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Happy Hour #63: Three's a Crowd (SATC Ep. 8) · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff
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  Speaker 1: I never told to your production of iHeart Radio. And
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  Speaker 1: welcome to our sub sub segment of Sex in the
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  Speaker 1: City Dune. Done done, done, Okay, anyway, we're are on
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  Speaker 1: episode eight and we are sitting with Mimosa's ready to
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  Speaker 1: go drink responsibly if you are so drinking, um A B.
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  Speaker 1: If you're not, still be responsible, you know, if your
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  Speaker 1: life enjoy it, if you have thirty minutes sit with us, yes,
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  Speaker 1: and if you want to hear our reactions of these
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  Speaker 1: episodes of delightful Sex in the City. It is over
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  Speaker 1: twenty years old, these jokes. I know, I feel very old. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's a good thing. Like I kind of wish I
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  Speaker 1: had seen it when it would originally released, would have
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  Speaker 1: been eighteen nineteen. But I feel like, yeah, I would
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  Speaker 1: have been very jaded by how my life did not
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  Speaker 1: look like Yeah, the Sex and the City ladies. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's one of the interesting things about this
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  Speaker 1: is there is that kind of fantasy aspect of this
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  Speaker 1: whole thing, and they're kind of their lives, their fashion,
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  Speaker 1: and they're in their thirties at this point, so they
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  Speaker 1: are a little ahead of me, but I would have
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  Speaker 1: expected to be that instead of in my situation of
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  Speaker 1: getting like twenty nine thousand dollars a year as a
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  Speaker 1: social worker, living with roommates, trying to figure out my
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  Speaker 1: life but not in love. More so combating trauma. So
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  Speaker 1: it's a whole different thing. This is a very privileged look,
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  Speaker 1: but sometimes privileges nice to see. So we can kind
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  Speaker 1: of escape from our own trauma, you know. Um, and
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  Speaker 1: yes we are on episode eight, Annie, would you like
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  Speaker 1: to do a recap for us? Yeah? Okay. Well, we've
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  Speaker 1: talked about monogamy and the defining the relationship as you
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  Speaker 1: dr educated people know, and exclusivity. Um, we've talked about
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  Speaker 1: single versus married women. We've talked about a lot of
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  Speaker 1: friendship stuff and supporting friendship, having sex with twenty year olds,
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  Speaker 1: having oral sex and anal sex, all kinds of sex, yes,
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  Speaker 1: all the sex, all that, all the specifically that makes sense,
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  Speaker 1: that makes sense. Uh. Yeah, we've gone all over. We've
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  Speaker 1: got all over and talked about all kinds of things,
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  Speaker 1: all the things. And if you do like this segment,
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  Speaker 1: just so you know, we do eventually want to broaden
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  Speaker 1: our horizons. Is that the words? Uh? And bringing other
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  Speaker 1: people on and we're hoping to have some of your
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  Speaker 1: classic people that you've heard on our show before to
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  Speaker 1: come in and have their own take in our conversations.
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  Speaker 1: But we also eventually would like to have one of
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  Speaker 1: you wonderful listeners and maybe a friend that you would
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  Speaker 1: like to bring along and have a conversation and a
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  Speaker 1: watch party with us. Uh So look out on social
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  Speaker 1: media as well as listen to to have yourself entered.
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  Speaker 1: It's not exactly a contest, but you know, we can't
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  Speaker 1: pick everyone. They would be chaotic, but we have about
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  Speaker 1: eighties seven episodes liberal but so listen out for that. Eventually,
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  Speaker 1: we would love to have more people participate, although I
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  Speaker 1: do love our conversation Danny Um. Okay, So let's go
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  Speaker 1: ahead and with episode eight of season one, which is
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  Speaker 1: titled three is a Crowd? What do you think this
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  Speaker 1: is about? This has been hard because the description is
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  Speaker 1: on the television look at it, and I've tried very
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  Speaker 1: hard not to look at it. I haven't, but it's
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  Speaker 1: been a test listeners. I'm imagining after what just happened
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  Speaker 1: in the previous episode, which is about exclusivity and monogamy,
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  Speaker 1: that is about threas I'm guessing with Carrie and Big
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  Speaker 1: after the last one. I'm trying very hard to be
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  Speaker 1: because there's also an image on screen, so I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: in my mind what I think it is. So I
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  Speaker 1: think it's gonna be like and expounding on this idea
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  Speaker 1: of more than not a monogamous relationship or something outside
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  Speaker 1: of monogamy. Yes. Also, I have mentioned this episode before
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  Speaker 1: as well, and I will go ahead and read the
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  Speaker 1: descriptor because I forgot I wanted to do that. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to bring things in, y'all. Be really, that's why
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  Speaker 1: we need the first season, just for us to do
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  Speaker 1: trial and error. But it says Carrie discovers not only
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  Speaker 1: that Mr Big was married before we talked about that,
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  Speaker 1: but that he and his ex participated in a threesome.
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  Speaker 1: So you are correct, there is a threesome involved. I
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  Speaker 1: mentioned this episode and just like that, because I told
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  Speaker 1: you we do get introduced to his ex wives. That's right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, here we go, Okay, you me and another woman.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, serious, Charlotte, you have no idea how sexy
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  Speaker 1: you are, do you? Oh? You're so sex It sounds
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  Speaker 1: like a weird gaslighting thing because he said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: my fantasy is threesome with you. You're so sexy. You
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  Speaker 1: have no idea how sexy are Charlotte or your sexuality,
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  Speaker 1: But it sounds like he just wants to have a threason.
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  Speaker 1: First you start thinking you're hot, then he brings up
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  Speaker 1: the threesome thing. Boom, suddenly you're kissing another woman while
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  Speaker 1: he beats off. Please just make sure that the other
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  Speaker 1: woman isn't a friend. Would you want a friend or
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  Speaker 1: someone random for a threesome? Yeah, this conversation, Yes, I
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  Speaker 1: have had this conversation with a friend with with someone
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  Speaker 1: I could try us like Carrie, so they named Carrie.
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  Speaker 1: But I got with someone who has a little more
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  Speaker 1: experience like Sam. Okay, pass it onto going Sam is
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  Speaker 1: experien like Charlotte. And then she goes back to Charlotte
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  Speaker 1: saying that you know something like bad first timer? Right
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  Speaker 1: forgot about me and poor Mariana doing with you out
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  Speaker 1: It's like picking teams for Dodgeball all over again. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: she's more your taste. Stop it and he's now trying
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  Speaker 1: to find women for their Yeah, I will say there
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  Speaker 1: is a couple that I think was trying hard to
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  Speaker 1: get me to be a threesome. Yeah, I had that
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  Speaker 1: a couple of times X file spanaddic two songs seeks Scully,
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  Speaker 1: look like, this is what I was talking to me about,
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  Speaker 1: the Scully, the Scully refie. That's what I was talking about.
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  Speaker 1: What we were talking about, Scully and the women around
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  Speaker 1: the world, fictional women around the world. So there's a
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  Speaker 1: there was a couple and Verry Nerdy and golden showers.
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  Speaker 1: So she talks about being in golden showers. I did
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  Speaker 1: not know what that was until way later because I
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  Speaker 1: have another episode about them, Like, oh, I really pictured
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  Speaker 1: a literal golden shower. I thought you was like imagined,
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  Speaker 1: like imagining the shower was made of gold and they
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  Speaker 1: were going to she I thought she was referencing that
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  Speaker 1: as like she wanted a rich guy. Did not realize
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  Speaker 1: what that was. Yea, and it was fine, wasn't. But
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  Speaker 1: like I, as a naive person, I was like, what
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  Speaker 1: assuming I knew right, I wanted to interview someone what threesomes?
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  Speaker 1: Every good one? Sure? Who hasn't really with who? My
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  Speaker 1: ex wife? Oh? My column was the last thing on
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  Speaker 1: my mind. You were married? Yeah? Yeah, what I told you? No, No,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't. Charlotte was right, we don't really know the
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  Speaker 1: people we sleep with. After all, what did I really
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  Speaker 1: know about Mr Big except he had an ex wife
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  Speaker 1: named Barbara, who I quickly discovered worked in publishing stock
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  Speaker 1: I'm picturesque. I guess this is pretty social media. You
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  Speaker 1: got to go to the place, you got to find
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  Speaker 1: them out. What I'm hearing is that you're still very
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  Speaker 1: upset about being sexually rejected by your friends something brand Yes,
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  Speaker 1: would you do a threesome with man? I love so okay?
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  Speaker 1: So that Miranda needs to ask other people for validation
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  Speaker 1: for about threesome and she does it with a therapist
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  Speaker 1: and then she does the wed shake to be sexy.
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  Speaker 1: It was one of those like when you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: be sexy, when overly trying to be sexy and you're
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  Speaker 1: obviously not doing great being thing. I've done this like
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  Speaker 1: I'm being sexy and fall off a soul. So I
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  Speaker 1: guess you couldn't avoid a threesome because even if you're
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  Speaker 1: the only person in the bed, someone has always been
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  Speaker 1: there before you. They're in the middle of having sex.
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  Speaker 1: Big and Carrie. She started imagining the ex wife, which
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  Speaker 1: I've done before, not the ex wife, but the eggs,
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  Speaker 1: and just like I can't compare. I give up. It
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  Speaker 1: is weird. It's one of those things where somebody can
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  Speaker 1: be so close to you for so long, they know
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  Speaker 1: you so well, and then they move on and there
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  Speaker 1: was someone else right, and then you start wondering, what
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  Speaker 1: is this or what was that? Or how do they
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  Speaker 1: do they do the same thing? Was that just me?
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  Speaker 1: What was the turning point? What went wrong? What it rights?
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  Speaker 1: Do you miss them? Yeah? You think? Do you think
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  Speaker 1: about them? I don't know who you are, but Ken
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  Speaker 1: and I love each other very much. Of course you do,
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  Speaker 1: and we have an unshakable bond. Whatever it takes. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to keep this marriage together. Good for you. Now, listen, Ruth,
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  Speaker 1: this was a huge mistake. It didn't mean anything. It
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  Speaker 1: was just sex exactly, and it being sexually adventuresome. We'll
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  Speaker 1: keep this marriage together. Then I am prepared to join
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  Speaker 1: you with him in bed. So the one thing I
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  Speaker 1: would have a problem with, no, no, no, with this
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  Speaker 1: like sideline, because I I'm not gonna lie. Maybe I'm
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  Speaker 1: too old fashioned when it comes to cheating and hurting
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  Speaker 1: an individual and and breaking someone's trust. I'm not cool
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  Speaker 1: with that. And so this blase fair level of Sam
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  Speaker 1: being like, yeah, I knew he was married, it's not
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  Speaker 1: a big deal. And then having that come back to
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  Speaker 1: buy her in which he wants to be committed to
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  Speaker 1: her Sam instead of the wife, and the wife is
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  Speaker 1: like I'll do whatever, and Sam just feels inconvenienced by it.
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  Speaker 1: That's like, I'm not cool with this. This is not
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  Speaker 1: one thing because if I was cheated on, and the
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  Speaker 1: way they make ruth sounds so pitiful and it does
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  Speaker 1: seem like it's her fault because Sam's a bigger star,
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  Speaker 1: and of course it's supposed to be centered around Sam.
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  Speaker 1: It just felt a little disrespectful, like any wives in general. Whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Then Charlotte did the unsinkable Oh threesome, Charlotte, Oh three
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  Speaker 1: some Charlotte. Oh my god, Oh my god, she winked
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  Speaker 1: at me. Weins. I need to get out of it.
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  Speaker 1: Did winks ever get you into? Yeah, baby, come over.
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  Speaker 1: I need to know that's a thing, because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I have never been winked at and felt like yes, yes, daddy,
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  Speaker 1: take me. And I'm so sorry I made that fright.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I've seen winks that are cute and affectionate,
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  Speaker 1: but it's never been like I usually wink at my
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  Speaker 1: friends to like implicate that I'm just joking or this
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  Speaker 1: is just a joke or whatever, but never like, hey, sexy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm winking at you. Can I join you? Oh? Woman
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  Speaker 1: coming in asking to julize that this was her moment
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  Speaker 1: if she was going to take the plunge, it was
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  Speaker 1: now or never, Charlotte says yes, Wow, threesome Charlotte awkward
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  Speaker 1: sit together and bypassed, and Charlie gets pushed out, and
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  Speaker 1: now we see Miranda in a bugle issous dress loving it. Hi.
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  Speaker 1: Most of the women who answered our ad, well, they
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: were you know, she answered an ad. Graces didn't exist
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  Speaker 1: at that point, right, It was all on newspersons. That's
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  Speaker 1: a good way to go. I wonder does this work?
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  Speaker 1: Has any of our listeners used either chrislist or or
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  Speaker 1: newspapers to meet up with someone? I know we are
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  Speaker 1: all in the age of dating apps, but I mean,
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  Speaker 1: did this work out because people used it and there's
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  Speaker 1: a level of trust. M H, All right, so you
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  Speaker 1: got it right? Ish scores high as the last time
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  Speaker 1: I would. But you were in the boat, okay, you
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  Speaker 1: didn't see the affair thing coming. I know that's hard
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  Speaker 1: to predict. Um, so I would give you. I haven't
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  Speaker 1: given you any scores but in less than last one.
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  Speaker 1: But to be fair, yeah, this is a little complicated
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  Speaker 1: over the top. And by the way, the next episode
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be fun. What did you think about this episode? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I was again like I could really relate to the
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  Speaker 1: ex is and always thinking about like that's plagues me,
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  Speaker 1: not only the exes but the futures bone stocks still see.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll I don't do that. But I always
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  Speaker 1: think of like what if I when am I going
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  Speaker 1: to be invited the wedding? Am I gonna be invite
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  Speaker 1: the wedding? What am I going to do with a wedding? Like? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I laugh because recently there was a techtok video about
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  Speaker 1: sign doing specific things and one of the big so
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  Speaker 1: like it was like people forgetting you exist and we'll
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  Speaker 1: cut you out and liberal was a big one and
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  Speaker 1: that is my sign. I was like, yeah, you don't
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  Speaker 1: exist to me. If I can help it, at any point,
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  Speaker 1: I'll cut you out. And I think you should not exist.
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  Speaker 1: And so seeing that, so I would never be invited
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  Speaker 1: anybody's wedding. That's funny. You're living my You're living my head.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Canaid universe and Star Wars choosing, picking and choosing what
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  Speaker 1: exists and what doesn't exist. That's funny. I'm just saying,
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  Speaker 1: just like for me, I need you not to exist,
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  Speaker 1: and if I can help it, then great. If not,
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  Speaker 1: I will find a way to cope and hopefully we
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  Speaker 1: ended in a good route. If not, I'm just going
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  Speaker 1: to ignore you. Yeah. I feel like most of my
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: relationships I had a pretty good as sad as it was,
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  Speaker 1: I had a pretty good break up last time, but
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  Speaker 1: most of them have ended with like never again, Shall
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  Speaker 1: I see you? Never again? Um? And that was more
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  Speaker 1: just why we broke up instead anything else. But I
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  Speaker 1: do think about it. I do. It just feels odd,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, to share so much of yourself with
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  Speaker 1: somebody and then for them to not be around anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I will say, like, for me, part of my fear
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  Speaker 1: and being in relationships and when we break up, what
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  Speaker 1: can you use against me? Yeah? Like I have I
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  Speaker 1: told you about these things about my friends, and then
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna go tell my friends this is what they
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  Speaker 1: said about you? Right? Yeah, I had that conversation with
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  Speaker 1: my ex rights like, I feel like I've given you
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  Speaker 1: so much that you could destroy me with um and
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  Speaker 1: and he said like, no, I think he was basically saying,
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  Speaker 1: what you think is a weakness is actually a strength,
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  Speaker 1: which was very nice with him. But I remember thinking like,
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  Speaker 1: I've just opened myself and I've shared all this with you,
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  Speaker 1: and I've been so vulnerable, and now I feel like
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  Speaker 1: you could really wreck me if you wanted to. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: that's what friendships could be too, like taking something and
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  Speaker 1: using against you and hoping that they wouldn't and then
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  Speaker 1: but I have I've had friends who would like take
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  Speaker 1: my worst twisted and tell someone else that's not what
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  Speaker 1: I meant. I don't understand what just happened. Um, But
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  Speaker 1: we've seen that in many A plot points. But it's
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  Speaker 1: true too, people can really take that. I've also thought
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  Speaker 1: that physically, like if I wanted to murder you, you're
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: to sleep in your bed, I could I like how
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: you're looking at me as you say that you sleep
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  Speaker 1: too lightly? Yeah, poison you could. I could easily be poisoned.
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  Speaker 1: That's a whole different we're not having right now plotting
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  Speaker 1: my murder. Look, there are things I'm like, could I
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  Speaker 1: destroy you? Yes? Could you destroy me? Yes? We have
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: to figure out how and if I mean that's the
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: thing though, is I know we talked about this in
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  Speaker 1: a recent episode, but so much of what I think
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  Speaker 1: we worry about is I was worrying about it. So
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  Speaker 1: like when when my ex said that, when he said, like,
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  Speaker 1: I think what you see is a vulnerability as this strength,
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  Speaker 1: I think he meant that, but to me it was
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  Speaker 1: it's a weakness, Like to me, it feels that way,
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  Speaker 1: So I feel like he'll use it that way, even
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  Speaker 1: though I don't think we can trust people better than that.
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  Speaker 1: But we know that sociopaths and narcissists exists, and so
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: therefore that's a concern in itself. And we've seen it
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  Speaker 1: in like work structures, and those are like who do
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  Speaker 1: you trust? And I've met many of people who are like,
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  Speaker 1: I do not talk to them because they will use this,
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  Speaker 1: this and this, And I was like, oh, damn, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not even enough to think that it's not
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  Speaker 1: a thing. But then I'll watch people like you're right,
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  Speaker 1: they sure did. So, like people are so guarded because
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  Speaker 1: they've been burned so often in workplace settings that it's
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  Speaker 1: kind of interesting. But when it comes to sex in
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  Speaker 1: the city is a whole different level. A threesome is
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  Speaker 1: a whole different level. And yet not that polyamory is
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  Speaker 1: not a thing, not that being in an open relationship
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  Speaker 1: is not good, and as long as you have communications,
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  Speaker 1: it's delightful. But what does it come to when he
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  Speaker 1: said again, this could be one of those moments of like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're being a little uh, closed off, judgmental for more
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  Speaker 1: open relationships, they can and deal with threesoms and and
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  Speaker 1: like can do it, but like the old school idea,
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  Speaker 1: especially when it's driven by a patriarchal need to dominate
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: women and to say that they have knees that need
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  Speaker 1: to be fulfilled. That's the dangerous conversation. That's the dangerous portion.
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  Speaker 1: And when we see the sexiest level of conversation when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to that, which is what they play on
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  Speaker 1: by being sex in the city, which is the very
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  Speaker 1: nineties early two thousands way to be. Doesn't accuse it
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  Speaker 1: so culturally probably not the best in this conversation, but
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  Speaker 1: does open up to the fact that he still has
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: a relationship with the next they're still game playing. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean that would I guess they haven't known each
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  Speaker 1: other on carrying big But I actually didn't find out
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  Speaker 1: my dad at a first wife until like it was
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  Speaker 1: a college like that's the first question I asked. I
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  Speaker 1: think that as we get older, my assumption as every
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  Speaker 1: someone you have been with someone you may probably marry
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  Speaker 1: someone tell me about that we had a long term
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: relationship with someone and up until this relationship that wasn't
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  Speaker 1: me though, So I'm like, well, I guess that could
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  Speaker 1: be more of me. But is there? But he is there?
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  Speaker 1: rebound being the I was always a rebound. I was
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