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- 0:01SPEAKER_00: Hi, this is Ed Gallagher and I'm going to be talking about whether or not Paul
- 0:09SPEAKER_00: the Apostle had ever been married.
- 0:14SPEAKER_00: But before I get to that,
- 0:15SPEAKER_00: I want to do a little self-promotion
- 0:20SPEAKER_00: and alert you to a couple of things.
- 0:25SPEAKER_00: One is that I recently received my contributors copy For a new book
- 0:31SPEAKER_00: that I contributed to,
- 0:32SPEAKER_00: this is a book, the title of the book is, I think it's Apocrypha and Septuagint.
- 0:39SPEAKER_00: And it was edited by Bruce Longenecker and Marika Dont.
- 0:44SPEAKER_00: It was published by Zondervan just last week.
- 0:50SPEAKER_00: And If you're interested in the things I talk about here,
- 0:54SPEAKER_00: you'd probably be interested in this book.
- 0:56SPEAKER_00: I'd check it out.
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: It's not too expensive.
- 0:58SPEAKER_00: I think maybe it retails for, I don't know, $50 or something, but it's like 600 pages long.
- 1:05SPEAKER_00: And it contains articles on all of the books of the Apocrypha and then some articles
- 1:12SPEAKER_00: on the Septuagint as well.
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: It provides a pretty good All of these articles are written by different scholars,
- 1:19SPEAKER_00: experts in the field.
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: It provides a good introduction to all of these things.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: My particular article was on the Septuagint,
- 1:27SPEAKER_00: on the use of the Septuagint in early Christianity in the patristic period.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: So not New Testament, but after the time of the New Testament.
- 1:38SPEAKER_00: So that's one thing you might want to check that out.
- 1:40SPEAKER_00: Uh, another thing, uh,
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: that I'll mention is that it has recently been announced and I want to alert you
- 1:48SPEAKER_00: to it as well,
- 1:49SPEAKER_00: that I will be at Lipscomb university on October 13th, giving a public lecture.
- 1:55SPEAKER_00: That's a Tuesday evening.
- 1:58SPEAKER_00: The lecture actually starts pretty late, 7 30 PM.
- 2:01SPEAKER_00: That's late for me to be out, you know, um, But before that, there's a book signing.
- 2:09SPEAKER_00: So 6.30 p.m.
- 2:11SPEAKER_00: I don't know where it's going to happen, but somewhere on the campus of Lipscomb.
- 2:17SPEAKER_00: Hazel Lipp School of Theology.
- 2:18SPEAKER_00: It's called the Hazel Lipp Lecture is the thing I'm doing.
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: But then, okay, there's a book signing before that at 6.30 p.m.
- 2:25SPEAKER_00: And I'll have some of my books there and they will be available for purchase.
- 2:30SPEAKER_00: And if you have been looking for a chance to buy my latest book on
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: the Apocrypha published by Oxford last year that is super expensive,
- 2:39SPEAKER_00: I will have discounted copies available.
- 2:43SPEAKER_00: Some discounted copies.
- 2:45SPEAKER_00: I mean, it's still not going to be cheap, but...
- 2:50SPEAKER_00: But I figure some people will want to pick that up.
- 2:55SPEAKER_00: So they are wanting you to register, I guess, so they – I don't know why.
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: So they know how many to expect or something.
- 3:04SPEAKER_00: I suppose that's the point of registration.
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: So – On theSubstack page for this episode, there's a link to the place you can register.
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: Okay, so that's all.
- 3:17SPEAKER_00: Oh, the topic of the speech, by the way, is about the Apocrypha.
- 3:22SPEAKER_00: At Lipscomb, I'll be talking about the Apocrypha in the Bible.
- 3:28SPEAKER_00: Okay, now to St.
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: Paul and whether or not he was ever married in And I'm talking about this because
- 3:36SPEAKER_00: the question came to me at church from somebody recently, and so I did some digging.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: And here is what I have come up with.
- 3:48SPEAKER_00: Now, before I start reading my little essay,
- 3:53SPEAKER_00: let me say,
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: definitely when Paul writes 1 Corinthians, he is not married because he says it.
- 3:59SPEAKER_00: In 1 Corinthians 7, that's the marriage chapter.
- 4:02SPEAKER_00: And he says,
- 4:03SPEAKER_00: I wish all people were like me,
- 4:05SPEAKER_00: unmarried, because unmarried people can devote themselves totally to God.
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: So he's definitely not married when he writes 1 Corinthians.
- 4:16SPEAKER_00: The Bible gives no indication that he was ever married, I think.
- 4:20SPEAKER_00: I mean, some people actually think it does, but we'll get to that in just a moment.
- 4:28SPEAKER_00: But some people think it's likely that he had been married.
- 4:33SPEAKER_00: Some modern people, some ancient people.
- 4:35SPEAKER_00: So let's talk about it.
- 4:37SPEAKER_00: So some people think the Apostle Paul might have been married at one point in his life.
- 4:44SPEAKER_00: In fact, there was an early Christian tradition about it.
- 4:47SPEAKER_00: Eusebius,
- 4:48SPEAKER_00: the church historian in the early fourth century,
- 4:51SPEAKER_00: quoted Clement of Alexandria, who wrote at the turn of the third century.
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: So Eusebius in the fourth century,
- 4:59SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: let's say about 330 AD,
- 5:03SPEAKER_00: is quoting this guy,
- 5:06SPEAKER_00: Clement of Alexandria, who lived about 130 years earlier, around the year 200.
- 5:12SPEAKER_00: And here's what Eusebius says about Clement.
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: Quote, Clement,
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: whose words we cited recently in the context of the previous quotation,
- 5:23SPEAKER_00: enumerates,
- 5:24SPEAKER_00: on account of those who reject marriage, those of the... Let me just pause there.
- 5:31SPEAKER_00: Okay, so there were people who reject marriage and Clement is responding to them.
- 5:35SPEAKER_00: And so Eusebius says Clement enumerates...
- 5:39SPEAKER_00: Those of the apostles who were married.
- 5:41SPEAKER_00: He just talks about the married apostles.
- 5:44SPEAKER_00: Saying, and now Eusebius is quoting directly from Clement.
- 5:48SPEAKER_00: This is Clement then.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: Or will they disapprove even of the apostles?
- 5:54SPEAKER_00: For Peter and Philip begat children.
- 5:58SPEAKER_00: And Philip even gave his daughters to husbands.
- 6:02SPEAKER_00: While Paul himself does not hesitate in one of his letters to address his wife.
- 6:09SPEAKER_00: Whom he did not take about with him in order to facilitate his mission.
- 6:15SPEAKER_00: Okay, that's the end of the quotation.
- 6:18SPEAKER_00: What is Clement talking about?
- 6:22SPEAKER_00: Did Paul address his wife in one of his letters?
- 6:27SPEAKER_00: Well, it's an interpretation.
- 6:28SPEAKER_00: He is referring to the, quote, true yoke fellow that Paul mentions at Philippians 4 verse 3.
- 6:38SPEAKER_00: That's the Yodi and Syntyche context when Paul says in Philippians 4,
- 6:44SPEAKER_00: Yodi and Syntyche, y'all need to be nice to each other.
- 6:47SPEAKER_00: And then Paul says, and I ask you, true yoke fellow, that you will help them.
- 6:55SPEAKER_00: All right.
- 6:55SPEAKER_00: So Clement thinks that the true yoke fellow that Paul does not actually name,
- 7:03SPEAKER_00: Clement thinks that's his wife, that that is Paul's wife.
- 7:10SPEAKER_00: I don't know why he thinks that.
- 7:13SPEAKER_00: But a little bit later,
- 7:15SPEAKER_00: just a couple of decades after Clement,
- 7:18SPEAKER_00: Origen also knows the same tradition about Paul's marriage.
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: So this is a quote from Origen's commentary on Romans.
- 7:28SPEAKER_00: Quote, Paul then,
- 7:30SPEAKER_00: if certain traditions are true,
- 7:32SPEAKER_00: was called while in possession of a wife concerning whom he speaks when writing to
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: the Philippians.
- 7:41SPEAKER_00: Quote, I ask you also, my loyal mate, true yoke fellow, help these women.
- 7:47SPEAKER_00: That's Origen quoting Philippians.
- 7:50SPEAKER_00: And now back to Origen.
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: Since he had become free by mutual consent with her, He calls himself a slave of Christ.
- 7:59SPEAKER_00: But if, as others think,
- 8:02SPEAKER_00: he had no wife,
- 8:04SPEAKER_00: Origen leaves open the possibility that actually Paul never was married.
- 8:08SPEAKER_00: If that's the case,
- 8:09SPEAKER_00: Origen says,
- 8:10SPEAKER_00: nonetheless, he who was free when he was called is yet a slave of Christ.
- 8:16SPEAKER_00: Okay, that's the end of the quote from Origen.
- 8:19SPEAKER_00: If Paul had a wife at one time, what happened to her?
- 8:24SPEAKER_00: Well, we can think of the options.
- 8:26SPEAKER_00: The options are death and divorce.
- 8:31SPEAKER_00: Maybe the apostle was a widower,
- 8:34SPEAKER_00: as some people think,
- 8:36SPEAKER_00: and they think Paul actually refers to this in 1 Corinthians 7 verse 8,
- 8:41SPEAKER_00: but we'll discuss that in just a moment.
- 8:45SPEAKER_00: Or if he wasn't a widower, then there would have been a divorce.
- 8:50SPEAKER_00: We could imagine a couple of scenarios.
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: Is it possible that Paul divorced his wife?
- 8:56SPEAKER_00: Well, you know,
- 8:58SPEAKER_00: before he was a Christian,
- 9:00SPEAKER_00: the Pharisee Saul of Tarsus might have divorced his wife for any number of reasons,
- 9:05SPEAKER_00: assuming he adhered to the views of Rabi Hillel,
- 9:09SPEAKER_00: who was pretty lenient on such matters.
- 9:11SPEAKER_00: There was a dispute there.
- 9:13SPEAKER_00: In ancient Judaism,
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: according to the Mishnah,
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: between the school of Hillel and the school of Shammai,
- 9:22SPEAKER_00: the school of Shammai said, There are very few reasons for a legitimate divorce.
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: And the school of Hillel said there's all kinds of reasons for a legitimate divorce.
- 9:35SPEAKER_00: And Hillel, as you can well imagine, was the more popular of the rabbis.
- 9:40SPEAKER_00: And so if the Pharisee Saul of Tarsus followed Hillel's, well, I mean, sure,
- 9:47SPEAKER_00: he may have been married and divorced and been considered it perfectly fine at
- 9:51SPEAKER_00: the time.
- 9:55SPEAKER_00: On the other hand, maybe his wife left him.
- 9:58SPEAKER_00: We could imagine that,
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: whether in Judaism or after Saul had become Paul,
- 10:07SPEAKER_00: after seeing Jesus on the road to Damascus.
- 10:11SPEAKER_00: Maybe his wife left him because she didn't want to be married to
- 10:14SPEAKER_00: a Christian missionary or something.
- 10:18SPEAKER_00: But what sort of evidence might suggest that Paul was at one time married?
- 10:24SPEAKER_00: Now I'm going to quote from a book on Paul,
- 10:28SPEAKER_00: a book written by two scholars, Bruce Knott, Longenecker, and Todd Still.
- 10:32SPEAKER_00: This book was published in 2014.
- 10:34SPEAKER_00: Quote,
- 10:37SPEAKER_00: it may also be that Paul was married prior to the time that he wrote 1 Corinthians
- 10:43SPEAKER_00: in the mid-50s.
- 10:45SPEAKER_00: In that letter, he indicates he was not married.
- 10:48SPEAKER_00: Some scholars have noted, however, that Paul employed the term agamoi.
- 10:54SPEAKER_00: Which may be rendered widowers in 1 Corinthians 7, 8.
- 10:59SPEAKER_00: And suggest, the scholars suggest that the apostle included himself among that group.
- 11:06SPEAKER_00: If Paul were at one time married, I'm still quoting from Long and Necker and Steel.
- 11:12SPEAKER_00: If Paul were at one time married,
- 11:14SPEAKER_00: this would coincide with Jewish traditions that praised
- 11:19SPEAKER_00: and even stipulated marriage.
- 11:22SPEAKER_00: Such an expectation was probably present among Pharisaic Jews in the first century.
- 11:28SPEAKER_00: As a result,
- 11:29SPEAKER_00: Paul might well have thought it appropriate, both appropriate and prudent, to marry.
- 11:35SPEAKER_00: Okay, I'm done quoting from Longenecker and Steele.
- 11:39SPEAKER_00: So, possibly, according to them, Paul possibly called himself a widower in 1 Corinthians 7, 8.
- 11:49SPEAKER_00: Now, here's the verse in the ESV.
- 11:54SPEAKER_00: To the unmarried and the widows, I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
- 12:03SPEAKER_00: That's 1 Corinthians 7 verse 8, according to the ESV.
- 12:07SPEAKER_00: To the unmarried and the widows.
- 12:11SPEAKER_00: But that word unmarried at the beginning, that is the word agamas, agamas.
- 12:17SPEAKER_00: And some interpreters say,
- 12:20SPEAKER_00: Think that that term, agamas, actually means widower here.
- 12:26SPEAKER_00: So he would say to the widowers and the widows,
- 12:31SPEAKER_00: I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: Okay, and then some interpreters also,
- 12:38SPEAKER_00: not only do they say that agamas means widower,
- 12:41SPEAKER_00: but they also say that Paul is including himself in the categories.
- 12:48SPEAKER_00: And since he cannot be calling himself a widow, he must be calling himself an agamas.
- 12:54SPEAKER_00: And if that means a widower, well, then there you go.
- 12:58SPEAKER_00: QED.
- 12:59SPEAKER_00: Paul was married at one time.
- 13:01SPEAKER_00: He calls himself a widower.
- 13:04SPEAKER_00: So if the word agamas suggests widower,
- 13:09SPEAKER_00: and if Paul is including himself in the categories mentioned
- 13:12SPEAKER_00: in 1 Corinthians 7 verse 8, then Paul would be widower.
- 13:17SPEAKER_00: Self-identifying as a widower.
- 13:23SPEAKER_00: I think this argument is fairly weak.
- 13:29SPEAKER_00: A lot of assumptions there.
- 13:31SPEAKER_00: Okay, so we're going to go a different route.
- 13:34SPEAKER_00: Maybe there's another route to a married Paul.
- 13:37SPEAKER_00: What if it was expected of Jews in the first century?
- 13:42SPEAKER_00: Marriage was.
- 13:44SPEAKER_00: Okay, so here's F.F.
- 13:45SPEAKER_00: Bruce from 1977.
- 13:47SPEAKER_00: He says,
- 13:48SPEAKER_00: it may be pointed out that marriage was normal and indeed expected in pious Jews
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: when they came of age.
- 13:58SPEAKER_00: And Bruce here cites the Mishnah,
- 14:04SPEAKER_00: Pirkei Avot,
- 14:05SPEAKER_00: chapter 5,
- 14:06SPEAKER_00: Mishnah 21,
- 14:07SPEAKER_00: which says something like, age 18 is the appropriate time to get married.
- 14:14SPEAKER_00: Okay, now I'm going to go back to the quotation from Bruce.
- 14:17SPEAKER_00: Here's Bruce.
- 14:19SPEAKER_00: True, Jesus had spoken of certain exceptions,
- 14:24SPEAKER_00: those who,
- 14:24SPEAKER_00: as he said,
- 14:25SPEAKER_00: had made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven,
- 14:29SPEAKER_00: Matthew 19, 12, among whom he may have included John the Baptist himself.
- 14:36SPEAKER_00: But Paul was not presumably influenced by considerations of this kind in his pre-Christian days.
- 14:43SPEAKER_00: What then, was he a widower?
- 14:46SPEAKER_00: Perhaps he was.
- 14:47SPEAKER_00: The question has received a positive answer from Joachim Jeremias, for example.
- 14:56SPEAKER_00: Rather more probable is the view that his wife left him when he became a Christian,
- 15:02SPEAKER_00: that when he suffered the loss of all things,
- 15:05SPEAKER_00: Philippians 3.8, for the sake of Christ, he lost his wife too.
- 15:11SPEAKER_00: This cannot be proved,
- 15:12SPEAKER_00: of course,
- 15:13SPEAKER_00: but if something like this did happen,
- 15:15SPEAKER_00: it might explain Paul's specially sympathetic understanding of
- 15:20SPEAKER_00: the domestic situation in which the unconverted partner walks out on the husband
- 15:25SPEAKER_00: or wife who has become a Christian.
- 15:28SPEAKER_00: Quote from 1 Corinthians 7 verse 15, in such a case, the brother or sister is not bound.
- 15:36SPEAKER_00: Paul, for his part, Okay, all of that was a quotation from Bruce.
- 15:41SPEAKER_00: There are other arguments for a married Paul.
- 15:42SPEAKER_00: For instance,
- 15:43SPEAKER_00: Jerome Murphy O'Connor's biography of Paul from 1996 has about a four-page argument
- 15:48SPEAKER_00: about it.
- 16:04SPEAKER_00: And not everybody mentions it.
- 16:05SPEAKER_00: Like E.P.
- 16:06SPEAKER_00: Sanders has a book on Paul that came out about 10 years ago.
- 16:09SPEAKER_00: And I can't find it.
- 16:11SPEAKER_00: It's like a thousand pages long.
- 16:12SPEAKER_00: I can't find that he ever brings up the issue of whether Paul had been married before.
- 16:18SPEAKER_00: Anyway, the idea that Jews in the first century,
- 16:22SPEAKER_00: pious Torah observant Jews were generally expected to marry.
- 16:28SPEAKER_00: Was argued a century ago by Joachim Jeremias.
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: F.F.
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: Bruce mentioned this.
- 16:34SPEAKER_00: Joachim Jeremias in two very brief articles in a German language journal.
- 16:41SPEAKER_00: And I've got the references on my Substack page.
- 16:44SPEAKER_00: There's even a link to, you can see it for yourself.
- 16:48SPEAKER_00: If you read German, you can read this article.
- 16:52SPEAKER_00: If you don't read German, your phone probably does.
- 16:56SPEAKER_00: And you can read it if you want to go that route.
- 17:00SPEAKER_00: But let me, I'll summarize for you.
- 17:03SPEAKER_00: Jeremias, so these are articles from 1926.
- 17:05SPEAKER_00: So...
- 17:08SPEAKER_00: Yeah, well, the first one is from 1926, so literally a century ago.
- 17:13SPEAKER_00: Yeremias is pretty confident in his interpretation.
- 17:17SPEAKER_00: He says that a unanimous rabbinic teaching regarded marriage as a religious obligation.
- 17:25SPEAKER_00: So here's the evidence he cites.
- 17:27SPEAKER_00: First of all, the Mishnah.
- 17:30SPEAKER_00: I've got the link on my page.
- 17:31SPEAKER_00: If you want to see the mission of yourself, I've got the link.
- 17:34SPEAKER_00: You can go there and read it for yourself.
- 17:37SPEAKER_00: The tractate is Yevamot 6.6.
- 17:41SPEAKER_00: It states that Jewish men and maybe Jewish women,
- 17:45SPEAKER_00: although the jury's out on that,
- 17:48SPEAKER_00: are under obligation to fulfill the commandment of Genesis 1.28,
- 17:52SPEAKER_00: to be fruitful and multiply.
- 17:56SPEAKER_00: And the sages suggest that a person can consider himself to have performed
- 18:00SPEAKER_00: that mitzvah if he has produced two children.
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: You have done the thing if you have two children,
- 18:11SPEAKER_00: at least one of whom is male.
- 18:16SPEAKER_00: Indeed, so important is the mitzvah.
- 18:21SPEAKER_00: That after 10 years of marriage with no children, a man needs to seek a different wife.
- 18:27SPEAKER_00: That's all from the Mishnah.
- 18:30SPEAKER_00: Now this Mishnah is quoted in the Babylonian Talmud at Yivimot 61b.
- 18:36SPEAKER_00: Again, I've got the link if you want to see it, which then leads to a long discussion.
- 18:41SPEAKER_00: At the very beginning of the discussion,
- 18:43SPEAKER_00: it becomes clear that some rabbis thought that a Jewish man was obligated to have
- 18:49SPEAKER_00: a wife, Irrespective of children.
- 18:52SPEAKER_00: In other words, even if he already had children, he still needed a wife.
- 18:55SPEAKER_00: Being married was a separate obligation, according to these rabbis.
- 18:59SPEAKER_00: Not everybody maybe believed that.
- 19:02SPEAKER_00: Okay, so there's a command in the Bible to be fruitful and multiply.
- 19:06SPEAKER_00: That applies to everybody.
- 19:07SPEAKER_00: This is the logic.
- 19:08SPEAKER_00: And therefore, marriage sort of comes into it because you got to reproduce.
- 19:15SPEAKER_00: In another part of the Talmud,
- 19:17SPEAKER_00: this is Pesachim 113b,
- 19:19SPEAKER_00: there is a list of seven categories of people who are ostracized by heaven.
- 19:24SPEAKER_00: That's what the text says.
- 19:26SPEAKER_00: Here are people who are ostracized by heaven.
- 19:29SPEAKER_00: And the first one on the list is a Jew without a wife.
- 19:34SPEAKER_00: This all seems pretty clear,
- 19:36SPEAKER_00: but there are two problems with the argument of Yeremias that I want to mention.
- 19:43SPEAKER_00: First, we're using the Talmud for evidence of a first century Jew, Paul.
- 19:51SPEAKER_00: The Talmud is not first century.
- 19:53SPEAKER_00: It's from some centuries later, maybe around AD 600.
- 20:00SPEAKER_00: It definitely contains traditions from the first century,
- 20:03SPEAKER_00: but the trick is knowing how to identify them, and I cannot do it.
- 20:08SPEAKER_00: Scholars these days are much more reticent.
- 20:13SPEAKER_00: In
- 20:18SPEAKER_00: other words,
- 20:21SPEAKER_00: that was pretty common 100 years ago,
- 20:24SPEAKER_00: but in the 70s and 80s,
- 20:29SPEAKER_00: it became a much more problematic approach to use the Talmud
- 20:34SPEAKER_00: to say this is what first century Jews were like.
- 20:38SPEAKER_00: The basic issue applies also to the Mishnah,
- 20:42SPEAKER_00: Though to a smaller degree,
- 20:43SPEAKER_00: since the Mishnah is much closer to the New Testament, around AD 200.
- 20:48SPEAKER_00: Still, it's from after the time of the New Testament,
- 20:50SPEAKER_00: so you'd have to make an argument that this idea was there 150, 200 years earlier.
- 20:58SPEAKER_00: Okay, so that's one problem, is just the methodology.
- 21:00SPEAKER_00: The nature of the evidence is much later than Paul.
- 21:05SPEAKER_00: Second, there is another lifestyle that That some faithful Jews pursued.
- 21:12SPEAKER_00: They avoided marriage to devote themselves to God.
- 21:18SPEAKER_00: This idea was there in the first century.
- 21:21SPEAKER_00: We do have documentation about this.
- 21:23SPEAKER_00: Philo and Josephus.
- 21:27SPEAKER_00: Both are first century Jews and both mentioned celibacy in regard to the Essenes.
- 21:36SPEAKER_00: Even if they are not exactly accurate,
- 21:39SPEAKER_00: In their description of the Essenes, neither Philo or Josephus were at Essenes.
- 21:43SPEAKER_00: Maybe they misinterpreted the Essenes.
- 21:47SPEAKER_00: But the fact that they imagined Jewish celibacy as a possibility for a faithful Jew,
- 21:53SPEAKER_00: because they represent the Essenes as hardcore, pious Jews, all-in kind of Jews.
- 22:02SPEAKER_00: And so the idea that they imagined Jewish celibacy As an ideal is suggestive.
- 22:14SPEAKER_00: The Talmud,
- 22:15SPEAKER_00: likewise,
- 22:16SPEAKER_00: presents such a case,
- 22:19SPEAKER_00: at least with reference to one scholar,
- 22:21SPEAKER_00: and his name is Benazai,
- 22:22SPEAKER_00: and he's so well known, he's even got his own Wikipedia page.
- 22:27SPEAKER_00: His example is presented in the Talmud at Yivamot 63b and some other passages
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: in rabbinic literature.
- 22:35SPEAKER_00: Why didn't Benazai get married?
- 22:38SPEAKER_00: He explains,
- 22:42SPEAKER_00: my soul yearns for Torah.
- 22:49SPEAKER_00: That's what Benazai says.
- 22:50SPEAKER_00: He's quoted in the Talmud as saying this.
- 22:53SPEAKER_00: He acknowledges that procreation is a universal command binding on him as well as others.
- 23:04SPEAKER_00: But his love of Torah takes precedence.
- 23:08SPEAKER_00: His attitude was, let others keep the human race going.
- 23:14SPEAKER_00: I'm devoted to Torah.
- 23:18SPEAKER_00: According to Michael Satlow,
- 23:20SPEAKER_00: who is a scholar of rabbinics,
- 23:22SPEAKER_00: who I think he teaches at Brown,
- 23:26SPEAKER_00: everyone agrees that procreation is good,
- 23:28SPEAKER_00: but Benazai says there can be a conflict between this good and And the better good
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: of Torah study,
- 23:38SPEAKER_00: Benazai feels that he can have only one erotic attachment,
- 23:43SPEAKER_00: and he lusts for Torah rather than women.
- 23:49SPEAKER_00: That's the end of the quote from Satlow.
- 23:52SPEAKER_00: As Satlow goes on to discuss,
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: there's another passage in the Talmud,
- 23:56SPEAKER_00: in another tractate called Kiddushin 29b, and it centers on the same dynamic.
- 24:03SPEAKER_00: Which takes precedence, marriage or study of Torah?
- 24:09SPEAKER_00: The first advice in this discussion in Kiddushin 29b,
- 24:15SPEAKER_00: the first advice is what you need to do is study Torah first and then get married.
- 24:21SPEAKER_00: And only reverse that order if you need a wife.
- 24:28SPEAKER_00: This all sounds strangely familiar, doesn't it, to the reader of Christian scripture?
- 24:35SPEAKER_00: Isn't there someone in the New Testament who also talks about foregoing marriage so
- 24:40SPEAKER_00: that you can devote yourself to God?
- 24:43SPEAKER_00: Who was that?
- 24:47SPEAKER_00: To shift gears for just a moment,
- 24:49SPEAKER_00: I want to acknowledge that this take on marriage as a hindrance
- 24:54SPEAKER_00: to spirituality is Is not the only view there is and is not the only view expressed
- 25:01SPEAKER_00: in the New Testament.
- 25:03SPEAKER_00: Certainly it is in the New Testament.
- 25:06SPEAKER_00: As we saw earlier,
- 25:07SPEAKER_00: Jesus mentioned people who had become eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: And Paul strongly endorses the single life because it allows one
- 25:17SPEAKER_00: to pursue God more passionately.
- 25:19SPEAKER_00: That's what 1 Corinthians 7 is largely about.
- 25:23SPEAKER_00: But there are other ways of looking at marriage, and at some point I'll talk about that.
- 25:29SPEAKER_00: But for now, was Paul ever married?
- 25:34SPEAKER_00: I don't know, but I see little reason to think that he was.