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EP #49: What NOT To Do For Mother’s Day + A Dad Hack that May Get Us Arrested | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 2: Four the Dads. The theme of this episode is going
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  Speaker 2: to be the Obstacle is the Way Mother's Day weekend edition?
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  Speaker 2: Oh good good. One of us had to learn the
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  Speaker 2: hard way. Yeah, one of us had to embrace the
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  Speaker 2: hard way. Yeah, we'll get into that here in a bit.
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  Speaker 2: But I hope the trash is taken out. I hope
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  Speaker 2: you've kissed your loved ones before going to work, because,
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  Speaker 2: and to highlight.
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  Speaker 3: Two communities that are they're in their early stages, of
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  Speaker 3: their pre pubescent stages.
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  Speaker 1: PT fit Yeah, just you're get.
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  Speaker 3: In shape, workout, get outside with your kids, go off
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  Speaker 3: king uh PT fit over here and now we have
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  Speaker 3: this very new one. It's in the newborn stage. There's
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  Speaker 3: only rumors about it. PT fix and those are your
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  Speaker 3: handy dads. Yeah, those are your handy Yeah, those blue collars.
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  Speaker 1: The handy dads. It's been in the dms.
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  Speaker 2: They've been in the comments sections about having the handy
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  Speaker 2: the PT fixers on yeah, which we.
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  Speaker 1: Are diving into.
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  Speaker 2: We are are finding the path of having sit downs
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  Speaker 2: with our PT fixers. But speaking of PT fit, mark
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  Speaker 2: your calendars. We got to do some housekeeping.
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  Speaker 4: We do.
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  Speaker 1: We got to do some housekeeping.
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  Speaker 2: This has been announced, but we're going to continue to
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  Speaker 2: to uh push it home. We are going to be
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  Speaker 2: doing an outdoor and collaborating with.
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  Speaker 1: Bar three of Nashville.
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  Speaker 2: Bar three is a fitness brand owned my wife owns
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  Speaker 2: the studios.
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  Speaker 1: Here in Nashville.
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  Speaker 2: Bar three here in Nashville, and we are doing a
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  Speaker 2: collaboration an outdoor event. If you will a Bar three
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  Speaker 2: class where you can sign up and register for free,
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  Speaker 2: we will drop the link. I'm sure you'll see it
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  Speaker 2: on the screen. We will drop the link in our
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  Speaker 2: bio to where you can go register and sign up
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  Speaker 2: for free that date that collaboration is happening on May thirtieth.
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  Speaker 2: Bar three usually has two outdoor classes a year. This
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  Speaker 2: one is one of their tempole, one of their big ones.
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  Speaker 2: They're doing a collaboration with for the dads, bringing pap
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  Speaker 2: a team six Milk Team six Bar three fitness connoisseurs
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  Speaker 2: all together will be outdoor. Where's it at Shelby Bottoms
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  Speaker 2: Shelby Bottoms and that will be on May thirtieth. So
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  Speaker 2: if you're a local or you're in the Nashville area
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  Speaker 2: around May thirtieth, make sure you register and sign up
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  Speaker 2: at the link still be everywhere. If you also want
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  Speaker 2: to go find it, It'll be at Bar three Nashville
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  Speaker 2: on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: You can go and find that information.
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  Speaker 3: And I could be talking completely out of the side
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  Speaker 3: of my mouth, so correct me if I'm wrong. But
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  Speaker 3: will you approached me maybe a week ago and you
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  Speaker 3: asked me sherman thoughts on a dunk tank?
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  Speaker 1: I did?
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  Speaker 3: Will there be a dunk tank where Sikos can dunk
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  Speaker 3: before the Dad's crew into a dunk tank. That's the
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  Speaker 3: that's the rumor right now. That's the rumor, right We
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  Speaker 3: don't know if that's going to be real. Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 3: fully prepared.
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  Speaker 2: My wife asked like, hey, if there's a dunk tank,
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  Speaker 2: but that was a fleeting.
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  Speaker 3: It was like a one. Okay, I don't know if
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  Speaker 3: it has legs, but we have we're having ideas like that.
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  Speaker 3: If that gives you any incentive to want to sign up.
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  Speaker 3: There's gonna be a lot of fun stuff going on.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, myself shirm. Obviously, my wife will be teaching the class.
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  Speaker 2: Jilly Bean will be there, Deeke will be there, Chef
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  Speaker 2: Daddy will be there.
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  Speaker 4: Correct, ladies, Yeah, can Cat Bobo come. I don't have
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  Speaker 4: to talk to Bobo. She's probably working. She works every weekend.
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  Speaker 4: Bobo's working. That's the current issue we're dealing with. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we got to get the ladies if we can. If
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  Speaker 4: they have to work, obviously, we fully understand.
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  Speaker 1: But this is a great moment for mom's, dads, everybody.
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  Speaker 1: We can come together.
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  Speaker 2: We sign up. We're all gonna be there. We're gonna
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  Speaker 2: be taking class. It's not gonna be like a meet
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  Speaker 2: and greet or anything like that. It's just gonna be
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  Speaker 2: us getting pet fit, getting right with the lord outside.
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  Speaker 1: With Bar three.
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  Speaker 2: They're also partnering with a local charity Family Alliance and
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  Speaker 2: Music fam the acronym for for short for short for
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  Speaker 2: short for short all that that is a charity that
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  Speaker 2: partners with families in the music appearance in the music industry,
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  Speaker 2: helps them with resources, helps them with any procedures throughout
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  Speaker 2: throughout fertility but cool Local charity Bar three for the
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  Speaker 2: Dads Music City Come Home, Nashville, Tennessee.
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  Speaker 3: An additional layer to go full circle and bring it
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  Speaker 3: back to pet fit. Willy see, if you don't mind
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  Speaker 3: grabbing that black shirt that's right on the very end,
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  Speaker 3: the right side of that coat hanger.
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  Speaker 1: What will, yes, sir? What will is grabbing right now? Folks?
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  Speaker 3: Is an athletic fit a dryfit material PT fit shirt
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  Speaker 3: that is available on bwtb dot com. Look, if you
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  Speaker 3: are a PT fiddo, would that be like a ptsico
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  Speaker 3: that's also a PT fiddo or a yeah PT thick.
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  Speaker 3: If you're rocking this shirt at the May thirtieth the event there,
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  Speaker 3: it's literally no questions asked.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, okay, he he is sick in the head,
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  Speaker 1: PT Sickoh that guy gets it. Got the little Teddy bear,
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  Speaker 1: the bottle hanging, the shaker cup, you got the weight.
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  Speaker 1: You got the coffee.
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  Speaker 2: I'm rocking two coffees right here, because the caffeine's got
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  Speaker 2: to be hot.
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  Speaker 1: He's got the lifting belt on.
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  Speaker 2: He's got the lifting belt on to protect the low back.
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  Speaker 2: We all know we need to protect our low back.
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  Speaker 2: He's jacked because because of course everybody that's a pet,
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  Speaker 2: fiddo or jack.
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  Speaker 3: Sure we we should get the elastic lifting belts, like
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  Speaker 3: you know, like the kind of lighter ones.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we should get those for the bar three event.
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  Speaker 3: I might actually need it hearing how much core stuff
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  Speaker 3: you're doing.
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  Speaker 1: Buddy, you'll be trust me.
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  Speaker 3: That's why we'll shaking get one of those belts versus
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  Speaker 3: the women.
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  Speaker 1: Will be dummying us. It's a great ego check.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, swallow your pride and sweat with the boys and
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  Speaker 2: the gud and the girls. Great housekeeping. Oh we got
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of comments. Deliver again. We are big reading comments.
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  Speaker 2: I'm looking at a crack of coal. When we got
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  Speaker 2: shout outs PT six community, we got dad acts, we
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  Speaker 2: got emails if you want to call in and leave
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  Speaker 2: a voicemail.
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  Speaker 1: We also have a hot line six oh one the Dad.
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  Speaker 2: You can call into that hot line event to us However,
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  Speaker 2: you want a great way to kick off a callback
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  Speaker 2: to the hot line call in we had last week? Gabriel, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: who's patting down? He was beaten down last week? He
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  Speaker 2: was the enthusiasm wasn't fully there. We were busting his
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  Speaker 2: balls a little bit. He's like, shout out my wife,
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  Speaker 2: putting up with my military bullshit and then raising a
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  Speaker 2: seven month old.
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  Speaker 3: Right now, his balls on the internet. He's probably sitting
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  Speaker 3: there and going, oh, great, glad I called into that shit.
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  Speaker 1: God damn it.
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  Speaker 2: Why didn't I have a little bit more energy? However,
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  Speaker 2: we have, We have a lifeline right right here. His
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  Speaker 2: wife rode in on Instagram and left a comment, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: good Mother's day. Shout out the mother aka dad, shout
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  Speaker 2: out what's up?
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  Speaker 1: Guys.
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  Speaker 2: I am the wife of Gabriel, the dad who called
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  Speaker 2: in on your Mother's Day episode. I wanted to give
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  Speaker 2: some insight on why Dad sounded so in it. The
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  Speaker 2: night he called in, he had just put down our
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  Speaker 2: daughter to bed on his own. Dad whin dinner, routine, lotion,
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  Speaker 2: sleepsack everything. I stay at home with our seven month
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  Speaker 2: old little girl, Tatum aka Tater Todd.
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  Speaker 1: God.
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  Speaker 2: I love that she's twenty three pounds thirty inches long.
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  Speaker 2: Gabe is always there to give me a break when needed,
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  Speaker 2: or takes night or takes over nighttime routine to allow
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  Speaker 2: me to get in a workout or just have some
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  Speaker 2: me time. I could not have chosen a better person
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  Speaker 2: to start a family with the military life is hard,
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  Speaker 2: and even harder when littles are involved. He makes it
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  Speaker 2: look easy, and I'm beyond proud of watching the guy
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  Speaker 2: I fell in love with become a dad. Thank you
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  Speaker 2: for reminding us we were not alone in this chapter
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  Speaker 2: of our lives. Shockwave tonight for sure, Kat shot Gabriel.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, dude, Gabriel killed it.
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  Speaker 3: Here's a picture of their family by the way, Oh
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  Speaker 3: we got a photo.
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  Speaker 1: We have a photo.
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  Speaker 3: Did Gay bright in again? Gay roede in as well?
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  Speaker 3: You see he wrote in he dropped an email. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: he wrote in in defense of himself, almost to apologize,
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  Speaker 3: which he owes no apology. He owes no apology and
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  Speaker 3: essentially echoes exactly what his wife said.
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  Speaker 1: It's very beautifully written.
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  Speaker 3: When he's like, guys, I just want to let you
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  Speaker 3: know I was on solo dad duty for the night
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  Speaker 3: that mama was out taking pictures for her photography business.
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  Speaker 3: So I was key the noise levels down as I
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  Speaker 3: just got little Tatum aka Tater Todd, our seven month
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  Speaker 3: old to bed Little dad win for Mother's Day. Though, gentlemen,
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  Speaker 3: baby said her first word today on Mother's Day. What
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  Speaker 3: a great gift to mama. Even better, her first word
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  Speaker 3: was dadad Yeah, you want to know what.
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  Speaker 1: Her second word was? Good? What an absolute moment it
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  Speaker 1: was for the whole family.
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  Speaker 3: Also a little dad hack from the blowout we had
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  Speaker 3: in the car driving to Waco Sickambars this morning. Good,
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  Speaker 3: have a little first aid kit in the truck and
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  Speaker 3: get some nice trauma shars. Had to just cut the
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  Speaker 3: little outfit of our girl today because there was no
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  Speaker 3: saving it without making more of a mess. Anyways, apologies
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  Speaker 3: are the long email, love the bond in the community
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  Speaker 3: that's been built. I'm twenty five, My wife is twenty five.
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  Speaker 1: As well.
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  Speaker 3: Tatum is our first kiddo, So y'all have helped us
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  Speaker 3: learn a lot about putting the chin up, saying good
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  Speaker 3: and embracing whatever parents have has thrown at us. Shout
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  Speaker 3: out to the wifey Kat empty sixer. I couldn't imagine
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  Speaker 3: anyone else by my side for this ride that we
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  Speaker 3: call life pet Siko going Dark.
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  Speaker 2: I love to imagine they listened to the episode together.
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  Speaker 2: They heard the call in, they heard the ball busting.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe they shared some laughs, some conversation, and then each
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  Speaker 2: of them, in their own respect, was thinking about the
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  Speaker 2: call in, thinking about the conversations they had, and they
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  Speaker 2: each like on their own, wrote back in and said like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: we'll both write something together. Yeah yeah, yeah, try to
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  Speaker 2: get back on, like him wanting to apologize, which again,
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  Speaker 2: no about dude, this is this, this is what it's about.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we're you know you're not. You're not gonna
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  Speaker 2: be running on one hundred really.
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  Speaker 3: Ever, if you sound like you're in it when you
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  Speaker 3: call us, and we often say, oh man, you can
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  Speaker 3: hear it in his voice, that is us validating your
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  Speaker 3: existence as a dad who's in the shit. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 3: you can just hear it in their voice. Yeah, Like
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  Speaker 3: we're just doing a show right now. Yeah, yeah, the
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  Speaker 3: minute we're done.
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  Speaker 1: It's we sat like Gabriel like, oh, it's just.
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  Speaker 2: Give me another coffee. I have an iceed one sitting
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  Speaker 2: up here. I have a hot one sitting up here.
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  Speaker 2: Like we just run on caffeine.
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  Speaker 1: It is very true. That's actually a really good point.
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  Speaker 3: We do sound very chipper, not that we aren't off
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  Speaker 3: the mic, but it's one hundred percent when we're on
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  Speaker 3: the show, we ham it up.
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  Speaker 1: Bo. We have some fun here. We have some fun here.
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  Speaker 1: But on Monday.
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  Speaker 3: The first thing I came into the office on Monday
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  Speaker 3: is I came up to you and was like, brother,
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  Speaker 3: I'm fucking in it, and what.
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  Speaker 2: Am I leaning to you and saying, buddy, this Mother's
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  Speaker 2: Day weekend traveling to Missouri. Yeah, it's face rubs, it's
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  Speaker 2: fucking hats going up high, rubbing the forehead. Yeah, let's
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  Speaker 2: pick each other up right now.
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  Speaker 3: As Jill's stepdad Cody would say, he would take the
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  Speaker 3: hat off and he'd scratched her right there at the
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  Speaker 3: crown of his head and.
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  Speaker 1: Go a shit. You don't have the words to articulate.
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  Speaker 3: All you gotta say, Yeah, Hey, how is Mother's Day weekend?
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  Speaker 1: This weekend? Sherman, Shit, I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Buddy, buddy, Like I said, the theme, the obstacle is
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  Speaker 2: the way one of us learned the hard way.
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  Speaker 1: One of us had to embrace the hard. Yes, who
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  Speaker 1: wants to go first?
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  Speaker 3: Before before I just absolutely undress myself. I will your boy,
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  Speaker 3: Nick Hallett is way too nice to me.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Nick, So Nick Halley, he's the best man of
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  Speaker 2: my wedding, best friend of mine.
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  Speaker 1: He's he's a dude. He's a fucking dude. If I
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  Speaker 1: an I and a jag, No, he's not.
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  Speaker 3: He said, great job on the intro shirm, which is
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  Speaker 3: a he was calling in the comment section for me
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  Speaker 3: to do the intro. I did it last week. And
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  Speaker 3: then he follows up with this, and then he hits
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  Speaker 3: me up about my I'm so glad he called you
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  Speaker 3: because he hit me up about my New Year's resolution
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  Speaker 3: of in long car rides like calling your boys, and
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: he texted me for permission to call me. He said,
• 14:19
  Speaker 3: I would love to put you in that fold of
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: I'm adopting that New Year's as Alusha. I would love
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  Speaker 3: to adopt him to the fold of people that I
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: could call. Would you be comfortable with? I said, Nick,
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  Speaker 3: you call me whenever you want. I don't care if
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  Speaker 3: it's late at night. You give me a call.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, Nick is just really good people. Dude, dude,
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  Speaker 1: he is, He's the man.
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  Speaker 2: He's the man, Like I love Nick Cally and Nick,
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  Speaker 2: I know you're sitting there listening right now, just smiling,
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: whether you're in your car, whether you're in the car
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: listener right now, and I'm watching.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Hopefully he gets Rachel watching.
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  Speaker 3: But on.
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  Speaker 2: Saturday morning, the day of the wedding, I think I
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  Speaker 2: hit him up because again, small town Missouri. Anybody familiar
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  Speaker 2: with southeast Missouri. I grew up in Bonter, and it's
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  Speaker 2: a place where it's like, you know, it's the alphabet
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  Speaker 2: of highways.
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  Speaker 1: A highway, B highway, K highway, E highway.
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  Speaker 2: People asking, man, there's a lot of towns around here,
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  Speaker 2: because it's you got Bonter, you got Farmington, Delge, Park Hills,
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  Speaker 2: De Soto, Saint Genevieve, Frederick Town, all around, like the
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  Speaker 2: closest city is Saint Louis, and in between all of
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  Speaker 2: it is just like it's just like backwoods land. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: land hills, very rural. I hate saying this word rural.
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  Speaker 1: Rural.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of just driving green trees, just farms, houses.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm hitting nickup, like, bro, is there any like
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  Speaker 2: breakfast spots outside of the factory in the station, like
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  Speaker 2: something that's that's a sneaky hitter or something that's you're
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  Speaker 2: not gonna find on on maps or Yelp or anything
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  Speaker 2: like that, because people aren't out there leaving reviews in
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  Speaker 2: this area. Yeah, and he was telling me that there's
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  Speaker 2: a bread spot in tear to Lac because we were
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  Speaker 2: staying in tear to Lac at an Airbnb and we
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  Speaker 2: ended up going to the station, which is like a
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  Speaker 2: twenty five thirty minute drive to get to the station.
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  Speaker 2: Is good coffee, good food, great spot, outdoor area where
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  Speaker 2: the kids can play, which is rare just in that area. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and uh, Nick's giving me the roll of DECKX of
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: what he's like. I've heard this about the tarr To
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Lag Market. I just called their open. They're serving breakfast.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: I just called their open. He called for me, and
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: he's shooting me all the intel, all the info. I'm
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: bitching and complaining with him about Scotty on the car ride,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: and he's sending me playlists on Spotify.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: These ones are hitters. This one helps just a great soul.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: If you want a dad hack really quick before we
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: jump into Mother's day stuff, get yourself if you don't
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: have one. I'm being so dead fucking serious. I know
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: we're like kind of goofing around. We're not giving wrong.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: You dropped the fort like that? Yes, sc six ers
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: PT sixers empty, Like, get yourself a Nick Hallett. I
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: got like five friends that I would consider those types
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: of humans. Where my grade in my head of how
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: I grade that friendship is if I called them at
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: three am and I woke them up and I said, Hey,
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: I'm one hundred miles away, my car is broken down.
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: I'm in a bad side of town. Is there any
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: way you can come get me. There's not even a question,
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: It's a yes, where are you drop the pin? I'll
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: come grab you everything? Okay, do you need me to
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: get anything? Like, get those people in your life and
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: cherish them because they're rare.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Dude.
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: And Nick's not even my boy like that, like he's
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: your boy, but he's such good people that when I
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: got introduced to him, it was like instantly like, oh,
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: you're good people, Like you're a good dude.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: I like you and we just hit it off.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I should have to now segue it to
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: Mother's Day. I truly racked my brain on Sunday because
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: I took the dogs on the walk after this verbal
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: lashing from Jill.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Verbal lashing from Jill in the front yard.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: No oh yeahs outside across the outside in the front
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: yard with their little kids, and they're having the most
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: beautiful little mother's day. There's music playing, they're dancing, there's
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: couples holding hands walking the street. And my wife truly
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: has baby on hip and I'm sitting on the front
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: steps of the house.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: In your box she's got the finger going. I like
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: to picture you just in your boxers right now.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: For the sake of the story. I was in my
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: boxing You're with work gloves on.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: You on the.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: First step, boxes on, no shirt, no pants, no socks.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: You got workers gloves on. You're leaning forward, elbows on
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: your knees. You're doing the face rub. Jill's verbally lashing
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: with kid on the kid on the hip. Yeah, and
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I'm after that she pj's on even robe over top
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: of the pjs.
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: Yes, and I after that, I'll go into the tongue lashing.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: But after that tongue lashing, dude, I.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: Was racking my brain of who the fuck do I
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: call in this situation. I need to call someone, but
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: I know if I call my mom and dad, they're
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: gonna go Jill's right and bad look to mom and
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: dad because of their son. They're gonna be like, I
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: didn't raise my son that way. You the hell's on
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: the phone right now. I needed a Nick Hallie. I
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: needed a true third party to be like Nick, I
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: fucked up, buddy. I just need somebody to bounce this off.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to call you because you're at a wedding.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: I could have called these boys. I'd almost recommend that
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: you call the for the dad's because we do kind
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: of need some authentic I want you to record those
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: situations by calling this phone, and then we can decide
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: if we want to air it or not.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: But if I've.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: Been oh vent on the hotline, that dude, that's really genius,
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: and that would have been all lie time voicemail.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: The hotline ain't gonna judge you. Hotline ain't gonna give
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: you advice. Hotlines just there to give you an ear.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Damn it.
• 20:10
  Speaker 5: There are a lot of voicemails of dads that call
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: in and we I mean we've anytime we have a hater.
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: We have a guy that calls in his name's kid,
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: and he just rips cannon, thank you, yea. He rips
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: the haters apart, and he sent us another one for
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: like it's the funniest thing he knows. Like I've texted him,
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: I say, hey, we can't air these. He's like, I
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: just do for the love of the game man, the hotlines,
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: for the people. It's not for the show, it's for
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: the He's so explicit. We we want to compile. D
• 20:35
  Speaker 5: came up with the idea of compiling a lot of
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: Cannon's voicemails over time and giving you a super addit.
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: We'll have to bleep him a lot because.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: He that's good. Yeah, like happy Gilmore.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: If anybody writes in anything remotely negative to the show,
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Cannon is on it.
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: He tried his best to do a PG version this
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: week and then called back and said, fuck it can't
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: do that.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I did, Yeah, yeah, gotta say it. So continue you
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: the verbal lashing. So you had me on the edge
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: of my seat the whole time. Yeah to you. Okay,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: So here we go. Mother's Day.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Jill want a massage, and she wanted to eat dinner
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: at a nice restaurant.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Okay. She sent me the name of the place for
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: the massage.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: I texted her back and said, what dates, Because I
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: can't just get you like a certificate of like that
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: you can then book it like I need dates, and
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: from that text message, there was no dates locked. There
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: was a lot of back and forth, but like we
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: never got to it. Granted we are moving on Thursday.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: There's a lot kind of going on right, a lot
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: of moving parts. There's a lot of moving parts.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: For some more context, this is Shuram's first Mother's Day,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: very first Mother's Day. So anybody that is aspiring to
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: be a PT sixer, anybody that's in buds training, that's
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: completed buds training and going in and say next year
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: will be your first Mother's Day or just a mother's
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: your first Mother's Day will be in the future. This
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: right here is a great example and a great story
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: to be on your p's and q's. You have to
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: keep your head on a swivel.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: You have to keep your head on a swivel.
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: And I'm being so serious to like, this will be
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: funny when I talk about it on the show, This
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: will be funny. I was truly pissed at myself looking
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: back at this situation. I'm pissed at how I handled
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: the preparation of Mother's Day. And for any listeners out there,
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: it's like kicking and screaming, this is how not you
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: have learned how not to do Mother's Day for a
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: first Mother's Day when you hear this.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Story, Yeah, so to give you grace too, Just to
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: give you grace because I was talking with you about
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: this yesterday. You're not privy to how important Mother's Day
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Father's Day is until you're actually beat because think about
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: growing up. The only people who are putting pssure on
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: you when it's it's Mother's Day is dad, and when
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: it's Father's Day, it's mom. You know, it goes one
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: year out the other like okay, let me check the
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: check the box and we'll keep it moving. It's just
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: kind of like another day on the calendar. When you
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: learn very quickly that Mother's Day is, it's like Christmas,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: it's sacred. Without the preparation and being like I gotta
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: get gifts. By then you have way less preparation going
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: into the Mother's Day. It more jumps on you. Yes,
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: then you don't realize how serious it is until you're
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: you're in the suck.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, this is your this is your this is
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: your time. Thank you, thank you. Okay, quick breakdown.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Already talked about the massage, so massage in my brain
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: is already taken care of because I have credit card
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: and I'm willing to pay for massage. I just need
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: date from Jill. That's taken care of. Get reservation at
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: this really nice restaurant in Franklin. I get schedule at
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: Uber Black. We never do Uber Blacks. I'm like, we're
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: gonna do a little Uber Black. It's gonna be a
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: nice little thing. Have a phone call with Jill. Hey
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: do you have This is two weeks before Mother's Day. Hey,
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: do you have any plans for the day of Mother's Day?
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: And I was like, Oh, we could do something, blah
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: blah blah. Jilding goes, oh, well, that's actually gonna be
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: a really heavy packing day now that I think about it,
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: because I work. She works all this week, so this
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: weekend was like our big packing weekend. So she goes,
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: we'll probably be packing all day. Boys, boys, I see it.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: It's a trap.
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: Run Admiral atbar. That's it was a trap. But it
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: wasn't a trap.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: She might not actually be thinking I'm setting a trap
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: right now.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: That was a and she wanted to see then what
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: I do with it. But I don't think.
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: Like her full intention was like, oh, I'm gonna like
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: make him think I don't want anything.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: She more so was like.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: Oh, we really should be packing, but her heart is saying,
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: oh my gosh, we should be packing.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: By I really hope he does abst women.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: They want you, our wives. They want men. They want
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: us to think for them and plant it ourselves. They
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: don't want to have to do their own planning for
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: their day. Yes, yes, which is hard for the male brain. Bro,
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: my dumb.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: Ass, here's that and goes, oh yo, we should yeah,
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: because it is gonna be a big package, a big
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: packing day, because the wate's gonna be on me if
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: I'm not doing a good I need to be a
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: good packer on the weekend and not be lazy.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: And maybe she's not thinking. That's seriously about Mother's Day. Yeah,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: that's truly.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: And oh and the massage is already kind of fifty
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: percent done and I have dinner, so like Mother's Day's
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: gonna be great.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, oh, my wife's badass, she's different. She doesn't
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: care about Mother's Day. It's like all my other boys
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: who are scrambling around for Mother's Day right now, their
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: wives are on the rest about Mother's Day.
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: My wife's cool. My wife is very cool. She expects
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: nothing from me. Holy shit, was I wrong, dude? And
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: just like the look of her in the kitchen where
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: I have like ballins and flowers and stuff, and She's like,
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: is there anything from Scarlet? And I'm like, holy shit,
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: that would have been a great idea Scarlett I get
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: or something.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Fuck. I know.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Part of me feels bad because I should have put
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: you on some more game before your first Mother's Day.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: It's okay, your fault. I'm smart enough to know these things.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: As soonously, boys.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: This is this is why we have PT six to
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: help dude.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: As soon as she said that, I laughed and it
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: was like that nervous like you know how they say
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: survival instincts and animals when they smile, that's like they're
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: scared as fuck. Yeah, like that, I'd like let out
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: a little chuckle and smiled and I'm like, eh no,
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: And I'm like, holy fuck, holy fuck, I don't know.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Let me go ask.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: I mean, how easy is that to dip Scarlet's hand
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: and paint and put it all over a piece of
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: paper and put number one mom and ride it in
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Scarlet's hand, you know, like something little she goes no
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: certificate that says officially a mom.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Did you get her a card? Yeah, but not like
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I got her a card.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: Because if you have the card, you just have Scottie
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: hold the card. Yeah, but I didn't, walking dude.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: It was a very like half assed card balloon and
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: flowers like.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: It wasn't like right now bombs are going off next to.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: You, bombs ever back, dad, I'm in full like and
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: I can't get mad at my wife because she is
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: completely right. And as much as I tried to play
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: the defense of oh what, I didn't realize, Oh well,
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: you know, blah blah blah, you said we'd be packing
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: all day. That was the biggest mistake of all time.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: That's like telling your general in the army, Oh well,
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: I thought the whole plan was to retreat the entire time.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: And do you want to take the hill? Oh? I
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: thought we were just fortifying.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought, Oh, and she's sitting there like, are
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: you fucking dumb dude? You have no brunch, you have
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: no gift from Scarlet, which to this it doesn't even matter.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: I'm saying this how selfishness I had planned to get
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: those school pictures scarlet school pictures like printed out and
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: put in frames. Didn't didn't do that, but at least
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: the thought did cross my mind.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, b I know that I love my wife.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: I know that I love her and she's the most
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: important thing to me in the entire world. And I
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: did this much to show her that on the most important.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Because dad brains, thoughts are thoughts that are fleeting, but
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: our thoughts that we had. We thought about the intention
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: that goes on our scoreboard, but it doesn't actually go
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: on the scoreboard.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: In reality, it goes negatives on her scoreboard.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: At least I thought about it. I'm thinking I feel you, Yeah,
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: but that means nothing, Bro.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: It means nothing.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: And I think the realization that I came to homecoming
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: is really big in Texas. In high school and you
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: buy these things called moms. Do you all know what
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: a mum is.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's like.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: A big decorative flower and chef, a really fun opportunity
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: for you. You can put some pictures of these moms
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: are literally the size of these old high school girls.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I mean they're enormous and.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: You gotta go pick her up for the football game,
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: and you gotta have the mum, and you gotta have
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: the little carnation mini mom, little bracelet thing that you
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: wear that matches her mom, and you got to get
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: a picture at the game and all that stuff Like
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: Mother's Day should be treated like homecoming, but times ten
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: of like the intentionality, the like planning ahead, the big
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: sparkler stuff, like the really cutesy fun like getting creative stuff.
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: That I'm fucking good at. I'm good at.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: That shit, and I didn't do it for my wife,
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: Like I'm fucking pissed.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I'm pissed, dude, and I'm just sitting there. I mean,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: that's the dad Loss. I'm sitting in.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: The front yard going because I always go to you
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: gotta take it out on the yards.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got it made out. Yeah, manually doing your underwear.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: Work loss, family across the street, shovel going into the dirt.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: At least he had a sense of hre Mary. He
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: gave me a little whistle, a little whoop woo.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Because you don't know how to articulate your feeling.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: You just got to sit there and you take it
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: and you rage inside, you suppress your motion. Let's go
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: take it out on the fucking yard.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: That family over there.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: I know for a fact they're like easy hell boys
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: and the dog house because he see us with our
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: baby all the time. So they're like first Mother's Day.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Huh. Yeah. It's like the James Franco where he has
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: the noose around him, you know.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: The old ladies like, well he fucked up, and the
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: old man just sitting back there suppressed emotions, just be.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, he's learning, he's learning. Hey, hold on, let
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: him learn. Yeah, learn, Let the boy learn. I'll go
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: give him a few words. Brother, did I learn?
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: And I'm just ripping weeds up and ripping weeds up,
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: and she comes out and goes just so you know,
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: if you think ripping the weeds out is making it better,
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: it's actually pissing me off.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Door slams. Fuck okay, right, what a bet?
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: And oh also, I don't even feel like going to
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: dinner to night. I don't even think that I want
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: to go to dinner. I know what that means. So
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: I'm bag we got Hey, honey, honey, I just stripped
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: myself down and pull her onto the couch. I just
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: stripped myself down.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: You take off the boxers and the workloves.
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: Full humility, Yeah, full humility on hands and knees essentially, Honey,
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: I really want to give you a special night. Yeah,
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: I love you so much, and I know that you're
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: mad at me, or in my head, I go, she's
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: not gonna hold my hand or talk to me the
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: entire weight to the restaurant. It probably won't be until
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: she gets like the appetizers and two glasses of wine
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: that she'll even remotely start talking to me. And then
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: by the end of dinner, when we're getting ice cream,
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: I won't be like out of the doghouse, but I
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: will be like, oh, he does love me, and I
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: do love him, and I forgive him, and now we're
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: kind of holding hands and kissing and blah blah blah.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: But and I'm not looking forward to that of like, hey,
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna get she don't forgive me, mand like this
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: is some bullshit. But I'm more so just like I
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: gotta get to that. Yes, that's the only way that
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: I can fix it.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I'm naked in front of you physically. I'm gonna be
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: naked in front of you emotionally right now. I am sorry.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I fucked up. Yeah, Like I'm a piece of shit.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: And her face the entire time be apologizing to me, sweetheart,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I I'm so sorry, like I'm a piece of shit.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: I fucked up. Hey, honey, Hi, I see you. Was
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: she doing? Is is she crawling? Is she walking? What
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: were you saying? Don't look at her? Look at me.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I fucked up. This is I should have. Oh my goodness,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I got a phone call. Mom's calling.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: She's calling, Mom's calling. Tell her happy Mother's Day. Happy
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day. Yeah, miss Amy.
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: We're on the show recording, so I can't talk right now.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: But okay, I love you so much. And look what
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: we have. We have the painting.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: I've already instructed will to not rip off the paint
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: she made us.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: She made us a painting will for our set. Thank you, Mama, Sherm.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: You're welcome, y'all. Have a good day. I'm sorry I interrupted.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Oh it's okay, wonderful interruption. You look amazing. Ope, you
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: had a great Mother's Day. And just know that we
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: love you.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Here for the day. We love you, Miss Amy. I
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: love y'all. Yes, ma'am. Bye. Can I talk to you?
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: She has no idea about any of this. Can I
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: talk to you?
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: What I messed up about what not not? Can I
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: go ahead and stop you another not celebrating you the
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: way that you need to be celebrated. And I know
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: it's not even about the celebration.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I know it's not about the cards and the flowers
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: and the scarlet. Get this? Or did that? Get that?
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: Just give me shot, Just give me and your mother
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: a second. It's about seeing you.
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: Oh so you don't see me at all around the house.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: Am I just your roommate that you don't want to
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: see around the house? Or am I your wife that
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: you want to spend the rest of your life with?
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: Is this about the massage? I tried telling you to
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: get me Tom and I was gonna book the.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Massage, but you told me that it was going to
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: be a heavy packing day.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: So when you said heavy.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Packing day, I'm thinking, Okay, maybe I don't need to
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: get anything for you.
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: Do I just need to treat you like a dumb
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: ass because I know that you're smarter than this, and
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: I know your mom raised you better than this.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Do you think for a second that.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: You want to have blah blah blah planned out to
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: the tee?
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: If it was for blank work, friends, golf, trip.
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: You realize how much fucking pressure you put on me
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: every damn day to live up to your expectation. I'm
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: working my ass off. I go and put try and
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: put food on the table for you guys. God forbid.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: I try to take one day a week to go
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: hit the golf course. Stole it. I take her today care,
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: I put her asleep, I rub your feet.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I cut it with you.
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: I stopped playing video games with the boys because I
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: love you.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: But I'm gonna go out there and shovel a little
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: bit more.
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: And if you keep it up, I'm gonna take that
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: shovel and shoving up your kady ass. You're dead, You're
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: already in the grave. You might as well go out
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: there and start digging your own grave. He're six feet
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: under bro, And she hit me with the You expect
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: these things out of me as a mother that I
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: feel like I crush and I do a great job
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: of And to not be celebrated in that Oh dude,
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: that literally.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Sweetart, sweetart, sweetheart, I I messed up. I hear you.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I love you.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Please give me the rest of the day, the day
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: to make this right, because there's some tricks I got
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: on my sleeve that I just haven't been able to
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: see yet, and I've did a poor job laying them
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: out in front of you all. I've messed up step
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: one and two. But I promise you there's three, four, five,
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: and six. Offer let me take the rest of the day.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: Let me take the rest of the day.
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: Offer a sandwich picnic, because that's what I did. Offer
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: a sandwich picnic.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: She loves sandwich. Because right now we're running behind.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: There's an outfit I have laying for you on bed
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: upstairs right now because we're about to go hit a
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: sandwich and picnic.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: I'm not fucking hungry. I'm sick to my stomach from
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: how this morning went. Verbatim.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, this is seven different kinds of smoke.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: That bro I could have walked in with. Name that
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: celebrity she loves, h Morgan Wallen. I could have walked
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: in with Morgan Wallen and she would have been so
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: excited to see him, and she'd be like, so you
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: know this piece of shit, like pointing at me, like.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: That's where her head was at.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Even if I like brought in her favorite celebrity, she
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: was like, and how do you know my piece of
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: shit husband. You know, you know you're way better than
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: him right there. It's just like uh, working with your kids.
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Lid is flipped. Yeah, there's no fixing the lid. No,
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: you just gotta take the lashing. Oh yeah, and then
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: think about how you make it right. I want y'all
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: to see my backyard. I wish I had taken pictures
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: of the tree limbs. I was jumping up and grabbing
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: dead tree branches. I don't even own this house. I'm
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: a renter, and I'm ripping dead branches off the trees
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: and throwing them over the fence into like this back
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: little wooded area.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: What's they got to do with getting right? That's what
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I'm saying.
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: Just pissed because I'm trying to get right. I'm trying
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: to fix it. In the moment, there was no fixing
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: it in the moment. There was no saying the right
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: thing to her to make it better. There was no
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: showing her how much I love her, because the damage
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: had already been done and she needed time. I needed
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: time to let her have time.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you more so, Yeah, Sweeter, give me an hour,
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: you take Scarlet, you get out of the house.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: And she would have she would have had a reason
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: why we couldn't do that. No, because we need to pack.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: Since it's so important to pack, we should probably pack.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh god, yeah.
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: I wasn't sure how the bit between the two of
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: you being married was gonna end.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 38:58
  Speaker 5: I was curious how that was gonna and that's not
• 39:00
  Speaker 5: exactly what I foresaw a chef. I don't know if
• 39:02
  Speaker 5: you did, but.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: That I had to just go the director. I thought
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: you were gonna kiss. I thought you're gonna kiss. I
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: did too, and I felt it. I felt the energy.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: I felt it.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: Bro I just didn't have the words that he kept
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: coming when he could throw more smoke at me. And
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: I feel like, there's I'm not even making progress in
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: our conversation. He's not allowing me to make progress in
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: the conversation.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, dude, That's what I'm saying.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: Like I was doing my best to like hear you
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: and be apologetic, and when I'm about to take a
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: step forward, you just shoot me in the leg. Yeah
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: so then now now, now, now now that has the
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: lad's got a flip.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, and with my lid flips with my lid
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: flips because I told you all about that one time
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: when my lid flip and I'm grabbing Wrigley.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: And dog and I'm like, oh fuck, now she thinks
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I beat animals. Yeah, And she's like, I want you out.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: I want you away from our child.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, because when I played by lad like no, like,
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: nothing good is gonna come out of that.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: I just call the cops. Call the cops for yourself.
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: I would never do anything to elicit the cause he called.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: That's a complete joke. But yes, I'm saying, you call
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: the cops. I'm the one, two, three or four driver lane.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: There's a husband losing his mind right now, So we
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: don't hang up immediately. Immediately, I'm going to jail. You
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: know what you want the worst for me. I'm fucking
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: putting myself in jail right now. Nashville, Nashville Metro pay Day.
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: What's your address?
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Uh, I'm at blah blah blah.
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: There's a dumb ass husband that didn't get his wife
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: mother's a gift and he's a piece of shit and
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: he's trying to light shit on fire.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: We'll have a cop.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, Now we got to cut, Like, how did the
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Mother's Day end for you.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: It ended great like we It went exactly how I
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: thought we. I tried to hold her hand in the
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: uber on the way to dinner.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: And she.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: I put a hand on the small of her back
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: as I'm walking into this really nice restaurant, beautiful place,
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: seventeen ninety nine.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: You would love it.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: It's a boutique hotel in downtown Franklin. With this awesome
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: restaurant hand in the middle of her back, she goes,
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: I'm okay, I can do it, like I know you can't.
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: Sweete home, be mad all you want.
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: We got some surprises in here for you.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: You just late, buttercut, you gonna be good, and uh,
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: get to the table. Listen off all the things that
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: she would love to eat. Nothing's sounding good. She's still
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: a little sick to her stomach.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Bring out everything? Oh did She's tell him? Bring out everything?
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: Hey, And we usually don't drink at dinner, And like, did.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: You pull the chef aside? Let him know the situation
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: you're in. I wish and like, look, she's not like
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: anything she sees on this menu. And I just want
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: you to know, nobody. I'm in hell right now.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: I'm in hell, and like, bring the kitchen sink, here's
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: my credit card, bring your best entertainers. Go ahead and
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: just charge a credit card for whatever it's going to
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: cost that you know I can afford it, and you
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: just bring it.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: You just bring it.
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: And that's what that's what I should have done. Yeah,
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: but I was just such inn a like coma cocoon
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: of my own making. But it turned out great. Dude,
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: we had great conversations. Sounds like it of like sounds.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: We had great conversations at dinner.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: Once you got through a couple appetizer and a glass
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: of wine.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, once the glasses of wine are coming, the
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: appetizers are coming, and I've already said all of my apologies,
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: I know that I very much fucked up.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: Jill knows that she's gotten her point across.
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: Jill knows that she has put me in like the
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: below the doghouse long enough that it's like, okay, well
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: let him out of the doghouse because I do love
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: my husband and I want to enjoy this night. And
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: this is very sweet. They took me to this nice restaurant.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: He does love me.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: He got me.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: Flowers like you know, But enjoy the night. And so
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: we had a good Honestly, it was a really great dinner.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: And then we held hands and walked through like downtown
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: Franklin and walked over to this ice cream spot. I
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: have this new the uber black driver. He's rushing and
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: he like has his own little private driving thing.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Gave me his business card. I felt like a movie star.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Was kind of sick.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: I like called him when we were at the ice
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: cream shop later because he was like, you text me,
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: I'm twenty minutes away every time, text me any day
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: twenty four to seven. I was like, all right, and
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: so I texted him at the ice cream shop and
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: he literally replied back, twenty five out be there soon
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: had waters. He's opening the doors for me and Jill.
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: She's loving it. We had a good night. Hey Sherman,
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: did you hit the shockwave? No chance, not a fucking chance.
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: That's okay, Will, How was Bontaire?
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: How was the Wednox? Buddy? Bontare good Earth, good people.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: Let me let me start.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: Scotty got handfoot mouth.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: Is taken down Nashville, Tennessee right now. And on Thursday.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: I was up all night that night because Scotty was
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: struggling to go to sleep.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Fighting.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: The disease is it hand mouth foot or handfoot one
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: of them hand foot mouth, handfoot mouth and uh So,
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: before we left on Friday to drive to Missouri, I'm
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: up essentially all night, like the mostly, but I got
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: I probably got a collective three in between three and
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: four hours, like an hour at a time, because Scotty
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: wouldn't go down, and then brought her downstairs, brought her
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: to our room, and realizing she wasn't going to sleep
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: even in our bed, I just went ahead and took
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: it like, sweetheart, look, I'm gonna just go in the
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: guest room.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: You get some sleep. I'm just gonna I'll just.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Take her with me and see if she sleeps on me.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: She didn't sleep the entire night. Maybe she didn't when
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: I fell asleep for that hour at a time, like
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: when i'd get her calm, or maybe she just laid there.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: I have no idea, but i'd be waking up within
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: an hour to her being upset. So I'm up all
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: night Thursday, and then on Friday, had to do a
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: couple of things, had to get you know, I ordered
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: mom flowers for Mother's Day, so I had to kind
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: of finagle getting the flowers in the house and going
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: to hide them at a pocket in the house while
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: we're packing and getting everything ready to leave for Missouri
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: and have so that way they could be there sitting
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: on Sunday. The boy Mitch, he watched the house dogs
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: sitting and stuff all weekend and Mitch knew, Hey, have
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: the flowers placed like on the island for when we
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: get back on Sunday. I had to go pick up
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: my men's warehouse rental do all that stuff on Friday
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: morning before we took off for the drive to Missouri.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, you're in the wedding. I'm in the wedding. Yeah,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: the penguin, I'm in the wedding.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: Ruse a flower girl. Charles participating, being like the assistant
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: to the flower girl, helping her out. Like we're the
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: family's in, Like this is a family wedding. My brother's
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: getting married. It's it's been a wedding we've been waiting
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: on for what ten years with the with Cody and Kalyn.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: Shout out Cody and Caitlin, I love you both very dearly.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: They've already Kaitlyn has been family for years. But the
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: wedding's finally happen. It's taking place Bonta, Missouri or Blackwell
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: is where the wedding was. And so we set off
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: for our adventure going traveling to Bonta, Missouri.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: And we already know that it could be an.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: Issue with Scottie because she's it, she's getting over a
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: hand foot mouth, all that stuff, and bro. The drive
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: is a five hour drive, and I'm talking the drive
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: to Missouri is nothing. But you know country back roads,
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: you know adult video superstores, you know gun shops, busted
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: down little towns and stuff on the route there.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, Cairo, Illinois is insane. The drive through.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Loves gas stations, oh yeah, shitty ones too, Trucker gas station, yeah,
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: Manas station, yeah yeah.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: But in subways, there's always a subway.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: You want to find some some average subways along the way.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: You drive to Missouri from Nashville.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: You go see about forty of them. And out of
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: the five hours, I want to say, Scottie screamed crying
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: for about two and a half to three Good. Great,
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: that's good. And Rue was so used to it that
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: Rue was able to fall asleep and take a nap
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: while Scottie screaming.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: That's good.
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: Rue's report card on traveling a plus.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: In Flower Girl report card, she crushed. That depends depends
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: on crush.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: She cried, that's but she was brave enough to walk
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: down the aisle h and where there's some Everybody loved it,
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: but disapointed herself because she cried. So in Rue's world,
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: and Ru has dialed the entire time, like rehearsal the
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: day before, you know, pretending she's grabbing flowers, no smile
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: on her face, focused, this little boy was around her.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: She wasn't messing with this little boy, like, look, I
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: got the flowers. I'll handle this. You just try to
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: keep up and stay in line, stop running off the path.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, ooh, squirrel. Like Rue's just dialed in,
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: locked in stoic face. But the moment it came, She's like,
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't do And she's like
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: crying like sweetheart, and I'm standing down at the end
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: of the aisle waiting, sweeter. You can do it, Rue.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: She's crying, but she does the flowers. She gets all
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: the way to me. I'm like, hey, there's mama, go
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: walk to her. It was great love. The experience of
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: Ruby being a flower girl, but Rue her patients. Traveling
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: in this car with the screaming child of scott Zilla
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: a plus, you could tell Rue was worn down by
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: all the crying and just wanted to hear the music
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: and hear the We'll put on a little kid's podcast
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: for her that she can listen to stories, and so
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: that was bothering her, and she knew like she doesn't
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: she doesn't want to pie lawn. So she's kind of
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: sitting there with like a sad face that Scotty's just
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: screaming the whole time. Scotty, we just couldn't get figured out,
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: bro and we just had to just eat it. So
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: going there, driving to Missouri, it was a shit show.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: We had the rehearsal, we got there, we have an
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: hour to spare so to get to our airbnb, kind
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: of get ready, get out to the rehearsal, to all stuff.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: At the rehearsal, knowing that Scotty's not she's not doing well,
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: We're gonna have to leave early to get her down
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: for bedtime. We're trying to catch up with people because
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: we're back home. I'm seeing a lot of people haven't
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: got to catch up with in a while. More people
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: have you know, sporadically spoken to, But now you get
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: to catch up for real. Scotty didn't sleep well. Well,
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: she slept throughout the weekend, but she had to be
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: on us sleeping thought the week We couldn't put her in
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: the pack and play the minute she'd be knocked out.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: You put her down in the pack and play the
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: minute she touched the back and play she's awake. Be like, no,
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: this is bullshit standing up. You need to be on
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: somebody's body. So just abysmal.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: Feel you on the pack and place.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, just abysmal with Scotty. Wasn't Scotty's best performance.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: Did a phenomenal job. The wedding was all time great
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: small town Missouri wedding. The finger foods were bowls filled
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: with eminem, cinnamon, toast, crunts, and checks. Your essentials at
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: a small tell Missouri wedding chicken, brisket, salad, green bees,
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: green beans.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: And mashtators. Come on, that's about it self. Serve serve yourself. Water.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: You had to get out of a faucet because there's
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: no just water serving. It's just all alcohol and beer.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: Did they have the guy smoking the meats? And stuff like.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: It was all catered in just buffet style. Go up
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: and get your plate. I mean it's it's what you
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: want to see out of a small tell Missouri wedding,
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: fun being had, dancing happening.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Kids were awesome at the wedding. You just tell. I
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: could you tell Charlie was running on.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: E because Charro didn't have like for me, I'm in
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: the wedding, so I would have to participate in rehearsal.
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: I would have to be there hours early to do photos,
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: get dressed, all the stuff with the groom and the
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: wedding party. Yes, the day of the wedding, and Charles's
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: just in it because Scotty's clinging to Mom doesn't want anybody.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Else to mess with her.
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: Watcher Like, Charles's parents got invited to the wedding, so
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: they were there as well, but they don't want lo leno,
• 51:11
  Speaker 2: but they want to be held by Mom at all times.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: So I can just tell my wife is running on
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: E because she's not having she's having zero minutes to herself.
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: And for new listeners, Scotti has been on a mom
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: kick for like a month now.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, Scotty's been on a mom kick for a month,
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: but her her having the handfoot of mouth and just
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: being cleaning towards Mom.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: It's like times one hundred. Yeah, has to be mom.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And knowing that Charle has to get the kids ready,
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: get them in the car or transfer them there, get
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: them out of the car, make sure everything's packed, make
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: sure everything's ready to go when they're at rehearsal. Will Meanwhile,
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: while I'm in around the wedding party, I'm not being able.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: I'm not able to like help at all times because
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: I know what they need and all the things, but
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: nobody else does, like they know that they can help
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: out or try to help out, but the minute you
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: try to give Scotty or do something else, she's screaming to.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: Get back to Mom. Yeah.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: So I could tell Mom was on e in then,
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: and the wedding was the rehearsal dinner and everything else
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: was kind of like not long, but just going into
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: the hours of it is bedtime, so the kids got
• 52:07
  Speaker 2: to get back and go to bed, especially Scotty. You
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: want to get her down, like she's just not cooperating.
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: So I'm getting the dad guilt of like, you know,
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: I'm like cutting her plate, cutting her food, getting that
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: all said up. My wife feeling like I'm not able
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: to be a teammate the whole time. But she's doing
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: that to me because she's feeling like she just haven't
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: she just has not had a minute to herself. So
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: I'm like, do I go home? Do I need to
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: go home? It sucks to kind of just leave it.
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: I'm not telling anybody by You're in the middle of
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: a couple of conversations in the wedding, so just dad wise,
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: dad mode.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: I'm all over the place and knowing that tomorrow is
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're in Missouri on Mother's Day weekend. And I
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: know how Charlie like value. She loves to do a picnic.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: She loves to do things like with the family and
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: then also have some free time on herself. And I know,
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: like Dan, we're driving back from Missouri back to Nashville
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: tomorrow on Mother's Day, Like, I don't really have much
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: lined up because we've been in Missouri and we're traveling
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: back outside of the flowers, so we're driving back to Missouri.
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: It was, for the most part, is a clean ride
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: back to Missouri. A couple hiccups with Scotty or the
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: kids wanted to get out, but we handled that all right.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Treated my wife to a.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: High cuisine McDonald's breakfast to kick off our road trip
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: back to Nashville.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: For Mother's Day. Then along the way.
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: Sweet I'll take you to a rest stop. We'll stop
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: at a rest stop, will stretch our legs, we'll go
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: see some trees. We'll see what the rest area has
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: in store to celebrate you on Mother's Day. So we
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: stopped at a rest station. Then we get home, and
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: I know, getting home, it's fucking go time, Like Dad,
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: you got to lock in. Yeah, it's Mother's Day. It's
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: time to lock in.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Walk in. Flowers are there.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: She's fired up, and I just immediately go into unpacked mode.
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: Like usually my wife will unpack all the kids stuff
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: and get them in the right spots that they need.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: But I'm like, I can figure this out. I know
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: some spots that need to that these things need to go.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: So I just take the suitcases upstairs unpack everything.
• 54:01
  Speaker 6: Well.
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: Mom helps with like, you know, unpacking the backpack and
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: things like that. Downstairs, she starts to clean out all
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: the things that we brought to Missouri for the kids
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: to wash them out.
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: Sweetheart, no, go go do whatever you want to do.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: I'll wash this stuff. And she's like, dude, I can.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, it's Mother's Day. Like let me.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: I know I have some ground not to like make up,
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: like it's an expectation, but I'm thinking I got to
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: do something that celebrates her and appreciates her and all
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: this stuff. Because we've just been in hell the last
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: few days. Yeah, and so she's chilling and then I'm like, hey,
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: I would love that. I would have loved if I
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: had dinner plans set up. I don't would you be
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: opposed to getting Mexican food. The spot we love to
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: go to is Fonda on twelfth, great Mexican cuisine, like awesome.
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: She loves it, like we all love it. I'll order
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: it to go pick up, I'll take the kids, get
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: him out of the house. You are free to do
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: whatever you want. I'll take him to Fonda on twelfth,
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: pick up all of our food. And then so she
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: thinks that's all I'm doing. So I get the kids
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: out of the house, both of them. They were solid
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: on the drive over there, because again we've just been
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: in the car all day long. Pick up the food
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: and now I take them to Target because I'm like,
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: what is something that we can do? Because I know
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do double bedtime tonight. I'm gonna try to
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: give mom more time to herself. We go to Target.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: Pick up some like bath bombs, some organic bath bombs.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: Pick up a card. I know Charle loves like written cards.
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: Get a card, allow the kids to participate in. Pick
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: in the car, which one do you think we should
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: get from mom? And Ru's like, let's get to one
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: with the puzzle piece, the missing puzzle piece in the home.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: It's like this puzzle of a home and the missing
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: piece is a heart in the middle.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, that's a great, great pick. We're at there. Rue,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: reel's on it. We picked that.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: I get in the truck. I will fill out one
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: side of the card. I'm like, right now, I'm a
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: waxing poetic. Then I have Rue when we get back
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: to the house, get her out on the weight bench
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: in the garage.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Hey, Rue, let's write.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: She does like I like I love you, Mama like
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: writing it like the and then she puts Rue in
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: Scotty's name. Scotty's just playing over in the bubble area
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: where there's like a bubble machine before we go inside.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: Because I'm gonna get this card right, We're gonna have
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: the bath bombs. Yep, we got the food. We're gonna
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: walk in. I'm gonna have Scotty walk in with the card.
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: Give Mama the card. She gives Mama the card. She's happy,
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: she's excited. She was just thankful that the kids were
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: out of the house. We were gone for an hour.
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: She's like, I sat on the couch and read my book,
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: and she was like, I'm feeling, like Re said, just
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: being home. It's so nice being home. And I'm like
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: fired up. We're gonna get you an entire spread. Ruth's
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: gonna set the table. We're gonna knock this thing into
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: the park. We have dinner time. Rue and I spoke
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: about a mission on the car right over, like, hey, sweetheart,
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: Dad is doing bedtime tonight with both of you. What
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: we need to do when we get home. I want
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: you to help me. I want you to be my teammate.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: You help me fill up a hot bath, because Mama
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: she never takes baths. We're gonna fill up a hot bath.
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: We're gonna do bubbles. We'll use your bubbles from upstairs
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: to get a bubble bath going. We'll drop some of
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: the bath bombs that we bought a target in there,
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: get some candles.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: We lit a candle. Ru helped light a candle.
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: We're gonna get her kindles sitting there so she can read,
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: and we're gonna close the doors, and we're not gonna
• 57:03
  Speaker 2: bother mama.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Well, dad, it does bedtime.
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: And guess what, sweetheart, while I do Scotty's bedtime, you'll
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: get to watch tumble if you'll get to watch some
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: TV while I'm doing Scotty's bedtime. But you can't go
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: into mama's bathroom. Like We're gonna give mama all the
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: space in the world because she does stuff for us
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: every day all the time. Mama just needs to day.
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: Mama needs time because it's Mother's Day and we want
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: to celebrate her. Yes, so I knock out Scotty. Scotty,
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: put her down in the crib. She sleeps through the night.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: Holly fucking Loujah, Come on, go down. Rue's watching TV.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: She's already in her pajamas. We go upstairs, we do bedtime.
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: She doesn't need to hug Kis three squeezes from Mama,
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: like she doesn't have like a breakdown, like I need
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: to see Mama needs to tell me good night.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Rue goes asleep. She big girl.
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: She big girl, and Mama just had an evening in
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: the bathtub. And I feel like I just not saved
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: the day because I don't know if she was expecting anything,
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: but I'm just like, I know she loves a good card.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: I know she just got free time, like space to
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: do whatever she wanted after again being NonStop with the
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: kiddos the car rides to ten hours of car driving
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: from Missouri and back. I just need to do something
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: that's like we're not wasting this because then part of
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: me was like should I wait until Monday or should
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: maybe I can do it the next Sunday and just
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: be like, Oh, it's my it's we're gonna treat it.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: As a mother's day. I have no clue.
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: I was just kind of going going flying by the
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: seat of my pants, trying to figure it out.
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: Can I do my lesson of the week. And this
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: is more of a question for you guys too, Can
• 58:34
  Speaker 3: I do my lesson of the week right now? Because
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: it's literally what Will just said. I feel like it'd
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: be a nice little bow on this whole thing and
• 58:42
  Speaker 3: then we can like end the show with collins and emails.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we're under an hour right now. We
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: are under an hour, under an hour right there? An hour,
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: but dude, drop the lesson. Okay.
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: This comes from General and President Dwight D. Eisenhower. This
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: is a quote that was very often quoted by college
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: football legend and hopefully should be future Hall of Famer
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: coach Mike Leech would quote this all the time to
• 59:10
  Speaker 3: his team. Plans are worthless, but planning is everything. And
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: essentially what that means is, don't get too attached to
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: what is expected of that day. Don't get too attached
• 59:24
  Speaker 3: to this is how it's gonna go. Will had a
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: ton of curveballs being thrown at him, really a ton
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: of excuses to where he could have phoned it in
• 59:35
  Speaker 3: or have not done anything.
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: Safe to know.
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair because as we before we go to target,
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: like I don't have like you know what I got
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: flowers and they're prepared, but you can like write a
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: little car because they put a card in there. But
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: it was just like happy Mother's Day, sweetheart, we love
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: you so much.
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: Yes, and you did that out your own volition. She's
• 59:54
  Speaker 3: on your back going ding ding ding ding ding? K Will, hey, Will,
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: where's my r? I don't think she would have beat
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: me up about it.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I know I know my wife to
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: where I'm like she would still even though I'm doing this,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: I'm running a two minute drill at the end of
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: the day, like, I know she would appreciate this.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: And it's like I in my situation, I know my wife,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 3: but for some reason, I just took everything that I
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: know how to my wife and just dropped it and said, oh, yeah,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: we're packing all day. So yeah, like we'll just pack
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: all day and I'll take her to dinner. So don't
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: get attached to the exact blueprint. Be prepared enough that
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: you can adjust when reality punches holes in the day.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: In the situation, it applies to business relationships, mother's day, parenting,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: being a good husband, whatever you want to apply to.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: The goal isn't predicting the future perfectly. The goal is
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: being ready when the future doesn't go according to plan.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: I love that lesson.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: That's my lesson, and that's a great as you're saying that,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking to myself for any parents or soon to
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: be parents. I know when we were what's up, Ryan,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: got the coffee, got the third coffee, going third step
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: and thank you Ryan. But to that like parents soon
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: to be uh, if you're having a child for the
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: first time, like I know Charles. As far as preparation
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: and planning, char and I had a full, like uh list,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: a plan going into whether it be natural birth, not
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: wanting to do injections or what's the what's the injection
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: that you get for pain, epidural epidural try trying to
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: do full natural birth, trying not want it this way,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: not having to do like Charlie ended up having to
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: get a sea section because she was laboring for over
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: forty hours and it just wasn't it wasn't it wasn't
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: moving at all, and so we had a full plan,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: but going into it, we did our best to not
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: like attach ourselves to that because if you do, obviously
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: it's like you know, expectation is planning a seat for disappointment.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: You just kind of go sideways about things. So I
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: feel like that's a great lesson outside of Mother's Day
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: for even if you're as soon to be parent and
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: you have like a birth plan or anything in your world.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: Like you are, you do have a plan.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: You wanted to go according to plan, but if not,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: just be prepared for shit to hit the fan.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 3: We're going to homeschool, We're going to private school. We're
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: going to public school. We're gonna do this. They're gonna
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 3: take piano lessons, They're gonna like anything.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: Like because we have like us as parents, we have
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: ideas of what we want to get our kids into
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: or how we're gonna be in the future. But we
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: do our best to also like interrogate our thinking along
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: the way, because there could be a new idea that changes,
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: that shifts what we feel is our opinion. If somebody
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: gives us like new information.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: Two years into piano lessons, I told mom I hate this,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: and Mom said, well, you're learning an instrument, so tell
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: me an instrument that you would want to play.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: I said, drum.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 3: She said great, Yeah, I'm signing up for drum lessons
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 3: next week.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 4: So I shouldn't do Project Tiger Woods. What's Projects Woods
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 4: turning my kid into the next Tiger Woods?
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: You can you can think about wanting to do that,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: but you also got to hope that he cultivates the
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: love of what you're trying to do the same as you.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: Great point. How do I convince we gotta we gotta
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: start planning.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: Now they're they're their own human and in that case
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: that wants to play golf.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: Trust me, there's a way, Yeah I will. Both Ruins
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: got it to be athletes. I think they got it
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 3: in them. I'm going to, you know, cultivate games anytime
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: we have something to see like what their competitive nature is.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: Rue wants to race the car all the time, and
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: if I beat her, she wants to go back and
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: continue to race until she beats me.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: And she thinks of it in a way.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: When I beat her like two times in a row,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: she's like, you gotta start right here, And as I
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: walk there, she takes off before I can get there.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: So in my head, I'm like, she's got competitive juices.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: I need to continue to just have fun with her.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: So hopefully she's gonna want to do sports that I
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: would love to see her play. But and I might
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: not like push her but guide her towards those sports
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: and she just doesn't like them. I gotta know that
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: she just doesn't like these. But then I got to
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: decide does she not like them because she doesn't want
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: to go to practice right now, or does she not
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: like them because when I'm watching her on the field,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: she just doesn't seem interested whatsoever. And the minute she
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: gets done, she's talking about something else or wants to
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: do something else. And then I have to, as a dad,
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: gotta just You're just gonna have to have the instinct of,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: okay this. It seems like she's just not gonna be
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: into this, whether I want her to or not. I
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: would love for her too, but I can't force it
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: because the more I force it, the more she's gonna
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: she's gonna push away from it.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: That's a fair point.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: I just think I gotta do things that cultivate competition,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: fun and games.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: And then if it's like, dude, it seems like she's.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: Gonna want to be a competitor, but she loves she
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: also loves ballet right now, It's not like I want
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: to go to recitals for the rest of my life,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like when I'm in high
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: school and hear my boys who have a girlfriend that
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: have a dancer side on, and they gotta go a
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: week ads, I'm thinking that fucking sucks.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 4: No, I mean at the end of the day, of course,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 4: my kid will be able to He will be able
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 4: to play whatever sport he or she wants.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: It'll just be heavily encouraged, because god, that'd be so sick.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it would be no, No, I am joking,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 4: like in all seriousness, my parents are really big on like,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 4: you play with her sport you want, I'll do the same.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: Like if I end up having project, of course, I
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: would want him to love to play football.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: But Eli Manning's kid's playing hockey right now. Yeah, because his.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: Older sister is playing hockey and he wants to be
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 3: like his older sister.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: And it's like like with female flag football taking off.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: I would love for my girls to love flag football.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah, I just won't know until like that
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: time comes. I'll be hopeful because I think that ship rips.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: But yeah, put on the TV every now and then. Yeah,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: oh that looks cool.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: What's up? What is this? Yeah? Hey, do you know
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: how much getting him to say touchdown?
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: It's like it's all I'm trying to create the experiences
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: like all loving football and sing football. Yeah, hope, they
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 2: love and see it the same way I do, and
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: not I want to go to games with their old man.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 3: Not to segue, but to finish the topic. Lesson of
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 3: the week of preparing could be a fun little social
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: clip slash some game for dads who have for future
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 3: dads who their wives are currently pregnant. This Mother's Day,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: so next calendar Mother's Day, they will officially be mother's
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: it will be their first Mother's Day. I put together
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: just a list of things that I would get for
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 3: the wife, and then you can add whatever else comes
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 3: to mind as well. I'm ready to go, okay, because
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: this is like some your next one game. Your next
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 3: one's the better one, Your next one's bigger one. Oh dude,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 3: for okay, So for first Mother's Day, I would say
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: artwork from the baby, whether you're dipping the feet and
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 3: paint or the hands in paint. Whatever written, got to
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: do the paint. That's a good one, dude. Card written
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: in flowers, get her favorite. Guess who didn't get Jill's
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 3: favorite and got twulps this fucking guy. Balloon, Live and learn,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: Live and learn. Balloon balloons are always fun. That's an
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 3: easy one, dude. Dollar general party city.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: People want her to get balloons.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, certificate printed out, certificate officially a mom. They're all
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 3: over the internet. Easy to print out. Put it in
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 3: a frame, framed photo of baby dinner at the end
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: of the night. That's my list. Do you want to
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 3: add anything to it?
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 2: If your child can walk? What I did for our
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: first Mother's days. I got up early in the morning,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: made breakfast, like the whole breakfast and bed thing, yep,
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 2: but I got Rue out of bed, got her set
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: up because she could walk and find mama and do
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: all this stuff. And I would like point like, I
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: have a video that I ended up putting on social
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: We can run the video too. But Rue was I
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: forget how old she was? Was January Ferruard of March April.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: May Rue was like thirteen months old. And I had
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: Rue walk in with the with the card in bed
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: while mom was still in bed to get up and
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: give her a card.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: And Mom loved it.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: What I feel like And this could just be my
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 2: wife because obviously male female were completely different species.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: Yes, like dads will be like I just.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 2: Want to have the day to be left alone and
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: not do anything like let me just veg out, let
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 2: me go to a movie theater by myself. Let me
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: do something where it's like we're just in our own world. Yeah,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: Mom's I like. My wife loves to do something as
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: a family. So she loves the picnic, the annual Mother's
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: Day picnic. So we did that for three years. We
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 2: didn't do it this year, but doing something with the family.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: And then also as I'm learning, like learning from just
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: this past one when I was trying to figure out
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: in that two minute drill after coming back from Missouri,
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: giving him that free time and space to get the
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 2: kids out of the house or do whatever it.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: Is that would that mom would feel pampered. My wife
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: loves to read.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: She's giving her time solo at the house to where
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 2: she can grab her kindle or pick up a book
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: and read. She loves that. Draw my hot bath. Tell
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: them that you're gonna be doing bedtime, something that gives
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: them space to where Mom is not needed for anything.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: Dad is gonna handle it, even the kids that want
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: to cling to her. We're gonna let Mama have her
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: own space. So I'll just say setting up to where
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 2: the kids can embrace her in the morning with flowers
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: in a card. Have a family activity that Mama would love.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: Mars would be picnic. It sounds like Jill loves picnics.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: To redo something together, and then a couple hour window
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: where it's like Mama feels like she can just she
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: doesn't have to think about what's on her mind. She
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: doesn't think about what the kids need within the next hour.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: She doesn't have to think about changing a diaper, she
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: doesn't have to think about the kid running to.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: Her needing help. She could just be her own person
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: for a couple hours and.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: In truth for the Dad's podcast fashion, I love that
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: this lesson's coming after Mother's Day. Yeah, it's not coming
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: before Mother's Day. Yeah, perfect timing from some dads.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: It shows just about failing along the way, bro, figuring
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: it out because we're all in this together.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: Bro, Yeah, we're all in this together. We have some
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: ride ends. And I'll tell you this too. Go ahead.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 2: Any moms or females out there that tell you like
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: Mother's Day is not a big deal, or they don't
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: care to be pampered or celebrated or this that the other,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: there might be a little bit of truth to that,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 2: but you're not going to tell me that there's a
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: human being that doesn't enjoy feeling like the person that
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 2: they love most is intentionally trying to cater to them
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: and celebrate them for a day.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Doesn't have doesn't. I'm not saying you have to.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: Like if somebody that doesn't like surprise parties on their birthday,
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: it's not like they need some massive party or massive celebration,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 2: but something to know, like, I see all the work
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: that you've done, and I want to.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: Treat you as well as I possibly can today.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: And do you know what, You might not care to
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 2: go to dinner, but damn it, dude, dress up and
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna court dress around and I'm gonna show you
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: off and I'm.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: Gonna take you to dinner. Yeah, you can't tell me that.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: Mommy ain't gonna love that.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 3: Almost take it as a challenge, not to like prove
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 3: a point or anything like that, but more so of like,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 3: oh okay, yeah, than we won't You know that sounds great? Honey,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 3: door closes and you're playing in something great? Yeah, playing
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: something great? Because even when.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: Mom's run her friends or they catch up on hey,
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: how was mother's there? How was this? How was that?
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: They also want to brag on their husband.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, because they're all when she's going to work
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 3: at the hospital.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: I'm sure all the nurses. What do you do for
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: mother's name? It was your first line blah blah blah.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 3: And Jill's one lagging me off the huck and it's
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 3: only talking about how great dinner was. Yeah, and I
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: got her flowers and.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. I love you Annie. I don't know
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: if I said that. Did I say that earlier? Dig Listen,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: you have to say it. Oh, I love you Jill.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: We know you love Jilly Bean. I love Jilly Bean.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: Dee loves Jilly Bean. Thank you? What, chef?
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: Love?
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: Do you love Jill? I thought you were going to
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: lean into the mic and be like, I love Jilly
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: Bean too, I do? Do you love Jilly Bean? I
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: do like like Deeke.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: Didn't know I was gonna do the the domino effect
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: of all of us saying it, So I said, Deeke
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: loves Jilly.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: Just here's where you slight hesitation Jilly Bean. But chef,
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: do you want to say anything anything off your chest,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: anything that sticks out in particular about Jill that you
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: want to discuss?
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 4: How about how kind she is to everyone? She meets
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 4: at the baby shower. She came up so sweet had
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: Scarlet there. She let me hold Scarlet.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: Bro they had a moment.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: Did you put the images up last pot of you
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 3: and Scarlet?
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: I didn't. The mother the Mother's Day was we had
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: to get that one. Awesome. I'd give Jilly Bean to
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: talk to you, talking to for beating you down like that.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: I deserved every bit of it. You deserve it. But
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: all so she knows too, like.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: You're doing your best, I know, but like I'm doing
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: my best, Like my wife was beating me up for
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: like the wedding stuff. And I'm in my head thinking, Sweetheart,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: I'm like I was trying. I'm literally doing everything I can't,
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: like what do you want me to do? And I'm
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: also thinking on my head, dude, it's fucking Mother's Day weekend.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: We've had Scott, he's been sick, like she's been dealing
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: with all of the chaos. So I know it's like
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: she means what she's saying, but she's also like she's
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: just venting because she's had a tough She's had a
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: tough couple forty eight hours. So I kind of just
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: like lay there and take it a little bit. She
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: probably sees as me suppressing my emotions or feelings, but
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 2: I'm just trying to gather as much intel as i
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: can sol I don't like flip my lid or let
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: her have her moment.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: Do you know how I see it? Like truly, any
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 3: husbands that are getting a tongue lashing like this is
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 3: how I view it now, because I really used to
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 3: like get heated and get kind of beat myself up,
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 3: shut down a little bit, not talk to Jim after
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 3: like she would challenge me on something or call me
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: out for something, and I truly revert to shout out
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 3: Coach Scott from middle school. He's my eighth grade football coach.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 3: And I would have a guy in wide receiver reps
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 3: run a route in front of me, and he would
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 3: look like a wounded gazelle running this route, maybe even
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 3: run the wrong route whatever, and he drops the.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: Ball, goes to the back of the line. Coach Scott
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: doesn't say a word.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 3: I do one little wrong thing in my route something
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 3: this big?
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: Damn it, young, what are you doing to blah blah blah.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 3: You gotta get He's coaching me hard, and I'm like
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 3: He does that because he sees something in me, expects
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: something more of me that he doesn't see in the
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 3: other person. Like he's challenging me because one he knows
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: I can take it, but two, he knows that I'm
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 3: good enough to not make that mistake and he wants
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 3: me to be at my best.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: And that's how I like kind.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 3: Of interpret that coaching now from Jill of like it
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 3: is out of love, and I am glad that she
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 3: does it because I said it on that Mother's Day
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 3: episode and I meant it like I feel like ninety
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 3: percent of the reason that I'm the dad that I
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 3: am today. One, I'm on a dad podcast, so I
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 3: gotta be on my p's and q's. Two, I have
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 3: a wife that challenges me constantly, and I honestly love
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 3: it because he is making me a better man every
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 3: single time, and it's making me a better father every
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 3: single time. And I don't like being in the doghouse.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 3: I want to be in the doghouse, you know what
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 3: I'm saying. Like, so that's just how I see it. Yeah,
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: thank you for backing me, dude.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: I just I love the boy, and look, you need
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 2: some hard coaching at times. Yeah, yeah, Yeah, I just
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 2: love you. I love Jilly Bean, I love you forever man,
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: thank you Charro. Love Papa Team six.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: Love Papa Team six, love Scarlett. I do too.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: We have we have like a really big shout out
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 3: that I'm really excited for.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get into some uh, let's get into our comments.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: Where do you want to start? I have shout outs.
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: I have Krack of Coal One, Dad Hack and PT
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: six community.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 3: I have a shout out that I really want to
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 3: get into because this guy is a Tier one and
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: a PT Sikoh, this guy is everywhere on x Nick Giles.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, he is bro.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: He is truly and he's not one of the weird
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: you know, like too much in the comments like he
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 3: he is just always positive, always pushing stuff, always stead.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: If we were creating an Avengers of Tier ones or
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: Papa Team six, Nick would be in.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: It with my dude.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 3: If you go to Nick's Twitter, go through his feed
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 3: and it's retweet, will retweet, deeck, retweet, shirm, retweet, busting,
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 3: retweet for the dads. He's just out there retweeting and
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 3: loving everything. Nick is a homie and Nick his wife
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 3: is a badass because she wrote in for him.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: Oh this is from Erica Giles.
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 3: Hi, guys, I want to reach out and ask if
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 3: you could give my husband Nick a shout out for
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 3: his thirtieth birthday. I truly think it would mean the
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 3: world to him. Nick is honestly one of the best
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 3: men I know. He's an amazing friend, brother, uncle, husband,
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 3: and dad. He has such a huge heart and his
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 3: lover of everything, especially this podcast. He is a total Ptsiko.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 3: This man deserves the biggest shout out. He wakes up
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 3: at crazy hours to go to work and works incredibly
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 3: hard so I can stay at home with our boys,
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: even after being in a Yeah, he was in that
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 3: car crash, Dude, I forgot about that. Even after being
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 3: in a crash that honestly could have killed him, he
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 3: was back to work within days, because that's just the
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 3: kind of hard working and dedicated person he is.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: But it doesn't stop there.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 3: The second he gets home, he jumps straight into fun
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 3: dad mode. He rests with our two and a half
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 3: year old, feeds our nine month old, and always knows
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: how to make him laugh. He gives everything he has
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 3: to this family every single day. Nick listens to the
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 3: podcast every week and has been a fan since the
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 3: very beginning. He ordered tons of merch for both of
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 3: us because he genuinely loves and supports what you guys do.
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 3: I know hearing you guys wish him a happy thirtieth
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 3: birthday would absolutely make his year. Thank you so much
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 3: for taking the time to read this Milk Team six out.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 3: That made me tear up.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: I see that, what's the emotion I'm deserving? Just feel
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: undeserving to wish Nick a happy birthday? Well, just birth,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 2: happy birthday now. I hope you feel loved, bro, I
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: hope you feel loved. I don't know why I teared up.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 3: I just know Nick is such an awesome guy, and
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 3: the fact he loves our podcast is like that's humbling,
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 3: Like that's so badass.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 2: And just supports in the way that you were talking
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: about retweeting everything, engaging with everything, just knowing that whatever
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: content he consumes of ours is like can escape for
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 2: him and like it fires him up. Yeah, dude, a
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 2: shout out and your wife writing in to tell you
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 2: happy birthday, Come on, man, Yeah.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 3: You have a legend as a wife and you have
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 3: two sweet little kids. I was just imagining him with
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 3: his kids, Dude, that's why I started to or not
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 3: yeah too, because he just d When you see a
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 3: good dad, when you hear about a good.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: Dad, and when you're just a dad like you just
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: you can cry over anything. Yeah, you can tear him
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: over anything. Yeah.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: We love you, Nick, We love you, Nick. Happy thirtieth birthday.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 3: Welcome to the third floor, dude. I have one here
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 3: from Emily M.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 2: Molina. Hey for the dads. My husband, Dylan is a
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 2: huge fan of your podcast. He has been a faithful
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: listener since day one. For Mother's Day, he bought me
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 2: the best merch. I wanted to brag on him and
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 2: how he celebrated me from Mother's Day. This is our
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 2: first year being parents after struggling through years of miscarriages
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 2: and infertility. Oh man, yeah that is yes. Now I
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: proudly wear my mom merch. Thank you for all you do.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 2: We love listening. We always learn something new or crack
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: a smile. Truly, you both have held my husband, especially
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 2: to the first days when we felt so lost and exhausted. Also,
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: if y'all feature him, this will be the best upcoming
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 2: Father's Day gift. Cheers with Ali pop of course, go
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: huskers with love Emily Father's Day came early.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: Father's Day came early. Dylan.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 2: Shout out to you, Bro, Emily, thank you for writing in.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 2: Thank you, Emily, Thank you, Dylan.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: Dylan, you seem like a stud and both of you.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, and I have a photo here, Emily rocking milk
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 2: Team six gear.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: On Mother's Day.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: Great color coordnation, those pink shorts to go with it.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: Come on now, boy mom, the boy mom hat, little stutter?
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: Are you crying again? Are you good?
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: I'm good.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to you the way I talk to
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 2: my little girls. Would you like a hug? Do you
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: need a hug?
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll come over there and hug you. But I
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 3: don't need a hug. I'm just so happy for it.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: Listen, I'm just so happy if you don't need a hug,
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 2: that's okay. That they'll be here anytime you need a hug.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 3: All right, I'll come over there and I'll hug you. No,
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 3: I'm here, soul, thank you. It's just the infertility.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 2: Merg Yeah, man, the infertility stuff. Obviously, Scotty was an
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: IVF baby. I'll tell you what, Bro that you talk
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: about stress pressure weird like assumptive expectations. You both kind
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: of place on each other that you project because you
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 2: don't know how the other feels when you're going through
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: hard times. Bro, especially for mom and dad learning how
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: to sit with mom. Yeah, versus fix a situation?
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: Ugh, Sure and.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 2: I have went through a few different things, and it's man,
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 2: you learn a lot about each other. You learn a
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 2: lot about how to communicate with each other, figure out
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: what each person needs in a like a very trying
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 2: time because as men, you always want to We're like
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: the practical brain. We want to fix it. We want
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: to figure out what the solvings. We don't want to
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 2: sit in the uncomfortable thing too long. Yes, we want
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: to figure out Okay, how are we going to get
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: over this?
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm getting over How can I talk
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: you into getting over it? Versus like hill, I don't
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 2: need you to fix what's going on right now? Yeah,
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 2: I actually need to know how do How are you
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 2: feeling the same way I do?
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: How do you deal with it? Or maybe not even
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: how do you deal.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: With It's not like we need to solve or an
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: answer right now, just knowing that you're both sitting with
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: each other in like a hard, very trying time.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just feeling and experiencing everything together. Yeah.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I have an email by the way that I
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 3: know for a fact I will not be able to
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 3: read because.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: I read it a little bit of it before.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 3: I read a little bit of it before the episode,
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 3: and if anybody else wants.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: To read it, I can, I'll read it.
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 5: I was gonna say, you could cleanse the palate with
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 5: a crack of cold one or a dad has Hey,
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 5: that's true.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got some We got some good here, true unity.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 2: This is from Justin's store or Justin justin Stair, Justin
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: Stair Uncle team six member here justin Stair, love the pod.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: Keep up the great work boys.
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 2: So anytime you travel north in Wisconsin, you see a
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 2: certain billboard that makes me think of for the dads
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 2: every time Adult Superstore Good.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: Do you want to know the name? I mean this is.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: This is billboards on the highway to Missouri. Come on.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 2: Shockwave Shockwave video Adult Superstore No.
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 3: Exit seven they get it open twenty four to seven.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: Oh buddy, did we go get a picture in bro
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: of that billboard? We have to do I even need
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: to go to the store. You guys, got anyt coupon
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: you still here where they said. It's on the drive to.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: North in Wisconsin on I ninety I ninety four, exit
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: seventy nine.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, just ten minutes north of Dell's.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, we need to keep that in mind if you
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 3: guys ever do a spring tour.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: We might just have to do her own for the
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: Dead's vlog and just go there.
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 3: And just go to the Shockwave Video Store. Dude, I
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 3: going out to Aledo. Like driving from Fort Were to Aledo,
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 3: there is this billboard. Alito set the record for state
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 3: championships in football and it was this big deal because
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 3: some other school had held it for year champions It's
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 3: crazy and there's a huge billboard for it right by
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 3: the Triple EDG Video Store on the way out to Aleda.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 3: That was probably the most affordable billboard that you could get. Yeah,
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 3: I just love that it was next to the trip.
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's our next four the Dead's Community event.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 3: Just.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: Fifty dads standing there and look it up.
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 2: Or May community event will be a collaboration with bar
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 2: three in Family Alliance Music outdoor workout event bet fit
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  Speaker 2: or one.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: In June, We'll be at the Shockwave Adult Video Store
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: out in Northern Wisconsin.
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  Speaker 3: So guys, if you're out near Dell, make sure if
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 3: you're ten minutes ten minutes north of Dell of ninety
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 3: ninety four.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: If you're in the Dell area, maybe you're outside of Madison,
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: come check it out. It be a blast. I have
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: a Oh.
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 3: By the way, Deeke, you leaned in when we're talking
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 3: about Nick. You leaned into the mic and I forgot
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 3: to swing it back to you.
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 5: I was just gonna say on May first, this this
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 5: tweet is what I love about Nick. It says, I
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 5: like from both the Bust and Boys and twenty four
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 5: hours feeling like a part of the crew, and it
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 5: was you and Taylor just like to tweet of Nicks
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 5: on the same day. It just resent. It was one
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 5: of those little things like his feet is very pure,
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 5: very funny. He's a good dude.
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: He's just such a dude. He's such a good guy.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 3: This is from Eli Schroeder repeat offender on Spotify. Eli says,
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 3: I want to give a huge shout out to my
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 3: boy and fellow pet Siko Brett Shannon and his amazing
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 3: wife Sidney on welcoming their firstborn Cooper into the world today.
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 3: On May eighth teas and peas go out to them.
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 3: They are officially in the trenches.
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: Let's go. Let's just a buddy right in shouting them out.
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 3: Dude, Eli is defender, repeat offender, he writes in all
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 3: the time.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: I just I hope group chats just blow up with
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 1: the four of the dads I got. I have a
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 1: crack of cold one. You want to hit crack of
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 1: cold ones? Uh?
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 3: Yes, because crack a Cold One, as always, is brought
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 3: to us by Ollipop.
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: I have the Blackbird Vanilla right here. I have the
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 1: Raspberry Srbert. Raspberry s Sherbert's a good one.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: And I've seen people in comments mention the Raspberry Surbert
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 2: trying to put us on game, which I love.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 1: Receive the game. Receive the game.
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 3: We're in it with you, and you don't want to
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 3: be a no at all and be like buddy, I
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 3: already had twelve of them. Yeah, thank you, But I'm
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 3: currently looking at a twelve pack over here.
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: But just Dad's helping dads. We got some new Oh,
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: BlackBerry vanilla is good and.
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 3: These are their two newest flavors. Ollipop is still running there.
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 3: Buy one can or buy two cans, get paid back
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 3: for another can. Ollipop is sold in stores. It's also
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 3: sold in the cold section of your local gas station.
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 3: You can find them at Walmart, Target, Costco, or you
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 3: can go to Drinkollipop dot com forward slash BWTB. When
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 3: you buy any two cans, they will pay you back.
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 3: That is Drink Lollipop Forward slash BWTB. Let's get into
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 3: our crack of cold ones.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: I have one here from d strict eighty.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: This is on Discord cracking a coal one to my
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: sicko of a wife during her eight hours of labor.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: She said she needed to laugh and immediately asked for
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 2: the pod to be put on. Bro asked for her
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 2: water to be broken, and proceeded to push out our
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 2: angel of a girl.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: Six minutes later. Hashtag m T sick. What is sicico?
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: What's her name? Did he say your name?
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: Just beautiful?
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 2: No, his name is ta Strick. We could say t
• 1:28:30
  Speaker 2: Stricoh shout out as empty Sicicoo. Throw on the pod, baby,
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 2: you'll be on six minutes.
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: Hey, throw the pod on. Baby wants to watch two? Yeah,
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: let me holster throw the pod on. Break my water.
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 1: We're delivering the baby.
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 3: I wish I had my shop glasses. Doctor just comes in,
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 3: Oh for the dad spot. That'll actually, uh, that'll help
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 3: with the labor and delivery. I would keep that plane.
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 3: My crack of cole One is we're moving, and I'm
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 3: actually really stoked. I did some more research on the
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 3: neighborhood that we're moving into.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 1: Spring Hill.
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 3: There's a community pool, there's a community grass like green
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 3: area where they do movie nights. They have a Fourth
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: of July parade, they have a bunch of events around
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 3: these holidays, and it's just something that Jill and I
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 3: have been so starved for and I am just very
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 3: very excited for that little like community aspect. Nothing against
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 3: where we live right now or the neighborhood somethingst them.
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's just.
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 3: Like this is gonna be just such an opportunity of
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 3: like Scarlet to be able to like grow up alongside
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 3: these other kids are running around. There's little girls and
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 3: pigtails on bicycles with the little bells. As we were
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 3: like looking at the house for the first time, like
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 3: going down the street and they're hi, wait a minute,
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 3: Jill and I, Jill and I are like, oh my god,
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 3: like this is so cute. Yeah, And I'm just very like,
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 3: very are you looking forward to that?
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: I'm very excited. That's my cracker cole One. You gonna
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: cry again? No, but dude, I will not.
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to be able to read this email.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 3: I swear to god. There's no palate cleanser that will.
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I will try.
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 3: But if they actually like, I can feel an ugly
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 3: cry coming on.
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: No idea why I won't be able to do it.
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 5: Somebody else is gonna have to readop with Will because
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 5: he has a sad one too.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: Oh I have a sad one as well.
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 3: The emails are beautiful. Okay, they are beautiful. You're exactly right.
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 3: I make it sound like it's terrible and apologies. These
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 3: are beautiful emails. I just I'm like, oh my god,
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 3: I'll stop talking about it and just man up and
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 3: do it.
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 2: My crack a cold one is just going to simply
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 2: go to Scott Zilla sleeping through the night again in
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: her crib after being sick for a couple of days.
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 3: Kai out a bonus crack a cold one, dude, at
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 3: a bonus Scott's Zilla just looking like she worked a
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 3: double shift at the Amazon.
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 2: Scott Zilla is a busy body bro like she gets
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 2: after it. Yeah, and when she's in her rest period,
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 2: like net Geo finding Scott's Zilla in the wild during
• 1:31:17
  Speaker 2: a rest period, her facial expressions, the way she just
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 2: has that chill position because I've got her on the
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 2: couch a few times, or she just sitting back, or
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 2: she just got through a two a day or something
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 2: in Southern Texas.
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 3: Imagine like Dad's at home will understand this, like any
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 3: toddler under two sitting still for more than forty five
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 3: seconds and will tell me, I'm sitting there going she
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 3: doesn't How long is she do it? Like twenty minutes,
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 3: He's like that, not twenty, but like she'll do ten
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 3: to fifteen. Sometimes I said three, oh, you said three yeah, yeah,
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 3: I was embellishing, shouting out Scott' Zilla was shouting out
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 3: Scott's four minutes.
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 1: At a time. She's just be in that position.
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 2: When I walked in and then went back out and
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 2: took the video, I'm just laughing because she's just she's
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 2: so funny to me, three to four minutes for something,
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 2: and she's swinging like I'm telling you, Zilla, Zilla is
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 2: an animal. So catching her in those those resting moments
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 2: where nothing's on her mind, and she just wants to
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 2: relax and check out for a few It's rare, but
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: when you catch him, you gotta you gotta capture.
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 1: It, cause she's swinging.
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 3: Bro. She's like, Dad, I got I've been swinging all
• 1:32:31
  Speaker 3: day on my sister. Can I, for God's sake could
• 1:32:34
  Speaker 3: I sit here and rest for a little bit.
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 2: We're doing dinner time last night and we're going through rose,
• 1:32:39
  Speaker 2: Rose and thorn, and Rue is on her thorn, and
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 2: Ru's just innostantly talking like what are rose and thorn?
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 1: Is Rose going to school?
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 2: And we always got to extract Okay, you say school
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 2: every time? Yeah, what was your rose in school? And
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 2: what was your rose outside of school? So we get
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 2: that from her and then she'll talk about her thorn.
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 2: We're like, oh, Mama's like, oh, what was your today?
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 2: And she's like hmmm, I think And she's like, well, Scottie,
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 2: Scotty was hitting me a lot when I was on
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 2: the couch trying to watch tumb Believe, Scotty was hitting
• 1:33:10
  Speaker 2: me a lot and she was swinging at me a lot.
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 2: And she threw the she threw the toy at me,
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 2: She threw the bottle she threw the bottle at me.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 1: She threw the ball at me.
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 2: It's Scottie and I'm watching because I got to get
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  Speaker 2: on Scotty's ass because scott will just go over and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, She's like, well, you know, did
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  Speaker 2: you did you try to act back? She's like, no,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't try to hit Scottie back. She's like, well,
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  Speaker 2: that's good. You don't want to hit Scottie back. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, I was telling her, you need to grab
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  Speaker 2: grab Around'm like, dude, at some point you got to
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  Speaker 2: see that Zilla's coming and know that you can't.
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  Speaker 1: It's Scotty. This is not okay.
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  Speaker 3: The entire time that she's doing the thorn, I'm sure
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  Speaker 3: Scotti is punched over just grabbing her, dude and just
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  Speaker 3: staring at her.
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  Speaker 1: Just bro.
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  Speaker 2: Scotty will walk over. She was to side, like say,
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  Speaker 2: she's in the chill position. She gets on her stomach
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  Speaker 2: and then gets.
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  Speaker 1: Off the chair and she'ld just walk over the room.
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  Speaker 1: Ru's chilling on the couch and I'll just see her
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  Speaker 1: hand go up and.
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  Speaker 2: She's like she's like swinging to Hebrew and Ruby like
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 2: tucked over the couch like this, and Scotty's just missing
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 2: with it and like pounding the pillow. The pillow by
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  Speaker 2: Scottie and then she'll like pick up a toy and
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 2: throw it at her. I'm like, yo, what the what
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  Speaker 2: are you doing do? She busted rou Last week we
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 2: were it was Liker was like hanging down kind of
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 2: like sitting on the floor. Mama was doing dishes. I
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  Speaker 2: was like putting away something and I'm like sitting there
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  Speaker 2: watching Let's go, oh yeah, my fault. And Ruth's like,
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 2: for whatever reason, Ru's on the floor and she's just chilling,
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 2: like looking up at Mama, like telling her a story
• 1:34:46
  Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, Scottie walks over and like had leverage
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  Speaker 2: and like drops the hammer. God's her in the face, bro,
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  Speaker 1: And Buster.
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  Speaker 3: The show Invincible, there's these aliens that are like secretly
• 1:35:08
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  Speaker 1: And I don't even know what to do, like, oh, like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: hitting's bad.
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  Speaker 2: We don't hit, we don't blah blah blah, like all
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 2: this stuff, like I pick her up and move her
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  Speaker 2: and like you gotta sit on the couch.
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  Speaker 3: But it's not like she was at the Clumps baby
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  Speaker 3: shower hitting everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Like she's only doing it too. She'll do it to
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: us too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah she'll try and hit us, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she'll try and hit me.
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  Speaker 3: She tries to hit my She showed no signs of
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  Speaker 3: that at the baby shower, just so sweet. Jj Winton
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  Speaker 3: got like a little toy for it and hit her
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  Speaker 3: and she was smiling and like playing with the toy,
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  Speaker 3: playing with Scarlet so sweetly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you share my voice from across the living room, Scotty, Scotty,
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  Speaker 2: I have to run over there and grab her by
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  Speaker 2: the arms, pick her up, place her somewhere else. We
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  Speaker 2: don't hit. Mom had to remove her last night. She
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  Speaker 2: goes outside, takes her to give her like talk to
• 1:36:18
  Speaker 2: her because again she hit Rue.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah oh wait no, it didn't hit Rue.
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 2: Took like a heavy like a heavy toy object and
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 2: threw it at room. So Charlo takes her outside and
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 2: she's like talking with her having a car. I don't
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 2: even know what Maru's playing with the coasters, like lining
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 2: stuff up, kind of like building stuff and messing around
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 2: on the living floor. Charo comes in like okay, let's
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 2: show gentle. Let's be gentle. And Show's mom kind of
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 2: like TAP's mom, and like okay, and Scotty's looking for rue,
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  Speaker 2: like be gentle. Scotty goes and sits down and just
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  Speaker 2: starts grabbing the coasters, just throwing the rus says, Scotty,
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  Speaker 2: stop it.
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  Speaker 3: Bro. Scotty's resting face is the best rescue face of
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  Speaker 3: all time. I just like picture Charo just outside with
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 3: her and we gotta be gentle blub blahah and the
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  Speaker 3: entire time, Scotty's just.
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  Speaker 1: Bro.
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  Speaker 3: That video Charo when she was filming down at Scotty
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 3: and was like, do you want to play with mom?
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 3: That was Charo's video, right, and she's like looking she's
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 3: looking up and she has these two pigtails going out
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 3: to the sides and was like, do you want to
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 3: play a ball? And Scotty just goes her face says no,
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 3: but like her body language is.
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  Speaker 5: Like yesterday, I was telling will we jumped in for
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 5: the bar three team and I was just on it
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 5: to make sure it was good. But Chario ended up
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 5: joining and she was like, excuse me me one second
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  Speaker 5: she ran and she came back with just like the
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  Speaker 5: bottom half of a kid, and Scotty comes in framing
• 1:37:50
  Speaker 5: them and I told it well for fifteen minutes, Scotty's
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  Speaker 5: tongue was just out.
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  Speaker 8: In the customer service broad looked her up in the papers,
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• 1:49:53
  Speaker 5: So they're they're mailing it in on a Friday, is
• 1:49:55
  Speaker 5: what pissed me off. Yeah, yeah, call back Monday. Gary's
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 5: not any No, we got to sort this out now
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 5: while the nice people are on the phone. Yeah, so
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 5: the forty dollars gift card is not enough. He needs
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 5: like a hundred.
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, customer yours is trying to figure out a solve
• 1:50:07
  Speaker 2: on a Friday, still during work hours.
• 1:50:09
  Speaker 1: Do your job. Yeah, what a legend. You think I
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 1: broke this myself. It came broken.
• 1:50:17
  Speaker 3: Right right, Yeah, it came broken broken all right.
• 1:50:21
  Speaker 1: We found the ashes.
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 6: Boys, huge dad win. Here for Mother's Day. I was
• 1:50:32
  Speaker 6: cleaning out the garage me and wife. He moved into
• 1:50:35
  Speaker 6: the new house about a year ago. Still got some
• 1:50:37
  Speaker 6: old boxes. You know how that is. My wife thought
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 6: she lost her mom's ashes. Her mom passed away when
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 6: she was sixteen, you know, life changing. Anyway, she thought
• 1:50:50
  Speaker 6: lost as in the move. We haven't found him for
• 1:50:54
  Speaker 6: a year. So the day before Mother's Day, something told
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 6: me to clean out the garage and I found her
• 1:51:01
  Speaker 6: mom's ashes. So I was able to give her her
• 1:51:04
  Speaker 6: mom's ashes as part of her Mother's Day present. Anyways,
• 1:51:12
  Speaker 6: I just thought that was a huge dad win and
• 1:51:15
  Speaker 6: something new boys would want to hear. Love for the Day,
• 1:51:18
  Speaker 6: Love the Ship, my seventh, Me and my seven month
• 1:51:21
  Speaker 6: old boy Llewellyn absolutely fire the show like every week anyways, boys,
• 1:51:28
  Speaker 6: peace send.
• 1:51:29
  Speaker 3: Him merch right now. You send him merch right now.
• 1:51:35
  Speaker 1: The fact that he packaged the ashes as part of
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 1: the Mother's Day gift. What happened at sixty is like
• 1:51:42
  Speaker 1: life changing for you die. Oh mom got a sixteen.
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 3: Bro?
• 1:51:53
  Speaker 1: Send them like triple boy, send people virtualized. Instead of
• 1:51:57
  Speaker 1: finding the ashes, running the house, sweetheart.
• 1:52:00
  Speaker 2: Look what I founds. I held it for another twenty
• 1:52:04
  Speaker 2: four hours. Used it in the Mother's Day gift.
• 1:52:08
  Speaker 1: She was happy. Me and my boy my boys seven.
• 1:52:13
  Speaker 1: We watch this shit every week.
• 1:52:14
  Speaker 3: Man sandbag finding the ashes.
• 1:52:24
  Speaker 1: He found the ashes and just thought, oh, perfect Mother's
• 1:52:27
  Speaker 1: Day gift.
• 1:52:32
  Speaker 3: Bro, we're such like broken creatures, like we're the dads
• 1:52:37
  Speaker 3: are ridiculous, Biro.
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 1: It's so funny. Oh my god, Bro, that's what that.
• 1:52:45
  Speaker 3: It might be my new favorite. That might be my
• 1:52:48
  Speaker 3: new favorite voicemail of all time.
• 1:52:51
  Speaker 1: Oh good god.
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 5: I'll give you an hour to write down scenarios people
• 1:52:54
  Speaker 5: would call in about.
• 1:52:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know if we'd reach that one. No, I
• 1:52:57
  Speaker 1: don't know if that's there.
• 1:52:58
  Speaker 3: Insanity and just the total polar opposite of the dad
• 1:53:04
  Speaker 3: who the dad passed away with the wife and he
• 1:53:08
  Speaker 3: used that recliner chair that the dad hadn't made it
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 3: into a teddy bear and gave it to her. And
• 1:53:14
  Speaker 3: he's sitting there crying on the phone. We're sobbing as
• 1:53:17
  Speaker 3: we're listening to the call in found the ashes over Mama,
• 1:53:22
  Speaker 3: I go, oh shit, Dad, they get mother to that.
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 1: Get light bulb goes off. Good buddy, I ain't got
• 1:53:29
  Speaker 1: a Mother's Day. Get four and I go, oh shit,
• 1:53:32
  Speaker 1: Daddy found one. Daddy found a mother day. During the move,
• 1:53:40
  Speaker 1: we lost the ashes. You know, Mom died sixteen, brutal.
• 1:53:47
  Speaker 3: The life altering note was so out of nowhere, like
• 1:53:55
  Speaker 3: adding gravity to the situation that you like, Oh.
• 1:53:58
  Speaker 1: My god, amazing job this guy. We're laughing amazing.
• 1:54:01
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean right, we got a solo Saturday.
• 1:54:09
  Speaker 1: I hope they're on the couch watching this right now,
• 1:54:11
  Speaker 1: just laughing there. Ass boys, it's a d L from Texas.
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 1: Got a little solo Saturday going on.
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 7: Mom is off with Grandma, getting a little spa action
• 1:54:21
  Speaker 7: on Mother's Day weekend, also delayed birthday present, and me
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 7: and my.
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 1: Little girl are going to go to a barbecue cookoff.
• 1:54:28
  Speaker 1: You guys have inspired me to do a solo Saturday.
• 1:54:32
  Speaker 7: I've been hearing Shuran talk about it with Scarlett, and
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 7: we're gonna give it a shot today.
• 1:54:36
  Speaker 1: Boys, Good d L from Texas. Let's go. I wonder
• 1:54:42
  Speaker 1: how it went. I know, I kind of want to
• 1:54:44
  Speaker 1: follow you. Sounds like you called in before he took
• 1:54:46
  Speaker 1: on the mission. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he was getting you know,
• 1:54:49
  Speaker 1: there's some bumps in the road. There always is.
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 3: There always is on a solo Saturday. Yeah, that is
• 1:54:55
  Speaker 3: one thing. Also, I don't know if I've mentioned this
• 1:54:57
  Speaker 3: on the podcast yet, Jill uh is she got a
• 1:55:01
  Speaker 3: new position at the Burn unit here in Nashville.
• 1:55:07
  Speaker 1: Damn it, let's go, bro.
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 3: It's a big time opportunity for her. I am so
• 1:55:13
  Speaker 3: proud of you, honey, You're so deserving of it. The
• 1:55:15
  Speaker 3: crazy part is this is the first time of Jill
• 1:55:18
  Speaker 3: and I being together that she's not gonna be working
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 3: weekends or night shifts anymore. We get to have every
• 1:55:23
  Speaker 3: single weekend together now. Oh so kind of I'm not
• 1:55:28
  Speaker 3: trying to earn points here.
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 1: I have told Jill this.
• 1:55:30
  Speaker 3: I weirdly am like, I'm gonna miss the solo Saturdays
• 1:55:34
  Speaker 3: and solo Sundays that were like every now and then.
• 1:55:38
  Speaker 3: Uh you can still have those, Oh, I can still
• 1:55:40
  Speaker 3: have them, but it's like, I'm.
• 1:55:42
  Speaker 2: Not trying to earn points here that Hey, I love
• 1:55:46
  Speaker 2: doing it, trust me, I'm gonna miss it.
• 1:55:48
  Speaker 3: But I I was I was kind of like, you know,
• 1:55:50
  Speaker 3: kind of I'm gonna like miss those like where no
• 1:55:53
  Speaker 3: one's coming to save you and you just got to
• 1:55:55
  Speaker 3: come up with something fun.
• 1:55:56
  Speaker 2: Now you've equipped yourself exactly with accomplished that, knowing that
• 1:56:01
  Speaker 2: like mama can go do her own thing for a
• 1:56:02
  Speaker 2: little bit.
• 1:56:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and ka, I'm.
• 1:56:04
  Speaker 2: Gonna take scarscar We're gonna get to that house and
• 1:56:06
  Speaker 2: rip a morning. You know, inside ball between me and Scarlett,
• 1:56:09
  Speaker 2: you you weren't around when you were going on the weekends.
• 1:56:11
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't get it. I'm gonna take Scarlett. Here's a
• 1:56:13
  Speaker 1: gift card. Go get your feet done.
• 1:56:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, truly, it made you a Vemo, Go get a Lotteugh,
• 1:56:18
  Speaker 3: it's just a full year of making up for Mother's
• 1:56:21
  Speaker 3: Day for me. That's what's in the forecast because that's
• 1:56:24
  Speaker 3: what old boy learned.
• 1:56:25
  Speaker 2: Calling in but they hit a solo mission, he's gonna
• 1:56:28
  Speaker 2: realize it's not near as bad as you think. There's
• 1:56:30
  Speaker 2: some lumps that you're gonna take along the way, but
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 2: you're almost empowered now, like, oh, I've kind of found.
• 1:56:35
  Speaker 1: I found a system. It's so much were Mama's not needed.
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 3: Solo Saturday where you leave the house. This is my
• 1:56:42
  Speaker 3: golden rule. Solo Saturday, where you leave the house is
• 1:56:45
  Speaker 3: ninety nine point nine percent always better than staying at home.
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 3: For that solo Saturday, I can almost guarantee it. Yeah,
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 3: you will have a better day. They will have a
• 1:56:59
  Speaker 3: better day. Everyone wins. Go do something fun, hey men, bro,
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 3: even if it's free, little part, little picnic, little whatever,
• 1:57:07
  Speaker 3: little some little some go hit the slide.
• 1:57:11
  Speaker 1: Email time.
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm scared. I know, ca I go first
• 1:57:16
  Speaker 3: and get it out of the way.
• 1:57:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead.
• 1:57:20
  Speaker 6: Uh.
• 1:57:21
  Speaker 3: This comes from Dominic Biassi. Dominic says, morning boys. This
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 3: is an email I've been meaning to write for a while.
• 1:57:29
  Speaker 3: I just don't know how to quite put it into words.
• 1:57:32
  Speaker 3: It meant to be a joyce email, and I just
• 1:57:34
  Speaker 3: want you all to know I'm writing this from a
• 1:57:36
  Speaker 3: place of peace and acceptance. I want to just shout
• 1:57:40
  Speaker 3: out a massive dad hack. Pt Sikos could take advantage
• 1:57:44
  Speaker 3: of building a village.
• 1:57:47
  Speaker 1: Long story short.
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 3: In January of this year, the love of my life,
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 3: my rock, and my wife and mother to our son
• 1:57:53
  Speaker 3: lost your life in a car accident. Never in a
• 1:57:56
  Speaker 3: million years did I think I would be a thirty
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 3: one year old widow our eighteen month old. As you
• 1:58:02
  Speaker 3: can imagine, our lives were turned upside down and we've
• 1:58:05
  Speaker 3: had to grow and find strength that we did not
• 1:58:08
  Speaker 3: think we would be capable of. But this strength and
• 1:58:11
  Speaker 3: growth have not happened alone. One of my wife's greatest
• 1:58:15
  Speaker 3: traits was building a village with people that genuinely care
• 1:58:18
  Speaker 3: about and support us, whether that be family, friends, co workers,
• 1:58:23
  Speaker 3: or neighbors. This village has helped support us through this
• 1:58:26
  Speaker 3: time when I myself did not know how I was
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 3: going to make it. As men and fathers, I know
• 1:58:32
  Speaker 3: that we have a tendency to meet our best friends
• 1:58:35
  Speaker 3: at a young age and never find the need to
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 3: grow our village or just keep our circle small and intimate.
• 1:58:42
  Speaker 3: I think a lot of us can fall prey to this.
• 1:58:44
  Speaker 3: Me included by opening our hearts and minds to new
• 1:58:47
  Speaker 3: relationships throughout this fatherhood journey can lead to some of
• 1:58:51
  Speaker 3: the most rewarding and fulfilling parts of being a father,
• 1:58:54
  Speaker 3: things we never even realized we needed. Build and nurture
• 1:58:58
  Speaker 3: that village. Gentlemen, community should not be scary a scary thought.
• 1:59:02
  Speaker 3: It should be an encouraging one. You'll never know when
• 1:59:05
  Speaker 3: you'll need to lean on it. I appreciate what y'all
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 3: put out every week. Y'all fired me up to continue
• 1:59:11
  Speaker 3: sticking my nose in the a gap on this new
• 1:59:14
  Speaker 3: journey of fatherhood. I am taking on. Shout out sirm.
• 1:59:17
  Speaker 3: DFW is proud of you, y'all. I'm sorry, I'm sorry,
• 1:59:25
  Speaker 3: I dough shout out shirm. DFW is proud of you.
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 3: Y'all are building the community that we so desperately need.
• 1:59:42
  Speaker 3: From the bottom of my heart, thank you. My wife
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 3: may no longer be here, but she has left a
• 1:59:47
  Speaker 3: legacy of what she built for my son and I
• 1:59:50
  Speaker 3: and I will always be grateful.
• 1:59:53
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Dominic Fiassi, Thank you, Dominic, Thank you dom Sorry, Hey,
• 1:59:59
  Speaker 1: you're good, bro. That is it's tough man.
• 2:00:04
  Speaker 3: Shout out, great throw, great throw.
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 1: That was unbelievable. Uugh, Dominic, You're the man.
• 2:00:15
  Speaker 3: I could I literally could not imagine that situation. I
• 2:00:21
  Speaker 3: like cannot imagine it.
• 2:00:23
  Speaker 1: I can't. I do not know what I would do.
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 1: Great words from him, my great lesson.
• 2:00:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and just having the clarity to write something like that,
• 2:00:36
  Speaker 2: and writing from a place of acceptance and peace. Yeah,
• 2:00:39
  Speaker 2: throwing in the DFW's proud of you.
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 1: What are you doing?
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 3: I didn't even read that part. I was like, dude,
• 2:00:46
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna make it through this. I can't believe I
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 3: didn't cry.
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 2: And then you were, yeah, that's that's hard, man, because
• 2:00:57
  Speaker 2: all we can do is imagine what and we don't
• 2:00:59
  Speaker 2: want to imagine what a life would be like without
• 2:01:02
  Speaker 2: without our wives helping raise our kids.
• 2:01:04
  Speaker 1: Like, ah, I wish I had words.
• 2:01:08
  Speaker 2: I know he doesn't. He's not like looking for words.
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 2: He's just writing in to give us loves. That feels
• 2:01:14
  Speaker 2: insanely undeserving.
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 3: But yeah, I feel very undeserving of it, especially after
• 2:01:23
  Speaker 3: this Mother's Day plunder.
• 2:01:24
  Speaker 1: Dude, I just feel like an absolute act.
• 2:01:27
  Speaker 2: He would do anything I know to get bitched out
• 2:01:30
  Speaker 2: on the front step in his boxers and workers' gloves,
• 2:01:35
  Speaker 2: no shirt on our pants. Yeah, man, that's thank you, Tom,
• 2:01:46
  Speaker 2: thank you for writing in bro.
• 2:01:48
  Speaker 3: And like huge blessing because those uh, those are the
• 2:01:53
  Speaker 3: right heads that like that we often refer to. That
• 2:01:59
  Speaker 3: makes us some appreciate and be able to say good
• 2:02:03
  Speaker 3: and joke and yeah, dude, ug just like falling short
• 2:02:12
  Speaker 3: of making my wife feel like really special and then
• 2:02:17
  Speaker 3: reading that, you're like, I'm such an idiot. I'm such
• 2:02:22
  Speaker 3: an idiot. It's okay that I'm an idiot. I'm not
• 2:02:25
  Speaker 3: beating myself up about it. But it is like, oh man,
• 2:02:28
  Speaker 3: the doms out there are just ripping, and his kids
• 2:02:32
  Speaker 3: so lucky.
• 2:02:35
  Speaker 1: Eighteen month old girl.
• 2:02:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, eighteenth Yeah dude, Oh my god, she is
• 2:02:46
  Speaker 3: so lucky.
• 2:02:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know either, dude.
• 2:02:54
  Speaker 2: I's like, he gets to listen to us, hype up,
• 2:03:00
  Speaker 2: bitch all the highs and lows that we have, like
• 2:03:03
  Speaker 2: within our marriage with our wife, with parenting and get it.
• 2:03:09
  Speaker 2: I guess, like in a way lift through that with
• 2:03:12
  Speaker 2: a smile on his face, but also like sadness still
• 2:03:14
  Speaker 2: there in his heart.
• 2:03:15
  Speaker 1: Just you know you're somebody like that.
• 2:03:18
  Speaker 2: You hear us complain because it's all perspective, right, hear
• 2:03:21
  Speaker 2: us complaining? You know, a guy like that would do
• 2:03:23
  Speaker 2: anything to be in just a fucking doghouse. Yeah, no,
• 2:03:26
  Speaker 2: stuffed animal to hump while you're in the doghouse.
• 2:03:29
  Speaker 3: Anything, Yeah, yeah, man, well unreal and he.
• 2:03:40
  Speaker 1: Hey, guys, first off, I love the show.
• 2:03:43
  Speaker 2: I have two boys, ages eighteen and twelve, and hearing
• 2:03:45
  Speaker 2: all your new dads, all your new dad issues bring
• 2:03:49
  Speaker 2: back fond memories. My oldest son Noah loves busting with
• 2:03:52
  Speaker 2: the boys, and I told him and he needs at
• 2:03:54
  Speaker 2: least five more years before this is an appropriate show.
• 2:03:58
  Speaker 2: So it sounds like it sounds a goo bray. The
• 2:04:01
  Speaker 2: reason I'm writing this is for the last month life
• 2:04:04
  Speaker 2: has been in a blender. Early March, Noah signed is
• 2:04:08
  Speaker 2: off for letter to play football for the Barton Bulldogs.
• 2:04:11
  Speaker 2: It's a small D DO school in Wilson, North Carolina.
• 2:04:14
  Speaker 2: He's been nervous because they want to bring him on
• 2:04:16
  Speaker 2: as a big skill player and move him away from
• 2:04:19
  Speaker 2: playing left tackle, which is.
• 2:04:21
  Speaker 1: Is what he had always played.
• 2:04:23
  Speaker 2: After we celebrated his signing in his eighteenth birthday April
• 2:04:26
  Speaker 2: twenty ninth as a family by taking a cruise my
• 2:04:30
  Speaker 2: parents included. On April ninth, on the way back from
• 2:04:33
  Speaker 2: the cruise, my father suffered a massive heart attack and
• 2:04:35
  Speaker 2: passed away. It occurred on the side of the road
• 2:04:38
  Speaker 2: at a gas station an hour away from home. It
• 2:04:41
  Speaker 2: was sudden and no one was expecting it. Life has
• 2:04:44
  Speaker 2: not been the same since. It's stuff walking around on
• 2:04:47
  Speaker 2: a high of great news and a great family vacation,
• 2:04:50
  Speaker 2: and as soon as you get back, your legs are.
• 2:04:52
  Speaker 1: Cut out from under you.
• 2:04:53
  Speaker 2: To the top of it off, we found out last week,
• 2:04:55
  Speaker 2: the day before his birthday, that Noah will require hip
• 2:04:58
  Speaker 2: surgery for a hip and pingement that will butt him
• 2:05:03
  Speaker 2: out for three to six months. That will have him
• 2:05:05
  Speaker 2: out for three to six months. The school has been
• 2:05:08
  Speaker 2: great and is honoring their commitment even if you can't
• 2:05:10
  Speaker 2: play this season, but it has been another blow to
• 2:05:12
  Speaker 2: him right after losing his popaw. I guess I'm writing
• 2:05:15
  Speaker 2: to let you guys know to hug your dad every
• 2:05:17
  Speaker 2: day every chance you get, and tell them you love them,
• 2:05:22
  Speaker 2: even if to come from a generation a generation, even
• 2:05:27
  Speaker 2: if it doesn't come from a generation that doesn't.
• 2:05:29
  Speaker 1: Always say it back.
• 2:05:31
  Speaker 2: There were years that my father and I didn't have
• 2:05:32
  Speaker 2: the best relationship, but we were able to fix it
• 2:05:34
  Speaker 2: over the last few years of his life, and I
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 2: am grateful for that. But I can't replace the miss time.
• 2:05:40
  Speaker 2: You want the ultimate Dad Act. Write everything down, passwords,
• 2:05:46
  Speaker 2: account numbers, companies that own the accounts and how to
• 2:05:49
  Speaker 2: contact them, etc. No matter how involved your significant other is,
• 2:05:54
  Speaker 2: during times of stress and loss, things get forgotten and
• 2:05:56
  Speaker 2: missed and the world doesn't give you much time to
• 2:05:59
  Speaker 2: figure it out. Write it down and print it out.
• 2:06:02
  Speaker 2: Digital is nice. But nothing beats being able to put
• 2:06:05
  Speaker 2: a piece of paper in someone's hand. Any words of
• 2:06:08
  Speaker 2: encouragement or advice for Noah and I would be helpful.
• 2:06:11
  Speaker 2: Keep up the work boys. The laughster helps more than
• 2:06:14
  Speaker 2: you realize. Oh Man, thank you for writing Keith. Yeah, man,
• 2:06:37
  Speaker 2: it's dude, it's just hard. Just know it's gonna be hard.
• 2:06:53
  Speaker 2: You know, moments of missing your parent will will never
• 2:06:59
  Speaker 2: subside you. Obviously, you do learn to live with it,
• 2:07:05
  Speaker 2: and you know, at the end of the day, I
• 2:07:07
  Speaker 2: know you struggle over the midtime you had, and that's
• 2:07:09
  Speaker 2: given you perspective to give to other people on whatever
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 2: the fuck's going on in your life with your parents
• 2:07:14
  Speaker 2: or anybody close to you, like fix it, because life
• 2:07:18
  Speaker 2: is precious and you just never know when that time
• 2:07:23
  Speaker 2: will come when they're gone, and it can be an instant,
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 2: just like it was for you on the side of
• 2:07:26
  Speaker 2: the road at a gas station and for me my
• 2:07:28
  Speaker 2: mom it was a blood clot just on a random
• 2:07:36
  Speaker 2: Saturday night. But everything like you have.
• 2:07:42
  Speaker 1: Learned and have grown to learn, whether it be from
• 2:07:46
  Speaker 1: lessons the hard way or that your parents taught you.
• 2:07:52
  Speaker 1: You know, I know with Noah, it's like.
• 2:07:55
  Speaker 2: You learn to love your kids now way differently, knowing
• 2:07:59
  Speaker 2: how a fragile life is. I give you an example.
• 2:08:03
  Speaker 2: We were sitting there over the weekend at Cody's wedding,
• 2:08:13
  Speaker 2: and you know, the groom dances with her mom and
• 2:08:23
  Speaker 2: awesome friend of ours, like another mother growing up.
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  Speaker 1: Her name is Carla. She took on that task.
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  Speaker 2: And it was weird, man, And I was, you know,
• 2:08:36
  Speaker 2: about like this, but with a smile on my face,
• 2:08:38
  Speaker 2: knowing that my mom would be happy. And I know Cody,
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  Speaker 2: you know, he's crying. Fuck, he's crying because he didn't
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  Speaker 2: get to dance with mom. Why it's next to me,
• 2:08:59
  Speaker 2: he's crying. You feel it in this It was in
• 2:09:07
  Speaker 2: this barn awesome setup, and you feel it throughout the
• 2:09:11
  Speaker 2: whole room because it's all of our close friends and
• 2:09:15
  Speaker 2: family with how we grew up. So everybody knew what
• 2:09:19
  Speaker 2: my mom meant to us, to the community, to them personally,
• 2:09:24
  Speaker 2: and everybody just knew that moment was taking place. And
• 2:09:27
  Speaker 2: moments like that are just never gonna stop.
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  Speaker 1: And you just did you just fucking do your best, man,
• 2:09:36
  Speaker 1: to know that the impact of your dad did have
• 2:09:38
  Speaker 1: on you, whether it was good impact, whether it was
• 2:09:42
  Speaker 1: bad impact, no matter what it is. They're all lessons,
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  Speaker 1: they're all learns of how you want to be as
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  Speaker 1: a father.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it feels more important now that you lost your
• 2:09:50
  Speaker 2: dad and now you see Noah, your son going through something.
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  Speaker 1: Noah's going through something.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, there are times I didn't know, you know,
• 2:09:56
  Speaker 2: if I'm Noah right now, there were times that I
• 2:09:58
  Speaker 2: didn't know how to be there for my day because
• 2:10:01
  Speaker 2: I knew my dad struggled, you know, more than I
• 2:10:04
  Speaker 2: did losing my mom. And there are times where I'm
• 2:10:09
  Speaker 2: talking to my dad and it's like, Dad, how many
• 2:10:11
  Speaker 2: times are we gonna have this conversation like sit in
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  Speaker 2: this suck, cry, be emotional, feel like we have a
• 2:10:16
  Speaker 2: moment to kind of victimize.
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  Speaker 1: Ourselfs And it just sucks because.
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  Speaker 2: No matter what happens, they're not coming back and the
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  Speaker 2: impact that they have on us is just through us.
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  Speaker 2: And that's like a cliche, but dude, life's a fucking cliche.
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  Speaker 2: And my heart goes out to you, Keith Due, thank
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  Speaker 2: you so much for right now. I'm dude, I wish
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  Speaker 2: I could give you a virtual bear. I'm giving you
• 2:10:40
  Speaker 2: a virtual Barhok. Right now I wish I could get
• 2:10:41
  Speaker 2: my paws on you because dude, fucking life. Life sucks
• 2:10:47
  Speaker 2: at times, and life is also amazing. It's uh, dude,
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  Speaker 2: We're fortunate to feel this much emotion. We are lucky
• 2:11:00
  Speaker 2: because it means we were connected to something that was
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  Speaker 2: so important to us that we get to feel the
• 2:11:05
  Speaker 2: way that we feel.
• 2:11:09
  Speaker 1: I don't want to sit here and ramble.
• 2:11:12
  Speaker 3: I'll jump in to just a hack. I guess there's
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  Speaker 3: like some advice. Sorry, I've been crying a lot, so
• 2:11:25
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to get through this without like breaking down
• 2:11:27
  Speaker 3: when I started talking about it. But get something of
• 2:11:34
  Speaker 3: Noah's pop us that you can hand down to him
• 2:11:38
  Speaker 3: and for him to have that has always been really
• 2:11:42
  Speaker 3: special to me. There's a hat on the inside the
• 2:11:45
  Speaker 3: bus set that sits on the lamp that was my
• 2:11:48
  Speaker 3: grandfather's son hat. And I have a watch of his
• 2:11:54
  Speaker 3: as well, and I love those items. My other grandpa
• 2:11:58
  Speaker 3: that passed away, Parkinson's, I have his cuff links.
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  Speaker 1: He was really special to me.
• 2:12:04
  Speaker 3: I was closer with him, and like, I've gotten nicer
• 2:12:08
  Speaker 3: cup leaks like throughout my life, but I always wear those.
• 2:12:13
  Speaker 3: They beat the world to me. I'm sorry they be
• 2:12:17
  Speaker 3: the world to me. I'm sorry for the passing of
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  Speaker 3: your dad, and have something for yourself too from your
• 2:12:28
  Speaker 3: dad that you could have and hold on to. That's
• 2:12:33
  Speaker 3: my advice. Yeah, this is such an ugly like thirty.
• 2:12:40
  Speaker 1: Timers kind of he's got the timer tick out.
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  Speaker 2: No, man, I lost my grandpa around the age that
• 2:12:49
  Speaker 2: you're at. I was eighteen nineteen twenty years old. The
• 2:12:55
  Speaker 2: big impact it was my dad's dad more situation that
• 2:13:00
  Speaker 2: you're in and our grandpa he lived one town over.
• 2:13:03
  Speaker 2: We'd go over to their house every Sunday. Like our
• 2:13:05
  Speaker 2: grandparents were involved with us a lot. And he passed
• 2:13:09
  Speaker 2: away when I was off in Nebraska. And then my
• 2:13:11
  Speaker 2: grandpa like he was in the hospital. He didn't ever
• 2:13:14
  Speaker 2: want me to come see him because he didn't want
• 2:13:15
  Speaker 2: his grandkids to see him in the state that he
• 2:13:17
  Speaker 2: was in. And it was hard for all the boys.
• 2:13:22
  Speaker 2: I know Cody, Cody went through it because Cody stayed
• 2:13:26
  Speaker 2: over at his house a lot. And you're gonna be
• 2:13:30
  Speaker 2: in your own world, obviously, you're going you're thinking about college,
• 2:13:32
  Speaker 2: you're thinking about football. You have to get surgery, buddy,
• 2:13:34
  Speaker 2: I've had so many surgeries. You're gonna get through this.
• 2:13:38
  Speaker 2: You're gonna attack that process. It's gonna be fucking hard again,
• 2:13:42
  Speaker 2: like life is. If I could speak to my younger
• 2:13:46
  Speaker 2: self that had no clue what was going on. It's
• 2:13:48
  Speaker 2: not like I feel like I did anything wrong, but
• 2:13:51
  Speaker 2: just thinking back and the experiencing loss now, like losing
• 2:13:53
  Speaker 2: my mom and losing people in my life that I
• 2:13:55
  Speaker 2: care about deeply. I can tell your dad writing in
• 2:14:00
  Speaker 2: your Dad is, your dad is struggling. And I don't
• 2:14:07
  Speaker 2: even know if my dad needed me to be there
• 2:14:08
  Speaker 2: for him more, but knowing now what I've experienced with
• 2:14:11
  Speaker 2: my mom, it's just knowing that anybody in your circle
• 2:14:14
  Speaker 2: that can put your arm around your old man, I
• 2:14:17
  Speaker 2: know he would appreciate it.
• 2:14:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, great advice.
• 2:14:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like great if I'm also thinking about advice
• 2:14:23
  Speaker 2: or something for Noah. I'm sure he has a relationship
• 2:14:25
  Speaker 2: with Grandpa. But you know, it's like Grandpa, the older generation,
• 2:14:30
  Speaker 2: they're gonna die off, and it's different. You're young. You're
• 2:14:33
  Speaker 2: just not familiar with a life when you're a parent
• 2:14:36
  Speaker 2: in your thirties and things feel more fragile and you
• 2:14:38
  Speaker 2: lose friends in your circle. Buddy, you're gonna have people
• 2:14:42
  Speaker 2: that you go to high school with that are gonna
• 2:14:43
  Speaker 2: die in your twenties or maybe have passed away while
• 2:14:46
  Speaker 2: they're in high school, and it just you don't think
• 2:14:49
  Speaker 2: about that or have that perspective.
• 2:14:50
  Speaker 1: When you're younger.
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  Speaker 2: I can just tell you older, if I could talk
• 2:14:54
  Speaker 2: to my younger self when I lost my grandpa, I
• 2:14:55
  Speaker 2: if I go back, it's like I would have called
• 2:14:58
  Speaker 2: my dad a little bit more because I know he
• 2:15:01
  Speaker 2: went through and he was like a brute. You know,
• 2:15:03
  Speaker 2: it is tough love with my old man. But yeah,
• 2:15:07
  Speaker 2: check on your dad, check on, check on Keith, check
• 2:15:10
  Speaker 2: on mister Miller.
• 2:15:11
  Speaker 1: It hit my mom really hard when her dad passed.
• 2:15:15
  Speaker 1: How old? How old were you and your grandpa passed?
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  Speaker 3: It was the year after uh nine to eleven, so
• 2:15:24
  Speaker 3: I would have been eight, eight years old, Okay, eight
• 2:15:28
  Speaker 3: years old, so I did not realize the uh weight
• 2:15:34
  Speaker 3: and gravity of that situation. But just being like an innocent,
• 2:15:39
  Speaker 3: little eight year old kid, I'm seeing my mom for
• 2:15:42
  Speaker 3: like probably three months, like could not get off the couch.
• 2:15:47
  Speaker 1: She could, she was on the couch crying all the way. View.
• 2:15:51
  Speaker 3: Yes, she was on the couch crying all the time.
• 2:15:54
  Speaker 3: And I had no idea that that was about her dad,
• 2:15:59
  Speaker 3: and her dad meant the world to her.
• 2:16:02
  Speaker 1: He's a very great man.
• 2:16:05
  Speaker 3: And my mom often talks about how much it meant
• 2:16:10
  Speaker 3: to her that I would come lay with her on
• 2:16:13
  Speaker 3: the couch and tell her it was okay and that
• 2:16:16
  Speaker 3: how much we love her, and that meant the world
• 2:16:22
  Speaker 3: to her. And so I think that that was great
• 2:16:23
  Speaker 3: advice for you to Noah of You sometimes don't know
• 2:16:29
  Speaker 3: what's going on with your parents because like they have
• 2:16:31
  Speaker 3: to stay strong, they feel.
• 2:16:35
  Speaker 1: Like they have to like have it together. Yeah, and.
• 2:16:40
  Speaker 3: Cool that we get to give this, you know, nineteen
• 2:16:43
  Speaker 3: something year old some advice. But yeah, be there for
• 2:16:48
  Speaker 3: your dad, be there for your loved ones, and go
• 2:16:51
  Speaker 3: kick some ass. Dude, Barton Bulldogs, bart And Bulldogs. Because
• 2:16:56
  Speaker 3: if you're a left tackle, seeing Taylor Lawan that weight
• 2:17:01
  Speaker 3: and running around at that punt, passing cake and just
• 2:17:04
  Speaker 3: doing stuff all the time, I think to myself, my god,
• 2:17:09
  Speaker 3: if he had been a tight end like he like, brother,
• 2:17:13
  Speaker 3: you can make that transition.
• 2:17:15
  Speaker 1: It's a good thing. If they're wunning, you've been playing.
• 2:17:18
  Speaker 2: Left tackle, number one, if you can grow into that
• 2:17:20
  Speaker 2: left tackle body like you can swing from left tackle
• 2:17:24
  Speaker 2: tight end. Yes, dude, I'm assuming here, because he says,
• 2:17:31
  Speaker 2: I guess I'm trying to let you guys know, to
• 2:17:32
  Speaker 2: hug your dad every chance you get and tell me you
• 2:17:34
  Speaker 2: love him, even if it comes from a generation that
• 2:17:35
  Speaker 2: doesn't always say it back. To me, it sounds like
• 2:17:41
  Speaker 2: Keith and his son, his son's but in particular his
• 2:17:47
  Speaker 2: son Noah. It seems like they have a great relationship.
• 2:17:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I.
• 2:17:52
  Speaker 2: Would just love Noah to Again, I'm assuming, but I
• 2:17:56
  Speaker 2: would assume that in one Noah to understand the great
• 2:18:01
  Speaker 2: relationship that he has with his dad currently is probably
• 2:18:05
  Speaker 2: from a lot of life lessons of his dad. Keith
• 2:18:07
  Speaker 2: understanding that he that he's made things right with his
• 2:18:10
  Speaker 2: dad over the last few years. Yeah, but knowing what
• 2:18:14
  Speaker 2: he didn't want fatherhood to be with his own kids,
• 2:18:16
  Speaker 2: Noah being one of them. And sorry to not shout
• 2:18:19
  Speaker 2: out the other one, your old man just didn't you
• 2:18:21
  Speaker 2: didn't have your name on.
• 2:18:22
  Speaker 1: The list, But.
• 2:18:25
  Speaker 2: Knowing how important it is for his old man to
• 2:18:27
  Speaker 2: have a strong relationship with his dad and know when
• 2:18:29
  Speaker 2: it comes from a place of like, I don't want
• 2:18:32
  Speaker 2: my past to be my future with my son. Because
• 2:18:35
  Speaker 2: to me, it sounds like Keith now his dad like
• 2:18:39
  Speaker 2: yearned for a relationship with this old man and hated
• 2:18:41
  Speaker 2: that it took so long, and wish that they could
• 2:18:44
  Speaker 2: have got out of their egos and squashed it even
• 2:18:46
  Speaker 2: way before, even a few years ago.
• 2:18:49
  Speaker 1: And it cherished that with your dad, man, Yeah, cherish
• 2:18:52
  Speaker 1: that with your dad, good seed, good sod.
• 2:18:58
  Speaker 3: I did as soon as that mom was proud to
• 2:19:02
  Speaker 3: be wearing her ball, birch. It's like there's an ugly
• 2:19:06
  Speaker 3: cry in you today, dude, there's an ugly cry. Get like,
• 2:19:14
  Speaker 3: get us out of here so they don't have to
• 2:19:15
  Speaker 3: hear my little whiny. Yeah, dude, love you, buddy, I
• 2:19:22
  Speaker 3: love you, I love this show. I love you guys.
• 2:19:27
  Speaker 1: It's fun. Yeah, get it together right now. I know, dude,
• 2:19:32
  Speaker 1: I immediately after Fuck, those were heavy ones. Deeck may
• 2:19:41
  Speaker 1: thirtieth get out with us. Yea. But they're beautiful.
• 2:19:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, they were meet a lot to a lot of people,
• 2:19:49
  Speaker 5: So it's cool to see that come across.
• 2:19:51
  Speaker 2: Hey, love you guys. Make sure you take out the trash.
• 2:19:54
  Speaker 2: We'll see you on socials and we will see you
• 2:19:56
  Speaker 2: next week.