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Teen Life in 2025: Wrestling, Phantom of the Opera & 6-7 with Mia · onefjef

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  Step right up, it's the show you adore It's onefjef, episode 24 Deep chats, big laughs, and we're glad you're here Cause cousin Mia's in the spotlight this year She's a freshman
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  star with the sacks in hand On the wrestling match she takes a stand Just don't you loud or she'll give you a glare
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  But Phantom of the Opera, she'll take you there.
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  He's got Zany Vox, there to spare.
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  It's onefjef, where the convo goes there.
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  So ring that bell and open the door.
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  It's onefjef, episode 24.
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  This is episode 24 of onefjef.
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  The number 24 has always carried a sense of completeness.
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  Time itself revolves around it.
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  24 hours in a day.
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  A system that began with the Egyptians dividing daylight and darkness into two sets of 12.
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  In numerology, its digits add to six.
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  A number ruled by Venus and tied to love, harmony and domestic balance.
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  That makes 24 the caretaker number.
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  Dependable, protective and devoted to maintaining connection and stability.
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  cousins and I were really close when we were growing up.
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  We all lived in the Cleveland area and we were all pretty close in age.
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  So we'd celebrate all our birthdays and holidays together.
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  We'd go on vacations together.
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  We'd have these amazing sleepovers at our grandmother's house.
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  It was pretty magical, to be honest.
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  And I remember growing up and finding out that most people didn't have such a close relationship with their cousins.
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  And I realized that it was special.
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  this connection we'd forged as kids.
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  Now we're all in our 40s and 50s, and we've dispersed to different parts of the country.
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  And some of us have husbands and wives and kids and jobs, and it's not as easy to see each other and stay in touch.
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  But the connection I feel and the love I have for this group of people is still there.
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  It'll always be there.
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  When we were in our 20s and early 30s, my cousin started a contest, a betting pool, if you will.
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  about who would be the first of us to reproduce.
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  It was funny at the time, and it still is funny, frankly, because none of us seemed anywhere close to having kids, in spite of the fact that we were all in the relative age
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  range of when people start to reproduce, and also because we were betting on this.
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  I'm not sure our parents found it quite as funny as we did, but that was often the case.
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  One Christmas, we took an empty vodka bottle.
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  and filled it with water and then closed it back up and wrapped it up as a gift for my cousin Sarah, who was I think 18 at the time, maybe 17.
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  And we gave it to her in front of everybody and she opened it up.
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  We told her beforehand and she opened it up and she says, oh boy, I love vodka.
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  And she just starts chugging it in front of everybody.
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  And the look on our parents' faces.
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  I mean it was...
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  I'll never forget the look.
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  I'll never forget it.
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  Anyway, the first cousin baby was born in June of 2010 to my cousin Mike.
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  My sister had hers in August of that year and then my cousin Brian had his first a year later in 2011.
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  Our youngest cousin Rachel won the pool, which was about a thousand bucks, I think.
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  Which brings me to my guest today...
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  who is my cousin Brian's firstborn child, Mia, who is now 14 years old and a freshman in high school, which is wild.
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  Mia was actually one of the first people that I booked for this podcast.
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  I was at a minor league baseball game with her and her family, and I was telling her about this podcast I was planning to start.
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  And she was like, can I come on?
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  Can I come on?
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  And I was like, of course.
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  And so last Saturday,
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  We made it happen.
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  I really enjoy talking to young people.
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  Maybe I'm just trying to maintain my relevance in this increasingly confusing world of ours, but I enjoy hearing their perspective about all the things.
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  So this conversation with Mia is no exception, and I hope you'll enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed having it.
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  Thank you for listening.
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  Thank you for being here.
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  Here is my first cousin.
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  once removed.
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  Mia.
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  Do you remember when we first met?
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  I not tell you.
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  No, no do I ah I Think you were drooling a lot at that age you were a big drool Well, it's all right.
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  You were very baby.
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  You and Matt both drooled.
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  I don't know which one was the bigger drool Yeah, well, we'll find out I'll ask your parents um So tell me about tell me about Mia
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  Okay, sure.
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  I'm 14.
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  I'll be 15 next year.
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  I like that's kind of a no-brainer.
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  Yeah.
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  Well, I'm in high school.
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  I am a freshman.
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  Let me see.
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  Right now it's wrestling season, so that's like the sport I'm in.
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  Yeah, I have a nice friend group.
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  I have nice friends.
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  I hang out with them when I'm not doing a sport or homework really.
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  support to you playing.
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  Well, right now I'm in wrestling season, so I'm wrestling.
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  that's right.
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  And in the fall I did golf.
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  And these are all new sports to like I've never played them before.
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  Right.
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  But it's interesting, it's new.
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  And it's mainly it's like the people that I do it for.
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  Yeah.
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  But it's also interesting to try something new and also meet new people.
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  Sure, sure.
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  Do you like wrestling?
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  I yeah, we'll see if I do it next year but it's fun this year and I'm kind of stuck with it so I'm gonna try it.
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  uh Wrestling, I never would have thought of wrestling.
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  I never really wanted to wrestle when I was a kid.
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  You know, me neither, but then my best friend's older sister comes up to me and she's asked me about it and she talked to me about it for a while and so did my friend.
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  ah And then I convinced my other best friend to join.
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  So me, my two best friends did it with one of their older siblings.
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  Right, right.
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  So there was a first person who wanted to do it.
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  Yeah.
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  And that person got everybody else wanting to do it as well.
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  Do you feel like you're good at it?
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  How many matches have you had?
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  Three, and how have you done?
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  All right.
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  You're giving me a blank stare right there, Right, we'll avoid that one.
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  And the golf thing hasn't started yet.
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  That wasn't, how'd that go?
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  Also not bad, but I was like learning, you know?
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  But that was fun.
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  I got to drive a Golf.
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  Right and your dad likes to golf too, so that's fun.
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  Yeah Right, right, right.
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  Probably not a good idea He's not a big wrestler either too.
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  So I don't think
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  He said he did.
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  Did he really?
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  Yes.
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  One I asked him one day he was like, yeah, I did.
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  I was good.
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  And I had no idea.
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  I was very surprised.
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  Huh, I had no idea either.
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  I can't really picture your dad wrestling, but...
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  Me neither.
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  No.
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  I guess you knew.
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  Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  So what's it like being a teenager in 2025?
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  It's pretty cool, you know?
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  It's also interesting because we have the internet and phones and that kind of thing.
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  So it's interesting to see other people and you know, like the same.
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  yeah.
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  How do you feel about the social media?
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  I enjoy it.
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  I don't like post anything.
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  Okay.
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  But like I it's interesting to like see other stuff and like like TikTok and Instagram.
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  TikTok.
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  Yeah, that's the one that's super addictive.
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  That's like, yeah.
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  Yeah, that's the one that I can't have on my phone because it's too much.
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  Although I did start a TikTok account for this podcast and I'm not sure what to do with it.
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  I feel like I should do dancing or something, but that was some dance numbers.
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  no, we'll find Matt.
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  He likes the choreo- choreography.
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  Right, and then they'd go to the podcast though, they'd see you and Matt dancing and maybe me as well.
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  uh But then they'd go to the podcast and they'd be like, this is nothing like what I saw on TikTok.
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  But it's just pulling them in, that's all you really want.
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  So once you've got them.
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  You got him hooked.
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  I feel like the dancing, that's really neat.
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  well we'll talk to Matt about that.
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  See if he can do some choreography for us.
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  I didn't realize your brother was also a choreographer.
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  Is he really?
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  I didn't know that.
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  mean, according to himself.
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  Of course, of course.
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  But you're vouching for him here.
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  I mean, I kind of have to.
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  He's gonna listen to this and be like I am a good choreographer.
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  I heard you Mia.
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  Yeah Do you feel that social media is like ah I mean there's bad things about it, right?
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  Right and how is that in high school?
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  Like I can't imagine I didn't have we'd have phones of course when I was in high school or anything So I can't imagine this house how like social life works when you have all the
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  social media all the time
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  It is interesting and I think for me, I do so many other things that there's enough time where I'm not on social media.
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  And like it's just regulated because of all the other activities I do and like the time I don't have to spend on social media.
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  But it definitely does affect our generation, like my generation and like, you know, it's like, I know a lot of my friends don't have social media, which I fully understand because
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  you have your parents.
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  You know, like I can see both ways um and like I think that's kind of where I stand like I don't post anything because I'm like I don't want it to I Don't want myself right affected
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  by like what other people think of me.
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  Do you feel like, mean, have you experienced any or known anybody who's been affected negatively by like social media stuff?
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  not that I can think of any of my friends That's good like any of my close friends because they just like again none of my friends.
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  We just don't Right.
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  I mean we'll watch but like we don't you
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah, you know that the people who invented these products like who invented Instagram and all these tick-tock They don't let their children use them It says a lot about how
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  nefarious they are uh And what was it like you've been in high school what for about?
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  three four months now
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  Like, three, two?
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  How has that been?
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  It's a big change.
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  It's nice.
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  mean, I definitely miss things at my middle school that like, I really just like the people and also honestly the building was kind of nicer, like the building.
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  The one thing I've noticed about high school is that like grades don't really separate.
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  Like the whole school is kind of just together.
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  Like I have some, I'm really close with some of the seniors, but I'm also close with some of the freshmen and you know, like other grades, they all kind of mixed together, which I
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  think is interesting.
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  And like, I also have classes with the juniors and seniors.
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  that's interesting.
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  They didn't have that.
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  That was not the case when I was in high school.
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  We were all with the same.
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  What classes do you have with upperclassmen?
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  Oh, right.
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  Okay.
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  and then outro two and Spanish.
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  Okay, yeah, I guess choir and band I had with other yeah with older kids.
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  Yeah
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  But it's definitely, I like that more.
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  And like in middle school, I mean, we still had that, but you never had classes with any of them.
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  So it's hard to see them throughout the day.
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  right, Is it different or the same as you expected?
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  Like when you went in, did you have expectations about it?
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  I didn't really know what to expect.
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  I didn't have a preset thought of what heist could be.
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  I I saw this stuff in movies, but I never really expected that to be the same.
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  Right, right, right.
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  ah So has it been better or worse?
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  um I think better.
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  I think one thing I guess one expectation I had was more classes like more homework sure But that's not really how it's been like honestly interesting.
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  I haven't had much like I could be wrong.
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  Maybe it's coming but like I just the teachers are like more chill honestly weird so
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  Huh, I don't know if your parents are gonna wanna hear that, but.
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  They really will.
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  It's probably the.
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  I mean they know I don't I don't do any homework at home.
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  I just don't have any huh.
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  I do it at school
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  I mean there's mixed feelings about homework these days in the sense that like, know You're at school all day and then should you really be going home and then doing school
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  again?
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  I mean it seems a little bit I feel like there should be a little homework But to a degree that I had it when I was in high school.
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  We had a lot of homework And I hated doing it
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  I don't like you either.
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  can only the only homework I can understand is if you didn't finish it in class and it's just something that's like Carries over.
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  Yeah, or like a project right but like they're like, hey, I need you to do this outside of school Like I really don't understand that especially since I know People who have like
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  jobs and sports and like have other things going on in their lives.
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  They just don't have time.
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  So yeah
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  Yeah.
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  Are you a good student?
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  I mean, yeah.
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  Yeah, if I got anything below an A, I think I'd cry.
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  Oh really?
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  Yeah.
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  Oh you're that good of a student.
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  That's great.
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  That's good to know.
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  It's good to know what's your favorite subject.
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  Oh, that's true.
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  Honestly, for me to change, it's like depending on the teacher.
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  Okay, that makes sense.
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  But honestly, right now, one of my favorite classes is probably Spanish 3.
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  Oh, It's right before lunch, which...
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  Boy, no.
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  Yeah.
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  Sorry, I wasn't expecting that.
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  And like, just like I have friends in that class and the teacher's nice, so...
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  And are you learning Spanish?
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  Yeah, well yeah, I guess, I guess so.
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  You're getting pretty good at it.
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  I'm trying to learn Spanish and it's not going well.
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  I have labels all over the house as you'll see of things that I've labeled.
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  Not in this room.
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  Behind you there's a poster that I got in uh Columbia.
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  What does it say?
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  ah I also...
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  Yeah.
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  I also lived the life.
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  Good job.
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  Good job.
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  Good job.
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  Hey, you got an A.
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  Well, la de da.
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  So what's something that you feel like adults don't understand about what it's like to be a teenager right now?
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  Um, I think they just forget honestly, okay I could be wrong about this, but I feel like teenagers have heightened emotions and like, you know, generally that's just kind of how
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  it is I mean, I think they kind of forget that and then it's like You know, I might care a lot about something but they don't really understand that right and it's like it'll seem
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  like the smallest little thing and like it doesn't make sense to them But to me, I mean, this is my whole world.
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  Like I don't know anything else besides what?
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  Right, high school and so forth.
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  So like that's what matters most to me right now and I think No offense to my parents.
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  I'm not calling them old but like they haven't been in high school for a nice chunk of time
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  A nice chunk of time.
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  That's a great way of putting it.
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  I haven't been in high school in a larger nice chunk of time than your parents, but not that much.
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  No, I don't want to go back to high school.
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  High school is interesting, Mia, because it's like the only time in your life that you will be around the same group of people, your class, for all the time.
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  Like you're just kind of, and it's really interesting once you get out and looking back, cause you're like, oh,
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  I didn't really appreciate that when I was in it.
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  I mean, it's good and bad because you don't like everybody.
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  How many people are in your class?
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  200 something.
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  200, 300.
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  Probably something around there.
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  ah But yeah, it's interesting.
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  Some of the people, I enjoy.
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  Some other people, not so much.
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  you find your people, you pick and choose.
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  eh But then you'll get to go to high school reunions in like 10 years after you graduate and 20 years and you'll see how these people have grown up and that's the interesting
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  part.
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  That will be interesting.
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  I'm I will be there.
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  I will like to see that
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  You'll find a lot of like the jocks because I was not athletic in high school at all.
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  I was a theater nerd and uh and all and show choir as well.
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  uh and a lot of the jocks like the football jocks had become fat and bald, which gave me pleasure.
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  And that most of them have been through a divorce as well, which also gave me pleasure.
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  But that will be interesting to see what relationship lasts.
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  really is interesting, yeah.
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  Because there were a few that people who met in high school were still married.
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  Not very many, but a few.
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  And a surprising amount of people who hadn't left the town, like Westlake.
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  No, most of them had not.
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  They still lived in the area, I found surprising.
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  Yeah, what do you think?
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  Do you think you're going to leave Columbus at some point?
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  What do you think?
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  I know.
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  I like Glendale.
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  um But like I also do want to see the world because like For me, there's not a point in staying in one place the whole time.
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  That just seems like a waste of my time Exactly, so I would definitely like to see other parts of the world, but I don't know where if I'll You know come back to her and live here
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  or yeah, I'll move elsewhere.
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  Yeah
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  I I went and lived all over and then came back to Ohio.
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  Right now I'm kind of just thinking about my test next week.
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  I was in band.
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  you have a test in band.
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  I don't think we had those.
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  You have to like play a piece basically.
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  Yeah.
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  And that's marching band.
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  All right.
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  Oh, all right.
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  Then what do you play?
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  all right.
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  Why'd you choose the alto sax?
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  Not really sure, it's kind of coming back to bite me now.
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  No, it's because it's heavy.
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  Like the case.
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  It's a big yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  Well hindsight.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah
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  Really kinda should've thought one.
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  Should've thought that one.
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  I mean, yeah, it's fun.
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  All right.
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  I never could play.
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  I played a like a I could play cornet like it's a small trumpet and then I a valve trombone and marching band, which I really didn't care for.
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  But I never learned how to play like the reeded instruments.
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  Yeah, I could play all the other instruments pretty much pianos and all that kind of thing, but never any reeded things.
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  Yeah, I never tried.
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  So maybe I should try sometime.
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  Now think about it, I chose this in fifth grade, I don't really remember why I chose it.
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  I could not tell you, but it's, I mean, I like it.
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  Like it's, I feel like playing a brass instrument, I wouldn't like that, like on your lips, like that sounds...
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  I know, I wouldn't.
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  doesn't sound too...
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  Yeah, when I got braces, I couldn't really do it as well because that makes it very hard to go...
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  I know I've been through a few rounds of races and I like in middle school I had this friend and she was another Alistair Saxon and we'd sit together You know, we both like
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  we're going through races and we'd be like, sorry I just got my braces tight and I can't play today
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  You gotta take up my slack.
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  Yeah, I mean, probably could have, but you know.
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  I've never been, and this is no offense, I've never been a fan of the sound of saxophones.
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  That's fair.
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  I think you just have to play specific piece.
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  Like, I feel like saxophones, they can't play everything, but if you give them the right music, it can sound really pretty.
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  Absolutely, there's definitely like, you know, you're John Coltrane and so forth, like, given the choice, I'd go with like brass.
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  Like when I went to New Orleans and like the brass bands everywhere that really like gets me.
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  Loud brass music, like marching, like the marching band, the Ohio State.
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  I think saxons I just this could be me, you know, because I play play it but like I think they're kind of just like this left out instrument because they don't fit into a concert
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  band like they're just they're never part of like a symphony orchestra or anything.
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  Right.
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  I mean they're a jazzy instrument.
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  Yeah, you think of that when you think of jazz, but it's not like, you know, they'll be all brass bands, but you don't have a saxophone in all brass bands, right?
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  You know It's a jazz
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  they're trying to kind of fit it in somewhere in high school bands
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  Yeah, so it's like I always do feel a little like a little left out because like we're with the woodwinds, but The woodwinds are they're an odd group like with the whole flute
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  clarinet
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  don't get me started on the oboe.
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  I mean that's...
• 20:26
  Yeah, well actually I can't say much bad stuff about that life one of my best friends plays the elbow I do know
• 20:32
  Well, I mean, no offense to her, of course.
• 20:34
  I find that in general, your friend accepted.
• 20:37
  The oboe community is a strange one.
• 20:40
  I can see that.
• 20:43
  some would Windsor.
• 20:45
  I feel bad, but I feel like the stereotypes do fit a lot of the instrument.
• 20:49
  Well it's a strange word to oboe.
• 20:52
  Oboe.
• 20:53
  mean if you say, you know how when you say a word over and over again it loses its meaning and you're like, what are we even saying anymore?
• 20:58
  Oboe is one of those.
• 21:01
  Who thought of that?
• 21:01
  Like saxophone, that's a legit word, but oboe.
• 21:05
  I mean, generally with instruments, they're named after the person who made them.
• 21:08
  Bob.
• 21:10
  Yeah, that's probably was probably Robert.
• 21:12
  But yeah.
• 21:15
  There's Robbie.
• 21:16
  have to look that up after the show.
• 21:18
  um
• 21:19
  Oboes, I think they're always really good at their instrument.
• 21:21
  for sure.
• 21:22
  Never met a bad oboe.
• 21:23
  No, if you're gonna choose the oboe you're gonna commit to the oboe.
• 21:26
  You really have to want to play the oboe.
• 21:30
  Church is.
• 21:32
  And that can be beautiful depending on the piece as well.
• 21:36
  um I can imagine it'd be hard to listen to somebody practicing that if they're not very good though.
• 21:41
  A lot of squeaking.
• 21:42
  Yeah.
• 21:43
  Yeah.
• 21:43
  Yeah.
• 21:44
  Huh.
• 21:45
  Band.
• 21:45
  Yeah, I was in marching band for one year and I didn't care for it at all.
• 21:49
  Yeah, I was in the freshman year and I just didn't care for it so I switched to show choir.
• 21:53
  Singing and dancing was more my game.
• 21:55
  I mean it does take away a lot of Friday nights, which is right not great But I do like being there like it's a fun time and especially all the people are you know nice and
• 22:05
  funny, so Yeah, our football team sucks, so
• 22:11
  well, you know, but you're the highlight then.
• 22:13
  Yeah.
• 22:13
  No, we are.
• 22:14
  are.
• 22:14
  Yeah.
• 22:15
  It's the funny part, but.
• 22:17
  We had to do like a whole summer thing too.
• 22:19
  It was like weeks and weeks of practice in the summer.
• 22:21
  Ben camp.
• 22:21
  camp, yeah.
• 22:23
  What are your friends like?
• 22:24
  My friends?
• 22:25
  Yeah.
• 22:26
  Well, I do.
• 22:29
  They're all a little different.
• 22:30
  have some friends who are like really into theater, like that's their thing.
• 22:34
  And like I am too, but like I doubt one a little bit of.
• 22:38
  And I have two friends that I can think of.
• 22:40
  They're crazy good at sports.
• 22:41
  Like they are just, that's their thing.
• 22:42
  Like that's, mean, they do other stuff, but like they're really good at sports.
• 22:46
  And you know, my oboe friend, she's really good at the oboe.
• 22:49
  Like that's her main thing.
• 22:52
  But she's also one of my wrestling friends.
• 22:56
  So...
• 22:56
  Goal.
• 22:58
  We play a lot of the same sports.
• 23:00
  well that's fun.
• 23:01
  That's fun.
• 23:01
  um What do you think you're the best at?
• 23:04
  Um, that's hard question for me because I think personally I'm just kind of okayed everything I just do so many things that there's no I can't really be great at one thing
• 23:13
  because I just focus on too many things at once Which is probably that probably tells you something about me, but like ah
• 23:22
  I kind of the same way I relate to that.
• 23:24
  Yeah.
• 23:25
  So it's like, I don't think there's any one thing that I'm just great at, but I'm just, okay, a lot of things.
• 23:31
  And I think that's kind of what I've accepted.
• 23:33
  And that's just what I do.
• 23:35
  It's a good realization to have at your age uh and high school is a great place to like, know Try to do all the things because it's one of the like you won't have a chance to be
• 23:43
  in like a marching band when you're an adult or like, you know all these things and it's crazy because you don't think about that but then you get into older age and you're like,
• 23:50
  you know, found a choir here but like in general people don't go into choirs as you know, so Yeah, do all the things while you can
• 23:57
  That's kind of my mindset.
• 23:58
  good philosophy.
• 23:59
  Really, I've done everything.
• 24:02
  Yeah, I mean you're wrestling for crying out loud, which is never a thing I'd imagine you're doing so yeah and what do you do you have like a Plan do you want what do you want?
• 24:12
  Any ideas what you want to do after this high school scenario?
• 24:15
  Know I want to go to college like I that's definitely one thing I wanted to do I'm not quite sure oh what I'd want to major in There's like a lot of different things that I
• 24:25
  would you know, let's what I guess film that'd be Like not on the acting side, but like behind the scenes production.
• 24:34
  Yeah
• 24:35
  I can give you some background on how that life will be
• 24:37
  And then I thought about engineering a lot and specifically aerospace engineering.
• 24:41
  That's what sounds like.
• 24:44
  I think that's the front runner in my head right now.
• 24:46
  Like I'm that's my best subject is probably math and like the science sciences and stuff in school.
• 24:52
  So I think that would fit me well.
• 24:57
  I've also thought about like forensic science and stuff.
• 24:59
  Interesting like crime stuff.
• 25:01
  do you listen to crime podcast?
• 25:03
  uh It's weird women generally listen to those more than men like that's a very the audience for female listening to it and it's just and like who knows why that is it's
• 25:14
  interesting
• 25:15
  and more men commit the crime so...
• 25:17
  Right, right, right.
• 25:19
  What do you think is the appeal to you of listening to true crime?
• 25:22
  I always just find it fascinating like on how such terrible people can do such terrible things sure it's I don't know it's interesting to go into like the psychology part of it
• 25:31
  and like Understand why they would do that and like right?
• 25:35
  It's just it's crazy
• 25:36
  Right, I often wonder if some people are just like born bad.
• 25:40
  I know.
• 25:41
  Like, that's a question I've heard a lot of people ask.
• 25:45
  It's like, do people change or is it, you know, is it affected by other things or is it how they are?
• 25:51
  How much about how they were raised had this to do with us things like that but like it does seem like there's a certain number a small number of people who just are Bad and even
• 26:01
  seem to enjoy being bad.
• 26:03
  It's like that.
• 26:04
  They like it.
• 26:05
  Yeah
• 26:06
  Yeah, yeah, they find joy in that it's it's definitely interesting to see how people You know are and just like what they enjoy.
• 26:14
  I guess.
• 26:15
  Yeah certain things
• 26:16
  It's I watch these my latest little YouTube addiction is these They take these that you know the body cam footage from the police officers and now they're putting these videos
• 26:26
  You probably seen them, but they're all over the internet There's so many of them and it's like fascinating for some reason to me to watch these like police go to the crime the
• 26:34
  crime scene in person and see all the I don't know why but yeah, very strange
• 26:38
  I think my least favorite job would be a crime scene cleanup.
• 26:42
  yeah, that sounds terrible
• 26:43
  No, you're hosing down the blood and stuff.
• 26:45
  Yeah, no, no, no, no, no somebody though wants that job.
• 26:49
  It's like I want to clean up the blood
• 26:50
  That's what makes it interesting on how different people are and like how someone would like that job.
• 26:55
  That's a great job.
• 26:56
  I would worry about that person a little bit though.
• 26:59
  Like if I was a parent and you were like, I want to clean up the blood after the crimes.
• 27:03
  You'd be like, what have we done wrong?
• 27:05
  Yeah, it's like they don't even want to commit it they wanted
• 27:07
  No, they don't even want to research it.
• 27:08
  They don't know anything.
• 27:09
  They just want to clean up the mess which yeah, no um So where do you see yourself?
• 27:15
  Let's say 10 years down the road
• 27:18
  10 years away.
• 27:19
  That's a long time.
• 27:21
  years old just out of college.
• 27:22
  Right.
• 27:23
  Well, maybe not just out but I mean I was in college for six years, but we don't need to talk about that.
• 27:30
  I you know, I was I was a bit of a slacker in college and some of the classes that I couldn't decide what to major in because I thought to major in one thing would be to
• 27:39
  exclude like I'm a dabbler too.
• 27:41
  So I felt like if I major in political science say then I'm gonna be a political scientist most likely.
• 27:47
  Yeah.
• 27:47
  And what but then what if I want to do all these other things?
• 27:50
  Right?
• 27:50
  What if I want to do films?
• 27:51
  So I couldn't, I had trouble choosing a major and then, you know, it's a long story.
• 27:56
  And then I was having too much fun and so I just, six years, yeah.
• 27:58
  And I'm not a doctor.
• 28:00
  No.
• 28:00
  No.
• 28:00
  No.
• 28:01
  24 years let me or 10 years.
• 28:03
  Um, well, I'll probably be broke.
• 28:05
  I feel like that's It is a great stuff.
• 28:08
  Yeah, I'm just trying to accept that I can yeah, but like you know the job and like all that debt from college Yeah, I've heard
• 28:18
  Yeah, no, I still have student loan debt.
• 28:21
  Yeah, it's a real, don't get me started.
• 28:23
  Don't get me started.
• 28:25
  Yeah.
• 28:26
  Just don't go to like film school for grad school.
• 28:29
  And also don't go to the most expensive art school in the country as well.
• 28:32
  would just like to just.
• 28:34
  Yeah, don't do that.
• 28:35
  Yeah.
• 28:37
  No, no, I would not recommend that.
• 28:39
  I mean, they give scholarships, but yeah.
• 28:41
  I would really hope to get a scholarship.
• 28:43
  That's kind of, that's kind of why.
• 28:45
  That's not why I'm doing all that I'm doing in high school, but I think it helps having a lot of stuff in.
• 28:51
  Yeah, it like you'll have a very well-rounded uh college application essay.
• 28:56
  That's, I would like to be well rounded.
• 28:57
  That's my goal.
• 29:01
  That's what I think.
• 29:02
  Yeah, so I don't know exactly what I'd be doing, but I think probably something in science.
• 29:07
  Okay, okay, let's say 20 years.
• 29:11
  in one year, so I'll be thirty-
• 29:13
  34 years old it'll be it'll be it'll be 2045
• 29:20
  Don't say that!
• 29:21
  Don't say that!
• 29:22
  crazy to me ah I'll be 71.
• 29:26
  Oh, so we be married with kids
• 29:30
  Probably yeah, maybe I don't you don't know.
• 29:32
  I don't know.
• 29:33
  I definitely want to travel I do want a family like this.
• 29:36
  I enjoy kids
• 29:38
  Yeah, I do too.
• 29:41
  Yeah, not really young kids, but like, you know, I've always liked talking to younger people It's like my jam any boys.
• 29:47
  No, no interest in boys
• 29:49
  I not right now.
• 29:50
  No.
• 29:52
  I'm more focused on other things.
• 29:55
  I mean, yeah.
• 29:56
  Yeah, I mean, that started like middle school.
• 29:58
  It's it's getting more serious now, but.
• 30:02
  Yeah, I didn't have a girlfriend I think I could take a sophomore or something.
• 30:05
  Yeah.
• 30:06
  Yeah, and she didn't even go to my school She was from theater stuff.
• 30:08
  Okay.
• 30:09
  Yeah, you want to have kids though?
• 30:11
  Yeah.
• 30:11
  Yeah
• 30:13
  I think everyone's kind of goal is to be rich.
• 30:15
  So that'd be kind of cool, but.
• 30:17
  thing is that money doesn't it's true what they say.
• 30:19
  It doesn't it doesn't give you happiness It just gives you like at a certain point some comfort, but really like if you want to live your life, it's a balance for me really and
• 30:31
  I've always kind of leaned towards like experience and fun opposed as opposed to You know accumulating wealth because then you don't what are you gonna do something with the money?
• 30:41
  Like if you do get rich, what are you gonna do with that money?
• 30:43
  So you have all the money.
• 30:43
  What do you get all the money?
• 30:45
  all the money.
• 30:45
  Well, I'd want to travel.
• 30:47
  That's definitely one thing I'd want.
• 30:48
  are we gonna go?
• 30:49
  Where's the first place we're gonna go?
• 30:52
  Europe, any particular country?
• 30:54
  this came up at dinner last night and grandpa he just started talking about his like heritage and stuff right and I guess he's a half Finnish but I right no one ever told me
• 31:03
  that so I mean I guess I'd be go that'd be interesting go to Finland and like he has all the places like where his family was from and stuff so it'd be interesting to go there and
• 31:13
  like see that absolutely more Germany yeah you know also we're German yeah
• 31:20
  Yeah, good sausages there.
• 31:23
  Yeah, if like sausage, sauerkraut, probably not at your age sauerkraut's fine.
• 31:26
  Not quite here.
• 31:27
  You'll like it as you get older.
• 31:28
  in I heard they have good waffles.
• 31:30
  Yeah, I'm not sure if Like I've been I think I've been through Belgium and I don't think that I had a waffle but I don't know that They have better waffles than any other places,
• 31:40
  but I don't know maybe maybe they do Yeah, and there's only one way to find out by going well or asking the internet really yeah, but right You don't say The internet can be dodgy
• 31:54
  by Mia Bifus, that's a great one.
• 31:56
  It's that's a great one.
• 31:58
  What's yeah.
• 31:59
  Yeah
• 32:00
  um Is there something that you're excited about in the future?
• 32:03
  Um, well, one thing I'm doing is I'm doing history day.
• 32:06
  It's like this thing where, there's a theme every year and then you like, you can do it by yourself or like with a small group.
• 32:14
  Um, and you like pick a topic that fits the theme and you like make this whole big project about it.
• 32:19
  There's like multiple different entries, entry styles that you can do.
• 32:23
  You can do like an exhibit board, a documentary, a performance.
• 32:28
  Like there's more, think there's something there's like five.
• 32:31
  Right.
• 32:32
  Um,
• 32:33
  Anyways, but my friends and I were doing, we're gonna do it.
• 32:37
  I mean, it's required for humanities, but like, we're gonna enter in the competition and like.
• 32:43
  Well, the theme this year is revolution, reaction, reform.
• 32:48
  And so our plan, it could change.
• 32:51
  But I think we were gonna do like the Code Girls.
• 32:54
  were like this group of women during World War II who like were hired to be code breakers.
• 33:01
  It's really interesting that they like couldn't tell their families is very secret.
• 33:04
  They were like teenagers, like they were young adult women.
• 33:08
  um So we thought that would be really interesting.
• 33:12
  Something we're interested.
• 33:13
  Sure, sure, Like what would you make?
• 33:16
  Like a documentary or like a...
• 33:18
  do an exhibit board.
• 33:20
  exhibit So it's like a trifold.
• 33:22
  Yeah, it's a good one because I think it's a thing people don't a lot of people don't know about Yeah, yeah, and I think I'd heard something about something like that, but I didn't
• 33:28
  know that that was just a big thing back then
• 33:31
  Yeah, so we'll see how that goes.
• 33:35
  Well, I guess the men were in the war,
• 33:37
  Right, right, right that makes sense.
• 33:38
  Yeah.
• 33:39
  Yeah, you know women were the first side note but like women the first people who were the big film editors back in the day when you were actually cutting film were almost all women
• 33:48
  because they thought it was like knitting like sewing ah So some of the earliest like big editors were women, which I always thought was interesting, isn't it?
• 33:57
  Yeah.
• 33:58
  Yeah What's your favorite song right now
• 34:03
  favorite song?
• 34:04
  ah That's a good question.
• 34:07
  Can I really come back to that?
• 34:09
  I need to like think about that.
• 34:11
  Alright, you don't have to come up with favorite.
• 34:13
  You can just be like one of the big ones on your playlist.
• 34:16
  Something on rotate.
• 34:17
  Okay, well, this is gonna sound really really odd.
• 34:21
  Okay No, well, you know, we'll see um, but that one song from phantom of the opera is like really sick Uh the one
• 34:33
  Not the Phantom of the upper That's the main one.
• 34:36
  Yeah inside my mind
• 34:38
  It's like been stuck in my head for a while because it was like went viral.
• 34:41
  I was like, it's cool.
• 34:43
  You know viral like recently I'm don't know why huh, but it's really interesting and it's like been really stuck in my head
• 34:51
  That's crazy because that musical was huge when I was in high school like all the theater kids knew all of that.
• 34:56
  Yeah
• 34:57
  Yeah, it's kind of died down.
• 34:58
  It has.
• 34:59
  Is it still?
• 35:00
  I don't think so.
• 35:01
  I think it closed just last year and year before yeah, it's one of the longest running things I didn't see it on Broadway.
• 35:06
  I saw it in Toronto.
• 35:09
  Yeah, have you seen it?
• 35:11
  I mean, I've seen bits and pieces.
• 35:12
  right.
• 35:13
  Never I've never sat down and watched the full thing, but I've seen
• 35:16
  Yeah, it's a spectacle.
• 35:17
  Yeah, you know, it's been chandelier come all that kind of things.
• 35:19
  yeah, yeah How do you feel about your parents?
• 35:25
  What's your relationship like with your parents?
• 35:27
  I enjoy them.
• 35:27
  They are my favorite people.
• 35:32
  If you decide, you know, you don't want to talk about it, we don't have to talk about it.
• 35:35
  Mean I I think I have a good relationship with my parents.
• 35:38
  Yeah.
• 35:39
  Yeah, I value them.
• 35:41
  Yeah
• 35:42
  Yeah, yeah, it's hard being parents.
• 35:44
  I think I have no idea of course Yeah Yeah, and how are things with your brother?
• 35:51
  Oh, that thing.
• 35:56
  It's a tricky one.
• 35:57
  Yeah, it's not like a love hate relationship.
• 35:58
  I think that's how most siblings are.
• 36:02
  He's also at the age where it's like, I don't I feel bad because I'm always mad at him, but it's just like he's just like at an annoying age right now.
• 36:09
  He's just annoying.
• 36:10
  Yeah, he's just really wants attention and uh he's got such a big heart that one
• 36:16
  He's very sensitive and it's like that's not a bad thing, but it's just like it can
• 36:20
  Yeah.
• 36:21
  Yeah.
• 36:22
  Like I'm sensitive and like I think he's sensitive.
• 36:25
  So that's saying quite a bit.
• 36:26
  Yeah.
• 36:26
  It's like, it's nothing bad, he just, he just can be a lot sometimes.
• 36:30
  It's like, you know, I think he'll, it'll get better as he gets older, but he's just, he's young right now.
• 36:37
  He's a very interesting kid.
• 36:39
  And I'm very curious to see what he'll be like in like 10 or 15 years.
• 36:43
  I'm dying to know.
• 36:44
  um Like it's so, more than almost any of my friends or relatives' kids, he's the one I'm like, I wanna know what that kid's doing in 10 or
• 36:56
  True he's so complicated Yeah, yeah, but you were very emotional and sensitive when you were like five years ago I remember like you were like, uh, were like an open raw nerve,
• 37:05
  but you really kind of yeah It really has and i'm and it's really been fun to see actually because I remember when I first moved here Which was now six seven years ago.
• 37:15
  um What?
• 37:22
  did say that um, but not on purpose
• 37:25
  Does make me legit?
• 37:26
  Am I cool now?
• 37:27
  Yeah.
• 37:27
  Yeah.
• 37:29
  No cap, bro.
• 37:30
  Oh, that's the perfect word.
• 37:33
  Fire no cap.
• 37:34
  yeah.
• 37:35
  That's...
• 37:35
  I'm doing it right.
• 37:36
  Doing it right.
• 37:36
  You're...
• 37:38
  It's like if you didn't see me here, you'd be like, is there another teenager here?
• 37:41
  Anyway, yeah.
• 37:46
  ah
• 37:49
  So when I moved here, you were having a very difficult time at the time and you were very emotional.
• 37:55
  And I was worried about you.
• 37:56
  was, because whenever I'd see you, you'd be very either happy or sad, but usually not the happiest.
• 38:01
  No.
• 38:02
  But yeah, it's been great to see you kind of grow out of that phase.
• 38:05
  I think one thing that affected my generation at least a lot was covid like I mean you met me like
• 38:12
  Right before COVID.
• 38:13
  Yeah.
• 38:13
  Well, I met you when you were a toddler.
• 38:15
  yeah, I moved like 2018.
• 38:17
  Yeah, so like I was you know, definitely affected me a lot and just like not being by anybody I didn't know like what was like socially I I just didn't know I didn't learn
• 38:28
  because like that was kind of like third and fourth grade for me like a little bit of fifth too That was all like COVID.
• 38:36
  So like I didn't I saw nobody I saw my neighbors and that was it
• 38:40
  Right, and you saw your aunt and uncle.
• 38:43
  Yeah, and just like family.
• 38:44
  Like I would see family and then like my neighbors.
• 38:46
  Like there were like two neighbors that that was the only people I would see.
• 38:49
  Yeah.
• 38:50
  family.
• 38:51
  um So that was like, I, that took a while to grow out of.
• 38:56
  Yeah, yeah, yeah I can imagine I mean I can't imagine actually but um Did you learn a lot during those periods when you're No, no, no, no Did your parents lose their minds having
• 39:07
  you?
• 39:07
  Yeah I can't imagine having kids during that age and having to like do a job at home and then have to make sure your kids are doing school and like, you know, blah blah blah blah
• 39:16
  blah
• 39:16
  is we're also like trying to find a bigger like another house to So that was also
• 39:22
  right, guys were in that small house during covid which is insane.
• 39:25
  was, it was rough, it was rough.
• 39:27
  Or else now it's a lot better, but.
• 39:29
  For sure.
• 39:29
  Yeah, that was a rough time and you guys moved right around the time I moved in here.
• 39:32
  like 2021 wasn't it?
• 39:33
  Yeah, we've been in our house for probably three or four years, I think.
• 39:36
  yeah now you got all sorts of room.
• 39:38
  Yeah.
• 39:38
  Yeah.
• 39:39
  Yeah, but your dad said your room is an uh incredible mess
• 39:43
  He needs to shut up because I fixed it.
• 39:48
  I'll send you a picture.
• 39:49
  don't have to send me a picture.
• 39:50
  I had a messy bedroom when I was a kid and I said that to him I was like, you know, I had a messy bedroom when I was a kid and he's like no, no, no, you don't understand.
• 39:58
  You don't stand it's like
• 40:00
  bad.
• 40:00
  But I just don't...
• 40:02
  it doesn't bother me.
• 40:05
  I just don't care.
• 40:06
  I mean it's better when it's clean but like I just don't really care if it's messy.
• 40:09
  And it's better now I cleaned it.
• 40:11
  He said that it was even hard for them to find a place to sleep on the bed.
• 40:15
  Okay, that's stretchy.
• 40:16
  oh
• 40:16
  Okay, I assumed there was a little exaggeration going on there.
• 40:23
  I'm sure he does.
• 40:23
  Yeah, I mean, he's your daughter.
• 40:24
  My parents had very strong opinions about my filthy bedroom when I was a kid,
• 40:28
  But also just my dad, like he's just very structured and organized.
• 40:32
  like, if I could describe with one word, it'd be spotless.
• 40:35
  If you could describe your dad with one word, would be spotless.
• 40:39
  Interesting.
• 40:40
  Because he just, he's not a clean freak, but like, he likes structure and order.
• 40:45
  Uh-huh, that's interesting.
• 40:47
  I never thought about that with your dad.
• 40:49
  Like I obviously see a different side of your dad than you do.
• 40:52
  Yeah.
• 40:53
  What about your mom?
• 40:53
  What's the one word?
• 40:56
  Heart felt.
• 40:58
  Oh, that's nice.
• 40:59
  Yeah, because I think that's this again.
• 41:01
  This isn't a bad thing, but she also has a lot of emotions like my dad He tends to bottle things up So I've which I've noticed but my mom she is very she's more open about her
• 41:13
  emotions.
• 41:13
  Um, so that's
• 41:15
  Yeah, that's the thing that i'm trying to change about I think growing up in the midwest.
• 41:19
  It's a lot of people we don't do well with I mean at least in our family too like even the extended family.
• 41:25
  We don't do a lot of like talking about our feelings.
• 41:27
  No, no Yeah, and I don't love that about it but um, and i've tried to you know Change myself and that's all you can do really because people are either going to come to you and
• 41:38
  that's part of the reason i'm doing this podcast is because like I feel like not even not even talking about feelings just talking about
• 41:45
  You I've never sat down and talked to you like this.
• 41:47
  You know, it's learning new things about you.
• 41:50
  You have any questions for me?
• 41:52
  Well, what was it like starting the podcast?
• 41:54
  Like how is this?
• 41:55
  Oh, that's an interesting question.
• 41:58
  It's been good.
• 41:59
  It's you know, I started it in early June.
• 42:01
  In fact, I remember when I was about to start it.
• 42:03
  Remember we were at that baseball game.
• 42:05
  Oh, we were.
• 42:05
  And we were talking about when the thunderstorm came in and we had to run for you.
• 42:09
  And I told you, you could be on the podcast.
• 42:10
  And here we are.
• 42:13
  But yeah, I started early June.
• 42:14
  And so it's been five months now and it's been good, you know.
• 42:19
  It's been good for my brain to have a creative thing to work on because it's been a while.
• 42:24
  Since I had a creative project.
• 42:25
  So that's been really good and it's really like the best part is like getting to like have excuses to like get people like friends and family in here to have interesting
• 42:33
  conversations and get to know them because you don't often do that, right?
• 42:36
  It's not right.
• 42:38
  It's not often, right?
• 42:39
  I mean I'll sit down with my friends and have a good conversation But like I'm not gonna do that with like my brother
• 42:44
  But even then it's like when the conversation ends with your friends, you're just like, okay if the conversation starts to die out You're like, all right.
• 42:50
  I see you later.
• 42:51
  Yeah with this we got to keep it going.
• 42:52
  Yeah, you know what mean?
• 42:53
  Yeah, we got to keep talking.
• 42:55
  Yeah So but yeah, it's been good I just need to keep my dabbling brain from wanting to do something else or pull whatever it is Maybe I'll start playing music on this because you
• 43:04
  know, knows start doing a song and dance or the tick-tock videos your career play brother.
• 43:09
  Yeah What makes you
• 43:13
  Genuinely happy.
• 43:14
  What's the thing that makes you like joy genuinely happy, whatever
• 43:17
  This is gonna sound odd, when the setting is just right.
• 43:21
  when it's like falling into, it actually feels like fall.
• 43:24
  There's like, maybe like jazz in the background and like all the leaves are falling and it's like evening.
• 43:29
  when the vibe is right.
• 43:30
  Yes.
• 43:31
  Right.
• 43:31
  When's the last time you had that?
• 43:34
  Well, we were like on the bus to one of the football games it was an away football game our last away football game and that was like I feel like right now we're kind of just
• 43:44
  getting over but it was like peak fall, you know, and like I could like smell a fire There's like a like a cookout or like something going on There's like the kids behind me
• 43:53
  like talking on the bus and I was looking out the window and we're like passing all these like leaves It was like evening time like the Sun hadn't fully set
• 44:01
  And I just like knowing where we were going and it was just like, it was very fall.
• 44:04
  Like the perfect moment.
• 44:05
  Yeah.
• 44:06
  I love that.
• 44:07
  I love that It also like speaks to like being present in the moment as well, which is a good thing.
• 44:12
  Yeah.
• 44:12
  Yeah
• 44:13
  Another thing I like is when the food just tastes so good.
• 44:16
  Like, it could be the s-
• 44:17
  hate that.
• 44:18
  I hate when food tastes good.
• 44:19
  I'm kidding.
• 44:21
  I'm I'm kidding.
• 44:22
  It just seems like that's a pie.
• 44:24
  think that most people would say yes good tasting food
• 44:26
  That's what saying, it can be the simplest, but when it just hits right.
• 44:29
  When's the last time?
• 44:30
  When's the last thing you ate where you were like, my god, this is...
• 44:34
  was a few days ago that tasted really good.
• 44:36
  I think I had the same, some from the same batch because I think they were from Halloween.
• 44:40
  Yeah.
• 44:41
  Yeah.
• 44:42
  You're a Twizzler fan then.
• 44:43
  Yeah.
• 44:44
  Yeah.
• 44:44
  Yeah.
• 44:45
  What's your favorite candy?
• 44:46
  Do you have a favorite?
• 44:47
  I do like twizzers.
• 44:48
  Those are one of my favorites.
• 44:50
  One I get hate for a lot is peeps.
• 44:52
  I like peeps.
• 44:53
  I'm sorry.
• 44:53
  I mean, I like a peep maybe two peeps, but too many peeps
• 44:58
  I'm not just gonna like spam peeps, but I do enjoy them.
• 45:02
  It's funny the name of my last episode was peeps.
• 45:04
  Really?
• 45:04
  Yeah, but it was about no it was about people was called peeping because I was talking about how I hate the term leaf peeping.
• 45:09
  Oh, okay.
• 45:10
  Yeah, I don't like it.
• 45:11
  You know, it seemed leaf peeping leaf peeping.
• 45:14
  I don't like it.
• 45:15
  don't like it.
• 45:16
  No, I mean, I like looking at the leaves.
• 45:17
  Yeah, and I'll go out and take a walk and look at the leaves, but I'm not gonna call it leaf peeping.
• 45:22
  It is and it didn't it wasn't a thing when I was a kid.
• 45:25
  It's a newer thing.
• 45:26
  I've never heard this until right now.
• 45:28
  I've leaf peeping?
• 45:28
  No.
• 45:29
  that's great actually.
• 45:30
  Maybe it's going away.
• 45:32
  What does your generation have a term?
• 45:33
  Of course your generation doesn't have a term for leaf looking at.
• 45:37
  Leaf checking out leaves, brah, bro.
• 45:39
  No.
• 45:40
  No, no, it's pretty bad.
• 45:42
  Fire, no cap.
• 45:43
  uh Yeah.
• 45:46
  Is there any like specific things that you really dislike?
• 45:48
  I'll give you an example from my life that I was thinking about.
• 45:51
  I don't like sticky.
• 45:53
  I don't like when my hands are sticky.
• 45:55
  I don't like if there's a sticky spot on the floor and I walk over it all the time, like all day, it drives me nuts.
• 46:00
  And it's always been like that, like eating syrupy things and I get the sticky stuff.
• 46:05
  I don't like it.
• 46:05
  What do you got?
• 46:06
  I get that.
• 46:07
  Hmm.
• 46:08
  Oh, I hate loud chewing.
• 46:10
  And it's like really bad.
• 46:12
  oh
• 46:13
  condition though, there's a term for that even.
• 46:15
  I a friend who hates- I can't even meet in front of him because he drives me crazy.
• 46:18
  not good and like i've gotten better like not saying anything because like I know it bothers people like when i'm like commenting on their chewing um But no, it's bad and it's
• 46:28
  like I just I genuinely feel bad like for the people when i'm like, like can you chew quieter but Because i'm like i'm sorry like
• 46:36
  I have a condition, I can't chew any quieter.
• 46:39
  My jaw's broken.
• 46:42
  Some people do chew really loudly though.
• 46:45
  Yeah, and like sometimes it is like, okay, you actually need to shut your mouth.
• 46:48
  Right.
• 46:49
  But
• 46:49
  Yeah, chewing with your mouth open at this time period like were we still doing that?
• 46:53
  Yeah, we kind of stopped with that
• 46:54
  No, I feel bad because my mom and my brother are like the biggest victims to my...
• 46:59
  there's their loud shivers in your life.
• 47:01
  Well, okay, that's how I hear them.
• 47:02
  They probably aren't to other people, right?
• 47:05
  Like it's probably just me and I'm like
• 47:07
  Yeah, I've never noticed them chewing loudly, but there's a word for that.
• 47:11
  There's definitely a word for people who can't deal with the sound of mouth sounds.
• 47:16
  All mouth sounds like that's probably what I should add like yeah lip smacking
• 47:20
  Yeah, yeah, no, I don't nobody wants to hear that uh but your dad's not allowed to
• 47:26
  He also doesn't like loud chewing, so his is better.
• 47:30
  I've noticed people who don't like loud chewing tend to be really quiet.
• 47:38
  Yeah, Aunt Tara, she doesn't like it either, um but she's quiet.
• 47:43
  Right, right, Interesting, it's like a thing that runs through your family.
• 47:46
  It really does.
• 47:48
  Something with the bifis bloodline.
• 47:50
  Yeah, I never uh, ever thought that I don't think I have an issue with that I've never I mean certainly some people when it's really loud that's a lot but um What about like
• 47:59
  you're reading pretzels?
• 48:00
  Is that also problematic?
• 48:02
  It just depends on like, cause like if someone's just eating chips really loudly it's gonna bother me but it's not gonna like-
• 48:08
  I mean it's hard to eat chips quietly to be clear
• 48:11
  and like that won't bother me too much.
• 48:12
  It's really just like the bath sounds like I think go with it, you know, Like I hate when people like are sucking on a lollipop loudly
• 48:20
  Right, or popsicle.
• 48:21
  Yeah.
• 48:21
  um
• 48:23
  Yeah, but like it's more just like crunching.
• 48:26
  It's gonna annoy me but not like it's not gonna bother me.
• 48:29
  Right, right,
• 48:30
  Like if you're eating a steak and slapping your lips.
• 48:34
  Yeah, that's a good one.
• 48:35
  What are you worried about?
• 48:37
  What am I worried about?
• 48:39
  Like even on the small level or like really on a big level like about your future or whatever it is.
• 48:45
  Well, there's something I've noticed and it's like something that bothers me or not bothers but worries me.
• 48:51
  uh And it's like, it's kind of just like a self-conscious thing.
• 48:55
  But I worry about like saying the right thing, you know?
• 48:57
  Cause I feel like sometimes I am not the best picking up social cues or like understanding what is the right thing to say and what's not the right thing to say.
• 49:07
  And it's sometimes it's interesting cause like it all is the same in my head, but sometimes I'll say one thing and people will be like kind of quiet after I say it.
• 49:14
  then I'll say another thing, and then they think it's funny, they'll laugh and stuff.
• 49:18
  But it's it's the same in my head.
• 49:20
  So what I'm kind of trying to learn right now is like how to pick up on that, and like what is good to say and what's bad to say, you know?
• 49:28
  Yeah, I would say don't I mean certainly there's a definitely a very strong line in some way but also in a smaller way I wouldn't overthink it because uh
• 49:37
  But I also tend to overthink things.
• 49:39
  That's it.
• 49:40
  You gotta control that mind.
• 49:42
  Yeah.
• 49:43
  Yeah, your dad has that ruminating mind as well Yeah, but he doesn't talk about it, but he just thinks but his brains always go He's like Batman.
• 49:52
  How is your dad like Batman?
• 49:54
  Well have you not seen LEGO Batman?
• 49:57
  Oh, nevermind.
• 49:58
  But I mean explain still I'm dying to know what I mean, so he's not like Batman.
• 50:02
  He's like Lego Batman.
• 50:03
  Yes.
• 50:04
  wow I'll be surprised
• 50:07
  I don't care about other Batman a Lego Batman is very like monotone does not share his feelings not monotone but like Because my dad he'll have a good laugh but like it's like
• 50:17
  Bothering him on like a very deep level.
• 50:19
  He's not gonna tell anybody.
• 50:20
  Yeah, but like he'll tell you if Again, if my room's messy, he'll tell me if he doesn't like that but like he's not gonna tell me if something else is wrong like on an emotional
• 50:33
  level
• 50:33
  Yeah, I mean, that's a Midwestern thing.
• 50:35
  You my dad didn't really talk about his emotions, you know.
• 50:38
  So, yeah, interesting.
• 50:40
  Lego Batman.
• 50:41
  That was just my first thought.
• 50:43
  No, it's a good one.
• 50:45
  what other there's no other um like giant fears or anxieties about, you know, the future or whatever.
• 50:53
  It's like doing well, um and I hate I like been but like it's kind of a love-hate thing there because I Despise I hate playing my saxophone alone Like in front of people it's my
• 51:06
  worst.
• 51:07
  It's genuinely my worst fear.
• 51:08
  Um, but like You know taking a test in math.
• 51:13
  I don't care
• 51:14
  Why do think the saxophone thing is such a big fear?
• 51:17
  I don't know, because like I I'm fine.
• 51:21
  It's like moderate.
• 51:22
  Yeah.
• 51:24
  But like it's kind of public speaking as well.
• 51:27
  Like I've had a fear of public speaking, but it's only gotten better.
• 51:30
  Yeah.
• 51:31
  Like it used to be a lot worse.
• 51:32
  But like that thing, that's kind of.
• 51:34
  that's the biggest fear for everybody.
• 51:35
  I think it's public speaking.
• 51:36
  Yeah.
• 51:37
  And like it depends on what I'm doing.
• 51:38
  Like if it's something, if I'm talking about something that I know well, it's fine.
• 51:42
  But if it's like, I have to make something up on the spot, you know, but that fluctuates.
• 51:48
  playing my saxophone, it's like I can have the piece of music right in front of me, but it's just like, I'm scared of like criticism for it.
• 51:55
  And just like, I don't know.
• 51:57
  It is just my worst fear.
• 51:58
  And I remember my middle school band director, was sitting down, I was doing this test.
• 52:04
  And I was like, but he would make us play in front of the whole class.
• 52:08
  Like the whole class, was like 50 kids.
• 52:10
  And I broke down in tears playing.
• 52:13
  Like I was sobbing, I was crying, it was not good.
• 52:16
  I somehow finished the test, I'm not really sure.
• 52:19
  My friends were like comforting me, but like the whole class was comforting me, which was nice, also bad.
• 52:25
  Anyway, so he's like, stay after class, I need to talk to you.
• 52:28
  So I'm like, okay, this is just getting worse.
• 52:30
  And he comes up to me, he's like, hey, you know, I got nervous.
• 52:34
  When I was a kid, you know, playing too, it's like, don't worry, but I wouldn't get as worried as you.
• 52:40
  And then he kind of just sent me off to class.
• 52:41
  I was like.
• 52:42
  Great speech.
• 52:42
  What did you say?
• 52:43
  Thanks for
• 52:45
  okay.
• 52:47
  So I have a story about that I took piano lessons when I was a kid and then we had to have a recital and The recital was like, you know in front of about you know, I don't know 30
• 52:58
  40 people whatever it was and at this point I've been doing theater and stuff.
• 53:02
  So it wasn't like I wasn't comfortable on stage or whatever.
• 53:06
  Yeah, but like I Got up there and I was so nervous and I like completely had practiced so many it's furlies, you know And I had practiced it so many times
• 53:17
  And uh I just completely, once it got off the rails, it just went way off the rails.
• 53:22
  And like, I had a meltdown.
• 53:23
  Like I was like crying hysterically.
• 53:25
  I was crying and I was like, so yeah, I can relate to that.
• 53:29
  I will never forget that.
• 53:30
  And then my parents pulled me out of the piano lessons.
• 53:32
  Did you think of your favorite song?
• 53:34
  Oh, well I was kinda still thinking the family opera thing.
• 53:37
  the Phantom of the Opera, that was it?
• 53:39
  Phantom of the Opera.
• 53:41
  No, that's a good one.
• 53:42
  That's a good one.
• 53:42
  I forgot about that.
• 53:43
  But it's not my favorite song.
• 53:45
  mean, I don't think I have a favorite song of all time.
• 53:47
  me one of these songs that's like a favorite that I would not probably know about.
• 53:51
  Or maybe I would, I don't know.
• 53:53
  I'm trying to stay hip.
• 53:54
  Another one it's not my favorite song.
• 53:56
  It's like Taylor Swift's new album.
• 53:58
  I don't think it's your best one.
• 53:59
  I don't know
• 54:00
  She's kind of she's kind of just kind of drifting along doing the same kind of thing over and over
• 54:04
  I think, okay, this could be a hot take, but I think what she needs to do is she needs to act her age.
• 54:10
  And that sounds odd, but I feel like she's trying to act younger, like stay hip or whatever, but I feel like she would be more popular if she played music that was her age,
• 54:21
  that was like fit her.
• 54:22
  And what kind of music do you think fits her?
• 54:24
  Like she's about 30, 35 or something?
• 54:26
  oh And like she's like still in the pop genre, which I think is good, but she also doweled in country, you know I Think was good.
• 54:34
  But like, know Adele.
• 54:36
  Yeah, I feel like Adele.
• 54:37
  It's a perfect example of people playing music.
• 54:39
  That's their age.
• 54:41
  Does that make sense?
• 54:42
  It does.
• 54:42
  Yeah.
• 54:43
  Yeah.
• 54:44
  It's the topics, I think more than anything that she's singing about.
• 54:47
  And just like the way the the music is written and like, you know
• 54:50
  I mean, she's trying to have a wide appeal and all these kind of things.
• 54:53
  ah
• 54:54
  I think it would be better if she played.
• 54:56
  What's your favorite album of Taylor Swift?
• 54:58
  oh That is a good question.
• 54:59
  Yeah, I it changes I think I just like specific songs of hers rather than like the entire album
• 55:05
  agree.
• 55:06
  I'm a song person and not an album person.
• 55:08
  think there's two kinds of people in this world, which maybe your generation isn't as much.
• 55:11
  I think your generation is probably more much more song related because of way music is distributed.
• 55:16
  But like, yeah, I've always been more of like a highlight, you know, I'll watch baseball highlights, but I won't watch the whole game.
• 55:22
  I'll listen to one song, you know, uh, watch.
• 55:26
  Right.
• 55:27
  know you Yeah.
• 55:28
  Um, but favorite, but I would go with 1989.
• 55:32
  That's that's
• 55:33
  was my entry point to her that was when I was like, this is good stuff
• 55:37
  Yeah, um, I think her newer stuff has drifted a little bit.
• 55:40
  Yeah, so I don't think it's her best quite boring But I do like folklore and ever more they're like twin albums essentially those two albums I think those two are probably my
• 55:49
  favorite
• 55:49
  Huh, interesting.
• 55:50
  Yeah, I think I like folklore.
• 55:51
  think if that's the one with the song the one on it, which I think it is I think so there's another version of that whole album that she recorded during kovat in like a
• 56:00
  cabin.
• 56:01
  just Yeah, yeah, that's really good um That I really like that's like maybe my favorite thing because I think her music is a little overproduced sometimes and I feel like pairing
• 56:10
  the songs down because some of the songs are well written It's just like they're overproduced.
• 56:14
  And anyway, yeah, we don't need to go down that I don't think Taylor's quisp and talk about in podcasts enough.
• 56:18
  So I think
• 56:19
  Good we got it.
• 56:22
  Now then we talks about Taylor Swift nearly enough Yeah, it'll be interesting to see what she's doing when she's like 80 or something You know still singing shake it off or
• 56:30
  something at that point on the stage barely able to walk and yeah
• 56:33
  No, because like I'm gonna add on to what I said earlier with music that's more her age I think she did was doing really well with like a word folklore like that slower more like
• 56:41
  piano Yeah centered music.
• 56:43
  I think that would be really good now and especially since like I don't think we're gonna hear another breakup album soon like
• 56:49
  Well, who knows?
• 56:50
  don't know.
• 56:50
  It's gonna be hard to be dating a football player.
• 56:52
  We're right, but I mean, who knows how long?
• 56:56
  Well, we'll see.
• 56:56
  I hope for them the best.
• 56:59
  I don't know much about Travis Kelce.
• 57:02
  That's pretty much where I'm at, yeah.
• 57:04
  And he's from Ohio, like Cleveland.
• 57:06
  yeah.
• 57:07
  I think he's a fan of the Guardians, I'm pretty sure.
• 57:11
  He doesn't.
• 57:12
  Yeah, and they have a podcast.
• 57:13
  They do.
• 57:15
  Who doesn't?
• 57:15
  Everybody's got a podcast now.
• 57:17
  um We're coming for you though.
• 57:19
  We are Jeff is coming for you.
• 57:20
  this is gonna, yeah.
• 57:23
  We'll get Taylor Swift on here and that will make them get divorced.
• 57:26
  then maybe I marry Taylor Swift.
• 57:29
  Wouldn't that be a weird twist?
• 57:30
  Yeah.
• 57:30
  And then I bring Taylor Swift home for Christmas or something.
• 57:34
  Yeah, she's tall too.
• 57:36
  She's like my height.
• 57:38
  Sure, I mean, I would hope so.
• 57:39
  She's probably like mean about it.
• 57:41
  She's probably like, um I don't sing when I'm not getting paid.
• 57:45
  I'll
• 57:47
  Right.
• 57:47
  It's Christmas.
• 57:48
  Can't you just sing a few Christmas songs, Taylor?
• 57:50
  No.
• 57:50
  No, I will not.
• 57:51
  Who knows?
• 57:52
  eh Hopefully she would.
• 57:54
  Yeah, I never know what to think about slowries, because I never know which ones are like genuine.
• 57:58
  uh I think most of it is kind of uh like you can kind of guess but I feel like Yeah, it's yeah
• 58:06
  You know, I hate to be a celebrity.
• 58:09
  Because like, there's a lot of attention, but like I don't want people making false, like, assumptions about me.
• 58:16
  Right and that's gonna happen.
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  I mean there's some celebrities out there who just don't really talk to the press or anything and just avoid it Which I'd probably what I would do frankly because some people
• 58:25
  really some people like, you know I think everybody's got like a Like something that they're trying to fill in their in their soul, you know Some people are trying to fill it
• 58:35
  with money.
• 58:35
  Some people think if they get famous, they'll be happy some people blah blah blah blah But ultimately, I don't think that any of these things will make you happy.
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  You got to work on yourself.
• 58:44
  Yeah
• 58:44
  That's my little mindfulness lesson for today.
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  C.
• 58:48
  should make this podcast about mindfulness.
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  is quite a bit actually, if you've listened.
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  There's a lot of, I kind of interspersed and I've interviewed like yoga teachers and stuff.
• 58:56
  far so good.
• 58:57
  Yeah.
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  Do you ever meditate?
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  I've mentioned probably once my
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  That's more than I had done it by your age.
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  So Yeah, but the overthinking brain Mia I recommend it, you know What just saying or yoga you can do yoga too.
• 59:12
  It's not good for me before have you?
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  Good for you Well, I mean if you've done it then you know what it is and you can go back to it when you get older because I feel like maybe it's the thing that older people
• 59:22
  be more like early 20s things for me.
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  uh
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  Yeah.
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  Well, it's more yoga than I had done at your age We didn't even really have I mean there was it In general
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  Yeah, just like what?
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  I don't know.
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  sure.
• 59:37
  Well, in school, I was very much an outcast.
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  Like middle school was terrible for me because I was very much like the nerd of the nerds.
• 59:47
  Yeah, because I was in theater and there'd be pictures of me in the paper as dressed as like Pinocchio, which was just not good for a social life.
• 59:53
  um I had great friends at the theater.
• 59:57
  You those are my those are my friends.
• 59:58
  Yeah.
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  um
• 1:00:00
  But yeah, I was doing theater stuff and then high school started off bad.
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  But then as I started to find my people and like mostly the theater crowd and the show choir crowd, I really started to kind of fall into myself.
• 1:00:11
  And by the end of high school, was like, I was the person that kind of everybody knew who I was because I'd been in all the plays and blah, blah, blah, blah.
• 1:00:20
  So nobody, yeah, so everybody was kind of, everybody was kind of nice to me and like me.
• 1:00:24
  I was voted most likely to be, what was it?
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  I don't know it was rich and famous or if it was something else, but I was one of those and I was voted wittiest Like funniest because I was yeah um Yeah, and beyond that like I
• 1:00:39
  played some sports, but I never was very good sports.
• 1:00:42
  I played soccer um And mostly because I think I mean I did enjoy it I think but mostly it was my father's encouragement
• 1:00:50
  sport you'd be rock climbing.
• 1:00:52
  If I was a sport, I'd be rock climbing.
• 1:00:57
  Interesting.
• 1:00:57
  What would you be?
• 1:00:59
  I don't know.
• 1:01:00
  You tell me.
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  I don't know what that even means though.
• 1:01:04
  Cause I have rock climbed.
• 1:01:05
  Yeah.
• 1:01:06
  Yeah.
• 1:01:08
  It's like bouldering.
• 1:01:10
  Do you know that that one thing in the Olympics last year where they just like try to go at the Wallace Festival?
• 1:01:16
  right, right, right.
• 1:01:16
  Yeah, wall climbing.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah, with the harness and everything.
• 1:01:18
  Yeah.
• 1:01:18
  Yeah, I've tried that.
• 1:01:20
  Yeah, it's kind of fun, but it's kind of scary,
• 1:01:22
  I did that but then I got to the top and I looked down and that wasn't a good idea.
• 1:01:26
  Yeah.
• 1:01:26
  It's so high.
• 1:01:27
  Yeah, it is.
• 1:01:28
  If I was a sport, I'd be rock climbing.
• 1:01:29
  Interesting.
• 1:01:31
  Yeah.
• 1:01:31
  I mean, I bike more.
• 1:01:32
  I'm a big biker.
• 1:01:32
  So that's kind of a sport.
• 1:01:34
  Yeah.
• 1:01:34
  Or is that like a leisure activity in your mind?
• 1:01:36
  Yeah, um, why they can pet like what level you're doing it at?
• 1:01:40
  Hmm, you know cuz like you were just going through a stroll Going for a stroll through the neighborhood.
• 1:01:46
  I don't know.
• 1:01:47
  That's just like a hobby But like if you're actually biking multiple miles and like yeah pushing yourself.
• 1:01:52
  Yeah, so I'm sporting I did 1,500 miles last year.
• 1:01:56
  Yeah, this sure not so many but last year Yeah, I've been falling off the rocker off the rocker.
• 1:02:01
  What does that mean?
• 1:02:01
  I don't know what that means.
• 1:02:03
  We're just gonna disregard that Okay, I can edit that out.
• 1:02:06
  Is there anything you wish people would ask you about that nobody ever asks you about?
• 1:02:11
  I don't know, but I feel like I know a lot of people, but there are certain things that people just don't know about me.
• 1:02:18
  It's not something you're like, hey, do you do this?
• 1:02:21
  That's not a question that you'd ask normal people.
• 1:02:23
  a lot of people don't know I'm a figure skater, or yeah, or a lot of people don't know that I am a huge baseball fan.
• 1:02:31
  But it's not a question you'd ask.
• 1:02:34
  how often do figure skates?
• 1:02:36
  I've kind of lost it recently, oh but like, yeah.
• 1:02:41
  I mean, it would be like world's first week.
• 1:02:43
  wow.
• 1:02:44
  Yeah, you know my sister did that was a big figure skater.
• 1:02:47
  should tell her that next time we'll see Mitch at the clan bay because she'll be interested in that
• 1:02:51
  did not know that about her like you just don't know if someone's a figure skater unless is there cuz like that's the thing figure skating is hard for me because You have to
• 1:02:59
  devote yourself to it generally like you have to You have to put in the work and do it or else you just kind of stall yours at this Yeah, that's where I was for a while and now I'm
• 1:03:10
  taking break from it I hopes you go back to it soon, but
• 1:03:12
  I feel like it's the kind of thing you can go back to whenever you want, in a way.
• 1:03:15
  Cause if you're not doing it constantly, you lose procs.
• 1:03:18
  Right and there's no figure skating team at your school now.
• 1:03:21
  No.
• 1:03:23
  Yeah.
• 1:03:24
  Yeah.
• 1:03:25
  And what about the um the baseball?
• 1:03:28
  How did that happen?
• 1:03:29
  I mean just like growing up, you know my dad always having it on I just
• 1:03:33
  When did you first start to really get into it?
• 1:03:35
  would you remember?
• 1:03:35
  Like a year or two ago, three years ago?
• 1:03:38
  Yeah.
• 1:03:39
  It's like, don't really enjoy watching any other sports, unless like the Olympics.
• 1:03:43
  I love the Olympics.
• 1:03:45
  But like, I don't really watch any other sports, just baseball.
• 1:03:48
  Yeah, baseball, I don't really watch much of it unless it's like an important game because it kind of is a very long boring game in my mind.
• 1:03:56
  Yeah.
• 1:03:57
  But your dad, of course, is the biggest baseball fan of anybody I think I ever know or will know.
• 1:04:04
  Yeah.
• 1:04:04
  He really likes the baseball.
• 1:04:06
  I definitely get that from him and we both enjoy it.
• 1:04:08
  um
• 1:04:10
  Well, he probably helps you understand it better so you can appreciate it more.
• 1:04:13
  But it's like I'm trying to get my friends into it.
• 1:04:15
  Like it's a tough one.
• 1:04:17
  But I, they definitely have latched on a little bit.
• 1:04:21
  Like my one friend, I got her to watch the world series.
• 1:04:23
  um Or she did it all on her own.
• 1:04:28
  mean her dad is also a baseball fan.
• 1:04:31
  And Guardians are your team, I would imagine.
• 1:04:33
  Yes.
• 1:04:35
  Yeah, I've never been a fan.
• 1:04:37
  Never been a fan of the Reds.
• 1:04:38
  But I know, I feel like a lot of people from the club are Reds fans.
• 1:04:42
  But it's big crowd.
• 1:04:43
  Yeah, I think mostly it's an Ohio State University thing.
• 1:04:48
  Really just love and I don't you know, I root for the team, you know, but it's not exciting because they win every game.
• 1:04:54
  So what what where's the excitement in that to me?
• 1:04:57
  I'm just because like like my mom's deep family history with Ohio State.
• 1:05:01
  Yeah
• 1:05:02
  Yeah, and my dad went here there and my sister went there.
• 1:05:07
  Yeah, so,
• 1:05:08
  My uncle has a national championship ring.
• 1:05:10
  Right, right, that's crazy.
• 1:05:12
  And your great, your grandfather, think, was the marching band guy?
• 1:05:16
  Yeah.
• 1:05:17
  Yeah.
• 1:05:19
  There's a lot of connections to it.
• 1:05:20
  Yeah, your mom said the family's real connected to that school.
• 1:05:22
  Yeah.
• 1:05:22
  Yeah.
• 1:05:22
  oh
• 1:05:23
  Mike grandpa he was on the one of the teams that won the national championship.
• 1:05:28
  wow for baseball.
• 1:05:29
  So wow I
• 1:05:31
  Wow.
• 1:05:32
  Wow.
• 1:05:33
  Yeah.
• 1:05:33
  I wonder, they playing?
• 1:05:34
  I think they're playing right now, aren't they?
• 1:05:36
  oh, yeah.
• 1:05:38
  I'm sure they're winning, I mean...
• 1:05:40
  There was a 97 % chance they won.
• 1:05:44
  Yeah, they win every game until towards the end then they start to lose a game or two.
• 1:05:47
  uh Yeah, yeah Yeah, and people really like I remember When they if they lose a big game the entire town feels like it's deflated.
• 1:06:00
  It's really strange
• 1:06:01
  Especially Living Beer Ohio State.
• 1:06:04
  It's like you see it a lot.
• 1:06:06
  The X's over the L's.
• 1:06:08
  man.
• 1:06:09
  Yeah, it's very, I didn't even know what that X over the thing was for my first two years here and I would see it everywhere and I'd be like, what's going on here?
• 1:06:15
  And then I'd be like, oh, then I saw it in the news and I was like, my goodness, people are really putting effort into this.
• 1:06:20
  Gonna cross up all the M's.
• 1:06:22
  It's like a grade into us.
• 1:06:23
  Like if you're born here or just like, you know, go to Ohio State.
• 1:06:26
  Right.
• 1:06:26
  It's a big thing.
• 1:06:27
  Yeah, it's unusual.
• 1:06:29
  Yeah.
• 1:06:30
  I like the band.
• 1:06:31
  always keep wanting to go see one of those skull sessions just because I love the loud, but I haven't done it.
• 1:06:37
  But I do enjoy the band.
• 1:06:38
  One of the best marching bands in the entire world.
• 1:06:40
  They're very good.
• 1:06:41
  I know a bunch of people who've been in the band.
• 1:06:44
  Yeah, it's very hard to get into that band.
• 1:06:45
  There's a documentary on YouTube about how to get in, how to get like about getting into the band.
• 1:06:51
  was really interesting.
• 1:06:52
  crazy, I know like four people who've been in the van.
• 1:06:54
  Right.
• 1:06:55
  It was also like rehearsals for the guy who like has to do the baton thing.
• 1:06:59
  Yeah, which was a big one because they have to do all sorts of crazy stuff with that baton.
• 1:07:03
  Yeah.
• 1:07:04
  Yeah.
• 1:07:04
  We had a good drum major for our high school.
• 1:07:07
  I mean, he would use like fire.
• 1:07:08
  Oh they would let them do that at the high school?
• 1:07:11
  That's crazy.
• 1:07:13
  Wow, that's pretty cool.
• 1:07:14
  They should do that all the time.
• 1:07:15
  I that's exciting.
• 1:07:16
  I know, it is cool.
• 1:07:17
  I would go see more sports if they had fire, you know?
• 1:07:21
  Flaming baseballs, I see all sorts of great ideas here.
• 1:07:24
  Yeah, I guess I never really thought about that.
• 1:07:26
  you could do all sorts of things.
• 1:07:28
  Yeah.
• 1:07:29
  All right, Mia.
• 1:07:29
  Well, do you have anything else to say to to my audience here?
• 1:07:35
  I think so.
• 1:07:35
  Before we wrap it up?
• 1:07:37
  No.
• 1:07:37
  I I'm good, I just think I should say that I should come back again.
• 1:07:41
  Okay, yes, you can come back again for sure.
• 1:07:43
  I might try to get your brother on too.
• 1:07:46
  I think that would be interesting.
• 1:07:47
  I think it'd be interesting, He'd be asking all the questions.
• 1:07:51
  I would I'd be very interested to yeah, I like coffee.
• 1:07:54
  I just like sit no
• 1:07:56
  No, that's that's why that's why I want to do it cuz I can't know you can't you can hear it afterwards You can't sit in the room.
• 1:08:01
  Yeah.
• 1:08:02
  Yeah, you understand though No, it'll come out though, I don't I don't live stream yet I don't live stream uh Mia thank you for coming on my podcast.
• 1:08:11
  I really appreciate it.
• 1:08:12
  I'm so happy that you did this so and look at this I remember talking to you about at the baseball game and then five months go by and here we are Yeah, yeah, I love you.
• 1:08:21
  Thank you for coming to the podcast Thanks
• 1:08:24
  you very much for having me.
• 1:08:26
  You got it.
• 1:08:27
  You got it.
• 1:08:27
  I got it out.
• 1:08:31
  And that was Mia.
• 1:08:33
  Thank you again for coming on, Mia.
• 1:08:36
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• 1:08:39
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• 1:09:29
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• 1:09:36
  And I'll leave you today with a short poem by Rumi, which he wrote in his parents' basement instead of taking out the garbage.
• 1:09:49
  I said, what about my eyes?
• 1:09:51
  He said, keep them on the road.
• 1:09:54
  I said, what about my passion?
• 1:09:56
  He said, keep it burning.
• 1:09:58
  I said, what about my heart?
• 1:09:59
  He said, tell me what you hold inside it.
• 1:10:03
  I said, pain and sorrow.
• 1:10:06
  He said, stay with it.
• 1:10:08
  The wound is the place where the light enters you.
• 1:10:11
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