Episode 7: You Need to Care
Is "I don't care, do whatever you want" really the humble answer?
When a wife asks where to put the couch and her husband says "I don't care, do whatever you like," he may think he's being easygoing — but Rabbi Klapper reveals it's actually an insult. Because a woman is an "ezer kenegdo," created to help and please her husband, what she needs most is to know that he likes it. "I don't care" tells her she's failed at her very purpose. The towering example is the Chofetz Chaim, who quietly took his sukkah apart and rebuilt it — twice — simply because his new wife had an opinion about where it…
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