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Live Your Diamond Life: Authentic Q&A for Women — Chapter 1: Start Here · Rock My Finances

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Speaker 2: It's not about the zeros, So what is it all about?
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Speaker 3: Let's find out now Here's your host and weekly friend,
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Speaker 3: Jennifer Jose.
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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another amazing episode of Diamond Life. Diamond Life.
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Speaker 1: This is going to be so exciting because this is
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Speaker 1: what I'm starting. You're on the number one episode of
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Speaker 1: chapter one, Diamond Life. Living your Diamond Life, Authentic Q
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Speaker 1: and A or Women. We're starting here today with chapter one.
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Speaker 1: I'll start here, so live your Diamond Life. What does
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Speaker 1: that mean? So if you haven't heard all of my
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Speaker 1: podcasts before, you probably don't know my story. But I
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Speaker 1: was raised in an alcoholic home, and bless my dad
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Speaker 1: passed at ninety four, and I became that amazing codependent
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Speaker 1: to be able to figure out everything that was happening.
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Speaker 1: What door was I going to walk into today after school?
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Speaker 1: What was I going to wake up to? What was
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Speaker 1: I going to hear in the middle of the night?
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Speaker 1: All of that great stuff. And I, in tune, married
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Speaker 1: an alcoholic at the age of nineteen and had my
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Speaker 1: first child, Nicholas, at the age of twenty one, and
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Speaker 1: my daughter Shri at the age of twenty three, and
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Speaker 1: that obviously was a very rocky marriage, and at the
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Speaker 1: age of twenty nine, I decided I needed to be
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Speaker 1: out of this marriage. My children were both born in April,
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Speaker 1: so their burstones were diamond, So there's one little hint
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Speaker 1: and I asked for a divorce.
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Speaker 2: It did not go well at all.
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Speaker 1: After an eleven hour hostage situation stand off, unfortunately, he
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Speaker 1: took his life and my children's lives. So I lost
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Speaker 1: my eight year old son, Nicholas and my five year
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Speaker 1: old daughter Shari. They're here with us today. They're definitely
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Speaker 1: my angels and they I talked to him every day.
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Speaker 1: I was dating someone at the time ended up marrying him.
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Speaker 1: He saved my life for sure, and I had my
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Speaker 1: two beautiful children that I have now and they are
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Speaker 1: now going to be twenty nine and thirty. So I'm
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Speaker 1: definitely a mom. And when I decided how am I
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Speaker 1: going to give back? Why am I here? How did
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Speaker 1: I serve all of those survivor guilts and all of
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Speaker 1: that great stuff, And then being a mom, I didn't
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Speaker 1: protect my children. That was huge, as you can imagine.
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Speaker 1: And I became a financial advisor because it just I
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Speaker 1: just kind of fell into it. But I wanted to
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Speaker 1: honor my children, and so I named my company Diamond
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Speaker 1: Life Planning. And then when I realized that we have
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Speaker 1: emotions around money and it's not just about the zeros,
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Speaker 1: I became a certified money coach and started diamond life strategies.
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Speaker 1: And so I wanted to make sure that my children,
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Speaker 1: Nick and Shuri were honored in all of this because
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be here today and I wouldn't be who
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Speaker 1: I am here today if I did not live through that.
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Speaker 1: And there again, they're still with us here and they're amazing,
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Speaker 1: absolutely amazing. I'm also a certified grief counselor. That's my
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Speaker 1: give back, and so I have been doing that for
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Speaker 1: many years as well. So live your diamond life. A diamond,
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Speaker 1: right is put under so much heat two thousand degrees
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Speaker 1: heat and under so much pressure to create this beautiful
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Speaker 1: stone of a diamond. I feel like that's women's lives.
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Speaker 1: We are so under so much pressure and stress. And
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Speaker 1: where's the support. I hope everyone has a supportive family,
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Speaker 1: a supportive spouse, supportive friends, and supportive children. And they
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Speaker 1: don't always do that in teenage years for sure, right,
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Speaker 1: And so I wanted to thumb everything up, and I
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Speaker 1: want everyone, like Oprah says, live your best life. That is,
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Speaker 1: live your diamond life. That is your best life. Now
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Speaker 1: as we know, there's no two diamonds the same, which
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Speaker 1: is the great thing. I want you to be the
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Speaker 1: star of your life. And so that's what I've been doing,
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Speaker 1: meeting with thousands of people throughout decades, and I want
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Speaker 1: to make sure that everyone's living their best life as
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Speaker 1: they see for them. And sometimes we are put under
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Speaker 1: a lot of pressure, even with money, even with finances, emotions, divorce, grief, loss, abuse,
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Speaker 1: whatever it might be, just stress we put on ourselves.
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Speaker 1: I should have, would have, could have? Right, And then
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Speaker 1: we come out to live this diamond life. Ah ah,
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Speaker 1: we can take this amazing breath. Look at me, I'm
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Speaker 1: putting my shoulders back. My shoulders are not in my ears,
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Speaker 1: They're actually relaxed down. I can actually take a breath.
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Speaker 1: What does living your diamond life look like? It's definitely
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Speaker 1: rooted in feminine financial freedom. Because this makes me help
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Speaker 1: makes me think it's not the masculine way. And I'm
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Speaker 1: using these terms just because it's the easiest way I
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Speaker 1: can explain it. On you should have, would have, coulda.
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Speaker 1: I feel like the industry, the financial industry is talking
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Speaker 1: down to women. It's man explaining to women and women
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Speaker 1: I'm it could be you know, I have whatever however
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Speaker 1: you relate to making decisions the feminine way. How's that
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Speaker 1: I am a type A virgo, very masculine. I have
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Speaker 1: lots of masculine traits. And at the same time, my
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Speaker 1: brain is still going to think about everyone else. Before
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Speaker 1: I make a decision about green, blue, yellow, purple, I'm
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Speaker 1: going to think about how's that going to affect red, brown, orange, white.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to think about all the other colors before
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Speaker 1: I make decisions about the first set, because that's the
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Speaker 1: way my brain works. I can't just think of a
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Speaker 1: equal eight plus b eqal c. It just doesn't work
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Speaker 1: that way. I got to see how e FGH is
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Speaker 1: going to work. And I know I'm crazy with all
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Speaker 1: these these stories. So anyways, so I hope you're relating
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Speaker 1: to me so far, and I hope you get it.
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Speaker 1: I hope you can understand. But it's definitely intuitive based
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Speaker 1: approach to money. I am here to help guide and
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Speaker 1: give suggestions and a different perspective. However, it's your life,
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Speaker 1: it's your diamond life.
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Speaker 2: You get to choose for you.
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Speaker 1: And sometimes we come out of a divorce, we're beaten down,
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Speaker 1: we've lost someone. Maybe our childhood was horrifying, Like we
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Speaker 1: got to build each other up first before we can
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Speaker 1: actually feel comfortable in making decisions. I hope that makes sense.
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Speaker 1: So what it really means is not perfection about money
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Speaker 1: or wealth or just your life or having it all
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Speaker 1: figured out, but it's actually becoming clear about your next
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Speaker 1: step and having a sense of your future. And not
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Speaker 1: necessarily you know, I want that mansion and the porch
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Speaker 1: and the you know, the man of my dreams or
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Speaker 1: the woman of my dreams, the family of my dreams, whatever,
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Speaker 1: Not necessarily that, but the feeling of that. It's my
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Speaker 1: favorite word, the f word. I want to have the
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Speaker 1: feeling of having that life. We all want a better
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Speaker 1: life because the way we think we're going to feel
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Speaker 1: when we have it. And if you ever really, really
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Speaker 1: really really wanted something and then finally got it and thought, okay,
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Speaker 1: well that was short lived, because it's not about the
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Speaker 1: actual thing, it's about the feeling about the thing. So
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Speaker 1: it's not about the zeros, it's about the feeling about
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Speaker 1: the zeros. So living your diamond life is the feeling
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Speaker 1: behind the joy that you think you're going to have
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Speaker 1: when you have that diamond life. So you can live
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Speaker 1: that today. You can literally learn to let go of
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Speaker 1: the stress, picture yourself like everybody right now, don't close
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Speaker 1: rise if you're driving, But if you're not driving, closure
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Speaker 1: rise with me. Just kind of think about what's your
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Speaker 1: favorite place on earth? Think about that for a second. Ah,
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Speaker 1: now think your favorite people are with you. Okay, so
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Speaker 1: I'm going to can't get next week, so I get
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Speaker 1: to think of that with my favorite people too. Write
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Speaker 1: some of my favorite people are going to be there.
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Speaker 1: I'm very excited. My daughter, her fiance, his family. Oh
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Speaker 1: my god, we travel so well together.
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Speaker 2: I can't wait.
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Speaker 1: It's going to be so fun. So when I do that,
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Speaker 1: I'm putting myself there. I immediately relax my nervous system, relax,
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Speaker 1: my brain, relax.
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Speaker 2: I didn't go there yet.
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Speaker 1: I might even not even have a plane ticket to there,
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Speaker 1: but my body and my subconscious doesn't know that. So
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Speaker 1: it's literally about the feeling of that favorite place. And
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Speaker 1: that's what I really want to get through to everyone.
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Speaker 1: Because you can have that today, Does that make sense?
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Speaker 1: Then we make the best decisions based around getting us
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Speaker 1: to that feeling. I want everything to be customed to you.
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Speaker 1: I want you to be resilient, and I want it
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Speaker 1: to be your true self. So there's no template. Everyone's
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Speaker 1: diamond life is going to look absolutely different. So these
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Speaker 1: are Q and A times. That was a question I had,
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Speaker 1: What is a diamond life? Here's another question that I've had.
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Speaker 1: Where do I even start? If I feel so behind
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Speaker 1: and so scattered. I'm sure we've all felt that way
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Speaker 1: in some time or another, And this is where we start,
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Speaker 1: right exactly where we are. It's kind of like, how
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Speaker 1: do I get there from here? I don't know how
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Speaker 1: to get there from here. I only know how to
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Speaker 1: get there from there. No, we can get there from here,
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Speaker 1: which is not jumping from here to winning the latto
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Speaker 1: or here to the ten million dollar yacht. It's here
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Speaker 1: to my next best step. So we're going to feel
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Speaker 1: the way we're going to feel when we have all
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Speaker 1: the joy that we want. However, we're going to do
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Speaker 1: the very next step to get us there. So, if
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Speaker 1: you are tired of working for a boss, if you
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Speaker 1: don't like your boss, if you want to be your
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Speaker 1: own boss, and you have a side hustle, what is
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Speaker 1: the next best step that you can do for your
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Speaker 1: side hustle to become your permanent hustle. It does not
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Speaker 1: mean go jump into a corporation, quit your job and manifest, manifest, manifest,
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Speaker 1: It is not what that means because there's a big
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Speaker 1: difference between here and there. Can that happen, Absolutely happens
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Speaker 1: every day.
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Speaker 2: It happens to lots of people all the time.
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Speaker 1: And I want you to know that it doesn't have
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Speaker 1: to be short, quick, doesn't matter. I want you to
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Speaker 1: know that you can do your next best step to
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Speaker 1: feel that way today. Hope that makes sense. So we're
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Speaker 1: going to get oriented of where.
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Speaker 2: We are at. So where are we? How do we
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Speaker 2: feel behind? How do we feel scattered?
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Speaker 1: First of all, turn off the media, turn off the news,
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Speaker 1: Do not listen to anybody else about money, Do not
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Speaker 1: let one more person put you down about where you're
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Speaker 1: at and what's happening, and don't put your self down.
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Speaker 2: Should have what Akoda?
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Speaker 1: I just met with a client and she's shitting all
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Speaker 1: over herself all the time, and it's like, why should
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Speaker 1: you do that?
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like I should. Why
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Speaker 2: who told you you should do that? I don't know?
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Speaker 2: There was no backup for it. Okay, so then let's
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Speaker 2: throw that away.
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Speaker 1: Let's reframe our beliefs on should We don't necessarily have
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Speaker 1: to do that right now? Maybe that's next month, maybe
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Speaker 1: that's next week. Right now, our next step is feeling good.
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Speaker 1: I keep hitting my glass straw. Sorry, I want everyone
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Speaker 1: to feel good. So here's your homework, y'all. I've given
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Speaker 1: up before. You haven't done it. You got to haven't completed.
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Speaker 1: You get to do it now. I want you to
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Speaker 1: write a list of one hundred things that you love. Yes,
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Speaker 1: I know, easy, peasy, simple, squeezy, lemon squezy. If you
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Speaker 1: are coming from love, you cannot come from fear at
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Speaker 1: the same time. So I want you coming from love,
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Speaker 1: one hundred things that you love. I love my glass straw.
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Speaker 1: I love my pink microphone cover. I love my cell phone.
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Speaker 1: I love these gold earrings. I love my new car.
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Speaker 1: I love my giddiecat. Of course, I love my family.
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Speaker 1: I love all of that. I love a hot shower.
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Speaker 1: I love laying out in the sun. I love the
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Speaker 1: sun beating down on my face. I love the snow
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Speaker 1: how it falls and it's so quiet and it's so oh,
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Speaker 1: just feels so yummy, like I'm here all by myself
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Speaker 1: and I'm protected.
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Speaker 2: All of those things.
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Speaker 1: I don't even know how many I listed, but it
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Speaker 1: was several right, It doesn't have to be a big thing.
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Speaker 1: It can be little things. But I want you to
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Speaker 1: stay in that love feeling. Did you get in that
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Speaker 1: love feeling with me about all the things that I love? Right?
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Speaker 1: Your next number thing to do is I want you
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Speaker 1: to write a list of all your skills and attributes.
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Speaker 1: No one else has your skills and attributes, meaning, how
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Speaker 1: are you a badass? What's so great about you? What
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Speaker 1: have you done in your past that makes you amazing.
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Speaker 1: Some people might say I might have two or three things, Well,
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Speaker 1: you know what, let's go all the way from as
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Speaker 1: many as you can.
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Speaker 2: Remember.
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Speaker 1: I broke up with that person that was just not
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Speaker 1: good for me. I got out of our friendship that
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Speaker 1: was not good for me. I have amazing friends now.
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Speaker 1: I am a good friend, and I'm always trying to
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Speaker 1: be a better friend. I am a great listener. I
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Speaker 1: really want to hear with empathy how my friends and
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Speaker 1: family and clients really feel. That is a skill that
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Speaker 1: I have. I truly can feel what they're sharing with
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Speaker 1: me and how they truly feel. I love that I
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Speaker 1: love my hair. I do need to cut right now,
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Speaker 1: but I like my hair. I love that I am
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Speaker 1: outgoing all these little things, and then these lists I
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Speaker 1: want you to look at every single day. Just that,
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Speaker 1: right there is your next step to living your diamond life.
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Speaker 1: Seven days a week, twenty four hours a day, three
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Speaker 1: and sixty five days a year. Easy peasy, right. So
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Speaker 1: that's where we start. We want to start right here.
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Speaker 1: Now that we've done those lists, do not look at
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Speaker 1: your money before those lists are done. We're going to
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Speaker 1: schedule a money date on your calendar every week at
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Speaker 1: least thirty minutes, either whatever works for you. I like
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Speaker 1: Friday nights or Sundays. I like my candles, I have
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Speaker 1: maybe even a cocktail. I have my music going. I
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Speaker 1: have all my spreadsheets and my favorite pink and purple colors.
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Speaker 1: I have everything organized. I love to look at my money,
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Speaker 1: and if I'm in a crappy mood, I'm not going
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Speaker 1: to look at my money that day. So starting here,
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Speaker 1: meaning schedule your money date, get your money journal out.
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Speaker 1: Your money journal is going to have your hundred things
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Speaker 1: that you love and all your skills and attributes. Next,
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Speaker 1: you're going to write a story to money. You're going
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Speaker 1: to write a letter to money. How do you feel
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Speaker 1: about money? You're going to put that in your money journal.
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Speaker 2: So fun.
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Speaker 1: You have no idea what's going to pop up. Just
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Speaker 1: play the game with me. It won't hurt, I promise.
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Speaker 1: Well might kind of hurt, but you'll get out of it.
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Speaker 2: I promise.
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Speaker 1: Then only then is when we're going to look at
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Speaker 1: every dime that you've spent over the last three months.
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Speaker 1: I just want to get an idea of how much
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Speaker 1: you've spent so that you know how much your expenses are.
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Speaker 1: Then you're going to also make a list of all
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Speaker 1: of your income coming in and all of your assets.
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Speaker 1: So where are all of your assets.
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Speaker 2: It could be a.
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Speaker 1: Collectibles item, It could be money in the bank, It
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Speaker 1: could be a brokerage, a kind of borrowink rob ra,
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Speaker 1: it could be anything. Make a list of all of that.
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Speaker 1: That's where we start. Then guess what, you're not scattered.
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Speaker 1: We still haven't don't have the plan yet. We still
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Speaker 1: don't know exactly what to do. But you're going to
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Speaker 1: feel one million times better and I guarantee you you're
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Speaker 1: going to make changes right there. Next step is we
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Speaker 1: get to choose where we want to put money. Now
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Speaker 1: that you've looked at the last three months and you've
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Speaker 1: seen where you've sent put your money, now you get
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Speaker 1: to choose where you want the money to go next month.
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Speaker 1: Right there, you're going to have clarity, empowerment, confidence. You
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Speaker 1: were going to make different choices in your life just
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Speaker 1: by looking at what's happening. If you have a partner
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Speaker 1: or a spouse that you share money with, guess what
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Speaker 1: they get to do the same thing. I love, love,
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Speaker 1: love it. Okay, what does starting actually mean? Like, right,
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Speaker 1: how do we actually start when we're behind and overwhelmed
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Speaker 1: and scattered. It does not mean saying, okay, I'm not
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Speaker 1: going to spend any more money on this today. We
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Speaker 1: don't know that. We don't know if you have that
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Speaker 1: in your budget or I call it a spending plan.
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Speaker 1: I want you to do a forecast of your spending plan.
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Speaker 1: Where do you want to spend money?
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Speaker 2: It's up to you.
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Speaker 1: If you don't want to drive anywhere and save money
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Speaker 1: on gas because you want to go blow it on
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Speaker 1: a really nice dinner, your money, your choice. You can
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Speaker 1: do whatever you want to do. We're not going to
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Speaker 1: make really big decisions. We're not going to change where
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Speaker 1: our investments are or anything like that. We just want
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Speaker 1: to kind of understand where our cash flow is going.
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Speaker 1: That's it. That's where we stop. We just want to
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Speaker 1: see where we're at. We're going to feel grounded in that.
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Speaker 1: We're going to say, okay, this is where I'm at.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 1: Next question I've had from people is why don't why
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Speaker 1: don't I get a full plan or a step by
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Speaker 1: step system, and I will share that with you.
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Speaker 2: There's a lot of advisors.
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Speaker 1: Out there that feel that you don't need more information
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Speaker 1: than a little bit. So a full plan without clarity
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Speaker 1: just makes you feel like crap. So we don't want
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Speaker 1: you to feel like crap. So with Diamond Life, I
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Speaker 1: focus on the next best step. We're going up the staircase,
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Speaker 1: let's say, so, I don't want to show you what's
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Speaker 1: at the top of the landing because really you're not
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Speaker 1: going to understand it yet. We want to see each
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Speaker 1: step as we get the get up there to the landing,
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Speaker 1: so that when you do see the landing, you're not
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Speaker 1: going to be freaked out or paranoid and you're going
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Speaker 1: to go, oh, yeah, I love everything that's here. I
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Speaker 1: hope that makes sense. So the next right best step. Now,
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Speaker 1: with that said, there's also a way to give you
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Speaker 1: security on where you're at now, which is knowing and
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Speaker 1: loving your numbers. So when you know and love your numbers,
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Speaker 1: it could be anywhere at your cycle. It could be
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Speaker 1: at the beginning of making money, in the middle after
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Speaker 1: a bunch of debt in debt, heading to retirement in retirement,
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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter.
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Speaker 2: We can be anywhere in that.
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Speaker 1: Process and we can still feel like we've already gotten
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Speaker 1: our goals completed and that is going to bring more
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Speaker 1: clarity and better decisions. And guess what when we do that,
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Speaker 1: other people start showing up in our life that no
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Speaker 1: better or no more and can take us to that
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Speaker 1: next space.
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Speaker 2: So we have to just clear the.
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Speaker 1: Cut clutter, and we have to clear the stress and
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Speaker 1: the overwhelm and the judgment and the shit of what
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Speaker 1: it could is, so that we can just allow the
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Speaker 1: universe to get our back, like the universe has got
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Speaker 1: our back, Like it's there. It's all there. Whatever you
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Speaker 1: want is there, whatever we want is there. We just
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Speaker 1: have to make sure that we clear all of the
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Speaker 1: shame and blame around it in order to let it in. Okay,
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Speaker 1: what if another question, I don't trust myself with money
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Speaker 1: right now? Okay, that's a great one, and I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: Okay, so this Weekly Mastermind is amazing because if you
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Speaker 1: don't trust yourself with money, it is a muscle that
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Speaker 1: we have to build. So I call it our money muscle.
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Speaker 1: We've all been screwed in our life somewhere, right, We've
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Speaker 1: all been betrayed somehow, someway. So guess what, ladies, or
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Speaker 1: anyone with this feminine approach, we attach that to our
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Speaker 1: emotions and our relationships with money. So when we say
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Speaker 1: I can't believe that happened, it is because something else
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Speaker 1: happened way over here. But we attach it to our
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Speaker 1: money relationship and our money story. So we're going to
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Speaker 1: take some time to do this. We're going to rebuild
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Speaker 1: our relationship with money, and that is going to help
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Speaker 1: you trust yourself with your decisions. Right now, after you
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Speaker 1: do the other things that I asked you to do,
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Speaker 1: the one hundred things that you love, look at your numbers,
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Speaker 1: all that thing, you're going to trust yourself a little
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Speaker 1: bit more. You're gonna build that confidence. Then we're going
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Speaker 1: to have small, thoughtful decisions. We're going to slowly and intentionally,
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Speaker 1: without shortcuts, build that trust you are going to trust yourself.
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Speaker 1: I promise you're going to have the confidence in yourself absolutely,
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Speaker 2: Absolutely not.
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Speaker 1: It's for anyone that has the intuitive approach to money,
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Speaker 1: doing it now. Money financially is just been taught masculine,
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Speaker 1: so we want to bring in our femine approach, which
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Speaker 1: is all encompassing and our heart. I lead with my heart,
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Speaker 1: so it's not what I think, it's how I feel.
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Speaker 1: So if I feel this is going to be good
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Speaker 1: for me, I'm going to do it. The a's and
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Speaker 1: b's might not, you know, match up to c's on paper. However,
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Speaker 1: I can feel really good about this person. I can
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Speaker 1: feel really good about supporting them or buying this product or.
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Speaker 1: So if you feel and you have emotions and you
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