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130: Mowing The Lawn *NSFW* · Wine & Audacity

• 0:04
  Speaker 1: M oh, hold on, hold on, let me put my
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: tell my phone that I took my medicine before one o'clock,
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: so they don't say, nigga.
• 0:17
  Speaker 2: Take me, take me, take me.
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: It's one o'clock. Do you know where your medicine is?
• 0:25
  Speaker 2: Oh? Should I take mine later? Yeah? You know it's crazy.
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: I actually kind of missed them, miss those little bulletins. Bulletins.
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: You know it's ten o'clock. It's ten pm. Do you
• 0:35
  Speaker 2: know where your children are? In my sleep?
• 0:40
  Speaker 1: Will flush down the toilet? I mean, or in the sock. Nigga,
• 0:44
  Speaker 1: I'm too old for that. I need my sons. Socks
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: is expensive. I got big feet, I'm.
• 0:49
  Speaker 2: Saying the nigga, I'm not twelve, not in a sock. Honestly,
• 0:54
  Speaker 2: I ain't never understood, like I never understood that. Like
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: I like I don't know.
• 0:59
  Speaker 1: Like got authritis you talking about?
• 1:03
  Speaker 2: I was never that kid me neither you know what
• 1:05
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, like I don't. I don't know, Like I
• 1:07
  Speaker 2: don't know why they didn't help. Please they put it
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: in the sock.
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: You learned about something because you was never a teenage boy.
• 1:15
  Speaker 1: But he raised you did that, okay, baby? When I
• 1:18
  Speaker 1: when I discovered that that thing was working. I think
• 1:21
  Speaker 1: I did that ship four times and one day I.
• 1:23
  Speaker 2: Was like, I was like ship to the point where
• 1:28
  Speaker 2: to the point where though it was like it was
• 1:30
  Speaker 2: like it was a little numbio. You was like it
• 1:32
  Speaker 2: was like you ain't know what to do. After that,
• 1:33
  Speaker 2: I was I like this, let's do it three more times? Lord?
• 1:41
  Speaker 2: Why why?
• 1:44
  Speaker 1: But I had since age was washing my own clothes
• 1:47
  Speaker 1: anyway at like what twelve thirteen, so by that time,
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: and make sure my mother and kid because I just
• 1:52
  Speaker 1: did this, but she wasn't alone.
• 1:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah. See, they wouldn't understand that either, like that point
• 1:57
  Speaker 2: where or that point where?
• 1:58
  Speaker 3: Yo?
• 1:58
  Speaker 2: You you know they were all right, I'm gone in
• 2:01
  Speaker 2: your mind, you're thinking about how many times you could
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: bust them before they come home. Just a challenge. I
• 2:07
  Speaker 2: would wait by to do it.
• 2:08
  Speaker 1: I'll give you five minutes because they decided to double
• 2:10
  Speaker 1: back because they forgot something.
• 2:11
  Speaker 2: I almost got. I had that drinking school without board
• 2:17
  Speaker 2: on the counter.
• 2:23
  Speaker 1: Let me find some some some napkins.
• 2:30
  Speaker 2: Niggas usual every like the Victoria's sequel magazine.
• 2:34
  Speaker 1: Oh Nigga about with me? Oh baby, I was watching
• 2:39
  Speaker 1: porn back then. Wow, productions gone other.
• 2:43
  Speaker 4: Days where like you had, like you know, niggas had
• 2:46
  Speaker 4: the tapes and it was like the DVDs and it
• 2:48
  Speaker 4: was like the Holy Girl and it's like everybody like
• 2:51
  Speaker 4: everybody had, like everybody had the one kid had like everything,
• 2:55
  Speaker 4: and niggas passing niggas passing ship around like niggas was
• 2:58
  Speaker 4: passing sh around like it was like it was something special.
• 3:01
  Speaker 2: I remember the first time.
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: I'll remember the old video store that used to be
• 3:04
  Speaker 1: in rolling road, rolling in Route forty next to the McDonald's.
• 3:08
  Speaker 2: Oh, they're still there.
• 3:09
  Speaker 1: No, that's closed, it's going. That's something else now.
• 3:10
  Speaker 2: Damn, that's crazy.
• 3:13
  Speaker 1: Do you know where Sorrento's is. They're rolling in Route forty, Yeah,
• 3:15
  Speaker 1: and the McDonald's. It's like if you're right behind your
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: arm rolling road and next to it used to be
• 3:20
  Speaker 1: a video store.
• 3:22
  Speaker 2: Is in the back, ain't it? No, it's going the
• 3:23
  Speaker 2: video store. I went by a couple of weeks ago.
• 3:26
  Speaker 3: I thought it was still in the back of the store.
• 3:28
  Speaker 3: It may be, but firs in the front of it.
• 3:30
  Speaker 3: They changed it to like a smoke shop. Yeah, but
• 3:32
  Speaker 3: I think the bag might still be freaking big store.
• 3:34
  Speaker 1: Because I allegedly I went I remember the first time
• 3:36
  Speaker 1: when I was eighteen and I went in the back
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: for the first time.
• 3:38
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh wow, stuff, hey gouts. It got
• 3:46
  Speaker 2: a point whereas though like niggas was just doing that
• 3:48
  Speaker 2: ship out of board them. Let's go down there, let's
• 3:50
  Speaker 2: go down to the little let's go to McDonald's.
• 3:58
  Speaker 1: To McDonald's. Technically, we didn't lie because we did go
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: to McDonald's. We just made a stop first somewhere up
• 4:04
  Speaker 1: pretty much, so we didn't.
• 4:05
  Speaker 2: Lie when everything really cost it A dollar.
• 4:10
  Speaker 1: Found on the computer. So I still maintained that it wasn't.
• 4:16
  Speaker 1: It wasn't me. I think my nephew actually did it
• 4:19
  Speaker 1: because he was a huge Lloyd Banks fan, and I
• 4:22
  Speaker 1: think he might have been looking for Lloyd Bank stuff.
• 4:27
  Speaker 1: But it was it was Actually it wasn't because it
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: was it was gay porn. It was gay porn. It wasn't.
• 4:32
  Speaker 1: It wasn't. Yeah, but it was title. It wasn't because
• 4:36
  Speaker 1: it was gay porn.
• 4:37
  Speaker 2: He does know what the full Okay, you can find it.
• 4:47
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you.
• 4:47
  Speaker 1: I don't want to see that anyway, So y'all know
• 4:51
  Speaker 1: I was thorough.
• 4:52
  Speaker 2: I know something. The side.
• 4:54
  Speaker 1: One of the good side effects of having adhd is.
• 4:57
  Speaker 1: I don't forget much of anything, and I am ain't
• 5:00
  Speaker 1: no about no pun intended, ain't no about a lot
• 5:03
  Speaker 1: of stuff. So whenever I would do my browsing across
• 5:06
  Speaker 1: social certain sites, I quit. I would clear the cookies,
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: clear the history, clear everything.
• 5:11
  Speaker 2: You're fucking right, bro, I didn't play them games, know
• 5:13
  Speaker 2: I ain't. I ain't learned that until I got mad
• 5:16
  Speaker 2: that I got caught.
• 5:17
  Speaker 1: So bro, let me tell you. Let me see what happened.
• 5:19
  Speaker 1: You know, my mother was, she was she she went
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: through her churchy modes, but she loved Jesus. Another time
• 5:23
  Speaker 1: she'd been heating, but I know that she also drinking whiskey.
• 5:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, people are people that's to come in
• 5:31
  Speaker 2: and I know that. How did they? Ain't that Broyes?
• 5:33
  Speaker 2: It is made by Jack Daniels, So you know I can't.
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: My mother was a nurser. She I think at the
• 5:41
  Speaker 1: time she was working night shift. So she came home.
• 5:43
  Speaker 1: I came home from school and she I think had
• 5:45
  Speaker 1: just she'd been sleep all day. And I came to
• 5:48
  Speaker 1: She had an attitude, what's wrong with you? Stay your
• 5:50
  Speaker 1: ass up that fucking computer. I said, what the fuck
• 5:53
  Speaker 1: you was doing? I said, what are you talking about?
• 5:56
  Speaker 1: So she found she found a screen savering that said
• 6:00
  Speaker 1: Jesus saves, and it would just bounce across the screen
• 6:05
  Speaker 1: like put the cross in the middle.
• 6:08
  Speaker 2: Not true for sometimes, of course.
• 6:09
  Speaker 1: Jiggling the mouse wouldn't get to go away. But me, actually,
• 6:12
  Speaker 1: you know how to use computer. I just did the
• 6:14
  Speaker 1: control all delete to like minimize it to go do
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: what I was doing anyway, cleared the history, and then
• 6:19
  Speaker 1: put the ship back up. So years later after you
• 6:23
  Speaker 1: know fully transitioned to how you do it? She told
• 6:28
  Speaker 1: my sister. She called her best friend. Her child was
• 6:30
  Speaker 1: best friend. She was like, bitch, I found this ship
• 6:33
  Speaker 1: on the computer that brain was looking at. Again, I
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: maintained I wasn't downloading nothing to the computer at that time.
• 6:39
  Speaker 1: I wasn't. I watched my ship online.
• 6:41
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonnaize say that's where I fucked up. I
• 6:43
  Speaker 2: ain't downloaded. I was downloading it and saving into a
• 6:45
  Speaker 2: floppy disk. Oh no, I went stupid, nigga. The floppy
• 6:49
  Speaker 2: disc was with three megabytes. That was like twelve floppy
• 6:52
  Speaker 2: disc to watch the whole thing, but not the same.
• 6:55
  Speaker 1: No, you just want to see pictures?
• 6:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all that time. But then when I
• 6:59
  Speaker 2: discovered I'm wire, that was it.
• 7:01
  Speaker 3: Nigga, I had my own you feel me quarter have
• 7:07
  Speaker 3: recurt falking line wire.
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: With that being said, Welcome to the host episode of
• 7:11
  Speaker 1: Wind and Audacity the podcast. I'm your host brand's card
• 7:16
  Speaker 1: and I'm joined by these niggas.
• 7:21
  Speaker 2: How I'm feeling this week a little reminiscent you feel.
• 7:25
  Speaker 3: I'm here, cham Aaron, sit up, bro, I got that
• 7:30
  Speaker 3: nick got bad.
• 7:30
  Speaker 2: I don't start that ryding ship. I'm not.
• 7:32
  Speaker 1: But nigga, you disappeared. You're like mister macgoo disappeared behind
• 7:35
  Speaker 1: the urphone.
• 7:35
  Speaker 2: All you see is you know, turtle, turle turtle. But
• 7:43
  Speaker 2: she said in my backy, you gotta have good question.
• 7:48
  Speaker 2: Kids don't slaughter in the States to school? Okay, functure,
• 7:51
  Speaker 2: back up, it does jam. I'm a physical therapy right
• 7:55
  Speaker 2: damn now.
• 7:55
  Speaker 1: But I will say one of the bad things about that,
• 7:59
  Speaker 1: having that type of media, and as having my own computer,
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: I was download sorts of freaking nasty ship.
• 8:03
  Speaker 2: Baby listen, and then you know, and then you know,
• 8:05
  Speaker 2: and then you'd be ready to fight the nigga that
• 8:06
  Speaker 2: they touched. They touch the computer. Don't you go on
• 8:08
  Speaker 2: my ship?
• 8:09
  Speaker 1: My ship was passed protecting nobody into my ship, had
• 8:12
  Speaker 1: stow horrors on his community. Big cheek bandit's twenty five,
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: you know you teller. I mean it's a basement part.
• 8:22
  Speaker 2: I was watching it all at that point, Jill Listen
• 8:25
  Speaker 2: asking coaches, I just used to steal my father videos.
• 8:29
  Speaker 2: I mean I didn't have to steal him. I did.
• 8:32
  Speaker 2: I had to steal him because I was like.
• 8:34
  Speaker 3: Let's see what this is about upstairs sleep, I'm in
• 8:37
  Speaker 3: a basement, like.
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: Next, ain't no next, ain't no Shaw say Shawna say
• 8:40
  Speaker 2: justin slay. And sometimes it was then that I understood
• 8:46
  Speaker 2: exactly what laying Dick down man.
• 8:51
  Speaker 1: But I was saying earlier. One of the things that
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: I hate im I masked a pretty big media collection,
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: let's call it media from media collection. And of course,
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: throughout the years, switching computers out having external drives that died,
• 9:08
  Speaker 1: I lost my entire media collection.
• 9:10
  Speaker 2: We talked.
• 9:10
  Speaker 1: I had at least two or three gigs of porn
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: just saved on the external hard drive. Straight porn, gay porn.
• 9:16
  Speaker 2: They'll never know, but they can't. The driver sitting dead
• 9:19
  Speaker 2: at my house use you know what I'm saying, These
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: kids that they will never know they, you know, because
• 9:24
  Speaker 2: most of the old shit is like like it's gone complete.
• 9:27
  Speaker 2: Then cham y'all, boy, listen, the time was had. It
• 9:31
  Speaker 2: was I'll never forget now, y'all. Y'all before BBLS and
• 9:36
  Speaker 2: West Coast Productions, the West Coast hired everybody, anybody at home?
• 9:43
  Speaker 2: What did I do with them dreads? I gotta look
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: for that.
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: Maybe I threw those videos in the trains because I
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: did have a couple of DVDs.
• 9:50
  Speaker 2: Their legs pregnant, pregnant all that ship.
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: Now, the Straights sitting next to me wouldn't know about
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: apprend day in the greatness, that wasn't Rique Cruz.
• 10:01
  Speaker 2: So that's the type of.
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: Content I was. I heard the name twenty years ago.
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: But let's just say that nigga was laying dick on
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: top of a Suzuki.
• 10:09
  Speaker 2: Was US trooper?
• 10:11
  Speaker 1: Had he had a scorpion tattoo on on mister Johnson
• 10:15
  Speaker 1: and Nia laying.
• 10:19
  Speaker 2: Yes, broh, Shout out to the name of Scorpion. Shout
• 10:23
  Speaker 2: out to the Nigga sect that that can do that
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: he was he was digging in that nigga.
• 10:27
  Speaker 1: Oh, I'm on camera, sorry, was for a second deal
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: with shout out.
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: To them niggasac actually like that that can tattoo or
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: get to like get the prince out and all that
• 10:37
  Speaker 2: your listen. I commend you, my boy. I commend you
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: that doesn't like ruin the sensation like they say honestly,
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: oh they they say it increases for both people. And
• 10:49
  Speaker 2: I was like, I just can't imagine something in my
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: and my brainder words. I love that for you, not
• 10:54
  Speaker 2: for me, though not for me. If I love that
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: for you, I mean, what if it court?
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: I mean you. They don't want to miss a thing,
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: Oh the sweetest thing. Go back to episode I forget
• 11:16
  Speaker 1: which episode it was this season entitled the Sweetest Thing.
• 11:24
  Speaker 1: I don't want to close my eyes. I don't want
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: to fall asleep. I miss you, baby. If you have
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: got seen the greatness, that is the soonest thing. But
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: Cameron Diaz, Sama Blair and Christina Applegate from like two
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: thousand and three, two thousand and six, man, go look
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: that movie, yep. One of the most hilarious rom coms
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: you will ever see. If comes at your jam gott
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: be in the movie on Sometimes True Ship. So other
• 12:01
  Speaker 1: than frisky movies and recapital episodes, what else is new
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: my native.
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I mean for me, Like God, I've
• 12:10
  Speaker 2: been thinking about like I've been thinking about a lot. Nah,
• 12:14
  Speaker 2: I mean as far as you know, as far as
• 12:16
  Speaker 2: like how how much things have changed, like you know
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: now versus like when we were when we were younger,
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: And it's like, I think I kind of missed the anonymity,
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: anonymity of what exactly you know, how you just experienced
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: the things, but like you was just experiencing it versus
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: people sharing it with everybody else, like sharing that one experience,
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: like you know, like you go to a concert and
• 12:37
  Speaker 2: it's like yo, you in that vibe, you in that motion.
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: And then like even when we talk about it, like
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: like right hand Devon Little concert and it's like yo,
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: wa handle when you had no social media, I mean
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: we had social media, but it was more so you
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: had to like you know, you had to take a
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: digital camera take pictures. I did. Yeah, That's what I'm saying.
• 12:56
  Speaker 4: You had to take the You had to take the
• 12:58
  Speaker 4: pictures and then go home and upload it versus you know,
• 13:01
  Speaker 4: doing it on the phone like oh yeah.
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: Back when all we had for social media was what.
• 13:05
  Speaker 3: My Space playing it yeah, and Facebook for us college folks.
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: Those were the good old days before the crazies got
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: on there. You need you need to eat.
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: Kids, and before times. Back in the old and back
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: in the old and the old indeed, the olden times.
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: When I was in college, back in two thousand and
• 13:25
  Speaker 2: five ish, the Facebook was a thing.
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: But in order to get access to.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: Facebook, you had to be a college student.
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: You had to be a college student and have a
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: college email address that and didn't die edu. And at
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: first it was only open to certain universities and it's
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: time within the within a year or two, they opened
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: it up to all college students. And I think for
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: the first maybe three or four years of Facebook, it
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: was only available for college students. Back then, they opened
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: it up to everybody, like in.
• 13:55
  Speaker 4: Two thousand and eight, like like two thousand and eight,
• 13:58
  Speaker 4: and that's when, Yeah, that's why everybody, like, that's when
• 14:01
  Speaker 4: everybody was able to do on the hand basket.
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: But because Facebook before them was lovely. You can network
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: and meet people from different schools in your area, your people,
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: the party promoters were going to post their flights for
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: parties and clubs and ship it was what the time.
• 14:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, I said, saying don't call don't call
• 14:22
  Speaker 4: me white girl talking about the ship where it was like, yo,
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: we the we was the last generation of like being
• 14:27
  Speaker 4: outside all day.
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: Like even like niggas ain't going the house. We ain't going.
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: We ain't going the house to eat the bathroom.
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: Like none of that ship she said, she talked Nigga
• 14:39
  Speaker 4: was like see you light skin, so you be outside,
• 14:41
  Speaker 4: you had like that little.
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: Ringer ranging next, so when you're going, so when you
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: go in the house, like you know, we're the last generation.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: When we go in the house, we take a bath
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: and it's actual ring rand the time.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Oh man, we came along at as elder millennials. Yeah,
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: because we all were born in the mid eighties.
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: Say yeah, but I'm not sure in my age. But
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: it's like you keep missing, like yeah, we grew up
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: in an analog world and we came of age when
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: stuff started to transitioning to digital.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: So a lot of like kids who are gen z
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Jen Alpha and Jim Beta, which would start being born
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: for the next year or two, they don't know a
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: world without the Internet or tablets or smartphones of Apple watches.
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: Like niggas can't go out. So y'all niggas can't go
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: outside because y'all as is every fucking thing.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean they don't go outside because they their
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: worlds live watching the internet.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the minute they stude like this the sun
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: when people disagree with them and all kinds of ship,
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: you know. I mean, but when you think of like, yeah,
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: when you think about it.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: Gen Z, well, the younger y'all, younger counterparts maybe, but
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: the old who are like our younger siblings and cousins
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: and ship, like, yeah, y'all grew up.
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: Y'all grew up with us. Like when y'all y'all seen
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: the first off, like the first actual life smartphone like
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: we did, and it's like like you kind of miss it.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: But then it's like at the same time, you don't.
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: You know, you don't really because you know, if you're
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: about to go somewhere, somebody already win you black oh
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: wi sorry, so I know to look forward to, yeah,
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: but but I don't know. I think I think it's
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: more so like I like, I like like just living
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: in a moment because at the while, like shit, you
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: look at my I G I ain't post shit in
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: like ye years.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Well you know, pull, I'm you know, like the chronic,
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: you know, college aged millennial that I am that started
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: on the Internet when I was in college. I'm chronically
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: online still to this fucking day. Hold on, it's like, yeah,
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: I'm always watching a TikTok or I don't know. Facebook
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: is no man's laying. I get on face but to
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: look at up a certain thing and I get off Facebook.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: But yeah, blue Sky an x well, I'm not using
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: XK that much anymore with Twitter, but my account is
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: still active.
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Is the wild West, the wild wild West like I
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: used to live downtown. I will say that God bless
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: y'all on Blue Sky, thank you on on on Wednesdays
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: when you'll be seeing the pictures. I still have not
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: created a blue Sky the cheeks I told you to know,
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: I just be on. I know I'm doing under the.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: At least start a page and just bookmarket to have
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: your name in case you choose to use it.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: But it's not. Your name is bookmark. But you may
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: be pleasantly tonight. Now they've calmed down on Blue Sky
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: a lot. But let's say maybe three to four months ago,
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: and them t's and c'scross.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: From about terms and conditions.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: I looked at one thing on Twitter and now my
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: timeline and titties is this? What is this? The thing
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: of blue skotch.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: You can have different like different threads. So I'm a
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: part of black sky.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Like black gay sky, because you know how you doing it.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: In different things. You can see post that a popular
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: with friend and so on. I forget what what the
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: hashtag is on Wednesdays. I remember the.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: One that's why people stuff keep.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: Time when I when I tell you, I looked at
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: one video hold on because.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Bookmark that my poorn bookmarks on my I d m
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: the videos to myself on Twitter.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: But no, I'm gonna say what me, it's time. I'm sorry.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: I was trying to answer the wife and Alo my
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: last name'll be fine. Now he won't be fine.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna find your ass.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Damn. I hold on, let me show you this video.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I saw this picture. I saw hold on because the
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: niggas be out all day by myself.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Hold on, Oh, I want to recreate that photo.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I don't have to be in that position, per se.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: I like that. I love that we know little waggs
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: just like that. I like that it's like a peach Houston,
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: the fuzz on it whoa, whoa, whoa. He liked that.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: He liked that, call me Houston.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: But yeah, we love social media because baby, I'll be
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: showing that and I'll be.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Watching it everything.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Uh hum, what type of content you be seeing on
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: social media? On the pages by listen, I don't see
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: that type of content, but I will, you know, side
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: a little.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Just look at this like mm hmm. Maybe that's why
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: the ship you looked at me, you looked at I
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: don't know, you know, be listening.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: This is god started following recently called his name is
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Mark Kwan reed on socials and he's freaked out. I
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: think I shared a video with y'all about how his
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: he like, he's he's a.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Is that the dude? That's the pleasure do yees? So okay,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to be so I will say.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: This, this is this is through no faults of my
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: own right, and now I'm being serious. I'm not trying
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: to be funny. My TikTok algorithm was legitimately car review videos,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: funny videos, food clips from ships and gig which I
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: still watch, barber videos, landscape videos, all that shit. And
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: then I readily on my for you page started seeing
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: videos from people who are involved in the king community
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: and said, what the fuck is this?
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: Okay, so he could take it for you to click
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: on one day, a legitimate clicked on thing, but because
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: you've seen me looking at him like.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Hut up, nigga.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: So apparently I learned at thirty eight what a pleasure
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: dome was. And it talked about like how Brad, you know,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: sometimes like they may try to like fear like Daddy's
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: and like, you know, the say this, whatever the say this,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: dudes are but the person that should really be scared
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: of is pleasure don'ts And what the fuck is a
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: pleasure don't.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: That's that's gonna tell you down. Let you talk your ship,
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: make you come eleven times in one session, and I'm
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: gonna make you counted.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: I said that works for women, but you make a man.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: You can't make a man come eleven times as much.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: And he died. Remember that.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: You might be able to get two or three out,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: depending on the day and the person in the time
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: of the year. But I'm sorry, pleasure don' for.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Men, I think it would be a lot of edging.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Because I told I told
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Hey about that. We were in our group chat and
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I told her, how, you know the leg booty community,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: you know, like the edge for days upon days, and she.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Was like, I said, eleg people community, you know, we
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: know we overachieve its.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: You know, go hard to go home. Literally, nigga, you
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: sneeze too hard. That should have just start just going everywhere.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Stop. I don't know how to fun.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: I'm gonn post this ship on our socials.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I mean, but no, so mak far read. I actually
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: started following him.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: I was like, my thinking stuff, I never considered as
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: one of the home of sexuals.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Sexuals.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I never considered it. And it's eye opening to learn
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: about pleasure dawns from the perspective of.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: A straight man coming because I was like, you make
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: the girl come like eleven times. He's like, you know,
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: I don't stop till I see tears, even if she
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: does apologize. I said, yeah, I funk with it. I
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: fuck waited. I think I'm gonna send you some more
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: of this video though, I'm gonna send you. Can't He yeah,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: like talk can't he talked? He talked about talking. He
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: gave like the men pointers on how to talk talk
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: to women through it. And then I heard that I heard,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: I mean, can I can I hear the women to
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: say it was like, don't matter what dot matter what
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: you say is how you say.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: He I saw a video earlier before left the house
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: and he told a woman he was just giving examples
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: of what to say to a woman. He was like
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: market territory when he wanted to finish, and some of
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: the women in comments were.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Like basically yeah in the hunts and roses in the
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: comments like.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: See you can't see look? So yeah, it was interesting. Yeah,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I gotta figure out how to fun. We're gonna say this.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to make so many cuts to these clips.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Listen here eleven times in one sessions, dang, I was
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: taking notes. I'm sorry, I said, you send you his account,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: I send you his aunt. Hold on, I'm gonna right now,
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it right there. Don't don't you don't
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: you wear about the ching? I got you?
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: So I'm sitting right there, don't you about the ing?
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Why? Yeah, come and come and knock and let's play together.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: In the bright sunny weather.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: Who are you telling let's all go to busting that island.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: That is the song for the episode what Gola Cola Island. Okay,
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: come and let's play. You know what.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I just sent you his account on on.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: On the.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Body like, I want to say, for the record, but
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: this isn't that type of freakyey podcast.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Well long got enough time in the day for that.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I'ma be honest with you. I be honest with you
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: because the riper holes, these niggas jumped down mon, got
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: enough time to that grass mowing alone.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: This week's episode of Wide Holliday to the thank you for.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I think that's the episode, mom, yo, why is it
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: a thing? I ain't don't understanding that, like old like
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: I didn't understand the shaven I don't understand the shaven
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: cank anyway, the shaving kink, yeah, the shaving oh yeah,
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: yeah yeah, I understand that.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: The song is that's kind of creepy.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Using the kids TV show themes song as the episode
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: we talk about more and the long. We use gospel
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: songs for this for some of the ship when we're
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: talking about pleasure, dooms and ship. Yes, we've used gospel song. Father.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Can't you hear me?
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: I mean you making bitch cry to go until she
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: started crying.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: I mean you need to call on the lord.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: After that, I'd be scared. I'd run away and hid
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: in the corner, something like nigga get away from me?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Had me? You are a demo. I am trying to
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: make my ancestors. I am forty seven No, really, I
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: did the DNA test. I am like, I am like,
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: literally forty seven percent Nigeria. What's up the fire? I am?
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I am forty seven percent demon?
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: You want get from around here. You are sapping all
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: of my essence. Leave me alone. Oh shit, pleasure demon,
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: unhand me. You're not what you mean. Oh shit, you
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: want devil? You are the devil. You are the devil.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: The devil is not welcome here. How dare you?
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: I am forty seven percent Nigerian bottle. I'm just just saying, Jesus,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I did the ancestry test. Oh, by the way, in case,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: i'll if y'all signed up for the twenty three and me,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: if you haven't deleted your count yet after the company
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: got sold and they they I did, So did you
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: hear about that?
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Bron So? This was was it.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Early this year showing so twenty three and me if
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: y'all didn't know they were talking to the company being
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: sold and you know the twenty three I mean people
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: submit their like saliva to get DNA testing, and you know,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: like a lot of those companies have like privacy laws
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: and stuff or rules with privacy to where they can't
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: sell your DNA or share your genetic data of companies,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: But legally, that agreement is only in place with the
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: company that you made the agreement with, and if the
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: business gets sold or bought out or something that the business,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: those same laws or rules wouldn't necessarily be in effect
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: with the newer company. Per my understanding. I could be wrong,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I could be wrong, but the same rules that you
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: opted into when you gave them your sample may not
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: be in effect with the new company that would assume
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: ownership of the data. So they gave you the option
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: when the company twenty three and Me was being sold
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: to basically delete your day, to delete your account, so
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: they would basically destroy your sample so that it couldn't
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: be used, you know for something else.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: Damn. Yeah, yeah I got rid of moment.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah I did too, I did. It was a whole thing.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: So you're black, Yeah, so you're black. We's excited.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: So you're black, and like like two percent Spanish basically
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: on Tuesday. I told you could shut up. We couldn't.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm nine percent European and ninety percent African, so.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Pretty much now, your niggas made me want to do it.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: Note I gotta go down there, But you didn't.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: I don't keep my spit in my fucking mouth.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Or somebody else.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're married fifteen years. I'm sure you gotn't
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: done it in a couple of times.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but I shot freaking show up. Ain't. That's
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: been the nigga out before. I didn't. I don't do
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: those things. A mouth for booty home. That is Christian
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: like noun for booty home, you know, the thing in
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: the front. You know. Look, I've lived, I've loved, I've lost.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: I ain't trying to get struck.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Hell, you can strike me right in the face.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Are ready for questions a week? Yeah? Yes, yes, because
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: this mother fuck I ain't sat off for this striking
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: right in the face, right right, or the other one.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: It's like a full moon.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: Fun. I ain't even gonna lie. Been so little in
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: the club.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: You ship.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: We can dance if you want. You know what, get
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: it cracking, if you like.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: Being a full moon. That's the feeling like one of those.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: I feel like one of those.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, full moon a full moment. The song
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: of the episode is full more.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Compounds. Oh ship, you know just the's a really could
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: be about as though, Yeah, I mean full moon. So
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: you're bouncing through the door, you and your men's and
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: them to gover the floor.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: Saw you doing your thinking that made me want you
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: even move.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: You looked at me. It seemed as though you somehow
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: felt me staring on the Oh that song really could
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: be about, asking.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah for giving you the dance if you want.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: All let's get into this question of the week. Get
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: it cracking. If you like crack. It feels like one
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: of them nights. So let's get into this episode. So
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: sign fire segment what segment, Brandon, Question of the Week.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: I scour the interwebs, read my TikTok fbi P page,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: and I pull questions, pop them in our group chat,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: and I hold on to them to share with these niggas.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: So you'am ready to get into this question of the
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: week talking about full moons and ship thing of the
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: sort that what's something you witnessed at someone else's house
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: that made you never want to go back ship.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Yep me, Yeah, let mean I'm scared.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, what's something you witnessed at someone else's house that
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: made you never want to go back? Having me sit
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: in my friend's room while they ate family dinner instead
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: of inviting me to eat with them or sending me home?
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Weirdest fun? Who does that? Because we didn't that. I
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: ain't back the damn neighborhood. No, it wasn't the girl
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: that yeah, the girl that commented that was yeah. So
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying, I'll say niggas do that shire too.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: I ain't never been and if that happened, I was
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: never going over there again.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Awesome, you could be playing the game, remember Mark, I'll
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: be back.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: Why did I small Hamburger help him? They had the
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: whole four nigga went came out. You could have You
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: could have gave me a school. You need some water?
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: We had comes right down in the pantry. Go ahead,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Oh what do you guys? Abraham family dinner? Well you're
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: going to back up? Says right cool.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: You could have gave him a school. I'll be even
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: if it wasn't enough fool bitch making enough. I'll tell
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: you that, and I'll tell you that at the moment,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: because he did and didn't send me home. My mom
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: was like, you're not going back over there? Yeah matter,
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: but it said the same thing, already want me going
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: over nobody house? And it down with that part. It
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: would be that that crass that ain't your friend, that
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: that ain't your friend.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: My mother would have said his big back as Mama
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: could have afforded to give you part of her God
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: damn played I.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: Know it was full old fat bitch. Yeah, needs to
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: say we will now be going back over that person
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: ever again.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: That's a fuck you Aaron Rady, fuck you that before
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: or after dive out?
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: Man. No, that no, that's that's just that is that's
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: just okay, moving on that little bitch ass.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: Nigg what's something you witnessed at someone else's house that
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: made you never want to go back? Her dad walked
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: around in his tidy whities every morning, knowing that his
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: daughters had guests over. That was normal, but they weren't
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: allowed to watch SpongeBob because they believed it was inappropriate
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: for kids.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Let me get this right, Yeah, you walk around with
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: your boss hanging out, and then I can't I can't
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: watch what he said but I can't watch Christy Kray.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: He's a uh, that's inappropriate? Are you shooting me? That?
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Literally little stinger in.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: The back to child, mister Paul, fuck him. I heard
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: the straight man came white because I don't have to
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: touch back this. That's what I heard. That's why they
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: made dude wipes and just be clogging up the toilet
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: the child because they're not supposed to go down there.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wifes are not supposed to go down the toilet, folks.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: Let's unless it's specifically say flushable.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: But the flushable ones don't actually disintegrate, they just clog
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: up pipes.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is yup?
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: You know that?
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: No, I'm no, I'm false.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Advertisement advertising because sociable wives don't disintegrate. They just they
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: just stay hoole.
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: Now, I gotta spend all this goddamn money get my
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: pipes uncloaked.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: That's what she said. I get unclogged for free, but
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: you got back in the day. Sorry, but I was
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: getting cloaked regularly. I did that to pay for it,
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: but I didn't take a nigga. To take a nigga
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: to det shed. You'll be a home reading. Listen, that's
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: the call of people. Yeah that was that?
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: That is inappropriate? Yeah that what's something you witnessed at
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: someone else's house that made you never want to go back?
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: I called my mom on the house phone. They disconnected
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: it and refused to let my parents talk to me.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: When they called back after it was disconnected, they they
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: rightfully went berserk and took me home.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: Never went back? What and uh, yeah, call the people?
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Why the fuck I can't call my mother the people?
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: You know, CPS nine one one batman, call some fucking body.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: That's weird. So did I say you disconnected the phone? Y'all?
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: Mouth baby? My mother would have been at the front door.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: They wouldn't have to change to break me home. Fucking door.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: They wouldn't have had a chance to bring me home.
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: My mom would have kicked the fucking door and.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: Kick it the door wave in the full or four
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: oh your he It was just do no ship I
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: play for her kids. She ain't play that ship. Yeah nah, yeah,
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: that's no. But I mean, but that's a safety thing though.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: That's weird. Yeah, now you try to kidnap me, bitch, Nope,
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: I'm out, matter of fact, all little five miles from me.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: I could I could walk.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my mother. So I don't know about y'all growing up,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: but my mother did not let me stay over people house.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: It was not family. My mother did not play that
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: and selling family. I couldn't stay neither my mother. My
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: mother was one of five girls, so we would stay
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: at my aunt, my aunt's house. We would stay with
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: my grandmother. We never say that my uncle's houses. And
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: they were married and had kids of their own. They
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: were all ten fifteen years older than me, so they
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: weren't around by the time I came over, right, But
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: my cousins was twenty.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: Years older than me. But my mother said, did come, Yeah,
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: he did come? Like I was.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: I was done.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: I was the baby. See what had happened? Was I was?
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: I was the If you saw how fine Brandon Daddy was,
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: I understand how it happened.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: What's a compliment I can take that. She she'd be
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: lusting over my dad may.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Find a frog, hairgard, restless soul, rockie caller, y'all fine
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: piece of man.
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: I was like, hey, sarch, big Daddy, what they called
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: big Serge, what they called around.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: Would have been picked up against the wall and between
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: the wall and the.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: Lamp, sucking with him. Hate your fried chicken, damn, but my.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Father and playing the games. He always had women around.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: From scratch, she cut the chickens.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: From scratch, with the chickens in the front, y'all sucking
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: with him.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. She gonna get word. I just
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: got Look. I have seen.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: That's how I know it's in me, and I am
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: scared sometimes I have seen. I have seen my father action.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: That man could command the room and he walked into it.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: I've always been relatively quiet. I like to observe people
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: because niggas be crazy. My father about you, he sucked, yeah,
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: but that nigga could suck the air out of a
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: room in a good way. He always comdeed at attention.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: Wherever he went, women always flocked to him, and he
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: always him More than that, he always always had women
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: around me. And I used to sit there next to
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: him at the table with me and my brothers because
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: my sister was living and she moved back to California
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: at that point, and I'd just be like, oh, you pressure.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna just sit here and watch gone gone go
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: and ask one of your mamas on one of one
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: of your aunties to go fix you something. They would.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: They talk about how my father was a fucking Haitian
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: man who owned the Mexican restaurant. I don't know how
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: he managed that. He would have send me downstairs sergery.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: He used to get them, sending tackos every day. Bring
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: it with you for dinner, I wanted from downstairs.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmmmm.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: Anyway, So yeah, I know it's me. I'm scared because
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: if I ever if I ever decide to go down
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: the road, I could be dangerous.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: Bronte tap the men as you tap into that ship,
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: but I'll be your wing man, my boy.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Nigga kee, it will kill your ass.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: Let you go, because I ain't gotta do ship bro
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: like I ain't. I'm not doing nothing. You ain't got to,
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: but get niggas. It's persuasive. What's something that.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: Someone else's spot, What's something that as someone else's house
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: that made you never want to go back? Oh my god,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: when they poured everyone's left over milk from breakfast back
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: into the milk car.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: That fuck that that's a fun They gotta be a
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: fellow somewhere all your spit and live, bitch, y'all have
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: fruit loops.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: That's why the milk is funny colored and it tastes
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: like listerine. Yep, I would have earled.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: We ain't never going back over there again. Well, I
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: mean this, this is what's the rate for that? If
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: I go into the next one? That's diabolical, that's all.
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: It's called a health department.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: That is you know, everybody now has to say it.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: At the same time. Y'all got strep throat stop a lot,
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: It's all right, yes, it's next one.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: What's something you witness as someone else's stand that you
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: never want to go back when the kitchen lights are
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: off the kitchen is closed, even for water.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, Actually no, that's not that's not that's not
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: necessarily fair.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: Even for water. But you better go suck some water
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: their bathroom. Fall Field states because.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: Because I listened to a story like that, I mean
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: you usually usually people got cups in the bathroom anyway,
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: like comes, I want I want some I want.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Some water out of the kitchen.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: I think foster in the kitchen I did.
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: I listened to a story of my asshole on TikTok
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: about that where the girl said she spent the night
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: at the boyfriend's house, and he said that no one
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: is allowed to use his bathroom after ten pm, Like
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: at all he lots the bathroom doing. Nobody's allowed to
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: use the bathroom at the ten pm even though she
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: was putting there, she needed.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: To wait into the morning to use the bathroom.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: And she said she fucking she left, and then he
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: got mad at her, saying she wasn't respecting his boundaries.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Nigga boundaries, these nuts.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: You're not going to tell me that if I got
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: to go to the bathroom after ten pm, then I
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: can't use the bathroom and you want me to stay
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: the night.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: Bathroom trip clubs. That's what I want to know.
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: She said, what the hell he got going on in
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: the bathroom boundary? I respect boundaries, but that's weak.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: He was doing something. I had a pistol. I listened, bitch.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: Look he woke up. It have been pissing that trash can. Yep.
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: I went right there, took the lid off the tag
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: on trash can in the bathroom and be like, all right.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: You couldn't be able to get in the bathroom bath
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: from in the kitchen.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: He locked it.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: How do you but you he locked the door from
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: the outside, saying, my bathroom is closed. So what if
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: he has to be at you just hold it.
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: Saw he didn't trained hisself to hold it. Baby, When
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: I tell you, I would have went and took the
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: lid off the kitchen trash can. And I like, all right, well,
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: you go ahead. The best of clean up in the morning,
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: my guys. People, I guess people are entitled to their boundaries,
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: but that's that's we.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: And then if you your manager, I'm titled to pack
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: my ship and go to.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: The Yeah, because I can hear my own bathroom is
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: even that.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: I'mna kick this bathroom door and bitch, so why you
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: want to do this? I mean easy red hallway thes
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: me going home the hardway and be peeing on the
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: in the middle of your floor or in your trash can,
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: in the in the kitchen, kick in the bathroom door.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: And how you want to do this? You make the decision, nigga.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Rady.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: I'm then I'm gonna be real bro like the no
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: like no nobody in the kitchen at the ten o'clock thing.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: I can get it, like I understand, but not even
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: water things a little too far bottle water, you know,
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: if you got I mean, but I would assume that
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: you got bottle waters because a lot of the times
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: when the kitchen be closed just because niggas like because
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: they don't want dishes in the sink.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: But but you know that rulee when that when that
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: light is on the stoves over the stove is on
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: and dish ragg is laid bro laid across the.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: And make nothing else, don't put nothing to microwave the toaster.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: Not mean the kitchen is closed. But if you need
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: a glass of water because you parched, you can get
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: you a glass. We know you will keep your water
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: bottle something you just felt usable water bottles.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, you feel your water bottle.
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I kind of, I mean, I grew up
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: like that, like we all did. Nigga the kitchen clothes
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: ain't ain't no ain't no water. I mean, but normally
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: normally when the kid be like they want water, is
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: because that little motherfucker don't want to go to bed.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: So it's like, right, man, you better drink, swallow your spit.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: Telling if I pop you in your fucking mouth, you're
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: still gonna be thirsty. Wow, next one. Yeah, that's I
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: mean it ain't really diabolical. I get it like a five. Ye,
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: it ain't that bad even for water thing. I mean,
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: that's that's that's how we grew up, all right.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Next one, what's something you witnessed at someone else's house
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: that made you never want to go back? They made
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: mac and cheese in the sink?
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I fuck that? What you know? I hate I
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: hate the I hate those hotel videos where they be
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: like they be cooking inside like the no, no, not
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: the hot plate or the iron, but it's like they
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: be cooking like the sink. And then they'd be like
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: they'd be putting all the food and ship and it's
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: in the bathroom sink or the home. It's just one
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: truck guys, crazy ship.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: No, that's like that one lady who's supposed to videos
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: on Facebook and stuff making like nationals and ship on.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: The kitchen counter. I don't like that ship either.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: She made spaghetti on the kitchen counter and I was.
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: Like why because she ain't wanna wash some dishes to
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: disaffect they didn't.
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: Cat was all around and dog trying to lift up
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: and snacks something off the counter, and girl.
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: Shoot you all that already eat already eat with Josh
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: Mama cooking, no nig I go, I go. She made
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: rice Crispy treats the other day, but she didn't use
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: race crispy. She used cheese. It and I looked and
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: was like Jesus with marshmallow. Huh.
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: So she made the base like she was making race
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: Kristy trees, but instead of rice krispies she used cheeses.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: Yep, there might be something. No marshmallows. She was mm hmm.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: It's like it's like sweet chesus and marshmallow. Yo. It's
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: pretty to look at it. But I sent ket a
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: video of this dude that did he ever made it?
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: That probably try he made it. He made the mag
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: of cheese with like five different cheeses. He made a
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: little rou and then he then he put he put
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: crush cheese on top as the bird like top. I
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: was like, crust cheese, no USh cheeses. I mean, I
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: was looking at her like you want me to do that?
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, yes, yeah, I mean cheesus.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: I mean it's it's wild, but it's not like out
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: there because it's cheese on cheese. It's not like you're
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: mixing fucking marshallow fluff. And doritos.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: That essentially what yes day. And I was sitting there
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: like it's it's like, I don't It's like you're kind
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: of trying to create that sweet and savory. But I
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: don't think that that's that should be the sweet. That
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: should be the sweet and savory.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: You know, rating.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's that's a little shaky. Uh. I
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: don't understand what you're saying. Shaking around, shake two shaky.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: What's something you witnessed as someone else's made you never
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: want to go back? When I was ten, my friend
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: wanted to play truth or there that involved nudity and
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: touching with their siblings. Included Hell no, yeah, I'm out
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: call the people. I'm out call the people. That's some
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: flowers and the attic ship.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: I'm out bro. That movie was wild. They say Jordan
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: Peel be making that, oh ship.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: Flowers in the attic, reimagine it's a Jordan Peele movie
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: will probably be freaky.
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: Even flowers in the attic or people under the stairs.
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: It's one of those people understands. I knew it was
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: one of those two that he was supposed to.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I love that movie.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: Did y'all did y'all see see the previous for the
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: new movie with him? Yeah, we need I'm bad, my bad.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: I did see it.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: But yeah, let's let's nage it. Designed'll be crazy.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: It is so yeah, waiting for that.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: Nigga. That's diabolical, bro, I'm out, nigga. No, I'm good.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: You're not playing. We're not playing doctor now teenagers something.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: If you leave and you just leave me with your sister, maybe.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: No, but all of y'all sitting here just playing showing
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: tal Yeah, yeah.
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: The fuck? Not sure?
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: It's shit, Okay, next one, Okay, that's that's what's something
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: you witnessed at someone else's house that made you never
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: want to go back. The whole house had linoleum, but
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: that wasn't the issue. It was the dirty laundry literally everywhere,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: stuck to the linoleum.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: What. First of all, the aleum will get your feet
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: that that black? That black like.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: Nah, yo, that's if you don't mop it regularly. Because
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: if you mop your floors like once a week, like
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: you at least once a week like you're supposed to,
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: your your feet won't be black.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: I'm out, I'm out. What could you?
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I've never been somewhere with lawn, dirty clothes or stuck
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: to the floor. Yeah, nah, I'm good, like like like
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: carpet Brandon.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: When I tell you I'm good. When I say i'm good,
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: look she yeah, I'm good. Fuck y'all look and y'all
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: walking around looking like dirty feet Peter oh Tom, So yeah,
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: bit you I'm good. Got niggas wild? That's because why
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: why why are you clothes stuck to Why they stuck
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: to the floor. You're not long that should had to
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: be there to be stuck to the floor. Yeah. I
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: don't watch their clothes. Once a week. I'm calling them hoods.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: What's something you witnessed at someone else's house that made
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: you never want to go back. My friend's brother was
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: beat with a belt for licking his fork the wrong way.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Their mom was evil and abused them so bad. My
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: mom reported her and she went to jail. I can
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: still hear his screams. It was heartbreaking.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad your mother did the right thing, because
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: what the hell they go fork the wrong way?
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: No more wifie hangers. I'm confused, not the only one saying, hey,
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: that might have that might have just been that might
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: have just been like the precursor to she he might
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: he might have a light style and she don't like.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: No, the mother was just an abusive dickhead.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Some people ain't no son, ain't no son of mine,
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: gonna be looking no fork backwards like some abusive people. Motherfucker,
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: you breathe too heavy. Get the belt, go get a switch, ma'am.
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: Key was listening. Key was listening to a story where
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: the guy with the dog with the dad well red
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: cat at the table and it was like, you know,
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: he wore the red cab to be like yo, he
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: was that angry. You know, he was angry, and they
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: was like they set him off or something. They set
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: him up some crazy shit and it's like, yo, yeah,
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: you're right, you're right niggas for no reason.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna read this next one and then I'm
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: gonna tell you what the story I also read on
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: TikTok did y'all y'all written for that one.
• 52:20
  Speaker 3: That was a good job mom, Good job to the
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: to the mother who called locked up traumatizing, Yeah that's said.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: And the trauma is yeah, that's the about the course.
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: Fuck m hm might beat her? Why she over jail?
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: So this one like I said, I'm going to read
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: this next one. We can talk about it and then well,
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: and then I'll tell you about the story I've read it.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: I saw on TikTok that was wild. That's similar to this.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: What's something you witnessed at someone else's house that made
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: you never want to go back? I was invited over
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: for a girl sleepover an hour away from home when
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I was seven, and the girl's mom invited a bunch
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: of random men over. I called my mom from the
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: bathroom and told her to come get me. I sat outside.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: My mom made it in twenty minutes.
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: That's my kind of mom. But that's right, that's right.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: She did the whole way there, mm hmm. And then
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: how to beat our ass. I just told my daughter
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: getting the car out to beat that bitch ass, because
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: what the fuck was you trying to do?
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: A bunch of random men came over the house.
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Got to be as that sounds like some trafficking ship, bro.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: But I'm also glad that the little girl had to say, no, Mom,
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: I'm in the bathroom and whole wuntch your random minute
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: at the house, please come get me. Deborah did not
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: let us go on no sleepover she said, you ain't
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: at one of my sisters in my mother's house. Bitch,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: you stay, you stay home.
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: One time, let me spend the night over somebody house
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: and she ain't here to tell me I couldn't go back.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: I told her I wasn't going back. You know, it's crazy.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: I don't remember staying the night over a friend house.
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: I never and the girl literally only lived around the
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: corner from us. And the first thing that morning I got,
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: I was like, I know.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: I'm going home.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: I ain't staying over here no day more because she
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: was a fucking weirdoll. And you and you were my
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: first friends, first friends sleepover.
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: You seen him showing the house that Nigga when he
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: was younger. When no, but I'm saying no. What I'm
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: saying is, I'm like, growing up, I've never stayed over
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: a friend's house at all, like my mother, My mother wasn't.
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: My mother wasn't letting that shit fly. And then like,
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: oh I had my own day place now, but like
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: but real ship kids.
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: No, No, That's what I'm saying, like never, never, And
• 54:32
  Speaker 4: then at the same time, like Nigga stayed over our house,
• 54:36
  Speaker 4: like we had friends stay over our house.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: But we ain't never stay with nobody. I stay over
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: my house before. There's the one particular girl she only
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: stayed once, say she can't stay over here.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: The first time I stayed at showing this house ever
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: in Life twenty twenty two. Yeah, grong ye.
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: That, Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, I was in I'm like, well this
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: is different, Please take him. So the story I was
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: gonna mention was a mom or it was an auntie.
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: The auntie came into town because her sister and her
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: brother in law were going out of town to a
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: wedding they called a flight that goes somewhere to like
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: a destination wedding. Her niece was maybe nine or ten
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: years old, and she came over I think for like
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: the long weekend, because I think the parents are only
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: going to be gone from like Sunday to Thursday.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: I mean I mean sorry, Thursday to Sunday, so just
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: the week, like like extended weekend. So she came into
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: town I think Wednesday, and was going to leave on Monday.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: She dropped the parents off at at the airport, and
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: I think the daughter had asked her parents if she
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: could stay the night over at her friend's house, and
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: she said, it's going to be a group of girls there,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: like maybe five or six girls, all like from their
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: friend group, and we're you're gonna stay the night, just
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: on Saturday night, and then she'll come back home like
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Sunday morning, Sunday afternoon. Parents said it was cool. The
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: auntie was like, I'm fine with fas well. She said,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: if you need anything, I'm here at the house. I'm
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: like ten minutes down the street. I'll come get you.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: She dropped the daughter off of her niece off while
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: her sister and brother in law way at the wedd
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: and everything was cool.
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: She dropped her off.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: Let's say it's seven, seven thirty, ten thirty, she gets
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: a call from her niece and the niece sounds panicked,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: and the niece says, Auntie, come get me now right.
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: She said, she didn't ask who, she didn't ask what
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: a why, got the keys to the car and went
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: and grabbed her niece.
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: Shed it. She understood it.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: And also I think what ended up happening was the
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: other the other parents or I think somehow her sister
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: shared contact info with the other parents that who also
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: had kids there. Yeah, she called the other parents while
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: she was saying out to the house, so all of
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: the parents ended up coming to get their other kids,
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: because she said the way her niece sounded on the phone,
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: she sounded like she was like frantic, frantic or she
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: was star So she said she asked the girl what happened,
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: and she didn't want to tell her until she got
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: they got backto the house, but she called the other
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: parents and said, I'm picking taking such and such home.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: Something happened, but she doesn't want to tell me what happened.
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: Y'all might want to come get y'all kids to take
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: them home as well. So the next day she calls
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: the parents, I mean she all the other parents come
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: to get their their daughters as well.
• 57:23
  Speaker 2: From the house.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: She calls her sister and brother in law at the wedding.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: This is Saturday. They take the next the first flight out,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: I think they left. They were at the reception when
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: she called, and they left on the last flight out
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: that night to come back home like four five o'clock
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: in the morning, So they arripped home like hours later
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: after everything happened. She told her aunt when they got
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: home that they were in the little girl's bedroom and
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: they were changing their clothes and they saw a camera
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: pointed at them while they were changing their clothes over
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: in the corner or up on the shelf somewhere. She
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: said that they turned the camera around or they put
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: like a shirt or something over the camera out they
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: were changing, and the mom came in the room, took
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: the shirt off the camera, said no, this is here
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: for your safety and left out. At that point, several
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: a lot of the girls and the group had already
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: literally been in front of the camera without clothes on.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: Oh my boy, she said, she literally was about to
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: change she saw the camera. The mom came in, took
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: the shirt off the camera, and at that point she
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: called her aunt and said, come get me. I don't
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: feel comfortable.
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I got how to hop off that
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: plane and called Nigga's like, heyo, we finna blow some
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: shit up.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: But she says she she called the other when she
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: found out what happened. She called the other girl's parents
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: and told them what happened. And it was a whole
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: thing of like why the fuck is their camera in
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: the room with my daughters or in your daughter's room
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: by her friends are there and they're changing their clothes
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: and the parents are I said, well, it's just for safety,
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: to make sure they're all right. H what's something you
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: witnessed at someone else's house that made you never want
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: to go back? A dead dog in the living room
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: on the floor for multiple days and no one said
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: anything about it.
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: That's all. I just left fucking Fluffy just laying now decomposing.
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: H y'all don't smell that. You know, after a while
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: you get used to smells. Fuck especially I was always like, na,
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: they don't want they don't want to. They just they
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: just ain't want to. Let go. Mm hmmm. Before I like,
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: before I let you go, mm.
• 59:44
  Speaker 4: Hmm, everybody, everybody came instead of praying in front of Fluffy. Fluffy,
• 59:51
  Speaker 4: that's called the therapist. Yeah, that's just nasty. That's nasty
• 59:57
  Speaker 4: as because.
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: Y'all got the logical issues. You can just walk past
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: a dead dog.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: What's something you witness as someone else's house that made
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: you never want to go back? Walk up in the
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: middle of the night to use the bathroom and there
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: were broaches everywhere, having a raid.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: He said that the like just like Jones apartment, Broad.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 3: Woke up like party or you feel like pin your
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: color just d of like everybody cut in the ring.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: Lights up. It's only it's only one. Hey, yo, that's nasty.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: Let's do a couple more. Whe my cock roaches that
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: let me hear you up here? Wait? Whatverre here? What
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: are my fuckers with the wings at? Yeah?
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: What's something you witness at someone else's house that made
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: you never want to go back? Their mom made dinner
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: and we all had plates, but had to wait for
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: the dad to get home for twenty five minutes. He
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: got home, shotwered, then came down and we all ate
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: cold food.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: Shit. No, I don't know, no, I don't know. She
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: couldn't kept the warm until he got there. I mean,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: keep the warming like keeping the woman. Probably be like
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: the lesser probably be like the lesser thing. But I
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: do understand those families, that's like, yo, they eat as
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: a family.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 3: I understand that. But they could have kept the food warm.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: Now I'm saying, to eat cold chicken and cold mashed potatoes.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: I guess was the food the least good m hmm
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 2: cold mm. But like I don't I don't think that's
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: I don't think that's like a like something like diabolical
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: because they might that might be what they used to,
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: Like they're they're probably you're just not used to it
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: because you don't live there. But that might be the thing.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: Like you know, they eat the warm food, like you know,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: like the semi lootwarm food. Yeah, because because they gotta
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: wait for dad to get home. So yeah, that's only you.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I mean you feel like you know,
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: you feel like it's fucked up there. You don't never
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: go back. That's just something to know. Like, look, if
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: I'm going over here and I'm staying for dinner, niggas
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: ain't needing til pops get home and he take a shower,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 2: So why why is everything played it? Why not wait
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: to play the food until he's out of the shower, right, Yeah,
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 2: I get No, that's what I'm saying. I'm taking it too.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 4: I'm saying it's like this, this might be what they're
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 4: used to, and it's like, yo, you only feel some
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 4: kind of way because you're not used to like you're.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: Not used to that. But it's still great. It's still
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: weird as fuck. Sure, So it's like I'll have a
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: dinner now, I'm good, I come out. Let you at
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: the dinner.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: What's something you witnessed as someone else's house that made
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: you never want to go back? No toil paper in
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: the bathroom. Oh, just wipe up your hand and then
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: wash it.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: Fuck that. Nope, nope. You know you can scoop it
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: better if you just use your No. No, Nah, I'm good,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: I'm good. You give me kiss my whole ass. Nope,
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: I'm calling somebody, call on Jesus. Nope, Father, can you
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: hear me? Nope? I need some help today.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: I take one of y'all walls cloths away my ass
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: before I do it?
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 2: What my fuck name? Fuck? You got me? Fucked up? Barber?
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: Last one?
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: What's something you witnessed that someone else's house that made
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: you never want to go back? There were no chairs
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: in the house. I had to stand and watch Titanic.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: Shid Use a fool, Use a fool first, first of all?
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: Three hours long? Are you fucking getting me? You the
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: fool for standing there doing it? I know that my heart,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: you do. Ain't even try to sit on the floor
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: once more. You open the door. Not this ta get caught,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: se I hear in my heart and my heart will
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: go on. No, you the dumb ass in that situation.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: Ain't no way in hell could you.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: Imagine walking into somebody's house and they have no chairs.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: It's just tables and the credenza with.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: The TV on it.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: So what are your ship sit? We don't sick, We
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: stand and they get like around the couch the TV
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: like a couch. People facing this way, people facing this way.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: It's two people facing the TV and turn their heads
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: to just start watching TV.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: This. Hey O. First of all, it's a good movie.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: I ain't m M. Don't let it be yo, kids,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: it's so confused. Way back in the olden times, Titanic
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: came out as a VHS VHS men's you know, the
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: little video cassette tapes, and it was a double pack
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: tapes because the movie was that fucking long.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: It's like a three and a half hour long movie.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: Which is crazy as fuck because it stops like the
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: first the first tape stops when she's running like the minute,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: like the minute of the water, the minute of the water, breakdown,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: breakdown and break one of the rooms and break one
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 2: of the windows, and then she's running. Then it's like
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: then you gotta take it out. Then you gotta take
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: it out and put the next and put the next
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: tape and then they pick up me when she she
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: could take you running down the hallway. Yo, that movie's longest.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: Fuck it is it really is? Yeah, I ain't coming back.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: Matter of fact, I'm bringing the folding jail five like
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: it's not like I'm not allowed in their house. Aaron, No, no, nigga.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: They said they not bringing no chip, they don't have
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: no chairs. They ain't say walking somebody else know I'm
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: walking bright back up to the door. I'm gonna getiod.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna bring my grandmother walker that got the
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: little suit on. And question of the week, what we're
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 2: doing for Q and this week? Don't you know?
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: I'm good ahead Mercy.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 3: All right, y'all, before we get started, if y'all have
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 3: any questions, comments, topic, ideas, movies, y'all want us to
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: watch in review, documentary, television shows, or anything other like,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 3: if you have any evental rants that you want to hear.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 2: Please ranting comments about this ship. Listen, I want I
• 1:07:03
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• 1:07:05
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• 1:07:07
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• 1:07:09
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• 1:07:13
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• 1:07:18
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• 1:07:22
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• 1:07:28
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• 1:07:44
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• 1:07:48
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• 1:07:51
  Speaker 3: score because they wouldn't let us choose one. Let us know,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 3: let us know if you want to use the pseudonym,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 3: if you want to use first name, less initial of
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: fake name, you wanna name yourself after the damn rapper
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 3: a single actor, We.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: Don't give a damn. Whatever name you want to use,
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: we gonna use it. Or if you don't give a
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: damn and you're gonna use your government name because, in
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: the words of Chari Whitfield via Real Housewives of Atlanta
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: back in the early two thousands, when yeah, I ain't
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: even gonna go there, just tithing. Who gonna check you both? Proudly?
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 2: I know I did better today. Okay, So we are
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: going over to I G. Oh shit, ain't on. I G.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: We are going to six round chicks. But we're not
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: going straight to the questions. They posted a new thread
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: the other day that I found rather entertaining. Oh and.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 3: This thread is called karma came quick, she did, That's
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: what they said. I calm and came quick d MS
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: from relationship. Hell, oh god, I'm gonna read a couple
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: of these because.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: I was tickled.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 3: Found the natural hairstylars who worked from home. She had
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: flexible hours and good prices. She grew my thin and
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: hair with beautiful styles.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: Bumped into her husband at Costco, rode him several times.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: What the fuck?
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 3: She found out about me and dropped his clothes off
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: at my house. I was stressed and my head fellow
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: in patches. Eventually he went back home. But I'm bald
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 3: as an apple, and I must wear wigs without glue.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: Hero takes my scout. I avoided going out on windy days,
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: as I did. Call it this apponia, not.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: Bald and shiny like a red delicious sweet Jesus Grady stuff.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: I'm done, Okay, the next one, next apple. That's a
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: real deafness. Though we asked.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: Now you deserved it. You should have left that lady
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 3: husband alone. Now you put a spell on your dumb ass. Yeah,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 3: come it out, that's what you get, like she it
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 3: was just stupid ass.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: Damn Jesus, knock around here? What patches of ye? Because
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: you hunched on that lady husband? Lord? Okay, all right.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 3: Next one, I stole my friends cute bumble date. It
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: was their first date. She invited me for safety, and
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 3: I wanted him for myself. When she went to the bathroom,
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: we agreed to link up the following day.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: At his hotel.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: Didn't notice his long canine teeth before, and he's a bier.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 3: I had to become a fighter. I clawed my way
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 3: out of that room, and he bit my ass so
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: bad that it got infected and I couldn't sit down
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 3: full week, and I also lost my friend.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: That's what it went on the date with interview with
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: the bad pie cry looking like looking like that was funny.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, okay.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 3: So, and then there's a second thread, y'all, oh lord,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 3: and this one is also DMS from Relationship Hell, but
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: the title is and then I crashed out, y'all.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: Know I love a good crash out. I'm scarce.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 3: Rog is the store hole. He gets every girl at
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 3: his shift, and it has been chaos because the girls
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 3: are fighting. I'm the store manager, so I knew Roch
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 3: had to go. One night after we closed, Rog and
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 3: the other crew members took me out for drinks on
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 3: my birthday after he came home with me.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: Roger is a sex demon. He's a dem He's a demon,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: and he put a hole in my mattress.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 3: Back at work, one of the other crew members said,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: old Hoe got some mercy.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 2: Dick best, she won't get it again. I beat the
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: bricks off that little girl facing the friday, I was
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: fired and I went to jail. I caught a case
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: over him.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: Man, I still want some more. Management didn't be dirty.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 3: Don't work at pes people. She was loving that chicken
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: from She was loving that dick from Pop d Dicken
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 3: from Pop.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: Not. You knew he was community and your child. Nigga
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: put a hole in the mastress. I said that Nigga
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: was drilling. What was he doing? Whoa, my lord? He's
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: a demon, a demon, he's a demon. We bet.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: This is gonna be his nance winning. Then I'm gonna read.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 3: I'm really read the question okay. She came in the
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 3: barbershop for a lineup. I knew she was sleeping with
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 3: my baby daddy. She knows me still. She into the
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 3: bubble shop with her phone recording me whispering, let's see
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: if this little bitch can cut head. I was cool
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 3: and I asked him like I didn't know her baby.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 3: I ran those clippers across her forehead so quick she
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 3: screamed it with no baby hell eye proud. They told
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 3: her to leave the bubble shop from go ahead, jail, I.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: Got fired, but no good not a busy said together.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 2: She's a really cool dance.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 3: Ship.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: I'm just Jesus great. All right, ladies and gentlemen, the
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: main people that you do not funk with. You don't
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: funk with your baba. You don't funk with the people
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: that's that's fixing your fool at all. And you don't
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: funk with your mama.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: She scouted.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: Nigga ain't gonna be able to tell you what's wrong
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: with your Like, what's the point in my ship? Bitch?
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: Why would you fuck with somebody with access to sharp
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: sharp divide that was raising blades was.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: Wrong with you? Why would you do that?
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: People got to death wish.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, question. Sorry, I'm go on six born Chicks.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna stay here, Okay.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 3: I was leaving my side chick's house, where her ex
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 3: boyfriend drove by and ran me over. He had been
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 3: circling the block while I was inside. I was in
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 3: a coma for two days. I woke when I overheard
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: my mother in law in the hospital Room'm telling my
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 3: wife just pull the damn plug.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 2: He ain't got no job and those medical bills are
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: going to be hell.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 3: My wife, he ain't ship. But I don't want to
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 3: hear the kid's mouth when I put him in the ground.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 3: My mother in law says, when the Lord gives you
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 3: a clean break, take it down on this. My wife
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 3: walked towards me and I screamed for her. She says
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 3: they knew I was awakened. They were joking.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 2: I don't press.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 3: I don't press the issue because I'm forced to explain. No,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I don't press the issue because I'll be
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: forced to explain why I was in my chicks neighborhood.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 2: But should I fear for my life? Nigga?
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 3: Yes, going to witness protect? They probably said the nigga.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 2: I think yo, real ship. I think this is probably
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 2: what they was open you die. They got it in
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 2: short silence, the fuck yeah, mm hmmm. I feel like
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: this is probably what the third or maybe fourth fourth
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 2: story that you done read when somebody got hit by cop.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 2: It's like, I just wow, father, can you hear me?
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: Not well enough? You heard the va coming down the.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 3: Street is trying to tell you something, just trying to
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 3: tell you something.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 2: And it ain't. Oh God, who was buddy?
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: I can't, I shan't, I won't, I will not.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 5: Nigga you boy boy oho, Oh Jesus. They plotting on you,
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 5: are trying to take you all slim pol trying to
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 5: take you, kill you, and you kill you dead, you sleep.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 5: All the the fact that she said, I ain't trying
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 5: to hear the kid's mouth.
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: But I put him in the ground. That's bad. You
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 2: kind of saying, my daddy, but you're poor to ply
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 2: ah man that work. I'm scared. He should be the
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: one that's scared. I said he was in the cornma
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 2: for two days and they already they already talked about
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: his ass like he ain't dead, poor the ply baby,
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: he ain't. He ain't. Ship is trying to free you
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 2: in your stupid as talking about him. I love him? Okay,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: you know I love him? What's wrong with you? This
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 2: the last one.
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 3: This is coming from Reddit tackers and the title is
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 3: My girlfriend asked for a open relationship and I ended
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 3: things on the spot. From our very first date, my girlfriend,
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: I agreed that we will only dating each other, no
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: games or no see where it goes, just complete exclusivity.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 2: For two years, everything went felt solid.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 3: We had an amazing connection emotionally, physically, and yes, our
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 3: sex life was great. I genuinely thought we were on
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: the same page about our future. Then, out of nowhere,
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 3: last week, she would have the idea of opening our
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: relationship before. I can't ask why. She casually explained that
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: she was getting bored and wanted to explore different styles
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 3: with other people. Okay, sounds like she already started exploring.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 3: But okay, I didn't argue. I didn't try to negotiate.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 3: I simply got up, walked out of her apartment and
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 3: went home. We don't live together, which made it easier. Later,
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 3: after she spanned my phone with calls and text I
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 3: sent her one message that the relationship was over. I
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 3: told her in my experience, it's anyone who acts. I'm sorry, y'all,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 3: My thing shifted. Anyone who asks for an open relationship
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 3: already had someone else in mind or words that's already
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 3: acting on it.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: I wished her well and blocked her. The fallout was instant.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 3: Two of her friends message to me on Facebook, calling
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 3: me Facebook, calling me controlling and insecure. My parents, who
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 3: genuinely liked her, said that they were said but fully
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 3: supported my choice, especially giving my pads where ignoring red
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 3: flags nearly destroyed me. Now, I'd be lying if I
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 3: said there isn't a part of me that misses her.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 3: She was caring, sweet, and in so many ways a
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 3: great partner. But I can't ignore the fact that once
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 3: someone starts looking outside the relationship, the trust is already gone.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: Some people might think I will react that I think
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 3: I saved myself from a slow, painful betrayal.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: Thoughts God to Hell. I don't think you're wrong. I
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 2: don't think you're wrong. No, yeah, she can go straight
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 2: to hell. You can go. I said the same thing.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 3: I believe when some money comes to you about wanting
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 3: to have an open relationship, to have somebody like you said,
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 3: they already have somebody in mind, or they've already done
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 3: it and they were hoping that you're gonna go along
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 3: with it, or they don't feel guilty about what they've
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 3: done anymore. To say that you're bored, why didn't you
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 3: try to spice up your own sex like with your
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 3: current partner.
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 2: Why you want to try new ship with somebody else?
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 2: I'm confused fellas well. Your woman says she want to
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: open relationship, nigga, you need to be scared. She already here.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 2: It's it's not even that she's already out there doing whatever.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: It's the fact that you're most of the time niggas
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 2: asks for asks for the open relationship, and it's like, y'all,
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: y'all don't want that because you don't want to think
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: about your woman ever doing anything whatever with other people.
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: But Yo, she watching you and she like bit your ass. Nigga,
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 2: I probably find I can probably find a piece of
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: big Basically, she could find she find something like she'll here,
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 2: she'll hear sampling, you know, sampling the platter, and she
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 2: won't go back to and be like and you could
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: you know, your your services have been been fulfilled, so
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: you know, I wish I wish you all the best services,
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 2: have a good day.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: I think if you have the conversation early on, right,
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 1: if you're dating somebody, getting to know somebody, and you
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: have the conversation to say like, hey, we can start
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: off monogamously to build our relationship while our bond, but
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: I may ultimately want to transition into an open relationship.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: Or if this person has a history of being in
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: open relationships with with previous partners and they come to
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: you and say, hey, we've been together for a year
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: or two, what are your thoughts on exploring maybe maybe
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: opening the relationship or getting the conversation started. Yeah, I
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: think that's that's one thing. But the way it was
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: brought up in this, I would have to agree with
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: Seana either she's done it and or she has somebody
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: in mind and she wants to explore that option.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 2: Now now against she.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: Was around and she was pregnant the first but I said,
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: still apply though, and she could either have somebody and
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: I might have already done it. But I mean I
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: also would say I don't really think there's an issue
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: with her having a person in mind, because again, you're
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: you're opening up the communication.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 2: True because I understand who could be didn't we have
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: a person in mind?
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: But not go forward if your partner isn't cool with
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: it to say, hey, we talked about it, he wasn't
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: cool with it, so I can't do nothing with you, right.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 2: You know, Sometimes it'd be like, I mean he's saying no,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 2: but I mean is that really no? Yeah?
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: I mean I would give the benefit of the doubt
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: in this in this conversation, Matrigy, and you can have
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: you can have that connection with somebody realizes there and
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: possibly want to explore it, especially if you and your
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: your partner have good communication already. They may say, okay,
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: well do you have somebody in mind? And you can
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: be honest to say, hey, yeah, I actually do have
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: somebody in mind, but I wanted to talk to you
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: about it first before we go down that path. And
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: I say that with it as a person who is monogamous, like,
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: as long as you can have the open and honest
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 1: communication with somebody and y'all want to transition into an
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: ethic ethically non monogamous situation, I say, I don't yuck nobody.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 2: Young you know me, I think fellas men out there,
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 2: what I think y'all failed to realize is if y'all
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 2: niggas get caught up doing whatever. I mean this for anybody, men, women, whatever,
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: If you get caught up in your relationship and doing whatever,
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: I believe that you're I believe if you're honest, you
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 2: open up the floor for y'all to get past that ship.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 2: Is when you start lying about it and trying to
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 2: make that person feel trying to make that person feel
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 2: like they trying to make the person feel like I
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 2: think they think they're crazy in the situation. That's what
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: That's where a lot of people fuck up.
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 4: And I also think that a lot of people suck
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 4: up with like open relationships anyway because they think that
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 4: it's something that they something that they want on, something
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 4: that they missing, and then you then you get.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: Use it as a fix instead of solving the issue.
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 2: And there yeah, or you know, you're trying to distract
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 2: yourself from what's really like it was really going on
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: and it was like eventually or that that that ship.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to talk your mouth for saying something.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 3: Baby, you can be as open as you want to
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: now because you got dumped or I think.
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: It was Mark Kan read the guy we mentioned earlier
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: in the episode mentioned a friend of his or one
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: of his women friends female friends.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 2: I hate using them a female, but one of his
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 2: women friends came to lady friends. Yeah, and she came to.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: Him and said, you know, I was dealing with this
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: guy or I was in a relationship with this guy,
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: and I never had an orgasm, never did anything like.
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: He didn't satisfy me sexually, and at first I thought
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: it was something wrong with me or my body until
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 1: I cheated and met somebody who gave me multiple orgasms
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 1: back to back to back, and then it came to
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: a situation was, yeah, I fucked around, but the guy
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship with doesn't know what he's doing
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: or we're not sexually compatible. And now that I'm actually
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: having multiple orgasm and my legs are shaken and I'm
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: fucking around with this person.
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 2: I see that it's not my body, it's that that
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: nick mm hm. But at the same time, you have
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 2: you had that experience, since that's a big conversation, huh.
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 1: Could be well, I mean after you already sucked the
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: god and had had so I.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: Didn't, so technically I didn't cheat. Okay, all right, Pictrick
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 2: brought him on two thousand and eight ish.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean what happened was I cheated because I
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 3: got cheated on. So I got my get back. But
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 3: when I fucked up, I fucked up and I didn't
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 3: realize that what I was missing until I got with
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 3: the other person. Was like, damn, this is what I'm
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 3: not getting there. Oh yeah it did so, but again,
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 3: I'm not a cheat. I do on'tly cheated because I
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 3: got cheated on. I don't know, never cheated on that person.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 2: That's also a flawed because you you that like it.
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 2: But then I took the nigga back. So now I'm like, no,
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 2: but is no but your mean but your issue, I mean,
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: the issue with that is issue?
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 4: What that is that your I mean, I believe that's
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 4: a flaw as well, because you're gonna you know, you're
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 4: fucking around with somebody that you that outside of the relationship,
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 4: outside the person that you that you've been fucking for
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 4: like months or years, and then it's like yo, it's
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 4: a new thing.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 2: It's a new thing to you. It's a new thing
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 2: to you. They're going they're gonna give you the a
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: game every time, just because you're somebody else's because you beloved.
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 2: That's what I heard. Somebody else told me. Niggas gonna
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: give you the A game. But like every time time
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: I have achieved it, because you somebody else's and be
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 2: on some ship like she ain't going, Yo, you're not
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 2: getting this at home.
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 4: And then soon as you then as soon as y'all
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 4: niggas break up, and then y'all y'all you startingsing that
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 4: person and now you're getting getting regular dick.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: I remember when it happened and I went home and
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: was like sitting there or sitting there getting pumped on with.
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 3: The straight face like nigga said, how was your day?
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 3: I said, motherfucking task.
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 2: Go get him? Go get him. She looked back like nigga,
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 2: what ain't that kind of party? But nah, yeah, that's
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 2: what I mean. But that's I mean. I believe it's
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: like you got yeah, you you did all that. Then
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: now you now you're by yourself, so you made to
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: go to your little partner.
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, ain't know you went past the point and return.
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: At that point, you ain't much you can do but
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 1: break up because then well don't the nigga clearly don't
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 1: know what you're doing.
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 2: But again, you can y'all, y'all can talk about that.
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: You can tell him like, hey, yo, this that's not
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 2: what I'm getting. You feel what I'm saying, like I need,
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: this is what I need, Like this is this is
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 2: not selfish. It was never about me being pleased talking
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 2: about you. You was just sent a dark and he
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 2: was just time. But I was getting pleased.
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, you also could have pleasure. It does, but
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: you are I mean, I hate to be but I stayed.
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 3: Like I said, I didn't cheat until I got cheated
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 3: because you're not pleasing me and did you want to
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 3: go and showcase your disability?
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 2: But you also chose to stay with him since I did.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I stayed with him because I loved him, because
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 3: I didn't feel like sex was that big of a
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 3: deal in the relationship at that time.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 2: I was young until early tony.
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 3: Now, when I stay with somebody who could please me, no,
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 3: not love and no love, ain't enough love in the world,
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 3: because they all of that matters. People keep saying that
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 3: sex in relationship, No, man, that's bullshit. Is it the
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 3: whole relationship? No, but it's but there's a big part
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 3: in a relationship. Especially if you're telling this person that
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 3: you're not, saydisfied, and they're not doing anything to try
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 3: to change or learn how to satisfy you, and you're
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 3: putting you all into it and learning to satisfy them.
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  Speaker 2: That's not fair.
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  Speaker 3: Go as far as to say, but in this situation,
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  Speaker 3: didn't even sound like you. You just said you wanted
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  Speaker 3: to try new things with new people. Now I want
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  Speaker 3: to try new things with you, like did you say?
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  Speaker 2: Did they?
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  Speaker 3: That's why, you know, a lot of these questions we
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  Speaker 3: always wish we could get back, you know, backstories like
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  Speaker 3: can she come to you and said, Okay, I'm not satisfied,
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  Speaker 3: I want to try new stuff and you won't try.
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  Speaker 2: New things or what you know, put a answer, but yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I did. I stayed out of love? Do that ship again?
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  Speaker 2: Have y'all have y'all had, like you know for thoses watching,
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  Speaker 2: Have y'all had those type of like that type of
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  Speaker 2: situation where you had to have that hard conversation with
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  Speaker 2: the person that you're with, Like leave us in comments
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  Speaker 2: if you comment, let us know if you've been in
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  Speaker 2: a situation where your your person thinking that you know,
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  Speaker 2: for the women, your person thinking that they that they
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  Speaker 2: king dangling and they put it down and you sitting
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  Speaker 2: there like, oh, like HadAM be on the gates of
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  Speaker 2: her and work. She rolled over like that nia so bad?
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  Speaker 3: She was so she was like she was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: that was and she was a virgin like she was like,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't really feel much of anything, and if you
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  Speaker 3: ain't satisfied, virgen, sir, you need to talk to somebody.
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  Speaker 4: No, it's not even that, but it's only no no
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  Speaker 4: now in her case, I'm I'm gonna touch that in
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  Speaker 4: a second, but no, for like, let us like let
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  Speaker 4: us know, like, let us know the comments like if
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  Speaker 4: you ever had to have that card, like had that
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  Speaker 4: hard conversation of you're not being you're not being pleased
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  Speaker 4: so hard, that's a good one.
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  Speaker 2: That's a great one. She said, that's a great one.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, if I had to have that conversation,
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  Speaker 2: you know, how how did you you know, how did
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  Speaker 2: you have to like, how did you have a conversation?
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  Speaker 2: What was as the math for that? And didn't improval?
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  Speaker 2: Did you have to move on? I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: I used to be a person who hated having hard
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 1: conversations with you because in my early twenties. I always
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  Speaker 1: thought that conflict would lead to a breakupstanding.
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  Speaker 2: About hurting people feelings. I don't give fucking that too.
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  Speaker 1: I would feel some type of way, but wouldn't ever
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  Speaker 1: say anything, and would harbor start the horror resentment because
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling some type of way, but also not opening
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  Speaker 1: my mouth and saying what the issue is resolved.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely, honestly, I believe. I believe that's the that's that's
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 2: what the word of a lot of rid of a
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 2: lot of breakups says. The fact that we don't, you know,
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 2: we we don't feel as though that we can talk,
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 2: that we can talk about, you know, talk about certain
• 1:32:02
  Speaker 2: situations or in that moment and agree. Sometimes in the
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 2: moment you can't necessarily talk because your emotions is high
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 2: and their emotions is high, and you don't want to
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 2: make it worse. But when your niggas finally calm down,
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 2: I believe that nothing gets talked about, nothing gets talked about,
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 2: y'all just keep moving on to the next thing, many
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 2: I'll blow up. That's why I got tired. I got
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 2: tired of you leaving your dirty ass drugs on the
• 1:32:30
  Speaker 2: on the kitchen from your no stroke heavin, I can't
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  Speaker 2: find the rhythm mass little ding ding nig.
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  Speaker 1: I will even go as far as saying, like, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: that blow up doesn't even happen. You just lose interest,
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  Speaker 1: and y'all just drift apart because y'all aren't having hard
• 1:32:50
  Speaker 1: conversations y'all have y'a don't have the intimacy that they're
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 1: having those type of conversations bring, so you'll ultimately just
• 1:32:56
  Speaker 1: start drifting apart because you're not being honest. They doing
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 1: they thing, y'all doing that thing, y'all together, But then
• 1:33:02
  Speaker 1: y'all spent start spending less and less time together, and
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 1: then y'all just separate because there's nothing they holding y'all together.
• 1:33:07
  Speaker 2: Bring it back and bring it back doing I ask
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 2: y'all like and then and and that's when the question
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 2: come in, When did you realize you was done in
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 2: a relationship? Pray that you know what I'm saying, but
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 2: that's what I mean, but that that's that type of
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 2: that's that type of shit. I can answer a question
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 2: in general, it's like, yeah, I can't.
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  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I am. I won't answer the question
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: in general. I realized I was I was on a
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  Speaker 1: date with somebody, and I remember, and this is not sad,
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  Speaker 1: but I was on a date with somebody. We had
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: been dating for a few months, like six seven months
• 1:33:38
  Speaker 1: at that point. We were spending spending time together and
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 1: I realized that I'm not sure if the person was
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 1: nervous or what it was, but we went out. We
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: were at this restaurant. It was cool, but he was
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: talking and just talking, going on and on and just
• 1:33:52
  Speaker 1: talking about whatever, and I kind of just zoned out
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: because I was realized he was just talking at me
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: and saying stuff that he thought was funny.
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 2: But I was kind of just like, similar story and
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 2: but let me finish.
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 1: So I remember on the ride back to my house,
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 1: I was thinking, like we were talking about stuff, and
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 1: but the conversation was like real surface level and there
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 1: was nothing there. And that of course, again I was
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable with having hard conversations, with even trying to communicate
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 1: in that way, and that part of it was my fault.
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: But it just got to you a point where that
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 1: night I remember literally thinking in my head, this is
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 1: not my person at this is not my person.
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 2: Oh sorry, what did you do? My finger got caught
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 2: her hair? Oh damn. That was our hosts changed.
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 1: You heard of jingling before sewing. I'm gonna slap them.
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I remember thinking like, yo, this literally is
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 1: not my person while we were on that date, and
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: that fucked them and sent them home.
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 2: At least you at least you at least you sent
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 2: them home.
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 1: I'm leaving it with something. Well, he left with something.
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: I got something out the day.
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 2: But similar, I mean, but similar like some of the
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 2: story some of the stories like that night, the night
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 2: me and Baltimore broke up, it was we were like
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 2: we were sitting in the car, like, yo, we were
• 1:35:11
  Speaker 2: sitting in the car and she was talking like I
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 2: think she was talking about something, and I just said,
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 2: I was like, y'all, I can't do this, and she's like,
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 2: it's not you know, it's not it's not it's nothing.
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with us.
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 4: It's everybody else'll say, and it's like, yo, you she
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 4: wasn't taking accountability for like most of the ship.
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 2: She like most of the ship she the dead like
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 2: and that ship was scarier. It's the same way it
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 2: was everybody else influencing me.
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was no, it couldn't be the fact that
• 1:35:42
  Speaker 3: you've been abusive, lying and cheating an entire relationship got
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 3: nothing to do with is everybody else for for for
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 3: pointing out exactly what the it is you've been doing
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 3: and a blind man can see stupid.
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yo. It was like I'm just I'm just sitting
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 2: in to see, you know, I'm sitting in the passenger
• 1:35:58
  Speaker 2: to see, like just looking at the ring, like you
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 2: can't stop through ring. You blame it on the ring,
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 2: Like no, I'm just saying. It's like I'm just looking.
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 2: I'm just watching the ring while she's talking and she
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 2: keeps saying the ship and I'm like, yeah, so yeah,
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 2: we we Yeah, I ain't able to do this. You know.
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: It's something when you're in a relationship with somebody and
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 1: you break up and you feel relieved that you break
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 1: up with that person. That's how you know you've made
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: direct decisions. Like I'm done. I know I'm done.
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 2: I wasn't writing the host when I told my mother.
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 2: And in that same day that I went to the
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 2: house and told my mother that me and Baltimore like
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 2: broke up. She put and he left like that brain
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 2: she put she put my stuff about when you know,
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 2: you know, and it was it was it was crazy
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 2: you know, and ironically enough that brought that brought me
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 2: and my mother closer together, did it?
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like because we I guess you could say we
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 4: was going through we was going through a breakup at
• 1:37:02
  Speaker 4: the same time, and then we started, you know, then
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 4: she then we started like riding the work and like
• 1:37:06
  Speaker 4: riding work together in the mornings and.
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 2: Ship and it's like, yeah, ship, Yeah it should changed relationship.
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 2: I mean our relationship change and got we got closer,
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 2: of course, but yeah, it's it's one of them things
• 1:37:17
  Speaker 2: like yeah, when you're just looking at that person, you
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 2: just hit them talk like you said. It's like it's like, yeah,
• 1:37:23
  Speaker 2: why am I here? I don't, I don't got I'm good.
• 1:37:25
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonta do this ship again, Like.
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm good on this. I'm good on you. Like
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 1: I don't need nothing else like this. This is not
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 1: aligned with me.
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 2: What they say, this is above me. Now, any any
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 2: party words, don't be afraid to have them hard conversation,
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 2: don't be afraid to have them hard conversation. I was
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 2: about to say something and I caught myself. I was
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 2: like that too, but yeah I did that sen them
• 1:37:59
  Speaker 2: on this way?
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 3: What everything y'all said about you know, had my whole
• 1:38:02
  Speaker 3: conversations because you rather have damn conversation now and not
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 3: years down the fucking line when your feelings is all involved.
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 2: And now y'all mad, did you have a goddamn body?
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 3: And now you turned in to a fuck niggacause you
• 1:38:12
  Speaker 3: feel like this one broke your heart and she turned
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 3: through a whole because she felt like you broke you
• 1:38:17
  Speaker 3: broke her heart.
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 2: And let ever stuff talk the ship through.
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 3: Most ship problems can be solved with a simple fucking conversation.
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 3: I promise you again, simple conversation. You'll be surprised, like
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 3: we get to talk this whole six months ago, and.
• 1:38:32
  Speaker 1: Now it's because now I don't want you to do
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 1: from over.
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 2: I don't even look in my direction. We got to
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 2: tussle any well, I'm sorry, go ahead, you know what
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 2: I'm saying. That's that's that's real ship like yeah, yeah,
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 2: drop yeah, drop you drop your drop your responses in
• 1:38:49
  Speaker 2: the comments listen, Yeah, we like, yeah, we would look
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 2: forward to hearing that. But like I said, don't don't
• 1:38:56
  Speaker 2: let nobody damn your light and don't let nobody talk
• 1:38:58
  Speaker 2: to you, you know, make you feel lesser than because
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 2: I think I feel like a lot of people don't
• 1:39:02
  Speaker 2: really speak up because they feel less of than and
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 2: they feel like they don't have room to speak up
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 2: because my nigga don't suffer in silence or say something.
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 2: And if they don't, if they don't want to, you know,
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 2: try to compromise. Fulcome. Like Seanna said right in the ear, Okay,
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 2: damn well, the whole ear a lot to talk about.
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 2: Painful well, but that that's gonna wrap up the episode here.
• 1:39:27
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  Speaker 1: And we are on Blue Sky at Wonder Part. We're
• 1:40:06
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• 1:40:08
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• 1:40:13
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  Speaker 1: But until then, be easy, be saying.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to have an eighteen two weeks, oh lord.
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 1: And it's almost time for this nigga's birthday questions too.
• 1:40:29
  Speaker 2: Be easy, be safe.
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 1: I know right that fucked you up. We'll talk to
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 1: y'all there.
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 2: Bye y'all, Bye Toddys Birthday Titties