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Could Hannah Brown Be A Real Housewife?? · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to this special episode where Hannah Brown
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  Speaker 2: and I are sitting in our kitchen. We're talking about
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  Speaker 2: Kindergarten Cop and how such a good movie. Don't know
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  Speaker 2: why that movie had such a profound impact on me
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  Speaker 2: as a child. Jared too.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I watched it with Adham and he's seven years old.
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  Speaker 3: In the media, he still loves Kindergarten Cop as well.
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  Speaker 3: I was obsessed with Arnold Swartzeneger. I can't even say
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  Speaker 3: his last I can't say a good job. Okay, thank you.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know. It's kind of a scary movie
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  Speaker 3: to like as a kid.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean, I to be honest, I haven't
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  Speaker 2: seen it in years. Watch it again. It's there. I
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  Speaker 2: see it sometimes, like whenever I'm watching YouTube TV, which
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  Speaker 2: is I really like, why do I have YouTube TV?
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  Speaker 3: I never waty do you do YouTube TV?
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  Speaker 2: Do you not have any?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: I have Hulu Live. Okay, so I'm Hulu because it's
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  Speaker 3: like with the Disney and they and all the things. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I don't watch it either. Yeah, actually it is extensive.
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  Speaker 2: Jared, does it is it's like ninety dollars a month. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I really ever use it. The only reason I use
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  Speaker 2: it now is to watch but you can a cove on.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, of course on Disney Plus. I think. So.
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  Speaker 2: I watched it as like a six or seven year
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  Speaker 2: old and three younger and it's dark, it is, right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like one of the first scenes somebody gets shot,
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  Speaker 3: like it's it's pretty, you know, a kid's getting kidnapped,
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  Speaker 3: taking away. There's a lot going on in it. But
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  Speaker 3: I loved it.
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  Speaker 2: I say this as my son watched Michael for the
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  Speaker 2: second time today.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I've never seen Michael.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it's well, first off to everyone out there. I
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  Speaker 2: fast forward the inappropriate parts. It's quite clean. Actually. Besides,
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  Speaker 2: there's like two parts that you don't want kids seeing.
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  Speaker 2: So let's get to it a little bit. I like
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  Speaker 2: going off topic with you, but I just wanted to
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  Speaker 2: introduce you properly. We have two time New York Times
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  Speaker 2: bestselling author, and who's maybe a third time. You have
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  Speaker 2: a new book coming out June twenty third. It's called
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  Speaker 2: Reasons to Be Loved by You and it's a former bachelorette.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all Hannah Brown. Yay, So before we got on the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: It was funny because everything that I talked to guests about, like, wait,
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  Speaker 2: we should say it for the podcast. But one of
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  Speaker 2: the most the funny thing was when I did a
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  Speaker 2: press tour for Housewives, but like five weeks ago in
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  Speaker 2: New York, Hannah was a topic of conversation because people
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  Speaker 2: keep asking which house, which bachelor alum should be on
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  Speaker 2: the next installment of Housewives, and like, you want to
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  Speaker 2: come and take my place because I'm sure that they
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  Speaker 2: think I'm too boring. Oh no, okay, I pitched you
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  Speaker 2: for Housewives of Nashville.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, I've never watched Housewives, as neither
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  Speaker 3: vibe and I started watching. Actually it was my husband Adam,
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  Speaker 3: who was like, we have to watch so sweet of
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  Speaker 3: him because he's the coolest, the best, and he wanted
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  Speaker 3: to see we just we wanted to support us. We
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  Speaker 3: started watching. We're obsessed it is. It was so good.
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  Speaker 3: I can't wait for the finale or what is it
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  Speaker 3: that the reunion? The reunion. I watched the finale. Oh
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  Speaker 3: my gosh. But thinking about being on that show kind
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  Speaker 3: of scares me because of what you have gone through.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you don't even know.
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  Speaker 3: But like you, I feel like you are like the
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  Speaker 3: voice of reason on that show.
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  Speaker 2: So I think that hopefully this season that comes out
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  Speaker 2: a little bit more, just because I didn't know anyone,
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  Speaker 2: like I truly didn't anyone to care for Rosie until
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  Speaker 2: before we started filming. And yeah, they're super duper intimiding.
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  Speaker 2: And if you met Rosie you would also hit it
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  Speaker 2: off immediately too.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, at first I didn't know if I was
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  Speaker 3: a Rosy fan.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, but most people, yes, we're hesitant.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, but after the fight, and even before the fight,
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  Speaker 3: I we're all team Rosie. Okay, great, And but who
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  Speaker 3: I need to meet is miss Alicia.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, she.
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  Speaker 3: Is so funny. But anyway, just to say it's so funny,
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  Speaker 3: it is. It was such a good watch. But also
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  Speaker 3: I was thinking about you the whole time, like how
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  Speaker 3: did she do this? I don't know, so thinking about
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  Speaker 3: that possibly happening for me. I've only watched your one season.
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  Speaker 3: It seems so scary.
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  Speaker 2: You are so much tougher than me. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I probably probably wouldn't cry so much, but I.
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  Speaker 3: Might get like when when I'm in a room of
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  Speaker 3: a lot of big personalities. I definitely shrink.
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  Speaker 2: Oh this is my theory. And I talked to Joe,
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  Speaker 2: who has Arena, about this. I said, with Bachelor, when
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  Speaker 2: you put us with other reality contestants, we all close
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  Speaker 2: up and we become the introverts. Yes, there's something about
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  Speaker 2: we are like we just don't fit the typical reality mold.
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  Speaker 3: No, I clam up. I don't have anything to say.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel like, Okay, these people really need all
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  Speaker 3: the attention.
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  Speaker 2: They have nothing to say. Nothing you have.
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  Speaker 3: Oh. I was like, oh thought, You're like you have
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  Speaker 3: nothing to say?
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  Speaker 2: Oh I have.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I'm just like I don't need to enter into
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  Speaker 3: this conversation because y'all have got it all figured out.
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  Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I felt that on some of the other shows that
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  Speaker 3: I've done, of like oh I don't fit this, or
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  Speaker 3: they really need the spotlight. We're like, I actually don't care.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the question though, because we have had fame from
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  Speaker 2: The Bachelor. You know, fame is always a heavy word,
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  Speaker 2: but you know, I feel like because we've had our
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  Speaker 2: moments on those shows, that we may feel like we
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  Speaker 2: are not as hungry for it on the other shows.
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  Speaker 2: Or do you you just or do you think it's
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  Speaker 2: a personality thing because I think it might be a combo.
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  Speaker 2: I knew that like these girls, if they were gonna
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  Speaker 2: not involve themselves in a fight like that, it wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: make any sense. I knew kind of role was.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I hadn't thought about that. I think for me,
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  Speaker 3: having fame kind of felt like, oh, I just came
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  Speaker 3: into this position. I wasn't like hungry for it, and
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  Speaker 3: there are different personalities that really need to be in
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  Speaker 3: the spotlight. I don't mean to be like the spotlight
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  Speaker 3: just came to me, but it kind of did. Like
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't trying well.
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  Speaker 2: You were like, you know, yeah I did that.
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  Speaker 1: I did.
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  Speaker 3: But like I even in those situations when there was
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  Speaker 3: bigger personalities around me, I definitely get quieter and smaller.
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  Speaker 3: And I hate when that happens. I hate it too
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  Speaker 3: because I'm like, oh now I'm not being my true
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  Speaker 3: self because I can't handle this like super extroverted person,
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  Speaker 3: I crumble. That's why I was.
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  Speaker 2: Watch describing how I felt in every group scene.
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  Speaker 3: It's just like I don't like we're so different. I
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  Speaker 3: feel like people are gonna just be like, why is
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  Speaker 3: she talking?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know I just have like that even if
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  Speaker 2: I didn't have the taste of the Bachelor stuff, I
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  Speaker 2: probably would still feel the same in this group. But
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  Speaker 2: I walk into the Bachelor Mansion and I got along
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  Speaker 2: with everyone and that was all chatty and so myself.
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  Speaker 2: And here they all make fun of my, making fun
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  Speaker 2: of my deep voice, which is so funny, which I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm like kind of maybe like deeper than
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  Speaker 2: the average, but not like of weirdness.
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  Speaker 3: I've never thought of deep voice.
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  Speaker 2: And it's because voice, Yes, I don't know. Well, if
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  Speaker 2: that's what you have to make fun of me about,
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  Speaker 2: I'll take it. Yeah, But I think that I get
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  Speaker 2: like lower and deeper and like my voice gets all
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  Speaker 2: like tight because I'm so nervous around them.
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  Speaker 3: And why do you think you're nervous around them too?
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  Speaker 3: Just because are you scared they're going to like say
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  Speaker 3: something to you? And you don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Afraid that I'm always going to I'm always there's something
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  Speaker 2: that they can throw at me, and I'm always on edge,
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, what could they say? I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, are you thinking the thing?
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  Speaker 3: Do you think they're gonna lies? So?
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  Speaker 2: Because this is what I saw Rosie go through where
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  Speaker 2: she had to defend herself from lies and she had
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  Speaker 2: a hard time doing it. It's hard to do it
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  Speaker 2: when you're like and it's so combative. Exactly.
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  Speaker 3: I can't imagine having these people yelling at you and like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm on camera, I have to respond. I don't know
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  Speaker 3: how to respond to this because you're saying something crazy
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  Speaker 3: to me.
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  Speaker 2: But you did this with Luke.
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  Speaker 3: You had to do, but it took me getting to
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  Speaker 3: this like boiling.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, so it took a while, but you
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  Speaker 2: also spoke, so I can't.
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  Speaker 3: So me and Adam talked about this because you're watching
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  Speaker 3: the show, staring watching the show, like, how would I
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  Speaker 3: respond to things, like would I like close up? What
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  Speaker 3: I would I engage and I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: For a while, okay, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And then I would have a moment where I exploded.
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  Speaker 2: Which you had.
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  Speaker 3: I think that would eventually happen to me where I
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  Speaker 3: let it all out, but I would take it for
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  Speaker 3: a bit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so this is my theory as well. I
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  Speaker 2: think you and I did this on Bachelor. We have
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  Speaker 2: our moments in a way that's like we don't really
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  Speaker 2: raise our voice too much. We say the damn thing
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  Speaker 2: and we're sassy. Yeah, and then we dropped. They were
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  Speaker 2: like drop Mike to drop bike Mike drop yeah, never out. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: So I think that if I ever have to have
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  Speaker 2: a situation, it's probably gonna be me like with eyes
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  Speaker 2: in tone being like, because you're so mad.
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  Speaker 3: You don't care anymore they like you or not.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think Gellen gets the message across.
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  Speaker 3: I mean it did for Rosie.
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  Speaker 2: You're right, it did.
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  Speaker 3: It did anyway. I just love I've never been able
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  Speaker 3: to engage in real house. It's conversation. Yeah, and then
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  Speaker 3: I'm in a housewives house right now, Like what the heck?
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  Speaker 2: This is amazing the least Housewives the house ever. It's
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  Speaker 2: so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I love it you. You have been so great on
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  Speaker 3: that show. Thanks really, because I feel like you're the
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  Speaker 3: voice of reason of like this is crazy, like you
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  Speaker 3: have you are the viewer being like, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what their was.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, well that's what you're that's what you're doing. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: Well so I see it clearly you look at people
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  Speaker 3: like Okay. The best part that I thought you did
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  Speaker 3: a really great job and I felt like they made
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  Speaker 3: you look like the crazy one. But you're the only
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  Speaker 3: one making sick. No, but no, that was great, but
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  Speaker 3: like the whole Rosie. They were being mean to Rosie.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know at the dinner table. Yeah, it was like,
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  Speaker 2: pardon me. This is the This is when I can
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  Speaker 2: say something because I'm seeing something very clearly. For those
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  Speaker 2: of you guys who's out there who haven't watched, uh,
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  Speaker 2: the Real Housewives of Her Island, So why are they
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  Speaker 2: There's a majority watch I don't want to say the
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  Speaker 2: majority of you, but a lot of you probably are watching.
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  Speaker 2: This girl gave her Kelsey gave her the most backhanded
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  Speaker 2: compliment I've ever It was not he was barely even
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  Speaker 2: back handed. It was always she was like, oh, wow,
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  Speaker 2: you're actually being genuine for the first time, first time.
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  Speaker 2: And then everyone else at the table was like, you
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  Speaker 2: should be accepting that compliment. Ros That was a compliment.
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  Speaker 2: It was the craziest thing to ever see. Crazy.
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  Speaker 3: If you are not watching it, you have to as
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  Speaker 3: someone who was like, I'm not a Housewives fan. I
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  Speaker 3: am now and I'm just sticking to Rhode Island because
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  Speaker 3: I can't get into the depths of all the other ones.
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  Speaker 2: Can watch seven seasons and this is great. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 2: is it in a binge?
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  Speaker 3: No, we did it, did We did like six of
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  Speaker 3: them and then then we caught up.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, wow, the fact that Adam loves it too makes
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  Speaker 2: loves it great. We're gonna go into a few a
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  Speaker 2: little more serious of things right now before we get
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  Speaker 2: into the book, which of course we will. But you
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  Speaker 2: recently talked about I know that you've talked about you
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  Speaker 2: know how you have not really two uterroses, but you
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  Speaker 2: they like thought it was. I thought it was like
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  Speaker 2: two separate uteruses, but it's actually like heart shaped.
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  Speaker 3: So yet I do have a heart shape uterus, but
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  Speaker 3: I also have a septum in my uterus, so sceptim.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like if you think about your nose, it's
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  Speaker 2: like a split.
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  Speaker 3: Split of like this tissue that mine went almost all
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  Speaker 3: the way down to my cervix. So on certain stands,
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  Speaker 3: it looks like two.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, would that make it three?
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  Speaker 3: No? No, it is just one. But there's like this
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  Speaker 3: wall okay in between. Yeah, so I only have one.
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  Speaker 3: What is the vagina whole call? I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: That's called the vagina actually, because the down there area
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  Speaker 2: is called.
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  Speaker 3: The vulva, Okay, well, I only have one entrance to
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  Speaker 3: the vagina and in one cervix, but there are some
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  Speaker 3: cases where you have like two.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't have that's what's like in
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  Speaker 2: half of the canal. Oh crazy.
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  Speaker 3: So I had my septum partially removed, and I just
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  Speaker 3: found out it was partially because I also have a
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  Speaker 3: heart shape uterus, which is the outside, and that makes
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  Speaker 3: it a little bit more complicated because that is like
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  Speaker 3: certain muscle and if they cut too much then you're
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  Speaker 3: like internally bleeding and it's not good. So they cut
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  Speaker 3: as much as they could feeling safe, some of my septum. Recently,
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  Speaker 3: I had a surgery for that. But I'm so lucky
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  Speaker 3: that I found out when I did, because if we
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  Speaker 3: were trying to conceive, there's like an eighty percent chance
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  Speaker 3: of miscarriage. So I was very lucky to be able
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  Speaker 3: to like find out that was going on before because
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  Speaker 3: opening up about this was actually amazing because I had
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  Speaker 3: heard so many stories of so many women who had
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  Speaker 3: been through similar things who didn't find out and had
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  Speaker 3: to go through too many miscarriages until they were able
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  Speaker 3: to see this on an ultrasound, which I'm like why
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  Speaker 3: did it take so long for women to get ultrasounds? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: proper healthcare. Anyway, it's a whole soap box at this
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  Speaker 3: point for me now. But yeah, that was the summer
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  Speaker 3: this spring. I don't even know where we are.
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  Speaker 2: Spring, Like, I don't know you re covering like the
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  Speaker 2: mother or so ago. Yeah, okay, so now it's like
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  Speaker 2: partially cleared.
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  Speaker 3: Out, partially cleared out, good enough to try. We're not
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  Speaker 3: like fully ready to try it. But that was the
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  Speaker 3: first step of family planning for us.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, yeah, so I was starty three when I
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  Speaker 2: had DAWs. Yeah that's perfect, it's great. Yeah yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I also don't have a house right now. We're in renovation,
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  Speaker 3: so I don't want to be like in a first
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  Speaker 3: trimester not knowing where I'm going to like whose house
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to be at because I'm staying at friend's
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  Speaker 3: house or my parents' house. Like that doesn't sound fun.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, that sounds awful. Yeah, I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: you're going to be really sick.
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  Speaker 3: You want to be in your in my own home.
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  Speaker 3: So we've got a little bit and that makes me
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  Speaker 3: feel good. But we're talking about it and what makes
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  Speaker 3: the most sense for us, but I don't feel quite ready,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm getting there more, Like, yeah, I'm more interested
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  Speaker 3: in babies than I was before, totally.
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  Speaker 2: Did you feel that way on the face side with
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  Speaker 2: my sister's baby.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I wasn't like that at all.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely.
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  Speaker 3: But Adam hasband when he's older, yes, thirty nine, so
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  Speaker 3: he is like yeah, and he just is great with kids. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: way better than me. I We've talked about this before.
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  Speaker 2: I also feel like Jared naturally, like before we had kids,
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  Speaker 2: when I'd seen him interact with kids, I'd be like,
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  Speaker 2: oh man, but it is okay. I'm like, I'll have
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  Speaker 2: actually fine, just like, don't stress about that. That's a
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  Speaker 2: stupid thing to stress.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they might love him more, It's okay, It's okay.
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  Speaker 2: You're like your own kids way more than you can't
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  Speaker 2: compare your own kids to how you feel about the
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  Speaker 2: best kids at all. Like still now.
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  Speaker 3: But my niece, my niece, I'm like, I am obsessed
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  Speaker 3: with her, Yeah, except when she like is annoying and
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  Speaker 3: like crying and hitting me. She likes to hit She's one, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: We've got to stop that. I still love her, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm like Sophie, you're acting like your your dad, my brother.
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  Speaker 3: Stop having all the attitude. But that has helped. So
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  Speaker 3: we're we're on the process, on the journey, and I
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  Speaker 3: think with what's the septum, people are very interested, like
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  Speaker 3: am I doing IBF? What am I going to do?
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  Speaker 3: We'll probably tried naturally for honestly, the max they said
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  Speaker 3: was six months for us and then go forward because
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  Speaker 3: I have a lot of other kind of like things
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: that make will make maybe make it pc os.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we'll see, wait and we'll figure it out. Yeah,
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: it'd be great.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's going to happen when it's supposed to.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to talk to you about this saline
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: sonogram post surgery that four times what this sounds like?
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: If it's what it sounds like. They shoot water up there.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's they like do they stick the thing?
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: But they like do the where they clamp you open?
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: It was it's not, It's fine, I've done it once.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: Like it's like if you went down to the water slide,
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: they tell you to cross your legs because they don't
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: want water going up there, and they're like let's put them.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Oh my goodness to be able to see the full
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: uterus cleaner and the first time I did it, I
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: did do it before the surgery. It was fine. I
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: was like, they gave me a laughing gas. I was like, honestly,
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: anytime I can have laughing gas, yeah, drug of choice.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: It was great drug. And I've only had it like once,
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: but it's a good one.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: It's amazing, Okay. I felt like I was on a
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: different planet, like this is awesome. I wouldn't want to
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: do it again, Like it wasn't a fun experience. So
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: I go in. I'm thinking, not that bad, It's gonna
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: be fine. I was fighting for my.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: Life there this afterward.
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: This is after the surgery, so this is supposed to
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: see where in the septum, like how everything was. And
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: as we're doing it, I'm fine as we're doing it,
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: like this is kind of uncomfortable, but I felt like
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: I it was in the past a little bit more crampy,
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: and I noticed like, oh, i's some scramping a lot,
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: and I'm talking to this girl, my nurse, and then
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: all of a sudden, I'm like I don't feel good
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: and I'm telling you like I was fighting for my
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: life to stay awake. I would just pass out.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: And then I'm like, okay, the pain or like the
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: weird Okay.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: So there's like supposedly a nerve. Yeah that is like
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: in the canal there was pain and sometimes it can
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: like trigger for people and like, yes, it hurt, Like, yes,
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: I was in pain from the cramping that I was having,
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: but not to the point to where how I was reacting.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: But I did I remember before after you know, time
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: one or two of passing out, I was like.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: I can never have child birth. Oh well, yeah it was.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: It hurt because I was so hot, yes and then cold. Yes,
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: could not come to what was so funny as they
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: were like trying to get me to wake up to it,
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: to get Adam to come pick me up because I
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: jermy myself. Oh no, it's always a bad thing, and
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: he answers the phone because I was like.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: Adam, they like put my phone up.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: To my face to open it, and he answers the phone, Hello,
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: Ben maiden't and they're like and I can hear that,
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: and they're like laughing and they're so high.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: She's literally a princess. Like I'm sitting next to a
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: princess right now. Out of tangles ahead and he.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Was like, oh my gosh, okay, okay, you gotta get here,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: and he had to come make me up. It was
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: a whole thing. But yeah, it was not a fun experience.
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: And it's so like I talked about it almost and
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: people had varying uh situations with it too, Like some
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: people like, yeah, I was totally fine, like it wasn't
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: bad at all, and then some people were like, no,
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: it actually was worth than childbirth. Like I've had three
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: kids and my Salien sonogram was way worse than anything
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: I experience.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: So I think it just depends. Just also why I
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: want to talk about women's help, I'll.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Talk let's do a women's health podcast. Yeah, like I
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: just I can't get enough.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: I'm like this. They are like, oh, you're fine, and
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: it's like I passed out four times. Crazy anyway, So yeah,
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: we've definitely had a we had a spring of a
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: lot of fun events going on in my vagina, none
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: of which were actually fun.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna have to tell my story, my pacing stories.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: I just really quickly, I'm gonna bullet point this view.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: You've done this?
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Okay, No, I haven't done that. But the worst part
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: of delivery for me, out of both deliveries, was when
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: they checked my cervix when I was in labor. So
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: I am very much like, I'm I have to have
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: a female guy know, okay, are you not? Are you no?
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: I've never gone to a male yeah.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: So of course for the only one call in my life,
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: the guy on call who is in triage, you know,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: checking the women, a guy like just full blown dude,
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: like a man, walks in and he was not friendly.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: My dad was like, so I was at my dad's hospital.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Is he your dad in obie?
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: No, the other side of delivery. So this guy was like,
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: he comes in cranky. My dad goes, he must have
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: just you woke him up. He was on call three am.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: You woke him up. And then and then I'm like
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: this the first time in my life is when I'm
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: an active labor that I'm that this doctor is going
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: to have to stick his huge finger up my and
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: then check the cervix and sorry. He was like, she's
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: so tense. She was like, he's so, she's so tense
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: right now I can barely see what centimeter she is.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Like he was like talking about me like that, And
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: that was you're like, and I'm like, excuse, yeah, you're sweating,
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: you're hot, you're cold, you're just whatever. And then I
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: go upstairs to like the lady Land, where like all
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: you see are ladies.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: That's great.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: And everything was not easy, not Dawson was relatively an
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: easy child. Yeah, so it was good, and so of
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: my trauma. It was it was getting checked by a man.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: And I've never I've always thought like I'm tough, like
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: I can.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Do Winter special Forces.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: I'm not like, I was never scared about I awesome.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: And I've never been pregnant, but I've been always more
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: scared of being pregnant. Not that actually I'm like, oh,
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: I would probably want to get that baby out.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, well both things are, but now I'm like, after after,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: I never mind, this seems terrible. Oh my gosh. Well yeah,
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: I was always terrifying of birth. Birth always scared the
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: shit out of me, right, and then I had the
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: greatest births, not scary at all, zero, Like I could
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: do that again. I'm getting scared of that, but I
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: am scared of being pregnant again.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why kids, I'm like, I don't want to
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: drag my body. I don't want to feel awful. I
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: don't want to like it's just it takes over you.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: It's literally a countdown to nine months to being like
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: when is this alien in my body going to stop
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: being there? And one can.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: I just love that you say that because that's how
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: I feel. But it doesn't seem like people say that,
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, it doesn't look fun.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: When you're pregnant. Text me anytime. I love talking about
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: hating being pregnant.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: I love that.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: We have too much to talk to Hannah Brown about
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: so and why do I have to refer to you
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: as Hannah Brown?
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: I love it. It's been so great, you know it
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: just it's always been that way.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: It's just me and Ashley. I yeah, don't drop I'm
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: not ever dropping the eye because sometimes on Housewives they're like,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: you're just Ashley. I'm like, no, no, no, no, roots people,
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: we respect the roots. All Right, We're gonna come back
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: with her in another episode. Until then, I've been Ashley
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: and she's been Hannah Brown.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Bye.
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