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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 16 “Mile High Club” with Sharmita Battacharya · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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  Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, Welcome back to Vanity Ferrah. My name is
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  Speaker 1: Chris Fair. That's why I have a podcast named Vanity Farah.
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  Speaker 1: You know what happened there.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome.
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  Speaker 1: I am super pumped. I'm so stoked to talk about Listen.
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  Speaker 1: It's our favorite show. It's nine at a Fiance, It's
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  Speaker 1: before the ninety Days. This is season eight. It's episode
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  Speaker 1: sixteen Mile High Club.
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  Speaker 3: And here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: I have a very special guest. Her name is Sharmitha
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  Speaker 1: Buttachara and she is a beautiful actress both of film
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  Speaker 1: and television. She has like a bunch of really cool
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  Speaker 1: movies that have come out recently. One is called Four
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  Speaker 1: Somosas and it was on Hulu. But also she did
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  Speaker 1: another one called Arrange Love on e which is like
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  Speaker 1: a rom com that she got to film in India.
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  Speaker 1: One more thing is that Ramo, who was on two
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  Speaker 1: episodes ago, is your beloved recently. Welcome to the show.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, I'm good, but very close. You're great. I'm really
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  Speaker 2: happy to be here. This is wonderful, So excited to
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  Speaker 2: talk about the show. It's exciting. This episode is packed.
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  Speaker 1: Is it interesting to now that you're married, Like, watch
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  Speaker 1: these couples get together and be like, now it's not
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  Speaker 1: gonna work out from the.
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  Speaker 2: Professional didn't even take some being married. Let's be honest,
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  Speaker 2: but honestly like we I think Rama had a thing
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  Speaker 2: of like I don't watch reality TV, and then I
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  Speaker 2: have sucked that out of him so quickly, like he
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  Speaker 2: just sistern watches him with me and sometimes more excited
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  Speaker 2: than me. He's like a new episode's out and like,
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  Speaker 2: guess it is. So you got him hooked?
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  Speaker 1: Will you tell us like who how long have you
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  Speaker 1: been watching the show? Or who is your favorite couples?
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  Speaker 1: And like how do you what do you think about
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  Speaker 1: the franchise in itself?
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  Speaker 2: So my hook in was Jenny and Smith straight up.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even remember. I was with a girls' night
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  Speaker 2: and somehow we got on YouTube and found an Indian
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  Speaker 2: couple or like Indian and white couple, and we were like,
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  Speaker 2: ooh culture, so it clicked on it and then we
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  Speaker 2: just could not stop watching their story. So that was
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  Speaker 2: my in. And then from there, you know, social media
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  Speaker 2: will target the perfect ads for you, and so then
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  Speaker 2: for this specific series, it was Lisa and Daniel. Just
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  Speaker 2: their little clips are golden. So by then I already
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  Speaker 2: understood the format of ninety fiance, and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I like it, We're good, so let's click on it.
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  Speaker 2: And then yeah, every time I watch another couple's bit
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  Speaker 2: that comes before or after their scene, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: now I have to know what they're doing. And then
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  Speaker 2: now I just watched the show.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I gave in. I like it all good.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's interesting because sometimes we get like cultures that
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  Speaker 1: come back around a lot. We actually don't have a
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  Speaker 1: lot of Indian couples. We only have one, you know, like.
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  Speaker 2: There was one other I can't remember their names anymore,
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  Speaker 2: but there was a fairly young white girl who married.
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  Speaker 1: Oh the crazy which one, yes, who married the yes guy?
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  Speaker 2: So that one I did watch. That one was not
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  Speaker 2: a fun huh yeah.
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  Speaker 1: What did you think of that? When she was screaming,
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  Speaker 1: her name is uh Claire, right, she.
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  Speaker 2: Had like the nose thing and like colored like reddish.
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  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, she was right, yeah, she like yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she screamed and they and she got her own apartment.
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  Speaker 1: Within the apartment, she was still mean.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I don't even know if I've got to fully
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  Speaker 2: watch that. I remember watching like the wedding happen, like
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  Speaker 2: the process of when I joined into that storyline. She
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  Speaker 2: was like getting her Mandy done, and the Sungeeth happened.
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  Speaker 2: She did the dance and then like she had gone
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  Speaker 2: there and like the apartment was supposed to be done,
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  Speaker 2: but the husband to be was, uh, you know, nowhere
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  Speaker 2: near what she had said that things should be. Yet
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  Speaker 2: before I get there, the brother hated her. The brother, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: did Kimberly Kimberly Yep, that's familiar.
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  Speaker 3: I like it. Yeah, it was Kimberly, yes, and uh TJ.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I honestly had issues with a lot of the
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  Speaker 2: members of that whole storyline. Like I didn't think anybody
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  Speaker 2: was really making the proper effort. It was just bad
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  Speaker 2: all around. Because there were some things for her. I
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  Speaker 2: was like, that's a reasonable ask if it was said
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  Speaker 2: early enough, and if you weren't going to be ready,
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  Speaker 2: maybe should have like let her know before she arrives
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  Speaker 2: and then realizes it while she's there. Yeah, that's very
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  Speaker 2: nice of you when you're about to get married, you know.
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  Speaker 2: But then on her and I'm like, I've seen plenty
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  Speaker 2: of people visit India with a very negative mindset of
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  Speaker 2: it when they approach it, And I've also met people
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  Speaker 2: who were lovely about it. So I think that's a choice,
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  Speaker 2: and sometimes I felt like she was choosing to not
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  Speaker 2: like her experience.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and there was Jen and Reshie I forgot.
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  Speaker 1: Then there was Jen was the older white lady that
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  Speaker 1: was like maybe like sometimes a little zonked.
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  Speaker 3: Out in her eyes. That one I gotta send you her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a messy situation too, honey, messes all
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  Speaker 1: around sometimes and sometimes love.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know they're cute.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, as we get into this, it's interesting how
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  Speaker 1: there is like genuine love and then there's also like
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  Speaker 1: what's happening.
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  Speaker 2: There, you know, for instant sina. I'm excited to talk
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  Speaker 2: about them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's start. She's hungry.
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  Speaker 1: We start, you know, she is hungry, honey, And he's like,
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  Speaker 1: here's one nut. Thanks, Oh, stomach full, never have.
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  Speaker 2: To eat again.
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  Speaker 3: One nut. She's like a chipmunk or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: They were just foreshadowing to the end.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, get in.
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  Speaker 1: She's yeah, she's gonna be satisfied at some point. Hopefully
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna take some time.
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  Speaker 4: Uh huh, yeah, yeah, she he listened.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously, he for some reason didn't quite understand what was
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  Speaker 1: gonna be going down for his own responsibilities and did
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  Speaker 1: you feel like this is interesting? Forrest wanted so badly
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  Speaker 1: to be like mom, Molly, there's a good possibility that
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  Speaker 1: once I get there, I'll just stay. I had fine
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  Speaker 1: staying there, you know, like I'm going to bring one
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  Speaker 1: pair of underwear and just buy all my stuff there
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  Speaker 1: because I'm living in the Philippines. And then he gets
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  Speaker 1: told that like, oh, buddy, if you want to be
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  Speaker 1: with you gotta live here because you didn't put your
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  Speaker 1: shit together in America.
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  Speaker 3: And now he's like, I don't know if I can
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  Speaker 3: do it.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I didn't see the beginning of their story,
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  Speaker 2: so I don't know how he was before. When I
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  Speaker 2: walked in, it didn't seem like he was very much
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  Speaker 2: like a mother's boy, mama's boy, and like was checking
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  Speaker 2: in on everything. Their relationship was honestly not one of
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  Speaker 2: my favorite storylines to start, because it was just she know,
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  Speaker 2: looked miserable and there's no joy in that face at
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  Speaker 2: all ever, and he was just like Mama, mama. And
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  Speaker 2: so I was like, you guys, I can't root for you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think you guys are making decisions for yourself.
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  Speaker 2: And then she was providing for him, but then there
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  Speaker 2: was the whole thing but her lying, So I was
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  Speaker 2: just like unsure how I felt about them. This is
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  Speaker 2: the first episode where I saw them as a couple,
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  Speaker 2: like making decis just together. They were glowing even before
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  Speaker 2: they were already just like smiling and talking, and it
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  Speaker 2: felt like like making a life, you know, seeing what
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  Speaker 2: that could look like. So I wonder if this was
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  Speaker 2: the first time that he's even thought like what do
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  Speaker 2: I want? And I think a part of him he's
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  Speaker 2: just so attached to his mom that that's a big
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  Speaker 2: possibility where you just assumed, like, you know, she will
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  Speaker 2: come to me. The Better Life quotes if it's pure
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  Speaker 2: audio hearing this hand quote is America right, So like
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  Speaker 2: she'll definitely come to me or whatever. And so the
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  Speaker 2: real possibility of her him finding like love and a
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  Speaker 2: relationship with her is settling, and of like, do I
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  Speaker 2: want to be without her if he can't, if she
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  Speaker 2: can't come to America, No, I think I want to
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  Speaker 2: stay here. I think that possibility also getting a job.
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  Speaker 2: The reality is he can't. He's disabled and cannot hold
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  Speaker 2: a job. So it would be accepting that you may
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  Speaker 2: not have her in your life if you go back
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  Speaker 2: to America.
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  Speaker 1: So the way that you're right, it's interesting because she Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's interesting because the joy that we've seen for me
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  Speaker 1: on her face happened when she's with animals. She's like,
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  Speaker 1: I love animals, honey, I hate them humans. I'm a veterinarian.
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  Speaker 1: Every time we see her peta doog, I mean, she
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  Speaker 1: lights up. Yeah, and she't. They don't quite get into
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  Speaker 1: this like back and forth, and I understand why, but
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  Speaker 1: both both people are neurodivergent, and she has like obviously
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  Speaker 1: an intense obsession slash love for animals, and therefore is
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  Speaker 1: a veterinarian. I wish I knew like some of the
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  Speaker 1: steps or how hard would be if she wanted to
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  Speaker 1: be able to do that in America. Yeah, she seems
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  Speaker 1: to want to say, and I mean, it feels like
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  Speaker 1: she wants to say that Forrest isn't unable to provide.
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  Speaker 1: He has to, which I think find the way in
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  Speaker 1: which he can make it work, like find work that
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  Speaker 1: he can do, because you know, and I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: I know what it is, but she I think in
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  Speaker 1: her mind she's like, I did it. I know what
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  Speaker 1: I like, I know that I can work well with animals,
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  Speaker 1: you know, And so I that's what it is, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Forrest, I'm assuming does have just like you know,
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  Speaker 1: I do, obsessive things that he loves right Mine's reality
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  Speaker 1: show talking about it, you know, like he could.
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  Speaker 3: Put yeah, like video games he can find.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, there's something that this man really cares about
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  Speaker 1: and like knows a lot about.
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  Speaker 3: And it's not even I mean it's unlike in a very.
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  Speaker 1: Truthful way, every person should try and find a way
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  Speaker 1: if they can, to find work that builds upon something
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  Speaker 1: that they know and or do and or love a
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  Speaker 1: little bit enough to like feel good about. Not all
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  Speaker 1: work is going to be incredibly fulfilling all the time,
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  Speaker 1: but the goal is to find something that like you
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  Speaker 1: can do. And I think that Forrest has said that
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  Speaker 1: he has some issues, you know, like following maybe linear
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  Speaker 1: like infrastructure when it comes to jobs or administrative tasks,
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  Speaker 1: or taking orders in such a way from someone else,
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  Speaker 1: and so I think that he would have to really,
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  Speaker 1: you know, see if he can find something.
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  Speaker 2: Something maybe more in the creative space, because it's less
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  Speaker 2: you know, regulated with like rules or like people aren't
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  Speaker 2: as dependent on I mean they do like in production
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  Speaker 2: side and stuff, but like in general, there's a space
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  Speaker 2: in art where it is a little bit more free flowing,
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  Speaker 2: and what you bring to it is your knowledge and
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  Speaker 2: your passion and that can't be replicated, so it's worth
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  Speaker 2: waiting around for even if you make mistakes and such like.
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  Speaker 2: There's a little bit more leniency. But he just has
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  Speaker 2: to find what that is. I agree with you. I
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  Speaker 2: think there is a space, and I do see Sheena
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  Speaker 2: being very nice about trying to make that conversation happen.
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  Speaker 2: Of like, I believe in you you can have a job.
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  Speaker 2: The truth is you probably can't have enough of a
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  Speaker 2: salary to have me be in the US, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: fine continuing to provide. It just means you'd have to
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  Speaker 2: live here. But then you can help out with like
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  Speaker 2: a smaller way, but it's still for you, it's a
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  Speaker 2: big deal. It's smaller as in like by numbers, but
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  Speaker 2: for you, it's hard to hold a job. So therefore
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  Speaker 2: if you try, you'll still feel successful and fulfilled like
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  Speaker 2: you're helping out too. And I'm happy with that sort
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  Speaker 2: of dynamic. I feel like that's where Sheina is coming from.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe, yeah, I mean, he's so tall, like you know,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like he could literally get paid to like
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  Speaker 1: put things on shelves, right, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, the average kind of Filipinos, but I mean Bengali.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Bengali and we are definitely shorter than a lot
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  Speaker 2: of Indians. And you know, I got myself a tall
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  Speaker 2: guy to get the top things and I'll get the
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  Speaker 2: things in the bottom. That's fine with maybe helping out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he could definitely help out probably.
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  Speaker 1: Just like is the known tall person. He walks around
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  Speaker 1: all the villagers. He's like listen, it's almost like an
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  Speaker 1: ice cream man. We're like, oh, Forest is coming. This
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  Speaker 1: is the day. We can be like, go go get
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  Speaker 1: that thing for us and we'll give him some money. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, but there's a way, I think, yep,
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  Speaker 1: there's It's interesting though, we finally get, you know, a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of horniness from them because we have been
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  Speaker 1: we've been knowing that there are virgins and first scene
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  Speaker 1: is you know, him going with his mom to a
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  Speaker 1: sex shop. And then they've been unable to really like
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  Speaker 1: enjoy each other's bodies for lots of reasons, as well
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  Speaker 1: as they wanted to wait, because yeah, they both have
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  Speaker 1: waited this whole time. Yeah, even though they know they
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  Speaker 1: love each other and whatnot.
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  Speaker 2: I almost feel like Shina needed to know that he
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: would stand up for her and that when he did,
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  Speaker 2: I think that changed the dynamic for them, which I
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  Speaker 2: think was a couple episodes ago. But yes, that was
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  Speaker 2: a big turning point.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's very astute. Yeah, it was to be
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  Speaker 1: like are yeah, who said are you on? And are
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  Speaker 1: you going to be for me.
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  Speaker 3: After? Like I don't know, or I think that sometimes
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  Speaker 3: there's like this.
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  Speaker 1: Hard thing that you know, she's never had in like
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  Speaker 1: physical intimacy before like that. But sometimes I think that
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  Speaker 1: it can feel like is someone really down for me?
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  Speaker 1: Or is someone you know, like just saying something, but
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  Speaker 1: like what happens and behavior wise and like if you
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  Speaker 1: expose your very vulnerable self, you know, especially like an
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  Speaker 1: intimate act, it can act it can feel like scary obviously,
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  Speaker 1: And so to have someone like early on or before
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  Speaker 1: that comfort her by telling, by giving her like a
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  Speaker 1: behavior that shows that he is willing to do something
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  Speaker 1: hard or be uncomfortable to be with her, to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that she's comfortable, It's I can see how that
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  Speaker 1: would be like a relief for her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it did seem adorable through the process of
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  Speaker 2: talking through like let's let's do it. She just said
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  Speaker 2: it was adorable and so heartwarming because she was so giddy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever seen her that giddy, and
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  Speaker 2: it was you could tell was genuine. They were both
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  Speaker 2: just so shy but like excited in like this really
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  Speaker 2: cute way. I was like, good for them. The camera
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  Speaker 2: being in there as long as it was was not
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  Speaker 2: as comfortable. I was like, are we gonna like watch
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  Speaker 2: this happen? No, No, I know they were like for
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  Speaker 2: a moment, Yeah, the way.
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  Speaker 1: In which they have done the camera work. Sometimes the
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  Speaker 1: cameraman gets kicked out of the room. Have you seen
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  Speaker 1: ones where like they'll be like, well, we're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: our thing now, And sometimes couples literally shut the door
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  Speaker 1: and the camera man who's just like but bye. Their
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  Speaker 1: thing was she comes out in her like lovely purple lingerie.
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  Speaker 1: It's absolutely see through and god bless you know her.
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  Speaker 1: She was like she kept I get it like her
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  Speaker 1: bra on, you know, because it's like titty on TLC.
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  Speaker 3: Although she could and then the camera.
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  Speaker 1: Does that thing where it kind of like fades in
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  Speaker 1: the back and sort of ducks behind the extra bed
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  Speaker 1: with like flowers on it, because he's of course made
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  Speaker 1: a whole left nest.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, mm hmmm. And he even like closes the
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  Speaker 2: door as if it's going to be me Sheena and
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  Speaker 2: the cameraman, Like did you see that scene? He literally
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  Speaker 2: closes the door with the cameusel inside.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, yeah, and I'm like, she comes
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  Speaker 5: down this lingerie and he's kind of like still in
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  Speaker 5: his day close but posing.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm closing.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it looks like take on that shirt, come on, no,
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  Speaker 6: like is that hot?
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  Speaker 2: And that introduction to talking about should we have sex
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  Speaker 2: or not? Was speaking of Jelly or whatever. I was
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  Speaker 2: laughing so hard, okay, were at first?
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  Speaker 1: I was like, is he okay, I know, let's talk
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  Speaker 1: about that because it's cringey cregy cregy, and so let's
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  Speaker 1: deep dive into it. I was like, is he talking
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  Speaker 1: about like extra hubble up like you know, like Jelly
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 3: Kind of thing, or is he talking about Jeez?
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  Speaker 2: I don't really know exactly. Was it like like k
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  Speaker 2: one or was it called it was lou Yeah, Jelly.
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  Speaker 2: I was like like talking about like lube, right, I
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  Speaker 2: don't know he.
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  Speaker 3: Is talking about lub.
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  Speaker 1: But for some reason, when he said jelly, I was like, what,
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  Speaker 1: I hope he's he like took me a second to
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  Speaker 1: realize what he was talking about.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I got lube.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hm as great.
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  Speaker 3: It's just so funny to be a virgin and to
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  Speaker 3: talk about lube, but only.
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  Speaker 2: Because just maybe a few steps in right, like that
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  Speaker 2: would be first just kind of figure out the process
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  Speaker 2: of getting through the first night of intimacy, because like,
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: she was forty, he's thirty two. Thirty two is still
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: like I feel like, forty is a long time have
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: have waited, and so that's a big deal emotionally to
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: even cross into that. And I don't know if she
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: was even expecting it. It almost felt like was that
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: a conversation that they just assumed if we ever got
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: like married, that that would be like a thing. I
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: don't know, it just didn't feel it didn't feel like
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: she was ready for her, but she was happy to
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: have that conversation. She was just like, oh, oh, okay,
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: we're being dirty. This doesn't only happen so and then
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: she was just giddy from that moment on. It was
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: really funny.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: I would have loved like a conversation that she would
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: have had like maybe with her sister or her mom,
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: like not forest present where maybe like exactly what you said.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Like as a female who has waited, we got to
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: kind of have her true thoughts about some of these feelings.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: But yes, we've also seen she in to be horny,
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: you know, like she they've they they've shared like horniness,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: horny talks like they're a little they've been little like
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: kinky together, which makes me happy for them.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: And then her sex was okay, like you know like
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: she got.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: On top, Yeah, took charge. Yeah, you didn't be happy
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: about that. And then she was like, yeah, you were
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: really respectful.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: I was like, interesting, we are a very kind gentleman.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: That what soldier, if you will, I just got on
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: tell you. We're just like, oh you know, it's like.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you were just taking charge. So I
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: was just lying there. I was like, oh, wait, what
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: did you participate?
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: He's like she put the condom on for me or not?
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I like it was hard to put the condom on,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: which is.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Really funny because we both romen are like, so is
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: she gonna be pregnant? Now? Like did she did? She
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: successfully put it on eventually or did it not have
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: I had first.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I was a little I think everyone should practice safe sex.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I was a little surprised I used a condom.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm, well he was ready. Didn't he go to
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: a shop with his mom?
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: So I did. Molly bought them condoms.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: But I guess my mind, it's like, well, your first time,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: and you know, you probably can I don't know, you
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: maybe can assume that since you haven't had sex, like
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: you know, things are relatively chill and clean, you.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Know, are disease free? Should I say? I don't.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Every way I'm saying. What I'm saying is horrible. I'm like,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: don't say it s GD free. But yeah, like I
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: guess my mind. I was like, oh, your first time
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: with a condom, and you're like you waited this long,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, why not just make sure that you know,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: like it's not like the three days out of the month,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: and enjoy yourself.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: I have what I wanted to say, Yeah, of a
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: have using a condom when you're like usually younger and
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: you're exploring or you're ready to explore, it's kind of
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: a part of the what you think is a part
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: of sex, Like you've learned about in school, Like it's
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: a token literally, like a token, a thing that you know,
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: associated with. And he's so respectful as from what we've
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: learned that I could see him being like, I'm making
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: sure it's there so she can be comfortable and knowing
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to assume anything about it. I'm going
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: to make it as comfortable as possible. Also, what is
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: this thing about, let's try it out? You know, you
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: like that being a part of the actual like incentive
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: of it, you know, of experience.
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: I get that. Plus you're at the lube and stuff
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: Things are like, okay, when you have sex, you use
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: a condom and women sometimes get dry and you're just like, oh,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: you know, like yeah, I've never needed it, you know.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: But yeah, but he also, you know, he is a
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: self pleasurer. And I'm sure that you know that was.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: So open about that too. He was very open about that.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, good for him.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, he said, yeah, I.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: I am assuming she she doesn't talk about it, but
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming she does too.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, probably I would.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: I would think.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: So she knows her body, she knew, she knew what
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: to do.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Yes, she did. She seemed very comfortable in that space.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she she does, she feel and I'm so happy
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: for her, very very comfortable.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: He says that it was a great sensation.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Oh, but also called it was it wet and much
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: more wet in something than I thought, or because when
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: he was reviewing it in bed the next day, he
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: was like, that was a lot more wet, sloppy, sloppy.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: It was, Oh yeah, it was slop funny. I wonder
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: what he thought it would be. Like, this is interesting.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: It's like, what is your expectation?
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because like you know, yeah, like if you are
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: using your hand and there's lou but like you just
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: like clean up afterward, and like, yeah.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: The sloppy was hilarious.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: But also yeah, I mean sex is messy, you know,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: and if you think, if you think you know what
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: sex is like and you only see like depictions of it,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: the surprising, real, primal human aspects of sex are shocking,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: you know. It's it's very interesting. Yeah. Also, I'm like,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: I can't kind of couldn't have been that sloppy.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: Maybe it was, we don't know. The cameras finally left
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: the room, so thankfully we won't actually know.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Well, you had that Powell swan right there, honey, so
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: the things unwrap.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: It, you know, I love it.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Was like I don't want to be a part of this,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: like yeah, you doo not for me to be a
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: third person here.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: He swims away in the sea of rose petals. Every
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: time I see rose petals on white sheets, I'm always like, okay,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: what And then like what are those being Just like, dug,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: are you just laying on top of all of that,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: just like into the sheets, and are you just like
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: are those increases now?
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: I mean are you finding the rose petals later on?
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: Did you actually like throw it away or is it
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: just sticking to your body? And then you're like polka dotted.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let me see. But I'm happy for him. I'm
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: like obviously so happy for them. And you know, it's
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: a different virginity experience than I had, so much more
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: meaningful and so yeah, I think that I think it
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: was my last thing I'll say you about it.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: It was interesting, is that like when they.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Had the next morning, they sort of played this like
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: Catholic music. It was like Gregory and Catholic Chance and
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I was just like, is eight we know that there's
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: a heavy Catholic culture in the Philippines, but also be
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, is this in one of those processions?
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Could you imagine like the next morning, like having sex
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: for the first time and suddenly you have to hear
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: like the church bells and angel sounds, like you think that's.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Why he was like, even though we're not legally married
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: or my wife. Yeah, so you know, it was like
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: not unlike, what do you call it? Out of wedlock?
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: Is a spiritual union?
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: It was actually kind of cute.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, they love they are the like
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: they are the most.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: Couple of couple right now.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: I did not think so before, but I am totally
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: on board with that now.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like so now though, like and I
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: don't want this to happen, but is he gonna like
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: immediately now call Molly like, Mom, guess what I did it?
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: So she put it on top. It was beasty, it
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: was floppy.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Deb deb are you there? Wait?
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Mom, Molly, get Deb on the just speak her phone.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Both everyone's gonna hear. Cordy detail that.
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: Well.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: You did see like the teaser for the following week,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: and I don't know what they talked about, but like
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: they were on the phone with the mom, and the
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: mom did kind of freak out a little bit. So
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I'm wondering, like how much does she know about the
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: fact that they've cross the bridge into this territory and
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: she must know. I feel like he would tell her she.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Bought that laundry, like Molly bought that lingerie with him
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: for her, Like part of Molly is like I got
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: to get my son, you know, like satisfied, but it's
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: also like part of Molly's like as long as she's
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: paying for it. I don't know, Like Molly's idea is
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: also confusing and what And I also want to know,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: like what is Molly doing right now with death? Like
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: while this whole thing's happened, because they're, you know, obviously
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: in this beautiful beach part of the Philippines, they've traveled
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: to a different area.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: I wrote it down, I thought I did.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Didn't Oh, I did, button and I say everything wrong,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: but I'm gone. But Batongas Batongas, I think that's what
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: it's called. Yeah, Like, yeah, what's Molly in deav doing right?
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: I think like they're probably back at that like bath
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: where they you know, in the Bulls. Did you see
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: the episode where they took baths and bulls.
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: No, is that worth going back too? Yeah?
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: So it is exactly soupy like flowers and take me there,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: let and sloppy, let and sloppy thirty five seconds Okay,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: wet and sloppy. Let's see who should go on to
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: for that, Josh Okay, oh.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, pack to the gills.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Now we see Elise in the first part of the scene.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I didn't take a quid picture of this, but just
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: trust me that she's wearing a red cross titty top
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: where you'll see a different version, but this Alise loves
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: this style atop that is like you get a piece
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: of fabric like a long pashmina scarf, and then you
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: put it around your neck and then you cross it
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: over your boobies and then you like make sure that
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: each boob sits in the little area of the pashmina
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: and then you can kind of.
• 25:54
  Speaker 6: Like a little pig out a little bit. It really
• 25:58
  Speaker 6: fully covers it, just like a little bit is Yes,
• 26:02
  Speaker 6: there's definitely like either deep feet or under boob is
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: like I think her favorite thing. Like I think she's
• 26:07
  Speaker 6: just like make sure that under boob is being seen
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: and then like ash said, watch charcoal jeans, and she
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: has like white nails. I mean the kind of nails
• 26:16
  Speaker 6: like you know, like milk that we were all doing
• 26:18
  Speaker 6: like in hip hop videos like and then like the
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: two thousand.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: The white out, the white out nails. Yeah, we're in
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: school and if you ever did that.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I certainly did, and I did that in my nails,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: like I would be like, she's doing a French tip. Absolutely, yeah,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: its looks so bad.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Like I was like, we're talking about.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: She's so tam though that it's like also blinding.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: It's just like you really see it.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: I noticed it multiple times, like oh wait, wait, wait, no, I.
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: Know so much.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: She thinks she's self sabotages, but I think that, you know,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I think she's I think that that happens, but truly,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: you know, we have a really awkward scene where he
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Josh walks up and he's like you up and she's
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: sitting there fully make up, full done. I'm telling you,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: titties out everything like that, and then she goes, yeah
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: are you.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: It is a very very awkward scene. Oh you felt
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: the tension in the room like it was just heavy.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: It was sitting heavy in there. I was like, oh
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: my God, you guys just say it.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: And you're like if you're like are you up and
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at you fully rest of make up, I'd
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: be like no, no, no, what made you think that? No, honey,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: I'm fast to fucking sleep. Are you talking about sleep walking?
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: You're in a dream right now? You're sleeping too?
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: It's like what?
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: But she basically they are, you know, not happy.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: But then they decide to go hang out and before though,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: she has to use the bathroom and Chris needed a scene,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: so they.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Brought back Chris.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Right. That was Yeah, that was weird.
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: Because she's like, no, there's this is fake.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: She's like, comes in with an led mask and she's like,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I need a poop or whatever.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: He's like yeah, literally, she's like I need a poop
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: and he's like do it, well, I just put I'll
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: put headphones on. No, No, that's not how it works, buddy.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Leave Like, if I was Chris, I would not, Well,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: my I am Chris, I would I wouldn't.
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: I don't like to be a third wheel like, but
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Chris loves it.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and they even have a little review moment where
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: Alisa's like, uh, yeah, he's hot and I'm not dating him.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: And then it goes to him and he's like, I
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: don't trust her. I'm like, yeah, but you're like always around,
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: always there.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like what he like.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: They are waiting for her to be drunk enough to
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: be like, okay, both of you at the same time.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: Right, I'm waiting for that. I know that it has
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: to be in that direction.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I listen from all of the things that we know
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: as storytellers and theater artists, like Checkof's gun or something.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: There is no way that she doesn't hook up with Chris.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: You don't give us Chris. You don't put Chris in
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: front of us, you don't make a chiron with Chris's name.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: When have pictures of him looking or like stills of
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: him staring at her, if at some if not at
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: some point in this season, there is a moment between
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: her and him, they make out, they.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Make Josh jealous.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Something has to happen, and if it doesn't, I mean,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: then this is just the worst storytelling. Like of all time,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: hire writers, you can't do that. That doesn't make any sense.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: I see it happen, especially with the way they even
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: interview them asking about each other. This time like you're
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: setting us up for that, right, it has to be yes,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: Also, theater term for everyone who's listening, Checkov's gun means
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: that if you see a gun at some point in
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: a scene, it probably is going to be like used.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: At some point. That's chuckov'sun anyway.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: So yeah, Chris is like she's looking for problems and
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: is good for the short term.
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: I hate that for her.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Next sek be fun. She'll be a great time, I
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: think you said.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, like she's gonna be a great time
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: and it's good for the short term, Like have you
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: met your friend Josh?
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: Is that long term material? That was the idea of,
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: like the guy.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: Being like, ah, she's the kind of girl that's only
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: for short term, when his whole fucking persona is I'm
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: a fuck boy one I'd only person.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: Got.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: I hate this for everyone, but you know what.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: He does commit to him though, Chris and Josh they
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: commit to each other pretty well.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: So all right, yeah, I mean, listen, there could be
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: another whole storyline where like Chris and Josh realize that
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: they are a match at the end, and Elise, that's
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: the red herring you thought they all wanted to lease
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: and Aalise who's gonna like, you know, how to like
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: turn down a threesome, but it ends up being a
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: third ist, like.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: You know what, we love each other, I don't know,
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: or this whole time.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: With you want three and we're gonna admit it finally
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: that this is what we're searching for, is a third
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: person to come in here and there, But it's really
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: about us making a life together.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Her name is nat.
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: Okay, So basically we gona we get their very thin backstory,
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: which is obviously he saw her online and one picture
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: of her, honey was like one of her hot picks
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: was her on a boat, and he.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: Was like, I love boats. Let's make sure that we're together.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: And so yeah, they talk about that. She does have
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: a cute sunglass chain. These are not the she has
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: two pairs of sunglasses. She uses a lot of the strip.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: This is like a circle kind of like a rock.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I can't do shapes. It's like a circle kind of
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know, sharp geometric, round kind of wire I can't. Okay,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: thank you you're smart. I was like, I don't know,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: I can't care. And the other is a pair of
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: like Selene triomphs. I just can't tell if the Selene
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: ones are real, but.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: They go on six maybe six.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, I know, I know.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: It's okay. So they like I said this before, And
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: it's interesting, they've never had a real conversation about anything
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: from each other's paths, path paths, pasts so much so
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: that the things that they've revealed that are like the
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: hardest things they've revealed in confessionals to producers. But they
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: haven't even given us a scene where she's like, so,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: tell me more about your son. You have a son, Like,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: tell you have a son, Like, what's what's he like?
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: And how do you feel about that?
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: I think I missed the where I learned that she
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: has a son.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: So this is why I'm saying this. Two episodes ago
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, I started. You know, what happened was
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: my wife? He said this my ex wife. Oh wait,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I know. That's how nice. That's why it's so unimportant.
• 33:16
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, think about it, think about that.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: I remember, oh my gosh. Yeah, talks about yeah, his
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: kid moved away and stuff. Yeah, and it's been hard
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: because of that and but for a better life and
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: all that. Yeah, they're only yeah, they're only ad just
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: a kid's situation, very much.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: No follow up questions about like what would be supposedly
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: a very real thing about his life, and.
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: Her thing too, like her thing about.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Being like oh the husband thing, yes, oh my.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Doesn't even know about right, the conversation doesn't happen with him.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: Does he know that happened? Yeah?
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: They That is how like vapid and superficial they are,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: like they do not know each other, They don't even
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: care to know about each other.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean even just I mean really, the not
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: thing that just keeps coming up over and over over again.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: How did they not talk about that before she came
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: out there? Like that is such a big deal. This
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: girl is not just a friend in the group. She
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: is a very very close friend that is attached financially,
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: I mean just in all these ways. That's and they've
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: been talking for six months and you never mentioned that,
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: and you thought that wasn't going to be a problem.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: When she shows up and then learns about it while
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: she's there, that's just I mean, you were.
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: But they didn't talk about it.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: I think I can easily see because I don't think
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: they ever talked about it anything.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: Real, right, like, hey, babe, what's up? How are you?
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Here's like, here's a hot pick of me today.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: Here's a hot pick of me today.
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: Baby looks so hot.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: What are you doing? Alice came back from the bar?
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: Oh babe, what are you doing? Getting my nails down?
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: Bop?
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: You know, just like they're white?
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, six months of like really just like you're so
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: hot and liking and fire sign like fire emojis like
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: you'd like.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: And it's interesting because yeah, she didn't do any due diligence,
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: and it's mad at him for what he didn't say.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: But at the same time, I think.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: In his mind he's like, I didn't have to say
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: anything if you didn't ask, or you know, even if
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: you did ask, I can. I'm treating you like it's
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: short term and you don't really matter, and it's hard
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: for you. I mean, you're not picking up on that
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: because I don't think that she has the emotional maturity
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: to have realized they have never talked about anything meaningful.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: And I wonder if like the energy of that sits
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: in her, and so when she says she's like self sabotaging,
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: I think it's because she knows that it's not a
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: good relationship, you know, and so she's like she and
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: yet he's saying things like I'm really into you and
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I'm so attracted to you, and I think that in
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: her mind that means you're great, I am in love
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: with you. But that's not what that means, you know.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: No, and then they clearly toxic. I think everyone sees
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: that's not gonna be a lasting relationship because they can't
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: communicate at all. There's no honesty in there. Because even
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: if after say they didn't talk and then they show
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: up and then they're fighting like they did, that would
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: have been a great moment to be like, you know what,
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: you're right, let's sit down and let's just talk. But
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: we didn't talk enough, so let's put it on the table.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: There's been so many instances that could have happened. But
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: instead every single day they're fighting every single day, and
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: any conversation always goes back to the same thing, and like,
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: you guys need to have a real conversation about this
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: and a deep dive into it, not just so you know,
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: Like I was really frustrats me when to talk about
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: the financial stuff, because I see both sides, but I
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: really am on the side of, like, you should at
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: least come back with a plan, because that's what she needs.
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: She wants to hear you say yes, I'm financially being
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: supported right now. I should have told you all the
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: stuff before. But we're here, where we are, this is
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: what I want to do, even if you don't get there,
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: just to show her, because what she needs to know
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: from you is this is not just I'm going to
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: go home and then you're going to cruise along going
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: to party every night instead of really trying to make
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: a plan. Also, you have a son, so like, I
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: don't know what the situation is with that, with like
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: taking care of your son, But shouldn't you be more
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: financially keen on getting independent. I understand that life happens
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: and you can't always be there, but you should work
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: at it and let her in onto what you're trying
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: to do. So she feels like there's a plan in place,
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: We're going somewhere and you're just not You're just going. Well,
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: you shouldn't be upset about that, so let's not.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Talk about it.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: And why are you gaslighting of Like, why would you
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: be mad about this? Well, because you didn't know about it,
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: So it's just back and forth, back and forth, same conversation,
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: no real conversations being made, and then Nat just being like, hmm,
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: you shouldn't be upset about that. You shouldn't be if
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: you call me this one more time. I'm like, girl,
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: do you not know how this can come off to
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: somebody who's clearly insecure and they don't have a good relationship,
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: Like it's fallen apart in front of your eyes, and
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: as a good girlfriend. I think you just don't like her.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: You don't want this relationship to work, because if you did,
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: or you wanted that, you're like, oh, you know what,
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: I see how this is in the way you could
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: always say, hey, look I understand, let's talk and see
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: if there's a way we can find This is obviously
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: bothering her. Let's figure out something because I want you
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: to be happy. I want there's a way to go
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: that direction. She's just like you Americans. I'm like, well,
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: when they did a little survey of the room, it
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: sounds like everyone else thinks you're kind of weird too,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: so true, not just Americans, it's Australians too.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, also, is the way she She says
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: that she's very upset, and if I have someone screaming at me,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, what if you I mean, whatever you
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: want and just go away. Nat truly, I think doesn't
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: nothing is into Josh yeah, right, because if I'm going
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: to be honest, like, why would you continually just give
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: money to someone that you're like not in relationship with
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: that can't pay you back unless you like want something
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: like if if the gender was reversed, we would say
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: the same thing, like, no man, I mean not to
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: be so no man would just continually give money to
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: some female he doesn't like, over and over again, like.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: It is with no real plan in place. That's the
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: big thing, because it's like, you know, I feel like
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: I come from a family, and even my partner like
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: we're very like ready to be there for our friends
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: when they need it. But it is a situation of
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: here's where I'm at. Great, let me help you solve
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: this problem. Let us know, let's stay in communication, like
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: how can we help? But it's very open and in
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: their case it seems open ended forever. I will just
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: and let's not talk about money because that's it. But also,
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: you can just live here forever and that's okay with me.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: And you can continue to not try to become a
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: grown up and take responsibilities and that's okay because we
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: don't talk about money, and that's the big thing. No,
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: you're totally wanting him to be you know, don't grow
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: stay with me.
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: She's when so she yeah, when they meet up with Natt,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: she puts on this dress, which of course is this
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: time yeah, in silver. It's interesting because you know, I
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: love all different kinds of bodies. Her body is you know,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: like modelesque. And why I say that is because if
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: she wanted to, she could wear such fun things like
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: interesting either couture.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: She could.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, she has a propensity to at least want
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: us to believe that she is dropping a designer, right.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: She wants us to be like that's a real bag
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: and those are real shit and stuff. But if I
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: was to be honest with you, this outfit is sheen
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: like this outpha she's wearing and I'm looking at the
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: literally the fabric on her body.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: I can tell is cheap. Is the cheapest. I mean,
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: I oft know, if it's House of CB, I think
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: it's cheaper.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: I don't mean it looks like just it's not designer,
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: like it's not even close, and so it's interesting and
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: that makes me feel like a lot of your stuff
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: is fake then and b at least like if you
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: wanted to ever upgrade your style. You have a luxury
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: of being able to dress in fun ways, you know,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: like lots of things can fit you or whatever.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: You know, you can.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Glasses that were very cute and that like a little
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: personality came out with that or then yeah, I was
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: like this is like much more fun and playful, and
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: then the other one just feels like I've seen it before,
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: you know, just basic you would wear. I guess in
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: Miami culture it might be a little bit or like
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: beachside culture, there's a little bit of a you might
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: go into a you know, the beachside stores and see
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: like ten colors of the same thing. It has a
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: little bit of that energy, But the other ones feel
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: a little bit more like personalized to her personality. When
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: she just brings out the jewelry or the touch and whatnot.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, ah, so.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: You can tell this fabric is itchy, like.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and you see her little like she has
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: to put little like stickies on you know, to keep
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: them in place.
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: The fabric is just like in a billow, it's just
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: gonna like come undone.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: It's just why pay so much money to look that way?
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: To just dress so cheaply?
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I guess uh wait, oh yeah, Chris. Yeah.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Chris liked it because she asked She's like, what do
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: you think?
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, he brought up a great point.
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: You're right.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I'm I want her to I want her to dress
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: for the female gaze. And she's like, no, Chris, to me,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: She's like, I only dressed for male. She's like, yeah, no,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: it's not for you.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: Honestly, she got full on ready without ever checking in
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: of like hey, what do you think? So she was
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: gonna be that whether or not, but she wanted to
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: see what his response would be. I think is where
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: I think she does dress for herself, which you know,
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: what good for you. I think, like you said, there's
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: a potential to play more. Then she might enjoy it.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: But she if she's happy, then you know, dress yourself
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: how you want. But it looks at you and uncomfortable.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: I know it is it feels like you want something
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: that like you would just yeah, you want you definitely
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: want to comment on.
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: It's like, you know, it's the same thing.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: As like come in, babe, and then it's like putting
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: on those like red booty shorts.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: And like what oh yeah that Oh my gosh, yes,
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: that whole scene.
• 43:04
  Speaker 8: I want him to know what he's getting different vibes
• 43:07
  Speaker 8: from Forina being like, you know, just like.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: She was ready to get it on, but she was like, no,
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: we're going to try to go slow. But also I
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: want you to. I want to watch you squirm. So yeah,
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: she makes some squirm at that bar.
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: It's interesting. Yeah, she she puts on a big scene.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I do think that I will say that, you know,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: I don't mean to be a little bit of a naysayer.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: It seems perfectly scripted for producers to be like, go
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: to this small bar and a least make it big,
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: you know, like you know, do it big like the
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Silver Sisters. And she's like, hold my bag.
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: Right she was ready?
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, She's like yes. I also even though I
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: think that they're you know, the Nat Josh thing is weird.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: But the thing about that is the only person that
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: will stop that if it wanted to be stopped on
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: her behalf is like, doesn't not doesn't owe lease anything,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: you know, Like I.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Agree, And it is a Josh side thing for sure,
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: and I don't think it's a desire to even try
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: to find a like common early on home ground, a
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: middle ground there. He's just like, no, everything I'm doing
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: is okay. And the fact I didn't tell you, but
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: any of it is okay. Let's move on. I have
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: more secrets. You'll find out later it's okay.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: Or not, because I think this is probably the last
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: time I'm going to ever see you.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm not going amazing. I can't afford to
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: come to America obviously. That's not going to pay for that, Nat,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: will you No?
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, He's like no, no, no, you're mine. So no.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like I don't like talking about money, which
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: is true. I will say that, like it is icky
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: to talk about money, you know, like that's it is.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: It is not issue, you know, Alise is not being polite.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like this conversation would
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: only have to happen with Josh and in a boundary
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: way of being like, oh, it's basically you would have
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: to be like, oh, I'm so are you lied to
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: me and you live with a woman who pays for everything?
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: And then I'd be like, well, that's not how I'm
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: going to spend the rest of my life, and you
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: either remedy that or you or goodbye, you know, But
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: that's not what Alista does.
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: She's continually poking at him.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: Oh like, oh, I remember a specific comment of like
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: he wanted to shower and she was like, uh, oh yeah,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: a shower for Nat or something. And I'm like, oh,
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: y'all are already in the poking each other phase, Like
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: this is not a good sign. You're barely together, Like
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: it's only been six months and you're already here. That's
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: probably the red flag of I think your past a
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: point unless you stop it now and communicate like you're already,
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: You're done, this is how life is going to be
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: and worse. Yeah, oh and worse and worse yeah. Is
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: it just the beginning that's.
• 45:50
  Speaker 3: All downhill from here?
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. They're pretty hard to watch. There's a lot of
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: toxicity there, and even I think the reason she probably
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: she's like a pressure cooker. So when it comes to well,
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: first of all, whenever Nat and Chris are together, they
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: team up against her kind of. I'm sure we don't
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: see all of the scenes, but it does really feels
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: that way of like your psycho and what we're telling
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: you just accept it. It has a little bit of
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: that energy. So and I think when they're alone, Chris
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: doesn't want to talk about anything with at least and
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: at least was to constantly talk about everything, And so Josh.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: Does want to talk about anything.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah who Josh, Oh sorry, yes, yes, yes, Josh, I
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: said Chris, Josh, I've been saying Chris. I've been meaning Josh.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: Chris is the room. Yeah yeah, so Josh, yeah, Josh
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: is he He doesn't talk about anything. She won't talk
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: about everything. And then like you get to a restaurant
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: and you're like, well, the only way I can have
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: people on my side and have this conversation is if
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: I yell, and so here we go. Let's just put
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: it on the table, because this is not no conversations
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: are being had, so let's just be big and maybe
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: that will get.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: A come ye and that's like, fuck off, she's toxic,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: Not leaves and then.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: Follows her, which was pretty funny. I was like, read
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: the room, buddy, Maybe a text in a bit, but
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: this is probably not the.
• 47:15
  Speaker 9: Time to do that unless you're ready to be like, hey,
• 47:20
  Speaker 9: that was so like if he was like a last
• 47:22
  Speaker 9: that was inappropriate, and I'm going to go find like
• 47:25
  Speaker 9: I'm going to go and find her because I was
• 47:27
  Speaker 9: express that you're angry and then go but you kind
• 47:30
  Speaker 9: of like mellowed and then you floated over to.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Mad uh huh. I was like, so don't even address like,
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: just say you're angry, and then it makes a little
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: bit more sense why you walked off because you didn't
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: agree with what just happened, but you just floated.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: I thought it was so telling, Like you know, Josh
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: has done two things now or that are like what
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: I mean a lot of things that are wildly telling.
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: One thing being like walking into.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: The room seeing that she's like and then being like
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: mm hmm, yeah, no.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: No, no, I don't want to sorry, check it out. Yeah,
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: and then the problem will go away if I go
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: away and never come back apparently. Yeah.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: And then in this moment, it almost like is like
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: that thing where you put a baby in the middle
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: or a dog in the middle of two people and
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: then you're like, come here, and then you see which
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: way the baby or the dog goes because like that's
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: who the baby or the dog loves most.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: And in this.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: Situation between Nat and Elise, he goes to Nat.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: It was the thing that he even brought up having
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: a dinner with Nat, and it felt like he didn't
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: expect it to go where it did. But the thing
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: is they haven't resolved anything on their own. So what
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: did you think was gonna happen at a dinner with Nat,
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: who she clearly keeps bringing up as a problem. Did
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: you think it was just gonna be like, actually feel
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: good now, Like, let's she's proven over and over again,
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: she's gonna say how she feels and it's gonna come
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: out like even before, or she's like, this is how
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: I feel about it. I don't like this. And in
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: your private conversations that did not give resolved. They kept
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: kept being brought up. So what was gonna change this time?
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: You know this was gonna be a pressure cooker situation.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: You're so right, But I know why it happened is
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: because he needed not to pay for that dinner.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah gotta eat.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, remember how Lisa's like, I don't want to have
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: to pay for things and he's like, well, what if
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: I made you pay for And so fucking dinner comes
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: around and he's like, shit, I got dollars. Yeah, let's
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: go out with Nat. No, Nat, Now, I know you
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: guys been Nat. You and Nat can talk like you know.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: Then the bill comes, you know, like NAT's like.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: That's walking out and he's like, come back the check.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: He's gonna wash dishes, honey, is everything is sloppy? Mm
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: hmmm mm hmm.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: There's this There's a hard one to watch for sure,
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: but so fun to watch.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: But so good and I yeah, I'm thankful for their
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: for their work. Let's move on to kind of like
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: a smaller we have two small couples to get. Not
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: much happens for these two people, two couples. But let's
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: move on with Aviva instig so Aviva slash Haley daf sick.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: Have you know been not doing the forest and Sheena
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: not They've been just raw dogging.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: Four to five times.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: They're just like the way she says, She's like, even
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: though we've only had unprotected sex for the past four
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: to five days.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, well, how many times do you think
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: it tigs? You know, I thought it was like one
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: time based off her a story, but like in a
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: last week or whatever. I was like, oh, one time
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: or two times they did it in the same session,
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: and they're like it was in the moment five days okay.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: And then she goes on to talk about how much
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: she wants a baby. I'm like, you were doing this
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: on purpose, like you want to you want a baby?
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Just do you want a baby? Yeah, you weren't trying
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: condom sex. You want a baby, It's fine, just admit that.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: Like she wants an anchor baby or a thing. Have
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: hang using that term, right? I think that maybe I
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: didn't use that term. Ye, No, I think it is yeah,
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: for the for the relationship that is. I think that
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: to me it felt like, yeah, of an anchoring of
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: the relate, like she wants to have a baby to be.
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: Like good now you have to be with me, stay.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: With me, and you have to be a good person
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: now because, as we've learned from Alicice and Josh, once
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: you have a kid, you totally reform your life.
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm. You become really good parents and people.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what happens. I was like, I did, I mean,
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: my heart broke for her because I was like, I know,
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: I've seen so many people be in that place and
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: we've all had probably a version of this happened, even
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: if it's a small bit, but just to see her
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: want to hold on to somebody and think that it's
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: truly like gonna happen if you have a baby. I'm
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: like having a baby and wanting that great, But I
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: don't think this is about the baby. This is about
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: feeling like he's gonna leave. But only a few weeks
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: ago you were doubting him, and it's like, uh, permit,
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: what's the promiscuity?
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: Promiscuity?
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, acuity promiscuity, and so like are you ready for
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: a baby? And you think that's just gonna go away,
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: the fact that the trust was broken or was shaky.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: It's not.
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: And what you're worried about is it's gonna happen again,
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: and you'd hold on to him and you think with
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: the baby, that's going to make him go. Well, now
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: that I have a baby, I won't do anything. As
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: if no married person has ever gone and cheated before
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: or not married fathers and mothers, like parents haven't gone
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: out and done that. They have, So it was sad.
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: I was like, please, don't. I was like, please let
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: that thing not be positive.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't want you to have a baby like this,
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: like have a baby out of love. So I was
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: happy that they had the proposal, because if there was
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: a reason to be anchored, whatever, it's because you want
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: to be engaged, not because of some fear of a
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: baby or something in there. Like just he did it anyway.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: He didn't have to if he was just doing it
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: for baby purposes.
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: I was it good, Yeah, you're right, it makes me.
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: I'll say.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: One other thing that annoys me is I don't love
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: when who's like a younger person or something they talk
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: about like the baby's gender and how what that means
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: for them. So like you know, the conversation happens where
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: she's like, I want a little boy, you know, like
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: because then gon'na be a mama's boy. And he's like,
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: you know, like.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: Well you know, I what do you mean? You know
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: that doesn't that's not true. She's like, no, anything, you
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: have a boy. They love their moms more, you know
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: how girls of their dads. And he's like, I.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: Don't want a girl means like then may know I
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: have to like be faced with my sins and I
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, well I thought, hey, and what if
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: you had a girl, and then what if this you know,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: if your first thing is a girl, what if your
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: first baby's a girl.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: Then when you said the whole like I want a
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: son because I want him to like and I want
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: to be really into music, I was like, I hope
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: you are blessed with a daughter who's really into music
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: and you have to like deal with why did that
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: even matter if it was a son? Like your child
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: can can share your interests no matter where they are
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: with their gender or like it's just your child and
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: they what if you're we have like a badass girl
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: who's like really good at music. You don't think you'll
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: look at them and be like.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: That's my kid?
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, why that matter if it was? You know, they
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: seem to have very specific thoughts on gender specific like
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: identities and stuff.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: So yeah, happy that it's not today, but they can.
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: It's not today, you're not ready?
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, basically yes, as you know, they go to the
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Mayan ruins and he proposes and I she's wearing that
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: gene hat. Please tell me, please talk to me about
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: that jeene hat. How does that gene hat make you feel?
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: How does the gene textured bucket hat make you feel?
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: It just takes me back to like the nineties and
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: like the fashion of the time, and so I'm just like,
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know, give you like Hillary Hillary Duff, Like, uh,
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: what was Liz maguire And that's a raven like all
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: those shows.
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: This is just the fashion.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: Amanda Baians was walking that kind of thing, so maybe
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: that's just her. She never grew out of that sort
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: of style. I'm not a big bucket hat person because
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: it does not look good on me. It does not
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: look good on most people. There's a few people I've
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: seen him. I'm like, oddly enough, good for you, Like
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: an impossible hat looks good on you. But yeah, I
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: think she's just survivee.
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: It's just interesting because she's younger than that generation, Like
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: she's to me, she didn't grow like she to me,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: she's younger.
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: So it's like, anyway, like.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: How did she get there? Well, maybe it was like
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: sprint page yeah her right, yeah, yeah.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: She has other people in her life, like Auntie Spring
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: and other women that are like teaching her right from wrong,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: and they're like in one time is in the Y
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: two K this is what the fashion was.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what's a really funny Okay, they get
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: to the mine ruins, right, and then he's like, do
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: you want to like walk to the top and she's
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: like yeah, and like we we see that proposal happens,
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: so we know the reason he said that is because
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: he needs to get her to the steps so that
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: he can do the proposal. And afterwards he's like, do
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: you still want to get to the top. I'm like
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: he's like he didn't want to actually sign up for
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: going to the top. She's like, yeah, of course, and
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: he's like okay, and so they're like going up. The
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: says I think he just wanted her to get two
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: of the steps and then proposal and me, you don't
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: have to climb up this thing. Good thing they did though.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: The views seem good up there, so.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, but cardio going up steps, like you know,
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: like the worst machine in the gym is the upside
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: is the escalator coming at you. I mean you nothing
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: really like makes you feel like you've never moved other
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: than like trying to do that thing for like ten minutes.
• 56:26
  Speaker 3: Why are steps so difficult to make.
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: They're very difficult. I tried the stare Master the other
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: day and for like the first time, and I was like, oh,
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: how has that lady next to me been doing this
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: for an hour? And I'm like five minutes in coming
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: the time. This is so hard. Yeah, and I dance
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: and stuff, so like this stares me.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh I love dancing. Okay, another little like small
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: couple situation. And by couple, well it comes back around
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: as Emma and Zayat, but let's talk about it.
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: So we've seen my honey rolling that.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: Flowery luggage all over the place and thank god she
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: always has like a hand because she has three bags
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: and obviously she has two hands.
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: But it still with makeup. She said that the TSA
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: she was just the check in. She's like, it's makeup.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of make like, oh, you're honest.
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: Also like wigs, I mean, you know and wig product
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: right and Bronzer. Yes, it's probably just literally mostly bronzer.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: We get this information is that she when she got
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: back to the hotel, she had gotten like more texts
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: for Mohammed and the way that we like realized like
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: she's always like Muhammed text and I want to be like, well.
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: Who takes it first? Like how did that even?
• 57:41
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: It's like it's you right, like you're the like did
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: you go? Like I just your ring away and like
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: a picture of the ring, and then.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: Right, why why do you have it? Why did you?
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: I feel kind of bad for was it? Sion? I
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: didn't Still, I didn't see a lot of their storyline
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: because I popped in on the day where like he
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: strands are at the desert, So I didn't see much
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: of them except calling her like crazy, and so I
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: don't really know a lot about how they were as
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: a dynamic. Obviously not great because if he's so.
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: Over her, they were perfect for each other.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, if ever, I can't believe it're not
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: together broby ol Dulia as we used to call them, And.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: So I mean, but learning about her having the ring,
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: that was a reveal, Right, you didn't know that before?
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: She didn't, okay, So I was just like, okay, you
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: were never really in it fully all legs and ten
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: legs and uh for the first relationship, because you were
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: always hoping there was a small slipper And she actually
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: just say that, she says, I just thought maybe if
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, So then that's very unfair. So why
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: do you want to see him before you leave? What? What?
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: What are we trying to get out of it? Because
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: she wants him to apologize, so you were just there
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: for that. You just need constant validation from people and
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: you can't take rejection like everyone just should love you.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: Because this guy does not like you, and he probably
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: thought you were going to meet up with him to apologize,
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: and that's the only reason you showed up. And when
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: that didn't happen, it was the most awkward conversation ever.
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: That could have been an email. It isn't so bad.
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: You were so right.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: It's almost like this thing where listen, if you were okay,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: if you want to make a guy jealous, or you
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: like a guy and you're you know whatever, let's just say,
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: and you know that this guy frequents the bar, so
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: you what you do is you get another guy to
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: meet you at our goal with to that bar with
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: the other guy, right, because then your guy.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: B that you're with at this bar gives you a
• 59:40
  Speaker 3: reason to be there.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you and and this is if you
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: are looking at this in like a purely kind of
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: like superficial sexual way. Of course you could have girlfriends
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: or whatever, but let's just you want to make guy
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: a jealous. Yeah yeah, yeah, So you bring guy B
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: to some bar and Guy B doesn't know that there's
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: a that he's only there like as a pond for
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: like this move that might or might not happen.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: She did that and the bar was Morocco. Like she
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: went back. She was just like, okay, I'll get this
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: guy Zayed meet him there.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: But then I'll just like sniff around and see that
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: can see my boo Mohammed Mohammed.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: At some point she also wanted to make obviously Mohamed jelusy,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: being like, well, I didn't come here for you, Like
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: I'm actually here because I met Zayed. You know, Zayed
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: ambassador to Morocco. His whole thing is that he gets
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: to I don't know if you miss his part, so
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: are very hilarious. Zaia said that he goes online on
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: dating websites and or whatnot because he's kind of like
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: a welcome ambassador for Morocco. So he just gets to
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: like message hot girls and be like my country is
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: so beautiful, please come and enjoy the tourism. So she whatever,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: it's so stupid. But she then tells Mohammad, yeah, like
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: I was here for zaied and there's.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: A job for everybody forrest. You got this?
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 3: Wow, so true?
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: He can, Yes, ambassador for the Philippine.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: Let's go literally just like, but then he would have
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: to like instead of like you know, texting hot women
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: because he already has.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: Text everybody, you would actually do his job. He'd be like, hi, welcome,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: like he'd be really good at it.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like Grandma's like, you know.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: Married, I just had sex. Yeah, do you want to
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: come meet me?
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 3: Hang out?
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: Listen, bring your own underwear they have. I don't have
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: a lot of big underwear here. You bring me underwear
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: from America. But she says, oh I wanted to. He
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: had said uh oh oh yeah, Muhammad was mad that
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: she didn't. Oh wait, I wrote this. I'm so sorry.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: I have the actual thing and this is one big block.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: Well I definitely saw like Mohammed like saying, oh uh,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: I'm your plan B, Like that's not okay.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Whatever, Yeah, he said, are you serious Ina Morocco? For
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: someone else, not for me. I'm not your plan B.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: And then she says this was his plan all along
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: to bail on me and humiliate me one last time.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, mm hmmm.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, that's if I was the fiance that
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: he claims he's a fiance of a new girl, right,
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: and and you were still talking to your ex and
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: complaining about how you won't be a Plan B, which
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: which inherently means there's a desire to be Plan A.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: I would be really pissed, Like, if you're really moved on,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: move on, like, do not text her, do not try
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: to be petty with her. If you clearly things have
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: gotten better for you, so move on. But yeah, he's
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: towing like a little fishing rod line or whatever, like
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: a carrot line, dangling that in front of her, and
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: it's just like, both of you just stop. I do
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: think hopefully because she did throw the ring, if she
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: actually didn't, didn't just like camera didn't show her swimming back,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: take someone to be like, hey, get it after we
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: leave and then just like sneak it to me. But
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: if she actually moved on, maybe she'll heal, because I
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: think the problem is she's just very very attached to
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: this fiance whatever happened, Like she couldn't eat her ego
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: or whatever couldn't t Maybe she really did like him
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: and the breakup hurt, so that's what she was obsessed with.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: So maybe she can heal now, because throwing away a
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: ring that you will never get back again is a
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: big deal, So maybe she'll go home. She seemed like
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 2: the other episode we saw her friend and it seemed
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: like there's a side of her that is normal and
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: nice and like what the men make her go crazy?
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: But with her girlfriends, Like her girlfriend seems like a
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: very normal girl and very grounded and smart, and she
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 2: was telling her don't do this, a good advice, And
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: I feel like if someone's just constantly crazy, you don't
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 2: continue to hang out with that. If you yourself are
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: more common, like how you approach things, You're like, I
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: can't deal with her problems whatever. But it seems like
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: she cares about her friends, So maybe there's a side
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: of her we don't get to see. But when it
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: comes to men, she is just a little unhinged and
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: cannot just breathe and be like, here's a good decision
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: or whatever. She's not there in her life and so yeah, I.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: Do I feel like Lisa's here and Emma's here and
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: a Lease is here and like to me, a lot
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: of the same uh things happening deep insecurity, not seeing
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: red flags like not being present for yourself and having
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: boundaries and like letting men not do the things, but
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: also not showing up for yourself in a way that
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: would indicate that you care about yourself and love yourself
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: enough to like either A be fine being single. Yeah,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: you know, like if it's between being with a weirdo
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: and being single, all three women are like weirdo, weirdo, Yep.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: Yep, let's do weirdo. Let's take toxicity.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: All on weirdo. We'll put all the money on weirdo.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: Just as long as I'm not alone. I don't want
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: to be alone. Being single is the worst. You're like, no,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: because being single is the worst. What you're saying is
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: being with yourself is the worst.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: And that is so why would they want to date you?
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: If you can't even be with yourself, then why should
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: they date you? You don't even like you, I know.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Anyway, she meets up with the IAD and this
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: is what it's funny because the way it happens, and I
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: shouldn't I should have set up like we see her
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: coming and she's like, I have to do one more
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: thing before I leave.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: It's my last day. And they do an over.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: The shoulder shot but man's shoulder, and we're supposed to
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: be like, is it Mohammed.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: It's not.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 2: Did you think it was? I think because they showed
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: that as a teaser even last week, and I was like,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: it's not Mohammed. That seems like that's I think she
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: is going back to Zaiad and it's gonna be like
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: a weird conversation. But I was like, please don't let
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: them get back like her, be like I love it
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: what she did say I love you, and I was like,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: don't say that. You didn't you were there with a
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: different ring. But anyway, I thought it was going to
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: be like yeah, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, and then start
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: up something because she cannot be single. I'm so glad
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 2: it did not go that way. But I did think.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: I was like, you didn't fool me. I assumed it
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: was him, So I'm not sure what the show's attention
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: was with that one.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: They love to sharp people. I called being sharped because
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: I'm mad sharp. But she it's interesting because she's like great,
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: So okay, this is your chance. I want to hear
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: that apology. And he's like, oh no, oh no, don't I.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: For me from me?
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: Do you not know that like I left you because
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: I don't think I did anything wrong. I don't want
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: to be There's nothing I'm going to apologize to you about.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: You know, I think that he because yeah, he just
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: want to.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: Be like, good job with life. He's you know, like,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: go on your life. I kind of wanted to be
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: behind him then say it again.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: I have a safe journey goodbye, because.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: He's the ambassador, so maybe he does feel like maybe
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: he as a Moroccan ambassador come back around and also
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: be like thank you for coming.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I say, I didn't have the context that
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: he was that, so I just thought, oh, did he
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: just show up for an apology? But now that totally
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: makes sense that he's there because he does represent the
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 2: country and so he needs to just at least a
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: proper professional goodbye seems like a proper way to say.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: But you know, have fun. Not my problem anymore.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 3: You have two more couples. I'm going to start.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get rid of the one I hate
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: the most now and then I'll end on the on
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: the couple. I'm gonna end on and I feel like
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying. Rick and Trish is who
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: are moving on to next? Okay, I didn't even have
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: to tell you about this. I don't even care about
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: this because I hate this whole situation so much, except
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: we found out one information God bless When Trish was one,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: her mom gave birth to her and then found another
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: man that she loved. And the way in which that
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: in her culture she would have been able to have
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: Trish in her life was that the man would have
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: had to like, yeah, sacrifice a goat by a goat,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: sacrifice it and allow his wife his now his new the.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 2: Blood on the forehead of the baby to you, you
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: are allowed to see your child from a different yeah.
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: And he doesn't. And the mother then she never sees
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: her daughter again. And it's like that is that is
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: so traumatic that I'm like, how the fuck are we
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: just getting that now?
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: Like right?
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 3: What?
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: It totally shows all of her insecurities and feelings of
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: like I'm not wanted coming out because she's been carrying that.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: I mean just the way she I think it's the
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: first time I've seen her just truly be so vulnerable
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: in like a child in that moment, like I wanted
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: to hug her and protect her just because she was
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: just like I was like, oh, I can see where
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: you're hurting and you're searching for, you know, some sort
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 2: of validation, which is why I was like, I don't
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: think Rick sees it. But when he's talking about, oh,
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: I might have to let her go, I'm like, do
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: you understand that she's going to take this as another
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 2: abandonment of Uh, I wasn't wanted because of the child's situation.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 2: Though you have five already, was one more, you would
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: leave me and not choose me. In a similar way,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: my mom did not choose me and went off her relationship.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: In her mind, that's the big thing, like why didn't
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: what she would say? Why didn't she want me? And
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: she's gonna sit with why didn't he want me? Why
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: didn't he make it work? I feel like it and
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: I really break her.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: I want to say so many things, which is because
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: he is not worth shit. Oh my god, Trician, because
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: he is nothing. He is a gross person. I mean
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: this in a hunter ways. First of all, he's like
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: I just can't afford another kid, well, then buddy, guess
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: we can't. You can't afford bringing another la, you can't
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: afford bringing a person from a different country and then
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: on a k one visa then period. I hope America
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: is watching you say this, because that's the whole point.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: You have to sponsor someone if they don't work for
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: two weeks, sorry, two years. The whole thing is that
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: you do have to have some financial security to be like,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: I'm going to take this person in. Don't worry about it.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: I got this person, and you you don't a b
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: I want. I don't. It's like I don't want to
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: say what I'm about to say. It's like I don't
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: really want physical violence. But when he is just like.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: I just can't tell you whether I'm gonna have kids,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: and all these people are like, no, here's the thing, buddy,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: the only thing you're going to do is make one
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: fucking decision today, And he is just like, can you
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: just tell your dad that I've ready yet? I mean
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: his her uncle starts yelling, and I'm like.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 2: Her uncle was ready for the least. I was watching
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: him like he was like, just try your shit with me,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: just just try it because I'm gonna step in because
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: father being too nice, and I'm gonna tell her he
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 2: was just like ready to get yeah and get fucking
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 2: what's his face? You know that?
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: Alan Richardson is I don't watch that show, honey, He's
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: I got They beat up the neighbor because the neighbor
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: was yelling at him about being on the mopeds. You
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: know I'm talking about great, he's some hot guy, honey,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: He's an hot actor. Reacher is like the I don't know,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: I don't listen. It's a pop culture story.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 2: But yeah.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: My whole point is I do need someone to teach
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: Rick a lesson. And the lesson is, no one gives
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: a fuck about what you want. This is you are
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: in this woman's country. She is very young, she's a doula,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: and she wants a baby. And if you want to
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: be with her, give her a baby. And if you
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: cannot do that, then put your penis between your legs,
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: get your splash pad, and get the fuck out of here.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 2: Right And she and the way he talked about he
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 2: keeps making it seem like it's like her family that
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: wants her to have a kid. And I'm like she
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 2: wants a kid. If you can't see that, then you're.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 3: You're never Yeah, you're not a singer.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And so you came making about it. I need
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: more time with the dad. Listen, she already made up
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: her mind, and she also has now added in this
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: extra layer about her mom. You think that lady doesn't
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: want a kid, and you are wishy washy on it.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: You can't. You can't be with her for her, it
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: is a non negotiable. And if she gives that up,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: it is because she's young, and she's going to regret
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: this one day. And then when her biological clock thing
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: starts sticking in her head, if she does end up
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: marrying you or whatever, she's gonna come back and be like,
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: all right, I'm having a kid. I'm leaving you because
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: I need to have a kid now. I mean, she's
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 2: just young enough that there just like feels like there's
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 2: time or like. But one day she's gonna wake up
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 2: and realize you weren't worth that giving up something like that.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 2: So she's gonna have that kid. At one point.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: He want her to come over and take care of
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: his kids for her. He wants he loves like, I
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: can't afford a kid, but what I can't afford is
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: a wife slash, So you come take care of my kids,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: and that's good for me. And what I if that,
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: for some reason happens. I swear to God, all I
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: want in my bones is for her to have sex
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: with the hottest person in the area that has more money,
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: and then for her to leave him and have a
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: baby with that person's stay in America.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he doesn't deserve any of the stuff that he's getting.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 2: He really pisses me off.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 2: And then her family is so sweet too, because like
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 2: I take you know, I know they don't have in
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: their culture. It is like the kid thing is is
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: a thing, So like I understand that, like that is
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: not where I my life is at, but I respect
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: that that where they're coming from is so much love.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: Like even the dad having a conversation with his daughter,
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: such a kind and gentle one about the whole. Hey,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: we need this to happen. It's not like a If
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: you don't, I will drag you by the hair with
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: the uncle mid to drag you by the hair and
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: take you and make make you marry the person we
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: need and blah blah blah, which happens a lot, Like
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: there's a lot of people in a very like controlling
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 2: society thing where they will make that happen. But in
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: this case, like what a loving father like talking to
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: your daughter about this stuff and trying to make it,
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: you know, obvious of here's what her expectations are. You
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: know what it's about in our culture and blah blah blah.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, you're just your sweet father, you got
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: her back. And what you're seeing that you can't tell
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: your daughter is this guy is fucking around. He's not
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: gonna commit to you. He's already left his kids to
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: be just like woo, you think he's gonna just like
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: he loves you, He loves that you're young and you're
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: fun and.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: God as hell and he'll never get anyone as hot
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: as you.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: He's come on.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: And all he does is complain and this and that.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: He's just annoying. But she doesn't see it. She's so young,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: she doesn't know what she doesn't know yet, and so
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: father's protecting her from him and and the best way
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 2: that he can without pushing her away. But you literally
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: see her like being like scared, being in the middle.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: But she doesn't know like what to do and what
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 2: to say. But I think a part of her is
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 2: glad that her dad has her back, you know, like
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 2: that part hasn't gotten strong enough to say anything yet.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: I think it might be glad.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he raisedress. She was one. My God, by bless God,
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 3: bless them all. Right, are you ready?
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Lisa and Daniel, Honey, we saved the best for last.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: It starts with Lisa getting a Continental breakfast and she
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: gets complimented by people on the way.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: She looks cute.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: I know, very cute.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: I know, let's give her grace. Why she's cute? She
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: looked able.
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: I love the dress good, like off the shoulder she has.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: It's like a pep limb like her. Listen, her wigs
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: are dry at the ends now, I mean, but she,
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: I think, like, is now doing that head wrap herself?
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: Is she?
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 3: I think that she learned how to do the head rap?
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: Good for her? Okay, so much better than the first
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 2: one we saw, Like in that color really suits her.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: It's vibrant. She looks youthful and alive.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: I know, I know, I want, I want the best
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: of her, but uh, you know, God bless so basically,
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: as we know, she is dirty, a dirty woman, having
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: been practicing lesbianism for a long long time. Uh you know,
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: I mean she's really she's a professional lesbian at this point.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: You don't gonna practice anymore, you know, she's she can
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: do a blind you know, she can do it. You know,
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: it's just she's really good at it. So she so
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Daniel picks her up, and that's why I guess Also,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: I thought that she had done.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 3: Her head wrap for herself.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: So when she gets in the car with Daniel, she
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: reaches over to kiss him because that's what she's been doing,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: and she obviously wants the physical like validation of that moment,
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: and the vibe of the kiss, specifically from his side
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: is way different.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 3: M h.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: I mean I thought that happened after they already go.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: To the two kisses.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 3: There's two, so there's pre cleanse and post cleanse.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 2: I missed the pre cleanse. I definitely gauz. He does
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: something like that right after too, and then she's like
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 2: hmmm uh or she like insists a little bit more
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: and then they start to kiss.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 10: But yeah, yeah, we get a hilarious market scene where
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 10: we've met so many people uncles, kings, you know, many
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 10: different people that talk to the ancestors.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: And there's another one.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: We get to meet in the market and somehow they
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: have been given like a little scavenger huntless.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 3: You need a female goat, you need some yams.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 3: So they go to this market and.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: The are huge. Oh my gosh, they are huge.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, wait, yeah, are EAMs that are like the yams
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: are in America or like sweet potato e yams or
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: like you know, they're like kind of like.
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, tiny little like things.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, these yams they look like like bar they
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: look like free would.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: You say, basil bats?
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: We get this interesting thing where he is like how
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: much is this he am? And they're like five thousand,
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: and he's like that's so much money. No, five thousand,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: absolutely too much money. No, no, no, so how about
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: this two for ten thousand?
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exactly.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: Full price, and get another one, like you don't even Yeah.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 3: She picks up on it.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: She's like, I think you're bad and negotiating.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: I mean, I will say to give him any grace
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: if that's whatever is between those two conversations. First she
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: said that's too much, and she goes but we have
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 2: no choice, and then he goes back and says two
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: for ten thousand. So I'm like, was he just like
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: giving up? But still still you live there? You know
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: the prices, like even if she's saying that take care
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: of her, you know, you know what they're doing and
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: so and the fact that she has to then be like, hmmm,
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have money anyway. I get it
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: for my friend. She sponsors me, my mama, So who's
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 2: money are you just spending around?
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 3: Absolutely? Yeah. Then she has to get a goat, and
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 3: she the goat. He does talk down. I mean the
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 3: goat they talked down crazy.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: So the goat at one point is a little baby goat,
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: so super cute.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 3: By the way, I'm like, oh my god, I want
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 3: to yo gay with that goat. Whatever can I do?
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: Dot'tle worried we were gonna watch that go get killed.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 3: I was like the cowskins that we saw.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, please don't show it, please, Like
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 2: I just don't want to see it. If it's gonna happen,
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: just tell us what's happening. And I like, I don't
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: want to see that, Like don't. But they didn't.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: I know. I was like thinking how they would do,
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: Like would they just like show us like a knife
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: the goat's face and then they would cut away and
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: you'd hear it. Horrible, horrible. He says the goat is
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: one hundred and thirty dollars at first, and then they
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: talk that goat down to forty five dollars.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do like that. She know, she took charge.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 2: She was like, I'm gonna negotiate. Boom boom boom, And
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: he was like, I gotta redeem myself. I'll get it
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 2: down lower. He like stepped in there. He's like, no, no, no,
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 2: I can do it. I can do a promise. Let
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 2: me show you, Like, okare good? You better show her?
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 2: She needs that.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so this this all all, this looks like everyone's
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: getting cutbacks of this entire situation of this woman, like
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: every priest, you go to, every uncle, every king. I'm like,
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: this is all like Truman Show. Like I feel like
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: this is all or Jury Duty?
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: Are you?
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: Like you know that show on Prime where everything is
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: fake and this person doesn't know it, like you know.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: Yes, calls have been made. She is arriving. Let's let's
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: get the money. You know, I have to leave her
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: soon because of the sacrilege, So let's all get money
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 2: before it's get paid before she goes.
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they walk in, so they get all the stuff,
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: and then of course they walk into a small room, honey,
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: and there is a man and he is.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 2: He is out of ten mm h there's fifteen. Yeah.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: This isn't like, oh there's a stage being you know, cleansed.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: This isn't like, you know, any sort of like calmness
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: of the world. He is he has taken on the
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: anger of the world, if not Daniel's own, like you know,
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: betrayal into his body, and he doesn't want. By the way,
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: you better not fucking come in with shoes, right, which
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 3: I do appreciate that.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think, like I mean, I'm South Asian.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: We have the shoe thing. But people don't yell it.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 2: They they make it clear like hey, or like other
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 2: people help each other. Just so you know, shees are
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: not in the temple, like you don't do that. But
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 2: if someone was like, I will do what I want,
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 2: then maybe someone will yell at you. But she just arrived.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: Just get in a situation under control, and it was
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 2: like I was like, just give her a second man,
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 2: let her know, use your words. His name is.
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: Why do I decide I'm gonna say, I'm not like
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it's ushi John and then niguaba okay,
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: and I can't. I'm so sorry, but I just thought
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: that John what part was interesting? I also want to
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: say that he's wearing like a red kind of Scrooge
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: kind of hat, Like it's like a Santa Scrooge, like
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: he's going to like take a nap, you know. It's
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: like it's like that kind of hat, which I yeah,
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: he I do. I think it was funny.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 2: He is like, here's the same there's gonna be a
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 2: deep dive on it like this like the last time
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 2: this happened, where they're all just laughing. And then we
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: find out he's like an actor or something like that.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: And so I'm waiting for like the Reddit threats to
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 2: inform me whether or not this is actually a thing
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: or did we find him on the Craigslisters. I don't know,
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: because it kind of does feel like the German show,
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: like they are setting her up for disasters. So maybe
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: it is actually a thing. But I want to see
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: what people find out. Yes, do the work for me.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: Let me know.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: He at one point like mentions that he has an assistant.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 1: I'm like, is she getting paid?
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: Like he says that Lisa needs to hold and kiss
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: this statue that.
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 2: She hilarious the lips like coming through the two bottles.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: I absolute later is just also, as you say, a
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: bottle of some sort of alcohol right there.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just I think it's the company. It showed it
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: for multi times. I was like, what's going on. It's
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: the cleansing unit, the alcohol that he probably slips a
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 2: couple drinks of sometimes.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: My favorite drink is a French seventy five, which is
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: basically gin and champagne. I mean, I'm the same person,
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: basically same taste.
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 4: Ye.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: He just is screaming at her, and you know, no
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: one likes being know one when they hear about the lesbianism,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: everyone's so upset.
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 2: Gonna just say, and you've probably talked about this in
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: the past, but my big thing with the whole let's
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: talk about the lesbianism thing is what is the plan?
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: Is she going to move to Nigeria? Because if she
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 2: isn't moving there, you cannot keep this up, your family,
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 2: your daughter, and like the community you're with. Are you
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: gonna go back with Daniel? Like is your plan just
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: go out and be like I don't like the gays now,
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 2: Like what what's the plan here? Because you're letting you're
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: getting cleansed. That is something you could do if you
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 2: were like I will accept it and move here and
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: live under the rules of here. But it seems like
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 2: he's coming with you. And if he views this and
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: keeps this up, I just don't know what's going on
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 2: in her head, Like your friends are most likely of
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: all like trans and gay, and.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: She thinking about him. She'sn't here about herself. She's at
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: her daughter. She's literally like, oh, oh, I'm giving him
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: all up. Like I think if she was here, she'd
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, I don't care about that. I'm gonna
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: be with Daniel.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 3: They're not my friends anymore. I'm with Daniel.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 2: Absolutely insane.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: It's sinking of like would you rather be with this
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: person or be single? And if you choose this person,
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: then your entire life, you know, like thus far was
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: sort of meaningless and not important, you know, because what
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: is important, of course is did he be now with
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 1: this person I.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 2: Love though that she is making Daniel work for it,
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: like he's having to find ways to make it everything
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: okay so he can get his paycheck. Like good, make
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 2: him work for it because it was too easy, you
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: just gonna get you and blah blah blah, no, no, no,
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: now you have to somehow, you know, lied about being married,
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: lied about a woman's relationship, lied about being married to him,
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 2: and lied about being like still married and like not
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: being divorced, all of these lies. And each time he's like,
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: how do I make this okay?
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: Who can we go to? And then they will make
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 2: it okay? And then I can breathe and I gotta
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 2: get my paycheck. Though you know I work too hard
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 2: on this.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: He switches right because like right after work she gets cleaned.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: Clean's toney. She's like, oh great, I'm cleans. Now can
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: we have sex? And look how happy he is. He's
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: like sure, why not? He's like this man, the smile
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: of this man?
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 2: Sure why not?
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: Though?
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like when you when you really wanted to, would
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 2: you be like sure?
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: Why not?
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 2: Can't think of another reason? Why not? Anyone anyone got anything?
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 2: And he sounds try to come out they can use no, Okay,
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 2: I guess, I guess.
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: So, honey, they get back in that car and he
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: knows what he's got to do.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but his eyes do not know. They're like searching
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 2: for anything but her. Oh my gosh. That was awkward.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 2: And they have awkward crisis constantly, but this was extra
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 2: level of you're just gonna let us see that you're
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 2: trying to find a way out.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's like that meme. I wish I could. There's
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 3: like a meme of like some weird.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like I forgot what Arthur
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: or some kid's comic character that does like this kind
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: of look. I mean, I gotta now find it because
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not even making sense I have I'll find OLG.
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: But yeah, like he I mean, now we'll see, like
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: you know, she's cleansed. All her lies are gone, she
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: has no more lies, Like there's still some issues like
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: of course Faith doesn't want her to get married, and
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: he has never even asked about Faith or about meeting her,
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: Like I'm surprised that we haven't gone FaceTime.
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 2: Does Daniel realize that that her best friend is the
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 2: one paying for everything? Does he even know that that's
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 2: still a because he thinks he's getting the girl who's
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 2: paying for things has money. So that's still a secret,
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 2: I think, unless I missed the episode where he understands
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 2: that she gets her money. Yeah, so that's another and
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: that's a big one because if you're trying to catch money,
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 2: you got to know they have money.
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 1: I think that he thinks that she has more money
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 1: than he has, period, and therefore.
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she doesn't. She's literally like out of money
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 2: and goes for help. So hope that well doesn't dry
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 2: up or start saying like, actually, you need to get
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 2: a job and save money or something. You know.
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: My goodness, gracious, we're only episode sixteen, so we do
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 1: have more to come about them, like you know, and
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: I they're going to have to throw another wrench in
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 1: the plan, you know, because as we know, any good
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 1: storyteller knows that like as soon as you get a win,
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 1: you got lost.
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 2: They did give a little tidbit in the two come
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: for them pen about to be intended, but she does
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 2: talk about oral sex. And I don't know why I
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 2: thought Danielle was someone who did that and I did.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: It totally took me by surprise, and he was like,
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 2: I know you've been with women, like as if that
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 2: was specific women thing and it wasn't a normal thing.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 2: I was kind of shocked. And but she, you know,
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 2: she expressed herself, she said, this is very important for me.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: I'm like, you didn't lead with that.
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: What Lisa stands up for herself. I'm always like, oh, oh, okay,
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: you know, but like cause again she also should have herself.
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 1: And she was like, you know what, fuck you, I
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: am not evil. I give you money. And then she
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: turned around a course and was like just getting out
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: of it. You're just like, oh, like there's parts of
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: her where you know, when she would also stand up
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: for herself and her beliefs, like I.
• 1:27:54
  Speaker 2: Just feel like people should love everyone.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 3: You're like, yeah, of course you did.
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: This is and even a contrast of like they'll show
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: it during the when she's at the Chief Chief Priest.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: Is that what it was Chief Priest. But she's like
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: like in fear of this just but then they cut
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 2: to her like interview and she's like, well, there's this
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 2: voodoo magic blah blah blah. But like in the moment,
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: you seem like you're buying all of it, like you're
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 2: treat for your life, but then instantly that little switch
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 2: with hers. It's funny. I don't is she an actress?
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: Well?
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: I from what I've read or heard from like the
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: pipelines is that she's not a great person, like manipulative
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: and whatnot, and true, yeah, hamming each other. That's the
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 2: fun for me is just watching who's gonna win the
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 2: game today and not really feeling bad for really any
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: of them. For those two, I don't actually ever feel out.
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 2: I'm like, who's it gonna be? Ah, I feel bad
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 2: for her daughter, That's who I feel bad for.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 1: Same, same same. But yeah, there's so much to unpack
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: with them, but again I will I give her grace too.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: And like we've just said, for some she always looks cute.
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 2: She does. Her fashion game is surprising, not the hair,
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 2: though she could work on the hair, but her actual
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 2: clothes and choices. I'm like, okay, I see you. Yeah,
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 2: I actually feel like this time she picked her own
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: outfit because the first one they picked for her. I
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 2: was it was like the shopkeeper, or maybe it was Daniel,
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 2: I was like, did you just like pick the first
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 2: thing you found or the one that hasn't been selling
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 2: because that was not flattering for her skin. For me,
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 2: I was like, that's not the color for you. And
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 2: then this time she was like, I want to pick
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 2: my own color. Gorgeous looks great.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 1: Good job, Yeah, good for her, Yeah, my love. That
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 1: is the end of the episode, but obviously I'm happy
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: because we have more to come, like season wise. Thank
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: you so much for talking about this with me.
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 2: This is so much fun. Thanks for having me, My.
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 3: God, I wanted to talk about.
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, what was it like, Okay, okay, what was
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 1: it like throwing a fake movie wedding in India?
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 7: Okay, so we've seen you know, so sorry because we've
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 7: seen like some so so many beautiful like different parts
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 7: of the Indian wedding, like on the television show that
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 7: we're like on nine of a Fiance or whatever, and
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 7: so I guess that's why I'm asking.
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 3: And then I know you didn't get married there, but
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 3: you know, like right.
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: I didn't, like my actual wedding was here, yeah yeah
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 2: yeah for the movie for the rain you tell my
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 2: range love, or yeah yeah yeah for the set thing.
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 2: You know, it was really cool. Uh And I always
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 2: knew that in India, you know, there's a lot more
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 2: structure built to get things done quickly, like setting up
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 2: the big we call them bandle but it's like, uh,
• 1:30:41
  Speaker 2: it's like the setups the wedding everything.
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 1: Like infrastructures and infrastructures.
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like the flowers of this and they get they
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  Speaker 2: get them pretty quickly. They have such so many laborers
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  Speaker 2: there and like everything happens quick, a lot of fresh
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  Speaker 2: flowers and things are like a little bit cheaper, especially
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  Speaker 2: if you're coming from abroad and you have that money.
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  Speaker 2: But even there, I mean people who are getting married there,
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  Speaker 2: it's a gorgeous date. They pull off some magic. So
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  Speaker 2: what was cool was when I was shooting it there.
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  Speaker 2: I remember I was getting ready. They're putting like the
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  Speaker 2: outfit on me, and I walked outside and in the
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  Speaker 2: time I had gone in and they had gotten me ready,
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  Speaker 2: and I walked out. I took a moment because I
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  Speaker 2: was now surrounded with these beautiful light flowers, these background
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  Speaker 2: folks who are dressed like guess the wedding and all
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  Speaker 2: this stuff. And I was just like, this is gorgeous,
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  Speaker 2: like and at the time trying to think was I
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  Speaker 2: engaged already? No, I was not yet engaged, but I
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  Speaker 2: knew it was coming.
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  Speaker 3: So I see, like, you want to go up the steps?
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  Speaker 3: Do you want to see?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean you did do it on a mountain
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  Speaker 2: kind of so a lot of hike, so yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: much more meaningful.
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  Speaker 3: So good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good. He did a good job. I said, yes,
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 2: then I married him, but yeah, we being there it
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  Speaker 2: just kind of made me go like, oh, like, there's
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  Speaker 2: a magical moment here, even though I know it's like
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 2: part of this film, to be in India and be
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  Speaker 2: in what was built to look like what would happen here?
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  Speaker 2: And they truly did build what looks like it could
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  Speaker 2: be like I could go on there and just get
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  Speaker 2: married and it's already all done and on the parents die.
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 2: It was just so gorgeous. So yeah, I think it
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  Speaker 2: was very very impressive, just to see how quickly they
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 2: can transform a place into like a wonderland an enchanted palace,
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  Speaker 2: and I was it was really really lovely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, God bless all right, my love?
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  Speaker 3: Well are you watching? Are you also watching Single Life
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 3: right now? No?
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know about this one.
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 3: Oh honey, it's the show that happens on Monday nights.
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: Did you see the any of the previews for the
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: new season of Regular ninety day, there's a brand new
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: set of couples.
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  Speaker 2: No, I have not got Okay, I need this.
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I have like a drug.
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 2: Do you think actually I should ask, do you think
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 2: they're going to show Emma anymore now that she's like
• 1:33:05
  Speaker 2: back in la I know, talking about that, Like maybe
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 2: we'll just get like a couple episodes later, maybe like
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 2: an update, like a little quick five minute how she
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 2: doing it? That maybe she sees her friend and they
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: have a debrief and we get a little insight into that.
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 1: But you're right, maybe maybe maybe not, because Elise was
• 1:33:24
  Speaker 1: brought on so late in the game that if they
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: dropped one out it would make sense.
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 2: Uh huh, that makes sense. Yeah, because I wasn't around
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 2: for that, so I didn't know who came in when.
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 2: For me, Aviva, I didn't see most of her, and
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 2: she only popped up for me like last week. I
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 2: was like, who is this person? I don't know this person?
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 2: So and then maybe she was there before because there's
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 2: like the aunt. I don't really know the Aunt. I've
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 2: never seen her.
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 3: So we had seen Spring. We had seen Spring.
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: We had known that Spring was going to come at
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 1: some point and uh, but yeah, their storyline was kind
• 1:33:57
  Speaker 1: of it didn't have a lot of meat to it.
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was interesting. Yeah.
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: Well we'll see what happens with them. Okay, my love,
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for talking with me.
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 3: Will you just go.
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: Ahead and tell everyone your where you'd like people to
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: follow you and your social media handles and stuff.
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 2: Sure, you can follow me on Instagram at sharmitha underscore
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 2: but pretty simple mm hm.
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 3: And do you also have a Facebook? Give a public Facebook?
• 1:34:25
  Speaker 2: I do have an actress place at the page there,
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 2: but you just have to search my name and see
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 2: if you can find it because I don't remember what
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 2: the handle was for it.
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but do it.
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: And yeah, like people's Facebook page, I think it's always important,
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 1: especially like you know, artists. Unfortunately all artists you know,
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: just like Stig, and we rely on our social media.
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 2: That's true, that's true. How else, well you know about
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 2: our lovely faces in.
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 3: Our charming personalities?
• 1:34:54
  Speaker 2: Yes, and like the end the show? Yeah yeah yeah.
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: And also if you want to see me and my
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 1: teddy tops you can.
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  Speaker 2: I've got a past shawl next time we'll wear there.
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah about Toddy, just like you don't wrap it around.
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 2: Ours won't be itchy, Let'll be soft fabric.
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, cashmere, that's hot. That's a little hot. That's so funny.
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, awesome. I love you so much. Thank
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 1: you so much for talking with me on this. If
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 1: listeners want to follow me, I am at Chris el
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• 1:35:32
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• 1:35:37
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• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: have a substack. I have a Facebook page Chris Farrah,
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• 1:35:47
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  Speaker 1: review wherever you listen to them. Other than that, I
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 1: usually end the episode with like a little breathing moment,
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: because you know, it's important as we as we as
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: we watch people be in the heat of emotions and
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 1: reactions and learning things and also not me maybe having
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 1: the greatest connection to themselves. We want the best for them,
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 1: We want the best for ourselves. We just practice a
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: little bit of mindfulness. So two breaths just to be
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: like what a celebration that for one moment, we're all
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: going to be in the present and it is a
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: gift and it's a practice as well. So just like
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 1: you practice lesbianism, you have to practice mindfulness. So either
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: you can use my breath or any other sound of
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: the room, but you can plant your feet or feel
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: your sit bones on a chair and don't worry about
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 1: the past and don't plan for the future, and just think,
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: I am here, this is breath. Whatever you like. Let's
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: do it though, Let's bring ourselves.
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 2: Life is together.
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, right now, what's gloppy?
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 3: Right now?
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, this is an ASMR podcast.
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 1: Now, yeah, this is how Yeah, I would do whatever
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 1: it takes for a good review. Okay, two, breast my love.
• 1:37:09
  Speaker 5: And go.
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 3: On more because it feels good. M thank you so
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 3: much for listening.
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 1: Everyone, take care of yourselves and one another, stand up
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 1: for what you believe, and make art. It could be small,
• 1:37:46
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