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Chicks Chat: Sexy Betrayal & Bed Hopping · Two Broke Chicks

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  Speaker 3: another chicks chat, strap in.
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  Speaker 2: Or strap on?
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  Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, we've got our advice to the chicks submitted
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  Speaker 3: in by you lovely leaders. Well as usual, these have
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  Speaker 3: been picked up by our beautiful producer. We haven't read
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  Speaker 3: them yet, so it's gonna be raw reactions and our
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  Speaker 3: two cents.
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  Speaker 4: But I was a good girl and she was gonna
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  Speaker 4: say something about doing it raw.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, go on, Nokay, that's right, I'm going.
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  Speaker 4: To behave, I'll be I'll be ho.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Shall we get straight into it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do the damn thing, all right.
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  Speaker 1: Dilemma number one. A few weeks ago, my friend group
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  Speaker 1: of six went on a girl's weekend away. We rented
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  Speaker 1: an airbnb, had wine the usual girls trip vibes. One night,
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  Speaker 1: we decided to play one of those anonymous confession gamess.
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  Speaker 1: Did jumbody murder No, Where everyone writes something in a
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  Speaker 1: notes app and someone reads them out loud. I have
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  Speaker 1: never heard of anyone doing this secret meanie game. Most
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  Speaker 1: of them were pretty harmless, like bad dates, embarrassing hookups, etc.
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  Speaker 1: Then one came up that said something like I hooked
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  Speaker 1: up with someone in this group's ex and never told
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  Speaker 1: her because I didn't think it would last what The
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  Speaker 1: room went very quiet because one of the girls in
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  Speaker 1: the group had a pretty serious X last year and
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  Speaker 1: that she's still a bit sensitive about. Everyone started asking
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  Speaker 1: whose confession it was, and things got awkward pretty fast.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the part where I might be the problem.
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  Speaker 2: Oh oh would you do?
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  Speaker 1: Earlier that night, my best friend had ended me her
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  Speaker 1: phone to take some photos, and when I opened it,
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  Speaker 1: her notes app was already opened and I saw a
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  Speaker 1: draft that was basically the same confession.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't Oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't really think much of it at the time,
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  Speaker 1: so when everyone started arguing about it, I tried to
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  Speaker 1: play it off and continue the game. But apparently I
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  Speaker 1: looked suspicious because another friend kept pressing me, asking if
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  Speaker 1: I knew something.
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  Speaker 4: Oh no, it was probably written all over a face, But.
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  Speaker 1: Have they thought, Oh wait, let me finish, Let me
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  Speaker 1: finish I didn't directly say it was my best friend,
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  Speaker 1: but I kind of awkwardly said something like I think
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  Speaker 1: it might not have been a big deal when it happened.
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  Speaker 1: After that, everyone basically put two and two together and
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  Speaker 1: realized it was her. She got really upset and left
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  Speaker 1: the room. The whole vibe of the trip was ruined,
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  Speaker 1: and we actually ended up leaving early the next day.
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  Speaker 1: Now the group is kind of divided. Some people are
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  Speaker 1: mad at her for hiding the hook up in the
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  Speaker 1: first place, but she's mostly mad at me because she
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  Speaker 1: feels like I exposed her when I.
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  Speaker 5: Should have stayed completely quiet.
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  Speaker 1: Technically, I never said it was her, but I also
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  Speaker 1: feel like my reaction definitely gave it away. So my
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  Speaker 1: dilemma is, do I fully apologize and take the blame
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  Speaker 1: for exposing her even though she was the one who
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  Speaker 1: submitted the confession. Do I just give her space and
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  Speaker 1: hope things calm down. I genuinely didn't mean to blow
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  Speaker 1: up the whole trip, and that's basically what happened. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, Oh my god, come here right now, sit
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  Speaker 1: on my lap and let me give you a hug.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't blow up the trip.
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  Speaker 3: No one forced her to submit that anonymous message.
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  Speaker 5: The trip she went, she blew up the trip.
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  Speaker 3: This has clearly been weighing on her that she was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: now's my chance to just let it out. Like she
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  Speaker 3: probably has been sitting there with this secret and it
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  Speaker 3: she's just been like bursting to get out of her.
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  Speaker 4: Because why else would you put that in there?
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  Speaker 5: So did but.
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  Speaker 3: Did she so bad for this ship because she's like,
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  Speaker 3: it's my fault I ruined the trip.
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  Speaker 5: You did not ruin the trip.
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  Speaker 1: You did not hook up with your friend's ex, and
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  Speaker 1: nor did you.
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  Speaker 4: Go it was Jessica, like.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't do anything, and it's not your responsibility to
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  Speaker 1: be able to lie well for someone else's lie.
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  Speaker 3: Especially well, yeah, completely, and especially when it's fresh information
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  Speaker 3: that you've only just feiled.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing is like if you knew for
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  Speaker 1: months and months and months and months, I.
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  Speaker 5: Still would be like, like if that happened.
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  Speaker 1: For us, Like, let's pretend your name is Lily and
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  Speaker 1: my name is Poppy, and I know that Lily's hooked
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  Speaker 1: up with Gerald. Sorry, then Gerald dated Simo and then
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  Speaker 1: I know this, But you decided to go rogue and
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  Speaker 1: put it in there and I'm like, fuck, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, Lily, zip it, Lily.
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  Speaker 3: And also because when you jumped in, you were trying
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  Speaker 3: to be like.
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  Speaker 5: No, it's okay because everyone's being like freaking.
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  Speaker 3: The fuck out, and you're saying, because if we were
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  Speaker 3: going to put.
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  Speaker 1: That in there, sorry, I'm rammed. Now you're gonna put
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  Speaker 1: that in there and not fucking own up to it,
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  Speaker 1: don't put it in there.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think she put it.
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  Speaker 4: In there thinking people would be like ha ha, and
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  Speaker 4: then she could be like it was me, Like.
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  Speaker 1: What was she hoping that the response would be, I
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  Speaker 1: want to know I hooked up with someone in this
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  Speaker 1: group's X and never told her because I didn't think
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  Speaker 1: it woul last. So she's saying I didn't think that
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  Speaker 1: X and the friend would last, or.
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  Speaker 3: That maybe they would last like the chick who hooked
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  Speaker 3: up with them, and like it wasn't serious, it wasn't
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  Speaker 3: a long term thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, But I'm like, how can you not even read
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  Speaker 1: the room? But like that's not funny to admit in
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  Speaker 1: a group atmosphere.
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  Speaker 2: How hurtful?
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  Speaker 4: Would that be?
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  Speaker 2: Such a cop out? X?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: And like if that was me and a friend was
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  Speaker 1: like yeah, I've I packed him or I made out
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  Speaker 1: with him or whatever it was in front of a
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  Speaker 1: group of people. I would be so embarrassed. Yeah, Like
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  Speaker 1: I would feel like the butt of a joke, even
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  Speaker 1: though like I didn't do anything wrong. It would be
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  Speaker 1: like cool, like I had feelings with this person and
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  Speaker 1: I had no idea that he hooked up with one
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  Speaker 1: of my friends. Like wow, I would feel so stupid
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  Speaker 1: and silly, which like isn't how someone should feel.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's a natural response.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, dog house to this bitch.
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  Speaker 4: Like, you don't need to apologize.
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  Speaker 3: I think you could explain your side of the story,
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  Speaker 3: but say, look, at the end of the day, it
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  Speaker 3: was your choice to put it in, and really I
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  Speaker 3: think you and our other friend need to have a
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  Speaker 3: conversation about how you can potentially work forward, like and
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  Speaker 3: if you can't, like that's between you two.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine imagine sitting there and going, oh, yeah, I wrote
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  Speaker 1: in this submission, but then getting mad at someone else.
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  Speaker 1: So was she We're just gonna sit there and not
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  Speaker 1: admit to it the whole time, and things were just
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  Speaker 1: gonna be awkward and everyone's going who said it?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like she was hoping that they.
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  Speaker 1: Was already in her notes app. Did she was she
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  Speaker 1: the one that suggested playing the anonymous confession game?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Secret Meani game, Secret Meani game.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Was She's like, I have this idea for this shit.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm sitting he going, I ain't never heard of
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  Speaker 1: anyone anyone played that game before? Why never played that game?
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  Speaker 3: It's like the person at the party who would instigate
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  Speaker 3: the spin the bottle and it's like you know that
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  Speaker 3: and you're gonna flicker the wrist and hope that it
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  Speaker 3: lands on Jason or whoever because you just want to
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  Speaker 3: kiss Jason.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you're bringing up to play that game because
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  Speaker 4: you have an air result mode? Yeah? And is that
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  Speaker 4: what this is?
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  Speaker 3: Either that she wanted to like test the waters and
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  Speaker 3: be like how are people going to react? Like are
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  Speaker 3: they gonna be like ha ha, like that's crazy or
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  Speaker 3: are they going to get mad?
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  Speaker 2: Or was she so plagued with guilt.
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  Speaker 4: It she just like had to let it out.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds like this game where people like ride in
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  Speaker 1: going like most likely to blah blah blah, and then
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  Speaker 1: they like point to someone and like, but people can
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  Speaker 1: be really mean about it, be like most likely to
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  Speaker 1: like cheat on their boyfriend or whatever it is, and
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  Speaker 1: it's like who wins? Yeah, in that's so true, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like who wins when you play games like that? And
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  Speaker 1: also like it's supposed to be, like she said, most
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  Speaker 1: of them were pretty harmless, bad dates, embarrassing hookups. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but like that by confessing that really at the end
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  Speaker 1: of the day, like what was the goal there?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I reckon chat to her, and I also think
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  Speaker 3: chat to the other girls.
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  Speaker 2: I would say I had no idea.
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  Speaker 1: I literally found out ten minutes before the game, and
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  Speaker 1: I felt really uncomfortable and I didn't know what to do.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you felt like I wasn't honest with you.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And she also could explain like she'd seen a draft
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  Speaker 3: of a message, but it wasn't clear what it was about,
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  Speaker 3: because it's not I don't think the message was like
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  Speaker 3: I hooked up with Gerald, like or I don't know specifically,
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  Speaker 3: Like it seemed like she was confused when she first
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  Speaker 3: saw the message.
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  Speaker 2: She didn't know what it was about. And then when
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  Speaker 2: the annon was read.
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  Speaker 3: Out, she was like, oh my god, one puss Wina Eagles,
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  Speaker 3: you fucked her ex.
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  Speaker 4: Crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I trying to reread it, being like, is there
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  Speaker 1: a detail we missed? And I'm like no, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Because as well. Sorry.
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  Speaker 3: But when she's playing it off, going no, no, let's
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  Speaker 3: move on, let's move on, I was like, fuck, do
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  Speaker 3: they think it was her? That's what I thought, because
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  Speaker 3: she's trying to cover for a best friend, which I'm
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  Speaker 3: so sorry under the bus you go, I'm.
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  Speaker 5: Not getting done dirty.
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  Speaker 4: It was poppy, it was poppy.
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  Speaker 5: It wasn't poppy, it was Lily No I thought.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, does it Simon, there's too many we
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  Speaker 1: fucked it.
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  Speaker 5: All we know is that Gerald's a dirty dog too.
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  Speaker 4: Guy, let's bring Gerald into the chat.
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  Speaker 1: You know what?
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  Speaker 3: Fuck?
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  Speaker 5: Gerald?
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  Speaker 4: Can air be and b and invite Gerald and time up.
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  Speaker 1: There's actually like a full on horror movie called I
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  Speaker 1: think Gerald's Games.
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  Speaker 4: Stephen King novel, Yeah like that, and it is.
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  Speaker 2: It's like in the woods somewhere.
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  Speaker 5: It's got nothing to do with this, but we.
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  Speaker 3: Can do a reboot because reboots are really in and
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  Speaker 3: it's basedoping a completely different story.
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  Speaker 4: Love it okay, Oh.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like I just want to hug it because it's like,
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  Speaker 1: I genuinely didn't mean to blow up the whole trip.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't you did it?
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  Speaker 1: The fact that you even left with your best friend
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  Speaker 1: early the next day shows how good of a friend
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  Speaker 1: you are. Like, I try to really back yourself in
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  Speaker 1: this scenario and be like, at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't do this. Yeah, Like, I'm sorry you felt
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  Speaker 1: like I outed you, but I was uncomfortable and I
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  Speaker 1: couldn't control my reaction because I didn't know what to do. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know why you That was the scenario
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  Speaker 1: to say you fucked Gerald.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, ha ha, guess what gave Gerald a gobby?
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  Speaker 5: Sorry?
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  Speaker 1: What? It's not the time, No, God, simone is upset.
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  Speaker 5: I can't remember which one?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, which one?
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  Speaker 3: Wow?
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  Speaker 4: Alrighty shall we move on to dilemma?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Would you fuck a guy whose name was Gerald?
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  Speaker 2: How hod is he?
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  Speaker 4: But his name is Jerald Gerald Styles?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: If Harry changed his name to.
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  Speaker 4: Gerald, Harold and Gerald are actually kind of.
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  Speaker 2: Would you?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Jerry, Yeah, let's rebrand to Jerry.
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  Speaker 1: Jerry, Oh, Jerry, Oh yes, Jerry right there.
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  Speaker 4: No, it doesn't work anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Tried trauma best.
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  Speaker 2: I sorry to all the Geralds out there.
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  Speaker 1: Someone's cup team, Yeah, exactly, Poppies, there's.
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  Speaker 4: A whole world of women waiting for you Gerald.
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  Speaker 1: All right, dilema numbers about four women just waiting for
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  Speaker 1: their Gerald.
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  Speaker 5: I'm just a Gerald standing in front of a Lily
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  Speaker 5: Poppy or Jessica asking.
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  Speaker 4: Your tailor's oldest time.
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  Speaker 5: All right, Donnyhill, reboot, let's go. We've got Gerald's game
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  Speaker 5: and nodding Jerry, No.
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  Speaker 4: That's about as good as the reboots are these.
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  Speaker 5: Oh fuck, okay. Dilema number two.
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  Speaker 2: Dilemma number two.
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  Speaker 3: So my partner male has just moved out with two
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  Speaker 3: other guys. He really gets along well with one of them,
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  Speaker 3: who also has a girlfriend. So I was keen for
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  Speaker 3: double dates. Obviously, let's call this guy John. They seem
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  Speaker 3: to hang out quite a bit. My partner then randomly
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  Speaker 3: the other night says, oh, and by the way, John
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  Speaker 3: has a girl staying over.
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  Speaker 4: Lol, bit weird.
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  Speaker 3: So my immediate reaction is, wait, what is that not
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  Speaker 3: his girlfriend? And he said, nah, she's an exchange student.
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  Speaker 3: So I ask where is she sleeping, knowing they don't
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  Speaker 3: have an extra room, and he said, oh, she stays
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  Speaker 3: in John's room.
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  Speaker 4: John, you dirty dog, there is only one double.
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  Speaker 2: Bed in his room.
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  Speaker 1: Do I have a blown play on the floor.
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  Speaker 3: John, my partner, said, they seem strictly friendly, but they're
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  Speaker 3: legit sleeping in the same bed. Is that not so weird?
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  Speaker 3: I feel so awkward if I see the girlfriend. What
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  Speaker 3: if she doesn't know? I would hate to be in
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  Speaker 3: her shoes and I would want to know. But I
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  Speaker 3: also don't want to put my foot in my mouth
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  Speaker 3: and do the wrong thing here. I wish I never
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  Speaker 3: got told to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel you.
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  Speaker 3: Shit, I do think that is a little bit weird
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  Speaker 3: to have, like another woman sleeping in your boyfriend's little
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  Speaker 3: consistently little right, somebody's her kill?
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  Speaker 5: Pero, there's been a murder.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Is that how you say his name? I don't know Sherlock.
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  Speaker 1: There you go, there's a detective perfect fuck.
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  Speaker 4: No, yeah, that's really really weird too.
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  Speaker 1: If Chris lived with two other guys and some girl
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  Speaker 1: from overseas came and was sleeping bed with him death.
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  Speaker 3: Well that's the thing, Like if it was just a
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  Speaker 3: friend and it was because no, for me, I would
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  Speaker 3: because Chris has a love.
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  Speaker 5: Read enough friends to love his books.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, no fucking way, You're not sleeping in bed with
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  Speaker 1: another girl.
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  Speaker 3: No, it was kind of in secret, and it's like
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  Speaker 3: an ongoing thing, like why do.
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  Speaker 1: You have an exchange student living at your hair girlfriend?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really really inappropriate.
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  Speaker 3: I think you need to put this on your boyfriend
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  Speaker 3: to speak to John and be like, hey.
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  Speaker 2: John, does your girlfriend know that?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that mate is sleeping in your What if John
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  Speaker 3: just lies, well, then you've at least tried your best.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not good at these ones because people are
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  Speaker 1: a lot better at me than like not sticking their
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  Speaker 1: nose where it doesn't belong, Whereas I feel like I am.
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  Speaker 5: Not very good at not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: And I would be like, yeah, really did you know?
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  Speaker 3: Like, because well, do you have a relationship with this
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  Speaker 3: girl as well?
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  Speaker 2: Like are you guys friends?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 1: I know you think you have to work out like
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  Speaker 1: how close are you with John's girlfriend?
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  Speaker 2: Because if you're really.
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  Speaker 1: Close and like the boyfriend says, hey, does your girlfriend
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  Speaker 1: know that this is happening?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: And I feel like you.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Could probably float it like be like, oh, have you
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  Speaker 1: met insert exchange girl's name here?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: And if she's like oh, not really like bloh and
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  Speaker 1: really doesn't seem like she knows anything.
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  Speaker 3: I then yeah, try and like press her for more
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  Speaker 3: and see how much you knows.
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  Speaker 4: I've Yeah, but I probably would say something.
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  Speaker 1: I'd probably say something to I just try to know
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  Speaker 1: if that's like the right answer.
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  Speaker 3: I would just try to get the steps there before
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  Speaker 3: immediately jumping in and doing it.
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  Speaker 1: Like I think giving people the opportunity to do the
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  Speaker 1: right thing, you know, which you know, maybe she does
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  Speaker 1: know and maybe he's not doing the wrong thing at all.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe maybe she's like, oh no, I really know her.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe the girl's not even into guys exactly, you know,
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: like maybe the exchange girl isn't like is gay or
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: asexual or whatever, so it's like not weird.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like that could be the thing there.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: But yeah, like I think there's there's a big difference
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: between hearing it from someone and seeing it and knowing
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  Speaker 1: it's one hundred percent true. So that's like worth considering
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: as well, Like like what you're saying just because someone
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: might be comfortable with something and someone isn't. You can't
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: use what you would do in a relationship as the
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: rule of thumb as well, because maybe they have had
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: that conversation. But I think it's about like sussing the
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: vibe of whether that has happened. Because if I was
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: in that scenario and people knew about it and I didn't,
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I would be very grateful to the person that told me.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: And that's what I always think, Like, what would I
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: want to know in that scenario? And you'd always want
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: to know the truth.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Because the best case scenario is she knows, she's like, wow,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: what a loyal friend. Yeah, thanks Jessica, And I don't
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: know why every fake scenariojesh cap like that is just yeah,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: like and then the worst case scenario, she's like what wtf. Yeah,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: but then she also knows. Yeah, and maybe and you'll
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: probably get in a bit of shit for sticking your
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: nose in it. But at the end of the day,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: I would think, would I rather be the person that
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: kept a secret from someone that they should have known
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: or the person who probably maybe overstepped a little bit,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: but I did what I think is the right thing.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Because like.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just a bit weird because it's not even
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: like it was like, oh, one time this happens, That's
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: It's not like, oh, you're on a trip with a
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: group of friends and then like you guys have slept
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: in the same bed one night kind of thing.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: It's like this.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Random personal put a mattress in the living room.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, literally, yeah, get an air mattress, even if she
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: has to sleep in your room, get an air mattress
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: and put it on the floor.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Weird vibes.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's a good idea of potentially encouraging
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: your boyfriend to talk to John first, though, yeah, being like,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: hey does blah blah no, because yeah, it does sound
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: like the last season of White Lotus with like there
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: was like two couples and it was just very complicated
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: crossing lines. Yeah, and even more complicated because people seem
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: to clock it, but like no one said anything, and
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: so it's just this big thing that's in the air
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: that like gets bigger and bigger and bigger. I always
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: remember this like story book. This is such a niche
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: thing that we got read when I was like in
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: year one. Bear with me, I'm gonna need to try
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: and find it. And it was about this like rock
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: that this kid like keeps pushing around. Yeah, and it's
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: like a ball of mud or something.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: I think you've told me this story.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I told you, And he refuses to let go of
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: this rock. And he keeps pushing it and pushing it
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: and over the book, it becomes this giant boulder that
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: he has to keep pushing and pushing around because he
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: refuses to like let go of it, and it then
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: becomes such a burden to him of something that was
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: small that refusing to do anything about it or let
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: go of it resulted in this weight that I'm like,
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: this sounds super deep for year Wine, by the way,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: but this was the law of Lisid. I like, as
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: children's books have so much of that, this just reminds
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: me of that that It's like, you know, maybe at
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: the moment it's just this small thing of an exchange
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: student and there's nothing that deep to it. But you know,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: the more that maybe this behavior happens, like is it
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: going to become that bolder? But that becomes this really
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable thing.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, And that's not your burden.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: No I toting like I wish I was never told ignorances.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Will say, yeah, well that is a rap.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: That is a wrap.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Thanks so much today's chicks.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Chat pleasure, as I feel like we potentially dropped the
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: ball in that last one, but your writing was too funny.
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so ten out of ten.
• 20:45
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• 20:58
  Speaker 1: And thanks for having us in Earholes Chicks.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: We love to be here, love it.
• 21:03
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