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WAYS TO PUNISH YOUR SUBMISSIVE - HAVE YOU BEEN A BAD GIRL OR BOY? · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me Madame Liv.
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  Hey guys. So no Spanish, nothing quirky
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  today, just that. I'm not today I'm wearing a nice
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  outfit, so I feel like I gotta be a little bit nicer.
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  Oh. I'm gonna be classy.
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  Oh, classy. And you're a denim.
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  Yeah. I like denim.
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  Well, we're overalls too. Yeah.
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  So Madame Liv and I, we have, we've spent a lot of time
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  shopping for one and we have, we have kind of like the same
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  similar tastes with a lot of things.
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  We really do. But interestingly enough, you're
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  more of the denim jeans and the denim jacket and all that.
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  And see, I was doing that when I was 14.
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  I don't look 14 today, do I? You do.
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  I do Oh. You do you look.
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  Really. I feel like a woman right now.
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  You look. Very middle school.
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  It's cute. Maybe I'm.
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  Stuck in middle school, I like in the era of my yeah.
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  You might be, you might be because I mean, it's, it's a
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  good look for you. It's my ass isn't hanging out
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  we're OK your. Ass cannot hang out because your
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  ass is always like, you know, filling the jeans in a.
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  Proper way I meant like shorts like literally having hang out
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  the bottom. You know you could wear a size 6
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  if you didn't have that ass. Well.
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  Who wants to get rid of the? FI don't know but you know
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  what's interesting my nephew sent me a video the other day
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  and it was 2 beautiful girls and one girl she was special needs
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  she had a Down syndrome but they were both dancing.
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  They were adorable and it was funny because all these
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  comments, they popped up and that was the rest of the video
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  and it said don't matter what or how or who she is, that cake is
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  all in the right spots. You know, it was like her, her,
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  her syndrome might be down, but her cake is up or something like
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  that. I've seen that video, yeah.
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  I'm like what the hell? Is cute.
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  Yeah, she was definitely cute. She had, she had the gas.
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  She had, yeah. She was working.
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  Hard. Yeah, exactly.
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  But anywho, this brings me up to talking about the whole concept
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  of submissives. And you?
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  And I both know we talk about this quite a bit is we have a a
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  lot of submissives come to the dungeon.
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  That's that's a pretty, pretty average regular thing that they
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  come to the dungeon. So you have a lot of different
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  ideas on how to punish your submissives.
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  Yeah. But the only thing is, is having
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  the the the dungeon as the space makes it harder to to play like
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  that 'cause I'm more of like a long term like slave type
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  torture. Like kneeling in rice because
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  you didn't do something right or not being able to watch TV.
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  Kind of almost like grounding them from certain things and
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  can't really do that in the dungeon play.
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  OK, I get that. Well, you see enough people that
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  come to the dungeon repeatedly. Mm hmm, that might be something
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  you couldn't. Cooperate after puppy comes
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  back. Oh.
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  You're ready for. Puppy because a lot of like the
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  people I have regulars aren't like really Subs.
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  Mm hmm, like puppy's a sub. He's more he's a he battles back
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  and forth. OK, so he's not really sub, but
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  he's kind of a sub. And then we have the one that I
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  just whipped and then put him in a diaper and then pulled him.
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  I have that one. Yeah, but he wouldn't, he's not
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  really into punishment. So I would have to get another
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  another person in that would be more likely to be more of a
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  regular for me to punish like that.
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  OK. Any takers?
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  Any tankers? Oh goodness.
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  Well, you know, it's really important because a lot of
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  people, we've had episodes before where we've talked about,
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  you know, punishment for your submissives.
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  And I think it gives a lot of people ideas on how they can
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  incorporate those on a daily. Yes, what a.
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  Daily basis like like the kneeling and rice for one.
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  But you know, it really is punishment.
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  You know the crime, the punishments got to fit the
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  crime. You can't just be like whipping
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  the crap out of somebody just because they forgot to wear a
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  specific kind of shoe that you asked for.
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  Like, well, if they're not wearing the right shoes, then
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  they're going to be wearing something that's like maybe got
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  flip flops with little spikes in them.
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  Well, now you got to wear that all day because you don't wear
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  what you're supposed to wear. Gotcha.
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  You know what I mean? So now they have to deal with
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  that pain and be remembered all day that they didn't do
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  something to know they have to have live with the consequences.
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  OK. So let's use my submissive for
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  example, OK, The other night he was pissed because we have a
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  sick dog. And after he said it, he was mad
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  at himself. But he's like, this has just got
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  to stop. You keep getting me woken up in
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  the middle of the night. And I mean, he just went on this
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  five minute rant and I'm just like, yeah, I'm letting you take
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  that all in, have your little 5 minute rant because when it's
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  all said and done, you know you're going to get punished.
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  And he'll he'll usually kind of mock me just for extra attention
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  and usually. Subs will do that.
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  They do they. Test it they.
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  Do, and I don't necessarily like that terminology.
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  Bratty, but that's what it is, you know?
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  But afterwards he was like, I'm sorry, mistress, I'm so sorry.
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  I'll go to bed. I'll be quiet now.
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  And I'm like, yeah, you will be. And you're lucky that you
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  apologized, because if you didn't, when you are in that
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  next compromising position, you have gotten punished.
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  How would you have punished? Well, see, that would be a
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  question. Normally if he was to do
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  something like that, I would go ahead and let him have an orgasm
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  right off the RIP when he's in a bondage bag or he's in the latex
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  back bed and he can't do anything about it.
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  What about keeping him out of the bed?
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  You're gonna complain about sleeping then?
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  You can't sleep here. You have to sleep on the floor
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  next to me. Oh wow, you're hardcore.
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  I don't have carpeted floors, I mean.
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  That would be, it's a punishment that would be bad.
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  You know, like you want your punishments to be real
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  punishments because you don't want that to happen again.
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  We're fixing this attitude. I could have him sleep in the
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  doggy bed, that would be a good idea.
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  Yeah, well, that's exactly what they want there.
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  You. Can tell you take notes.
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  Have you ever seen they actually had this slave bed where they
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  have a cage for the slave they can have to actually layout, but
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  the mattress is on top of it so it's a whole other compartment
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  under the box. Spring.
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  Does it go underneath your bed? Yeah.
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  Oh, that's. Cool.
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  Yeah, it's like a sex drawer basically.
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  And the sex slave goes in the drawer.
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  Yeah, that's a good punishment. Yeah, I like that.
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  Especially if you're complaining about sleeping with a dog that's
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  sick and keeping them up. I know.
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  OK, well now you're gonna not sleep with me in warm bed.
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  Yes, little fucker. Little fucker.
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  I have to do that next time. That's why I'm saying long term
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  relationships for BDSM, like the Dom work, yeah, is so fun.
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  That's why people like like to get a little taste of it when
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  they come in to kind of like get that feeling because it's fun.
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  It is. Fun it is.
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  It's a it's a sex game is what it is.
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  It really is. And, you know, a lot of people
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  don't get it because I can imagine you being out in a
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  public around your family, and then you're kind of put in that
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  position. And it's like ro, Yeah.
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  Like being made to sit on your hands.
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  Yeah. In the middle of talking with
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  people in your family at a dinner table because you did
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  something wrong during the Tinder table?
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  Yeah, that's exactly what would be exactly.
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  Exactly right. You know what's really funny?
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  So when I went to see my in laws in this last visit up to
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  Vermont, I went up there, my husband and we were we were
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  talking and and my husband did something and it was kind of
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  like a little smart assy, you know, little comment.
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  And his mother, it shot the fuck out of me actually said, well,
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  you know, if he's going to use that kind of attitude, he just
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  needs to be spanked. And I was like.
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  Mom said. Mom said that.
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  Oh my God, did he turn red? Oh my God.
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  Yeah. And he walking like walked away
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  a little bit, but he was still within, like, earshot.
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  And I said, yeah, you know, you were absolutely right.
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  He does need a spanking. He is so naughty.
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  And I was like, God, fucking sick.
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  Is this shit? You know what another good
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  punishment would be? Is like removing the collar.
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  Oh wow. Permanent Permanent collar.
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  That's hardcore. That that's a really juicy one.
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  That's like they had to do something really bad, but again,
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  fits the crime. Yeah.
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  And and that's a thing, you know, it's like what to do to
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  give people ideas of what they can do, you know?
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  Rubber bands. Rubber bands.
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  I was gonna say, my slave boys, sometimes he loves to take a hot
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  shower and when he doesn't, you know, when he wants to take that
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  hot shower and he's acted like a Dick, I'll say, you know what,
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  I'm gonna go take a bath first. So your showers not going to be
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  as long, you know, So I'll fill that tub all the way.
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  Cut the hot water off you. God, you're.
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  Fucking mean. Well, I'm just, I love.
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  This shit cut the hot water off and make a pig.
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  You know, it's actually good for their body anyways to take a
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  cold shower, so. Oh shit, we've got like 40°
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  weather right now so you're being mean.
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  I love him. He ain't got a lot of hair, so.
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  You know Bree will tell you this.
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  One of her doms back in the day made her sleep in a bathtub with
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  one inch of water. Oh, that's cruel.
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  See. She must have done the bad.
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  Oh, she I'm sure she did. One time she was so bad because,
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  you know, she used to be submissive to me.
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  One time she was so bad she'd run her mouth being needy.
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  I said, you know what, I got a got a little surprise for you.
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  You're go out to the beach and you're going to meet a gentleman
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  at this address, have fun. And she's like, OK, you know,
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  part of her was like, this is so exciting.
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  And the other part is I don't know what to expect.
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  Well, who was it? Well, it was a guy that has this
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  big ass boat wench in his basement of his beach house in
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  the garage and he went and put her in cuffs and ankle cuffs and
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  wrist cuffs and made her get hooked to this boat winch and
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  made her feet stationary, right. So he's cranking on this winch
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  and she said her arms felt like they were going to pop out of
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  the socket. Well, stretched her the fuck
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  out. That's why she's taller now.
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  But you know, since her feet were outstretched, her whole
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  body was outstretched and her feet were like stretched out her
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  arms and everything. Her arms were out above her
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  head. He started doing bastionado
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  which is a beating the feet and he would use cane.
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  He would use canes and different type of implements but mainly
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  canes. This is.
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  A hot punishment that you you put her on.
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  Oh yeah. Walked right into it.
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  Walked right into it. And I like that she thought it
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  was going to be something else. And he beat the fuck out of her
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  feet until they were they were drawing blood.
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  Oh. Dang, yeah, yeah, a lot of.
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  Mercy. It was hardcore.
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  And then after the fact, because he was basically renting her for
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  doing this, he was like, oh, I'll pay you a fee.
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  So if I can really take out my aggression on someone, I said
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  fuck yeah, you know? So when she did this, he paid
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  her $400.00. Nice.
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  And so I messaged her and I said, hey, when you're done, you
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  bring the money back to me. So she came back and dropped the
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  money off to me, and so I'm the one who got the $400.
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  Well, so that's how your. Slave should, should roll,
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  right? And that was the other thing.
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  She never really wanted to be called a slave so much as a
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  submissive. But ultimately, you know, I
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  think you, you go to that direction of being a slave.
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  I mean, yeah, submissives, I mean, fall into that eventually.
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  I would think so, right? I mean, when you start off, you
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  start off as a mild submissive where you're just like just
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  during sex play. And then it goes beyond that
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  where it's beyond sex, Yeah. And then beyond, you know,
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  beyond that it's like long term everyday submission.
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  And that's slave work, so. Yeah.
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  All right. So totally off that topic, since
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  we're talking about slaves and submissives, here we go.
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  I have this switch who wrote me on fat.
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  He's like, you're very kind to actually reply to my e-mail,
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  beautiful mistress. I'm like, oh, kiss ass.
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  Just kidding. I heard your podcast and I
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  simply have fallen in love with your voice.
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  You should be. I don't know what RJ is.
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  Wish I could hear you more. You should be.
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  And I don't know if that's OK. Whatever.
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  So then there's another one. It says, Mr. Smea, love your
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  show, especially when you do ABDL shows.
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  Since I'm ABDL myself, it lets me hear other perspectives on
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  how others see and feel about it.
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  Yeah. So, Liv, I think this brings us
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  to a closing of the latest episode of.
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  Call me Mistress. Call me Mistress or like it.
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  Bye, guys.