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Living Mediumship: What If You Could Talk to Someone's Soul While They're Still Alive? · The Unity Code - Where Science Meets Energy, Consciousness, and Spirit.

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  SPEAKER_01: My client's jaw was on the floor.
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  SPEAKER_01: My jaw was on the floor.
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  SPEAKER_01: That this fucking handsome guy came through in this reading to be like, I'm your soulmate.
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  SPEAKER_01: Don't give up.
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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Unity Code, where we explore what becomes possible when we stop keeping spirituality on the sidelines and start using our connection to spirit to actually change lives.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm Nicole Pope, a medium teacher in former transformation corporate executive.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've spent more than 20 years obsessed with data, patterns, systems, and one question.
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  SPEAKER_01: What actually creates change?
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  SPEAKER_01: These days I'm asking that same question about energy, consciousness, the soul, and our connection to spirit.
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  SPEAKER_01: And no, we're not keeping this theoretical.
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  SPEAKER_01: On the podcast, we're going to teach it, test it, demonstrate it, play with it, and bring real people into the conversation.
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  SPEAKER_01: We'll explore mediumship, energetics, intuition, ancestral patterns, human potential, and some things I'm not even sure we have language for yet.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because the goal is bigger than becoming more spiritual.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's about discovering what you're capable of, using it to transform yourself, expand your life, and step into possibilities you couldn't access before.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is the Unity Code, where spirit meets experimentation, transformation, and a community curious enough to find out what else is possible.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm so glad you're here.
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  SPEAKER_01: Welcome back to the Unity Code Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: I am so excited today to talk about a topic that is extremely taboo in the mediumship world.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is something that most mediums deny is even possible.
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  SPEAKER_01: And yet, my team has shown me time and time again, not only is this work possible, but it's also incredibly powerful for my clients, for myself.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this modality of mediumship has really changed the way that I look at and perceive reality here on planet Earth.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what I'm talking about in this episode is the idea that we can talk to souls that are living through mediumship.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is such a surprise because most people think that mediumship is exclusively communicating to departed loved ones, those beautiful, wonderful people who we knew here in the physical experience, but have now since crossed over into the spirit world.
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  SPEAKER_01: And we use a medium as a conduit to continue that communication.
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  SPEAKER_01: But we don't need to do this with just departed loved ones.
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  SPEAKER_01: We can absolutely do this with living, breathing people as well.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm so excited to talk about this idea of living mediumship with you today, talk about the experiences that I'd have had with clients and living mediumship, and also how I personally use living mediumship every single day in my life to help guide me as a mom, as a spouse, as a person to be more present and conscious in the way that I live my life.
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  SPEAKER_01: So if this feels a little bit big, it's pretty fucking huge.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's so fucking huge.
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  SPEAKER_01: I am obsessed with this idea of living mediumship.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I'm honestly a little sad that more of my clients, more of the people that are out there in this mediumship space, they don't talk about it.
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  SPEAKER_01: They don't know about it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is so different than Akashic Records.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I'm gonna just go for here for a second for those of you that know and understand Akashic Records, because Akashic Records is essentially the story of your soul, past, present, and future.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so you can absolutely open up the Akashic Records for you, for your loved ones, and understand what the soul contracts are, what the journey is, what the agreements in place are.
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  SPEAKER_01: But I'll tell you what, it makes all the difference to actually talk to the soul that created that contract with you instead.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is a much more personal, much more understanding, much more loving experience.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so for that reason, living mediumship is my number one way to gather information and understanding with some of these souls that are present in your everyday experience.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so let's break down what living mediumship is, because it connects with the soul or the higher consciousness of somebody who is still, again, very physically alive.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so this is a communication of somebody at their higher level of consciousness.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you don't necessarily need permission if they are engaging with you in the conversation.
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  SPEAKER_01: That is the permission because soul, the their soul has the conscious choice to engage in that communication with you or not.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it is certainly not psychic reading because we are actually having a communication with this soul that is in the spirit world.
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  SPEAKER_01: We are absolutely continuing the conversation with these souls, knowing that they are still currently incarnated here on planet Earth.
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  SPEAKER_01: And because we are connecting with the soul of somebody, their physical being does not necessarily need to be present or even consciously aware of the connection.
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  SPEAKER_01: And before I go too much further, it would probably be wise for me to talk about why we can communicate with a soul while the incarnation is out here shopping for groceries, going to McDonald's, paying the bills, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because the soul, essentially, the wholeness of who we are as beings in the spirit world is our soul.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so our soul is made up of many different incarnations.
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  SPEAKER_01: And honestly, a lot of those can happen simultaneously.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so when our soul decides that for you in this lifetime, it is time for you to come here to planet Earth.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is time for you to go and learn the lessons, it is time for us to create this plan and all of the soul contracts that come with you incarnating here on planet Earth.
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  SPEAKER_01: The soul essentially takes a piece of it and gifts it to the version of you that is here in the physical world.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so if we are looking at, for example, a pie chart, if our soul makes up 100% of the essence of our being, we might send a third of the soul with you into this 3D experience to live and learn the lessons that you have planned.
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  SPEAKER_01: Likewise, you can also have another third living in a different lifetime, living in another reincarnated experience that you don't know about or feel about while you're living this incarnation.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so we are pieces and fragments of a soul that exists in the spirit world.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so for that reason, both you and this incarnated body and your soul, the essence of your being, can both be connected to consciousness at the same exact time from two completely different angles.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, the difference, again, your incarnation, you come here, you get amnesia, your memory is scrubbed, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: We are here with a specific plan within born in a specific location, within a specific family, and you have a plan that your soul has established for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Most people, and obviously, present company included or excluded, because all of you that are listening to this podcast, you are very well aware now that you have a soul and that you can exist in multiple places at once, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: But most people have no idea about that.
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  SPEAKER_01: Most people have no idea that you are literally like Hamlet on a stage playing a persona.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when you go back into the spirit world and absorb yourself back into the soul, you are a completely different, usually, being with so much more vast information, perspective, knowledge, wisdom, probably patience, maybe love, maybe not.
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  SPEAKER_01: Vastly, I don't know, vastly more expansive in your experience and embodiment than you are even capable of in this 3D experience, because we are just not built for that here.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so we can actually, for every single person on this planet, and that includes also pets, also trees, also anything that has some level of consciousness, you can connect into the soul of these people, places, things on planet Earth, and get that beautiful higher perspective about this lifetime, about why the incarnation, et cetera.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so what you will find when we connect through living mediumship and we're actually communicating with the soul instead of the incarnation here on planet Earth is that when someone's soul communicates through a reading, it is often from that beautiful higher perspective, that very loving and very patient perspective that can give a little more understanding or information about their human, why they are the way they are, what they need to fulfill, maybe the life contracts that you are currently working through.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so what we can do with Living Mediumship is connect with that soul and get that bigger picture experience with many of these people that you are currently living with.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this first came through for me in, and I think most mediums experience this too.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I don't think this is necessarily exclusive to me, but what I found several times in readings is that I would be bringing through what I assumed was a departed parent, a departed grandparent that was more elderly and walking through these physical ailments in what is wrong with them, and then their personality.
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  SPEAKER_01: And what would happen is they would say, Well, you're really describing my dad, but my dad is still very much alive, and but he has dementia or he has Alzheimer's, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: And so a lot of living mediumship that mediums might experience actually come from souls or incarnations that are kind of between worlds, is the best way to explain it.
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  SPEAKER_01: They are here having this very 3D experience, but also they're not coherently all the time here, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: They might be in and out of consciousness, they might be in a comb, they might have dementia, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Where they don't really know where they are.
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  SPEAKER_01: They might have Alzheimer's again, who were they forget where they are.
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  SPEAKER_01: And a lot of times when you'll have these cognitive declines, that is a beautiful indicator that they most likely walk a little bit between worlds.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so then they might be half here, they might be half in the spirit world.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so those souls can absolutely come through in readings for my clients, letting them know I'm okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're doing such a good job.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're doing everything that you can to take care of me.
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  SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so it gives a lot of my clients relief for like removal of the guilt that they might carry, the burdens that they might carry.
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe not going to see their elderly relatives as much, maybe not being able to take care of them as much as they want, maybe not feeling bad because they've put them in a home or a caretaking facility because they don't have the means or the time or the energy to take care of them maybe the way that they want.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so they're trying to put these souls, these individuals, into facilities so that they can be treated the best way that they can.
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  SPEAKER_01: But obviously, that can come with a lot of guilt here in this 3D world.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so a lot of these souls will come through to say, you're doing so great.
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  SPEAKER_01: Don't worry about me.
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  SPEAKER_01: Go live your life.
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  SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much for taking care of me.
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  SPEAKER_01: I see the way that you, you know, how much time and effort you're putting be into caring for me, even though you can't physically be there, because I see the bills that you're paying.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm seeing the phone calls that you're making, I'm seeing the buses that you are scheduling to get transport to doctor's appointments.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so what we see with living media, especially as we're talking about these patients that are more elderly in between worlds, is that we're giving their loved ones, my clients, a sense of peace, a sense of relief, a sense of joy, a sense of you're doing everything that you can.
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  SPEAKER_01: Stop trying to bend over backwards for me, because I know that there's not much left here for me.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I would rather you be happy than feel like that I'm a burden.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so you can start to see how living mediumship is so valuable for caregivers here on planet Earth to know that they're doing everything that they possibly can do, and that the soul is so appreciative of all the work that they're doing.
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  SPEAKER_01: And likewise, I have also had clients where they're, in this case, it was a mother, where their mother was having a very difficult time.
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  SPEAKER_01: And she wasn't necessarily mostly in the spirit, she was a little bit between worlds, but she was probably like 10% in the spirit world, 90% in on planet Earth.
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  SPEAKER_01: And in even in this instance, they knew that they needed to move their mother to a home because they knew that long term they wouldn't be able to take care of her the way that they wanted to.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so even though this mom, with 10% of the time that she spent in the spirit world, she made sure in the reading to come through for her daughter and say, You need to move me.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: I realize that I'm gonna be a pain in the ass about this and I'm gonna fight it to the death, and I'm gonna say horrible things to you, but please do it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Please know that that's the right decision.
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  SPEAKER_01: Please know that my human will try to guilt you.
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  SPEAKER_01: But you know now at the soul level, this is absolutely the path that you need to do.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because again, I don't want to be a burden on you.
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  SPEAKER_01: You have some magical things coming down the pipeline in your life that I don't want you to miss because you're taking care of me.
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  SPEAKER_01: Go live your life.
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  SPEAKER_01: And do you all feel the expansiveness after you receive a message like that?
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  SPEAKER_01: Like, do you all feel that energy buzz that's going on right now?
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  SPEAKER_01: That feeling of healing?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because that's really what this living mediumship is, especially in the case of the reading that I just gave you, is it's this expansive healing opportunity again to get new information, new perspective, new guidance, new direction that allows you or my clients a new lease on some of the difficult circumstances that they're going through.
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  SPEAKER_01: It allows us to what's the right word I want to use?
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  SPEAKER_01: Again, be patient and understanding with some of the most difficult circumstances that we tend to go through as human beings.
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  SPEAKER_01: Gives us a new perspective to appreciate that at a soul level they see how difficult this is.
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  SPEAKER_01: And can we just even for a second here talk about this mother that knew at a soul level that her human was going to be a pain in the ass?
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  SPEAKER_01: Right.
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  SPEAKER_01: This woman that was like, oh my God, I'm so sorry for about what is about to go down, but this is how it needs to go down.
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  SPEAKER_01: And please know that this is representative of the lessons that I have failed to learn in this lifetime.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it doesn't mean that I'm less of a person.
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  SPEAKER_01: It just means that the things that I do to you are from my own wounds and it's not about you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Please know that everything that I put out to you that is of lower vibration, that is negative, that is hurtful, that is spiteful, please know that that does not come from the soul.
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  SPEAKER_01: The soul unconditionally loves who you are.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so do what you need to do.
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  SPEAKER_01: But please know that that behavior is not about me.
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  SPEAKER_01: And this is kind of crossing into a little bit more of some of the other types of readings I've had with Living Mediumship with abusive parents, abusive spouses, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Neglectful family relationships, where they can absolutely come through, even though in this physical experience, it has not been good.
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  SPEAKER_01: It has been toxic, it has been painful, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: It has been creating your own trauma in your own body as a result of their shitty ass behaviors.
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  SPEAKER_01: But when you start to introduce living mediumship and we can talk to the people who are toxic for you at a soul level, a lot of times what we'll hear are the apologies that they could never fucking give here in this physical experience.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is the soul saying, I am so sorry.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is the soul saying, I I should never have done that for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: You didn't deserve it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is the soul saying you are a wonderful person.
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  SPEAKER_00: And my human can't see that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But that's not your fault.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so you can really take a look at this idea of living mediumship to understand the crazy, toxic, wild dynamics between you and other people in your life to give you again a new perspective that gives you some space for healing and grace and understanding, and also some permission for you to back the fuck off, for you to cut people off if you need to, for you to create space for your own sanity.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think this is something that we don't talk about.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't think we leverage it as much as we should because the amount of healing that comes from an abusive parent and their soul coming through to say, I'm sorry, leave me, it can change your fucking life.
• 21:02
  SPEAKER_01: Like it can change your life, it can change people's lives.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because then they start to realize that, oh, it's not my job to fix you.
• 21:12
  SPEAKER_01: It was never my job to be subservient to you.
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  SPEAKER_01: It was never my job to sacrifice myself because you never grew up emotionally, mentally.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it really gives permission for people to live the way that they want to live and hold boundaries that they in the way that they need to hold boundaries with maybe some people in their lives, knowing that their soul is supportive of this, even though they're human, would very much take a very different experience and opinion on the matter.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so I've talked around and around and around about these experiences where the human of these relationships can be a very tumultuous experience.
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  SPEAKER_01: And yet the soul can come in to give a completely different, unconditionally loving, unconditionally graceful, different perspective that allows you to free yourself of the chains and expectations that maybe have been placed on you through that relationship here in the physical world.
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  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm just going to leave all of those beautiful examples with you to show you the ways that this work can be so healing for some of those difficult relationships here in the physical experience.
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  SPEAKER_01: And now as I shift gears into this next bucket of living mediumship, this is where I kind of start to go like, holy shit.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is these are the reasons.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I mean, the ones we just talked about mind-blowingly change, like mind-blowing, so healing, so amazing, so unexpected, so not what I ever expected I would be doing when I told when I signed up for this mediumship gig, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Like never ever in my life thought that that would come through as a method of healing and connection for for my clients.
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  SPEAKER_01: But when I say like that was cool shit, but this next one is even more mind-blowing, like this is what I'm talking about with this work because I have now had two readings, two readings so far, where somebody's soulmate has come in.
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  SPEAKER_01: Two readings.
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  SPEAKER_01: So much that it's now become a pattern, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: And so there have so in the first reading, this is so like this blows my fucking mind.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Cause this woman is talking about how there is, she's wondering when she's gonna find her soulmate.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_01: And in comes and if at the very beginning of the reading, there this young, handsome gentleman came through.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I was like, who is this guy?
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  SPEAKER_01: So when when a reading starts and it's mediumship, we'll go through like who were the people that are here for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: She couldn't play place this very attractive young man.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, he's definitely of your generation, does not feel related to you, but there is a huge closest between the two of you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Would you, would you understand who this gentleman is?
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_01: And she's like, no.
• 24:31
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, okay, I'm gonna go a little bit through personality, still couldn't take him.
• 24:36
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, you know what?
• 24:36
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just gonna leave him here to the side.
• 24:39
  SPEAKER_01: We'll figure out where this fits later on because he is crystal clear.
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_01: He is not going anywhere.
• 24:43
  SPEAKER_01: He's definitely here to talk to you today.
• 24:44
  SPEAKER_01: So if we can't place him, I'm just gonna put him on the side and hopefully we will be able to figure it out as we go through this reading and allow you to know who this gentleman is.
• 24:53
  SPEAKER_01: So we go through the whole reading, talking to all of her departed loved ones.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_01: And then we get to the end, still haven't placed this gentleman.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, it's fine.
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  SPEAKER_01: If we haven't placed him, I'll just leave him to the side.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_01: And then she starts asking when she's gonna meet her soulmate.
• 25:06
  SPEAKER_01: And this fucking gentleman steps forward.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, okay, so let me just just you didn't know who this man was.
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_01: Is that right?
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_01: And she's like, nope, I had no, I don't know who that is.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, let me just describe him again for you.
• 25:21
  SPEAKER_01: So I go through and I give his physical description, I give his personality description, I talk about his family, I give a lot of clarifying information.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_01: Again, quite ironically, because I know you mediums are wondering, he doesn't tell me how he died.
• 25:36
  SPEAKER_01: We don't go into that topic, obviously, because he hasn't died.
• 25:40
  SPEAKER_01: Because who this gentleman is, she ends up piping up and saying, This sounds really like the guy that I'm currently dating.
• 25:49
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, oh, okay, well, let me see if I can get a little bit more evidence to validate that this is in fact like your Romeo here in the 3D experience.
• 26:03
  SPEAKER_01: And lo and behold, Romeo fucking drops the bomb because he talks about how they don't live near each other.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_01: He brought, he brought in enough evidence for us to be like, holy shit, it's him.
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_01: And I have to like time out, pause my client because I'm like, this does not happen.
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_01: This is the only time I've ever seen a soulmate come through in a mediumship reading.
• 26:29
  SPEAKER_01: Never mind people between worlds, never mind, you know, people that you have again, tumultuous issues with that you need perspective and healing from.
• 26:37
  SPEAKER_01: No, no, this soulmate came through because he's like, I need to give you advice on how we can how we can get together.
• 26:45
  SPEAKER_01: Like, that's why this guy came through.
• 26:49
  SPEAKER_01: Because the message that the soulmate gave, and I think like I would love it if uh I think a lot of you are gonna resonate with what I'm about to say.
• 26:59
  SPEAKER_01: I think it would be so great if our soulmate relationships were easy and we started dating them and everything was hunky-dory, and we didn't have the issues from the past relationships or the trauma from other significant others that we've had.
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  SPEAKER_01: But the reality is that we're all human, right?
• 27:16
  SPEAKER_01: And we all have not so great experiences with significant others that allow us to put a little bit more protection around ourselves, allow us to maybe have higher standards, like kudos, fuck yes, all of that jazz, right?
• 27:30
  SPEAKER_01: But the problem was that her walls were so thick because of other relationships that she had that she was on the path of not giving her soulmate a chance because there were so many things stacked against them because they didn't live near each other.
• 27:50
  SPEAKER_01: Because I think he had, I think he had kids.
• 27:53
  SPEAKER_01: I can't remember.
• 27:54
  SPEAKER_01: I think she had kids, but like I don't know what the relationship was.
• 27:57
  SPEAKER_01: There was something about the kids.
• 27:59
  SPEAKER_01: And then there was also he brought in a level of like emotional immaturity in the relationship.
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  SPEAKER_01: And she's just like, I don't know.
• 28:09
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know if I want to be his mother.
• 28:11
  SPEAKER_01: Like that was literally what she was just saying in the reading.
• 28:14
  SPEAKER_01: But then him as a soulmate coming through and saying, I need you to help me make sure we land this plane.
• 28:23
  SPEAKER_01: I need you to realize that the goofiness is not immaturity, that's fun, and you're just not used to having fun.
• 28:30
  SPEAKER_01: I need you to understand that I am very serious about my business.
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_01: And if you look around, he was a business owner.
• 28:35
  SPEAKER_01: If you looked around about his business owner, his business, he owned his own business.
• 28:40
  SPEAKER_01: He was smart, he was dedicated.
• 28:42
  SPEAKER_01: I could see how much he loved his family.
• 28:45
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, you're looking at the red flags, not the green flags.
• 28:48
  SPEAKER_01: Pay attention to the green flags.
• 28:50
  SPEAKER_01: The red flags that you think are run are just you having discomfort with some of these things because of prior relationships that you had, but it's not going to turn out the same way.
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_01: And so the soulmate came in to essentially say, take the leap.
• 29:10
  SPEAKER_00: It's me that you're looking for.
• 29:28
  SPEAKER_01: That this fucking handsome guy came through in this reading to be like, I'm your soulmate, don't give up.
• 29:38
  SPEAKER_01: And that if she were able to loosen up a little bit more in the relationship and trust a little bit more and be a little bit more familiar, because again, she was very guarded.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_01: She was very protective because of previous relationships that she's had, he was very similar.
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_01: So if she could open up and bring her walls down, that would cause him to open up and let his walls down.
• 30:04
  SPEAKER_01: And that was the path of the union of getting them together and staying together.
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_01: And even then, this amazing man, the soulmate, was like, here is what the path looks like.
• 30:18
  SPEAKER_01: One of them, I can't remember which one was they the one of them will move to the other per person's location.
• 30:23
  SPEAKER_01: Like they will move, they will mesh families.
• 30:29
  SPEAKER_01: And so he literally laid out the red carpet for my client and saying, You wanted to know when your soulmate is coming, he's here.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_01: Now give him a chance.
• 30:43
  SPEAKER_01: And a very similar thing happened in another reading where their soulmate came through as well.
• 30:54
  SPEAKER_01: Little bit of a different story.
• 30:55
  SPEAKER_01: That one's a little bit more fuzzy in my brain, so I'm gonna skip over that story.
• 31:00
  SPEAKER_01: Oh man, but it's happened two times.
• 31:05
  SPEAKER_01: Two like two official times where the soulmate has come through in these mediumship readings.
• 31:15
  SPEAKER_01: I'm hesitating here for a second just because like I had another reading last week where this woman asked if she was gonna meet her soulmate when she moved.
• 31:24
  SPEAKER_01: She was moving and she was like, Am I gonna meet him?
• 31:26
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, Oh, but it doesn't matter.
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't matter.
• 31:30
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, you might meet yeah, I feel like you're gonna meet with somebody and then you're gonna be with them for a while, but it wasn't, it wasn't living mediumship, which I think is why I'm pausing here for a second.
• 31:38
  SPEAKER_01: Because it does come through.
• 31:40
  SPEAKER_01: It absolutely does come through when it needs to come through.
• 31:45
  SPEAKER_01: I'm seeing, I'm just pausing to see if there's anything else here that Spirit wants me to share about living mediumship experiences with clients.
• 31:56
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, nope.
• 31:58
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 31:59
  SPEAKER_01: And so what I'm describing here with living mediumship has happened like more often than I would ever expect it to happen in my client sessions.
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_01: But obviously, we're talking about three very different types of relationships or types of ways these souls come through because a lot of people will come through again as a lot of living mediumship will happen as we are getting closer to the end of life and/or caregiving circumstances, which by the way is going to be so prevalent coming up in the near future as a lot of the boomers move into caregiving ages.
• 32:36
  SPEAKER_01: And I know some of you are probably already in the thick of that.
• 32:39
  SPEAKER_01: So please know that living mediumship can absolutely help you understand how to deal with family.
• 32:46
  SPEAKER_01: Caregiving circumstances can help you make decisions on it, can check in with their soul to ask the soul what is the what is the decision that they want them to make, because maybe here in the physical world, they can't make that decision for themselves, right?
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_01: And it can also help you try to make sense of these intimate relationships, these soulmates that you might have as well.
• 33:10
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 33:12
  SPEAKER_01: And in addition, it can help you understand maybe more difficult circumstances with people who are not between so between worlds, who are not your soulmates, but maybe they are other people in your reality, parents, friends, et cetera, that are more toxic and helping you understand how to navigate the relationship.
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_01: Or how do you get the healing words while they're still living that you know their living being will never ever deliver to you, will never ever say to you.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_01: And so this beautiful idea of living mediumship, it is not necessarily about expanding, you know, who we're communicating with in the spirit world, but it's also allowing us some immediate assistance with how we are living our 3D everyday experience and how we can be of better service to the people around us, to our significant others that are maybe finding their ways to us, and how like you can live a more joyous and aligned life, not being impacted necessarily by other people who might be creating some difficult circumstances around you.
• 34:23
  SPEAKER_01: Now, I want to switch gears just for a moment here because I actually use living mediumship on a very frequent basis in my own life because I've seen the value that it has in these readings.
• 34:35
  SPEAKER_01: And so what I have begun doing is actually communicating with my family's higher selves and souls.
• 34:42
  SPEAKER_01: And so what this looks like is talking with my husband's soul, talking with my kids' souls, right?
• 34:50
  SPEAKER_01: Talking with my, well, I just talked to my dog.
• 34:52
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like he's kind of the same.
• 34:54
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like pets are so close to a soul state anyway.
• 34:57
  SPEAKER_01: They are so pure love and light.
• 34:58
  SPEAKER_01: They really don't have a lot of craziness that is kind of taught to them, or at least my dog doesn't, besides hating the Amazon guy.
• 35:05
  SPEAKER_01: And so I will actually use these souls to communicate and understand how I can be of better service to them.
• 35:14
  SPEAKER_01: So when my 13-year-old son is crashing out on his advanced math homework and he can't keep himself together, I will ask his soul, What how am I supposed to handle this?
• 35:28
  SPEAKER_01: What is what can I do that gives you the best outcome long term?
• 35:32
  SPEAKER_01: Can you tell me any advice that you have for me in this current moment?
• 35:38
  SPEAKER_01: And also at the same time, can you give me a little bit of love because your 13-year-old self is driving me fucking crazy right now?
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_01: Can you remind me why you chose me as a mother?
• 35:52
  SPEAKER_01: Can you give me the perspective that I need to be able to help you become the man that you are meant to be?
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_01: And it's very similar with my daughter as well, because my daughter is a very free spirit.
• 36:08
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, she openly calls herself a witch.
• 36:10
  SPEAKER_01: I fucking love it.
• 36:12
  SPEAKER_01: She has, she's very mature for her age, she's very perceptive.
• 36:16
  SPEAKER_01: She's kind of like a mini-me in that way, where she is, she's she's gonna have trouble maintaining friends because she can see through the facade quite easily, just like I could.
• 36:27
  SPEAKER_01: And so I have to like remind her of the big picture all the time.
• 36:31
  SPEAKER_01: So and she's God, little sidebar here.
• 36:36
  SPEAKER_01: She shops at Hot Topic now.
• 36:37
  SPEAKER_01: She's full on goth at 10 years old.
• 36:41
  SPEAKER_01: Full on goth, black lipstick and everything, while all the other girls at school are still wearing pink and like still beautiful, innocent, cute little souls.
• 36:50
  SPEAKER_01: My daughter is like 10 going on 17.
• 36:52
  SPEAKER_01: And so when we go shopping at Hot Topic, I have to remind her, I'm like, they don't even make clothes in your sizes right now, my dear.
• 36:59
  SPEAKER_01: They don't, because they only do adult sizes.
• 37:02
  SPEAKER_01: And so, like, she's like a kid's large.
• 37:04
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, you were shopping in a store for adults.
• 37:07
  SPEAKER_01: If you look around the store, I'm like, how old do you think these kids are that are shopping in the store with you at 10 years old?
• 37:13
  SPEAKER_01: And she's like, probably 15 or 16.
• 37:15
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, yep, that's your mental, like your mental state is five to six years older than your age.
• 37:20
  SPEAKER_01: And so I have to remind her, you are going to have a little bit of trouble, or you may have a little bit of trouble with the girls in your reality because they are just not there yet.
• 37:32
  SPEAKER_01: They haven't matured as fast as you have.
• 37:35
  SPEAKER_01: And God help her with the boys, right?
• 37:37
  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm constantly kind of probing her soul and being like, is this okay?
• 37:44
  SPEAKER_01: Should I try to push you more into having more of a child's life?
• 37:49
  SPEAKER_01: Are you going to miss out on your youth?
• 37:51
  SPEAKER_01: And like her soul's coming through right now to be like, nope, you're you're doing great.
• 37:55
  SPEAKER_01: Because I'm meant to open her up and allow her to experience life in a very different way.
• 38:01
  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm always double checking her soul to say, is there anything else I'm supposed to be doing?
• 38:08
  SPEAKER_01: Is there any way other way I can guide you?
• 38:10
  SPEAKER_01: Like, even to the point of like, am I supposed to fuck something up and piss her off so she goes on the path that she's meant to?
• 38:16
  SPEAKER_01: Like, I'm okay with that answer too.
• 38:18
  SPEAKER_01: It's not about me always doing the right thing.
• 38:20
  SPEAKER_01: It's just like, tell me the step that you need me to do.
• 38:23
  SPEAKER_01: And so this will make it easier for her in the future to learn her lessons, to go down the path that she's meant to go down.
• 38:31
  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm pretty much in constant contact with my kids' souls.
• 38:36
  SPEAKER_01: Now, my husband, love him dearly.
• 38:42
  SPEAKER_01: He is very famous for saying things like, I don't understand what you do, but statistically speaking, you can't be wrong at this point.
• 38:53
  SPEAKER_01: So that's that's the perspective of my husband for this work, in case anyone is wondering.
• 38:57
  SPEAKER_01: Doesn't necessarily believe all of it, but trusts and supports me, which is amazing.
• 39:03
  SPEAKER_01: I will absolutely take that.
• 39:04
  SPEAKER_01: And so it's the same thing with him.
• 39:06
  SPEAKER_01: I'm constantly kind of checking in with his soul and being like, what can I do to support you better?
• 39:10
  SPEAKER_01: How can I help you?
• 39:12
  SPEAKER_01: And so much so that it's led me to invest in things like land, like buying land for him to go and, you know, do the things that he loves to do on land, right?
• 39:25
  SPEAKER_01: And having him buy a four-wheeler.
• 39:27
  SPEAKER_01: So, like letting kind of leaning him towards having a childhood again as an adult and leaning him to more towards doing the fun things on the nights and the weekends that maybe he wouldn't choose for himself.
• 39:40
  SPEAKER_01: And so these are different ways that I connect with his soul and make sure that he is best set up for himself as well to kind of look back and enjoy a fabulous life.
• 39:53
  SPEAKER_01: And now, as I'm stating this out loud, what is becoming very abundantly clear to me is that I don't necessarily talk to my soul that much.
• 40:02
  SPEAKER_01: And I am kind of scratching my head right now, wondering why I don't do that.
• 40:08
  SPEAKER_01: And I do a little bit, and there's different parts of my incarnation that I'll tap into at different times, and I'll certainly tap into different incarnations when it kind of pops up and I'm aware that there's something for me across my the different lifetimes that I've lived, but I don't really tap into my soul too much.
• 40:25
  SPEAKER_01: And so I think this is something that I'm gonna have to visit myself and see if there's a different or better way that I can also tap into my soul, not just my team, right?
• 40:36
  SPEAKER_01: Not just my spirit guides, but also my soul to allow myself that same perspective that I'm constantly giving other people.
• 40:47
  SPEAKER_01: But the bottom line is that being able, and I do this with many different family members.
• 40:54
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just keeping immediate family here for this conversation, but this allows me such a different perspective to see the relationship that I have with these people more at a soul level, more at that higher level, not taking the little things personally, not getting upset at the little things that drive me crazy and really taking that elevated perspective to say, how can I help them become the people that can handle the life that is coming towards them?
• 41:28
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
• 41:29
  SPEAKER_01: How can I be almost like that guide?
• 41:31
  SPEAKER_01: Although I feel like mom should be short for guide, that guide here in this physical experience, pointing them towards the reality of the path that their soul has chosen for them.
• 41:47
  SPEAKER_01: Which has given me so much more peace at am I doing a good job?
• 41:57
  SPEAKER_01: Because in in tapping into their soul, I can understand where there's opportunities for me to improve and or opportunities for me to be worse, because that's part of the pan plan too, and that's fine.
• 42:11
  SPEAKER_01: So that they can be exactly who they're meant to be.
• 42:16
  SPEAKER_01: And that honest to God alleviates my like nervous system dysregulation in terms of being a mom so much.
• 42:26
  SPEAKER_01: Like so much, because I'm not judging myself the way that I used to.
• 42:34
  SPEAKER_01: Again, I'm much more present, much more loving, much more patient, much more kind, knowing that in this moment, this frustration is not a big deal.
• 42:50
  SPEAKER_01: And instead, I'm paying attention to the bigger themes and stories that are guiding me and my kids towards the path of destiny that our souls chose for us.
• 43:06
  SPEAKER_01: And so through all these examples, hopefully you're uncovering a little bit more again about how valuable this idea of living mediumship is.
• 43:19
  SPEAKER_01: And so, I mean, I guess I'm gonna ask you and invite you to think about a relationship where you feel like you are missing part of the picture.
• 43:31
  SPEAKER_01: Because I gave all of these examples, but there's so many different other ways that we can use living mediumship to again give you information perspective that may allow you to live your life a little bit differently.
• 43:44
  SPEAKER_01: Because I know we've talked about loved ones and spouses and soulmates and kids, right?
• 43:50
  SPEAKER_01: But you can also do living mediumship with special needs kids or adults, right?
• 43:57
  SPEAKER_01: You can do this with nonverbal.
• 43:59
  SPEAKER_01: You can do this with With anybody who's having a major health diagnosis?
• 44:03
  SPEAKER_01: How can I support them through this journey?
• 44:07
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
• 44:08
  SPEAKER_01: You can do this with anyone where, again, you feel like you're missing part of the picture, or you feel like there is something else that you are meant to know right now about this person, about this relationship, where you can seek additional understanding that allows you a little more guidance and perspective and how to help them and maybe how to help you.
• 44:34
  SPEAKER_01: Because again, like I think we're so accustomed to thinking about mediumship as a communication with the dead that we really overlook such an interesting possibility.
• 44:44
  SPEAKER_01: And that's what about the people that are still here?
• 44:46
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 44:46
  SPEAKER_01: What else can we understand about them?
• 44:51
  SPEAKER_01: And honestly, if you're curious enough to experiment with me, this might be one of those pop-up classes or pop-up sessions that I do in the Unity Code lab.
• 45:07
  SPEAKER_01: So if you are interested in learning a little bit more, asking some questions, maybe even allowing me to do a little reading or two on some of you.
• 45:16
  SPEAKER_01: If you are interested in learning a little bit more about living mediumship, I would love to have you over there in the lab.
• 45:23
  SPEAKER_01: I'll probably schedule it for later this month.
• 45:26
  SPEAKER_01: And for those of you that are mediums that want to learn how to do living mediumship, reach out.
• 45:31
  SPEAKER_01: Let's chat.
• 45:33
  SPEAKER_01: We can definitely, definitely create a class or teach you how to do that.
• 45:39
  SPEAKER_01: But how did this episode land for you?
• 45:41
  SPEAKER_01: Do you have more questions?
• 45:42
  SPEAKER_01: Are you flabbergasted about the way that Spirit just continues to expand the boundaries of what's possible?
• 45:51
  SPEAKER_01: I'd love to know your thoughts.
• 45:52
  SPEAKER_01: Hit me up on the lab, hit me on up on socials, DMs.
• 45:55
  SPEAKER_01: I'm here for all of this.
• 45:57
  SPEAKER_01: And until next time, thank you so much for being here on the Unity Code.
• 46:02
  SPEAKER_01: I'll see you later.
• 46:10
  SPEAKER_01: This is the Unity Code.
• 46:13
  SPEAKER_01: If something today made you think differently, sparked a question, or made you wonder what else you're capable of, come join us inside the Unity Code community.
• 46:22
  SPEAKER_01: That's where experiments are going to continue, conversations are going to get weirder, and you may even end up being part of the show.
• 46:30
  SPEAKER_01: And if you're ready to take what we're exploring here and use it to create real change in your own life, you can always work with me directly by booking a session or attending a class right on my website at mediumnicole.com.
• 46:43
  SPEAKER_01: Because knowing what's possible is only the beginning.
• 46:46
  SPEAKER_01: The real magic is what you choose to do with it.
• 46:50
  SPEAKER_01: I'll see you next time on the Unity Code.