Latest / The Perfect RIA / Bad Ways to Answer Clients [Episode 256]
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- 1:14Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of The Perfect
- 1:19Micah: Jarvis, doing absolutely fantastic. I thought was gonna
- 1:31be from a secret bunker somewhere in Alaska, but
- 1:33apparently you gave that away so that's great yeah. I'm doing
- 1:40really fantastic right wrapped up with Surge, had just a ton of
- 1:44fantastic client meetings. I always enjoy that so much. Going
- 1:47in with clients and to go through things and and life is
- 1:50really well.
- 1:51Matt: It was funny Micah, you mentioned Surge, and I started
- 1:54talking about surge on this podcast six years ago now seven
- 1:58years ago. We're doing it for many years before that, but you
- 2:00can really tell advisors who sort of understand the idea of
- 2:04surge and the advisors who actually do surge and really
- 2:07look at the advisors who are starting search this cycle in
- 2:10the advisors who are ending surge. The ones that are
- 2:12starting Surge, it's like a kid going to school the first ride,
- 2:15it's gonna be so much fun, and it wasn't like midway through
- 2:17like - lot of work. A lot of work, totally worth it. A lot of
- 2:21work.
- 2:22Micah: But that's what it is. Right? It's work in order to
- 2:25deliver massive value to clients. It's work. So the
- 2:27question is, are you going to be the top 1% or are you not?
- 2:30That's it that's as simple as this question is, and everything
- 2:34we do is hyper intentional with clients in order to deliver the
- 2:38massive value. Now how work was defining this massive value
- 2:42we're delivering to clients is helping them achieve their goal,
- 2:45right? And what is the most effective means of communication
- 2:48of meeting sequences of order operations in which we go
- 2:52through things like all of these things matter, everything
- 2:55counts, everything counts together, and we got to do it in
- 2:57a certain way that helps the client keep moving forward with
- 3:00their financial plan. And certain things I tell mine all
- 3:03the time, Jarvis is hey, what's the best diet program and what's
- 3:07the best workout program? And they can all answer that
- 3:10question. The one that you do, and I say, and this is the best
- 3:13RIA podcast. I'm your co-host Matthew Jarvis and with me as
- 3:14financial plan is the one that you do and here's what I can
- 3:16tell you after doing this for 24 years, is working with clients
- 3:20side by side through this process, we have a process of
- 3:23success. And there's a certain way we're going to do it,
- 3:25because at the end of it, you're actually going to have an
- 3:27implemented financial plan. And when we don't follow that
- 3:30process, it's going to blow up and you're not going to have a
- 3:33financial plan and that's not what we want. So that's the
- 3:35reason we're going to do that. Now. That's the client facing
- 3:38side. But that's the reality of the back office as well, right?
- 3:41We still have a process of success we have to do and really
- 3:45what I find on client communication when we start
- 3:47seeing issues is when advisors go outside of that for some
- 3:51silly reason.
- 3:52Matt: Quick sidebar here when you mentioned that client script
- 3:54there which I know you use on a regular basis with clients for
- 3:5624 years how many years in the industry before you told people
- 3:59how many years. Like that's obviously right now appointed
- 4:02credibility, but it is right. Last week, as I've never seen,
- 4:07but but I just feel we have a big spectrum of advisor as one
- 4:09of the most popular if not the most popular advisor podcast by
- 4:13advisors for advisors, right and some of our advisors like
- 4:16yourself and myself been doing this for 20 plus years, a lot of
- 4:19credibility there some that have been doing this for under 20
- 4:22weeks, right? So if you're a newbie or a newer advisor,
- 4:26right, what do you say for credibility instead Micah?
- 4:28Micah: Well, a couple of things.
- 4:29Matt: So hope they don't ask right?
- 4:30Micah: So if you have any of those questions, because we all
- 4:34do that, they don't ask, you got to write those down and we got
- 4:38to practice those. We got to rehearse those, we got to go
- 4:40through those, right because those will come up. So that's
- 4:43why it's a whole separate pod. On the credibility side for our
- 4:46younger advisors that are on our team, right? I say that is say,
- 4:49look, here's what you're gonna say is, look, we as a firm have
- 4:52been doing this for over four decades. And this is what we can
- 4:57tell you is going to work really, really well. That's 100%
- 5:00accuracy. And so I'm using the firm's our inside of that
- 5:03because they're following that same process. And I like decades
- 5:07in there, right? I know I said 24 years for me, but this is
- 5:09sort of saying it right now. But decades is a really powerful
- 5:11usual the man, the myth, the legend coming in live from
- 5:12thing. If you're solo or you've been doing this and you don't
- 5:15have that I would just kind of leave the time out there or put
- 5:18your clients in there. How many clients have you work with how
- 5:20many things you'd have says, Look, I've done this process
- 5:22over 100 times I've done this over 50 times. I have worked
- 5:25with clients just like you and here's what I'm going to tell
- 5:27you is going to work really, really well. So remove the time
- 5:31element or the client element if that's not a strong suit. Hey, I
- 5:34work with clients just like you and here's what I'm going to
- 5:37tell you works in order to make sure they're achieving their
- 5:39financial goals.
- 5:40Matt: And what I like that you talk about its pivoted to your
- 5:42strong point, if you're a younger adviser highlight that.
- 5:45Hey, great news. I will be here throughout your entire
- 5:48retirement and you can still bring in that credibility. Hey,
- 5:50advisors who mentor me, I've been doing this for decades and
- 5:53they said to always watch out for this right? So always play
- 5:56to your strong suits, but Micah to your earlier point if there's
- 5:58something you're afraid is going to be asked you're gotta be
- 6:00ready for that question.
- 6:01Micah: I was laughing about that when we were kind of talking
- 6:02about it because I remember in there about being the the
- 6:03younger advisor in there, but one of the things that I would
- 6:05go with is because I was really worried about that question
- 6:06because Micah, you look like you're 12 like what are we
- 6:08doing? And I would always throw in there. Like what's the most
- 6:16important question you need to ask another financial advisor
- 6:18and I was like, hey, one of the most important questions you got
- 6:20to ask another financial advisors, you're interviewing
- 6:22them, are they going to be with you through your entire
- 6:24retirement? And if they're not, maybe that's not a good fit for
- 6:28you? Because that was a strength that I had. I had youth. I was
- 6:30like, I'm gonna be here a while right. I was gonna play that
- 6:33card and it's a really good card to play. So that is an okay
- 6:36thing to throw out there and play to your strengths.
- 6:38Matt: Now. Here's what here's one, whether you've got it one
- 6:41day in the industry, or you're pressing 40 years in the
- 6:43industry, something that can come up for all of us. So Micah,
- 6:45I know you're gonna have to dig deep and hypothetical and is
- 6:48when a client asks you a question to which you don't know
- 6:51the answer. Now this could be because it's an obscure
- 6:53technical question, which we'll talk about in just a second. It
- 6:56could be because they're asking you the outcome of the next
- 6:58election cycle, or when interest rates will move, or just
- 7:01Wasilla, Alaska. Yes, that's really a place Wasilla, Alaska
- 7:02something totally unrelated. Like, hey, what does this rash
- 7:04do you think I should see a doctor about this, right?
- 7:06Whatever the scenario is, there will always be times where
- 7:08client or prospective client asks you a question that you
- 7:11either don't know the answer, or you don't know how to articulate
- 7:14the answer and confidence in a way that they can relate to.
- 7:17Micah: No, I do want to call this out, right? Because there's
- 7:20times that with my other advisors on the team that will
- 7:22kind of be doing a debrief, and they'll get caught up on this.
- 7:24They're like, well, I'm not going to know the answer. But
- 7:26that's not a problem. Like what's the script that we use?
- 7:28How do we go through this? And they're like, well, oh, Micah,
- 7:31that's easy for you to say, the script. This doesn't really
- 7:32happen to you. And I gotta call them out on it. I'm like, wow
- 7:35wow, we had a joint meeting last week with Bob and Sue, and X
- 7:38question came up, and how did I answer that? And they pause.
- 7:43They're like, well, you told him that was a really good question,
- 7:46and that you wanted to make sure you got them a good answer. And
- 7:49so you're going to do some research and you're going to
- 7:51follow up and get back to them and ask them if that was okay
- 7:53with them. It's like, aha, and what did they say? They said,
- 7:57they said, okay, great. That'd be fantastic. Thanks, Micah. I
- 7:59was like, kkay, so here's a situation that I didn't know the
- 8:03answer to that question right away the client asked, and I
- 8:06didn't know what was coming. I didn't know the answer to that.
- 8:09And I just phrased it in a way that gave me time in order to
- 8:12answer the question it best benefits the clients and clients
- 8:15understand that and now we get to the second part of this,
- 8:18which is super important that you can screw up the second part
- 8:21doesn't matter what you did - the first part you shot
- 8:22yourself. That second part is really important. But there's a
- 8:26lot of things you got to be thinking about Jarvis, you know,
- 8:28right. It is okay not to know everything, right? It is okay to
- 8:33say hey, I got some resources that have experienced with this
- 8:36and I want to reach out to those resources, and I want to get you
- 8:39the best answer I possibly can. And I've never ever had a client
- 8:43mad about me about that.
- 8:44Matt: So let's contrast that Micah with the opposite extreme,
- 8:46which could be it which is also factual. He was like, Hmm, I've
- 8:50never heard that question before. That's that's a stumper.
- 8:53That's a real thinker. Hmm. So so how much confidence is that
- 8:56going to instill? Now both of them could be accurate right.
- 8:59Micah Shilanski. Micah, how are you my friend?
- 9:00But again, my job or my biggest jobs is give my clients
- 9:03confidence in the future right. And just like me when I meet
- 9:06with a professional, so if I got to be with a doctor, I say, Doc,
- 9:09I got this thing going on. Have the doc says ha, never heard of
- 9:11that before. I'm thinking I'm in the wrong place, or the wrong
- 9:15plan is find a different doctor.
- 9:17Micah: I've always wanted to work on that. That's fantastic.
- 9:20I was at a doctor's office actually once and that's what
- 9:22they said it was a dental office, and that's what the
- 9:24dentist said in the room over and I could hear him. He says
- 9:27Ha! I've read about these but I've always wanted to work on
- 9:30one of that. I looked at the doctor I said, if you ever tell
- 9:32me that I am leaving, this is not the place for me. So
- 9:35immediately erodes your confidence.
- 9:37Matt: Well think about Joe Schmo as the Alaska airline flight
- 9:40where the fake door blew off right. Had that pilot ever had
- 9:43that happen before? Absolutely not. How about the Miracle on
- 9:45the Hudson did solely get on the thing he's like, Huh? He
- 9:48literally had never had that happen. All right. So it's all
- 9:50been Miracle on the Hudson never had a chance time we're both
- 9:53engines have gotten taken up in bird strikes. Probably almost
- 9:56never happened in the history of aviation, right? Did he get on
- 9:58the thing? Ladies and gentlemen, we are at Royal F right here.
- 10:01I'm not really sure what to do because it's never happend
- 10:03before. Ladies and gentlemen, please fasten your seat belts.
- 10:05We're going to be making a rough landing, right? That's your job
- 10:08as an advisor and so anything you're doing that pulls back the
- 10:12client's confidence is a failure of your job. It's not where we,
- 10:15by the way, we're not lying, this isn't about feeding the
- 10:17line of BS. This is about a half to give confidence all that they
- 10:20do.
- 10:20Micah: Yeah, don't give me a false answer. No, you can still
- 10:23have confidence in saying you don't know something right. I
- 10:26think that this comes into, and I'm probing into this a little
- 10:29bit in my mind. And I wonder if this comes into advisors are
- 10:32worried about that they're going to be saying I don't I don't
- 10:35know. I don't know the entire meaning and never answering any
- 10:38question. And I think that's an emotional response that comes up
- 10:41because let's think about in a client meeting. Let's say you've
- 10:44only been an advisor for five to 10 years. You got to know 80% of
- 10:47the stuff that the clients are going to be bringing up and
- 10:50asking right and you're like, Oh, I'm not sure about that.
- 10:53Yeah, you do. You got a good handle on cash flow by this time
- 10:56in there. You have a decent handle on investments, at least
- 10:59where your strategy is going to be, you know about taxes. You
- 11:02may not be that great at taxes, but you're probably better than
- 11:05they are and understanding how taxes work. You understand how
- 11:08retirement distributions work, right? So you know a lot of
- 11:11these things and so again, our job isn't to know everything we
- 11:14know a lot. We're in the business, you know, 15-20 plus
- 11:16years, you know, 99.9% of your niche market of the questions
- 11:19that they bring in. That's the caveat right here my niche
- 11:22market right. You put me up in front of federal employes. I am
- 11:25really, really good because I do that every single day inside and
- 11:28out. You put me through an expat with RSOs and other things and
- 11:31moving around. I'm like, Man, these are fantastic questions. I
- 11:34had a client recently moved to Japan. And one of the other
- 11:37advisors working on it says Hey, Micah, why do they owe so much
- 11:40taxes and Japanese tax I was like, I have no idea. I would
- 11:43suggest you reach out and find an advisor that understands
- 11:46Americans moving to Japan, and how the taxation works. And he's
- 11:49like, what do you mean, you don't know what's like? I don't
- 11:52know Japanese tax. Yeah, there's a lot I don't know. Right? So
- 11:55this is where we're going to pull in this other resource.
- 11:58Now. That's not how I would phrase it to a client led to
- 12:01that advisor. It's okay that we don't know stuff what was what
- 12:04we know inside of our niche.
- 12:05Micah: So many things inside of that.
- 12:05Matt: This also plays into a bigger thing on systems and this
- 12:09Matt: Oh, yeah.
- 12:10Micah: One - The empowering Colleen to set an appointment
- 12:12and it's not just a return phone call. And sometimes if our
- 12:21clients give us a little push back in setting an appointment,
- 12:25is Micah when advisors run astray all the time. This is
- 12:27says can Micah just call me back to say Micah would love just to
- 12:45also where we see kind of self proclaimed experts run a
- 13:05straight read. So they think like, oh, I just need to know
- 13:21call you back. But this could play a game of telephone, and I
- 13:24know that will just be frustrating. It's frustrating
- 13:26how to answer that. One question. Let me give you a
- 13:26for me, I'm sure it's frustrating for you. Is it okay
- 13:28if we just set a time to avoid the game of telephone? And
- 13:30they're like oh yeah, of course that makes tons of sense. But
- 13:33this is training that you work with Colleen on so that that
- 13:35little nugget is huge. Her asking some additional
- 13:38questions. Jarvis to set you up for success. It was Hey, Bob has
- 13:41some questions. You need to give him a call back. What questions
- 13:44does Bob have? What am I supposed to prepare for in order
- 13:44specific example. I had a meeting on my calendar, a quick
- 13:48to answer these questions? Now Colleen has that details right
- 13:51now. It's probably not all of the information that you would
- 13:54ideally like it's going to give you 80 to 90% of it is alright
- 13:59now this is where I need to focus at Bob has a question on
- 14:02taxes about 22 vs 23. Sweet. I can pull those records I could
- 14:05phone call with a client who the client had a question. His
- 14:06grab some 1099 some investment information. What else was
- 14:09happening? I can read over the notes as it relates to taxes. I
- 14:12can now have an impactful call with Bob, which is what we're
- 14:15going for.
- 14:15Matt: I got one other one for you, Micah. I think I haven't
- 14:17told you this one yet. We had a client come in during surge. So
- 14:20that one I just gave I had preparation for had a client
- 14:22come in during surge we're getting done. I say Bob any
- 14:24other because again, again for new podcast listeners where we
- 14:26say Bob and Sue for client confidentiality. Bob, any other
- 14:27question was, hey, last year, we have a $7,000 refund. This year,
- 14:29questions or concerns again, you don't actually have to get one
- 14:31more. I was doing my taxes for 2023 and I owe $83,000. Bobby
- 14:37owed 82 - I'm not really sure why. Bob, that sounds a little
- 14:42unusual. Now Micah at this point, I have no idea why. I
- 14:45have no idea.
- 14:46Micah: I'd love to see his taxes.
- 14:47Matt: That's well that's what I said Bob, you know what, I would
- 14:49love to take a look at those taxes. Well, Matthew, I do the
- 14:50we owe $3,000. Can you help me understand what's going on?
- 14:51taxes myself in tax and I can't figure out how to get a preview
- 14:55because they've really locked it down trying to get a preview.
- 14:57Micah: Oh they I have.
- 14:58Micah: Holy crap!
- 14:58Matt: So I said Bob let's do this. Why don't we do this
- 15:00because I could have guessed that I could say a lot about
- 15:01this you must have missed them. Why don't we do a zoom meeting
- 15:05or come back into the office with your laptop and I'll click
- 15:08through it with you and we'll kind of see what's going on.
- 15:10Matthew that would be great right so I could have lost it
- 15:11That's a great question to ask. And it's a question that if it
- 15:12like i by by making some here's what it was. He had bought. This
- 15:15is like a calculator thing.He had bought like a collectible
- 15:18Porsche that he got it for like 70 grand he put 20,000 into it
- 15:22sold it for $400,000.
- 15:24Matt: So it's like a $300,000 capital gain. They didn't
- 15:29connect it. That could be why he owes 83K. That was just sold the
- 15:33car I don't know why it's an issue. That's I'm putting it
- 15:34was just asked off the cuff, I would really have no idea and I
- 15:35through a capital gain. 400,000 What is this Bob? Oh, I sold my
- 15:40car. What kind of car did you sell? But it was a trap I could
- 15:44have fallen into.
- 15:45Micah: Alright. Well Jarvis you and I got to have a conversation
- 15:47off the podcast about how you were reviewing the clients bank
- 15:50accounts and missed a $400,000 deposit. I don't know. That
- 15:52would be another question on why we do cash flow first and I'm
- 15:56always asking clients, how much money do they have in checking
- 15:57could speculate at it. I can't I would never say I had no idea.
- 15:59and saving. And clients now come come for but this is why. But
- 16:03that's the reason cash flow is so important in this
- 16:08conversation - it is the heartbeat of retirement. If I
- 16:11know a client's checking and savings balances, I can see
- 16:14things like this either coming up or you know, be ahead of them
- 16:17or I can start seeing problems right. The clients are spending
- 16:19the same amount of money but their account was 100 grand now
- 16:19But let's step back in this system. How did this come down?
- 16:21it's 80 grand now it's 75 grand now it's 60 grand. Okay, you're
- 16:25not spending the same amount of money. You can see these things
- 16:28coming up.
- 16:28Matt: Yeah, that's great Micah. What about totally unknowable,
- 16:30right? So let's talk about cash flow for just a minute you say
- 16:33cash flow is the heartbeat of retirement. It's a brilliant
- 16:35wind to use and the client said hey, it's an election year
- 16:38interest rates are moving you know, whatever Apocalypse du
- 16:41The client called my office said, Hey, this question about
- 16:41jour Am I okay to keep taking x amount out I mean, we don't know
- 16:46what the future will bring right but we still have to come in
- 16:48with competency and this is how much we're taking out this year.
- 16:50So how do you handle it? How did you handle that during surge?
- 16:53Micah: Yes, so this is one of the ones and again I love having
- 16:55a growing advisor team we're going to onboard advisor this
- 16:58year to super excited about and so one of things I get to hear
- 17:01these these questions kind of directly from them and go
- 17:02my taxes, call in my relationship manager said that's
- 17:03through which is awesome extra questions. I had that I might
- 17:07have kind of forgotten about in one of them that I have to
- 17:10remind our team on this this is look - It's our job to know what
- 17:14levers we can pull and to know when we can pull levers, but we
- 17:18don't create new levers. We can't make these things up. So
- 17:21a great question for Matthew, can you give me a few more
- 17:22what does that mean? If a client is overspending that's not our
- 17:26fault. What is our responsibility? Our
- 17:29responsibility is to look at them and say, Hey, under the set
- 17:33of circumstances, here's how much money you can safely take
- 17:36out. You're probably never gonna outlive your money. And here's
- 17:38our safety net that when x happens, we will do y and this
- 17:42details and can I schedule a time for him to call you? Yeah,
- 17:43is how we're going to watch it. That's our job. Now if x
- 17:46happens, and we have to do y whether x is the market fell by
- 17:4950% whether they had a life event and how to pull a lot of
- 17:51money out of their accounts and now they need to spend less,
- 17:54right. That's not our fault. Our job is to look out there and
- 17:58say, hey, look, here's the parameters. And when things go
- 18:02off the rails, here's our plan. Here's how we're going to keep
- 18:04that'd be great. Here's some details. So then, Micah I had
- 18:05it on track. But when life happens we get off track. Here's
- 18:07what we're going to do that's to know the levers and know how we
- 18:11can pull the levers in order to get the maximum result but our
- 18:13job is not to create another lever. Our job is not to say
- 18:16clients taking out 9% rate means you can keep taking out 9%
- 18:20Right. That's not our job is to say hey, you're overspending and
- 18:23here's how we can get you back on the same track. And if we're
- 18:25time to pull up all this information from 2023 kind of
- 18:25not, we're not the right advisors for you.
- 18:29Matt: And so in your example, right 9% in most scenarios seems
- 18:32like pretty hard, high number it seems like an unsustainable
- 18:34number, right. And it's easy. I saw an article the other day in
- 18:37a major industry publication saying that advisors need to
- 18:39update their capital market assumptions, whatever. What does
- 18:42that mean whatever that actually means that advisors can spend so
- 18:45figure out like, what's sort of going on here. Think about my
- 18:46much time going down this rabbit hole of well as ideal
- 18:48distribution rate 4.73 or 5.412. You guys and girls, you got to
- 18:54just you got to pick a number, right? And the best way to do
- 18:56that, especially if that's not your cup of tea is find someone
- 18:59that you respect, who has the practice that you like the
- 19:01expertise that you trust and say great is one of your
- 19:04conferences, I go around ask every advisor what distributed
- 19:06are you using and if they hesitate, I stopped the
- 19:07questions. Make sure I do all the moving pieces that I can
- 19:09conversation, because what that means is that they're just
- 19:11hoping the software's right and by the way, the software is not
- 19:13any more right than anywhere else. I could throw a dart at
- 19:15the wall it's just as accurate as the software.
- 19:18Micah: Wo,wo wo! Software throws 1000 darts at the wall takes the
- 19:21averages of all of the darts therefore it is more accurate
- 19:24where the next dart will be thrown.
- 19:27Matt: And the AI makes its own darts and its own wall inside of
- 19:28call. Hey, buddy, what's going on today? Really glad to chat
- 19:32the metaverse.
- 19:33Micah: That's a good twist. I didn't think about that one.
- 19:35Matt: But I just want to see who's got confidence in what
- 19:37they're doing, how they articulate to clients. If that
- 19:39it resonates to me, right because by the way, if the
- 19:41markets go to zero tomorrow and they stay at zero, no
- 19:43distribution strategy is going to work. None of them right. So
- 19:46it's again we've got a lot of side tangents here. It's so
- 19:49critical. When you're meeting with a client, it's perhaps one
- 19:50with you. We can walk through that. So good.
- 19:51of the most critical things that you're instilling confidence in
- 19:55the path that you've chosen, even if that path is really the
- 19:58least bad of the options.
- 19:59Micah: Alright, so Jarvis let's break this down a little bit
- 20:01more. One of the things that kind of came out a little bit is
- 20:04you know it we started talking about it and we got a great
- 20:07quantification which I always love. Let's go back to it. But
- 20:09when a client asks a question, and you don't know the answer to
- 20:14that, right, let's kind of dive into that one just a little bit
- 20:18more. Because the reason I bring this up is this is where you can
- 20:20really blow your credibility. So there's a couple things that I
- 20:24learned from the Amercian Tax Council Rod Zeeb. So many years
- 20:26ago, when I was first starting in the industry, I was learning
- 20:29about taxes and estate planning. One of their comments was,
- 20:32nothing can surprise you in that conference room. Whatever the
- 20:35client brings out. Whatever happens, right? You better have
- 20:38a good game based there's nothing that surprised you. That
- 20:41doesn't mean you're emotionless. Right. But you need to have
- 20:43poise, you need to have a good response to these things. So
- 20:46it's I've really taken that to heart over the years. It's a
- 20:48good one. Yeah. And it comes up when someone asks a question
- 20:52that I don't know. Now, if somebody asks a question, I
- 20:54don't know, I could very truthfully and honestly say, I
- 20:57don't know. But does that help the client? Right now? Not
- 21:00saying why that's not what I'm talking about here with me,
- 21:03right? But there's different ways I can answer this. I could
- 21:05say, I don't know what, what do I do with that? How do I come up
- 21:09with an answer? Or I could say, You know what, that's a really
- 21:12good question. And I could give you an answer on the back of a
- 21:15napkin, but I really want to do a little bit more research and
- 21:18come back to you with something with more information or really
- 21:21I want to reach out to some additional resources that I
- 21:23have. Because this isn't an area of my expertise and I want to
- 21:25pull in the people whose area of expertise it is, and let's get a
- 21:29good answer for you. Is that going to be okay with you? And
- 21:32clients always say yes. Now, out of those two answers, one is I
- 21:36don't know. And the other one says that's a really good
- 21:38question and, right. Which one is going to inspire more
- 21:42confidence with the client to achieve their financial goals?
- 21:45We can't lose sight of that. Our main objective is to help the
- 21:48client achieve their financial goal. So which one of those
- 21:51answers does that?
- 21:52Matt: The one where you're saying that's a good question?
- 21:53I'm validating their question. I'm saying I'm going to get you
- 21:56an answer to that question every time because it's the answer I
- 21:59want.
- 21:59Micah: Yeah, and clients don't need the answer right away. They
- 22:02need to know you have it at your fingertips that you could get
- 22:06the answer for them, as well. Right. And we've had questions
- 22:09from clients about hey, what roofer should I use, right
- 22:12what's gonna happen with this election? When these bonds go
- 22:14through? What does this mean? How should I vote on these
- 22:16ballots that are coming up, etc, right? We get all sorts of these
- 22:19fun questions that are there. You need a system in order to be
- 22:22able to answer those.
- 22:23Matt: By the way, if you're not getting those kinds of
- 22:25questions, it should be a bit of an alarm, that you've drawn too
- 22:28much focus to investment management, right? So clients
- 22:31questions are all numbers and money related, you're missing
- 22:34the mark, that's a warning sign. But here's another approach to
- 22:37that right client comes in and says, Hey, Mike, what's the
- 22:39what's the Fed funds rate right now? Or what's the price of
- 22:42Bitcoin or what's the discount rate on 10 year treasury bonds?
- 22:46There's always a spot where I can say mister missus client
- 22:48that's a that's a great question. Can you tell me a
- 22:50little bit more about why you're asking? Right? So I can always
- 22:53go with, which by the way it goes through things like we just
- 22:55talked about this before, hey I'm thinking about buying a
- 22:57rental property, I'm thinking about buying real estate, I'm
- 22:58thinking about buying gold. That's a great idea that
- 23:01strategy can really work in some situations. Can you tell me a
- 23:04little bit more about what you're thinking? Now I bought
- 23:06myself time, I've bought myself time to process, but more
- 23:09importantly I've validated the client and I'm letting them tell
- 23:12me more about the situation. This might have just been like a
- 23:14random flow through their head, because on the radio on the way
- 23:18in, they heard about a gold comercial or something. Or it
- 23:21might be something that they've already done or something that
- 23:22they're really thinking about. I gotta suss that out a little bit
- 23:25Micah: You know, this allows you to see what the client's
- 23:25more.
- 23:27perspective is on it, which is so so important, right? What are
- 23:30they solving for? How many times if somebody came in and said
- 23:33that and it was that same thing? It says, I don't know. I thought
- 23:35we should have a more diversified portfolio. Okay,
- 23:37well tell me a little bit more what diversified means. Let's
- 23:39talk a little bit about how your setups, do you feel that this is
- 23:41diversified, right? So with asking that to get more
- 23:44information on this question, Jarvis. That's such a solid
- 23:47point.
- 23:48Matt: Highlights again, the critical nature of spending time
- 23:50with other successful advisors. So let's use just a real quick
- 23:53one on gold. Whenever a client asked me about gold, I always
- 23:55say good, it's always the husband that's ask him. I always
- 23:58say you know what, Bob here's my philosophy on gold. You should
- 24:01buy Sue as much gold as she'll ever wear. Because then no
- 24:04matter what happens to the price of gold, you'll still win. And
- 24:07we all smile and we all laugh it defuses the the situation. He
- 24:10kind of realizes how silly the question is, and nine times out
- 24:13of 10 we've won. Now where did I get that from? Because I used to
- 24:16go to conferences I'd ask every advisor about hey, what do you
- 24:18say when a client asks about gold? And 99 out advisors out of
- 24:22100 give me some stupid answer. And one old timer one day says:
- 24:25Jarvis, let me tell you what I say. I say Bob buy Sue as much
- 24:29gold as she can wear because no matter what you'll win, my
- 24:31friend. Perfect, that's what I'm gonna use!
- 24:33Micah: Solid line!
- 24:34Micah: It moves that conversation off to where it
- 24:35Matt: Yeah!
- 24:36Matt: Because if you don't deliver on that, right? Then the
- 24:37should be. I love it. Well Jarvis this podcast is all about
- 24:39action items. Right? And it's before we get into those I want
- 24:42to follow up on member we said earlier, there's two parts of
- 24:45answering a client question right? If you screw up the
- 24:48second part, it doesn't matter what happens on the first part,
- 24:49clients mind consciously or not, they're gonna say hey, Jarvis
- 24:51and the second part is setting the expectations of when they
- 24:54are going to get an answer. That is that is, in my opinion, the
- 24:57most important part of answering the client questions, because if
- 25:00you answer the client questions outside of their expectations of
- 25:04when they were going to get a response, the answer is invalid.
- 25:05didn't do what he said he was gonna do where else is he not
- 25:07Right? Because it's Micah you didn't get back to the agency of
- 25:10how to do all this other work, man. I wish he would have told
- 25:13me this sooner. So it's always the second part of it is once I
- 25:16defer the question, I set a time in which I'm going to get backto
- 25:19them. Bob, it's a great question. I'd love to do a
- 25:19reliable? The worst version? I see that Micah I was talking to
- 25:21little bit more research before I get you a final answer on
- 25:24this. Is it okay if I get back to you by Wednesday of next week
- 25:27with this answer? Now, maybe it's more complex, this is a
- 25:30this is going to take me a few weeks because I'd got to reach
- 25:33out to some other resources etc. Is it okay if I get back to you
- 25:35one of my attorneys the other day and he says I'll get back to
- 25:36by the end of the month, and that looks like it's X date in
- 25:39order to get back to you. You know, I'm always going to be
- 25:42setting some expectation with that. The expectation also could
- 25:45be Hey, Bob, I'm gonna get back to you Wednesday of next week
- 25:48and how long I think it's gonna take to get this in place, you
- 25:50next week on that unless I don't find anything and then I won't
- 25:51know, so I can update you on a timeframe. But I always am
- 25:54setting an expectations for that communication. Because if I
- 25:57don't set them the client sets them, and the issue that is I
- 26:00don't know what they're expecting. So I can't meet that
- 26:03objective, right. I can't meet that goal. If I don't know what
- 26:06they're thinking so I'm always pushing out to set that
- 26:06send you anything. So if you don't hear from me, it's because
- 26:09communication standards.
- 26:10Micah: Oh, man, something you got to do we all need to do more
- 26:21I didn't find anything. Horrible! Or you forgot or the
- 26:22of and yet we don't want to it is practice, practice, practice,
- 26:35email got lost or you're just trying to brush me off or really
- 26:51any of those things didn't? Didn't instill a lot of
- 27:01practice. You got to rehearse these scripts. How are you gonna
- 27:03confidence. But speaking of confidence might be the best way
- 27:04say them? How are you going to deliver? What does it look like
- 27:07zoom? What does it look like on the phone call? What does it
- 27:09look like in person? Practice, practice, practice! So you can
- 27:13roll of with this answer as if it was your name.
- 27:16Matt: Micah, I love that action. I remember to this is the best
- 27:18kind of practice, of course to practice with other advisors,
- 27:18you're gonna get more confidence in client meetings is by taking
- 27:22other successful advisors not, hey, let's imagine a scenario
- 27:25and figured out like, tell me a real scenario. Or here's, I'll
- 27:28tell you one, right? And then tell me how you would answer
- 27:31that. So you've got to make sure these are advisors that have the
- 27:33practice that you want. Not that you both dreaming about the
- 27:34action. So Micah, let's kick us off with an action item here.
- 27:36practice because otherwise it's an echo chamber of really bad
- 27:38ideas.
- 27:39Micah: Yeah, amen to that. And number three, share the podcast
- 27:42we're always looking to grow give us five stars kick the
- 27:44podcast out. We're always looking to help transform other
- 27:47advisors lives and how they do financial planning. Jarvis as
- 27:50What's something that listeners can do so that in their next
- 27:51always, it's been a blast, my friend.
- 27:53Matt: Yeah, Micah. Thank you. So much. To all our listeners:
- 27:55Until next time, happy planning!
- 27:56Micah: Happy planning!
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