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- 0:00Erin Gray: Ever wonder why your money goals or your business dreams aren't happening overnight?
- 0:05Erin Gray: It might actually be perfect for you and part of the universal principle called the law of gestation.
- 0:11Erin Gray: Today, I'm going to be exploring what this actually means, how it shows up with money and why trusting the timing is one of the most powerful things that you can do for your financial growth.
- 0:24Erin Gray: Welcome back to your Money, your Rules, with me.
- 0:28Erin Gray: Erin Gray, I'm so grateful that you're here and I'm excited to talk to you about this universal law today, so let's dive in.
- 0:36Erin Gray: So what actually is the law of gestation?
- 0:41Erin Gray: It is the idea that everything has a specific incubation period.
- 0:48Erin Gray: Basically, just like seeds need time to grow into a plant, or a baby needs 10 months inside its mother's womb, to develop, your goals, which include the financial ones, also need time, and what I believe is you cannot force them to arrive faster, although many of us try Yours truly over here have done that most of my adult life, trying to push and make them come faster than their natural timeline, and I think that we do this from a place of.
- 1:22Erin Gray: We think that if they arrive faster because we believe that the feeling is outside of us, versus and what I mean by.
- 1:31Erin Gray: That is the reason why we want something to come quicker is because we think that when we have that thing it's going to make us feel a certain way.
- 1:38Erin Gray: But that's not how our feelings are generated.
- 1:40Erin Gray: They are always coming from within, from our beliefs, from our thoughts, from what we think about ourselves.
- 1:46Erin Gray: That is what creates our feelings, and the how and the when is not your responsibility, it's God's.
- 1:53Erin Gray: Or if you resonate with universe or spirit or source, whatever it is, that is the responsibility of God's spirit, source, universe, not us.
- 2:04Erin Gray: So how does this actually show up with money?
- 2:07Erin Gray: You might set a goal to hit a certain amount monthly in your business and then, when it doesn't, you don't see that happen.
- 2:18Erin Gray: You feel frustrated because it doesn't happen right away.
- 2:22Erin Gray: But money manifestations, like everything.
- 2:26Erin Gray: It is a universal law.
- 2:28Erin Gray: Everything follows the law of gestation, so it applies to everything, including money.
- 2:34Erin Gray: So there are unseen processes, there's magic that's happening in the background.
- 2:41Erin Gray: When you declare you know what you want to create or what you want to manifest, there are these magical forces that are unfolding and I think that this allows for your nervous system to adjust to new levels of receiving.
- 2:57Erin Gray: Your identity is shifting, the right opportunities are lining up and when we start to doubt or we have fear, or we start and begin to worry, we actually slow down this process.
- 3:14Erin Gray: So let's talk about why impatience actually slows down your process.
- 3:18Erin Gray: If you dig up a seed every day to see if it's growing, you actually disturb the natural process.
- 3:26Erin Gray: Think about it.
- 3:27Erin Gray: If does a farmer till the soil, plant the seed, go out daily and check to see and wonder why it hasn't sprouted already?
- 3:37Erin Gray: No, he or she knows it's going to sprout and their job is to go out and nurture it, to give it love, to give it water, allow the sunshine to come on, make sure that it's getting plenty of sunshine, making sure that the soil is just right for it, and then universal intelligence does the rest.
- 4:03Erin Gray: Many of us, I believe we, haven't been taught this.
- 4:06Erin Gray: So if you think about with money, if you want to create more money, manifest more money, if you are set your intention and you say bring it to me in the easiest and the quickest way, and I would say, first and foremost, when I'm talking about manifesting money or creating more money, I'm not talking about sitting on the couch and just magically manifesting money you have to have a vessel, you have to have some type of vessel to receive this money.
- 4:41Erin Gray: So, whether that be obviously through your business, a lot of my clients are business owners, so let's just assume that your business is your vessel.
- 4:50Erin Gray: So if you are saying that you want to create certain amount of money in a month, do you actually have the vessel to support that currently?
- 5:02Erin Gray: So think about once you have decided and declared what you want to generate in your business, are you checking obsessively, are you doubting yourself?
- 5:16Erin Gray: Are you panicking or feeling fear or worry that it's not happening?
- 5:21Erin Gray: Like you're looking at your accounts, you're looking at your Stripe account and then you're using that evidence to then create the belief that it's not working.
- 5:30Erin Gray: I mean, so often I'm in some Facebook groups one for my podcast and so often some of the women in there when they're asking their questions you can sense the energy is from it's not working.
- 5:43Erin Gray: Well, if you are coming from the energy of it's not working, that is what is going to happen.
- 5:51Erin Gray: So think about when you have decided to call in more business growth, are you doing that from love and expansion and fun and joy, or are you doing it from fear, doubt, worry and panic?
- 6:05Erin Gray: So those lower vibration emotions it's going to disrupt the energy and it's going to slow down the process, disrupt the energy and it's going to slow down the process.
- 6:18Erin Gray: And you are going to know if you are doing this and how often you are doing this by how you feel in your body.
- 6:21Erin Gray: This is why it's so important that I encourage clients.
- 6:23Erin Gray: I'm always telling clients or advising them or encouraging them I should say encouraging is the best word Encouraging them to slow down and feel what they are feeling in their body.
- 6:33Erin Gray: We have become a world that is so fast in taking action, in moving through the world, in making decisions, that and, yes, making decisions quickly and swiftly, which is, I think, a good thing.
- 6:48Erin Gray: But what is quickly and swiftly right?
- 6:49Erin Gray: Like to someone it might be weeks or months and to some other person it might be a couple of days, like it's all relative.
- 6:56Erin Gray: But I do think taking action once you have feel calm and you feel you're coming from that energy of sufficiency and abundance, yes, take the action, but that's not where most of us need to start.
- 7:09Erin Gray: We need to start with slowing down for a hot second and tapping into our bodies and actually getting clear on what we are feeling and then, once we are there once we have.
- 7:24Erin Gray: When I say pondered, what I mean is like gotten into the body and really felt what we are feeling when we are making decisions.
- 7:35Erin Gray: Are we making them from a rushed place?
- 7:37Erin Gray: Are we making them from a knowing place?
- 7:39Erin Gray: The other thing that I think is really important to say here is that your body, it needs time to calibrate holding or having more money, more clients, more success.
- 7:52Erin Gray: I did a podcast on how do you increase, you know, your wealth or increase the capacity to have, and I think I'll put that in the show notes to go back if you want to listen to that episode.
- 8:02Erin Gray: But I think that when having that amount of money or that amount of business success or having systems in place, you know for me to ask for $100,000 a month right now.
- 8:13Erin Gray: I don't have systems in place to support that amount of money.
- 8:16Erin Gray: So you have to think about what do I need to do and act differently, feel differently in order to create that, and we do this by visualizing through our end scenes, like END and end scene.
- 8:30Erin Gray: You know we have to make the success that we are after, or wanting, desiring, and the amount of money that we want to have.
- 8:39Erin Gray: It has to feel natural and we can't be putting it up on a pedestal.
- 8:44Erin Gray: You know, if you're thinking that, having a million dollars or more, $10 million, if you're putting that amount of money up on a pedestal, we aren't a vibrational match to it.
- 8:57Erin Gray: Think about the law of attraction or the law of vibration Like attracts like.
- 9:02Erin Gray: So if you think that would be amazing, but from a place of I don't have it, you're in lack, and lack is attracting more.
- 9:11Erin Gray: Lack, not abundance.
- 9:12Erin Gray: So the law of gestation gives us time to work on ourselves, to do that inner work that we need to do within to then be ready to receive what we are calling in Our identity.
- 9:27Erin Gray: I always come back to our identity, our self-concept being on the same frequency of that of which we desire.
- 9:34Erin Gray: You know, think about it this way Someone who has a million dollars well, I should say someone who has a good relationship with money and that you know has generated from love and abundance isn't thinking about the million dollars all the time.
- 9:50Erin Gray: They're thinking about how do they create the next million.
- 9:53Erin Gray: All the time they're thinking about how do they create the next million.
- 9:58Erin Gray: So, if you are thinking about and worrying about and obsessing about the money all the time, think about what vibration are you actually in.
- 10:04Erin Gray: So I think, if we can sink into, if we can love the gestation period, the law of gestation, it can be such a beautiful thing, because then you begin to trust the process.
- 10:19Erin Gray: You know your nervous system once you learn how to regulate it.
- 10:26Erin Gray: And here's the thing we're always going to be what I say, going from the 5D to the 3D, meaning we're going to be in our spiritual being self, and then we're going to come into our human mind, right, and our human mind is going to see the observed world and it's going to say things, or it's going to think things and it's going to say it can't be possible, it's not happening fast enough.
- 10:41Erin Gray: Whatever it's going to say, I don't think it ever goes away.
- 10:44Erin Gray: Right, we live in this human body, but how quickly we react to it or we don't react to it, how quickly we go back to our imagined state.
- 10:54Erin Gray: That is what I'm wanting to impress upon you.
- 10:58Erin Gray: Is that's what we're working for or that's what we're working towards?
- 11:01Erin Gray: So your system is regulated, and when things feel natural for you, like when you finally receive what it is that you have asked, you're probably not even thinking about that anymore.
- 11:13Erin Gray: And you're?
- 11:13Erin Gray: You know, if someone were to tell you, you know, if they were to look at your books and be like, yeah, you hit your X month, be like, yeah, of course, duh, like I'm already onto the next thing, and not from like this isn't good enough, but like I've already been that person for that long.
- 11:25Erin Gray: Of course I'm going to receive that.
- 11:28Erin Gray: And the thing I think also is that there is a wanting, and then there is the belief, and then there is the knowing, and we have to get to the place of knowing, knowing that your desires are already done, because they are.
- 11:43Erin Gray: You know the book I think it's called Power of Awareness, by Neville Goddard.
- 11:47Erin Gray: It's an amazing book.
- 11:48Erin Gray: It's a short read, but it's one of those things where you just read the chapters over and over again and you learn new things each time.
- 11:55Erin Gray: But Neville Goddard says that nothing is created.
- 11:59Erin Gray: It is only manifested, meaning it is brought from the 5D into the 3D, into that material plane.
- 12:06Erin Gray: This is what actually allows money to flow easily, because everything that was ever needed to be created or created has already been done.
- 12:14Erin Gray: We just need to take it.
- 12:16Erin Gray: You know, you think about your imagination.
- 12:18Erin Gray: The reason why you can imagine, it is because it already exists for you on some other plane and you just got to get to that vibration to receive it.
- 12:26Erin Gray: So what are these actual steps?
- 12:29Erin Gray: First and foremost, keep tending the soil, and your soil is being disciplined with your mind.
- 12:36Erin Gray: What are you allowing in?
- 12:38Erin Gray: Are those scarcity thoughts?
- 12:40Erin Gray: Are they prosperous thoughts?
- 12:43Erin Gray: Abundant thoughts, like be very aware of what is your mind.
- 12:48Erin Gray: What is it saying to you?
- 12:51Erin Gray: And then, what are you feeding it?
- 12:52Erin Gray: Are you showing up for your business on a consistent basis?
- 12:56Erin Gray: Sometimes I'll have people say, oh, I want to make X, y, z and it's like OK, well, are you treating your business like a business or are you treating it like a hobby?
- 13:03Erin Gray: Also, too, are you following the breadcrumbs?
- 13:06Erin Gray: Are you celebrating every little sign of growth?
- 13:09Erin Gray: You know, so often we have just completely bypassed what we have, you know, created, even if it's just the 1%.
- 13:21Erin Gray: Are you celebrating that?
- 13:22Erin Gray: Or are you coming from a belief, like I mentioned earlier, where it's not working?
- 13:25Erin Gray: And this is where I say you have to really slow down and check in with your energy, because if you are coming from the belief that it is working and you are looking at your KPIs or your data and you're genuinely curious on what could you be doing differently, like what else could you try?
- 13:42Erin Gray: What else could you do?
- 13:44Erin Gray: That is coming from a place of curiosity and abundance.
- 13:49Erin Gray: When you are coming from the place of it's not working, nothing is working.
- 13:54Erin Gray: When is this going to happen?
- 13:55Erin Gray: That energy is very different energy when you're looking at your data, are you in joyful anticipation, like when you know something's already happening.
- 14:05Erin Gray: You're not stressing about it.
- 14:07Erin Gray: You're like imagining, like how fun it's going to be when it shows up.
- 14:11Erin Gray: It's not from a place of I wonder if it's going to happen.
- 14:16Erin Gray: I wonder if it's going to come.
- 14:18Erin Gray: Are you feeling grateful on a daily basis for everything that you currently have and for what is coming your way and from living from that wish fulfilled?
- 14:29Erin Gray: Or are you doubting or worrying because it hasn't shown up yet?
- 14:33Erin Gray: I think it's always working.
- 14:35Erin Gray: Like that's a belief that serves me.
- 14:36Erin Gray: It's always working, even when you think it's not.
- 14:39Erin Gray: It's always working.
- 14:40Erin Gray: Trust that it is always working, even if you can't see it yet.
- 14:46Erin Gray: Like I think our faith muscle needs to improve.
- 14:50Erin Gray: Right, it already exists.
- 14:52Erin Gray: It just hasn't shown up in the observed world.
- 14:55Erin Gray: So focus on you know, even if you have to start with, like writing down what is already working in my business, where look at how far I've already come.
- 15:05Erin Gray: You really have to focus the mind like.
- 15:09Erin Gray: This is the and I'm air quoting the hard work that those of us that have been taught we have to work hard.
- 15:15Erin Gray: It is not manual labor, it is not hours worked.
- 15:19Erin Gray: It is being very watchful of what our mind tries to tell us when we don't have or receive what it is that we want.
- 15:28Erin Gray: Yet, it is staying focused, it is staying disciplined.
- 15:32Erin Gray: It is, you know, when the thought comes in and says oh, you won't ever get to this place, or you're taking so long or you're not cut out for this, or whatever.
- 15:40Erin Gray: The mind tries to chatter at us.
- 15:41Erin Gray: It is stopping that, I shouldn't say stopping it.
- 15:44Erin Gray: It is allowing that thought to go by with no emotion at all and then from connecting immediately with what thought do I want to believe?
- 15:51Erin Gray: Okay, thank you for listening, for tuning in, for spending your time with me twice a week.
- 15:58Erin Gray: I appreciate each and every one of you.
- 16:00Erin Gray: If you found this episode helpful, I would love it if you would share it with a friend of yours that could benefit from listening to it With so much love and gratitude.
- 16:10Erin Gray: I'll see you in the next episode.