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- 0:00Hey, good morning. We are helkos Nadarim race khat.
- 0:06We're starting today with Lahmed Beth Kayvon Shalonagu lean hog
- 0:11IMA over as Kamata Kahal Kadin Mukhram Yeshlan Olam.
- 0:18OK, what's the case? The the the city, whatever the
- 0:22based in to the ear, the whole ear, whatever it is, they make a
- 0:26Haskama, they're going to put someone in the harem, Khala
- 0:29harem for doing something. Well, harem we're talking about.
- 0:33And but then we see no one's really acting on it.
- 0:38They said, you know, if someone does such and such, he's going
- 0:40to be put in the harem. But they treat him like
- 0:43everybody else. There's no Hakraza.
- 0:45They don't treat him like he's in the harem at all, but almost
- 0:48like, I don't want to use the word, it's a joke, but he's not
- 0:51real. Is he really in the kharim or
- 0:53not? Yeh shala no lomar.
- 0:55So we should say laha laha shal das ha minhaga zehem mitakhim
- 1:00when they're in Mitakhi and they do it based on the minhag and
- 1:05the minhag is he's not really in the kharim.
- 1:08So he's essentially it means they put him in a they, they,
- 1:14they say a statement if somebody gets put into harem for doing XY
- 1:18and Z. So really what it means Lamisa,
- 1:21is he should be put in the harem, but he's not really in a
- 1:24harem. We decreed harem, but he's not
- 1:27in the harem until the Hakraza. Once they're mockeries that this
- 1:31person did such and such, then they have to treat him like he's
- 1:34in harem. But until they do that, that's
- 1:37the minaka. Again, it depends on how he's
- 1:40treated and that's going to be quevea, what the understanding
- 1:43of of what their kavanaugh was and that'll affect the actual
- 1:47halacha. So even though when the the the
- 1:50Shaksha minha din Shinhagabuddin Menuda and that means ideally or
- 1:56theoretically, but Lamai says he's not in khair because that's
- 2:00the minaka. But once they are do Al Kraza,
- 2:02then he's put in Khair the Rama Haggah.
- 2:05You know, this is a question the Haggah it's a bit of a question
- 2:09if it's considered a Mahlogget or not Iim lush iitin of the
- 2:13ferry Shinagubo din mukhram. So there are more ads then you
- 2:18can you can Mayan if it's a mahlogget or not, but there are
- 2:23more ads that I think it's the Shah who says it's probably a
- 2:29Mahlokas. But anyways, doesn't matter.
- 2:31Let's go on the Rama ads that if the Bayes did Mafuras says that
- 2:40we're going to put him in the theorem even if we don't aren't
- 2:43makris him. So then it is technically
- 2:46calling you have to treat him like he's in theorem 'cause he
- 2:48is in theorem. So that's again a question.
- 2:51It could be the minhug still overrides that because if no one
- 2:54ever treats him in the theorem, like we see a lot of people are
- 2:59doing XY and Z and they're treated like everybody else,
- 3:02minion and business and eating and whatever it could be haul,
- 3:06that's all the same. Fine.
- 3:07Lahmed gimel hanish BA shalali Khani's but takanata kahal havi
- 3:13Shivuat Shah. If the seaboard says someone
- 3:17that you know, there's a takana, people have to do this, there's
- 3:20a harem, whatever it is. And the guy in the seaboard
- 3:23says, you know what, I'm going to make a shivua to go against
- 3:26it. The Alcorcohol Khal Allah
- 3:28Takanata Khal doesn't matter what he says, the kind of the of
- 3:32the seabor, it's toe face. It overrides whatever an
- 3:36individual might want to think. I mean, that's the whole concept
- 3:39of the seabor putting making it the kind of for the seabor.
- 3:42And if a person doesn't follow, then he's next and he violates
- 3:50the right. But the the shock just points
- 3:53out based on the Ramban that if a that a person still needs to
- 3:56be shoaha dua Tara sundarium on this shivua shelf.
- 4:01Haga vafilo nishba al azadavar shaloli glasovia harka naznulov
- 4:08herim hayev lahagi. OK, now let's say that he person
- 4:14that sibor a person makes a shivua, even if he makes a
- 4:17shivua first not to not to reveal anything.
- 4:21The guy makes some promise. He makes a shibuya.
- 4:24I'm not going to tell anyone. And then that seaboard makes a
- 4:29takana a person must reveal. So then he has to he has to
- 4:35reveal. He has to say why?
- 4:38Why should the? Of the of the seaboard override
- 4:41this short. I thought it was Pasha, but
- 4:44actually that's a good question. Where, where, how do you see the
- 4:46koak of its sibor? Normally the koak of its sibor
- 4:49in general, we always say the koal is much more powerful than
- 4:55the yahi and always takes precedence.
- 4:58But good question. There's a there's a shivu of a
- 5:07Omid that whenever that's sibor. Thank you.
- 5:10That's from the grub. Whenever there is a there's a
- 5:12there's a original Shibuya that that see whenever that Seabour
- 5:17is Mashbiya or make Saharan that they override any.
- 5:21So is it because the Seabour is more powerful or is it because
- 5:25it's Seabour came first? So the the grass saying it came
- 5:29first. Hello, you call Shum Adam Lomar
- 5:32Lushammati Akharam and you can't say I didn't hear about it.
- 5:35Yafapi shaloshamo khali even if you didn't even hear about it, I
- 5:39feel a hockey call Akharam and Sibor.
- 5:41I'll call Adam Akharam of the sibor is overpowers and and
- 5:49applies still face an al Adam here.
- 5:52It sounds like it's because it's more powerful.
- 5:54But anyways, with Seaboard, Shigazu Khairam, I'll call Binay
- 5:58Iram Kulam Biklaal and once it's Seaboards goes there on
- 6:01everybody in the city, then they're all included.
- 6:03They can't get out there in the city, live there, whatever it is
- 6:06around to physically be there. Filu OTA and Shaheen Notini
- 6:10Masim, even if you don't pay taxes, which is a whole another
- 6:13story because they're new maybe. OK, sounds like the Hiram should
- 6:21be called the minute you walk in to move in, OK or while you're
- 6:25visiting. OK, OK, The asur lavur al hum
- 6:32humre hamakum kosman shuhu bethum hair.
- 6:36And then as long as you're in the city and it's calling you,
- 6:39then as long as it goes by the home of the city.
- 6:45OK, now there's an interesting shock.
- 6:49I, I don't know if I'll agree, but he writes that if the the
- 6:56Seaboard specifies in the harem that it's Hall on the city and
- 7:02on everybody in the city, even if they move away, then it's
- 7:05still going to get Hall and then when they move away.
- 7:08But that's a question because that's a little see if if they
- 7:11don't specify, we learn clearly everyone agrees that once they
- 7:15move away permanently, then they're off the hook unless it
- 7:20continues with the same problem. So therefore anyway, so I don't
- 7:24know if everyone agrees, but that's the shock points out the
- 7:27shame that you was the Rahm Al Shaka.
- 7:34OK, fine, so let's go on Lama Dali.
- 7:39It makes us a kahal mocha Baskama Kiven Shahemiyot inner
- 7:43Moyel Hamka. Now let's say the majority of
- 7:45the seaboard are those who are in charge, who are given the the
- 7:49the the most of the people in charge say they want to make a
- 7:53harem for such and such or Takana and a mutes objects.
- 7:58You go after the road. The road is what's called and
- 8:05conversely, Yeah, but if the Kahala points in the Tuvia ear
- 8:14bunion, whatever it is, then and then now, now they they, they
- 8:18take. The majority of all of the.
- 8:20Their their bylaws of the. Yeah, OK.
- 8:23This is the mix comma. Same thing, not the to the idea.
- 8:28It's the same as an access to the idea.
- 8:31But you're welcome to show me otherwise afterwards.
- 8:34Withdraw you. What do you mean?
- 8:36I always go off the road. Rd. the sides.
- 8:40Rd. the sides. Then rolls the call over over
- 8:43overcome the the the all of the tubing out here.
- 8:48Is can Rov kajal override Tuvaya?
- 8:52That's an interesting question. How do you abolish Who gives
- 8:57them the power and how do you abolish?
- 9:01OK, well, any any any zera that the seabird can't be Lamadbo is
- 9:09called by itself. You don't even you don't even
- 9:12matter as if it's Rover me. That's what for sure.
- 9:15OK, Lamadhe, then then it's a non starter.
- 9:21OK, right. The robot Sieber has to be able
- 9:26to stay there. But then even if all that Sieber
- 9:28wants it OK, whatever, we can run around.
- 9:32OK, lahmad Hey, E sharla shibiya hanolagin akhar isman.
- 9:37OK, for if an individual or at Sieber in general wants to make
- 9:41a Shiva on those who are not yet born.
- 9:45So then if it's a shivuah, a shivuah is for an individual to
- 9:53do something. It's impossible to make a
- 9:56shivuah for somebody else. A person can only make a shivuah
- 10:00on himself. He doesn't have the power to
- 10:02make a shivuah on someone else. And therefore, if they're not
- 10:05alive, and so certainly if they're not alive, Kosherkane
- 10:09has has is a minimus aval nidui. The Heron is Khal Aldoro Taba
- 10:17in. But you can make a nidui or a
- 10:20Heron that's like this overriding cloud of a Heron
- 10:23that's that's standing there. And anyone now or in the future
- 10:28who does so enters into this Heron or this cloud and he
- 10:33violates it. So that's so it is toface
- 10:36because they can. I don't know how you want to put
- 10:40it'll hold up this Nido and Herm in the air and it is toe face,
- 10:46but not as Shuru Sibor cannot. I don't think that Sibor can be
- 10:53Mushvia for the future. And I'll I'll bring an
- 10:56interesting case from the RFF Chauhan.
- 10:58You can take it up with him if you like, but here you know,
- 11:03I'll just say it now. So he has, he asks what about
- 11:07Matantara? Moshe Rabe knew he's Shiviya.
- 11:11It's call yourself, right? Vinay, you sell Matantara.
- 11:14How did he how was he able to make a Shibuya?
- 11:16We just learned you can't make a Shibuya.
- 11:18So he says the Orafa Shulkhan says it's Siva Hashem is
- 11:22different. Kurishvarakul can be Mashviya,
- 11:25call yourself, but not an individual or not.
- 11:30People can't, but only Kurdish bark we can.
- 11:34That's what that was. That's his Teret's explanation
- 11:36for the Shiva by Matantara, but also by Matantara.
- 11:41And I'll say a little differently.
- 11:42Perhaps it's different because it's more of a, of a breed and
- 11:47it's, and it's, and it's under the Zeus.
- 11:50You know, it's not, it's not a Shiva, it's a reality.
- 11:54It's an Zeus, right? Hashem is McCain forever, Khala
- 11:59yourselves McCain forever and we're his children.
- 12:02It's it's like a Garrus. You know when we say Khala
- 12:05yourself also was Matuntera was like a Garrus.
- 12:08Your children are now Jewish forever.
- 12:10It's not, it's not an Indian. I don't know if I would call
- 12:13that an Indian as shivua. Even though sometimes we use a
- 12:16lotion as Shivua, it's not exactly the same.
- 12:18Arafa Shiva mentions Hashua also gives a a Shivua that anyone who
- 12:26builds in Yuriko is going to get punished right.
- 12:29So there. So there's two terrorism.
- 12:31He gives either number one. It's also called Sivoy Hashem.
- 12:34That's an exception to the rule of a shivuah on others.
- 12:39But also he says that's a shivuah.
- 12:42Again, when he's shivuah is not always a shivuah.
- 12:45You have to read the context. That's just a koala.
- 12:48I mean he says but farish, but I think there's a lotion of
- 12:50shivuah and koala by the Shiva. But anyways, that's OK.
- 12:56Well, Tanakh there. OK, let's go back to the Haggah.
- 12:59Kahal Shah Ghazru Khairama Isidavar, they called them Shih
- 13:03Tiro Khaira Mauritian Ghazru with signal Isidavar, she would
- 13:08not get a OK. So the Kahal already made one
- 13:10theorem and then they didn't undo that theorem.
- 13:13They added another theorem. So once you already have one,
- 13:18the second one is not called, doesn't do anything.
- 13:21And some say no, it's a if there could be one on top of another.
- 13:26OK, let's go to lava Meesh, another.
- 13:31Yeah, if one could be called on top of another one, Misha Nader
- 13:37lalos erezisal. A person makes a Nader to make
- 13:40Aaliyah le erezisal yehlah heter kishar nadaram.
- 13:45So the halafa is you could make a net hataras nadaram on such a
- 13:50Nader. So the first thing that's
- 13:53interesting to point out is mahlokas achronium.
- 13:57If we call it's a technicality saying the words I'm making a
- 14:02Nader Allah, Allah's with Erezizrall to move to
- 14:05Erezizrall. So is that called a mitzvah?
- 14:09So the piscay tuva interesting it says like this quotes the the
- 14:15rush bash again, it's it's a mahoepisacronium or how to deal
- 14:20with it. But anyways, he writes making a
- 14:23nether to move to Erezizrall is only a heckscher mitzvah.
- 14:28A Heckscher mitzvah you can undo easily, but if it be if you if
- 14:35you were to make a nether that I'm going to live an arity cell,
- 14:39he says that's a mitzvah and that you cannot do ataris and
- 14:43the Darian one. Now we're going to qualify,
- 14:46we're going to see that this is all going together. 1 And if a
- 14:51person makes a nether to not do let's say in a Vera.
- 14:57So we learned that you can't undo if a person makes a nether
- 15:01for Devara Shus, so that we said you could do ataris nadarium.
- 15:05And usually we say it's a mitzvah to do that.
- 15:08It's important to that because you don't want to be having a
- 15:10nadarium in general, we said is a bad thing.
- 15:13Unless it's really important for a motivation to do a mitzvah,
- 15:17then that's another story. How about generally we we
- 15:20touched upon this, the Rama. I think I was the one who said
- 15:22it, if a person makes a nadir to do a mitzvah.
- 15:26So we learned that in general you should not do a hataris
- 15:30nadar because we don't want to stop you from doing the mitzvah.
- 15:35But one is able to. Kashoghan says it emphatically.
- 15:38Every neder, every mitzvah, any neder for a mitzvah, of course
- 15:44you could do ataris nadarim, whether it's to do a thymus,
- 15:47whether it's to do to give sedaka, whether it's to live in
- 15:51Israel, he says Living in Israel is a mitzvahraba.
- 15:53It's a great mitzvah. So any mitzvah or we're going to
- 15:58see staying with one's wife. It's also a mitzvah ABBA like if
- 16:03it's going to see if a woman wants, if the man makes an Ed
- 16:06there and wants to move to Eretz Israel or live in Eretz Israel
- 16:12and she's sick and cannot or she says I don't want to live in
- 16:15Israel. I like it where I am.
- 16:18Whatever the reasons are, it makes no difference.
- 16:21So then everyone all the post schemes say he should do Ataris
- 16:24Nadaiim to do to to not move there at yourself because you
- 16:29should stay with your wife. That's that's also a great
- 16:32mitzvah. So and that's a so any time but
- 16:38in general to do a if a person makes a neder for any mitzvah.
- 16:43So then the halacha is you should not do hatara unless you
- 16:49need to, then you're allowed to. And even they're not there for a
- 16:55korban, all of these things that are for a mitzvah, it's toface,
- 16:58you do karata, PETA, whatever, and you're allowed to do it.
- 17:02It's just you don't do it unless you really need to for mitzvah.
- 17:06But it's not that there's no, there's no, there's no halacha
- 17:09that it doesn't work. OK, so that covers most of that,
- 17:14but so there's so the Ara Kashoghan says it makes no
- 17:18difference if you say another Lalos or to to go to to move to
- 17:23Israel or to live in Israel 'cause you go after the kavana.
- 17:28The kavana is when he says I'm moving to Israel, he means to
- 17:31live in Israel. We all know that.
- 17:33So therefore, it's the it's the exact same nether and he says
- 17:37you should not do a Tara unless it's and but it's the the the
- 17:47pisque Chuva Costa Rashbash who says if you it depends.
- 17:50If you say Lalos, then it's easy to make Attara.
- 17:54You don't need to be shot to Chuck.
- 17:55And if you say to live, then you're stuck on that same level
- 17:58where it's he also says Da Khashoghan says interesting.
- 18:02If a person makes a nether to I'm not going to work or I'm
- 18:06going to learn 4 hours or 8 hours a day or I'm going to stay
- 18:10in Kolo forever. And then but so then he writes
- 18:15on such a matter. So do we say learning?
- 18:18So yeah, the he qualifies like this.
- 18:20This is important. If it's a mitzvah, I have to say
- 18:23this. If it's a mitzvah of Rashus,
- 18:26it's an optional mitzvah. And then which he compares to
- 18:30moving to Israel, then he says it's a mitzvah Rabbah, but it's
- 18:34not an obligation. Not everyone has to buy a plane
- 18:37ticket and get on the plane and move here right now.
- 18:42So he says it's a mitzvah rashus any case, Sedaka, any thymus,
- 18:49any bring in a korban, any mitzvah, that's rashus.
- 18:53So then you are allowed to midocha to do ataras nadarian.
- 18:58But if it's a mitzvah, Yuvis, like you make a neder to where
- 19:01it's filling a neder to put on a mezuza, then you're not allowed
- 19:07to do hatara because it's because you're already hired to
- 19:11do so. And on there you're not allowed
- 19:12to. It might still work, but you're
- 19:15not allowed to then. So what about learning?
- 19:19The person says I'm going to learn.
- 19:20We call learning Tara Rechessor Chiubis.
- 19:24He says a minimal amount is Chiubis, but but to learn all
- 19:29day, he says Ainson Chi and Alanes And if you you have to
- 19:33provide to your family that providing for your family
- 19:37overrides learning all day, so many hours.
- 19:41You just have to learn something and then and then you're
- 19:44obligated to be able to finance your family, but you only are
- 19:47obligated to be able to finance your family enough that they
- 19:50are, I don't know around the poverty line getting by whatever
- 19:55that number is. Ask your ask the coming of your
- 19:57town to decide how much you need to work and not work or
- 20:01whatever. But that's the that's that's
- 20:03what he writes. I don't know if I don't think
- 20:07anyone would have disagreed, but OK now let's let's continue
- 20:13inside Lama design and then the next few see if you are pretty
- 20:18quick and follow everything we said but.
- 20:21Just do a bit more Hanish baldas havera Shola satavar ploni alpha
- 20:25vishnata na havera rishis la Soto.
- 20:28Sorry she had tirolo shlo shahed yotos elden Kane Omar shedaye to
- 20:32Ayakasha nishva you call otoploni la tiro.
- 20:36So here we're just saying like this, a person makes a shibua on
- 20:39someone else. We already learned this before
- 20:41that it's it depends if if it's Alda somebody else, but there's
- 20:47no Tanai involved, then you need that other person to do Hataras
- 20:52nadaiam properly. But if that's if there was no
- 20:55Tanai when you made the Shirua or neder, but if built into the
- 20:59nether and the Shirua there was a Tanai, then any individual, if
- 21:04your Tanai was based on one individual or whatever the Tanai
- 21:07was to undo it or to come up with the caveat or whatever the
- 21:11case is, then the Tanai works. And there's absolutely no reason
- 21:16to do Hatara because built into the neder shuwa was this
- 21:20tonight. So The Tonight the person is in
- 21:25control of that tonight since you gave it to him.
- 21:27That was The Tonight. Then he can just tell you.
- 21:30Yeah, you know, because you told like the neder was based on if
- 21:35Mr. Pony says to do something if this happens.
- 21:39And so then if that happens, if the person says so, he's just
- 21:42me, Makai and The Tonight and there's no reason to do Hatara
- 21:47one more And Ishva Shalwa said there were plenty Shalog Rashoud
- 21:49Peloni K Vanshinata and also 20 Rashoud Kutar the a note.
- 21:53Sorry, Tara. So the same thing Bergson makes
- 21:58a Shalwa not to do an item without someone's permission.
- 22:03So then as soon as that person follows The Tonight and gives
- 22:06you permission or whatever he tells you to do, that is The
- 22:09Tonight. And whenever you have a tonight
- 22:12in your makai and The Tonight again, there's no reason to undo
- 22:15the whole Neder, Shibu and Mikara.
- 22:17It's all built in. OK, we'll stop.