1: in the media about grandparents' rights. Have you heard about?
- 7:33Speaker 1: Have you seen this like floating around the Internet recently?
- 7:37Speaker 2: We've talked about doing an episode about this before.
- 7:38Speaker 1: Grandparental rights. Yeah. And it's like, yeah, obviously, like grandparents
- 7:42Speaker 1: have no right to your child. Like, you could be
- 7:45Speaker 1: estranged from your dad and you have a kid and
- 7:48Speaker 1: then your dad's like, I demand to see my grandkid.
- 7:50Speaker 1: It's like, that's cool. Not legally. Legally, you don't got
- 7:55Speaker 1: a fucking case, you know? And you see, like, grandparents who, like,
- 7:59Speaker 1: threaten to, like, sue or do legally intervene. And it's like,
- 8:04Speaker 1: you do not have any rights. So in this case, similarly,
- 8:07Speaker 1: it's like, how could a grandmother... Yes, it's under her roof,
- 8:13Speaker 1: but it's like the parents live there. Aren't the parents
- 8:16Speaker 1: responsible for the kids?
- 8:18Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm not a lawyer yet, but I
- 8:20Speaker 2: have a hard time believing that she'll be found criminally
- 8:23Speaker 2: liable since she was the only one being even a
- 8:27Speaker 2: little bit responsible. But who knows?
- 8:29Speaker 1: $ 300, 000 bond. I also.
- 8:32Speaker 2: could see under the current administration there being some kind
- 8:35Speaker 2: of case that leads to grandparents getting some kind of
- 8:38Speaker 2: legal rights. I would not be surprised if they're working
- 8:41Speaker 2: on that, given how crazy these people are. Yeah.
- 8:44Speaker 1: Yeah. Obviously, being financially overwhelmed does not excuse children living
- 8:48Speaker 1: in dangerous conditions, and prosecutors will ultimately have to establish
- 8:51Speaker 1: each defendant's individual responsibility in court. The one detail in
- 8:55Speaker 1: this case that makes me wrinkle my nose in an
- 8:58Speaker 1: entirely different direction. So I guess this is like OP
- 9:03Speaker 1: mixed with this news article. One detail in this case
- 9:07Speaker 1: that makes me wrinkle my nose in an entirely different
- 9:09Speaker 1: direction is how did a 67-year-old woman become responsible for
- 9:14Speaker 1: financially supporting her adult son, his wife, their 16 children,
- 9:20Speaker 1: and her medically fragile husband all at the same time?
- 9:23Speaker 2: Yeah, my brain is flatlining because I can't.
- 9:27Speaker 1: It's literally a classroom of people. Like when I think
- 9:31Speaker 1: of like what is 20 to me, that's like.
- 9:33Speaker 2: It's a kindergarten classroom.
- 9:35Speaker 1: It's exactly. It's like where I went to school growing up.
- 9:38Speaker 1: And fitting them all in a room that's the size
- 9:43Speaker 1: of my bedroom.
- 9:44Speaker 2: I mean, that's literally, girl, that's a dinky trip full
- 9:47Speaker 2: of people.
- 9:48Speaker 1: It's a dinky trip full of people. It's just from
- 9:51Speaker 1: what they say, like 18 months to 18 years old.
- 9:54Speaker 1: Maybe I shouldn't say this on the internet. But I
- 9:57Speaker 1: genuinely surprised more people. don't unalive themselves in these types
- 10:02Speaker 1: of situations.
- 10:02Speaker 2: I know. I think in situations like this, I mean,
- 10:04Speaker 2: at least for the 67 year olds, it's like you
- 10:06Speaker 2: have such a high level of. Demand on you that
- 10:12Speaker 2: I think that they're just at a place where they're like,
- 10:14Speaker 2: I can't. I can't because everyone else around me will
- 10:18Speaker 2: die if I'm gone.
- 10:21Speaker 1: It's just like there are people living like this, you know,
- 10:23Speaker 1: in like Ohio. And like they don't leave the house.
- 10:26Speaker 1: Like the neighbors don't see them. Like that's crazy. That's crazy.
- 10:31Speaker 1: And they're not going to school. But like, ultimately, it's like,
- 10:34Speaker 1: what is the grandma? Grandma can't force her grandkids to
- 10:37Speaker 1: go to school. That shouldn't be her legal responsibility.
- 10:40Speaker 2: Grandma has her own problems. Grandma's dealing with a lot.
- 10:44Speaker 2: I think we need to take grandma off the table.
- 10:47Speaker 2: I'm wondering where is the federal government? Where's the local government? Yeah. Obviously,
- 10:53Speaker 2: we have a record of these children. They have social
- 10:55Speaker 2: security numbers. I would assume. Who's checking in? Yeah.
- 11:00Speaker 1: No, it's crazy. 16? I'm like, is there like multiple wives?
- 11:05Speaker 1: Did one woman give birth to 16 children?
- 11:07Speaker 2: I think so. I think so.
- 11:11Speaker 1: I know people in families of eight, and I'm like,
- 11:14Speaker 1: that's fucking crazy. Doubling my level of fucking crazy?
- 11:20Speaker 2: I mean, you remember 19 Kids and Counting, right? Did
- 11:24Speaker 2: you ever watch that show? Is that like the Duggars? Yeah,
- 11:27Speaker 2: the Duggars.
- 11:28Speaker 1: OK, I didn't really watch it, but I know of them. Yeah,
- 11:31Speaker 1: I know them because they're all over the news all
- 11:33Speaker 1: the time.
- 11:34Speaker 2: Well, all the time. Yeah, because now they're like convicted
- 11:37Speaker 2: of like being like a sex ring or something.
- 11:39Speaker 1: Yeah, right, right.
- 11:40Speaker 2: Allegedly, allegedly. I don't know. There's a lot of shit happening.
- 11:43Speaker 1: I think it's Josh Duggar.
- 11:45Speaker 2: Allegedly.
- 11:45Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe I got the name wrong. Don't
- 11:47Speaker 1: sue me. OK, so the story continues. At some point,
- 11:51Speaker 1: she had raised her son, and somehow decades later, she
- 11:54Speaker 1: was still supporting him. Except now, he came with a
- 11:57Speaker 1: wife and 16 dependents. This is one of those stories
- 12:00Speaker 1: that illustrates something we talk about here often. Having children
- 12:04Speaker 1: does not necessarily mean that your financial responsibility ends with
- 12:07Speaker 1: those children when they reach adulthood. Sometimes the adult child
- 12:11Speaker 1: continues to need housing. Sometimes they need money. Sometimes they
- 12:15Speaker 1: have children of their own whom they cannot adequately support.
- 12:19Speaker 1: And suddenly grandma is not only still supporting the child
- 12:22Speaker 1: she gave birth to, she's supporting the family that the
- 12:25Speaker 1: child created too. In this case, according to the defense,
- 12:30Speaker 1: one older woman went from financially maintaining a household of
- 12:34Speaker 1: two to financially maintaining a household of 20. Every time
- 12:42Speaker 1: I say it, I can't believe it.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Wait, I'm sorry. I just wanted to Google this to
- 12:47Speaker 2: make sure that it was a real story because I
- 12:49Speaker 2: was like, if we get to the end of this
- 12:50Speaker 2: and find out that it's fake, I'm going to be
- 12:52Speaker 2: so fucking mad. And I saw, I wonder if this
- 12:54Speaker 2: is the picture that you were trying to avoid me
- 12:57Speaker 2: seeing when I saw the picture of her.
- 12:58Speaker 1: Yeah, goddammit.
- 13:00Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but that is how I would feel. If
- 13:04Speaker 2: I was her. Well, let's get there.
- 13:07Speaker 1: I only have a few more sentences left.
- 13:09Speaker 2: I'm sorry. We need to get Travelocity in here. This
- 13:13Speaker 2: lady needs a vacation.
- 13:15Speaker 1: We need to get Travelocity.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Stacey London on the call. She needs her hair done.
- 13:23Speaker 2: She needs a makeover. This lady has been done dirty.
- 13:30Speaker 2: That's all.
- 13:32Speaker 1: I mean, here's the thing. I'm I'm with you. But also,
- 13:37Speaker 1: I don't know. What if this woman was a terrible mother?
- 13:40Speaker 1: What if she's like what if she.
- 13:43Speaker 2: I don't care how terrible you are. If you come
- 13:45Speaker 2: in here with your 16 fucking kids and I'm the
- 13:49Speaker 2: only one working. All my sins are forgiven.
- 13:53Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 13:53Speaker 2: Immediately.
- 13:54Speaker 1: Immediately.
- 13:55Speaker 2: She's the only one providing a roof for these people.
- 13:58Speaker 2: Erica's like, I put food.
- 14:00Speaker 1: On the table. I put a roof over your head.
- 14:02Speaker 1: You must... Give me an Expedia gift certificate.
- 14:07Speaker 2: If I was that bad of a mom, you best
- 14:09Speaker 2: not be coming back to my rented ass house with
- 14:12Speaker 2: your kids putting fecal matter on my floors. Please. Okay.
- 14:20Speaker 2: All right.
- 14:21Speaker 1: Well, she was doing it all while taking care of
- 14:24Speaker 1: an aging spouse. Whatever the criminal courts ultimately determined about
- 14:27Speaker 1: Christina's responsibility for what happened inside that house, that particular
- 14:31Speaker 1: part of the story is bleak all by itself. Because
- 14:34Speaker 1: retirement age apparently did not mean retirement, it meant 19 dependents.
- 14:40Speaker 2: No. I don't even understand why the story is even
- 14:44Speaker 2: focused on her. She has two children, two adults.
- 14:50Speaker 1: I think, well, in the context of regretful parents, like,
- 14:56Speaker 1: do you think that this woman is experiencing regret?
- 15:02Speaker 2: That lady has not a shred of joy in her eyes.
- 15:11Speaker 1: Is this the scariest thing you've seen today? Could you
- 15:19Speaker 1: imagine that was your legacy? People talk about legacy. Oh,
- 15:23Speaker 1: I got to have kids because I want everyone to
- 15:27Speaker 1: know my bloodline. This is your bloodline. And you're going
- 15:31Speaker 1: to die knowing that's your bloodline.
- 15:34Speaker 2: It's not even that her family has aged her. They
- 15:38Speaker 2: have sucked the life out of her soul.
- 15:42Speaker 1: You're right.
- 15:43Speaker 2: You're right.
- 15:44Speaker 1: She looks like.
- 15:46Speaker 2: I've never seen anyone who looks like that.
- 15:48Speaker 1: She needs a spa day.
- 15:50Speaker 2: She needs. Just one.
- 15:52Speaker 1: Just one little spa day. And she's going to look
- 15:56Speaker 1: good as new.
- 15:57Speaker 2: It's like you see things like that, you know, and
- 15:59Speaker 2: it's like. The concept of self-care is not even relevant
- 16:05Speaker 2: to her.
- 16:05Speaker 1: She needs an entire transplant, just like everything. Like her face,
- 16:10Speaker 1: her brain, family, everybody needs to be gone.
- 16:14Speaker 2: I feel like the Headspace app owes her an apology
- 16:20Speaker 2: because their very existence is like a joke in face
- 16:28Speaker 2: of reality, you know?
- 16:29Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. Yeah, the Calm app saw her and they just
- 16:33Speaker 1: shut down the app.
- 16:34Speaker 2: They filed for bankruptcy.
- 16:36Speaker 1: Exactly.
- 16:36Speaker 2: They said, oh, we don't even understand what self-care is.
- 16:40Speaker 1: Exactly. We can't do this. We can't do this.
- 16:43Speaker 2: This is bigger than all of us.
- 16:45Speaker 1: So, top comments here. The next time someone says, but
- 16:49Speaker 1: if you... If you.
- 16:51Speaker 2: Told me that she killed 20 people, I'd be like, yeah. Mm-hmm. Okay,
- 16:58Speaker 2: go ahead.
- 16:59Speaker 1: That's it?
- 17:02Speaker 2: I just was looking at her being like, I can't
- 17:04Speaker 2: believe this is a story about a woman who was
- 17:05Speaker 2: taking care of 20 people. Because it looks like a
- 17:08Speaker 2: woman who's about to go on a murder rampage.
- 17:10Speaker 1: I was going to say, honestly, she looks good for
- 17:12Speaker 1: 20 dependents. 19 dependents.
- 17:15Speaker 2: If this was me, this would be a gravestone. Drop
- 17:19Speaker 2: the skincare routine, because honestly.
- 17:23Speaker 1: Is she using ponds? Because she's looking good. For 19
- 17:30Speaker 1: dependents in her late 60s. I can't even imagine. Okay.
- 17:36Speaker 2: People.com called it a house of horrors. It is.
- 17:40Speaker 1: NBCUniversal, this year for Halloween Horror Nights, you're going to
- 17:44Speaker 1: put one exhibit that's called Christina's House. It's just a
- 17:51Speaker 1: 12 by 12 room. With fecal matter everywhere. And I
- 17:55Speaker 1: shouldn't make fun. I shouldn't poke fun. But like also
- 17:58Speaker 1: like it's such a horror. It's such a nightmare. And
- 18:01Speaker 1: obviously we should we should acknowledge the fact that these
- 18:04Speaker 1: poor fucking kids. Got real fucked. We haven't even addressed how.
- 18:12Speaker 1: How fucked they are. I can't like, you know, it's
- 18:14Speaker 1: just it's I keep using the word unfathomable. I'm speechless
- 18:17Speaker 1: over it. Like I truly you cannot put into words.
- 18:20Speaker 1: How unfair it is that these kids were born into
- 18:24Speaker 1: the household that they were born into.
- 18:26Speaker 2: What? Do you see the picture of the parents? No. Okay.
- 18:31Speaker 2: I'm going to text it to you. Okay. I'm a
- 18:37Speaker 2: little concerned.
- 18:37Speaker 1: Why does this... Why do they look like they're young? Like,
- 18:42Speaker 1: why does the mom look like she's 23?
- 18:45Speaker 2: I'm very confused. And also....
- 18:48Speaker 1: I'm alarmed.
- 18:49Speaker 2: I think there's something darker going on.
- 18:51Speaker 1: Just based on these photos?
- 18:53Speaker 2: No, based on the rest of the people.com article. Okay.
- 18:57Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. Maybe we shouldn't defend Christina
- 18:59Speaker 1: until we know the full fucking story. Maybe we pause
- 19:04Speaker 1: the Expedia sponsorships.
- 19:08Speaker 2: Get your marketing team on hold. Don't deploy them yet.
- 19:14Speaker 2: Just set it aside. Don't send it to UPS yet.
- 19:19Speaker 1: OK, well, can I read the comments or do you
- 19:22Speaker 1: need to give us an update on whatever the hell
- 19:24Speaker 1: you're reading right now?
- 19:24Speaker 2: I'm not going to say what I'm reading because it's
- 19:26Speaker 2: really bad. Just you guys can look it up if
- 19:29Speaker 2: you want. Let's get to the comments. I'm curious what
- 19:31Speaker 2: the comments say.
- 19:32Speaker 1: OK, so the top comment is the next time someone says,
- 19:35Speaker 1: but if you don't have children, who's going to take
- 19:37Speaker 1: care of you in your old age? I'm just going
- 19:39Speaker 1: to send them this article.
- 19:40Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, that's perfect. No notes. It is. It is.
- 19:47Speaker 1: The second comment is for all of you saying she
- 19:50Speaker 1: was responsible or somewhat responsible, she was the only one
- 19:53Speaker 1: working and probably working more than one job. And when
- 19:56Speaker 1: she was home, she was likely taking care of her husband,
- 19:59Speaker 1: at least her husband. She may not have had time
- 20:02Speaker 1: to deal with anything else. Another comment here is, I
- 20:07Speaker 1: want to know the full story before I pass judgment.
- 20:09Speaker 1: I want to know how the parents were before I
- 20:12Speaker 1: give my opinion on the grandmother. Something stinks here, and
- 20:15Speaker 1: it's not just the house that they were living in.
- 20:17Speaker 2: Spoiler, you don't want to know the full story, actually.
- 20:20Speaker 2: Just walk away and enjoy your life.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Listen, for the record, y'all don't come to this series.
- 20:29Speaker 2: To feel good.
- 20:31Speaker 1: Well, maybe you do.
- 20:32Speaker 2: To each their own.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Maybe you do a little bit. Yeah, I guess you do.
- 20:38Speaker 1: You come here for the laughs, for the joy. For
- 20:43Speaker 1: the gigs. And then you can go, oh, okay, my
- 20:47Speaker 1: life isn't that bad. And if that's your MO, then
- 20:51Speaker 1: let this story give you another one of those feelings.
- 20:54Speaker 1: Because I'm going to walk away going, life ain't too
- 20:56Speaker 1: bad today.
- 20:57Speaker 2: Life ain't too bad. I know, we've been going through it.
- 21:00Speaker 2: But it could always go down even further.
- 21:03Speaker 1: I could always go down even further. Okay, so anyway,
- 21:06Speaker 1: that's our Regretful Parents post of the day.
- 21:09Speaker 2: I think we've seen it through.
- 21:10Speaker 1: We've had enough. The internet has interneted today too far.
- 21:15Speaker 2: Too far.
- 21:16Speaker 1: And it is time to go live our lives.
- 21:19Speaker 2: And look, some people, they're too far gone. But Expedia,
- 21:23Speaker 2: we're ready for a vacation. Take us.
- 21:27Speaker 1: Travelocity? More like the generosity thing. You give us with
- 21:33Speaker 1: your PR packages. Is that subtle enough?
- 21:40Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Okay. Lauren, help us.
- 21:46Speaker 1: What do we always say, Erica? What do we always say?
- 21:48Speaker 2: Don't get pregnant. Don't get pregnant. Because that baby could
- 21:54Speaker 2: have 19 more babies.
- 21:57Speaker 1: Also, don't get pregnant and put that on a T-shirt.
- 22:02Speaker 1: And in fact, why don't you wear the T-shirt that
- 22:04Speaker 1: we made for you?
- 22:05Speaker 2: Also, FYI, Kristen, just because we're so busy that episodes
- 22:10Speaker 2: need to be strategy meetings. People also want it on
- 22:14Speaker 2: a tote, so make sure that we get it on
- 22:16Speaker 2: a tote. All right, guys, don't get pregnant. Don't get pregnant.