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Katy's Weekend of Love 7-20-26 · Dom and Jeremy

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Speaker 1: Jarkady and Josh six one hundred at one hundred point
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Speaker 1: three degrees today. So if you're planning your outfits, you
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Speaker 1: might want to wear something that doesn't show a lot
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Speaker 1: of sweat because it is definitely gonna be toasty today.
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Speaker 1: We're gonna hit that triple ditch as the as the
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Speaker 1: kids on the TikTok say, triple ditch. No I saw did?
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Speaker 2: Is that what they call it?
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Speaker 1: You see Denver today, bro Tripp Dig and deep down homie, See,
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Speaker 1: I'm pretty tapped in Okay, pretty tapped in the weather.
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Speaker 1: Tripp Dig all at you boys. Uh, it was definitely
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Speaker 1: hot this weekend too. We went and did putt putt.
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Speaker 1: We did the putt putts. I'm not a yeah, I'm
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Speaker 1: a pretty big golfer. Okay, I'm pretty good. I play
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Speaker 1: a lot of golf. So it was it was a
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Speaker 1: little embarrassing because I just whooped up on the family
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Speaker 1: so much. It was so good. I didn't let them win. Nah,
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Speaker 1: I killed it. I crushed did it put putt just
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Speaker 1: But I do a lot of golf. I'm pretty well
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Speaker 1: known in the golf community.
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Speaker 2: So Jeremy Gilmour over here.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeremy Woods, so the thing about putt putt tiger.
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Speaker 2: Sorry, go ahead.
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Speaker 1: I don't talk about it a lot. I'd never try
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Speaker 1: to stay humble about it.
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Speaker 2: Never heard this story.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so Scotty's chaffrun chef, Scotty shot. He's always calling me.
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Speaker 3: He always comes in second to you.
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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, for you trying to think of some other golfers,
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Speaker 1: Tiger Woods. There you go, Tiger Woods. He calls me
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Speaker 1: for advice from time to time.
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Speaker 2: Come to you.
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Speaker 1: Here's the things on the putt spots. So when you're
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Speaker 1: out there playing, it's funny. You get through about ten
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Speaker 1: holes and then you just essentially just say.
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Speaker 2: Ah, you're over it, right, You're kind of like you're
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Speaker 2: trying to play.
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Speaker 1: After about ten holes, you're like, I'm so over this,
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Speaker 1: and you just start smacking the ball. It doesn't matter,
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Speaker 1: and you just one point. At multiple points, I picked
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Speaker 1: up the ball and just put it in the hole,
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Speaker 1: or I'd kick it, you know a little bit. And
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Speaker 1: the kids were doing the same thing. At some point,
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Speaker 1: I had a big thing of like a water jug
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Speaker 1: because it was so damn hot. I just kept holding
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Speaker 1: on to that with my left hand and I would
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Speaker 1: just swing the club with my right, just not even
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Speaker 1: just dnk dink, don't even care dnk. And the other
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Speaker 1: things about the putts butts is it's so stressful because
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Speaker 1: you got people coming up behind them.
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Speaker 4: Oh that's the worst part about pressure.
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Speaker 1: Feel the pressure to like quickly go because you got
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Speaker 1: people coming up behind you, and especially if it's two
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Speaker 1: like singles there they're on a date or something like that,
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Speaker 1: you know, and they're standing there looking at you. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you feel the pressure to be like, okay, kids, go
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Speaker 1: go faster, go faster, go faster, instead of you probably
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Speaker 1: could just let them go. I didn't do that because
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Speaker 1: I'm a jerk.
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Speaker 4: You could totally let him go, Like, yeah, you can
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Speaker 4: let them go ahead of you. I held my ground,
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Speaker 4: so you made it even more awkward.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but it was fine. It was fine. My
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Speaker 1: wife got a group on like months ago and it
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Speaker 1: expired yesterday. I've had this for six months, Like, we
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Speaker 1: better use it.
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Speaker 4: I was, like, the best word about putt putt though,
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Speaker 4: is you can use all those happy Gilmore lines, right,
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Speaker 4: like I love to look.
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Speaker 2: At the ball and be like, you don't like your home.
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Speaker 2: It's too good for your home ball, go to your home.
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Speaker 2: And then Katie learned to plas.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't do that.
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Speaker 4: No, you need to enjoy it more. Reenact Gilmore on
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Speaker 4: your own golf course.
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Speaker 1: We did a lot of it, and I was like,
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Speaker 1: you guys hungry. Yeah, we're done and we're done here.
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Speaker 1: So do we all love Jimothy?
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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness? What is he?
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Speaker 4: So? I know what?
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Speaker 1: He's a raccoon?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just man is famous as he should be.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I've never seen anything like Jimmothy.
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Speaker 1: I can't get enough of everything I see Jimothy videos.
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Speaker 1: I stop on it, I watch him.
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Speaker 4: I love the video that that one lady put up
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Speaker 4: and she's like, what am I looking at?
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Speaker 1: So, if you're not familiar, Jimothy is a wild raccoon
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Speaker 1: from Seattle and he's gone viral over the past week
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Speaker 1: or so because of his very unique, squished appearance.
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Speaker 3: Ain't got no neck.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And the person who first spotted him filmed him
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Speaker 1: and said, this just looks like a Jimothy. So Jimothy
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Speaker 1: is stuck. So he's got a spinal deformity. It's similar
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Speaker 1: to something called short spine syndrome which dogs can get,
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Speaker 1: which means he was born with fused or missing vertebrae,
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Speaker 1: which gives him a very short, round body with no
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Speaker 1: visible neck. Think of a raccoon that ran full steam
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Speaker 1: into a wall.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, squished the accordion in the cartoon.
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Speaker 1: So he looks like a walking orb on long legs,
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Speaker 1: and he is I'm zipping around this Seattle neighborhood. And
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Speaker 1: at first when you see him, you're like, WHOA, that's creepy. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that's a creepy little raccoon. But the more you watch him,
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Speaker 1: you're like, Oh, this little fellow's going to be cute.
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Speaker 2: I feel bad for it. I want to hug him.
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Speaker 2: I want to hug Jimothy so bad. You cuddle him
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Speaker 2: so much.
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Speaker 1: I want to pet the gym.
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Speaker 2: Oh, he's so cute.
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Speaker 4: Like they need to make little stuff Jimothy's and sell them.
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Speaker 1: I would imagine they're.
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Speaker 2: Out happen, needs to happen.
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Speaker 1: I love all the Jimothy memes, the Jimothy posts. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: the best one I saw the other day I think
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Speaker 1: I might have reposted it. It was look like a hand
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Speaker 1: drawing of Jimothy and it's at the bottom of it
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Speaker 1: just says it's okay to be unique.
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Speaker 2: Jimmothy, let your light shine.
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Speaker 1: Veterinarians, scientists, biologists, whatever. They're confirming that this guy is
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Speaker 1: happy and healthy and he's getting around just fine in
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Speaker 1: the wild. And little does he know, he's an Internet superstar.
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Speaker 4: This is what I love when the Internet is used
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Speaker 4: for good is just keep doing that.
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Speaker 3: Right.
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Speaker 1: If you're not familiar in all this is, all you
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Speaker 1: have to do is hop on a Google and search
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Speaker 1: Jimothy right now and you're welcome. Squished up a little raccoon. Well,
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Speaker 1: it's all you okay, I'm not ever gonna set this up.
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Speaker 2: You're not even gonna set it up.
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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna sit best relax.
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Speaker 4: You know how excited I was for Chicago guy to
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Speaker 4: come into town.
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Speaker 2: I mean I did all the things to get ready
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Speaker 2: for it.
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Speaker 4: I over prepared times ten for him to come to
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Speaker 4: my house and spend the weekend with me.
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Speaker 2: And you know, I picked him up from.
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Speaker 4: The airport and there was a long, big hug and
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Speaker 4: it seemed great. We're like driving back to my house
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Speaker 4: and you know, just talking about the things that we're
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Speaker 4: going to do and everything, and that drive home seemed
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Speaker 4: pretty normal.
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Speaker 3: As I was gonna say, was it flirting and cute?
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Speaker 2: It was?
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Speaker 3: It awkward because I haven't seen each other in so long.
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Speaker 4: It was flirtying cute, not tickling. This is more like,
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Speaker 4: you know, he's we're just talking about the plans for
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Speaker 4: the weekend, right and it's just very exciting. And you know,
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Speaker 4: we get to my house and uh, it was really
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Speaker 4: just us sitting on the couch and watching movie after movie.
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Speaker 4: And I'm telling you my couch. I have the regular
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Speaker 4: standard sized couch. I'm on one side of it. He
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Speaker 4: is on the complete other side of the couch. The
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Speaker 4: entire four movies.
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Speaker 1: I'm just like, watch four movies, movies, and.
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Speaker 4: He took a nap during one of them. Mind you,
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Speaker 4: we didn't even go lay down in the bed to
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Speaker 4: take a nap together. Just so weak because he got
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Speaker 4: up early movie. He got up early to get on
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Speaker 4: the plane. I had been up early just because I
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Speaker 4: was nervous and so like we both kind of needed
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Speaker 4: to take a nap.
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Speaker 2: But he just fell asleep right there on the couch.
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Speaker 4: Started snoring full force while he's sitting up and everything,
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Speaker 4: and so it was just very much like this is
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Speaker 4: not how I anticipated it, right, Like the.
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Speaker 1: Whole picture embrace.
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Speaker 4: Any exactly, And I'm a huge fan of the making out.
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Speaker 4: It's like my favorite thing.
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Speaker 3: I could do that all day, we both.
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Speaker 4: Know, and I just like really wanted to do that,
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Speaker 4: And so I was thinking, at least laying on the couch,
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Speaker 4: that would be the moment for that they could embrace,
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Speaker 4: like that would be just the start of what we're
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Speaker 4: gonna move it on into the bedroom. Right, So four
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Speaker 4: movies of sitting on opposite ends of the couch, and
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Speaker 4: then when it finally is time to go to bed,
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Speaker 4: there is that. You know, we lay in bed and
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Speaker 4: we start with the making out a little bit, but
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Speaker 4: that's all of a minute. It's all a minute, and
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Speaker 4: then there's a little bit of tile tile tickle, and then.
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Speaker 1: It is is tle tile tile.
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Speaker 4: Not even that thirty seconds of tickle tiggle like that's it,
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Speaker 4: Like that's it, and then not tle tiggle into it
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Speaker 4: and I'm not ready, not ready, And so that to me.
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Speaker 1: You gotta worm motor up.
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Speaker 4: I was so disappointed because I had to work to
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Speaker 4: it up in my brain to the level of this
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Speaker 4: is my person. I like, I can't think about anyone
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Speaker 4: but you. I want to put my hands all over you.
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Speaker 4: And I thought that's what he was thinking about. Me
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Speaker 4: as well, and clearly he was not. He was thinking
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Speaker 4: about one thing and that's what I did whatever. Like
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Speaker 4: it just made me upset because it was like all
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Speaker 4: about him, like there was nothing where it was what
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Speaker 4: are we going to do to make Katie happy?
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Speaker 2: None of that and so and so I called him
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Speaker 2: out on it. I was just because he's like, is
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Speaker 2: everything okay? Are you finning?
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Speaker 4: Was like, no, not really because this and I like
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Speaker 4: kind of let him have it a little bit, like,
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Speaker 4: you know, I really like you. I have really liked
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Speaker 4: you for almost five years now. It is so hard
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Speaker 4: for me to think that you don't feel this way
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Speaker 4: about me, you know, like I wanted, excuse me, this
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Speaker 4: to be the moment that we got to like share
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Speaker 4: our feelings with each other embrace, and instead it was
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Speaker 4: like I meant nothing to him. He meant everything to me,
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Speaker 4: and I just wanted him to tell me, you know,
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Speaker 4: if you're not feeling this and tell me, like, this
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Speaker 4: is your chance to be Like it is just a
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Speaker 4: booty call. It is just you know, me wanting to
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Speaker 4: go to a different city and see some things, and
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Speaker 4: you live there, so it's a convenience that I can
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Speaker 4: stay with you if that is the case. This is
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Speaker 4: your chance to tell me now, don't string me along
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Speaker 4: for another five years. I can't do this for another
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Speaker 4: five years. And I and I told him, I was like,
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Speaker 4: you know, I am so like in like with you.
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Speaker 4: I didn't drop Ltward just because I was like I
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Speaker 4: don't want him, you know, like I didn't want to
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Speaker 4: do that, but I did like tell.
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Speaker 2: Him like I really like you and so much so much.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I told him I was like so much
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Speaker 4: so that I don't entertain anybody else, like I don't.
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Speaker 2: Date other people.
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Speaker 4: I have almost a complex to where nobody like measures
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Speaker 4: up to you.
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Speaker 2: And he like his response to me.
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Speaker 4: And this is one of those things when people tell
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Speaker 4: you things and.
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Speaker 2: It will stay with you for the rest of your life.
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Speaker 2: This is one of those.
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Speaker 3: And he's.
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Speaker 5: Who he said, I didn't mean to make you feel
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Speaker 5: a certain type of way. So there is that and
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Speaker 5: it just like for me, I guess what was so
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Speaker 5: disappointed about the pointing about it is this, I really
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Speaker 5: did like him, and I, you know, feel like there
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Speaker 5: is just such a disconnect after this.
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Speaker 4: One, after this visit with him, and are you done?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So this is it for sure?
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Speaker 4: But you know, it was just so you know, and
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Speaker 4: I and having time to unpack these feelings and everything,
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Speaker 4: and now I can kind of understand what made me
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Speaker 4: feel like that. Yeah, And a lot of it was
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Speaker 4: like I was sitting on my couch with this feeling
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Speaker 4: of looking at him like I just wanted to embrace him,
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Speaker 4: and that is such a desperate feeling to have, and
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Speaker 4: I just hate like to be in that situation and
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Speaker 4: feel desperate.
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Speaker 2: Ah God, it was awful. So anyway, enough about that.
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Speaker 1: That night was just well, I was very much like
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Speaker 1: to lighten the mood a little bit. I did text
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Speaker 1: I think it was you on Saturday morning. Yeah, I
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Speaker 1: remember what I said. I go, hey, how is your night?
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Speaker 1: And you rode back, Eh, it was just eh, I'm
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Speaker 1: over it, it's fine, and you're like he's still sleeping, yeah,
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Speaker 1: and like kind of an angry, annoyed face. Yeah, And
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Speaker 1: I go, well, that really sucks. And then my follow
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Speaker 1: up to you, because you had such anxiety about where
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Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom when he was here, I
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Speaker 1: wrote back, I go, why don't you go poof really
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Speaker 1: really loud in the next room, And you replied back, oh, IMG,
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Speaker 1: how crazy. I totally did that. You go, well, it
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Speaker 1: does doesn't matter anymore.
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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter anymore.
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Speaker 4: I worried so much about this and it doesn't even matter,
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Speaker 4: and you know it for you. Let me tell you
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Speaker 4: the thing to me that because when I when that
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Speaker 4: moment happened, and I was just like, you know, this
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Speaker 4: isn't fair.
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Speaker 2: You didn't care about me. He didn't care about me
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Speaker 2: at all when it came to any of this.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I realized that and I called him out
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Speaker 4: on it, and then he said, well, clearly there's just
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Speaker 4: no chemistry here when it comes to this.
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Speaker 2: And then that made me mad because I was like, oh, no,
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Speaker 2: you don't get.
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Speaker 4: To gaslight me and make me take part of the
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Speaker 4: blame and you being a jerk, No, that is not it.
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Speaker 4: It is not the chemistry because I if you would
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Speaker 4: have given to me what I gave to you, the
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Speaker 4: chemistry would have been out of the charts. They would
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Speaker 4: bottle this chemistry and sell it on Amazon, like it's funny, can't.
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Speaker 1: You're talking about this on me? The texting back and forth,
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Speaker 1: and he was a totally different person on the texting,
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Speaker 1: you know, with you know, hopes and dreams and things
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Speaker 1: and there was none of.
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Speaker 2: That, none of the things that he said he wanted.
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Speaker 1: To probably saw that weird Tanline you were talking about
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Speaker 1: that week. No, that was missed, not it never mind.
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Speaker 2: That wasn't it. No, it wasn't because he didn't even
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Speaker 2: make it that far. Jeremy, there was it that far.
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Speaker 4: But no, And I will tell you here's the thing,
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Speaker 4: is all this happened, and you know that was the
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Speaker 4: Friday night and then Saturday night it was even more
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Speaker 4: awkward because we were laying in the same bed with
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Speaker 4: each other but not doing any and I was just
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Speaker 4: like and then I told him again, I was like,
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Speaker 4: so is this this is a You're not even gonna
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Speaker 4: like have a conversation with me about it, Like we're
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Speaker 4: not even going to talk about it. And he was
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Speaker 4: just like, you know, I just don't feel I don't
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Speaker 4: don't want to talk. I don't want to All I
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Speaker 4: want to do is way here. And then he proceeded
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Speaker 4: to fall asleep and snore loudly. In I did not sleep,
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Speaker 4: and then I had to I had to do donor
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Speaker 4: Dash on Sunday, and I did not sleep more than
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Speaker 4: like an hour. I did go out on the couch
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Speaker 4: and sleep on my own couch because there was a
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Speaker 4: man in my bed not giving me nothing and snoring, like, oh,
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Speaker 4: it made.
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Speaker 2: Me so mad.
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Speaker 4: So then here's the thing that I did. Though Friday
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Speaker 4: into Saturday. I was feeling in a certain type of way,
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Speaker 4: and I was just like, you know what, I'm just
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Speaker 4: gonna I'm just gonna try and enjoy this as much
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Speaker 4: as I can while he's here. Like if he just
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Speaker 4: wants to be friends for the weekend, because we won't
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Speaker 4: be friends after this, then I'm just gonna make it work, right,
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Speaker 4: And so we were trying to do things.
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Speaker 2: We were sightseeing.
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Speaker 4: I was bringing them downtown and went by Ballerina, went
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Speaker 4: by a power field, Corsefield. He's big sports fan, so
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Speaker 4: I was showing them all that stuff. And then I
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Speaker 4: was like, hey, you've never been to the mountains. He
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Speaker 4: went down a Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs once,
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Speaker 4: but that's all he's seen of our landscape. And so
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Speaker 4: I was like, let's go into the Rockies. Like, let's
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Speaker 4: go I seventy westbound at least past the Eisenhower Tunnel.
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Speaker 4: We'll go to Silverthorn and then we'll make our way
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Speaker 4: back into the count it's like a two hour drive, right,
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Speaker 4: and so I was like, let's.
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Speaker 2: Go do that and he's like okay, And I knew
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Speaker 2: that was much chance to get him back.
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Speaker 4: So we went up there and I took those curves
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Speaker 4: like it was my job.
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Speaker 2: And he was hanging onto the oak crab handle. So
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Speaker 2: he's like, he's like, do you always drive like this?
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're in shade. And I'm like, Hollie,
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Speaker 2: that's a banked corner. You're fine, We're fine, Like it
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Speaker 2: was fine, it was.
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Speaker 1: Fine, Cliff, and shoved it down for a minute.
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Speaker 2: I got him puckered over those corners, Yes I did.
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Speaker 2: So I got him back just a little bit.
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Speaker 4: But it it definitely hurt to be in that situation.
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Speaker 4: But I am very proud of myself for knowing that
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Speaker 4: I am way too old to be telling a man
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Speaker 4: he needs.
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Speaker 2: To do his part, Like if if I just I can't, Well.
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Speaker 3: You're worth more than that too, understand that.
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Speaker 6: Like I want you to realize that you're getting a
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Speaker 6: lot of love on the text line as well, So
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Speaker 6: thank you to everybody else, but you are like Jeremy,
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Speaker 6: and I kind of saw that you weren't realizing your
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Speaker 6: own worth in how you were allowing this guy to
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Speaker 6: treat you for the longest time and it's.
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Speaker 3: Okay, love, it's five years. I love you blind.
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Speaker 1: Are you going to listen to us now?
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Speaker 2: I'm probably gonna listen.
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Speaker 1: I've got this whole time. I'm not going to say it.
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say I told you so, but
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Speaker 1: are you going to listen to us?
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Speaker 2: Jeremy was right.
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Speaker 3: He was right this entire time.
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Speaker 1: I was saying stuff about this clown on the air
17:15
Speaker 1: on Friday when you weren't here, and my wife even
17:17
Speaker 1: messaged me and it's like, hey, be nice, you know,
17:19
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, girl, yeah, like I have
17:23
Speaker 1: a hunch on Monday, it's not gonna be good.
17:26
Speaker 4: Well, And then even like when he got he's like
17:29
Speaker 4: at the airport when I dropped him off, you know.
17:31
Speaker 2: He's like, you gotta get out of the car and
17:33
Speaker 2: give me a hug.
17:33
Speaker 4: You can't just give me a hug sitting down. I
17:37
Speaker 4: had to get out of the car and give him
17:39
Speaker 4: a hug. And he's just like, we thank you so much.
17:42
Speaker 4: Make sure you take care of yourself.
17:44
Speaker 2: That's what he said.
17:45
Speaker 3: Good bye.
17:46
Speaker 4: So then I'll text you when I land right I
17:50
Speaker 4: fell asleep at six o'clock last night. I was so
17:52
Speaker 4: tired from a grown man snorm in my face all
17:54
Speaker 4: night the night before, I needed to sleep, So I
17:58
Speaker 4: fell asleep at six o'clock last night. He did end
18:00
Speaker 4: up texting me at seven point thirty, and I showed
18:03
Speaker 4: Josh the text, and it's very much like, oh, thank
18:05
Speaker 4: you for the best time. You are such an amazing
18:08
Speaker 4: person and I can't thank you enough. Blah blah blah,
18:11
Speaker 4: oh hard emoji's blah blah blah.
18:14
Speaker 1: At any point, did you ask him why the hell
18:17
Speaker 1: did you even come out here? Did why you came
18:20
Speaker 1: out to watch movies in sleep?
18:22
Speaker 2: I know, I said. I was like, why did you
18:24
Speaker 2: even come here if this is all you wanted to do?
18:26
Speaker 2: And he was, I want to hang out with my
18:28
Speaker 2: friend Katie dud dude. I was like, that's not what
18:31
Speaker 2: It's just like.
18:33
Speaker 4: He was trying so hard to put it back on
18:35
Speaker 4: me every time, and I realize, like again, this is
18:38
Speaker 4: me going back five years worth of instances and really
18:42
Speaker 4: realizing the gaslighting that this man has.
18:45
Speaker 2: Been doing to me.
18:45
Speaker 4: And it's fine, but I mean it's not fine. It's
18:48
Speaker 4: not fine anymore. It's not fine, and honestly, when he
18:53
Speaker 4: texted me that last night, I didn't respond because I
18:55
Speaker 4: was sleeping. I woke up this morning and saw it,
18:57
Speaker 4: and I have texted him back this morning.
18:59
Speaker 3: I like you, and I did.
19:00
Speaker 4: I was just like, I'm glad you landed safely. It's awesome,
19:04
Speaker 4: you had such a great time. Take care of yourself.
19:07
Speaker 3: Take care, take care.
19:09
Speaker 2: That's what I ended it with. So he hasn't texted back.
19:11
Speaker 2: I doubt you will. I was.
19:13
Speaker 4: I did go on social media and mute all of
19:15
Speaker 4: his accounts just so I won't see him. You showed
19:18
Speaker 4: him I need well, I need to and then maybe
19:20
Speaker 4: I will go block or unfriend him or whatever in
19:23
Speaker 4: the future. But at this point I just muted everything,
19:26
Speaker 4: and then I went on TikTok and tried to mute
19:28
Speaker 4: him and I unfollowed him on TikTok.
19:30
Speaker 1: So by accident.
19:32
Speaker 4: Fully no, but total by accident. But I'm not following
19:34
Speaker 4: him back because then he'll see that. So I unfollowing
19:37
Speaker 4: him and I'm okay with it.
19:40
Speaker 1: It's probably time that you do that on all accounts.
19:42
Speaker 1: Just I think for you it would be best to
19:46
Speaker 1: block him and just move on. Yeah, call this dead
19:50
Speaker 1: dead on arrival and uh and move on as quick
19:53
Speaker 1: as you can.
19:54
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will think so.
19:55
Speaker 4: I think the lesson I learned in all this is
19:57
Speaker 4: I really.
19:58
Speaker 2: Need somebody who's, like you know, can't keep their hands
20:02
Speaker 2: off me either.
20:03
Speaker 1: I need that like you back.
20:05
Speaker 4: I need that I need and I can't be that
20:08
Speaker 4: person who, just like you'll find worship somebody to Chicago
20:17
Speaker 4: and then not see him for five years.
20:19
Speaker 1: I know what it is.
20:21
Speaker 2: You know you need a local dude, you know I do.
20:23
Speaker 4: I need someone who's willing to put in the time
20:26
Speaker 4: and energy because you know I. The thing is too,
20:29
Speaker 4: is you guys I think can agree with me here.
20:31
Speaker 4: You know me well enough to know now I will
20:35
Speaker 4: give you the world, like when it comes to my friends.
20:39
Speaker 4: I mean, I love people so much and I will
20:41
Speaker 4: give you every part of me until I won't. And
20:45
Speaker 4: when I turn that energy off, it's like that dark side.
20:49
Speaker 2: Of the moon.
20:50
Speaker 4: You won't feel it anymore and you'll notice that like
20:53
Speaker 4: you didn't know that I gave you my energy when
20:55
Speaker 4: I gave it to you, but.
20:56
Speaker 2: You will feel it.
20:56
Speaker 1: Well, I don't watch it.
20:58
Speaker 4: So I'm just like, that's that's what I'm doing moving forward.
21:01
Speaker 1: Well, I'm sorry your weekends. Okay, I'm really sorry, but
21:04
Speaker 1: it's done. It's over with. You can move on now
21:06
Speaker 1: and flip this guy the bird and never see him again,
21:10
Speaker 1: you know, And I hope you stick to it, because
21:12
Speaker 1: you said this the last time when you went to Chicago.
21:16
Speaker 2: I feel this, though, I feel this.
21:18
Speaker 4: I felt so confused every other time as to where
21:20
Speaker 4: we stood when we departed ways like that was the
21:23
Speaker 4: thing is, there's so much.
21:24
Speaker 2: Confusion, and I am not confused now.
21:27
Speaker 4: I know how this man feels about me, and he
21:29
Speaker 4: probably won't take any rides in the Rocky mountains and
21:31
Speaker 4: he
21:35
Speaker 1: Let's got's go.