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Can Women Hate Patriarchy And Still Want Men To Provide? Modern Dating & Double Standards · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so, so shameless. If
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, so shameless. If you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: So shameless.
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  Speaker 3: We are back. Shout out to Alexa. First of all,
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  Speaker 3: shout out to y'all for coming back for part two.
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  Speaker 3: Alexa is here. Real Easy is here. Mr.
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  Speaker 4: Welcome back.
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  Speaker 3: Mrs. You can't do nothing or you're gay is here.
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  Speaker 3: What's up with you? You good with gay people? You
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  Speaker 3: all right?
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  Speaker 5: Oh, I love gay people.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gay.
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  Speaker 2: Love the gays.
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of women be hiding their homophobia
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  Speaker 3: behind the fact that they like eating pussy. Wait, what?
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  Speaker 3: Women be hiding their homophobia behind the fact that they
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  Speaker 3: like eating pussy.
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  Speaker 2: Homophobia?
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  Speaker 3: Because niggas can't do nothing or they're exhibiting gay shit.
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  Speaker 3: But the girl will go home and suck on some pussy, though.
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  Speaker 3: It's fine for them. Am I wrong? Nope. What do
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  Speaker 3: you mean, nope? No, you're not wrong. Do you see
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  Speaker 3: yourself doing that?
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  Speaker 2: Doing what?
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  Speaker 3: Hiding your homophobia behind the fact that you like to
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  Speaker 3: eat pussy.
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  Speaker 5: I don't hide homophobia. I'm not homophobic.
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  Speaker 6: I have an issue with straight men that do stupid shit.
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  Speaker 6: I don't have an issue with actual gay men.
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  Speaker 3: But you keep labeling it gay. You keep labeling it gay.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, because just come out the closet and then I
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  Speaker 5: won't have an issue with you anymore.
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  Speaker 3: But you're saying stupid shit is equivalent to gay.
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  Speaker 5: Doing gay shit.
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  Speaker 6: You're doing shit that gay men, that what I think
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  Speaker 6: a gay man should be doing. So just come out
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  Speaker 6: of the closet and admit that you like men. Stop
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  Speaker 6: pretending you don't.
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  Speaker 5: That is the issue. Once you stop pretending that you
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  Speaker 5: don't like men, we're good money.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, I agree.
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  Speaker 2: Stop pretending you don't like niggas.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody just need to be who they are.
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  Speaker 3: This is what y'all do. This is what y'all do.
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  Speaker 2: If you like niggas, just say that.
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  Speaker 4: Just like niggas and say that. Is there like a
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  Speaker 4: gay epidemic going on right now?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's an epidemic.
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  Speaker 7: I think niggas have been gay since the beginning of time.
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  Speaker 7: It's historically written down.
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  Speaker 3: What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: Spartans was gay.
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  Speaker 4: Spartans was gay?
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  Speaker 2: Yes. All the Greeks, all the Romanians.
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  Speaker 3: They was all gay.
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  Speaker 2: Yes. They was gay as fuck. Taught that shit to us.
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  Speaker 2: And they was just gay. So what population wasn't gay?
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  Speaker 2: The scholars was gay. Socrates, all of them was gay.
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  Speaker 2: Molested little boys.
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  Speaker 7: Because we didn't have social media and we didn't have
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  Speaker 7: so much restrictions around sexuality.
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  Speaker 2: I had to think every nigga was gay.
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  Speaker 3: Every nigga?
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  Speaker 2: Sexualize the spectrum.
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  Speaker 7: So some niggas is all the way gay at the
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  Speaker 7: end of the spectrum and some niggas is a little
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  Speaker 7: bit gay.
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  Speaker 3: So no niggas is straight.
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  Speaker 4: No niggas is 100% straight.
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  Speaker 2: There are some.
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  Speaker 5: There's some women that are all the way straight.
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  Speaker 2: But there's a lot more people that are not all
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  Speaker 2: the way straight. The spectrum is so large. Statistically, there's
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  Speaker 2: going to be more people in this.
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  Speaker 7: Part of the spectrum than there is all the way here.
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  Speaker 3: Of course. Of course. Especially if societal standards didn't say
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  Speaker 3: you had to be this certain way.
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  Speaker 2: There wasn't so much restriction around.
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  Speaker 7: Because definitely the beginning, way back in the day, being
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  Speaker 7: in society, everybody was fucking everybody.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but y'all not. What?
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  Speaker 4: Leonidas and them 300 niggas was fucking each other?
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Strong ass niggas? Hell no.
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  Speaker 4: Men were fucking men.
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  Speaker 2: Women were fucking women. They do it in the army
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  Speaker 2: right now.
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  Speaker 5: In the army they be gay.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody was fucking everybody.
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  Speaker 3: But y'all not talking about gay as far as sexuality.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all talking about gay as in behaviors. y'all are labeling
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  Speaker 3: it gay because y'all don't like certain behavior so you're
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  Speaker 3: making it a bad thing you're making the gay a
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  Speaker 3: bad thing and you can't say you're fucking gay you
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  Speaker 3: fuck with gay people if first you said stupid shit
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  Speaker 3: then you change stupid shit to gay shit so right
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  Speaker 3: then and there you're trying to call niggas names you're
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  Speaker 3: not saying yo you have an attraction to gay.
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  Speaker 6: Men the issue is come out the closet just come
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  Speaker 6: out the closet you like men it's okay.
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  Speaker 8: I have a question Why when men do something that
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  Speaker 8: women don't agree with, it's automatically labeled as gay?
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  Speaker 2: Not all things.
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  Speaker 8: We're talking about some of the things, like the umbrella,
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  Speaker 8: the shit like that, that we were talking about before.
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  Speaker 5: That stuff is not actually gay.
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  Speaker 6: I think it's very childish that women are saying stuff
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  Speaker 6: like that as gay.
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  Speaker 3: It's a joke.
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  Speaker 8: So, Tasia, to your example, what do you consider that
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  Speaker 8: to be? What's something that a man could do that
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  Speaker 8: you're like, oh, no.
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  Speaker 6: Well, I gave you an example of recording yourself Oh,
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  Speaker 6: the hookah thing.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's weird to me. That's ladies' behavior. That's very, very,
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  Speaker 5: very strange.
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  Speaker 6: We out, and you want your girlfriend to stop and
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  Speaker 6: take the photos of you, and you want to be
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  Speaker 6: the center of attention.
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  Speaker 3: That's weird.
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  Speaker 2: That's like you a man.
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  Speaker 6: Why do you want to have more shine than the
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  Speaker 6: women around you? That's strange.
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  Speaker 3: Shine?
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  Speaker 5: That's strange, yes.
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  Speaker 3: Just like blowing.
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  Speaker 2: Hookah out my mouth. No, I'm giving another example.
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  Speaker 5: I'm giving another example.
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  Speaker 3: So I have to be like.
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  Speaker 6: Or you could just not record it.
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  Speaker 2: You could not record it.
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  Speaker 3: Why is black people doing this? Literally, hookah is like
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  Speaker 3: some other whole culture shit, and they sit around outside
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  Speaker 3: old ass people.
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  Speaker 2: They're not recording it.
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  Speaker 3: Why is gay black people so concerned?
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  Speaker 2: This is not restricted to black people.
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  Speaker 3: I see white boys doing it too. Black people are
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  Speaker 3: so concerned about heterosexual male behavior. It's like we have
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  Speaker 3: to keep us in a certain place to be a
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  Speaker 3: good straight nigga. Other than that, you cast away. But
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  Speaker 3: white people can start a dick in college and still
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  Speaker 3: be considered straight.
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  Speaker 2: No, they're not considered straight.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, what?
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  Speaker 2: Who said that?
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  Speaker 5: No, no.
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  Speaker 6: White women are just cool with whatever if they're being
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  Speaker 6: provided for.
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  Speaker 2: They can do that and be considered straight.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean. Who said that?
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  Speaker 5: Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 3: White people.
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  Speaker 6: Men will go to Ivy League schools and get into
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  Speaker 6: all sorts of gay shit and be like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 6: it was just college.
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  Speaker 2: It was just school.
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  Speaker 3: No big deal.
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  Speaker 2: It was college, bro.
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  Speaker 3: What else would we.
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  Speaker 2: Be doing in college?
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  Speaker 3: It was part of pledging my pride.
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  Speaker 2: That's normal.
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  Speaker 3: It just happened one night. I wasn't into it.
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  Speaker 5: That was a gay act.
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  Speaker 3: It's the freedom. We want our men to be able
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  Speaker 3: to move in a certain way, but we keep them
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  Speaker 3: so restricted and constricted and there's certain spaces they have
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  Speaker 3: to be to be respected by the women that we
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  Speaker 3: want to have by our sides, that we're supposed to
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  Speaker 3: have look up to us and say, yes, I will
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  Speaker 3: follow you, but we can't. Because every single thing we do,
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  Speaker 3: y'all consider to be bitch, feminine, or gay. Like, we
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  Speaker 3: can't have no real sense of personality. We can't go
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  Speaker 3: nowhere with our motherfucking, with our impulses, because everything is like,
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  Speaker 3: what type of nigga does that?
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  Speaker 2: Why are we so restricted towards black men? I would
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  Speaker 2: speak for myself only here.
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  Speaker 7: I don't think it's gay. Some things would give me
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  Speaker 7: the ick, but I won't say you're gay. But also,
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  Speaker 7: if you are gay... I don't be giving a fuck.
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  Speaker 3: Like, okay.
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  Speaker 4: So you dating gay?
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  Speaker 2: Just be honest about it.
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  Speaker 5: You know what it is? I wouldn't date any gay guy.
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  Speaker 2: I date Frank Ocean.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think men should match a woman's energy.
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  Speaker 2: That's really what it boils down to.
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  Speaker 5: Like, for me, that's what I'm calling gay.
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  Speaker 6: Sorry.
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  Speaker 3: I can't hear too many things going on. Sorry, go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: You're sorry. You're making a point. Go ahead, bro.
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  Speaker 6: If I'm being very, very honest, all jokes aside, the
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  Speaker 6: only thing that I'm like, okay, that's very feminine or
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  Speaker 6: that bothers me or the ick or I would be like, okay,
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  Speaker 6: that's gay is when a man is engaging and matching
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  Speaker 6: a woman's energy. That to me, I'm like, okay, there's
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  Speaker 6: something else going on behind the scenes. That combined with the...
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  Speaker 6: The hate train of women. I do see your point.
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  Speaker 6: If you're calling everything gay, if you're weaponizing everything that
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  Speaker 6: a man does that you don't agree with and saying, oh,
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  Speaker 6: that's gay. Yeah, I totally understand why men won't feel
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  Speaker 6: comfortable sharing that. Yeah, I am into men or feeling
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  Speaker 6: comfortable with exploring and then being like, yo, that's not
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  Speaker 6: for me because I think everyone should have. room to
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  Speaker 6: do that because like i said before we're all human
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  Speaker 6: and i think it's very strange to believe that women
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  Speaker 6: are on this sexual spectrum that will explore women and
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  Speaker 6: want to do all these different things but a man
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  Speaker 6: who is also a human being doesn't have those same
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  Speaker 6: curiosities or those same feelings so i get it and
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  Speaker 6: all jokes aside i see where you're coming from however
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  Speaker 6: don't match a woman's energy in a feminine way you're.
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  Speaker 3: Like blowing smoke into the camera No, no, that's wild.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to die on that hill. That's fucking wild.
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  Speaker 5: Why are you recording it? And why are you passing your.
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  Speaker 2: Phone to your boy?
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  Speaker 3: Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo. Record this real quick.
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  Speaker 3: Record it.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.
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  Speaker 3: All right, play.
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  Speaker 2: That's fucking weird. That's weird to me.
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  Speaker 3: They can't put music over the video?
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  Speaker 2: Yep.
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  Speaker 5: All my babies.
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  Speaker 3: Music over the video? Come on, man.
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  Speaker 4: All right, all right. I'll die.
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  Speaker 5: That's even worse.
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  Speaker 3: We got a bunch of things that we can talk
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  Speaker 3: about besides how gay men are. This nigga. The football player.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, my man from the 49ers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: My man from the 49ers.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, the fake football player.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's ill.
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  Speaker 3: This nigga's the illest nigga of all time.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think that's... Y'all don't agree?
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  Speaker 3: No, no. That's ill.
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  Speaker 5: No, no.
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  Speaker 3: For sure.
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  Speaker 2: He's not ill, but the girls that he was skimming are.
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  Speaker 9: idiot yes yeah sure he was targeting i could have
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  Speaker 9: never got mad ugly you see that the forehead is
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  Speaker 9: right there you could have looked up the the roster
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  Speaker 9: you could have looked up his any legitimate football player
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  Speaker 9: you google right now you can see his stats and
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  Speaker 9: not just his stats for the year for his whole
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  Speaker 9: fucking career from high school you can see exactly from
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  Speaker 9: high school somebody's done this before Yes.
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  Speaker 2: It's Google.
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 9: No, I never got caught because I had to.
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  Speaker 6: Exactly a lot of different men approach you are men
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  Speaker 6: that claim to have done things and men that actually
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  Speaker 6: have been and you know what.
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  Speaker 7: I will say there was a time where i didn't
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  Speaker 7: look people up and the reason for that was i
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  Speaker 7: was in the strip club this nigga was rubbing on
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  Speaker 7: my feet whispering nothing to my ear and i was
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  Speaker 7: like hell yeah I'm fucking with like what he was
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  Speaker 7: he was giving me a foot massage in the strip
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  Speaker 7: club I left my homegirl was I was like she
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  Speaker 7: was like you got his number I was like hell
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  Speaker 7: yeah like that's about to be my man and Then
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  Speaker 7: she was like, you know he played for such and such, right?
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  Speaker 3: I was like, what?
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  Speaker 2: Because I didn't know he was an athlete.
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  Speaker 3: Looked him up.
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  Speaker 2: He had a wife and kids.
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  Speaker 7: So now I do look niggas up. Because I need
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  Speaker 7: to know if you have a wife and kids, first
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  Speaker 7: and foremost.
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  Speaker 2: And then we go into the historical stats. But I
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  Speaker 2: don't watch sports. So I don't really care what your
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  Speaker 2: stats say. But my whole point is.
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  Speaker 7: Google is right there. And niggas tell you to pay
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  Speaker 7: for a team. You can Google his name immediately.
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  Speaker 2: You can Google the fucking team and look at the roster.
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  Speaker 2: You can Google all that. So if you got tricked
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  Speaker 2: by this nigga, you're an idiot. You're just an idiot.
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  Speaker 7: And I think not only are you an idiot, you
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  Speaker 7: are desperate for the attention of a certain type of man.
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  Speaker 7: And so you deserve to get scammed by that.
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  Speaker 4: No, he had a limbo.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, but he targeted... Somebody.
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  Speaker 4: Put up with a limbo, you're going to believe him.
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  Speaker 5: I bet any kind of money that he was targeting
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  Speaker 5: a specific type of woman.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure. I want to see how they look because
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how they look.
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  Speaker 6: Look might pay a part of it, but it's also
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  Speaker 6: like you can gauge mentally. Like when on the internet,
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  Speaker 6: when they would be scamming, there was men and women
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  Speaker 6: that would scam like.
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  Speaker 5: insecure, stuck in.
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  Speaker 6: The house, don't go anywhere, people out of money, and
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  Speaker 6: you would have someone you never met living miles away
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  Speaker 6: from you sending you money over the internet. That same
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  Speaker 6: type of person still exists. And again, social media is
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  Speaker 6: fucking people heads up. So these girls are like, I
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  Speaker 6: want a soft life. I want a man with money.
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  Speaker 2: He got to provide.
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  Speaker 5: He got to do this. He got to do that.
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  Speaker 6: And now this fraudulent nigga comes and tells you he
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  Speaker 6: got this and that. He's sending you videos in the Lambo.
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  Speaker 6: He got the chains on doing this and that. And
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  Speaker 6: you so caught up in, oh shit, I'm lit. I
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  Speaker 6: got the nigga. That you not even using your brain.
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  Speaker 6: And like, let me apply some discernment here. Let me
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  Speaker 6: listen to what he's actually saying. Let me fact check.
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  Speaker 6: Let me look into this. You not doing none of that.
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  Speaker 6: Because you so excited to post on the internet that
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  Speaker 6: you riding in a nigga Lambo.
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  Speaker 2: Excited and desperate.
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  Speaker 3: I just think that anybody that fucked with that nigga.
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  Speaker 3: as Alexis said, is an idiot.
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  Speaker 5: I agree.
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  Speaker 3: Because the nigga introduced himself with a paragraph of what
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  Speaker 3: he has, what he expects from you. This is on
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  Speaker 3: Wake Up. This thing is talking about, I got three Lamborghinis.
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  Speaker 3: This is the key. Yo, I'm watching the videos. My
• 12:38
  Speaker 3: game must be excellent because this is what y'all dealing with?
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  Speaker 3: The way this nigga was talking in them videos?
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  Speaker 5: That alone is weird, though.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you recording videos? You not going to just
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  Speaker 2: call me or FaceTime me?
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  Speaker 4: I didn't dig that deep into it.
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  Speaker 3: None of the videos is nasty.
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  Speaker 4: Of him in action?
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  Speaker 2: Listen, he records himself.
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  Speaker 6: He records a video of himself and then sends it
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  Speaker 6: to the girl he's talking to. He don't FaceTime her. Well,
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  Speaker 6: I'm sure he's doing FaceTime and calls, but that alone
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  Speaker 6: is a weirdo red flag. You recorded a five minute
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  Speaker 6: video and then sent that shit to me?
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  Speaker 2: That's weird.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think that was game.
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  Speaker 2: That's weird. No, that's weird.
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  Speaker 4: It worked.
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  Speaker 2: It did. And that's why those girls are idiots. Because
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: the bitches are corny idiots. Yeah, that's weird. You can't
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  Speaker 2: say that, man. Yes, you can.
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  Speaker 6: But a lot of people are corny idiots because of
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  Speaker 6: social media.
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  Speaker 2: And you're desperate.
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  Speaker 4: It's corny after the fact, but in real time.
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  Speaker 2: No, in real time, it's corny still.
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  Speaker 6: He's lit.
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  Speaker 4: No, it's corny.
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  Speaker 3: Football works or.
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  Speaker 2: Now I got involved in the league and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: I know it's difficult now.
• 13:40
  Speaker 10: Since switching teams and stuff like that. But I just
• 13:45
  Speaker 10: want to give some context because I know a lot
• 13:47
  Speaker 10: of people don't understand how the NFL works. But if
• 13:52
  Speaker 10: you know me and see me in person, I will explain.
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: This is for the kids.
• 13:54
  Speaker 10: This is for the people who want to understand more
• 13:59
  Speaker 10: about my story and get another side.
• 14:01
  Speaker 2: Of the story.
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: Wait, what video is this?
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: Was that the video after he got caught?
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: I guess so, yeah.
• 14:07
  Speaker 5: Oh, so he's trying to say, so he's doubling down.
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: He's sticking to it.
• 14:11
  Speaker 3: I don't know how much shit I ain't sending.
• 14:13
  Speaker 11: But what I was saying was, since obviously we in
• 14:16
  Speaker 11: that stage now where we on some like, we want
• 14:19
  Speaker 11: to be exclusive with each other. We gonna meet up,
• 14:22
  Speaker 11: hang out, spend a couple.
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: Days with each other and shit while I'm out there.
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: He sounds slow.
• 14:25
  Speaker 11: Like I want to kind of talk about like more
• 14:27
  Speaker 11: things that has to do. with like relationship type shit
• 14:31
  Speaker 11: like i'm not judging you off with any of the
• 14:34
  Speaker 11: answers that you give me when i ask the questions
• 14:37
  Speaker 11: like i'm just trying to really put it together where
• 14:40
  Speaker 11: i can see where you need help at where i
• 14:43
  Speaker 11: could teach you and vice versa because i always believe
• 14:46
  Speaker 11: that you know you can teach somebody anything at any
• 14:50
  Speaker 11: point in time you know what i'm saying so.
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: That's why I want to ask you these sorts of questions.
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: I'm not asking these questions to judge.
• 14:57
  Speaker 11: I'm asking these questions to have like better understanding.
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: About like you and your position and shit like that.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: So that's why I want to know.
• 15:05
  Speaker 11: So my first question is, and before I ask, you
• 15:08
  Speaker 11: could ask me the same shit if you like. If
• 15:10
  Speaker 11: you want to know specifics, you could ask me and
• 15:13
  Speaker 11: I'll be specific.
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: But my first question is this.
• 15:17
  Speaker 11: So how much would you say you make on average
• 15:20
  Speaker 11: per month?
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: Like on average?
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: My second question is, how much are your bills every
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: month on average like?
• 15:27
  Speaker 11: Cell phone rent whatever it is that you pay every
• 15:29
  Speaker 11: month on average that's some expense my third question is
• 15:33
  Speaker 11: are you in any debt credit card.
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: Debt car loan hospital so this is what he was
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: doing bro.
• 15:38
  Speaker 7: First question how much you make a month he was
• 15:41
  Speaker 7: getting no money no rich is asking a.
• 15:44
  Speaker 6: Woman not even concerned not even people be having ndas
• 15:47
  Speaker 6: and all that so they probably was jacking it like
• 15:49
  Speaker 6: oh no rich is.
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: What the nda guy how much i make all right
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: oh i mean What?
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: Dumb.
• 15:54
  Speaker 5: They're dumb.
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: The girls are dumb.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: You're dumb and desperate. And that's sad. No rich nigga is.
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: Ever asking that.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: You know what he blew it?
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: I don't agree with it.
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: You know what he blew it?
• 16:03
  Speaker 8: He blew it bringing his motherfucking helmet everywhere he went.
• 16:06
  Speaker 8: No real NFL player is bringing his fucking helmet to
• 16:11
  Speaker 8: the store. On the beach with an helmet on.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: The average woman don't know that.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: You gotta apply common sense. Anybody with common sense knows that.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Why is that these bitches are idiots?
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: Have common sense about sports?
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Bro, you don't have to know about sports to know
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: what nigga... Why you got that helmet on on the beach?
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: Even a businessman... Your dad has not even built up
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: his calves this small in my eyes. A businessman would
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: not bring a briefcase to the fucking beach.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Like, you don't bring your work to.
• 16:37
  Speaker 7: Like, you're not wearing your work uniform when you fucking relaxing.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Like, what do you mean? Did you see the exercises
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: that he was doing?
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Yo, weekend exercises.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: Nigga got no muscle mass.
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: Natal, please... What? The workout video. No, bro. Please, no, bro.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: No muscle mass.
• 16:52
  Speaker 8: When you see the workout video, bro, you understand why
• 16:54
  Speaker 8: we're all saying, like, yo, this is just ridiculous.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: It's ridiculous. It's ridiculous, bro.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: I do more of the gym than that.
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: I do more of the gym than that.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: Yes, the fuck I do. You can't do karaoke.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: What the.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: Fuck are you doing?
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: Bro, come on, bro.
• 17:08
  Speaker 11: Let's do karaoke.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: He was cooking.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Yo. What?
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: That's what y'all be doing in the park? That's what
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: y'all be doing in the park?
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: I can show you what we do. That's fine. Yeah, show.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, show them.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: You want me.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: To show you my shit? Oh, my God.
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: Go ahead, bro.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Show her.
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: Show her my shit.
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: Go ahead, bro. What we talking about, man? This is playing.
• 17:29
  Speaker 11: My bad, y'all.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: My bad. Stop playing me, bro. You got this shit started, bro. Yeah,
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: show your workout videos. Oh, the music. Yeah, now turn
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: the music down so that we don't get blocked on YouTube. Okay,
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: muscle ups. So you got the extra oil out there, right?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Nah, I want to learn how to do a muscle-up.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: That's one of my goals. You know what I mean?
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: I didn't see nothing.
• 17:48
  Speaker 5: You didn't show me anything.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: Oh, I'm going to show you, love.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: I'm going to learn how to do a muscle-up.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: You didn't show me anything. Yo, man. Yo, women are hilarious.
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: All right. I'm looking like a little son. You smiling.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: I can do push-ups. Oh, nah. Nah.
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: All right.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: Yo, Tom, please. All right.
• 18:13
  Speaker 7: Anyways those girls are fucking idiots And they deserve to
• 18:17
  Speaker 7: get scammed Cause they need to learn life They need
• 18:19
  Speaker 7: to learn life Somebody had to teach them Somebody had
• 18:23
  Speaker 7: to teach them Now they know.
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: Yo, yes, what up?
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Yes, what's good?
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: Yo, so shameless. What's the word, gang?
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: What's the word?
• 18:32
  Speaker 7: I'm just sad it wasn't reversed. I'm just sad it
• 18:34
  Speaker 7: wasn't a woman that was out here scamming niggas.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: I mean, we do it all the time.
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: We do it all the time.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: We do it all the time.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: Women be scamming niggas. Y'all got a whole song. We're better,
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: I know, but I'm just, yeah, but I'm just.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Sad at it. I said, don't y'all have a whole
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: song right now? I will say, yes. What's that, Spend Now?
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: No, she's not scamming in the song.
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, she's asking where the scam is off so they
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: can spend any money.
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: Hold on.
• 18:56
  Speaker 12: No disrespect to the lady. Makeup and fake hair could
• 18:59
  Speaker 12: be a scam as well.
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: Real hair, no makeup.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: I don't scam. No, I'm not saying you.
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: And it's not a scam.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Makeup, fake hair, I don't give a fuck.
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: No, but y'all are dumb too.
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: I'm not saying you.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: No, no, but y'all are dumb too because you can
• 19:10
  Speaker 5: look at her. I can look at her.
• 19:12
  Speaker 6: And know that when she washes off her makeup and
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: takes her wig off, she's still beautiful. Yeah, features are features.
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: So y'all getting scammed by makeup, that's dumb. Y'all are
• 19:20
  Speaker 6: dumb too for getting scammed by that.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: That's dumb.
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: Some of this makeup stuff is sorcery.
• 19:26
  Speaker 7: Listen, you get scammed by makeup, you're not losing much.
• 19:29
  Speaker 7: These women lost thousands of dollars.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you still got some pussy, you fucked it, okay?
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: Thousands of dollars, right. You still got some coochie and
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: you get to go on about your fucking life.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: Right, right.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: Women be scamming the shit out of niggas for man shit.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: Oh, no, no, yes. For sure, for sure.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: He used a poor example by saying makeup is a scam.
• 19:48
  Speaker 6: It is a scam how's that poor that's not a
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: poor example so because you met a girl with makeup
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: and she look good with the makeup you bought her
• 19:53
  Speaker 6: a house and gave her a hundred thousand dollars no that's.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: My point right exactly poor example but it has happened.
• 20:00
  Speaker 12: We not but it has happened they were able to
• 20:02
  Speaker 12: get somebody that they couldn't get without it.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: I get it you did what you wanted to do See?
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: And so did the women did.
• 20:08
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 20:09
  Speaker 12: They didn't have it. They wouldn't get there. If they
• 20:12
  Speaker 12: didn't have the makeup, they wouldn't get that far. If
• 20:16
  Speaker 12: he didn't have the 49ers in the car, he wouldn't
• 20:18
  Speaker 12: have got that far.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: It's not equivalent. No, it's actually worse.
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: You lost a house and $ 100, 000 because a girl had
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: makeup on? What I'm saying.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: Is, women, y'all push y'all broad, y'all titties up to
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: look a certain way. Y'all wear your heels so that
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: your ass look a certain way. You put your makeup,
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: your lashes, the fucking long Brazilian ass 2016 weave, and
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: then you go out and search for these certain type
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: of niggas that you know have a certain type of bread.
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: And that's a culture. This is not just one fake
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: football ass nigga. It's a whole culture of women that
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: do this.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: And I'm not saying that all women do it.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: I'm saying that we do know.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Those men are dumb.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Too, though.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: No, but the difference is they love it. They love it.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: They love it.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: And they continue to do it week after week after
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: day after day after day after day. Because you picking
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: a woman solely based on her physical? The difference is.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Then we should celebrate this nigga.
• 21:09
  Speaker 11: Too, then.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: No, the difference is... And get on his timing. Y'all are.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Y'all are celebrating him. Y'all are celebrating him all over
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: the internet. The niggas is in love with him.
• 21:16
  Speaker 7: The women are not searching for men like this every
• 21:20
  Speaker 7: single day to spend their money on. Y'all are searching
• 21:23
  Speaker 7: for women that look like this to spend your money on.
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: I'm not searching for that.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: Yes, you are. No, I'm not.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Here's the difference, right? These women that you're talking about.
• 21:32
  Speaker 7: You may not have the same type that he just described,
• 21:34
  Speaker 7: but you have a type that you is searching.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: For to spend money on.
• 21:40
  Speaker 7: It may not be the bus down. She may have
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: a pixie.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: But listen.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: You do have a type that you like.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: I'm not searching for that.
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: Okay. Searching is a strong word. If you're saying that
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: we search.
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: For a pretty woman, that's the opposite of the one
• 21:54
  Speaker 7: that he's talking about.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: What you're attracted to. You may not be searching.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: He's talking about the one that contoured her face. and
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: spend three hours looking completely different than how they do.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: When they take off their shit.
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: Completely different. And that's a whole different conversation. I know
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: y'all have gone girls that you see and be like, damn,
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: your makeup is good. Or you see she's putting on
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: filters or whatever on the internet and she don't look
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: nothing like that. And you be like, wow, bitch.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: But there is still a difference.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: You don't have that? You don't have that?
• 22:21
  Speaker 5: Not in my friend circle.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: But you've seen it.
• 22:23
  Speaker 5: I've seen it.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: But there's still a difference.
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: The difference is that was all physical and you made
• 22:29
  Speaker 6: a decision as a man based on the physical. There's
• 22:31
  Speaker 6: no depth to that. You let physicality run up your pockets.
• 22:35
  Speaker 6: In this situation, this nigga is He's manipulating and lying.
• 22:38
  Speaker 6: He's making promises.
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: He's doing a whole thing. It's two different comparisons.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: Two different comparisons.
• 22:45
  Speaker 7: To me getting dressed up for a night out and
• 22:47
  Speaker 7: you liking how I look is different from me saying
• 22:50
  Speaker 7: I got a whole different career that I have. I
• 22:52
  Speaker 7: got a whole different car that I don't actually have.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I live somewhere I don't actually live.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Like, come on now.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: He's making a whole lifestyle.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: The difference is he just said it.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: He said what?
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: He said all those things. You ain't have to say this.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: He's faking a lifestyle.
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: You ain't have to say it.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: He's faking a lifestyle.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: No, nigga. This nigga had different car keys that wasn't his.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: Yo.
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: He had a nigga working with him. He was walking
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: around the crib that wasn't his.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he had a car.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: In the comments.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: The niggas was in the comments. That's my house. I
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: need to do more homework on this guy, boy. Yeah, yeah.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: The niggas was in the comments like, yo, that's my
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: house he in. That's not his house. That's my house.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Get out of here.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: Yo. Yo. Yes. And those were my cars.
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: So I ain't got the keys.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: He was, he did something. I forget what he was doing.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Maybe he was house sitting or some shit. But yeah,
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: he was, yeah, he was.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: He sounded like he was a hustler. He was trying
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: to get a couple dollars.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: He was a hustling ass nigga.
• 23:38
  Speaker 7: He probably majored in psychology and turned into a villain.
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: He used everything he learned and fucked with them dumb
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: girls' brains.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: Because they were dumb. At the end of the day,
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: those girls were stupid.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: He found his victim.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: You feel like psych majors could do that?
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah. You don't even have to be a psych major.
• 23:52
  Speaker 6: I feel like if you're highly intelligent, all people that
• 23:54
  Speaker 6: are very intelligent are manipulative to an extent. It's what
• 23:57
  Speaker 6: you decide, and not even just to an extent, but
• 24:00
  Speaker 6: it's what you decide to use... That manipulation, because we're
• 24:02
  Speaker 6: all manipulative. We're manipulating situations for the best outcome every day,
• 24:06
  Speaker 6: all day. But are you using it in a negative
• 24:08
  Speaker 6: way to hurt people and taking advantage of people? Or
• 24:11
  Speaker 6: are you just a regular person that's intelligent and you
• 24:13
  Speaker 6: know how to finesse through a situation? So he's probably
• 24:15
  Speaker 6: an intelligent man. He might be a psych major. And
• 24:18
  Speaker 6: he was like, oh, I have an idea. I'm going
• 24:19
  Speaker 6: to finesse bitches and become a millionaire.
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: I want to admit one thing, though. Alexis was right.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: I do like a bitch that know how to put
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: her shit on. Exactly.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: As you should. That's what I do.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: I do too.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Because nobody likes a bitch that don't.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: Nobody likes a bitch that don't.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: Nobody likes a bitch that.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Know how to put it on. Put her shit together
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: and step out. Looking good.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: You know what a bitch don't know how to do.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: I love her too.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: We all do.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: I want you to cover up them blemishes. Put your
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: little fake mole on. Yeah. Do your thing. And meet
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: me at that bar.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: You don't look twice at the bitch that don't know
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: how to do it.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: I like the bitch.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: That's how you came out tonight?
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Exactly. I just don't want the one that's trying to
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: scam me. That's the only thing.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Well, that's why you talk to these women.
• 25:01
  Speaker 7: And get to know them. You talk to people, get
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: to know them. And you ask questions. And then you'll
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: know they're trying to scam you.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: Would you say it's hard?
• 25:07
  Speaker 7: No, if you're a good question asker and you're not
• 25:10
  Speaker 7: just stupid and out for one thing, some pussy, then
• 25:13
  Speaker 7: you won't get scammed.
• 25:14
  Speaker 5: That's too kind.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: Of easy not to get scammed.
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: As wrong as wanting some pussy? That's wrong?
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: No, no.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with that. He doesn't want to get scammed.
• 25:23
  Speaker 6: So when you're having the conversation, you got to pay
• 25:25
  Speaker 6: attention to what she's actually saying versus she's talking and
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: you're not hearing nothing because all you're thinking.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: About is what that pussy feels like.
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: You got to focus.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: Y'all never get scammed by your homegirls?
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: My homegirls know.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Why would my homegirls scam me?
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: Women go on vacation all the time finding out the
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: bitch ain't had no money.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: Oh, never.
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: I don't play them games.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Is this true?
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: Has it happened? It might not happen to y'all. No, no,
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: of course. It happens.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: It happens all the time.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: That's a thing. That's a thing. I ain't got no
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: cash on me. That's a thing. Yo, could you pay
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: for this? Yo, can I stay in your room? My
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: card ain't working.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: I've never really experienced it to that level. But what
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I'm saying.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: Is we've seen how women can manipulate to get what
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: they want also.
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: Yes, women can and have.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: And to other women that know the tricks that women play.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: I mean, it happens all the time. Liars are going
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: to be liars, bro.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, agree.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Liars are going to be liars.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: No matter the gender.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: That's why you just got to keep your head on
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: a swivel and ask the right question.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: You know what's funny?
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: I said this on the internet the other day. What
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: did I say? I said, I have a thing where...
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: I think I have it. Hold on. I said, I
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: have a thing where I expect women to be better
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: than men.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Ew.
• 26:33
  Speaker 13: Nah.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: Why do you expect women to be better than men? Tomato, tomato.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: You don't need to finish. You don't need to finish.
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: You don't need to finish.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: I already know where that's going.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: No, you don't.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: Yes, I do. He said it.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: The first sentence.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: I said, I think I expect women to be better
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: than men and when they aren't or when they exhibit
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: low vibrational behavior that I typically see in men, I
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: judge them harshly for it. Like a woman smoking cigarettes
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: just seems nasty to me than a man smoking cigarettes.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Or being a bad mom, it just hits differently when
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: a woman's a bad parent. Things like that. You just
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: expect women to be better. Am I wrong for this?
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you're absolutely wrong. You are 100% wrong for that.
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: 1,000% wrong.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Because when you expect... Because humans are humans. And when
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: you expect... When you hold women.
• 27:15
  Speaker 7: To standards you don't hold yourself, it's easier for you
• 27:19
  Speaker 7: to now judge them, for you to now insult them,
• 27:23
  Speaker 7: for you to now basically discard them. Whereas a man
• 27:29
  Speaker 7: doing the same thing, you just.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: that's cool.
• 27:32
  Speaker 7: Like he just, he falls short and it's nothing, but
• 27:35
  Speaker 7: you put all this pressure on women and you're not
• 27:39
  Speaker 7: even holding yourself to the same standard or you're holding
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: your male counterparts to the same standards. And it's just like,
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: now it's kind of, you also put women in danger
• 27:45
  Speaker 7: in that way.
• 27:46
  Speaker 13: Right.
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: Because, and I don't, I don't want people to be like, Oh,
• 27:49
  Speaker 7: you're exaggerating now, but you do an exaggeration.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: You do.
• 27:52
  Speaker 7: Because if you don't hold women to the same standard,
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: you hold yourself. And now you're looking at this woman
• 27:57
  Speaker 7: that she smokes. She's a bad mom. Uh, and you
• 28:01
  Speaker 7: know whatever else you named now you're passing judgment against
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: her and those judgments will lead to you not caring
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: about her life not caring about her as a person
• 28:10
  Speaker 7: so now she can be discarded she can be assaulted
• 28:13
  Speaker 7: she can be injured and you won't care because she's
• 28:18
  Speaker 7: a bad person she's a bad mom but this nigga
• 28:21
  Speaker 7: right here smokes is a deadbeat dad doesn't you know
• 28:25
  Speaker 7: do things he's supposed to do as a man but
• 28:28
  Speaker 7: you're not holding him to the same standard so you
• 28:30
  Speaker 7: care about his life Perfect example.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: You won't care about her life. Perfect example to back up.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: That's how it gets dangerous. What's she saying?
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: Sex workers.
• 28:38
  Speaker 6: Women who are sex workers are always discarded because of
• 28:42
  Speaker 6: the fact that, oh, she's a prostitute, so what's the
• 28:44
  Speaker 6: big deal?
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: Oh, she was an OnlyFans, so it doesn't matter.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Like, all the time. That is a prime example. All
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: the time.
• 28:50
  Speaker 7: Because how often do you see a woman, even online,
• 28:53
  Speaker 7: complaining about something and then once people find out she's
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: an OnlyFans girl, like.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Oh, but you're a sex worker. Okay, because I'm a
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: sex worker. I don't have feelings. I don't deserve to
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: be protected. I don't deserve to stay alive.
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: That's how people think when you hold women to a
• 29:09
  Speaker 7: higher standard than you hold men. Because now it's like, oh,
• 29:12
  Speaker 7: women are supposed to do this, this, this, this, this.
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: And when they don't and they fall short, fuck them.
• 29:17
  Speaker 7: But when the men, they fall short, they can fall
• 29:19
  Speaker 7: short a thousand times. And it's like, oh, but we
• 29:21
  Speaker 7: should care about our men. We should care about.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: No, bro. Everybody needs to be held to the same standard.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: I understand men and women aren't equal in all the
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: same ways, but as equal as we can be, let's
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: try to do that.
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: Let's actually try to. You got friends who do OnlyFans
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: that would hang out with them?
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have friends who do OnlyFans, but I'm not
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: against it.
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, show me.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: I have friends Who do that Friends.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Yes These women are still Good people.
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: I don't have any But I'm not against it You
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: see You see.
• 29:48
  Speaker 7: How he said Friends I would do Onlyfans For my
• 29:51
  Speaker 7: friend All of a sudden Now Now She can't be
• 29:54
  Speaker 7: my friend Exactly Just accent.
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: Like, what's wrong with that? I would do OnlyFans. If
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: I had nice feet, I don't. I would do OnlyFans.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: Shit, I done OnlyFans.
• 30:03
  Speaker 13: For real?
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: I wasn't fucking niggas on there, but I did OnlyFans.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: What you been doing on there?
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: You know, you should've done titties. Listen, if I had
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: a man.
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: You should've done no titties on OnlyFans.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Listen, if I had a man that was... Whatever, it's
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: on the record now that I've done OnlyFans with him.
• 30:15
  Speaker 7: So if I get famous, no nigga could be like,
• 30:17
  Speaker 7: this bitch was doing, but here go her old shit.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all I did OnlyFans.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Do y'all understand that y'all benefit from the same shit
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: that y'all.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Saying is dangerous? It made me a nice coin.
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: What?
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Do y'all understand that y'all benefit... Whereas y'all expect women
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: to be on a certain tier. Um, let me see what, uh, if, if,
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: if a woman hits a man, y'all say, Oh no,
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: you shouldn't.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: No, if a woman hits a man and she gets
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: hit back. Hey bitch, you hit that nigga.
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: I don't think you should hit women.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: I hit men. My jaw is too precious.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: But we do understand that society looks at it differently.
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: That's fine. Y'all don't, y'all didn't fall for that bait. Um,
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: You single mothers. I do understand. I got so much
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: pushback on damn threads from this. And I was able
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: to really read it. I sat there and just thought
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: about it. Because being a bad mom, men should be
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: more criticized for being bad dads. Exactly.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: That's a fact.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: It's just like, we shouldn't look past the fact that, oh,
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: he's just a bad dad. Exactly. So when I read that,
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: I was like, ah.
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: You're making that the norm in a sense.
• 31:25
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: It shouldn't be, you know what I mean? It shouldn't
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: be looked over.
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: And I argue that.
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: And it's looked over all the time.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: When I was going to the hospital with my BM,
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: the nurses only talked to her. when she was pregnant.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: They didn't educate me. They didn't concern me with the
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: pregnancy as much. So I had to do like twice
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: to work to try to be involved in it.
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: Why do you think that is? Why do they do that?
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: Well, she's the patient. And the baby's in her stomach.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: But that's all it is.
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: It's not disrespect to you as a father. It's because
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: she's the patient. That's exactly why.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't even want to get into that. I
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: do think that there needs to be more resources for
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: the family. I agree. Um, going into pregnancy. I agree.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: I think that, okay, if that one moment was for her,
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: there still needs to be something to educate the father.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: on the postpartum behavior, the pregnancy expectations, the different shifts
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: in hormones, the different personalities, what his life is going
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: to look like for the next two or three years
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: as a parent.
• 32:30
  Speaker 7: You do realize that that is not like the nurses
• 32:32
  Speaker 7: or the doctor's job in the room, right?
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: They're the nurses and the doctors.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: That's what I said. That couldn't be for her.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: You need to get on Google. Oh, come on. No, no.
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: I do agree.
• 32:43
  Speaker 6: As a mother, I 100% agree with what you're saying.
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: I do think that there should be resources for men,
• 32:47
  Speaker 6: for dads.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you find the resources online. You search for them.
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: No, they can have courses.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: They can have you search for a course online. That's
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: how you find anything nowadays.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: Go online.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: They do exist, but you need to search for them.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: Alexa, do you realize that women don't understand what happens?
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: As much support that they get, that women get, They
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: still don't understand what they're going through, what their body
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: is going through postpartum. Look at Lindsey Clancy right now.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: I've seen about three different cases. I think there was
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: a black woman that was acquitted from killing her two kids.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: She was going through postpartum. Just now, I've seen another woman.
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: I took a screenshot of it today. I'm looking at
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: this stupid ass name with the football. Where's this woman at?
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: Prosecutors are considering seeking the death penalty for a Texas
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: mother who was accused of killing her two children and
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: setting their bodies on fire in an SUV.
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: What the fuck? What was that story about? Hold on.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Let me find it in my saves. Internet, don't fail
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: me now. Did I save it? I did not. But
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: she was going through some sort of postpartum or mental breakdown. Mm-hmm.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: Women don't be knowing, even with all the resources that
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: y'all get, y'all don't be fully understanding what the fuck
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: happening with y'all bodies for you to say, yo, just
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: go Google this shit for a nigga. Let's go Google it. No,
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: there needs to be intensive. You know how many people
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: break up after a pregnancy?
• 34:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: Or during a pregnancy? Yeah. Like that shit is, it's
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: literally a fucking, that's an epidemic. We... That shit should
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: not be.
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: You should.
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: There's a whole career field that needs to be.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Filled with that.
• 34:27
  Speaker 4: But I think.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: So, those examples you gave are extreme. But.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: Yes, of course.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: But....
• 34:34
  Speaker 7: It is important to do your own due diligence. I'm
• 34:37
  Speaker 7: not saying you're going to find every fucking answer by yourself,
• 34:40
  Speaker 7: but starting and doing your own due diligence will lead
• 34:42
  Speaker 7: you and take you places that you never even knew about.
• 34:46
  Speaker 7: You have to do your own due diligence. People are
• 34:48
  Speaker 7: not just going to hand you shit in life. They're
• 34:51
  Speaker 7: not going to hand you the information. They're not going
• 34:53
  Speaker 7: to hand you anything, especially because- Your kids?
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: No, I don't. Oh.
• 34:57
  Speaker 7: Especially because you lay down and got pregnant. Once you
• 35:02
  Speaker 7: once you started that process, you do need to go
• 35:07
  Speaker 7: and seek information and help. And you have to do
• 35:11
  Speaker 7: all that yourself. Nobody's going to come running to you
• 35:13
  Speaker 7: with the books. Nobody's going to come running.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: To you and say, hey, I'm going to be your teacher.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: You're lucky if you get that. You're lucky if you
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: have a family member or friends that know about this
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: stuff and then can embrace you and warn you and
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: tell you about these things. But everybody needs to do
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: their due diligence. I'm sorry. And people don't just wake
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: up pregnant. It takes action.
• 35:35
  Speaker 7: So once you've taken that action, you need to take
• 35:37
  Speaker 7: the other action of learning about the things that can
• 35:40
  Speaker 7: happen to you and your family.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying.
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: I do think that everybody should do their due diligence.
• 35:47
  Speaker 6: I do think that men should take more of an
• 35:50
  Speaker 6: initiative step to want to be involved and understand what's
• 35:53
  Speaker 6: going on.
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: However, I do feel.
• 35:56
  Speaker 6: And it's still a little bit biased because it does
• 35:59
  Speaker 6: go back to the woman and the child. Because I
• 36:01
  Speaker 6: feel like if there are... The same way women have
• 36:04
  Speaker 6: Lamaze classes and the focus is on the mom and
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: breathing and the man is there to support her and
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: there's information and all this... Everything going on about postpartum
• 36:15
  Speaker 6: and now that that's something that people really understand, that
• 36:19
  Speaker 6: same sort of energy does need to be poured into
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: the father and the man that's going to be involved.
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: Because at the end of the day, if he is
• 36:26
  Speaker 6: very well prepared and equipped, he now knows how to
• 36:29
  Speaker 6: support that.
• 36:30
  Speaker 5: Woman when she's going through it.
• 36:31
  Speaker 6: So yes, he does need to take his own due
• 36:34
  Speaker 6: diligence and be assertive and stand up and understand he
• 36:37
  Speaker 6: played a role in this.
• 36:38
  Speaker 5: But at the same time, if we have.
• 36:41
  Speaker 6: communities and avenues and actual medical support and help that
• 36:45
  Speaker 6: can make sure that this man knows what he needs
• 36:48
  Speaker 6: to do, then it just benefits the woman and the
• 36:51
  Speaker 6: child that much more. Because when she isn't the same
• 36:53
  Speaker 6: person and woman that you married and she's having hormonal
• 36:57
  Speaker 6: ups and downs and And she's going through postpartum. And
• 37:00
  Speaker 6: postpartum isn't just immediately after you have the baby. That
• 37:03
  Speaker 6: shit can go up to four to five years.
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: Six years, actually. Wow. See?
• 37:06
  Speaker 5: After you have a kid. Maybe I'm... Okay. That makes sense.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: Six years, actually.
• 37:09
  Speaker 5: No, that makes sense. My daughter's four. That actually makes sense.
• 37:12
  Speaker 6: So, you know, like, you understand... That it's not her
• 37:15
  Speaker 6: being a nasty bitch towards you. You understand that you
• 37:19
  Speaker 6: didn't just lose the woman that's always poured into you
• 37:21
  Speaker 6: and loves you and now she prefers the baby. You
• 37:23
  Speaker 6: understand that this is something that she's going through. And
• 37:25
  Speaker 6: now if you can support her and take off her
• 37:27
  Speaker 6: plate and be there for her, now that can help
• 37:30
  Speaker 6: offset certain things.
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: So I do think that.
• 37:33
  Speaker 6: There should be more education for men as it pertains
• 37:37
  Speaker 6: to that.
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: And as well as that, Alexa, it don't take nothing
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: for me to take my drawers down and pump semen
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: into a woman for her to get pregnant. there is
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: a fucking reading problem in this country, or I don't
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: know about the world, but in this country. Motherfuckers can't read,
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: but they can produce life. You right. Right? So, You're
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: asking for a lot. You're throwing a super wide net
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: when you're like, yo, you need to do your due diligence.
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: Niggas don't even know what that means.
• 38:07
  Speaker 7: And they should not be having kids.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying? So even with the resources,
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: most niggas don't feel because there's a thing where you
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: got to be like superhuman to be a man. You're
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: not even going to allow yourself. We were talking about
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: emotional intelligence to be taught. Because niggas don't like going
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: to the doctor. So they're not going to be going
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: to the doctor and her teaching you how to handle
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: your woman and your child. A nigga going to feel
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: like you ain't got to tell me how to handle
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: my woman and my child. It takes a super mature
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: man to be able to accept that type of information
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: and sit down. So while you're right, that due diligence,
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: you got to want that. You got to want to
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: do it. I only think maybe, so I'm actually agreeing
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: with you. Maybe 10, 20% of niggas will benefit from
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: those resources being there because they got to want to.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: They won't use it. You don't think none will? That's
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying.
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: They won't use it. A lot won't use it, though.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: They won't use it. That's what I'm saying. But that 10, 20%,
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: imagine what that does for the black households and for
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: the black community. These black families that are breaking up
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: left and right, left and right. Through that pregnancy, the
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: man ain't making it. Because she changed on him and
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: he was used to her being his bitch or her
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: being his mom or him being the number one like
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: she him having her made him feel like he was
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: that nigga now she ain't paying attention to you no
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: more nigga I don't worry about my body I got
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: shit dropping out of me you know I got.
• 39:36
  Speaker 13: This baby's waking up you not waking up to put
• 39:39
  Speaker 13: on diapers you not fucking heating up milk nigga you
• 39:43
  Speaker 13: outside on the corner or wherever you going with your
• 39:45
  Speaker 13: friends but he's starting to.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: Feel left out of this relationship So what I was
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: saying is he needs to be educated on why she's
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: acting that way.
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: This is for the black community?
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: I don't speak about the white community unless I'm talking
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: bad about it.
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: I don't know nothing about them people.
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? The rate of black families
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: being together is growing though. You know that, right?
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: Okay. But it could be doing a lot better. And
• 40:10
  Speaker 3: as a matter of fact, more than ever, I don't,
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: I believe, I don't agree with that. I think, well, okay.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: I don't, I don't know that stat. What did you say?
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: What was your statement?
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: Like, Black dads are more active than they ever been.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: That's not black family. That's black dads being active. That's
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: the stat that I thought you were saying, but that's
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: not what you said. You said black families being together
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: is growing, which I'm not certain about that stat. I
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: am certain that black fathers... are more in their kids'
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: lives today than when we grew up.
• 40:40
  Speaker 5: But that's always been a thing. You know that, though.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: No. No, no.
• 40:44
  Speaker 6: Not within the whole community structurally, but black fathers statistically
• 40:50
  Speaker 6: compared to other races are actively more involved in their
• 40:53
  Speaker 6: children's life when they are involved in their children's life.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 40:57
  Speaker 12: We don't have examples anymore. We used to have Family Matters,
• 41:00
  Speaker 12: Fresh Prince. We don't even have examples of what that
• 41:03
  Speaker 12: could be.
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: Well, we didn't have examples in our homes either.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Fuck TV.
• 41:06
  Speaker 13: Yeah.
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: A lot of us is just starting off doing shit
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: that we ain't have. You feel me? Okay. Because I
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: don't even know where to fuck that kid. Lindsey Clancy.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: That's what I want to ask y'all about.
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: Who that? Who was that? Educate me.
• 41:19
  Speaker 6: Some white bitch that killed her three kids and tried
• 41:22
  Speaker 6: to kill herself and didn't succeed in killing herself. She
• 41:26
  Speaker 6: like slit her throat and her wrist jumped off a
• 41:28
  Speaker 6: fucking balcony.
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: Two stories. Didn't die.
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: And she didn't die because she needs to burn in
• 41:32
  Speaker 6: fucking hell. And I understand postpartum and all that shit.
• 41:35
  Speaker 6: My issue is the fact that she's white. Because, yes,
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: you gave an example of that black woman that got off,
• 41:40
  Speaker 6: but she's probably one in a zillion fucking million. Because
• 41:43
  Speaker 6: the amount of black women that suffer from postpartum, that
• 41:46
  Speaker 6: do not get help, that do not get support, that
• 41:48
  Speaker 6: nobody gave a fuck when they were screaming from the
• 41:51
  Speaker 6: mountains that they're fucking crumbling, and they don't kill they
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: fucking kids like that. Like, yeah, there might be some
• 41:56
  Speaker 6: black women that do it, but statistically, we don't. So
• 42:00
  Speaker 6: that means that you have some sort of control at
• 42:03
  Speaker 6: some point, even when you're going through all of this.
• 42:05
  Speaker 5: You know why? Because... Even when I'm having.
• 42:07
  Speaker 6: The intrusive thought to fucking choke this baby out or
• 42:10
  Speaker 6: throw the baby off the balcony. I know that I'm
• 42:12
  Speaker 6: going to burn in that fucking courtroom and they're going
• 42:14
  Speaker 6: to lock me up under the jail because I'm a
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: black woman. But as a white woman, you have the
• 42:18
  Speaker 6: privilege to do that shit and get people to fucking
• 42:20
  Speaker 6: raise millions.
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: Of dollars for you and to feel sorry for you.
• 42:23
  Speaker 6: You might get off because you almost always get off
• 42:26
  Speaker 6: because you remember that white bitch that killed her little
• 42:28
  Speaker 6: her little pageant baby.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like it's a thing. So I don't fuck her.
• 42:33
  Speaker 5: Fuck her.
• 42:34
  Speaker 6: And I don't care if I sound racist. It's a
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: race thing. Like, I don't have nothing for her for me.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: Listen, I understand the anger. And also, shit, historically, we
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: fucked out here. So I get it. I understand that,
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: especially as a woman talking about that because this is
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: definitely something that women feel, black women feel need more
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: support from us. So I'm not going to talk bad
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: about how you feel about that. I actually am confused, though. Well,
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: have you heard about this story at all?
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: I haven't heard about it. That's why I'm off the loop.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: The woman goes to the mental hospital a few times, says, yo,
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: I think I'm going to kill my kids and I'm
• 43:10
  Speaker 3: going to kill myself. The mental hospital sends her home.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: That's not protocol, though.
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: The medical hospital sends her home with the dad, says, yo,
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: you can't leave her alone. Dad might kill somebody. She Googles, apparently,
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: I don't watch the whole case, but apparently, she Googles
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: how long it's going to take if she sends her
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: husband to the store for him to get there get
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: what she says and come back right she sends him
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: to the store she strangles all three kids with resistance
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: bands kills him jumps out the window the fucking white
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: world is coming to her defense saying that he did
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: it he must have he must have killed the kids
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: and threw out the window And she's going through postpartum.
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: Oh, they just blamed the dad.
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. Not only did they blame the dad. Oh,
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: she confessed.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: But she confessed, though. She said she did it.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: And she confessed.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: And said she did it. But. The defense attorneys is
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: not saying that she didn't do it. Yeah. Everybody's saying
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: she did it. They're just saying, hey, should she be
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: held liable? Or was it the dad? Now, the public
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: is saying it's the dad. The public is saying... TikTok.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: It's a whole... You could go down a whole rabbit
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: hole on TikTok. She has thousands and thousands of supporters.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: It was actually the husband.
• 44:25
  Speaker 7: They're saying it's the dad because the dad is remarried.
• 44:29
  Speaker 7: And he got remarried, I think, four months after she
• 44:32
  Speaker 7: killed the kids. So they're saying, oh, nigga, you been
• 44:37
  Speaker 7: wanted to... This lady and the kids to fuck off because...
• 44:41
  Speaker 7: You want to move on with your life with another bitch.
• 44:43
  Speaker 7: You didn't give a fuck about her.
• 44:45
  Speaker 3: But she's also been going through all these mental problems
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: all that time.
• 44:48
  Speaker 6: And it could be true that he didn't give a
• 44:49
  Speaker 6: fuck about her and was like, fuck you and them
• 44:51
  Speaker 6: kids and moved on.
• 44:52
  Speaker 5: But I don't think that that should mean that.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: He did it.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just saying that's people's logic.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: I was going to say that.
• 44:57
  Speaker 8: It's real hard to say that somebody want three of
• 44:59
  Speaker 8: their kids gone just because like.
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't really see it. A nigga? Yeah,
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: that's hard. That's just hard.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 45:05
  Speaker 8: Or being okay with them being gone in that fashion.
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: The hospital wasn't supposed to let her leave the hospital.
• 45:11
  Speaker 5: They weren't.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: The hospital fucked up. My issue is.
• 45:13
  Speaker 6: The whole fucking, so many people have rallied behind this
• 45:17
  Speaker 6: white woman and it's because she's a white woman that
• 45:19
  Speaker 6: there's this amount of remorse.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Period.
• 45:22
  Speaker 6: Because if this was a black woman, it probably wouldn't
• 45:25
  Speaker 6: even make the fucking news.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: She would have been in jail and that would have been.
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: The end of it. But this is why I'm so confused.
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: I don't understand. Yes, give me one second. Go ahead,
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: go ahead, go ahead. Give me one second. I just
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: don't understand. How white America is rallying behind a woman.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Because they're all sick.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: All three of her children.
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: Because that's what they do.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: Because white people are evil.
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Innately. Innately.
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: I get some people. I get some activist groups. I
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: get some advocacy groups. But all of these people is
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: cool with her killing her kids.
• 45:53
  Speaker 4: White people are evil.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: With resistance bands.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Because they clearly relate.
• 45:56
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: Because they clearly relate.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: Are they okay with it?
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: They want her friend.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: Why would you be rallying behind her? She's made over
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: a million something dollars on GoFundMe.
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: Get out of here.
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: They came up with a whole other thing.
• 46:06
  Speaker 6: She can't get that money though. But you still donated it.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: Even worse.
• 46:10
  Speaker 5: She can't get the money and you still donated it.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: Oh, she can't get the bread.
• 46:13
  Speaker 4: Who going to get the bread?
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: It goes back to them. They'll get refunded.
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: Oh, so they made it GoFundMe? It was like, all right,
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: never mind.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: You can't. No, you can't.
• 46:21
  Speaker 7: GoFundMe policy is you can't receive money To pay.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: For a lawyer for a crime that you did. You
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: can't receive that money, so it'll get re-dispersed back to
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: the people.
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: They must have changed that later. People must have been
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: doing it.
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, every rule comes from somewhere.
• 46:40
  Speaker 7: But yeah, if you commit a crime, you can't start
• 46:42
  Speaker 7: a GoFundMe so that you could pay for your lawyer.
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: You farted? Why are you over there shaking?
• 46:49
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm tight for real.
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: You're tight for real? Okay, I'm looking at you like
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: you real... When you.
• 46:53
  Speaker 5: Said it, I was like, oh, my leg is.
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what's up?
• 46:56
  Speaker 5: And I had to fix my face.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Why are you that tight? Besides what you said, is
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: there anything else?
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Because she's a mother and a black woman? I'm a
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: mother and a black woman in America.
• 47:07
  Speaker 6: And you out here fighting for your fucking life.
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: Let me tell you something. Love my kids.
• 47:12
  Speaker 6: I'm obsessed with my daughter. I have free contacts. Well,
• 47:16
  Speaker 6: my son is turning 20. 15 years later, I had
• 47:18
  Speaker 6: a kid. I have a four-year-old daughter. I'm obsessed with them. Yo,
• 47:21
  Speaker 6: my daughter, best friend. That's my world.
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: I love her.
• 47:24
  Speaker 5: But there are multiple times a day where I'm like,
• 47:27
  Speaker 5: I could knock you the fuck out.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: I feel you. I even got kids.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: I can knock you the fuck out right now. I'm
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: looking at other people's kids like I can knock you
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: the fuck out.
• 47:34
  Speaker 5: I can cave your fucking chest in. Talk to me
• 47:36
  Speaker 5: like that one more time.
• 47:37
  Speaker 6: And I might fuck around and cave your chest in,
• 47:39
  Speaker 6: but I don't because that's my sweet little baby. And okay,
• 47:42
  Speaker 6: I'm not going through... Well, I probably am going through postpartum,
• 47:46
  Speaker 6: but there's variations of it. But with that being said,
• 47:48
  Speaker 6: I don't have the privilege to get away with something
• 47:51
  Speaker 6: like that. Even though that wouldn't kill her, I don't
• 47:54
  Speaker 6: have the privilege. You know what happened to me when
• 47:56
  Speaker 6: my son was in third grade?
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: He....
• 47:59
  Speaker 6: I forgot what he did. He went and played in
• 48:01
  Speaker 6: the playground. He wasn't supposed to. The teachers found out.
• 48:03
  Speaker 6: They told me about it. The little boy lied in
• 48:05
  Speaker 6: my fucking face, told me I said he could go
• 48:06
  Speaker 6: in my face, looked me in my eyes and said, Mommy,
• 48:08
  Speaker 6: so I could go whooped his ass.
• 48:11
  Speaker 5: You know what happened?
• 48:12
  Speaker 6: The next day I came home from work and ACS
• 48:14
  Speaker 6: was in front of my house. I had to ride
• 48:16
  Speaker 6: in a fucking paddy wagon with my son. with police
• 48:20
  Speaker 6: officers down to some office in the cut somewhere, downtown Brooklyn,
• 48:24
  Speaker 6: and get investigated and got separated from my son.
• 48:26
  Speaker 5: They interviewed him separate from me. I don't abuse my kid.
• 48:29
  Speaker 6: My son is an amazing young man, but because of that,
• 48:32
  Speaker 6: and luckily the detective that interviewed us was a Puerto
• 48:35
  Speaker 6: Rican woman. And she was like, yo, you lucky that
• 48:38
  Speaker 6: I'm from, you know, a Caribbean background and I understand,
• 48:41
  Speaker 6: you know, disciplining your kids. She was like, you're moving forward.
• 48:43
  Speaker 6: She's like, and these kids need to be disciplined. Hit
• 48:45
  Speaker 6: him on the inside of his hands or the bottom.
• 48:46
  Speaker 5: Of his feet.
• 48:47
  Speaker 6: You can't leave marks. But again, this goes back to privilege. Like,
• 48:53
  Speaker 6: I could have lost my son. He could have been
• 48:55
  Speaker 6: in foster care getting his butt played with. Like, been
• 48:59
  Speaker 6: a slave making clothes.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: Yo, how do we get back here?
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Honestly, she's valid this time. No, but this is the thing.
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: She's valid.
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: No, you're valid.
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: Forget the jokes.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: She's valid this time. Okay, no jokes. I was dead serious.
• 49:12
  Speaker 6: Y'all saw the 160-something kids that just got found that
• 49:15
  Speaker 6: was in foster care being sex trafficked? That's why I
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: said the butt thing. Because they're getting sex trafficked. Boys
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: and girls. So, and again, it goes back to privilege.
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: And that was just because he did something bad and
• 49:26
  Speaker 6: got licks on his leg.
• 49:28
  Speaker 5: Like, he got slapped on his leg. Turn to daddy
• 49:30
  Speaker 5: and you get licks. And, you know, he was fairer
• 49:32
  Speaker 5: skinned when he was younger, so it left a mark.
• 49:34
  Speaker 5: Wanted attention. Told the teacher about it.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: Imagine.
• 49:39
  Speaker 5: If I really hurt.
• 49:41
  Speaker 6: My kids for real or I, God forbid, killed one
• 49:44
  Speaker 6: of my children, I don't have the privilege.
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: I don't have the privilege. And even if I somehow
• 49:49
  Speaker 5: got off, the world would not be rallying behind me
• 49:52
  Speaker 5: with millions of dollars and support. And, you know, if
• 49:55
  Speaker 5: you make it through this, we have this for you.
• 49:57
  Speaker 5: We'll help you with this. I wouldn't become famous. I
• 49:59
  Speaker 5: wouldn't be endorsed. By a fucking.
• 50:01
  Speaker 6: Weird MAGA brand. Like none of that would happen for
• 50:05
  Speaker 6: me because I'm a black woman. So for me, it's
• 50:07
  Speaker 6: always going to go back to race. And that's why
• 50:08
  Speaker 6: I'm so angry. So fuck that white bitch. Because you
• 50:11
  Speaker 6: had the privilege to kill those innocent fucking kids. When
• 50:13
  Speaker 6: all these black women and Hispanic women that are fucking
• 50:16
  Speaker 6: struggling every day fighting for their lives. They probably regret
• 50:19
  Speaker 6: them fucking kids. And wish they could probably off them
• 50:21
  Speaker 6: or get rid of them. They can't because they don't
• 50:23
  Speaker 6: have the fucking privilege to do so.
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: But you do.
• 50:25
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: Fuck her. You know, she makes a very good point.
• 50:28
  Speaker 8: And I think we see this same thing happen a
• 50:30
  Speaker 8: lot when we have the white people that kill the
• 50:34
  Speaker 8: black people. And then when they go to jail, they
• 50:36
  Speaker 8: get the big GoFundMe money. And then it's the victims'
• 50:39
  Speaker 8: families that's just left to just sit there and just
• 50:43
  Speaker 8: deal with the person. They done got millions of dollars following.
• 50:46
  Speaker 8: They done got all of them.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: They don't get the millions, though.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: They don't get it.
• 50:50
  Speaker 8: Well, you know, they found a way to usurp that. So,
• 50:53
  Speaker 8: you know, they'll make a goal for me for somebody else. And,
• 50:55
  Speaker 8: you know, they'll connect it. And, you know, so I
• 50:58
  Speaker 8: think for me, I think the media just doesn't like
• 51:00
  Speaker 8: to see, like you said, just black men and black women.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. They don't like to see white.
• 51:07
  Speaker 8: Men and white women be in that position in the
• 51:09
  Speaker 8: news where they're plastered. It's their picture. It's their name.
• 51:12
  Speaker 8: And they did the worst shit imaginable. White women especially.
• 51:15
  Speaker 8: There's damsels in distress always.
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 51:17
  Speaker 8: They'd rather leave that for the black men, for the
• 51:19
  Speaker 8: black women, for the Spanish, for the Muslim people. You
• 51:22
  Speaker 8: know what I'm saying? You can call us the immigrants,
• 51:24
  Speaker 8: the terrorism, you know. But I just think that doesn't
• 51:27
  Speaker 8: fit in the white mold that we have in society
• 51:30
  Speaker 8: right now.
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: Imagine a Muslim woman killed three of her kids. Imagine.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: Or an immigrant.
• 51:36
  Speaker 5: Or just imagine.
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: Even a black woman that was acquitted, we don't, I
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: don't know, two people that know her name. I didn't
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: even hear about that.
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: That's my point.
• 51:42
  Speaker 5: It wouldn't even make the headlines. I didn't even hear
• 51:43
  Speaker 5: about that. You had to look that shit up.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: No, it popped out on Instagram, but there wasn't no
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: like whole big support.
• 51:49
  Speaker 5: Nobody gave a fuck about her or them kids. That's why.
• 51:53
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah. How you feel about that, Alexa? This whole case?
• 51:58
  Speaker 7: I feel like white people are evil. So I think
• 52:00
  Speaker 7: that she should go to jail. And I think the
• 52:03
  Speaker 7: dad should pay some kind of price too. I think
• 52:06
  Speaker 7: they both evil.
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: For what?
• 52:07
  Speaker 5: Negligence.
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: Negligence.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: They told you. And the hospital should be held accountable too.
• 52:11
  Speaker 5: I think everybody should go down.
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: The hospital, the mother, the father. Everybody's going to fuck down.
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: The hospital before the father. Wait, why the father?
• 52:20
  Speaker 7: Because you sat there and watched time after time and
• 52:24
  Speaker 7: got report after report that something is wrong with your wife.
• 52:29
  Speaker 5: She's going to kill people.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: She's going to kill your kids.
• 52:32
  Speaker 7: And he did not say, let me take these kids away. Instead,
• 52:37
  Speaker 7: he went on skiing trips with his new bitch.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: That's what he did.
• 52:42
  Speaker 7: He took multiple vacations with his new bitch and left
• 52:44
  Speaker 7: the kids with his crazy ass wife.
• 52:47
  Speaker 4: That's true.
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: That's a fact.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: Yes. That's as far as the case.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: Oh, he had a new woman while... Yes, and.
• 52:53
  Speaker 7: He was going on vacations and leaving his wife as
• 52:56
  Speaker 7: his wife is.
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: That's new information now.
• 52:58
  Speaker 6: Even if he didn't have a new woman, why are
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: you leaving... Why are you leaving and going anywhere without
• 53:02
  Speaker 6: them kids?
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: That's actually not chronologically correct, but she's right. This was happening,
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: but not after.
• 53:06
  Speaker 4: Went after the hospital. He ain't go skiing after the hospital.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: No, but he was going.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: He still left her with the kids.
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: While she was suffering.
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: He was supposed to be there like, listen, y'all come
• 53:15
  Speaker 4: live with me.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Come live with daddy. You're not holding up your part
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: as a husband and a father. You're not.
• 53:22
  Speaker 7: You see your wife is struggling mentally and you're going
• 53:25
  Speaker 7: to take a vacation with the next bitch.
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: And now your kids are dead.
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: I think whether you're with her or not, you should
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: have took the kids.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: So now the kid is dead and she's here. And
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: that's the issue.
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: And did that for revenge.
• 53:37
  Speaker 7: And that's the problem because y'all will try to just
• 53:40
  Speaker 7: reduce it to she's upset with it. And that's what
• 53:43
  Speaker 7: I hate about the law when it comes to domestic violence, right?
• 53:47
  Speaker 7: Because violence in general is viewed differently. It's viewed under
• 53:53
  Speaker 7: a different lens until it becomes domestic. Once violence becomes domestic... Uh,
• 53:59
  Speaker 7: people like to be like, oh, but you know, they
• 54:02
  Speaker 7: were a couple or they had a, they used to
• 54:04
  Speaker 7: be a couple. There was that past there and it
• 54:06
  Speaker 7: like softens the blow of the violence. No, it's still
• 54:10
  Speaker 7: fucking violence. So to be like, oh, she was just
• 54:13
  Speaker 7: mad that he had a new bitch, bro. You don't
• 54:18
  Speaker 7: kill your three kids. Cause you're mad that your husband
• 54:20
  Speaker 7: got a new bitch. you don't do that she's clearly
• 54:25
  Speaker 7: mentally ill we've already established that.
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: That's a mental but you don't.
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: You don't just chalk it up to oh she.
• 54:30
  Speaker 6: Mad because he got a lot there's a lot of
• 54:33
  Speaker 6: that could have been the straw that broke the camel's
• 54:35
  Speaker 6: back but there's there's it's way deeper.
• 54:37
  Speaker 7: And it doesn't absolve you from being there as a
• 54:40
  Speaker 7: fucking father and husband for the fucking kids in your
• 54:42
  Speaker 7: family yeah.
• 54:43
  Speaker 8: No i think i think lex is right i think
• 54:44
  Speaker 8: the moment that that happened um He could have did
• 54:48
  Speaker 8: whatever he wanted, but once that happened with her in
• 54:50
  Speaker 8: the hospital, he should have been like, yo, let me
• 54:52
  Speaker 8: get the kids.
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: The kids are coming with me.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: He obviously was not being a good father or husband.
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: That's who he was. It's his character.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: Wasn't they in the same household?
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: Huh?
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: Weren't they all living together?
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: They all live together, yes.
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: So let me get the kids where? They're here. I'm here.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: What you mean?
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: Oh, they live together.
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: I think they live together. These are not two poor
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: white people.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 55:14
  Speaker 7: So if you need to separate your kids from your wife,
• 55:18
  Speaker 7: somebody can go to a hotel.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: Your wife or you and the kids. And her mom.
• 55:25
  Speaker 7: Also, her mom was in their lives as well. She
• 55:28
  Speaker 7: would text her mom and say, Mom... I'm scared.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Can you come over? I need help.
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: You're texting the mom because the fucking father ain't there.
• 55:35
  Speaker 7: He on vacation with the next bitch doing whatever the
• 55:37
  Speaker 7: fuck he want to do while you're struggling.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: If you were a.
• 55:40
  Speaker 7: Good father, you'd be like, hey, mom, can you watch
• 55:43
  Speaker 7: the kids? Well, because I have to find some way
• 55:46
  Speaker 7: to separate, make some separation here.
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: None of that was done. He was going on vacations
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: with another bitch. And it doesn't even matter that it
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: was with another bitch. Him going on vacations without them
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: in general. Your family is struggling. You need to be
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: here and help them figure it out. Vacations are not
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: what needs to be happening right now.
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: Listen, I'm not going to sit and defend homie. But
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: I'm also not going to... She killed the kids.
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: She killed the kids and she should go to jail.
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: Matter of fact, the doctors.
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: That medical institution is the real issue.
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they should be held accountable.
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: I said that. He's far down on the list.
• 56:21
  Speaker 5: They should all be held accountable.
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Has anybody even heard from him? Did
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: he testify?
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he was in court.
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: He was?
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: He was in court, but, you know, it's like the court,
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: they're not against him. He's not being prosecuted.
• 56:36
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just like they're asking him questions about her
• 56:39
  Speaker 7: mental state.
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: Right, right, right. So, yeah. All right. Let's move on
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: a little bit. We got 25 minutes. Y'all got y'all
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: 25 minutes. We almost out. You all right? You letting
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: it go? Mm-hmm. Everybody, relax, relate, release. You good? You're actiworm?
• 56:52
  Speaker 4: Actiworm?
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: Morph? Ectomorph?
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: You got the AC on or off?
• 56:57
  Speaker 4: You can't put the AC on because of the breathing sound.
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: It'll pick up in the mics. Right, right, right, right, right.
• 57:02
  Speaker 3: You just got to just cool off.
• 57:03
  Speaker 5: I've never been this hot before.
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: Like, I've never felt this hot in here.
• 57:06
  Speaker 12: Oh.
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, he doesn't even have the fan on right here.
• 57:10
  Speaker 5: No, no, I'm going to survive.
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: I'm going to turn it so that it... What? What
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: do you mean, what? You know what. I don't know.
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: You know exactly what. The George. That's why you said what.
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: This was a thousand hours.
• 57:25
  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah.
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: I see what she's talking about. Once that thing got
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: off me. Oh, you high now?
• 57:30
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: No, no, no.
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying. I felt it the whole time, so
• 57:34
  Speaker 2: I see what she's talking about. But on rotate so
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: that way we can all feel it.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: Perfect.
• 57:38
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 57:38
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes. I try.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: You see, it's a big contract, okay?
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a big contract.
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: He said it several times. You can't let that contract
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: bother you.
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: We got that. Yo, the contract. We got that. So
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: one of my friends here has our next video.
• 58:05
  Speaker 7: These niggas got you fucked up and you don't even
• 58:07
  Speaker 7: know it, sis.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: So I'm here to.
• 58:08
  Speaker 5: Tell you how.
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: I'm going to talk about three things that the patriarchy
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: tells women that sound like compliments.
• 58:13
  Speaker 7: Until you realize they're actually scams, okay? Number one, girls
• 58:18
  Speaker 7: mature faster than boys.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: Ugh, do they? Or do we just start expecting more
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: from girls earlier? Like a little girl is expected to behave,
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: help out, be.
• 58:29
  Speaker 7: Responsible, control her emotions, sit like a lady, dress appropriately,
• 58:34
  Speaker 7: just know better. Meanwhile, a boy the exact same age
• 58:37
  Speaker 7: does something reckless.
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: Everybody goes, well, you know, boys will be boys. Girls
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: don't magically become miniature adults faster. We just give girls
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: less permission to be children. And that also leads to
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: more manipulation by men because the faster they can start
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: to view a girl as a woman, the faster they
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: can sexualize her. I've heard so many women agree with
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: this statement because it just makes them feel like that
• 59:02
  Speaker 2: they're better than their male counterpart.
• 59:04
  Speaker 7: Number two, women are on a pedestal.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: You're on a pedestal. This one sounds so good women
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: are queens women run the world women are naturally more
• 59:15
  Speaker 2: nurturing women are the prize babe the pedestal It's a
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: cage that the men rebranded as a throne because once
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: you convince society that women are inherently more moral, more mature,
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: more nurturing, and more responsible, you can hold women to
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: standards that men would never survive. Now, she can't sleep around.
• 59:36
  Speaker 7: She can't be angry. She can't be selfish. She has
• 59:39
  Speaker 7: to keep the family together. She should have known better.
• 59:42
  Speaker 7: And when men fall short, it's always women. well, I mean,
• 59:45
  Speaker 7: you should have chose better.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: You know how men are. That is not worship.
• 59:49
  Speaker 7: That is actually called benevolent sexism. And number three, men
• 59:55
  Speaker 7: are providers. So some men provide. Some women also provide.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 7: Some households need two incomes just to keep the lights on.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 7: Some men cannot provide financially. Some men don't even want
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 7: that responsibility. But patriarchy took one economic role and turned
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 7: it into the definition of masculinity. So now, when a
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 7: man can't afford to financially support another grown adult, Instead
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 7: of simply being able to say, I can't afford that
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 7: or I don't want that kind of relationship, he may
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 7: feel like admitting that makes him less of a man.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 7: And then that anxiety gets redirected towards us women.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: So now it's, you're a gold digger. Oh, you only
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: care about money. Okay, but were you just telling us
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: that providing is what makes you a man? You see
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: the scam?
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 7: Patriarchy doesn't only control women by insulting them. Sometimes it
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 7: controls women by complimenting them.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: You're more mature.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: You're on a pedestal. Men will provide for you.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 7: Every one of those statements sounds like women are getting
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 7: something until you look at the fine print and realize
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 7: there's always a job attached.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 5: First of all, that blonde wig ate the fuck up.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: Period. That shit look good as hell, girl.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: Good job.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 7: Good job.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: I'm so cute.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 5: I agree with it all.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: You agree with it all? Well, nah.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: Nah.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: Well, what part is nah?
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 12: Nah, because the last part, if you can't provide, you
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 12: shouldn't be dating.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 5: But they do.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 6: And they treat you like shit because they can't provide
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 6: for you because society put that on them. Instead of
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 6: society putting on their ass. If you aren't a provider
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 6: or you can't be a provider at this point of
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 6: your life, it is okay. But maybe be honest about it.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 6: Be okay with that.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 5: And either engage with women based on that or don't
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 5: engage at all.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: Listen here. I'm agreeing with you. But I disagree with
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: you as well. Because some of the shit that y'all
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 3: be talking about be just completely excusing the bullshit that
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: women be on. First of all... If a nigga tells
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: you I make $ 60, 000 a year and you date the nigga,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: you're dating that $ 60, 000 a year too. You know the
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 3: position that you're putting yourself in by sucking that nigga's dick.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: This is what I was telling y'all before. Stop fucking
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: with niggas that you.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 3: You can't blame him when you want him to do
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 3: all these things that he just does not have the
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: capital for.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: Let me say one thing, though. The patriarchy has convinced....
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 7: That men who make less than a certain amount of
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 7: money do not deserve love.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: That's what you're saying. Don't date that nigga because he
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: only makes 60K. No, don't expect.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: Him to do certain shit.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 7: Don't expect he cannot provide in certain ways financially.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 5: He said that.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 7: But that's what the patriarchy has convinced y'all that if
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 7: he cannot provide, he shouldn't be dating. I'm just letting
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 7: you know that that's what the patriarch has told you.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 5: But I have a question, though.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: You define provide. You're the one who said if you
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: can't provide.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: You shouldn't be dating.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 4: Basically taking care of all the bills?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: Wait, but I have a question, though. Okay, the patriarch
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: has told you that.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 3: It's unrealistic.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 6: But then what happens when you make $ 60, 000 and you
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 6: meet a woman that's cool with your $ 60, 000? She can
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 6: match your $ 60, 000 or she might make double or triple that.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 6: And now, and she's not expecting you to do everything
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 6: by yourself.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 5: She's like, yo, we can do 50-50. I could even
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 5: take on more until you up.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 5: But now you're treating her like shit because now seeing
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 5: her in this position makes you insecure.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: But that's not her fault. That's patriarchy.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 3: I don't think that's patriarchy though.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: It's not for everybody.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 6: But it goes back to what the men are going
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 6: to date regardless anyway. And again, it is the patriarchy.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 6: She didn't put that on you.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: She's chilling.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 6: But because you have it in your head... That you
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 6: don't even realize you have it in your head. It's
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 6: a subconscious thought.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 2: Created by men. Exactly.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: Nah. Nah.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 2: Do y'all know that's what patriarchy means?
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: I know what patriarchy means. I'm just thinking wholly, right?
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: Because literally you was talking about niggas moving in feminine
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 3: fashion and you don't like it. You were saying this earlier.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: Nigga can't even blow smoke and scream because it's feminine.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: So now, what if, as a man, I'm comfortable with
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: her paying all the bills? Because I don't subscribe to patriarchy.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: I'm comfortable with her. That is not feminine. You're going
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 3: to be looking at this nigga like, nigga, what are
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 3: you doing?
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: No, that's me.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 5: But there are women that are not like that.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 6: And if you and her are in a relationship and
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 6: y'all agree to that relationship and she's cool with it,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 6: that's not feminine.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: You're a mature enough man.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: And you're going to call her a stupid ass bitch.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not going to.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: You are going to call her a stupid ass bitch.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: Tasia is not going to call her a stupid ass bitch.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, it is. For taking over the crib?
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to call her a stupid ass bitch
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: if that's what she wants.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: I don't know what yesterday going to say, but I
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: want to hear what he got to say.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 12: Nah.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 8: No, I think, Taze, I love you, gang, but I
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 8: don't know about that one, y'all.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, hold on.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 6: We can go back to the last time I was here.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 6: I have been in relationships where I was the breadwinner
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 6: and I held it down.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: And I said, what did I say?
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 6: I won't do it again because of the way I
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 6: was treated by the man for doing it. I've also
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 6: said that I can be in a relationship and hold
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 6: shit down if my man, who is a provider, is
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 6: going through a point in time where in this moment
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 6: he can't. I will absolutely hold it down for him,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 6: but I'm not going to drag a nigga up. I'm
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 6: not going to find his ambition for him. I'm not
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 6: going to do those things for him. He got to
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 6: figure that out for himself. And I've become that way
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 6: because of things that I've experienced. I didn't just wake
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 6: up that way and decide, oh, yeah, fuck these niggas.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 6: They don't deserve help.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 3: You know what I liked about what Alexa said to us?
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: She said, we have faith. Being fooled by patriarchy. All
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 3: of us.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: All of us. Men and women.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 3: When I'm trying to sit here and think about ways
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 3: to debate this, I realize that women also support patriarchy.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: In certain ways. When it benefits us. When it benefits us.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 3: In certain ways. So even if she makes more money,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 3: she would look to him to like, so how are you...
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 3: Because I'm not supposed to be. And you're supposed to be.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 3: And he... His ego is going to be shot because
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: I was like, no, no, no, I don't agree with you.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 3: And I thought about it and I was like, yeah,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: his ego is going to be shot because he's supposed
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: to be the patriarch.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: He's supposed to be the one that can lead and
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: take this family to the next level, but he now
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: has to be under the matriarch who's actually doing it
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: and he can't function in that way because of the
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 3: way society is. Do you disagree, bro?
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 4: Times are different now. So if you have a relationship,
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 4: you're coming together. You know what I'm saying? So y'all could...
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 4: Some people that make $ 60, 000, they good people.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, of course.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 12: So you could meet a woman and genuinely like her.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 12: She might make a little hundred or whatever. You're like, listen,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 12: I like him for who he is. Outside of the money,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 12: he probably hold the door for you. He probably make
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 12: you feel good.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 4: He probably.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: There's other ways to provide.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 4: You feel safe around them.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 2: Agreed. That's a $ 160, 000 household.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 4: So now you're like, you know what? We're going to
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 4: do 50-50 on this. And you take care of things
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 4: like that.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 4: You have a healthy relationship.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 6: It might not even be 50-50. She might have to
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 6: take on heavier loads because she makes more money. But
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 6: the household is still.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: A $ 160, 000 household.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 5: I don't disagree with that. I agree 100%.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: I think that sounds good. But I think.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 8: correct me if i'm wrong i think what ty was
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 8: talking about is the overall idea of it so like
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 8: you to our team might feel that way it might
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 8: operate that way but i think women i don't want
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 8: to say as a whole but by and large just
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 8: that statement is not going to be supported if you
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 8: if most women if you go to your homegirls and
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 8: you say yeah man i had to remember i gotta
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 8: go home take care of this nigga you know he
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 8: don't really got it i gotta make sure he got
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 8: this this and this by and large, women are not
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 8: going to be like, oh yeah, girl, you smoking shit
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 8: right now.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 6: That's true, but that supports everything she just said. That
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 6: still supports what she said.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: Because of the patriarchy. Exactly. And don't get me wrong.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 4: That's delusion.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: The patriarchy is delusional.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because most men don't even make $ 100, 000.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: How many people y'all know make $ 100, 000? That is delusional,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 4: but it's.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 5: Still the patriarchy.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 4: That's our point.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 5: That didn't come from women. Women didn't create that.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: It was instilled in us also.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 7: The ideologies that the patriarchy instills in all of us
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 7: in society are delusional. Because at the end of the day,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 7: men are just people, just like women are just people.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 7: And every person is not capable of doing every fucking thing.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: I agree. Sometimes me as a woman, I can.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 7: Get to it better, faster, harder than a man can
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 7: because he's just not built like that.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: He doesn't like to hustle that hard.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying? He ain't got that dog.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 7: He might not be as creative as me. You know
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 7: what I'm saying? He might not have as many connections
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 7: as me. He might not be as charismatic as me.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 7: People might not like him as much as they like me.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: And because I'm so likable, I get opportunities up and right.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 7: But he's still trying to figure it out and figure
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 7: out what he's good at and how to bro.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: That happens it does pretty that happens that's why i
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: said you shouldn't be dating but if you do decide
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: to do that come together. I don't think it doesn't
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: mean you don't deserve love.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 3: If she likes him for who he is, outside of that,
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 3: why can't she?
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 6: Because he has to be mature enough to be okay
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 6: with that, again, because of what was instilled in him.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: So he has to, like you said earlier also.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 6: He shouldn't be dating if he's not mature enough to
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 6: handle it. And sometimes you don't know you're not mature
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 6: enough until you're in the situation.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 4: Until you're into it.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: I disagree with y'all again. Nah.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 8: The only thing I have, but why do, I guess
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 8: this is a question for the men, but why is
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 8: it that men only have the introspection when it comes
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 8: to the financial aspect but not the emotional or spiritual aspect?
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 3: Yes. Again.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: Again.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 5: The way you're programmed. The way society has programmed it.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: We were taught that.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: That's what the focus should be.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 8: Because you're not going to say, yo, I shouldn't date
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 8: this person because I'm not emotionally ready.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 7: Because the patriarchy tells you that the qualities of a
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 7: man are strength, provision, dominance. These are all physical things.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 7: None of it is emotional. The patriarchy does not tell.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: That's feminine. Exactly.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 7: The patriarchy tells you that they don't tell you to
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 7: think about your emotions.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 6: What?
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 2: No, you're supposed to dominate.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: You're supposed to provide.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: You're supposed to be strong. You're supposed to be a leader.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 7: None of that has anything to do with emotion. That's every,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 7: that's around us. If you dial in a little bit more,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 7: you will notice that. That's what the patriarchy does. That's what,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 7: if you read history books.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 3: They said you got to start working out, Ro.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 7: No, no.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: Ro lives in his own world. And I love that. No,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: I actually love that. He's in his own world.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 5: He's like, fuck what y'all got going on.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: This shit is bullshit. He's checked out.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 4: I like to speak on things that I've seen, that
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 4: I've heard, like cult people. That's just me.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 7: Well, you can just Google it in your free time.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 7: Just Google patriarchy.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: Do your research. Do your due diligence.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 7: Just Google patriarchy and you'll see we live in a
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 7: patriarchal society.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: Settle for that.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: You don't believe that we live in a patriarchal society?
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 3: Excuse me.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 4: Oh, shit.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, here's an example.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 7: Here's an example of how we live in a patriarchal society.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 7: If you get married, are you taking your wife's last
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 7: name or is she taking your last name?
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 4: You know the answer to that.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 7: Right, the patriarchy. She takes your last name because we
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 7: live in a patriarchal society.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: Get it?
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: That's just a simple example. Yo, Tahoe's face.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 5: Tahoe's like my nigga.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 3: No, no, no. I'm waiting for you.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 7: You don't take her last name because we don't live
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 7: in a matriarchal society. She takes your last name because
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 7: we live in a patriarchal society. And lineage is based
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 7: on your father.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 4: What's it got to do with the power and all
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: this other stuff like that?
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: Nah, you're trolling.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 4: We not being intelligent?
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: No, no, you're trolling.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 3: No, listen.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 4: We told her to be intelligent as men. We taught that?
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: Wait, what?
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: Nobody said that.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 12: You said it's only power, dominance, and some other emotion.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: Emphasis is on to be a man. Okay, you know what?
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 3: Let's do this.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 4: Let's do this.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: Let's ask him this.
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, no, no, no, no.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 7: Let's ask, can you tell me what a real man is?
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 7: What do you think a real man is? What do
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 7: you think.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 4: A real man is? Like, for example, right? We mentioned
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 4: this earlier, right? If you say, oh, like a nigga gay.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 4: And he don't take it offensive. Like, alright, whatever. You
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying? Like, he know who he is.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 5: What do you think a real.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 2: Name the qualities of a real man.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 4: I'm answering. You gotta give me a chance, opportunity to speak, baby.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 4: So look, right? So let's just... You being... Knowing exactly
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 4: who you are.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: Being emotionally intelligent. Being introspective. Being soft when you need
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 4: to be. So like, you know what a yin and
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 4: a yang is, right?
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 12: That represents masculine and feminine. So the little dot That's
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 12: inside the yang. That's the feminine that we possess. So
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 12: we got to have some of that in us too.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 12: Knowing when we could actually channel into that. We don't
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 12: always have to be this whole powerful guy. I wasn't
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 12: taught that.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: That's good that you weren't taught that. But a lot
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: of people, a lot of men, you ask.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 7: Them what being a man is and they will name
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 7: things like providing for my family, being a leader, being
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 7: being strong, taking care of my family, right? And none
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 7: of those things involve emotions. So I love that you
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 7: are emotionally aware and you can say that being a
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 7: real man to you is introspection, being emotionally aware, being soft.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: But the general.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 7: Society that we live under does not view those qualities
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 7: as part of being a real man. They are good
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 7: with the being a leader, taking care of my family, providing, being.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: Strong, right?
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: Uh, being, being dominant in that they're fine. Right.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 4: Most dudes are in jail because it was emotional. Yeah.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 2: Cause they don't know how to manage their emotions.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 5: They made emotional decisions trying to be hard.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 12: Cause they, cause they thought that was mainly at what point.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 6: Not because they thought it was manly because they didn't
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 6: learn how to manage their emotions. So they made an
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 6: emotional decision.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: So they thought they was being a man.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: What you're saying- The decision that was made was still emotional.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 7: The decision that they made was to dominate someone else
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 7: in a violent way.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: That is what they think manhood is about. That's the
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 2: point we're making.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 4: They thought they was being a man.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: That's the point we're making.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 3: I think we're all saying the same thing, guys. Yeah. Cool.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 3: That good?
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 7: We're a little bit confused if he's actually saying the
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 7: same thing.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: Do you believe in patriarchy?
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 4: To an extent, yeah.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 3: Do you think it's a.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: Do you believe that that's how our society is based
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: on a patriarchy?
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because at the end of the... I do believe
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 4: in patriarchy, though, but in a different way.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 3: In what way?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 4: So, like, for example, if somebody busts in this crib
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 4: right now.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: Yo.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 4: Or the men got to be going to get up
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 4: and see what's going on. Like, not y'all.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 3: I'm getting up, too.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 4: No, I don't know. Sit down. We got this. I
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: believe in it in that way.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 3: And what other ways?
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 4: Like, you don't... Like, you not... I don't know. I
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 4: look at it differently. Like, you know what? I told
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 4: my daughter's Don't touch the door when you're with me.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: I'm going to hold the door for you. I look
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 4: at it differently.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 3: I don't know. Right.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: So, I'm not saying.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 3: Do you think that your daughter should serve her man's
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 3: food first before.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 4: If you're willing to die for her.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 3: So, that means yes.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: That all falls under... That falls under patriarchal values.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 4: I believe in it.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: Patriarchal values.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but you were saying that you don't think that
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 5: it even exists.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: But that's the thing.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 6: Even you telling your daughter not to open the doors
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 6: when she's around you, that falls under protection.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 5: So, it's protect and provide.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 4: I believe in it.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 7: Even you saying if he's willing to die for her,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 7: that she should serve him.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 4: I think that's patriarchy.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: That is peak patriarchy.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 7: You should serve me if I'm willing to die for you.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: The confusion with the.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 6: Why we're confused is because you said that you don't
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 6: believe in it.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 3: You don't think it exists. And now.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: You just proved that you do.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 12: Based on what you were saying, what you were saying,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 12: like the dominance and all that, I looked at it
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 12: a little bit differently.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 3: That's all.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 2: But that is dominance.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: It's dominance in the sense that you said, you sit down,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 7: somebody busts in here, you don't get up, we're... I'm
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 7: going to handle the situation.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 2: That's dominance. I'm not saying it's negative in that situation, but.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 3: Well, when you spoke on emotions, you spoke on things
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 3: that you felt were natural masculine emotions. Anger, hate, shit
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 3: like that. When we were speaking about emotions as far
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 3: as humanity, they were more relegated to the softer feminine emotions,
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: which you would relegate more towards a woman. And then
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 3: when a man exhibits those types of emotions, we consider
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 3: him feminine. So that's the kind of difference, right? All
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 3: emotions ain't just the ones that's supposed to land you
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 3: in jail. It's also the ones that's supposed to allow
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 3: you to love your woman or take care of your
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 3: children or even have certain type of introspection into how
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: you're feeling and the emotions that's going through you, right?
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 3: But we don't teach men that. We don't teach men.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 3: I remember I did this episode on vice.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: And a lot of people was talking about how feminine
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 3: I sound because I said, when the guy asked me,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 3: the moderator asked me, what's a man to me? And
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 3: I said, well, it's different. When I was young, it
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 3: was go tough, be as tough as I could. And
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 3: now it means I'm a father now. It means I
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 3: can be soft for my daughter. I can, cause she
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 3: lived with me since she was a teenager. So now
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 3: I know that being a man is different than than
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 3: just running out with my gun and this and that
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 3: because I got to protect my kid. Now I got
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 3: to make sure that I'm coming home at the end
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 3: of the night and being able to talk to her
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 3: and have her talk to me about boys or whatever.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 3: I got to be a lot softer than, no, you
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 3: can't have no boys or no, you can't, right? So
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 3: that's a different emotional awareness as a man that I
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 3: have now than how I was when I was completely
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 3: uneducated about life. And subscribing to patriarchy and the way
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 3: that she was speaking about dominance and like, no, nobody
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 3: can't fuck with my daughter or nobody can't. You know
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 3: what I mean? So there's an education that men need
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 3: to have. And it's not the one that we was taught.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 3: The patriarchy shit. And I believe you, bro, me and
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 3: you talk all the time. You do that. We talk
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 3: about you and you being a father with your kids. Right, right. Right?
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 3: Or how you relate to women or whatever, whatever. And
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 3: those come from a higher educated place that you're in
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 3: that most niggas don't even ever get to.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 5: And a level of emotional intelligence as well.
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 3: Most niggas, bro, because you read and because you have
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: your daughters in your life like that, you allow yourself
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 3: a lot more access to the emotional spectrum that most
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 3: niggas don't, will never get to.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 5: You know what I think happened?
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 6: He's thinking about the contract so much that I think
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 6: he was just responding based off of like, no, no,
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 6: the way she was describing the patriarchy. I think he
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 6: was responding like, I don't agree to that. Like, I
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 6: don't agree that that's right.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 3: He was disagreeing to the patriarch?
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like, I think that's what, no, no,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 6: I think that's what his initial responses were like, yeah,
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 6: that shit is, that's whack.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 5: I don't agree that it should be that way.
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 6: I don't think it was, because then when we started
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 6: talking about it, we were all on the same page.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 5: So that's what I think the disconnect was just now.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah shout out for the contract word shout out shout
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 6: out for the fucking contract congratulations.
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  Speaker 3: Again great goddamn episode y'all y'all did y'all big one
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  Speaker 3: today i i loved the um first of all alexa
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  Speaker 3: you be going the fuck off do i you be
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  Speaker 3: going the fuck off i was just sitting here like
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  Speaker 3: this half the episode she's just cursing us out no
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  Speaker 3: curse words She was just, you know what I'm saying? Oh,
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  Speaker 3: that's great.
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  Speaker 4: Professional curse.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I use curse words.
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  Speaker 2: I be cursing, so I'm glad I didn't. You sure
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  Speaker 2: I didn't curse today?
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  Speaker 3: Maybe I be cursing. Maybe the fuck.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, definitely.
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  Speaker 5: Not that much. I curse so much, I feel like
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  Speaker 5: it was a proper.
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  Speaker 3: I be cursing.
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  Speaker 4: Same person, different.
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  Speaker 2: It was a different.
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  Speaker 3: What the hell, man? What's up with this show? You
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 3: said it's very pro-black.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, guys, tune in to What Just Happened every Tuesday
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 7: on YouTube. You can go search Red Summer TV on
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 7: YouTube to.
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  Speaker 2: Find all the episodes. We drop new ones every Tuesday.
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  Speaker 7: It's basically, we talk about society, everything that's going on
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 7: in society, but from a very pro-black lens. A lot
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  Speaker 7: of our topics are about black people, black plight, and just, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We just being black.
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  Speaker 3: Shit. You're the moderator.
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  Speaker 2: I am the moderator. I'm the host of the show.
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  Speaker 7: We have rotating guests every week, so it's never just
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 7: the same folks.
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  Speaker 2: And a lot.
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  Speaker 7: Really why I like the show is a lot of
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 7: our guests are, like, really intelligent. Like, we got lawyers.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: We got doctors.
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  Speaker 3: Kenneth Montgomery was on there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we niggas with.
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  Speaker 2: PhDs and shit. We got comedians.
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  Speaker 3: We got.
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  Speaker 2: You know, so.
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  Speaker 4: Who's Kenneth Montgomery?
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: He's a lawyer.
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  Speaker 4: District attorney?
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 2: District attorney.
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  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 4: We have.
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  Speaker 2: Keith, he's also a lawyer. We've had comedians come on
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 2: the show and men and women.
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  Speaker 7: So, yeah, I love the perspective that we get every week.
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 7: And it's always very smart.
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  Speaker 2: So, yeah, tune in.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe that's why they didn't invite me.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 2: I said we have comedians. All the comedians that come
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 2: on the show ain't super smart.
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 3: Are you saying I'm not super smart? No, but after that.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 3: They ain't super smart. You know what I'm saying. You
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: You should come on the show.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 4: Talk to me.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 3: No, please talk to the fans. 60 Minutes with Rel
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: coming soon.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 4: 60 Minutes with Rel.
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  Speaker 12: Now you can find me on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 12: Conversations with Rel Easy. With genuine conversations turned into long
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 12: lasting moments. I do my best to have a different guest.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 3: Weekly.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? So yeah, two tapping. Alongside
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: Tahoe TV.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: It just sounded like the Quiet Storm intro.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 3: Genuine conversations turned into long lasting moments. They turn into
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 3: long lasting moments, man. That's your tagline.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 4: What you want me to say? That's what it is.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but me, you're supposed to say the tagline. Taze.
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  Speaker 5: Hi.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 12: Hi.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 5: I don't know why I keep doing that, but yeah.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: I'm on Instagram.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 5: Tasia, T-A-S-I-A.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 2: Janine, J-A-N-I-N-E.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 4: On Instagram.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 3: That's where I'm at. We love you.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 5: I love you guys, too. I'm working on some things,
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 5: but we'll talk about it later.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 4: Oh, let's discuss.
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 5: When they come into fruition a little bit more.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 3: I'll bet. Manifest, right?
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 2: No, it's happening, but we.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 3: When we get there.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 12: Yeah.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 3: We will. Later will be greater. Yeah. Yesterday, how you
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 3: feel about today's episode today, man? Today was great. Taze, Lex,
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 3: y'all was great. Oh, Raul. Oh, man. I love when
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 3: you come by the stew, Raul. It's always a good time.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 3: It's always a good time. I hope the contract goes well.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 4: He said he landed it. My shit is booming right now.
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 4: I might even want a lot of y'all.
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: What's the contract?
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 4: They act like they don't know what to do.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: Money calling. Wait, what kind of contract is it?
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 5: What is it for? If I can ask.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you off camera. Yeah, off camera. Yeah, it's
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 3: off camera type.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 5: Oh, he's still.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 4: My bad.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 3: Sorry, y'all. So, Shameless Community, I already told you, next week...
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 3: Be here. Yes, sir. I believe it's September 9th. Doozy.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 3: So shameless.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 4: Mean.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 3: My man. What an episode, man. Yo, is that recording
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: or is that recording?