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The Final CUT · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and cam
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Speaker 1: rich Edge. Thanks you guys for tuning in to another
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Speaker 1: episode of Two Teas in a Pod and to see
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Speaker 1: thanks to Cynthia Bility joining me and Okay last night's episode.
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Speaker 1: First thing I need to say, Cynthia, there's rich and
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Speaker 1: then there's having a personal chef just whipping up a
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Speaker 1: family meal and a casual Tuesday night.
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Speaker 2: What is happening here? Why don't I have one?
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Speaker 3: Exactly? Why don't I have one? Yeah, I got a
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Speaker 3: lot more work to do. I got a lot more
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Speaker 3: jobs book, for sure.
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Speaker 1: We got we gotta be putting in the work. I mean,
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Speaker 1: but I guess no matter how rich Heather is, she
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Speaker 1: can still mangle the English language as much as I do.
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Speaker 1: I in her confessional, did you hear when she goes breakfast?
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Speaker 3: I didn't cast it? Actually see money can't grammar, honey,
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Speaker 3: money can't.
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Speaker 2: Buy you grammar? So good? Okay.
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Speaker 1: So then then we get into Gina wanting to give
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Speaker 1: Jen credit for being open about her past, but the
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Speaker 1: infidelity makes her uncomfortable. Gina talks about how she has
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Speaker 1: a close relationship with infidelity and it really bothers her,
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Speaker 1: so you know, in the past, her ex cheated on
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Speaker 1: her and it ended up in a very tumultuous relationship where.
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Speaker 2: Cops are called all these things. But at Tama's.
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Speaker 1: Party, Gina walks away when Jen begins to explain what
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Speaker 1: happened with her ex husband right and saying, I'm not
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Speaker 1: sitting there for let's pretend that infidelity is okay. Do
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Speaker 1: you understand what Gina's saying or do you think she's
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Speaker 1: being overly judgmental.
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Speaker 3: I can't understand her trigger since she has been through
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Speaker 3: a situation where she was cheated on. However, I do
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Speaker 3: feel like she did come up a little bit judgmental,
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Speaker 3: because I mean, at the end of the day, you know,
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Speaker 3: until you actually walk into another walk in another woman's shoes,
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Speaker 3: you don't really know what they're really dealing with and
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Speaker 3: the things that you don't know, and you can't honestly
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Speaker 3: say what you would wouldn't do if you were actually
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Speaker 3: in that situation. And I'm not like saying, hey, go
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Speaker 3: cheat on your husband, but I will say that, especially
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Speaker 3: now at this point in my life, I know that
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Speaker 3: I need attention from whoever I'm with, whether it's my husband,
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Speaker 3: whether it's my boom bay, whatever's going on. And you know,
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Speaker 3: with my life, I was always super busy and like,
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Speaker 3: oh not good. You know, I don't need that much.
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Speaker 3: But I'm in my attention seeking era. So I want
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Speaker 3: you to put the attention to me. I want you
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Speaker 3: to hold my hand. I want you to make me
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Speaker 3: feel beautiful, like I need those things. And if you're
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Speaker 3: not getting it from your man, then of course it
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Speaker 3: feels good to walk into Hofus and a guy go, hey,
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Speaker 3: you look really beautiful today. Like not saying you got
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Speaker 3: a cheat on it, but it feels good to get,
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Speaker 3: you know, attention from someone.
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Speaker 1: I agree, And I think that it would have come
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Speaker 1: off a little to me. It almost looked like desperate
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Speaker 1: to have something to be upset about, to like to
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Speaker 1: you know, draw up drama a little bit. It would
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Speaker 1: have made more sense to me if they were very
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Speaker 1: good friends and her best friend was lying to her
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Speaker 1: about their relationship and and she was triggered by that,
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Speaker 1: like you know how much I've struggled.
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Speaker 2: But like they didn't.
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Speaker 3: Even know each other exactly.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, so, why so pressed? Like I have two
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Speaker 2: random strangers?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you know she got a show. When you're
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Speaker 3: on a show like this, you know, you're you're always
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Speaker 3: looking for a moment like, Oh, here's my moment. I'm
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Speaker 3: really upset that you didn't. You know that you feel
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Speaker 3: this way, you know what I'm saying. So I don't
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Speaker 3: know if she was putting a lot on it because
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Speaker 3: she actually is on a TV show, or she actually
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Speaker 3: just really was that bothered by it.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean.
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Speaker 1: Also, something that I learned this episode that I didn't
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Speaker 1: realize was that I thought Jinn's ex husband, I thought
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Speaker 1: he always worked for her family. I didn't realize that happened.
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Speaker 3: After Yes, I realized that on this episode.
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Speaker 1: And that was kind I thought they were staying together
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Speaker 1: for so long because he worked for her family and
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Speaker 1: I was and.
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Speaker 2: It was like a family business.
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Speaker 1: But then I was like, oh he left, and then
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Speaker 1: I got even more confused, and I'm like very confusing.
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Speaker 3: But I will say that Jen. What I do like
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Speaker 3: about Jen is she's like she's like standing in the truth,
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Speaker 3: like I kind of believe her. I feel like she
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Speaker 3: just like it is what it is, and she's not
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Speaker 3: really like lying about it to me. It's just like, hey, yeah,
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Speaker 3: this happened. She's not defensive about it. She's like, yeah,
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Speaker 3: this is what it is. And I'm not saying, you know,
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Speaker 3: you have to agree with it, but this happened to
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Speaker 3: me and I'm with this guy, and does that happened?
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Speaker 3: And it was not a big master plan. Sometimes things
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Speaker 3: just happened. I mean I wasn't there. But sometimes, you know,
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Speaker 3: life life's.
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Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, sure life does life. But like,
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Speaker 1: do you think that when it comes to a man
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Speaker 1: or a woman wants a cheater, always a cheater.
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Speaker 3: Mmmm? Oh, that's a good question. I kind of do.
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Speaker 3: But I do feel like people can change if they
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Speaker 3: want to. I don't think you can change people, but
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Speaker 3: I think people can make the decision to change their
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Speaker 3: trifling ways if they want to. I do so. I
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Speaker 3: don't know. A question, but I don't know. I don't know.
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Speaker 3: It's tricky. What do you think I.
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Speaker 2: Think that, yes, I think if you really put the
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Speaker 2: work in.
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Speaker 1: I think that in every marriage, there's our relationship, there's
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Speaker 1: highs and lows. I mean there's times where after your kid,
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Speaker 1: you're not even having sex with your like for not
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Speaker 1: just the six weeks, Like I remember after Becuz, like
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, I get enough, you know,
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Speaker 1: Like I think there's you know, intimacy changes all of that.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean some people are just cheaters. It just
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Speaker 3: is what it is. I'm not a cheater. I will
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Speaker 3: actually if I even feel like I'm like like I
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Speaker 3: like someone else or I'm a tract to somewhere else
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Speaker 3: someone else, and I feel like I want to pursue that, like,
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Speaker 3: I'll just break up. I'll just leave my situation and
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Speaker 3: then just be free and clear to do what I
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Speaker 3: want to do because I don't have the energy of
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Speaker 3: the time to like sneak around and try to like
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Speaker 3: you know, divide myself between two people. I'm just not
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Speaker 3: built for like that. I'm a one person kind of girl.
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Speaker 3: So I'll just break up with you and go be
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Speaker 3: with the person that I wanted to be. Because it's
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Speaker 3: actually a real thing that could happen to any of us.
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Speaker 3: Like honestly, like we meet people all the time. We're
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Speaker 3: always around people, and it's like just natural to like
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Speaker 3: maybe be attracted to someone, whether you want to like
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Speaker 3: you know, pursue it or not. Like you know, you
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Speaker 3: have to go home to your man. I have to
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Speaker 3: look at you know, maybe some cutter man and be like, wow,
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Speaker 3: I really.
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Speaker 1: Love this guy or not, and then also having those
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Speaker 1: open conversations with your significant other if you have like that.
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Speaker 2: I went and did this TV show one.
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Speaker 1: Day, and I not celebrity big Brother before you get
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Speaker 1: any ideas, but I came home it was just like
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Speaker 1: a news thing and I said to I don't know,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh. The guy that interviewed me
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Speaker 1: was like so cute and funny. I'm just telling you
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Speaker 1: because I felt it for a second. I just want
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Speaker 1: eat it out.
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Speaker 2: And I was like, he's like, oh, I could see why.
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Speaker 1: He thought that because I didn't keep it as a
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Speaker 1: secret because it is, you know, it's common knowledge.
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Speaker 2: But anyways, I guess we gotta get our.
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Speaker 3: Husband's boyfriends whatever. I mean, let's not we're not idiots.
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Speaker 3: If a beautiful woman walks into a restaurant and he's there,
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Speaker 3: what is he gonna do, like hot his eyes, He's
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Speaker 3: gonna be like, you know, in his mind, like wow,
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Speaker 3: she looks great. Not that it's completely innocent and harmless,
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Speaker 3: but we all have eyes, and we all have blood
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Speaker 3: pumping through our veins, and it's like it's just natural
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Speaker 3: to be to notice, you know, keep people fine.
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Speaker 2: Well, I mean granted, my husband has a hat on.
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Speaker 1: He's a Dominican Republican Dominican republic. Right now, I'm supposed
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Speaker 1: to be there, but then they did they didn't get
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Speaker 1: into summer camp.
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Speaker 2: But his hat says I love big boats and I.
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Speaker 1: Cannot lie, and he's like, oh, Like I'm like, oh,
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Speaker 1: I cannot with you.
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Speaker 2: But anyway, point in case. Okay, So then we back
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Speaker 2: to Gina a little bit.
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Speaker 1: I feel like when Gina and her boyfriend are having
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Speaker 1: their conversation on the couch or whatever, maybe they're researching
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Speaker 1: real estate or whatever he's it feels like they're like
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Speaker 1: reading ads. Like it's as bad as when I try
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Speaker 1: to like read an ad on my Instagram and it's.
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Speaker 2: Like, hey guys, taple ink here. Like it felt scripted
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Speaker 2: to me.
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Speaker 3: I kind of like I must like I was late
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Speaker 3: what I'm in New York. It was like it was
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Speaker 3: so late when I was watching it. I must snoozeop
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Speaker 3: a little bit on that part. I do not remember
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Speaker 3: that part, So you didn't.
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Speaker 1: Feel like room no, but I do feel a little
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Speaker 1: bit of shade there that you set up you snoozed
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Speaker 1: off during that part, because uh, there's between that and Heather's.
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Speaker 2: Kids going to college. Listen, I'm excited for the kids
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Speaker 2: going to college. But enough, I get it.
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Speaker 3: Get those kids to college already.
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Speaker 2: We're with three episodes, and I got it.
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Speaker 1: I don't need to know about their laundry services anymore
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Speaker 1: or what they're gonna eat for breakfast.
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Speaker 2: Like, I got it.
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Speaker 3: I don't feel like shitty parents at this point. I
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Speaker 3: was in kids college. Obviously, I didn't do near enough
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Speaker 3: for Noah when I sent her off. So I get it.
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Speaker 3: Get those kids over there and let's move on.
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Speaker 1: Did you notice the shady editing when they are showing
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Speaker 1: Shannon get out of the car crawling over the stag?
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Speaker 2: But why did they do that?
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Speaker 3: I love that. I love that I have so many,
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Speaker 3: so many of the Shannon. The more and more I
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Speaker 3: get to know her, I am so like this woman is.
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Speaker 3: She's so interesting to me because I don't really know
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Speaker 3: a lot of the backstory. And I know, like some
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Speaker 3: of the fans of your show get mad at me
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Speaker 3: because they're like, why isn't the own here? She doesn't
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Speaker 3: really like know a lot of the Orange County stuff. Well,
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Speaker 3: I'm learning, okay, and I'm actually becoming pretty invested through
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Speaker 3: through this show. So I don't know. I can't wait
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Speaker 3: till we get to the part where we talk about
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Speaker 3: her and Tamera because that's like my favorite thing to
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Speaker 3: talk about at this point in my life. But I
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Speaker 3: don't like the whole Crystal store thing. Getting out the
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Speaker 3: car kind of like humanized her. To just see her
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Speaker 3: crawling out of that seat out of a car like
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Speaker 3: that to me with her butt to the camera, I
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Speaker 3: kind of I kind of liked it. Well, she's pretty cold,
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Speaker 3: became the camera. So this woman always like this, I
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Speaker 3: will never get on her bedside.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I started to feel like the right because
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Speaker 1: now we know that John and Shannon are broken up.
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Speaker 1: They broke up after the season stopped airing. What's your
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Speaker 1: Vibe from John?
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Speaker 2: I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I kind of felt like they definitely I felt their
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Speaker 3: chemistry in this episode, like you know, not knowing what
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Speaker 3: was to come. But I don't know. I mean, they
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Speaker 3: weren't like all over each other or anything, but I
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Speaker 3: felt like he was, you know, into her, I guess,
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Speaker 3: but but she's not really Like They're just not like
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Speaker 3: a lovey dovey couple from what I've seen so far.
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Speaker 3: So I.
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Speaker 1: Don't know, but I think it's like when you have
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Speaker 1: your guard up with a person, Like I don't think
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Speaker 1: there's I'm not a PDA person by any means. Like
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Speaker 1: I even when I go to sleep, I'm good with
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Speaker 1: like three minutes of cuddle time and then I'm like, okay,
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Speaker 1: now back to your side of the bed or you know,
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Speaker 1: I'm not like we need to keep our hands touching
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Speaker 1: all night long.
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Speaker 3: So I am I want to like eat dinner with
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Speaker 3: you and be holding your hand while I'm eating my food. No, oh,
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Speaker 3: I'm horrible. Yes, I'm a hei ses girl. What I
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Speaker 3: tell you, all I want to do is like stick
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Speaker 3: my tongue down my man's throat.
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Speaker 1: Like I mean, I'm fine with making out and some sex,
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Speaker 1: but then like I don't want to be sweaty cuddling afterwards.
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Speaker 3: I love sweaty cuddling.
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Speaker 1: Now okay, then how'd you feel about when Taylor meets
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Speaker 1: with Heather and the acting coach to run lines to
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Speaker 1: prepare for the upcoming For all, you can speak to
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Speaker 1: this more than me, because I mean, this was worse
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Speaker 1: than when I audition from my STRIDEX commercial in nineteen
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Speaker 1: ninety nine.
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Speaker 3: All right, so I was, I love tailor, but I
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Speaker 3: was suppressed. I didn't know she was an actress. Like,
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Speaker 3: I'm not even trying to be shady. I didn't know,
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Speaker 3: like was this something? Is this new? Like, because I
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Speaker 3: know I'm new to acting, So is this is it
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Speaker 3: new that she's like acting now?
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Speaker 2: Well?
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Speaker 3: I don't know.
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Speaker 1: But I also think it's shady editing that whenever they
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Speaker 1: talk about Heather being an actress, they write they do
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Speaker 1: a flashback picture and then it says pilot.
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Speaker 2: For those of y'all that don't know, when it says pilot,
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Speaker 2: it means it never made it air. So I'm like,
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Speaker 2: why do they keep showing that one?
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Speaker 3: Because it's shady and they knew that you would catch it,
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Speaker 3: Teddy and point it out.
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Speaker 2: Do you think that.
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Speaker 1: I didn't really think that Heather seemed drunk enough on
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Speaker 1: the boat to not remember being asked to be like.
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Speaker 1: She doesn't seem like someone that gets I mean, she
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Speaker 1: she threw her shot over the edge the last broke
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Speaker 1: on the fish.
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Speaker 2: No, I feel like she remembered the conversation.
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Speaker 3: She just don't want to be remembered that conversation. I
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Speaker 3: just feel like maybe she just didn't want to do it.
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know. Maybe she seriously I
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Speaker 3: don't know.
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Speaker 2: But then do you think she's being condescending or is
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Speaker 2: it just pretentious.
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Speaker 3: Bryan to you know how you're like in a situation
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Speaker 3: with a friend where you don't really want to do
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Speaker 3: something but you want to still be supportive, Like you
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Speaker 3: know what I mean. I feel like she's like kind
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Speaker 3: of stick between a rock and a hard place. Like
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Speaker 3: I don't feel like Heather wants to have anything to
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Speaker 3: do with the movie. That's that's my feeling, but I
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Speaker 3: do feel like she wants to be there to support Taylor.
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Speaker 1: Well, then this is what I I'm very different in
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Speaker 1: that way, Like if I don't want to do something,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, if you can't, if you were like Teddy,
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Speaker 1: you you know you want to come do blah blah blah,
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Speaker 1: and it's something that I really don't enjoy doing or
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Speaker 1: I'm not interested in doing, or I feel like I
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Speaker 1: am too good to do, which I don't really know
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Speaker 1: what you and I would have that you're so much
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Speaker 1: worse than me, Like it doesn't make any sense, but
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Speaker 1: I would just say no, you know, let's do this instead.
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Speaker 1: I don't really want to do that but being an actress,
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Speaker 1: I do need to know if you breathe from your
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Speaker 1: huh to prepare.
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Speaker 3: Now, that was interesting because I did think about that.
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Speaker 3: I did think about that. Yeah, Like there was a
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Speaker 3: lot of like really good techniques that she talked about
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Speaker 3: that I have, you know, gone through with my own
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Speaker 3: acting coach. The whoh thing was not the thing that
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Speaker 3: stuck out the most. It was the giving blow jobs
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Speaker 3: will help open up your throats. I can break them
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Speaker 3: my hoho ha on my own, but now as an
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Speaker 3: up and coming actress, I'm single trying to give a
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Speaker 3: blowjob to open up my throat whenever I get ready
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Speaker 3: to do things and stuff.
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Speaker 2: You, Kushian, are you doing keegels right now? Because I
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Speaker 2: can't help myself?
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Speaker 3: I am. I definitely am. Are you kidding me? This
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Speaker 3: thing's gonna be ready when it's back on the market. Absolutely,
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Speaker 3: I'm doing them right now. I know.
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Speaker 1: The second I start talking about breathing from my hul,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, why am I doing tagles?
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Speaker 2: What is happening?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, that was pretty funny.
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Speaker 1: I also realized maybe I'm not doing Sorry Edwin, I
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Speaker 1: need to work on my blow jobs because.
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Speaker 2: I don't know how much I'm opening my throat cavity. Okay.
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Speaker 1: Then Tamra throws the party closing of Cut Fitness, which
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Speaker 1: I already texted her this. I thought Eddie looked so
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Speaker 1: handsome in his shorts with his little tie.
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Speaker 2: And like it was it was cute, it was special.
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Speaker 1: Then of course, nothing happy, nothing special, last for life.
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Speaker 1: Because they're at dinner and Gina's like, I'm keeping my
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Speaker 1: orange tonight, she brings up the gen.
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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I felt like, I don't know, I felt
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Speaker 4: like they could have left that one ride that night,
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Speaker 4: to be honest, Like, I just felt like I was
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Speaker 4: fine with a little private conversation with her and Heather
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Speaker 4: where they were just like yeah, yeah, yeah, this happened,
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Speaker 4: but like we'll just save that for the next episode
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Speaker 4: when we're just you know, not on you know, Tampra's
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Speaker 4: big night. And when she like agreed, and then all
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Speaker 4: of a sudden, she was like, well, blah.
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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah, what are you doing? You
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Speaker 3: said he say anything. I didn't know if it was
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Speaker 3: the right time to like bring that up. I didn't.
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Speaker 3: I didn't like that.
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Speaker 2: Do you think that.
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Speaker 1: Jen was doing it maliciously or do you think it
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Speaker 1: was just not like she just didn't think about it
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Speaker 1: either way, I also want to know how much of
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Speaker 1: it is her business if she came up with the TikTok, like,
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Speaker 1: I don't know these things same same.
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Speaker 3: I don't know if she was being malicious. I don't
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Speaker 3: know if that's the word, but I definitely feel like
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Speaker 3: she wanted to kind of call her out. Yeah, and
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Speaker 3: definitely what did you think.
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Speaker 1: The apology where Tamra calls Shannon one?
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Speaker 2: I was like, Tamara, you've.
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Speaker 1: Never looked like you look stunning in that face time.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, did you know glam for that?
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Speaker 3: What she really did? Actually, she totally had lamb and
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Speaker 3: she like for sure even like even her outfit was cute,
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Speaker 3: like she looked really great.
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Speaker 1: Oh, speaking of that, watch What Happens Live last night,
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Speaker 1: Heather said Andy, who had better style? Shannon or Tamra?
17:49
Speaker 1: And he said, Shannon, do you agree or disagree?
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Speaker 3: I have not really seen Shannon's style stick out to
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Speaker 3: me personally where I was like, oh my god, I
18:02
Speaker 3: have to go to her page and get some inspiration
18:05
Speaker 3: for like close square, like no shade Shannon. Okay, But
18:08
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I like, no, it didn't stick out. Now,
18:12
Speaker 3: I do think, to be fair, Tamra style is kind
18:16
Speaker 3: of more cutes see girly, Like she sees more like
18:18
Speaker 3: a cutes girl, And I'm not really like a cutesy
18:20
Speaker 3: girl kind of style. I'm pretty just simple and playing
18:22
Speaker 3: and I were black all the time and whatever whatever,
18:24
Speaker 3: So I don't have the same stylus Tamra. But I
18:26
Speaker 3: think Tamra style looks cute for Tamra. But I do
18:29
Speaker 3: like when she rocks her hats and stuff and the
18:31
Speaker 3: jeans and the white shirts and the belts and stuff
18:33
Speaker 3: like that's me all day. So I'm not going to
18:35
Speaker 3: actually nothing to think about it.
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Speaker 1: Well, Also, the way that me and Tamara have to
18:40
Speaker 1: dress versus we are five to three, I'll tall.
18:43
Speaker 3: You said I'm five ten, so it's slightly different.
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Speaker 1: But do you think that once Shannon got to cut,
18:54
Speaker 1: it still felt like after Tamar's apology, it still feels
18:58
Speaker 1: like Shannon wants nothing to do with it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is where I'm at with that. Okay,
19:02
Speaker 3: So I get it. I'm the kind of person when
19:06
Speaker 3: you piss me off, I can hold on two. I
19:09
Speaker 3: can stay pissed off. For a long time, like I
19:11
Speaker 3: need my time. I do, but if you continuously apologize, Man,
19:18
Speaker 3: now this time, you know, Tamra wasn't drunk. Tamra was
19:20
Speaker 3: in her right mind. The last time on the boat.
19:21
Speaker 3: I had to, like, you know, not be on Tambra's side. Yeah,
19:25
Speaker 3: she had faced drunk, so she was not drunk, and
19:28
Speaker 3: I felt like she was really sincere and she just
19:30
Speaker 3: kept leaning her low head into the show like, oh
19:32
Speaker 3: my god, I miss you so much. Like I at
19:35
Speaker 3: that point, I would be like, okay, you know what,
19:38
Speaker 3: let me just let this go. I wouldn't be like, well,
19:41
Speaker 3: this is fine, but now you need to apologize for
19:43
Speaker 3: the other one hundred and sixty things that you've done
19:45
Speaker 3: in our friend. Come on, now, go on, Shannon like
19:48
Speaker 3: the woman I mean. And I don't know how much.
19:51
Speaker 3: I don't know how many more times Tamra's going to
19:53
Speaker 3: come back and apologize, Like how many times could she apologize?
19:57
Speaker 3: I feel like, let's let's move on.
19:59
Speaker 1: You guys were free, yeah, and especially because and listen,
20:03
Speaker 1: I get it, they're both mad at each other. But
20:05
Speaker 1: now I do think both of them did things.
20:09
Speaker 2: That were in the wrong.
20:11
Speaker 1: Yes, but why is Tamar the only one ever apologizing
20:16
Speaker 1: like at some point.
20:18
Speaker 2: And I love Shannon and I have.
20:20
Speaker 1: Fun with Shannon every time I see her, and I
20:22
Speaker 1: know that they're good now. But I just wonder, why
20:27
Speaker 1: wasn't there like a reciprocal not in regards to the boat,
20:32
Speaker 1: but in regards to all the past stuff.
20:33
Speaker 2: Because it did happen, it did hurt her feelings, and now.
20:37
Speaker 1: Tamar's had you know, it looks like she's doubling down
20:39
Speaker 1: on like tripologies and they're.
20:43
Speaker 2: Just I don't know.
20:45
Speaker 3: The hurt definitely wasn't one sided. I think both of
20:47
Speaker 3: their feelings were hurt. And I think, you know, when
20:50
Speaker 3: it comes to you know, friendships, I don't think you
20:52
Speaker 3: can tell people how to process their hurt. I think
20:56
Speaker 3: I was fine with I feel like I have personally
20:58
Speaker 3: let Shannon go through enough time and the short bit
21:01
Speaker 3: of time I've been invested in Orange County doing this
21:04
Speaker 3: podcast with you, I feel like, okay, girl, I'm so
21:07
Speaker 3: with you. Take your time, process, heal do all that stuff.
21:11
Speaker 3: But for me, if my real friend who I love
21:14
Speaker 3: keeps coming back to me over and over and over
21:17
Speaker 3: again apologize it and really seeming sincere, I'm just gonna
21:21
Speaker 3: have to like let my girl back in, like and
21:24
Speaker 3: just say okay, we're gonna do abo, and I'll say,
21:25
Speaker 3: you know what I feel the way I feel, And
21:28
Speaker 3: I know I did some things to hurt you as well,
21:29
Speaker 3: So for those things, I am sorry as well, like.
21:32
Speaker 2: Yea or or go f off. I don't like you.
21:36
Speaker 1: I'm done with this friendship, Like there's no yeah, there's
21:38
Speaker 1: no middle ground, Like why make this person, you know,
21:42
Speaker 1: walk through fire continuously?
21:44
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm over it, like makeup already, like make up
21:47
Speaker 3: or make up?
21:48
Speaker 5: Yeah?
21:59
Speaker 1: Do you think the next week Tamara's gonna have to
22:01
Speaker 1: apologize for the.
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Speaker 3: Cake Listen, Okay, now this is where I have to
22:04
Speaker 3: get in Tamra's boat again. So I don't like like
22:10
Speaker 3: I'm the kind of girl, Like if I'm at a
22:11
Speaker 3: party and I'm all dressed up and it's a pool part,
22:14
Speaker 3: like if it's like a pool involved, like, I'm not
22:15
Speaker 3: the girl be like I'd be so funny to push
22:17
Speaker 3: Cynthia in the pool. It'd be so funny too, like,
22:19
Speaker 3: oh she looks great, let's throw cake on her. I'm
22:22
Speaker 3: not that girl. I'm not like give me a nice
22:25
Speaker 3: slice of cake. I can have fun in other ways,
22:26
Speaker 3: but I was mortified when the cake throwing started because
22:31
Speaker 3: I was like, wait a minute, what these women have
22:33
Speaker 3: on really expensive clothes? Like I was already like trying
22:36
Speaker 3: to figure out the dry cleaning deal. I don't like that. No, no, no, no, no.
22:40
Speaker 3: Put the cake on yourself if you want to, put
22:43
Speaker 3: it on your man if you want to, but not
22:45
Speaker 3: on me. No.
22:46
Speaker 1: Well, I can say my highlight of the cake incident
22:50
Speaker 1: was when Shannon I'm not with Shannon when uh, Tamra
22:55
Speaker 1: and Emily are you know, going at it? But Emily
22:58
Speaker 1: has the chunk of cake and she feeds it to
23:01
Speaker 1: Tamra's mom.
23:03
Speaker 3: I love that. I wasn't really like Emily who just
23:06
Speaker 3: started following me. By the way, thanks for following me, Emily,
23:09
Speaker 3: because I really thanks for the follow I know. No,
23:12
Speaker 3: I was like, and she comments too, so I was like, oh,
23:14
Speaker 3: she must have seen me on your show, so I
23:16
Speaker 3: was like, okay. But my highlight actually was when Emily
23:20
Speaker 3: took an underwear off because she was hot and put
23:22
Speaker 3: it in her purse. Like I was like, this is
23:26
Speaker 3: why I like this woman. Like I can't say that
23:29
Speaker 3: in the eleven years that I was on the show
23:31
Speaker 3: that I actually took my underwear off in a scene
23:33
Speaker 3: and put it in my purse and then pulled it
23:35
Speaker 3: out to show tonyone. I'm not saying that I ever
23:39
Speaker 3: did that or ever thought to do that, but I
23:41
Speaker 3: just was really freaking cool that she did that.
23:43
Speaker 2: She's like, I swept through these. I gotta go.
23:46
Speaker 3: Listen, she continues. Emily continues to impress me and prove
23:51
Speaker 3: that I should be friends with her at some point.
23:53
Speaker 3: But the things that she does on the show.
23:55
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta say other than Tama, because I love Tamara.
23:58
Speaker 2: Obviously, she's my girl.
24:00
Speaker 1: My two My two standouts this season are Gen and Emily.
24:05
Speaker 3: Same. Same.
24:07
Speaker 2: Yeah.
24:07
Speaker 1: So you know, I guess next week it's more's gonna
24:11
Speaker 1: unfold between the affair and the Ryan and what who's
24:15
Speaker 1: lying and what's not. So we'll really get to dig
24:18
Speaker 1: in it there and then, guys, I promise we'll do
24:20
Speaker 1: a deeper dive into it.
24:21
Speaker 2: And don't worry.
24:22
Speaker 1: I started making Cynthia watch Atlanta so I can dig
24:27
Speaker 1: her on all those questions next week when we have
24:29
Speaker 1: our full hour.
24:32
Speaker 2: Because I have some questions.
24:33
Speaker 1: But did you watch this past week I did, which
24:37
Speaker 1: Gucci outfit would you pick?
24:40
Speaker 3: Oh? I kind of think I want to go with
24:42
Speaker 3: Chaise I like.
24:44
Speaker 2: That's what Tamra said too. I just didn't like the underneath.
24:46
Speaker 1: I was confused why it was like a loose and
24:48
Speaker 1: flowy within a structured coat.
24:50
Speaker 2: But I did love the coat and I did not
24:53
Speaker 2: having all the labels.
24:55
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly exactly because I don't like it, like when
24:58
Speaker 3: it's like, you know, a big signed it says Gucci,
25:01
Speaker 3: Like I love that. It was just it just was
25:03
Speaker 3: like classy and it was like kind of timeless, and
25:06
Speaker 3: I felt like she could rock the jacket a different
25:08
Speaker 3: time with something else, the pants a different time. So
25:10
Speaker 3: I always think about things like that when I spend
25:12
Speaker 3: thousands of dollars on my clothes. So yeah, can I
25:15
Speaker 3: repurpose it and use it in other ways? You know
25:17
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So do you have notes right?
25:20
Speaker 1: And do you think that Marlow and Candy are going
25:23
Speaker 1: to be able to make up this season?
25:25
Speaker 3: I don't know about this season, but I think down
25:29
Speaker 3: the road that they can make up for sure. I
25:32
Speaker 3: think they will make up eventually, because I just don't
25:34
Speaker 3: think it's that deep. Like, Okay, so you're heard. I
25:37
Speaker 3: understand why you were upset. You had the conversation, Candy
25:41
Speaker 3: is basically like, look like I like, why are you
25:45
Speaker 3: making this about me? Like she just she's not in
25:49
Speaker 3: that space to really interest.
25:51
Speaker 2: A storyline at this point.
25:53
Speaker 3: It's like and it just keeps coming up. It's like
25:54
Speaker 3: she didn't send the flowers. She apologized, and I felt like,
25:58
Speaker 3: you know, Candy definitely has had some compassion for the situation,
26:01
Speaker 3: but you know, it's like really like just bugging the
26:04
Speaker 3: shit out of marlow for whatever reason, like even beyond
26:07
Speaker 3: the apology. However, I do think that a relationship that
26:11
Speaker 3: will not be able to be mended this season or
26:13
Speaker 3: at the reunion or in life is Kenya and Marlowe.
26:17
Speaker 3: I just don't see them ever like being friends again.
26:21
Speaker 2: No, They're like oil and water.
26:23
Speaker 3: It's just it's just they just think it's just gotten
26:27
Speaker 3: so low and below the build. And they both have
26:30
Speaker 3: like said things, you know what I'm saying.
26:32
Speaker 5: I don't know.
26:32
Speaker 3: It's just sad to watch because the more I watched them, like,
26:35
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is gonna ever, they just don't.
26:39
Speaker 1: They're both hitting below the belt at this point, and
26:42
Speaker 1: it's it's almost like egos are involved at this point,
26:45
Speaker 1: Like I want to show you I'm here. You're here,
26:48
Speaker 1: but then I want to show you that I'm going
26:49
Speaker 1: to point out everything you ever did, Like, I don't know.
26:51
Speaker 3: It's just yeah, it's almost like forget the show. I
26:54
Speaker 3: actually just don't like you.
26:56
Speaker 2: Yeah, forget this is for a storyline. I don't even
27:00
Speaker 2: want to look at you.
27:02
Speaker 3: If I was not coming to work with you to
27:05
Speaker 3: shoot the Royal House Buzz of Atlanta, I can assure
27:07
Speaker 3: you that I would. I would cross the street if
27:09
Speaker 3: I saw you coming, Like I just you're just not
27:11
Speaker 3: my girl. You're not my kind of girl. That's what
27:14
Speaker 3: it's giving to me. And it feels real, and it's
27:17
Speaker 3: like kind of exhausting to even think because I tried
27:20
Speaker 3: to get them to make up, you know, at my
27:22
Speaker 3: bachelorette party when I was in the circle, you know
27:24
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, and it worked, and then you know,
27:26
Speaker 3: when I left, you know, they fell off again. So
27:30
Speaker 3: I just think at some point you just have to
27:32
Speaker 3: find your people, stick with your people, and just at
27:35
Speaker 3: least try to be an incordial, respectful place since you
27:38
Speaker 3: up to work with him for the people who you
27:40
Speaker 3: really don't really care.
27:43
Speaker 2: Yep, Well, on that note, Cynthia said it perfectly. I
27:46
Speaker 2: am so happy to have you here.
27:48
Speaker 1: And next week, I promise we will have more time
27:51
Speaker 1: to talk all the things. Plus I feel like OCI's
27:54
Speaker 1: heating up and gonna get you way.
27:56
Speaker 3: I'm coming back next week.
27:57
Speaker 2: You guess what, Well, actually, this is your formal I'm
28:02
Speaker 2: formally giving you your two your two week notice, so.
28:07
Speaker 3: I would thank you for the heads up. We'll make
28:10
Speaker 3: sure that I schedule some time to jump back on
28:13
Speaker 3: next week. And you again, I love this, like I
28:17
Speaker 3: didn't even know. I was like, okay, no, no, I'm
28:20
Speaker 3: actually having a lot of fun hanging out with you,
28:23
Speaker 3: Teddy and sitting in for Tamra and I'm learning a
28:25
Speaker 3: lot more about OC and then we can tell wed
28:27
Speaker 3: Atlanta to So. So this is cool, and I guess
28:30
Speaker 3: I'll you know, hopefully see you guys next week. I'm
28:32
Speaker 3: in New York right now. I'm actually going to the
28:35
Speaker 3: American Ballet Gallop with Sutton tonight. So my bestie tell
28:39
Speaker 3: her I, so, Hi, Well, We're gonna FaceTime you bye,
28:45
Speaker 3: all right, love you bye.