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A Quick Stop At Johnny's House: Dumpers Remorse · Johnny's House

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  Speaker 1: Conversation with my son yesterday. I'm like, listen, I haven't
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  Speaker 1: done a check of your clothing. Do you have winter clothes?
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  Speaker 1: Cause it's going to be cold the next couple of
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  Speaker 1: days and you are not wearing shorts to school. Cause
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  Speaker 1: when it's 30 degrees outside and you wear shorts to school,
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  Speaker 1: they look at the parent, but I don't necessarily think
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  Speaker 1: that if you're a senior in high school, that's just
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  Speaker 1: a dumb decision on your part.
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  Speaker 2: So I can't do that. All right.
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  Speaker 1: We want to do a little research and Ray, you
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  Speaker 1: wanted to find out how people found us.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's so funny. I feel like whenever we
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  Speaker 3: do events or we meet people, they're like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know, my boyfriend introduced me to you guys. Or
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  Speaker 3: I'm only here because I was dragged here to like
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  Speaker 3: an event or whatever. But or they were in an
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  Speaker 3: Uber and they heard our station playing. So it's interesting
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  Speaker 3: to hear where you heard us the first time or
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  Speaker 3: how you found out about us.
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  Speaker 1: I always ask that and they say the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: And Doc and Johnny. And I'm just like, really? That
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  Speaker 1: means you've been riding with us for years. Cheers. Now,
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing that gets me. Look, I know how
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  Speaker 1: old I am, okay? And I know how old some
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  Speaker 1: of y'all are. When y'all come up to say to
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  Speaker 1: me that you listened in middle school, I'm like, mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 2: The math ain't math.
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  Speaker 4: That is my favorite. When people say that to you,
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  Speaker 4: you're like, eh.
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  Speaker 2: I'll call you. Yeah, are you sure about that?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if.
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  Speaker 2: I do the math on that now. But that's cool.
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  Speaker 2: That's cool.
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  Speaker 1: So we want to find out, how did you find
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  Speaker 1: Johnny's House? How did you find us? When did you
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  Speaker 1: start listening? What turned you on to us? And what
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  Speaker 1: makes you stick around? We're doing our own little research.
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  Speaker 1: And just like research, we pay you. How about a
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  Speaker 1: pair of tickets to see Doja Cat November 15th at
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  Speaker 1: the Kia Center? Okay, we're asking the one question. It's
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  Speaker 1: pretty simple. Just sit back and ask yourself, hmm. How
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  Speaker 1: did I get turned on to Johnny's house? How did
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  Speaker 1: I find out about Johnny's house? And what is it
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  Speaker 1: about him that keeps me there every single day? And
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  Speaker 1: this is our way of saying thank you. But we
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  Speaker 1: want to kind of just kind of curiosity. Instead of
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  Speaker 1: hearing it in the streets, we're going to ask you
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  Speaker 1: on the air.
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  Speaker 6: 407-919-1067, 877-919-1067.
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  Speaker 1: If you can't get through, you're still eligible.
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  Speaker 2: You can text.
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  Speaker 1: Our Excel mobile is 41067. Live streamers, we're very interested
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  Speaker 1: in hearing what y'all do. And we'll throw it out
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  Speaker 1: on social media also. How'd you find out? We got
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  Speaker 1: Doja Cat tickets. A little research from us to you.
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  Speaker 1: Hit us up because we want to answer your questions
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  Speaker 1: on Johnny's House. How did you find Johnny's House? You're
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  Speaker 1: listening every day, or when you do, how did you
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  Speaker 1: find it? How did you get your start? We got
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  Speaker 1: tickets to see Doja Cat coming up on the 15th,
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  Speaker 1: and we will hook you up. Let's talk to Kendra
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  Speaker 1: from Orlando.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Kendra.
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  Speaker 1: Hi.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning. So how'd you find us?
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  Speaker 8: So I'm a 90s baby.
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  Speaker 7: Okay.
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  Speaker 8: So when I was little, my mom used to listen
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  Speaker 8: to 106.7. And I started singing like Candy Shop and
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  Speaker 8: things from Usher and And then she realized these are
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  Speaker 8: really not appropriate for a.
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  Speaker 6: Little kid to be listening to.
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  Speaker 8: So she would change me to another radio station. Back
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  Speaker 8: then it was Disney. Yeah, Disney Radio.
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  Speaker 2: Disney Radio, yes, yes.
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  Speaker 8: So 990 AM was the Disney Radio. So she would
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  Speaker 8: change it to that. And when she would leave the
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  Speaker 8: room or something, I would change it back to 106.7
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  Speaker 8: and start making my own dances.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 8: To, like, yeah, by Usher.
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  Speaker 2: Think about it. You were TikTok before it was TikTok.
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  Speaker 2: You were.
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  Speaker 8: Exactly, except we didn't have cameras and stuff like that
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  Speaker 8: just yet.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 8: So that's how I learned about 106.7. My mom introduced it,
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  Speaker 8: then she realized I was singing the songs. realize what
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  Speaker 8: the lyrics meant and then she was like no no
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  Speaker 8: no no no no no here's the.
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  Speaker 1: Funny thing a lot of times the kids don't know
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  Speaker 1: what the lyrics like take me to the candy shop
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  Speaker 1: you don't know what that means nope.
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  Speaker 6: We're gonna go get some lollipops yes yes.
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  Speaker 8: My mom was like, oh, no, that's not the correct
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  Speaker 8: lollipops that we're supposed to be talking about.
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  Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? Some of these Sabrina Carpenter songs.
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  Speaker 4: It's crazy.
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  Speaker 8: My kids don't listen to the radio unless it's a
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  Speaker 8: Spanish station just because they don't know what they're listening to.
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  Speaker 2: All right. You hold on a second. From the land. Hey, Janice.
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  Speaker 9: Hey, good morning.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Janice. How'd you find us?
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  Speaker 9: So I was scrolling through radio stations. I had just
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  Speaker 9: moved here from New York 18 years ago. And I
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  Speaker 9: was looking for a station similar to Hot 97. And
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  Speaker 9: I dawned on you guys. I think it was Johnny
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  Speaker 9: and Jenna.
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  Speaker 2: Johnny and Jade, yes. Jade, yes.
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  Speaker 9: And then the funny story is, though, that Brian... He
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  Speaker 9: started talking, and I thought he was a Spanish guy
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  Speaker 9: from up north.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, everybody does.
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  Speaker 9: And I thought it was sarcasm.
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  Speaker 6: Yes. So I was like.
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  Speaker 9: Oh, I found my station. And I've been listening to
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  Speaker 9: you guys ever since, driving my kids to high school
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  Speaker 9: at Lake Mary High.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 9: My little one to Seminole High, and my little one
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  Speaker 9: now to Sanford Middle. I've been listening to you.
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  Speaker 8: Guys ever since.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. Just because you thought Brian was Spanish. Look at that.
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  Speaker 1: That's funny.
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  Speaker 2: I got you.
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  Speaker 9: No, I love that you guys were talking more in
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  Speaker 9: the mornings than just playing music.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I loved it.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: All right.
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  Speaker 2: You hold on a second there, Janice. Jasmine from Orlando.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning. Good morning.
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  Speaker 6: How are you guys?
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  Speaker 2: Good, Jasmine. How you find us?
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  Speaker 6: Um, my mom actually put me on to you guys.
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  Speaker 6: We used to, in 2011, we used to drive downtown
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  Speaker 6: and she used to take me to school. I used
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  Speaker 6: to sing traffic with her.
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  Speaker 2: Traffic!
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  Speaker 6: That's my favorite part. And I used to sing it
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  Speaker 6: every time. I know, I know your guys' number by heart.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't even have to, I just put it in
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  Speaker 6: my phone. I didn't even need to save it or anything.
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  Speaker 6: I just know it by heart right now.
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  Speaker 2: Really? Is this your first time calling?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, actually.
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  Speaker 2: You've never called the station before?
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  Speaker 6: No, I tried, but you guys are so busy now.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. That is so cool.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people say middle school, and I just
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  Speaker 1: assume it's because at that age, the parents let you
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  Speaker 1: take control of the radio.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Before you had to listen to what they had to,
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  Speaker 1: but now middle school, what do you want to listen to?
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  Speaker 6: No, I mean, I was listening to everything, but my
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  Speaker 6: mom was kind of anal about the radio. She did
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  Speaker 6: not play. It's either gospel or 106.7.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. 106.7 is gospel. I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. So I was like, put on 106.7.
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  Speaker 6: I'll listen to my thing and.
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  Speaker 2: Call it a day. There you go.
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  Speaker 1: That's nice.
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  Speaker 2: 106.7 or gospel. Wow. Again from the land. Hey, Lisa.
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  Speaker 1: Hey.
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  Speaker 7: Hey.
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  Speaker 2: Lisa, how you finding?
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  Speaker 10: I'm another middle schooler.
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  Speaker 6: My mommy's always listening to you.
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  Speaker 10: Guys, and it's never changed since then. I've got kids
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  Speaker 10: in high school now, and they expect to hear you
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  Speaker 10: guys in the morning. If someone's voice is missing, they're concerned, like,
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  Speaker 10: where's Ray? What's going on? It's their thing now, too.
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  Speaker 8: I think I'm on Three Generations.
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  Speaker 2: That's the craziest thing.
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  Speaker 10: I mean, even my five-year-old gets in the car and
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  Speaker 10: she knows.
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  Speaker 7: It's our routine.
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  Speaker 10: It's our thing. And y'all's conversations on the radio turn
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  Speaker 10: into good conversations that we end up having in the
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  Speaker 10: car and pick up on it.
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  Speaker 2: And we think about that.
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  Speaker 1: We think about parents that are taking their kids to school.
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  Speaker 1: And we try to make everything a little later in
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  Speaker 1: the morning when the kids are in school.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, we think about that.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, the conversations that you guys have are good conversation
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  Speaker 10: starters for us, and then we all just end up
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  Speaker 10: laughing before, you know, anyone gets dropped off, and it
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  Speaker 10: just makes.
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  Speaker 8: For a good morning.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay. I like that. Ray, what are they saying?
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  Speaker 4: Let's see here. A lot of moms. A lot of
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  Speaker 4: moms are introducing Johnny's house.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody said, I heard the show when we moved to
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  Speaker 3: Altamont in 2012, we moved from North Tampa to.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: And they continue to listen from 2012. Until now. I
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  Speaker 3: lived in Virginia and have never lived in Florida. When
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  Speaker 3: Pulse happened, Elvis Duran called to see how you guys were.
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  Speaker 3: And I love the family vibe, so they actually researched
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  Speaker 3: us and listened ever since.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he did call that day. And Brian.
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  Speaker 11: A lot of people have found us on the school bus.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, school bus. Their bus driver was listening, and they
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  Speaker 5: found us on the school bus, which is crazy.
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  Speaker 2: That's fun.
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  Speaker 5: So a lot of people all the way back to
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  Speaker 5: Doc and Johnny.
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  Speaker 11: Some people just moved into town and just were looking
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  Speaker 11: for a replacement for whatever they had locally and came
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  Speaker 11: across us back then. There was no, like, streaming, so
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  Speaker 11: you couldn't go back to your hometown radio.
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  Speaker 2: You had to hear it then. Yeah. Man. Kendra, you're
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  Speaker 2: the first one to say, I want to get in.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to hook you up with a pair of
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  Speaker 1: tickets to see Doja Cat November 15th at the Kia Center.
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  Speaker 1: We come back now. We're going to talk about, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we love bringing you new terms. And this is a
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  Speaker 1: new one, and we'll see if you'll join in on it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm introducing you to new terms and phrases. And today's term, Brian,
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  Speaker 1: where did you find it? I just came across something
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  Speaker 1: I was reading.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. And what is it?
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  Speaker 5: It's a dumper's remorse.
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  Speaker 2: Dumpers remorse. And we've talked about.
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  Speaker 11: A lot of things on here, but I thought I
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  Speaker 11: was thinking when I first heard it, I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 11: I don't think we've ever discussed that idea.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And my whole time here.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So the idea of it is that you decided you're
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  Speaker 5: going to break up with someone.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Like I'm done. I'm finished. You do it.
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  Speaker 11: And then within 24, 48 hours, you start to feel like, well,
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  Speaker 11: that was a bad idea.
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  Speaker 5: I probably shouldn't have done that. And then you have
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  Speaker 5: the remorse, obviously.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, because you realize you made a bad decision.
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  Speaker 11: And in some cases, you try to get them back.
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  Speaker 11: And in some cases, you just have to move on
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  Speaker 11: and realize, well, damn, I screwed that up. But we've
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  Speaker 11: never really talked about that before.
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  Speaker 2: I don't recall ever dumping somebody. They usually break up
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  Speaker 2: with me. Same.
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  Speaker 5: I don't break up with people.
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  Speaker 4: So you think they have dumper's remorse for breaking up
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  Speaker 4: with you?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I would if I broke up with me.
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  Speaker 2: Of course.
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  Speaker 11: Oh, I think every person that ever dated me before
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  Speaker 11: now thinks I'm the one that got away.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I'm pretty certain of it.
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  Speaker 1: Man, that got to be a horrible feeling, though. I
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  Speaker 1: was thinking, I don't know if.
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  Speaker 4: I should shake my head yes or no. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care.
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  Speaker 5: Say what you think.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: You guys are all catches, both of you.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, my ex, I would doubt no. There was
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  Speaker 1: no remorse from that.
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  Speaker 2: That. That was done.
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  Speaker 1: Other than that, no, they usually somehow break up with me.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm cool with that because I'm one of those
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  Speaker 1: that have stuck it out. I'm not a quitter. Even
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  Speaker 1: though our relationship is bad, I'm not a quitter. But
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  Speaker 1: I can imagine doing that and then wanting that person back. Right.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But I know me. I'd go get them. Hey, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to have to humble myself.
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  Speaker 3: I was going to say, you have to literally bring
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  Speaker 3: yourself back down to earth and be like, okay, listen,
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  Speaker 3: I think I made a mistake.
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  Speaker 4: And then whether that person is like, okay, yeah, I
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  Speaker 4: agree with you. We should be together.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Or maybe they came to the realization too. Hey, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you're right.
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  Speaker 2: I stopped.
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  Speaker 1: I stopped seeing someone and saw them out. This is about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, second part of my life when I was
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  Speaker 1: a jerk. And I saw out with a guy and
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  Speaker 1: I went over and talked to her. But I talked
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  Speaker 1: to her so long that the guy got.
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  Speaker 2: Married and left. Right.
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  Speaker 5: But you didn't want her back, really. You were just
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  Speaker 5: upset that she was out with someone else.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 9: You would.
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  Speaker 5: That's a classic jerk move.
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  Speaker 2: You would. I said, wow, he left. My bad. Cool,
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  Speaker 2: I'm out.
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  Speaker 4: You're like, okay, if it's not me, it's no one.
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  Speaker 1: Believe me, I felt the karmic debt of all of that.
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  Speaker 1: You don't put stuff like that out in the universe
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  Speaker 1: and don't expect it to come back. Oh, it came back.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I'm the humble little kitten you see right now. Ray?
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  Speaker 3: I honestly don't think I've ever broken up with somebody.
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  Speaker 2: What's up with the three of us? Good Lord.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know because I feel like, I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a fixer.
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  Speaker 11: So that's my personality. So I'll figure it out. So
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  Speaker 11: if there's a problem in our relationship, I'm not just
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  Speaker 11: going to run.
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  Speaker 2: I'll figure it out.
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  Speaker 4: Actually, I did end my marriage.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think I've said that out loud.
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  Speaker 2: No, you haven't.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 11: No.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think so. I mean, you're in a comfortable
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  Speaker 2: place where you can.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So I did end that, but I think that was
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  Speaker 3: kind of also like a mutual thing that we knew
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  Speaker 3: that it had to kind.
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  Speaker 5: Of be over.
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  Speaker 2: It would be like someone saying, you know what? I
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  Speaker 2: think we should break up. And they go, you know what?
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad you brought that up.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Me too.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I've been thinking that.
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  Speaker 4: Before my marriage, honestly, I think that, mm-mm.
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  Speaker 1: See, Brian's a fixer. I love him with my heart.
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  Speaker 1: My heart is like, hey, we can deal with this.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to work through this. My parents were married
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  Speaker 1: 68 years.
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  Speaker 2: So it was never, you don't quit. You stay in there.
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  Speaker 5: I saw my mom.
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  Speaker 11: In her relationships, not her fault necessarily quit six times.
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  Speaker 11: So for me, it was like, okay, I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not going to do that.
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  Speaker 11: I'm not, I mean, I'm sure my wife had numbers
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  Speaker 11: remorse when she kicked me out because we were separated
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  Speaker 11: by her choice.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: So clearly it took about 18 months for that remorse
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  Speaker 5: to set in.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Eventually she had remorse because we're back together.
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  Speaker 2: I would assume.
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  Speaker 3: But also you had to change some things for her
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  Speaker 3: to want to get back together with you.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't change nothing. I didn't change nothing.
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: I think if I had it. and I really had it,
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: I would have to humble myself and get that person back.
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: I'd have to get them back. I mean, you know,
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: there's a point. Okay.
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: There's a point in time when a woman has had enough,
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: when she's had enough, you're not getting back in there. You,
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: no matter what you say or do, you can look,
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: they're done. But if there's that little, that little, you
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: know what? Maybe we'll talk later.
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: That's my shot. I'm going to try everything to get
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: back in. But then to say, you know what? You
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: did what you did. What we had is over. I'm
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: moving over. I'm moving on. And I suggest you two,
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: it's over. But if they go, you know what? I
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: do miss you sometimes. And sometimes, you know, and you're like, oh,
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: I'm going.
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: To get back in. Yeah.
• 13:33
  Speaker 5: Right on, baby.
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: Then after about four or five months, you realize, oh,
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: I see why I left. That does happen, too. So
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: I want to find out from you, have you ever
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: had a dumper's remorse? And what did you do? Did
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: you try to get that person back? Or you just
• 13:48
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  Speaker 1: That's where you broke up with someone and said, get
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: up out of here. I'm done with you. And out
• 14:24
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• 14:26
  Speaker 1: not the best move. I want to find out if
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: you have ever had it. I want to guard and hey, shell.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: So you had dumpers remorse.
• 14:35
  Speaker 7: I didn't have it. My ex-husband had it.
• 14:37
  Speaker 10: Oh.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: And what did he try to do to get you back?
• 14:42
  Speaker 7: Well, it's more the fact that he dumped me was
• 14:45
  Speaker 7: the best part of it. But just because he converted
• 14:49
  Speaker 7: to Catholicism, I adopted his daughter. And then he sat
• 14:52
  Speaker 7: me down at the kitchen table and said, you know,
• 14:54
  Speaker 7: I don't think I'm cut out for marriage.
• 14:56
  Speaker 6: So I left.
• 14:58
  Speaker 7: And then he told me, you know, several months later,
• 15:01
  Speaker 7: over and over again, you know, you've had your fun.
• 15:03
  Speaker 6: This has been real.
• 15:05
  Speaker 7: But you really, really need to come back home. Like,
• 15:07
  Speaker 7: I don't know what he didn't want me to take
• 15:09
  Speaker 7: it seriously. He had the best man from our wedding
• 15:12
  Speaker 7: show up at my house and say, look, if you
• 15:14
  Speaker 7: don't go back to him, I have failed my job
• 15:17
  Speaker 7: as the best man. I don't know what to tell you.
• 15:19
  Speaker 7: I don't know what to tell you. He told me
• 15:20
  Speaker 7: he was done to move on. And so I got
• 15:23
  Speaker 7: a divorce. And now he's got dumper's remorse.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 15:27
  Speaker 6: Wow.
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: The best. I mean, you know what?
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: You got to be hurting really bad to tell your
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: boy who's your best friend.
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: Hey, man, go over there and get it back.
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, you your boy, because he's the first one
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: is going to say, seriously, man, you messed it up.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: Move on.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Anybody that's a true best friend is going to tell
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: you that.
• 15:45
  Speaker 6: Has that ever worked?
• 15:47
  Speaker 7: Where, oh, you know what?
• 15:48
  Speaker 6: You're right.
• 15:49
  Speaker 7: I need to go back to my ex-husband.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: You know what, Shell?
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: As I mentioned before, if you had just, the door
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: was open just a little bit.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: But yours was closed and locked. It probably has worked.
• 16:00
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: I mean, it's not like a common thing. But with you,
• 16:03
  Speaker 5: the door was locked.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: And once the door was locked, you said, no, you're
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: not getting back in.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 16:08
  Speaker 6: No, no, we're done.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. That's the thing. And when she says she's done,
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: she is done. Right. Right. I got you. And the
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: thing is, like, hey, I care for you, but I
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: ain't going back.
• 16:21
  Speaker 7: Yeah, not after I invested so much and then you
• 16:24
  Speaker 7: tell me it's over and what. Now you're trying to
• 16:26
  Speaker 7: twist it like I'm the one who needed to go
• 16:28
  Speaker 7: have a midlife crisis.
• 16:30
  Speaker 6: No, no, it's done.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: You're like, more please.
• 16:34
  Speaker 7: Yes, yes, exactly.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: All right, thank you for sharing that.
• 16:38
  Speaker 7: Thank you.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: All right, bye-bye.
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: Honestly, nobody on Facebook has dumper's remorse.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they knew that the relationship had to end.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they said it's incredibly heavy. It's a unique kind
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: of grief. It's a mix of guilt, anxiety, realization that
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: the grass isn't greener on the other side. Here's something
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: that's funny. When you go back, the power dynamic in
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: a relationship shifts.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: It switches. Oh, yeah. Yes.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Because that person that you broke up with now has
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: the upper hand for sure.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Yes, because they came back. And now you got to
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: step on eggshells because you know what? I'll leave again. Because,
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: first of all, you told me to leave, so I
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: ain't comfortable enough.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: So you're like, do you want something to drink?
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Can I get you something to eat?
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: Now, that's a very unhealthy dynamic to have, though.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: It is. Look, if I had the power dynamic and
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: I break up with you and I go back, I mean,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I'm groveling.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I'm humbling.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, baby. And every day, can I get you something, blah, blah, blah. Yes,
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: you are in control at that particular time.
• 17:35
  Speaker 11: You just have to use the power responsibly.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: You ain't got to be a bitch.
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: You don't have to be.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: You can't abuse your power.
• 17:42
  Speaker 5: We understand that you're in charge here.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Brian, some people will do it just to get back
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: with you because you hurt them.
• 17:47
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• 17:56
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• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah. That can happen.