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Game Time: Midlife Myth or Total Truth? Found at 40's Chrissi Harrison Gets Real About Sex, Reinvention & Starting Over · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  Foreign.
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  I'd
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  love
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  to
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  play
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  a
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  little
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  game
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  with
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  you
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  if
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  you're
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  up
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  for
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  it.
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  Yeah.
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  All
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  right.
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  Okay.
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  So
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  the
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  name
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  of
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  this
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  game
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  is
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  Midlife
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  Myth
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  or
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  Total
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  Truth.
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  So
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  you'll
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  have
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  to
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  decide
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  if
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  each
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  statement
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  is
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  a
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  midlife
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  myth,
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  which
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  is
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  false,
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  or
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  total
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  truth,
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  which
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  is
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  real.
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  Okay.
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  So
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  the
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  first
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  one
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  is
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  you'll
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  care
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  less
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  about
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  what
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  people
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  think
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  when
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  you
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  are
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  in
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  your
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  40s
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  than
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  when
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  you
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  did
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  in
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  your
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  20s.
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  True.
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  Hallelujah.
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  Thank
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  goodness.
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  Yeah.
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  Yes,
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  Absolutely.
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  Okay.
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  Women
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  in
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  midlife
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  are
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  more
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  likely
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  to
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  start
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  businesses
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  than
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  men
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  in
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  midlife.
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  Yes.
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  True.
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  Right.
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  Don't
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  you
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  think
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  I
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  kind
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  of
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  feel
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  right?
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  Yes,
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  yes.
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  This
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  is
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  the
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  time
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  where
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  it's
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  like,
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  it.
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  It
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  is
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  time.
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  Like,
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  whatever
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  ideas,
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  like,
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  we
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  are
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  ready
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  to
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  do
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  the
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  things
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  at
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  this
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  stage.
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  It's
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  like,
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  we
• 1:01
  don't.
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  We're
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  not.
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  There's
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  so
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  much
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  less
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  fear,
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  I
• 1:04
  feel
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  like,
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  of
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  failure
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  now
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  versus,
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  you
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  know,
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  in
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  decades
• 1:07
  past.
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  Everyone
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  has
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  a
• 1:09
  calling.
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  You
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  just
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  have
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  to
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  find
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  it.
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  Truth.
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  Yes.
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  And
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  it
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  doesn't
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  have
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  to
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  be,
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  oh,
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  this
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  big,
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  huge,
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  prestigious
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  thing.
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  I
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  mean,
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  you
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  never
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  know
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  what
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  you're
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  going
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  to
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  mean
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  to
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  the
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  community
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  around
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  you.
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  And
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  so,
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  yeah,
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  you
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  just
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  have
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  to
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  find
• 1:23
  it.
• 1:23
  Yeah.
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  And
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  the
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  way
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  you
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  find
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  it
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  is
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  learn.
• 1:25
  You
• 1:25
  put
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  yourself
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  out
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  there.
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  You're
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  not
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  going
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  to
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  find
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  your
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  calling
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  by
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  just
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  staying
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  in
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  your
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  house,
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  you
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  know,
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  sitting
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  on
• 1:30
  your
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  couch,
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  doing
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  nothing.
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  There's
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  like
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  that
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  quote
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  that's
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  like
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  the
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  definition
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  of
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  insanity
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  is
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  doing
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  the
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  same
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  thing
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  every
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  day
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  but
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  expecting
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  a
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  different
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  outcome,
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  different
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  result.
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  Yes.
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  So
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  you
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  do.
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  You
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  have
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  to
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  put
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  yourself
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  out
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  there.
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  You
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  have
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  to
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  change
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  things
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  up
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  for
• 1:45
  sure.
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  Okay.
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  Sex
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  gets
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  better
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  after
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  40.
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  Ooh.
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  See,
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  I
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  am
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  just
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  starting
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  to
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  get
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  in
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  40
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  and
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  so
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  far
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  it's
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  really
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  good.
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  I
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  would
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  say.
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  I
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  would
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  say
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  truth.
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  I
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  would
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  say,
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  yes.
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  You
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  know,
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  it
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  totally.
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  I
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  agree
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  100%.
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  And
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  I
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  think,
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  too,
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  I
• 2:02
  think
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  for
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  me,
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  it's
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  because
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  I'm
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  a
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  lot
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  less
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  self
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  conscious
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  about
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  my
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  body.
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  Even
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  with
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  my
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  husband.
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  You
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  know,
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  it's
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  like
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  before,
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  you
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  know,
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  I
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  think
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  just
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  now,
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  like,
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  it
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  is
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  what
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  it
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  is.
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  You
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  know,
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  it's
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  like,
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  yeah,
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  because,
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  I.
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  Mean,
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  you
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  think
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  about,
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  like,
• 2:15
  your
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  husband's
• 2:16
  body,
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  you're
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  not
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  judging
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  his
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  body
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  for
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  having
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  some
• 2:19
  changes.
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  I'm
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  not
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  just
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  like,
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  oh,
• 2:20
  where's,
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  you
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  know,
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  what's
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  going
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  on
• 2:22
  here?
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  Like,
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  I
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  don't
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  care.
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  I
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  love
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  you
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  and
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  I'm
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  happy
• 2:24
  where
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  I'm
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  at.
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  So
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  you
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  have
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  to
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  realize
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  that
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  that
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  goes
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  both
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  ways.
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  You
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  know,
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  there.
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  There's
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  no
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  judgment
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  from
• 2:29
  me,
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  you
• 2:30
  know,
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  for
• 2:31
  whatever
• 2:31
  aging
• 2:32
  that's
• 2:32
  happening
• 2:32
  for
• 2:32
  him
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  and
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  vice
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  versa.
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  He's
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  not
• 2:34
  judging
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  me.
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  He's
• 2:34
  just.
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  He's
• 2:35
  just
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  happy.
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  Exactly.
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  He
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  should
• 2:37
  be
• 2:37
  grateful,
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  right?
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  As
• 2:40
  they
• 2:40
  all
• 2:40
  should.
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  You
• 2:42
  have
• 2:42
  to
• 2:42
  be
• 2:42
  fully
• 2:43
  healed
• 2:44
  before
• 2:44
  starting
• 2:45
  over.
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  Is
• 2:46
  that
• 2:46
  a
• 2:46
  midlife
• 2:47
  myth
• 2:47
  or
• 2:47
  a
• 2:48
  total
• 2:48
  truth?
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  Total
• 2:50
  myth.
• 2:50
  I
• 2:51
  feel
• 2:51
  like
• 2:51
  the
• 2:51
  expect
• 2:52
  expectation
• 2:53
  of
• 2:53
  being
• 2:53
  fully
• 2:54
  healed.
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  Like,
• 2:54
  when
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  are
• 2:55
  we
• 2:55
  fully
• 2:55
  healed
• 2:55
  from
• 2:56
  anything?
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  Let's
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  be
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  honest.
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  And
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  so
• 2:57
  wa.
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  Perfect
• 2:59
  moment
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  or
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  being
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  fully
• 3:00
  healed,
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  like,
• 3:01
  oh,
• 3:01
  you
• 3:01
  can't
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  do
• 3:02
  anything
• 3:02
  until
• 3:02
  you've
• 3:03
  checked
• 3:03
  this
• 3:03
  box.
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  Absolutely
• 3:04
  not.
• 3:04
  I
• 3:05
  agree.
• 3:05
  And
• 3:05
  you
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  heal
• 3:06
  as
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  you
• 3:06
  go,
• 3:07
  right?
• 3:07
  It's
• 3:07
  like,
• 3:07
  truly,
• 3:08
  with
• 3:08
  the
• 3:08
  new
• 3:08
  things
• 3:09
  that
• 3:09
  you're
• 3:09
  doing,
• 3:09
  the
• 3:09
  new
• 3:10
  opportunities
• 3:10
  actually
• 3:11
  give
• 3:11
  you
• 3:11
  a
• 3:11
  chance
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  to
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  heal.
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  So
• 3:13
  start
• 3:13
  it.
• 3:13
  You
• 3:13
  don't
• 3:14
  have
• 3:14
  to
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  be
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  fully,
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  fully
• 3:15
  healed,
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  everyone.
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  Midlife
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  is
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  the
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  beginning
• 3:19
  of
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  your
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  second
• 3:20
  act,
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  not
• 3:21
  the
• 3:22
  end
• 3:22
  of
• 3:22
  your
• 3:22
  first.
• 3:23
  Totally
• 3:24
  true.
• 3:25
  Like,
• 3:25
  this
• 3:25
  is
• 3:26
  it,
• 3:26
  you
• 3:27
  guys.
• 3:27
  This
• 3:27
  is
• 3:27
  amazing.
• 3:28
  I
• 3:28
  am
• 3:28
  so
• 3:29
  thrilled
• 3:30
  and,
• 3:30
  like,
• 3:30
  exhilarated
• 3:31
  at
• 3:31
  everything
• 3:32
  that
• 3:32
  there
• 3:32
  is
• 3:32
  to
• 3:32
  come.
• 3:33
  There
• 3:33
  is
• 3:34
  no
• 3:34
  morning.
• 3:35
  I
• 3:35
  mean,
• 3:35
  I
• 3:35
  can.
• 3:35
  I
• 3:35
  can
• 3:36
  look
• 3:36
  at
• 3:36
  my.
• 3:36
  My
• 3:36
  youth
• 3:37
  in
• 3:37
  my
• 3:37
  earlier
• 3:37
  days,
• 3:38
  and
• 3:38
  I'm
• 3:38
  not
• 3:38
  gonna
• 3:39
  cry
• 3:39
  over.
• 3:39
  I
• 3:39
  can
• 3:39
  look
• 3:39
  at
• 3:40
  it
• 3:40
  fondly
• 3:40
  and
• 3:40
  be
• 3:40
  like,
• 3:40
  yeah,
• 3:41
  that
• 3:41
  was
• 3:41
  amazing.
• 3:41
  That
• 3:41
  was
• 3:42
  really,
• 3:42
  really
• 3:42
  cool.
• 3:43
  But,
• 3:43
  gosh,
• 3:43
  the
• 3:44
  life
• 3:44
  experience
• 3:45
  and
• 3:45
  the
• 3:45
  knowledge
• 3:46
  and
• 3:46
  perspective
• 3:46
  I
• 3:47
  have
• 3:47
  now,
• 3:47
  like,
• 3:48
  this
• 3:48
  is
• 3:48
  where
• 3:48
  it's
• 3:49
  at.
• 3:49
  This
• 3:49
  is
• 3:50
  a
• 3:50
  hundred
• 3:51
  percent
• 3:51
  where
• 3:51
  it's
• 3:52
  at.
• 3:52
  Like,
• 3:52
  this
• 3:53
  is.
• 3:53
  This
• 3:53
  is
• 3:53
  the
• 3:53
  era.
• 3:54
  This
• 3:54
  is
• 3:54
  the
• 3:55
  era
• 3:55
  we
• 3:55
  talked
• 3:55
  about,
• 3:56
  right.
• 3:56
  On
• 3:56
  your
• 3:57
  show.
• 3:57
  We
• 3:57
  talked
• 3:57
  about
• 3:57
  Taylor
• 3:58
  Swift's
• 3:58
  eras,
• 3:59
  and
• 3:59
  now
• 4:00
  we're
• 4:00
  in
• 4:00
  our
• 4:01
  era.
• 4:01
  This
• 4:01
  is
• 4:01
  our
• 4:02
  era.
• 4:02
  The
• 4:02
  midlife
• 4:03
  era.
• 4:03
  Yes.
• 4:04
  Midlife
• 4:04
  era
• 4:05
  is
• 4:05
  the
• 4:05
  best.
• 4:05
  Like,
• 4:05
  I
• 4:06
  am
• 4:06
  thrilled
• 4:06
  by
• 4:06
  it.
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  feel
• 4:07
  like
• 4:07
  this
• 4:08
  is
• 4:08
  the
• 4:08
  sweet
• 4:08
  spot.
• 4:09
  These
• 4:09
  are
• 4:09
  the
• 4:09
  good
• 4:10
  old
• 4:10
  days
• 4:10
  right
• 4:10
  now.
• 4:10
  I'm
• 4:11
  thrilled
• 4:11
  to
• 4:11
  be
• 4:11
  here.
• 4:12
  Yes.
• 4:12
  And
• 4:12
  we
• 4:12
  should
• 4:13
  take
• 4:13
  every
• 4:13
  moment,
• 4:13
  every
• 4:14
  day
• 4:14
  in
• 4:14
  the
• 4:15
  present
• 4:15
  as
• 4:15
  it
• 4:16
  happens,
• 4:16
  and
• 4:16
  really,
• 4:17
  really
• 4:17
  appreciate
• 4:18
  it,
• 4:18
  you
• 4:18
  know?
• 4:19
  Truly.
• 4:20
  Truly.
• 4:20
  Oh,
• 4:20
  my
• 4:20
  gosh,
• 4:21
  Chrissy,
• 4:21
  you
• 4:21
  are
• 4:21
  so
• 4:21
  amazing.
• 4:22
  Thank
• 4:22
  you
• 4:22
  for
• 4:22
  coming
• 4:23
  on
• 4:23
  the
• 4:23
  iconic
• 4:23
  Midlife.
• 4:24
  Oh,
• 4:25
  you
• 4:25
  are
• 4:25
  welcome
• 4:26
  anytime.
• 4:26
  It's
• 4:27
  been
• 4:27
  so
• 4:27
  fun.
• 4:28
  It's
• 4:28
  been
• 4:28
  a
• 4:28
  pleasure.
• 4:28
  I
• 4:29
  love
• 4:29
  that
• 4:29
  you
• 4:29
  had
• 4:29
  me
• 4:29
  on.
• 4:30
  Oh,
• 4:30
  absolutely.
• 4:31
  We
• 4:31
  had
• 4:31
  so
• 4:31
  much
• 4:31
  fun
• 4:32
  on
• 4:32
  your
• 4:32
  show
• 4:32
  as
• 4:32
  well.